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Episode 15 - Interview w/ Tina from Splash Mocha · The Bull Brotherhood

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  So the next night, I'm sitting in front of the
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  TV doing my homework. Yeah, I would study in
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  front of the TV, always have. I'm doing my homework,
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  studying for my test, and I turn around and I
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  look at him and I said, oh, by the way, I've
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  been thinking. Well, now anytime I use that term,
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  it gets his attention. Laser -focused attention.
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  And he says, yeah, what have you been thinking
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  of? I said, well, you know, I had fun having
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  sex with other guys when I was in high school
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  because... Nobody knew that I did that in high
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  school, but I was very quiet about it. And I
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  think we need to sign up for the whole program.
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  Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood Podcast, where
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  men who master, and men who leave a lasting impression.
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  If you're here, you're not just curious. You're
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  ready to elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives,
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  stags, and open -minded explorers, we see you.
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  Let's go. Hello, hello, there we go. I am one
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  of three parts of your host team siren we are
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  missing. The Sigma Male, Brian Morgan, as we
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  are live from Splash, and he wasn't able to attend,
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  but I'm here with my husband, Socrates. How you
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  doing, babe? What's good, y 'all? I'm doing good.
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  I'm doing good. And today we have one of... Man,
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  she runs this bitch here at Splash Mocha. We
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  have Tina on today. Hi, Tina. Hello. And she
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  was like, I'm not pulled apart of the brotherhood,
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  but she facilitates this... whole event, and
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  without her, we would not even have a Splash
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  Mocha, so we gotta give it up for Tina, but we
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  wanna hear the inside scoop on dealing with all
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  of the fun stuff inside and out of Splash. Socrates,
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  you gonna be the interviewer today? Yeah. With
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  Brian missing? Yep. Yeah, I'm not as smooth,
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  so I can't be like, so yeah, Tina, what's going
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  on? What you got? No, but... Yeah, Brian, have
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  your panties wet before we even, two minutes
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  in, like... Just with that voice. Yep, yep. Yeah,
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  he's smooth. So, yeah, we love this place. I
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  mean, I remember the first time coming here,
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  I didn't have a lot of great experience, especially
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  with Black men in the lifestyle, in group settings.
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  And so I was really apprehensive. My wife didn't
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  know what to expect. But one thing I really loved
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  is the vetting. They took a lot of time to vet
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  the gentleman and everybody, I think. And I was
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  just like, wow, I didn't know it can be this
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  way. Just everybody respectful. Everybody just
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  mingling and getting along with each other. Not
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  to say there isn't problems, but... It just works
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  smoothly. We're people, right? It just works
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  smoothly. So, you know, so we're just going to
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  kind of just talk about, get to know Tina a little
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  bit and see where it goes and really get into,
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  you know, how Splash Market works and what we
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  love about it. But Tina, talk to us a little
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  bit about, you know, just getting started in
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  the lifestyle. Like, you know. how long you've
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  been in the lifestyle, what got you started,
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  those kind of things. Yeah, because you and your
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  husband have been in it for a minute now. So
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  my husband and I have been in it for just over
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  20 years. It was completely my idea. You whore.
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  I know, I know. But yeah, it was completely my
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  idea. We went to a friend's house. Coincidentally,
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  that day, earlier that day, it was the day after
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  Christmas, I had actually torn my ACL riding
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  four -wheelers. And we went, we had plans to
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  go out with friends. We went out with friends
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  and we went back to their house and we were playing
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  a game called Asshole. Don't ask me how to play
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  it. I don't have a clue. And there was a rule.
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  We got playing and there was a rule that if a
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  jack of any kind was thrown down, the girls had
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  to play topless. So whoever won the last round
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  became president. And so next thing I know, we're
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  topless. And then, you know, there's, I don't
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  know, there's probably two, four, six, eight
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  couple, eight total people. So next thing I know,
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  one thing leads to another. The other girls start
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  playing together and they bring me in. Now, I
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  understand Jeb and I weren't in the lifestyle,
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  really never had heard anything about it. And
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  we... Unfortunately, I was played with, but I
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  couldn't do any playing because my knee was between
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  the size of a volleyball and basketball at that
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  point by that end of the night. Body positivity,
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  guys. Even if you got a big old injury, you're
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  still going to get your pussy ate. It's going
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  to be great. Work around it. You know, we did
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  that the next week. After work, my husband and
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  I, I was going to school. We went out to dinner.
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  Luckily, I was driving because he would have
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  wrecked the truck. I'm driving home, and I said,
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  I went, I've been thinking. And he's like, what
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  have you been thinking? I said, well, you know,
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  over at our friend's house this weekend, you
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  know, I had the girl -girl experience. I think
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  I want to experience a little bit more. So, and
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  he was like. What? That's awesome. You know,
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  all men want to see two girls together. They
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  think that is, you know, that's the best thing
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  ever. I still do. So we go home. I sit down in
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  front of the TV, and I'm working on college algebra,
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  and he's got the laptop in his lap, and he's
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  doing research. So the next night, I'm sitting
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  in front of the TV doing my homework. Yeah, I
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  would study in front of the TV, always have.
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  I'm doing my homework, studying for my test.
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  And I turn around and I look at him and I said,
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  oh, by the way, I've been thinking. Well, now
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  anytime I use that term, it gets his attention.
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  Laser -focused attention. And he says, yeah,
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  what have you been thinking of? I said, well,
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  you know, I had fun having sex with other guys
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  when I was in high school. Nobody knew that I
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  did that in high school, but I was, you know,
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  very quiet about it. And I think we need to sign
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  up for the whole program. And that was it. That
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  was the end of it. And he was like, so I get
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  to play too? I said, yeah. So it's kind of, you
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  know, we started out with rules and things. And
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  then as you stay in it longer, we started to
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  evolve. And so our rules turned into whatever.
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  The other couples rules were so we really didn't
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  have any rules We just kind of went with whatever
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  they chose if they chose to be in the same room
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  Then we were in the same room if they were okay
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  with being separate rooms We were okay with separate
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  rooms and it was just a couple's thing. You know,
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  we didn't know any better There was one lifestyle
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  website that we were on. It's no longer in existence.
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  And we went there. Good God. There was meet and
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  greets and house parties. And every weekend you
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  could get out and go be around people. And that's
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  what we started doing. And, you know, we never
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  even gave it the single guy thing a thought,
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  you know, because you're just learning. You just
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  learn. And, again, it's evolution. Now it's just
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  like mostly we're just kind of, both of us are
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  kind of open. We come to these, we're working
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  the parties, and he's like, hey, I got a date,
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  and he tells me who, and I'm like, have fun.
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  He comes back. I said, you have fun? Yep. You
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  make sure she had fun? He says, yep. That's the
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  end of conversation. And we're like, all right,
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  cool. High five. Yep. That's the extent, but
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  that's where we started. So we've got just over
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  20 years in the lifestyle now. That's awesome.
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  Wonderful. And I work this, and by the way, this
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  is my full -time job. This isn't like something
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  I do on the evening after my day job. This is
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  my day job. I work for Mocha full -time. Nice.
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  Best job ever. And yes, I do have the world's
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  largest little black book. Yes, you do. How many
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  J's do you have in there? You'd be surprised.
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  I don't even exercise that little black book,
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  but I could. I stay so busy. So how did you transition
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  from it being a thing that you guys did to, like,
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  a job? Like, tell us about meeting the other
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  owners. So Wayne and Missy are the owners of
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  Splash Mocha. And they always have been since
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  day one. So we met them at a house party. Oh,
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  God. I guess it's been 13 or 14 years ago. And
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  we just kind of. you know, hit it off, which
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  you do when you're on your knees in front of
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  some guy you just met. He's like, you can be
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  my friend now. So, you know, we kind of hit it
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  off there. And then we just started hanging out.
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  And here and there, it wasn't a whole lot. And
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  next thing I know, there was a club in Coco because
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  I'm originally from, my husband and I are originally
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  from Florida. They were living in Florida. And
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  they invited it to this new lifestyle club. And
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  we went to. We went to the club, and we started
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  hanging out a lot. And they had been trying to
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  get us to go to an event they helped with called
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  Splash Takeovers, which that was well before
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  mocha was ever a little star thought in their
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  brains. A little twinkle in the brain thought.
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  Yeah, a little twinkle. So they've been trying
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  to get us to go to Splash Takeovers. We were
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  always busy. I was scared to death to go to something
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  that huge. And next thing we know, it was on
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  a Tuesday, Wednesday evening after work. Wayne
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  calls and says, hey, we just bought Splash Takeovers.
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  And coincidentally, it was at this very hotel
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  and we just bought it from Dixie. And we would
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  we would we got a couple of rooms available.
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  We'd love for you to come and be our guest. No
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  charge. So Jeb and I said, well, we can't this.
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  We can't just. come for all three days, we can't
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  get off work that quick. We'll be down there
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  as soon as we get off work on Friday. So we drove
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  down here. Jeb and I pretty much hid in our room
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  for the most part. And we'd come down and kind
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  of mix and mingle a little bit. But just like
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  anybody else knew, we were a deer caught in headlights,
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  right? So, you know, we're trying to hang out
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  with Wayne and Missy, but we know that they're
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  busy. So Sunday, We get up, we check out, we
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  put our luggage in the car, and we come back
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  here to look for Wayne and Missy to say goodbye
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  and thank them for giving us a room and, you
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  know, tell them we enjoyed ourselves. And I guess
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  it was about 9 o 'clock in the morning, and they're
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  tearing down. So we, my husband and I, we don't
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  just wait for, be asked, like so many people
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  do, hey, do you mind helping us out? That's not
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  what we do. We just start digging in. Just jump
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  in. We just jump in, start picking shit up, start.
