Latest / Locatora Radio [A Radiophonic Novela] / The Evolution of the "Spicy Latina" With Maria Garcia
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Spicy Latina has to be a little bossy, a little jealous,
- 0:05Speaker 1: a little toxica. Yeah. You know, people want a toxica
- 0:09Speaker 1: until they really want it, until they really get a toxica. Yes. Absolutely. Yeah.
- 0:15Speaker 1: And then physically, the Spicy Latina trope has to be
- 0:20Speaker 1: legible to the white gaze. Right. So there has to
- 0:23Speaker 1: be markers of that, you know, like markers of the
- 0:27Speaker 1: sort of very visible ethnicity. So it's like performing Latinidad.
- 0:32Speaker 1: So cold jewelry, a bold lip, long, flowy, full hair,
- 0:42Speaker 1: dark eyes, curvy. So Latinas are curvy, probably short. Yeah. Yeah.
- 0:49Speaker 1: Under 5'5. So, yeah, to me, that's what Spicy Latina
- 0:54Speaker 1: Trope gives. Hola, hola, Locamores.
- 0:58Speaker 2: I'm Diosa, and you're listening to Locatora Radio, a radiophonic novela,
- 1:04Speaker 2: which is just an extra way of saying a podcast.
- 1:08Speaker 2: Mala is not in the studio today, but I have
- 1:11Speaker 2: the pleasure of being joined by Maria Garcia, the host
- 1:14Speaker 2: of a new podcast called Muy Excited with Maria Garcia.
- 1:19Speaker 2: You might also know her as the host of critically
- 1:21Speaker 2: acclaimed podcast Anything for Selena and My Divo.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Welcome, Maria, to Locatora Radio. Diosa, I'm so excited to
- 1:30Speaker 1: be here. I'm also a fan of your work and Mala's,
- 1:35Speaker 1: and so truly it's Such a pleasure to be here
- 1:38Speaker 1: with you. Thank you. I'm so glad that you're in studio.
- 1:41Speaker 2: The last time we had you on the show, I
- 1:43Speaker 2: think it was season 10 and it was virtual. So
- 1:47Speaker 2: it's such a treat to have you here in beautiful LA.
- 1:50Speaker 1: I love LA. Yes. I love LA. It has this
- 1:53Speaker 1: like a very special place in my heart, LA. I mean,
- 1:55Speaker 1: I think I've told you the story of the only
- 1:58Speaker 1: reason I don't move to LA. You have. You have.
- 2:01Speaker 1: You have. It's my lore.
- 2:03Speaker 3: Yes.
- 2:03Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you want to share it or is it private?
- 2:06Speaker 1: I think I can share it. I think I can
- 2:08Speaker 1: share it. So one time I was in Salem, Massachusetts,
- 2:12Speaker 1: and a medium told me... So some context here. I
- 2:16Speaker 1: was in Salem, Massachusetts with my partner, Cristela, and I
- 2:20Speaker 1: was visiting Salem. I was living in El Paso. I
- 2:23Speaker 1: still am. But I was considering moving to LA. And...
- 2:31Speaker 1: You know, I've lived in the East Coast in Boston,
- 2:33Speaker 1: New York, but I've never lived in the West Coast.
- 2:35Speaker 1: And I have such beautiful community here. I love Los Angeles.
- 2:40Speaker 1: Like it feels very familiar to me. And I was
- 2:46Speaker 1: seriously considering moving. And I had sort of like put
- 2:49Speaker 1: some plans in place to potentially move here. And this
- 2:54Speaker 1: this psychic medium told me that if I ever moved
- 2:57Speaker 1: to L.A., somebody in my family would die. Just straight
- 3:02Speaker 1: up like that. Straight up like that. And I didn't
- 3:06Speaker 1: give her a hint that I was considering it. And
- 3:09Speaker 1: she was like, you're considering moving to California. I can
- 3:13Speaker 1: see it. I know it. You're seriously considering moving there.
- 3:16Speaker 1: The universe is telling me to tell you not to
- 3:20Speaker 1: do it. Wow. And warning you that if you move,
- 3:23Speaker 1: somebody in your immediate family will die. And I was like, well, shit.
- 3:27Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not going to. Test that. But all
- 3:30Speaker 1: my friends here are like, you know what? Because it
- 3:33Speaker 1: was a white woman named Sunshine with blue hair in Salem, which,
- 3:38Speaker 1: you know, we love. We love Sunshine. We love Sunshine.
- 3:42Speaker 1: But a bunch of my friends are like, girl, you
- 3:43Speaker 1: got to go to a bruja, okay? And you got
- 3:45Speaker 1: to get this confirmed. Fair enough. You can't make life decisions.
- 3:48Speaker 1: But I was like, why do I test it? Why
- 3:51Speaker 1: test it? I think that that would deter any believer,
- 3:55Speaker 1: you know? Yes, yeah. Why test it?
- 3:58Speaker 2: And before we dive into today's topic, I feel like
- 4:01Speaker 2: because I have the privilege of having you in studio
- 4:04Speaker 2: and you're talking about brujas and getting your cards read
- 4:08Speaker 2: or whatever situation that was, you are like an astro queen.
- 4:16Speaker 1: You know a lot about astrology. Oh, well, thank you.
- 4:20Speaker 2: And I want to just take a moment to talk
- 4:22Speaker 2: about that briefly. Can you tell us your big three
- 4:27Speaker 2: or your four, depending?
- 4:28Speaker 1: Oh, sure. Girl, let me pull up my whole chart.
- 4:32Speaker 1: Let's do it. Yeah, I mean, I love astrology. It's
- 4:37Speaker 1: been a big guiding force for me. And yeah, I
- 4:42Speaker 1: just feel very connected to the practice. And we actually,
- 4:47Speaker 1: we did a podcast called Stars and Stars with Isa,
- 4:50Speaker 1: where Isa Nakasawa, who's an amazing astrologer, would have notable
- 4:53Speaker 1: guests and read them their birth chart while she interviewed them.
- 4:56Speaker 1: And executive produced that. And like, I feel so passionately
- 5:00Speaker 1: that astrology as an art form can be such a
- 5:05Speaker 1: help in, in helping you find your purpose and guide
- 5:09Speaker 1: you towards your purpose. You know, I don't believe in like,
- 5:12Speaker 1: predictive astrology, like this will happen. But I do believe
- 5:15Speaker 1: that astrology helps you understand sort of like the energetic
- 5:19Speaker 1: temperature of the time and like helps you watch out for,
- 5:23Speaker 1: you know, some of your, I wouldn't say weaknesses, but
- 5:27Speaker 1: some of the challenges and then and then helps you
- 5:30Speaker 1: with your strengths. So with that said, I'm a Gemini son.
- 5:37Speaker 1: We are marginalized. My mom's a Gemini. I know. I'm
- 5:43Speaker 1: part of the Gemini slander. I have to admit. Are
- 5:46Speaker 1: you really? I am only because.
- 5:49Speaker 2: I describe, and I've told you this, I describe my mother,
- 5:51Speaker 2: who's a Gemini, as a sour patch kid. You never
- 5:54Speaker 2: know which version you're going to get, sweet or sour. Now,
- 5:57Speaker 2: I don't attribute that or apply that to all Geminis.
- 6:01Speaker 2: I just have the privilege of having a Gemini mom.
- 6:04Speaker 1: No, it tracks. It tracks. It tracks. We are, you know,
- 6:07Speaker 1: we are mercurial. We are ruled by Mercury. Yes. I
- 6:14Speaker 1: saw a meme that was like, you think you can
- 6:15Speaker 1: hurt me? I was raised by a Gemini mom. And
- 6:17Speaker 1: I was like, why the internet got to bully me
- 6:20Speaker 1: like that? But I'm a Gemini sun. I'm an Aquarius moon.
