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2050 - 90 Day Fiance (s12e1) "In My Getting Married Era" with Kimberly · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

• 0:15
  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It's Tuesday. It's TLLC Tuesday,
• 0:20
  Speaker 1: and boy is it because we got a brand new season,
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: new season.
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  Speaker 2: Who disc I'm so excited, Kimberly, are you excited? I'm excited.
• 0:27
  Speaker 2: I'm so excited, Lovely. A long episode. My notes are lengthy?
• 0:35
  Speaker 2: Is half numb because I just came from the dentist.
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: Did they feel your cavity is right there? Yeah? They did.
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: They didn't say like come back. They said I could,
• 0:45
  Speaker 2: but I was like, no, just get over it. I've
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  Speaker 2: never had a cavity, at least I don't remember ever
• 0:49
  Speaker 2: having a cavity. I've been bragging my whole life that
• 0:52
  Speaker 2: I've never read a cavity, and this time I had
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  Speaker 2: two little cavities and she's like, let's just knock it out.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, I didn't know to expect.
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: I didn't even consider that i'd be talking weird.
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  Speaker 1: You're not talking?
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  Speaker 2: Am I okay? Good? Because I feel like I am.
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  Speaker 1: And your mouth is moving normally, but it probably just
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  Speaker 1: feels like it's like heavy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I have a lot of notes too. I already told Ingride.
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  Speaker 1: She's already mad at us. That it's late, which was
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  Speaker 1: her fault because she wanted me to be on a
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  Speaker 1: call earlier. But she's mad that it's like to go.
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  Speaker 1: It's going to be a long episode, so.
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  Speaker 2: Just sorry, sorry, So let's get started.
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  Speaker 1: Let's don't chit chat. Just still talk about your thought
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  Speaker 1: that you never had a cavity and forgot that you did.
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  Speaker 1: That will save that for Fridays showing. Yeah, it's like
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  Speaker 1: my dad has always right, He's never had a ticket,
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  Speaker 1: he's never had a car accident, and he's eighty eight.
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  Speaker 1: So that's fretty.
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  Speaker 2: It's really yeah, yeah, that's it's shocking.
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  Speaker 1: And let me tell you something about my dad. He's
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  Speaker 1: a rule follower. And also there is a couple on
• 1:55
  Speaker 1: here that is so so exactly close to people that
• 2:03
  Speaker 1: I have in my life that I know that I
• 2:06
  Speaker 1: won't even be more specific than that.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I mean looking through, who would it be?
• 2:12
  Speaker 1: It's it's Shane Annabel there we go. Yeah, and it's
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  Speaker 1: it's a rough watch for me. It's not a rough
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  Speaker 1: watch for me. I think it's hilarious. I thought it
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  Speaker 1: was hilarious when it was something in my own life,
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  Speaker 1: and I think it's hilarious watching this loser on television. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: but we're not gonna start with them. Yep, I said
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  Speaker 1: it so. Ninety Day Fiance Season twelve, episode one, Whoop
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  Speaker 1: Whoop in My Getting.
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  Speaker 2: Married era, Yes, are they all gonna be eras? Are
• 2:42
  Speaker 2: they all going to be Taylor Swift?
• 2:44
  Speaker 1: Is it gonna be Taylor Swift? Is it gonna be
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna have to see. We never can quite figure
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  Speaker 1: it out until the next episode. What the theme is gonna
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  Speaker 1: be for the titles. But I think we're the only
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  Speaker 1: podcast that really cares about titles.
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  Speaker 2: But we do know we for sure are for sure
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  Speaker 2: and we and I take it personally when they don't
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  Speaker 2: make sense like I take me totally. That would be
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  Speaker 2: my number one question if I met mister Sharp, I
• 3:09
  Speaker 2: would say, what the f was going on with your
• 3:12
  Speaker 2: weird order of flying a plane? Last season?
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  Speaker 1: It made no sense?
