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Becoming a High-Value Woman: The Real Reason I Built a £Multi-Million Brand · Business Energetics® with Lenka Lutonska

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  Hello, my dear one. Lenka Latunska here, founder of business Energetics Academy. And I have a little different video for you today by I dare to say popular request, because my social media ladies are gathering the most common comments from you, questions from you. We want to know what sparks your curiosity, where I can support you deeper. And one of the questions that comes up again and again is questions about my style, my wardrobe, brands I wear. And I find it funny in a good way. Yes, I love a little bit of fashion and I love me a little bit of luxury. So we're going more girly today, more ladylike today. But of course I'm not an influencer in any shape or form. Well, never say never. One day I really may give you a walk through my closet and brands, who knows? I'll never say never, but what I thought is that we can go a little bit surface and the depth surface and the depth through the business energetics lens. Because if you're asking about my elegance, which I hear often about or about the style of clothes I'm wearing, what you really are asking about. Lenka, how did you become a high value woman? And I will tell you what, becoming a high value woman, embodying the value I inherently carried inside but did not embody your anchor fully, that is such an important thing when it comes to making an impact in the world that you want to make, manifesting the life and business that you want to manifest. Well, I will tell you straight, the level of value I embodied so far, it's directly related to the level of income, abundance impact I have made so far in the world. And I know that more and more I become high value woman, more and more I embody the self value more. My business and empire will thrive and grow and make an impact in the world that it's meant to make. So I'll take you through five energies that help me to become a high value woman. Energies that I'm still using in my business and life today. And at the same time, I'll satisfy some of your curiosity and will share with you perhaps some brands I love, some beautiful little luxury things I love and maybe even few practical tips here and there. So grab a cup of coffee or tea. This is a little different video and let's do it. First and foremost, if you are new to business Energetics, I would like to talk a few minutes about moving from the whore energetic archetype to the queen energetic archetype. Because truly what I'm talking about and yes, I did say the whore, not in disrespectful way. But the whore is a universal, energetic archetype that all of us have inside of us. And that is that aspect of ourselves that is sourcing the value horizontally, meaning through other people, through validation, through results, through testimonials and so forth and so forth. The horror archetype within us can create absolute havoc in our businesses and the lack of in lives and the life full of regret and feeling like we're made for more, but we're not living it. And the other side of this polarity, and this is polarity of self value and self worth, is the queen archetype. The difference between queen archetype and the whore archetype is when you embody the queen archetype, you no longer source the value horizontally through other people, but you are, and this is going to sound maybe to some of you immodest and that is you are full of your self. But what I mean by that is that you are full of your divine self and you source your self value vertically through that, tapping into your divinity. I am worthy because I exist. I simply am. So you're self resourced. Self resource. Huge difference between being self resourced like a queen and being in the full value and looking for that value outside. And by the way, if possible at all, I will link the video video about the importance of being self resourced and what does it have to do with growing your business to millions? If you want to, I will link it either here or in the description of this video because this is such an important topic. Anyhow, the more you alchemize the archetype of the whore and more you embody and anchor the archetype of the queen, more self value you embody and better, more abundant, more impactful your business and life becomes. Here on YouTube, I have for you three part series about the whore ant queen archetype. So please go and find it again. We will link it somewhere in the description below. You can indulge yourself in these two archetypes because it's so important to me. It's one of the most important work for every woman and man that want to make an impact in the world that we are born to make. These are of course not the only archetypes that you want to work with. For the full embodiment work that will make you such a powerful receiver, manifestor, leader, CEO and change maker. You can check out Business Energetics Academy and specifically Limitless Creator Program. But for now let's talk about those five energies that will definitely Help you to embody that queen archetype a lot more. That definitely helped me to become more high valued woman and how I specifically apply them in my business and life.
