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The mistake that almost got us fired.... · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Magic.
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Speaker 2: Magic. Magic.
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Speaker 3: 94.9. And welcome to a new episode of Scotty and
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Speaker 3: Abby Unfiltered. Thank you if you started watching us on YouTube.
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Speaker 3: Those videos get uploaded after each episode if you want
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Speaker 3: to see what we look like as we're talking about
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Speaker 3: these things. And also, if you caught up on Miranda's
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Speaker 3: episode yesterday, it did make me think, because a big
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Speaker 3: discussion yesterday.
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Speaker 4: And I hope this is fair to say.
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Speaker 3: But Miranda was a little worried about what she talked
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Speaker 3: about and how it would reflect a little bit here
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Speaker 3: at work.
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Speaker 2: She was texting me until 9.30 last night.
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Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh.
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Speaker 4: All day.
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Speaker 3: All day.
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Speaker 2: So, love you, Miranda. We're just always outing your text messages. Yesterday,
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Speaker 2: we were in our meeting with our boss, and she goes, Abby,
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Speaker 2: I'm really worried about the name of the shot that
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Speaker 2: I was talking about. And you'll go back, and you'll
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Speaker 2: be looking for the name of the shot. It's not
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Speaker 2: in there because I cut it out. Oh, okay.
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Speaker 5: She goes- I think it just sounds really bad. I'm
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Speaker 5: worried I'm going to get fired. Can you ask Jenna?
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Speaker 5: Jenna's our boss. If like, that's okay. And I'm like, okay.
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Speaker 2: Jenna's like, it's fine. Jenna's a big stickler for the rules.
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Speaker 2: So I'm like, she's fine with it.
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Speaker 5: You're fine.
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Speaker 2: And then all day yesterday, I have so much anxiety.
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Speaker 2: I don't know why it's not normal. And I was like,
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Speaker 2: you're fine.
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Speaker 5: You're an adult.
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Speaker 2: You can talk about alcohol. And she goes, okay, sorry.
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Speaker 2: And then at nine Oh three last night, will you
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Speaker 2: kill me? If I ask you to edit the name
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Speaker 2: of the shot out, I'm just really worried. And I said,
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Speaker 2: At 943, I.
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Speaker 5: Was like, okay, I'll go back and cut it.
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Speaker 4: It's fine.
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Speaker 5: Like, you're fine.
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Speaker 2: But also, like, I think it's so important when people
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Speaker 2: come on and they give you their vulnerable stories and
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Speaker 2: they talk about their lives. Like, I think it is
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Speaker 2: just courteous. When they say cut something, just cut it. Like,
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Speaker 2: even though you're like, you're fine. You're not going to
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Speaker 2: get fired because you said blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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Speaker 2: Just cut it.
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Speaker 4: It's not a big deal. And I understand that anxiety, though,
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Speaker 4: because what she's 22.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 4: And this career, it's like you just stepped into your
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Speaker 4: first career. And it got me thinking.
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Speaker 3: I was like, was there anything that maybe you didn't
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Speaker 3: get fired for? But in the beginning of their career,
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Speaker 3: you should have been fired for or at least reprimanded for.
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Speaker 2: The worst thing I've ever done. Like the worst mistake
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Speaker 2: I made at work was a couple of years ago.
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Speaker 2: And I actually don't really know if I'm allowed to
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Speaker 2: talk about this publicly. But do you remember that big
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Speaker 2: data breach we had?
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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.
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Speaker 2: Back in twenty twenty one. Yeah, we were like just
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Speaker 2: coming out of the pandemic.
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Speaker 5: And I remember I.
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Speaker 2: Was going to take my first big vacation slash trip
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Speaker 2: because I felt weird about taking PTO because, you know,
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Speaker 2: how it is when you first graduate.
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Speaker 3: You're like, I don't I still struggle to talk about
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Speaker 3: how much we do. But every time I go to
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Speaker 3: send the email, that's like, hey, I want to take
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Speaker 3: a week. I still have that stress. So I get it,
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Speaker 3: especially when you're first in a career.
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Speaker 2: So when you're 22, you're like, you know what, let
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Speaker 2: me just like knock on a big vacation for like
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Speaker 2: a year.
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Speaker 5: And then for me, my first year post-grad was the pandemic.
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Speaker 2: So then I felt like I was on vacation for
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Speaker 2: a year and a half because all we did, like,
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Speaker 2: I felt like I was stealing money from the company.
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Speaker 2: Like I was giving myself more work to do because
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Speaker 2: I was terrified they were going to fire me because
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Speaker 2: I was a new hire. I had no job experience.
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Speaker 2: And I was like, I need to prove my worth
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Speaker 2: that they keep me around. And so I remember 2021
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Speaker 2: came around and I was about to go to Nashville
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Speaker 2: for a couple days with my mom.
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Speaker 5: It was like my favorite place in the world at
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Speaker 5: the time.
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Speaker 2: Like you could have given me the choice between going
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Speaker 2: to Barbados and Nashville and I was like choosing Nashville
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Speaker 2: every single time. So we had this big data breach
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Speaker 2: happen to where our systems weren't manually putting in songs
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Speaker 2: and commercials and so People that normally weren't running the boards,
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Speaker 2: aka the 22, 23-year-olds, had to go in and manually
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Speaker 2: put in ads and manually fire off the legal IDs
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Speaker 2: that keep us in good standing with the FCC. And
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Speaker 2: so I remember I had gone on vacation. I didn't
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Speaker 2: know if they were going to let me go on vacation.
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Speaker 2: And I was thrilled they let me go on vacation.
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Speaker 2: And I came back and I remember... I thought.
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Speaker 5: The situation would have resolved itself by then.
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Speaker 2: Cause it had been a couple of weeks and I
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Speaker 2: came back and I was just like dicking off in
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Speaker 2: my office somewhere, like scrolling on my phone and the
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Speaker 2: ops manager, shout out Jules. Um, she now works in Atlanta.
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Speaker 2: She came in and she's like, dude, what are you doing?
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Speaker 2: And I just remember the panic in her face. And
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Speaker 2: I was like the panic in my face. And she,
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Speaker 2: you know, I, we probably lost thousands of dollars in
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Speaker 2: advertising dollars, but it was fine because you know.
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Speaker 5: I'd been working like seven jobs at that office. What
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Speaker 5: were they going to do? Fire me?
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Speaker 4: Exactly. If they get rid of you, they now have
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Speaker 4: to take on those roles as well.
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Speaker 3: Exactly. But in those beginning stages, like every little move,
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Speaker 3: every little mistake, you feel like it's just being looked
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Speaker 3: at through, you know, a microscope. Yeah, 100%.
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Speaker 4: So I completely get it.
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Speaker 3: I appreciate Miranda being as vulnerable as she was and
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Speaker 3: speaking up about it. Because once it out, I guess
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Speaker 3: what's so weird, and I think about this a lot
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Speaker 3: when we talk about things here, You know, this is
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Speaker 3: our fam that listens to it. But what happens is
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Speaker 3: these are the things that people remember you for and
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Speaker 3: your reputation gets built from. It could be a casual
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Speaker 3: conversation that we're having. And all of a sudden it's like,
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Speaker 3: all right, six months down the line, somebody's like, oh,
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Speaker 3: my God, you have so and so or you're like
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Speaker 3: so and so.
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Speaker 2: And you're like.
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Speaker 3: I mean, I mentioned it once. I'm not in love
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Speaker 3: with it or I don't do it all the time.
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Speaker 3: It's just very interesting to have the reputation. Like, for example,
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Speaker 3: like I remember in the very beginning of my career
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Speaker 3: going out a lot with the station and it was
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Speaker 3: just what we did. We went out for bar events.
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Speaker 3: We had a ton of events, whether it was St.
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Speaker 3: Paddy's Day or Gasparilla. And so from the outside looking in,
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Speaker 3: based off of my social media, it looked like I
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Speaker 3: was a party person. animal it's just that was the
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Speaker 3: illusion and so I was getting calls from my family
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Speaker 3: that were like hey is everything okay and then my
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Speaker 3: dad would call and be a little more strict with
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Speaker 3: it and you'd say yo it looks like you have
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Speaker 3: a problem like is there anything you need to talk
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Speaker 3: about I think you need to cool it With all
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Speaker 3: the drinking. And I was like, oh, that's the illusion
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Speaker 3: that's kind of being put out there. That's not the reality. Like,
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Speaker 3: I promise you, it's just looking like that because of
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Speaker 3: they were sending me out at the time. I was
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Speaker 3: doing a bar night every Friday or every Friday and Saturday.
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Speaker 3: And so literally every weekend on my social media, it
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Speaker 3: looks like I'm going crazy.
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Speaker 4: Bonkers.
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Speaker 3: And in reality, it's like, that's just a picture. I just,
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Speaker 3: I literally needed to put a picture up in order
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Speaker 3: to get paid for that event. Yeah. But the reputation
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Speaker 3: gets formed just based off of the things that we
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Speaker 3: say here or the things that we put up online,
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Speaker 3: especially now online. Yeah.
