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Ay Por Favor: Mo’ Money, Mo’ (Relationship) Problems · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: I put with Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, Amiga, I haven't seen you in days. I know
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  Speaker 2: I miss you too. Baby.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna snuggle with you for the next two days.
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  Speaker 2: I know what a treat. How is your weekend?
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  Speaker 1: My weekend was good. You know, Mother's Day is always hard,
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  Speaker 1: as it is for you too. You know, yes, it's
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  Speaker 1: a hard day. We don't have our moms, but you
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  Speaker 1: also have a good day because you have children.
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  Speaker 2: So I have you mons.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, so I get to be celebrated, even though I
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  Speaker 3: says is every day of the year, but I do
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  Speaker 3: understand it's the day that they recognize us and they
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  Speaker 3: pat for us, and we get all this extra attention
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  Speaker 3: that we deserve.
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  Speaker 2: I got a little love from my step sons. It
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  Speaker 2: was very sweet. Oh that's very sweet. You have really loved.
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  Speaker 1: They're getting they're getting a little attached to me.
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  Speaker 2: Huh, I like it, mousdam.
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  Speaker 3: That's always a really nice feeling to be loved by
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  Speaker 3: your two step children.
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  Speaker 2: So, yes, amazing, it's really good. We speaking of sons exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of sons, It's no secret that I'm this protective
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  Speaker 2: mama bear and I like you. I'm so proud of
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  Speaker 2: being that kind of a mom.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I have a really good relationship with both
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  Speaker 3: of my sons and it's something that I will always have.
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  Speaker 3: And as a mom, you know, I am concerned about,
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  Speaker 3: you know, the kind of women that my children date,
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  Speaker 3: even though they.
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  Speaker 2: Are of course, and you know what, Mama is always
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  Speaker 2: no best.
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  Speaker 1: We see things coming miles before they even see it, right.
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  Speaker 2: Unfortunately, our moms did, right, we just never them.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, my mom, I know, she's like, you know, in
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  Speaker 3: heaven and she's thinking, you know, you know.
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  Speaker 2: So now I'm doing.
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  Speaker 3: The same thing with my sons, and I want them
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  Speaker 3: to listen to me because you know, I know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm talking about. And yes, So the question is how
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  Speaker 3: do I remain calm? Right, how do I remain calm
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  Speaker 3: when I see Peter dating people that maybe I don't
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  Speaker 3: like or they're not exactly marriage material.
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  Speaker 2: So the answer is I don't remain calm. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: who's got home? Right, my friend? You're seeing me in action? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's what I've been doing.
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  Speaker 3: I'm working on that because you know, I mean, he
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  Speaker 3: is like in his thirties already, and you know, I
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  Speaker 3: just want them to.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of like as a.
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  Speaker 3: Mom, you want to protect them. You don't want them
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  Speaker 3: to make the same mistakes you made.
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  Speaker 2: You don't want them to hurt, right.
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  Speaker 3: And you know in Ma Canala, like you said, you know,
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  Speaker 3: it's kind of like been there, done that, and you
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  Speaker 3: already like see it coming. And I mean, all you
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  Speaker 3: can really do is pray for the best and give
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  Speaker 3: them the best advice that you can. Always know that
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  Speaker 3: you're here for them, that you're the friend, and you know,
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  Speaker 3: no matter what challenges they face and the relationship, that
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  Speaker 3: you're going to be here and listen to them and
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  Speaker 3: help them. And that's kind of like what I'm doing,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and kind of like just letting him being
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  Speaker 3: and figure it out on his own right and just
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  Speaker 3: those lessons himself.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the best way because then he won't repeat,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you know, we have to learn from every mistake.
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  Speaker 2: I know I'm going to repeat.
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  Speaker 3: He's so good and I'm like one, like any woman,
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  Speaker 3: like taking advantage of him. And like I said, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I'm at a point in my life that since because
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  Speaker 3: I've gone through all my life experiences, it's like like
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  Speaker 3: my mom used to say, you have like that clinical
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  Speaker 3: lie that I can spot them am all away and
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  Speaker 3: I want to be like.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, get out of the way up.
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  Speaker 2: No, I mean, you know I think that that's I
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  Speaker 2: think that's normal.
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  Speaker 3: And I think like as a Latina mom, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I think we're maybe a little bit more overbearing or
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  Speaker 3: you know, I think that that's how my parents were
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  Speaker 3: with me. But again it's all like with good intentions,
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  Speaker 3: you know, because you you don't want them to hurt,
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  Speaker 3: You don't want them to suffer, you don't want them
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  Speaker 3: to go through pain, and you know, get a had
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  Speaker 3: like all you know.
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  Speaker 2: Away from them.
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  Speaker 1: Claudaga. Think you know what my mother used to do
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  Speaker 1: with all my boyfriends and husbands. She'd get really close
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  Speaker 1: to them and go to lunch with them and talk
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  Speaker 1: to them on the phone all the time. She spent
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  Speaker 1: more time with them than I did.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I was smart and I was screaming them for you.
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  Speaker 2: She was.
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  Speaker 1: She loved all of them, and but she she thought
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  Speaker 1: they were her.
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  Speaker 2: Boyfriends, right, but did you love them? I'm like oilcle forward,
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  Speaker 2: slow the role. She'd be like telling me what they're thinking,
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  Speaker 2: what they did to them, Like I haven't even heard
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  Speaker 2: from them. Tell you had lunch with them today, Well,
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  Speaker 2: you had a better experience.
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  Speaker 3: And I did that because my mother never liked my boyfriends,
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  Speaker 3: never liked my husband's until like Todd well herman.
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  Speaker 2: It took her a while as well. By the way,
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  Speaker 2: Oh she didn't like them, no, because my mom never
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  Speaker 2: thought that any man wasn't good enough for me.
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  Speaker 1: My mom didn't like mine either, but she wanted to
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  Speaker 1: hang out with them. And I've monat or Da.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I can't tell you, Michael, love is
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  Speaker 2: not that I can do better, and you know, and
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like I'm doing the same
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  Speaker 2: thing with Peter. I always thinking he can do better.
