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Best Show Moments: Silver separations & family funeral drama · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Tony Jason Sam's Best show Moments podcast, the
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Speaker 1: very Best of Coasts Feel Good Breakfast this week.
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Speaker 2: Third September Today, that's sad all the time. Exactly fifteen
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Speaker 2: years ago today, third September two thousand and nine. It
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Speaker 2: was the day that we laid Michael Jackson to rest.
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Speaker 2: His funeral was months after he died in June. You
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Speaker 2: know the reason why it took so.
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Speaker 3: Long, swubbling over family, I'm guessing.
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Speaker 2: It's exactly it. Janet Jackson wouldn't allow it to go
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Speaker 2: ahead until his estate repaid her forty thousand dollars that
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Speaker 2: she had to pay to secure a spot for him
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Speaker 2: at the Forest Lawn Cemetery. So she ponied up the
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Speaker 2: cash and she's like, hold on, I want my money back, face.
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Speaker 2: Can you release it from the estate. And it took ages,
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Speaker 2: and that's why the funeral took so long.
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Speaker 4: Forty thousand dollars with Michael Jackson's estate seems like an
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Speaker 4: awfully small amount of money. I know, when you didn't
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Speaker 4: think about what those sort of sums that are dealing with.
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Speaker 5: I had to show you a lot around funerals. Billion
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Speaker 5: dollar catalog.
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Speaker 4: Isn't it to tay you what dramas around death and
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Speaker 4: funerals is absolutely a thing, And if you've eva had
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Speaker 4: someone die close to you you'll know exactly what I mean.
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Speaker 4: People act strangely and selfishly, But listen to this. This
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Speaker 4: is an obit that was put in the paper by
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Speaker 4: a daughter whose mother had died. Right you would assume
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Speaker 4: a very sad time. Well, this is what the obit says.
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Speaker 4: Florence Flow Harrelson, sixty five, formerly of Chelsea, died on
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Speaker 4: February the twenty second, twenty twenty four, without family by
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Speaker 4: her side, due to burnt bridges and a wake of
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Speaker 4: destruction left in her path. Florence did not want an
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Speaker 4: obituary or anyone, including family, to know she died. That's
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Speaker 4: because even in death, she wanted those she terrorized to
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Speaker 4: still be living in fear and looking over their shoulders.
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Speaker 4: So this isn't so much as an obit, but more
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Speaker 4: of a public service announcement.
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Speaker 2: Her daughter wrote there, yes.
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Speaker 4: Yes she did what Apparently she hadn't spoken to her
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Speaker 4: mother in ten years, and this she also went on
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Speaker 4: to say, and Facebook punctuated it with a line saying,
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Speaker 4: the Wizard of oz Ding Dong Witch is dead, so
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Speaker 4: we it kept getting more scathing, so obviously didn't have
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Speaker 4: a happy arrangement.
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Speaker 5: No, it's an honest review, isn't it.
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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess the problem was with speaking all
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Speaker 6: of the dead is that they have no rebuttal you know,
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Speaker 6: so you know, and that's probably the case with this
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Speaker 6: is probably well, there might be two sides to the story.
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Speaker 2: That's exactly right.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 4: My take on it is it's it's poor taste because
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Speaker 4: even if you felt that way towards your mother, like
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Speaker 4: you said, Sammy and death, it's like they have nothing.
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Speaker 4: They can't say anything.
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Speaker 2: Back, and I know who gains from there. I think,
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Speaker 2: you know, just stay classy. I mean, she may have
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Speaker 2: wronged you whatever. You know that that chapter is now open.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, but can I read you a famous quote from
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Speaker 6: Anne Lammett, who famously said, if people want you to
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Speaker 6: write warmly about them, they should have behaved better in life.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't have to write warmly about them, though,
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Speaker 4: don't do you?
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Speaker 3: You could not write at all.
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Speaker 5: I just put the begin down.
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Speaker 3: No, anyway, no one needs to see.
