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Picking A Medium or Spiritual Mentor That Is Right For You · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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  Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to this episode of Spunky Spirit. I
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  Speaker 1: am psychic medium, carry mugs, and today we are going
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  Speaker 1: to talk about how to choose your medium or any
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  Speaker 1: type of spiritual teacher at all, Okay, because there's so
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  Speaker 1: many out there, There's so many, and I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to debunk anybody, because we all have to start somewhere, right,
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  Speaker 1: all of us have to start somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: And so it's really.
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  Speaker 1: Hard for me to watch other mediums get online and
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  Speaker 1: say if your medium does this, then they're fake, or
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  Speaker 1: if your medium does this, which there are there are
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  Speaker 1: a lot of like false flag mediums. Like if there's
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  Speaker 1: a medium or a spiritual teacher out there that tells
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  Speaker 1: you that you need only them to advance, then that's
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  Speaker 1: not okay. You have everything you already need inside of you,
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  Speaker 1: like your growth and your spiritual all of that stuff
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  Speaker 1: is already inside of you. But here's the thing. If
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  Speaker 1: you are picking a medium or you're picking a type
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  Speaker 1: of teacher to help you with your mediumship or your
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  Speaker 1: spiritual growth, then there's some rules to follow, or there's
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  Speaker 1: some rules to go by. Of course, of course, you
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  Speaker 1: want to go by word of mouth, right like you
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  Speaker 1: want to ask around see if people have had good
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  Speaker 1: experiences with these spiritual people or with certain mediums or readers,
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  Speaker 1: or psychics or promise any kind of that. You want
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  Speaker 1: to ask around and see other people's experiences. You probably
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  Speaker 1: want to read some of the reviews. They don't have
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  Speaker 1: to have a ton of reviews because lots of people
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  Speaker 1: don't like to leave reviews because they don't want people
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  Speaker 1: to know they went to mediums or these type of
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  Speaker 1: spiritual teachers. So they don't have to have tons and
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  Speaker 1: tons and tons of reviews. Also to you want to
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  Speaker 1: mostly honestly, it's all about energy. It's all about energy
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  Speaker 1: and how you feel. And so when you are looking
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  Speaker 1: for a medium or a spiritual teacher, and when you
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  Speaker 1: are reading the reviews, see how you feel, see how
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  Speaker 1: your energy maybe feels when you read those reviews, and
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  Speaker 1: obviously you're going to be looking up the medium on
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  Speaker 1: social media or their website or kind of. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you should look at their social media and their website,
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  Speaker 1: if they have a podcast or all of that stuff,
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  Speaker 1: you should do that. So as you're doing that, kind
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  Speaker 1: of tap into how you feel and how you vibe
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  Speaker 1: with that with that spiritual teacher or that medium, because
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  Speaker 1: that is going to be your number one indication.
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  Speaker 2: So word of mouth is.
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  Speaker 1: Good people that have had good experiences kind of researching
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  Speaker 1: the medium, but mostly your vibe. If you are watching
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  Speaker 1: the medium on social media and you're like, okay that
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  Speaker 1: it's not me, then it's not you. It's you're not
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  Speaker 1: going to vibe in person. If you're not vibe, if
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  Speaker 1: you don't vibe with them on when you're watching their
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  Speaker 1: videos or you're watching their social media stuff.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't, if you feel off, then it'll probably
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  Speaker 1: be off. And if you start a session with a
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  Speaker 1: reader or a medium or a psychic and it feels off,
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  Speaker 1: you can tell the medium or the psychic and say,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm just not feeling the vibe. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: not this distance doesn't feel good to me, and most likely,
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  Speaker 1: if they have ethics, they will give your money back, honestly,
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  Speaker 1: because if you're not feeling it, they're not going to
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  Speaker 1: feel it, and it's going to be hard. It's going
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  Speaker 1: to be hard. So mostly you can go by whatever
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  Speaker 1: everybody else says, or you can go and which is
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  Speaker 1: fine because you can go by word of mouth and
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  Speaker 1: you can go by and you can go by, But honestly,
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  Speaker 1: the best indication.