- 6:29Speaker 1: And I'm a Leo rising. And I'm a Taurus Venus. Yes.
- 6:34Speaker 1: And I'm actually a Gemini and an Aquarius stellium, which
- 6:37Speaker 1: means I have multiple planets, three or more planets in
- 6:40Speaker 1: those signs. So I'm all air and fire. Very little water. Yeah.
- 6:46Speaker 1: And I find like astrology so poetic because my son,
- 6:49Speaker 1: for example, is a cancer son. And my partner is
- 6:54Speaker 1: a Pisces stellium. So it's like water, water, water, water.
- 6:59Speaker 1: And I have no water in my chart except for
- 7:01Speaker 1: my 12th house is in cancer. And so your 12th
- 7:04Speaker 1: house is sort of like the grand learning of your lifetime,
- 7:09Speaker 1: what you are supposed to like aspire to uncover in
- 7:12Speaker 1: your lifetime. And so the fact that It's in cancer,
- 7:16Speaker 1: which is the sun sign of my son. Like, I
- 7:19Speaker 1: just feel so privileged because I do feel like I
- 7:22Speaker 1: learned so much from him and from water signs in general.
- 7:25Speaker 1: I'm just like, wow, y'all really know how to feel
- 7:27Speaker 1: your feelings, you know? Absolutely.
- 7:30Speaker 2: I love that you explained that you have like multiple
- 7:35Speaker 2: planets in your stellium.
- 7:36Speaker 1: Is that what you... That's how you described it, right? Yeah.
- 7:39Speaker 1: So I have... So the stellium means that I have, yeah,
- 7:43Speaker 1: multiple planets in one sign.
- 7:45Speaker 2: And it makes sense because, Maria, if I may, when
- 7:49Speaker 2: I think of you and I look at you, I
- 7:52Speaker 2: just think like ethereal and like cosmos. Honestly, I'm like, wow,
- 7:58Speaker 2: what an ethereal beauty. Not only is she beautiful, she's
- 8:01Speaker 2: so brilliant. And so I just had to give you
- 8:04Speaker 2: this time to talk about the horoscopes or the zodiac.
- 8:09Speaker 2: And again, before we dive into today's topic, because I'm
- 8:11Speaker 2: so excited to discuss more, I want to ask you
- 8:16Speaker 2: just some advice you would give to someone who's like
- 8:19Speaker 2: barely tapping in to their birth chart. their zodiac sign
- 8:25Speaker 2: and like really uncovering that meaning for themselves.
- 8:28Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, first of all, thank you so much for
- 8:31Speaker 1: your kind words. That means so much to me because,
- 8:33Speaker 1: you know, I have so much respect and admiration for
- 8:37Speaker 1: you and a lot of cariño for you. You and
- 8:40Speaker 1: I are working on something, but we can't talk about
- 8:42Speaker 1: it yet. I know. We can't talk about it yet.
- 8:44Speaker 1: But so that means a lot to me. Thank you.
- 8:48Speaker 1: I guess the advice for somebody who was just starting
- 8:51Speaker 1: with astrology is, um, check out houses. A lot of
- 8:57Speaker 1: people forget houses. So they just look up placements, which
- 9:00Speaker 1: is like, Oh, your sun sign, which is, you know,
- 9:03Speaker 1: the main sign and in Gemini. Um, but also every
- 9:09Speaker 1: planet placement has a house sign. And so the house
- 9:13Speaker 1: sign sort of gives you like the flavor, right? So
- 9:16Speaker 1: for example, I'm a Gemini sun, but that, um, that
- 9:21Speaker 1: placement is in the 10th house for me. The 10th
- 9:23Speaker 1: house rules career and public roles. So for me, that
- 9:29Speaker 1: gives me a signal to what my purpose is, which
- 9:31Speaker 1: is I'm meant to be conveying ideas in a public way.
- 9:40Speaker 1: That's part of my purpose here on this planet. I
- 9:43Speaker 1: do believe that. And that's Where I find my passion
- 9:46Speaker 1: is like making meaning of stories like storytelling is like
- 9:50Speaker 1: one of my like the great love of my life,
- 9:53Speaker 1: you know, truly. Yeah. And so I would give that advice.
- 9:56Speaker 2: I love I love that and that I have a
- 9:58Speaker 2: follow-up question to that so you said that in your
- 10:01Speaker 2: house in your 10th house this is where you find
- 10:04Speaker 2: your purpose now did you come across this meaning and
- 10:09Speaker 2: interpretation and then did that take you down this path
- 10:12Speaker 2: or were you already on this path and of convening,
- 10:16Speaker 2: of meeting making, of storytelling, and that just affirmed what
- 10:19Speaker 2: you were already doing?
- 10:20Speaker 1: It was definitely the latter. Like I was already on
- 10:23Speaker 1: the path and then I saw my birth chart and
- 10:25Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, that makes so much sense. And
- 10:28Speaker 1: another big example of that is, so, you know, my
- 10:34Speaker 1: two podcasts before this, and I think for Selena and
- 10:36Speaker 1: My Devo, they were big healing journeys for me. Like
- 10:41Speaker 1: I do feel like I was working out some internal
- 10:46Speaker 1: emotional baggage around just like healing my inner child in
- 10:52Speaker 1: anything for Selena, my inner immigrant child. And with My Devo,
- 10:57Speaker 1: it was a healing journey around being queer and Mexican
- 11:02Speaker 1: at the same time and what that meant. And I
- 11:06Speaker 1: found myself just like always writing about these things that
- 11:12Speaker 1: I needed to heal and, like, working them out through
- 11:16Speaker 1: my work, you know, through my professional work. And I
- 11:20Speaker 1: was always like, why do I tend to do that?
- 11:23Speaker 1: And then I looked at my chart and, like, my
- 11:25Speaker 1: chyron is in my 10th house. The chyron is supposed
- 11:30Speaker 1: to be, like, sort of like your— it' s called the wounded healer.
- 11:33Speaker 1: And it's, like, the things in your life that you
- 11:36Speaker 1: are supposed to be sort of, like, healing through and
- 11:38Speaker 1: working through. Yeah. And it's in my 10th house of
- 11:41Speaker 1: like career and public roles, you know? So it's like,
- 11:44Speaker 1: I meant to sort of work these things out through
- 11:48Speaker 1: my writing. Publicly in some ways. Yeah. Which is kind
- 11:51Speaker 1: of scary. Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah.
- 11:54Speaker 2: But you do it with such grace and connects so
- 11:58Speaker 2: many people, I think, to their own stories and their
- 12:02Speaker 2: own journey, whether that be through identity, family, you know, origin.
- 12:09Speaker 1: All of that I think is very present in your work.
- 12:13Speaker 1: Thank you. That's been the most affirming and rewarding thing
- 12:16Speaker 1: is to hear people be like, hearing your work helped
- 12:21Speaker 1: me on my own healing journey. It's just so affirming
- 12:26Speaker 1: to hear that. And, you know, that's not to say
- 12:30Speaker 1: that all of my work is just about me healing.
- 12:33Speaker 1: I think I was telling Marlon, my collaborator recently that like,
- 12:39Speaker 1: I'm in my heel girl, heeled girl era. Girl, I've
- 12:45Speaker 1: done some shadow work, let me tell you. You know,
- 12:48Speaker 1: I've been in the dark and I do feel like
- 12:53Speaker 1: Muy Excited, my new show, has so much joy and
- 12:58Speaker 1: effervescence and anything Vercelina and my divo did too. But
- 13:04Speaker 1: I was also just wrestling with some really deep inner
- 13:07Speaker 1: stuff and this show is just so joyous and fun,
- 13:15Speaker 1: you know? And we talk about things that at first
- 13:19Speaker 1: seem kind of just like fun and frivolous, you know,
- 13:22Speaker 1: like Ricky Martin's evolution, like the history of the Chihuahuas,
- 13:26Speaker 1: like Luis Miguel and Mariah Carey, like Shakira's black hair,
- 13:31Speaker 1: like Kate Moss even. But at the end of the day,
- 13:34Speaker 1: it's like, I want to say something profound about these things.