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  Speaker 3: He's had some nice girlfriends that that I that I
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  Speaker 3: have liked and I have approved of, and you know,
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  Speaker 3: I feel we're talking about him right now because you know,
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  Speaker 3: I want to.
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  Speaker 2: Replace to see Peter.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but yeah, no, you know, I think that
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  Speaker 3: if he marries somebody like me, he'll be perfect. So
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  Speaker 3: I'm hoping that you know how they say that you
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  Speaker 3: marry somebody like your mom or dad. I hope that
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  Speaker 3: he finds, you know, all the good qualities and good
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  Speaker 3: traits that I have. You know, I'm not perfect, and
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  Speaker 3: neither is he. But you know, I really hope that
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  Speaker 3: he he learns to, you know, to recognize, you know,
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  Speaker 3: the good traits and you know, the good things that
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  Speaker 3: you look for in a partner so that he can have,
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  Speaker 3: you know, a happy and healthy life and relationship.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm still learning myself.
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  Speaker 3: You know, we never you know, we never stop growing,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, we just want to make our relationships better.
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  Speaker 3: And you know, I really feel that he's you know, matured,
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  Speaker 3: and he's going to you know, to the point that
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  Speaker 3: that he he knows, you know that he knows. And
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  Speaker 3: I'm confident that he's going to marry you know, a
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  Speaker 3: good woman and he's going to be in a good relationship.
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  Speaker 3: But meanwhile, he's having fun and and yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I think as a mom, you just want your kids
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  Speaker 3: to be happy. But at the same time, it's kind
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  Speaker 3: of like, Okay, I want you to be happy, bitter
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  Speaker 3: or you know, you you know, because it's kind of
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  Speaker 3: like I never had daughters, so I want, you know,
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  Speaker 3: when that moment comes, you know, I want to you know,
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  Speaker 3: halfier in my life.
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  Speaker 2: I want to be part of my life. And that's
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  Speaker 2: why you can't be I think like sometimes when you
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  Speaker 2: tell your kids like no, no, no, that's when they
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  Speaker 2: really want it, right, because that's what they're doing to me,
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  Speaker 2: Like they were approve of any of my guys. So
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  Speaker 2: it's like and you know me, prove wrong and then
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  Speaker 2: I really wanted to date them. So I'm learning from that.
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  Speaker 3: Actually, I'm learning a lot from Todd, because Todd is like,
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  Speaker 3: you know what, you have to like start saying yes,
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  Speaker 3: because when you stay there you say yes, you know
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  Speaker 3: then he he won't want it. It's kind of like
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  Speaker 3: when you go against Delgray with time. Right, that's a
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  Speaker 3: really good point. So I'm working on that, and I
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  Speaker 3: think we're we've gone to that point that I'm like, oh, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 3: well when you're really serious and then you know, we'll
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  Speaker 3: talk about it and I'll screen them.
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  Speaker 1: It's that that train of thought, Like I mean, for me,
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  Speaker 1: any time anyone has told me no, that's when I
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  Speaker 1: excel the most because I have to prove to you
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  Speaker 1: that you are wrong and that no is not in
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  Speaker 1: my language for me.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I want to think that out our age.
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  Speaker 2: You know what. I don't want to learn anymore. I've
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  Speaker 2: learned everything about to learn I've had like really tough
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  Speaker 2: life lessons.
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  Speaker 1: I mean in every in every scenario that if someone
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  Speaker 1: says to me, now, that's not going to happen and
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  Speaker 1: you can't do I'm like, you know, doahawd, right, I
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  Speaker 1: guess I gave them poo handle, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, anybody, it's going to be that mama bear and
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  Speaker 2: and I like it.
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  Speaker 1: And you're that sister bear too.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I'm trying not to be a helicopter mom because
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  Speaker 3: that's a little different, and I think it is already
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  Speaker 3: obviously my kids already at an age that you know,
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  Speaker 3: you can only like be their friend and be there
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  Speaker 3: for them, and you're not going to dictate I bone,
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  Speaker 3: you know, kind of like you know, impose on them
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  Speaker 3: what you want, like they have to figure it out
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  Speaker 3: on their own. But I would want, you know, to
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  Speaker 3: obviously approve of that person when the day comes. You know,
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  Speaker 3: it's both ways, because I feel like our children too
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  Speaker 3: want to like the man that work with or you know,
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  Speaker 3: whatever partner is that we select. You know, they want
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  Speaker 3: to also have a relationship and want to have a
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  Speaker 3: say in that. So I think we all need to
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  Speaker 3: be respectful, you know, of each other, and you know
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  Speaker 3: and hopefully, you know, find that person where both sides
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  Speaker 3: are good and you know, and everybody's happy and everybody
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  Speaker 3: can get along.
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  Speaker 1: It's not easy, but yeah, especially in a blended family. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I got lucky that I didn't bring anything but dogs
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  Speaker 1: to my relationship. That's so much easier, my friend, and
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  Speaker 1: it's a lot easier, and you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, yeah, see, yeah, I see you brought like two dogs.
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  Speaker 3: They count for like ten kids because you're your dogs
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  Speaker 3: are sweet and.
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  Speaker 2: Loving, but there are a lot of work. You didn't
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  Speaker 2: train them either, so no, they're.
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  Speaker 1: A little naughty and they seem to feel like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the whole house is their toilet, the entire house is
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  Speaker 1: their big one.
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  Speaker 2: By pad, Sorry, I mean to use that word. It
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  Speaker 2: sounds better when you use that effort though.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I guess a little more good.
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  Speaker 3: I always say that that's like the best word in
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  Speaker 3: the English language. That word in Spanish, we don't have
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  Speaker 3: that equivalent. It's really good to say that effort doesn't
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  Speaker 3: match all. No talking about relationships toxics.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you've been open.
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  Speaker 3: You've been pretty open about past relationships that you've had
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  Speaker 3: in the past that have given to be toxic.
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  Speaker 2: And yeah, I had a feel. I had a feel.