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  Speaker 2: Is like how you feel.
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  Speaker 1: Because there's lots of spiritual teachers out there, there's lots
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  Speaker 1: of mediums out there, there's lots of psychics out there,
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  Speaker 1: there's lots of all different kinds of spiritual workers and
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  Speaker 1: healers out there, and they're so actually so many to
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  Speaker 1: choose from. And I would say too that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: if some mediums, and this is kind of hard because
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  Speaker 1: the ones that are really hard to get into sometimes
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  Speaker 1: are there's a reason there's a reason why they're really
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  Speaker 1: hard to get into. It is because there's because they've
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  Speaker 1: got a good reputation and there's lots of good stuff.
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  Speaker 1: You know, there's lots of good things that people have
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  Speaker 1: said about them, and they do give off good energy.
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  Speaker 1: But if there's like and that doesn't mean that if
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  Speaker 1: one's easy to get into, that it's that it's that
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  Speaker 1: you shouldn't go to that one. It's just that that
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  Speaker 1: that medium is probably starting out, probably doesn't have as
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  Speaker 1: much experience, doesn't have, you know, the training or and
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying every medium needs training, because there are
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  Speaker 1: some trainings that I went to that were ridiculous that
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  Speaker 1: I didn't need to go to. I'm mostly self taught.
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  Speaker 1: I'm self taught myself, but there are times when I
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  Speaker 1: did go to lots of classes just to kind of
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  Speaker 1: tune my skills, tune into what I'm doing, And so
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  Speaker 1: you kind of want a medium that does that. You
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  Speaker 1: might want a medium that does I'm all for being
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  Speaker 1: self taught, and I think that that's great, but you
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  Speaker 1: do kind of maybe want a medium.
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  Speaker 2: Who has.
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  Speaker 1: I feel bad because you know, we all have to
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  Speaker 1: start somewhere, right, you like, you all have to start somewhere,
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  Speaker 1: and so, but you also too, the ones that are
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  Speaker 1: just starting might be less expensive, so you're not the
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  Speaker 1: investment isn't as much. So the ones that are hard
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  Speaker 1: to get into you or have weightless or or or
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  Speaker 1: too far our or kind of far out. Just know too,
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  Speaker 1: that if you schedule with them, and like I used
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  Speaker 1: to feel bad because my schedule was pretty full, Like
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  Speaker 1: I'm about six to eight months out, and I used
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  Speaker 1: to feel bad about that. But at the same time
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  Speaker 1: spirit it's like, you know what, it's all about timing,
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  Speaker 1: and they'll get the reading when they need it, and
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  Speaker 1: when they do have it, what they need will come
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  Speaker 1: through and the time passes anyways. So don't like feel like,
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  Speaker 1: don't feel like, oh my gosh, they're so booked out
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  Speaker 1: it's going to take forever, because the time passes. Every
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  Speaker 1: the time passes anyways. So just remember too. So if
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  Speaker 1: you get into a medium that doesn't have as far
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  Speaker 1: as a waiting list and they are less expensive, it's
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  Speaker 1: probably because they just have been there they haven't been
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  Speaker 1: doing it as long, or they just started and everybody
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  Speaker 1: starts somewhere, right and you have to start somewhere. So
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  Speaker 1: it just depends on kind of what you're looking for.
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  Speaker 1: If you wanted just how you feel about it, how
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  Speaker 1: you feel about the vibe. If you want to go
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  Speaker 1: in to somebody who hasn't done it as long and
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  Speaker 1: you think that that's okay, then that that's great. If
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  Speaker 1: you want somebody you know who's who's who has done
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  Speaker 1: it longer, then that's great too. What you want to
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  Speaker 1: mostly feel is the energy.
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  Speaker 2: The energy.
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  Speaker 1: So if you know, go to all these different spirit teachers,
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  Speaker 1: go to their pages and see the content that they create,
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  Speaker 1: or see the content that they put out, and see
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  Speaker 1: if you agree with some of the things that they say.
