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Satisfyer Pro II feat. Chantelle Chevon · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
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  Speaker 2: to talks.
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  Speaker 3: What's up y'all with your girl a j holiday?
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  Speaker 2: What's up tam Bam? Y'all is tam Bam. I love
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  Speaker 2: y'all so much. Happy August. How you doing aj ah? Dude?
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  Speaker 2: I need to do the rundown again?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, everybody. I'm struggling today, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting it together hopefully house by by lunchtime, I'll.
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  Speaker 2: Be all right. I didn't do much this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it was tax free weekend in South Carolina,
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  Speaker 1: so I did take advantage of some a little bit
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  Speaker 1: of shopping and shit. And you know you could have
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  Speaker 1: shopped online too for tax free. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: y'all know that or not.
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  Speaker 2: No, we did. I didn't know that. Yeah, it's time.
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  Speaker 2: Like I see, the kids are back in school all ready.
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  Speaker 1: I think here in Charleston they don't go back until
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  Speaker 1: the thirteenth, so they're not back in school yet. I
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  Speaker 1: only had the buses running. I still hear the ass outside.
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  Speaker 2: Some people are back, some of these students are back
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, God, damn, they must be in
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  Speaker 2: the slow classes. They got to go back earlier.
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  Speaker 1: It's like we used to go to school damn near
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  Speaker 1: September or some shit. I feel like we had more
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  Speaker 1: breaks from school too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: In America, I feel like we just be in school
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  Speaker 1: too long. Period, Like in other countries, children start their
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  Speaker 1: life at sixteen and shit, like they be out of school.
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  Speaker 1: Like we already in school too long, and we don't
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  Speaker 1: have as much breaks and we're still learning less.
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  Speaker 2: And they just not prepare for adulthood. Yeah, like we
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  Speaker 2: keep them like children too long. I think one of my.
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  Speaker 1: One of my guy friends, he was saying how him
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  Speaker 1: and his wife held their son back, like he had
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  Speaker 1: the opportuned to go skip two grades and they didn't
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  Speaker 1: think he was ready to be around kids of that
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  Speaker 1: age group. And I'm like, why would y'all do that?
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  Speaker 1: Like he will get acclimated. That's actually going to help him,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I'm never holding my kid back, man,
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  Speaker 1: as sooner I can get they ass up out of
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  Speaker 1: like having to go to school where I don't have
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  Speaker 1: to go to jail about it, because I think I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna do homeschooling though I don't think my kid's going
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  Speaker 1: to be going to school anyway, or maybe high school.
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  Speaker 1: They'll probably go, but I don't know. I think we
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  Speaker 1: are responsible for our kids' education.
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  Speaker 2: You don't trust weird as hell? Shout out to homeschool kids,
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  Speaker 2: y'all weirdo. I love y'all, but y'all, y'all be weird.
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  Speaker 2: I think grown something about the socialization don't happen.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I said high school, right, So yeah, maybe
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  Speaker 1: they'll get you do miss out on like the social
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  Speaker 1: part of Yeah, so you have no social skills like
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  Speaker 1: they do, be like socially awkward. First of all, these
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  Speaker 1: kids are already socially awkward, you know, whether they go
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  Speaker 1: to school or not.
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  Speaker 2: So shame.
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  Speaker 3: Oh.
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  Speaker 2: I want to get this to shout out because y'all
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  Speaker 2: remember that candle that I beg AJ four. One of
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  Speaker 2: the listeners of the show was like, got tired of
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  Speaker 2: hearing me talk about it, so she sit it to me, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Gloria see seventy seven oh seven on Instagram. Y'all, yeam
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  Speaker 2: follow her on TikTok. She told me to tell y'all
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  Speaker 2: follow her she's Ivy Glow official. Thank you so much,
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  Speaker 2: Gloria for sending me to my candle. I haven't lit
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  Speaker 2: it yet because I want to wait until I move
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  Speaker 2: into a new spot. But I love it so and
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  Speaker 2: it ain't that heavy. Aja, I didn't never say it
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  Speaker 2: was heavy.
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  Speaker 1: What I said was yes, carrying it upstairs along with
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  Speaker 1: all the other shit I'd be having from Costco and
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  Speaker 1: have it in my car. I didn't want it to melt,
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  Speaker 1: so having somebody mail it to you, you know, that's
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  Speaker 1: even great. I do want to thank you Gloria for
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  Speaker 1: pulling up with the candle because I get to save
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  Speaker 1: my forty dollar coins. Okay, appreciate it.
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  Speaker 3: Well.
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  Speaker 2: Shout out to Gloria. I appreciate girl. Thank you so
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  Speaker 2: much for sending me my candle. I can't wait to
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  Speaker 2: light it. I'm leaving New York. I'm leaving New York.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know where I'm going at. Why you of
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  Speaker 2: New York?
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  Speaker 3: It's just.
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  Speaker 2: Expensive and I'm not I'm taking classes virtually, so it's
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  Speaker 2: just like if I don't have to physically be there,
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  Speaker 2: I don't need to physically be there, you know. So yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I think I might pivot today.
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  Speaker 1: Might as well.
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  Speaker 2: Girl might as well.
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  Speaker 3: Let's get in the sins.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wait, did you do anything this weekend aside from
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  Speaker 1: leaving New York? Okay, we had an uneventful weekend, y'all?
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  Speaker 1: All right, so let's get in the sins. I saw
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  Speaker 1: this article. I followed some weird assa counts on Instagram like.
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  Speaker 3: It's always like giving you low.
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  Speaker 1: Were studies that I have to go Google to see
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  Speaker 1: if it's true or not. I don't know if it's
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  Speaker 1: satire half the time or not, but this one I
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  Speaker 1: realized that I might identify as a Koala. So it
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  Speaker 1: says new It says when Koala's fail to find the
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  Speaker 1: right partner, they give up and.
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  Speaker 2: Go back to sleep.
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  Speaker 1: It says Koalas may look adorable, but their love life
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  Speaker 1: doesn't always go as planned. When mating season arrives, male
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  Speaker 1: Koalas call out to find a partner, but if no
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  Speaker 1: one responds, they don't waste energy chasing. Instead, they simply
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  Speaker 1: give up and go back to sleep, a surprising, a
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  Speaker 1: surprisingly mellow way to handle rejection, given that koala is
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  Speaker 1: already snooze for about twenty.
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  Speaker 3: Hours a day.
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  Speaker 1: Even a heartbreak isn't enough to mess with their nap schedule,
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  Speaker 1: Nature's ultimate try again tomorrow energy. I'm not a male
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  Speaker 1: in a koala and be like, Okay, I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: la down.
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  Speaker 2: Right because y'all going to sleep.
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  Speaker 1: And I keep saying, make these t shirts that say
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  Speaker 1: I love to lay down, like you stay out of trouble,
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  Speaker 1: and you don't spend no money, you know, unless you're
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  Speaker 1: like responsible, like damnit them with auto draft. Shit, you
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  Speaker 1: won't spend no money if you sleep first out. You
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  Speaker 1: got to pend no money either way, so you might
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  Speaker 1: as well just let them take.