- 13:38Speaker 1: You know, I want to make meaning like I want
- 13:41Speaker 1: to tell you like I don't want to just tell
- 13:42Speaker 1: you a good story. I want to tell you like
- 13:45Speaker 1: what that good story is telling us about ourselves, you know,
- 13:48Speaker 1: and it's been like so wonderful to do that in
- 13:53Speaker 1: a way that where I feel. Yeah, where I feel
- 13:57Speaker 1: just like really connected to the storytelling and to the
- 14:00Speaker 1: meaning making. That's so beautiful and so fitting as to
- 14:04Speaker 1: why you're joining me here today, because we're going to
- 14:07Speaker 1: do a deep dive into, I think, Latina tropes, but
- 14:13Speaker 1: more specifically, the spicy Latina and its evolution and even
- 14:18Speaker 1: its pushback and how that's morphed into different types of
- 14:22Speaker 1: roles that we now can see Latinas in. And one
- 14:26Speaker 1: thing we love to do on Locatora is..
- 14:29Speaker 2: Take these cultural moments, take these cultural figures, take film, TV, music,
- 14:36Speaker 2: pop culture, and think about what it's reflecting back to us.
- 14:41Speaker 1: And I want us to get into that today. That's
- 14:44Speaker 1: so fun. Let's do it. Let's do it. I'm so down. Yes. Okay.
- 14:47Speaker 2: So I want to start by just defining the spicy Latina,
- 14:52Speaker 2: the quote spicy Latina. It's first image, first representation goes
- 14:57Speaker 2: back decades. as far as the 1920s. But I want
- 15:01Speaker 2: to know how you see the spicy Latina trope and how,
- 15:05Speaker 2: what's your understanding of it?
- 15:08Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, my understanding of it is that it comes from,
- 15:14Speaker 1: you know, obviously the white gaze, right? And that it's
- 15:19Speaker 1: an exaggeration of, I think, a self-empowered Latina, but in
- 15:26Speaker 1: this sort of like really reductive, stereotypical way. So a
- 15:31Speaker 1: spicy Latina to me has to be a few things. Hot.
- 15:35Speaker 1: You know, there's this expectation that spicy Latinas are sexy
- 15:41Speaker 1: and beautiful and confident and know it and they're fierce.
- 15:48Speaker 1: To a spicy Latina has to be a little bitchy.
- 15:52Speaker 1: You know? And I think my theory is that it
- 15:56Speaker 1: comes from like white men who kind of want to
- 15:59Speaker 1: be bossed around by a latina you know what i
- 16:02Speaker 1: mean like it's like their little fantasy you know don't
- 16:06Speaker 1: go anywhere loca mores we'll be right back so yeah
- 16:14Speaker 1: has to be a little a little bossy um a
- 16:20Speaker 1: little jealous. We're a little toxica. People want a toxica
- 16:25Speaker 1: until they really want it, until they really get a toxica. Yes. Absolutely. Yeah.
- 16:33Speaker 1: And then physically, the spicy Latina trope has to be
- 16:37Speaker 1: legible to the white gaze as Latina. So there has
- 16:42Speaker 1: to be markers of that, like markers of the sort
- 16:46Speaker 1: of very visible ethnicity. So it's like performing Latinidad. So
- 16:53Speaker 1: cold jewelry, a bold lip, long, flowy, full hair, dark eyes,
- 17:02Speaker 1: you know, a come-hither gaze, curvy. Spicy Latinas are curvy.
- 17:09Speaker 1: Probably short. You know what I mean? Yeah. Under 5'5. So, yeah,
- 17:15Speaker 1: to me, that's what spicy Latina trope gives. Yeah, absolutely.
- 17:20Speaker 1: I agree with all of those examples.
- 17:22Speaker 2: And especially I think in addition to what you said
- 17:26Speaker 2: is also like having an accent. You know, an exaggerated
- 17:29Speaker 2: accent at that.
- 17:30Speaker 1: Yes. So let's dive into that specifically. So when prepping for.
- 17:36Speaker 2: This episode, learned about this actress named Lupe Velez. She
- 17:40Speaker 2: rose up to fame during the golden age of Hollywood cinema.
- 17:44Speaker 2: And she starred in this film called The Girl from Mexico.
- 17:48Speaker 1: And then. OK. The Mexican Spitfire. OK. Yes.
- 17:52Speaker 2: And so most people think of Carmen Miranda as the originator.
- 17:58Speaker 2: of this trope or this trope was placed on her,
- 18:01Speaker 2: on Carmen Miranda. But before Carmen Miranda, there was Lupe Velez.
- 18:07Speaker 2: And she was, it seems like she identified as a Chicana,
- 18:11Speaker 2: was born in San Luis Potosi, but went to school
- 18:15Speaker 2: in Texas.
- 18:17Speaker 1: And made her way in Hollywood and.
- 18:21Speaker 2: Was not necessarily given the shine the way the other
- 18:25Speaker 2: actresses were at that time. The actresses from Mexico, like
- 18:28Speaker 2: we think of Dolores del Rio, we think of Maria Felix. She,
- 18:32Speaker 2: for some reason or another, did not reach that caliber,
- 18:36Speaker 2: maybe because she took on more, quote, comedic roles. But
- 18:42Speaker 2: That is when I learned that she starred in these
- 18:45Speaker 2: films that came out in the 1930s, the late 1930s
- 18:48Speaker 2: and early 1940s. And she had this storied career, but
- 18:52Speaker 2: she represented this, quote, spitfire, this spicy Latina before Carmen
- 18:58Speaker 2: Miranda did.
- 18:59Speaker 1: Wow, that's fascinating. Lupe Velez.
- 19:01Speaker 3: Yes.
- 19:02Speaker 1: What did she look like?
- 19:03Speaker 2: She was beautiful, you know, of course, like petite, brown hair,
- 19:10Speaker 2: you know, um... I mean, she's made up in, like,
- 19:13Speaker 2: this 1940s makeup, you know?
- 19:15Speaker 1: And in the.
- 19:15Speaker 2: Posters for the film, they're very bright, they're very colorful.
- 19:19Speaker 2: She's very luscious in them.
- 19:21Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. Wow. Well, you know, my thing about the
- 19:28Speaker 1: fiery Latina is I never want to judge the women
- 19:35Speaker 1: who have had to play these roles for a couple
- 19:39Speaker 1: of reasons. One is... You know, we know that these industries,
- 19:43Speaker 1: especially the filmmaking industry, I mean, has been historically and
- 19:48Speaker 1: even on a contemporary level, like, you know, engineered mostly
- 19:54Speaker 1: by white folks, by white men in particular. And for example,
- 19:58Speaker 1: I think of somebody like Meryl Streep, who is arguably
- 20:05Speaker 1: the best actor in the world, right? Has the most...
- 20:10Speaker 1: Oscar nominations from anyone in the world. We have an
- 20:13Speaker 1: episode and we excited about her. But she said a
- 20:16Speaker 1: quote that stuck with me, which is that women actors
- 20:20Speaker 1: are essentially like at the mercy of the roles that
- 20:24Speaker 1: are offered to them. Yeah. who are building their own
- 20:42Speaker 1: film studios who are able to do that more. Yes.
- 20:45Speaker 1: And thank you. They're doing the Lord's work. We love them. Trailblazers.
- 20:48Speaker 1: But historically, like women actors have really been at the
- 20:51Speaker 1: whim of like the roles that are offered to them,
- 20:56Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, absolutely.
- 20:57Speaker 2: I mean, we can't put today's context and lens on
- 21:01Speaker 2: the actresses of that time period.
