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The breakfast Club Best Of Episode(Bruce Bruce Interview, Crystal Renay & Tameka Raymond Interview, Rome & Jess Hilarious Interview, Why Small Talk Sucks - Topic) · The Breakfast Club

• 0:06
  Speaker 1: The morning show for nine dayn better know that's the
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: people's choice.
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  Speaker 2: The Saluto on my life skined brothers out there, it's
• 0:12
  Speaker 2: just hilarious. That's what the world I ask. Just don't
• 0:14
  Speaker 2: do no why man, Charlemagne to God, talk to everybody.
• 0:18
  Speaker 2: Come to the breakfast club. I call this the hot seat.
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  Speaker 3: La backfast Stubb.
• 0:23
  Speaker 2: It's like being on Americans from Port.
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  Speaker 4: Don't feel like my thiss Sugers.
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  Speaker 5: I never thought to me for every time I go
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  Speaker 5: to a revers club, I know it's gonna be like
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  Speaker 5: a foot man.
• 0:33
  Speaker 2: Get this is your time to get it off your chest,
• 0:37
  Speaker 2: whether you're man or blessed. I hate the way that
• 0:39
  Speaker 2: you walk.
• 0:40
  Speaker 4: The way that you talk, I hate the way that
• 0:42
  Speaker 4: you dress.
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: Everything when me is best call up next eight hundred
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  Speaker 2: five eighty five one five one. Not just me, I'm
• 0:49
  Speaker 2: with the coach of filing about who's this.
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  Speaker 6: This is a this is Henry from all man. I
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  Speaker 6: just want to say, I love y'all, blessed, good morning,
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  Speaker 6: just so beautiful. Last and wait for that baby to drop.
• 1:02
  Speaker 7: Your name Henry for her Henry.
• 1:06
  Speaker 6: I just wanted to give a birthday shout out to
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  Speaker 6: my brother Jeremiah and my man, Pete k the universal twins.
• 1:14
  Speaker 6: They share the same birthday. But I love your boys,
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  Speaker 6: manous and Yo, Charlie.
• 1:19
  Speaker 2: Man, I need a hat. Yo.
• 1:21
  Speaker 5: I don't know if we got any, but I can
• 1:23
  Speaker 5: send you a copy of my new book, Getting on
• 1:24
  Speaker 5: Us to Die Line.
• 1:25
  Speaker 4: If you hey, let's find it please.
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: I got you on email a book today. Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 8: It's name?
• 1:35
  Speaker 2: Get it off your chest? Your name.
• 1:37
  Speaker 8: I really feel like this Kendrick and Drake beef was
• 1:40
  Speaker 8: about to be the most historic moments in hip hop
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  Speaker 8: that we witnessed, and the sam social media really ruin this.
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  Speaker 2: Beef real fast, talk to me, talk to me more,
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  Speaker 2: let me hear expound on that.
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  Speaker 8: It really made these artists get out of pocket and
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  Speaker 8: start asking like they normally don't ask. Kendrick getting real emotional,
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  Speaker 8: kind of I really, Drake really not moving like he
• 2:03
  Speaker 8: should like it. Just really, it really made the beef
• 2:06
  Speaker 8: really nasty because their quarter of public opinion cannot look
• 2:10
  Speaker 8: at these sounds objectively.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I'm gonna tell you something, I don't give a
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  Speaker 5: damn about the court of public opinion.
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  Speaker 2: I enjoyed it.
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  Speaker 5: I think it was the greatest rap feud of all time.
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  Speaker 5: I think that Drake and Kendrick both delivered with the music.
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  Speaker 5: I don't see the problem.
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  Speaker 2: I agree.
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  Speaker 1: I love the fact that they gave us the music.
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  Speaker 1: I love the fact that they came back so fast.
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  Speaker 1: I love the fact that it just gave people something
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  Speaker 1: to talk about.
• 2:30
  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you could decide who you thought it was winner.
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  Speaker 1: Some people thought it was Kendrick, some people thought it
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  Speaker 1: was Drake. But I think hip hop really won. I
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  Speaker 1: mean that the amount of music we got. I just
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  Speaker 1: hope those brothers didn't take it too far away they
• 2:39
  Speaker 1: want to. They did where they would have hurt each other.
• 2:41
  Speaker 2: They did.
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  Speaker 5: You call me a pedophile, You say I'm a woman
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  Speaker 5: beat that, You say my wife is pregnant, had a
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  Speaker 5: baby by my man.
• 2:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you took it too far.
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  Speaker 5: He ain't gonna never see them on stage in the
• 2:50
  Speaker 5: future holding each other's hands up. Like I remember how
• 2:52
  Speaker 5: Nas and Jay came out and they did the whole
• 2:54
  Speaker 5: I declared, peace.
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  Speaker 2: Thing that's not happening. No, no, he don know. I
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  Speaker 2: never thought Jay and Think would do it though either Na.
• 3:02
  Speaker 2: I never thought it was totally. I never thought I
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  Speaker 2: would see g Z and Gucci on the stage together.
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  Speaker 5: I never thought I would see GZ and you might.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, yeah with you, you're right with the GZ
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  Speaker 5: and Gucci thing, You're right.
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  Speaker 2: Are they cool? That's no. I wouldn't say when they're cool,
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  Speaker 2: But I think they can get the money and do
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  Speaker 2: the verses.
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  Speaker 1: They they can be on the same tre still throwing
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  Speaker 1: crazy shots. But at one time they could even be
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  Speaker 1: on the same stage with each other.
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  Speaker 5: By the way, it took twenty that was twenty plus
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  Speaker 5: years later too, So at least I think it was
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  Speaker 5: at least twenty so we got about nineteen more years.
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  Speaker 5: You got about nineteen more years before you see us
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  Speaker 5: something like that. But I thoroughly enjoyed this battle. But
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  Speaker 5: stands are gonna be stands too. I think the problem
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  Speaker 5: with hip hop is that it's not like sports, so
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  Speaker 5: you can't you can't say who won. Everybody just wants
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  Speaker 5: to go with their who their preferences, whether it's Draco Kendrick.
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  Speaker 2: When it's a sport, it's a score. Yeah, you know, Hello,
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  Speaker 2: who's this? This is Keith?
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  Speaker 9: Keith?
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  Speaker 2: What's up? Get it off your chest? Keith?
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  Speaker 10: Hey man?
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  Speaker 7: I just wanted to y'all my mouth the beauty had.
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  Speaker 2: On B twelve, Okay, mount Rushmore of Breakfast Club interviews.
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  Speaker 1: All right, go William okay, amand Field okay, d l
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  Speaker 1: Lee okay, and.
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  Speaker 4: My favorite Dad.
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  Speaker 5: Those are your favorites fourteen years them your favorite? Now listen.
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  Speaker 5: I might the Damon Dashman, Mike can go up there.
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  Speaker 2: I liked.
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  Speaker 5: I liked those other ones. But Mount Rushmore, I respectfully disagree.
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  Speaker 5: I love those interviews, but Mount Rushmore. Nah, not Mount
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  Speaker 5: Rushmore Breakfast Club interviews.
• 4:31
  Speaker 2: I don't take still easy. That was you know, I
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  Speaker 2: know y'all have that's your opinion. You're right, that's your opinion. Well,
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  Speaker 2: thank you, Keith. Hello, who's this morning?
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  Speaker 11: How everybody's doing today?
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  Speaker 10: Hi?
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  Speaker 11: Hey Jack, miss beautiful beautiful?
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  Speaker 5: Thank you?
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  Speaker 11: All right, I will get this off my chest. I
• 4:54
  Speaker 11: have a book club and I read Charlemagne book and
• 5:00
  Speaker 11: and one day. It is phenomenal. Thank you, I mean Charlemagne.
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  Speaker 11: We have thought about your book one and your book two,
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  Speaker 11: but book three we're reading it in the month of
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  Speaker 11: July at my book club. It is phenomenal. You have
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  Speaker 11: involved and I am so proud of you.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you very much. What's the name of your book club?
• 5:22
  Speaker 11: Sisters and family?
• 5:24
  Speaker 2: Thank you, sisters and family.
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  Speaker 5: I appreciate you'all for reading my new book, Get on
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  Speaker 5: us a dieline, watch small talk sucks.
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  Speaker 2: I really appreciate that. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 11: Chapter chapter six should be a curriculum for all eighth
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  Speaker 11: graders going forward.
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  Speaker 3: I mean we were.
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  Speaker 11: Discussing just chapter six.
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  Speaker 2: You talking about the curriculum.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, not that one though. Not the de I
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  Speaker 5: that people are thinking about. Not the DEI that people
• 5:51
  Speaker 5: are thinking about. Not diversity, echuity, inclusion. I'm talking about delusion, entitlement,
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  Speaker 5: and idiocracy.
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  Speaker 11: That chapter chapter six.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you very much, everybody.
• 6:02
  Speaker 11: I'm telling everybody, go hob A Tree. I love your book.
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  Speaker 4: I love that you have involved.
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  Speaker 11: Thank you for your book.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you very much. I really appreciate that. Make sure
• 6:11
  Speaker 5: you go out there and get a copy and get
• 6:13
  Speaker 5: on us and die line. Watch small talk sucks. If
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  Speaker 5: you haven't already available everywhere you buy books.
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  Speaker 1: Now, all right, get it off your chest eight hundred
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  Speaker 1: five eight five one five one. If you need event,
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  Speaker 1: let's discuss this breakfast slogan morning the breakfast club.
• 6:29
  Speaker 7: Right right, ray yo, Charla man, Daffy, what up.
• 6:33
  Speaker 4: Are we lying?
• 6:34
  Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest?
• 6:35
  Speaker 2: I got an indoor pool, outdoor pool. We want to
• 6:38
  Speaker 2: hear from you on the breakfast club.
• 6:40
  Speaker 4: Get on the phone right now here to tell you
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  Speaker 4: what it is.
• 6:42
  Speaker 2: We lie. Hello, who's this? Hey?
• 6:45
  Speaker 7: This is trade out here in South Carolina.
• 6:47
  Speaker 2: What's going on? What's up? Trade? Whatever? What part of
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  Speaker 2: are you calling from?
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  Speaker 12: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Murder beat? Hey, okay, get it off your chest tray.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, man, So this traffic out here, it's crazy every
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  Speaker 4: curse man, Man, I'm sorry, man stain.
• 7:03
  Speaker 7: I know what I think about the traffic out here.
• 7:05
  Speaker 2: Man. We're not there. We're not in Myrtle Beach. Come again,
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  Speaker 2: we're not in Myrtle Beach. Howld we know what the
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  Speaker 2: traffic is?
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  Speaker 4: Like?
• 7:14
  Speaker 2: Well, what do y'all think about?
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  Speaker 10: And that's another thing.
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  Speaker 2: Can't stand it by the way they can train can't
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  Speaker 2: stand out a baby.
• 7:24
  Speaker 4: I got a baby, man.
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  Speaker 8: I'll tell you what I'm paying forty five dollars for
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  Speaker 8: twenty five.
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  Speaker 2: Dipers is man.
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  Speaker 5: I'll be looking at menus in places and I'd be like, damn,
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  Speaker 5: I was in the hotel yesterday and I was like,
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  Speaker 5: forty two dollars.
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  Speaker 2: Hotel. It's a salmon, the hotel being.
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  Speaker 1: And then they'd be like nine dollars delivery feed man,
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  Speaker 1: I got a taxi one hundred and thirty dollars.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Now, hello, who's this ts Hey?
• 7:47
  Speaker 2: Good morning? Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 11: Okay, So I'm trying to make you act like you.
• 7:52
  Speaker 7: Don't like like he do, I act like I was
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  Speaker 7: just the earth song.
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  Speaker 11: Come on and go, let's tail at the wagon. They
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  Speaker 11: can't do lamarsta.
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  Speaker 13: Come on.
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  Speaker 2: People, you don't like us.
• 8:06
  Speaker 11: And and I'm chalkling, so I mean, yeah, bege people.
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  Speaker 2: You don't you don't like it.
• 8:17
  Speaker 5: I do love everybody, but ain't nothing wrong with us
• 8:19
  Speaker 5: keeping off footing on their beige next hater.
• 8:22
  Speaker 11: My god, they grow easily.
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  Speaker 2: You can't do that like banana. You're not helping, not
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  Speaker 2: helping the situation.
• 8:32
  Speaker 4: Everybody of the day.
• 8:35
  Speaker 2: You didn't help the situation. Hello, who's this? What's what's
• 8:40
  Speaker 2: your name? Brother? Man?
• 8:43
  Speaker 8: What up?
• 8:43
  Speaker 2: Man? Get it off your chest?
• 8:44
  Speaker 12: Hey?
• 8:45
  Speaker 7: Why you're always hit on the cowboys?
• 8:47
  Speaker 2: Because I'm pe king. How you doing? Brother?
• 8:52
  Speaker 12: Yes?
• 8:52
  Speaker 7: How you doing? Beautiful?
• 8:53
  Speaker 2: I'm good me good morning?
• 8:54
  Speaker 7: If I still love you doing, man, even though you're
• 8:56
  Speaker 7: a cowboy hater.
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: But you remember that you said you already know and
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: since you from North Carolina. How come we not a
• 9:03
  Speaker 1: Panthers fan?
• 9:03
  Speaker 4: Mann, Man, how.
• 9:09
  Speaker 2: Old are you? My brother? Okay, I was born in
• 9:12
  Speaker 2: nineteen hundred and seventy eighth on forty five.
• 9:14
  Speaker 5: People don't understand growing up in the Carolinas, South Carolina
• 9:18
  Speaker 5: and North Carolina, we didn't have no football teams, and
• 9:21
  Speaker 5: so most people that we knew were either My daddy
• 9:24
  Speaker 5: was a Dallas Cowboy fan. There's a lot of forty
• 9:26
  Speaker 5: nine Ers fans and Steelers fans as well in the Carolinas,
• 9:30
  Speaker 5: so the Panthers didn't come around till later.
• 9:32
  Speaker 2: If Panthers came around, and I think you're ninety.
• 9:34
  Speaker 5: Three, established three thirty years ago, I'm already I'm already
• 9:38
  Speaker 5: married to Cowboys by then.
• 9:40
  Speaker 4: The man my daddy told me when they were playing
• 9:41
  Speaker 4: the Stiller in the Super Bowl, Man, you got to
• 9:43
  Speaker 4: pull for the Cowboys and nobody else.
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: That's right. Yeah, I've been abused your whole I have
• 9:50
  Speaker 2: a good one.
• 9:51
  Speaker 5: First of all, we were not abused our whole lives.
• 9:53
  Speaker 5: And the reason we weren't abused our whole lives because
• 9:55
  Speaker 5: in the nineties we dominated, sir, Yes, but you gotta
• 9:58
  Speaker 5: remember the nineties.
• 9:59
  Speaker 2: Get it off.
• 10:00
  Speaker 1: Yes, eight don't drink five eight five one o five one.