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  Speaker 2: It, girl.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but I still want control. I don't want that
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  Speaker 1: nobody to have that much control over me.
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  Speaker 2: No, listen, just take it, you care, just take it.
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  Speaker 2: It's a loosence having them to worry about it when
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  Speaker 2: I can just have you just the people who can
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  Speaker 2: turn shit off, who can just take their money.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all some adults. I don't even have my light though.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, God, that absolutely not, absolutely not. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I identify as a koala and shit ain't going well.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in the house Hiberne in twenty hours today. Yes, okay,
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  Speaker 1: if you can find and mate, go laid my last
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  Speaker 1: I'm the opposite I need to be outside.
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  Speaker 2: Hours of being inside, I feel like I wasted my life.
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  Speaker 2: Let me get up and do something with anxiety, all right.
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  Speaker 2: So I saw this over the weekend. There are now
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  Speaker 2: ninety five thousand people in Japan who are more than
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  Speaker 2: one hundred years old. So as a September twenty twenty four,
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  Speaker 2: officials record records showed that ninety five thousand, one hundred
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  Speaker 2: and nineteen sanitariums across the country. Women make up the
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  Speaker 2: vast majority, account for nearly eighty eight percent of that total.
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  Speaker 2: That's it. Reason listened it rising fx Japan's high life
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  Speaker 2: expectancy and continue investments in health care and living standards.
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  Speaker 2: So I would and did a deeper dive in net
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  Speaker 2: to see if I needed to move to Japan. But
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  Speaker 2: it's their diet. One. They eat like lots of vegetables,
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  Speaker 2: lots of fermented foods, and they have a lot of
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  Speaker 2: anti inflammatory. Their diet is like very anti inflammatory. Then
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  Speaker 2: they also, uh prioritize rest over work. Yeah, and they
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  Speaker 2: also we.
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  Speaker 1: Know Americans dying earlier every time then because we take
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  Speaker 1: the least amount of Then.
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  Speaker 2: They also prioritize community. So they got homeworks, they got
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  Speaker 2: friends that they do stuff with all the time, Like
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  Speaker 2: it's they go on walks together every morning, they guarding together.
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  Speaker 2: Oh and that's another thing. They get up and they
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  Speaker 2: do mobility exercises in the morning. And I think that's
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  Speaker 2: another thing that we could add to our lifestyle, is
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  Speaker 2: you know, you gotta do mobility exercise, not just walking,
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  Speaker 2: but like keep your joints number and lean.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I started doing.
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  Speaker 1: So I got it set up on myself for right now,
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  Speaker 1: but I think I'm set it up on my calendar
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  Speaker 1: on my damn computer. So every forty five minutes, get
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  Speaker 1: up and do ten squads.
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  Speaker 2: That's good.
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  Speaker 1: They said it's equivalent to the ten thousand steps to day. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't seen that now because I don't be having
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  Speaker 1: my watch running and I don't have an Apple watch.
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  Speaker 1: This is just like a fitness watch. You got to
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  Speaker 1: start it, you know, when you start your workout to
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  Speaker 1: actually track. But yeah, and I mean that's going to
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  Speaker 1: get the ass to the l of things too. So
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  Speaker 1: ten squads every forty five minutes throughout the day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not bad. No, it ain't shit. No. And
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  Speaker 2: then and.
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  Speaker 1: Then I also I saw another study that did say,
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  Speaker 1: like homegirls me saving your life. Like, if you have
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  Speaker 1: a steady set of friends that you communicate with, it
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  Speaker 1: helps with heart disease. Close friends decrease heart disease by
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  Speaker 1: thirty percent. Women, if you have at least three close
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  Speaker 1: friends you communicate with.
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  Speaker 2: Get you some girlfriends, y'all. Yeah, y'all bitches think y'all.
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  Speaker 3: I'm trying to get those tepe of.
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  Speaker 1: Bitches weird me out.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know no who say that? No more
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  Speaker 2: is big girl.
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  Speaker 1: I still hear people say that, like why why you
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  Speaker 1: don't have no friends and why you only hang out
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  Speaker 1: with men? Yeah, that's weird, hope, get you some girlfriends. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's good for the equal system.
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  Speaker 2: To live longer, eat better, do your mobility stretches. Do
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  Speaker 2: ten squads every forty five minutes. It's hard to keep
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  Speaker 2: up with though. For me.
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  Speaker 1: That's all you guys set an alarm and when alarm
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  Speaker 1: go off, you just hop up and do it right quick.
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  Speaker 1: And when you take ten.
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  Speaker 2: Seconds, their target busting out ten squads.
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  Speaker 1: If your ass and target longer than forty five minutes anyway,
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  Speaker 1: and you budgeting, you in trouble anyway, get your ass
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  Speaker 1: out of target. I'd be spending one hundred to Target
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  Speaker 1: every fucking week. I thought we was Yes, I never
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  Speaker 1: left Target. I'm confused why we would boycott Target when
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  Speaker 1: the majority of the workers in Target are black people
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  Speaker 1: oftentimes like so. And then also they do have a
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  Speaker 1: lot of black products in Target. I just never understood that.
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  Speaker 2: Boy God, Yeah, anyway, Well do your ten squads have
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  Speaker 2: for forty five minutes, you guys, I'm gonna start. I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna do it.
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  Speaker 3: Mm hmm, it's good.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I I saw doctor Ryan on a podcast. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: know Doctor Cheyenne Bryant. She'd be doing her rounds on
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  Speaker 1: all the podcasts, talking heavy shit and the men usually
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  Speaker 1: being uproars. To me, she never says anything that really
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  Speaker 1: doesn't make sense. I've heard a couple of little things,
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  Speaker 1: but for the most part, I mean, it's like common sense.
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  Speaker 2: Things to me.
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  Speaker 1: But she was on this show The Truth after Dark,
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  Speaker 1: and she was saying out the host asked her if
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  Speaker 1: she would data man with children. Now, this is a
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  Speaker 1: forty seven young woman when no kids never been married, right,
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  Speaker 1: and we know in that age group, it's gonna be
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: kind of tough to find somebody your age when no
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  Speaker 1: kids never been married. Also like right to if that's
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  Speaker 1: the type of meath she's looking for.
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  Speaker 3: But she said some shit.
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  Speaker 1: She said no, she wouldn't date a man with children
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  Speaker 1: because that's essentially polyamory and she is not signing up
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  Speaker 1: for that. And as a woman who has dated most
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  Speaker 1: the most of the men I have dated have had children,
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  Speaker 1: like and I had to have get in where I
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  Speaker 1: fit in, like nowadays, I don't want that cause it
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  Speaker 1: is essentially polyamory. Like you have to be okay with
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  Speaker 1: this person showing up for this other woman and the
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  Speaker 1: children when he needs to write who am I?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like kids.
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  Speaker 1: Need to and I'm so understanding, right, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: kids don't need to see their parents even though the
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  Speaker 1: parents aren't together, and they need to see the parents happy, communicating,
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  Speaker 1: maybe even doing.