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Speaker 4: It has got us talking about family dramas around death
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Speaker 4: and funerals and how people come out of the wood
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Speaker 4: work and behave in usual ways. And we want to
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Speaker 4: know your stories. What went down in your family. We've
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Speaker 4: heard it from Jannet Jackson.
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Speaker 3: We've heard it about flow.
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Speaker 2: What about you? Eight hundred double o four coasts our
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Speaker 2: phone level. You can figure no names if you don't
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Speaker 2: want you, that's fine. Fliets sext to two six nine nine.
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Speaker 2: It won't be easy to drift away to sleep. Tonight's
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Speaker 2: on rugged weather on the way across the country. According
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Speaker 2: to weather man Sam thunderbolts and lightning, very very frightening
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Speaker 2: and a Panelty's dream today be Keith.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, Hey, don't you love a radio audience because you
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Speaker 6: ask a question and you kind of wonder what's.
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Speaker 5: Going to come back? And you haven't disappointed this morning.
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Speaker 3: No, this is good.
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Speaker 4: So this is in response to dramas that have happened
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Speaker 4: around the funeral or in death, because we just read
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Speaker 4: out a scathing obituary that a daughter wrote about her mother,
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Speaker 4: and it included things like.
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Speaker 2: Teck Dong the witch is dead, King Gong.
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Speaker 3: Witch is dead.
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Speaker 4: She's she's died without a family because of the wake
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Speaker 4: of destruction she left in her path, and that because
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Speaker 4: even in death she wanted those she terrorized to still
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Speaker 4: be living in fear looking over their shoulders. And it
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Speaker 4: turns out this isn't so far fetched. It's happening closer
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Speaker 4: to home.
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Speaker 2: A lot of texts. On two sixth nine nine, when
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Speaker 2: my mom passed away, our stepfather sold everything of theirs
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Speaker 2: and gave it all the way, even precious family things.
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Speaker 2: He then told us don't expect anythin because I'll be
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Speaker 2: spending it all. This was after our mum saying he
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Speaker 2: would look after us.
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Speaker 4: Oh, that's actually so sad, And that is so that
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Speaker 4: is why we bang on so often about making sure
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Speaker 4: you've got your will sewing up, so it's all specified,
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Speaker 4: because that can happen.
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Speaker 5: What about this morning?
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Speaker 6: My great aunt lived in Portugal and when she died,
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Speaker 6: she left her two million pounds estate to her cats
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Speaker 6: and the equivalent of their specia of the.
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Speaker 4: How close for you to be your great arms?
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Speaker 3: Wow, that's that's interesting, isn't that Okay?
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Speaker 2: What what does the cat do with it?
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Speaker 7: Oh?
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Speaker 3: I don't think the cat going I'm going to put
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Speaker 3: it somewhere. I don't think the ESPA takes care of it.
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Speaker 2: Are you ready? This is quite possibly the worst thing
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Speaker 2: I've read my sister wanted and took a necklace from
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Speaker 2: my mother when she was wearing it in the casket.
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Speaker 3: She took she reached into the casket and took it
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Speaker 3: off her bare neck.
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Speaker 4: Yes, wow, that is that is some greedy stuff right there,
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Speaker 4: sas it's fine.
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Speaker 8: Well no not.
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Speaker 6: All I'm saying is that could could that have been
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Speaker 6: her one momentor you know, like, is it more important
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Speaker 6: than it goes it's buried and cremated, or is it
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Speaker 6: better that someone holds on to that and has that
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Speaker 6: memory with them.
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Speaker 5: I don't know. I think there's two sides to that.
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Speaker 2: I might be wrong. Well, you might have a point,
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Speaker 2: you know, maybe it's something that gets passed down through
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Speaker 2: the family, I suppose afterwards. But if the sister wanted it, I.
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Speaker 5: Want that, And yeah, it should be a conversation.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe mum gave it to you. And if Mum
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Speaker 2: didn't give it to you, I don't know.
