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EP #045 - Debunking the Dumb Dad Trope + Will Teaches Rue About Fear | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 2: Episode forty seven. Okay, I think that's myso TE six
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  Speaker 2: welcome to episode forty five For the Dads.
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  Speaker 1: We are stoked that you're We hope the trash is
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  Speaker 1: taken out. We hope your home is thriving. I also
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  Speaker 1: I hope that there's some bickering and some things you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to solve right now because you have to be
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  Speaker 1: active and intentional because that's a good thing. That's what
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  Speaker 1: that's what life is. Sharing your upset right now. You
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  Speaker 1: forget to take out the trash, Yeah dad, it's okay.
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  Speaker 2: Dude.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, I forget it more often than I'm proud to admit. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but that's life, man, that's life. But if you just
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  Speaker 1: remember just the small things. And I'm talking to myself too,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not just talking I'm not talking at you, I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking with you. Yes, because I'm included in this. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: these are the small things that you just you get
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  Speaker 1: a win early. You take out the trash. Maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: a nighttime after you clean up, you take out the
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  Speaker 1: trash and clean the dishes, and you're taking your head
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  Speaker 1: or wife. He says, Hey, tomorrow's trash day, and you
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  Speaker 1: have an option right there. Most of the time I choose, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'll do in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: But the consistency that we need to get to is
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  Speaker 2: just taking a couple of minutes, taking a stroll out
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  Speaker 2: to the end of the driveway, setting up the trash.
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  Speaker 2: We have good news on this episode. We have great
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  Speaker 2: Mother's Day Drop is live, live right now, live right now,
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  Speaker 2: Empty sixers for the moms out there, Our Mother's Day
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  Speaker 2: drop is out. It's live right now. BWTB dot com,
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  Speaker 2: b WTB dot com. Yeah, for the moms, for the moms,
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  Speaker 2: for the moms. Guys, matter of fact, what do you got?
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  Speaker 2: What do you want to show them? I got I
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  Speaker 2: got some little teasers of some of the mothers say merch,
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  Speaker 2: show them the teaser. All right, here's the deal with
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  Speaker 2: the Mother's Day merch. I do I got a note,
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  Speaker 2: I got a note and it's right here, or you faster,
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  Speaker 2: faster losing We're losing them. We're losing them. Here's the deal,
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  Speaker 2: all right. The mom's did a great job for the
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  Speaker 2: father's for like the past, stuff moms have been buying
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  Speaker 2: these husbands a lot of merch. We love to see it.
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  Speaker 2: But this show what's the name of this podcast? Again?
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  Speaker 2: For the dad? It is for the dads, isn't it? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: And why not? Why not? To day? Go Hey, my wife,
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  Speaker 2: he got me that pt sicko hat. She got me
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  Speaker 2: the bear with the cigar hat. She got me the
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  Speaker 2: shirt with the for the dads to my wife hooked
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  Speaker 2: me up? My wife is constantly hooking me up all
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  Speaker 2: the time. What if I hooked her up? What if
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  Speaker 2: I put a bow on it? What if I got intentional?
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  Speaker 1: I went to the website WTV dot com, I bought
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  Speaker 1: her a gift without her knowing, and give gifted it
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  Speaker 1: to her on Mother's Day.
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  Speaker 2: Look at that little stuff bear for the mom sipping
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  Speaker 2: a little What is that? A little pina colada? Something
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  Speaker 2: bubbly little or maybe a little lollipop, Yeah, maybe a
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  Speaker 2: little lollipop in a teeny glass, a little stuff bear.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it resembles the kids.
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  Speaker 1: So if it's a kid, now, maybe that's just apple
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  Speaker 1: cide or some type of carbonated Maybe that lollipop, chrispllipop
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  Speaker 1: in the cup.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, they got their phone. It's for the moms. It's
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  Speaker 2: a crop top. Yeah. A lot of comments, Hey, Willy
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  Speaker 2: see you can you put the crop top on? Hey? Sure?
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  Speaker 2: And fat staff heep put the crop top on. Yeah, yeah, dude,
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  Speaker 2: I love that shirt.
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  Speaker 1: And again you can see it in a multitude of
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  Speaker 1: ways if that's mom because the phone. But then you're like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: if that's my kid, my kid should be having that
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  Speaker 1: iPhone right now at three years old. Watch that screen time, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: watch the screen time. But that's that's just a taste.
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  Speaker 1: There's another one.
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  Speaker 2: We also got a crop and comfort color as well,
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  Speaker 2: like a more loose fitting crop.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, when you wear around in the night in the nighttime,
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  Speaker 1: maybe get a little get a little comfortable before you
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  Speaker 1: get in bed. Maybe you're laying on the couch, you
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  Speaker 1: want to watch some TV, some soaps with your health.
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  Speaker 2: Be a great shirt. Hey what if it's like real
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  Speaker 2: cold outside, or maybe it's really hot outside and we're
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  Speaker 2: blasting the ac so it's kind of cold inside. I
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  Speaker 2: want to cozy up. I want to curl up next
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  Speaker 2: to my Ptsiico on the couch. Yep, do we have
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  Speaker 2: anything for that? Do we do? We have anything? Here?
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  Speaker 2: We go bang. We have a old mom with their pump.
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  Speaker 2: We have full matching sweat seit we don't know the back,
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  Speaker 2: that's the back. You got the front too, and it's.
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  Speaker 1: Embroidered, embroidered, high quality, high fashion for the mom's guys,
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  Speaker 1: go shop to you Drop and ladies.
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  Speaker 2: That comes with matching sweatpants. It's a full sweat set.
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  Speaker 2: We're doing. Were laying it out for the mom. The
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  Speaker 2: moms love the sweat sets, dude, when they're around the
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  Speaker 2: house getting comfy, cozy. They love their jammys. They love
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  Speaker 2: their sweat sets.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they love holding their coffee with it or their tea.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, reading a book and my wife loves a
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  Speaker 1: good book. But shop BWTV dot com or Mother's Day.
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  Speaker 1: Drop is officially live for the empty siccos out there.
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  Speaker 1: We got to take care of them. There's a heart
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  Speaker 1: and soul of the entire operation. Boys and the entire up.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead, No, they are they I just don't want
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  Speaker 2: the moms to outdo the dads. It's all I'm saying, like,
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  Speaker 2: this really is a challenge to the dads because I
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  Speaker 2: see all these wifey sikos out there, all these mommies
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  Speaker 2: that are getting their husband's step. It's constant, and you
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  Speaker 2: know how the dad brain works. Boys, fellas, listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: You just heard this SERMONI going back and forth, and
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  Speaker 1: I've been the guy where it's like, yeah, I need
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  Speaker 1: to get on it. This is a great idea, yes,
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  Speaker 1: but dad's as far as my brain goes. And then
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  Speaker 1: I continue to drive, I get to where I'm going.
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  Speaker 1: You chop it up with the boys, you bust balls,
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  Speaker 1: you forget all the things happen.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, then you.
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  Speaker 1: Get home, sweetart, when you're gonna take out the boxes.
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  Speaker 1: It's long gone at that point. It's long gone at
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  Speaker 1: that point out of your brain until you get.
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  Speaker 2: Reminded and you see the shirt somewhere after the fact,
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  Speaker 2: after Mother's Day, and you're like, damn it, I meant.
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  Speaker 1: To buy her a shirt and I forgot to do it.
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  Speaker 1: And now you're scrambling to try to get the Walgreens
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  Speaker 1: to buy a little flower set in the front.
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  Speaker 2: That's you know what I mean. More difficult too, dude.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm I'm talking from a internet shopper myself. You
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  Speaker 2: can literally go to bwtv dot com. You got the
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  Speaker 2: Apple pay set up. Whatever it's sending, it's sent to
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  Speaker 2: your house. It's done, it's over with. I just knocked
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  Speaker 2: out of the frickin' part for my wife for Mother's Day. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: in like probably a minute. We got some good action
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  Speaker 2: coming for Mother's Day. We did.
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  Speaker 1: Wifies are coming on the show. They are rumored, this
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  Speaker 1: is alleged. We're looking into it. We're looking into wife's
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  Speaker 1: looking to come on the show. And also mark down
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  Speaker 1: circle the date. Circle the date May thirtieth, Yes, sir,
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  Speaker 1: circle the date May thirtieth. We've talked. We've talked about
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  Speaker 1: Papa Team Fit. There's been the message boards, the discord,
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  Speaker 1: the reddit's the Papa Team six community on x the
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  Speaker 1: comments sections all over the place. There's talks of where
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  Speaker 1: they should bar three and Papa Team Fit or should
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  Speaker 1: bar three? The wives and the husbands do something together somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's an outdoor class, maybe it's indoor. Who knows all.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to tell you right now. Circle the dates
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  Speaker 1: May thirtieth, May, Tennessee. Circle the dates, May thirtieth, Nashville, Tennessee.
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  Speaker 2: It will involve pt siccos and empty siccos. That's all
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to say about that. Yeah, correct, Yeah, correct, correct.
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  Speaker 2: It's a pot.
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  Speaker 1: We embrace the moms man. We embrace the matter of fact.
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  Speaker 1: I have a comment right here that moms will love
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  Speaker 1: to hear.
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  Speaker 2: Well before you read that, how did they get on
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  Speaker 2: the show for us to read it?
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  Speaker 2: Boys.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, however, you want to be featured on the show,
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  Speaker 1: we got. I got so many comments here, I got
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  Speaker 1: you can talk about loss, you can talk about to
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  Speaker 1: learn whatever it is we feature on the show. We
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  Speaker 1: ship you merch, but we read comments and engage with
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  Speaker 1: our community all throughout the episode. They can come at random.
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to read one now from Ryan Hammett on
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  Speaker 1: Spotify Spotify. We love Spotify comments, dive in on them,
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  Speaker 1: and this is for talking about Mother's Day. This right here,
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  Speaker 1: moms are gonna love. They're gonna love to.
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  Speaker 2: Hear this comment. Fucking here.
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  Speaker 1: We love Spotify, Ryan Hammett. This was six days ago
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  Speaker 1: on Spotify. I know it's all for laughs and jokes,
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  Speaker 1: but can we please not act like our wives are
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  Speaker 1: the boss or in charge of us. I'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: let's talk shit about them, but they're not immune for
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  Speaker 1: being wrong or messing up something. They're not They're not
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  Speaker 1: immune from being wrong or messing something up, just like us.
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  Speaker 1: If you disagree with her about how something went, then
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  Speaker 1: just say it. I'm thirty three, I've been married for
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  Speaker 1: ten years, been married in ten years in November, been
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  Speaker 1: together for fifteen years since we were seventeen. Sorry for
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  Speaker 1: the wrong, the long rant laugh out loud, but I hate.
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  Speaker 2: The dumb husband dad trope.
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  Speaker 1: If we're being honest, it ain't us laugh out loud.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not an idiot. Does he know our wives listening
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  Speaker 2: to the show? I appreciate him so much, But am
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  Speaker 2: I really not an idiot? Like? Is that true? You're
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  Speaker 2: saying did he really write that? No? No, like he's saying,
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  Speaker 2: we're not idiots. Yeah, we have it all figured out.
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  Speaker 1: I guess we come off as the dumb husband dad,
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  Speaker 1: like we're doing a trope and let's stop joking and
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  Speaker 1: laughing and acting like our wives of the boss. And
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  Speaker 1: he not tuned in last week and we saw Jilly
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  Speaker 1: being on the phone. We know who runs the sho ship.
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  Speaker 1: We know when we know anything that comes out of
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  Speaker 1: my household when we do an afterpod report, we know
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  Speaker 1: who runs the ship.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah it's mama bear, buddy. I'll take you down to
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  Speaker 2: my My house is just down the street, and we
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  Speaker 2: can go look and see the Christmas tree that my
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  Speaker 2: wife told me to throw away three years ago. That's
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  Speaker 2: sitting in my trash cans right now because I didn't
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  Speaker 2: take the trash out. Yeah, and wife, he's gonna love
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  Speaker 2: seeing that. Yeah. I don't know what this guy's thinking.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. Would you when you write a comment
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  Speaker 2: like that, are you showing? Are you showing? Wifey? Hey Sweeter,
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  Speaker 2: I just dropped the comment. I'm sick of these boys.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, would you agree that these guys laugh and joke
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  Speaker 1: too much about you guys acting like you're in charge
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  Speaker 1: of us?
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  Speaker 2: Isn't that funny? You think you're the boss of the house.
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  Speaker 2: Go do the dishes? Would you beat the dogs? Hey?
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  Speaker 2: When's the game on? When's how you give me the
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  Speaker 2: give me the TV digest? What was what was the
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  Speaker 2: the cable thing? Was it the TV diejeest? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just smiling and pretending to play along. Wins what
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  Speaker 1: on Hannity? What's Hannity? It was a It was a
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  Speaker 1: political show that my mom hated. My dad would just
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  Speaker 1: blast it. It was on Fox. We missed my mama.
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  Speaker 2: The problem is and look, I'll just talk from my
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  Speaker 2: own experience here. Yeah. Yeah, because charl and I like,
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  Speaker 2: we're we both number one. Char my wife and I
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  Speaker 2: we have we have a very strong relationship, believe it
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  Speaker 2: or not, very much respect. We both know we're at
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  Speaker 2: the top of the food chain in the house.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're talking, if he's talking about jokes, and
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  Speaker 1: let's not act like our wives or the boss, we
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  Speaker 1: are in charge of us, Charlo, sit there and tell
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  Speaker 1: you like it will make a lot of his own decisions.