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  Speaker 3: Stuff with the kids.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm never going to be like, oh, you can't
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  Speaker 1: go to your baby mama house.
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  Speaker 3: I'm never going to be like that.
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  Speaker 1: So essentially you are signing up for polyamory, like a
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  Speaker 1: polyamorous relationship.
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  Speaker 2: But once you get to a like hard to, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: the pigs are already slim. And if you take out
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  Speaker 2: men who have kids, girl, good look.
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  Speaker 1: I mean you might have to the same way men
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  Speaker 1: go younger, but oftentimes men already have families, right, and
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  Speaker 1: then they want a younger woman. I think a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times like older are and I'm gonna stay older
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  Speaker 1: because bitch, I'm not fucking older.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes I mean, we may not have any kids, so
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  Speaker 1: why we we might need to go younger to get
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  Speaker 1: a man with no kids?
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  Speaker 2: Are all right? Listen, I go younger anyway, so no
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  Speaker 2: kid growing ass man.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't disagree with her on that that
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  Speaker 1: you definitely are signed enough for a threesome for some
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  Speaker 1: five sids.
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  Speaker 2: Build a relationship with them. You essentially gotta be prepared
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  Speaker 2: to a bonus mom. Yeah, so.
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  Speaker 1: Like I miss my ex's kids, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: Like when you start like you have these little people
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  Speaker 1: in your life and then now they're just gone, I'm
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  Speaker 1: just going too.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure they've gotten over me. But I missed him,
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  Speaker 1: you know. So I don't know that's the having a
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  Speaker 1: relationship with the kids, because when you leave the man,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta lead the kids too. Exactly, y'all. I've been
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  Speaker 1: checking my conception calendar and if I want a Gemini
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: next year, I gotta be smashing the last week of
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: August into the first week of September, and I gotta
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: be ovulating to the science and the math.
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  Speaker 2: That's what you are right now. Yeah, yeah, I ain't
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: even mad at that, hopefully.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if the nigga on it though.
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  Speaker 1: That's the problem, bitch' I'm on it, and I got
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: to run it past and well he listened.
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  Speaker 2: To the show, so just send him this episode.
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: Are you okay with that?
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: I'm just trying to make sure I can get the
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: ghana for New Year's I want to I.
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: Want you going this year. I want to go when.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: You want to go. I don't know. That's my plan
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: for this year.
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: I don't want to have to get back to me neither.
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: That's the thing. I don't want to take. No, I
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: don't I heard.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: I heard there's some tricky doctors in the US that'll,
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: you know, get you.
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: I heard, Yeah, y'all show y'all can help me get
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: to Diamond. Send me a deal. I fuck with you.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: I see a little couple of dollars, grease a palm
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: or whatever you need.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Right let me vaxed cards. Yeah, because I don't want
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: to have to. I mean, I've heard horror stories, but
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  Speaker 1: I also know people who be outside and may be okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know. I just feel like I'm always
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  Speaker 1: be okay, and if I'm not, I mean, it's just
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: supposed to happen, Like you can't let that's how about that?
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  Speaker 2: People, y'all trust God and try to pressure me into
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: getting it, and then listen, y'all. I was sitting outside
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: the center and I did not want to go in.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: I was already late for the appointment. I was just
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: sitting outside and AJ was on the fuck. She's like,
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: where are you at. I was like, I'm outside the vaccination.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: She's like, drive off, And that's all I needed to hear.
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  Speaker 3: We organic got this motherfucker.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: Nobody who got who didn't get vaccinated regrets it. Nobody
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: nobody regrets it. But I you know, it's some horror
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: stories out there, man. But there is a way to detox.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: Because this thing's supposed to put like a bunch of
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: heavy metals in your body. There's a way to detox everything.
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  Speaker 1: Your body is supposed to be able to heal. And
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: that is the best immunity you can have. Right to
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  Speaker 1: get your Those people in Japan, they got good gut health.
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  Speaker 1: That's all that is. Eating all that fermented shit. Girl,
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  Speaker 1: you just blowing.
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  Speaker 2: Let you hear it. Mute.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, God, while we talking about not having.
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  Speaker 2: I slept under the faint.
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  Speaker 3: And blowing hard.
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  Speaker 2: I got and I know we can be done. But
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: I got one more thing, y'all. They say it's a
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: UFO coming our way and it's mouths and it's where
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: the space space debris. But scientists are thinking it's really
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: a u f O and it's supposed to uh, and
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: it's headed toward Earth and it's supposed to reach us
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: by October. I hope too. Huh what what I'm I'm
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: tired of the same old meat. Every It's the same
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: old meat over again, over and again. I hope they
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: bring a new type of meat.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Like like some type of alien something like that that
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: got the seasoning already in it. I cannot wait for
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: humans to get little and animals to get big and
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: be eating us, y'all. Niggas need y'all, come on, man, you.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Do not need. Like I knew if you tied it
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: the current meat, stop eating it. I listen. I gave
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: up pork yesterday when Nigga said he don't want me
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: eat no pork, so I gave it up.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: But ye ain't nobody want to eat no pork? Pussy
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: ain't nobody had no problem? But he said, because you was,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: you was fucking with meat eating. Now you got with
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: it like a clean god. Okay, And he gave up.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: And listen who as I gave the devil his busney
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: because I gave up pork and a pepperoni pizza slid
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: through here and I was like, oh my god. I
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: was like I was sniffing it, like not my mama biscuits, biscuits,
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: but I.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Ain't eat it hungry. Yeah, I don't know, man, I
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: don't miss that. The only thing I missed is my barbecue.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: I used to make these good ass barbecue wings that
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: would marinate for like a whole day, like jerk barbecue
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: on the ground. Yes, that's the only thing I miss
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: my own shit. I just the only thing I have
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: a problem with is like finding food. I really can't,
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Like you be door dashing doing all the things. I
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: can't do none of that ship because it's gonna be
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: trash that comes.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: It's not like I can't.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: Get a good burger or some good wings, some quick shit.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: I can't. I gotta cook for the most part, which
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: isn't a bad thing because it's a lot of trash.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah restaurants anyways, true anyway, So if the aliens come,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I do hope they bring like uh i ham but
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: it's it's it's.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: That's so fat ship man with straight foolishness man. All right, y'all,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: So we got a fun episode lined up for this week.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: We have Chantel Chivon and we talked back this week
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: and y'all, I found out she's my cousin. Okay, just
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: because she's from Trosting, she's she's a medium. She does
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: all the fun magic shit, right, I call everything magic,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: just things that you can.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: We're talking more about spirituality in sex and how they
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: aligned today. So we're gonna get into that, and we're
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  Speaker 1: All right, y'all know, Okay, we love all things spirituality,
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: right like Taro RICKI yoga magic. I like magic and
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: occasionally we have to have a little taptin baddie when
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: we talked back, and today's guest is doing all the things,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: So welcome to we talk back.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: Shante, that's my cousin, y'all. I didn't know what until
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: she got here.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: They related. Hell, they're the same person. They're not even cousins.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: They Oh how people be saying, Oh, I don't know
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: where the U came in, but.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Oh chantal so y'all.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I asked her what she didn't want to talk about,
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: and she shared. I was like, okay, because we don't
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: want to get you slapped, like chantale A, what's that?