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Speaker 4: Around this one here while we're on and it all
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Speaker 4: seems to be relationships with women at the moment, it's
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Speaker 4: mother's mother in law's mother daughters. I'm fifty six and
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Speaker 4: I haven't spoken to my mother since I was thirty two.
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Speaker 3: She won't tell me who my father is.
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Speaker 9: Oh wow, what.
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Speaker 2: The conversation you at least she genuinely doesn't know.
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Speaker 4: Well, wouldn't you say that if you didn't genuinely know,
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Speaker 4: or if you know and it's something that you really
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Speaker 4: don't want to get out, it might be.
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Speaker 2: The worst game we can play right now? You won't
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Speaker 2: say that's fun? What about those I didn't mean to
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Speaker 2: that came out? You don't know where the teeth came from.
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Speaker 2: But what about those movies you see like that the
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Speaker 2: mysterious stranger shows up at the car at the funeral
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Speaker 2: and sending of the casket holding a black umbrella dressed
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Speaker 2: in black, you know those ones, and it stands.
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Speaker 5: Behind the funeral watching on.
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Speaker 9: Yeah, slightly behind them.
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Speaker 6: Showed it on a foggy day and there's a horn
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Speaker 6: blowing in the distance given the black character drive out?
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Speaker 5: Yeah?
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Speaker 2: What about?
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Speaker 4: What about when you know Jim dies and suddenly Jennifer
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Speaker 4: and Lisa and Molly will tune up and no one
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Speaker 4: knows who they are and the wife's going, who the
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Speaker 4: hell are you three?
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Speaker 2: And this is what is stress? And second life? Yeah?
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Speaker 3: I can't defend it from the grave.
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Speaker 2: Can you live a life? Now you're not going to
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Speaker 2: agree when people start talking smack about you afterwards.
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Speaker 5: That's probably the best thing.
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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to the Best Show Moments podcast. This
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Speaker 1: week's very Best from Costs, Tony Street, Jace Reeves and
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Speaker 1: Sam Wallas.
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Speaker 2: Dame Lisa Marie Carrington born in Totonger and raised in
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Speaker 2: a Hoppie, She's New Zealand's most decorated Olympian of all time.
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Speaker 2: She's so good she once won three consecutive.
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Speaker 10: Gold medals in a row, because that's what consecutive means.
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Speaker 10: She did that of a three separate Olympic competitions, as
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Speaker 10: well as owning the World Championship title several times since
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Speaker 10: twenty eleven. Growing up, she played netball and wanted to
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Speaker 10: be a silver firm, but soon turned her attention away
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Speaker 10: for the netball court to the relief of women on
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Speaker 10: courts all over the country and she became the goat
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Speaker 10: in a boat, the greatest in the world. Dame Lisa
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Speaker 10: has been so dominant on the water she's won the
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Speaker 10: Hellberg Award for Sportswoman of the Year a phenomenal six times,
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Speaker 10: as the Supreme Award three times.
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Speaker 2: Lisa is so good. She has streets named after her,
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Speaker 2: and one of the first things Charles that when he
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Speaker 2: became king, was demanded dame hood for her. Rumor has
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Speaker 2: it that Elvis Presley was once a psychic and asked
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Speaker 2: his new wife to change her name because he knew
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Speaker 2: that one day the names Lisa and Marie would be
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Speaker 2: known all over the world. Dame Lisa Marie Carrington. Can
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Speaker 2: I have said? Do you know how nerve wrecking that is?
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Speaker 2: Hearing there thinking herself the woman herself could fact check
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Speaker 2: me right now.
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Speaker 4: It just becomes your hype intro if you even need that,
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Speaker 4: you know before and Lisa, where he hit out, We
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Speaker 4: ort to.
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Speaker 2: Chant you in a couple of minutes about this incredible
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Speaker 2: new book, Lisa Carrington Chases a Champion, starring yourself, of course,
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Speaker 2: and your wonderful dog Colin.