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: If you need to vin hit us up now. It's
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, Jess Hilary
• 10:12
  Speaker 1: Charlamage the God. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: some special guests in the building from Bold and Bougie,
• 10:17
  Speaker 1: Crystaline and Tamika Foster.
• 10:19
  Speaker 2: Welcome ladies. Hey y'all, good morning. What a title bolden Boot.
• 10:25
  Speaker 13: I mean you know, yeah, I mean yeah, like, did
• 10:29
  Speaker 13: y'all Did all of y'all know each other before?
• 10:31
  Speaker 2: Yes? Because it's it's Crystal, it's Tamika, it's Malaysia.
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  Speaker 14: And Princess Lot and I always messed it up. Sorry, Princess,
• 10:41
  Speaker 14: my bad, but you.
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  Speaker 3: Know I love you.
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: Did y'all know each other like we all friends?
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  Speaker 3: Or I knew of Malaysia.
• 10:47
  Speaker 14: We've been to like some birthday parties together, but it
• 10:49
  Speaker 14: was my first time meet and all the ladies.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, Well, Princess and I were cool. She tried to
• 10:54
  Speaker 13: get me on Housewives a few seasons, and I don't know.
• 10:57
  Speaker 13: I thought it was gonna be messy, but I guess
• 10:59
  Speaker 13: it's still messy where we are some type of way
• 11:02
  Speaker 13: jumped out of the grease into the fire pan.
• 11:04
  Speaker 2: So what is Bowling Boogie about if we haven't seen it?
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  Speaker 13: I mean, I think all reality shows have the same premise.
• 11:10
  Speaker 13: They followed the lives of each of the cast, so
• 11:12
  Speaker 13: they just follow us around each of our different lives.
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  Speaker 13: Like she owns a restaurant, I have a clothing business,
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  Speaker 13: and I have books and this and that, and they
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  Speaker 13: follow us and then they have us.
• 11:21
  Speaker 2: Come together and argue about it. We don't know that
• 11:23
  Speaker 2: we're arguing about the Yeah, why did you say? Why
• 11:27
  Speaker 2: were you late to my event?
• 11:28
  Speaker 13: Because I'd be like, because my name ain't on the cake,
• 11:30
  Speaker 13: it's not my birthday, Like, it's that kind of thing.
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: So why dy'll decide to do it? Because if ya
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: knew it was gonna beefing and and you know what,
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: they're gonna put it on TV. They ain't gonnaut nice stuff.
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: They're gonna put your restaurant packed, they ain't gonna put
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: your now.
• 11:43
  Speaker 3: They did, they did a.
• 11:44
  Speaker 14: Good job of showcasing our business and stuff like that.
• 11:46
  Speaker 14: But for myself, I did it because like I'm getting
• 11:48
  Speaker 14: back out here, you know, single mom, and so I'm
• 11:51
  Speaker 14: getting to my.
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  Speaker 13: Bag period, and that's it. That's all My only focus period.
• 11:55
  Speaker 13: So why didn't you You know how some wives they
• 11:57
  Speaker 13: choose to keep the last name of the husband. Why
• 11:59
  Speaker 13: didn't you keep last names?
• 12:01
  Speaker 14: Well, he's not known as Neil Smith and those are
• 12:03
  Speaker 14: my last name, so.
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  Speaker 3: It was an easy decision.
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 13: Well, I mean people didn't know his name though he's
• 12:10
  Speaker 13: not known, that's not what they called him.
• 12:12
  Speaker 2: But people do know his last name. Why you didn't
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: keep Ram? I still use Raymond. It's easier. It's easier
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: to use Raymond.
• 12:18
  Speaker 13: But on social media, I dropped it because they would
• 12:20
  Speaker 13: be on my page like he got rid of you,
• 12:22
  Speaker 13: he signed them papers, you got to them.
• 12:25
  Speaker 2: But my kids have the same name, my passport.
• 12:28
  Speaker 13: It's just so much to change that stuff, your credit cards,
• 12:31
  Speaker 13: your bank accounts, your passport, your social security got that
• 12:34
  Speaker 13: kind of time. I trying to be in linen where
• 12:35
  Speaker 13: like social media want me to change my name. Only
• 12:38
  Speaker 13: black community really trip off of that.
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: Think about it. We'd be mad.
• 12:43
  Speaker 13: That's because they're fans of the artists, so they think
• 12:45
  Speaker 13: that we took their husbands, and it's just well, congratulations
• 12:49
  Speaker 13: on your restaurant business.
• 12:50
  Speaker 7: Girl.
• 12:51
  Speaker 14: For the first episode of Bolden Bougie. You doing music,
• 12:59
  Speaker 14: that's something I do for for you know, you've heard
• 13:00
  Speaker 14: some about Yeah, they played with that scene, they played
• 13:05
  Speaker 14: hard with that.
• 13:06
  Speaker 3: It was nasty.
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: You're not taking it serious.
• 13:08
  Speaker 3: No, It's just something I do for fun to let out.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, and but you but you.
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: Got a name and everything. VVS what's up?
• 13:13
  Speaker 3: Well gave me that name, so I mean, why not
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: ride with it?
• 13:17
  Speaker 4: V B.
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  Speaker 2: Got Jesus, I thought she was about to really really
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  Speaker 2: drove something. No, she did got.
• 13:26
  Speaker 13: I got like Hella songs like yeah and you So
• 13:30
  Speaker 13: you're that's something that you're never going to do.
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: I don't think.
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  Speaker 14: I mean, I'm thirty seven. I mean, you know, so
• 13:36
  Speaker 14: I don't want to be like.
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  Speaker 2: A pediatric repper. I got there too.
• 13:41
  Speaker 14: I have so many things that are on my plate
• 13:43
  Speaker 14: right now. That music is just like you know, it's
• 13:45
  Speaker 14: it's it's a slow like build to making money. And
• 13:48
  Speaker 14: I need I need the bag to come quicker than that, because.
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: Reality you be helping her like the overall brand of everything.
• 13:54
  Speaker 13: So the reason why I even agreed to do it
• 13:57
  Speaker 13: is because I have a clothing line Eli Kish and
• 14:00
  Speaker 13: then of course my books, and so I was hoping, Yeah,
• 14:02
  Speaker 13: here I stand in white bras and now I have
• 14:04
  Speaker 13: an animated book coming out soon, and so I was
• 14:07
  Speaker 13: really hoping that it would really spotlight my businesses and
• 14:10
  Speaker 13: I think it did at it did a little bit.
• 14:14
  Speaker 13: I just think that they didn't get the like they want,
• 14:16
  Speaker 13: the drama of it. So like I had a fashion show,
• 14:18
  Speaker 13: for example, and we had too much power running so
• 14:21
  Speaker 13: the generator, I mean, the lights went down for a second.
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: They highlighted that five seconds of the lights going down,
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: like it was a happened. Did they not pay their bill?
• 14:30
  Speaker 13: I'm like, come on, it was at an art gallery
• 14:32
  Speaker 13: and bucket it was. It was fine and it was nice,
• 14:35
  Speaker 13: but they made it seem like instead of showing the
• 14:37
  Speaker 13: clothes and how beautiful the models were and all that,
• 14:39
  Speaker 13: they didn't focus on any It was a really nice show.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: It was a great show. And the clothes were banging,
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: of course, so it hurts. It didn't hurt, it just
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: didn't help.
• 14:47
  Speaker 13: It was like, damn, we put all that money into
• 14:49
  Speaker 13: the fashion show and you know, selecting the models and
• 14:51
  Speaker 13: the makeup and the hair, and you guys want to
• 14:53
  Speaker 13: show the five seconds that the lights went out, that
• 14:55
  Speaker 13: that's what you wanted to focus on.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: Could y'all ever like have meetings? Art is it like
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: complain to somewhere that.
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: You know the group chair. Let me tell you this one.
• 15:05
  Speaker 14: With the group chat we get, we get a message
• 15:06
  Speaker 14: every day and long.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: I don't read none of that.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: Love you.
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: I do not reside to the group chat. Take me
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: out of it.
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: I go off.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: I'd be giving whole dissertations life to me. Get a
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: seven minute person.
• 15:25
  Speaker 13: She will write, you see, she likes to write. She
• 15:28
  Speaker 13: will write chapters. But I think that it's realize, check
• 15:33
  Speaker 13: this out. We are bigger than this, We're above this.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: I was like, my brand is not that you know
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: what I mean, But I mean, I mean when you.
• 15:40
  Speaker 14: Answer into something like that, you know what you're signing
• 15:42
  Speaker 14: up for. So I think it's up to the individual
• 15:44
  Speaker 14: on how you conduct yourself and how you handle yourself.
• 15:46
  Speaker 14: Like for me, I feel like it was a benefit
• 15:48
  Speaker 14: to me because you know, I don't really speak out.
• 15:50
  Speaker 14: I don't really do all that kind of stuff. So
• 15:52
  Speaker 14: it was able to showcase like who I am as
• 15:54
  Speaker 14: a person and my morals and my standards and how
• 15:56
  Speaker 14: I am.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: So it worked out for me actually very well.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: All these celebrities again, since you like your life is
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: so out there, like they pick in part everything that
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: you guys do.
• 16:06
  Speaker 14: I think I want to man that sit behind the desk.
• 16:08
  Speaker 14: I think I think I'm over it, just over it,
• 16:11
  Speaker 14: the whole lifestyle. I'll take the forefront in the bed.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Would date a bus driver?
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: No, I don't know, just a.
• 16:21
  Speaker 14: Decent three kids. I'm a single mother and my bills.
• 16:24
  Speaker 14: The salary does not cover my bills, and I just
• 16:27
  Speaker 14: it's not for me.
• 16:28
  Speaker 13: Then say why his salary got to cover your bills.
• 16:30
  Speaker 13: You should be able to cover your bills. I already
• 16:32
  Speaker 13: know what thet but it's.
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: Not just.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you about your book.
• 16:40
  Speaker 5: Here I stand interesting title because someone could say it's
• 16:43
  Speaker 5: just a cliche term all one could say, sure, also
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: named to the album Here I stand, right, So why
• 16:49
  Speaker 5: did you decide to name it here I stand?
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: Well, Here I stand.
• 16:51
  Speaker 13: You Remember that was a time where people were really
• 16:54
  Speaker 13: in love and you know, having their first child and
• 16:57
  Speaker 13: all kinds of stuff. And the album is dedicated to
• 17:00
  Speaker 13: me if you read the credits and all that. And
• 17:02
  Speaker 13: I was very kind of instrumental on the album, which
• 17:05
  Speaker 13: kind of flops. So I guess that's well, they're my
• 17:08
  Speaker 13: musical Chase. I want to come back, but anyway, so no,
• 17:14
  Speaker 13: So here I stand because I you know, I've been
• 17:16
  Speaker 13: through a lot, and so it's about remaining in a
• 17:19
  Speaker 13: beautiful state despite it all.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: Like life happens, Life is gonna come at you.
• 17:23
  Speaker 13: Things are gonna have You're gonna lose people, You're gonna
• 17:25
  Speaker 13: lose love, You're gonna have heartbreak.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: But you have to remain in a beautiful state. So
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: things will happen. You have to come back to being
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: positive and just in a good space.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: We got more with Crystal Smith and Tamika Raymond when
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: we come back there on The Bold and the Bougie,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: a show on we TV.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: We'll talk tomorrow when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Good Morning, the Breakfast Club Calling.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Everybody's DJ, Envy, Jesse, Larry Charlamagne, the guy. We are
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast cause I was still kicking it with Crystal
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Smith and Tamika Raymond.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: They're on the cast of Bold and Bougie.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Now, I got a question, Christ did you ever key
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Neo's calls, because it seems like you still got a
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: little hurt, like you did something.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: No, nothing, not hit his hats in the world I
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: got you now, just run.
• 18:19
  Speaker 9: No.
• 18:19
  Speaker 13: No.
• 18:19
  Speaker 14: I I walked away peacefully because when you when you
• 18:23
  Speaker 14: fight and argue, it's because you still want to be there.
• 18:26
  Speaker 14: And although I mean, one of the hardest things to
• 18:28
  Speaker 14: do is to walk away from somebody you're still in
• 18:29
  Speaker 14: love with, but I love myself more, and I knew
• 18:32
  Speaker 14: that I was going to go crazy if I chose
• 18:34
  Speaker 14: to try to work it out and stay. You know
• 18:36
  Speaker 14: what I'm saying. And I always have love for him,
• 18:39
  Speaker 14: but it's it's different now, you know.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: So the kids are good. The kids are good, you.
• 18:45
  Speaker 14: Know, they go and spend time with Daddy. They love
• 18:47
  Speaker 14: their their their father, and they're good. I let him
• 18:51
  Speaker 14: be a father and and and I be a key
• 18:53
  Speaker 14: communication at a minimum, just because I'm focused on rebuilding
• 18:57
  Speaker 14: my life and what that means for me. So I
• 18:59
  Speaker 14: don't want to surround myself with what the past was
• 19:02
  Speaker 14: that could potentially put me in a place where I'm
• 19:04
  Speaker 14: emotional and all those things.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: So I choose to just keep it separate.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so there was no drunk less like hey, big head, nothing,
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: But then he tried, Okay, what is that he tried?
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: Listen.
• 19:20
  Speaker 14: I think at this point he knows that there's there's
• 19:23
  Speaker 14: no coming back. So we're trying to figure out what
• 19:27
  Speaker 14: Cole parents and looks like for us because I just
• 19:29
  Speaker 14: don't want to be around the situation. And you know,
• 19:31
  Speaker 14: I all the respect, all love to him and no shade,
• 19:34
  Speaker 14: but I just when somebody hurts you to a certain extent,
• 19:37
  Speaker 14: I don't want to be in that environment.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: Did you try therapy? Did you try to make it? Men?
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: So it was done. It was like, there's no therapy.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: I fought the next day.
• 19:48
  Speaker 13: And Crystal filed the next day after hearing that breakfast club.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: Really it wasn't.
• 19:55
  Speaker 14: It wasn't really that is that is what prompted me
• 19:58
  Speaker 14: to look around.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're getting his phone.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: It was the same pass all.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: He wasn't trying to hide anything.
• 20:05
  Speaker 13: Some of them smart, that's what you get out of her. Yeah, Yeah,
• 20:10
  Speaker 13: she's been around.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, hold on, where that other phone is?
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Another he was sleeping and he just pick up the
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: phone and just.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: No, he was here. He was doing another interview. Yes,
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: he was at the radio station. I was at the hotel.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: He was like in New York.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: You was scrolling down. So when he came back I
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: was so by the time he got back to the
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: hotel from the interview, you was on his head.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: I was gone.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: I know, I didn't say anything, or you left the
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: phone and you didn't tell nothing. You ain't tell nothing.
• 20:39
  Speaker 14: You just know, I mean, he he he knew that
• 20:41
  Speaker 14: his phone was was missing, and so he realized and
• 20:44
  Speaker 14: and you know, oh.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: My god, you took the phone and left. They took
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: the phone.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: I am a black woman, I am not done.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Everything. I would put it all back like nothing happened. Yeah,
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: you didn't try to apologize and nothing like you don't.
