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Welcome to the Shit Show · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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Welcome to the Spunky Spirit Podcast. I'm your host, psychic medium Carrie Mugs.
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This is where we learn all things spirit, everything from spiritual gifts,
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awakenings, ghosts, aliens, and star seeds. Nothing is untouchable but always
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fun and spunky. I am honored to be on this virtual journey with you,
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So make sure you hit the subscribe button so you never miss an episode.
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Hello, Hello, it spunksters. So if you guys watch Carrie Cannecks
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or if you kind of see it's Carrie canex sits on my Instagram, it's
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weekly, it's on YouTube, it's it's here on the podcast. Every Monday
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I do a Carrie cannec show and I kind of tell you what's coming up
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for the weekend, the side of simplest watch for and lately, NonStop it's
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been about growth or hor hard or it's just been hard. It's been kind
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of a shit show. Excuse my linguage. It's just has been. And
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so every week I just fet like, please be something easy, Please be
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something easy. And this week was about the storm and stepping into your life.
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And finally I decided to stop being the victim of this. Like every
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day, every week, a different kind of a card of and I was
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like, you know what, let's just do this. Let's just take this
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by the hands and take this by the horns, and let's do this and
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show spirit what we've got. And then this week, NonStop, people have
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been like, it has been crazy. It has been like people DM and
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me, this has been hard week. This is crazy, this is this
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is basically a shit show. That's what everybody's been saying. And I have
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to be honest too, like I have just you know, the last couple
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of weeks with my grandma passing and work being this week, something happened too
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to me and I was like, oh my gosh, I did this video
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with a friend of mine and I talked on it about how you don't care
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to other people think and you do what you want to do, and you
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you like how it was hard for me to come out of the closet.
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And then that exact day, almost like one of my awesome, awesome clients
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emailed me and just said, hey, I you know, told some friends
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about this. You know my reading that was awesome, and you know,
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I just they just were skeptical and they were wondering if you got most of
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your information from this source, and I'm like, no, why it's so
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hard because I try so hard to be so accurate, and then when I
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am so accurate, I get called on the carpet of like researching people,
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and that is it's the like the last thing I don't have time to do
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that I don't have that such an integrity thing, and so just a bunch
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of stuff like questioning, Okay, do I really want to do this?
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Do I really want to? Like, you know, you get out there,
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you say, okay, spirit, I'm ready, I'm ready for that
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next step, and then that happens and you're like, maybe I'm not.
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Maybe I'm not. So I wanted to get on today and just be like
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you are not freaking alone. Holy crap, we are in this together and
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whatever is you're going through, And it could be something you might seem like
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it's small like that somebody like saying something like that sometimes would not even bother
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me, but sometimes it just hits like you're like you just it just depends
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I guess on the month, the time of the month for some and so
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it's just it causes so much anxiety and it just you know what I mean,
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Like you try so hard to do what's right, and it just kind
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of is it's hard, it's super hard, or or spirit just is like,
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you know, you're like, Okay, I'm ready for this next step.
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I'm gonna take a bull by the horse. I'm gonna do this,
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and then spirits like are you ready? Though? Are you really ready?
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Because this is like just like do you really want this? Because this is
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just a small part of what's going to happen, and you have to ask
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yourself. You have to really sit down and be like, what do I
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really want? Do I want to do this for the rest of my life?
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Or do I want to do something else? Or do I And sometimes
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that's exactly how we figure out what we want, right We figure we think
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we want something, and we manifest it and it happens, and then we're
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sitting in it going is this what I really want? Or is it what's
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the next step? And so and I'm not saying what I do is it?
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You've all heard my podcasts about what I do, how it can be
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hard and good. It's such awesome things that I love it, and it's
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got more good than bad. It's got more good things. But there is
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a lot of pressure a lot of pressure when you do readings daily. For
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me anyways, maybe not for other mediums, just because I want it.
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I'm a perfectionist and I want it to be perfect, and I want to
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know all the things, and I have to forgive myself and realize that no
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reading is one hundreds accurate ever, no matter who you go to. So
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these are some steps that kind of helped me this week. And I've thought,
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you know, I'm going to share this with with my people, with
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my spikesters, because because I'm sure I've gotten so many d I'm saying,
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this is crazy, this is crazy. I even have a friend who is
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selling for her life, that's what she does. She lives on a beach
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on a boat, and they actually have a hurricane coming this the storm,
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the hurricane in the storm Brett is hitting them this week, and it's just
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so ironic, you know, that's what you get for. It's such a
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privileged life. But at the same time, just because because we're privileged doesn't
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mean we don't go through the things. Just because just because we have some
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privileges doesn't mean we don't hurt, we don't go through hell, we don't.