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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, he's he features what we said, He features.
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Speaker 3: Quite prominently through there.
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Speaker 4: He's a gorgeously thing too. But I love, I love
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Speaker 4: the messaging in this book. I'm already looking about how
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Speaker 4: you dealt with failure and I think this is going
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Speaker 4: to be a book everyone leads in this country for
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Speaker 4: the kids.
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Speaker 2: Well, you and a friend could wing your way to
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Speaker 2: New York spreading. It's a chance to be in this
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Speaker 2: draw the four half our states to keep us thing
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Speaker 2: right now though Dane Lisa Carrington is with us. Who
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Speaker 2: You've been to New York?
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Speaker 5: I have?
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Speaker 9: I loved it amazing?
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Speaker 12: A yeah.
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Speaker 3: What was the.
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Speaker 4: Best thing about New York? Because I've never been, so
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Speaker 4: I'm non mute to this.
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Speaker 11: I think we went to the Brooklyn Bridge and that
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Speaker 11: was really amazing. And just the restaurants, the food is delicious.
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Speaker 11: Anything any place you walk into amazing.
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Speaker 3: I've just got that vibe.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, when you fly in and you drive over that
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Speaker 2: bridge and you look into Manhattan, it's everything you see
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Speaker 2: in the movies and on Six in the City and everything. A.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's one of Jace's favorite Six in the City as.
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Speaker 2: Anyway, it's not about me, it's about this book based
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Speaker 2: on an eight year old Lisa. So apparently this idea
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Speaker 2: has been sort of rattling around since Lockdown after Tokyo?
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Speaker 5: Is that right?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right.
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Speaker 11: I spoke to the public who here, and just after
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Speaker 11: Tokyo and m i Q, they approached me just.
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Speaker 3: Like, do you want to do a book?
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Speaker 11: And at that stage it was any kind of book,
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Speaker 11: but for me, a kid's book has always been on
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Speaker 11: my mind, and so we decided it would be this
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Speaker 11: Lisa Carrington Chase as a champion.
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Speaker 5: What was important for you? What message did you want
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Speaker 5: to pass on to the kids?
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Speaker 11: I think there's that's a hard thing. There's so many messages,
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Speaker 11: so you know, I had to sit down, really work
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Speaker 11: out and kind of tease through some really simple messages.
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Speaker 11: And so this book, I guess it talks about, you
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Speaker 11: know myself for eight year old Lisa, going through a
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Speaker 11: journey of under figuring out how to achieve your dreams
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Speaker 11: or a goal, and then there's a little challenge that happens.
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Speaker 11: So it's really a great way for I don't know,
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Speaker 11: Lisa had to work out how to come back to that.
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Speaker 6: Well, what I've gotten down here is you've got in
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Speaker 6: the book there's vision boards, there's training for results, and
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Speaker 6: I really like those aspects for my kids.
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Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean those are the things that's sticking with
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Speaker 11: something when it doesn't go right. And I think in
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Speaker 11: there there's lots of little techniques. I think every time
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Speaker 11: you'll read it you'll find new things and double meanings
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Speaker 11: or what's behind the words and that type of thing.
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Speaker 3: And the pactures are also. The illustrations have beautiful as well.
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Speaker 4: They really speak to me, the illustrations because you see
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Speaker 4: little Colin in every book, but the messaging I think too.
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Speaker 4: And it's also a long book because last night I
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Speaker 4: was reading to my little boy and he goes, that
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Speaker 4: wasn't very long.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that.
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Speaker 4: It's actually got a bit of duration in it. But
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Speaker 4: can I just take you to this one part and
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Speaker 4: you're competing in Surf Life Saving here, which I love
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Speaker 4: that it's a nod to your background and surf club,
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Speaker 4: and you fall out and then you say, my UM's
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Speaker 4: not really sore. Mum and Dad don't say anything. They
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Speaker 4: just listen. Since I tipped, I'm scared to paddle again.
