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DONKEY: Man Shoots & Kills His Cousin Over Green Chilli Enchiladas · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's time for Donkey of the Day. There's a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of donkeys out here in the street. Call Donkey of
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  Speaker 1: the Day. It really caught me off guard. We live
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  Speaker 1: a life where we bite our tongue based off who
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  Speaker 1: we may offend. We never would say anything.
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  Speaker 2: You are a donkey. Some donkey of the.
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  Speaker 1: Day just saw themselves. On The Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Chalamet, who you giving Donkey of the Day to today?
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  Speaker 3: Donkey of the day for Thursday, September 3rd. DJ Envy's
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  Speaker 3: born day! Goes to Irvin Guaterez.
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  Speaker 1: How you pronounce it?
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  Speaker 2: Guaterez.
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  Speaker 1: Guaterez. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Irvin is from New Mexico and I saw this story
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  Speaker 3: on the NY Post website and the headline was New
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  Speaker 3: Mexico man allegedly gunned down cousin in.
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  Speaker 1: Argument over enchiladas.
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  Speaker 2: Damn.
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  Speaker 3: I can't make this kind of stuff up. Let's go
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  Speaker 3: to Foxy and Antonio for the report, please.
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  Speaker 4: So what happens when a family fight and a food
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  Speaker 4: fight come together. Well, in this case, there were deadly consequences.
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  Speaker 4: So let me explain what happened here. So a New
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  Speaker 4: Mexico man is accused of shooting and killing his cousin
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  Speaker 4: after policing an argument over green chili enchiladas turned violent.
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  Speaker 4: Investigators say 22-year-old Irvin Gutierrez is accused of shooting 25-year-old
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  Speaker 4: Nathaniel Cavazos multiple times. The two were drinking, cooking with family.
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  Speaker 1: Tequila.
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  Speaker 4: They say an argument turned into a fist fight after
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  Speaker 4: Gutierrez said his enchiladas were hotter than the others. Gutierrez
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  Speaker 4: then reportedly shot Cavazos. As the victim walked away, Gutierrez
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  Speaker 4: is being held on a murder charge. So, yeah, very
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  Speaker 4: bizarre story.
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  Speaker 3: Never let a moment that doesn't matter create consequences that
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  Speaker 3: last forever. Okay, I tell y'all every other day about
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  Speaker 3: jail math for a reason. You have to do your
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  Speaker 3: jail math. Your jail math is simply, can I afford
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  Speaker 3: to do what it is I'm about to do? Okay,
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  Speaker 3: the money in time that this choice, well, the pesos
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  Speaker 3: in time that this choice will cost me.
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  Speaker 1: Can I afford it?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, the answer is usually hell no, because ego is
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  Speaker 3: too big. damn expensive all right you don't let temporary
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  Speaker 3: emotions temporary wounded ego create a permanent consequence all right
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  Speaker 3: anger is temporary embarrassment is temporary feeling disrespected is temporary
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  Speaker 3: but killing somebody permanent okay somebody is dead forever and
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  Speaker 3: that murder charge will change the entire trajectory of your
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  Speaker 3: life and you killed someone because y'all was fussing over
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  Speaker 3: whose green chili enchiladas were better Jess, I feel for
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  Speaker 3: your safety now. Okay, I did not know Mexicans are
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  Speaker 3: this serious about their cuisine.
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  Speaker 2: Shut up.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, two grown men allegedly got into an argument over
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  Speaker 3: whose enchiladas had more kick. Y'all arguing about who put
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  Speaker 3: more Tapatio in your food?
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  Speaker 1: What's that thing called?
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  Speaker 2: That's what it's called? It's the Tapatio, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's what, that sauce, right?
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  Speaker 3: Yes. That's what y'all arguing about? Not to mention that
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  Speaker 3: Daniel tried to walk away. If you read the story, he.
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  Speaker 1: Tried to walk away.
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  Speaker 3: He was the emotionally intelligent one in this situation. I
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  Speaker 3: respect him so much because some men think walking away
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  Speaker 3: is a weakness, all right? Some of us have been
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  Speaker 3: conditioned to believe that every challenge requires a response. Nope.
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  Speaker 1: Every insult requires retaliation. Nope. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I'm grown. All right.
