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IVD Is Mentally Unstable! - Blessing CEO Cries Out For Help After Alleged DV · DidiLawren

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  Hello everyone, today we're going to be talking about
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  Blessing CEO. Blessing CEO posted some very
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  disturbing videos online. If you don't know, Blessing CEO
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  is dating IVDIVD, the ex-husband of Bimbo and there was domestic
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  violence that led to the passing of Bimbo.
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  Blessing decided to rehabilitate IVDIVD.
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  They tried going to going for holiday and then he was
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  arrested. He was released a couple of days
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  ago and Blessing released some disturbing videos.
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  They were glass shattered things strewn around.
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  She said he is mentally not OK. She cried out.
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  She said people should call her if you look at the video and
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  then she also said like she captioned it, you have my number
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  please call me. I am in distress.
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  They were glass broken. Now, this is coming as a shock
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  to people, not because we don't know that IVD has violent
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  tendencies because his ex-wife being bought past as a result of
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  domestic violence, but I think blessing thoughts that her case
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  will be different. I think blessing thoughts that
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  IVD is she could help him, she could clean his image.
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  She believed that he was innocent.
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  And ladies and gentlemen, this has turned out that IVD is not
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  innocent after all. People should check on Blessing
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  CEO. I am particularly sad about this
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  because Blessing was married to somebody who she claimed
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  physically abused her. She said that before their
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  wedding, like before she literally walked down the aisle
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  that this man beat her up. She lost.
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  I think she lost the tooth or something like that.
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  She tried to end the marriage even before it started, but
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  family and friends were like, Oh no, people are here, go ahead
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  with the marriage. She had two kids now.
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  Blessing left that marriage broken, penniless.
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  She was working for the Nigerian police force.
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  She was able to pick her life together, put things together,
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  started influencing online. She was writing blog articles.
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  She had like ask me Paige then people didn't even know it was
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  blessing until she came out and owned the page.
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  She started advising people about marital challenges,
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  relationship challenges, and she was controversial.
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  I think she wanted to blow with the holiness situation where she
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  said he that was at her house. She literally went to somebody's
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  house to clean ownership and the man had to come back from China
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  to debunk the whole thing saying that that is his house.
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  That was blessing situation before.
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  She now came out and started talking about her story that the
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  reason why she did that was because she wanted to provide
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  for her kids. She's a single mother of two.
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  She talked about the violence that she endured in her
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  relationship. Now just imagine somebody that
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  has gone through all these challenges, all these difficult
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  situation that had gone through domestic violence, now ending up
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  with IVDIVD who is a known woman, bitter allegedly now for
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  IVDIVD was married to Bimbo. Some people said or he said they
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  never got married, that they were playing house, they had
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  five children, they travelled to South Africa.
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  According to people, IVD was into Yahoo, IVD was pushing
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  drugs, IVD was doing everything but illegal ways in making
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  money. They tried the family because
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  they got married very young or Bimbo got pregnant when she was
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  a teenager. The family said they tried to do
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  everything possible to get Bimbo away from IVD but according to
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  them, IVD is a sweet talker. IVD is somebody who can love
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  bomb you and then makes you it. He will make you look like
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  you're the crazy one. Now Bimbo, they came back to
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  Nigeria, they hit some money with you know their illegal
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  things. They came back and they invested
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  the money. Now after the investment, they
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  started making money. IVD opened the car business and
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  was making money, bought a house in Lagos.
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  People thought their life was OK.
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  Bimbo was a social media person posting online.
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  According to them, she was even going to Babalao to make sure
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  that IVD succeeds. Even most of the illegal
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  activities, they said Bimbo allegedly was part of it and
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  then they started doing substances together allegedly
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  and once they are high allegedly they will get into fights.
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  Family tried to intervene. Bimbo refused to leave IVD.
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  Now when IVD or the whole thing became too much, allegedly IVD
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  said he was going to leave the house, Bimbo said or IVD told
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  Bimbo and the kids to leave the house.
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  Bimbo refused to leave the house because according to her, she
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  was also part of she, she was part of her.
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  She provided income or she she contributed to the buying of the
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  house. According to people, she decided
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  to burn down the house. Now that was when when she was
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  trying to burn down the house was when she set herself ablaze
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  and she died. So when that happened, now,
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  Blessing, who had been through domestic violence, was defending
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  IVD because according to Blessing, a whole lot of people
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  said that Bimbo was the aggressor.
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  Now this should be, I think she should have known because she
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  was. She was once in that situation.
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  And I know that people must have blamed her for breaking her
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  home. People must have blamed her or
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  called her the aggressor. But Blessing choose Ivy.
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  Initially we thought it was publicity stunt because this was
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  queen of controversy. We thought it was publicity
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  stunt, that there was no way Blessing would be dating IVD.
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  But ladies and gentlemen, Blessing was dating IVD.
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  They got engaged. Blessing was wearing wedding
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  gown, They were planning their wedding.
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  They were going from one podcast to the other to advertise.
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  She was just trying to clean his image.
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  She was trying to bring him out. She said he was depressed for
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  over three years. He was in hiding.
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  She said she was cooking for him.
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  She was sending because dad was. Listen, ladies and gentlemen and
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  ladies especially, you are not a fixer.
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  If somebody's not helpable, there's no way you can help that
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  person. But Blessing thought, being a
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  relationship coach, being a therapist, she thought she could
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  help him. She could fix him.
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  She said he's teachable. She went to Nedu's Honest Munch
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  podcast. They even kissed.
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  They were posting videos. They were doing all this, you
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  know, loving Tokyo. She was preparing people.
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  She was trying to prove to people that she made the right
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  choice. They decided to go for vacation.
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  After their engagement, they chose Dubai.
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  Now IVD was under investigation for the death of his wife and
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  according to IVD, nobody told him not to travel.
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  But at the airport he was picked up because before then Blessing
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  had advertised that they were travelling.
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  He was picked up and he spent over two months in detention.
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  IVD was released a couple of days ago and I believe strongly
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  that he probably blamed Blessing CEO.
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  He probably thought if she hadn't posted about their
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  travels that nobody would have known, that they would have
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  gone, travelled, came back and just live their life.
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  Now he posted this video or blessing, posted on her story
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  and on her page saying that he is mentally unstable, that she
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  is not safe. This is somebody that she has
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  been kissing online, posting, doing everything to to make
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  people think that they were happy for Blessing to have
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  posted that. I think it is even beyond what
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  we know. And I really feel sorry for her
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  because everybody right now is laughing at Blessing.
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  Everybody's saying we told you so.
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  I really don't know what to think, but I am praying that
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  she's OK. I am praying that she comes out
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  of this and I'm praying that she comes out strong.
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  What do you think? Do you think that we should
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  blame Blessing? Or do you think that IVD is just
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  he is just that bad? Hmm Ah, this is sad, this is
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  sad, but we shouldn't blame her. She followed her heart.
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  Some people are so broken that they would pick any man just to
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  feel OK. Blessing had never showed any
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  man online. She had never flaunted anybody.
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  I have no idea why she flaunted. IVD let me know what you think.
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  Thank you very much for watching today's episode.
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  Please like like like and share. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye bye.