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Dirty Little Secret: “Would You Take Your Friend’s Job, Or Pass On It Out Of Loyalty?" · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your jests, you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret on.
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  Speaker 3: The New Mix one O two point nine. A good
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  Speaker 3: morning for a Monday. It's not a bad day so far, right, Cannis,
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  Speaker 3: we got this, We got it. It's Bailly the kid,
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  Speaker 3: Cannie little pants producer poo. Start your week off, Frida,
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  Speaker 3: all right, just call us with those dirty little secrets.
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  Speaker 3: Let us know what's going on. Can fess eight three
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  Speaker 3: three seven eight seven one o two nine. Now you
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  Speaker 3: have one and this is a well, this is a
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  Speaker 3: tough situation, A secret and a tough situation.
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  Speaker 2: I am definitely in a tough position because I've worked
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  Speaker 2: at the same company for for year and a half. Now, well,
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  Speaker 2: I climbed the ladder pretty pretty fast, pretty quickly. My
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  Speaker 2: good friend who I work with, is in a manager position.
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  Speaker 2: He's my supervisor, which, by the way, he hates being
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  Speaker 2: my super He always complains, you know he's been you've
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  Speaker 2: been doing this for a long time, and he just
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  Speaker 2: burned out over it. But you know he's too late
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  Speaker 2: to go look for another job. Anyway. We have this
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  Speaker 2: like a new big boss. Yeah who you know doesn't know?
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  Speaker 2: That's that My friend and I are like close friends,
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  Speaker 2: and well, last week he pretty much told me at
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  Speaker 2: a lunch that we had that there's going to be
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  Speaker 2: some big changes coming, and without really you know, telling
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  Speaker 2: me straight up, he said that I was going to
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  Speaker 2: be taking my friend's job. Oh yeah, I mean I
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  Speaker 2: threw before Luke. You know I do I want it, Yes, absolutely,
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  Speaker 2: But it's so awkward now because I mean, what am
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  Speaker 2: I What am I going to do? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Say no, I mean obviously there's more money, right, I'm
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  Speaker 3: sure it is. Do you tell your you know you're
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  Speaker 3: moving up the ladder? Do you tell your friend? Do
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  Speaker 3: you get my heads up? But then it's like you
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  Speaker 3: could get in trouble.
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  Speaker 2: Nightmare, I know. I mean, I don't know what to
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  Speaker 2: do because he's my friend. I mean, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: he hates his job. He told me he hates his job,
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  Speaker 2: But you know, I don't know, maybe this would be
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  Speaker 2: the best thing for him in the long run, you know,
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  Speaker 2: Or do I pull on side and I tell him,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I just don't want to risk my chance
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  Speaker 2: of the boss finding out not promoting me, or you know,
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  Speaker 2: or worse me getting fired.
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  Speaker 3: Right, so you're thinking about actually taking it? He doesn't
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  Speaker 3: know anything about it. You're thinking about just letting the
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  Speaker 3: plan unfold.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's it's it's tough because I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: You know. It's like I want to I want to
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  Speaker 2: tell him, but I don't want to tell him, you know.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I actually feel like this job is for me,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and I want to grow, But you know,
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  Speaker 2: I just don't know what to do.
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  Speaker 3: This is tough, Candice. What would you do in a
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  Speaker 3: situation like this?
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  Speaker 1: Oh God, I think I would have to like drop
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  Speaker 1: hints or something so that they were prepared, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean, if I if I intend to accept
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  Speaker 1: the job, yeah, or you.
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  Speaker 3: Know yeah, or start encouraging him to find something new
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  Speaker 3: if he hates it. That's the part that makes it
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  Speaker 3: a little bit weird because you're like, well, he hates
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  Speaker 3: this job anyway, if he.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't want me to justify this happening.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Otherwise, if he loved this job, I think it'd
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  Speaker 3: be easier to be like, hey, I can't do this.
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  Speaker 3: Just to let you know, I might tell my supervisor.
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  Speaker 3: I wish you would have told me that, because we're
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  Speaker 3: actually really close friends.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, but if he doesn't like his job,
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  Speaker 3: you feel like you're you kind of like doing him
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  Speaker 3: a favor in a weird way.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody could feel like they hate their job at any
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  Speaker 1: day at their job, but they don't want to not
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  Speaker 1: have a job.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you still need a job. Pooh, if you were
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  Speaker 3: if they said to you, Pooh were coming to you
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  Speaker 3: in a couple of weeks. Here it's gonna be the
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  Speaker 3: Pooh in the Morning show and no longer Billy the kid.