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  Speaker 1: I have a life that I love. All right. I
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  Speaker 1: know for a fact that not every battle deserves a warrior. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to leave you alone to fight your demons
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  Speaker 1: by yourself.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is leave and
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  Speaker 3: not let your pride and ego lead.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: If you want to have the hottest green chili enchiladas
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  Speaker 3: that bad.
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  Speaker 1: God bless you. Who cares? Okay. That's what I've learned
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  Speaker 1: as I've gotten older.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of arguments stop being about the thing. People
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  Speaker 3: are actually arguing about it. At some point, you're not
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  Speaker 3: even defending your opinion anymore.
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  Speaker 1: You're just defending your ego.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen it a million times.
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  Speaker 3: The original disagreement disappears and the argument be like, you
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  Speaker 3: ain't going to disrespect me. You ain't going to play
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  Speaker 3: with me. And that's when Satan starts rubbing his hands
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  Speaker 3: together like Birdman. and ego will write a check that
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  Speaker 3: your future has to cash, okay? Ego gets you angry
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  Speaker 3: for 30 seconds and then takes you off the street
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  Speaker 3: for 30 years, okay? And sadly, in this case, leaves
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  Speaker 3: the family grieving forever, all right? Because ego will say,
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  Speaker 3: don't let him disrespect you. But you know what wisdom says?
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  Speaker 3: Tomorrow morning, you ain't even gonna care about this, okay?
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  Speaker 3: And oh, oh, and don't let a gun get introduced
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  Speaker 3: into the emotional equation. Oh my God, that's when there's
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  Speaker 3: no undo button for real, okay? That's why emotional regulation
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  Speaker 3: is one of the greatest forms of self-defense a human
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  Speaker 3: being can learn. Because everybody talks about protecting yourself from
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  Speaker 3: other people. Sometimes you got to protect yourself from yourself.
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  Speaker 3: You got to protect yourself from the version of you
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  Speaker 3: that's angry. You got to protect yourself from the version
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  Speaker 3: of you that's embarrassed. You got to protect yourself from
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  Speaker 3: the version of you that desperately needs to prove something.
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  Speaker 3: Once again, never let a moment that doesn't matter create
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  Speaker 3: consequences that last forever. If another person can make you
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  Speaker 3: destroy your future simply by hurting your feelings, then they
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  Speaker 3: have more control over you than you have over yourself.
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  Speaker 3: And that's emotional slavery. Okay? And that's why I be
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  Speaker 3: telling y'all to go to therapy, go seek some healing
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  Speaker 3: to break those devil damn chains.
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Real power is being able to say, you got it.
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  Speaker 3: All right?
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  Speaker 1: Your enchiladas are hotter. Congratulations. Now I'm going home.
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  Speaker 3: And tomorrow I'm going to wake up free and alive
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  Speaker 3: and thanking God for another Taco Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: Please let Remy Ma give Irvin, what is it? Gutierrez?
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  Speaker 2: Gutierrez.
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  Speaker 1: Gutierrez, the biggest hee-haw.
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  Speaker 2: Hee-haw, hee-haw. You stupid motherfucker. You dumb.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, with some goddamn enchiladas?
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy, but that's not how all of them get down.
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  Speaker 2: Some of them don't downplay about that, but.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever witnessed it?
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  Speaker 2: All of them don't be.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: Like, my taco better, your taco better, my taco better.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy. Chicken, you got steak. Just in Spanish, though.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Me la que pasa, pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa.
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  Speaker 1: Never mind. Let me see how the Mexican people did
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  Speaker 1: this this morning.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I know one thing. What? You know who about to
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  Speaker 1: come for homie now?
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  Speaker 2: Who?
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  Speaker 1: Irvin. Play that guy. You know who? Booty warrior. No,
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  Speaker 1: ain't no booty warrior. Play the player. That's right.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 2: That's wild.
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  Speaker 1: That's all right.
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  Speaker 2: You're a clown.
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  Speaker 1: You're stupid.
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  Speaker 2: All right. I did not have time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you. Thank you for that donkey today. Irvin,
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  Speaker 1: it's only a matter of time now. I don't even
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  Speaker 1: care if you're born here. You're going back somewhere. All right.
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