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  Speaker 3: No, I mean, so we can all kind of say that,
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  Speaker 3: But the most important thing is that now you're in
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  Speaker 3: a loving and healthy relationship and you've learned from that
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  Speaker 3: and you know how to recognize that.
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  Speaker 2: I know when it's good and when it's not good, right,
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  Speaker 2: And yeah, I mean, I mean, I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes I think I got lucky, But I also think
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  Speaker 1: that I put a lot of mental work into it,
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  Speaker 1: not so much manifesting. But you know, I've been through
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  Speaker 1: all of those toxic traits that everyone does in a breakup,
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  Speaker 1: you know, blame yourself, What did I do wrong?
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  Speaker 2: What could have done better? Is it my fault? How
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  Speaker 2: do I fix it?
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  Speaker 1: I've thought of all of those things, and all that
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  Speaker 1: does is make you crazy. It makes you more and
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  Speaker 1: more crazy.
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  Speaker 2: You're not the problem that the guy was the right
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  Speaker 2: well yeah, yeah, but I don't like the problem too,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, because if you're feeling that, you kind
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  Speaker 2: to kind of have to work on yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Right and you want to assess where did it go wrong?
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  Speaker 1: How did I plan to this? But sometimes we drive
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  Speaker 1: ourselves crazy and we don't let go because we're still
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  Speaker 1: beating ourselves up about something that's not even in an
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  Speaker 1: existence anymore.
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  Speaker 2: It's moved on. And what do you think?
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  Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of women right and I
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  Speaker 3: can relate to you right, like you look for these
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  Speaker 3: kind of men. I don't know if they're like daddy
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  Speaker 3: issues or they have something to do with our you know,
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  Speaker 3: psychological past. You know, we look for these guys that
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  Speaker 3: we know the signs are there, and we just like
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  Speaker 3: want to fix them, right, And it's.
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  Speaker 2: God, we're fixers. It's like a sientific project, you know, like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: let's fix them.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody's in a hurry to have the fairy tale that
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  Speaker 1: we see in the movies, and reality isn't always a
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  Speaker 1: fairy tale. And then we hurry up into things that
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  Speaker 1: maybe we shouldn't. We ignore red flags, then we end
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  Speaker 1: up in a bad situation. Then we blame ourselves. We
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: make ourselves sick. We lose three hundred pounds, you know
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  Speaker 1: that my face to me, maybe twelve pounds, ten pounds eat.
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  Speaker 2: Not everybody loses weight.
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  Speaker 1: So I know some people, it's just some people out
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  Speaker 1: of anxiety. Me I get skeletal and I beat myself
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  Speaker 1: up today. But you know, I got to a really
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  Speaker 1: low point, as you know, because you were there with
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  Speaker 1: me in a past relationship. And it wasn't until I
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  Speaker 1: was alone. I isolated myself at home and because I
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  Speaker 1: really didn't want to be around people, I was pretty down.
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  Speaker 1: And I started looking at Instagram and I started following
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  Speaker 1: all these motivational little you know, pages, and one of
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  Speaker 1: them stuck with me. It was like, if you feel
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  Speaker 1: something negative, you have to cancel it that thought immediately
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  Speaker 1: cancel it and replace it with a thought of gratitude.
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  Speaker 2: Anything in your life that you can be grateful for anything.
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  Speaker 1: So if I was in the air conditioning having a
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  Speaker 1: cup of coffee and be like, I'm so grateful for
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  Speaker 1: my cup of coffee sitting in this air conditioning.
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  Speaker 2: I'm healthy, I have.
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  Speaker 1: A car in my driveway, I have a roof over
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  Speaker 1: my head. I just thought of any little thing and
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  Speaker 1: the energy started shifting, it started changing. It became a
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  Speaker 1: mantra every day, every day, every day. And it didn't
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  Speaker 1: happen over now. But once I started doing that, I
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  Speaker 1: saw that my energy change and then I was attracting
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  Speaker 1: better things for me because I was a different person.
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  Speaker 3: That's so important, because I feel like misery likes misery.
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  Speaker 2: So when you're in a bad.
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  Speaker 3: State in your life and you attract, attract bad so
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  Speaker 3: it's like a pattern and then you have to like
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  Speaker 3: you said, you did the right thing, my friend, and
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  Speaker 3: I know, I was by side and I saw you, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, and I saw you working on yourself.
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  Speaker 2: And that's such yea.
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  Speaker 3: That's for me, the most positive thing about Instagram, by
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  Speaker 3: the way, which is those motivational and life coaches and
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  Speaker 3: you know, sometimes you need to hear it and you
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  Speaker 3: need to read it and like you said, you know,
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  Speaker 3: working on yourself, because I feel like a lot of
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  Speaker 3: women fall into the cycle because they're.
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  Speaker 2: In a bad mental state. And that's unfortunately.
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  Speaker 3: When you're attract, when you're in a good space and
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  Speaker 3: you have peace and you have love and things are
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  Speaker 3: flourishing in your life and you're happy, you attract you know,
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  Speaker 3: somebody good and you recognize it because you know that's
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  Speaker 3: the other things. You know, sometimes you're they come into
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  Speaker 3: your life, you know, good people, your men, but you're
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  Speaker 3: so like messed up at that moment that you don't want.
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  Speaker 2: That in your life.
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  Speaker 1: You want like lolao, So like, well, you can't deciphe
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  Speaker 1: for it because you're yourself are so negative, and it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't happen overnight. It didn't happen overnight. I was doing
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  Speaker 1: this daily and then I felt less awful. I could
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  Speaker 1: sleep a little bit more through the night, I could
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  Speaker 1: eat a little bit more. I was like, Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 1: feeling a little better. I'm feeling a little better.
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  Speaker 2: Doing it more, doing it more, doing it more, until
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  Speaker 2: finally I felt good.
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  Speaker 1: I could go out. I hung out with friends, I
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: went on some dates, felt good. Kept doing it, kept
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: doing it, and now it's just something I do every day,
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: no matter what. It's like, brushing your teeth or taking
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: a bath. It's just a daily habit. And I find
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: that the more I do that, the more positive things
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  Speaker 1: are coming to me. It's like a magnet.