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  Speaker 1: I really have a hard time with other mediums that
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  Speaker 1: get on and say mediums shouldn't do this, or a
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  Speaker 1: medium shouldn't do that, or mediums need to do it
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  Speaker 1: this way, because in all reality, we all have our
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  Speaker 1: different way of doing it. I just took you know,
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  Speaker 1: I just did an Akashak records class and I she
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  Speaker 1: said too that everyone's going to read differently. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to start reading Akashak records probably in January, and
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  Speaker 1: that's going to be another form of readings that I
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  Speaker 1: do in Akashak records or when you go into you
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  Speaker 1: go into the Acacak records and you read like past,
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  Speaker 1: present and future stuff for the client. And right now,
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  Speaker 1: what I do is evidential medium ships, so your spirits
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  Speaker 1: come through when they give me evidence of who they are.
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  Speaker 1: The Akashak records isn't isn't as much evidential.
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  Speaker 2: It's most like.
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  Speaker 1: It's everything that's ever was recorded in the whole entire universe, ever, past, present,
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  Speaker 1: in future. So that's why the jump for me is
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  Speaker 1: kind of hard because I can it's like mostly like
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  Speaker 1: Akashak record readings, like what's your purpose, what's your There's
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  Speaker 1: lots of different questions you can ask the Acastiak records
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  Speaker 1: and so and none of it is evidential, which has
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  Speaker 1: been kind of a step for me because I am
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  Speaker 1: so strong on the evidence, like my readings are very
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  Speaker 1: detailed and very accurate, and so it's the imagination or
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  Speaker 1: the non evidence of the Acastak records is a little
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  Speaker 1: bit difficult for me to get past. So that's why
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  Speaker 1: it's been taking quite a while. But she says, you know,
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  Speaker 1: everybody reads differently, every medium reads differently, Every mystery is differently.
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  Speaker 1: Every classic record reader, every Reykae person, every every spiritual
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  Speaker 1: person has their own flare and their own thing. And
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  Speaker 1: sometimes you might have to go to.
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  Speaker 2: A couple to decide which ones.
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  Speaker 1: For you to decide which one you resonate with better,
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  Speaker 1: or which is you know your energy holds your energy
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  Speaker 1: better and who you vibe with better?
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  Speaker 2: So, and I want you to too.
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  Speaker 1: Don't be so hard on the spiritual people, the spiritual teachers,
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  Speaker 1: because they're human too, and they are either just starting
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  Speaker 1: or they're you know, their learning and the process. This
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  Speaker 1: spiritual stuff is not all one fits all, and it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't all fit in a box nice and neatly. Things
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  Speaker 1: change all the time, and so you could have one
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  Speaker 1: view on one thing and learn that maybe that wasn't
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  Speaker 1: entirely true. Like before, I used to think that I
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  Speaker 1: couldn't do readings for anybody who had a passing. If
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  Speaker 1: somebody passed away, I couldn't do reading for them for
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  Speaker 1: four or five months, because that's what I was taught.
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  Speaker 1: And in reality that's not true. I have done readings
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  Speaker 1: where the person passed the day before and they were fine.
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  Speaker 1: So you can't, you know, let those false beliefs or
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  Speaker 1: what other people say. You have to go with your gut.
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  Speaker 1: You have to go with what you believe and what
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  Speaker 1: you think. And this is why it's kind of important too,
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  Speaker 1: that it is, you know, important that you give your
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  Speaker 1: spiritual teachers kind of a break because not everything is
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  Speaker 1: set in stone. And I've had some amazing experiences and
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  Speaker 1: teachers and.
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  Speaker 2: I've had some not so amazing. But here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: If there's a medium or a spiritual teacher, anybody spiritual
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  Speaker 1: in genual that thinks that or tells you that you
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  Speaker 1: cannot progress or you cannot move forward without their help,
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  Speaker 1: then that's a huge red flag. Because you have everything
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  Speaker 1: you need inside of you. So if you have a
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  Speaker 1: spiritual person tell you that you're cursed or there's an
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  Speaker 1: entity in your house, or there's something dark about you,
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  Speaker 1: then and they need to fix it, then you need
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  Speaker 1: to leave because they're just trying to get that is no,
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  Speaker 1: that is not true.