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Speaker 3: What if I fail?
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Speaker 4: And I feel like that's such a good lesson because
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Speaker 4: I do think with a lot of kids, and I
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Speaker 4: coach a lot of kids sport these days, you know
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Speaker 4: they're not good at a sport and they go, oh,
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Speaker 4: it's not for me. I'm going to try something else, because.
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Speaker 2: Even grown ups like that too long.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, So, and all of these things genuinely happen to you, right.
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Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean I think that's it. It's sticking with something.
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Speaker 11: And it's also in there like it's what my mum
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Speaker 11: says there, you know, like it's like she pulls me
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Speaker 11: in close and says something like your best is good enough.
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Speaker 4: You're a better peddler than you were a few years ago.
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Speaker 4: Sometimes you just need to be kind to yourself and
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Speaker 4: say my best is good enough.
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Speaker 8: Yeah.
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Speaker 11: So I think he's like, that's kind of being honest,
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Speaker 11: knowing that you know that your parents are there to listen,
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Speaker 11: to accept, and you know, so you see, it's just
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Speaker 11: sticking at it and then the turn over and back
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Speaker 11: into it.
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Speaker 3: She's pumping weights again.
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Speaker 2: So many great messages in this is called Lisa Carrington
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Speaker 2: Chases a Champion. It's twenty seven dollars at paper plus,
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Speaker 2: by the way, and so again, is there anything you
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Speaker 2: can't do? Congratulations on everything well book.
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Speaker 6: And I just said this struggling to keep up with demand,
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Speaker 6: which I also added never happened with Dougie the Buggy.
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Speaker 2: So really you wonder, don't.
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Speaker 4: Don't go with the bargain bim books. Okay, you're you're good.
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Speaker 4: This is a new book. Also, just want to say
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Speaker 4: though it's also been written in tedal so it's a
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Speaker 4: really nice nod to your heritage too.
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Speaker 11: Absolutely, and I want to make sure that every child
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Speaker 11: or somebody key in New Zealand gets to read this book.
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Speaker 2: It's such a good read. Thank you so very much.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, more from Tony Street try we need to talk
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Speaker 1: Tony's Health and Lifestyle podcast. Now back to Tony Jason
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Speaker 1: Sam's Best Show Moments podcast was.
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Speaker 2: As much a slow hand but a fast exit. Yesterday,
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Speaker 2: John Travolta flew his private jet out of Queenstown yesterday.
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Speaker 5: Apparently he's been here since Friday.
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Speaker 3: I saw that.
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Speaker 5: Did you say that yet? The guy owns that's just
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Speaker 5: one of the main.
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Speaker 3: How gangster is it to own it and then also
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Speaker 3: be the pilot?
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Speaker 6: Yeah, but do you want to be the pilot and
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Speaker 6: have to then do an international flight?
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Speaker 5: It's kind of like working.
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Speaker 3: Well, it's abby, it's what he loves.
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Speaker 2: How this house is basically a joint hangar, and he's
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Speaker 2: got like a seven four to seven parked up there
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Speaker 2: at seven three seven. It's private jets. He's loving it.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: Some people are falling out of love not just with
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Speaker 2: their jets but with each other.
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Speaker 13: Hugging barns flowers, So.
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Speaker 2: They're calling out the silver separations, the great divorce is
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Speaker 2: on the rise in New Zealand, a massive increase in
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Speaker 2: couples over fifty.
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Speaker 5: Pulling the pin. Why do you reckon this is?
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Speaker 3: I think these are a possible number of reasons. I
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Speaker 3: take myself to that. We need to talk podcast and
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Speaker 3: we've talked a.
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Speaker 4: Bit about menopausal symptoms bringing about the divorce. You know,
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Speaker 4: women go through that change and if it affects relationships
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Speaker 4: in a big way, lack of understanding on the male
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Speaker 4: part and irrational behavior until you get it sorted from
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Speaker 4: on the woman's part, so that could be effected.