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  Speaker 2: Will. Will does a lot of things that lead the
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  Speaker 2: way for the family. Tell them, well, she does as well.
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  Speaker 2: But when you're.
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  Speaker 1: Talking, when you get all the way into the box
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  Speaker 1: of it all, if you're going to be somebody that's
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  Speaker 1: that is in charge, I'm not because I'm like the
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  Speaker 1: most forgetful.
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  Speaker 2: Like things that we think about. We talk about the
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  Speaker 2: mental load.
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  Speaker 1: All the time that we as dads and men have
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  Speaker 1: to like teach ourselves and learn through in real time
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  Speaker 1: because we're like we got dog brain at times. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Oh we got to bring
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  Speaker 1: this with us. Oh we got to pack that. Oh
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  Speaker 1: we gotta do this. Oh we got to think about
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  Speaker 1: this when we're going on a trip. Oh this is
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  Speaker 1: the schedule this week. Oh no, I didn't think about it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh uh did I get y'ad care? Oh I didn't
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  Speaker 1: get child care. Like there's so many things it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: mom's the boss. Hey, not only mom's not the boss,
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  Speaker 1: Like she tells you what to do and where to
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  Speaker 1: be at in all those things.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, your wife, happy life.
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  Speaker 1: But the respect factor of knowing, hey, the mom runs
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  Speaker 1: the ship. They're the heart and soul of the team.
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  Speaker 2: They're the heart and soul of the team, and is
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  Speaker 2: in our mission statement. We are not experts. And if
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  Speaker 2: you are tuning into this pod, and I'll speak for
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  Speaker 2: myself and you can go next if you want. If
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  Speaker 2: you tune into this pod and you expect me to
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  Speaker 2: have glasses on like this, and I'm putting you on
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  Speaker 2: some crazy good dad game that I know is fact,
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  Speaker 2: so that you could go tell your buddies, Well, actually
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  Speaker 2: we don't do that with our kids, you know, Sherman
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  Speaker 2: Young podcaster, he believes that you should be doing this
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  Speaker 2: with your child. You're in big trouble, buddy. No, I
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  Speaker 2: think you're seeing it all wrong. Will and sure them.
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  Speaker 1: They spoke about this idea thirty minute coupons for screen time.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're going over thirty minutes, they do six
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  Speaker 1: a week. I see you have eight there and they
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  Speaker 1: say forty five minutes at a time. That's bad for
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  Speaker 1: your child's brain and their development.
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  Speaker 2: You're doing it wrong. Oh, you did not receive the
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  Speaker 2: latio on your birthday? You know. I actually listened to
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  Speaker 2: a podcast and ends out some free coupons.
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  Speaker 1: Your wife's not giving you the gluck Luck nine thousand
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  Speaker 1: on your birthday. It's steak and blowjob Day, and you're
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  Speaker 1: not getting any of that on steak and blowjob Day.
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  Speaker 1: I listen to this podcast and it's can blow jop
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  Speaker 1: day or die?
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  Speaker 2: You know here said it's funny that you bring up
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  Speaker 2: that you haven't gotten laid in months. Listen to these
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  Speaker 2: two intellectuals, Will and Sherman all that they talk about
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  Speaker 2: shockwave maxing. I've been putting a bow on it maxing lately.
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  Speaker 2: It's actually been really great for my marriage. Uh. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's all to say, that's not what the show.
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  Speaker 1: Is or like in my brain knowing, Like we talk
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  Speaker 1: about all the things dad life like learns, wins, losses,
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  Speaker 1: things that we're just we're figuring it out as we go,
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  Speaker 1: as we fuck it up along the way. A lot
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  Speaker 1: of that is the partnership, like with your wife yep,
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  Speaker 1: and learning about all the things that we need to
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  Speaker 1: do to be better partners for them along with us,
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  Speaker 1: like thinking about ourself and things about that we need.
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  Speaker 1: How we can communicate these things with the wife versus
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  Speaker 1: like simply hey, I'm the breadwinner of the household. These
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  Speaker 1: are all these things that you do with the mental
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  Speaker 1: load as a mom or as a wife, like Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's the expectation because I'm the breadwinner of the household.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, does that make sense?
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  Speaker 1: We're not back in decades ago where you have a
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  Speaker 1: few channels on TV, your wife's at home all day
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  Speaker 1: while you're out at work. You come home and everything's
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  Speaker 1: expected to be done, clean, cooked, all that stuff. And
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  Speaker 1: there's more access now, there's more things where we've developed
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  Speaker 1: and grown and evolved over time to where it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: work like that anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And then if they get out of line, you might
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  Speaker 1: give them a backhand. And then if they think about
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  Speaker 1: going and telling their friends outside of the house, you
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  Speaker 1: fear monger them in that side the house to where
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  Speaker 1: they don't talk.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: Then they're trapped in this eco, you know what I mean.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: They're trapped in this operation, this machine that just isn't healthy.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: You know a lot of your friends, Barbara, they're all bitches.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: You know that, Right when you acting ditchy, that's when
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: I know you've been hanging out with them. Yeah. Yeah, Oh,
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: you want to work where you've been here? Now? You've
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: been hearing that the hair dress. You've been hearing that
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: the hairdress. You go too, Huh. Julie's working now huh,
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: well you gonna be working. Well, who's gonna hire you?
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Good gud dude? Ted Ted the Show, By the way,
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: have you been watching that at all? Uh? Ted the movie? No,
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: Ted the Show on Peacock. Have you been watching like
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: a new series, Ted Lasso, Love Me Some Ted Lasso.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: Ted the Show maybe better than both films. It is
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: with the bear, dude, the dad. It's with the bear.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: The Mark Wahlberg character is in high school, so it's
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: like back in the eighties early nineties. And dude, it
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: is really good television. And that dad in that show
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: is literally that character that we've been playing. I'm watching
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: the Ted series, I'm like, oh my god, like he's yeah,
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: that's that's who we're playing. Anybody that's a watcher of
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: that show will know when I'm talking.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Ted's in the Jet, Ted's in the chat.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Ted's in the comments. Yeah, Ted, throw a little Teddy
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: bearry in there.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: Oh hey there you care? Yeah?
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, matter of fact, I just as I looked over
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: for the comments, I saw this Jearsey Oh yeah yeah yeah.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Chef and I had an incredible visit on Saturday. We
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: went to First Form headquarters in Saint Louis, Missouri, got
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: to do some speaking there.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: Will you break down that hold? Please tell that whole thing,
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: because that seemed like a really, really cool moment for
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: you for a multitude of reasons.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: So Ben Newman was a sports psychologist mentor of mine
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: early in my NFL career. I found him over social media.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: I DMed him to see if he would work with
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: me on sports psychology and the mental side of everything,
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: like as I prepare for training camp, as I prepare
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: for all these things, like controlling what I can control
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: and not getting caught up, and if I don't make
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: this team, there's thirty one other teams that I can make.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: To where you start doubting I wanted to work with
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: a sports psychology or like a performance coach, because he's
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: not a psychologist, say he doesn't have his degree in psychology.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: I don't think Ben, If you do, my apologies, yeah yeah, yeah.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: And we would meet halfway between Saint Louis where he was, Clayton, Missouri,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: and Bonterra. We'd meet in Arnold at a Panera or
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Saint Louis bredco every Monday in the offseason during the summertime.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: As I'm preparing for training camp and he takes me
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: through exercises, worksheets stuff to write down like law of attraction, things, goals,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: how I need to operate on a routine from a
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: daily basis, like getting it all down and mapped out
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: so I could practically have something to review and look
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: at every day and reflect on it every day, like
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: when I'm going about my unrequired work or going about
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: my prize fighter day as he would call it. That
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: was over a decade ago. That was about thirteen years ago.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: Over time, Ben worked with me a lot throughout my career.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Ben is now Ben Newman is now big in the
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: sports performance world to where he's worked with. He had
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: a job with Nebraska last year. He's worked with Sabin
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: at Alabama, k State Coach Climban when he was at
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: North Dakota State, Wentwich in Kansas State. Yeah, he's worked
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: with Coach Rule. Coach Rule was there. He speaks with
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: like he on the panel on this one. So now
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: full circle. Over the weekend Ben hosted an unrequired event,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: were two two hundred and fifty like high level thinkers
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: in the networks of all these people that got together
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: were there listening to keynotes I was one of the
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: five or six keynotes. It was me Coach Rule, Coach, Climban,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: Coach White who is the head coach of the Indiana
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Fever in Canton, Clark Ray Lewis, and Sal Forcella at
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: First Form South Forsella is the CEO at First Form.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: South for Sella is a dad I love to follow
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: business wise and fatherhood wise on Instagram and we've been
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: boys since I went on the mf CEO podcast with
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Andy Forsella back in twenty fifteen. So it's a big
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: full circle moment for a lot of people that were
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: there and he and your Boy.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: Just really quick. The Forsella has then put on this event.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Your Boy did Ben put on the event?
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: The Forcellos allowed him to host there because again the
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: network and everything else like they are super tight. Ben
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: has done work with First Form Okay, so people will
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: hire Ben to come in and work with their teams,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: work with their high level teams. He'll have his own
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: boot camp events to where it's days at a time.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: He's built an incredible business. He's done incredible things and
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: I've been around his family and him for thirteen years.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: He's like a big brother.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Of mine and I've spoke with him on a few
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: different occasions, like back when I played with Washington. We
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: would go to different spots, whether it be in Nebraska,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: we spoke in Vancouver, or we spoke in Seattle together,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: we spoke in Vegas together to where he's like, he's
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: like brought me with him on a few things to
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: talk about my undrafted story and everything else. So he
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: wanted me to be at this one because he wanted
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: to talk about Busting with the Boys. I sat down
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: with him and sal Forsella. We did about thirty minutes,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: just kind of like a podcast style, each sitting down
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: in chairs. I did a thirty minute keynote to where
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: I talked about like creating evidence and a couple of
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: my pivotal stories in my undrafted careerworks that I've used
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: that allowed that helped me have a nine year career
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: in the NFL, and that I used frameworks that I
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: used to establish Busting with the Boys for the dads
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: now as well. And so I got to speak on
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: that for thirty minutes, and each keynote went thirty minutes,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: and then I he wanted me to introduce Ray Lewis,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: because Ray Lewis indirectly affected my career in my position
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: as a linebacker. As long as I can remember, I mean,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I've consumed every piece of Ray Lewis content because I've
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: always been a YouTube listen to podcasts, listen to speakers like,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: listen to seminars. I've just always been fascinated with how
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: people think, if they're established in a world to where
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I want to be at one one day, and so
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: it was sick that I got to go and be
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: on a panel with all these guys that I know,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: like Coach Rule obviously go biggread Nebraska. That's self explained
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: to US coach Climban. Coach Climban had me out to
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: North Dakota State during their national title runs. I went
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: out with Ben because Ben did a lot of work
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: with him.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: At the end those days.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: But I went out and spoke to the team and
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: did a lot of whiteboard work as far as like
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: I had the defense with me and on how I
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: watched film, how I studied the game, like things that
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: I could give them to where you know, I really
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: got to know.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Coach Climbing is he is he as much of a
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: stud as he coached Climban.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: He is awesome.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Good as it fucking gets me. He seems like it.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: I hate to sidetrack character, integrity, what he's about, Dude,
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: I love coach Climbing. It was really sad when he retired. Yeah,
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: really sad.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know he dude, he is a stud.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Coach White I met on the flight to Saint Louis
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: because she was on the plane with us flying out there.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: So we got to know Coach White, the Fever coach,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: the Fever coach, the head coach of the Indiana Fever.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: South Forcella.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I've had a history with him about a decade now
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: because again I was on the nf CEO when I
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: was playing and got to know them, their Missouri Boys,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: and then over time we've just stayed in touch. South
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Forcella helped me when I was starting to build Busting
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: with the Boys ID and asked for if he had
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: a set of equipment or like an equipment list, like advice,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: and he sent me a DM like this long with
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: all the equipment I need to be getting ways to
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: think about sponsorships, ads like he helped me when I
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: was putting together like how to stand up Busting with
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: the Boys. And now that we're years later on a
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: panel together talking about it. Just a really cool full
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: circle moment. So we kind of had that event in
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: front of two hundred, two hundred fifty people, did dinner,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: did a meet and greet in their locker room.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: It was really cool, but ultimately was what I was
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: going to get to because what.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I love is when we're out in the wild and
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: pt sikos come up to me or people that are
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: fans of the show for the Dads come up to me,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: and we had a couple of them there.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Suko, who was.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: There, shoutout Suco who gifted a for the Dad's Nebraska
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: jersey that he got made, and he gets that to me,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: like when we're doing the meet and greed, he was
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: stoked about it.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Bro. He wanted to hit the flex post.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Just talk about dad life and talk about the pod
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: and how much he loves listen. Oh yeah, man, Suko
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: is a dog And I ask I asked, h Succo
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: or Suco Suko Suco.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I asked Suko, I'm.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Like, why the twenty five and he was like, well,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: that was the year you guys started it. And I
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: was like, Bro, that awesome, man. So we're gonna get
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: this in a frame. We're gonna have a hang up somewhere.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Maybe it hits right there.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: We removed that.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: Photo, put it up somewhere on the set. Yeah, you
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: got a spot. Yeah, but we got that. Another dad
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: came up where his wife she has is it ms, Yeah,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: and she writes children's books and he give to me
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: a couple of children's books for Ruined Scotty. He was
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: just very genuine talking to me, and he was just
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: so cool getting the I love getting to know the
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: dads that listen to the show, that come up and
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: just talk call of the show and then just talk