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: You'll be the second Chantel getting slapped this week?
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Her parents? Damn.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: Look you see how two if I am?
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: The conversation we had as soon as you got up
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: and here y'all about the period. Yeah, we love y'all.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: So I want to get into it. I want to
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: talk all right. First of all, let's talk about you
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: a little bit before I start asking you questions about
• 21:45
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  Speaker 3: said taking a shot. They did a big one with
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• 22:25
  Speaker 2: We got full episodes and we're doing one d We're
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  Speaker 2: doing them every episode, so we got a little lightweight.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: So because that's where the conversation is heading, right, I
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: want to talk about like sex and spirituality and how
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: that ship you know, goes together. But let's get to
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: know you a little bit, like tell us about you
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: and like how you got involved in this arena and
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: all those things.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So, I mean, I've always been intuitive. I've had
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: some crazy experiences from childhood. So I grew up in Charleston,
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: and if you know anything about the Low Country, there's
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: a lot of activity going on there. So I've had
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: a lot of spiritual occurrences. And then as I got older,
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: I randomly ran into some mediums and some of them
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: became my mentors. Different cities that I moved to. It
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: was just very serendipitous how I would meet them, and
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: they taught me how to tap into my gifts. And
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: so I started my business in twenty seventeen and I've
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: been doing readings ever since. Then. I opened up my
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: studio two years ago and so now I help people
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: connect with loved ones that have passed. I helped them
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: with their in her childhood trauma, things that have happened
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: in their childhood to adolescents, and I used that with
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: my gifts and then just spiritual coaching.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: So have you ever ran into somebody grandma that was
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: like real nasty and.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: Yes, I well, you know, I wouldn't say nasty, but
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: because when you cross over, you go back to your
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: true form, but they show up in the way that
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: you remember them.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: So if.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: If you're a bit hard headed and you haven't been listening,
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: because you know, our guides, our ancestors, sent us signs
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: all the time. So when you come in for a session,
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: I've had some grandmothers and even grandfathers.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: Come in talking shit Yeah heavy, Yes, didn't I tell
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: you to stop spending your rent money?
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Nigga?
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's.
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: What I've saw some shit the other day and.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Somebody was saying it, I had forty eight leases, how
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: the folks you don't live forty eight different places in
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: life and life crazy?
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: It was on eighty five.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: So I don't know, but that Nigga is an unstable creature.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Right, it's crazy? So all right, I want to talk
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: about the intersection between spirituality and sex, okay, whatever.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: So we had an episode recently called uh Discipline, and
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: we didn't really get into like the the the bond, right,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: the old ties that you might create with the people
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: you engage with sexually. We talk about sexually transmitted demons
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: on this show also, like just's th real?
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, So to talk to us about what that
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: intersection looks like when you're the spirituality aspect of sex, I.
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: Hate to say this, but I would say most of
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: us are walking red flags. So we think we can
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: compartmentalize sex where oh it's just something I do. But
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: a lot of trauma bonding, you are completely unaware of
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: why you do the things you do, why you choose
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: sexual partners, and it's really really hard to disconnect from that,
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: and the only way you can figure that out is
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: through grief. And through healings. So when you're somebody may
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: be a karmic lesson and they're only here to teach
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: you this lesson, and then the relationship ends when that
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: lesson is learned. But then you keep getting into other
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: karmic patterns because you learn the lesson from that person,
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: but you didn't realize you're the common denominator and so
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: this is why you're tracting that. And then karmic lessons
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: can turn into soul ties, they can turn into trauma bonding.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: So Harry, so explain what a karmic lesson is, because
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know what that means.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: So a karmic lover is someone that you've encountered that
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: there's a lesson you need to learn from a previous
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: life or sometimes earlier in this life. And it can
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: feel really invigorating. It could feel really good in the beginning,
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: but then it quickly goes left. But then what do
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: we do? We try to justify and explain their actions,
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: and so you get in this tumultuous relationship because the
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: person it is going to be toxic because they are
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: trying to teach you this lesson. But then that's so
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: that's a karmic lover. It turns into a soul tie
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: when you develop emotional intimacy or physical intimacy.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: That's why I say.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Being really cautious of who you choose to take to
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: bed with because you're a physical intimacy. Then it turns
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: into why can't I let this person go? There's an
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: energetic tie there and even and a soul tie doesn't
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: have to be someone that you're intimate with. It can
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: be a friend, it could be an enemy, but you've
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: developed that bond based off of your emotional connection and
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: your physical connection, So it could be years after you've
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: been with that person that you still think about them.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: It doesn't mean you can't move on, but there's going
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: to be that lingering thought and then your trauma bond
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: that's purely psychological. So this is your inner child. Your
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: inner child is picking partners trying to heal what happened
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: to you. And it can be small. When people use
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: the word trauma like it's it has to be something catastrophic,
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: it really has to be.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: But so yeah, Yank, I'm just thinking about my past
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: situations that she's explaining it. I was like trauma, bon
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: traumavon trauma.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I recently got out of a relationship, right, and
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I know that the relationship with this person transcends this lifetime.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Like I know, I feel like he might have been
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: my son in another life.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Like that's like because I feel like when you meet people, sorry,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: I feel like a lot. It's my opinion. When you
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: meet people, it's the same people over and over about
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: different lives. Like different lives. Right, So me and Tammy
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: probably knew each other in another life, a different We
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: fought in that one, We could fight in this one.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: There's that part sometimes I want.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: That might be some.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: You know, hold on side note, sidebar, I don't want
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: to do uh.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: When I left to say Louis, we.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Used they used to have this spot that did mud fighting.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: I ain't getting it, no motherfucker mud not my hair, girl.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: I you know they got those new those new black
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: swim caps. That's big for big hair. The mud is
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: good for your skin.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: Like we could use like red clay.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: So you want to roll around in mundy with me,
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: We get it back, Let's do it ship.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I mean it could be like a weekly thing, like
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: have weekly Yeah, come mud fight man.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: These niggas was making money a mud.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Fighting in Saint Louis like the girls was coming to
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: fight and it was really rest Yes, I want to
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: do it, Yes, as long as.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: I can keep putting something on my hair because this
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: is this ship was expensive. I can't get no mod
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: in that. But outside of that, I'm wrestle your hands,
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: put you in a mud, chocold bitch, All right, We're
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: I'm talking.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. So anyway, I feel like, you know, he
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: might have been I definitely you know you when you
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: be with somebody for boy else I was looking to
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: like all types of shit, like I had to dump
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: him in this lifetime m hm, right, because I never
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: did before.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: You see what I'm saying.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: So I feel like some type of relief because any like,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: we've never actually broken up, even though we've had I've
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: had different relationships. He was in prison right for a lot,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: so the judge, so the courts was breaking us out
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: like the fans had broken ourself for a very long time.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: So I never actually broke up with him, so like
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I felt like I've severed, Like because when you date somebody,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: they are aspect of who you are.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: He said this in another episode, like when you're trying.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: To get rid of that part of you, you gotta
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: cut those people off. And then I think it's also
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: like a next level you're going to get to.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: It is enough level, But then when you get rid
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: of them, they're also a mirror to you as well,
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: so they're revealing to you something about yourself that you
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: feel is inadequate or something that brings out the best
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: in you. So that's how when people repeat those cycles,
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: they mean, oh, I ended this, but then they kind
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: of disassociate. They put the blame solely on the other person.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: But it really, I mean, it takes to the tangle,
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: especially if you keep running into these same scenarios. You're
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: the common denominator in your situation. And it's not to
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: say that to make you feel shameful or place blame,
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: but to realize how much power you actually do have,
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: and that every person that you attract in your life,
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: it's not a coincidence.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: Hmm. You didn't hone with that.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I don't ever run into the same type of person.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: It's always different bullshit, you know.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: I think I run into a very, very loving, giving,
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: unavailable people every time.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: Saying you, what about you is emotionally unavailable?
