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- 0:00Holding onto offense feels powerful at first, like you're
- 0:04protecting yourself, like you're keeping the record straight.
- 0:09But eventually you realize something.
- 0:12The person who hurt you moved on, and you are the 1 still
- 0:17carrying the weight. Today's scripture is coming from
- 0:21Colossians chapter #3 verse 13. And this is the NIV.
- 0:24And it reads, Forgive one another.
- 0:27If any of you has a grievance against someone, forgive as the
- 0:32Lord forgave you. Let's go deeper.
- 0:37Forgiveness is often misunderstood.
- 0:41People think forgiveness means approval, like you're saying
- 0:44what happened was OK, but forgiveness is not approval,
- 0:49it's release. David understood this.
- 0:53He was overlooked by his father, mocked by his brother, haunted
- 0:58by Saul. He had legitimate reasons to be
- 1:01bitter. But bitterness is expensive.
- 1:05It taxes your peace, it drains your clarity, and it traps your
- 1:10future inside someone else's mistake.
- 1:13David refused that trap from a divine perspective.
- 1:17From a divine perspective, emotional poison disrupts your
- 1:22balance and character. When resentment sets too long,
- 1:27it distorts your internal harmony.
- 1:31From another divine perspective, Wisdom teaches that carrying
- 1:34anger too long is like holding fire in your own hands.
- 1:39The burn belongs to you. Forgiveness doesn't mean you
- 1:44restore access. Forgiveness doesn't mean you
- 1:47trust them again. Forgiveness doesn't erase
- 1:51accountability. It simply means this.
- 1:55You refuse to let their actions become your identity.
- 1:59You release the office so it stops occurring and occupied in
- 2:03your mind. Because the truth is,
- 2:06unforgiveness doesn't punish them.
- 2:08It imprisons you. And the moment you release it,
- 2:12something shifts. Your mind gets lighter, your
- 2:16spirit gets clearer, your future gets wider.
- 2:20Forgiveness isn't weakness, it's emotional sovereignty.
- 2:26And here says reflection moment. Think about this today.
- 2:29What offense have I been playing that no longer deserves his?
- 2:33What would my life look like if I release the weight today and
- 2:39he would say separation? Repeat this after me.
- 2:41I release what no longer serves my peace.
- 2:44I forgive so I can move forward. My future is bigger than my
- 2:50words. I remain free.
- 2:53And here's today's prayer. God, thank you for the ability
- 2:58to forgive and to be forgiven. Give us a strength to release
- 3:02what has weighed our staff. Help us to move forward with
- 3:07clarity, peace, and wisdom. Let me choose freedom over
- 3:10bitterness. Thank you for making sure that
- 3:14we always try and and even though we cannot erase what has
- 3:17happened with the long friend, thank you for giving us wisdom
- 3:20and releasing it in every phase of our life bringing clarity and
- 3:24understanding. We honor you for all of these
- 3:26things and thank you for protection our loved ones and
- 3:28everyone who is near and dear to our heart.
- 3:30And we expect all of these And am I to the same of Jesus the
- 3:33Christ I gave you. Amen.
- 3:35God bless you all. I love you and I hope you have a
- 3:38fantastic day. Y'all take care.
- 3:42One last thought. Forgiveness doesn't change the
- 3:45past, but it completely changes who carries the future.