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Speaker 5: It's a perception thing for sure. But also, I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I feel like everyone just needs to take a deep
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Speaker 2: breath and maybe it's because of the field that we
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Speaker 2: work in. I, I kind of hate the illusion of professionalism.
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Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?
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Speaker 2: Like, I hate that we're all trying to pretend like
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Speaker 2: we're these big buttoned up suit monkeys.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: And when it's just kind of like, I'd rather just
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Speaker 2: be a person. And that doesn't mean you need to
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Speaker 2: be some kind of rambunctious freak that.
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Speaker 5: Goes out all the time.
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Speaker 2: But also like when, for example, when we did our
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Speaker 2: Q & A on Monday where our boss Jenna was
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Speaker 2: asking me about the.
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Speaker 2: Social media posts that I had done that had gotten
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Speaker 2: a lot of traction with Shane Gillis, and I said
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Speaker 2: the word whore, and she kind of looked at me like,
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Speaker 2: are you allowed to, I'm like, the whole social media
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Speaker 2: post is about me saying the word whore. Why are
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Speaker 2: we going to act like behind closed doors, we don't
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Speaker 2: say the word whore or that we don't swear? Like,
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Speaker 2: I'd rather just be a person with you than pretend
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Speaker 2: that I'm some buttoned up person.
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Speaker 3: I don't know. I think in our industry, especially, it's
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Speaker 3: weird because literally half the building, you go through One
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Speaker 3: half of our building is all on-air personalities. They're the
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Speaker 3: ones that come in. Like right now, I'm literally wearing
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Speaker 3: shorts and a t-shirt and like a little jacket. And
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Speaker 3: then the other side of the building, it's suits. It's
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Speaker 3: button downs. It's loafers.
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Speaker 4: It's very professional looking.
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Speaker 3: But it is interesting because you go around and it's
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Speaker 3: like you said, the people that we see in these
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Speaker 3: big fancy buildings that are doing very, and again, important jobs,
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Speaker 3: I will give them credit too. It's that way of, wait,
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Speaker 3: this isn't who you actually are. No. Whether it's how
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Speaker 3: you speak or how you hold yourself, like.
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Speaker 4: Just be yourself. be a human with me.
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Speaker 3: And that's how I've always approached, like even, well, we
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Speaker 3: heard my athlete situation, but like other musicians where it's like,
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Speaker 3: you know, we have somebody that comes in.
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Speaker 4: I always just look at him as a human. I'm like,
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Speaker 4: I don't care what you wear, what you do.
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Speaker 3: You literally have the same makeup as a human that
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Speaker 3: I do. So no matter what you do, it doesn't
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Speaker 3: put you in another class that I'm in necessarily.
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Speaker 4: But I do agree.
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Speaker 3: Cause I was listening to you talk on the stage
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Speaker 3: and I was like, I'm sure it's very foreign for
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Speaker 3: a lot of the people in that room to hear
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Speaker 3: that kind of language spoken in the office. But you
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Speaker 3: just take him out of the office and then it's
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Speaker 3: like all of a sudden that conversation is normal.
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Speaker 2: That's what I mean is like, why do we have
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Speaker 2: to go to a happy hour for you to be
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Speaker 2: a person with me? And I understand there is a
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Speaker 2: time and place for things, but I'd rather just, I
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Speaker 2: don't know. I'm very sensitive to being censored, if that
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Speaker 2: makes sense. And I don't really know where that comes from.
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Speaker 2: But like my parents have a big problem with me swearing.
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Speaker 2: And I don't understand because I'm like, they're just words.
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Speaker 2: Like it makes zero sense to me that me saying
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Speaker 2: the word fuck versus fudge, like that's going to make
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Speaker 2: the difference between you respecting me or not respecting me.
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Speaker 2: And again, it comes down to perception. And I understand
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Speaker 2: certain words have a certain kind of perception, but I
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Speaker 2: think that's just dumb. I think that's just dumb. And
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Speaker 2: I think we should just be more of ourselves around
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Speaker 2: each other. It's just a more comfortable environment. And you're
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Speaker 2: going to pay attention more. If I'm sitting upstairs, if
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Speaker 2: I'm sitting on stage and I'm talking to you about
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Speaker 2: the Shane Gill situation, and I'm telling you how I
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Speaker 2: really feel about My deep down thoughts, to me, that's
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Speaker 2: more captivating than me going up and, yes, the metrics
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Speaker 2: say this, and I decided to flip him off because
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Speaker 2: of the return on investment.
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Speaker 3: Like, it just doesn't make sense to me. Yeah, like
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Speaker 3: you lose your audience because it's like, wait, you're not
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Speaker 3: a human. Like, that's what we're talking about with the
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Speaker 3: coach situation. Like, talk about, you know, how it really
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Speaker 3: feels in that room, how it really feels on the team,
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Speaker 3: how you really feel about a situation.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think people are appreciating that more in
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Speaker 2: the age of AI. Like, again, there was another— um
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Speaker 2: post-game interview that has been all over my page it's
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Speaker 2: so funny it's this guy named Devin Cooley and he's
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Speaker 2: a goalie for the Calgary blah blah blah whatever hockey
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Speaker 2: team and they were asking him they're like how was
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Speaker 2: your game and he just gets this crazy look in
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Speaker 2: his eyes like he doesn't blink for like two minutes
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Speaker 2: straight and he just goes oh they asked him how
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Speaker 2: did it feel to block that goal or whatever and
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Speaker 2: he goes I felt nothing I just I just went
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Speaker 2: out there and I felt absolutely nothing and it was
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Speaker 2: glorious I'm like I've never heard a person talk like
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Speaker 2: this before But you can just tell this is so
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Speaker 2: authentically him. And then you flip to, you know, you
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Speaker 2: scroll through and you see another postgame interview from some
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Speaker 2: other you who's doing a postgame interview. And they're just like,
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Speaker 2: so monotone. And they're just like, yep, we did this
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Speaker 2: and we passed the ball and then we shot the
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Speaker 2: ball and the ball didn't go in. But we're going
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Speaker 2: to try better next time.
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Speaker 5: I don't want to hear that.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, because that doesn't give us any context. There's
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Speaker 3: a whole thing out right now I was watching on
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Speaker 3: social media of one of our players on the raise.
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Speaker 4: And he's this young dude. I think he's like 23.
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Speaker 4: And he hits this massive.
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Speaker 3: Homer in the last game and the big controversy was
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Speaker 3: that he took like 38 seconds to round the bases
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Speaker 3: because he would like stop midway hype up the crowd
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Speaker 3: everyone's going crazy was.
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Speaker 5: This junior coming coming arrow yeah yeah yeah.
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Speaker 3: And this became a whole conversation because people like How
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Speaker 3: dare he take that much time and showboat and everything?
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Speaker 3: And my opinion on it, I was like... That's exactly
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Speaker 3: what he should be doing.
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Speaker 2: That's exactly what he should be doing. He should be
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Speaker 2: entertaining us.
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Speaker 4: Exactly.
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Speaker 3: Like bring that excitement because your excitement is going to
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Speaker 3: bring our excitement up.
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Speaker 4: We want to see you. You're 23. You should be
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Speaker 4: that excited about it.
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Speaker 3: It's not that you're going around and like punching the
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Speaker 3: opposing team's players as you go by the bases. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Leave that for Benchmark International Arena.
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Speaker 4: We want those fights there.
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Speaker 5: Leave that for the lightning.
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Speaker 3: But to see people getting so brave, I'm like, yo,
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Speaker 3: he's being so authentic to his emotion and that feeling.
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Speaker 4: And everyone in the stands loved it.
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Speaker 3: But anybody online that sees it is going to have
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Speaker 3: an opinion on it that he shouldn't have done it.
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Speaker 2: I saw that and that didn't make sense to me
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Speaker 2: because I as someone who's just a casual sports fan
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Speaker 2: and someone who doesn't really want to sit through a
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Speaker 2: five hour baseball game without several beers in my hand.
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Speaker 5: I love that.
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Speaker 2: Like, I think we've forgotten that sports is supposed to
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Speaker 2: be for entertainment. Like, we get so focused on the stats.
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Speaker 2: And of course, it's important to win because I think
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Speaker 2: winning is a part of the entertainment aspect. But honestly,
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Speaker 2: I would rather see a very interesting matchup between two teams.
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Speaker 2: that are passionate about winning, that want to get the
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Speaker 2: crowd amped up rather than just a game where like
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Speaker 2: somebody knocks it out of the park and it's crazy.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they just round the bases like it's no
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Speaker 3: big deal. Like it is a big deal. It's supposed
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Speaker 3: to be exciting for your city. You're going to the
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Speaker 3: World Series. Have the excitement for it, which makes it
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Speaker 3: very interesting because sports have different rules and like, okay, hockey,
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Speaker 3: you fight.
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Speaker 4: You literally fight on the ice.
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Speaker 5: It is crazy that they can just do that.
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Speaker 4: But we all love it now.
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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
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Speaker 5: It's so entertaining.
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Speaker 4: You take the same thing and you put it in
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Speaker 4: any other sport. It's like, oh, my God, how dare they?
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Speaker 3: Like, God forbid. Like if in football, if players, you know,
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Speaker 3: get into a fight. Yes, there's little scruffles every now
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Speaker 3: and then. But if players get into a fight, they're suspended.