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You know, everybody has their own own trials, And I really believe
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that once we get up back into where we came from on the other side,
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we're gonna really see how even it really was, like we feel like
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it's privileged or we feel like this. But and I'm probably gonna get kicked
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in the bat for saying this, but honestly, I really believe that everybody
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has their own trials, everybody has their own tribulations, and I believe that
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that we go through them in different ways, and we have different sources or
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different pain, different pains that we feel. So this is what I want
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you to remember. This is kind of like my Okay, if you're going
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through it, let's get let's get through it, right, Let's get through
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it. And so number one, own it. Own it. You make
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your choices. You have to own take responsibility for where you're at. You
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have to own that where you are is where it's because of and I'm not
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saying help issues like sicknesses, but even that some people debate that. But
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you own your life. You are responsible for your life. If you don't
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like where it's at, or you don't like where it's headed, then you
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need to change it. You need to figure out Okay, how can I
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make this different? How can I not let things bother me, what people
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say about me? Or how can I change it so I don't have to
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do this or I do that, Or how can I change it so I
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can be part of my family and spend time with my family instead of being,
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you know, trapped in this nine to five all the time? How
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can I change it? How can I change it to where I love it?
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And start figuring out? You know, you are responsible. You are
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responsible for where you are, and once you take responsibility for that, then
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you realize that you might have the power to change it. You own it,
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you need you have to have the power to change it, and you
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have to let the past be the past and move forward. And I think
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that that's one of the ones too, is I'm willing to move forward you
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you know, Okay, So maybe maybe you're in this position right now,
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and maybe because of your choices, you did make a mistake and you're where
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you're at right now because of something that you did and you don't want to
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be there, but you know what, you need to move forward. You
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need to move forward. So this is number two. Passes the past.
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You need to own it. Take responsibility for it, and you need to
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move forward and you can't change it, and you if you sit and dwell
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on it, it's just going to waste your energy. So you move forward.
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It's time for you to move forward and figure out what you want.
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And some people are like, oh, I don't know what I want.
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The best way to figure out what you want is to figure out what you
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don't want. Because figuring out what you don't want. If you don't want
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to be in a nine to five, then that's one step. If you
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don't want to be in a one on one counseling situation, then you know
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that. Like, then what do you want? Do you want freedom?
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Do you want money? Do you want time? Do you want love?
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Like? What do you want? And that's another thing too. Moving forward?
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You got to forgive yourself. Not only do you got to forgive other
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I mean you don't you could forgive others on your timeline. I'm just saying,
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if it's you're letting somebody else's actions dictate how you react or dictate your
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life, it's like drinking poison. It's like them them handing you, you
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know, all the things you wish on them is just coming back to you
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if you cannot move forward and forgive. But mostly you've got to forgive yourself.
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That's the hardest part is we're so dang hard on ourselves. We just
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got to forgive ourselves and move forward. So what we made mistakes? So
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what this happened? So what move forward? You can go and apologize or
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you can just move forward. But moving forward and for giving yourself, It's
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like the biggest those are the biggest things. We can't just sit in it.
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Don't just sit and wallow in it. Move forward. And this kind
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of goes with you have a choice, right, You have that choice.
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You have a choice to sit and wallow in it and be sad and be
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hard on yourself and kick yourself in the butt, or you have that choice
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to be like, you know what, Today's a new day. I'm going
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to start over. I'm going to try and make amends. I'm going to
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try and you know, give myself grace, or I'm trying. I'm gonna
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try and let that go. And I'm not saying don't just bury it and
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don't process it. I'm saying process it. Go to a counselor if you
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need to for that situation, or do process it, but don't be so
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hard on yourself that you're immobilized and you can't move like just keep moving forward.
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And you know another one too is you have to choose your friends wisely.
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There's a saying that says who you surround yourself with the most is who
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you become like. Or there's also another saying that if you're like the most,
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if you're the smartest person in the room, you need to choose other
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friends. So who you surround yourself with can really navigate how you feel,
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especially if you're an impath. So you need to make sure that you choose
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people who are happy for you. You choose people who want your success.