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  Speaker 3: And I mean Gamino a good man and a good
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  Speaker 3: relationship that they were able to like recognize and say
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  Speaker 3: this is what I want, you know, sometimes stuck in
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  Speaker 3: that right, It's.
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  Speaker 1: Like, but I also was a healthy mind and a
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  Speaker 1: healthy human being that he was attracted to a good
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  Speaker 1: man was attracted me because I was healthy, cut my own,
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  Speaker 1: without kids, without a family, without anything, just me myself
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: by myself, was okay with me and loving myself right, so.
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: Truthually, you have to save yourself. It's like nobody's going
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: to save you.
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: And you know we're not mother Teresa or a Saint
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: Johnie mean to have to you know, save anyone. Yes,
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: you can help them, you know, once you love the person,
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: and you know we help each other and as friends
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: in a relationship, but basically you know you have to
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: save yourself.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm done with like saving people.
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: You know, it's like it's like your husband and your family,
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: like your children, but you know what I mean, It's
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: like I'm not you know, I'm not about.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: To save anyone like that's it. I've done it.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: I'm saving in my life and now like it's kind
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: of like I want to be saved and I am
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, because like you said, we've
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: worked on it, like on our own to be in
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: a good a good place in our in our lives,
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: in our relationship, mentally.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Healthy, and only you can do. There's one we can't
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: control anything in our lives. We can't control when we're
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: gonna die, we're gonna get a car accident or you know,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: get ill. But what we can control is our thoughts
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: and our Thoughts are huge. They can change any scenario,
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: any mood. And how you accept good news bad news,
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: you know, it's it's all how you process it.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: Thoughts are ever. I'm so proud of you.
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: Thanks bro Well. I learned a lot from me too.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: You know, you've been through a lot. I used to
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: say to myself, if she can do it, you can
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: do it, Marisol, and you ain't gonna dig We did,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: and we did just now and now we're sharing what
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: we've learned with the world so everyone can have a
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: better life.
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: You know, sometimes it's hard right to you know, to
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: put you know, it sounds like, you know, oh, everything's great,
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: and and it is, you know, and we're happy, but
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: you know, it takes thought out of work and and
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: you you have to want it. And that's and and
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: this is like everything we've learned, like throughout our life.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: We've also maturial lot. You know, I think it's so
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: many factors. It's just not like you wake up one
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: day and like you know, it happens overnight.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Speaking of relationships, you know, I'm obsessed.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: With j Loo and you know it's Ben jal So
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: speaking of relationships, there are a lot of talks about right,
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Jennifer and Ben and their relationship.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I mean, there are two very public people that kind
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: of want to live a private life, and you know,
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: and does she want to live a part of life
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: she doesn't want to live a private life? Well, I
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: mean she's already out the limelight.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: She's always loved a lime life, but now she's married
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: to somebody that is is not thinking that. He does
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: not feel comfortable, you know, being in the limelight like
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: he does as an actor, because.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: That is his job and that's what he loves to do.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: But I think in his personal life he wants nothing
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: to do with this.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: But I feel like the press, you know, the narrative
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: that they're that they're portraying is that they're continually fighting
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: all the time.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Do you believe that's it? Are you buying that? Are
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: you believing it?
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I mean I tried to think to myself, do I
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: even remember what he was like with John Gardner or
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: any of those other relationships with anybody observing if he
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: was grumpy all the time.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna lie. He looks really.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Unhappy, even at his you know, nuptials, this honeymoon. He
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: always looks really anything with.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Him not drinking anymore. So he's like a dry drunk
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: and he's like he's not drinking anymore.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean that's that's what I read. I mean,
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: you know, it's no secret that you know, he had
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: to drink. No, I mean she doesn't, she drinks socially.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: But I feel like with him, he did give up
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: you know, alcohol because he was like a bad drunk
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: and then.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Now I couldn't handle it. Yeah, so you know, I.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: Don't know if that has something to do with it
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: or I mean, also think of it, my friend, these
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: are two people with these two bigger like who has
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: a bigger ego?
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: It's like two people with.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Huge egos and they're like in the same household. So
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: have these two people just you know, go home with
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: their daily lives because.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: It's it's it's I often think about it.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's hard when you're famous to
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: be with someone also that's famous, because it's kind of
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: almost like a competition who's doing better who's not.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I haven't been in that kind of situation.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: It can't be easy. Or maybe they're great together.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: They feed off of each other, they lift each other up,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: but then sometimes you just need someone that just supports
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: you and doesn't have anything to do with that.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, these two new I mean there's no
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: secret between them.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: I mean when they got together the second time around,
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: they knew exactly, you know, who they are and what
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: they were bringing to the marriage.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: And you know, they knew the problems, you know, from before.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: You know, I thought maybe after so many years there
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: had been a lot of maturing and girls and they
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: were at a good place in their lives, both of them.
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: They knew what they didn't want, what hadn't work before,
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: would work now. And that's what that's what I'm really
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: hoping for, because you know, I don't I don't like
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: to judge people's relationship by a picture of like a
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: moment that they saw so basically myself that you know,
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: they see Ben always grumpy, but you know, maybe he
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: doesn't like the cameras, he doesn't like the proparazzi following him.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: I mean, they're obviously in the wrong city. You know,
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: they're in Los Angeles, so of course they're going to
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: get that.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: But you know, I mean, think about it, they're followed
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: up by the proparazzi all the time.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's really knowing my friend, it is, but
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: also knowing that and he knows that he looks grumpy.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: You'd think that, but it's good, you know what.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: I respect, but it's not going to put on a
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: smile and a happy face just so they don't talk, you.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Know, about.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Me.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: It's a terrible way to live, but you know, I
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: respect them.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: He doesn't care, you know, And unfortunately all they do
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: is I continue to follow him, and you know what,
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: They're not going to get a smile out of him
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: because he's not.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: Going to do it.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, do you think at this point he's just
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: not smiling because he wants to just keep it going
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: like he doesn't care.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: And that's it, Like I'm not going to smile because
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: then you're going to say fake smiling. Right, Well, I
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: mean a Rod was laughing all the time and from
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: a smile from here to here, and you know, I'm
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: very you know, he wasn't very happy either, and neither
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: was she. So it's.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: No, that's that's what I'm saying that just like a
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: picture like doesn't anything right because.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: It's like, I mean, who loved more bread carper moment
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: than a Rod? Right?