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Speaker 2: To be fair, football is just kind of the fighting
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Speaker 2: part of all the other sports.
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Speaker 3: That's true.
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Speaker 2: They're just constantly going at each other. And then I
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Speaker 2: feel like in baseball, it's not fair because they don't
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Speaker 2: have any. I mean, I guess you have a helmet
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Speaker 2: on when you're hitting, but.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's more risky. And I guess that's part
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Speaker 4: of it.
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Speaker 3: But I always think, and I look at football, they've
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Speaker 3: made so many rules that are like, you know, I
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Speaker 3: guess they've overshot the rules. And one is like the
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Speaker 3: showboating side of it. Let's say if you score a touchdown...
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Speaker 3: And you've got to be so careful of how you
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Speaker 3: celebrate because you do the wrong move.
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Speaker 4: And it's like now you're getting penalized for it.
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Speaker 3: But those are the parts. You know, I wasn't always
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Speaker 3: a big fan of it growing up. But now I
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Speaker 3: look at them like that's the entertaining part.
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Speaker 2: I love the touchdown dance. Again, that to me is
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Speaker 2: a part of the entertainment aspect. Like the thought of
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Speaker 2: grown men in the locker room saying five, six, seven, eight.
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Speaker 2: And like putting together their choreographed routines and their hand
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Speaker 2: signals and getting creative.
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Speaker 5: And being like, hey, guys. let's do this when we get, like,
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Speaker 5: I think that's the cutest shit.
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Speaker 2: I think it's so precious, and I think they should
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Speaker 2: do it more, and I hate the fact that there's
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Speaker 2: such ticklers about it.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, you're going too far.
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Speaker 3: It's not what we wanted to have taken away, and
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Speaker 3: I think about it, you know, sports, and I could
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Speaker 3: be completely wrong about this, but I compare it to, like,
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Speaker 3: it all started at the Coliseum, and, like, you know,
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Speaker 3: thousands of years ago in Italy, where you get gladiators
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Speaker 3: out there, and their whole thing was, of course, they're
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Speaker 3: trying to survive, and they're fighting, but you look over
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Speaker 3: at the crowd and it's like, are you not entertained?
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Speaker 3: And it's like, you want everyone to feel that excitement.
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Speaker 3: Everyone came out there to be entertained. And so all
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Speaker 3: the other games should be like that in some aspect.
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Speaker 3: We shouldn't always be penalizing for them doing a little
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Speaker 3: extra to get the crowd involved as well.
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Speaker 2: It's just modern-day gladiators. So when you go to Raymond James,
13:34
Speaker 2: think of the Coliseum. You're in Tampa Bay's Coliseum.
13:36
Speaker 4: I'm going to be honest.
13:37
Speaker 3: I think of that every time because of the way
13:39
Speaker 3: the stands are set. I'm like, we are literally in
13:40
Speaker 3: the Coliseum just in the 2026 version.
13:42
Speaker 2: In 7,000 years, there's going to be some bozo exploring
13:45
Speaker 2: Raymond James. And they're like, wow, they really like tackled
13:47
Speaker 2: each other here. It's crazy how they stopped doing that
13:50
Speaker 2: in 2028 because people were getting so poorly injured.
13:54
Speaker 3: I was having a whole conversation with friends about that.
13:56
Speaker 3: Cause we talked about that here, the extra guardian caps
13:58
Speaker 3: that players are wearing and some players aren't wearing them
14:00
Speaker 3: because it doesn't look cool, but it made me think.
14:02
Speaker 3: And again, just sometimes I just get weird in my thoughts.
14:05
Speaker 3: I'm like, I wonder how long that support will last
14:07
Speaker 3: like that. I'm like, when does it turn? Especially with
14:09
Speaker 3: all the robots now, do we just have robots playing
14:13
Speaker 3: the game and we just watch and the players are
14:15
Speaker 3: the ones that have the controller.
14:16
Speaker 4: And I was like, That would, there's no part of
14:19
Speaker 4: that that seems entertaining.
14:20
Speaker 2: Oh, it's like Madden in real life.
14:21
Speaker 4: And that's literally what I compare it to.
14:22
Speaker 3: I think what will.
14:23
Speaker 2: Happen is for like the next 20 to 30 years,
14:25
Speaker 2: they'll try the guardian cap thing. Like I think at
14:27
Speaker 2: some point guardian caps will become mandatory.
14:29
Speaker 3: Yeah, as they should be. It's just weird that they're not.
14:32
Speaker 3: Extra protection for your brain when so many people are
14:36
Speaker 3: getting CTE. Yeah. You're not going to make it mandatory
14:38
Speaker 3: for a player to wear. Yeah, it looks a little weird,
14:40
Speaker 3: but it's only going to look weird for a little bit.
14:42
Speaker 4: And then eventually... We'll get used to it.
14:43
Speaker 5: Yeah, to be fair, they do look dumb.
14:45
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, no, they do.
14:46
Speaker 2: Absolutely valid criticism of the Guardian cap. I don't understand
14:49
Speaker 2: why they can't find, like, a memory foam. Like, we
14:51
Speaker 2: can't find, like, a more, like, a smaller memory foam
14:53
Speaker 2: that can just be more compact. Like, we can't put
14:55
Speaker 2: a Tempur-Pedic in there?
14:56
Speaker 3: I don't know.
14:56
Speaker 4: I think that's kind of what's in there.
14:57
Speaker 3: Like, back in, well, back in my day, when I
14:59
Speaker 3: was playing high school football, we had these pads that you, like,
15:01
Speaker 3: you'd blow air into. And so they were like a
15:03
Speaker 3: squish pad. They were like a mattress. But even then,
15:06
Speaker 3: I mean, it's that, I don't know. I guess I
15:08
Speaker 3: don't know the science behind it, but when you smack
15:10
Speaker 3: your head into another player's head or your head hits
15:13
Speaker 3: the ground, it doesn't matter.
15:14
Speaker 4: It's kind of like a car crash.
15:16
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, it's going to help the impact a little bit,
15:18
Speaker 3: but what foam is really going to be able to
15:20
Speaker 3: help without it being, you know, I guess.
15:22
Speaker 4: Getting in the way of the game.
15:24
Speaker 2: Yeah.
15:24
Speaker 3: You could put a Tempur-Pedic in there, but now it's heavy.
15:26
Speaker 3: Now it's a little weird. You might get a little
15:29
Speaker 3: sweaty because they're also dealing with like, how do you
15:31
Speaker 3: make it Efficient for heat. And, you know, somebody sweating
15:34
Speaker 3: their ass off in that gladiator costume.
15:38
Speaker 4: What does it turn into?
15:38
Speaker 3: I don't know. But now I see all these video gamers.
15:41
Speaker 3: Those sports have gone crazy. People in front of screens
15:45
Speaker 3: playing the game. Those are starting to take over. So
15:47
Speaker 3: it just makes me wonder. I'm like, how long does
15:48
Speaker 3: a sport like football stay?
15:50
Speaker 2: Well, as long as the patriarchy is in place, I
15:53
Speaker 2: feel like we'll just keep doing it and doing it
15:55
Speaker 2: once the women take over. We're just going to paint
15:57
Speaker 2: each other's nails for competitive sport. We're just going to
16:00
Speaker 2: shout insults at each other across stadiums. It'll be like
16:03
Speaker 2: rap battles.
16:04
Speaker 4: I'd watch. It'd be entertaining enough.
16:06
Speaker 5: I think it'd be fun. I mean, Wild N' Out
16:08
Speaker 5: does it.
16:08
Speaker 2: They do the back and forth rap battles where they
16:10
Speaker 2: just insult each other and they're like, you're mama. And then,
16:12
Speaker 2: I don't know.
16:14
Speaker 4: You're mama. But there is something entertaining.
16:17
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is, but just watching like
16:19
Speaker 3: a game that, you know, especially a lot of us played.
16:22
Speaker 3: And now you're watching it at just such an elite
16:23
Speaker 3: level that it would be cool every now and then.
16:25
Speaker 3: I always think about this with the Olympics. Just have
16:27
Speaker 3: like an average Joe out there just so we could
16:29
Speaker 3: see how much further and better these players are than
16:32
Speaker 3: what we claim to be back.
16:33
Speaker 2: In the day.
16:34
Speaker 3: Yeah.
16:34
Speaker 5: What's the baseline?
16:36
Speaker 2: I was in the hallway with Mike Cernak, who told
16:38
Speaker 2: me something interesting about the injury list on hockey teams
16:41
Speaker 2: because he's a big Lightning fan.
16:42
Speaker 3: So I was.
16:43
Speaker 2: Ripping it up with him in there we were talking
16:44
Speaker 2: about the game last night and he goes you know
16:47
Speaker 2: they'll release the injury reports but they won't tell you
16:52
Speaker 2: what the injuries are because they don't want the other
16:54
Speaker 2: players going after the injured ones as like a way
16:57
Speaker 2: to knock them out like they'll just say upper body
16:59
Speaker 2: or lower body energy i'm like That is so calculated.