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  So far, the first energy that helped me to become a high value woman and will help you to become higher and higher and higher value woman is anchoring the sense of value and self worth. And what do I mean by that? You see, there was a time where I would walk into a beautiful lobby of a beautiful hotel and I would feel like I don't belong here for real. I felt uncomfortable even sitting and having a cup of coffee or a tea with a client in this beautiful lobby. And that cannot be if you want to change the world, if you want to make an impact in the world that you're born to make, if you want to run a hugely successful business that is growing and growing and growing, that cannot be. So to me, becoming that high value woman is a lot more easier if we allow ourselves to anchor and embody the any form of experiences or things or situations or environment that will help us to feel that sense of luxury, self worth and value in our body. So I'll give you some examples that helped me and that I'm using even to this date. So number one, I would consciously go and have client meetings in those places that made me uncomfortable. Yes, I would book a high tea that I would pay for and made me me somewhat uncomfortable. Not to the point that where my nervous system would be panicking, but somewhat uncomfortable. And that's where I would have a one on one session or intensive with my client in a beautiful hotel with high tea. Even though I felt like, oh, I don't belong here. Because you'll do it once and your ego will go, oh, but you don't belong here. You'll do it twice and your ego mind will be, I feel slightly uncomfortable. You'll do it three times or four times and you feel at home, you see. And then you go to the next beautiful place and you go to the next beautiful place and it's like your standard, it becomes your standard. In other words, you become a higher value woman. Now this is subtle, but what's actually happening energetically because you call more divinity, more value from horizontally into your body, you become immediately more magnetic. Immediately people will notice you more, potential clients will notice you more and they will be more drawn to your energy.
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  So things like this have got actually a direct impact on your sales revenues, bottom line and the level of impact you're able to make in your clients lives. And then I would in those last few years make plenty of choices that would help me to embody, to anchor that self value and luxury. Plenty more. So for instance, at one point I remember I felt drawn to book for a girls weekend out a beautiful apartment in London. And that apartment was at five figures for just few night stay, couple of night stay. And my current version back then was like, no, that's not happening. That's not even a business expense. You're not booking an apartment for girls weekend in the city at five figures. You're not doing that quote unquote, you're not worthy. I financially could do it, but I had this conflict between my current self, my human mind identity and yes, my soul, my higher self, my heart was calling me. Oh my goodness. Wouldn't it be great to experience what it's like to sleep, to stay at, to just experience that pure beauty and luxury and spaciousness in central London in this multi, multi, multi. I think it was about 50 million plus apartment, wouldn't that be something?
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  And you know what? It was mighty uncomfortable for me. But I did it. I did pay five figures to stay with my girlfriends for a couple of nights in this stunning London apartment. What happened after? Well, immediately, nothing much. But over time, experiences like this became my normal because incidentally, but not so incidentally, more clients came, more sales came, more everything came. You see, because I allowed myself, in spite of my discomfort, to embody, to anchor in my body that I am worth this without any justification, without any this is business expense excuse. Now this would be very different if I try to chase this self worth through booking experience like that, if I went into thinking something like, okay, I'm going to book this apartment for five figures and I'm going to hope and pray and be on the needles, that five figure investment will come back to me within the next week or I'll feel unsafe or crap or less worthy. That would not work. That to me is chasing value instead of demonstrating anchoring and embodying value. And that's what many women actually do. So through luxury brands, through purchases that they can't really afford, that will put them oftentimes even in debt, but they feel like I've got to buy that purse or that bag and so forth to actually feel worthy, that's chasing the worth, that's not anchoring worth. Okay, be mindful of that. Now, am I against the luxury purchases?