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: But here's the thing. I mean for the fucking dating myself.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: But why am I? I'm available but unavailable at the
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: same time, and I just don't know. I can't put
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: my finger on why.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Well, that's your trauma bond. I have the same issue too,
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: where if you well, I think a lot of people do.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: You're not listening to yourself when how do you feel
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: when you're engaging someone or just even your collecting data,
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: like how do you want to be experienced? And how
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: do you want a man to experience you? And oftentimes
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: we'll chalk up, well, he's a good guy, so this
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: is why I should keep talking to him. But something
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: intrinsic or you have that feeling like something is off,
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: and we're always looking for evidence to support our intuition
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: rather than trusting our intuition. Ie thinking, m that's what
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: I was talking about.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: I'm just thinking about all these past situations and it's
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: very similar. Like I've been feeling like a hamster on
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: a wheel running.
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: So it's maybe you can sit with your feelings of
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: if you can think about a memory from childhood and
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: you may think it's insignificant, but I promise you it's not,
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: especially when you're from like kindergarten to fifth grade. You
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: don't have a ton of memories, but the ones you do,
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: that's consciously playing or subconsciously playing, because it's trying to
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: heal that wound that you're completely unaware of. So on
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: the surface level, you know you're emotionally unavailable. So like, okay,
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: I attract emostally unavailable men, But that's a very surface level.
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: When you get when you really sit with your feelings,
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: it's going to bring you back to certain memories that
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: you've had in your childhood, and then it's going to
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: unlock other things like oh this is this is where
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: the birthplace of where this started from. I felt like
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: I had to protect myself. So while I'm not going
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: to be emotionally available, I can look at sex as
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: a transaction and I think that I'm associated, but I'm
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: not because now I'm attached to this person because i
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: can't vocalize how I'm really feeling. But I'm using my
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: body to do that. And your issues are and your tissues,
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: especially your womb, that is a very sacred part of
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: your body. And so you neglected that when you're neglecting yourself,
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: even if you use a condo. Yes, I think I'm
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: got sex as a ritual.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: It's not really sex with a condo.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: It's not like they say, wow, coming don't count. And
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: you know, even that is a generational womb though. If
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: you think about your your mother, your grandmother's, how many
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: seventy five percent of women. I've never had a vaginal orgasma.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: So I talked.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: I talked about this before because I had an old
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: lady living with me. She was eighty three years old
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: when I met her, right, and we would have conversations
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: about all types of shit and just we would have
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: we had conversations about sex before and the way she
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: would talk about like moments in her life when she
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: was intimate. It just never sounded pleasure a woman.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: Like you just get on top of me and do
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: his big you.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Know, orgasm is like a new age thing. It's like
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: men didn't give a shit if we were coming in
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: not at some point.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: And that is well, it's both. I mean, it's mis
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: education and especially growing up in the South and purity
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: culture where they're teaching girls to save their virginity for marriage,
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: but then they're telling boys we'll wrap it up. But
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: they're not teaching them to value their bodies. But they're
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: telling women your body is sacred for your husband.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: So all of that.
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: If you think about epigenetic epigenetics, where you were formed
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: in your grandmother's womb, so all of that, you carry
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: their baggage. You carry their trauma and the only way
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: you heal through that is through grief. And that's why
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: a lot of us don't know. You can't even tell
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: your partner, Okay, I'm not having a vaginal orgasm, but
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: you don't know how to fix that. You know, it's
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: easy to have a clatoral orgasm because it's outside of you,
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: it's not internal.
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: So and their roles will do it every dash get
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: a job done.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I had to text your eggs and I was like, Yo,
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: did you did you?
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: Did you put my vibrators in water? Oh? Imagine this.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: Imagine you got one.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Vibrator that's plugged up like it's rechargeable, and then the
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: other is operated by batteries. How does both of these
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: I'm in the middle of nothing. I'm in the middle
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: of right in the first one, like, oh my god,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I'm just frambling, like I got like a little little
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: little hidden spot on the side of the magic and
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: I didn't realize he knew where it was and right,
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: So then I grabbed the other one, and this one
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: does the same thing. He wants me to believe. He
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: ain't do nothing to my vibrators. It's no way like
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: these things operate.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Different and neither one.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: Neither one on the work.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I was fast when this happened. I was doing it
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: was way over seventy to our fast. I'm like, METI God, like, girl,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: you be doing this too much.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: Stop I haven't. They hate to see you coming. What
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: is like, I can't do no more?
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: But I haven't went and bought another one because I
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: just feel like I'm gonna get to the next level
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: if I stop masturbing.
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: It's in my mind like regular DJing. It doesn't do
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: you ever. Just sometimes go to the old fashioned route.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: That ship man, who got time for that? We gotta
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: work in the morning.
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: See that's that's the problem. I see that talk about
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: being disconducted. It's a quick fix. You're not You're not
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: enjoying yourself. It's like this be dating herself.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: She should like Dennis like, right by the bite your life.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: Why not you want a man to do that?
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: Why can't you do it for yourself. Thirty two seconds
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: of sleep with the road.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: I mean that, of course. I mean who is satisfied
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: pro too? That's I think it's actually better than the rose.
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: But you know satisfied pro too, ill look that up
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: those roses.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: It is too much, y'all. Don't know what type of
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: clits y'all because my chi can not say.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: You get desensitized if you do it too much.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: I know I'll be vibrating all night.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: The guys in your head, we got with it in
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: your head?
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, all right?
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: I had another question. All right, I'm sorry. How do
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: you recognize when a lover is draining your energy or
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: blocking your blessing? I always do.
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: Well. If the loraining you thinking about me training your energy,
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: it's probably because you're draining your own energy, but it's
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: just being manifested through this person.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: I had a client once that came to me. She
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: was in her early thirties and she was crying over
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: this relationship. But he was twenty years older than her.