- 21:04Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 21:10Speaker 2: 1940s, consider what roles were available to them. This was
- 21:14Speaker 2: a time when Latino actors were pressured to change their
- 21:18Speaker 2: names so that they didn't have a quote Spanish sounding
- 21:22Speaker 2: last name. So all of that context is important, but
- 21:25Speaker 2: also shows us how a trope that has lasted all
- 21:32Speaker 2: these years was created, why the possibility and the framework
- 21:37Speaker 2: was there because of all these All these different reasons,
- 21:41Speaker 2: the historical context.
- 21:42Speaker 1: Yeah. And we see that it's lasting, right? That it
- 21:46Speaker 1: like lasted over the decades. I think of, for example,
- 21:51Speaker 1: some of Salma Hayek's movies, which I love Salma. This
- 21:54Speaker 1: is truly not a dig like. But, you know, Fool's Russian, right?
- 21:59Speaker 1: The movie she did with Matthew Perry. Yes. She's a
- 22:01Speaker 1: total spicy Latina in that film, right?
- 22:04Speaker 2: She's just, like, chopping vegetables, cooking, and listening to salsa.
- 22:08Speaker 1: I mean, same. Yeah, truly. I mean, we love you
- 22:12Speaker 1: for it, girl. I mean, truly, like, you'll catch me
- 22:15Speaker 1: in my kitchen doing that once in a while, right? Yes, yes.
- 22:18Speaker 1: And I actually, like, love that movie. Same. It's so good.
- 22:21Speaker 1: You know? But, yeah, I think..
- 22:23Speaker 3: To your point, like, I think that was, what did
- 22:26Speaker 3: that come out in the early 2000s, the early.
- 22:28Speaker 1: Aughts, more or less? Was it or was it the
- 22:30Speaker 1: late 90s? I don't know. We would have to double
- 22:32Speaker 1: check that. But around that era. Around that time. Yeah. Yeah.
- 22:36Speaker 1: And we can see that film as the classic now.
- 22:39Speaker 2: But, you know, one that we can also look at
- 22:42Speaker 2: that context like, OK, this is what was happening here.
- 22:45Speaker 1: Of course. And, you know, two things can exist at once. Yes.
- 22:48Speaker 1: You know, like... You can love Salma in that movie
- 22:51Speaker 1: and you can enjoy that movie. And you can also
- 22:53Speaker 1: recognize that it's like acting out a trope. Right. And
- 22:58Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that like we don't enjoy it or
- 23:00Speaker 1: that that we can't recognize Salma so good in that
- 23:04Speaker 1: movie and that it's a classic. But it definitely is
- 23:07Speaker 1: like quintessential spicy Latina from dusk till dawn, you know,
- 23:11Speaker 1: where she comes out. Honestly, like iconic scene. So good.
- 23:15Speaker 1: Iconic scene where Salma comes out. With the big snake
- 23:19Speaker 1: and she's dancing and she puts like her toe in
- 23:23Speaker 1: the guy's mouth, I think. So good. Honestly, hot. Like
- 23:29Speaker 1: she's so, it's her at her prime. She's so beautiful.
- 23:34Speaker 1: You know, obviously body is tea, like just incredibly gorgeous.
- 23:40Speaker 1: And also, you know, playing out, you know, This this
- 23:46Speaker 1: idea that Latinas must be just sizzling hot. Yeah.
- 23:51Speaker 2: You know, always wanting to have sex like that's one
- 23:55Speaker 2: of the things the one of the messages that we get.
- 23:57Speaker 1: Right. Is that there's.
- 23:59Speaker 2: When thinking about this idea of like both things can
- 24:01Speaker 2: be true. It's like, yes, we are all sexual beings.
- 24:06Speaker 2: a lot of us do enjoy, right, having sex. But
- 24:12Speaker 2: I think the hyper-sexualization of these characters, right, then create this,
- 24:19Speaker 2: feed into that trope, create this dehumanizing aspect as well
- 24:23Speaker 2: of these characters.
- 24:24Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely. Well, you know, we just ran an episode
- 24:29Speaker 1: about Ricky Martin, right? And that was... The central tension
- 24:35Speaker 1: to me of his narrative arc and his career is that,
- 24:40Speaker 1: you know, he's like the quintessential example of the so-called
- 24:44Speaker 1: Latin boom in the late 90s. And, you know, that
- 24:48Speaker 1: Grammys performance where he sang the Cup of Life and
- 24:54Speaker 1: issued in Ricky Mania. You know, I mean, he really
- 24:57Speaker 1: was he was on the cover of every single magazine ever.
- 25:00Speaker 1: He was the first Latino to release a song that
- 25:03Speaker 1: went number one on the Billboard 200 chart. He drew
- 25:08Speaker 1: in like the biggest crowd in the history of the
- 25:11Speaker 1: Today Show up until that point. I mean, he really
- 25:14Speaker 1: was like a mainstream American success. Right. Not just like
- 25:18Speaker 1: a American Latino, but mainstream white American success. And, you know,
- 25:25Speaker 1: he had to sort of like fit a mold and
- 25:27Speaker 1: he's written about it. You know, he he was expected
- 25:31Speaker 1: to be a hot Latin lover. And the expectation was
- 25:36Speaker 1: that he had to be seductive to women and seduce
- 25:41Speaker 1: women specifically. And here he was like gay. Right. And
- 25:47Speaker 1: unable to come out and deeply internally conflicted. Because his
- 25:55Speaker 1: dreams came with a cost, which was fit into this box,
- 26:00Speaker 1: be legible to this audience. And if you stray from that,
- 26:04Speaker 1: then your success is not guaranteed in this country. And
- 26:12Speaker 1: there's so many Latinos who have navigated that. Absolutely.
- 26:16Speaker 2: And I think there's, when thinking about even a more...
- 26:22Speaker 2: contemporary i don't know is it 2015 2010s is that
- 26:25Speaker 2: even contemporary anymore but like thinking of a character like
- 26:29Speaker 2: gloria from modern family yeah who's played by sofia vergara
- 26:34Speaker 2: beautiful iconic such a hilarious character in so many ways
- 26:39Speaker 2: but i i think at that time the way she
- 26:42Speaker 2: her character was written it so much of the joke
- 26:44Speaker 2: was about no one being able to understand her because
- 26:47Speaker 2: her accent was so thick Yeah. Or in English, she
- 26:51Speaker 2: was kind of, quote, dumb.
- 26:53Speaker 1: Right. That was like how she was portrayed. Yeah.
- 26:56Speaker 2: But then there were these moments where her character would
- 26:58Speaker 2: say things like, do you even know how funny I
- 27:00Speaker 2: am in Spanish?
- 27:01Speaker 1: Do you even know how smart I am? Yeah.
- 27:04Speaker 2: And I feel like that character held a lot of
- 27:07Speaker 2: that tension. of playing this really sexy, beautiful Latina, but
- 27:13Speaker 2: also there was some complexity in how she was being
- 27:16Speaker 2: read and how this character was being read in this
- 27:20Speaker 2: family in particular. I think it complicates that a little bit.
- 27:23Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. I think that character does show an
- 27:27Speaker 1: evolution in the way that society is one, is more
- 27:31Speaker 1: aware of the trope and maybe still engages with the trope,
- 27:34Speaker 1: but in a way that wrestles with it, right? We
- 27:37Speaker 1: see that in the show. It's very meta, that it
- 27:42Speaker 1: knows that this character is a trope, but that it, yeah,
- 27:47Speaker 1: navigates it differently. And I do think that that is
- 27:51Speaker 1: an example of maybe art reflecting life in some way,
- 27:55Speaker 1: because I have always felt that Sofia Vergara, I don't
- 28:01Speaker 1: think she gets the respect she deserves. And I have
- 28:06Speaker 1: seen interviews with her when she's been on late night
- 28:09Speaker 1: shows with other celebrity guests. And there is a mirroring
- 28:17Speaker 1: of the way people treat Gloria and they treat her.