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: And and Jlo and for that matter, you know, they
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: had all these problems you know, behind the scene.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: That nobody was looking, that nobody knew or was talking
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: about until it did.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: So you you think it's because he's sober and it
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: doesn't agree with him.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: No, I think it's a combination of things. I think
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: that you know, he's he's not that guy, and he
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: never really has been. You know, he doesn't like the spotlight,
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: you know, only when he's directing the movie or starring
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: in the movie or one of his award shows. And
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: and Jail obviously has lived her life differently in the
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: spot life and enjoying it. But you know, at the
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: end of the day, they just have to learn how
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: to separate, you know, their that life and their their
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: life at home, you know, with one another as a couple.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: But I'm just like, I don't know. I really want
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: them to work out. I really want I mean, this
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: is like her what fourth of marriage? Ready? I think fourth?
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: What do you think? Do you think it's gonna work out?
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: I don't. I mean, I don't know.
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: I'm not I don't go to bed with them, and
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: I don't I mean, I know, I'm there, you know,
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: I'm sitting here, and you know, they're making a narrative
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: about me and my relationship behind my back, right, But
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: think about it, every couple, every married couple, goes.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Through this Marasol. I mean, I don't know. He looks
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: consistently miserable, he really does. And let me ask you something.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Have you noticed that every time they catch him being miserable,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: like she does like a pr move and has straight
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: up and smile.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: She's at them and that you love me.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a vessel, pretend you love me?
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: Does something?
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: Well, there's there's definitely something there obviously, and they love
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: each other. But I feel that they're having a hard
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: time when they go out in public, perhaps and Miami, I.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Will ask her, why don't you go home with them
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: and get in bed with them like Freud and see
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: if you can figure this out?
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: Oh god, no, I don't know how that would. So
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: I don't know about that. It's a little more complicated.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: But I mean, even in the red carpet, think about it,
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: the red carpets that we've done, even with talk, Todd
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: doesn't like to take pictures on the red carpet. That
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: makes them feel uncomfortable. But he's a professional. You think
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: you can pull a smile on a red carpet, so
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: you're in the red carpet. Listen. I guess he's an actor,
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: it doesn't matter, but he's not acting. This is real.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: This is a real moment.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: And by the way, by the way, because I've been
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: under that stress, right, because I'm a real person and
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: I'm in the red carpet moment. You know, sometimes my
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: kids go with us to the events. So I'm worried
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: about Frankie, worried about Peter. I'm worried, Oh my god,
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: they're there, Like did they come in? Did they know
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: where we're acting? So your head's all over the place.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: And these are these are real human beings as well.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: You have tea people.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: They're not only an actress and an actor, you know,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: they they come from from They have problems at home,
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: they leave the house.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: You know, the stress of getting ready for a red
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: carpet moment.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Is a lot.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: I don't think Ben's that stress when he's getting ready
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: for a red carpet.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: Jennifer probably stresses.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Him out, stresses him out.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: She wants it to be perfect. She wanted her to
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: be perfect, and is you know, outfu to be perfect.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: So she said, wait, Yeayesa, and he's not because he
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: really doesn't care about that. He really doesn't care for
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: a lot.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: So I get.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: That's an he's an actor and he could act at
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: least on a red carpet and smile a little bit.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: He's he's he's he's the one driving this this narrative.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: So you're blaming him.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: Then you think that he should just say, I'm saying,
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: reality TV star, I don't think you should smile, that
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: he should be faking it.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: He could muster a smile. He's an actor.
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: Well, I appreciate his authenticity on him being so real
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: and him not giving a shit and giving us something
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: to talk about, because that's why we're here talking about it.
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: But anyways, I could really relate to them because I
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: know those red carpet moments are stressful and it takes
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: a lot to get ready for, you know, to get
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: the whole family together, the.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: Family be there, you're worried about them, what's going to
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: happen later? And you know, And that's what it is.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: I mean, in my eyes and my perspective, that's what
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: it is. I think people are just fascinated with talking.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: About other people. Just if we are right now talking
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: about them and some people are going to defend them
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: and the haters are safe. This is a fascinating topic
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: for sure.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: I mean, she obviously loves something about him because she's
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: still there, and you know, she's very quick about pulling
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: the trigger.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: So if she.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Wouldn't be happy, and just like if he wouldn't be happy,
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: they're both you know, growing ass adults, and they can
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: go their own very way and they'll be just fine.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: I think they must have like a major printup she
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: I mean, she's tell them money than him, Yeah, so
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: she should have a greenup. He's produced a lot of
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: big movies.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: Doesn't matter if she has a whole empire, So I
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: hope she really hasn't. I mean, I think for both
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: of them, the smart move obviously is to have a
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: greenup because they're both very wealthy people.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: But at this point, I think she has more money
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: than him. Could be who knows.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: In addition to all the pressures that they have as
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: a couple, they also have their blended family. You know,
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: he has three children from his previous marriage. She has
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: her twins which are full time with her. I mean,
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: it's it's it's a lot of pressure. Honestly, I'm going
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: to give them a break because it's a lot.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And besides, I mean you know that she's like
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: my girl crushed, So I know you love her everything. Fact,
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: but I will I will rest here because I know
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: that you love her so much. Yeah, you know, I
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: think it's women.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: I mean women always like like try to like to
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: criticize her and put her down and whatever, and I don't.
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: I think that I have a lot of set for
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: her because she's you know, she's done so much, you know,
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: with her life, and she had like all the odds
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: against her, and I think as a Latina she kind
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: of like opens up the market for the latina's with
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: her movie Selena.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: With Selena, and you know, she's done so much. So
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: I really have a lot of respect for her. Yeah,
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: she's listened. She's a hard worker. She's super dedicated and focused. Definitely. Well,
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: speaking of hard workers, how do you feel about Taylor Swift?