• 20:58
  Speaker 14: I mean, of course he apologized, and you know, he
• 21:00
  Speaker 14: didn't want me to get a divorce or whatever.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: But he knows.
• 21:03
  Speaker 14: He knows how I value myself and he knows when
• 21:05
  Speaker 14: I'm not playing, And in that situation, I think he
• 21:07
  Speaker 14: just he knew they was no coming back, you.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Know, so is what it is. Would love to know
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: what he learned he had.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: We had a.
• 21:14
  Speaker 14: Beautiful relationship, a beautiful marriage, a beautiful friendship. And I
• 21:18
  Speaker 14: don't regret it. I don't take it back, and I'm
• 21:20
  Speaker 14: appreciative to the love that we did have because a
• 21:22
  Speaker 14: lot of people don't experience the love like that that
• 21:24
  Speaker 14: I had, you know, but that season it's gone.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: That that that chapter is closed.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: And how long were you all together?
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: Almost ten years?
• 21:32
  Speaker 10: Damn?
• 21:34
  Speaker 5: I want to me because you said earlier here I
• 21:36
  Speaker 5: Stand flopped and we were talking about chance to rapp him.
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: And you know what happens when an artist makes an
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: album dedicated to his wife, my dear, Yeah, and the
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: album this album is whack.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: The album was good, you understand, was a banging album.
• 21:51
  Speaker 6: It was.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: And let me tell you this. I'm gonna say this.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: This is in defense of him really quick, and I
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: don't want to talk about it. I'm okay.
• 21:57
  Speaker 10: It was enough.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: But here I Stand was so.
• 22:00
  Speaker 13: Solid because he was ahead of his time. He got
• 22:04
  Speaker 13: married before anybody before. This was before J and B.
• 22:07
  Speaker 13: This is before justin Timberlake. This is before he was
• 22:09
  Speaker 13: an outlier in like trying to be mature and wear suits.
• 22:13
  Speaker 13: That suit and tie that was we did that already. Sorry,
• 22:16
  Speaker 13: no offense, JG, but you know what I mean, Like
• 22:18
  Speaker 13: we were trying to make him go to the next level.
• 22:21
  Speaker 13: The fans weren't ready for him to evolve and get
• 22:24
  Speaker 13: to that level. And then now it's cool, everybody's married,
• 22:27
  Speaker 13: and see we just were ahead of our time, but
• 22:29
  Speaker 13: we did it too soon. So they were like, he
• 22:32
  Speaker 13: married this old ass lady and she's whack and that's
• 22:36
  Speaker 13: that and we hate him and so here I Stand
• 22:38
  Speaker 13: wasn't received the way it should have been, but it
• 22:40
  Speaker 13: was solid songs on that album made flop fly, but
• 22:45
  Speaker 13: it didn't do a million a million copies in the
• 22:48
  Speaker 13: first week like you know all the other albums.
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: Is the goal for both of y'all because y'all have
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: so much going on. As the goal for both of
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: y'all to get to a place where nobody asked you
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: about them, That is what I say.
• 22:58
  Speaker 14: I want the world to know Crystal, but it's impossible,
• 23:01
  Speaker 14: you know what I'm saying.
• 23:02
  Speaker 13: And that's what people always say. You don't want people
• 23:04
  Speaker 13: to ask you about him, but you still have his
• 23:06
  Speaker 13: last name. But I'm still I'm.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: Still my own person, you know what I mean. Diane
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: von Furstenberg is Dyane von Furstenberg.
• 23:12
  Speaker 13: She was married to Count von Furstenberg, but she's still
• 23:15
  Speaker 13: an amazing designer.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Like I just again, it's our community. Do you still
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: do styling like that or not too much?
• 23:22
  Speaker 13: I have a clothing line called Eli Kish I will
• 23:24
  Speaker 13: style certain artists, if they have certain people, if they
• 23:27
  Speaker 13: have a budget. It's not even artist, it's just if
• 23:29
  Speaker 13: you have a budget and you can afford to pay me.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: A stylist a lost art now, like you don't really
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: see them as like growing up in the two thousands,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: you would see stylists.
• 23:38
  Speaker 13: You see, Yes, styling is a lost art because it's
• 23:45
  Speaker 13: so it's oversaturated with people who have taken the title.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: You can work a gap for three days and all
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: you got to do rolling a trench code. You'd be like,
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I'm a stylist to the stars. You walk out and
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: say you're the top stylist. I'm looking like happens in
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: every league.
• 24:05
  Speaker 13: Listen, people can get what two viral videos now? The comedian,
• 24:08
  Speaker 13: yeah yeah you can. You know, you can get a
• 24:10
  Speaker 13: PCAs now you're radio person now, yeah yeah you can.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: You know. So I think it's the oversaturation in every lane.
• 24:15
  Speaker 13: Every lane, and that probably is because you know why,
• 24:18
  Speaker 13: I'm not just not too much on our people, but
• 24:21
  Speaker 13: it's low hanging fruit. They people don't You don't see
• 24:24
  Speaker 13: too many people fighting to be scientists or doctors or lawyers.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. That requires a lot of work.
• 24:29
  Speaker 13: That requires work in reading, like actual reading, like read hello,
• 24:33
  Speaker 13: read if you would read?
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: No, they want to do what's you know, the easiest
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: thing like I'm a stylist. I love clothes.
• 24:40
  Speaker 13: That's not how it works. Wos here put them on?
• 24:43
  Speaker 13: Yeah yeah girl, that's right. All right, thank you ladies
• 24:47
  Speaker 13: for joining us. Man make sure comment screenboled and boogie
• 24:51
  Speaker 13: on all black. Right now, go get to Amika Tamika
• 24:54
  Speaker 13: Raymond's book.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: Here, I stand here, I stand in a beautiful state.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: That's right, that's right, it's krystalpher and to me Foster,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: that's the breakfast Luve Goo morning, Thank you, vas Mary
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: is Charlamae the day we are the breakfast club Nowhew
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: just joining us.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Charlamage. His book is out today, Get Honest or Die
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Aligned Why small Talk Sucks.
• 25:14
  Speaker 5: Yes, my third book is out today, and this book
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: is all about people who want to start being honest
• 25:20
  Speaker 5: with themselves, because if you're honest with yourself, you'll stop
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: volunteering lives to other people.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: And it's just about how I hate small talk.
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: That's right, not just not just the literal form of
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: like chit chatter, but literally when people have nothing to
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: really talk about.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: So they just make things up.
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: But also how we turn a bunch of micros into
• 25:39
  Speaker 5: macros nowadays, So we make these small things big issues,
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: and then when the big issues come across our desk,
• 25:45
  Speaker 5: we don't deal with them at all, don't even know
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: how to talk about them.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Right, Well, that is the question eight hundred and five
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: eighty five one O five one. Let's talk what you ess?
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Small talk? How do you avoid it? How do you
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: get out of it? I just walk away, just walk away.
• 25:59
  Speaker 13: But I have a very like expressive face, so people
• 26:03
  Speaker 13: will know, like they be knowing sometimes like okay, she
• 26:05
  Speaker 13: don't want to talk, like even at my party there's
• 26:07
  Speaker 13: a lot of you know, of course white people, you
• 26:10
  Speaker 13: know who work for her or probably not. And then
• 26:13
  Speaker 13: they were asking like yeah, so like oh my god,
• 26:16
  Speaker 13: you know, like just just talking and I just was
• 26:19
  Speaker 13: like yeah. They was like, yeah, you probably don't care,
• 26:22
  Speaker 13: you know, because it's all in your facial disposition, how
• 26:25
  Speaker 13: you express yourself.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: And then like some people I do just walk away
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: from just walk away.
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: Just is very good at avoiding small talk because not
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: just her facial expressions, she'll just straight up tell you
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: you're doing too much and there's nothing wrong with that.
• 26:36
  Speaker 5: I think that that is the type of boundary you
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: should set when you don't want to have any meaningless conversation.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with just I walk away, I just walk
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: I walk away. I'm that guy. I just look. I can't.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: But there's times where you can't walk away, right, like
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: when you're on a plane and you're sitting next to.
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: Somebody, that's when you tell them. But that's you know
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: what I usually do in that situation, I call I
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: just thot calling.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: And usually they don't want to talk to a that
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: point because they usually think you COVID or something like that,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: so they just they don't want to talk to you.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Or I act like I'm falling to sleep and they're talking.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: I closed my eyes, like I start nodding off, yeah,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: like oh you're tired, Yes I am. And that usually
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: that is crazy.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: I would never call. But what's wrong with your mouth? Though?
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: It's meaning? Like why can't you just tell the person?
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Hey man, I'm a little tired right now.
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: I want to get some sleep, because sometimes that doesn't
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: work because they just keep talking.
• 27:22
  Speaker 13: And we don't like hurting people feelings too, Like you
• 27:25
  Speaker 13: don't like that you can tell like he don't really
• 27:27
  Speaker 13: like hurting people feelings, literally, but I feel like being
• 27:30
  Speaker 13: just like but I do, It's not it won't be
• 27:33
  Speaker 13: hurting nobody feels I'm being honest with you, Like, yo,
• 27:35
  Speaker 13: I don't even want to talk right now.
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: That's why I got this first class seat so I
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: can kick back, chill. I got a lot of things
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: to do that what is the title of the book,
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: get honest lying? Why are you lying to people? That's
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: works now they think you got COVID? Yeah, like can
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: I'm on my seat because so what do you do? Charlamagne?
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: Literally all the things that just said, I will tell
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: somebody straight up, like, look, we don't have to do
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: this right now. And this is honestly what the book
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: is given you permission to do. It's giving you permission
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: to say, Hey, we don't have to do this right now.
• 28:09
  Speaker 5: We don't have to make meaningless conversation. And if you
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: do want to have a conversation, I have topics in
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: this book that you can discuss if you choose to.
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: This book is literally like a card game almost like
• 28:19
  Speaker 5: you just draw, you know, different topics from it to
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: talk about. Because I'm not an expert than anything, I
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: just get my thoughts on things, and then you know,
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: we open up the floor for conversation, just like we're
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: about to do it.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Right now with the phone.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: So when Shagi was all in your ear talking about
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: sexy reds calf muscle, I don't even know how that came.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so how did you get out of it? I said,
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: nigga what? Then he laughed, and you know, we were
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: just taking a picture. And then that was that, and
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: then the song came on. He was trying. He started dancing.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: I started dancing. Chield a baby, the baby, all the
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: big girls being the club doing this for no reason.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: It's the funniest thing, and all of this just the top.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, let's let's go to the form Jesus Christy.
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: Hello, who's this hello Tony?
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: So we'll say it again, Envy, Yes, sir, good morning man,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: good morning, good morning.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: We'll talk about small talk. How do you avoid small talk? Tony?
• 29:22
  Speaker 6: No?
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: No, that's another good one. But people will still talk
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: to me niggas, don't. I mean, people don't care, yo,
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: They will just how you doing?
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: And by that's it?
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, why do we have to do all that?
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: Like, why can't you just tell somebody I don't want
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: to have this conversation right now. I'm not in the mood.
• 29:43
  Speaker 5: I'm busy, Like I'd rather be on my phone. I'd
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: rather be sitting here in silence. If we're going to
• 29:47
  Speaker 5: talk about something, let's talk about this, like why why
• 29:49
  Speaker 5: do y'all got to do all that?
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: Hello? Who's this?
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: Hey? This is your mind calling from How you doing eachelling?
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: God is hilarious?
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: Talk to us? How you get out of small brother? Listen?
• 30:01
  Speaker 7: So this is what I do.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: So you know, since I'm a I'm a journalist and
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: a radio personality, and I have to talk to people
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: that I don't know, I just like, okay, have a
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: good day and just move away from the situation where
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: I are. I'll act like I have a phone call,
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: so you just make excuses. Yeah, basically, but listen before
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: you before you hang up, because I know it endy,
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: you like to hang up on people. I'm going to
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: be in New York on on the first week of Julie.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: I would love to meet you guys, or get a
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: tour of the studio that if that's possible.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I got a phone call, I got a phone call.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: I would just love to come to in New York.
• 30:37
  Speaker 5: I respect, I respect to ask you know. I just
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: it's it's a hell of a vetting process, though, Like
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: what is the reason.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: Like why he's a person?
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I think your mind's a gentleman that goes to college
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: and you do radio for your college, right, yes, yeah,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: And I really.
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: Look up to you guys. You guys are like my
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: inspiration every time I do radio. So I would just
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: love to, you know, get some information and stuff. I'm
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: veterans in the in the game.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Hold on, Shaman, We'll put you on.
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: Hold on, We'll let Eddie, our producer, give you a
• 31:06
  Speaker 5: thorough vetting. Okay, Okay, yes, not promising anything, but it's
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: just hold on.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: That's dope.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: All right, it's the breakfast other morning.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm just gonna close out for us.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this Storio?
• 31:25
  Speaker 7: Every what's happening?
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Torio? What's uphere? You calling from?
• 31:28
  Speaker 7: I'm calling from Jacksonville, and I ain't got nothing to
• 31:30
  Speaker 7: do with the baseball team.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Got nothing to do with the baseball team. Okay, I'm
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: glad you cleared that up, sir.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, now we're talking about small talk. How do you
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: get rid of small talk?
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Brother? How do you get out of it?
• 31:39
  Speaker 7: And I can start small talk first, and I'm want
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: to do that with just how you doing?
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: I'm good, bab How are you.
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 31:48
  Speaker 7: Hey, listen, I want to tell you beautiful and I
• 31:51
  Speaker 7: want to give you two congratulations on come to member.
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: Of the Brookles Club.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I appreciate you. King.
• 32:00
  Speaker 7: Okay, that's sound great, But listen, this is how I
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: get with a small talk. Why I don't talk. We
• 32:05
  Speaker 7: ain't talking about money. We don't have nothing to talk about.
• 32:09
  Speaker 7: We ain't talking about.
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: How to come up.
• 32:11
  Speaker 7: It ain't nothing to talk about, though, So what we're
• 32:13
  Speaker 7: talking about.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Those are good macro conversations. I'm not mad at that.
• 32:18
  Speaker 5: Like I said, it's a lot of times we make
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: a lot of micros macros. I'm not mad at either
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: one of those conversations.
• 32:23
  Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, but Chlae, Yes, sir sent me some books
• 32:27
  Speaker 7: no time ago. Let me get this new one man
• 32:29
  Speaker 7: and autographic for this man.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: If you ain't talking about money, ain't nothing to talk about.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. How do you say you're
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: talking about money? I sent him a book? You are crazy, bro,
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: if you're not talking about money. Joke but he was
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: with the model for the books. So you gotta get
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: a book. The hell is wrong with you? Man, Well
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: go back if you can, Bro, I'll get you a
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: copy of the book. Man, I'm bad. I thought you
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: said it ain't about money. Hang up, joke, I didn't,
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: My God, more of the stories.