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Speaker 6: Do you know that the stats on this is amazing
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Speaker 6: as well? In ninety percent of the time it's the
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Speaker 6: woman up and leaves and the guy's completely blindsided.
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Speaker 4: And this is happening at around the age of fifty.
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Speaker 4: So I go, okay, what am I doing in ten years?
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Speaker 4: And ten years? My eldest is in her twenties, my
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Speaker 4: youngest is nearly finished school. So the children are leaving,
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Speaker 4: and I wonder if that's got something to do about it.
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Speaker 3: You looking at each other like, what are we about now?
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Speaker 6: When they interviewed some of the women, they were saying
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Speaker 6: they felt unheard and that the males were just terrible
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Speaker 6: communicators and just didn't they were boring, but effectively they
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Speaker 6: didn't feel maybe they're having a good time.
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Speaker 2: Once the kids leave on the old men syndrome, that's it.
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Speaker 2: Once the kids leave home, you're thinking, well, now it's
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Speaker 2: just me and this person. Do we have anything in
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Speaker 2: common anymore? Do you even talk to each other anymore?
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Speaker 2: To want to hang out with this person for the rest.
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Speaker 4: Of my life kind of makes you think when you're okay,
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Speaker 4: so this is happening at fifty right, or in your fifties. Yeah,
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Speaker 4: so it kind of makes you think, well, when you're
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Speaker 4: hitting your sort of late forties, maybe you should like
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Speaker 4: go to a marriage counselor and just sort it out
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Speaker 4: before you hit that pack.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, I remember it on my list.
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Speaker 3: Actually, I remember once you got a few years.
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Speaker 7: Left in the article.
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Speaker 6: In the article that I read, it was basically the
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Speaker 6: men had stopped living, stopped having fun.
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Speaker 5: They were happy with bears.
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Speaker 6: And cung pow prawns and sitting at home watching TV,
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Speaker 6: where the woman wanted to get on with their lives
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Speaker 6: and enjoy and experience the world, and rightly so, grumpy
16:00
Speaker 6: old men.
16:01
Speaker 3: Yeah, so if your man likes beer in prawns, you
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Speaker 3: learned for it.
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Speaker 2: Just watch out specificly though, FRAU one, you're fine, But
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Speaker 2: what do you think of this? What are your thoughts
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Speaker 2: on this? Why do you reckon? This is happening so
16:16
Speaker 2: much in New Zealand? I wait one hundred double O
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Speaker 2: four coast to phone No, but we'd love to see
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Speaker 2: your text thoughts. Is this so TXT two six nine nine.
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Speaker 2: I cannot wait for the summer nights to arrive. We're
16:25
Speaker 2: in spring already, roll on summer and for some people
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Speaker 2: that is going to be the silver separation. That's where
16:30
Speaker 2: we're at the season silver separations.
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Speaker 6: Flowers, the silver servi receiparation thing. I heard something from
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Speaker 6: my kids for the first time year today were we're
16:43
Speaker 6: talking about hair color and Aspett, three year old color
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Speaker 6: my hearers and she said silver, Oh, you don't even.
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Speaker 3: Only have a few silver heres.
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Speaker 5: Well, apparently, according to her.
16:57
Speaker 3: Do you don't want to avoid the silver separation? Just
17:00
Speaker 3: are you here? Get a good old die.
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Speaker 2: Job whether it becomes a brown. Yeah, So that's the
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Speaker 2: great divorce they calling it. Apparently we're in the midst
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Speaker 2: of it in New Zealand. Right now, a lot of
17:11
Speaker 2: people in the fifties more than ever, are pulling the
17:13
Speaker 2: pen on their marriages. Matthew Wadi riginally is.
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Speaker 13: I can tell you it all boils down to a
17:21
Speaker 13: decline in sexual activities between the spouses.
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Speaker 5: You know.