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  helping them load it up and we unfortunately
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  we can only help until noon because my husband's
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  mom had a big family dinner planned at four o
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  'clock that day so we had to haul ass at noon
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  to get back to Brevard County which was a three
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  and a half hour drive so we can get ready for
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  dinner with the family. So we helped at noon,
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  and next thing I know, afterwards, Wayne and
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  Missy, the next time we hang out with them, they
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  said, hey, we'd really like it if you'd come
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  help us at Splash Takeovers the next year, help
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  at registration and stuff. And I'm like, sure,
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  okay. So at that time, they stored all their
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  gear in a storage unit. And he would rent moving
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  trucks, two moving trucks. We unloaded it out
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  of the storage unit, loaded it into a moving
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  truck, drove it. drove them three and a half
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  hours to Fort Lauderdale unload it out of the
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  moving truck set it up and then at the end of
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  the party load it all back up on the moving trucks
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  drive it back to Brevard County unload it into
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  the storage unit because we had to have the trucks
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  back that night Lots of thoughts, lots of work.
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  Sounds like it. Yeah. So then the next year I
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  was helping him. I'm tired just listening. And
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  we, yeah, me too. And we helped him again. And
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  then all of a sudden their daughter was graduated
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  high school. She was starting her first year
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  in college. And they wanted to help her move
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  in. And they had that whole transition. So they
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  chose a hotel in Melbourne. And that's where
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  Splash Mocha was born. They did Splash Mocha
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  that August in an 80 -room hotel. I think it
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  was 80. Might be a little more. Could be a little
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  less. In Melbourne, Florida. And the next month
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  they had it at the same hotel because they needed
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  something a little bit smaller. They needed to
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  be there for her first day, which they left to
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  go to Deland to get her moved into the dorm in
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  the middle of the party. So I'm not I'm not officially
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  working for him. I'm just some dumb friend who's
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  agreed to help them with this event. Because
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  my husband and I used to he used to be a fire
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  chief in our community, volunteer fire chief.
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  And we put on one of Brevard County's largest
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  Christmas parades and barbecues. So we know what
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  it's like to do hard work. And they left kind
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  of left us kind of in kind of sort of unofficially
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  kind of. In charge, but not really. Just keep
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  an eye on things. Call if you need anything.
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  The next year, we had it there. And the year
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  after that, we were back down here. And the first
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  year, they were a little sketchy on it. And Wayne
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  told Missy, let's try it again. Let's try Splash
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  Mocha again. And from that, the next year, it
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  kind of took off. The popularity was amazing.
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  And we moved it to this facility here. And they
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  sold it out that first year. It was definitely
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  quite interesting. And you could definitely tell
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  from the very beginning that it was going to
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  be something special. Yeah. And what was the
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  conversation like, though? Like, how did you
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  guys come up with like this? Hey, there is this
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  need for an event that caters to single men.
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  Right. particularly Black men and people who
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  want to interact with them? What was that conversation
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  like? You didn't just wake up and be like, oh,
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  I should just have an event for single Black
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  men. I think that would be good. What was that
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  conversation like? At Splash Takeovers, they
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  had what they called the chocolate room. So they
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  had a playroom that was the chocolate room. And
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  there's several gentlemen here that were participating
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  in the chocolate room at Splash Takeovers. And
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  the popularity of that room was unparalleled
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  to the rest. And, you know, they took it from
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  there. They saw a need and they were still going
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  to other lifestyle events. And they were noticing
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  that that the guys were kind of getting the shaft
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  per se. No pun intended on that one. Please transfer
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  that to me. No pun intended, but they weren't
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  getting a fair shake in the lifestyle. And even
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  now, they still pay the maximum amount, while
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  single girls, no dinging the single girls, but
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  they get in for free or next to nothing, and
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  then they're charging the couples a very minimal
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  amount. And the single guys are $100, $150, $200.
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  I hate that. There's no party without a dick.
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  Exactly. I'm like, let the single guys in for
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  free. Fire ruled the world. So that's where the
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  concept came from, is they saw how popular that
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  room was, and so they started doing a little
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  research, and then they had Splash Takeovers,
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  and then the name Splash Mocha came up because
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  it was going to be catered to couples, and specifically
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  single black men, but we don't discriminate.
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  It's open to all men as long as they go through
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  the vetting process and they're a good fit. They
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  may have to work a little harder than you or
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  Socrates or you or you. And that's what I tell
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  them when they call. I'm like, hey, we don't
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  discriminate. You're more than welcome, but you're
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  not going to be top of the menu. And those are
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  the words I use. You may have to work a little
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  bit harder, but don't be offended. You can't
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  be offended if a woman says, hey, you're just
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  not my type. Because some of them are specific
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  to single black men. You just say, thank you
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  very much. I enjoyed talking to you. Move on
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  to the next couple because that woman might say
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  yes. So that's how we handle it. And we got a
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  couple of several guys that come. They can't
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  come to every party, but they have a great time.
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  And they get laid just as much as the next guy.
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  So, you know, it is open. But they all still
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  have to go through all the same vetting process,
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  everybody else. If they don't make that cut,
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  we don't have a problem saying, I am so sorry,
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  but you're not going to be a good fit for the
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  event. One of the things that I love, like I
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  said, when I first came here, I had some really
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  bad experiences in the lifestyle when it comes
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  to going to events where they cater to single
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  black men. And I'll just say this, coming from
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  California and the community I am, this is not
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  about all black men, what I'm about to say. This
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  is not most black men. And this is not the lifestyle
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  in general. This is my experience in Los Angeles.
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  I come from gang culture. That's another thing
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  I'm going to add. So when I say this, I'm going
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  to make that clear. But I kind of ran into that
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  it ain't no fun unless the homies can have some
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  type of shit. You know, like that I'm going to
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  run a train on a bitch type of thing. And I was
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  really concerned about that because I wasn't
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  having that with my wife. You ain't treating
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  my wife that way. But what I was really impressed
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  with, what I think is incredible, is the bedding.
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  The gentlemen here are professionals. You get
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  people that are highest security clearance people
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  in any kind of industry, military, businessmen,
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  every type of gentleman, but they're respectful.
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  They know how to approach your wife. Us being
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  stag, vixen couple, I'm concerned about how you
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  approach me. How do you approach us as a couple?
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  How do you approach my wife? My question to you,
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  Tina, is how did you guys get the vetting down
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  so well? I know, you know, people slip through
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  the cracks, right? But how did you guys get the
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  vetting down so well? So, you know, they have
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  to call me first. They have to talk to me. And
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  I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I'm a pretty
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  good judge of character. I can read people pretty
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  damn quick, even over the phone. And, yeah, I
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  mean, I'm not perfect. And, yes, some guys know
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  how to walk the walk and talk the talk and say
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  the right words to get through. And then eventually
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  they will catch themselves because they won't
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  act right and will weed themselves out. So, you
• 21:14
  know, the old saying, trash just took itself
• 21:16
  out. But they do have to talk to me. They have
• 21:20
  to get through me first. And then I will send
• 21:23
  a text to Dimitri. That gentleman is in that
• 21:25
  text, and it's an introduction, and then they
• 21:28
  get to talk to Dimitri. Now, I'm pretty tough,
• 21:31
  but Dimitri is even tougher. So out of every
• 21:34
  10 guys that call, two make it through. So, you
• 21:39
  know, he is all about you've got to respect yourself
• 21:42
  first. And if you start calling him, you talk
• 21:47
  to me as a professional, and you're on the up
• 21:50
  and up, and you get Dimitri on the phone, and
• 21:51
  you start talking like... you know, your brother's
• 21:54
  in the hood, he shuts them down. He's like, you
• 21:57
  know, you don't know me. You don't talk to me
• 21:59
  like that. You're not respecting yourself. You're
• 22:01
  not respecting me. And you're not going to go
• 22:03
  to Splash Mocha talking to the other guys like
• 22:05
  that because that's not what we're about. So
• 22:10
  he's pretty tough. He's a pretty tough nut to
• 22:12
  get through. And between the two of us, I think
• 22:15
  we do a pretty good job. I might send a guy to
• 22:18
  him in a text, but on the outside, I'm sending
• 22:20
  him another text going, hey, I'm not too sure
• 22:23
  about this guy. It was like pulling a saber -toothed
• 22:27
  tiger's... Tooth out to get him to answer my
• 22:31
  questions and get him to talk and I tell him
• 22:34
  I don't know if he was just shy because he's
• 22:36
  talking to a female and He's a little uncomfortable
• 22:39
  or he might be just a little too young And just
• 22:43
  doesn't know how to communicate and so Dimitri
• 22:46
  will feel him out and sometimes They're they
• 22:49
  were just nervous to talk to me And he's like,
• 22:52
  nope, they're a good guy. And then there's other
• 22:54
  times he's like, yeah, he has the social skills
• 22:57
  of a gnat. Or when we talk to him about it on
• 23:01
  his podcast with us. He was like, yeah, and if
• 23:04
  they send me a dick pic, I'm like, meh. Here,
• 23:08
  I got a big dick. Let me in. Yeah, I get those
• 23:12
  pictures, too. I have had, over the years, I'll
• 23:16
  just open an email, and it's a dick pic, and
• 23:18
  it's like, would I make the cut to come to Splash
• 23:21
  Mocha? And they don't include the name. They
• 23:25
  don't include a phone number, and it's just the
• 23:27
  dick pic, and that's all it is. I say hello.