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  Speaker 2: And I can't you asked light us that you first
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  Speaker 2: land and then you take off, and then and then
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  Speaker 2: you crash and you put your luggage up and then
• 3:27
  Speaker 2: you go pee and then myle High club, it makes sense.
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  Speaker 1: It made no sense. We didn't like it, but let's
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  Speaker 1: fingers crossed.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 3:36
  Speaker 1: In My Getting Married era. So we're going to start
• 3:39
  Speaker 1: with Mallory and Raschet. She calls him rash because for
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  Speaker 1: some reason, Rasheet is too hard for her to pronounce.
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  Speaker 2: I was waiting for it to be like sounding like
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  Speaker 2: the Pentecostal lady doing tongues and tongues. I thought it
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  Speaker 2: was going to be like Russia, and I thought, Okay, sure, Rush,
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  Speaker 2: that's fine. When she said Rushi.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, because it has the r A and
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  Speaker 1: then it has like the weird, funky j it. But
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  Speaker 1: he says, my name is Rashiet. Yeah, not hard Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So anyway, she calls him rash and that's cute. There's
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  Speaker 1: a lot of chatter about these two already. People are like,
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  Speaker 1: how could this girl take this sweet, you know, Muslim
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  Speaker 1: guy to the backwoods of Alabama. She's horrible for doing that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I believe in their love. I think they're
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  Speaker 1: a cute couple. And that's where she lives. That's where
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  Speaker 1: she lives.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, they're such a cute couple and I'm not looking.
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  Speaker 2: He seems adorable and genuinely loves her, and I cannot
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  Speaker 2: I am dreading watching the joy sucked out of his face.
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  Speaker 2: He deals with reemics, possibly supporting she said. She said,
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  Speaker 2: she said, I'm very sad already, Rushie, you can come
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  Speaker 2: to California and hang out with me, and I.
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  Speaker 1: Wonder and I'm tanny. Listen, you said, I'm purvy kurfy O.
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  Speaker 2: He just didn't like the skin ladies.
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  Speaker 1: No, he doesn't like the skin ladies. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I like that about you, Russie, You're gaining some love here. Well, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I understand that's where she lives. So I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: in all the years of covering this show, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if like you say, I'm moving to Athens, Alabama
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  Speaker 1: while you're there, can you say we have now decided
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  Speaker 1: to move to Atlanta or Nashville or Birmingham like a
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  Speaker 1: bigger city. Can you move or do you have to wait?
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  Speaker 2: And I don't think it's like being on parole right.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying, is like, if you put
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  Speaker 1: that as your address, then do you have to paperwork?
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  Speaker 2: If you move, I'd have to file paperwork.
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  Speaker 1: So for now, this is where they're gonna be and
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  Speaker 1: they haven't even gotten there yet, and I'm already concerned.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I'm already I wrote good luck in Alabama. Bro.
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  Speaker 1: And by the way, I went on picheaded Facebook group
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  Speaker 1: last night and was like, Okay, we're gonna do a
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  Speaker 1: live We're gonna talk through the whole episode. And I
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  Speaker 1: only got like thirty comments eleventever to freaking a freaking
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  Speaker 1: Matt and Jakes, they had like four hundred. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: now hold on a minute, because I know we haven't crossover,
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  Speaker 1: let's talk, let's talk in both groups. I'm gonna try
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  Speaker 1: it again next week. And if you guys aren't into it,
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  Speaker 1: it's fine. I was just trying to like engage. I
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  Speaker 1: would join.
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  Speaker 2: I will go on to Facebook, which I never ever
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  Speaker 2: do and it causes me, but I'll try. Okay, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So Mallory describes herself and she's like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: like talking about myself, but I don't know. I guess
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  Speaker 1: basic white bitch. And she tells us where she lives
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  Speaker 1: in Athens, Alabama. God bless if you're fun from there,
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  Speaker 1: come at us in the comments and tell us that
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  Speaker 1: this place is.