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  Heck no. I do have a nice collection of luxury bags and accessories and this and that I had couple of years ago, in fact a nice streak that went for many many months when I went from owning almost like zero or zero luxury bags to a full collection because I was in that season. But I wasn't chasing that self worth. I just went for you know what, I'm actually going to allow myself to buy this bag and this belt and I went through all of that and it was delicious. It definitely helped me to embody more self value and I the desire to buy more and more luxury bags. I'm a lot more into I guess quieter luxury nowadays. But it doesn't matter. The point is throughout the years I allowed myself more and more to anchor to demonstrate the self value and self worth and naturally the sales would grow, the client base would grow and then therefore it allows me to embody more and more of self worth. It's like a beautiful, beautiful cycle or spiral. So I encourage you to do the same. The other thing that helps me every day to anchor more and more of self value and luxury and wealth is the little wearables, little physical anchors. So for instance, I love my little.
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  What are they called? I've got them here but I can't pronounce it for the life of me guerrell I would need my glasses. This is how posh I am. Guerlain.
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  Guerlain.
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  Guerlain.
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  French brand lipstick. It's blinking gorgeous. We will put insert here where you can see it a little closer. But these are gorgeous lipsticks with just gorgeous covers. And it's the whole experience when I need to top up on my lipstick which I do quite often throughout the day. So I got myself various lipstick covers and lipsticks from girl.
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  You can tell me how to pronounce it.
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  Maybe we will put just in case the link in the description below. I'm not their ambassador or affiliate or anything like that. But things like this that you use every day or you wear every day there those are great little yet extremely powerful symbols for your nervous system. Symbols of wealth, self worth, self value and so forth. So for instance, other example I wear this little diamond all the time. Yes, this is my another purchase that cost a lot more because it's just freaking gorgeous. So I wear it often but I don't wear it every day. But this diamond I wear every day and that's a symbol of me and anchoring of I'm diamond. I'm lucky, I worthy, I'm a queen. And I got this little diamond to my dear ones as well, you know. So it's such a little yet very, very powerful wearable that helps us to embody more self Worth, value, wealth and so forth. Next favorite scents. I mean my absolute favorite scent, I cannot get it anymore anywhere. So if you'll find it somewhere, I would love you. And it's Jimmy Choo's Radiant Tuberose. I love, I love, I love this scent. There's something about this that smells rich to me. That is ah, that is just that it's me, it's a higher self me. So I wear this. Well not every day because this, I'm on my last bottle and I cannot get it anywhere. So if I find more of it, I will get more of it. But scent is a very powerful anchor that can completely help you and your mind and especially nervous system to anch her more value and wealth and luxury and a self worth so you can become just a much more powerful magnet to it. And before we move on to the second energy, I just want to say just one thing. You don't need a lot of money or millions to actually start anchoring more and more of self value. Because even now, please, I don't want to give you that expression that everything I buy costs thousands. Not at all. But anything that makes me feel good, anything that makes me feel luxury or self worth or just good, really, really good. You know what, that's a powerful anchor of this energy. So for instance, recently I was doing a little bit of shopping and I saw this gorgeous little shopping bag in a new look and I went and I got it for £28 or something and that is the beautiful bag that now sits in my Porsche. And every time I'm going to pop into the shop, that beautiful little raffia bag comes with me and I love it, it makes me feel good. So that is just one example of you know what the anchor of your next level you does not need necessarily need to cost a lot of money. Now let's move on to the second energetic tip and a second energy that personally helped me to become a high value woman and that is taking care of my environment.
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  Now you can see I'm filming this and pretty much every video from my gorgeous office.
