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250. The $80k Decision | Workplace Case Studies · The Kathie Owen Perspective Podcast

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  This is a workplace case study, fictionalized details, real executive patterns.
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  What you're about to hear is not about food or manners or being nice, it's about how people show you who they are before money is at risk.
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  You are listening to Kathie's Coaching podcast and workplace case studies.
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  Imagine you've hired me to analyze a business relationship.
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  We go to lunch together, not to socialize, but to observe.
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  This is a real technique I use with founders and CEOs because people are most themselves when they think nothing important is happening.
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  The lunch we order at the counter, one person immediately dismisses a menu item.
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  I would never order that.
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  It is always bad here.
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  No curiosity, no neutrality, just critique that matters.
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  Then there's friction about substitutions, fries instead of onion rings.
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  Jalapenos on the side, make them fresh Jalapenos on the side.
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  None of this is communicated clearly at the counter, but the expectation is that it will be handled anyway.
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  The wait staff moment, the food arrives.
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  The waitress blamed for an order she never received.
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  There is no kindness, no assumption of good intent, just correction.
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  As a consultant, this is where I'm already taking notes because how someone treats people who can't push back is how they treat people when they think they have leverage.
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  The pattern emerges.
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  The complaints continue about the food, about the service, about other people who complain.
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  There is no resolution energy, just commentary This.
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  Is important.
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  Because this is not stress behavior.
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  This is baseline behavior.
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  The business transaction.
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  Now, let's talk about why this lunch matters.
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  Imagine this is an$80,000 business transaction.
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  Only$5,000 of the product has been used.
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  The remaining$75,000 is returned.
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  The product is taken without confirmation.
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  No receipt, no acknowledgement, no agreement.
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  Weeks later, an invoice arrives for the full amount.
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  No discussion.
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  No clarification.
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  No professional follow up.
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  Just an expectation that confusion will resolve in their favor.
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  The translation for executives.
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  Here's what I would say to my client.
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  This behavior is consistent.
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  The same person who complains instead of clarifies, blames instead of confirms, avoids direct communication, and most importantly, externalizes responsibility will do the same in contracts, billing and conflict.
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  This is not about intention.
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  It's about predictability.
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  The decision.
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  At this point, there are only two options.
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  Implement extremely clear written and enforced boundaries.
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  Number two, discontinue the relationship.
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  What you do not do is continue informal interactions and hope it improves.
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  Hope is not a strategy.
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  Why this matters.
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  Most people lose money not because of bad deals, but because they ignored early signals that felt too small to name.
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  This is what I do.
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  I spot patterns early.
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  While the cost of changing course is still low.
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  All right.
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  That's my episode for today.
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  I trust that you found it useful.
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  If you are navigating a business relationship and something feels off, there's usually a pattern already showing you why.
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  This has been a workplace case study with Kathie.
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  Stay tuned for another episode coming soon to a YouTube channel near you.