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  Speaker 2: And I have to be honest.
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  Speaker 1: If I ever saw that I would do the extra
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  Speaker 1: work for free, I wouldn't be I wouldn't be charging
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  Speaker 1: them to help them get rid of whatever it was
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  Speaker 1: that was around them or anything like that. So that's
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  Speaker 1: kind of a red flag.
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  Speaker 2: Also to most.
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  Speaker 1: Of the time, mediums do mean well, but they when
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  Speaker 1: they're first starting out, they can make mistakes. People make,
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  Speaker 1: They can make mistakes all the time. We try and interpret.
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  Speaker 1: We can sometimes interpret correctly incorrectly, and we can have
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  Speaker 1: you have to imagine. I want you to imagine that
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  Speaker 1: you're sitting at a table with a blindfold on and
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  Speaker 1: all of your spiritual people have come through from the
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  Speaker 1: other side and they're all trying to talk to you
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  Speaker 1: at the same time. That's like what mediumship is. So
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  Speaker 1: anytime there's a gallery reading or a regular reading, these
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  Speaker 1: spirits are all here talking at the same time. And
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  Speaker 1: sometimes the loudest ones get through and so sometimes you
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  Speaker 1: can hear all of them. Sometimes you can't. So sometimes
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  Speaker 1: mediums will miss spirits. They'll miss them. They'll miss like
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  Speaker 1: if you the person that you wanted to, the spirit
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  Speaker 1: that you wanted to come through and communicate with, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: mediums can miss them because there's other spirits they're talking.
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  Speaker 1: And so I want to make that kind of clear too.
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  Speaker 1: If you go to a medium and you are specifically
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  Speaker 1: wanting a certain person to come through, and that person doesn't,
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  Speaker 1: and I am gonna this is gonna wrestle ruffle some
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  Speaker 1: feathers here, because I know some mediums are like, I
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  Speaker 1: can't control who comes through, and I can't I can't
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  Speaker 1: can control who comes through, but I one percent know
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  Speaker 1: that whoever you wanted to talk to you that day
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  Speaker 1: is there for you. And there might be some louder
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  Speaker 1: spirits that come through and there might be, but if
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  Speaker 1: you've asked that spirit to be there for you, they
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  Speaker 1: are there. It's just a couple of things are happening.
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  Speaker 1: One either the spirits around them or the other spirits
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  Speaker 1: that come through are louder and they talk louder and
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  Speaker 1: the medium focuses on them, or the medium misses them,
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  Speaker 1: like the medium like they try and bring that person through,
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  Speaker 1: or or the medium just focuses on the spirits that
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  Speaker 1: are there and doesn't feel the other. And I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know there's gonna be other mediums out there that're like,
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  Speaker 1: that's not true. We can't control it. I just have
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  Speaker 1: never had the experience that if you want to talk
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  Speaker 1: to your son, he's too busy for you.
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  Speaker 2: I've never had that experience. I've never had.
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  Speaker 1: I've had at the end somebody say well what about
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  Speaker 1: my son, And I'm like, oh, let me try and see.
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  Speaker 1: And ninety five percent of the time we've been able
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  Speaker 1: to tap in. So it's really not that your loved
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  Speaker 1: ones haven't shown up for you. It's not that it's
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  Speaker 1: that somewhere me, I feel like and I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: take maybe not with all mediums, but with me, I
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  Speaker 1: missed it.
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  Speaker 2: Somewhere, and I'm more than willing.
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  Speaker 1: To try and figure out where I missed it or
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  Speaker 1: how I missed it, or if they were there.
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  Speaker 2: And it happens a.
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  Speaker 1: Few times, very rarely, but it happens a few times.
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  Speaker 1: What I'm getting at is, I don't want you to
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  Speaker 1: go to reading and expect your son to be there
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  Speaker 1: or your daughter or your child and hope that they're there,
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  Speaker 1: and at the end of the reading the medium says,
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  Speaker 1: oh they're mad at you, or oh they were too
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  Speaker 1: busy for you. That is so not true, so not true.