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: When she first met the man, she's been with him
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: for ten years. When she first met him, she had
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: her own business. She's very successful, and when she met him,
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: he had his own business as well, but then she
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: quickly realized his business wasn't doing great, so she put
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: her business on hold to run his business. But she
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: was in way over her head. They were in the
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: process of having their car repossessed, like so much. Many
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: things were happening, and she couldn't see that it was
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: because she was with this man. She gained like thirty pounds.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: She was like, she just looked tired.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Let make it what.
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: At But no, I mean, and it didn't matter what
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: I told, like literally telling me I look younger than you.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: He was literally draining my life source. He was older
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: than me, not that much older, but he was looking younger.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: I wasn't doing my hair, I wasn't doing shit, just
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: looking crazy.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: We're life givers. Literally, when men have energy after they
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: have sex with us, that's literally that's fine.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: Our body be.
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: Tired, a lot of energy they'll get now they it's
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: they're taken because we feel like it's our job to
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: just give and not really receive. I'm not saying all women,
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: but most women. That's that's how they treat sex. So
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: if you're depleted, if you if he's draining your energy, like,
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: how do you feel when you're with this person is ore?
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: Is your judgment clouded? If you feel like you can't
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: even tap into your own intuition or think logically about something,
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: that that relationship is distorted. So I think so many
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: of us we look outside of ourselves and we have
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: completely lost the connection with our own intuition. So that's
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: why we get confused when really are our intuition is
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: probably our greatest power. Like, so you can prevent that
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: in the beginning when you first meet someone, you don't
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: need a reason to see like is this guy a
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: bad person? Or if your body is telling you something
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: is off, why do you need to question it?
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: If you got b the he's as if you feel
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: like you don't have no intuition, but how do you
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: just don't know? Like you're not tapping gonna tell you.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: That in bred.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Hawaii bitch getaway right there?
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: Bright?
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: So are you said like you're not connected to your intuition.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: How would you advise someone to reconnect to their intellition?
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: For one, I think they need a social media detox
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: because you're social media especially and I love TikTok, like
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: I that's like my TV. But it becomes an echo chamber.
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: So you had to be mindful of what you're feeding
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: your psyche, because then you see dialogues and people are
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: arguing and they're like especially with men and women, but
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: they're in the same frequency, so like no one's trying
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: to hear each other. It's an ever chamber. So you
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: really need a detox and just kind of rest. I
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: think that's the main thing, especially with Black women, Like
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: you know, we're successful, we have the highest in degrees,
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: but a lot of that is because it's a distraction.
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: You know, we if we're focusing on something else, we
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: don't have designed to sit there and deal with our
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: own things. So it doesn't have to be hard, but
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: we don't know how to rest. How many of are
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: mothers like or grandmothers. They're always out and about. Even
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: when my mom retired and then two weeks later I
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: got another job, I just.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Felt like the problems with my mom came out because
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: I would rest. You know what I'm saying.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: She didn't like to see me, just because culturally that's
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: not our thing. You know, our thing isn't.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: Being productive as being busy.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: And we even got I deep like all the songs
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: everything strong Black women, all of it is like and
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: I don't rest down.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love to lay down, like I don't like
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: I don't like hustling. I don't like feeling like I
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: got all these things to do, even though I'll do them,
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: I really got to push myself to do all the things, like.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: I just don't want to though.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Same, I feel like Black women are supposed to just
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: lay down like great, we're supposed to be resting, okay,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: and then and then we can think right and then
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: just create money out of thin air because we can
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: think and actually making money off of things we can create.
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: You're a woman is having to go to work here
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: and you're in masculine energy. When you're working right, working
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: is it's a masculin energy, and of course you need both,
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: but then you've gotten so disconnected from our femininity, our creativity,
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: our womb that houses your creativity, it houses your feminine power.
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: And when that's out of balance, you don't you get
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: into here. You think, you overthink, and then you get emotional,
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: and then you don't react from like you don't know
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: how to respond from your emotions. You're just reacting. So
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: you are completely disconnected.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: So rest that's the biggest tool.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: And not and I don't mean rest, like, yeah, that's
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: that's it has to be like productive rests something and
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: where you're getting adequate sleep, but then doing something that
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: calms your nervous system, and that's where you create something
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: you circle you know you actually can use that to manifest.
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: No I do.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I definitely be saying all type of shit when I'm
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: about to come. Okay, I definitely use my sexual energy and.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: So listen, that's that's what I've been doing already. I
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: used to think about past experiences. I'm not like a
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: laptop girl porn. I don't like that. I need to
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: I use my imagination. But now I don't even think
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: about them no more. I just think about what I
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: want from our futures.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: And that's really what the sexual energy is for. So
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: that's what a lot of men be tapping into the strippers.
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: You fu with the stripper, you're gonna start getting money. Really,
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: that's the that's the energy strippers come with getting money.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: I guess that's very true.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I feel like so the days that I want to
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: really like work out because I started doing hot yoga, right,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: I don't be mess well. I can't mastery now because
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: I don't have a toy.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: But I think.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: It takes energy from you. You know what I'm saying,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: Like the next day, Yes, I'm so sluggish.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: That's because you're using two toys one night, they all
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: tied like this is an opportunity.
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: The DJ and getting think like, just use your hand.
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: I think you need to get read acquainted with yourself
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: is too much. It's too much.
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: Because to make sure I drink a lot of water.
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: We are in the age of social media where everything
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: is fast.
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: No, no, not nasty sea, so it is not nasty, right.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Self love is the best love, I agree.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: Otherwise you're just treating yourself like a transaction.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Oops, I did it again.
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: Nothing. But if you do that all the time to
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: where then you feel like you just connecting with your
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: body is too much work. It's too much work because
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: you don't know how to rest. It's too much work
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: because you're always on the gohot, so you're looking for
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: a quick fix. So that is being disconnected from yourself. Nothing.
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: Don't know. I love a good rose and I love
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: the satisfying pro too, But satisfied that is really good.
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: I'm ordering it. But now you're telling me just go
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: ahead and DJ.
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: I think you should create a mood an ambiance in
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: your home that makes you feel feminine, that makes you
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: feel like a woman. Gets some aphrodisiacs, some oysters, oysters,
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: some chocolate covered strawberries, play some music, get a satin
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: road in. They're by myself in there by yourself. That
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: is manifesting because it's the act of that, like how
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: you're taking care of your body, how you're pleasing yourself,
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: You're inviting that energy into your space.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: Imokin, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna give me some
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: strawberries tonight. All right, go ahead, go ahead. I was
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: about to say red flags. Your body and spirit will
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: pick up before your mind does.
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: Does your body tense up when you're on a date.
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: Do you feel yourself trying to accommodate to his needs
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: where you're compromising parts of yourself. Do you find yourself
• 45:45
  Speaker 3: making excuses for someone like oh, he's a nice person,
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: or like justifying something that no one really asked you,
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: but like you're again that doesn't serve you, but.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: You justify it. Yeah.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: I wanted to get into uh uh, you know, because
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: social media you have like the hood healer and what's
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: the some of the other girlies, that something.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: Mega dreams.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all these different people on social media, sorry, larger
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: than life, you know what I'm saying, they be doing anything.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: I don't doubt doubt that some of these people are
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: indeed tapped in. But is it healing or is it hustling?