• 33:02
  Speaker 5: My new book, Getting on at the Die Line, Why
• 33:04
  Speaker 5: Small Talk Sucks, is available everywhere you buy books right now. Okay,
• 33:08
  Speaker 5: And if you're in New York, in New Jersey tomorrow,
• 33:11
  Speaker 5: I'll be at Barnge and Noble on Fifth Avenue at
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: one pm. And I'll be in the Barnge and Noble
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: and Paramus at five pm tomorrow.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Alright, great promo. The real moral of the story is,
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: do not engage in small talk. If you don't have to.
• 33:27
  Speaker 13: You can be okay, be okay with not engaging in it,
• 33:31
  Speaker 13: you know, and just telling people the truth, like you
• 33:33
  Speaker 13: don't have to sit there and talk.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: To them like you know, you really don't. That's right.
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: And if you want more on what Justice just said,
• 33:39
  Speaker 5: my new books, Get on the Line, Watch Small Talk
• 33:42
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• 33:45
  Speaker 5: Justin said is absolutely positively true, and it's in this book.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, Latario my bad bro by Brad. I thought decent.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Hang up, I was going with the I'm sorry I
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: got too excited.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: All right. We got Jesse with the Mets coming up.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: What we're talking about, Oh my go ahead? Ever Rose
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: double down on why she supports Trump.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, and we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: slogan Morning the Breakfast Club, pulling everybody at j n V,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Jess Larian Chollam and the God we are the Breakfast Club.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: We got a special guest in the building, the legend
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Bruce Bruce. Let's cracking baby, Welcome.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: How you feeling. Everything's good?
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Everything is good? Yeah, but this is the first time
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Bruce Bruce has been on the shelf.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: And I want to you know when I when sometimes
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: when when somebody comes to the first time, I want
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: to start from the beginning, right, Okay, Now, I know
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: your story because I've been studying you, I've been following you.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: But for people that don't know, how did Bruce Bruce
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: get into comedy? And I want you to explain your
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: job before comedy? Well, you know, I used to be
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: a chef. I can cook like a mug and you know,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: everywhere I go, I used to always be funny. So
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I hired this guy one time. I was running a
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: barbecue restaurant, old guy, and he said he used to
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: watch me in the kitchen when I first start, when
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: he first started, and he's watching.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: He said, you need to go.
• 34:57
  Speaker 10: You need on stage, and I ain't paying to to
• 34:59
  Speaker 10: He's not gonna bring you something tomorrow. He brought me
• 35:01
  Speaker 10: this album, you know, back in the day at album.
• 35:03
  Speaker 10: He was a comedian, but he was ex Navy. He
• 35:05
  Speaker 10: was an alcoholic. He said, I waste your time on
• 35:07
  Speaker 10: this job, and you need to go on stage.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: Know what I did? I quick because I had a family.
• 35:11
  Speaker 10: I was young, man had three kids, and Man, I
• 35:14
  Speaker 10: went and started working for Freedo a potato chips, selling
• 35:16
  Speaker 10: potato chips. And the whole time I'm selling potato chips
• 35:18
  Speaker 10: and on the doc, I'm just funny, acting crazy. So
• 35:21
  Speaker 10: good old white dude. So you know you need to
• 35:23
  Speaker 10: go study. That's a year every morning, you know, study,
• 35:27
  Speaker 10: you frounny I look comedians at frauds there or nothing
• 35:30
  Speaker 10: you know, and you're gonna stay. And when I took
• 35:32
  Speaker 10: that step, man, I knew that's why I should have
• 35:35
  Speaker 10: been my whole entirelight and what made me take that step.
• 35:38
  Speaker 10: I was going through a divorce and my x Yfe said, you'd.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Never make it. Why did you tell you that?
• 35:43
  Speaker 10: So I just looked at it and say, I see
• 35:45
  Speaker 10: you on TV. You know what I'm saying, And it's
• 35:48
  Speaker 10: been gone there. I've been doing it now thirty five
• 35:50
  Speaker 10: years now.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: You also mentioned that you were an only child. Only child,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: your father left at the age of five.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he was four or five.
• 35:56
  Speaker 10: He was an air force and he was a Madeican
• 35:58
  Speaker 10: Air Force and he was he flew choppers and airplanes
• 36:01
  Speaker 10: and when he when he got out, he was an
• 36:03
  Speaker 10: antety geologist.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: That was it important to mend that relationship before he passed?
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Or yeah, I did. I did.
• 36:09
  Speaker 10: My mother said, I just wanted to know I remember him.
• 36:12
  Speaker 10: My mama said, what you looking for him for? You know,
• 36:14
  Speaker 10: because they be mad. But my mother really ran him off,
• 36:16
  Speaker 10: you know what I mean. She was just she ran
• 36:18
  Speaker 10: him off and she was off monster man. You know
• 36:21
  Speaker 10: what I'm saying.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I just like, man, this dude is cool.
• 36:27
  Speaker 10: He was really cool, you know, But she like, I
• 36:29
  Speaker 10: don't want to know everything he tried to do. She
• 36:31
  Speaker 10: just knocked it down, like but she was listening to
• 36:34
  Speaker 10: a girlfriends. That's why I tried to tell all these
• 36:35
  Speaker 10: young girls, don't listen to no woman that ain't got
• 36:37
  Speaker 10: no man. You don't say what I'm saying. If you
• 36:39
  Speaker 10: got a woman, if you got a girlfriend, you got
• 36:41
  Speaker 10: a husband. She not true a husband, but a woman
• 36:43
  Speaker 10: that don't have a man, she can't tell you nothing.
• 36:46
  Speaker 10: But he he just he left and he never ever
• 36:49
  Speaker 10: called us ever. And my mother didn't even know she
• 36:51
  Speaker 10: was divorced. He did a non contested divorce because my
• 36:54
  Speaker 10: mother just worked, come home, never went anywhere. So when
• 36:57
  Speaker 10: she said, I think I'm going to get a divorce,
• 36:59
  Speaker 10: and when she would do it, said you already divorced.
• 37:01
  Speaker 10: And Uncle Tessa, you put it in the newspaper for
• 37:03
  Speaker 10: thirty days. You don't answer the ad. Bam you divorced.
• 37:06
  Speaker 10: He was already gone. He was gone, he was gone.
• 37:09
  Speaker 10: They done got married three more times. I found it
• 37:11
  Speaker 10: when I was like forty years old.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: So he knew who you were. He knew exactly what
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: I was, he knew exactly what I looked like.
• 37:17
  Speaker 10: No, my son looked like him, though, my baby boy
• 37:18
  Speaker 10: looks just like him. But It's funny how I dip over,
• 37:21
  Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying. But I met with him
• 37:23
  Speaker 10: and we talked, and we stayed in touch, and he
• 37:26
  Speaker 10: ended up passing away about seventeen years ago.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: My mother passed away fourteen years You and your mom
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: ever have to talk? Did you ever have to stay here?
• 37:33
  Speaker 13: My mom?
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: It was you.
• 37:34
  Speaker 10: Yeah, she said, you know I was wrong, She said
• 37:36
  Speaker 10: I didn't care about I had an other boyfriend. You
• 37:38
  Speaker 10: know my mama food around. See, parents don't tell you.
• 37:40
  Speaker 10: They tried to tell you the right thing, but they
• 37:42
  Speaker 10: do the wrong thing in front of you. You know
• 37:44
  Speaker 10: what I'm saying. Those old dudes used to go with
• 37:46
  Speaker 10: named DG. You know, had platform shoes with taps on.
• 37:48
  Speaker 10: You remember platform He had taps on platform shoes. He
• 37:52
  Speaker 10: come up the steps, clock your mama doing and then
• 37:56
  Speaker 10: he'll tell me, hey, come in, let me give you
• 37:58
  Speaker 10: a few doug on down and get your coat, you
• 38:00
  Speaker 10: know something like that. I know what you're finna do.
• 38:02
  Speaker 10: Finna get his some tail, you know what I'm saying.
• 38:04
  Speaker 10: So he gets you, gets some potato tails. I run
• 38:07
  Speaker 10: right out of the house. You know, I know what
• 38:08
  Speaker 10: he's finna do.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: I want no food. You know what I'm saying. But
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: he was cool. He was cool to me. He treated
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: me very nice. But she had this one boyfriend. She's
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: just crazy.
• 38:15
  Speaker 10: But I don't know what's up with women with this
• 38:18
  Speaker 10: one dude that they like. And he ain't nothing. I mean, man,
• 38:22
  Speaker 10: he wasn't nothing.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: Man. He dogged my mama.
• 38:24
  Speaker 10: Man he was he was married. She didn't even know
• 38:26
  Speaker 10: he's married. She's older, he's old. There every day, every
• 38:30
  Speaker 10: day eating.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, God is a good guard. You know how to joke. Yeah,
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: God is a good guy. And woman.
• 38:36
  Speaker 10: Tell you what happened. When I was in high school,
• 38:38
  Speaker 10: four of us used to hang together and we saw
• 38:40
  Speaker 10: him in his truck. And my buddy say, man, they
• 38:43
  Speaker 10: call you. You're ma my boyfriend with your mom. I
• 38:45
  Speaker 10: said no, I said, that's my mom boyfriend. That's not
• 38:47
  Speaker 10: my mom. It was another lady. So I got out
• 38:50
  Speaker 10: the car, looked at him and say, hey, you know
• 38:51
  Speaker 10: I see you right? He said, oh, hey, how you
• 38:53
  Speaker 10: doing play it?
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: Come on to my mom house. I told my mother.
• 38:55
  Speaker 10: So I seen him with another woman. He looked me
• 38:57
  Speaker 10: dead in a mine. He said, that was not he
• 38:59
  Speaker 10: did not see me. My mother believed it, but the
• 39:03
  Speaker 10: reason she believed it because I didn't like him, so
• 39:05
  Speaker 10: she just kind of figured I made up a story
• 39:08
  Speaker 10: about him, and she let it go. But it took
• 39:10
  Speaker 10: her girlfriend or hers to see him, say saw that
• 39:13
  Speaker 10: dude with another woman? You know what I'm saying. They
• 39:16
  Speaker 10: took her to tell me she dated him like sixteen
• 39:19
  Speaker 10: years man, And I how to tell you, my mother,
• 39:21
  Speaker 10: I don't want to get married. I don't want to
• 39:22
  Speaker 10: get Okay, you don't want to get married, but this
• 39:24
  Speaker 10: dude's already married, so you can't marry this dude.
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: When she found out, she was like she was toe up.
• 39:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and you said, your uncle Paul inspired you as
• 39:31
  Speaker 5: far as comedy because he was the funny.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: Oh man, he was funny.
• 39:34
  Speaker 10: Okay, he tell a lot. Everybody got help me with
• 39:36
  Speaker 10: this lot? Everybody he tell did I tell him? Yeah,
• 39:39
  Speaker 10: he told you, everybody help me.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: With this lot. But he was one of the best
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: bakers in the world.
• 39:46
  Speaker 10: He he practically raised Gladys Knight back in the day,
• 39:50
  Speaker 10: and they used to call him the sweetbread Man, and
• 39:53
  Speaker 10: Gladys Knight knew him. His name was Paul Henson Junior,
• 39:56
  Speaker 10: and he went by the sweetbread Man because he was
• 39:58
  Speaker 10: the baker of in Atlanta. George, he was the man,
• 40:01
  Speaker 10: and he talked about Gladys all the time. But Gladys
• 40:04
  Speaker 10: and I was really raised on the same street. The
• 40:06
  Speaker 10: street was Chestnut Street. They changed to James Preet Broadley.
• 40:10
  Speaker 10: I was on four point fifteen. She was on like
• 40:12
  Speaker 10: seven eighty five something like that, just right up the street,
• 40:14
  Speaker 10: like two blocks. You know, No, no, I I was
• 40:16
  Speaker 10: a little kid. But she lived at when he first husband.
• 40:19
  Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying. But Gladys is a girl.
• 40:20
  Speaker 5: Man, Wow, were you able to translate your funny to
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: actually make a career of it?
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: But somebody like Uncle Paul, who was funny, couldn't. I
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 40:28
  Speaker 10: My uncle Paul was just scared to go and say
• 40:30
  Speaker 10: he was scared. See see black people back in it,
• 40:32
  Speaker 10: they had the skill to do everything, but they were
• 40:35
  Speaker 10: scared to do it. They had so much fear. So
• 40:38
  Speaker 10: like young kids, not the dude. They was, I don't care,
• 40:40
  Speaker 10: I'll do it. So I just took it and ran
• 40:41
  Speaker 10: with him. Uncle one of the best bakers in the world.
• 40:43
  Speaker 10: He went against bakers from France and Italy, you know,
• 40:47
  Speaker 10: from England, and he beat him all out, you know
• 40:49
  Speaker 10: what I mean. Then he went to He had a
• 40:51
  Speaker 10: cheesecake that he made. It was one of the best
• 40:52
  Speaker 10: cheesecakes in the world. And they tricked him out of
• 40:56
  Speaker 10: it and didn't have sense enough to get a lawyer.
• 40:58
  Speaker 10: And everything gave him like ten thousand dollar they clapping.
• 41:00
  Speaker 10: He was all happy with as yeah, when he could
• 41:03
  Speaker 10: have got one hundred million.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 41:06
  Speaker 10: But just didn't have a sense and the knowledge to
• 41:08
  Speaker 10: do that at the time.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: Oh, you know, I wanted to know as a child,
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: was Bruce Bruce big as a child? No, man, I
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: was a little bit. He called me little Bruce. Man.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: I didn't I didn't get fat till I got may
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: I don't know why I got married. Oh my god.
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't eat it.
• 41:20
  Speaker 12: Man.
• 41:21
  Speaker 10: I was just a little bit of dude, just run around,
• 41:23
  Speaker 10: just messing with everybody. I was a little bit of
• 41:25
  Speaker 10: kid man. But when I got married, I got fat.
• 41:27
  Speaker 10: You know, That's what happened to us as black man.
• 41:29
  Speaker 10: We get complacent that we get complacent with jobs. We
• 41:33
  Speaker 10: get a job, and let's just say, Jeral Motives were
• 41:36
  Speaker 10: making a little money. Oh man, that's a good job.
• 41:38
  Speaker 10: I don't care nothing about a good job. It's about
• 41:40
  Speaker 10: getting out there getting it, because it's more than that
• 41:42
  Speaker 10: and getting a good job.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: I ain't like that question, by the way, what man,
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: I ain't like the question? Do you ask you what
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: was Bruce Bruce little as a child was a big child.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: I was a fat kid. What he wanted to.