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Because Taylor is another one that works her a little
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: bit off, and she also stays very busy with all
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: her relationships, right.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: So she just that she's like jail. She goes from
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: one to another. She never has a break, that's right, Yeah,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: And how do you feel about that?
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: No? I mean I feel like she gets really good
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: music from it.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: So you know, we're happy every time she moves on
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: to another relationship because she's going to sing about it.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: And I love her music. And are you're a tailor?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Oh you're a Taylor Swift fan.
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a Taylor Swift fan too. I think she's
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: she's really great. And Todd went to her concert and
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: she said she was amazing in Dallas. She's a great
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: entertainer and performer and everything.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'm like Queen of Rebounds.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: You've known me long enough to know that I don't
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: like to be two minutes by myself, and I always
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: jump into something without thinking about it, like right, I get.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Married and even.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just like Taylor, just like JA, just like Elizabeth Taylor.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Speaking of Taylor, right, I you know that's my thing.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: And life is short and I'm all about you know,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: living in the moment. And you know there's no guarantee
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: that if she sits home and waits a year or
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: two years, that that's going to be the rest relationship.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: Of course, people like to put like an expert, you know,
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: like a date, like when is it okay for you
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: to you should write on your next relationship?
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: Is there like like a period of time that you
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: need to take between one breakup and your next relationship.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I mean people say it's healthy to do that. I
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: don't do that, but you know, because I know how
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: short life is, and I want to live. I want
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: to live every moment. And if I make a mistake,
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: I'll make a mistake and I'll learn from it.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: But I want to live, you know.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: And like I said, there's no guarantee that if you
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: sit at home and wait six months or a year
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: to move on to your next relationship, that that's a
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: full proof you know, that's the full proof way to go,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: and that guarantees that your next relationship is going to
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: be amazing, you know, like you have to work on yourself,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: like we said before.
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: Right, And I mean I think it also must be
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: so difficult for her. I mean, she's a mega superstar.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: She's thirty two years old, and she's at the peak
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: of her career. So can you imagine how heart it
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: must be for her to find someone that is not
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: really you know, just being with her because she's Taylor
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: Swift and may have you know, other motives and just
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: like liking her and being with her.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: So you know, she keeps dating other celebrities and I know,
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: you know, but I don't know any of the guys
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: that she's doing well. That's that's going to be difficult, right,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: So do you think that she's.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: Better off with just like a normal guy that is
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: not in the same world as her, or do you
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: think that that it would work better with somebody you
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: see she's like the opposite, Like so for example, Ben
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: and j Lo, you said that you don't think you.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Know that that would work out. Here's the thing.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's better to be with someone
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: that's also in your career and then maybe feels bad
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: about himself because you're doing better and he's not, or
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: if you're better off being with someone like I am
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: with Steve who does nothing to do with television, super supportive,
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: has nothing to do and it doesn't care, just wants
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: me to win. So you know, I don't know. You know,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: look at Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson. They've been together forever,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: they're both in the same career. They support each other.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't. I don't believe Goldie
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: and yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Whats his name? Boldihan's husband. Uh well, I mean there's
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: a few of them in Hollywood. There's been a few,
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: you know, success stories.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: You know, we're both the man and the woman have
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: both been big you know, actors and actresses, and the
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: had a beautiful life together.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: And but there's also been occasions where people on movie
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: sets cheat and then look what happened with Angeline and
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Brad or Joanne Woodward and Paul Newman. They split up
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: marriages right meeting on seck with other rights.
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: So let's thank god, thank god we don't have that
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: risk because we're so I know, I thought we don't
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: have that exactly.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: Thank god that.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: Doesn't happen in our show, but it apparently happens on
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: other really reality TV shows like Random Hunt Poules.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: So, but yeah, Todd and Steven have enough to worry,
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: nothing to worry about. I don't know what the answer is,
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: my friend, you know, I don't know. I don't know.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: I think that because they're like pool of dating their
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: dating pool is so small, you know, and they're like
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: in Los Angeles and they're all over the world, and
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: like they're like around other celebrities.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: It's kind of like normal for them.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: So you can't even really blame them because these are
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: the people that they hang out with, like this is
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: who they're exposed to.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: So and then they get it where they have to
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: take off at a minute's notice or they can afford
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: to meet them, because you know, it's also you know,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: I like.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: To think that it would work because you know, I
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: think that a celebrity gets another celebrity, or at least
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: they get their lifestyle, and they respect each other as
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: like talent and their work ethics. So you know, I
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: want to think in my head that that would work
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: better than someone that comes from a completely different world.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: But then again, somebody that does come from a completely
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: different world, like you said, would support it. Maybe it
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: doesn't know too much about it, so therefore there's no.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Conflict back like shine maybe help you, but then they're
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: more into yeah, but.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: That gets more into sometimes it depends, you know, Well,
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: so she's very young.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: She's very young, and she's beautiful and talented, and you
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: know she's I don't think she's going to have ever
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: a problem with finding a guy, whether he's a celebrity
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: or a normal guy.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: And she's also no I also around. The hardest time
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: is keeping them because she goes from one to the other.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: But she's grown up in the limelight kind of like
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Britney and Christina. Even even Madonna started when she was
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: really young. I think it's very hard for them when
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: they grow up around that to keep somebody because they
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: just live such a different life and they're so regimented
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: and they're in you know, they're they're all their things.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: They're very super focused and hyper focused and don't have
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: a lot to give to a relationship sometimes or maybe
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: they have too much to get right or they expect
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: too much from the people around them because they expect
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: so much from themselves.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well she has time to figure it out because
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: she's still very young. Yeah, but do you think that
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: she should be criticized like that she's moving on, like
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: from a new man, you know, after six years.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: I mean you want to think that if you've been
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: with somebody for six years.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: I think that when something like that happens, my friend,
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: is because you moved on a long time ago, Like
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: even though you just broke up or one of them,
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: you break it, your breakup. It means kind of like
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: you haven't been present, you know what I mean? Because
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: how can you be so in love with somebody and
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: just break up and like a week later, like be
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: dating somebody else.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: So does that lead you to believe that she was
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: the one that instigated the breakup because she's already moved
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: on somebody.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: Oh so I didn't hear anything about that. I think
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: it was something mutual. I feel like sometimes the celebrities
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: don't announce, you.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: Know, exactly what to happen, right, So I'm sure this
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: is the thing for months. Yeah, we don't even know
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: what the right time is. You know, for all week.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: There could have been broken up, you know, personally between
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: them six months ago and now publicly they just announced it.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: I was going to say that why always in my head? Yes,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: you know, like I said before, just do your rebounds
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: and have fun and live your life, you know along
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: the way, you know, exactly right. Yeah, we said this
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: last week, we did, the best way to get over
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: someone is to.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: Get under someone new. Of course, that's like I will.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: The English version. Yes, yeah, yeah, all right, Taylor, good
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: luck to you with your new guy. We want to
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: see a wedding girl and.