• 23:30
  If you can't ask me general questions, I do not
• 23:36
  appreciate random unsolicited dick pics to come
• 23:40
  through my email. I'm a professional person.
• 23:42
  I am so sorry. I do not feel like you're a good
• 23:45
  fit for the event. If this is how you're going
• 23:47
  to present yourself right out of the gate, I
• 23:49
  wish you lots of luck in your lifestyle endeavors.
• 23:52
  Sincerely, Tina. And then they'll try to, oh,
• 23:55
  I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I don't answer the questions
• 23:57
  after that. I don't answer any more emails after
• 24:00
  that. You will go on the wall of shame at Splash
• 24:03
  Mocha corporate with your dick pic up on the
• 24:05
  wall and we throw darts at it. I try to deflate
• 24:11
  that thing like a voodoo doll. May you have ED
• 24:17
  for the rest of your life. Because you don't
• 24:20
  know how to handle yourself anyway. But I've
• 24:23
  had single females do the same thing. Send me
• 24:25
  a naked photo of themselves. I can see their
• 24:27
  tonsils from between their legs. I'm like, they
• 24:30
  get the same goddamn email. I don't want to see
• 24:32
  that at 8 .16 in the morning. Y 'all should see
• 24:38
  her, babe. There's not enough coffee or even
• 24:41
  Irish coffee for that. Oh, my goodness. Maybe
• 24:49
  there's some sort of drug that will erase my
• 24:51
  memory. I'm not to remember what I saw. But sometimes
• 24:55
  there's still wax on it from when they went to
• 24:57
  the wax. I had Drusillian wax from the day before.
• 25:00
  I'm not lying. That's a true story. Are you serious?
• 25:03
  I am dead serious. Oh, my goodness. Oh, my goodness.
• 25:07
  Another thing they do that really impressed me,
• 25:10
  and I'll never forget. Tina, so it's not just
• 25:15
  a place where you come and fuck everywhere. There
• 25:18
  are a lot of classes here. There are a lot of
• 25:21
  things that you can come to to ask questions,
• 25:26
  for them to educate you on how it works. And
• 25:30
  one of the things that is required, it's mandatory,
• 25:32
  is that all single men go to a meeting. And at
• 25:37
  that meeting, they'll go over. some of the fundamentals,
• 25:41
  and then they let the vets get up and put you
• 25:44
  on game. And I love that. So talk to us about
• 25:48
  that. What sparked that? Is that something you
• 25:50
  first thought of in the beginning? And you said,
• 25:53
  we got to let these men know how to conduct themselves
• 25:57
  and how to approach and how to, you know, from
• 26:02
  the registration to leaving here. Is that something
• 26:05
  that came up in the beginning? Yes, it's been
• 26:08
  a part of Splash Mocha since day one. What it
• 26:11
  does, it helps the guys be accountable to each
• 26:15
  other. It creates a culture and brotherhood amongst
• 26:18
  the men. They're our first line of defense. We
• 26:23
  can't get the couple's undivided attention, but
• 26:25
  we have the guys' undivided attention. And it's
• 26:28
  a way for us to separate Splash Mocha from the
• 26:32
  rest of the parties. And it works. And a lot
• 26:36
  of the guys don't like coming because they've
• 26:38
  been coming since. They've come to 15 parties,
• 26:41
  and it's the same, same, same. But we still make
• 26:45
  it a requirement. I don't care if you've been
• 26:47
  to all of them. You still need to go. It might
• 26:49
  be the same information, but we also throw in
• 26:52
  more information that you've not heard of. And
• 26:55
  we try to make them aware of things that are
• 26:58
  going on because we do protect the single guys
• 27:01
  at our event. After all, it's the couples are
• 27:04
  coming for the single men. And it's an hour of
• 27:07
  their time. Not even that. This time we wrapped
• 27:10
  the meeting up in 35 minutes. So we get out as
• 27:14
  much information as we can. And they even get
• 27:18
  a chance. We open the floor up for their peers.
• 27:22
  to talk to each other and to throw out their
• 27:24
  ideas and to talk. And so they're just not hearing
• 27:28
  it from us. Don't do this. Clean up the playrooms.
• 27:31
  Don't throw your condoms on the floor. Put them
• 27:32
  in the trash can, blah, blah, blah. Clean up
• 27:34
  after you get done having sex. They're hearing
• 27:37
  from their peers, from the guys that are witnessing
• 27:41
  what's going on in another guest room, in the
• 27:44
  playrooms. So you've really got that. So we do
• 27:47
  turn the floor over so they can. Go, okay, guys,
• 27:51
  you guys got to start doing this. And they kind
• 27:53
  of take heed a little bit better from the guys
• 27:56
  randomly talking about this is what I've seen
• 28:00
  and everything. It does create a great camaraderie
• 28:03
  amongst the guys, and they hold each other accountable.
• 28:08
  And what we say in the meeting, they'll be in
• 28:10
  the playroom. And one guy will tap his friend
• 28:14
  on the shoulder and say, here, you forgot to
• 28:16
  put down a clean sheet you just got done playing
• 28:18
  on. Right. Or, hey, you just dropped your used
• 28:21
  condom on the floor. You may want to pick it
• 28:23
  up. So that's what it's for. And then the guys
• 28:25
  will, as they play with couples in the playrooms
• 28:27
  and they get up from playing, the guys will politely
• 28:32
  ask the couples, hey, would you mind helping
• 28:35
  me throw this clean sheet on the... Exactly.
• 28:38
  On the bed. So now it's trickling down into the
• 28:41
  couples to help keep after. Put a clean sheet
• 28:45
  on the bed after you're done playing so then
• 28:47
  the next person can come up because you just
• 28:49
  laid down on a clean sheet. Now some of the playrooms
• 28:51
  that by the end of the night get so busy that
• 28:53
  they're not even worried about playing on sheets.
• 28:56
  They're just playing on the mattress. It's like,
• 28:59
  hey, I've got to handle that. It matters a lot
• 29:02
  of money or that's not going to be fun. But,
• 29:07
  yeah, they they it's it's a it's a positive thing.
• 29:11
  And we try to keep it upbeat and positive. And
• 29:13
  and I think we will continue doing the meeting
• 29:18
  because it's a way for us to get really good
• 29:19
  information out there. And look, gentlemen, Tina
• 29:23
  will lay down the fucking law. So don't get it
• 29:26
  twisted. It's very positive. But she will straighten
• 29:29
  anything out. Dimitri gets up there and we have
• 29:32
  some other gentlemen that we know, Mr. Mocha.
• 29:35
  He'll get up there and straighten you out. And
• 29:37
  if you've seen these guys, you would definitely
• 29:39
  not want to challenge them about any of it. The
• 29:42
  Lion is another one that will do it, too. Yep.
• 29:45
  One of the times, I think it was probably our
• 29:47
  fifth or sixth time we came, Tina came to me
• 29:50
  and said, Socrates. You're married. Why you keep
• 29:54
  coming? You don't have to come. And I'm like,
• 29:58
  you don't understand. They put me up on so much
• 30:00
  game. I learned so much every single time. One
• 30:04
  of my favorite things that they came up with,
• 30:06
  I think it was here the first time I heard it,
• 30:08
  was Shot Clock. And for those that don't know,
• 30:13
  you know, when you're in a group setting. Or,
• 30:17
  you know, whether you're playing or just out
• 30:19
  in, you know, the bar area or talking to someone.
• 30:23
  Sometimes, you know, let's say you're just meeting
• 30:26
  someone and you're a male and you're going up
• 30:29
  to a couple and you're talking. You're not reading
• 30:32
  the body language. You're not reading the room.
• 30:35
  You're not looking at how they're interacting.
• 30:38
  You're just talking and talking and talking.
• 30:40
  and there's another guy there he's looking he's
• 30:42
  been checking that woman out for a long time
• 30:45
  and he wants to go and so a lot of the gentlemen
• 30:49
  were complaining hey man you guys are up there
• 30:50
  talking to this girl for an hour and she was
• 30:53
  you know you know her her body was facing the
• 30:55
  other way earning away from you and she just
• 30:58
  You know, every time another guy comes along,
• 31:01
  she's like, hey, how you doing? What's up? You
• 31:03
  know, you know, and so trying to get this gay
• 31:06
  pie. Right, right. Come get me, you know. And
• 31:09
  so we came up with Shot Clock, which means if
• 31:13
  you see another brother out there talking to
• 31:15
  a couple and it's been a while, the guy might
• 31:20
  come and say, hey, man, whispering, hey, Shot
• 31:21
  Clock, brother. That lets you know, hey, man,
• 31:24
  you know, you got to get, you know. Wrap it up.
• 31:26
  Wrap it up. Start your closing argument on why
• 31:29
  you should be selected, right? And I just love
• 31:34
  that because, you know, I've got advice from,
• 31:37
  hey, man, you know, you had a really passionate
• 31:39
  session and you're ready to go back down and
• 31:41
  put some lemon juice on it, you know, so you
• 31:43
  can really get it. I've heard, you know, just
• 31:45
  great advice. And I love that because. Self -policing
• 31:50
  is the best. When you have your peers, like Tina
• 31:53
  said, telling you. When you have so many brothers
• 31:55
  here. good -looking brother, 6 '2", 6 '5", 6
• 31:59
  '8", 250 pounds. He knows how. He's smooth. And
• 32:04
  that guy's saying, hey, some of these are the
• 32:06
  things that we do to make the experience better
• 32:09
  for everyone. And you have all these other brothers
• 32:12
  saying, hey, man, you keep doing this stuff and
• 32:14
  messing up my opportunity here at Splash, some
• 32:16
  of the best places I've ever been, I'm going
• 32:19
  to talk to you. And that kind of self -policing
• 32:22
  really makes it to where I feel... better here
• 32:26
  than any other place to let my wife do her thing.