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  Speaker 1: There is a reason why that medium didn't pick them up.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't feel like it's because they were too
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  Speaker 1: busy or they were mad at you. I one hundred
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  Speaker 1: percent believe the medium just didn't pick them up. I do,
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  Speaker 1: and it's because either other spirits were too loud or
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  Speaker 1: too took too much time. But I, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: other mediums. I feel bad about saying this because I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to throw other mediums under the bus and
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  Speaker 1: say I just cannot fathom that the one person the
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  Speaker 1: loved one. I mean, I could see if it was friends,
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  Speaker 1: maybe the pat but honestly, no, if you went there
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  Speaker 1: specifically to talk to somebody.
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  Speaker 2: There's a reason.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't feel like the reason they didn't show
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  Speaker 1: up is because they were too busy or they were
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  Speaker 1: too busy doing something else. It's it's never been my experience.
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  Speaker 1: And I knock on wood because I you know, I
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  Speaker 1: would hate to have I had a you know, experience
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  Speaker 1: where like everybody and their dog came through for this
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  Speaker 1: client of mine, and then at the end she's like,
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  Speaker 1: but where's my son, Why didn't he come through or where?
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  Speaker 1: And he came through for a minute. I think he
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  Speaker 1: came through a minute at the end, but she wanted
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  Speaker 1: the whole reading to focus on him. And so then
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, let's do another one
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  Speaker 1: and for free, and we will figure and we'll focus
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  Speaker 1: on the sun. So it's just I feel like that
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  Speaker 1: we as maki us make mistake, can make mistakes, and
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  Speaker 1: we and I do feel like we strongly work for spirit.
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  Speaker 1: We work for spirit, and spirit will bring through what
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  Speaker 1: you need, not always what you want. But there are
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  Speaker 1: going to be times when mediums aren't perfect and they
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  Speaker 1: can misinterpret and they can miss your loved one. They
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  Speaker 1: can be so focused on the ones that they're communicating
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  Speaker 1: with that they that they just don't pick up the
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  Speaker 1: other one because they're trying so hard to focus on
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  Speaker 1: the one that's through there, that that's communicating. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: give mediums a little bit of a break here, and
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  Speaker 1: if there is somebody that you wanted to talk to
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  Speaker 1: and you're like fifteen minutes towards the end of their reading,
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  Speaker 1: you can say, hey, can you try and tap into
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  Speaker 1: this person for me? And one hundred percent the medium
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  Speaker 1: will try. And if the medium can't then or if
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  Speaker 1: the medium is like, yeah, I'm not feeling it, then
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  Speaker 1: it's just that the connection to that spirit is off
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  Speaker 1: with that medium, or the connection is. It doesn't mean
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  Speaker 1: the next one it's going to be. I just feel
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  Speaker 1: really bad because there was another client that I had.
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  Speaker 2: And she went to.
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  Speaker 1: A medium and she said, why didn't my son come through?
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  Speaker 1: And in the medium said because he's mad at you?
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  Speaker 1: And that is so not true. Like, don't take every
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  Speaker 1: single word that the medium says like as the word
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  Speaker 1: of God, like because mediums can misinterpret things.
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  Speaker 2: They totally can.
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  Speaker 1: They are human. They make mistakes. It's like trying to
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: process things. It's trying to play charades and pictionary. At
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: the same time with a spirit. And so it's not
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: always like I could see balloons and be like, oh,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: there's a birthday and they'll be like, no, there's no birthday.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: Well what do the balloons mean, Well, there's a celebration.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: Well it could mean that their birthday, you know, their
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: anniversary day was today when they died. So and it
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: just be open, be super open. When you do go
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: to mediums, they're not like cut clear. I mean, mediums
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: can be accurate and mediums can be specific, like there's
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: there's lots of stuff that comes through specific and accurately,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: but honestly there's times when that mediums can be like
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: off a little bit. And so if you feel like that,
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: usually if the medium is off or it's not feeling it,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: they'll either cancel a reading for the day or they'll
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: tell you if I'm if I get ten minutes into
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: reading and I'm like, Okay, I'm just not feeling it,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: I will reschedule or I will we'll reschedule a reading
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: because to like a not clear back out to because
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: if the mediums like scheduled so far out, like six
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: or eight months, then they should they shouldn't schedule back
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: out six eight months, like get you in another time
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: that sooner, or return your money.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: And I always offer that.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: I always say, if we get into this in ten
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: minutes and you you know, nothing is resonating with you,
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I will either give your money back or we're scheduled
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: because it's my responsibility to be at a certain frequency
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: for you. And if I don't feel like I'm at
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: that frequency, then I don't think.