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: We want to we want to listen to a new song.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: I'm sure it will be like another number one hit.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Well, speaking of.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Speaking of breakups, Oh my god, I saw this coming.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Did you see this coming? Kim Zola Verly?
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: Anti Cohen didn't see it coming. Anti, there was such
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: a loving couple.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: Well, Auntie was really in shock that that Kim and
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: her husband were going to a divorce. He said he
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: would have never ever seen something like that coming because
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: they were so loving to each other. There were so
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: many to each other. He had adopted her kids, her daughters.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: So the truth is that you never really.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Know my friend.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: Actually, when they first got together and she kept having
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: all the babies and they were living like hi, I
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: thought that money's going to run out one day because
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: he's not going to play football forever and they're spending
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: a lot and she's having a lot of kids, and
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: I kept thinking, there's going to be a problem down
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: the road, there's going to be Well, you know me,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: I'm very prudent with my cash. So I started spending
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: and I saw all the babies.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: And I thought, oh boy, this is not going to
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: end with But I mean, they only had a home
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: that was one point six million dollars.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: It's not like about a ten million dollar mansion. She
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: was working too, But she was working too. What about
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: her money? She was making good money too.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: She stopped working and he stopped working, and I guess
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: I couldn't keep I mean, but they both right, So say,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, somebody has to work. Well, we all knew
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: the show wasn't gonna last prover and he couldn't play
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: football forever.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: And those are a lot of kids that aren't gonna.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: Actually there were going careers that were very short term, temporary.
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and they didn't plant it that way.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: But do you think it's like, okay, we don't know
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: at this point that why they're getting divorced. But I
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: do want to add that the financial problems in a
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: relationship are general one caused, you know, besides g I
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: think the financials, you know, financial problems are way up there.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: And so those are the two reasons that usually happens
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: financially also too.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: Like in slows and other factors, but usually the two
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: strongest is is that you know, the infidelity and financial problems.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: But do you think that's okay?
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: I mean, would you ever be if if your man
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: was going through financial troubles, would you abandon in him?
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: I think you're stronger together. I would work work with
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: him because I'm a hustler and I always know how
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: to figure out how to make money and do things,
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: and I would, you know, it's I would stay with
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: my partner and work it out with him. You know,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: together we could do more than separate.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: Saying that's why you're my mega, that's why you're my
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: friend role because I think exactly like you. Actually, I
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: had this conversation with Todd last night and I said,
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: I want to hope that there's something more than financial problems,
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: because like that's pretty shitty, you know, just because like
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: you're losing everything now and your own money to the
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: irs and blah blah blah, that you just like, you know,
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: abandon each other, because like you said, it's a time
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: where you need to really, you know, get together to
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: be a team and work it out and work it
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: out at least to just come up from that, right
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: And I felt like it's so sad that they loved
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: each other so much and there were such a beautiful family.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: And really were a beautiful fan. Yes, you know and
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: they I.
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: Remember seeing her at portious wedding port Yeah. Yeah, She's
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: always so sweet and beautiful. And it was really at
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: that point I didn't know anything. And then you know,
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: this is not even a year later, six eight months later,
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: and we find out about this. And I'm always really
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: excited to hear about these kind of breakups, especially but
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: there's children involved.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: It just breaks my heart and I just I just
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: want to like preempt what I was saying before.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I was I never thought that they would split, but
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I knew they were going to end up in some
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: big financial trouble. That's what I saw early on. I
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: was like, that is a lot of overspending, a lot
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: of children, and both careers are very temporary. I saw
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: a financial problem. I really didn't think they'd split up
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: because they.
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: Look I mean financial, financial problems to split up people,
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: of course, but you know, you never really.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Know, like what happens behind the scenes.
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: But I guess after they announced they're split, you know,
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: I think he's asking for full custody, soul, custody of
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: the children, and I think she is as well.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: So they're like in a really bad place. And again.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: Left the little they have left they're going not spending
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: in courtrooms and they shouldn't.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: They need to figure that out. No, I mean hopefully
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: they don't.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: Hopefully they can get past this and you know, look
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: at the the bigger picture and say, okay, like there's
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: there's no money here, and usually divorces get messy when
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: there's money. But there's no money here. They actually have
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: a lot of debt. So at this point, I don't know,
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: you know, what the outcome is going to be. But
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: it really upset me to read.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: This, you know, and to find out how this very sad.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's just there's so little those kids.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because there's at this point, since there's no money
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: as far as the divorce goes, now it's becoming a
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: custody battle, and that's even more sad because you know,
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: you don't you want to protect your children.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's going to play out in the press, it's
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: going to cost a lot of money. It's only gonna
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: make things more toxic.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: But do you think so we I mean, we've already
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: established that they lived above their means. But I feel
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: like there's a lot of people, you know, in the
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: celebrity world, I mean even in the regular.
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: World that you know about their means, right, But in
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: this case.
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: We're talking about like hot topics what everybody else is
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: talking about right now. And you know, these are two
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: people that are public figures as well and are going
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: through this, you know, divorce publicly, and all these allegations
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: are remade about their finances and about you know, their
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: custody battle. So I.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know what the outcome will be, and I'm
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: sure they don't know either.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: I mean, there's like all this money that's old to
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: the irs and their house was in foreclosure. They have
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: a one point six million dollar mansion in Atlanta and
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: the loan was in default.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: And yeah, after that.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Great house, we should go scoop it up. That was
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: a good one.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: You move to Atlanta? No, we can.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: I have like a winter home. You want to split
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: winter home?