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: Dude?
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: Are so many people like Yeah, yeah, I'm sure they are.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: You know, Cleo was on something, man, she was getting
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: her back.
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: She was so she was serious. I think it's a
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: combination of both. I do think there is a balance.
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: You should be compensated, You should be compensated, but also
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: I think part of the work is teaching people to
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: empower themselves so that they don't feel dependent on you.
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: And if you feel like like where people are constantly
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: coming to you for things and it's the same thing,
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: then you're just you're depleting their energies. So I think
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: there there is a bounce because money isn't you know,
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: it's energy. So you want to be compensated fairly for
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: the work that you're providing. But what are you leaving
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: with them that they can take and posit it to
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: someone else?
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So when you see like people come to you
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: for everything, So I guess people start whenever somebody like
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: has like a spiritual awakening, and then some people they
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: start like leaving the church. But then you end up
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: trying to find something else to believe in, right, instead
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: of believing in yourself and looking within. So they end
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: up in the hands of a false program fortune teller.
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. And listen, there'd be a
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: lot of them, and they got the same script that
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: they First of all.
• 47:46
  Speaker 3: They should if someone is reaching out to you for like,
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: oh I got a message for you, that is a scam.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah shit, that is a scam from Africa every time.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: No, for real.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: And I'm like one day this person was saying so
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: much wow shit to me. I'm like, yo, what this
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: is a demon in my inbox? Because the things that
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: he was like, why are you putting this stuff on
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: my life?
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: None of this is happening to me, So why are you?
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Why are you engageing.
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: It's I wasn't.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I just read it. I just read it, and like
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: why would I didn't say anything back to them, But
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: what kind of thing is that? Though?
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Because they want you to be afraid, they want you
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: to depend. I have a so I had a lady
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: when I used to live in Texas. There was this
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: psychic store down the street from my apartment, and I
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: by this time, I was already a meetium. I have
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: my mentors. But something kept telling me to go to
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: get a reading from her, and I was like, why
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: don't need to get a reading from her? But I
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: finally went and she was telling me like I had
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: I was cursed when I was in my mother's womb
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: and all of these crazy things. And then she had
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: me write my name on a paper and she was like,
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: for an additional one hundred and fifty dollars, I can
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: do this energy cleanse for you. And I was like, no,
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: I'm good, and she was like you're calling this. She
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: takes my name and she rips it up, and so
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: when I left, I was like I was I was
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: so mad on my god. I was like, why isoud'all
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: having to do that? And they're like, cause you need
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: to see what the other side. It's like how there's
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: a lot of people like that that create fear to
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: make you reliant on that person. So it's one thing
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: to tap into something that like if you're doing a
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: reading for a person, you can pick up on what
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: they're going through. But then your guides are giving your
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: ancestors are giving you something to help pull you through
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: that so that you're not coming to them for the
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: same you're not coming back for the same issue. So yeah,
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: it's it's a mess.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: Well what do you say to people that say, like
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: what you do is evil?
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: You know, growing up in Charleston, I grew up Southern Baptist,
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: So I even my closest friends when I first it
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: was like I was spiritually closeted and they were not.
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: It was it was very fear based. But I had
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: to kind of get over that because I'm like they're
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: looking through their own perception, and especially black people, and
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: especially if you grew up in the Low Country, like
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: they've been doing your your grandmother's great grandmothers everything, and
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: they've hid that in Christianity to as a form of
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: protection and they think that's religion. It's not religion, it's
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: just protection work. Like you could be a Buddhist and
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: a Christian, you could be a root worker and a Christian.
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: But and then with what I do, if I were
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: to tell people I was a prophet, if I was
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: in the church and told people I was a prophet,
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: they would they wouldn't bad enough, and then why But
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: what's the difference between a prophet and a psychic or
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: a prophet and the media and nothing. It's all churgantics.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: So it used to bother me, but then I realized,
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: you know, when you're honest and you're living in your truth,
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: the right people will attract you.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: So have you ever been walking down the street and
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: like somebody Grandma was like tell them something real quick. No,
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: it's not Molly, you and danger girl, you know from ghosts.
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: No, I've met a stranger where I'm like in conversation
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: and I might hear. It doesn't happen often, but like
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: if I'm talking to them and I'll say something like
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: I don't know, I'll just get like a download and
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: say something to them and they're like, how did you
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: know that? Like this one lady I met she I
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: saw this young man and I was like, do you
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: have a son that passed? And she looked at me
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: like yeah, And I was like, he's showing like a
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: silver ball, like it's a necklace, and then she literally
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: pulled out the necklace. It was well, she kept his
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: ashes like part of his ashes, and and it was
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: just a message of like, you know, he's still with
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: you or whatever. But so I try to so like
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: sometimes things like that will happen, but I try to
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: get messages where it's very specific to them and it's
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: not just like, oh, you're going through a hard time.
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: Oh your grandma yell list yeah righty grandma yell.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: Like yeah.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah hmmm.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: So I uh, like I said I was going through
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: a breakup, right, And this day I was on shrooms.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: And I just saw his Instagram post the other day saying,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: how did you I ain't this ain't spirituality?
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: You're on drugs. I started thinking about that because I
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: do like.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: To do shrooms occasionally, right, yeah, I'll like herodose, like,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: but I'm not leaving the house though, Oh of course
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: not like it's now That's what I'll make a date
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: for it. I make a date to do shrooms, right,
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: I make a whole little bath, all the things. Right,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: So this, I actually did this shrooms earlier that day,
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: and then by the evening time, I'm good, right, but
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: I'm outside, I'm riding home. It's probably like twelve o'clock
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: and I see like the psychic thing open twelve nights.
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: I'm like, let me go in there. So I go,
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: and I'm contemplating all types of things in my mind.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: Right I'm in this relationship. I'm like, this shit is
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: eating me, you know what I'm saying. So I need
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: somebody to talk to. So I call the number that's
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: on the building because it said well, I pulled up
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: because it said open. Right when I got there, it
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: wasn't really open. Then I called the number and the
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: person answered the phone, a little old lady, little old
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: white lady voice over the phone.
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: Was like hey, honey. I'm like hey. She was like
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: you okay.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: This is how she was talking to me.
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, like no, I'm not okay.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: She was like, is it about a relationship, Like she's
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh shit.
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: So she was like, well, come see me tomorrow.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: You can come to my house, come at eleven o'clock.
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: So that I'm making plans the next one. I'm like, oh,
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: I'm about to go see this lady.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: She wanted to go tell me all She's gonna tell
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: me all the things and all the shit already, fucking
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: know you know what I'm saying, Like, I don't know
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: why we'd be looking for confirmation outside of ourselves will
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: be you need some botious you know what I'm saying.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: So long story short, this bitch was on some bocious
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: like get there, you gotta be putting my hand on
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: the Bible.
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: I'm like, what is happening?