- 28:20Speaker 1: Like the one and the same. Yeah, like there is...
- 28:25Speaker 1: There is some similarity there, because Sofia does naturally have
- 28:31Speaker 1: an accent. Yeah, I see it. I see it. And
- 28:38Speaker 1: I've always wondered what that's like for her. I think
- 28:41Speaker 1: something that's really popular right now online is... People cutting, well,
- 28:47Speaker 1: people going back to these late night talk shows and
- 28:52Speaker 1: clipping these really uncomfortable moments, specifically for women who are
- 28:58Speaker 1: being interviewed.
- 28:59Speaker 2: And in this case, Sofia Vergara. And where the host,
- 29:03Speaker 2: typically a white man, is obtuse to maybe how uncomfortable
- 29:09Speaker 2: she is or doesn't care.
- 29:11Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 29:12Speaker 2: Because it's part of the bit, part of the quote
- 29:14Speaker 2: joke scene. But I've seen a couple of Sophia in
- 29:17Speaker 2: particular where folks have gone back and really highlighted these
- 29:21Speaker 2: different moments where she is being hypersexualized during an interview.
- 29:26Speaker 2: And you can see like kind of that wrestling of
- 29:29Speaker 2: do I play into this because this is a part
- 29:32Speaker 2: of my job and this is I'm here to perform
- 29:35Speaker 2: in a way. But also, you know, like slow your
- 29:39Speaker 2: roll like. I'm, I'm an actor, like this is my job,
- 29:42Speaker 2: you know? And I see that tension, I think with
- 29:44Speaker 2: her in particular.
- 29:45Speaker 1: And I agree.
- 29:46Speaker 2: I don't think she's always given that respect or her
- 29:49Speaker 2: flowers for like how much she's endured. And in some,
- 29:53Speaker 2: I think in some ways it's, I don't know if
- 29:56Speaker 2: we recognize her as a trailblazer.
- 29:57Speaker 1: Like she was doing comedy. You know, she's played comedic roles. Yeah. Yeah.
- 30:03Speaker 1: She's treated as a punchline for sure. Like put some
- 30:06Speaker 1: respect on her name. Yeah. You know, for sure. Yeah.
- 30:10Speaker 1: You know, I'm so glad that we're at an age
- 30:13Speaker 1: where we have this rich archive of people being horrible.
- 30:18Speaker 1: yeah yeah like 10 20 years ago um and i
- 30:23Speaker 1: have to tell you for me excited a lot you
- 30:26Speaker 1: know it's culture moments of the past and present so
- 30:29Speaker 1: we use a lot of archival sound you know to
- 30:34Speaker 1: to demonstrate someone's story and these interviews so i've spent
- 30:40Speaker 1: so much time looking at old vintage interview i mean
- 30:44Speaker 1: vintage like the year 2000 vintage it's retro now um
- 30:51Speaker 1: i i know you talked about one in particular in
- 30:53Speaker 1: episode one of your show with ricky martin and barbara
- 30:56Speaker 1: walters i also want to know don't go anywhere we'll
- 31:01Speaker 1: be right back If there's any that stand out to you. Absolutely.
- 31:10Speaker 1: Diane Sawyer and Britney Spears.
- 31:11Speaker 3: Yes.
- 31:12Speaker 1: Oh, girl. Yes. I watched that and my blood boils.
- 31:18Speaker 1: And look, like I think you know me more on
- 31:23Speaker 1: a personal level. And like I'm not one. I'm just
- 31:25Speaker 1: not like a big shit talker. And I'm not a
- 31:29Speaker 1: person who calls someone out. I believe in calling people in.
- 31:33Speaker 1: But this is one where I was just like, you
- 31:35Speaker 1: know what? Like these people, they mistreated Britney. They abused
- 31:43Speaker 1: her psychologically. So many people in the media. And I
- 31:48Speaker 1: do call them out in the episode because it's shameful
- 31:53Speaker 1: what they did to her. Like, yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
- 31:58Speaker 2: And I think then there's this desire to then look away.
- 32:02Speaker 1: Right. We can look.
- 32:03Speaker 2: Back on the treatment that Brittany endured by the media,
- 32:08Speaker 2: by late night talk show host, also someone who became
- 32:12Speaker 2: a punchline.
- 32:13Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 32:14Speaker 2: And we can see looking back then like, oh, that
- 32:16Speaker 2: was wrong. She shouldn't have been treated that way. Take
- 32:19Speaker 2: it to present day when she's posting stuff on social
- 32:22Speaker 2: media and making people uncomfortable. People want to look away.
- 32:26Speaker 2: There's like this cognitive dissonance that.
- 32:28Speaker 1: Happens, I feel like, in particular with Brittany, where we
- 32:32Speaker 1: can look back on the past and say that was wrong,
- 32:35Speaker 1: but then can't see what's happening right in front of
- 32:37Speaker 1: us and recognize like, well, this.
- 32:39Speaker 2: Person still has this. perhaps mental health problems is clearly
- 32:43Speaker 2: recovering from decades of being abused and healing can be uncomfortable.
- 32:49Speaker 2: And when it's in your face that way online, I
- 32:52Speaker 2: think people panic or they get really uncomfortable and they
- 32:56Speaker 2: don't know what to do with it.
- 32:57Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and healing is nonlinear, you know, like what's
- 33:02Speaker 1: really bothered me about the Brittany conversation is like, you know,
- 33:06Speaker 1: any little thing she does and people are like, well,
- 33:08Speaker 1: that's why the conservatorship. And it's like, No, no, you can't. Like,
- 33:14Speaker 1: like our girl has been through the ringer. Like, give
- 33:17Speaker 1: her some grace. You know, she's she's coming out on
- 33:21Speaker 1: the other side and sometimes it's going to look a
- 33:23Speaker 1: little messy. And yeah, I have a huge soft spot
- 33:29Speaker 1: for Britney for sure. I agree. Yeah.
- 33:31Speaker 2: If there's anyone that deserves like all the grace and
- 33:34Speaker 2: all the love from the world, from the universe.
- 33:37Speaker 1: It's Britney. Yeah. Justice for Britney all the way. Agreed. Agreed. Yeah. Yeah.
- 33:42Speaker 2: OK, so I now want to talk about some of
- 33:46Speaker 2: the Latinas, either past or present, who have pushed back
- 33:50Speaker 2: on this spicy Latina trope, either in.
- 33:54Speaker 1: There like as as real people.
- 33:56Speaker 3: Right.
- 33:56Speaker 1: Like I'm thinking of like Aubrey Plaza.
- 33:59Speaker 2: She's like the deadpan Latina or Latina actresses who have
- 34:04Speaker 2: taken on roles or characters who also push back on
- 34:07Speaker 2: this trope.
- 34:10Speaker 1: You know who I think is one that doesn't get
- 34:12Speaker 1: enough credit for something like this? Is J-Lo. Yes. I
- 34:20Speaker 1: do think she doesn't get enough credit because, you know,
- 34:23Speaker 1: think about all the rom-coms she's done. I mean, she's
- 34:26Speaker 1: one of the queens of rom-com. Maybe arguably the queen
- 34:31Speaker 1: of rom-com of our era. And, you know, for example, Monster-in-Law.
- 34:36Speaker 1: She's not a spicy Latina there. She's not. She's not
- 34:40Speaker 1: at all. She's a temp worker, you know? She walks
- 34:43Speaker 1: dogs and she's an artist. Yes. Like, she did roles
- 34:49Speaker 1: that really upended this idea that Latinas had to be, like,
- 34:54Speaker 1: you know, fiery, super sexualized in every role, you know?