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: Looking for a winter home, I prefer my friend.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: I do want to see a change of weather. But
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: it gets a little cool there, it's nice.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: Do you know anybody that's losing their home and aspen
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: because I rather have a place.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I'm sure there's people all over it.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't. God, it's terrible, okay, know it is,
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: But truthfully, I'm not looking at my home in Atlanta.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: I have to say, my heart hurts. I feel bad
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: for her and her sweet family. It was such a cute.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: It is a cute, beautiful little family. You know.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: I'll send them some good energy and hope they figure
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: it out and get back on their feet. Mm hmm.
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: Okay, So speaking of that, like if I can't help
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: to think about Kim and feel like, you know, she
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: was part of the show of the Housewives and also
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: with her own show, you know, Don't be Chardy for
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: the Party. Do you think that maybe the show made her,
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: like gave her this pressure where she needed to keep
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: spending money and you know, living large, because you know,
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: that's what we're like showing on TV. You know, we're
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: showing like this fabulous, glamorous life, you know, filled with money,
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: filled with material things, and and I don't know, do
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: you think that that got to her head and she
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: felt like that pressure like this is who I am,
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: and like I need to continue doing this, and she
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: just kept on getting.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: And I don't you don't know her, and I can't
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: speak for her, but I've been watching her from the beginning,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: and she always had a taste for expensive and luxury
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: and always figured it out.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: So, uh, you know, I don't know, for example, for
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: you do you think the show makes you feel that way?
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: So I was going to say, I have to keep
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: spending I personally that you know, I do my own thing.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: I don't do anything special or extra for the show.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: My house is my home, My things are my things,
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: and you know I have nice things. What I live
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: way below my means. I'm very cautious. But you know
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: that's not everybody. So some people probably do show up
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: for the show. I don't, you know, it's different. I
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: don't know if she did. Maybe she did.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: I think they thought the money was never going to end,
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: and so they spent like it wasn't going.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so general is I feel like celebrities
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: and her case, you know, being on a show and
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: him being an athlete, which is kind of like a
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: celebrity too because we glorify them.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: And with that being said, it's like they think it's
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: never going to stop.
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: But it's kind of like they're they're stuck in that
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: and so okay, well next year I'm going to get
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: a bigger deal, or you know, my show is going to.
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: Be picked up. For next season, counting on money that
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: still hasn't been the bank, and you're already spending it
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: hasn't been to come in exactly. Well, I mean, I'm
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: sorry that we've talked about all these couples that, you know,
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: yeah today, I know, because I don't like to you know,
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: I'm very positive and honestly, I really want, you know,
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: everybody to be happy and you know, and to be
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: successful and to be making money. But you know, this
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: is reality.
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: I mean it's really you know, when you're in a relationship,
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: you know, there's ups and downs, and you know, it's
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: kind of just like figuring it out, and you know
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: how much is too much?
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: You know, And hopefully I don't think that there's any
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: kind of reconciliation between these two. I mean, for now,
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: it doesn't sound like it's very good.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: Down the line, when they move on and have new
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: relationships and the kids are a little older, they'll do parties.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: And things together and everything will be fine. You know
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: how that happens. It just takes a little time for
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: everybody to get it settled, move on and life resumes. Yeah,
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: they'll be okay, I hope.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: So, because you know, especially like I said, there's kids involved,
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: and you know, they're kind.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: Of like, gosh, they've gone their children used to this lifestyle,
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: you know, and that's the only lifestyle they know.
• 45:52
  Speaker 5: I know that the daughters are older now, but you know,
• 45:56
  Speaker 5: I don't know. It's it's not menadonic, so little. Some
• 46:00
  Speaker 5: of them are so tiny that they they're not even
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: going to remember that. And she's a hustler, she's always
• 46:05
  Speaker 5: got hustling and working.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: Hopefully she can come back to the Atlanta Housewives, that
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: would be ideal. Right, get her back, get paycheck, Yeah, yeah,
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: get your paycheck. Don't go to the casino.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: We're gonna have to go interrupt, go sit down with
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: her and be like, listen, girl, give me a paycheck.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: We're administering your money for you. Well, hopefully she'll get
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: you know, she'll get out of this hole and and
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: work it out and you know, find out a solution
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: because it's not a good place to be in. One
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: of my friend.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I love you, it was so good to see you.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: I love but it's kind of like a sad champing.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: I don't I don't like that, I.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: Know, to end up like this, I'm feeling very heavy myself.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: This was hard, it was sad, it was very dark.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: Today's I'm sorry for today's.
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: It's like I feel like it's Isn't it weird that
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: even though we like kind of like even on our show,
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: do this kind of stuff. It's like, I don't I
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: don't like talking about other people's I like everybody to
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: be in a good place. So when I'll just talk
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: shit about the couples, I'm like, I don't like it. No,
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: it's hard. Listen, It's the world we're living in. You know.
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: Everybody always has an opinion. And you know, I think
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: now with social media and with the phone, there's like
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: no secrets, Like there's like people taking pictures of other people.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't leave my house. Everyone's like, how are
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: you handling fame. I'm like, well, I don't what. It's
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: been going on for like a decade, but I never
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: leave my house, so I don't know.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's really like so scary.
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: That's why I like Bennett Boden last and that's why
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: he's always like in a bad mood every time he
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: gets out of the house, because it's like the camera's
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: there in front of his face. Like he likes to
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: do that, but like for a real movie, not like
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: his personal life. So I totally get it. Guys, stay
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: home your celebrity, don't you sound like.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: You sound like the message for COVID? Remember stay home? Yeah,
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: when Amiga, I love you, call me in a little bit.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Talk to you ten more times today.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll talk a little bit more. Everything we forgot
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: to say, I will say it.
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: Well.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Guys, thank you, thank you for tuning in. We hope
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: you like this segment is always fun.
• 48:30
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