• 32:31
  Before we get on to some of the other questions,
• 32:34
  we have audience members here. Does anybody want
• 32:36
  to come up and ask questions about Splash or
• 32:39
  anything in particular? No? I need you to go
• 32:43
  to the single men meeting and smile at them and
• 32:45
  let them know that it's okay. Because still seven
• 32:49
  splashes in, I'm like, okay, maybe smile at them
• 32:52
  a little bit so they're not like, oh, can't go
• 32:54
  up to her. I have a very special memory, though,
• 32:58
  from the men's meeting. Was that our first one?
• 33:03
  I don't know if that was a men's meeting or a
• 33:07
  different seminar. Oh. You're talking about how
• 33:10
  you got your name? Yeah. Yeah. I don't know if
• 33:14
  that was a men's meeting. I think that was a
• 33:15
  seminar. Oh, because there was couples in there.
• 33:17
  Yeah. Yeah, but Pup Pulse can still come to the
• 33:19
  men's meeting. It's just me. Okay, what was his
• 33:23
  seminar on then? He was, like, going to all the
• 33:25
  classes. Yeah, I was. Okay, well, I feel less
• 33:28
  guilty than if it was in the men's meeting because
• 33:30
  I had a single man occupied two ballrooms away
• 33:35
  for that meeting, and apparently I was being
• 33:40
  very loud. and Michael C. was running that meeting,
• 33:43
  and he was like— Oh, he was doing his—he was
• 33:46
  probably doing his seminar while he was in it
• 33:49
  because Michael C. doesn't run the meetings.
• 33:51
  Dimitri and I do. Yeah. So he—I mean, unless
• 33:53
  he was in there making comments, so he had to
• 33:56
  be doing his seminar. Well, if there was couples
• 33:58
  in there. Yeah. But that's what I'm saying. I
• 34:00
  don't feel so bad now because all these years
• 34:01
  I'm like, oh, I took this single guy away from
• 34:04
  the important meeting. And so I was being really
• 34:08
  loud, I guess. And then Michael C. was like—
• 34:10
  What did he say, babe? He said... Well, so we
• 34:13
  were... Yeah, we were in one of the rooms at
• 34:19
  that time where, you know, Michael C. was giving
• 34:22
  his seminar. And right next door, there's...
• 34:27
  No, it was two ballrooms away. No. It was two
• 34:29
  ball... I was two ballrooms away. Oh, yeah, you
• 34:31
  were, you were. It was a waste. So we were, you
• 34:33
  know, I was in there listening, and you kept
• 34:36
  hearing these screams and moans. and yelling
• 34:40
  and all of that kind of stuff. And after a while,
• 34:45
  he stopped the meeting. Yeah, he was like, what
• 34:49
  is that going on? He's like, this is what Slash
• 34:53
  Oka is all about. It was in Atlanta. Was it?
• 34:56
  No, no, it was Houston. It was our second Houston.
• 34:59
  Yeah. Okay. It was our second Houston. And then
• 35:03
  he's like, this is what Splash Mocha is all about.
• 35:06
  And then he's like, oh, sorry, everybody. I think
• 35:09
  that belongs to me. Yeah. Yeah. I said, my bad.
• 35:14
  That's my bad. And then they tried to start again.
• 35:16
  And there was and it was just so noisy, I guess.
• 35:19
  And then Michael was like, sounds like a siren
• 35:21
  or something. So then that's how I got my name.
• 35:24
  And so that guy, he didn't know until like two
• 35:27
  years later. That that's how I got my name. And
• 35:30
  so now he's like, you know, Siren, that was me.
• 35:34
  Because, I mean, we can hear it over the, you
• 35:37
  know, because there's walls that separate each
• 35:39
  ballroom. And we can hear it over so much that
• 35:43
  he had to keep, you know, sorry about that, guys.
• 35:45
  You know, he was like, she's enjoying herself.
• 35:48
  So, yeah, it was nice. It was nice. No turning
• 35:51
  back. Tina, talk to me about some of the really
• 35:57
  fun times. You have a story of one of the funniest
• 36:02
  or fun things that you've seen since you started
• 36:05
  Splash, something that maybe the people hearing
• 36:08
  it won't be too embarrassed about. How do you
• 36:11
  put me on the spot? I can't think of anything
• 36:13
  off the top of my head right now because every
• 36:17
  event is different. Man, honestly, I can't come
• 36:22
  up with anything, but there's just so many. I
• 36:25
  don't know if I could pick out just one other
• 36:28
  than any funny things, other than I can't think
• 36:32
  of anything. Of course, I'll think of five of
• 36:35
  them. We'll do a post one. You can call us, and
• 36:41
  then we'll put it back in. You wake up in the
• 36:44
  middle of the night. Yeah, no, when I get a chance
• 36:48
  to go to bed. I'm out. There's no, hey, Jeb,
• 36:52
  come over here and service me. No. It's like,
• 36:54
  don't even breathe in my direction. I'm going
• 36:58
  to bed. I got a long day tomorrow. How has Splash
• 37:03
  Mocha evolved, if it has? Like, you know, if
• 37:07
  you listen to the podcast, Brian Morgan loves
• 37:09
  the word evolution. He loves talking about how
• 37:12
  things evolve. So you guys had this vision, or
• 37:17
  Wayne and Missy had this vision of Splash Mocha,
• 37:20
  and they saw it grow and they saw it could be
• 37:23
  what it could be. How has it evolved since? Because
• 37:26
  this is what, your 10 -year anniversary, right?
• 37:28
  10 -year anniversary. 10 -year anniversary. So
• 37:30
  congratulations for putting something together
• 37:34
  for that long. For both of us, we both have experience
• 37:38
  in events, not in the lifestyle, but outside
• 37:41
  of it. And we know how hard it is to run a well
• 37:45
  -run event the way this is. I mean, when you
• 37:48
  guys come here, you see it's completely done
• 37:54
  up. So before you even get into the hotel, there's
• 37:57
  security staff out there checking to see if you're
• 38:01
  even on the list. What I love about the lifestyle
• 38:03
  is I like to get freaky as fuck, but if you're
• 38:05
  vanilla, I don't like people seeing that. Because
• 38:09
  even when I'm on the streets, I don't want to
• 38:12
  see any of that. So when you pull in, they're
• 38:14
  going to double check, number one, that you're
• 38:16
  supposed to be here. And number two, you ain't
• 38:17
  bringing your kids, you know. Some Wednesday
• 38:23
  nights in Houston have been a little awkward
• 38:25
  in the lobby. And then, you know, when you come
• 38:29
  in, it is well decorated. The registration is
• 38:34
  right there. Things are covered. So even if you
• 38:36
  get past security, you're not seeing anything.
• 38:39
  But how has it evolved to the sense that, you
• 38:42
  know, you started off with certain things that
• 38:44
  every lifestyle hotel takeover has set up and
• 38:48
  they need to do, and then as it is now, what
• 38:51
  are the things that's changed or gotten better
• 38:53
  or moved that you feel like is giving people
• 38:56
  better experience? Well, for one, the dance floor.
• 39:00
  We used to use, the hotel used to set up the
• 39:02
  dance floor now. Wayne and Missy have purchased
• 39:05
  a... beautiful led lighted dance floor for everybody's
• 39:09
  experience um we've got the led lighted stripper
• 39:12
  poles they were once a metal frame with plywood
• 39:15
  on it and um a conduit electrical conduit painted
• 39:20
  black and um which was which was fine next to
• 39:23
  the parquet floor that the hotel put down well
• 39:26
  then he bought the beautiful led lighted dance
• 39:29
  floor and it's like hmm now it just looks like
• 39:33
  Trailer trash. So then because of me, he upgraded
• 39:37
  the stripper poles. When they started, it was
• 39:40
  basically a speaker on a stick for the DJ. And
• 39:44
  DJ Rockin' Ronnie is our production manager.
• 39:50
  He's been in the lifestyle for years, and he
• 39:52
  pretty much does nothing but lifestyle events
• 39:55
  as a DJ. And he would bring all the equipment.
• 39:58
  And all the DJ equipment. And then Wayne and
• 40:03
  Missy started purchasing the equipment as Splash
• 40:06
  Mocha grew. They're very good at reinvesting
• 40:09
  back into the company. The tablecloths here in
• 40:14
  the ballroom that we're sitting in all say Splash
• 40:17
  Mocha. All the way down to the trash cans. We
• 40:21
  bring in our own trash cans. And they have Splash
• 40:24
  Mocha trash can liners that go on them. So everything's
• 40:26
  branded and labeled. All the pipe and drape,
• 40:30
  you know, we bring in all the mattresses. Nice.
• 40:33
  You know, and those mattresses have even evolved.
• 40:36
  In the beginning, he had went out and bought
• 40:39
  mattresses from a hotel that was closing. And
• 40:42
  he brought those. And that's what we would lug
• 40:45
  around. Let me tell you what. Have you ever tried
• 40:47
  to pick up a king -size mattress on your bed?
• 40:50
  That's like, first of all, they're fucking heavy.
• 40:53
  Excuse me for my language. Secondly, they're
• 40:56
  like a damn wet noodle. They just got a mind
• 40:59
  of their own. So those were a bitch to move and
• 41:03
  pack and stack and all the grossness on them
• 41:06
  after trying to load them in the trailer. Crusties.