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Now, this doesn't mean that you choose people who you get to vent to
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all the time, because you know what, nobody, not even these awesome
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people, cares about your problems except for you, your mom because she has
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to, and your counselor So don't don't choose your friends expecting them to hear
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all your all your problems. That's not why you choose friends. You choose
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friends because you uplift each other. I mean, you can't tell them once
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in a while how you're feeling and they can be there for you. But
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honestly, you choose your friends because you want to have fun with them,
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You want to have success with them. That you want them to be happy
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for you, you want them to love you unconditionally. But when you're getting
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to the point where you're complaining about something so much all the time, then
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you need to stop and you need to go to a counselor. And not
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not because that friend is probably having a hard time holding not only your stuff,
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but there's all the time constantly. You have to always be aware of
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your surroundings and own it. Freaking own it. That's where that's that where
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that own it is. I'm sorry, guys, this is kind of like
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a go for it kind of thing. It's because I'm so I'm like,
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I'm kind of pissed. I'm kind of pissed. That spirits like constantly like
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you got you gotta grow, you gotta grow, you gotta grow, you
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gotta grow. And I'm just like, fine, let's just do this and
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get it over with. Let's just do it right, let's go, let's
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do it. So choose your friends wisely, and if you find some friends
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or draining, they take a break, take a break. And that's where
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boundaries come in. Right. We've talked about boundaries so many times, and
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if you've noticed, you I talk about a lot of things that I struggle
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with. So yeah, welcomed. Yeah, just just if you have a
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hard time creating boundaries, you've got to you And um, I think Jenna
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Kucher said it best. She was talking about and I think, um,
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I heard it from someone else too, but I can't remember. You keep
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thinking that boundaries are so they protect, they they keep people out, right,
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But they don't. They're for keeping you safe. They're for keeping you
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healthy, they're for keeping you whole, They're for keeping you sane. So
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it's not about keeping people out. It's about keeping you sane and healthy and
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spiritual and and there. And that's that's you know where it goes. And
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and if you, you know, are struggling, I can't, I can't,
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you know some of this stuff, meditate about it. Honestly. I
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have gotten to the point too where sometimes I skip my meditation for the day
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and I just realized that's just not an option. You got to meditate.
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It helps with the anxiety, it helps with clearing your mind. Journaling,
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I just like to just sit in quiet and just meditate. I get so
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many messages from spirit when I do that. That's my modality, that's my
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thing. So I find your thing. If you're just journaling, if you're
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just bike riding and running, any kind of thing, breathwork, sound,
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bowls, whatever it is, find it and do it, because that's what
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you need to get through this what we call a shit show sometimes. So
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we talked about keep going. So we said, you are the power.
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Choose your friends, you will move forward, and then forgiveness your choices,
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your choices of your friends, your choices of everyday choices. Right like we
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don't. I think The Compound Effect is a book I read that really impacted
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me at the beginning of you know, my Beach Body Days, when I
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and it was awesome because you know one it was talking about how how compounded
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interest or compound when you compound things, it makes a difference. It doesn't
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seem like it makes a difference that day. So if I go to McDonald's
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today and not eat a quarter pound or it's not going to make a difference
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today. I mean, you'll call me you sluggish. But if I can
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continue to do it consistently at the end of like six months, it's going
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to make a huge difference. So it's kind of like your choices that you
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make, what you choose today. So you might choose not to meditate today,
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or not to move energy today, or not to exercise today, which
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is fine because you need to rest sometimes. But if it's a consistent choice,
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you're going to see the results of it within like for maybe even a
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month, four or five months. So choices, your choices, consistency.
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Will just be aware of your choices because if you're consistent with them, you're
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going to see bigger results, both good and bad. If you're consistent in
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a good way, you're going to see good results, you're going to see
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that. But if you're consistent in a bad way, you're going to see
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those bad results. You're going to see that those aren't going to work for
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you. So everyday choices, and these are choices like what you eat,
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what you do with your time, how you react to things, the people
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you choose to be around, how you you know, how you do things
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every day, All the choices that you make, the little choices can lead
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to bigger things. So you really be aware of your choices, and that
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is where you kind of look at yourself and say, Okay, I'm responsible
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for where I'm at. Now, where I'm at. It's not bad,
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it's not bad. But sometimes man, you can just like, holy crap,
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things go wrong and you have to react to it, and you get
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a choice on how you get to react to it, and you get a
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choice on whether you're going to sit and dwell in it or whether you're going
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to move forward, whether you're gonna do these things, whether you're going to
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own it, whether you're gonna do these things. So mostly too, and
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this is like the hardest one is keep going. There are a lot of
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spiritual growth going on right now, collectively, individually, spirit is moving collectively
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fast. It's just going really fast. A lot of people are starting to
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wake up and see true. A lot of people we talked about it coming,
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it's here. And I think that that's why it's just such an emotional
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thing, because our emotions are so high on Earth and it's such a hard
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thing to navigate, and so we kind of get stuck in it, or
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we get stuck in a pattern, or we just can't keep up. And
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that's okay. If you want to rest in the middle of the shit show.