• 41:56
  Speaker 10: He thought I was just couldn't clap my hands, laid
• 41:59
  Speaker 10: could clap hand, y'all clap my hand. But no, man,
• 42:03
  Speaker 10: I was a little kid. Look cute, joker man, And
• 42:06
  Speaker 10: I'm messing with everybody. And you know we we seen
• 42:10
  Speaker 10: to lose focus and that's what happened. You lose focus,
• 42:12
  Speaker 10: you start eating crazy. But now I'm back at it. Man,
• 42:14
  Speaker 10: I'm sixty two years old. Man, Wow, we got.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: More with Bruce Bruce. When we come back, don't move.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: It's to breakfast Club.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: Come morning, j and d Yes, I lost my voice,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Jess Hilaria Charlamage the God we are the breakfast Club.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: We're still kicking it with Bruce Bruce. Now.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: I got a question, what's the most difficult city? Because
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: you're on the road, what five days a week, four
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: days a week, shoes you know, every week, what's the
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: toughest city for you?
• 42:36
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna be honest. I never had a tough city, man.
• 42:38
  Speaker 10: I've had some tough crowds. When the comedy clubs hold
• 42:43
  Speaker 10: these people hostages, you know, like let's just say, first
• 42:46
  Speaker 10: show is at seven, second show is supposed to start
• 42:49
  Speaker 10: at ten, all right, they let the first show run over.
• 42:51
  Speaker 10: These people are come to the show at ten o'clock
• 42:53
  Speaker 10: outside waiting, So that's the piss they pissed, you know,
• 42:57
  Speaker 10: So you got to really go to work to make
• 42:59
  Speaker 10: them laugh, you know, or go and or say something
• 43:02
  Speaker 10: like this, say y'all have been at working. They want
• 43:03
  Speaker 10: to be there, Like yeah, that's why I feel now,
• 43:06
  Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying. So when you break the
• 43:07
  Speaker 10: ice with them, you got them. Once you get them,
• 43:10
  Speaker 10: you got them. But you got to run the clubs
• 43:12
  Speaker 10: on time. And it's hard dealing with us. It's black people.
• 43:14
  Speaker 10: It's hard to deal with a lot of black people, man.
• 43:16
  Speaker 10: But the white clubs they be on it, damn because
• 43:19
  Speaker 10: they realize the money they can make in the short
• 43:21
  Speaker 10: length of time.
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: You know, you maybe think about when it comes to
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: doing business with black people and white people. Because I
• 43:26
  Speaker 5: love doing business with with with with my people, right,
• 43:28
  Speaker 5: but I don't think we often look at it as business.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: We don't like it should be a personal transaction, right.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: It's always.
• 43:37
  Speaker 10: It's a part because people people call my manager and
• 43:39
  Speaker 10: be like, man, Boo's go back fifteen.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: I don't even know this brother. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: I met him at the gas station. End up, you
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: don't know me. Bro.
• 43:47
  Speaker 10: Maybe I come across like you do know me, but
• 43:49
  Speaker 10: you don't know me. They'll call and be like, we
• 43:51
  Speaker 10: discussed the deal and he said he would do it
• 43:53
  Speaker 10: for this. That's not true because I don't discuss money
• 43:56
  Speaker 10: at all with anybody. But they always think it's like
• 43:59
  Speaker 10: a partner thing when it's just be busy.
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: Do you remember your best show and you remember your
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: worst show? Yeah?
• 44:04
  Speaker 10: Man, I can remember a lot of them, but the
• 44:06
  Speaker 10: people don't know it.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: I knew it. I can remember my first I mean,
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I come off Saint Tap a guy.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I didn't like that show. Well, people thought it was great,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: but I'd be like, I didn't like that show. What
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: was your what was your worst show? Because they said
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: you don't write things down, it's just all I.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: Come out a couple.
• 44:19
  Speaker 10: One time I was in Houston, Texas, and uh, I
• 44:21
  Speaker 10: was doing this show, and I was joning everybody out
• 44:23
  Speaker 10: and this dude came up and joeed me and he
• 44:26
  Speaker 10: was funny, but you know, go damn Jonah. He said,
• 44:30
  Speaker 10: I did like a pickle jaw, you know. And I saw, like, damn,
• 44:34
  Speaker 10: that's funny. Bro I said, I'm gonna keep that, you know,
• 44:36
  Speaker 10: stepent me like a pickle jaw. I was like, oh
• 44:38
  Speaker 10: my god, that's funny. But the crowd loved it because
• 44:41
  Speaker 10: I took it so well. I didn't go off, you
• 44:44
  Speaker 10: know exactly. It was really funny when he said it.
• 44:47
  Speaker 10: And the best show I ever did, it was years
• 44:49
  Speaker 10: and years and years ago is when Bernie Mack was
• 44:51
  Speaker 10: red hot. Bernie Mack was super hot. And it's a
• 44:54
  Speaker 10: it's a part of Georgia called Makeham, Georgia, and it's
• 44:57
  Speaker 10: about an hour from Atlanta, and Bernie was performing, had
• 44:59
  Speaker 10: a five thousand seater and the feature didn't show up.
• 45:01
  Speaker 10: And the guy said, hey, man, my feature in't show.
• 45:03
  Speaker 10: Can you come down opening up for Bernie Mac? I said, yes,
• 45:06
  Speaker 10: you know, I had been in the game now about
• 45:08
  Speaker 10: five years. Yes, And I drove down a quick as
• 45:11
  Speaker 10: I could, and I was on stage and I can
• 45:13
  Speaker 10: remember Bernie Mack had his arm folded looking at me.
• 45:16
  Speaker 10: He said, who's that dude right there? He said his
• 45:18
  Speaker 10: Bruce was He said, he is funny. But Bernie went
• 45:21
  Speaker 10: up and ripped it. And I worked with Bernie twice
• 45:23
  Speaker 10: in my whole entire life. May couldn't. And then I
• 45:26
  Speaker 10: worked in Columbia, South Carolina on the top.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 45:29
  Speaker 10: But Bernie was a bad dude. Man, And people don't
• 45:32
  Speaker 10: realize when he did, I'm not scared of you on
• 45:35
  Speaker 10: death jail. He made that up right then because everybody
• 45:38
  Speaker 10: was coming up. They was having a car a hard
• 45:39
  Speaker 10: time here in New York. Damn jail. They was getting
• 45:42
  Speaker 10: it to him, you know, New York. You know you
• 45:44
  Speaker 10: don't hold no punches, you know. And Bernie said, man,
• 45:46
  Speaker 10: I ain't skettering them, mom, And he went up and did.
• 45:48
  Speaker 10: Him and Capri went together on it and he ripped it. Man,
• 45:51
  Speaker 10: Bernie was a bad.
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: D Was that the funniest comedian you have worked with? No, man?
• 45:55
  Speaker 10: I know some funny comedians now, like Tony Robertson is
• 45:57
  Speaker 10: stupid funny. Tony makes me laugh. You know who ton
• 46:00
  Speaker 10: Robinson was? Oh my god, Tonor Robbins told me he
• 46:03
  Speaker 10: used to day. The girl her breath was so.
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: Bad it smelled like a horse's hiccups. So who think
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: of that? Who think of a horse's hiccup? You know
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
• 46:12
  Speaker 10: He makes me laugh. Mike Capps. Mike Capps is one
• 46:16
  Speaker 10: of the dude I trained back in the day. Mike
• 46:17
  Speaker 10: used to be on the road me. Mike moved from
• 46:19
  Speaker 10: Indiana to Atlanta. I used to take him on the
• 46:21
  Speaker 10: road with me, and then he moved to New York
• 46:23
  Speaker 10: and he called me when they said, man, they want
• 46:25
  Speaker 10: me to audition for Fridays.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: I said, what you waiting on? I said, looking for
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: somebody like you? And he called me a week later.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: I got the part. I said, you're on your wait day.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: They that's my man. Now we've seen Kat Williams pulled
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: out his chop a couple of months ago. He was
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: fired at everybody. What was your thoughts? Because you know
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: a lot of that stuff was was inside that became outside.
• 46:44
  Speaker 10: Cat just told how he felt, man, and what's been
• 46:46
  Speaker 10: going on in his life for real, and he just
• 46:49
  Speaker 10: got fed up with it. You know when people when
• 46:51
  Speaker 10: people dog you out, Let's just say this. I used
• 46:53
  Speaker 10: to tell people I had a club in Atlanta. It's
• 46:56
  Speaker 10: called Club five five nine. And I used to tell
• 46:58
  Speaker 10: my securities. I said, listen, when you have an altercation
• 47:00
  Speaker 10: with a guy, be careful because they don't forget you.
• 47:04
  Speaker 10: You don't be forgot about them. So if you throw
• 47:07
  Speaker 10: them at the club, throw them on their head and
• 47:09
  Speaker 10: they'd be like, I'm not gonna forget that.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: They won't forget you. But you forgot who that was.
• 47:14
  Speaker 10: And you had to go store with your woman shopping,
• 47:16
  Speaker 10: you roun up all you you remember me?
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: You're like, no, you have to be careful.
• 47:19
  Speaker 10: So Kat just went through some things, stuff that he
• 47:22
  Speaker 10: never forgot that was done to him, and he's coming
• 47:24
  Speaker 10: back retaliating, and he just told.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: It like it was.
• 47:27
  Speaker 5: I mean, there's a lot of different things you could
• 47:29
  Speaker 5: take from that conversation. But the thing I took from
• 47:31
  Speaker 5: it that I appreciate it. It felt like it put
• 47:33
  Speaker 5: black comedy in a in a new light. Yeah, like
• 47:36
  Speaker 5: people started paying attention to the old geez like you
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: Tony Robbers, like they.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I just felt like it just shine
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: earthquake and shine.
• 47:43
  Speaker 10: The light on the on the people who've been doing it,
• 47:46
  Speaker 10: and people got to understand something about Kat Williams. Cat
• 47:48
  Speaker 10: Williams is not a dummy.
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: He is very smart. He's very smart.
• 47:52
  Speaker 10: I don't know if y'all remember when he had altercation
• 47:54
  Speaker 10: in Atlanta with one of the smith if if you
• 47:57
  Speaker 10: ever noticed it, he never lost his composure.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: He stood there and drunk his coffee and he was
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: killing her the whole time. And he's just cool like that.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: He's very smart. He's a smart guy. How did you
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: feel about all these artists mentioned you and their songs?
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: I love it. Well, you have a surprise that you
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: hear before when you heard let Bruce Bruce hit it?
• 48:13
  Speaker 4: That?
• 48:14
  Speaker 10: God, I just hate when dude said it. You know
• 48:16
  Speaker 10: what I'm saying, like, we let Bruce bro. You should
• 48:19
  Speaker 10: be saying that. Then your girls should say it, but
• 48:21
  Speaker 10: not not me, not you Bro. That on the text
• 48:24
  Speaker 10: this morning?
• 48:25
  Speaker 5: Did he because our producer was like, man, Bruce Bruce
• 48:27
  Speaker 5: is already his we were on the way. Yeah, and
• 48:29
  Speaker 5: so he goes, well, entertain them, then let Bruce Bruce
• 48:31
  Speaker 5: hit it.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: I was joking. I forgive you, that's what he said.
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: I forgive you. That's inside stuff. Man. I just I
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: just thought it was stupid, you know he did? Yeah,
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: I felt he felt we cool. So he just told
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: me and our producer told him that was he was
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: going to h it's gonna be that breathing. Why did
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: you do that? Why did you?
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Biggie, Biggie mentioned you and hypnotize, Yeah, time you
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: heard what happened.
• 48:55
  Speaker 10: I was in Jacksonville, Florid. I never forget this and
• 48:58
  Speaker 10: I wanted to meet him so bad because I was
• 49:00
  Speaker 10: a fan of Biggie, you know.
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 49:02
  Speaker 10: He came in and I was on stage clowning. I
• 49:05
  Speaker 10: was joning people. I mean, I asked to do it.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: I said that shirt sill because it's I say, is
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: it's silky behind it too much? You know something like that.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: He walked in, he said, just dude.
• 49:14
  Speaker 10: Was funny because if you ever really pay attention to Biggie,
• 49:17
  Speaker 10: he didn't really smile that much, you know what I'm saying.
• 49:20
  Speaker 10: He just always had that look, this nuns look. He
• 49:23
  Speaker 10: smiled on the video when he was on the boat.
• 49:25
  Speaker 10: When he was on the boat and he started smiling,
• 49:27
  Speaker 10: he said, wanna put you down for it?
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: And when I heard him, like what what was like
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: was a people were debating whether he yeah, did he
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: say that? Yeah?
• 49:34
  Speaker 10: It was like Bruce Bruce, who do something to us?
• 49:37
  Speaker 10: Talk goes through us, girls do us, one of the
• 49:39
  Speaker 10: screws who meet Poppy and Puff.
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: It was just love.
• 49:43
  Speaker 10: He showed me he was a cool guy man and
• 49:45
  Speaker 10: I actually saw him smile and lad because I never
• 49:48
  Speaker 10: saw him smile. He just always had this like heart look,
• 49:51
  Speaker 10: like you know, he read to fight, but he was
• 49:53
  Speaker 10: really funny. It was fun to be around. So he
• 49:55
  Speaker 10: told you he was going to put you. Yeah, okay, okay,
• 49:57
  Speaker 10: that's how you know it was Yeah. I listened to
• 49:59
  Speaker 10: it over. I just kept coming back. I just I
• 50:01
  Speaker 10: just kept repeating it, listen to it old on and
• 50:03
  Speaker 10: that was love.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: That was real love. All right.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: We got more with Bruce Bruce when we come back.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. Comedian Bruce Bruce is still here.
• 50:12
  Speaker 5: Charlam now Out of Depth, Comedy Jam, Showtime at the Apollo,
• 50:16
  Speaker 5: and Comic View.
• 50:17
  Speaker 10: Which one had the most impact on you? Comic View
• 50:19
  Speaker 10: Depth Jam first, Depth Jam was the start and come
• 50:22
  Speaker 10: on that we got to give it to Russell Simmons,
• 50:24
  Speaker 10: I mean, big up for him. Depth Jam was good.
• 50:26
  Speaker 10: But when I did Comic View, see Comic View started
• 50:28
  Speaker 10: out as Coast to Coast. I don't know if y'all
• 50:30
  Speaker 10: remember that they used to come out to your city
• 50:33
  Speaker 10: and come to a club and film you and then
• 50:36
  Speaker 10: take it back.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: And DL was the host, and he's.
• 50:39
  Speaker 10: Like, look, went all the way down to Atlanta at
• 50:41
  Speaker 10: a club called the Comedy at Theater, and we've seen
• 50:44
  Speaker 10: this guy, Bruce Bruce and then showed me and I
• 50:46
  Speaker 10: did the Coast to code when they first started. But
• 50:48
  Speaker 10: I never forget the year that I host. It was
• 50:51
  Speaker 10: probably the best year for me that I have ever
• 50:54
  Speaker 10: experienced in my life. They went from ten ten million
• 50:57
  Speaker 10: viewers to twenty million viewers when the host, and.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: It was great for me. It was good.
• 51:01
  Speaker 10: I made some money. They gave me money for wardrobe.