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: That's fair to you. So and you know, it's just
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: your vibe with.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: The medium, So kind of just know any kind of
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: spiritual teacher, you're a Kashak record reader, you're any kind
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: of spiritual person that's trying to help you evolve or
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: helping you awaken. It's just your energy with theirs that
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: you should really really focus on or or kind of
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: maybe choose or understand. And that's how you kind of
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: pick your spiritual teachers. If they also tell you that
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: you cannot evolve without or you need your dependent on them,
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: or you need to do another it's like it seems
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: like you need to do before you have access to this,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: you need to do this, or before you can get here,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: you need to do this. That is not true either.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Lots of other spiritual teachers do certifications, they're like, So,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I even did a certification class.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: It was tough and it was hard, but I didn't
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: need it. I didn't need.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Because not one of my clients has asked me if
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: I'm certified, Not one and so, And I was already
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: pretty full and booked, like I think I at that time.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I was five months booked out by the time I
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: when I got and so the certification didn't even help me.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: It didn't even help me.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: And I I mean, and I learned some okay stuff
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: in that class, but it wasn't one of my favorites,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: and it was the one I spent the.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Most on and.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: It was the one that maybe it pushed me, but
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: it also scared the crap out of me. So so
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: just be really careful when you pick your spiritual mentors
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: or you pick your spiritual teachers, because if they make
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: it feel like you can progress without them, then they're
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: not They're not for you. And also too, there's no
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: such thing. Your spiritual teachers should not be like jealous
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: of you. There's enough success out there for everybody, so
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: and they should want that for you too. They know
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: that there's there's enough success out there for everybody.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: I know that.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: Every medium or every spiritual teacher is going to have
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: a different clientele than me, and there's enough for everybody,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: so I and then if you feel that way, they
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: feel that way, they're going to feel in lack, and
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: then they're going to try and suppress you down.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: And you don't need that.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: You don't need anybody to help make you feel. No
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: one is more superior or more inferior than anybody. And
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: if a teacher or a student or anybody makes you
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: feel like that, then your vibe is not good with them,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: then you need to kind of cut ties with them
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: or let go.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: So you get.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: To have these boundaries, you get to have these circumstances,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: and so really always follow them. Always listen to your gut,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: listen and don't feel bad about it. If you have to,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: like you know, put someone out of your life because
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: there's some there's some not great vibes there, then do it.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: Do it.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Just know that you are in charge of you, and
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: you are in charge of your spiritual growth. Nobody else
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: can access your spiritual growth growth or nobody else is
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: in charge of your spiritual growth. And if they say
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: they are, then you need to move on. There's lots
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: of great mediums out there. There's lots of great mediums online,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: probably in your community, and akashak record readers and ray
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: cake practitioners and footstone people. There's oh, there's just you know, promise,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: there's just so many people, so many spiritual people out there,
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: and you don't have to just focus on the ones
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: in your community. You can always look and see if
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: there's any that are online that you jive with or
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: that you have heard good.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: And there's gonna be more than one.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Like, there's not just one medium or one a Kashi
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: record reader that you always have to go to. You
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: can you can try out lots of different ones and
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: have different experiences. I've had lots of readings with lots
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: of different lots of different mediums too, So you don't
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: always have to just stick to one. If you vibe
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: with one the most, or you really like to be
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: with one the most, or you trust one the most
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: and you just feel comfortable with that one, that's okay too,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: because I have lots of clients who are regulars and
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: that's fine too.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: It's all up to you.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: It's how you feel and if you you know feel
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: like that that's what's for you. Then just it's mostly
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: what makes you feel good or what makes you vibe,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: or what makes you what makes you feel comfortable and safe,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, that's all that matters.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I just have a hard time when I just, you know,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: I really struggle when other mediums get out there and
