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DONKEY: Man Charged After Killing Woman Who Rejected Him · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: With the dump. It's time the donkey.
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  Speaker 2: Around here. Yes, you are a donkey moncon.
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  Speaker 1: To days just saw himself. Oh man, Charloaeagne, who you giving?
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  Speaker 1: Don't ready to do till now? I just realized.
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  Speaker 2: Robert for Non said, what did he hall? As he realized,
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  Speaker 2: don't get today? For Wednesday, July ninth, goes to a
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  Speaker 2: twenty seven year old Minnesota man.
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  Speaker 1: Named Jose Lewis Lopez CA.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now, Donald Trump might deport him, okay,
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  Speaker 2: with no due process, and I can understand why he
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  Speaker 2: would feel that way. I still think everyone deserves due process,
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  Speaker 2: but I understand why you would want to deport this
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  Speaker 2: demon without due process. Now I am forty seven years old, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I am at that age. Well, I really hate people. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not quite sure when I started really not liking humans.
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  Speaker 2: But the old I've gotten, the more I get to
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  Speaker 2: know people, the more I realize why Noah.
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  Speaker 1: Only allowed animals on the arc.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I completely obastand Noah because that is the only
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  Speaker 2: way to avoid creatures like Jose See.
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  Speaker 1: Jose has been charged with second.
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  Speaker 2: Degree murder because on June twenty seventh, he decided to
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  Speaker 2: take the life of a young twenty two year old
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  Speaker 2: woman named Hayley Arsef simply because she rejected him.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go to five Eyewitness News for the report.
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  Speaker 3: Police a man is in jail tonight now charged with
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  Speaker 3: murder in the death of a twenty two year old
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  Speaker 3: woman in Richfield. As we've reported, Caylee Arsef was found
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  Speaker 3: after being shot in her apartment last month. Today, Richfield
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  Speaker 3: police announced they arrested twenty seven year old Jose Lopez
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  Speaker 3: she K on Thursday. He's charged with second to gree murder.
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  Speaker 3: Court documents show ar Seth and Lopez she K recently
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  Speaker 3: met online and had been hanging out, but ar Seth
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  Speaker 3: expressed she didn't want to be in a romantic relationship
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  Speaker 3: with him, only friends. On June sixteenth, around noon, police
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  Speaker 3: say Lopez Chike bought several items including tape, a mask
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  Speaker 3: and apron, and gloves, and then around three point thirty pm,
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  Speaker 3: his phone showed he was sitting outside ar sets apartment
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  Speaker 3: texting her.
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  Speaker 1: About an hour later, at.
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  Speaker 3: Four thirty, a neighbor told police they heard yelling coming
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  Speaker 3: from inside the apartment. The next day, officers went to
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  Speaker 3: her apartment for a welfare check and found ars's body
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  Speaker 3: and signs of a struggle. When officers arrested Lopez Chick
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  Speaker 3: near his home, they say he did not ask why
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  Speaker 3: he was being arrested, but told officers to hurry it up.
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  Speaker 1: Lord, have mercy.
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  Speaker 2: This is why women be online arguing about what's safe
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  Speaker 2: for bears of men. Okay, irip to this young lady,
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  Speaker 2: Kaylee arsef fellis, please go to therapy to learn how
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  Speaker 2: to properly regulate your emotions.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on teaching skills to manage emotions effectively,
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  Speaker 2: and boy do we need it?
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  Speaker 1: Like, what's wrong with hearing the word no? Jose? I
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  Speaker 1: don't care how many gifts you bought this woman.
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  Speaker 2: I'm looking at the complaint and it says, Jose, would
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  Speaker 2: you know, buy things for the victim, take the victim
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  Speaker 2: on shopping trips, but the relationship was not romantic or sexual.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't care if it was romantic or sexual. That
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  Speaker 2: still is not a reason to shoot and kill a
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  Speaker 2: woman execution style, simply because she didn't want to highlight
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  Speaker 2: at you, simply because she told you.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: Investigators saw the victim's computer and it was logged into
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  Speaker 2: her Snapchat account, and they noticed that the victim in
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  Speaker 2: the Jose had a best.
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  Speaker 1: Friend badge with a streak that had just ended.
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  Speaker 2: I have absolutely no idea what the hell that means, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: but I can guarantee it ain't worth killing somebody over
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  Speaker 2: you tried to highlight her Jose.
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  Speaker 1: She said, no, she had you in the friend zone.
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  Speaker 1: She said to.