- 34:59Speaker 1: And I don't think she gets enough credit for her
- 35:02Speaker 1: rom-com roles. I love that.
- 35:04Speaker 2: Because when I was prepping for this episode with you,
- 35:07Speaker 2: I went back and listened to the episode that we
- 35:10Speaker 2: had last season with you, and we were talking about J-Lo.
- 35:13Speaker 1: And so I just love that this is coming full.
- 35:16Speaker 2: Circle because I am a J-Lo stan, and people always
- 35:19Speaker 2: want me to say something bad about her, like be
- 35:23Speaker 2: honest about her. And I'm like, I don't know her
- 35:25Speaker 2: as a person. I know her as a cultural icon,
- 35:27Speaker 2: and that's how I'm going to read her and talk
- 35:30Speaker 2: about her.
- 35:31Speaker 1: And I agree. I think that— The pendulum swings. She
- 35:36Speaker 1: was beloved. Right now she's.
- 35:38Speaker 2: Not the favorite. There's been a lot of hatred. But
- 35:42Speaker 2: I have a feeling it's going to swing back.
- 35:44Speaker 1: Yeah. And, you know, the thing about J-Lo is it's
- 35:47Speaker 1: okay to wrestle with her legacy and trajectory a little bit,
- 35:51Speaker 1: you know, for it to be, like, a little messy. Yeah, messy.
- 35:57Speaker 1: All of our faves have messy trajectories. For sure. For sure.
- 36:02Speaker 1: All of them do. All of them do. For me,
- 36:05Speaker 1: the thing that's been really hard for me with JLo
- 36:08Speaker 1: is that she didn't give Ashanti credit for the singing.
- 36:13Speaker 1: And I just feel like, girl. And also, I'm a
- 36:18Speaker 1: Mariah Carey stan. Yeah, same. You know, I'm a believer
- 36:21Speaker 1: that you can be both. Why choose? Why choose? I
- 36:27Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like Mimi would make us choose. Oh,
- 36:29Speaker 1: Mimi would 1,000% make us choose. Yes, yes. But me,
- 36:35Speaker 1: I am not going to choose. Yeah, and I think,
- 36:39Speaker 1: you know, I think she's someone who..
- 36:43Speaker 2: Also deserves like to be looked at through a context
- 36:47Speaker 2: of the time she came up in.
- 36:49Speaker 1: Yes.
- 36:50Speaker 2: You know, and when Ashanti's voice was being sampled, I
- 36:54Speaker 2: don't think she was at the caliber that we would
- 36:56Speaker 2: say she is now.
- 36:57Speaker 1: Totally.
- 36:57Speaker 2: I think she was still beholden to record labels and producers.
- 37:02Speaker 2: And I agree that there should have been credits given,
- 37:08Speaker 2: that there should be recognition that If there's any royalties
- 37:12Speaker 2: that were not given, should be given. But I also
- 37:15Speaker 2: think that she becomes a scapegoat for like everything wrong
- 37:19Speaker 2: in the music industry when it's.
- 37:21Speaker 1: There's so many. I mean, Tommy Mottola. Oh, my God.
- 37:24Speaker 1: Was at the at the. You know, he was totally there.
- 37:27Speaker 1: That was that was. Yeah, that was his move. Totally.
- 37:30Speaker 1: And we know why. Yes. Yes. She was the foil
- 37:35Speaker 1: to Mariah Carey.
- 37:37Speaker 2: And so I for me, it's like I want all
- 37:40Speaker 2: that context to be shared when we're talking about JLo
- 37:43Speaker 2: and that time period in particular.
- 37:44Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I agree. And ultimately, like I, I
- 37:49Speaker 1: also think JLo, look, nobody works as hard as JLo. Nobody.
- 37:53Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Nobody works as hard as JLo. I just,
- 37:58Speaker 1: I believe that with my whole heart. Um, and you know,
- 38:03Speaker 1: she says something like, it's okay to be misunderstood. Like
- 38:06Speaker 1: she said that multiple times that you have to be
- 38:08Speaker 1: comfortable with being misunderstood. And the thing I love about JLo,
- 38:12Speaker 1: let me tell you is girlfriend is okay with being seen.
- 38:17Speaker 1: And I know that sounds very basic. Like You have
- 38:20Speaker 1: to be if you're a movie star. But no, truly, like,
- 38:23Speaker 1: you know, this last, like, movie album she did for
- 38:27Speaker 1: Ben Affleck before they broke up with the steampunk thing.
- 38:32Speaker 1: I loved it because it was so earnest. It was so, like, cringe.
- 38:38Speaker 1: Cringe doesn't know her. Yes. She does not know that feeling. Yeah,
- 38:42Speaker 1: cringe hates to see her coming, you know. And I
- 38:45Speaker 1: love somebody who lives that way. I love somebody who says, like,
- 38:49Speaker 1: I'm in love right now and I want to scream
- 38:51Speaker 1: it from the rooftops and I want to do it
- 38:53Speaker 1: my way. And I don't care if people think it's corny.
- 38:55Speaker 1: I don't care if people think it's confusing. I don't
- 38:57Speaker 1: care if people think it's cringy. Like I didn't think
- 39:00Speaker 1: it was cringy. I loved it. I loved it, too.
- 39:03Speaker 1: I loved it. I loved it. I was like immediately. Yes. Yeah.
- 39:08Speaker 1: That was like a turning point for me with JLo.
- 39:10Speaker 1: I was like, I, I really. Yeah. I feel like
- 39:13Speaker 1: I get her more. And I saw her in an
- 39:15Speaker 1: interview where she talked about how. When she has a partner,
- 39:20Speaker 1: like for a long time, she wanted to share her
- 39:24Speaker 1: public life with the partner. Like she wanted a partner
- 39:27Speaker 1: who was there in the red carpet with her. she
- 39:29Speaker 1: wanted somebody she could thank in awards like and to
- 39:34Speaker 1: me I think it's really gutsy to say something like
- 39:37Speaker 1: that because you hear all these celebrities being like My
- 39:39Speaker 1: private life. My private life. It's all private. It's all private.
- 39:43Speaker 1: You know? And J-Lo's like, no. I'm a fucking diva. Yeah.
- 39:48Speaker 1: And whoever is going to be with me has to
- 39:50Speaker 1: be in the diva spotlight. Yeah. And girl, I love
- 39:54Speaker 1: a diva who owns her divaness. And J-Lo does it
- 39:57Speaker 1: better than anyone. And I think, like, she deserves some
- 40:01Speaker 1: respect for that. I'm with you. I'm with you. I
- 40:04Speaker 1: thought the film, her self-funded film, was campy. It was... creative.
- 40:10Speaker 1: And I think it just it needed to find the
- 40:13Speaker 1: right audience is what I think, you know, and I
- 40:16Speaker 1: agree there is. it's bold to put yourself out there
- 40:21Speaker 1: in that way.
- 40:22Speaker 2: And I, and when we talked about this on the show,
- 40:25Speaker 2: we did like a whole deep dive on the film
- 40:29Speaker 2: and why it was so hot to hate JLo at
- 40:31Speaker 2: that point. And something that we, we talked about was one,
- 40:36Speaker 2: like the, I think ageism of it all, you know,
- 40:40Speaker 2: like there's this, she should like, you know, be not
- 40:44Speaker 2: in the spotlight anymore. She should like sit at home.
- 40:47Speaker 2: and not be making anything anymore. And then two, actually,
- 40:52Speaker 2: it's okay if people make bad art. And that's subjective,
- 40:56Speaker 2: of course, but not everything is going to be a masterpiece.
- 41:00Speaker 2: Not everything is going to be Grammy winning or Academy
- 41:03Speaker 2: Award winning. And we can let art be bad for
- 41:06Speaker 2: the sake of someone made art. And I think that
- 41:10Speaker 2: that is something when I look at that film, even
- 41:12Speaker 2: though I liked it, I'm like, let it be bad.