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: Two hundred dollars later.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, you need to lead that nigga. No,
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: I didn't say that you need to leave that. Man. Baby,
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: Now you.
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: Trying to add on some extra shit like this is
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: gonna call it the same shit you was saying. I'm like, man,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: those time, I want to I want. I really wanted
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: to fight her because why are you finishing people like this?
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: I really was about to start reading her, but I
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: just got up out of her, out of her house
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: because I.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: Just because you're playing with people. I mean, you don't
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: know the mental state that someone is in, and now
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: you want to add to their fear, their anxiety and
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: not make them feel empowered or give them any type
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: of comfort because it's all a money grap but that's
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: why they're they're in that energy.
• 54:24
  Speaker 5: Like so she literally a little a little a little
• 54:28
  Speaker 5: witch low ass Soka like all right, so I know,
• 54:32
  Speaker 5: like I believe that you know the spirit world and
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: our world intermingled.
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: Do my grandma see me having sex?
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: Yes, I mean they know you having sex, but they're
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: not like I don't want my grandma, you know, they're
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: not like.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: They're too discust. So you're is that nigga pushing you up?
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: Back down? You growdmap? They laugh at that. Shiit See
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: that made me not want to do it.
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't think you're any bose the thrower.
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I don't want try to protect your in it,
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: especially if you would a low vibrational man.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: Have you ever had like some type of spiritual download
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: or something that you some type of intuition in the
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: act of sex.
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: Not in the act, but it's I've had a download
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: that's caught. Had me catch a guy doing something he
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: was supposed to be doing. M h. I was this guy.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: We used to live in the sandbuilding, and I remember
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: I came home from work. As soon as I put
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: my keys down, I heard go check your mail. I
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: was like, well, I'm need to check my mail and
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: I knew I didn't have anything. They're like, go check
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: your mail. So I went to go check my mail.
• 55:48
  Speaker 3: Sure enough, nothing was in there. As soon as I
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: turned around the corner, he came out the elevator with
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: another woman was dealing with each other and I he
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: did a double take. And normally when he would see me,
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: it's like oh hey, you know. He was like hey,
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: and then like like scurried out the and I was like,
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: did I just So then I was talking to my friend.
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: She's like, oh no, maybe it was you know someone, No,
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: maybe it was just a friend or a relative. So
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: then I was meditating and I was like, if I'm
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: supposed to see something, like like, really see who he is,
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: show me in a gentle way. And two days later,
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: another friend sent me a screenshot of him where he
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: someone posted him on are we dating the same guy?
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: Every day? Women like came through the woodworks and that's
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: all I needed to see. Yeah, so he had like
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: a revolving off that elevator.
• 56:41
  Speaker 6: We're going down the stairs this time, baby, it's up
• 56:43
  Speaker 6: wrong with the elevator business talk with somebody in your building,
• 56:48
  Speaker 6: Like like that's just too close, it's too close, all
• 56:51
  Speaker 6: lived together, that's the case.
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: You won't see something like that, especially if you just
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: dating in this casual Yeah.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lesson learned never did.
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: Are you in a relationship now, No, ma'am?
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: Why the fuck is that funny? What advice do you
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: have for our listeners when it comes to their spirituality
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: and sex?
• 57:13
  Speaker 3: Well, I would suggest the sooner you can deal with
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: your trauma you're in her childhood trauma, the quicker you
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: can stop aligning with men that are in that same frequency,
• 57:26
  Speaker 3: because as long as you're putting the onus and the
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: blame solely on them, you're never going to get out
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: of that cycle. And then for karmic lessons, it doesn't
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: have to develop into anything further if you just take
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: the lesson for what it is and see what is
• 57:41
  Speaker 3: the role that I played. It's not saying that you're
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: the sole person that's responsible, but what did I contribute
• 57:47
  Speaker 3: to this? And the second you can do that you
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: get out of that loop as well. And then lastly,
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: making sure you rest so you can connect with yourself
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: and tap into your intuition.
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: And what's the name of that machine you said you.
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: The satisfire pro Too. They had that was the newer model, the.
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: Satisfied Pro Too. Amazon. You tonight, all right? Do you
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: want to do like a mini reading with one of us?
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: Oh? Like online.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, can you if you don't want to do that,
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: you don't have to a girl, I don't make me.
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: I mean like, well, what time is it? How much time? Oh?
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: We got like fifteen good minutes.
• 58:28
  Speaker 3: Oh, you don't have to.
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: You don't have to.
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: Quite nervous, because I don't like to mix my spirits.
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: So and that's why we in his sweating okay, because
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: we just like in all the spirits.
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: If you're still here when I'm when I'm not great,
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: I don't mind, Okay, okay, No, no, that's fair, that's fair.
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: I don't you know.
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: All right, Well, tell everybody where they can find Oh no,
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: she got to have a dumbit store. We got to
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: get the dumbis story.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't kind of tell did you keep sucking
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: to do it on that it?
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: No?
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: No, she w are you reculated?
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: Baby?
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: Come back upstairs.
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: I ain't say anything. There was nothing to be said.
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: Was y'all didn't have no conversation about that? Did you
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: to talk about?
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: Ye?
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: Well that's a good way to hang.
• 59:17
  Speaker 3: Know. Closure comes from when you realize why you why
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: you move the way you do. That's the closure you get, like,
• 59:24
  Speaker 3: oh my goodness, it really wasn't him. He's got his
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: own stuff. I'm not even mad at the perp. Like,
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: I'm not even mad at him because I can clearly
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: see when I was healing my trauma, like the trauma
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: that he had, and how we trauma ponded. So that
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: didn't it didn't have anything to do with me. It
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: was just.
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: It was what it was. Mm hm. All right, Well,
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: now tell everybody where they can find you to plug
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: all your things.
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: You can find me on Instagram at Underscore, a Secret
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: Garden Underscore, and my website a Secretgarden dot org. And
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: you got an event coming up right? Oh I do?
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, keep for remarking me. Wait, so I
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 3: have a couple events, but I do have We're doing
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: a retreat next month in like Wiley, South Carolina. It's
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: gonna I'm gonna have a sex She's like a sex therapist.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 3: She's a nurse practitioner, and she is really passionate about
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: women's orgasms. So the whole retreat is really centered around
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: emotional release, physical intimacy, things you can do to increase
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: your sex drive for those that are struggling. And then
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: we're gonna have an intuitive workshop next month, just playing
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: some fun games to teach you, like what type of
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: Claire are you? Are you clairvoyant, Clare audience, Claire sentient?
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: So yeah, this sounds like fun. Yeah, is that on
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 2: your page? All of those links?
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: Okay, y'all, y'all check that out, y'all, go Tapan the
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: sex therapists. They gonna have the pussy stimulated to the
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: what's it golf?
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: Oh and we give a lady.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: Give away.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 3: We do give away toys, but it's the satisfier pro
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  Speaker 3: to get the original one, get the.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 2: Get the two. The two is better. All right, this
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  Speaker 2: was fun.
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• 1:01:20
  Speaker 3: but I'm talking about.
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