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: ball like talk shop.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean. You've been a part of it.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: When we were out at Nebraska the where next thing
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: you know, we're standing on a standing on a fence
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: talking to a couple about marriage and parenthood.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: And the last that we share.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, people bringing up the time where I talked about
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: rue missing mom and the full circle with me talking
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: about my mom. People were mentioning that clip to me.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: But it was awesome. It was awesome, man.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: There is something different. I will I will say I've
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: only had a Tier one shout out once by myself,
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: but I've seen a lot of Tier one shout outs
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: with Will and Taylor out in the wild. Those are
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: always a ton of fun. The four the Dad's ones
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: are really really fun, dude, because they it's just funny
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: how much personal stuff they know about our life. And
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: it feels like you're already talking to somebody that, like
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: you went to high school with, yeah, because they just
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: know a lot of information about you. Yeah, And I
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: just want to like learn about them way more because
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: I'm like, mane, you already know so much about me,
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: tell me about you know, your family, You're a kidding.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: It hits different because another example, I was grabbing a
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: coffee last week and I saw somebody who was a
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: fan of for the Dads. They were a fan of Busting.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: And then we're sitting standing out in the parking lot
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: talking for thirty minutes, really just about dad life, about marriage,
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: about a lot of things, just connecting with them, and
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: those moments hit different on the For the Dads, the
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Ptsikos and the PT sixers that are watching, listening wherever
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: you are, they hit different because it's not like like
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: with Busting with the boys fan base is incredible.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: They feel like they know us.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: We did something that they love and respect, and they
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: might have fun questions on what was this coach like
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: or man, what was this like or this story that
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: you guys spoke about. They dive into the weeds there
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: with for the dads and parenthood. Those people are doing
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: these same things as we are, you know what I mean.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: So there's just more of a conversation because we're either
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: going through the suck and you come across parents that
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: have been through that part and they're laughing or having
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: good stories or storytelling about, hey, you know when they
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: get to this age what to look for again? You
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: have laught, but you're just connecting on a deeper level.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: Or you're talking with a couple, a couple where they're
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: currently in it. We're talking with a couple they have
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: a newborn. We listen to your stuff all the time,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: and we really appreciate, like the stories that you share,
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: the vulnerability that you guys have because we go through
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: the same things. Then you realize, like this is just
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: one big group. We're all going through this shit together.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: So you're just having like a deeper, more meaningful conversation.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Not to say that the ones with the bustle with
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: the boys aren't. They know they are. But as far
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: as family dynamic, we're just we're all going through the
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: same shit.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: The amount of times with the pet stick of ones.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: If I'm with Jill and they're with their wife, the
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: the guy that came up to us at the restaurant
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: at the golf course, we start having our own conversation
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: and his wife and Jill are having their own, and
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: I just hear them start dying laughing, and I overhear
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Jill go, oh my god. Sherman does that all the time,
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: like they're already there you go. Yeah.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: But it was really cool man, getting those gifts, getting
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: connected with bt siccos on things aside from like you
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: know there for speaking there, for like on like busting
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: with the boys.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: Tell the part about the game ball, Dude, that was
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: such a sick moment. I know that you touched on
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: it on the bus. I would love for any pt
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: siccos to hear that story too.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: So there was this game ball that I got, and Derek,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: if you it's in my truck on the passenger side
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: if you want to grab it, so that way I
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: could show them the prop. But so Ben Newman, as
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I was talking about Ben and I met thirteen years
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: ago over the internet on social media. We had some
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: common friends. People thought like, hey, will you would like
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: this guy? And again I was searching for, like somebody
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: to help hold me accountable and give me some direction
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: in sports psychology because I'm massive into psychology of everything,
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: and so I working with Ben fast Forward. That was
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: in twenty thirteen. I got this game ball in twenty fifteen,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: I believe because it was one of the first games
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I ended up taking over for the starting job. We're
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: playing the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and it was the You
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Like That game by Kirk Cousins where we have a
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: big comeback in the second half. You guys know the
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: meme or the video where Kirk's coming down the locker
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: room and he saying, on you like that? You like that?
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: That game was the Tampa Bay Buccaneers games where we
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: had a big comeback maybe one of the biggest ones
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: in the franchise history. No, well, you know, we had
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: we had a losing record. We ended up turning it around,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: going to the wildcard, losing the Green Bay, but we
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: made the playoffs. We end up winning the NFC East
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: that year. And during that game, as well, at halftime
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: they made the switch to make me the starter as
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: the MIC. So that was a memorable game for myself
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: because I started playing a lot more after that. Yeah,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: but I got this game ball, biggest comeback in Redskins history.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: We ended up winning thirty one to thirty October twenty fifth,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: twenty fifteen, and so a lot of the guys got
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: game balls. And so when I got this game ball,
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: one of the next home or the game that Ben Newman,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: my performance mentor, was coming to, I got into his
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: hotel room and laid this on his bed, so that
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: way when he came in there and saw it, like
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: he realized like I was gifting him this game ball,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: and I wrote him a note that basically said like
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be here without your help, and.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: It was very much like a personal big.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: Bro, little bro, like I want you to have this
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: because you've been a massive part of my journey.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: In the NFL.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: And he got real emotional with the game ball when
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: we spoke about it after the game, because he started
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: to get emotional before and I was like, Hey, we
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: got a game coming up, Like let's let's say tighten up, bro,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: let's lock in. I mean Warrior will copy. Yeah, I
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: gotta paint the I gotta paint the face right now.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: Heart's gotta start black. It's not full of blood. It's
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: gotta go.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Black right now.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: It's gotta go dark. And we were speaking after and
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: he was like, he just I remember. I actually I
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: did not remember telling him this, but he's telling in
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: a story. As he's gifting this to me at the
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: event on Saturday, He's like, uh, we'll remember as I
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: told him, like, when you have a family of your own,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: one day, I'm going.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: To give you this ball back. It's that.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: Good news is I got a replica made so it
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: can still sit in the same spot that I have
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: it in. But he gave this game ball back to
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: me because now I have obviously a family of my own.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: So again another full circle moment that took place there.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: That was really cool. Yeah, man, and this is the
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: this is my very first game ball. Can I hold it? Absolutely?
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, that's so epic, dude. Yeah, that's such a
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: cool story. The fact that it's the you like that
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: game just adds so much legacy behind it. Of like
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: on the field, but off the field story behind this
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: guy now is.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Unreal and also full circle moment that you guys know
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: about me. It's knowing that Levante David's on the field
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: as well. No, I'm tooking down. Yeah, this is this
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: is boogie bro. It's Levante giving.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Him some ship.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because he wasn't responded. I was talking a little
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: shit to him. But yeah, man, great, great Saturday.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: You're very deserving of that. And you you are. I
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: know we say here and we say like, oh, we
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: aren't experts. If there is one thing that you are
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: an expert on, it is great determination and working for
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: a cause that feels greater than yourself, something that may
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: seem out of reach, and like your belief in No,
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: it is obtainable if you work at it every single
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: day and you work hard, like you could speak to
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: that for hours.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it. I'm very uncomfortable. You've given me that
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: massive competition. I know how the fellows get.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: I just want you to hear that, dude, you're that.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: That makes me so happy that you're being celebrated and
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: you're given that opportunity to do that. Keeps awesome. I
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: appreciate that.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: Shore me. No, what he's not an expert in keeping
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: track of his phone.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot the ipety chef today chef, oh yeah,
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: and then the phone over the weekend two we got
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: two stories forgot it. You forgot that, you forgot your phone?
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, the phone, the phone, Come on now, okay, okay,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: don't don't do that.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: I'm not I won't do that to you. I'll explain
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: it was one hundred percent Will's fault we had lost
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: in the couch situation.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, not my fault.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: No, it's not your fault.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: Say it. It's it's like on the show, we're about
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: taking accountability. I was.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: I would give you seventy five percent not accountable. The
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: other twenty five is knowing that it was one hundred
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: percent in your pocket when you went on stage. Basically
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: at the panel, they had you salam bended like a
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: Busting with the Boys episode, and they brought out these,
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: uh these kind of like recliner chairs, really cozy, by
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: the way, first form incredible facility. Uh So, if you're
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: listening to I walked into one of the bathrooms that
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: it was spotless. One of your employees walked in after me.
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: I was taking a piss all him scrubbing the place.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: I literally looked and I went, this place is spotless.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: You couldn't make it any better. And he was still
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: putting in works to shout out it was wild and
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: he's not lying. Christine and spotless. They don't hire cleaners.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: It's all standard. We do the work employees, nobody they clean.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: From the photos. It just reminds me of that first
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: year when like a new building on a college campus
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: gets pro that's what it looks.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Like, legit there and they run as far as core
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: value standard. I'm so excited for when Sal for Sela
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: comes on the pot. Obviously we'll be talking dad life,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: but I just want people to understand that.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: This is that this dude their team, because there's a
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: lot of them.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: This isn't just Sal, but the way that they operate
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: on a daily basis their their foundation of thinking, their
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: foundation of values, their foundation of principles, how they think,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: how they go about everything. Man, the details, all of it.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: I aspire to be like it. I get like a
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: sponge around it because I'm so fascinated with how that
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: trickles down from top to bottom. Because they got I
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: don't know how many employees do they have the man.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: That place is huge, hundreds if not thousands employees. Like,
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: the place is massive, but it is crazy, man, it
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: is crazy.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: And Sala is super intentional with his kids too. Again,
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: I love follow him on Instagram.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: He had me FaceTime in a couple of weekends ago
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: to give his son a pep talk before they played
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: a flag football game. He had me thinking on the
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: spot of talking about attitude and effort. But Sal's just
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: the man bro I love. But we bust each other's balls.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: But dude, I'm a big I think very highly of
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: salf or Selah.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah he's a dog.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a dog.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: But to go back, Will lost's phone in the couch
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: during the episode.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: As I'm sitting there, phone slipped out and falls in
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: the middle right on stage like on stage. So then
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: when I get done and I'm looking for it, I
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: can't find it. I'm retracing. I didn't go very far
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: like my my my trail from where I was. I
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: was like, okay, maybe it's in the bathroom because I
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: went to the bathroom. Could just be sitting on the urinal.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Like when I took it out, scrolled something said it
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: on the urinal. Yeah, yeah, it wasn't there. I couldn't
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: find it. We look in the chair four or five
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: different times.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: For a while.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: At on Newman's team too that he had on production,
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: they were like, I was like, hey, Will doesn't know
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: where his phone is. They were hell bent on finding
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: your phone, almost more than me. I was like, I
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: know it's going to show up.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I know it's right, and they were. They
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: were scrambling popa.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: I was like, I literally had I remember looking at
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: it before I went on stage show. It can't it
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: has to be around here.
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: You would have thought that Will's the president and we
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: just lost the nuclear football. Yeah, the way this team
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: is acting, shout out.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: We had the chair turned over looking get it in
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: the bottom and everything else, and we couldn't find it.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: But a couple, a couple Tier one sikos come just
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: in the crowd and they see us looking and he
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: just hits his boy as his name is Zach and
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: justin actually here base out of Nashville. Zach's like, hey,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: should we go look for his phone? And they find
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: the phone in the chair by not only lift get over,
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: but they started moving it and could hear it sliding? No,
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: so it was just trapped somewhere that was just tough
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: to get to. So I don't fully put that, you
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, like it fell out?
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I will, just doesn't deck. How do you feel?
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: You look like you're thinking about it now. I forgot
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: my iPad at home today, had dropped off of the house.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: That's that's so like, I'm not out.
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: Of I wouldn't my mind Why I said seventy five
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: twenty five is that if the twenty five is like
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: you know that it's in your pocket, it's in the chair.
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: I know it's in the chair. I had it before
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: I went on stage. That's the Hey, if we're doing
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: the full accountable, like Ray Lewis said, it starts today.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Ray Lewis is speaking. Ain't no coincidence, Ain't no
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: Coincidence's all looked like you're a twelve year old ago. Yeah,
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: Ray Ray, Ray did say that. Ray did say that.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: But if it was awesome, The gifts are incredible. Thank
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: you guys.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: Pop a team six members that came up gifted us
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: some stuff. Got another gift of the week in from Sherm. Yes,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: got a gift from Sherm.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: Do you open it? Bro?