17:02
Speaker 2: That's how I know they have women on their staff,
17:04
Speaker 2: because I just feel like that was some woman's idea
17:06
Speaker 2: at some point, because women are that conniving and manipulative. Like, listen,
17:10
Speaker 2: go for a bloop, bloop, bloop, bloop, bloop, because he sprained.
17:12
Speaker 5: His ankle last week. I feel like we can take
17:14
Speaker 5: him out for the season.
17:15
Speaker 4: You'll see players go after.
17:16
Speaker 3: It's the craziest thing, because I feel like as much
17:19
Speaker 3: respect as they have for each other in the game,
17:21
Speaker 3: they're playing at the highest level. They don't want to
17:23
Speaker 3: ruin their career. But if you can get an advantage,
17:25
Speaker 3: you'll see it in football all the time. Always got
17:27
Speaker 3: a hurt hand. And so they'll go in there and
17:29
Speaker 3: they'll target that hand.
17:30
Speaker 5: Oh, do you think that's why they took out Baker? Baker,
17:32
Speaker 5: who dislocated his thumb? I mean, and he looks fine.
17:35
Speaker 5: He's bobbing around.
17:36
Speaker 3: I know.
17:37
Speaker 4: I hate it.
17:37
Speaker 3: I hate it because it just looks they look so casual.
17:40
Speaker 3: But again, I don't know what it feels like to
17:41
Speaker 3: throw a ball when that's your entire job with a
17:44
Speaker 3: dislocated thumb. Yeah, that probably is extremely painful. The one
17:47
Speaker 3: that I remember hearing. on Travis and Jason's podcast is
17:50
Speaker 3: they were talking about turf toe one time. And I've
17:53
Speaker 3: never had turf toe, but that name doesn't sound like
17:55
Speaker 3: it would be that painful, right?
17:56
Speaker 5: Sounds like athlete's foot.
17:57
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you're like, okay, like stretch your foot a
17:59
Speaker 3: little bit, like you're fine. But apparently it's like a
18:01
Speaker 3: tear at the bottom of your foot muscles that takes
18:04
Speaker 3: just so long to heal and it's excruciating. But it
18:07
Speaker 3: doesn't put to the impact of what it actually is
18:09
Speaker 3: when you just call it turf toe. So that's how
18:11
Speaker 3: I feel about the dislocated thumb. I'm like, is his
18:13
Speaker 3: tendon like just, is it ripped? Is it needing to repair?
18:16
Speaker 2: Is it the kind of thing, is turf toe... the
18:18
Speaker 2: kind of thing that only happens on turf or is
18:21
Speaker 2: it just.
18:22
Speaker 3: No i don't think it's the only thing that happens
18:24
Speaker 3: i think runners could get it anything that you're planting
18:27
Speaker 3: your foot and kind of doing the toe extension through
18:30
Speaker 3: the foot because i think it's that stretch not a
18:33
Speaker 3: doctor just putting it out there because i find these
18:36
Speaker 3: things interesting when your toe extends and those little muscles
18:39
Speaker 3: that they get too tight and they do little tears
18:41
Speaker 3: i'm sure that's what.
18:42
Speaker 4: It's compared to. Again, put it in the comments.
18:44
Speaker 5: I don't know.
18:45
Speaker 4: This is what I've just watched. Look at us.
18:46
Speaker 5: We're basically a sports podcast now.
18:48
Speaker 3: We might as well just be in the physician's office
18:50
Speaker 3: with these athletes, diagnosing them. The other thing we mentioned
18:54
Speaker 3: a couple podcasts, though, was the post that you put
18:56
Speaker 3: up from five years ago on your Instagram.
18:58
Speaker 5: Oh, I forgot we didn't talk about how ugly I
18:59
Speaker 5: used to be.
19:00
Speaker 3: No, but I did appreciate the post because I was like,
19:03
Speaker 3: that's one such a.
19:06
Speaker 4: Here's my real, raw, authentic thought as I was driving
19:08
Speaker 4: in this morning.
19:09
Speaker 5: You know I love that.
19:10
Speaker 3: I thought how impressive it is on who you are
19:14
Speaker 3: today and how you look today and how you've just
19:17
Speaker 3: completely transformed how you look, hopefully how you feel as well,
19:21
Speaker 3: in that time period.
19:23
Speaker 4: As I was driving this.
19:23
Speaker 3: Morning, I thought about that because one of the things
19:25
Speaker 3: that I want to do in this next year is,
19:27
Speaker 3: all right, it's time to really lock in. And I'm
19:30
Speaker 3: talking sleep, eating, working out, mental health, physical health. Just
19:33
Speaker 3: get as healthy as I've ever been. Healthier than my
19:35
Speaker 3: 18-year-old self, my 26-year-old self in this year. And I
19:39
Speaker 3: thought about your post and I was like, it's extremely
19:41
Speaker 3: impressive because that could be a post that somebody just
19:45
Speaker 3: goes by. That takes so much work to do what
19:47
Speaker 3: you've done. Yeah.
19:48
Speaker 2: And it's crazy because I even look back at photos
19:50
Speaker 2: of me a year ago and I felt so good
19:53
Speaker 2: a year ago.
19:54
Speaker 5: I felt so good two.
19:55
Speaker 2: Years ago when I was just kind of getting my,
19:56
Speaker 2: my health in order, which I'm not going to go
19:58
Speaker 2: into the long dissertation, but long story short, I was like,
20:01
Speaker 2: I felt so gross in my body and I didn't
20:04
Speaker 2: understand what was going on. And I think the root
20:06
Speaker 2: of it, and I've been talking to my therapist a
20:07
Speaker 2: lot about this. My therapist thinks I have an autoimmune disorder.
20:10
Speaker 2: And I think that has amongst just being like a
20:13
Speaker 2: lady has led me to a life of having super
20:17
Speaker 2: low iron, super low ferritin, which then affects your thyroid
20:20
Speaker 2: and your thyroid affects like everything else in life, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Anyway,
20:23
Speaker 2: I've gotten my labs in order and it's just allowed
20:26
Speaker 2: my body to get to a place where a, I
20:28
Speaker 2: do feel healthy, but I also think I just look
20:30
Speaker 2: healthier because Like I was looking at this post of
20:33
Speaker 2: me that I did. So you can scroll on my reel.
20:36
Speaker 2: It's from the week of October 18th. And it's like
20:41
Speaker 2: my face is completely, it's like someone took a balloon
20:46
Speaker 2: to my face and just kind of like blew it
20:48
Speaker 2: up with helium. And I'm like, it's not even that
20:51
Speaker 2: I'm that much smaller. Like I think I've lost like
20:53
Speaker 2: 20 or 25 pounds. Mm-hmm.
20:55
Speaker 5: It's not even just the weight.
20:56
Speaker 2: It's like my face and my eyes look completely different.
20:59
Speaker 2: And obviously I got a nose job. But then like
21:01
Speaker 2: you look at my face and granted the beauty filters
21:03
Speaker 2: on it. And it's like the shape of my face
21:06
Speaker 2: is different. And I'm like, oh, my God. Oh, I
21:08
Speaker 2: also got veneers, too. I forgot that I put that
21:10
Speaker 2: in there, too. I didn't put that down. But I mean,
21:13
Speaker 2: just I look like a different human to... The point
21:16
Speaker 2: where I was like, oh, my God, this time next.
21:19
Speaker 2: It kind of made me self-conscious, weirdly enough, about how
21:21
Speaker 2: I look now. Because I was like, oh, my God,
21:23
Speaker 2: is there a future version of me that's looking back
21:26
Speaker 2: on October 2026 Abby and going, ew.
21:28
Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?
21:29
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
21:30
Speaker 3: Yeah. Where it's like our goal is to continue to improve. Yeah.
21:33
Speaker 4: Just the healthier version.
21:34
Speaker 3: But I think what really sticks out for me is
21:36
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't think people understand how much.
21:39
Speaker 4: And maybe they do. But like you just said casually, like, oh,
21:42
Speaker 4: I think I, you know, lost 20, 30 pounds. That's substantial.
21:46
Speaker 4: Like the work that goes into that.
21:48
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a lot.
21:49
Speaker 4: It's a lot.
21:49
Speaker 2: But it also happened over like a very slow period
21:52
Speaker 2: of time. Like I think I started, I think my
21:54
Speaker 2: body was in a place where I could start losing
21:56
Speaker 2: weight in 2024.
21:56
Speaker 5: So like this time two years ago.
21:58
Speaker 2: So I mean. It's taken me two years to get
22:03
Speaker 2: to the point where I just kind of look like this.
22:05
Speaker 2: And granted, you know, the nose job and all the things.
22:07
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, it still was like a slow progression.
22:10
Speaker 2: And I look back on photos of me a year
22:12
Speaker 2: ago and I go, oh, I.
22:13
Speaker 5: Look way better now than I did a year ago.
22:15
Speaker 2: And so I'm like kind of nervous about who I'm
22:17
Speaker 2: going to be in a year because I'm like, oh,
22:18
Speaker 2: my God, I think I look so great now. But
22:21
Speaker 2: I'm probably looking back on myself and thinking, well, I'm really.
22:24
Speaker 5: Fucking ugly right now.