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: be like, if your medium does this, or if your
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: medium does that, and you're few, because I get it,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I get there are red flat and I understand that,
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: but I also believe that some a lot of times
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: when you just first start out as a medium, sometimes
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: you don't know some of that stuff, and sometimes you
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: may make that that your medium might make that mistake.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: That doesn't mean they're a bad medium. They're just growing
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: and learning. And there's lots of mediums out there first
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: starting and there's lots of very seasoned mediums. And this
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: goes for all spiritual workers. When I say mediums, I
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: mean all spiritual workers, all all different kinds, and so
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: just you know, and if you've like heard great things
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: about a specific medium and you want to try it,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: try it, because there's nothing honestly, if that spiritual person
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: is ethical and it doesn't work out and the ViBe's wrong.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: You have nothing to lose. So that is my take
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: on it.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I just know on TikTok there's so much gosh, there's
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: so it's like so cutthroat on TikTok with mediumship and
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: spiritual spiritual TikTok and all that stuff. It just seems
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: like it's like so cut throat. And there's so many
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: mediums that are out there doing the medium police thing,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: and which I think is great because they want to
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: they want to protect people, and I understand that. I
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: understand that people want to protect others, and I totally
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm on board with that too. If they're
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: If you feel disrespected by any kind of spiritual worker
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: or you know, there is such thing as spiritual abuse,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: and that's when you're your mentor or your teacher makes
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: you think that there's only one way and that's with
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: them or there that you have to do certain things
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: to get like certain inappropriate things to get to a
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: spiritual level or to help them get to a spiritual level.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: That's not good either. There's no your your spiritual person
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: does not need your help to become more aware or
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: become or with their spiritual journey and your spiritual person
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: can help open your senses and they can help you.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Because here's the thing. You can do all of this
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: on your own. You can find out all even Rank
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: A sessions, foot zones, you can do mediumship.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: You can do all of it on your own. You
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: really can.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: But sometimes when you find somebody who's been doing it
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: for a while or knows what they're doing, it just
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: puts you that much farther. You can either google and
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: researcher for two years, or you can get what you
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: need in one clearing or one session. So that's kind
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: of like where I'm at. But you don't absolutely need
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: that person to get you to where you need to go,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: and that's the only way you can get there, So
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: be really careful of that. They're spiritual abuse, somebody who
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: just makes you feel like you can only do or
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: they make you feel guilty, or they make you feel
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: like if you didn't do it their way, or if
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: you don't do it a certain way, you feel guilty,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: and that's not true either. Everybody's completely different, So just
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: be really careful and just be really not careful but knowledgeable.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Just be really awake.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Really aware, and when you're searching a lot of times,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: your guides will lead you to where you need to go.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Your guides, so I know if.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: People are like when people come to me, they're like,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I heard your name three times and I knew I
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: was supposed to come. That's their guides, that's their ancestors
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: telling them to come here. I work for Spirit. I
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: know my client is in front of me, but I
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: work for Spirit. So if I have clients that come
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: to me and say so.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: And so told me about you.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: So and so told me about you, and or I
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: found you through this, or I found you through that,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I know I've made this.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: They're they're one.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Hundred percent being sent by their ancestors, their loved ones
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: are sending them to me. Because that's the deal I have.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I don't go to anybody. They come to me. I
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: don't even like I mean I will. I will advertise
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: my classes, but I don't ever really advertise readings because
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: my deal with Spirit was they bring the people to me,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: and so that's kind of how it works. I work
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: for Spirit. I work for Spirit one, and then Spirit
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: will send people to me. So I know when my
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: clients come that they were sent to me from spirits
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: so I kind of don't feel that scared, you know,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: that that tension or that scaredness, because I know that
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: spirits on the other side sent.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Them to me. But I hope that that makes it.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: You know, sometimes I go off on tangents and I
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: like blah blah blah blah blah. But I hope that