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and there's a funny moment about it.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Oh really, charl and I had so Sherm like him
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: and Jill gifted Charle and I a gift and it's
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: an awesome gift.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: It's gonna hang up right over my cold tub, no way.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but we opened this gift right and
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: just like thinking us like their transition here, like parenthood, friendship,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: all that stuff that Jill wrote us a card, Jill
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: corner to corner all throughout the car. Jill has her
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: own card and it's a bigger card. It's like this
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: and she's writing cover like all over the place. There's
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: no space on a table of contents. Yeah, people content.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: Sherm writes a card too, and it's it's a smaller
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: card because it's the only card, the only card we had.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah you can tell what I wrote on it.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: I can't remember, but it was above like you had
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: a nice joke where I belly laughed out loud because
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Sherm is playing like, you know, I'm basically writing on
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: this little shit card like Jill, she took up all
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: the stuff.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: So this is the only card I guess I can use.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: And sure it's like making a funny on the card,
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: but basically thanking us for a lot of stuff. And
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: open the gift and it's this frame. It's a nice
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: like glass or a crylic acrylic frame. And I'm thinking
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: the way Jill's talking about family, when you see this,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I want you to think like family, foundation, all these things.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: So in my brain, I'm thinking, we're gonna get a
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: cool photo of Jill, Shirm and Scarlet. And so we
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: open this frame and inside this crylic frame is a
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: piece of art that is essentially like stone or a rock.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: But when I open it, it's like this charcoal color.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: It's got texture all to it and to where if
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: you go back to the card and read, it's like
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: this should look like a rock like foundation, like everything
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: that puts that encapsulates it's a family.
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: It's this artwork of a.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: Essentially like a like a rock texture thing. I'm starting
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: to try and pull off. I'm starting to try and
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: pull off the art because I'm thinking it's just like
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: some foam thing over the photo, and I because Charles
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: like bread, and Charle's like, oh, that's really sweet. And
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: then if the camera pans over me, I'm going, hey,
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: how do I go about getting this thing off because
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like trying to pull it off in the corners
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: on the sides, and she's like, no, no, no'm sweet,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: you don't pull that off, like that's art, Like it's
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: just they gifted us a piece of art. And I'm
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: like and then I kind of hold it on. I'm like,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: so it's this, it's just this, and she's like, yeah,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: it's art. She's like, look at what Jill wrote rock
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: Foundation all this stuff. I'm like, oh shit, this is
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: kind of dope.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: But I'm thinking I.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Thought that there was a picture underneath, bro that is
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: very thought gifts.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: By the way, that is the most legendary. The fact
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: that just knowing my mom's process of when she layers
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: like paint makes it that much funnier. Yeah, you read
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: that feeling it because I look at the back and
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: there's like that that like canvas materials.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that canvas deaded material to where I'm pushing. I'm like, man,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: maybe it's like a painting of the family.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Or something like that.
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I just got to get this thick texture
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: thing off of it.
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: I don't blame I do, Okay, I'll be careful of
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: how I phrase this. My mom's pieces are very bright
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: and colorful, and the pieces that she wanted to do
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: for you and Taylor from how Jill kind of described
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: y'all's tastes in y'all's colors and like, uh, not minimalistic,
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: but like y'all's sense of design. My mom was like,
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: I want to go with like a real neutral, kind
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: of dark thing, like something I don't usually do right
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: up my alley, and so she went with that. But
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: it quite literally looks like obsidian or like some kind
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: of rock. Like I can see see now now that
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: I know what it is, truly see where you went.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: Knowing me, you can see where my brain was going.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: There it was going, but it's not like you know,
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: my mom's howling right now listening to this. By the ways,
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: wrapping paper ever, hey, that's the part that was the
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: that Scarlet helped with the wrapping paper, Like, oh.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: I love that because the wrapping paper was awesome. The
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: tape on the back was hilarious. What was it, just
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: like this white thick tape that's just all over the place.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: I guess your first time, like.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Say that I figured say, say you figured out how
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: to really do a clean one side of a Christmas gift.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: First time wrapping a Christmas gift, and you get the
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: you get the sides, and you get the top part
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: really clean, and then you kind of flip it over
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: and you're like, oh shit, what do I do this
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: back part?
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: This is a hole. There's a hole.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: But great presentation, a gift, awesome card. Let's hang over
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: the cold tub. Oh, but amazing, Scarlet.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: That was I think Scarlett's first painting was the wrapping paper.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: She did the painting on it. Oh, she with my mom. Yeah,
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: let's go man, that is awesome. It was fun, dude,
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: and that that kind of goes with like the I
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: don't think it was my crack of cold one, but
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: it was something on here because we put in the
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: show notes of just my mom has been talking day
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: and night about wanting to get Scarlet into her art studio,
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: and that was like my mom's super Bowl was getting
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: her in there and all three of the girls. That
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: was back when Jill was home for Easter. So I
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: was getting a bunch of facetimes, a bunch of photos
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: of the girls just in my mom's art studio in
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: her garage. She's had other studio spaces in the past,
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: but like right now it's in her garage, and uh,
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: it was cool, dude. It was like cool to see
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: those three generations like working together, really fun that it
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: was a gift for you and Taylor. And the gift
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: was because they gifted me for any new listeners night
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: nurses during my paternity leave when we had Scarlet, So
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: like that was the thank you of Like it was
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: very belated, by the way, nine months belated, but I'm
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: glad we got y'all something finally.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Mama Sharam, thank you so much. That gift is awesome. Yeah, everybody,
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: the whole family. Jill Scarscar even put a little twist
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: on it. Your card. Yeah, dude, thank you man.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude. I didn't I didn't quite know what to
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: write to Charrow. I didn't. I didn't know because I
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: like don't know her, like on the superpersonal note, and
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna I'm gonna brag about how
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: cool my wife is and then just say I know
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: that Will thinks that you're that cool too. There you go, man,
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: there you go. That's I was like, that'll do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, bro.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: But it was thank you for the gift. Absolutely is
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: some dad life.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: Charo had a birthday party, a classmates birthday party on
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: on Sunday.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah for real?
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Right, yeah, So we did the full thing on Saturday
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: in the first form. We get back the next day
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: on Sunday. This past Sunday, we had like a classmates,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: so roosed classmates and her friends in her class.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: We invited them.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: To just basically go to the park, have cupcakes, set
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: do some games with them.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: We did like, was it sack race? We did a
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: sack race.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: We did uh, pinning the tail on the donkey, but
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: called it pin the Crown on the Princess.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: And it was just this it's one of Roos's photos
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: where she's just gone and all the they had.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: You had stick or tape on all these little crowns,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: blindfold them, spin them around a couple of times. I
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: think they're playing hide and seek. They're playing on the playground, dude.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: It was a blast.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: That looked like so much fun. Just the one tweet
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: that I loved the most was like that was at
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: the Shelby Bottoms said, yes, just that video of you,
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: Like I got these kids in a blender playing hide
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: and seek and how wide opening green it was dude,
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, for any st Sichos or soon to
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: be if you're in buds and you haven't had kids
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: yet and you miss those parts of your childhood of
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: running around in a big open grass field and playing
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: hide and seek your tag and you're like, oh, man,
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: I wish I could go back. You get to you
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: can watch those kids, man, Because I'm going up. I'm like, Sweeter,
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: are we good to do cupcakes?
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Because I tricked them earlier because they were about to
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: go to the playgrounds, like are we going to do cupcakes?
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: And they're like yes, I'll say, hey, kids, cupcakes and
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: they're like, we don't. We're not doing cupcakes for like
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: another five to ten minutes. But I had already yelled
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: cupcakes and the kids just immediately turn row. Yeah, they're
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: like cupcakes, cupcakes, And I'm like, okay, hey, I was joking.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be in about five minutes. Cupcakes in about
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: five minutes, I see. I was like, how about you
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: guys instead of going to the playground, you guys go
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: playing the field or something and they start playing hide
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: and go seeking and then the cupcakes are ready, So
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: I'm like all right, So I can do the cupcake call.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: She's like, you can do the cupcake call. So I
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: start walking over and I.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: See one dad already getting out his phone and he's like, man,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: this is gonna be good. And I was like, dude,
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: I was thinking the same exact thing. They're like in
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: the middle of play Hide and go Seek, and I'm like,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: you know in the video kids cupcakes. And then they
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: all just stop. They were all getting ready. A lot
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: of them hide behind trees and stuff. You heard one
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: kid like counting out loud or something ready or not
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: here I come. And then just immediately once they heard
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: the cupcake call, they just swarm like zombies, like zombies.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: Bro like zombies.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: It is like, oh, They're all running, all run from
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: different angles of the field.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: The best part with kids, too, is you could have
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: yelled out the like worst thing, the worst thing in
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: the entire world, not even the cupcakes. You could have
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: been like, hey, the bubble blower things here, the bubble blower.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: It's so stoked for anything.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh that was fun. You see Hey, you know,
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: Dad Bragg, did you see the roo hanging with one hand?
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: Come on, break that down, cam fuetting one hand? Oh
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: my gosh, I'm not allowed to break down.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: We got video running right now. Chef's probably showing the
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: video right now. But Charle was like, hey, did you
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: see ru hanging with one hand? And I told her yeah,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: but thinking, man, do I remember her hanging with one hand?
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: I remember her jumping up like holding on when we
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: were doing the monkey bars and when she's just wanting
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: to like hang on a bar.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: And then she shows me the video of Rue like
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: jumping up for this little this metal ring and trying
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: to grab with two hands at first, but then going
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: like you know, one, two, three, and then jumping up
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: and grabbing it with one hand.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, get my Yeah, it's there. She
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: doesn't know, you know what I mean, she doesn't know
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: what she's doing the dad, but it's there. Yeah, dad
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: was doing that back in Bontaire.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah who knows if. I was like to me, I'm
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: just I'm just impressed. My you know, she just turned
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: four years old. And this dude is like, you know,
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: i'll get her to her if she's wanting to play
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: on monkey bars, but hey, you want to see how
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: long you can hang? Like to wear in my brain,
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, let me start like training her grip. Let
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: me start like training a couple things in like a
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: fun way. Let's see if you can do it for
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: twenty seconds or I'm like, you know, and then she
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: wants to do it again, and then she might fall
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: like a t I'm like, well, your grip's worn out.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: We got to get a couple of rest, like slid
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: a couple of times. She had to slide a couple
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: of times. Hey, sweetheart, you want to try again? Yeah, Like,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: how long do you want to hang? She's like, as
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: long as for a hundred seconds And I'm like, okay,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: let's try one hundred seconds dead.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: I'll count for you.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: I remember one time she was hanging, bro and she
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: got like fifty two seconds hanging from the hanging from
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: the bar.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: Dude, that's very impress She gets out. I'm like, dude,
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: you were such a beast. You don't even know it.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: You're a beast? Is that I'm not a beast? Yeah, honey, yeah,
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: you don't get it yet. You're a beast. Yeah, you're
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: the princess beast, prince a very beast. And they used
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: to ford guppies. Will aren't those your creteam comans? No, no,
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: flints dun gu Yeah, yeah, yeah, dude, it was.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: It was sick, though, Man, it was fun watching it
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: get loved. Don't have all the little kid of seeing
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: her dynamic with her friends, seeing that she has friends
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: at school, you know what I mean, and meeting all
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: the parents, getting to see him around and all of
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: us function together, getting the sack race going. You know,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: I'm basically like, hey, eyes on me, like I'm lining up. Hey,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: stand over here, Hey Leo, come over here, man, come
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: over here. I know you're gonna go first. Everybody goes
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: at the same time, but I need you to stand
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: right here. They're all talking. Hey, guys, I need you
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: to listen. I need you to listen. I'm down on
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: a knee looking at looking at all of them, getting
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: in my coach speak with them, tell them, hey, hey,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: here's how we're gonna do the cadence.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: You're not moving before I say go, how many sacks
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: are we working with? Going at once?
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: I'll give Chef the video so we can see, but
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: I want to say it's about like seven.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: Oh that's a sack race. Yeah, oh, this is a
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: full it's a sack race. Yeah. We're not playing around.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but just watching the whole thing take place.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: You know, we catered in Lady Bird. Shout out Ladybird,
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: No free shout outs to Lady Bird.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: Great Texas, Austin, Texas.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, flower tortilla's, the corn tortilla's, the cherizo, the
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: chicken cheese, Kaso rips their patron sauce like spicy patron sauce. Oh,
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: come on, but awesome, awesome weekend, awesome weekend.
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: On my end was that was that your cracker cole one?
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: I believe that's my crack.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: That's well Craca cole one rue hanging with one hand
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: at her birthday party on the on the on the
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: metal rink.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: Come on, I mean well, the only reason I hass
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: is I was like, it don't get much better than that, Like,
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: what's this guy's cracker cole one?
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: You're right, that's a classic grape kracker cole one right there,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: shout out ollipop, my.
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: Cracker cold one. Was also a birthday party. It was Brady's,
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: which is Jeremy klamp Our, chief of staff. Yeah, Ptisico,
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: pt Siico, his four year old son, Brady's fire truck
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: themed birthday party. That is my first little kids birthday
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: party in attendance with my daughter. It's very fun, dude.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: I'm glad you made it.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he was on the rocks for a second
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: that nobody was gonna come.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: Oh the buddy, dude speaking people are gonna come. It's
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: a buddy. It's solo Saturday. Yeah, and I have a
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: reason to get out of the house. None nonetheless a
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: birthday party. You just know this, bro.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: As far as Papa Team six members have another Bet
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: six members back, I had your back did going through
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: that conversation with it? Because we were flying We did
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: the spring tour Notre Dame in Miami last week, Notre
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: Dame blogs out, Notre Dame interviews with Coach Freeman's out,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: that's on bus with the Boys channel. Come on, we
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: were traveling around you obviously weren't traveling with us. But
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: columb is kind of talking about this, and I'm like, uh,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: have you asked?