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  Speaker 2: You, and I quote, I'm only interested in a friendship
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  Speaker 2: and did not feel a romantic attraction to defendant. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, my brothers, that don't mean it can't
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  Speaker 2: evolve into's something else over time. Some of the best
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  Speaker 2: romantic relationships start when two people are friends first. It's
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  Speaker 2: actually great to have that foundation of friendship to stand on.
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  Speaker 2: But that also doesn't mean you'd be trying to wear
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  Speaker 2: her down.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Perpetual persistence is not romantic.
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  Speaker 2: In fact, it can be kind of predatory because you
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  Speaker 2: are saying you are this person's friend, but you have
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  Speaker 2: aulterior motives.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't know how to you know, check that
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  Speaker 2: and truly just be friends, then it's probably best to
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  Speaker 2: move on.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 2: When I look at these messages this young woman Kelly
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  Speaker 2: sent to him, she was so emotionally intelligent and mature.
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  Speaker 2: Jose told her he wanted to see more effort from
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  Speaker 2: her and their relationship.
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  Speaker 1: They hung out, and.
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  Speaker 2: Kelly contacted Jose on Snapchat and said, I did enjoy
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  Speaker 2: hanging out with you, but I don't have enough mental
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  Speaker 2: capacity for any type of relationship right now. I'm trying
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  Speaker 2: to figure out myself as well as manage my relationship
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  Speaker 2: with my parents, and I'm overwhelmed and stressed already.
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  Speaker 1: What a mature response.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, they had some more correspondence, nothing that would make
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  Speaker 2: anyone think, you know, he was about to go to
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  Speaker 2: her apartment and murder her.
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  Speaker 1: But that's exactly what happened. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: When police showed up, the victim was face down on
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  Speaker 2: her living room floor in a pool of blood when
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  Speaker 2: a parent gu shot wound to her head. I would
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  Speaker 2: say this is a sign of the times, but this
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  Speaker 2: has been going on forever.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Some men simply can't deal with rejection, and as a
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  Speaker 2: father of four daughters, I pray that they never meet
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  Speaker 2: these kind of dangerous ass men. Okay, you have to
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  Speaker 2: teach people to not feel entitled to anything. It's a
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  Speaker 2: level of entitlement that makes people not be able to
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  Speaker 2: handle rejection, fellas, you have to be able to hear
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  Speaker 2: the word no and move on. Okay, you want to
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  Speaker 2: know the problem. A lot of y'all never had to
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  Speaker 2: write a letter that says.
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  Speaker 1: Will you go with me? Yes?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: Or maybe gotta put them maybe? Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Everything about that letter prepares you for rejection. You write it, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: you got all the options laid out. You have to
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  Speaker 2: give it to her, So it's a lot of preparation
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  Speaker 2: that goes into it.
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  Speaker 1: And it wasn't any assuming.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you knew based on what she checked on that
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  Speaker 2: box whether or not you should take things further. Yes
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  Speaker 2: meant it was on and popping. Maybe meant it was
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  Speaker 2: a chance. No meant no.
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  Speaker 1: But you were prepared for all options.
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  Speaker 2: And if you got to know, you kept it moving
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  Speaker 2: and wrote another letter for another young lady.
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  Speaker 1: That's it, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: If she said no, Jose, so what heartbreak shouldn't turn
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  Speaker 2: to you being heartless? If your response to rejection is murder,
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  Speaker 2: then you're just not simply ready to date.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Look, look, man, rejection hurts.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it's normal, But what Jose did shows a complete
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  Speaker 2: lack of self control. You handle rejection by feeling the emotion,
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  Speaker 2: processing it, talk it out with somebody and use it
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  Speaker 2: as fuel to.
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  Speaker 1: Grow, not to destroy.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, if you can't cope with the rejection, talk to somebody,
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  Speaker 2: a parent, a therapist, a teacher, any rational adult that
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  Speaker 2: can stop you from making a permanent decision based off
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  Speaker 2: temporary emotions.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Rejection is not a crime, but violence is. She popped
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  Speaker 2: a balloon on you and you popped her. That's not
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  Speaker 2: how that should work. Please give jose Lewis low pecks.
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  Speaker 2: She say the biggest he hull she came whatever the
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  Speaker 2: hell's name is. Soon to be prison in May seven six, five, seven, nine,
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  Speaker 2: three four six. Well with no remorse, though, I'm talking
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  Speaker 2: about hurry it up at the time of arrest.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: He's gonna be saying that for the rest of his
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  Speaker 2: life in prison. Hurry it up when they're hitting it
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  Speaker 2: from the back, and they ain't gonna hurry either.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you for that, Donkey of the death. Indeed,
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