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  Speaker 2: Not like this.
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  Speaker 1: She has described it as redneck, and she says, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know my friends and I we get into some
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  Speaker 1: crazy things for fun, and most of it involves drinking
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  Speaker 1: my mind.
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  Speaker 2: I said, please don't say cout tipping. Please don't say
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  Speaker 2: cout tipping, and then I would. They started showing home
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  Speaker 2: movies and I was like, don't show cow tipping, please,
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  Speaker 2: God survive cout tipping. See nice.
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  Speaker 1: No, she's twenty nine years old, so Mallory, it might
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  Speaker 1: be time to calm down. Although we go over and
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  Speaker 1: see Shae in Kentucky, sometimes it never leaves you. She
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  Speaker 1: has been traveling to see her fiance Rash in Turkey.
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  Speaker 1: She's been traveling for twenty hours. She's talking to a
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  Speaker 1: cab driver. She's headed to see Rash to bring him
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  Speaker 1: back to America because she didn't want anything to happen
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  Speaker 1: between here and there where he would get turned away
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  Speaker 1: or anything.
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  Speaker 2: Kara did that for gearmo oh rip.
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  Speaker 1: So she tells us Rash, her fiance is hot. He's
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  Speaker 1: higher on a scale one, he's higher than a ten.
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  Speaker 1: She goes, he's hot as fuck. They have not seen
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  Speaker 1: each other for six months, so she's so excited to
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  Speaker 1: see him. We meet Rash, who.
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  Speaker 2: Is in fact hot as fuck, super hot and in person.
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  Speaker 2: I thought he was the other guy that with the
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  Speaker 2: dark hair. Oh, he's an actor. And does impressions from
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  Speaker 2: no right right now, and I was like, oh no,
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  Speaker 2: this guy is so much hotter than that guy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that guy's from Egypt. He says, I
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  Speaker 1: am rash sheet, I am twenty nine years old. I
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  Speaker 1: am captain. I'm the captain. Now he doesn't say that,
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  Speaker 1: but he says, I am captain. He tells us he
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  Speaker 1: loves his job as a captain, so he takes people
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  Speaker 1: out on the sea there and he says it's full
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  Speaker 1: of action and fun. And he says, Mallory, his fiance,
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  Speaker 1: is sexy and he loves her mind he does not
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  Speaker 1: love skin and he's corrected. He does not like skinny,
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  Speaker 1: and she is perfect. And I do think she's a
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  Speaker 1: cute cute as a button, real cute.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, that's horrible.
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  Speaker 1: So she tells us the story. She says she went
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: on a girl's trip to grease. And he tells us
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  Speaker 1: because they're doing like a back and forth of how
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  Speaker 1: they met, and he says he did the moving of
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  Speaker 1: the finger of the swiping, and he swiped on her,
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  Speaker 1: and after half an hour she swiped on him and
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  Speaker 1: they matched, and she's like, ain't that cute? And we
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  Speaker 1: see her on video. I guess this is when they
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  Speaker 1: first were in grease and she had swiped and they
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  Speaker 1: met each other, and she says, she's like doing a
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  Speaker 1: video of herself. She says, some dude I hung out with.
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  Speaker 1: If you catch my drift braided my hair. We see
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  Speaker 1: her hair is braiking good. It's so funny, and we
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  Speaker 1: see they're cute photos and videos where it seems like
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  Speaker 1: they've known each other forever, because like he's in the
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  Speaker 1: forefront and she's in the background, like making a mean face.
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  Speaker 2: It was funny, Yeah, it was funny. It seemed like
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  Speaker 2: a more fun version of Stevie and Maddie. And I
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  Speaker 2: just say that because sometimes they weren't They They were fun,
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  Speaker 2: but not as fun as they know.
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  Speaker 1: And I think they're more fun now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I think the stress of it all made them last. God,
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  Speaker 2: and now he's from our rands.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's pretty stressful. So we see their cute videos
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  Speaker 1: and photos from the time, and she goes, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I'm planning for this to be a one night stand,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: He just fell in love with me.