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: Have you asked?
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: Sure him, He's like, oh, Jill's out of town for
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: the weekend. He's got scarlet by himself. And I'm like, bro, bro,
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: even more reason?
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: What does that mean?
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: Like you're not giving enough credit to your fellow Papa
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: Team sixer. You think he's just gonna sit at home
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: and think he has to do everything at home. Entire
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: routine has to be home. Like no, bro, you're talking
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: about a Papa team sicko. Like Sure is more than dialed.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: He gets out all the time. You went with him
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: to the zoodo. He operates solo. You guys, he goes
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: out to eat with people like he operates. Did you
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: listen to last week's episode?
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: Are we recording right now? Last time I checked? Yes,
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: we're okay. I'm sorry, Keep going, keep going. That was
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: a wild get off the the rail were good. Oh no,
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: I'm saying I'm fucking stoked with what you're saying. Oh yeah,
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: Oh bro, I'm like this man is dialed. As far
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: as operating a mission solo, you think he what just guy,
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: he's got to drive twenty to thirty minutes out to
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: your place.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: He ain't gonna be ready to go backpack bottles, snacks, toys,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: anything to operate.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: Oh, JJ and Brady want to play outside.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: You don't think he's got some matt to just go
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: out across the lawn and she can operate solo by
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: herself while he kicks it with you. By the way, clump.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: It's your birthday. Even though you're throwing Brady at birthday party,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: it's your birthday. Surean would be more than happy if
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: you just let him know that, like, YO would love
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: to have you there.
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: He wouldn't think twice about it. Bro, There's no question.
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: I texted him and I said, Hey, Jill's not going
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: to be there, but we're there. We're there. That's a
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: walk in the park. That's a walk in the park.
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: And not to make the birthday sound like it's not
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: something I want to go to. It's a solo Saturday
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: with Scarlet. I'm dying for an excuse of a controlled
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: environment to get out of the house and take my
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: daughter to I am dying for any excuse to get
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: out of the house. And I'm like birthday party, free food, friends,
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: a bunch of kiddos running around, a bunch of people
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: that want to interact with my daughter. Camaraderie, camaraderie. Can
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: I come like? Hell? Yes, dude, got the dude, I
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: I did too. Uh right, this is by crack of
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: cold one part. But to brag on myself, I did
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: pack her bag, dude, Jill didn't pack the bag for
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: the birthday party. I noticed that she All she did
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: was just lay out an outfit that she wants and
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: it's scarlet to wear to the party. For me to
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: take a picture of scarlet with JJ.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: You're telling me, you're you're telling me your wife, the
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: one who's in charge of you. The boss didn't tell
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: you what to do, how to do it, trusted you
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: fully and you not. You not only took that, You
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: not only took that. Receive that.
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you operated. And I have a statement here from
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: Jill that I get to read. I don't have to
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: read it. Sherman gets to do careful, careful reading it
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: coming off like a dumb, dumb husband. Dad, don't do
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: a trope. Don't trope. This isn't troupe. She wrote this.
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: Don't trompe, man, I'm not tromping. She wrote this. Sherman
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: gets to do what he wants and uh he loves
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: me very much, signed Juli Young. I get to do
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: what I want, yeah, man, oh yeah you know, yeah,
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: of course, come on, I get to do what I want.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I want to know if this man Ryan Hammont too,
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: like okay, he listened. Maybe he listened to a clip
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: like do women going that? Can you put your wife
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: in the doghouse. Does this mean that he just puts
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: his wife in the doghouse? Would love to understand how
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: that works. Yeah, how does that work?
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: Because my whole thing, don't don't only say yes, break
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: down how she gets to the doghouse. Yeah, so that
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: way we can easily poke holes and every and probably
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: everything that went on for her to be in a doghouse.
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, would love to be a fly in the wall
• 56:27
  Speaker 3: and see how he actually handles the situations. Yeah, Like
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: is he actually just being like you're doing it again, honey?
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: Like is it like you know, imagine imagine is one
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: of those things like she finds that comment on Instagram
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: and she's like, you know, comes home and she goes, oh,
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: so you just you put me in my place all
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: the time?
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Ryan, Yeah, Ryan Hammond just seems like, uh, he
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: lets his wife out of the cage when he gets home.
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, is she doing the three piece? Like I didn't
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: even know that women could do one of those three piece?
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: So like, yeah, I'm just like, what's going on? Like
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: I don't understand he did put ol So he's changed
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: trying to be as lighthearted as he can. He put
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: maybe he's doing a bit.
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: He could be doing maybe us because we don't want
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: to maybe we don't want to put him in the
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: phoenix box.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: No, oh no, he's not even close. I feel like
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: that's Term's burner account. It could be oh this, hey,
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: this will get the boys dalk in. Yeah, this will
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: get a dog in. I what was it? Oh? I
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: packed my own bag for the birthday party, and I
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: remembered all the essentials due The only thing I forgot
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: was a straw. It's that same water cup deacon chef
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: that I forgot at the barbecue spot. But Scarlet is
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: a pro. Would just fill up a cup with water
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: or get a little water bottle and stick a straw
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: any type of straw in there, and she rocks it.
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: But I have the sunscreen, I had the sunglasses. I
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: had the swimsuit because they had an inflatable in the
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: backyard with like a water slid on it. Oh, dude
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: was ripping around on that with Scarlet and my lap. Mackenzy,
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: Jared's girlfriend was there. She is obsessed with Scarlet, and
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: Scarlett's obsessed with her, and she's like, can I hold her?
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: Like that's the worst thing she could ask me on
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: playing at Earth. I'm like Baker, keep her here, you go.
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: I get I gotta have a couple of lollipops. So
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: see you in a second.
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if I could, if I could break down from
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: the lens of a Ryan listening to this.
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: It's real.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's real because there are dads that
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: the Papa team siccos the ones that know the standard
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: that listen to you, that talk about the show, Oh
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: I packed my own bag, Oh I did this, Oh
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: I did that, and those men that are on the
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: standard of yeah, no shit, you should we know that.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: But there's also those dads need to know that there's
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: a lot of new dads or dads out there that
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: have that might have no clue that these things get
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: thought about. That they need to be prepared for that
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: in the humor of it, that's a win. That's like
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: a win for the group of like understanding and learning
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: all the ins and outs of what goes into like
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: say a solo mission.
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: Does that make sense? We're we're talking. If you're you're
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: sitting there and you listen, I brought the straw.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: I forgot I didn't forget this, And it's like, oh yeah,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: no shit, Yeah, we're on the same page with you.
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: But there are also a lot of there's a.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: There's a there's a lot of dads out there that
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: might not even know that this stuff goes on, or
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: dad's out there that just stay in the house and
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: stay routine from what their the list that their wife
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: might have wrote them down if they're not fully trusted
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: at the house to.
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: Know, like this is how you operate. Need we meet uh,
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: need we need reminding? What's the phrase? Hell yeah, keep
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: it going? Need we need reminding that I forgot my
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: freaking diaper bag when I went to that Stars game
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: with your girlfriend and had to We parked and got
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: out and I forgot the diaper bag. We had to
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: get back in the car twenty minutes back to the house,
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: missed the first spirit of the game because Bozo packed
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: the diaper bag in the house and didn't put it
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: in the car. Yeah, like my baseline was like below
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: this tape if you know the story arc of Shurm. Yeah,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: and you're pod that's a big deal, my man.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: Look at the way he's grown since the times of
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: like having some mess ups.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, And did I forget the stroller? Yes? Did
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: I need the stroller at the party. Now, I didn't
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: need it, but I did intend to pack it. I
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: did forget it. It happens, It happens. Happens. Man. Yeah,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: we're not. Nobody's perfect. Nobody's perfect, Noy's perfect. But that
• 1:00:35
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• 1:01:06
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• 1:01:08
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• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: The pretending to be a kid with Will coming in
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: was I feel like we didn't even fully go into
• 1:01:17
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• 1:01:19
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  Speaker 2: But I was having a lot of fun dressing up
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: as a toddler and acting like an idiot. And then
• 1:01:28
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• 1:01:31
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• 1:01:34
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• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: But if we're just gonna be boys and he's just
• 1:01:38
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• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: In that conversation went on for like three minutes and
• 1:01:46
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• 1:01:48
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• 1:01:51
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• 1:01:56
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  Speaker 1: I did Dad win last week. When we got back
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: from Miami on Thursday, I was putting room in beds
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: Like last week, you know, I was telling the stories
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: of like storytime, making up stories.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: Using the Disney outline. Yet there this one.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: I was telling her like we need Dad. AD's gotta
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: sit down, Brad. Dad's brains exhausted, it's not firing on
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: all cylinders.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 2: Like, let's do a book.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: And so she wanted to read The Big Red lest
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: read The Big Red Slide. The Big Red Slide is
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: essentially little Pup who approaches this Big Red slide and
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: he's scared for days at a time. He sees it,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: sees the long line, he sees how high it is.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: He gets nervous. He says, I don't want to do
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: the slide anymore. Mom, maybe tomorrow, She says, maybe tomorrow.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: They come back the next day. He climbs up to
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: the top. Once he gets at the top, he looks
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: down and sees how far down it is, and all
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: of a sudden, he's brave climbing up the ladder.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: Now he stops.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: He doesn't feel so brave, so he comes back down
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: and says, Mom, maybe tomorrow.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: So Mom takes him home. They do a.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: Little concrete slide like off the like off the stoop
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: in the front of little pup bills these have I
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: told this story.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 2: You did during our pre production meeting. That's where your day,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: Joa Vasish, I was gonna say, I'm getting massive at
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: sho okay because we were sitting just.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: Builds a cardboard slide for his stuffed animals and tells
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: him to be brave, have courage, like going down the slide,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: attacking your fears, all that stuff, and he's rooting them on.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: So later down the road, he goes to the park again,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: sees the big Red slide, but he meets his friend.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: This friend's name is Little Duck. They talk about going
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: on the big Red slide together and Little Duck they
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: stand in line. They go with the Big Red slide.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: He gets to the top of the big Red slide.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: He doesn't feel so brave anymore, and little Duck he
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: helps him go down the Big Red slide. They down
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: the Big Red Slide. They have so much fun. Rue
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: loves this story and I got to tie it into
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: I was like, hey, Dadda wasn't so brave today. Dada
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: has a story to where I went really high up
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: and I got really scared, and honestly I wanted to
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: go down.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: I just couldn't because I was so high up. I
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: forgot about this element to the story. The white Will's
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: about to tell next truly shocked me.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: So We're at Miami and they have this ten meter
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: diving board. I thought it was like a ten meter
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: pool and they have like a diving board. So I'm like, hell, yeah,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: let's go off the diving board. We're doing the tour
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: and we get to this pool they're like Olympic pool
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: or they're swimming team pool, where they have a ten
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: meter thirty feet in the air. He said, thirty feet
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: three feet.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: You have to say, for any of those at home,
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 2: the metric system meters a lot longer than feet, so
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: don't think ten feet. Yeah, I know, it's three feet
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: in a yard three point two eight, three point two eight.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: This thing is up there, bro, and I'm seeing it
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, it's like thirty five feet right.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like not as young as I used to be,
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: Like I used to like not have a fear like
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: being a lifeguard, having a high dive. I'd rip gainers,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: I do one and a half. I do things off
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: of a diving board, like I jump off cliffs. But
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: I wasn't like I didn't get like, I'm not like
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: an adrenal in adrenaline junkie, like bungee jumping stuff like that.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: I get scared of being high up. I'm scared of heights.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: But once you get comfortable doing the diving board stuff,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: it feels like, oh, I'm jumping in water, I'm jumping
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: in a pool, I'm jumping in water off of a
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: cliff when we go cliff jumping. But I'm looking at
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: how high this board is and I'm like, yo, this
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: is I'm kind of not one to do it, but
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: I said I wanted to do it. And now you
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: kind of get peer pressure, like Tailor's doing it, Jack's
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: doing it. The boys are going to Brett Mace, who
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: went with us. Who's a Miami Hurricane stick and he
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: hit it before you. Yeah, they all did.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: Oh will.