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That's okay, But just get back up on your feet and make those
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choices and move forward. You could be in you know, family dynamics not
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so great. Work stuff not so great, building a business not so great,
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Spiritual growth not so great, marriage not so great, relationship not so
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great, whatever it is. Just continue to keep moving forward and try and
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make the choices that your future self is going to be happy for or excited
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for, or you're going to thank your future self later. So but I
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get it, guys, I get it. There are times when, like
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just yesterday, I was like down it out, I was pretty feeling sorry
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for myself, not realizing how lucky and privileged I really am, and I
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was, you know, just just and finally I was like, screw it,
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screw it. This is this is. I chose this life, I
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chose to do this, and I'm gonna freaking do it. I'm gonna freak
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and do it. I could give up and say, you know what,
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I'm done, but I'm not going to because this is what I was made
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to do. This is what I was supposed to do. And if some
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people want to accuse me of certain things, I mean I should be flattered
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right, I should be flattered that it was you know, close to whatever.
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I should be flattered that I was so accurate or it was accurate.
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But it's at the same time so hard because you work so hard to get
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to that point, and so then I get nervous because then I'm like,
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okay, am I agree too accurate, not accurate enough. It's just just
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a mind game that I got to churn off and just and you know what,
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here's the thing. I only do this mind game when I'm not sitting
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in the power, when I'm working, or when I'm thinking, or when
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my brain's going da da da da, my adhd breens going d d D.
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But when I'm in the middle of it, in the now and sitting
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in and reading nothing like, I don't get any of this. I just
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get calm and things come true and I don't let it bother me. But
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every single career, I think has something like this, Like every you know,
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hairdresser, banker, account or accountant, any kind of just you know,
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you always have that moment where you're like, God, is this really?
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Is this what I signed up for? And it's oh, I think
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my son, like one of my I'm gonna calling my son in law had
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to. He was even talking about it. Where you you you know,
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you you go to school and you spend all this money to become something and
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you're there for four years, then you get out and then you start doing
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it in six months into You're like, is this what I really wanted to
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do? And this is how this is our journey, you guys, this
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is our journey. We eliminate what we do and I just feel like I'm
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rambling and rambling and rambling but messages. You guys. Sometimes it is a
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shit show. And sometimes we do make mistakes, and sometimes our choices aren't
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the greatest, and sometimes we do care what people think, and sometimes we
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we just got to keep moving forward. We just got to keep moving forward,
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and we got to keep going, and we got to forgive ourselves and
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others and just move forward and to say, hey, okay, spirit I
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It's like the Llama on the Emperor's New Groove when he's like floating. They're
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tied up in that boat that log thing, and he's like, is there
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a waterfall? Is there this? And the guy keeps saying yep, yep,
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yep, and he's like, there's all these things that are going to
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happen, and he's just like, you know what, bring it, just
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bring it. And that's where that's where I finally at. I'm just like,
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you know what, let's just do this. Let's just do the damn
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thing. Let's just do it. Let's let's do it. Let's learn the
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lesson and do it and give you the strength and freaking let's go. Because
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I want to get out of this funk and out of this this spot and
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I want to move forward. So so you guys, let's do it.
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Let's do the damn thing. I think that's Keisha, a person I follow
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heart that, so she says, let's do the damn thing. So um,
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let's go, let's do it. Let's let's you guys get up,
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wipe off your pants or wipe off you're you know, whatever you're wearing,
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and let's start moving forward. Let's let's do this, and let's let's hope
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that the next charreacn next card is a little bit more lenient. It's a
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little bit more forgiving, a little bit more understanding, and if it's not,
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you know what, we got this because we're in this together. We're
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in this together. So I love you guys so much, and I just
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wanted to just tell you the registration for my class. The connection is up
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and it's going and it's gonna be awesome. It's gonna be for those people
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who want to be mediums, but it's also for those people who just want
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to learn how to connect on their own. And there's so much there's so
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much content in this class, and there's six weeks of it. There's gonna
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be lives. I'm gonna get on live online. It's all online. It's
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so there's going to be more access for more people. And we're gonna do
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weekly onlines. We're gonna do questions and answers. There's gonna be homework,
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but you're not gonna be graded on it. There's gonna be meditations, there's
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gonna be quizzes, there's gonna be a certificate at the end. It's gonna
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be all it's just gonna be very very hands on and it's gonna be awesome.
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And oh, there's gonna be access to me in the community every day.
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So I just I'm excited for it. And I hope you guys,
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hope you guys if here feeling the call to sign up. So there you
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go. You guys, I love you and we got this and we're gonna
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do it and it's gonna be it's gonna be awesome. So so just remember,
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