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  And let me tell you, when I walked into this house five years ago, this room, it sold this house to me. It's a beautiful huge room with a vaulted ceiling and it used to be a master bedroom. I thought this is not going to be a master bedroom anymore. This is going to be my office. Because my office is where I will continue building my empire from. So to me, that's the most important room in the house. So yes, I made out of the old Master bedroom, a beautiful office space with my private bathroom, and so forth, and so forth. But of course we still have beautiful upstairs. We have still very, very, very large bedroom which I also redecorate it to my taste. And the point is this, over the years I started to pay more and more attention to my environment, physical environment. It started, roughly speaking 10 years ago where we were living in a very small semi detached house which I must tell you, did not represent my inner self or the empire I was building. Not at all. I couldn't afford, however, not much in terms of a bigger house or luxury physical space. I couldn't afford much. However, what I did was really quite clever. I still use this principle. I took a tiny little box room, it was actually the smallest room in the house at the time and I still made sure that it's decorated to my taste. So I spent very little money, whatever I could afford, on a new wallpaper, flooring, few decorations, so the space was clean. And that was my office from which I started to build my empire. And that was the space from which from I took my business from zero or sub zero to first multi six figures. And that's what allowed me to then move to a bigger house and so forth and so forth. So the point is, at whatever level you are, look at your environment and upgrade it. Make small part of your environment or your entire environment so it matches the next version of you. So it matches the high value woman you're meant to become. Because environment feeds you and you feed your environment. So is incredibly important when it comes to embodying more and more of self value and becoming high value woman who naturally attracts and avalanche bunch of abundance soul aligned clients and so forth. Today I will tell you I am becoming more and more sensitive to my environment. And perhaps some of you may relate that if I see in our house something that is not quite pristine, like this beautiful plant, I noticed few brown bits. I'm becoming more and more sensitive to it. No, no, no, this doesn't belong in the environment and in the body of high value women. So this is the downside by the way of becoming high value individual or a woman that you become. And even your body will become more and more sensitive to anything that is not quite aligned. But I don't see it as a bad thing. I just wanted to share it that as you embody more and more value, you will become also more sensitive to energies that enter your body, your environment and so forth. Anyway, that's the little tip number two. Take care of your environment.
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  Similarly Energy number three is of course self care. Taking care of myself again.
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  Over the years, I amped up my self care big time. At some points I was getting this internal nudge intuition over and over again saying, lenka, your business is going from this level to the next, through your massages, through taking care of your nails, through your fashion, through taking care of yourself. And that's exactly what I did back then because it wasn't too comfortable for me to have more regular massages, to have a better closet and so forth. So I really, really started to take care of myself more. Now, of course you can interpret self care as you wish, but I do know that it even covers the basics, such as really ironed clothes, such as done hair, such as done nails, saying that I've done my nails last week and I don't like them. So you know what? Out of respect for myself, even though I don't need to, I'm going back to the salon today to redo my nails because I'm not 100% vibing with them. So that's also to me, part of the self care. High maintenance perhaps, but am I worth it? Hell yes, you're worth high maintenance, my darling. Your soul is worth high maintenance. Your energy is worth high maintenance, period. And when you allow yourself to think like that, guess what? Again, you become so much more naturally magnetic to incredible clients, abundance and so forth. So yes, we are worth high maintenance. Full stop and period. And let's move on to energy number four. And that is support. Over the years and for me to really, really alchemize the whole archetype and embody more and more the queen archetype. Over the years, I learned that I simply allow myself as much support as I possibly can, that there is no the highest level support. To me, it started with the highest level coaches I could not even afford.
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  It's not about I can afford or not. No. When I resonated with a certain mentor or a coach, I would simply decide, that's the level of support, I'm worth it. And the money somehow would come because I didn't think, can I afford them or not? No, no, no, no, no. I would make a decision and then went into resourceful state. Sometimes the money was there, sometimes it wasn there. So I would go into resourceful state. Money must come, show me. So money would come in one way or another. So yes, mentors, programs, support in my business, hiring before I felt quote unquote ready, or hiring that next team member before I felt ready. But also support in personal Life, it started with things such as actually saying, yes, I will appreciate help when somebody offered instead of, no, no, no, no, I can do it myself. So it started with things like this. But also I set an intention. This is such a great little story. I set an intention that I would love the queen in me, would love to have personal assistant and a shopper, somebody who can really help me with my style. At the time, my style was not that well developed. So I would love someone who can help me with my style, who can help me with shopping. And I would start think, but how would it work? Because I would love somebody who can help me maybe even choose my clothes every day or shop with me. So they would have to live very close or would they live in my house? I don't know. But I told myself, forget details. I'm just going to put in my energy as an intention that I have a personal stylist and I have a personal shopper, someone who can help me to take care of my inner queen. And guess what, guess what?
