Why Being a High Performer Made Me Miserable: Balancing Conflicting Identities

I once believed that focusing solely on performance and efficiency was the key to success.

This relentless pursuit led me to a frazzled career and a life that felt empty.

Despite achieving short-term productivity, I was burning out and becoming someone I didn't recognize.

I needed to address the conflicting identities and objectives within me.

Am I a good husband?

Am I a great scholar?

Am I a great leader?

By learning to deal with these aspects (not balance), I found a more fulfilling path that aligned with who I truly am.

But, it requires me to push back against the world.

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