22:25
Speaker 3: Well, how do you feel now versus like then? Because
22:28
Speaker 3: I can only imagine the feeling like internally now. Yeah, no,
22:32
Speaker 3: I feel good.
22:34
Speaker 2: It makes me want to get more plastic surgery because
22:35
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, it worked out the first time.
22:37
Speaker 5: Like, what else can I get? Like, how hot can
22:39
Speaker 5: I get?
22:40
Speaker 2: We talk a lot about our looks and we talk
22:42
Speaker 2: a lot about how, like, Scotty and I are super
22:43
Speaker 2: vain because we both just like to work out. We
22:45
Speaker 2: like to, you know, feel good, look good, all the things.
22:48
Speaker 2: I realized this weekend I'm very competitive about everything.
22:52
Speaker 5: And I think that does include my appearance.
22:54
Speaker 2: And I think it bothers me that genetically, like, there's
22:57
Speaker 2: only so much you can do.
22:59
Speaker 5: And also financially, like there's only so much you could do.
23:01
Speaker 2: Like I wish I was stupid rich because I'm so
23:03
Speaker 2: competitive that I'm like, I want to be competitively hot.
23:06
Speaker 5: I know it's like a dumb thing to say.
23:08
Speaker 3: Let me think about that. Cause I don't think it's
23:10
Speaker 3: as dumb as you think. Cause I think a lot
23:11
Speaker 3: of us think those things, but we don't say them.
23:13
Speaker 3: But I look at like, I'll look at dudes constantly
23:15
Speaker 3: and I'm like.
23:16
Speaker 5: Am I better looking than them?
23:17
Speaker 3: Yeah.
23:17
Speaker 4: Oh my God.
23:18
Speaker 3: Yeah. But it's like a guy has a certain amount
23:20
Speaker 3: of muscle. I'm like, oh, I could be better than that.
23:22
Speaker 3: Like there's no reason why he should be able to
23:23
Speaker 3: do something. And I can't, that's what I was explaining
23:25
Speaker 3: to a friend yesterday. He's going after this massive challenge,
23:27
Speaker 3: another big endurance race. And I told him, I was like,
23:30
Speaker 3: the way I look at it is there's other people
23:32
Speaker 3: that have done it and we have the ability to
23:34
Speaker 3: do it too. So I'm not stopping until I do it.
23:36
Speaker 3: Because I can't... I don't know how that sounds listening,
23:39
Speaker 3: but it's like this thing in my head that I'm like...
23:41
Speaker 3: I can't give up until I know I've given it
23:42
Speaker 3: every shot. And that's including my body.
23:45
Speaker 4: Like, I don't need to... I don't know.
23:47
Speaker 5: Maybe, I don't know.
23:47
Speaker 3: Dive more into that thought of being competitively hot. Because
23:50
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm, like, trying to be the hottest.
23:54
Speaker 4: Because I never.
23:54
Speaker 3: There's only so much you can do. Yeah, like, I
23:57
Speaker 3: don't really look at myself... I've never looked at myself
23:58
Speaker 3: like that. I could say every now and then I
24:00
Speaker 3: feel like I look handsome. But I know the one
24:04
Speaker 3: thing that I could always control... And this has literally
24:06
Speaker 3: stemmed since I was in fifth grade... Was my body.
24:08
Speaker 3: I was like, I can't control my vision... I could
24:11
Speaker 3: wear glasses. I can't control how my face looks. And
24:14
Speaker 3: at that age, I had like acne. I was like,
24:16
Speaker 3: the one thing I could do is I could work
24:17
Speaker 3: out and I could be the strongest and hopefully the
24:19
Speaker 3: most in shape. And so I just went with that
24:21
Speaker 3: for years. And that still drives me today. Like I'll
24:24
Speaker 3: go to the gym and I'll see someone like, dang,
24:26
Speaker 3: they look good. And then I look at myself and
24:28
Speaker 3: I'm like, you could do better. And it just, it's a,
24:31
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's toxic.
24:32
Speaker 4: It almost feels toxic.
24:33
Speaker 2: No, I think we just have the same gear in
24:34
Speaker 2: our head where maybe for you, it's not necessarily like
24:37
Speaker 2: physical facial beauty, which is the female beauty standard. Whereas
24:40
Speaker 2: for guys, I guess the beauty standard is how jacked
24:43
Speaker 2: can you be?
24:43
Speaker 3: Yeah.
24:44
Speaker 4: Like naturally.
24:45
Speaker 3: Cause I hate when I see like somebody, I have
24:47
Speaker 3: a buddy I work out with who's like, he just
24:49
Speaker 3: can't tell.
24:49
Speaker 4: I've just, I've done this for so long where I
24:51
Speaker 4: go in the gym. I'm like, you're on juice. You're
24:54
Speaker 4: on TRT.
24:54
Speaker 3: Like, you're loaded up on substances that no matter how
24:57
Speaker 3: hard I work, I won't be able to get to
24:58
Speaker 3: that point.
24:59
Speaker 2: But the way you see that guy who's juiced up
25:01
Speaker 2: is the same way I see, like, a woman in
25:03
Speaker 2: Miami who has just an obnoxious amount of stuff done.
25:07
Speaker 5: Like, I'm not trying to be that.
25:08
Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?
25:09
Speaker 2: I think you and I are both are thinking, what
25:12
Speaker 2: is our natural genetic potential?
25:15
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, what's the best version of us?
25:16
Speaker 5: Yeah, to an extent. I'm like, I'm not above an implant.
25:19
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
25:19
Speaker 3: Yeah.
25:20
Speaker 5: You know what I mean? I'll consider it.
25:22
Speaker 4: That should be taken out. I'm not above an implant.
25:26
Speaker 2: But, yeah, there's a part of me that's like, I
25:29
Speaker 2: hate getting outmogged by another girl in a bar.
25:31
Speaker 5: Like, I think, and maybe I'm making a generalization.
25:35
Speaker 2: I think maybe it's the Disney princess of it all
25:38
Speaker 2: where I think a lot of women, including myself, and
25:40
Speaker 2: I'm including other women because I think it makes me
25:42
Speaker 2: feel less vain. We have Cinderella syndrome where you want
25:45
Speaker 2: to walk into the, you want to be the prettiest
25:46
Speaker 2: girl at the party. You want to walk in people like, oh,
25:49
Speaker 2: my God, your outfit is so great. Oh, my God,
25:50
Speaker 2: you look so beautiful. You want all the guys to
25:52
Speaker 2: want to talk to you. And I'm like, yeah, I
25:55
Speaker 2: think I'm at a stage where I'm like, I think
25:57
Speaker 2: I feel like I have the capability to where I'm like,
26:00
Speaker 2: I want to be competitively, disgustingly good looking.
26:04
Speaker 3: I think that's a very valid thing to say. I
26:06
Speaker 3: think it might sound weird saying it out loud, but
26:08
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people are like, of course,
26:09
Speaker 3: I want to look and feel my best. And I
26:11
Speaker 3: think that's the part of what you posted that really
26:14
Speaker 3: caught my eye where I was like, wow, like you
26:16
Speaker 3: have done the work.
26:17
Speaker 2: Yeah.
26:17
Speaker 3: It's easy to just say, well, I guess I think
26:20
Speaker 3: that's the difference. Maybe that's what caught my eye. I
26:21
Speaker 3: was like, for so many of us, we see these
26:24
Speaker 3: things and we're like, I guess that's not obtainable for me.
26:27
Speaker 2: Yeah.
26:27
Speaker 3: Not in this lifetime. But then there's another side of
26:30
Speaker 3: us that's like, no, wait a second. Let's see what
26:32
Speaker 3: I can control. in order to get another step forward.
26:36
Speaker 3: And I see that. I'm like, wow, Abby did that.
26:38
Speaker 3: Abby's literally the living example of like, all right, you
26:40
Speaker 3: saw something. You wanted to change something. And you did.
26:43
Speaker 5: But it's funny.
26:44
Speaker 2: And I think, again, this goes back to what I said.
26:46
Speaker 2: I didn't even think I really looked that bad in
26:48
Speaker 2: that video.
26:48
Speaker 5: No, I look pretty bad because I didn't even recognize myself.
26:51
Speaker 2: I was scrolling back in my old TikToks and I
26:53
Speaker 2: genuinely was like, Who is that?
26:56
Speaker 5: Like, that was my thought.
26:57
Speaker 2: And then that's why I decided to put the videos
26:58
Speaker 2: back to back because I, I kind of wanted to
27:02
Speaker 2: do it for me to where I could look at
27:03
Speaker 2: them side by side and go, Oh my God, like
27:07
Speaker 2: I look insanely different.
27:09
Speaker 5: And then of course it sparked a new insecurity of,
27:10
Speaker 5: I think I look good now. Who am I going
27:13
Speaker 5: to be in five years? Who am I going to
27:15
Speaker 5: be at 35?
27:15
Speaker 2: Which I guess is the best thing you can think
27:17
Speaker 2: of going into your thirties. Cause I think women think,
27:19
Speaker 2: Oh my God, I'm going to get so ugly once
27:20
Speaker 2: I hit 30. Um, that yeah, it is crazy that
27:23
Speaker 2: I'm like, getting more action from men in their early
27:26
Speaker 2: 20s than now that I was when I was in
27:30
Speaker 2: my early to mid 20s.