• 41:11
  Yeah, and I'm trying to, I've got to hold them
• 41:13
  back so they can get the next one in. I'm the
• 41:15
  one that's kind of stuck to them. There were
• 41:18
  times I thought they were just going to close
• 41:20
  the trailer on me and keep me between the matches.
• 41:23
  You know, kind of like Princess and the Pea.
• 41:26
  And now the mattresses that they have, they're
• 41:29
  box spring mattress all in one. They bought the
• 41:33
  bed frames that go with them. They fold up like
• 41:36
  a transformer. So we bring in all the mattresses,
• 41:39
  all the pipe and drape. Everything, when you
• 41:42
  come to Splash Mocha, everything you see belongs
• 41:45
  to Splash Mocha. The only thing the hotel provides,
• 41:49
  they do normal hotel stuff, is they set the table
• 41:52
  and chairs in the ballroom. We do everything
• 41:55
  else. We set the playrooms. We set the pipe and
• 41:58
  drape. We put all the decorations on. We do all
• 42:01
  the DJ equipment. Everything you see is Splash
• 42:05
  Mocha. And I'm part of the setup crew. I'm also
• 42:07
  part of the teardown crew. I just don't take
• 42:09
  everybody's reservations, answer text messages,
• 42:11
  phone calls, emails, and just general questions.
• 42:14
  I'm in those trailers sweating with the men and
• 42:18
  doing setup. They went from moving trucks. Like
• 42:23
  we said at the top of this podcast, he now has
• 42:27
  upgraded it to two 51 -foot enclosed trailers
• 42:31
  that are custom built. Nice. And two freight
• 42:34
  liners that pull them all. And we get a lot of
• 42:37
  people that say, when are you coming to California?
• 42:40
  Because of that, and it's Wayne, the owner, he
• 42:43
  drives one of the trucks and trailers. His son
• 42:45
  drives the other one. And I'm usually as a passenger
• 42:49
  in one of those trucks. whether we're coming
• 42:52
  down here, whether we're going to Houston. Houston's
• 42:54
  a two -day travel event for us just to get there
• 42:56
  and a two -day travel event just to get back.
• 42:59
  So all of that has evolved. So now there's no
• 43:01
  more unloading everything into a storage unit.
• 43:04
  Everything lives in the trailers. So all that's
• 43:08
  evolved. We have all of our rules on, we call
• 43:12
  them A -frames. They're kind of like a sandwich
• 43:15
  board, but soft -sided. And so this way nobody
• 43:18
  can say, well, I didn't know the rules. Well,
• 43:21
  there's an A -frame with all the rules probably
• 43:23
  every 12 feet, especially in a lobby. So when
• 43:26
  somebody is taking a photo in the hotel and it's
• 43:30
  not in a designated photo backdrop, they're like,
• 43:32
  oh, I'm sorry, I didn't know the rules. I point
• 43:36
  probably to six wards that have the rules on
• 43:41
  them. It's the fourth one down from the top.
• 43:44
  There's your rules. Is that in the vetting, though?
• 43:47
  A reading test? I have come to the conclusion,
• 43:51
  because I have not been officially working for
• 43:53
  Splash Mocha for the 10 years. Two years of that,
• 43:56
  I was just helping my friends. For eight and
• 43:59
  a half years, I have been officially working
• 44:01
  full -time for Splash Mocha. And I have come
• 44:04
  to the conclusion, swingers can't read. That's
• 44:09
  what we're going to name this podcast, Swingers
• 44:11
  Can't Read. Maybe we're just too drunk by this
• 44:13
  time. That or the horniness is like those rose
• 44:20
  -colored glasses, you know? It's like beer goggles.
• 44:23
  The horniness is beer goggles. If it's not a
• 44:25
  dick, I can't see it. Exactly. I think that's
• 44:29
  the problem. They've got their horny goggles
• 44:33
  on. What's the total manpower it takes? Total
• 44:37
  manpower. Okay. The question is the total manpower.
• 44:40
  How much total manpower does it take for Splash
• 44:42
  Boca? Right. So we have, there could be last
• 44:46
  month in July, we only had nine people to do
• 44:52
  all the setup. This time we're probably at about
• 44:56
  12 people. I mean, that's not that many people
• 45:00
  to do that. You know, the ones that lead it up
• 45:03
  is Wayne, me, and Jeb. And we... Get it done.
• 45:08
  Get it unloaded, and everybody pitches in and
• 45:12
  does what they're supposed to do. But, yeah,
• 45:13
  that's all we have. We don't have roadies. We
• 45:17
  have single guys who have volunteered to help
• 45:20
  doing set -up and tear -down. Set -up and tear
• 45:23
  -down is not easy. It sucks. It hurts, especially
• 45:26
  on Sunday for tear -down when a lot of them have
• 45:28
  been up all night long. My husband's one of them.
• 45:30
  He'll go to bed tonight around 630, 7 o 'clock,
• 45:33
  and he's back up at 130. Because the ballroom's
• 45:37
  got to be torn down at 2. The ballroom, the dance
• 45:40
  closes at 2. Playrooms close at 3 a .m. So he'll
• 45:43
  stay up all night. And he'll get this all torn
• 45:47
  down. The LED screens will get torn down. The
• 45:49
  dance floor gets all torn down. Everything has
• 45:51
  to come down. And then they start opening all
• 45:53
  the air walls and tearing the rest of it down.
• 45:56
  So, and then I come down in the morning. And
• 45:58
  I get down here about 6 .30, quarter of 7. And
• 46:01
  we start. And we're usually torn down by noon.
• 46:04
  Noon, 1 o 'clock. And closing the trailers. And
• 46:08
  we do it with very little. Question was, how
• 46:14
  many would you prefer? Well, we don't want too
• 46:17
  many because then you got a lot of people standing
• 46:19
  around and they're half -assed doing their job.
• 46:24
  You don't want too little either. So, you know,
• 46:27
  I would say 10 to 12 is probably about the maximum
• 46:30
  because. You also don't want things just thrown
• 46:35
  and tossed around. Everything's got to be handled
• 46:37
  a certain way. That's how we keep everything
• 46:39
  nice, and we try to stress that. So you get too
• 46:43
  many people. It's like a baker. Too many fingers
• 46:46
  in the pie, you're going to screw it up. So I
• 46:49
  would say 10 to 12 is probably our optimal number
• 46:52
  of folks, and we've got quite a few of the guys
• 46:55
  on the team that know what to do. They've done
• 46:57
  it enough, and we could start setting up rooms.
• 47:02
  We could get a couple rooms going at the same
• 47:04
  time with a piping drape and getting those frames
• 47:06
  up. But, yeah, it's definitely a well -oiled
• 47:12
  machine, and there's always room for improvement.
• 47:16
  So, but, yeah. He said lube makes everything
• 47:21
  better. That's what I was going to say. I was
• 47:23
  like, don't you mean lubed machine? So what's
• 47:28
  the future of Splash? What are you guys looking
• 47:31
  forward to? Is there any plans you have in the
• 47:34
  future, or is it just to keep it going and keep
• 47:36
  it running tight? Well, as you guys, as everybody
• 47:40
  in this room knows, one, we run a tight ship.
• 47:46
  We not only, as Splash Mocha staff, do we tow
• 47:49
  the line, but we ask our guests to tow the line.
• 47:52
  We keep it professional and classy, and we strive
• 47:55
  for excellence at each and every party, okay?
• 48:00
  Now I forgot your question. No, I love all that.
• 48:03
  No, that's the character of Splash. What's the
• 48:06
  future like? What are you guys looking forward
• 48:08
  to? So now I remember where I was going with
• 48:11
  that. So we do all that, and the future is, you
• 48:15
  know, we want to keep it going because when you
• 48:19
  sit down and think of it, Splash Mocha is really
• 48:21
  larger than all of us. So, yes, we want to keep
• 48:24
  it going. And I know Wayne and Missy, they're
• 48:26
  wanting to grow it just a little bit more. And
• 48:29
  that's just a matter of timing. The right city,
• 48:32
  the right state, the right hotel, the right everything.
• 48:36
  It's just got to be right. So they're looking
• 48:38
  to grow it eventually into maybe another city
• 48:41
  or two. Not out west because logistically that
• 48:45
  would be a nightmare. We would be gone if we
• 48:47
  went to Las Vegas or even out to California.
• 48:50
  Just the fact that we would be gone 30 days.
• 48:55
  from our homes and families for that event. As
• 48:58
  it is, we get to the event a week early. And
• 49:02
  if we're going out to Houston, that's a two -day
• 49:05
  travel. And the reason we get out a week early
• 49:08
  is in case we have any mechanical failures. One
• 49:11
  year, we were driving out to Houston. We were
• 49:13
  five and a half hours from the house. And in
• 49:16
  one, not the freight liners, they were using
• 49:18
  a dually. The transmission cut loose and broke.
• 49:21
  You can't fix transmission on the side of the
• 49:24
  road. Right. So we still got into the hotel the
• 49:28
  day we were planning to. We got it worked out.
• 49:30
  We got a place to store that truck. We were just
• 49:33
  west of Birmingham for that week, and Wayne and
• 49:37
  Missy worked it out, and we got on site about
• 49:41
  four hours later than we were supposed to, but
• 49:43
  we got there. So that's why we go out so early.
• 49:47
  is if we have issues. And we also like getting
• 49:49
  there to start meeting with the hotel, getting
• 49:51
  all the ducks in a row, making sure everything
• 49:53
  is in line, making sure the hotel doesn't need
• 49:56
  anything. So, you know, if we were to go that
• 49:58
  far, we would have to leave a week before we
• 50:02
  need to be there. Then we're there a week before
• 50:04
  the party. Then you have the party. Then we have
• 50:07
  another travel of a week, not to mention the
• 50:11
  wear and tear on the tires, the trucks, food.