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: that is kind of clear that you don't need anybody
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: else's help to, I mean, to grow spiritually. You can
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: have help, you can ask for like guidance and help,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: and that's great, but you don't need somebody to complete you.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Have you are all on your own. That disempowers you.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: That disempowers you.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: When you feel like you need somebody else to complete
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: you or complete your journey or complete your spiritual growth.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: You have everything you need inside of you and you
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: are not disempowered. You can do this on your own. Now,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: do mentors and spiritual teachers and clearings and stuff help,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Of course they do. Of course they do. I go
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: to I get footbaths all the time, I get massages,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: I get my geat all of that to kind of
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: clear impact, I need to get another one here. So
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: So anyways, just know that you just be just ask
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: your guides. That's ask your guides and feel the energy.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: When you're searching for a spiritual teacher, when you're searching
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: for someone to help you spiritually to progress, ask your
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: guides to guide you to who you need to see
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: and ask and then kind of feel the vibe that
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: you get with that person, and that's really all you need.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: That's really all you need. You really don't even need
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Google reviews. Word of mouth is great, but or you know,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: review reviews are great, but let's face it, there's going
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: to be skeptics out there, and there's going to be
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: some that leave batter reviews and that's not really fair
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: to the spiritual teacher. But if there's like a ton
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: of bad reviews, then I would maybe like be like, okay, maybe.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: That's not a good fit.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: But mostly just kind of ask your guides, feel the energy,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: and go where you're led, because that's the perfect way
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: to you know, just kind of research it and see
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: and go where you're led. Because spirit's not going to
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: lead you to the wrong to the wrong person. So
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: and give everybody you know, all of them, all of
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: spiritual people. Just because they're spiritual people doesn't mean that
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: they're perfect. It doesn't mean they're human and we're all
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: we're all human, and we all make mistakes and we
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: all just try and do our best every day.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: I would hope that we do.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: And so just know that you are being guided, You
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: are being driven to the right person, and that person
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: has integrity, and that person wants to help you, and
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: that person is more about your helping you with your
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: progression than than than the finances. Right, So anyways, I
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: hope that that helps. I just know that there's been
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: lots of questions and lots of people out there trying
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: to figure out the right path or figure out their journey.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: Trust trust yourself that you're getting that right information because
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: it can be hard and it can ding and and
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: I you know there is I've gone to lots of
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: different spiritual and there are some more that I like
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: other than the others because we vie better, not that
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: they're teaching in a different method or they're teaching better
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: things or they know more, just because we vibe better,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: we have a better connection. And that's pretty much what happens.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: So I hope you guys liked this. If you did
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• 30:35
  Speaker 1: And that's my goal is to help more people because
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I know I get booked out pretty far, and so
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I want to be able to help more people on
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: our larger scale, so more people that have access. So
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I did just finished sheppin a Kashak record reading this
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  Speaker 1: last weekend. It was awesome, and I do have more
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: classes coming up, so if you want to look at those,
• 30:54
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  Speaker 1: spunky Spirit Ghost in my in my store, I pretty
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: much have if you don't want to, if you're local.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: I do have events coming up too. I think my
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: next event will be in December, my next Spirit Gallery
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: type reading, and those are awesome. Those are really really awesome.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Those have been fun for me, and they get filled
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• 31:27
  Speaker 2: So if you want.
• 31:28
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• 31:32
  Speaker 1: into some maybe bigger venues for those because they get
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: they get filled out so fast.
• 31:37
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• 31:46
  Speaker 1: And just know that you know this process in this
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: for everybody's just a journey and we all are just
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: trying to We're all just trying to do our best right,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: especially with the energy that's been around lately, We're all
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: just trying to do our So give people a break.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: If you're a spiritual teacher, give people a break. And
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: if you are somebody who's going to a spiritual teacher,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: give them a break. We're all human, we're all doing
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: the best we can. And I love you guys so much,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: and just remember one thing. You have all the magic
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: that you need already inside of you. And I love
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: you guys, and I will talk to you next week.