- 41:15Speaker 2: She wanted to make it. She had the funds to
- 41:17Speaker 2: make it and she loves it.
- 41:18Speaker 1: She stands by it. And what can we learn from
- 41:21Speaker 1: bad art?
- 41:22Speaker 2: You know, I think that was my principled stance behind
- 41:25Speaker 2: that film.
- 41:26Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm so tired of people wanting to elevate everything
- 41:29Speaker 1: like people like. I'm going to do this, but elevated.
- 41:32Speaker 1: I'm going to do this, but elevated. And it's like, girl,
- 41:35Speaker 1: I want to stay down here. Let it be lowbrow
- 41:37Speaker 1: if it needs to be lowbrow. Yes, exactly. Like not
- 41:41Speaker 1: everything has to be like super elevated. And the thing is, like,
- 41:45Speaker 1: I didn't even think that was bad art. Like I
- 41:48Speaker 1: don't look at it and think like this is objectively
- 41:50Speaker 1: bad art. I can understand the critiques. I do intellectually
- 41:54Speaker 1: like get the criticisms around it. But to me, it
- 41:59Speaker 1: was so fun and so imbued by her spirit and
- 42:03Speaker 1: her enthusiasm that, like, that inherently makes it good. Because
- 42:08Speaker 1: I feel like I was experiencing her, like, her devotion
- 42:14Speaker 1: to this love, this decades-long, like, clearly, like, one of
- 42:21Speaker 1: the loves of her life. And I just..
- 42:24Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 42:25Speaker 1: You know, I'm down for it. Yeah. She's a lover girl.
- 42:27Speaker 1: I see it. I don't think her and Ben Affleck
- 42:31Speaker 1: are done. I think. Oh, no, I don't think that's
- 42:33Speaker 1: not done. No, absolutely not.
- 42:35Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 42:36Speaker 2: Maybe maybe it'll be less public next time. But also,
- 42:39Speaker 2: if it's not, I'm here for it.
- 42:40Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
- 42:42Speaker 2: OK, so another Latina actress that I wanted to bring
- 42:46Speaker 2: up today.
- 42:47Speaker 1: Is Jenna Ortega. Yes. I think she's like giving us
- 42:51Speaker 1: like light goth. At least on the red carpet. Yeah.
- 42:55Speaker 2: I think she brings like a different energy to, I think,
- 43:00Speaker 2: the tropes that we've seen in.
- 43:02Speaker 1: How she performs, you know, in her roles.
- 43:04Speaker 2: And also, you know, when she's doing interviews, when she's
- 43:07Speaker 2: doing press, I think she gives us something a little different.
- 43:11Speaker 1: I agree. I agree. And I do think that, you know.
- 43:15Speaker 1: I don't think we could have gone straight into the
- 43:18Speaker 1: era of like Jenna Ortega and, you know, the awkward
- 43:22Speaker 1: Latina Aubrey Plaza, you know, and I mean that lovingly.
- 43:28Speaker 1: I think that the OGs had to break some of
- 43:33Speaker 1: those stereotypes for us to get here. Yeah. You know,
- 43:37Speaker 1: and that's why I do think like I love paying
- 43:40Speaker 1: homage to. to like the artists who came before, because
- 43:45Speaker 1: I do think like, you know, evolution, cultural evolution is iterative.
- 43:50Speaker 1: It happens over generations, you know? And so I do
- 43:54Speaker 1: believe that the, the Shakira's and the Ricky Martin's of
- 43:58Speaker 1: the world, like did pave a way, you know, for
- 44:03Speaker 1: Jenna Ortega, right. To be as like goth and ridiculous,
- 44:09Speaker 1: ejecting of the of the fiery Latina trope for young
- 44:14Speaker 1: Miko you know to be a sort of like openly
- 44:18Speaker 1: queer and fabulous on stage um like and so I'm
- 44:23Speaker 1: so glad we're living in an age where we're where
- 44:26Speaker 1: we're dismantling those tropes I think it's it's happening slowly
- 44:31Speaker 1: but I do think it is happening yeah do you.
- 44:34Speaker 2: Think the pendulum will ever swing back to the spicy
- 44:37Speaker 2: Latina or do you think.
- 44:42Speaker 1: Or do you think it'll come back? I think it'll
- 44:45Speaker 1: come back. Yeah, I think it'll come back. But I think,
- 44:48Speaker 1: you know, even if it does, you know, I think
- 44:52Speaker 1: in the long arc of history, you know, I do
- 44:55Speaker 1: think that we will live in a society and we're
- 44:58Speaker 1: starting to see it right where people can exist more
- 45:02Speaker 1: in their complexity and their contradictions and we can hold
- 45:05Speaker 1: all of those things. And, you know, so I think
- 45:07Speaker 1: like the spicy Latina thing will always exist. And honestly,
- 45:13Speaker 1: if it wasn't so reductive, I would be into it.
- 45:17Speaker 1: I was about to say that, Maria. I was about
- 45:20Speaker 1: to say, I don't hate it.
- 45:21Speaker 2: I don't hate it because I know it's an elevated
- 45:26Speaker 2: idea or representation of women, and in this case, Latinas.
- 45:30Speaker 2: But I'm like, do I see myself in it?
- 45:34Speaker 1: Sort of like, is it all that I am? No.
- 45:37Speaker 1: Is it me entirely? Also, no. But I also don't
- 45:41Speaker 1: hate it because, yeah, we are hot and we are
- 45:44Speaker 1: funny and we can be a little, quote, bitchy. Really,
- 45:47Speaker 1: it's just mood because people have moods. Yeah. Right.
- 45:51Speaker 2: So I don't see I don't hate it, but I
- 45:55Speaker 2: do think exactly what you're saying, because it's reductive and
- 45:58Speaker 2: because for so long it's all that was available to us.
- 46:02Speaker 2: I think that's why there's. We can have this conversation now.
- 46:05Speaker 2: We can push back on this idea of this is
- 46:07Speaker 2: all that we are. because we recognize that it's been reductive.
- 46:12Speaker 2: But I think we can also, you know, see some
- 46:14Speaker 2: of the fun in it.
- 46:15Speaker 3: Of course. You know, and there's characters that we like,
- 46:17Speaker 3: that we love, that we're like, that was fun.
- 46:20Speaker 1: Like Salma Hayek. Yes.
- 46:22Speaker 2: Like Eva Longoria as Gabby Solis. You know, I love
- 46:26Speaker 2: that character.
- 46:27Speaker 1: Yeah. That's an iconic character. Oh my gosh. For sure.
- 46:30Speaker 1: They need to have a reunion. I feel like it
- 46:33Speaker 1: needs to come back. Yeah, I agree. And, look like
- 46:38Speaker 1: these tropes are a stereotype. So what are they? They're
- 46:41Speaker 1: exaggerations of a truth, you know? And so like, is
- 46:45Speaker 1: there a seedling of truth in the high, in the
- 46:49Speaker 1: fiery Latina for many of us? Yes. You know, like, um,
- 46:54Speaker 1: you know, like my partner will tell you, like, I,
- 46:57Speaker 1: I can embody some of those like stereotypical characteristics some,
- 47:02Speaker 1: some of the time, you know what I mean? Like,
- 47:04Speaker 1: I can get like, you know, a little demanding, a
- 47:11Speaker 1: little jealous. That's new for me. That's new for me.
- 47:15Speaker 1: I feel like I feel safe enough to be jealous.
- 47:18Speaker 1: You know? Oh, that's so interesting that there's. Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah. Oh,
- 47:24Speaker 1: I want to unpack that later.
- 47:26Speaker 2: Like the idea of being safe enough to be jealous.
- 47:29Speaker 1: Yes. Yeah. I was in prior relationships where they were like,
- 47:33Speaker 1: why are you never jealous? And I realized like, I
- 47:35Speaker 1: just never felt like emotionally safe enough to express that.