• 50:14
  You got to feed us all. hotel stay wayne only
• 50:17
  drives six to eight hours so he can keep everybody
• 50:20
  safe there's a look at how many hotels are putting
• 50:23
  in teeny tiny little parking lots there's not
• 50:26
  many hotels that will accommodate a semi a semi
• 50:30
  truck let alone two semi trucks because we're
• 50:32
  the same we're a couple inches shy of a semi
• 50:36
  truck so you know we got to think of all that
• 50:39
  and there's People that just don't understand.
• 50:41
  We just don't show up at a hotel and go, oh,
• 50:43
  we're here, let's party. So everything you see
• 50:48
  here is done by us. We've been a part of those
• 50:51
  kind of events. So we have probably collectively,
• 50:56
  I mean, I've not been, I probably did like 15
• 51:02
  weddings. I don't know how many you did when
• 51:03
  you had your event center. um catered for christmas
• 51:08
  galas been on committees for charity galas all
• 51:10
  kinds of things that were run really well and
• 51:14
  we've definitely seen somewhere you know oh i
• 51:19
  made this menu it took me eight hours i'm like
• 51:22
  chat gbt made the whole menu in 15 minutes i'm
• 51:26
  sorry you wasted your time but that ain't my
• 51:29
  fault so You know, we definitely know a good
• 51:33
  event when we see it and can appreciate. That's
• 51:36
  why I told you, you're like, I said, I know what
• 51:39
  you're doing. And on a daily basis, the two people
• 51:46
  that work full time on it is Wayne and myself
• 51:49
  and then Missy. She has a day job. She has a
• 51:52
  real day job. And she does mocha stuff in the
• 51:56
  evening and on the weekends. So she's like, there's
• 51:58
  two and a half of us that do this. Full term.
• 52:01
  And what Wayne and I do and Missy does is probably
• 52:04
  about the equivalent of five people. I believe
• 52:08
  it. Do you have a question? No. Oh. The question
• 52:14
  was, how do you guys pick the location? Well,
• 52:16
  it depends. It depends on state laws. Not just
• 52:23
  state laws about sex, but state laws, labor laws.
• 52:27
  We can't go into California or New York. due
• 52:31
  to labor laws. We can't bring our volunteer staff
• 52:34
  to do it. They can't touch anything. We have
• 52:37
  to hire people from the labor board to come in
• 52:40
  and do it and pay $30 an hour per person. And
• 52:44
  then they have to bring so many people in because
• 52:46
  that person's only qualified to lift a box. This
• 52:49
  person's only qualified to move chairs. That
• 52:52
  person's only qualified to do tables. When the
• 52:54
  tables are moved, nobody else can touch it. So,
• 52:57
  you know, They have an attorney that looks into
• 53:00
  all that for us as well. It depends on the hotel.
• 53:02
  They'll go to 200 hotels and get one that might
• 53:06
  say maybe because it goes against their religion.
• 53:09
  They don't want it. They've heard horror stories
• 53:11
  about other lifestyle events. Because they don't
• 53:16
  leave any stone unturned. We don't go in there
• 53:19
  and not tell the hotel exactly what we're doing.
• 53:22
  Because we're not going to get there in the middle
• 53:24
  of the party, them shut us down. We don't have
• 53:26
  an event anymore. Because at that point, we've
• 53:28
  lost the trust of our guests. Because our guests
• 53:32
  trust us to keep them safe. And that includes
• 53:34
  not getting the party shut down in the middle
• 53:37
  of the event. So it's all this pap. All the planets,
• 53:42
  the stars, Halley's Comet, everything has to
• 53:45
  be in the right line for it to work out to pick
• 53:47
  a venue. But it starts with the state sex laws.
• 53:53
  Because there's some states that have old, old
• 53:56
  laws from 1700, 1800s on the books. It's all
• 54:00
  going to be lost. It's right there. Yes. Tennessee
• 54:02
  is one of them. There's a law on the book about
• 54:04
  black men and white women having sex. Yeah. Which
• 54:08
  it probably wouldn't stand in a... court of law
• 54:10
  these days but you don't want some barney fife
• 54:13
  wanting to make a name for himself showing up
• 54:15
  knocking on the door going we're shutting you
• 54:17
  down and we're arresting you know half a dozen
• 54:21
  of you all of you we don't we don't need that
• 54:23
  so he does have an attorney that keeps keeps
• 54:26
  his eye out in our state oral sex is illegal
• 54:28
  it's illegal in the state of florida too I break
• 54:33
  the law daily. So, you know, I'm not joking when
• 54:40
  I say that SARS, the planets, and Halley's Comet
• 54:42
  all has to be in a line to make it work. Wow.
• 54:48
  Anything else to follow up with, then? No? That's
• 54:50
  awesome. We're wrapping up here, so let me ask
• 54:54
  you this. If you were to describe MOCA in three
• 54:58
  words, what would you say? Three words. Incredible,
• 55:05
  awesome, camaraderie. Why camaraderie? Because
• 55:13
  people come to Splash Mocha and they make friends.
• 55:16
  Those friendships not only translate inside of
• 55:20
  this hotel, but they translate outside of the
• 55:23
  hotel as well. So when I said earlier that Splash
• 55:28
  Mocha is bigger than all of us. What I meant
• 55:31
  by that, if somebody were to tear the roof off
• 55:36
  of this hotel and look inside, color doesn't
• 55:40
  matter. We're like a big old box of 64 Crayola
• 55:44
  crayons. We're a bunch of different colors, but
• 55:47
  we're still all the same. And to see people being
• 55:52
  engaged, and this makes me emotional because
• 55:54
  it's so fantastic. When you see people. truly,
• 55:59
  truly engaged. Their phones are put away. I mean,
• 56:03
  how many times have you gone into a restaurant,
• 56:05
  right? And you see a husband and wife sitting
• 56:08
  at the table. And for those listening, I've got
• 56:11
  my phone in my hand. And they're sitting here
• 56:12
  staring at their phone across from each other.
• 56:15
  They're not engaged. They're not living in the
• 56:17
  moment. They're not chatting. They're not visiting.
• 56:19
  They're not, they're just staring at their phone.
• 56:22
  They're not talking and communicating. When you
• 56:24
  come into Splash Mocha, Tonight, when you walk
• 56:28
  through that restaurant, look around and see
• 56:29
  how many people actually have their phones out.
• 56:32
  They don't. Their phones are away. They're communicating.
• 56:37
  They're engaging with people. They have people
• 56:39
  they just met sitting down and having dinner
• 56:41
  with them. They're laughing. They're joking.
• 56:44
  They're enjoying one another. They are truly
• 56:46
  living in the moment. We don't live in the moment
• 56:49
  anymore. Because of technology and our stupid
• 56:53
  phones, We no longer live in the moment. We're
• 56:56
  too busy thinking about what's going to happen
• 56:58
  tomorrow, what's going to happen in the next
• 57:00
  hour, and what happened yesterday. Everybody
• 57:03
  is present right here, and they're making friends
• 57:06
  and making connections. They're getting out of
• 57:08
  their box, and they are meeting people they never
• 57:12
  would have met inside of the little town that
• 57:15
  they live in had it not been to Splash Mocha.
• 57:18
  I have actually had guests tell me because they
• 57:21
  met. a certain couple or a certain guy, they
• 57:24
  now have a brand new job. It's changed lives.
• 57:29
  It's fantastic. I was in here after the men's
• 57:33
  meeting. There was a gentleman who I don't know
• 57:37
  what his position was, but his best friend owned
• 57:41
  a very large construction company and somebody
• 57:43
  else here. I think maybe one of the volunteers
• 57:46
  was needing some help in that area, and they
• 57:49
  were on the phone saying, okay, well, what's
• 57:51
  your qualifications? Where are you at? What can
• 57:55
  you do? And when they walked out of there, he
• 57:57
  was like, okay, we're going to put an application
• 57:59
  in. We're going to get you going here. It was
• 58:01
  beautiful. I can say this, personal testimony.
• 58:04
  I had no friends, zero male friends until Splash
• 58:09
  Mocha. Drew me crazy. I was like, how hard is
• 58:13
  it to make friends? Just go do it. Right. And
• 58:15
  I have some of the men that I've met here, I
• 58:20
  would take a bullet for. In the two or three
• 58:23
  years that I've met them and the confidence that
• 58:26
  they've helped build in me, the camaraderie,
• 58:29
  the brotherhood, right? The Bull Brotherhood
• 58:33
  came from Michael C., who I met here. And that
• 58:37
  was his concept. I got his permission. to call
• 58:39
  this podcast that before i did because that's
• 58:43
  his his thing and yeah so when you talk about
• 58:47
  that tina i'm just like 100 and another thing
• 58:50
  about splash mocha you know as far as the women
• 58:53
  go and not just splash mocha but lifestyle as
• 58:57
  far as women go the lifestyle is very much driven
• 59:00
  by women it's the it's the women that say yes
• 59:04
  we're playing or no we're not so it is very woman
• 59:07
  forward And I'm not one of those flaming feminists
• 59:12
  or anything like that. But as women growing up,
• 59:15
  we have always been told, at least I was, I'm
• 59:18
  supposed to be ashamed of my sexuality. You're
• 59:21
  not supposed to enjoy sex. You got to keep it
• 59:24
  quiet. Well, I was 15 when I had sex the first
• 59:28
  time. I was 16 with my first threesome. I guess
• 59:31
  I was slated for this. Anyway. You know, and
• 59:37
  it was I was taught to be ashamed of myself,
• 59:41
  of my sexuality. And this even though we cater
• 59:46
  to the single guys and the couples, but it's
• 59:49
  the women. And I tell I tell couples this all
• 59:52
  the time, especially first timers, that it helps
• 59:56
  women realize that. We are sexual beings. It's
• 1:00:00
  okay to be proud of who we are. It gives you
• 1:00:03
  an opportunity to be comfortable in your own
• 1:00:05
  skin. You know, I struggle with, everybody says,
• 1:00:09
  but you're so confident. Well, I'm confident,
• 1:00:11
  but I'm hiding behind that. You know, my ego
• 1:00:15
  isn't that high. I don't have a very good outlook
• 1:00:19
  on myself. But then when you see, you're getting
• 1:00:23
  comments and compliments from people who have
• 1:00:27
  For no reason. Nothing to gain. Yeah, they have
• 1:00:30
  nothing to gain. I look at my husband and I'm
• 1:00:32
  like, yeah, but you signed a contract when we
• 1:00:34
  got married. You're supposed to say that stuff.