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  Speaker 1: I'm climbing up this these diving boards right because you
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: go up one, then there's a diving board, you go back,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: you go up another ladder, there's another diving board. You
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: go to the side, climb up, climb all the way
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: up to the top.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: And as you're climbing up, I'm scared shitless because everybody's.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: Getting on climbing. They're climbing up.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: So the ladder's like wet, and it's like a tight climb,
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: so you could slip, you could do anything. I'm just
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: kind of looking off to the side and I'm like,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: yo a, I don't want to do this. But JP,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: like I had a GoPro. JP's like, bring this up
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: with you.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: So I put the go pro on my pocket as
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: I'm climbing up and I get to the top and
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: you just know the feeling like when you're on a
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: platform and it's just nothing around you. It's just you
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: got jumping off your head.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: You're on a you're up high, like just a feeling
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: you get in your con as Bro, I get this
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: tickling feeling in my balls and just the vibe you
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: get like in your sides, like in your head, and
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: I'm just looking and I'm like, I'm thinking in my head,
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I can jump. I'm like looking
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: over guys are jumping off. I'm up there for four
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: or five minutes as this go pro is going. It
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: takes me that long to jump off. Taylor ends up
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: jumping off. All the boys jump off the women's diving team.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: They start chirping me at the time of like, come on,
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: we don't have all day, and I'm just like, I'm
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: legitimately I'm legitimately scared, and you're trying to like play
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: the game, be humorous about it. I know I can
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: talk myself into it, but internally, like I'm like, I'm terrified.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: Taylor gets out of the pull and comes back up
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: to the very top with me. He's a little duck,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: I'm little pup. It says like, hey, I'm gonna count
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: the three, and then when I hit three, you go off,
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: and my god, got you. I'm with you, like you know,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: you're like being men, but also like I got got
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: you. You count the three, I'm gonna jump off, and I'm
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: like holding this thing up and like looking over. He's
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: like one two three, and I like take a step.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, just get give me another, just give me
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: a little bit more time. I'm going to go. I
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: just need a little bit more than He's like, I
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: got you. I got you. So we do it on
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: the next time, one two three. I have the video,
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: I can give it to you. Shut but I just
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: jump off. Whole way down, I jump in get out
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: and like, hey, how'd you feel? I was like, dude,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: I was terrified the whole way down. I'm like, and no,
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: do you want to do it again? I'm no, I
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: don't want to do it again. Like Eve, when I
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: jumped off, I thought I was gonna I knew I
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: was gonna like lose my stomach. I was gonna lose
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: my body. But it happened. But then you have like
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: a come to on the way down to where then
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: it feels fun. I didn't have to come too. I'm
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: like going down the whole time, Candlin, I'm just.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: Like, ah, hit the water. But I'm fired up that
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: I did it.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah that I was brave little pupp in this scenario,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: but I was I'm retired from jumping off with I'm
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: retired from jumping off a ten meter diving board.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: Good career, Hey, good career. It was a good career.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: It was a good career.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: But as I'm coming home, I'm telling Ruth this story.
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: Fortunately I had video too. I'm like watch that. She's like, Daddy,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: you were scared. I was like, sweetheart, I'm not messing
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: with you. I was terrified being up there. She's like,
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: I could do it. No, no, no, no, you cannot do it.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: She's like, maybe when I'm ten. Maybe when you're ten,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: you can jump off the diving board. She's telling mom
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: the next day, Mom, when I'm ten, I'm gonna jumf
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: the dime.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: No way.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she'd be she'd be terrified. I'd be terrified for yeah. Like, bro,
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not not a big I'm not a huge heightsky.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: Love roller coasters, but that's controlled. You're like in a seat,
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: You're doing all the things, but not a big heightsky.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: Not a big heightsky.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: You'd be terrified for it, just like Keanu Reeves was
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 2: terrified for g baby as he stepped to the plate
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: Amen brother, but he faced face that beer. I will
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: say with the cliff jumping. I resonated with that. I
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 2: saved it for the pot. I didn't tell you this before.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 2: That was my biggest fear as a kid. I was
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: the kid that sat there and cried and then end
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 2: up jumping like three or four times. Because we'd go
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: to Possum Kingdom Lake shout out the tabers every fourth
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: of July and they have a bunch of cliff jumping,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: and I would always cry. I would never jump. And
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: I went to summer camp and I was like, I
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: gotta get over this. I can't be that kid at
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: this summer camp because I saw a kid doing the
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: same thing and crying. Everybody down below being like, oh
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: my god, if you just jumped, he'd be fine. And
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 2: so I swallowed that fear, dude, and I went up
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: there and I was like, they don't know that you're scared.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: They don't know if you just jump, they're not going
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 2: to know that you were scared the whole time. And
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: I just forced myself to jump higher and higher and
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 2: higher like cliff jumping, and then I got so into it, dude.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: I was like throwing gainers and stuff off of like
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: tall cliffs. And the last time I tried to throw
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: something was when I was actually a counselor. I was
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 2: like twenty three and I tried to do the squirrel
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: dive where you jump forward and you front flip into
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: a dot one and a half. Yeah, that'd be one
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: and a half. I'm thinking squirrel dive.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: You might be like, grab your ankles, come down, grabbing
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: your ankles.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: Oh sorry, So I'm like yo, because I saw this
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 2: guy do it before me, and he did like full extension,
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: like feet together, kind of like squirppying down the.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, you would like you die, comes like this
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: and then hits the flip and dives in.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 2: You hit the flip and land feet first. So you
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 2: dive forward, hit the flip, and then land feet first.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: So it's like a swan dive into a flip. Yes, okay,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, bro, I'm gonna hit that. There's
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 2: some cute girl counselors watching. I'm already hit some gainers.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh buddy, I'm about to nail this. I
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: had blood seeping out of my back. Dude, it was
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 2: like a forty foot cliff and I fully landed on
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: my back fully will like could not they the people
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: that were watching were like Sherman, if you had tried
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 2: to land on your back like that, you wouldn't have
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: been able to do it. You were perfectly flat. One
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: of the said cute girls that I was crushing on
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: had to help me to a boat because yeah, okay,
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: they give me on the boat. They lay me on
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 2: my stomach and I had blood oozing out of my back. Yeah,
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 2: and my entire back was purple. Dude. It was crazy.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: And that was the last time I tried. So I
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 2: need to face my fears again and go. She retired
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: from that moment. You've been retired. Yeah, I might not
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 2: do a front flip back. I mean, how high is
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: the cliff that one? Yeah, it was like forty that's crazy, man.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 2: But the way I would hate gainers is I would
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: do it like real slow and I felt really in control. Yeah,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: Like that wasn't scary for me. It's the front flip
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: that I'm not able to like spot the landing, yeah,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: oh buddy. And I was really afraid of the dark,
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: and so like once I got to college, I was like,
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 2: I gotta face this fear. So I'd turn off all
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: the lights in the house at night and I would
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: stand in like really dark rooms and like try to
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: make myself scared and like face it and like stand
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 2: in the darkness because I was like it worked with
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 2: the heights. Yeah, and it kind of worked. I don't
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: need a flashlight anymore in the house. I can kind
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: of oh dark Bernie listeners at home, it's a goom
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: beret winom win boom ber w. Yeah. I don't even
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 2: know where I was going. Let's read. Let's read some comments.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 2: Let's read some comments.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: You you were resonating with the heights thing retiring, jumping
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: off the heights.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: Yes, from the story Big Red Side. Great great children's book,
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: by the way, God, great book. I do have a
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: really funny comment that wanted to read off from this
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: is uh our flashback comments, but that's not our word flow.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: Oh I have a I have a flashback comment. What
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: do you got?
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: I got one from Hunter Robertson on Spotify. We did
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: that hack for my daughter's second birthday and baby's first birthday.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: All the animals had a party, had party had sitting
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: on the living room floor in front of the birthday
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: presence dad to a two and a half year old
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: in fifteen month year old girls. Hashtag beat siko So
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: if you listen to last week's episode, the dad hack
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: of the week was, you want to find a way
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: to really heighten the start of your birthday. You go
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: up in the room when they're sleeping at night, like
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: as they're sleeping on the night right before their birthday.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: You get a bunch of stuffed animals. You have them
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: sitting waiting in the living room for when they come
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: out of the room. You put them in party hats.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: We went as far as work. They're each holding a
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: balloon and roof comes out where we just talk. We
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: just get so excited about how the animals snuck out
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: like toy story and are waiting for her on her
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: birthday to like celebrate them in their birthday.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 2: You need to evolve it every single year, Like you
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: need to add more and more stuff, like try and
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: put some little apparatus where they're like holding party poppers
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: or like blowers.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I hit the button and it doesn't go
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: off and I'm like damn. Or she becomes a teenager.
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: Just when she becomes a teenager and she's like over it,
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? To be like an od
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: dad just like hire people characters like Elsa and everybody
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: to come in.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 2: And sweet an't there all your three birthday?
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's that's Pal from Beauty and the Beast.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 2: You're pow. Yeah, Dad, that's really heard. That's really heard.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 2: You're yelling. Hey, Deborah from church. I know, okay, I
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 2: know she's being tough. Just staying characters, staying character. It's
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: what I paid you for, Deborah. Don't don't break. Don't break.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: She thinks you bell uh. Jordan Ford on Spotify says
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: the section with Jill was too good, absolutely laughing out loud.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 2: Keep it up, boys, this pod keeps me pushing in
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 2: the right direction. PT six official in June. Cheers, congratulations Shorten.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: I had another flashback hit it last one. This is
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 2: my favorite comment of the week. By the way, this
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 2: comes from Coach Web nine nine zero three on YouTube.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 2: He said, I can't believe I just listened to the
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 2: CTE Champ tell a ten minute reprise bugs live bedtime story.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 2: This pod is ridiculous and I don't miss an episode
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 2: that that's what this pod. I mean, that's what this
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 2: pod is. That's the pod. That's the pod, that's the show.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 2: Coach Webb gets it. Yeah, I would love to see
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 2: what Ryan's thoughts like, Was I doing the dumb dad
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 2: and husband trope with telling that game of storytelling? Wait,
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 2: so you tell you get a story every night? You know,
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 2: just tell them to go to bed. Ain't telling you
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 2: a story, kiddo. I got a dad loss.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: Here a dad lost right in it's bonesy massive fumble.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: This is from the reddit channel ov Yeah, on the
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: four of the Dad's Podcast Reddit channel, And this plays
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: well because we just went to Miami. This is somebody
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: who's in around the University of Miami.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: No way. Yes, I've been.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: Listening to the pod since the first episode and have
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: loved it so much so that I decided to get
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend into listening as well, sort of a film
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: study for a couple of st six ers. She's an
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: athletic trainer at the University of Miami, and as some
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: of you know, the boys were just there hitting their
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: spring tour. In the middle of my workday. I got
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: a fantastic text from her saying, you won't believe who
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: our part next to.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: It was all the boys. In her excitement, she forgot to.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: Say hi, or get a picture or sneak in a
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: little call sign shouting out letting the boys know that we.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 2: Were some st sixers. Oh what do I have to
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 2: say to that? Good?
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: Anyways, there will be another chance, I'm sure, but most
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: definitely gonna need to run this one up the chain
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: of command as a massive fumble.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, I'm just any st Sico empty Sicico's female
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: audience out there listening. If she had hit you with
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 2: some terminology, dude, that's all you gotta do. You would
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 2: have geaked. You would have geeked if it was coming
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 2: from an empty Sico. Yeah, absolutely, any again, pet Sico,
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 2: empty Sico Stcicico. You hit me with one of those,
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 2: it's your stopping in looking I did. Dad lost this
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 2: week very quick, storry. Dad lost this weekend. We set
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 2: up a tea time to go golf. As we're walking
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 2: up with Scarlet, they're like, hey, for liability reasons, she
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 2: coming with you on the cart. I'm like, yes, sir,
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 2: can't have it man, so sorry, let's get you in
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: the clophouse. We'll refund you. I was like, oh no, damn, dude,
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 2: I didn't even think about that. But okay, we're gonna
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: have like a family outing. It's fine. We went to
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 2: Good Hey, good good. Anyways, as that like kind of
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 2: bummer thing happens, this one guy comes up to me
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 2: apologize and he's like, dude, I'm so sorry, but uh
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: just recognize you and like fucking love the pod. Dude,
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 2: love for the dads, and gave me a dap up.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 2: I was like, dude, thanks, you kicked me up five
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: more times something like that. Dude, thank you so much.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: And I tried to ask him for his name, but
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 2: he was like walking away so quickly that I fumbled.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 2: I fumbled. I was like, I just got y'all have
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: a good one, thanks for listening, and walked off. I
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 2: was like, oh, he's just from the Rafts for the Dads.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: Like I'm gonna stop in my tracks. I'm gonna be like,
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 2: give me a second walking over there. Those footsteps were
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: like Stee Griffin on the Family Guy, Hey, you listened
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: the pot. I appreciate you. I have a dad lass
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 2: here mother in law parked in front of me or
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 2: in front of the trash cans last week, which prevented
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: the city from picking up the trash. Good. Yeah, great,
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: I should have foreseen this coming. It sounds like this
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 2: was Brent Kiello's fault. Brent should have seen this coming. Guys,
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: don't be like me and plan accordingly. That's not his fault.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 2: Or sorry, that's his fault. Yeah, that's his fault. Good
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 2: mother in law should park or should have parked there
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 2: and didn't park there. You see how my I'm all,
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 2: Ryan's got me fucked up. Yeah, dude, right, Ryan's got
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 2: me fucked up. Dude, of those dumb motherfuckers. Didn't plan good? Good,
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 2: wrong thing happened good, the right thing happened. You didn't
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: plan for it good. Yeah, yeah, dad hack. You had
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: a really good dad hack from uh Guso. Oh no,
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 2: the one, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah Suko Suko,
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: not Cuso. Suko. Shout out the boy Cuso. Shout out
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 2: the boy Cuso. But we're talking about Suco's Cuso. Chef Cuso. Oh,
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 2: shout chef Cuso.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so Suko had a great dad hack. In the
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: locker room at the first form event, the man who
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: gave us this, who gifted us this jersey before the
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: dad's jersey Nebraska GBR GBR, and he said, hey, I
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: got a dad hack for I was like, bro feed
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: it to me. Chicks like, hey, we gotta get going.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: There's somebody. You know, we got to get the pictures.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: Bah blah, ma'am, just give us a minute. He's got
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: a dad hack here. This is I want to hear
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: this conference. This is a business comment. Yeah, yeah, it's
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: a business comment. And he's like, got a dad hack.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: He's like, you talk about travel all the time. I
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: hear you know, the dad guilt, the sadness, like you know,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: rue having meltdowns. Like if Dad's not there, here's a
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: good dad hack for you, because I heard you talk
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: about storytelling and reading bedtime stories and doing all that.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: He was like, take out, do the voice memo, record
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: yourself or even do a video if you want to
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: record yourself reading her a bedtime story. So that way,
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: if mom's handling a breakdown and she wants dad, dad,
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: and she can't reach you on the phone.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: She's got to go too. For Hey, Dad has.