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: We see their engagement. It's like they were walking down
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  Speaker 1: maybe into like a wine cellar and he turned around
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  Speaker 1: and had the ring. She was filming them going down,
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: and so she caught the whole thing and she's like, oh,
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: and it was cute. It's cute. We see her ring now, buck,
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  Speaker 1: it had to be seen. No greasy hair around.
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  Speaker 2: I'm here for it.
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  Speaker 1: We see her ring, and later on when they show
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  Speaker 1: her and she's talking, seemed to be a different, bigger ring.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so I wonder if she's like, I love this ring,
• 11:05
  Speaker 1: but I gotta get a bigger one. So it seems
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  Speaker 1: like he has a good job and everything. We never
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: we never find out anybody's job on this episode that
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  Speaker 1: I could remember, other than him being a captain.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, just a lot of just SHA's so much drinking.
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  Speaker 1: Just SHA's a real it's drinking drinking. So she says
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  Speaker 1: about going there, She goes, you know, I'm scared and
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  Speaker 1: happy and worried. What if I get him to America?
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  Speaker 1: What if he hates America? So he runs off the boat.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, oh my god. He picks her up and
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  Speaker 1: he hugs her, and this is where I wrote I
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  Speaker 1: believe in their love.
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  Speaker 2: I saw it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe in it.
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  Speaker 2: He was genuinely happy, so cute.
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: So they go on the boat and he makes her
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: walk to the front and she's like, I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to do this. He goes, no, this is my dream.
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  Speaker 1: We have to get on the front of the boat
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: like that Titanic. She's like okay, but not like when
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: it sinks and stuff. And they sit to talk and
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: he says he's really gonna miss being the captain of
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  Speaker 1: the boat and he's really gonna miss being on the sea.
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  Speaker 1: And the producer says, okay, Rash, what has Mallory told
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  Speaker 1: you about Alabama? And he goes, oh, redneck and she
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  Speaker 1: says yes, and he goes, I don't I don't know
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: what is this. What is redneck? And she goes, okay, uh, well,
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: let's see. It's a person that loves Nascar and haunting.
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: And he goes and maybe they don't like other people
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  Speaker 1: from other countries. They don't like Muslim so okay, look
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  Speaker 1: he knows what he's getting into. Yeah, and she tells him,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, there are good and bad people everywhere,
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  Speaker 1: and there are good and bad rednecks. And he goes, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't know. You don't hang out with the
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  Speaker 1: rednecks and she goes, yeah, I do I do have
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: some friends that are rednecks and he says who and
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: she like named them and yah, and she could, so
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  Speaker 1: I'll be very careful and she goes, oh, you'll see
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  Speaker 1: just like so I feel that she knows what her
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: area might be like with certain people, and so at
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  Speaker 1: least she's aware. So let's I'm because we were worried
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: about Maddie too, but it turns out like her family
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  Speaker 1: was super They had questions, but they were super welcoming
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  Speaker 1: and it turned out okay.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you also have like Kobe Kab who was
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: like probably the only black person in his town. In
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  Speaker 2: that town, he said, and he said it was uncomfortable sometimes,
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  Speaker 2: like even if he didn't experience things out right, it
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  Speaker 2: was not yes comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Yes, I think that will be the situation. So
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  Speaker 1: they're talking and he cries. He tears up when he
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  Speaker 1: thinks about leaving, you know, everything he's ever known. He's
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  Speaker 1: very sad, and he says, but I'm really happy just
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  Speaker 1: to be with you, and I'm excited, but I'm nervous,
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  Speaker 1: and I mean all these emotions. He's never left his
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  Speaker 1: country and now he's completely moving. I don't know if
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: he's never left his country.
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  Speaker 2: I wish they could do part time, like and then
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  Speaker 2: because he has that boat. It's beautiful there.