• 51:04
  Speaker 10: That's why I dressed in all them suits because I
• 51:05
  Speaker 10: thought I was a pimp.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I thought I was a
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: straight up pimp.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: Why do you help so many comedians? Comedians talk about
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: that You helped someone so many comedians in their career
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: and their life. What gives you the energy Because a
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: lot of people be like, I ain't helping him because
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: he might get bigger than me.
• 51:17
  Speaker 10: But you you talked about so many communities. Oh my god, yeah,
• 51:20
  Speaker 10: but so many helped me. I never forget when I
• 51:23
  Speaker 10: first when I was in the comedy actre in Atlanta
• 51:26
  Speaker 10: and John Wierspoon came to Atlanta and he looked at
• 51:29
  Speaker 10: me and he say, you got it. He said, you
• 51:32
  Speaker 10: really got it. He say, I like you. So he
• 51:34
  Speaker 10: started telling me what to do and what not to do,
• 51:37
  Speaker 10: and he helped me, took me up on this way.
• 51:38
  Speaker 10: Ronald Alray did the same thing. He helped me on
• 51:42
  Speaker 10: BT when he was my calls. People don't realize that
• 51:44
  Speaker 10: Ronald Ray was a college professor before he started doing comedy.
• 51:48
  Speaker 10: He was extremely smart and he would tell me sometimes
• 51:50
  Speaker 10: he said, turn your body to the right a little bit.
• 51:53
  Speaker 10: When you tell that joke, it'll work better. And I'm like,
• 51:56
  Speaker 10: how's that gonna work better? And it worked better. And
• 51:59
  Speaker 10: then last are the Mohicans who really told me, say
• 52:02
  Speaker 10: you won't have to find her, and they will find you.
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: His name was Paul Mooney. Wow, the legend Paul Mooney.
• 52:08
  Speaker 10: He told me that Ridney Winterfield, y'all remember righting the
• 52:11
  Speaker 10: Winfield that my man took me And he said a
• 52:14
  Speaker 10: lot of these juggles don't like you. Just because you're funny,
• 52:17
  Speaker 10: He says, keep being funny, you're gonna be alright. Used
• 52:19
  Speaker 10: to call me do shows with him, you know, you
• 52:21
  Speaker 10: know back in the day, man, somebody say, Man, we
• 52:23
  Speaker 10: got to show paying three hundred dollars. I'm like, let's go.
• 52:26
  Speaker 10: You know these new kids now, he say, Man, I
• 52:28
  Speaker 10: got a show for you. How much you're paying?
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: Hold it? Hold it.
• 52:31
  Speaker 10: You ain't been seen walking by TV much less on TV.
• 52:35
  Speaker 10: So what is you talking about how much they're paying?
• 52:37
  Speaker 10: If I tell you about the show, I'm gonna make
• 52:39
  Speaker 10: sure you get paid.
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: Just that something you think social media helped the hurt comedy?
• 52:43
  Speaker 10: Oh, he helped it, mane I wish I had social
• 52:45
  Speaker 10: media thirty five years ago. The only thing we had
• 52:47
  Speaker 10: was go in this city early through radio, try to
• 52:50
  Speaker 10: do TV to get people in there. Social media is
• 52:55
  Speaker 10: a platform that really helped a lot of young for
• 52:59
  Speaker 10: me is now now veterri comedians like myself. They get
• 53:03
  Speaker 10: pissed because all the new young comedians are coming up faster.
• 53:08
  Speaker 10: Have been doing comedy for twenty five years, thirty years,
• 53:11
  Speaker 10: and he ain't been doing coming with three months. I
• 53:13
  Speaker 10: tell them like this, you can't beat them. Joe want
• 53:15
  Speaker 10: to and they're winning, so you might as well fall
• 53:18
  Speaker 10: in the footstep. They are winning. But that's why them
• 53:20
  Speaker 10: young comedians feel like. That's why they're asking how much? Right,
• 53:22
  Speaker 10: because they following them. But then the only thing about it, Charlamine,
• 53:25
  Speaker 10: is when they do get booked, only thing they got
• 53:27
  Speaker 10: to say is what they did on social media. You
• 53:30
  Speaker 10: got to bring out more than that, right, you know
• 53:32
  Speaker 10: you got that's seven minutes, you got, oh it's five,
• 53:35
  Speaker 10: But what about this other twenty minutes they need you
• 53:37
  Speaker 10: to do. You can tell when a person is bombing
• 53:39
  Speaker 10: because they start talking real positive. You know, we need
• 53:42
  Speaker 10: to take care of these kids, man. You know, hey man,
• 53:45
  Speaker 10: support these women. Man, hey man, these women need to support.
• 53:48
  Speaker 10: They need to respect. They're bombing like hell, they're trying
• 53:52
  Speaker 10: to get positive.
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: That's a favorite part of.
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: A comedy show, you know what it is. I like
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: to see somebody trying to dig themselves.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: Out of a hole.
• 53:57
  Speaker 5: Oh my god, If you see me laughing really hard,
• 54:00
  Speaker 5: it's probably because you up there stinking.
• 54:01
  Speaker 10: Because I remember seeing you, because I watch you guys
• 54:03
  Speaker 10: all the time. I remember seeing you on Ridiculousness. Right,
• 54:06
  Speaker 10: Chanelle West Coast, she made her so mad. You see
• 54:10
  Speaker 10: you was coming and say, I never seen you on anything.
• 54:12
  Speaker 10: I never seen you wrap with I rapped stoop, she
• 54:15
  Speaker 10: got they went to commercial. I think it happened twice
• 54:20
  Speaker 10: right now. I was just one she but do she rap?
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I think she did.
• 54:25
  Speaker 10: Okay, okay, but I didn't know it. But I looked
• 54:27
  Speaker 10: at you and I'm like, oh my god, she's pissed.
• 54:29
  Speaker 10: She got pitched. She moved that hair back the commercial commercial,
• 54:34
  Speaker 10: and she came back. She was gonna come. Yeah, we're
• 54:36
  Speaker 10: back here, trying to pissed her. I never seen your nothing.
• 54:40
  Speaker 10: I never seen you snoop, I never seen too short.
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: I never seen you. She was pissed. I laughed so
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: hard at that. That was so good. How big of
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: a deal is it now for a comedian to have
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: a special? Does it even matter? Well?
• 54:50
  Speaker 10: Let me you know, it's funny you said that. Man,
• 54:52
  Speaker 10: specials are good. I just got signed for Netflix specially okay.
• 54:56
  Speaker 10: And the reason, the reason I just took it, I
• 54:58
  Speaker 10: won't gonna do. I was gonna do it my myself,
• 55:00
  Speaker 10: like fmit, make them buy you know what I'm saying.
• 55:03
  Speaker 10: But they offered it to me. We're gonna do it.
• 55:05
  Speaker 10: We're gonna do it. I think around August, So get
• 55:08
  Speaker 10: you in Atlanta. No, no, no, no, no, We're gonna
• 55:11
  Speaker 10: go somewhere else. I want to go somewhere somebody to
• 55:12
  Speaker 10: think I'm a superstar, you know what I'm saying. In Atlanta,
• 55:16
  Speaker 10: I'm just average. That's up brus Man, you know, and
• 55:18
  Speaker 10: see me and the gro But I go somewhere like
• 55:21
  Speaker 10: Chicago or Texas. Oh my god, that's why I want
• 55:24
  Speaker 10: to go in Atlanta.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: It's my city. I love it.
• 55:26
  Speaker 10: I still live there. And uh, I had a place
• 55:28
  Speaker 10: in La for like thirty years. LA's just La. You pay,
• 55:32
  Speaker 10: they make you pay for the weather, you know what
• 55:33
  Speaker 10: I mean. Everything is just so high. It's just ridiculous,
• 55:36
  Speaker 10: it is. I've got a couple more questions.
• 55:38
  Speaker 5: You know, there's a stigma about black comedians wearing dresses
• 55:42
  Speaker 5: to be funny, having to wear addressed to get to
• 55:44
  Speaker 5: that next level.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: What's your thoughts on that. Well, you know, I'm gonna
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: be honest with you, man. I did it. I did it.
• 55:48
  Speaker 10: It's funny you said that I did a TV show
• 55:50
  Speaker 10: that I take one time never came out. It's called
• 55:52
  Speaker 10: Bruce Bruce Bounty Hunters. I was a bounty hunter. I
• 55:54
  Speaker 10: played a bounty hunter. I played a preacher called Reverend
• 55:57
  Speaker 10: Get Money. It's Reverend Get Money. And I played them
• 56:00
  Speaker 10: mother named Mother Marshall, which was crazy, but Mother Marshall
• 56:03
  Speaker 10: was a real lady in my church that I mimic.
• 56:06
  Speaker 10: I cop it off for and I also played I
• 56:09
  Speaker 10: did it in Indianapolis, and I did not feel comfortable
• 56:13
  Speaker 10: in that dress, you know what I'm saying at all.
• 56:16
  Speaker 10: And some people could do it, some people if it
• 56:18
  Speaker 10: worked for you. Flip Wilson did it when he did Jeraldine.
• 56:22
  Speaker 10: You know, because Flip Willson Show was a variety show,
• 56:24
  Speaker 10: which I love because it wasn't a black show. It
• 56:26
  Speaker 10: was a show for everybody, and that's what people got
• 56:28
  Speaker 10: to understand. But if they want to dress up in
• 56:30
  Speaker 10: a dress, do you think you know? But that's not
• 56:32
  Speaker 10: my thing. Tyler Perry made it big. He's one of
• 56:35
  Speaker 10: the best. But to me, I love Tyler Perry. But
• 56:38
  Speaker 10: Joe is funny than Tyler Perry. Then, my dear, when
• 56:43
  Speaker 10: he plays Joe, Joe, it's funny. Joe had an oxygen take.
• 56:49
  Speaker 10: We're smoking with coughing, and I say, thank you Jesus.
• 56:53
  Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying so when he plays Joe,
• 56:55
  Speaker 10: Joe is the funniest dude.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: That's just me. Yeah, I love deal, but oh my god, Joe,
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: it's funny.
• 57:03
  Speaker 5: And see back then we used to see people in
• 57:05
  Speaker 5: the dresses or even see like when they used to
• 57:07
  Speaker 5: do men on film on a living color.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: It was just funny. Thought nothing of it.
• 57:11
  Speaker 10: Men on film was the thing when they talked about
• 57:14
  Speaker 10: Moby Dick, Moby Dick that gets two snaps and the
• 57:18
  Speaker 10: kids and around about twist, yeah.
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: The twist.
• 57:21
  Speaker 10: Yeah, why do you have to say your name twice?
• 57:23
  Speaker 10: I got my mamma just called me twice. My mama said,
• 57:25
  Speaker 10: if I call you the third time, I'm gonna kid you.
• 57:27
  Speaker 10: So my mother said, if I call you three times,
• 57:35
  Speaker 10: you're gonna die today. And my mother was a little
• 57:39
  Speaker 10: one about one forty. I mean, she was just but
• 57:41
  Speaker 10: loving and knew how to make a way out of
• 57:43
  Speaker 10: no way. Most mothers do. That's why it's always good
• 57:46
  Speaker 10: when you do get successful and you start making money,
• 57:49
  Speaker 10: make sure you take care of mom. And one thing
• 57:51
  Speaker 10: you got to realize it don't take much like you
• 57:54
  Speaker 10: think it does. People think like your mama don't want
• 57:57
  Speaker 10: that much. She just want to make sure she's okay.
• 57:59
  Speaker 10: She's called comfortable, and she got a little money. My
• 58:01
  Speaker 10: mother last twenty years of her life. I made sure
• 58:03
  Speaker 10: she was straight, didn't pay no bills, nothing. But it
• 58:06
  Speaker 10: didn't take Muney. But then when your family members found
• 58:08
  Speaker 10: out about it, they started trying to use you too.
• 58:10
  Speaker 10: You know my mom going through something. Well, that's your mother,
• 58:14
  Speaker 10: this one is mine.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: That's true. Lead you have it's Bruce, Bruce. We've been
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: trying to.
• 58:21
  Speaker 5: Get Bruce Bruce up here for a minute, man, because
• 58:22
  Speaker 5: you know I've always just respected you as a comedy legend.
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: Man, you an icon, So salute you, Bruce, coming, let
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: me respect. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Charlotte Lange
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: saying it's true.
• 58:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Dongy today goes to a woman named Erica du
• 58:39
  Speaker 5: suit No, let me see this over. Erica Dosuza Viatri
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: new Nets. Okay, she is forty two years old and
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: was arrested Tuesday. Now mind you, she is in Brazil.
• 58:48
  Speaker 5: But the heat hall is global, and this heat hall
• 58:50
  Speaker 5: is warranted because about a month ago I gave two
• 58:52
  Speaker 5: Ohio women donkey today for doing something similar, and by
• 58:55
  Speaker 5: something similar, I mean using a dead body a corpse
• 58:59
  Speaker 5: to get some money out the bank. Because Erica was
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: arrested after taking her dead uncle to a bank to
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: take out a loan. She must have done this in
• 59:06
  Speaker 5: the afternoon because she clearly is not a morning person.
• 59:09
  Speaker 5: Let's go to Fox twenty sixth Houston for the report.
• 59:11
  Speaker 12: Police, please say, a forty two year old woman named
• 59:14
  Speaker 12: Erica de Susa walked into a bank pushing the body
• 59:18
  Speaker 12: of a dead man. It was in a wheelchair. Susa
• 59:21
  Speaker 12: could be seen using the lifeless body like a puppet.
• 59:25
  Speaker 12: She attempted to nod the guy's head and make it
• 59:28
  Speaker 12: appear as if he were signing approval for a thirty
• 59:32
  Speaker 12: two hundred dollars bank withdrawal.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: The man is dead.
• 59:36
  Speaker 12: Employees didn't fall for the antics. They got suspicions when
• 59:40
  Speaker 12: the man wasn't breathing and he happens to be pale.
• 59:44
  Speaker 12: Susa was arrested and now she's added to our batch
• 59:48
  Speaker 12: of crazy ass criminals.