27:31
Speaker 3: And it feels like, I don't know, correct me if
27:33
Speaker 3: I'm wrong, but like you're taking just better care of
27:34
Speaker 3: yourself in general.
27:36
Speaker 2: Yeah, well... I've always taken good care of myself but
27:40
Speaker 2: I think I didn't realize again like I probably was
27:42
Speaker 2: suffering from anemia or low iron during that time and
27:46
Speaker 2: didn't understand why you know I work out all the
27:49
Speaker 2: time and just kind of look normal.
27:50
Speaker 3: Yeah.
27:50
Speaker 2: Whereas now I feel like my body I've been working
27:52
Speaker 2: really hard for years that I feel like my body
27:54
Speaker 2: is just healthy to where it will respond to those
27:57
Speaker 2: to those stimuli.
27:58
Speaker 3: And you also like I think that's a huge thing
28:00
Speaker 3: for me to hear too. It's like you dove in
28:01
Speaker 3: and had to understand what was happening. Yeah. Like for
28:04
Speaker 3: so many years I've just taken my health for granted
28:06
Speaker 3: because I just felt I run, I walk, I cycle,
28:08
Speaker 3: I lift, I eat pretty decently, I sleep okay.
28:11
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm fine.
28:12
Speaker 3: But one of the things that I definitely will start
28:14
Speaker 3: to prioritize now more is like, I should do the
28:17
Speaker 3: internal look. Like, what am I missing internally? Like, am
28:20
Speaker 3: I low on this? Am I missing the opportunity to
28:23
Speaker 3: be better just even mentally and clarity? Because, you know,
28:25
Speaker 3: I looked at my sleep score again. I was like
28:27
Speaker 3: five and a half hours. I'm like, all right, that's
28:29
Speaker 3: been the running average for years. There has to be
28:33
Speaker 3: a massive effect there. I was telling my coach that
28:34
Speaker 3: and my coach literally pretty much cussed me out. Because
28:36
Speaker 3: there's all these little things that we could improve, whether
28:39
Speaker 3: it's like, you know, stepping and walking every day or
28:41
Speaker 3: getting better sleep or drinking more water, like these little things.
28:45
Speaker 4: That's what I'm doing this year. I'm like, I'm going
28:46
Speaker 4: to fix the.
28:47
Speaker 3: Little things because I was telling a buddy and I
28:49
Speaker 3: was like, I want to be the best version. It's like, dude,
28:51
Speaker 3: you're doing everything. I was like, no, I was like,
28:53
Speaker 3: this is where we're wrong. I'm doing everything, but I'm
28:55
Speaker 3: not doing everything at the best of its ability. And
28:58
Speaker 3: I think I could improve on those things. It's not
29:00
Speaker 3: going to take any extra time. It's just going to
29:02
Speaker 3: take switching how.
29:03
Speaker 4: I do them.
29:04
Speaker 3: How do I eat? How do I sleep? How do
29:06
Speaker 3: I stretch? All those little things. But your post inspired.
29:09
Speaker 1: All of that.
29:10
Speaker 4: So thank you.
29:10
Speaker 3: Damn.
29:11
Speaker 2: Who knew that me posting, look how ugly I used
29:13
Speaker 2: to be, would trigger you to go on a wellness journey.
29:16
Speaker 4: What would you change, though?
29:17
Speaker 3: So let's just say hypothetically, in a year, you're like, okay,
29:19
Speaker 3: there's a better version. The 30-year-old version of Abby is
29:22
Speaker 3: going to be better than the 29-year-old version.
29:25
Speaker 4: What would you change?
29:26
Speaker 2: Um, I really want to have more muscle definition. I'm
29:28
Speaker 2: trying to figure out that. I don't know if I'm under,
29:30
Speaker 2: under fueling, I guess, or not getting enough protein or
29:33
Speaker 2: if I'm not going to failure enough.
29:35
Speaker 5: I do want to get another surgery.
29:36
Speaker 2: Really?
29:37
Speaker 5: Yeah, I do want to get another surgery. I just am.
29:41
Speaker 2: Sitting in the anxiety of going. Because recovering from a
29:45
Speaker 2: rhinoplasty is really tough.
29:47
Speaker 5: And I'm glad that I did it. I'd go back
29:48
Speaker 5: and I'd do it a hundred times. And it sucks
29:51
Speaker 5: for like two weeks.
29:52
Speaker 2: But the problem is, is when I got the rhinoplasty,
29:55
Speaker 2: I had been thinking about it for a while. I
29:57
Speaker 2: knew for a fact that this is something that would
29:58
Speaker 2: make my life better. And I had the PTO to
30:01
Speaker 2: take two weeks off. And now I'm like, I don't
30:03
Speaker 2: have that flexibility anymore.
30:04
Speaker 4: It's a little harder to take that time.
30:06
Speaker 5: It's a little bit harder.
30:06
Speaker 2: And also I just, I really felt passionate about getting
30:10
Speaker 2: my nose and my teeth done. So I was willing
30:11
Speaker 2: to take the risk. Whereas I'm like, I know I
30:14
Speaker 2: could do something to make my face look a little
30:16
Speaker 2: bit more harmonized, but I don't know that I feel
30:19
Speaker 2: passionate enough about it to spend the money, time, and
30:23
Speaker 2: emotional energy on it.
30:24
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it is a lot to go into. Because
30:26
Speaker 3: I always look at those things, I'm like, what I
30:28
Speaker 3: always question myself in is what am I going after
30:31
Speaker 3: by doing these things? You know, like I continuously, for
30:34
Speaker 3: the love of God, I go through phases of like
30:36
Speaker 3: every now and then I have some abs and then
30:38
Speaker 3: a lot of times I don't. And then every now
30:40
Speaker 3: and then I do and I'm like, I had a
30:42
Speaker 3: serious look at myself in the mirror the other day
30:44
Speaker 3: I'm like what am I truly going after and I
30:46
Speaker 3: think it just what it came down to is you
30:48
Speaker 3: know I for me personally I'm not trying to be
30:50
Speaker 3: like oh look at him showing off his abs I
30:52
Speaker 3: just think that I'm like if I have the ability
30:55
Speaker 3: to let me see if I can and what am
30:58
Speaker 3: I doing that's taking me out of that equation but
31:01
Speaker 3: I don't I think what I've always questioned I'm like
31:03
Speaker 3: it's not going to bring me any more happiness I
31:05
Speaker 3: don't think but then again I don't know.
31:07
Speaker 2: But then you have to think about the alternative. Sometimes
31:09
Speaker 2: it's not about... And this is how I feel about
31:10
Speaker 2: plastic surgery, and I've said this before. Sometimes it's not about,
31:13
Speaker 2: is it going to make you happier? But is it
31:15
Speaker 2: going to take away whatever... Like, for me, I was
31:18
Speaker 2: really insecure about the way that I looked with my
31:20
Speaker 2: nose and my teeth.
31:21
Speaker 3: Wow.
31:21
Speaker 1: I can now take a photo and go, oh, I
31:23
Speaker 1: like the way my face looks.
31:24
Speaker 3: Yeah, where it's like you're not looking at yourself because
31:26
Speaker 3: that's energy.
31:26
Speaker 4: Okay, that makes sense.
31:27
Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean? Like, I don't look
31:28
Speaker 5: at my nose every day and go, my nose makes
31:31
Speaker 5: me so happy because sometimes it's swollen and sometimes I'm like,
31:34
Speaker 5: what the fuck is it doing?
31:36
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I'm willing to
31:37
Speaker 2: go through that because I feel like it fits my,
31:40
Speaker 2: I feel like I look more like me. And this
31:42
Speaker 2: is where I'll round it out now that we've talked
31:44
Speaker 2: about the vanity of it all and the competitiveness of
31:46
Speaker 2: it of all. The beauty of me posting that back
31:50
Speaker 2: and forth is, instagram reel that we keep referring back
31:53
Speaker 2: to where i look bad now i don't look bad
31:56
Speaker 2: is i do just feel like that's the version of
31:57
Speaker 2: me i had in my head and i think that's
32:00
Speaker 2: the really beautiful thing about getting to do stuff like
32:02
Speaker 2: that is you you think you look a certain way
32:04
Speaker 2: and sometimes you you don't and now i feel like
32:07
Speaker 2: i just look like the version of myself that i
32:09
Speaker 2: picture when i think about how i move through.
32:11
Speaker 3: The world i like that because it also just raises
32:13
Speaker 3: your confidence it changes the way you walk into a
32:15
Speaker 3: room and how you hold yourself.
32:16
Speaker 2: Because you know i said i get hit on more
32:18
Speaker 2: i'm not even gonna lie I think sometimes that's valid.
32:21
Speaker 4: 100%.
32:22
Speaker 2: I appreciate getting to be an active competitor in the
32:25
Speaker 2: dating marketplace.
32:26
Speaker 3: I think that is a big thought that I've had
32:28
Speaker 3: a lot recently is like you should want to like just, well,
32:32
Speaker 3: let me rephrase this.