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Speaker 13: Yeah, when you're in your fifties, chex becomes very routine,
17:32
Speaker 13: a very predictable, so you know what your partner is doing,
17:35
Speaker 13: your partner know what you're going to do next, and
17:37
Speaker 13: you know, it becomes very boring. And I can tell
17:40
Speaker 13: you a lot of these uh spouses, be the wife
17:44
Speaker 13: or the husband, no, they want to look at alternative
17:47
Speaker 13: options out there. So that's when trouble begins, and before
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Speaker 13: you know it, you know, the divorce letters start flying around.
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Speaker 4: Are you are you speaking from personal experience towards this
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Speaker 4: happened amongst you?
17:59
Speaker 3: Free or where are you getting?
18:03
Speaker 7: Yeah?
18:03
Speaker 2: Okay, that's always.
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Speaker 13: Looking for when you were adventures, something more exciting, nothing predictable,
18:12
Speaker 13: nothing boring.
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Speaker 5: You know.
18:14
Speaker 2: Okay, what good typs of If you sitting there thinking
18:16
Speaker 2: of yourself and stale, maybe there's an the events from Matthew,
18:20
Speaker 2: spice it up. Maybe, Wendy, what do you think of
18:22
Speaker 2: the reason is?
18:24
Speaker 12: Yeah, I think a lot of it's got to do
18:26
Speaker 12: with kids moving out of home or growing up so
18:30
Speaker 12: you're no longer having to take care of them twenty
18:33
Speaker 12: four to seven some things.
18:35
Speaker 7: And yeah, the woman, once they've gone, don't have to
18:40
Speaker 7: do all that homeless stuff. Want to get out and
18:41
Speaker 7: enjoy life a little bit, you know, go traveling, And
18:46
Speaker 7: the man maybe doesn't want to do that so much
18:49
Speaker 7: because you know, they haven't been stuck in the home much. Yeah,
18:55
Speaker 7: like I'm fusty, Fusty passed and yeah, I've.
18:59
Speaker 12: Been in a relationship now six years and you know,
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Speaker 12: I guess meeting at that time, and we're out doing
19:06
Speaker 12: stuff together now and it's really good.
19:08
Speaker 3: It's all new and exciting.
19:10
Speaker 5: I like that.
19:11
Speaker 2: On the text on two six niney nine, guys, my
19:13
Speaker 2: lawyer told me that the three main reasons to divorce
19:16
Speaker 2: are sex, money, or booze or lack.
19:19
Speaker 4: Of Yeah, and the one thing they didn't put on
19:22
Speaker 4: there was kids, right, and that can be a catalyst
19:25
Speaker 4: in a lot of ways too.
19:26
Speaker 6: Imagine starting as a guy though, like you, Literally when
19:29
Speaker 6: I was reading this, I was like, God, I actually
19:30
Speaker 6: need to make sure that I'm doing everything to make
19:34
Speaker 6: sure that my partner isn't going on, the.
19:37
Speaker 4: Crucial part of the stat is in most cases it's
19:40
Speaker 4: the woman leaving the man.
19:41
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it is like ninety percent. And when you
19:43
Speaker 6: think about it, our last call was actually right. And
19:46
Speaker 6: the fact that you know Sarah for instances at home,
19:48
Speaker 6: getting the kids off to school and everything. I've come
19:50
Speaker 6: to work, I've socialized, I've been around with people.
19:52
Speaker 3: She's got a lot of too long time to go though.
19:54
Speaker 4: You've still got preschoolers, right, you can get out and
19:57
Speaker 4: about it more when they go to schoo.
19:58
Speaker 9: She's got another fifty used to get sick of me.
20:03
Speaker 5: I don't know it.
20:07
Speaker 2: That just here the thing make them feel appreciated. I reckon,
20:10
Speaker 2: you don't know what you got to you lose.
20:12
Speaker 5: That's it.
20:12
Speaker 2: That's it right now there, it's time for Sam's week
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Speaker 5: The other thing we do every week.
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Speaker 3: We stop correcting them because our boss has given us a.