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  Speaker 3: What would you oh this guy? Would you come to
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  Speaker 3: me or would you say? You know what? This is
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  Speaker 3: the moment I've been waiting for, finally my time to shine. No,
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  Speaker 3: I'm out. I wouldn't like if it was a regular
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  Speaker 3: square job, I tell you that you're gonna can you
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  Speaker 3: and I'd probably take the job. But this, no, I
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  Speaker 3: wouldn't do it. You wouldn't take it. Oh, okay, that's
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  Speaker 3: only because he doesn't know how to run the controls.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, say the name of what would it be
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  Speaker 3: called again, Pooh in the morning, take a Pooh in
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  Speaker 3: the morning. No, that would be your slogan. Everybody wants
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  Speaker 3: a Pooh in the morning. No, No, okay, So sir,
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  Speaker 3: this is a tough to lema. I wish I could
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  Speaker 3: help you. You're gonna have to let us know how
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  Speaker 3: it unfolds and how it turns out, because you don't
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  Speaker 3: want to do that to friends, and nothing's more important
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  Speaker 3: than a strong friendship. But I say that, but isn't
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  Speaker 3: paying the bills? Yes, that, and it's hard. You got
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  Speaker 3: it to me. You have to talk to him first.
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  Speaker 2: What about or maybe talking to telling the boss you know, hey,
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  Speaker 2: he's a really good guy, and you know it's awkward
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  Speaker 2: just because he's a good guy without letting him know
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  Speaker 2: that he's my friends.
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  Speaker 3: You know, yeah, you could do that, or you could say, listen,
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  Speaker 3: I should have been more transparent at during our meeting.
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  Speaker 3: We're friends, and I just want to make it known
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  Speaker 3: that this has kind of put me in a really
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  Speaker 3: awkward situation. How do you advise that I handle it
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  Speaker 3: that way? It's like on the boss's terms. You have
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  Speaker 3: to do whatever he says, and that makes it easier
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  Speaker 3: because then you're like, hey, I was going to lose
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  Speaker 3: my job if I said anything, or you know, whatever
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  Speaker 3: the case may be. That way, I don't know, maybe
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  Speaker 3: you could try that and see what he says.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I thanked, all right, Well.
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  Speaker 3: Good luck man, I'm sorry, you're in this position. That's tough.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it works out the best for him, Maybe he
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  Speaker 1: needs move on.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you're the supervisor and you you know, and
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  Speaker 3: it turns out he finds something better. He's happy, life
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  Speaker 3: is good, your to your friends and he's like, I'm
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  Speaker 3: so glad that happened. Or he hates you and he
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  Speaker 3: never talks to you again.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing. I don't want him to feel
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  Speaker 2: like I'm pushing him out.
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  Speaker 3: But it'll work out.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate that, appreciate the help.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, we're good. Luck than man. All right, dirty
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  Speaker 3: little secret. I just realized something. Who said too, And
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  Speaker 3: he said, if this was a regular job, he would
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  Speaker 3: take it. He would take my job, not tell me,
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  Speaker 3: you said, when you tell me? Or I said, I'd
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  Speaker 3: tell you and then take my job.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, if it was a square job there, working a
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  Speaker 3: square job like working at a warehouse or something like that,
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  Speaker 3: would be like, hey, I'm sorry, they gonna let you go,
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  Speaker 3: so I'm gonna just I'm gonna go ahead and take
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  Speaker 3: that position. Wow, you would ain't nothing. I wouldn't do
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  Speaker 3: that to you. You would, No, I would not.
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  Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't at least telling you. I'd be like, that's
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  Speaker 3: my friend's job. He's got a family defeed. That's what
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  Speaker 3: I say. You're like, I take it. What's the difference
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  Speaker 3: between this job?
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  Speaker 2: Then?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, well this job is different into this job. You
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  Speaker 3: just can't. Yeah, I'm not trying to be that. We
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  Speaker 3: should switch rolls one day. Yeah you want to switch
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  Speaker 3: rolls one day? Or maybe you and kandas should switch rolls.
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  Speaker 3: You do Texas top stories. Oh wow, you want to
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  Speaker 3: do that. I don't think I could do it. Maybe
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  Speaker 3: we are so going.
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  Speaker 2: To do it.
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  Speaker 3: We are so going to do that one day this week.