• 1:00:36
  You know, yeah, thank you. He's like, you look
• 1:00:39
  great. And I'm like, yeah, you told me I looked
• 1:00:40
  great three years ago when I was at 210 pounds,
• 1:00:43
  too. What rose -colored glasses are you looking
• 1:00:46
  through? Yes, I've actually said those words.
• 1:00:48
  You look good at 210, though, too. Thank you.
• 1:00:51
  But it's the, you know. We get compliments from
• 1:00:55
  somebody who owe us nothing. And that helps us.
• 1:01:00
  It is. It gives us a good feeling. We go home
• 1:01:04
  with those words in our head. And it works with
• 1:01:07
  us and helps us realize, well, maybe I'm not
• 1:01:10
  so bad when we go home and look at ourselves
• 1:01:12
  in the mirror. And we are allowed to feel good
• 1:01:14
  about our sexuality. And we are allowed to be
• 1:01:17
  out there about it. You know, men get... Smacked
• 1:01:21
  on the back all the time. Yeah, good job, dude.
• 1:01:23
  Hey, how many women did you lay this weekend?
• 1:01:25
  And while we have to be quiet and demure, but
• 1:01:31
  here. I never drank that tea. Well, that's how
• 1:01:35
  I was raised. Right, me too, though. But doing
• 1:01:39
  this, it's helped bring out, it's helped break
• 1:01:43
  that mold. And it's very good for women to come
• 1:01:47
  to Splash Mocha because... It's a transformation.
• 1:01:50
  Exactly. They actually get to see themselves
• 1:01:53
  through somebody else's eyes, which we don't
• 1:01:55
  get too much of. And if I had somebody ask me,
• 1:01:58
  I have had somebody ask me, if I could choose
• 1:02:01
  a superpower, what would it be? For me to see
• 1:02:04
  how other people see me through their eyes, whether
• 1:02:07
  good or bad. But I would love that superpower
• 1:02:11
  to be able to see what other however everybody
• 1:02:13
  else views me And I bet we if we all had that
• 1:02:16
  superpower we would all be very very shocked
• 1:02:18
  at how highly people think of you Yeah, well
• 1:02:21
  and how we even talked to ourselves like that
• 1:02:23
  was a big thing when we got together is his self
• 1:02:26
  -talk was terrible Yeah, and I was like if I
• 1:02:29
  talk to you the way that you talk to yourself
• 1:02:31
  you punch me in the mouth So I just try to impart
• 1:02:34
  that to women. It's like we're hard on ourselves.
• 1:02:36
  Everybody is, male and female. I think women
• 1:02:39
  are a little bit more so because... But it's
• 1:02:42
  like you wouldn't talk to me like that. I'm 210,
• 1:02:45
  Tina, and I look hot, right? So it's like you're
• 1:02:48
  down on yourself as you were 210, and then someone
• 1:02:51
  else you're telling them beautiful at the same
• 1:02:53
  weight, right? So we... just have to remember
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  that is like you know you wouldn't talk to your
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  best friend the way you talk to yourself so it's
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  changing that and sometimes I'll get in those
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  valleys too but if we just you know if I get
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  real bad then he's like you need to put sticky
• 1:03:08
  notes on your mirror again and read them every
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  day so I have them all over the place just to
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  remind myself you know what other people and
• 1:03:17
  however people see me so that's really good Oh,
• 1:03:20
  y 'all didn't know he was coming to a self -improvement
• 1:03:21
  seminar, did you? Almost definitely not. Oh,
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  yeah, we're coming up on that. Yeah, well, I've,
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  you know, I, this is my job. So I talk to a lot
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  of people. And, you know, I sit and think about
• 1:03:34
  it a lot. Because, I mean, I eat, live, and breathe
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  Splash Mocha mostly. So, and I've been in the
• 1:03:40
  lifestyle 20 years. And I've seen a lot. I've
• 1:03:43
  talked to a lot of people. And these are the
• 1:03:45
  things that I've come up with. And I think for
• 1:03:48
  women it's very empowering. And I think you see
• 1:03:52
  these new women that come in through the door
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  at registration, at main registration, and they're
• 1:03:57
  so quiet. And they don't want to look up. They
• 1:04:00
  look down at the floor and looking at their feet
• 1:04:02
  like, don't make eye contact with me. I'm here,
• 1:04:05
  but I'm not here. And then to see them at the
• 1:04:07
  end of the party, and they're the life of the
• 1:04:10
  party, and they're looking up and catching people's
• 1:04:12
  eye and chatting and smiling and giggling. And
• 1:04:16
  they're allowed to be who they are without outside
• 1:04:18
  society pointing the finger and looking down
• 1:04:21
  on them. You know, it's very, and it's for me,
• 1:04:26
  it's very rewarding because I've got to see that
• 1:04:28
  butterfly get out of her cocoon. Well, this is
• 1:04:31
  a place where a lot of people find their freedom,
• 1:04:34
  you know. We're allowed to be who we are here.
• 1:04:37
  This is where Siren found her freedom. That's
• 1:04:39
  for sure. Yeah. And that's why, you know, we
• 1:04:41
  started the podcast that I have because I want
• 1:04:44
  to hear about people's journey. Like, you know,
• 1:04:47
  I always it would hurt my heart when I was younger
• 1:04:49
  in my 20s and women would say, I just don't enjoy
• 1:04:52
  sex. And I'm like, and I wasn't enjoying it in
• 1:04:55
  my first marriage. But I was like, there's more
• 1:04:58
  to this. There's something more. And I just was
• 1:05:01
  on that journey of like, what else? There's more.
• 1:05:04
  And we would talk to people and it was just,
• 1:05:06
  you know, very, you know, that's a whole other
• 1:05:09
  podcast. Anyways, I could just talk, we could
• 1:05:12
  talk all day. I could go on and on and on because
• 1:05:14
  it's just, like I said, this is bigger than all
• 1:05:17
  of us. When you start peeling back the layers
• 1:05:21
  like an onion, you start realizing that how much
• 1:05:24
  this is, if society could take out a page out
• 1:05:27
  of our playbook, like when we came back from
• 1:05:28
  COVID, you know, we were dealing with the George
• 1:05:33
  Floyd thing. covid politics everybody's feet
• 1:05:37
  everybody had their feelings on their sleeves
• 1:05:39
  and our event in atlanta we moved it from march
• 1:05:42
  to may in 2021 and our event was the first big
• 1:05:47
  event after covid and to watch number one watching
• 1:05:52
  people walk through that hotel door on registration
• 1:05:54
  with their whole faces covered with a mask and
• 1:05:57
  they see a sea of people Hundred people in the
• 1:06:00
  lobby and not one damn mask on. They just ripped
• 1:06:03
  that sucker right off their faces. Big old grins
• 1:06:06
  on their faces. You know, everybody's political
• 1:06:09
  COVID opinions. Everything was on high at that
• 1:06:13
  time. And none of that freaking mattered. Nobody
• 1:06:16
  breathed a word of COVID. Nobody breathed a word
• 1:06:19
  of what was going on outside the walls of that
• 1:06:22
  hotel. They left all that bullshit outside on
• 1:06:25
  the street. And it was freaking amazing. Like
• 1:06:28
  you said, Socrates, it was beautiful just to
• 1:06:31
  see people go back to the way it was before that
• 1:06:35
  stupid virus struck. So, I mean, it was just,
• 1:06:40
  it was phenomenal. That's beautiful, too. And
• 1:06:43
  like you said, the world outside this, this is
• 1:06:45
  like the only place that I feel completely like
• 1:06:49
  everything in my regular life doesn't even exist.
• 1:06:52
  Right, and we call it the Splash Mocha Bubble.
• 1:06:54
  Everybody comes here, they get trapped in the
• 1:06:56
  Splash Mocha bubble because nothing outside the
• 1:06:58
  walls of this hotel freaking matter. The only
• 1:07:01
  thing that matters is the people sitting in front
• 1:07:03
  of them. I love that. Well, we can go all night,
• 1:07:08
  but we can't. So is there anything else that
• 1:07:12
  we didn't talk about you wanted to cover and
• 1:07:14
  people know about Splash? Well, you call it the
• 1:07:19
  Bulls Brotherhood. One thing that we are trying
• 1:07:22
  to do. in the lifestyle is try to get away from,
• 1:07:26
  not that there's anything wrong with the name
• 1:07:27
  of your podcast. We are trying to change some
• 1:07:30
  of the terminology. We don't refer to the guys
• 1:07:35
  as bulls. We don't refer to the guys as BBCs.