• 59:52
  Speaker 5: Fox twenty six Houston includes Mama Fox Crazy asking me, okay,
• 59:56
  Speaker 5: you telling it like it is. There as so many
• 59:59
  Speaker 5: reasons this is insane. Number one, you don't take a
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 5: dead person to a bank. Everyone knows that a corpse's
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 5: favorite currency is crypto. Okay, all right, she took her
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 5: sixty hyar old dead uncle to a bank to get
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 5: a load of three thousand, two hundred and fifty dollars.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 5: Do you see the types of chances people are taking
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 5: for what some folks would call small amounts of money. Okay,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 5: folks do not understand how bad a lot of people
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 5: are out here doing. Three thousand, two hundred and fifty
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 5: may be nothing to you, but three thousand, two hundred
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 5: and fifty is a lot of other people's life savings. Now,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 5: the police chief said that the man was probably dead
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 5: for a couple hours. Can you imagine someone dying, your uncle,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 5: your family member, and the first thing you think about
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 5: is how to get some money for yourself, no regard
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 5: for the life this.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: Man just lived. There is no way this man becomes
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: her spirit guide.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 5: I refuse to be one of your ancestors you call
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 5: on when you need spiritual backing if this is how
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 5: you treat my corpse after I'm gone. Furthermore, this has
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: to be some sort of necrophilia. You all know what
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 5: Necrophela is right. This is a sexual attraction the corpses
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 5: and I didn't know that. I wasn't looking at up Yeah,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 5: aka to urge the crack a cold one open. And
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 5: whenever I hear stories of people doing anything with the
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 5: corpse except for taking it to a funeral home to
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 5: be laid the rest, then I think they're aware though.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 5: Erica, during an interview with police, told officers she routinely
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 5: cared for her uncle, who was also debilitated. If that's
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 5: the case, if you was doing what you was supposed
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 5: to be doing, if you was treating this man right,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 5: taking care of him, then you should be in his
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 5: will somewhere.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: Okay. Wills are a way for corpses to speak.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 5: That's what you create your will for to be able
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 5: to speak from the grave so the still living can
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 5: know what you want.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: That's why we call will's dead giveaways.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 5: Furthermore, whenever I see cases like this, I believe they
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 5: should investigate the call to death, because every single one
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 5: of these cases is like finding a cartoonist dead in
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 5: their home. It's very sketchy, Okay, Because if you willing
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 5: my corps to the bank to take money out, how
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: do I know this person bringing the corps to the
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 5: bank didn't none alive me to make me a cost.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 5: Now this woman, Erica is being charged with fraud and
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 5: the beautiful corpse, and she should be because playing with
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 5: corpses is not funny. Okay, corpses aren't funny. They are
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 5: dead serious, and it's a damn shame people don't respect
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 5: the dead. But you know why people don't respect corpses
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: because we don't respect the living. To me, these stories
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 5: the prime examples of how we as humans don't truly
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: respect each other.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: Alive are dead.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 5: The bones of the falling should be treated with respect
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: and accorded the dignity that was their proper due. If
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 5: only the living were also granted such grace, what a
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 5: wonder our world would become. I got that from an
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: inspirational reel, you know those reels that have like the
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 5: videos of the waterfalls and beautiful greenery with the flutes playing.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: Got my attention and I feel like it totally fit here.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 5: But the moral of the story is, if you want
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 5: to play with corpses, become a mortician or a funeral director.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: Jess Hilarius used to be one.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 13: I went to school to be a corner last Montestion,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 13: and what happened I didn't make it through.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: How many jobs did you have? You talked about you
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: this morning at McDonald's now a court. I had a
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: lot of jobs.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 5: Inv okay, well, funeral directors and morticians. We need more
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 5: of those because they are dying professions.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: Please, yeah, very much.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 5: Please give me a clown, Please give Eric noon the
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 5: sweet sounds of the hamiltones.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: You all the oh the day, oh the day.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 5: Would you like to know why if funeral director started
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 5: the podcast he wanted to talk about bodies of work.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: Very much, clown, I can't even believe.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 15: Yeah, I can't even believe that you would even be
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 15: really laughing at it anymore, not dying like what a
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 15: dying profession be with every day.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 13: So actually that's the reason why I wanted to be
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 13: a mortician. I was like, you know what, he's been
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 13: gonna have to stop, you know, don.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: So what made you do that?
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 4: Like?
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: What made you say I want to be a mortician
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: because every job that.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 13: I kept getting fired from, like from people who are alive.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: So you figure the day, Yeah no, no, but to
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: day will make you scharedule And I watched too many
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: movies and it's just like ghost and stuff like that. Yeah,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: I believe in a bunch of stuff. And I was like,
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: you know, I can't have babies. Wow, because they got Halloweenie's.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: You know what? All right? Alright, the Breakfast Club, Good morning,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: Only everybody is DJ MV, Jess, Larry Scharlamade and the guy.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 5: We got a special guest in the bellot because today
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 5: is National co Parenting Day. Yes, so we had to
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 5: bring in a man who I feel like him and
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 5: Jess have one of the best co parenting relationships I've
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 5: ever seen.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: Rome is here, Rome is here, I got a wow.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: Well just saying I want to know who gave Room
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: some liquor this morning, and I was like, I.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: Ain't give it to her. I just told them where
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: the ball was. Help yourself, Help yourself, and you said
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: it was.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 2: You said it was apple juice, And so I was
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: about to take a step and I was like, it
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: was not. You already knew what an apple juice. I
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: just ain't thank you.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 5: Was gonna pick the cup up you and just have
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: the best co parents in situation I've ever wouldness, how
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 5: did y'all get to this point?
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: And she thinks she's my mother first and foremost. But
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: it took time.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: I felt like when you take the feelings out of
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: it and you realize that the child is the most
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: important part of the relationship, because it's still a relationship,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: whether you're intimate or not, you can do magical things,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: magical things. And I think that me being a dad
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: that I was and that I am still today, I
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: wanted that. I felt like we wasn't gonna be together.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: It was no need for us to beef. We've created
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: over time. Whereas now she's my best friend, She's she's
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: my safe space. I feel like, you know, I can
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: to her because sometimes all the time I need it.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: But I feel like when I was pouring into these
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: other women, they would use it against me.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Whereas though now now that she's pregnant, I
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: don't really call her and.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: Say certain things because I know she's going through certain
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: things initially now so Jess is always in my safe space. Though,
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: so it's like she's always been a person that I
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: go to a call, give me advice, some advice.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: I don't take it, but just to hear, but just
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: to hear her give it to you, just to know
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: that she cared because like, I don't really have nobody.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: How did y'all, how did y'all meet How did you
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: meet Jesson? How did y'all start dating? Back then? Where
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: did you see it?
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: When it was like, oh, this is this is somebody
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: I want to It's crazy because we grew up on
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: the smile. He's starting to smile.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: He goes back, No, because my mom, my mom was alive.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: My mom down when I was ten. My mom was alive.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: We went to the same church. My mom died.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: My father like really took me away from everybody. So
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: now it was like fast forward, like seventeen. Its Facebook,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: and she came across my timeline and I was like, okay,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: so I did a dot dot dot and I put
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: a basketball emotion.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: You guy was a way, just shut up, you play
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 2: with you. She bid on it too, okay. I think
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm just coming to get my ball,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: coming to get with mine something I said, And you
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 2: want a basketball room. I need to know. I've seen
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 2: it somewhere. Basketball. No, I seen somebody do that.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 5: Like, I don't know what I seen basketball. This is
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 5: eleven years twelve years ago, so I'm like, I don't know.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 5: I did it because I thought it was it was corny,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 5: but I thought it was you know, but it worked.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 5: It got attention. What do you think just when you
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 5: saw the basketball?
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: I just said, what is this? Okay? I just typed
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 2: that back and like he said, it was my ball.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 13: It's my ball and I'm coming to get I'm coming
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 13: to get it or something like I'm coming to.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 2: Get with mine. And I was like, okay, what's up.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: I knew what I was giving, what it was about it,
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: but it worked. It worked.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: So you'll started talking, where was your first date? What
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: was your first when you started first talking?
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: What was your honest?
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 10: Man, Jasica did a lot.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna say this, before a lot of these young
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 5: guys became Jody, I was Jody.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: And our first date, big date. I'm gonna say it
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: was six flags, Okay, okay, all right, big.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: But before that we did a lot of other things.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: But after that it was we did a lot. Like
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: she introduced me to a lot.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 5: Actually we both was the same age, but she helped
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 5: make me become god me you're becoming a man coming
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 5: to man and then yeah, then boom.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: Now just always says that you are you were overprotective,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: make sure she was good. But she always said, you
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: can't fight.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, No, she never seen me fight. I
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: never had. We thought I got that from.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 5: Of course I'm not going to fight her. Bro Oh,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 5: it's crazy because I just got a picture from the window.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 5: You bust the minds.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: One window? What I fish? What happened? Or you can't
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: be her? Then if she could break up window from
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: a fish out, you're trying to fight that. What happened?
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: To take a sip thinking about that? What happened? All right?
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: My step like, Jessica, pull up? Mind you ate together?
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: Jasica pulls up. I had a girl in the house.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: So my brother like he comes to the top of
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: the steps, like just at the door. I'm like, all
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: right here I come it. Don't even wait for me
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: to come.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: He let her in.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 7: He let her in.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: Oh boy, I walked right past him and his friends
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: with the girl. Jessica, get in the steps. But what
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 2: did I see when I walked down the steps? Drone?
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 5: You didn't see and the She tries to fassage this story, Ashton,
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 5: I had a portable rocking bashing that where I could
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 5: put it in the trump send it to her.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: Bring it back. Ashton was in a portable rocking joint.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: Me and the girl was on on the bed.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: I had on basketball short, she had on her uniform.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: Pass she gonna say, she's been saying in the military,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: she's a correctional officer.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 5: So like she's sitting, she's facing me, but her legs
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 5: is like you know how that goes just to come
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 5: down and says, she's gonna say, oh, we was naked.
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 2: We was not naked. Was it been happening? I don't
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 2: get naked.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 5: And when she topped it up, Oh my gosh, she's
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 5: never gonna tell anyway, she banged the girl.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: You beat up the girl.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 5: She didn't beat up bang popped us And I picked
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 5: up and walked up stairs and throw outside.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 2: You could never lift me. You never see what I'm saying.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 2: She never wants to. She never wants to admit the truth.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: Field couldn't fight. No, I ain't fight or not. But
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: she the one time.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 13: And then she got up and she put on her
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 13: uniform and went and left, went up stairs. I promised you,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 13: I wish it was our phones and fighting that that. No,
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 13: my son was not in no portable nothing. He was
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 13: on the floor on a blanket and the cat was
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 13: looking at him.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: Like he wanted to eat him. See me under the carpet.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 5: So I will never lay my I wouldn't even lay
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 5: on the floor arguing about this was eleven because she
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 5: never wanted to tell you she.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: Was drunk out of her mind. And I'm trying to
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: figure out was just getting off for work? God, damn
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: you didn't.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 13: Damn you did not just get off where he was
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 13: fired at that time. So I got fired right after that.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 13: I was working at McDonald's. That's when I was still like.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 4: This.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 13: And if I was drinking, okay, I was drinking on
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 13: the joe, but I was at work. So and then
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 13: I came to get my son, and yeah, it did
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 13: not come.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: Get your son because it was my weekend. So what
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: I was gett until Monday from day kid, why would
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: you coming? No, he was coming to be nosy.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: I didn't have to come to me.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 9: You was looking for a passinger water if you she
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 9: because she go home eleven years years old.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 2: Man, that's my god. How did you break the woman
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: her hand and you walked out see this car? No,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 2: I threw ass out. Not that was not that strong.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 13: You did not yeah, I mean I had and it
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 13: was steps that there could never ever eaten right now,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 13: could not do that the window. I was just really
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 13: really because he wouldn't give me my son.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: Give me my son. You called the police, The police
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: called the police. She never called the police.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, night, listen, everybody, Well, I'm from the jailer is
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: right there, right around the corner.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: You can walk. It's the women. They walked to us.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know how they came.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 13: He called the police on me and then going and
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 13: then when the police came, I was I just sat
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 13: in my car.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: I was mad.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 13: I was like, no, I can't move here to get
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 13: my son. And Nicole did tell me your come on
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 13: to pull off. He's not giving you the baby. He
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 13: not giving you the baby. I was like, all right, cool,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 13: but I was mad, so I didn't pull off. Police
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 13: paddy wagon pulled up and got out, and you was like,
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 13: she right there.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: They try to get you.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 5: How did I try to get you locked up when
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 5: I'm the same one call try to bail you out
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 5: with no money.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know why you ever thought you could build
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: somebody out with mine. I ain't sleep that night out.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 10: You have a been you ever went through a woman phone.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: Of course, could you eat after that? Yes? You could?
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: Well I couldn't.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 5: I'm comparing that to when she went to jail. I
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 5: couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, you.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: Know, and I was sick. I didn't I didn't want jail.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: I call the police.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: All right, we got more with Rome. If you don't
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: know who Rome is, of course, that's just hilarious. Is
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: baby daddy. And today is National co Parenting Day, and
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: we're having a conversation with Rome. So don't go anywhere.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 2: It's to Breakfast Club.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: Good morning morning everybody. It's the j n Vy Jess hilarious. Charlamagne,
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club is still kicking
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: it with Rome. That is Jess's baby daddy. Today is
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: National co Parenting Day, and they are excellent co parents
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: and we're having a great conversation Charlamagne.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 5: So now when you hear this story, nice and you
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 5: say to yourself, why they there on Nash no co
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 5: parent because they are like the best of friends.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 2: Now they call each other. Jeff calls you her brother.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: How do you feel about that? How did y'all get there?
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 2: Do you look at her like your sister? You said, Mama,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: I was.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 5: Gonna say what she said created that like my mother,
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 5: Like when we are of town and my mother, I
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 5: ain't gonna disclose too much.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: But she thinks she my mother.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: No, I just know she likes to control, like she
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: know how I am. Though like me and Alner, I
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: think part of that controlling part is like she cares.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: And sometimes, especially when I'm under the influence, I've done dumbash.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: So did did you know that? I don't know, just
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 2: assist in the back.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 5: Everybody like you know, everybody knows, but I hold myself
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 5: accountable to that mind you Now, I ain't gonna say
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 5: you I learned from Oneman sick because I did a
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 5: dumbash over and over again.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: But I think in that aspect, that's when the mother,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: the mother with the v coming but the brother called
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: me brother and sister were like, honestly without the child.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: Like it is there. It seemed like Amazon cameras off,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: like you can't fake this or make this up.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 13: Oh yeah, Rome started that room started calling me sis first,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 13: and then I started calling him bro. I you know,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 13: I'm like, yeah, we do have like a sibling dynamic
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 13: in some way. You know, he's still confides in my mom.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 13: He like, my mom is our mother, Like it's not
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 13: it ain't nothing crazy, it's nothing intimate. Like seriously, I
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 13: always say this. People be like, yeah, right, I can
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 13: literally walk past and I.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: Don't do this.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 13: But what I'm saying, I can walk past this man
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 13: naked and he does They be like, girl, what like.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: Pick that out? I'm talking about seriously, like how not
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: each other's spouses or each other's boyfriend and girlfriend? Like
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: how do you deal with his girl? And how do
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: you deal with with she told you five?