32:34
Speaker 4: Me personally, I want to continue to be the best
32:36
Speaker 4: version of me.
32:38
Speaker 5: Yeah, your girlfriend's beautiful, so you better not slack off, loser.
32:41
Speaker 4: Well, that's literally what I thought to myself.
32:42
Speaker 3: I was like, all right, you got to get your
32:43
Speaker 3: numbers in order. Know what's going on in order to
32:46
Speaker 3: be able to walk into a room and people be like, oh, OK, cool, cool, cool. Oh,
32:49
Speaker 3: my God.
32:49
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would hate for people to see a photo
32:51
Speaker 2: of me and my boyfriend. And then they go, not
32:54
Speaker 2: that I have a boyfriend.
32:54
Speaker 3: I don't have a boyfriend.
32:55
Speaker 5: I would hate for them to go.
32:57
Speaker 2: How did Abby get that guy? But not like a complimentary, like,
33:00
Speaker 2: Oh my God, how did she, where'd she find this guy?
33:02
Speaker 2: More of like a, Oh God, he's with her.
33:04
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, it's also like, there's that side of it.
33:06
Speaker 3: And there's also like, now it's like really the longevity
33:08
Speaker 3: side of it too. Like I do want to be
33:09
Speaker 3: the healthiest version for her. So it's like, we could
33:12
Speaker 3: just do everything together, whether it's traveling or exploring or
33:15
Speaker 3: just growing our lives together. Or, you know, I always,
33:18
Speaker 3: I always come, I was always impressed by my dad,
33:21
Speaker 3: the way he treated himself to make sure that, you know, he's,
33:24
Speaker 3: about to be 65, and if we went out and
33:26
Speaker 3: wanted to go hike the Great Wall of China, you could.
33:28
Speaker 4: I'm like, damn!
33:30
Speaker 3: Dad, you are very impressive, and I want to make
33:33
Speaker 3: sure I'm doing that same thing, because he was able
33:34
Speaker 3: to sprint against me as a kid. swim against me, like, play, wrestle,
33:38
Speaker 3: all these things. I'm like, I want to make sure
33:39
Speaker 3: that I'm able to do those things for my kids
33:41
Speaker 3: as well. Yeah.
33:41
Speaker 4: Like, there's a look of it.
33:42
Speaker 2: Of course.
33:43
Speaker 4: I want to be, like, the dad that, you know.
33:45
Speaker 5: The dilf?
33:46
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, my gosh. Like, you know, your kids' friends
33:49
Speaker 3: are like, dang, your dad's like Superman.
33:51
Speaker 4: Like, I don't want that. That's 100%. But there's also
33:54
Speaker 4: the other side of it.
33:54
Speaker 3: Like, I want to make sure I'm able to sprint
33:56
Speaker 3: and not wake up and be so achy and taking
33:59
Speaker 3: care of myself where it's, you know, I'm not looking
34:01
Speaker 3: five years down the line and something's taking me out
34:03
Speaker 3: too early because I didn't get a check now.
34:06
Speaker 5: You better do it.
34:06
Speaker 3: I know I'm doing it all now. So we're looking
34:09
Speaker 3: all into that right now. Is there any, speaking of dating,
34:11
Speaker 3: you've been all, have you stayed off the hinge app? Yeah.
34:15
Speaker 5: And honestly, I will, I will never get back on them.
34:18
Speaker 2: And I actually, I mean that with my soul right now,
34:20
Speaker 2: I'm checking with me in like a year, but like,
34:23
Speaker 2: I haven't thought about them once. Like ever since I
34:25
Speaker 2: I'll delete them. And sometimes I'll be like, you'll have
34:27
Speaker 2: the muscle memory to be like hinge.
34:29
Speaker 5: Oh no, hinges deleted.
34:31
Speaker 2: I don't think I'll ever get back on them. I
34:33
Speaker 2: really don't think I will. And I think it's because, again,
34:35
Speaker 2: it comes down to competitiveness. I think I'd rather just
34:37
Speaker 2: go to a bar and be competitively hot and just
34:41
Speaker 2: meet somebody in the wild. Like, I think I'm I
34:43
Speaker 2: feel it in my soul. That's that's how I'm going
34:45
Speaker 2: to meet. Even if I don't date anybody, just like
34:48
Speaker 2: that's the next that's that's the next era of life
34:51
Speaker 2: I'm entering into where I'm competitively hot enough that I
34:54
Speaker 2: think people will approach me in the wild.
34:56
Speaker 3: Yeah. You could just step into a room and actually
34:57
Speaker 3: start a conversation. And not do this whole back and
35:00
Speaker 3: forth with somebody that you may never see again. But
35:02
Speaker 3: it is crazy, though, because, again, I feel like any
35:04
Speaker 3: time you tell somebody, like, oh, my gosh, the dating
35:06
Speaker 3: apps are like, I met my partner on a dating app.
35:08
Speaker 3: It happened the other day. We're at the, you know,
35:10
Speaker 3: what is it, Pig Jig. Talking to some awesome friends
35:13
Speaker 3: of ours. And they're like, yeah, we met on Hinge.
35:16
Speaker 3: And I'm like, there's another success story.
35:18
Speaker 5: My brother and his wife.
35:19
Speaker 4: Another success story.
35:20
Speaker 5: One of my close friends from college.
35:21
Speaker 3: So it doesn't necessarily have to be you. But it's
35:23
Speaker 3: nice to know that they have their stories and yours
35:25
Speaker 3: could be an in-person.
35:26
Speaker 4: A meet cute.
35:28
Speaker 2: I think we all have different stories. And I think
35:31
Speaker 2: I've given the dating apps enough of a time period
35:34
Speaker 2: to where if it was going to happen... It would
35:37
Speaker 2: have happened by now.
35:38
Speaker 3: Yeah, at least something would have had a little bit
35:39
Speaker 3: of legs to go a little bit of a distance.
35:41
Speaker 2: Because I feel like with those stories, you usually hear, oh,
35:44
Speaker 2: he was like the first guy I swiped on. And
35:46
Speaker 2: I just feel like that's how the universe was just like,
35:48
Speaker 2: let's just get these two mofos together. So I think,
35:50
Speaker 2: you know what? I think the universe wants me to
35:52
Speaker 2: get hotter. I think the universe wants me to look
35:54
Speaker 2: like a weird Miami lip filler mama.
35:56
Speaker 4: You think so? I mean, you go to Miami this
35:57
Speaker 4: week and that's what's going to happen.
35:58
Speaker 3: No, I know.
35:59
Speaker 5: I'm going to feel so ugly. Oh, my God.
36:01
Speaker 2: I've been feeling good about myself. I'm going to feel
36:03
Speaker 2: so hideous in Miami this weekend. I'm going to visit
36:06
Speaker 2: my best friend from college who lives in Miami. We're
36:08
Speaker 2: going to like all the crazy clubs and we're going
36:11
Speaker 2: to live up Miami the way you're supposed to live
36:13
Speaker 2: up Miami. But I'm going to be one of the
36:16
Speaker 2: ugliest people in the room. It's just, I guess there's
36:19
Speaker 2: somebody for everyone. Everyone finds different things of beauty. I
36:22
Speaker 2: want to date somebody stupid, good looking and funny and.
36:26
Speaker 5: Cool and great.
36:28
Speaker 4: Driven and nice.
36:29
Speaker 3: Yeah.
36:29
Speaker 5: And I want them to want to date me.
36:30
Speaker 2: I don't want to have to like brainwash them to
36:32
Speaker 2: date me.
36:32
Speaker 3: Oh my God. As you shouldn't, it should be easy
36:34
Speaker 3: like that. Do you think it's going to be more?
36:36
Speaker 3: I was thinking about this cause I'm going to Chicago.
36:38
Speaker 3: You're going to Miami. It's two very massive cities for
36:40
Speaker 3: very different reasons. On who has a better food scene,
36:43
Speaker 3: Chicago or Miami, in your opinion? Because is that going
36:46
Speaker 3: to be something that you're going.
36:47
Speaker 4: To dive into?
36:47
Speaker 5: No, we ain't eating. We're drinking.
36:49
Speaker 4: We're drinking.
36:49
Speaker 3: We're going out to the club. I want to look
36:50
Speaker 3: good in my tank top.
36:52
Speaker 2: My best friend Virginia texted me all these restaurants. And
36:54
Speaker 2: my best friend Virginia is a recent dental school grad,
36:57
Speaker 2: so she's making buku money.
36:59
Speaker 4: Good for her.
37:00
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, we love that for her.
37:01
Speaker 2: Good for her. And, you know, dual income, no kids.
37:02
Speaker 2: She's got a boyfriend as well. So, like, there you go.
37:05
Speaker 2: I was like, girl, you're paying for me this whole weekend.
37:06
Speaker 2: Hell yeah.
37:07
Speaker 4: I'm just kidding.
37:08
Speaker 2: But she kept sending me these restaurants and they had
37:10
Speaker 2: like the $ 4.
37:10
Speaker 5: Signs next to them. And listen, I'm bougie as fuck.
37:13
Speaker 5: But I was like, girl, what is on the menu?