• 1:07:38
  When I get couples that say, how many bulls and
• 1:07:40
  BBCs you got coming? I'm like, first of all,
• 1:07:43
  the men of MOCA are not bulls and we don't call
• 1:07:48
  them bulls and BBCs. They're gentlemen, first
• 1:07:51
  and foremost. To me, and please correct me if
• 1:07:55
  I'm wrong, to me, when they say it, and it's
• 1:07:58
  probably the tone that they use when they say
• 1:08:00
  it, it makes me think that they think you're
• 1:08:03
  just a piece of meat. Right. You know, you're
• 1:08:06
  just a side of beef. And I know for a fact all
• 1:08:09
  the men at MOCA are not just that. They're beautiful
• 1:08:14
  souls and beautiful people, and they deserve
• 1:08:18
  it. And also what we say at MOCA. everybody's
• 1:08:22
  a guest. I don't just call the couples and the
• 1:08:25
  single guys. When I refer to whether it's the
• 1:08:29
  guys or the couples or the single females, everybody's
• 1:08:32
  a guest. I don't care what category you fall
• 1:08:35
  into. But I do know some guys call themselves
• 1:08:37
  bulls. Some of them call themselves BBCs, and
• 1:08:40
  that's great. But, you know, we want to let them
• 1:08:43
  know, let everybody know that the men at MOCA
• 1:08:47
  are gentlemen. Well, you got some, a lot of ladies
• 1:08:52
  that we know, they won't use that word at all.
• 1:08:55
  They'll only say black gentleman or gentleman.
• 1:08:57
  And for us, we pick the word because we do know
• 1:09:01
  it's more specifically for the cuckold dynamic.
• 1:09:05
  Right. And as a married bull, and Brian has been
• 1:09:09
  a bull for 30 years, we're just saying from our
• 1:09:14
  perspective of the lifestyle, we're a niche of
• 1:09:17
  a niche, but... We have a unique perspective,
• 1:09:21
  but we have different people on. That's why Brian
• 1:09:24
  insisted on having Cyron, because we wanted a
• 1:09:27
  female perspective. And yeah, there are gentleman
• 1:09:30
  bulls. There are manicorns. There are just single
• 1:09:33
  men. There are cucks that come. There are just
• 1:09:36
  stags that come. There are husbands that are
• 1:09:39
  just curious. So those titles are loose. You
• 1:09:42
  know, you can be fluent with the titles. We're
• 1:09:45
  more concerned about... our perspectives as bulls
• 1:09:49
  and that we're a brotherhood, that we hold each
• 1:09:51
  other to a certain standard. But you're putting...
• 1:09:54
  It's a positive thing. Right. You're making it
• 1:09:58
  positive. Some of the couples I talk to, when
• 1:10:02
  I'm talking to them and they're talking about
• 1:10:04
  the guys being BBCs or bulls, it gives me a negative...
• 1:10:07
  It gives you the ick. It's like a job or it's
• 1:10:12
  like... That's all I see you as. Right. You have
• 1:10:17
  tasks to do. Right. And I want everybody to know
• 1:10:21
  that the guys are more than just a bull or BBC.
• 1:10:25
  That's why I refer to the guys as gentlemen,
• 1:10:27
  because they are more than what's between their
• 1:10:30
  legs. Right. Well, I like what Michael C. says.
• 1:10:32
  Some of us are ABCs. We're average black cocks.
• 1:10:40
  So, you know, you're not even going to get all
• 1:10:43
  BBC all the time. So what was there was something
• 1:10:45
  else for like a tiny one. I forgot. I forgot.
• 1:10:49
  Yeah. So thank you for making that clear. Because,
• 1:10:53
  right. What I do love is no matter what your
• 1:10:57
  dynamic and no matter why you're here. It's about
• 1:11:00
  being human beings. It's about connecting on
• 1:11:03
  a real level, right? And that's what I love about
• 1:11:06
  you. What I love about you, Tina, is that you're
• 1:11:08
  just real. If it's straightening a motherfucker
• 1:11:11
  out, you're just real. If it's showing love and
• 1:11:14
  support, you're just real. And that's what it's
• 1:11:17
  all about. It's about come here, be authentic,
• 1:11:20
  be real, understand you're a part of a community.
• 1:11:24
  Understand the way you treat others and how you
• 1:11:26
  conduct yourself has effect on the person in
• 1:11:28
  front of you, but also on the community, right?
• 1:11:31
  And that's what I love about it. And see, for
• 1:11:33
  me, from a personal standpoint, the way I see
• 1:11:36
  it, if you cut my arm and you cut everybody else's
• 1:11:39
  arm in this room, what color are we all bleeding?
• 1:11:41
  Red. So I don't care what color your skin is.
• 1:11:44
  We're all just people. And if you're acting like
• 1:11:46
  an asshole, then I'm going to treat you like
• 1:11:48
  an asshole. Right. No matter what color. Exactly.
• 1:11:52
  So if anybody wants to learn more about Splash
• 1:11:55
  Mocha, where would they go? If you want to learn
• 1:11:57
  more about Splash Mocha, you go to SplashMocha
• 1:11:59
  .com. All of our events are listed on our website.
• 1:12:02
  All the upcoming dates, all the current dates.
• 1:12:05
  If you open up one of the parties and all the
• 1:12:08
  rooms say sold out, we're sold out. That is not
• 1:12:10
  a marketing ploy. We're 100 % sold out. If all
• 1:12:13
  your room categories say sold out, we're done.
• 1:12:16
  We're sold out. So a lot of people think, well,
• 1:12:18
  why don't you just get the hotel to give you
• 1:12:21
  another block of rooms? When we go into a hotel,
• 1:12:23
  we don't buy a block of rooms, and then we sell
• 1:12:26
  those out, and the hotel gives us another block
• 1:12:28
  of rooms. We don't do that. We go at it. We buy
• 1:12:31
  out the whole facility from the get -go, from
• 1:12:33
  day one, including the parking lot. When I know
• 1:12:38
  there's a lot of parties out there that will
• 1:12:40
  say sold out. And next thing you know, a week
• 1:12:42
  later, there's 20 more rooms available. That's
• 1:12:44
  not how Splash Mocha rolls. And you guys sell
• 1:12:47
  out months in advance. Yeah. So, you know, we're
• 1:12:50
  in August 2025. We sold this event out five months
• 1:12:53
  ago to single men and to couples. It was all
• 1:12:55
  sold out. Houston is already sold out to couples
• 1:12:58
  and single men. We sold that out a month ago.
• 1:13:01
  um new year's is a little slower at selling out
• 1:13:04
  yes there's a bunch of events out there for lifestyle
• 1:13:08
  We don't consider that competition for selling
• 1:13:10
  out a little slower. What we're competing with
• 1:13:12
  is Christmas and family time. Nobody knows what
• 1:13:15
  their family plans are until the first or second
• 1:13:17
  week of December. That's when all my reservations
• 1:13:19
  start amping up. Last year, we sold out two weeks
• 1:13:22
  before the event for New Year's, but it's all
• 1:13:24
  because of Christmas. But it always sells out.
• 1:13:26
  It always sells out. It always sells out. Yeah,
• 1:13:29
  because if I had a dollar for every time a single
• 1:13:31
  man was like, oh, man, I didn't think I was going
• 1:13:33
  to sell out that quick, I'm like, listen. I'd
• 1:13:35
  be rich. I mean, Siren's in the Caribbean right
• 1:13:39
  now being served by a very cute cabana boy. Cranks
• 1:13:42
  with little umbrellas in them. Well, because
• 1:13:44
  we're like on a permanent payment plan. Like
• 1:13:47
  we're always signed up for like the next two.
• 1:13:49
  Like our accountant's like, what's ML ticketing?
• 1:13:52
  I'm like, well, that's like a, what do we say?
• 1:13:55
  It's like a convention that we go to. Like it's
• 1:13:57
  educational. He's like, okay, business. Okay.
• 1:14:03
  Exactly. Yeah. So Tina, thank you so much for
• 1:14:08
  coming on and just letting us learn more about
• 1:14:11
  it and, you know, showing us love and everything.
• 1:14:14
  And so if you guys. There's also a referral program.
• 1:14:20
  Affiliate. Affiliate program. I'm sorry. Thank
• 1:14:22
  you. And so if you guys are interested and you
• 1:14:25
  want to, you know, go through our affiliate,
• 1:14:28
  you heard about it here. Just send us an email.
• 1:14:30
  It's also on the show notes. And yeah. So, Siren,
• 1:14:35
  did you have anything else that you want to talk
• 1:14:37
  about before we get out of here? We missed you,
• 1:14:38
  Brian. Yeah. Thanks. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you for
• 1:14:44
  all the audience and everything. Thanks for Brian
• 1:14:47
  for, you know, chilling back and letting us do
• 1:14:49
  this because he's the he's the big bull of the
• 1:14:52
  show. And thank you, Tina, for coming on. It's
• 1:14:54
  my pleasure. We really appreciate you. And you
• 1:14:57
  guys come check it out. Come check it out. If
• 1:15:02
  you haven't. Trust me. You know, you are going
• 1:15:06
  to be impressed with the professionalism, with
• 1:15:08
  the people that come here. You're going to be
• 1:15:10
  impressed with the way things are conducted here.
• 1:15:13
  And, you know, for the husbands, that's a big
• 1:15:16
  concern for me. Your wives are going to be well
• 1:15:18
  protected and well respected. And if they're
• 1:15:22
  not, people like Dimitri and Wayne and everything,
• 1:15:26
  they'll straighten you out. So check us out and
• 1:15:29
  we'll see you on the next episode. Luxury untaught