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  Through the magic of life, I'm not going to share the entire story, but through magic of life, my best friend, my sister in law is now living with me in this house with her family. So we live two, this is a huge house. So we live two families in this house. And she is part of my team. She's a marketing head for business Energetics Academy. But she started as personal assistant and personal stylist and personal shopper. She taught me so much. Martina is her name or Matika. She taught me so much about fashion. She is responsible for me to go from just black, black, black, black, black. And she is the one who would tell me, lenka, you look like 70 year old. So she would teach me a lot about the style. She would shop with me, she would taught me how to do my makeup, she would talk me into trying blonde hair. She also just owns my hair really because she's preparing them every single day. I wouldn't be able to do it myself. So yes, I have living at home with me, my personal stylist. That's the queen in me. How amazing that is.
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  So this is a beautiful example how manifestation can happen not in a linear way, but when the queen wants. Queen can have it if you allow yourself to have it. So how did I even get here? I'm sharing this powerful story. Yes. Support, support, support. I have so much support around me in life, in business, I'm brimming with support. And guess what? I'm continuing to bring more support in my Business and life. Because ultimately I know that is what is helping me to embody more and more value and self worth and luxury and wealth so I can be a full embodiment of it and code for powerful women like you. Because when you come to Business Energetics Academy, you are simply receiving this full embodied code in me. That's how it works. It works with every mentor, every space. So I'll happily walk this incredible level of support first so you can allow yourself to be worthy of the support you desire. Okay, so anyway, that's the energy that helped me, so much energy of support. And I'll encourage you to double up on your support too. And the last energy that I want to bring this to you today, and the one that certainly helped me to embody and to become a high value woman is upgraded.
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  Upgrading. Upgrading. Upgrading. Simply put, wherever I noticed, oh, this deserves an upgrade, I would go for it to the point again where I would become even a little uncomfortable at some points. So for instance, again it goes upgrade at home, upgrade a room, upgrade I don't know, upgrade furniture, upgrade my wardrobe, upgrade my support, upgrade my car, upgrade. Technology opportunities are endless and you will already have nudge. Now where is it that you feel it deserves? The queen in you deserves an upgrade. Something somewhere will deserve an upgrade. And maybe you're listening, maybe not. And I suggest you listen to that intuition. Because if you're not listening to that intuition, you know what happens. Life will help you. And that car that you're driving, now that you know it deserves an upgrade. And maybe you feeling a little discomfort upgrading. But if you, if you are not listening, your current car will what, break down or your technology will break down. If you're not listening to that internal nudge that it deserves an upgrade. Life will always help us to move us up the ladder of self worth and evolution. Simply put.
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  So I'm brief with this one, but upgrade is a very, very powerful energy for alchemizing the whole archetype, embodying and anchoring the queen archetype and becoming a high value woman so that you can attract more and more of that which you desire effortlessly. So my dear one, what is it that you're going to upgrade? I will love to hear from you in the comments. Where are you going to upgrade something? Or where are you going to apply one of these five energies that I just shared with you? Anyway, this is where I will leave this video. Hopefully you enjoyed it. It was a little different I think. Do you want more of this? Do you want more insight into I don't know my wardrobe or my life, let me know. Maybe I can do sometimes a vlog or vlog or whatever it is style video from time to time for you. I deeply love you. Business Energetics doesn't have to be always very, very formal. After all, it's a lifestyle. It's not just the most powerful method creating growth beyond logic in your business and fulfillment beyond measure. It is a lifestyle, and the most amazing lifestyle because we are living in complete alignment with our soul. And what better way is there to live, right?
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  So if there's any idea for a different style of video that you would love to see on this channel, let me know. And for now, I'm sending so much love and I'll see you next time.
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  Bye. Bye.