- 47:40Speaker 1: And now that I do, I'm like, interesting. I'm the opposite.
- 47:46Speaker 2: I like, I think in my early twenties, those relationships,
- 47:51Speaker 2: there was a lot of jealousy, reciprocal jealousy.
- 47:55Speaker 1: And now I'm like, No, I don't. I don't feel
- 47:58Speaker 1: jealous at all. There's moments, but I would definitely.
- 48:01Speaker 2: That's like one of the least emotions that I feel
- 48:04Speaker 2: in my current relationship.
- 48:05Speaker 1: That's wonderful. That's wonderful to hear. I think mine is
- 48:08Speaker 1: like a playful jealous. You know, I don't think it's
- 48:11Speaker 1: like a for real jealous. But yeah, I think it's
- 48:16Speaker 1: because maybe I wasn't like I didn't feel comfortable to
- 48:19Speaker 1: express that before. That makes sense.
- 48:22Speaker 2: So there's a safety and I can express that I'm
- 48:25Speaker 2: feeling jealous about this thing or what was said.
- 48:29Speaker 1: Yes. Okay. But it's also like queer culture, like WLW culture,
- 48:35Speaker 1: where it's like, girl... You keep in touch with exes
- 48:39Speaker 1: from like 20 years ago. Yes. You know, like and and,
- 48:44Speaker 1: you know, for for us bisexual baddies, like I that's
- 48:48Speaker 1: not always the case. You know, like I don't really
- 48:51Speaker 1: keep in touch with my with my man exes. Mm hmm.
- 48:55Speaker 1: So it's just like a different culture to be like, oh,
- 49:00Speaker 1: my ex-girlfriend still on dial. That's so funny.
- 49:06Speaker 2: That's so true because my jealousy was when I was
- 49:10Speaker 2: with women.
- 49:12Speaker 1: That was when I was feeling it girl it's all
- 49:16Speaker 1: it's all community but it just means like I'm screaming
- 49:21Speaker 1: that's so funny yeah yeah yeah.
- 49:25Speaker 2: I see that I see that yeah there's levels to
- 49:27Speaker 2: it there's levels to it but it's good.
- 49:29Speaker 1: That you feel safe enough to express that Thank you.
- 49:32Speaker 1: Jealousy is a human emotion. It is, yeah. That is, like,
- 49:34Speaker 1: what I always say about jealousy. I'm like, everyone feels jealous.
- 49:38Speaker 2: Everyone has moments of jealousy, whether that's in a relationship,
- 49:41Speaker 2: a friendship, a job, right?
- 49:44Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 49:44Speaker 1: But it's, like, what we do with it. Like, that's
- 49:46Speaker 1: what matters. And also getting curious about it, you know? Like,
- 49:49Speaker 1: I tell my son all the time, like, you know,
- 49:52Speaker 1: with feelings, we have to get curious about our feelings. Like,
- 49:57Speaker 1: what is this feeling trying to tell you? What is
- 50:00Speaker 1: it trying to point you towards? Like, What can you
- 50:02Speaker 1: excavate and learn from this feeling? And then once you
- 50:04Speaker 1: learn it, you feel the feeling, you get curious and
- 50:08Speaker 1: then you let it go, you know? And so that's
- 50:12Speaker 1: why I think it is about jealousy. Like what, why
- 50:16Speaker 1: am I feeling this way? Is it just like, discomfort
- 50:20Speaker 1: because I'm not used to this like I'm not used
- 50:23Speaker 1: to like the person I'm with like being friends with
- 50:26Speaker 1: somebody like like an ex or something you know and
- 50:30Speaker 1: I think yeah maybe that's that's that's new for me
- 50:33Speaker 1: yeah okay okay I love that curiosity about our emotions
- 50:39Speaker 1: exploring it being honest about it I love that. Yeah.
- 50:43Speaker 1: So maybe there is like a little fiery Latina in
- 50:45Speaker 1: all of us, you know? There is. There is. It
- 50:49Speaker 1: is part of our birthright. We are passionate people. I
- 50:52Speaker 1: think it's good to be expressive.
- 50:54Speaker 2: And yeah, I agree with what you said a while
- 50:58Speaker 2: back now about when there's a stereotype, right, there is
- 51:02Speaker 2: some seedling of truth. There's some, yeah, there's just truthfulness
- 51:06Speaker 2: behind it. And it's just like the heightened, hidedness of it,
- 51:10Speaker 2: you know, especially in media that that's when it becomes reductive. But,
- 51:14Speaker 2: you know, lots of people are passionate. Lots of people
- 51:17Speaker 2: have big emotions, you know, beyond ethnicity and race.
- 51:21Speaker 1: Yeah. And like you said, like jealousy, sexual desire, even anger,
- 51:29Speaker 1: like all of those are very like human emotions that
- 51:32Speaker 1: Latinas happen to feel, too. Yes. Wow. What a concept.
- 51:36Speaker 1: Latinas have feelings. Yeah. Yeah.
- 51:39Speaker 2: Well, Maria, this has been such a treat. Do you
- 51:42Speaker 2: have any final words, thoughts about anything that we discussed
- 51:46Speaker 2: or anything you want to share with us today?
- 51:49Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for having me, Diosa. And
- 51:54Speaker 1: congratulations on 10 years of podcasting. Thank you. What a
- 51:58Speaker 1: trailblazer you and Mala have been. I'll say justice for Brittany. Yes. Always.
- 52:06Speaker 1: Always justice for Brittany. Embrace your inner fiery Latina, you know,
- 52:13Speaker 1: if she's in there. And... And embrace that there's so
- 52:17Speaker 1: many other layers in you and it's not just her
- 52:20Speaker 1: in there. It's also like your sad girl Latina, you know, it's, it's,
- 52:25Speaker 1: it's all kinds of people in there, um, where we, uh,
- 52:30Speaker 1: are made of many, many, many aspects to us. Um,
- 52:34Speaker 1: Which brings us back to astrology and full circle. Yes,
- 52:38Speaker 1: it does. It really does.
- 52:40Speaker 2: Now, tell us about, before we end, tell us about
- 52:43Speaker 2: your show, how folks can find it, when they can listen,
- 52:47Speaker 2: and what they can.
- 52:47Speaker 1: Expect this season. Oh, thank you for asking. Yeah, so
- 52:50Speaker 1: the show is called Muy Excited with Maria Garcia. And
- 52:54Speaker 1: it's very exciting because it's a storytelling show. So every
- 52:59Speaker 1: week we go deep and I tell you the story
- 53:04Speaker 1: of a big cultural moment of the past or the present.
- 53:09Speaker 1: And I tell you what it all means. And you
- 53:11Speaker 1: can watch us on YouTube. You can look up Muy
- 53:15Speaker 1: Excited with Maria Garcia or you can listen to us
- 53:18Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app or anywhere you get your podcasts.
- 53:23Speaker 1: And I'm really thrilled about it because we get into
- 53:27Speaker 1: like some really fun topics. But like I said, there's
- 53:30Speaker 1: like I think there's like a profound takeaway at the end.
- 53:34Speaker 1: And that's been really wonderful to like write through these
- 53:38Speaker 1: episodes and do some like deep cultural analysis. And then
- 53:43Speaker 1: there's also like some personal anecdotes for me.
- 53:47Speaker 3: It's.
- 53:48Speaker 1: It's fun and it's deep at the same time. So
- 53:50Speaker 1: I'm excited. Our favorite type of show. I love that. Well,
- 53:54Speaker 1: thank you, Maria, for joining us. Thank you, Diosa.
- 53:57Speaker 2: Thank you, Locamores, for listening to another capítulo of Locatora Radio.
- 54:02Speaker 2: We'll catch you next time.
- 54:03Speaker 1: Besitos.