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: Sent in this story for you to read you a
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: story for bedtime. You can just sit the story up
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: next to her and obviously she'll be fascinated with it.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: Gives mom a breather while she's sitting in the room
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: to do whatever she's got to do.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 2: Zuka.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like, Mom can just chow whether she wants
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: to be on her phone go handle some business or
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: itch or whatever it is. Yeah, she could just sit
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: there for a few minutes and listen to Dad tell
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: her a story for bedtime. Suka, well done, great.
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 2: Dad, hack great dad.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 1: And he's like in another one for you, because you
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: were talking about doing the Disney storytelling with Princess Rue,
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: Tige and Zue.
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he goes.
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: You can tap into AI to give you a layout,
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: Like if Rude gives you a few things, you put
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: it in there. It can spit you out something to
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: where if you are exhausted, you're not one to think
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: on your feet or anything else. It gives you a
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 1: story that you can tell that AI might give you,
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: which I was super into. People could be turned off
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: by the AI thought, I know, my wife's turned off
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: by the earth AI. I thought, right now, sitting in
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 1: her car, she's probably beating her stirring wheel. But the
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: thought of like knowing that something could be could be coming,
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 1: and you you're like, Okay, I won't be prepared this way,
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: or I might be exhausted by the time I get here.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: But putting the intention into asking the right questions, building
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: out the right story and be like, I love this story.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 2: I'm taking it to him. It's like, dude, it's a
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 2: home run. I have done that. I have done that
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 2: when I'm already feeding forgot to get the book and
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 2: I'm doing solo tuck in so I don't have Jill
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 2: to like help or whatever if I can't get up
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 2: and go to her books across the nursery. I've gotten
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 2: on chat GBT and I'm literally I use the voice
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: thing and i just go, hey, a story about a
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 2: young princess named Scarlett that wants to fly and touch
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 2: the moon money, and it just it will start talking
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 2: like you could have them do it, or you read
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 2: it like it's kind of sick. Nice. I thought it
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 2: was a great day. Shout out Suko, Shout out Suko.
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 2: Hey GBR GBR go Big Red, Go Big Red, Go
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 2: Big Red. Tawnty on Spotify, Nico says dad hack. For
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 2: the Nanate users, you can go to the memories in
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 2: the app. I highly suggest this, by the way, and
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 2: get a free slideshow of your little one growing up.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 2: As my son is about to turn one. I recently
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 2: found it and got kicked right into the fields. That
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 2: is that is a true story, dude, nanit ribs like
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 2: it tracks all this different stuff and it will be
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 2: like anniversary of the first time your kid slept twelve hours.
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 2: Like you're like what, Oh dude, it's crazy. Like they
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: nanit ribs. Obviously they ate the friends of the show. Oh,
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 2: friends of the show for a reason. This is alignment.
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 2: This is alignment. This is easy. Yeah. Yeah, we don't
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 2: just read any mom and pop shop. Yeah, this is
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 2: nan it Yeah, roast sparks. We don't just read anything bigger, thicker,
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 2: longer erections. Guys, we do have I have a quick
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 2: shout out that I'll summarize. I got a wifey shout out.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: I see you're holding the book, so I'll just hit
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: a quick wifey shout out. Hit the wife This from
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: h T T This from h T Town on YouTube.
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: Wifey shout out a PR. As of Saturday after this pod,
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: this Cicico will have proposed to his old lady. Let
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: me let me do whoa HT Town APR. As a
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: Saturday after this pod, this Cico will have proposed to
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: his old lady. Huge shout out to the future kinsy
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 1: laffy lear la fa Leir Lafalier, Lafallier, Kinsey la Falier.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: They say it with a French accident and it will sound.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: Right Laflier, Yeah, yeah, that was Oh that's right, that's right,
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: Kinsey Laflier hard emoji, fire emoji hashtag No, then free
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 1: shout outs.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: Did he put the roller Custer emogi on there? He didn't?
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: Did he put the bow emerging on there? He didn't?
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 2: All right, we'll send him some coupons, can send him
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: some coup We'll send him some coupons. Congratulations, congratulations, he's
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 2: tee town h t town very quickly before we get
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 2: into Collins. Elizabeth Gilmour, this.
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 1: Is a do you mind if I go potty while
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: you did? Got sorry, I'm broken out of this one,
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 1: but I just need to go back.
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: Before you go. Happy birthday, Nathan, Nathan, Happy let go?
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 2: You could go partty dude. Happy birthday, Nathan, Happy birthday, Nathan.
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 1: How sick was the recording of that video last week? Now,
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: wifey recording Hubby watching the show that was going back
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 1: and forth. He's got like ta like it's like an
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: emotional vibe. And then we hit him with the funk
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 1: coupons at the end and He's like, oh they said it, Bro,
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 1: I can't tell you how much that.
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 2: Video that unreal dude. That was like we got invited
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 2: into their house and got the like hang out and
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 2: like interact.
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, and you still wife. He's behind the phone
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: smiling like as she's say, here we go.
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 2: Bro. Deck was so proud of that video, like just
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 2: going around and showing everyone in the office that video.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 2: Like that video truly meant the world to us. Thank
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 2: you empty Sicico and pt Sicco, Gracie and Skyler, Gracie
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 2: and Scott brown Low and my favorite part of the
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 2: video was you going brown Laud how now brown Lau
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 2: and just seeing his face be like I've dealt with
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 2: the ship all the Yeah, so I'm gonna go potty
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 2: you go, but you give me a quick summary Happy
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 2: birthday names. I don't want to. I'm not trying to Nathan,
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 2: I'm not trying to check out the bladder. It's light.
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 2: I got the Okay, Willie wants you out, fat staff
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 2: and the rest of the pet Cicico's over there. My
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 2: name's Elizabeth Proud Milk team sixer of over seven months now.
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 2: To be honest, I'm not a diehard follower of the pod,
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 2: but I've loved the episodes and clips I've watched listen
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 2: with my husband Nathan. He's the reason I'm reaching out.
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 2: His twenty eighth birthday is on the ninth, Happy belated birthday,
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 2: and he be beyond stoked if y'all could give him
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 2: a birthday shout out, even if it's late due to
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 2: my poor planning. Y'all have helped get him through the
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 2: early chaos of the newborn trenches and have given him
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 2: insight as a fellow girl. Dad of a now seven
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 2: month old. He loves the pod so much he recommends
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 2: it to friends, co workers, and even acquaintances that are
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 2: dads or soon to be dads. He even got his
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 2: own dad to start listening, and now they both own
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 2: a few T shirts between the two of them. Dude, Nathan, Hey,
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 2: happy birthday. I know that we said it before, but
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 2: happy happy birthday to you, dude. Thank you for supporting
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 2: the pod, and we're gonna move on. We're not gonna
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 2: say happy birthday to Nathan anymore. Happy birthday, Happy birthday, Dan.
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 1: That was the summary, So what was the summary? I
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 1: did hear off in the distance. She doesn't listen all
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 1: the time, but she watches our clips.
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 2: She's like, hey, like I'm starting to get it. Like
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 2: he's a sicko. For you guys, I didn't plan accordingly.
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 2: This is a belated birthday thing, but like I you know,
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 2: I got shout out my hobby, I got shout out
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 2: my little seven month old. Look at that dude. They
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 2: even got the good onesie. I mean, this guy's a
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 2: sick Oh, dude, Nathan's a sick.
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 1: Oh hey look a little man, dude, Elizabeth, thank you
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 1: for writing in and also maybe become an empty sicko
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 1: and I just won't go piss during.
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe Nathan, Maybe Nathan gets his gets his girl Nathan.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 1: If we want to get her full, if we're gonna
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 1: get Elizabeth fully bought in, maybe we need some Mother's
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 1: Day merch.
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 2: BWTV dot com, ewtv dot com, BWTB dot com. Uncle
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: hats are available as well. Let's do voicemails. Let's get
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  Speaker 2: into him, bro, let's get into him because I already
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  Speaker 2: have them. Yeah, oh, just one voicemail and thankfully we're
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 2: just losing cams releasing cams. I already have the voicemail
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 2: pulled up and ready to go. Let's go. So we'll
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 2: go ahead and play it because it's right here and
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 2: it's ready to go. Fifteen weeks pregnant? What up? Boys? Uh?
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  Speaker 4: Day one listener and NaN's Wyatt Brinks. I'll be honest
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 4: with y'all, kind of stop listening to you for a
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 4: little bit. My wife and I went through this carriage,
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 4: but this year, I am proud to say that my
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 4: wife as up today April what is it nine? My
• 1:32:32
  Speaker 4: wife is fifteen weeks pregnant, and I'm gonna be more excited.
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 4: I'm jumping right back to your podcast. I love all
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 4: the stories. I just I want as much advice as
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 4: you guys give me. I am pumped up, man and
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 4: mind scared, but I can't wait for it. But I
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 4: love the podcast.
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 2: You boys rock. Priece you crying? Yeah, this is where
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 2: you go? No, you go, wyat Hey, thank you? And
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 2: yeah I can.
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 1: I can imagine we're gonna have our wife's on it
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: at one point in time. I don't know how freely
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 1: I can talk about everything, but just know that I
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 1: understand and I empathize with what you and wife you
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 1: went through.
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: With your guys' miscarriage.
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 1: So happy that you guys are now pregnant fifteen weeks,
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 1: fingers crossed, knocking on wood everywhere that everything goes well,
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: everything goes healthy. I know that is a dude. It's
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 1: massive love that your name's Wyatt. My little brother's name's
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 1: Why whyatt herb Tombstone. I feel like I'm connecting with you.
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening since episode one completely
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: get out. You know, it's almost like I haven't listened
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 1: in a while, and then my head kind of goes up.
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 1: Then you hear why it's dude. I love you, bro,
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 1: we were the boys are with you, We're thinking about you.
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: We hope everything goes well, dude, sincerely, we hope everything
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: goes well because that stuff is not easy. Man, you
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 1: don't know, and you don't know as you don't know
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: what you're Number one, you're sad your morning, you were grieving,
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: and also for WiFi. Like we've talked about this before,
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: but as men, you always want to figure out a
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: practical solution for the way forward, like moving past whatever
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: set thing is, whether it's an inspo or a quote
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 1: or something that helps all of us compartmentalize and go forward.
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: That's what I feel like as men, you always want
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 1: to solve. You always want to solve what's going on,
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 1: Whereas a lot of times WiFi what you learn over
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: time and with relationships and everything else over time. A
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 1: lot of the time it's just sitting in it with them,
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 1: and it makes you uncomfortable because you feel like you
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 1: want to get out of set thing, or you want
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 1: to move forward from set thing. But then you realize
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: like just being in set thing and knowing like you know,
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 1: there is no answer right now, but I'm not. I'm
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 1: right next to you this entire time, and we're going
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 1: to be sad together and we're just going to keep
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 1: talking about it no matter how long it takes. Yes,
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 1: because again, as the dude or you might have a
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 1: practical solution and they don't care to hear that thing.
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: And then you get upset like I'm just trying to
• 1:34:57
  Speaker 1: help you, yo, I'm not needing you to solve a
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 1: problem right now. I just this is what I'm communicating.
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 1: I just want you to sit in with me. Yes, So, dude,
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: I can imagine that is a very hard moment that
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys both went through together.
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 2: You obviously you.
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 1: Have experienced you you like you'll be better from the
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: moment because you went through the moment so fired up
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 1: that you guys are fifteen weeks right now and they're
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: that this little one's gonna come into some awesome parents.
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 2: It sounds like I the reason I teared up is
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 2: because I when he said he was scared, the very
• 1:35:29
  Speaker 2: first thing that I thought is I was like, I
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 2: want to hug the fuck out of Wyatt. I want
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 2: to dap him up. I want to go to the
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 2: best wing spot in his town, crack a cold one
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 2: with him, and talk about how scary it is. It's
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 2: okay to be scared. You've gone through stuff, dude, and
• 1:35:46
  Speaker 2: I hope that why really if you haven't reached out
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 2: to any of your friends to talk about that you're scared,
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 2: or any of your family members, dude, I encourage you
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 2: to do that, and just like you were saying, embrace
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 2: those feelings with your partner, but also like reach out
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 2: to people in your net that love you, that are
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 2: close with you and your boys, your boys, and just
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 2: tell him you're scared, dude, because I want to. I
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 2: want you dapty fuck out of Wyatt. I'll be your
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 2: huck and you.
• 1:36:14
  Speaker 1: Want to give him cheers and you say you damn right,
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: you're scared. Yes, we were all scared. And the moment
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: he gets closer and closer, you're like, yo, I'm about
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 1: to be there, ain't no going back, Like you am
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 1: I ready to be a dad? And then at those
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 1: moments when you're scared, you just think to yourself, billions
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 1: of people have done this, and I'm made of the
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: right stuff for this, yes, Or if you think about, hey,
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 1: what stuff am I made of? And if you don't
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: like the stuff that you're made of, then you immediately
• 1:36:45
  Speaker 1: know I know what I don't want to be, and
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: I can change all of it. Now, I can change
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 1: all of it for this next iteration. I just got
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: to figure out, like, who do I want to be?