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 5: Okay, I never told you. He had always try to time.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 5: It's cool though, it's cool five, But this is this
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 5: and now this was the friction part and we got
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 5: over that.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 2: But this the fri The friction part was my mom.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: I beness, I'm getting her.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 5: But the friction part was her getting into minds. But
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 5: she's still a woman. I'm still a man.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: So women tend to do that. And this is not
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: no shame of women. I don't mean no disrespect by
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: saying it, but I think women tend to do that,
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: especially a woman that care about you. She said, sometimes
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: you make bad decisions and she's there as your sister
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: to make sure you're good, regardless if it's life relationship
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: or whatever. Correct with me personally. I never really like
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: I talk to about certain things. But I never really
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: like my family to get into no intimate situation. Yeah,
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: because guess what, y'all can feel a way about this person,
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: however I want, whether it's negative of good. If I'm
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: gonna deal with this person, I'm gonna deal with them
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: like the female can smash it out me yesterday.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. I might get over in front of them all.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: But it's like that's why I always That's how I
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: was always able to distinguish the two. Like when Jessica
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: will have men when she come to you me like
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I ain't never pillow talking or
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: sneak dis or nothing like I don't really care for
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: like it ain't nothing else to have that I don't
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: if you put it in that sense.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 2: But when she comes to me with a man, I
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: tell her ain't right. But both of y'all got to
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: care because you're gonna want to know who around your
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: son she going. I never did, Yeah, I never so
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: in the beginning stage. Yeah, don't have my summer, but
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: I grew out of that.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: So now it's I trust my child mom enough to
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: she won't bring no fast around my child, so I
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: don't say, oh, don't have this.
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: That's never been a problem. It has been a problem.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 2: Was it was envy me.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: Except for my last dog. Yeah, my dogs who dog?
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: My dog, Chris, Chris, Chris my dog, my dog. I
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold he. I think he's the I think
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: like honestly, me and jess Man like, I think it's
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: been times where a woman didn't like me and her situation.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 13: But guess what, bye, yeah more so on and yeah
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 13: it'll be more so on his end because it's much
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 13: more of them. But the thing is, the thing is,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 13: like I don't like when because I even tell him
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 13: what he's doing wrong to like, Yo, don't you her
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 13: like that?
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: This is how how how you going to introduce me
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 2: to it? Now?
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 13: Now I done got to know where you know, and
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 13: whether she had a kid or not. Most of the
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 13: time it's the ones that have the kids. But it's like, yo,
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 13: you gotta be do right or just be single, Like,
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 13: don't keep hurting women in the process of trying to
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 13: find what you're looking for. I mean, I know that's
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 13: all a part of dating, but when you have kids,
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 13: it's different, you know. And then he be like, oh,
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 13: that's why I don't like you to be getting into it,
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 13: you know, And then I don't like he He attracts
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 13: a lot of talksic women to like abusive relationships where
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 13: women will put their hands on them.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what, all right? You know, but he don't.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 13: He's like, no, but I might be with of them
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 13: all what she just black? Trye, what are you talking about?
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying, like, no, we're not doing it,
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 13: but that black guy, Okay, well she busts your nose
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 13: whatever women have put their hands on.
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 5: And that's why, and that's why she's my dog, Like
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 5: I think she's the only one really honestly, the want
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 5: to get the under my skin like it's a certain
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 5: wordplace she used and I don't care what tone she
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 5: used it in, but to say that, it's like I
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 5: was really never taught how to love.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: When I moved my dad, my dad moved my dad
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: and my step mom, which is my mom. Now, me
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: and my mom have a great relationship. That's my step
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: mom and my dad.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 5: Was married, but my dad was cheating, like saying, like
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 5: my dad, my dad showing me that I'm thinking cool.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 5: So like when even when I started dealing with women
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 5: and stuff like that, multiple women.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: And all that, my dad was like, yeah, so absolutely,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: and I'm thinking it's cool because that's that's that's what
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm being taught like and every man in
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: my life that I looked at as a role model
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: me was the same way. So it's like what you expect.
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: But the good thing is now it's like I'm old
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: enough now in mind, I ain't perfect. Now I'm seeing it.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to, you know, change it. But I've never
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: was to love properly, so and I never my trust
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: issues stuck from my dad because I'm seeing what he's doing.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: But I'm saying when it's done to him, his reactions like, damn,
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: you were just doing this.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 2: How you gonna get mad? Right?
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: So it's like every relationship I've went into, I had
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: an exploration date me, I put an X ray on myself.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: I said, she gonna get, she gonna get get what
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: I'm getting.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: I'm gone.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 5: So I never really gave a woman the commitment, not
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 5: even commitment, but I've never give a woman a chance to.
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: Really love me. But even with the kids, like even
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 2: having kids, No, I haven't.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: And this is like I said, no distract to my children, moms.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: A lot of my my children came out of vulnerability.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 2: Explain found on that, and I'm explaining that.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: So I will meet a woman who I may feel
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: like she's what I need, another safe place or whatever
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: the case may be. But I'm already vulnerable from a
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: previous relationship. I have a child, knowing I don't want
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: to be with this woman, but I feel like I'm
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: forced to be with it because it's a child, and
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: I've done that.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 2: You know multiple times you needed a therapist, not another baby, Mama.
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 2: I need correct at the time of me at the
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 2: time in vulnerability.
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 5: You know women, You know women, women can they be
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 5: masked up. But like I never really knew how to
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 5: be alone. Like I feel like I gotta have somebody
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 5: laying next to me because even before my mom died,
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 5: my mom is sleep naked. This is a back then thing.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 5: How old were you with I was ten, but I
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 5: was a mommy's boy. Did you ever did you ever
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 5: really properly so grieving?
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 2: No, I never really grieved. All I did was.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna help me by going to
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: school for social work, because that's what she was. But
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: I never really probably grieve, and that's a that's a process.
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 12: Now.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 2: I do want to get, you know, back in the gym.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: I do want to get a therapist, but I don't
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: want everything else around me to be intact so that
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: I could fully commit, because if I ain't fully committed,
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: it ain't gonna work.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: We got more with Rome.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: If you don't know who Rome is, of course, that's
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: just Hilarious' baby daddy. And today is National co Parenting Day,
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: and we're having a conversation with Rome. So don't go anywhere.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Club.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: Go to everybody as Steve j Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne,
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club is still kicking
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: in with Rome.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: That is Justic's baby daddy.
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: Today is National co Parenting Day, and they are excellent
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: co parents and we're having a great conversation.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: Charlamagne.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 5: How did y'all that's the most thing, the most I
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 5: won't say most important, one of the most important things.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 5: How did y'all realize we don't have feelings for each other.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 5: No more like how did that just go away? Like
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 5: y'all have y'all love each other, but not in that way.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 5: I got my answer, you want to go first, you
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 5: can go first, because I'm still thinking when I stopped
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 5: caring about who she dealt with, when I wouldn't even
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 5: like I wouldn't even care, Like how long did that take?
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 2: Three years? So like when Ashton was like three.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it was still really yeah, it was like three years,
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 5: but at that but honestly that three years, like I
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 5: had called her a big check, so it's like, you know,
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 5: I was almost half a million dollars, So it was
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 5: like the pain that I had.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 2: Whatever the case I would I would pay. I would
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  Speaker 2: like just bout block it out. But other than that,
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  Speaker 2: like you ain't trying to stunt on her a little bit? No, No,
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  Speaker 2: I never, no, I never, no, I never. I'm waiting
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  Speaker 2: for that. I never intentionally stunned on her. I never
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: did that. Never. I did everything she possibly could ask
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  Speaker 2: me to do. And she said on.
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  Speaker 1: One of these souls something about a B G. E.
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  Speaker 1: Bill And I'm addressed that I never wanted. I'm addressed
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  Speaker 1: that now with the BI so so i'ma explaining her
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  Speaker 1: lights got cut off.
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  Speaker 2: I got a five hundred thousand dollars checking Listen.
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  Speaker 5: No, it wasn't right then and there, but it's over time,
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  Speaker 5: mind you, because you like mind A lot of my
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 5: places helped me.
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  Speaker 2: She helped me get a lot on the back end,
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 2: but in a time like I helped her. Whatever the case.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know she was moving with a man. I
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 2: didn't move with the man. Well, she moved man in
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 2: with her. Yeah, okay, after he had you and the
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: dog too in my business. So I don't know that
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 2: he's not there. So boom, here's his So here's here's
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 2: here's my logic.
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  Speaker 1: And i'm a say what I'm gonna say to her
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  Speaker 1: after I explained it, my logic was all right, man
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: is in the house.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: Boom, eagy cut off. So she like was wrong. I'm like, well,
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 2: I take my son with me. But that wasn't me talking.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 2: That was the girlfriend I had talking. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I never told you that because as a woman, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't trying to hear that, and I as well as
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: as a man, and you be and me, I don't
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: want to hear that.
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  Speaker 2: So I didn't want to tell you that because I
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 2: have felt less of a man, So yeah, but understand
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: if somebody else is smacking the cheeks. So the girlfriend
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 2: was living, so the girlfriend was like, don't talk about
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 2: no house ahead. So the girlfriend was like, I took
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 2: a certain amount of money out the bank. I did.
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 5: She was with me, She like, why are you giving
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 5: it to Jessica. I'm like, cause she needed and she like,
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 5: I never said them here because I never said the reason.
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 5: I never said the reason. Yeah, yeah, I never said
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 5: the reason though. She was like, what exactly do she needs?
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 5: Because I know you ain't giving her. No, she don't
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 5: need a bag or nothing like that. I'm like, no,
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 5: it's something else. She's like, well, don't she got a.
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 2: Living with her? In mind, I'm drinking at the time,
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 2: you're thinking the same thing. I'm like, you wasn't even
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 2: thinking that till she said it. I wasn't thinking that.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 2: But I'm drinking, and I'm like, you know what, You're right,
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 2: Why you ain't that? Just though crazy people say because.
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 5: I was a young emotional boy boy just ran into
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 5: a bunch of money, and with that, I'm hurt her
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 5: young man got a lot of money. Everybody me over,
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 5: I got some money I'm doing make myself happy, and
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 5: that's how I broke.
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 2: Everybody except me, I was like and granted.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: Right now on today, I'm gonna say I truly, sincerely
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: apologized for not taking care of you the way I
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 1: should have. And I'm gonna take my glasses because for
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 1: a long time that hurt me. And it's like I
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: never ever, ever, especially I never ever ever ever meant
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: to do that to you. And it's like, now that's
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: why I even I worked so hard today and just
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: try to even just give you something. But in due
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 1: time that you come back, I ain't you know. I'd
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: have made that back when broke again, made it back
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: when broke again. But my biggest downfall the comments denominade,
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: it was alcohol and women. Them two problems never allowed
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 1: me to really reach my full potential, even when I
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 1: seen a couple of years ago. You've seen it twenty
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: nineteen when I was single, When I went moved back
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: by myself, I ran flourished.
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 10: But if women holding me back.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 2: Man, I'm sorry that I didn't do what I was
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: supposed to do.
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 10: And a lot of the mo I wasn't the job.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: The when you done, I felt that was my duty
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: but because I had certain people in my in my
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: ear that I thought had their best interest in me.
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: But when the background out, they left. Yeah, I'm sorry.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 2: I'm not a sorry person.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 13: I apologize, Okay, I appreciate that, And but listen, I
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 13: was not. I was talking to you, and he moved
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 13: in months after. You think he was gonna move into
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 13: a dark house. You think you think I wanted to
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 13: see how I was living. No, And when you said,
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 13: I asked you, like, yo, can you just get my
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 13: my lights on? I'll pay you back. That's when I
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 13: was scamming and doing all that shit. That got slow too,
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 13: So I'm like, all right, you was like, no I
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 13: take my son. Nobody taking my kid, not even as father. Like,
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 13: as long as Ash was instead of the dark, we
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 13: was good, you know what I'm saying. Like I still
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 13: had candles, we was playing, We was doing all that.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 13: We would stay outside until it went until it got dark,
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 13: and then we were going to the house. And him
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 13: he ain't never asked me why the lights ain't coming on.
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 2: It don't matter.
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 13: So as long as he was good, I was good.
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 13: I just wanted to be able, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 13: and just be like, yo, get my life and you
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 13: should have. Well guess what that made you a demon?
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 13: And when I say demon, I said it in the
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 13: best way.
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 10: That turned you up.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: And I got to teach my kid, especially my oldest boy,
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 1: my eleven year old bro, like I don't want you
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 1: to go through something bad to learn a lesson. I
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: don't think everybody should have to go through something bad
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 1: and learn a lesson. But in your case, I feel like, yeah,
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 1: I put that battery in your back. You know, when
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 1: that battery came in your back, you ain't it ain't
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: treat me no way. It took still a minute for
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 1: us to create that bond.
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 2: But y'all have it now.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 5: And I think y'all both should give each other some
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 5: grades because y'allah.
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I always was a hurt young man, so right,
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: But I love this story as it shows the foundation
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 1: and now and how y'all treat each other.
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 7: Now.
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't know you, but the way she
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 1: talks about you on the radio, and and like you said,
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: she is a mother, she protects you, she holds you down.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 2: I just love to see it.
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 2: No, sometimes I'll be telling us stuff talking about room
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 2: like that. He always did, like, why you be talking
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 2: about room? But I get it. She don't mean no harm,
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 2: but she don't like I said, man, like I wish
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 2: a lot of other people would take from us. And
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 2: that's why this.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 10: Gotta be on TV.
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 2: That's why y'rell writing a book, book coming, everything, Book, Coming,
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 2: Everything Coming.
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 5: I think the most important thing because I want you
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 5: all to save a lot of this. But what's the
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 5: most important thing. It takes the cole parent. If y'all
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 5: you're just leaving on that, because the national co parent.
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 13: The day yo, I started off communication, Like a lot
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 13: of people be scared to hurt each other feelings, and
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 13: a lot of people be afraid to have uncomfortable conversations,
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 13: whether it's about kids, unhashed differences whatever. Like one day
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 13: me and Rome just literally met up and just we
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 13: just talked about everything that you know, he felt like
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 13: I did him wrong in certain situations, and then he
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 13: felt like like I will always try because he says,
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 13: I'm controlling a lot, and I do take that.
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, I own that. I do.
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 13: Like I was trying to control how he parents sometimes,
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 13: like how how he would raise ash and all of
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 13: that type of stuff. We just put everything on the
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 13: table and just just was like, all right, you're moving
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 13: forward because it's really about ash and that's really like
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 13: where we after that, it was like no looking back,
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 13: It's like all right, whatever.
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 2: Cool.
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 5: I'm sure it's a discussion that will continue on, not
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 5: even just a monkst you know, just in Rome. But
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 5: it's a month anybody out there that you're dealing with
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 5: corpor ansing issue. But I think Rome, you know, Rome
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 5: is talking to a lot of different issues that a
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 5: lot of us.
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 2: Men go through, you know what I mean. So I'm
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 2: happy that you was vulnerable this morning.
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 10: Right, that's right, you know what I mean.
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 2: And their book is coming soon via a black privilege
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 2: polish Simon and shoes. All right, well it's wrong. Yes,
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 2: it's the Breakfast Club in the morning. Everybody is the
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 2: dj ND. Just hilarious. Charlamage the guy. We are the
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 2: breakfast Club. It's time to get U out of here, Charlamon.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 2: You got a positive note? I do in The positive
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 2: note is simple.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 5: Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 5: their minds cannot change anything.
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club, you don't finished for y'all done