37:15
Speaker 5: Like what? I can't spend $ 300 on one meal. And
37:19
Speaker 5: she goes, we'll just have. chicken before and then we'll
37:22
Speaker 5: just drink there oh my god just like okay is.
37:25
Speaker 3: It that expensive there i've heard it's bad but i've
37:27
Speaker 3: also heard it's kind of comparable to tampa.
37:29
Speaker 1: Four dollar signs to me is crazy.
37:31
Speaker 3: Yeah that's like a in my opinion like anniversary you're
37:35
Speaker 3: going out you're gonna spend some dollars but you don't
37:36
Speaker 3: do that just as.
37:37
Speaker 2: A casual that's what i mean i'll do a three
37:39
Speaker 2: dollar sign night since i'll just be there one day
37:41
Speaker 2: you know i mean you get like a 30 40
37:42
Speaker 2: 50 dollar entree you call it a day or maybe
37:45
Speaker 2: you split some small plates But four?
37:48
Speaker 5: But the four dollar signs.
37:50
Speaker 3: How many Burns has? Okay, because that should be like,
37:53
Speaker 3: in my brain, the four dollar signs in Tampa would
37:59
Speaker 3: be like a Burns or a Charlie's.
38:02
Speaker 4: Let's see.
38:02
Speaker 5: Yeah, a hundred plus dollars. I'm like, girl, what do
38:05
Speaker 5: you think I make?
38:07
Speaker 4: Obviously, more than I think we do here.
38:08
Speaker 3: A lot of people think we make a ton of
38:10
Speaker 3: money here in radio.
38:11
Speaker 2: That's really, well, I mean, it just kind of depends.
38:14
Speaker 2: It does.
38:14
Speaker 4: There's room for it.
38:16
Speaker 3: But this doesn't even look that bad.
38:18
Speaker 2: Hang on.
38:19
Speaker 5: Raw bar.
38:20
Speaker 4: I'll see. Burns just says a hundred dollars plus. I
38:22
Speaker 4: don't know how many dollars.
38:23
Speaker 2: Okay.
38:24
Speaker 5: This is not that bad.
38:26
Speaker 3: Okay.
38:26
Speaker 2: What is it?
38:27
Speaker 5: Well, I take that back.
38:28
Speaker 4: Oh, you're looking at the appetizers.
38:31
Speaker 5: It kind of depends. Like you can get a meat.
38:34
Speaker 2: You can get the grilled Berber spice chicken. That's 42.
38:38
Speaker 2: I'm not going to say that's cheap.
38:39
Speaker 4: No, but it's expensive for a chicken.
38:41
Speaker 5: You can get rigatoni for $ 34. That's not crazy.
38:42
Speaker 3: Okay. All right, so we're looking at, like, that's comparable
38:46
Speaker 3: to here in Tampa, like a Ulele.
38:49
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then they also have, like, the lobster pasta, $ 90.
38:52
Speaker 2: Black truffle pasta, $ 58. The caviar pasta, $ 95.
38:56
Speaker 3: God, that's so— what' s crazy is those prices are high, and
39:00
Speaker 3: it's actually not shocking.
39:02
Speaker 2: You're not shocked by that?
39:03
Speaker 3: Mm-mm. I'm kind of shocked by it.
39:04
Speaker 2: And I'm bougie.
39:05
Speaker 5: Listen, I spend a shit ton of money on stuff
39:07
Speaker 5: I shouldn't.
39:08
Speaker 3: I guess it's just whenever you go out in this area,
39:10
Speaker 3: and it's like you just want to have, like, a—
39:12
Speaker 3: Like a date night out, that's the prices that I'm
39:13
Speaker 3: looking at.
39:14
Speaker 1: Where are you going where the prices are that expensive?
39:17
Speaker 2: Pretty much everywhere.
39:18
Speaker 3: It's not some of the higher ones that you said,
39:20
Speaker 3: but even Savion Wine Locker, which I talk about, I
39:23
Speaker 3: took Brianna there for a first date the entrees there
39:26
Speaker 3: we're talking you know lowest pasta probably 42 and then
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Speaker 3: it goes up from there I would say that's pretty
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Speaker 3: expensive I know but that's what I'm saying like I
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Speaker 3: know it's expensive I'm not doing it all the time
39:36
Speaker 3: what the heck what I'm gonna do today I'm going
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Speaker 3: to Fresh Kitchen $ 11 for.
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Speaker 5: My bowl that's how I'm gonna rock Fresh Kitchen's a
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Speaker 5: good deal I think so.
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Speaker 3: Too you get loaded up I do that cava and
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Speaker 3: my new obsession is chicken salad chick there you go
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Speaker 3: that that's some good southern eatin And they treat you
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Speaker 3: with so much love.
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Speaker 4: And they give you the food that makes it worth
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Speaker 4: the price, I feel.
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Speaker 3: Like, I got, like, two scoops of chicken salad and
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Speaker 3: a soup for, like, 11 bucks.
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Speaker 5: There you go. It's a good deal.
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Speaker 4: It's not 42 for a chicken. But I get it.
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Speaker 4: It's also the environment. And it's in Miami. And I'm
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Speaker 4: sure it tastes amazing.
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Speaker 2: I'm sure it's great. Yeah, again, it's Miami. But I
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Speaker 2: was like, girl, I'm having liquid lunch.
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Speaker 4: Liquid dinner.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, have a little snacking. But I wonder, I don't
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Speaker 3: know Miami. Do they make the women pay to get in?
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Speaker 3: Or is it, like, women coming for free?
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Speaker 5: Probably women like me.
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Speaker 2: I don't think I have enough lip filler to get
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Speaker 2: in for free.
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Speaker 4: Get all ballooned up before you get out there.
40:23
Speaker 5: I don't have to see my injector.
40:24
Speaker 4: It's going to be a good trip. Miami is going
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Speaker 4: to be a lot of fun.
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Speaker 3: I don't think I could ever survive Miami because I
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Speaker 3: think a lot of friends are like, oh, yeah, we
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Speaker 3: got back at three or four.
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Speaker 4: I'm like, I can't live that lifestyle.
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Speaker 5: I can for like a night or two. Like on Saturday,
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Speaker 5: I was out until three.
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Speaker 4: This past Saturday? I know.
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Speaker 5: I said the same thing.
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Speaker 4: Good on you. Good on you. Then you showed up
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Speaker 4: for the tailgate afterwards.
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Speaker 2: And then I think I was still drunk at the tailgate.
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Speaker 4: That's crazy.
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Speaker 5: I don't know what happened. I was like, I didn't
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Speaker 5: even drink that much.
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Speaker 3: You don't have to answer, but like in those hours,
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Speaker 3: I just haven't done it for a long time. Like
40:54
Speaker 3: what is happening from like, let's say midnight to three.
40:56
Speaker 3: Is it just riding around town? Is it one place
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Speaker 3: that's open late?
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Speaker 2: I was at AMSA with Miranda and then I was
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Speaker 2: with her friends and then I bopped over to Anchor Bar,
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Speaker 2: which is the bar by my house or in my neighborhood,
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Speaker 2: I should say. And then I was hanging out with
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Speaker 2: somebody there and then they turned the lights on and
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Speaker 2: I was like, well, time to go.
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Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, the lights come on, you know, you've now, yeah,
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Speaker 4: you've stayed past.
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Speaker 2: I was having fun. Like if I'm with people who
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Speaker 2: can make me laugh and as long as I'm not
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Speaker 2: feeling tired from the alcohol, I'll stay out all night.
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Speaker 5: I like to dance. I like to mingle. I like
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Speaker 5: to be social. Once I'm out, I can stay out
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Speaker 5: for a while.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: I mean, the 3amers, my brother could stay out for like, God,
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Speaker 3: he's told me. Like 48 hours before.
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Speaker 5: That's crazy.
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Speaker 3: Crazy.
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Speaker 2: Well, the thing is like with the Miami clubs, Virginia,
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Speaker 2: my friend who lives there, she was like, Oh, club space.
41:42
Speaker 2: It it's open like from 4 PM or no, it's
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Speaker 2: open from like midnight to noon or whatever. And I
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Speaker 2: guess people stay out until noon. I'm like, I don't
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Speaker 2: want to do that. Like I want to be home
41:52
Speaker 2: before the sun rises.
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Speaker 3: A hundred percent. Cause I feel like my whole day
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Speaker 3: would be gone the day after.
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Speaker 5: That's what I mean.
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Speaker 2: It's like, I'm not trying to party for a whole day.
41:59
Speaker 2: I just want to have like a fun night. Take some,
42:02
Speaker 2: I want a diabolically hot photo. That's what I texted her.
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Speaker 2: I said, I need a diabolically disgustingly beautiful photo of
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Speaker 2: me in Miami.
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Speaker 4: And then you're good to go.
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Speaker 5: And then I'm good to go.
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Speaker 2: Then we can enjoy the rest of the weekend, but
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Speaker 2: we're not leaving the apartment until you get a photo
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Speaker 2: of me and the dress I rented from Rent the Runway.
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Speaker 4: Good on you.
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Speaker 3: Good on me.
42:19
Speaker 4: Survive Miami.
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42:24
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42:27
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Speaker 4: Thanks, fam. We'll see you tomorrow.