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 1: What stuff do I want to be made of?
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 2: And hearing it in his voice, I know he's got it.
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 2: You know he's got and he hopefully is named after
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 2: another I know another Wyat back in the day. He
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 2: was out manned, he was out gunned, and he still
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 2: showed up to that train station, yeah, shooting that shotgun
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 2: and saying, you tell him I'm coming here. You might
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 2: have to name him Doc for Doc Holliday. Dude, Oh
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 2: that would be so sick. Anyways, that's all that's shot.
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 2: Thank you for calling him. Shout out Wyatt, email email,
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 2: mine's a saddle alert. What's yours? I have Aaron Donnelly,
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 2: No no alerts on it, no sturdy, let's go. Let's
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 2: go with yours.
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 1: Hi, guys, my name is Aaron, and I don't know
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 1: if there is a label for me in for the
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 1: dad's universe. I'm not an empty I'm not an empty sixer,
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 1: but hope to be someday. And just found your content
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: through clips on social media. I've loved catching up on
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 1: the pod and am almost officially caught up.
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 2: That rips. That's insane.
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, over the past few weeks, I've heard you all
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 1: talk about being girl dads in the fear of losing
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 1: the open communication or close relationships with your daughters as
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 1: they get older. So I guess I'm writing with a
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 1: dad hack. Courtesy of my dad's shout out Dennis. I'm
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 1: the oldest of four. When I was little, my dad
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 1: would would read books to me in this one Love
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 1: Seed in the house.
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 2: After reading, we would just talk.
• 1:38:26
  Speaker 1: He would answer my unending questions about life and growing up,
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: and at some point that chair got the name the
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 1: chit Chat Chair.
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 2: As I got.
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: Older and no longer needed to need, no longer needed
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 1: help to read, he would still make time to sit
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 1: in the chit chat chair and catch up with me.
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 1: This was always our time, especially as all my siblings
• 1:38:45
  Speaker 1: came into the mix. As I hit those pre teen
• 1:38:48
  Speaker 1: and teen years when life and emotions seem to get
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 1: so much more complicated.
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 2: I was always able.
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 1: To go downstairs and ask my dad if we could
• 1:38:54
  Speaker 1: sit in the chit chat chair, and he would always
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 1: join me. He listened so intently. I'm sorry somethings in mind.
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 1: I'm not actually something is in my eye it's burning,
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 1: but I'm also starting to cry, so it's just a
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 1: it's a tough mix right now. He listened so intently,
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 1: then talked through my worries and always made me feel better.
• 1:39:12
  Speaker 1: For some reason, having that space establishm made it easier
• 1:39:15
  Speaker 1: to approach him with bigger problems, and we never lost
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 1: our line of open communication. Now I'm twenty nine, and
• 1:39:21
  Speaker 1: while we haven't sat in the chit chat chair in
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 1: a while, my dad and I talk all the time
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 1: as he continues to be my biggest supporter and voice
• 1:39:26
  Speaker 1: of reason. Thank you guys for all the laughs and
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 1: keep up the awesome work raising your daughters very very lovely. Aaron,
• 1:39:33
  Speaker 1: thank you, and just knowing that Aaron's got no rhyme
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 1: or reason to be even on this show, to be
• 1:39:41
  Speaker 1: watching this show, do you know what I'm saying.
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 2: We geek out about binging like Game of Thrones on
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 2: the bus and he just binged us. That's crazy, that's crazy.
• 1:39:53
  Speaker 2: She she just binged. Yeah, she just been sorry. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 2: she just binged us. That's crazy. It's nuts. There's there's again,
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 2: zero rhyme or reason.
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 1: It's like for the dads, we got Papa Team six
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 1: were built through Papa Team six foundation that includes Empty six,
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 1: Mama Team six, Team six. We got Seeming Team six
• 1:40:12
  Speaker 1: for the young guns out there, goom berets. We got
• 1:40:14
  Speaker 1: butts training in a relationship in it. But no rhyme
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 1: or reason that a female just saw sees our content,
• 1:40:22
  Speaker 1: enjoys the contents like Yo, I'm gonna.
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 2: Follow this podcast and watch this brand. That's why I
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 2: didn't cry because I didn't realize it was a girl.
• 1:40:29
  Speaker 2: I want to know what clip oh, you realized it
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 2: was a girl. I didn't realize there was a girl
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 2: and that's why you got got and I didn't, yeah,
• 1:40:35
  Speaker 2: because this is one of the few times on the
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 2: show that you got got bad. I didn't even flinch,
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, it was a girl. Was in
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 2: my eye. Something was burning in my eye. I was
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 2: getting much. Yeah, something in your eye though, Yeah, yeah,
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 2: my right eye was burning. Like I tell really quick story,
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 2: very quickly. I know the cameras are everheating. I put
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 2: Scarlet to bed last night, and for the first time,
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 2: she she's either wanting to play or she's asleep. There's
• 1:41:03
  Speaker 2: no like just laying there awake and like falling asleep.
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 2: Like she just kind of like bundles up and she's out. Yeah,
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 2: because she's a baby. Yeah, little baby, little baby. She
• 1:41:14
  Speaker 2: laid on my chest last night, dude, and I was
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 2: rubbing her back and I was humming Adelvis to her,
• 1:41:19
  Speaker 2: and she started playing with my beard, just rubbing her
• 1:41:23
  Speaker 2: her fingers through my chin hairs. And I'm sitting there,
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 2: I'm going, is she doing that in her sleep? And
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 2: this pitch black room And then my phone lit up
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 2: because I got a text, So there's a little glow
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 2: and I just see her face like right here, and
• 1:41:37
  Speaker 2: her eyes are wide open, and she's just looking up
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 2: at me with her passy in her mouth, and she's
• 1:41:42
  Speaker 2: just slowly just playing with my chin hairs. Bro fucking
• 1:41:47
  Speaker 2: bottled that forever. Oh my god, dude, I got whatever
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 2: was in your eye flew over here? Yeah yeah, right now.
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 2: Maybe it's the overheating of the cameras. This Saddlert. I
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 2: will summarize because I wanted to be read. This comes
• 1:42:10
  Speaker 2: from Hayden Hawks. He essentially tells a story about how
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 2: his empty sicco was an absolute beast dog legend. During delivery,
• 1:42:24
  Speaker 2: she had something that happens to one in fifty thousand
• 1:42:26
  Speaker 2: women with a fifteen percent mortality rate, which is a
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 2: uterine inversion that happens during delivery. Very serious. She had
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 2: to go to the operating room. She is fine, she
• 1:42:38
  Speaker 2: made it. She's good. But it was this whole situation
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 2: where they're dealing with the they want to celebrate the
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 2: birth of their child. But then he's like, my empty sicico,
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 2: my other half is she gonna be okay? She's getting
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 2: rushed off to a room, and Hayden just sharing that
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 2: story with us. I just wanted to thank Hayden and
• 1:42:59
  Speaker 2: all the awesome stories that we get of, you know,
• 1:43:02
  Speaker 2: stuff that can go sideways, topsy turvy. It's not always
• 1:43:06
  Speaker 2: a perfect delivery, and our audience rips.
• 1:43:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine me so celebratory for like having a kid,
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 1: and then some some unexpected things happen, like in the
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 1: delivery room, oh, or like as you're you know, as
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 1: you're about to deliver, and then it's just it feels
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 1: like it's just a whole different ballgame on how you
• 1:43:26
  Speaker 1: even feel outside of terrified for your other half. That's
• 1:43:33
  Speaker 1: so interesting, just you can't help but and then like
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 1: you're just imagining the worst. Can I operate without this,
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 1: without my other half? That would be tough?
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 2: Man. Yeah, I'm legitimately unfortunately, I have that thought sometimes
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 2: at night, like when I'm going to bed. I really
• 1:43:54
  Speaker 2: do think about especially on those solo Saturdays. I'm like, dude,
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 2: if this was every day. Yeah, I missed Jill so
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 2: much in those moments at that birthday party. All I
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 2: wanted was for Jill to be that I still had fun.
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 2: But I'm just like dude. Yeah, man. Scarlett officially crawled
• 1:44:15
  Speaker 2: at that birthday party for the first time, and lindsay
• 1:44:18
  Speaker 2: yes she did. Lindsay saw it, and I told Lindsay
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 2: and Jeremy. I said, we're gonna lie. We're not gonna
• 1:44:23
  Speaker 2: say shit. She did not crawl, and I'm gonna PLoP
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 2: her on the floor when I get when Jill gets
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 2: home from work tonight and go, whoa, whoa, whoa, who's
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 2: she going? I never seen that? What so she's crawled?
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 2: Are you recorded? Did it work?
• 1:44:41
  Speaker 3: No?
• 1:44:41
  Speaker 2: I couldn't lie to my wife. I was too excited.
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 2: There's the lesson of the week. Don't lie to your way,
• 1:44:48
  Speaker 2: don't lie to your wife, and treat them well. Treat
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 2: them well, treat them well. Don't don't you know I'm
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 2: talking about Ryan? I did? I did have a very
• 1:44:58
  Speaker 2: quick lesson of the week or do we want to wrap? Yeah, dude,
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 2: my mind's uh. Basically, I had that tweet that I
• 1:45:05
  Speaker 2: was very glad that it got a bunch of clicks.
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 2: I don't have a lot of stuff go viral about
• 1:45:09
  Speaker 2: my personal life. I'm a meme guy. I live in
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 2: got a big meme guy and the on name used
• 1:45:13
  Speaker 2: to be CFB Memes. You used to be CEFB Meme Zone.
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 2: And I had something kind of go viral that was
• 1:45:18
  Speaker 2: my own personal life. I was like, oh, that's that's
• 1:45:21
  Speaker 2: actually really cool because it was a great message. We
• 1:45:23
  Speaker 2: went to Smyrna golf Course shout out Smyrna where I
• 1:45:27
  Speaker 2: do uh the first t and volunteer there. We because
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 2: we got kicked out of that golf tea time that
• 1:45:36
  Speaker 2: we had at another place. So I was like, I
• 1:45:38
  Speaker 2: know a golf course where we can just go to
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 2: the practice range and hang out as a family. And
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 2: Scarlet's done up in this bonnet, dude, I'll send picks
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 2: the chef. I mean, cutest little outfit in the entire world.
• 1:45:50
  Speaker 2: And we're sitting there and I see this old man
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 2: standing off to the side, and he is one hundred
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 2: percent watching us, and the way I'm set up like
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 2: hitting balls, I can see him, and I thought that
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 2: he was just watching me because we're the only people
• 1:46:03
  Speaker 2: on that side of the range. I was like, I
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 2: don't have that good of a swing, so I hope
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 2: this guy doesn't come over to like give me swinging
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 2: advice and from my wife and child, like that would
• 1:46:13
  Speaker 2: be embarrassing. And he's like late sixties, early seventies. He
• 1:46:16
  Speaker 2: walks up and he already has tears in his eyes,
• 1:46:19
  Speaker 2: and he's like holding golf clubs and he's standing in
• 1:46:21
  Speaker 2: front of me. I'm like, what is about to happen?
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 2: And he said the part that I quoted that is
• 1:46:28
  Speaker 2: like the lesson of the week is these are the
• 1:46:31
  Speaker 2: you're in the good old days. These are the good
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 2: old days right here. It does not get better than this.
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 2: But he was like, I would write you like a
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 2: check for any amount, a blank check whatever, to be
• 1:46:44
  Speaker 2: in your shoes right now. I got a thirty two
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 2: year old and a thirty five year old and buddy
• 1:46:49
  Speaker 2: with you, like right now, Like that's it, Like this
• 1:46:53
  Speaker 2: is it? It was awesome. It was awesome. I didn't tear
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 2: up in the moment, but I'm tearing up now. Hot
• 1:47:00
  Speaker 2: in hear me, But it's it's fucking hot in here, dude.
• 1:47:02
  Speaker 2: But like just seeing it on his face and then
• 1:47:06
  Speaker 2: me being able to like look at Scarlett and Jill
• 1:47:08
  Speaker 2: like in that moment, I'm like, he's right, like this
• 1:47:12
  Speaker 2: is so cool. How lucky am I? That's it? Hell? Yeah? Crime,
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  Speaker 2: Crime's dumb dude. Oh they're doing the cry trope. Crime's
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  Speaker 2: dumb dude. Yo. What what's your boys name? Brian Newman
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  Speaker 2: Ben Newman, Ben Newman. Quit fucking talking to me, dude,
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying to do it, pad quick crying dun fuck.
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  Speaker 2: Hey that is cool, bro, Oh it was electric. That
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  Speaker 2: is cool. You do you know too? That old man,
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  Speaker 2: he'd be a pet sicko sick o dude.
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  Speaker 3: He was.
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  Speaker 2: He went and started hitting like far away on the
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  Speaker 2: range from us, and I'd see him every now and then,
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  Speaker 2: like looking at our family. You could just see it, dude.
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  Speaker 2: He was like, what do you do to go back? Oh? Yeah,
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