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Speaker 9: We started the week on the back foot because we
20:26
Speaker 9: lost the footy.
20:27
Speaker 2: So Scott Robinson, was it a try?
20:29
Speaker 5: I saw what you saw. We saw what you saw,
20:31
Speaker 5: so I can't we don't see any more way into
20:34
Speaker 5: danger therey if you start to doing bettery freeze and stuff.
20:38
Speaker 3: I kind of love that diplomatic guard.
20:40
Speaker 6: So we kind of lost the match, but we won
20:41
Speaker 6: the press conference there, didn't we And the story that
20:45
Speaker 6: divided the nation and the ultimate act of stupidity.
20:48
Speaker 8: You're getting a cheeky bit of electrical work done in
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Speaker 8: the roof of your house and tucked away in the
20:52
Speaker 8: insulation you find five dusty bricks of cash, vacuum sealed
20:57
Speaker 8: and plastic more than two hundred and thirty thousand dollars
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Speaker 8: with the police know about the roof treasure because the
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Speaker 8: couple reported the fines to them.
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Speaker 9: What are you doing anyway?
21:06
Speaker 6: They called a sparky ended up costing them two hundred
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Speaker 6: and thirty two thousand dollars, which sounds about right these dudes, You.
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Speaker 5: Just turret tell the police listen.
21:14
Speaker 9: Then Australian breakdancer Raygun fronts the media.
21:18
Speaker 7: Do you genuinely think you are the best female breaker
21:21
Speaker 7: in Australia?
21:22
Speaker 3: Well, I think my record speaks to that. No, it
21:27
Speaker 3: doesn't record where you called three zero.
21:30
Speaker 9: I've been to a year one disco that had better breakdancing.
21:33
Speaker 6: And for Tony's friend Mellow who did the caterpillar and
21:36
Speaker 6: her lounge and lost the tooth.
21:38
Speaker 5: I'd say it is a bit of breakdancer.
21:40
Speaker 6: Australian pack gets a new girlfriend, Elton john gets an
21:47
Speaker 6: iron fiction, Robbie William ditches his wife and kids at
21:50
Speaker 6: the back of the plane while he sits in first class,
21:52
Speaker 6: And Johnny dipp gets new teeth.
21:54
Speaker 9: Have you seen Johnny Depp's teeth?
21:56
Speaker 6: He's gone Hollywood on the teeth, He's gone.
22:01
Speaker 2: You've seen something about her?
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Speaker 5: Stop her?
22:05
Speaker 9: And el McPherson beats breast cancer with komb butcher.
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Speaker 11: Australian supermodel El McPherson has been blasted by medical experts
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Speaker 11: as irresponsible after revealing she refused chemotherapy for breast cancer.
22:16
Speaker 3: And opted for what she called a holistic approach.
22:19
Speaker 6: A holistic approach that also included surgeons removing the tumor,
22:22
Speaker 6: which doesn't really sound completely holistic to me.
22:25
Speaker 5: Does that what happened?
22:26
Speaker 9: They are surgeon involved, they removed the tumor and.
22:29
Speaker 2: She's gone on to.
22:31
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hope people don't take like that is the
22:34
Speaker 3: way forward.
22:35
Speaker 6: It's a big, big platform to be preaching that from
22:38
Speaker 6: it and the penalty for misusing disability parks jumps to
22:42
Speaker 6: seven hundred and fifty dollars one.
22:44
Speaker 3: Hundred and fifty dollars.
22:45
Speaker 14: At the moment, I don't think is a significant deterrance
22:48
Speaker 14: because a twenty sixteen survey Joe that a third of
22:51
Speaker 14: the people parking and disabled car parks and didn't have
22:54
Speaker 14: a mobility label.
22:56
Speaker 3: First, you can still run that good.
22:59
Speaker 6: I tell you what those people are monsters if you're
23:01
Speaker 6: really in a hurry and there are no parks, that's
23:03
Speaker 6: what the PRAM parking is.
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