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  Speaker 1: Beautiful, I mean, my god, the sea and the oh
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  Speaker 1: so pretty so and we're talking, she says. I am
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: worried about rash being away from his friends and family.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know if he's prepared for how different life
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: it's going to be. And I do have some very
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: conservative friends who were super into deportations. It's like, oh no, oh.
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: No, Ellarie, get new friend's girl. I don't know what
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  Speaker 2: to tell you.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm just making sure that that was the end
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  Speaker 1: of them. I wanted to make sure I didn't like
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  Speaker 1: accidentally tag anything on. Nope, that's the end of them.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, they're like super into the deportations.
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  Speaker 1: Bye bye. I was like, is that at the end
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  Speaker 1: of the Oh yeah, it's like, oh wow, okay, let's
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  Speaker 1: move on to Katie and Josh. And Katie spells her
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: name like my niece. Katie spells her name with the C.
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  Speaker 1: It's cute.
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  Speaker 2: I thought it was Katie from the British UK UK
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: ninety day UK with x D. For a second, I
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: was like, wouldn't that be funny? Because they broke up
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: remember her? Yes? Yeah, and what was his name? Alejandro? Yes?
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh it was Where where did they come
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: come from?
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  Speaker 2: What a memory? What a memory? Wow? And they seemed
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: to really love each other, but they broke up.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: He abandoned her when she found out he was when
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: he found out she was pregnant.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Is that what happened? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, they got married and then after the wedding they
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: traveled for like six months, and then all of a sudden,
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: he just completely dumped her when she said she was
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: pregnant and like, he has never met the baby. The
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: baby's probably like one, but the yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Fuck.
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  Speaker 1: She It was like hard for her to get a
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  Speaker 1: divorce from them. She was like, oh my gosh, yours
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  Speaker 1: want to meet the baby, and he like completely ghosted,
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  Speaker 1: would never speak to her again.
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  Speaker 2: Because they never spoken to her again. That's disgusting. They
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  Speaker 2: were married, completely married. I'm shocked. I don't think I
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: knew that part. I just kind of knew that they
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  Speaker 2: had broken up. Wow. I'm so disappointed. Okay, also doomed
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: are this Katie and Josh. I'm just kidding. I'm rooting
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: for them, but they are never gonna work.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: Never, ever, ever, ever, getting together. She this girl, we'll
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: talk about it. But this girl, this, this is never
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: gonna work, even if.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: There were no substance abuse issues or mental health issues.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: They're just such opposites. And it's the kind of opposites
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: like the odd couple where it's like funny at first,
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: and then maybe when you're young it's funny, and then
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: you just murder each other and you wind up on
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: dateline like they's so opposites. He will never be able
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: to stand for any of this. This is who would
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: and funny and chaotic and sexy at first, and then
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: it's like no. And also I don't know how nice
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: he is about things to her in her issues, So
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I'm just unhappy. So she's twenty six from Portland, Oregon.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: She is You may remember think this sounds familiar because
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I talked about it briefly in Kimberly's corner last week. Yes,
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: so she is. We meet her as she's getting drunk
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: on a plane with the little bottles and.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Why funny's fun for filming as drunk, I don't know.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: As they are as she's landing landing, she lands back
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: in America. She has been traveling for three years, being
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: a nomad. She had a hoe phase for a long time,
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: that's her words. And now she's back in her hometown
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: of Portland to settle down. So we see her jogging
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: to meet her run club because apparently people like to run.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: I've heard of this for a hobby. And then they
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: meet and run together. Yeah yeah, right, and then and
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: not in a like you have to do it for
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: gym class kind of way.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: They do it on purpose. They run on purpose, and
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: then later they get drunk. So oh yeah, they do
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: make sense.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: So she says she's a very impulsive person. Her friend
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: told her about this pet sitting for this pet sitting
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: thing where you can travel around the world and you
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: basically move from pet sitting gig to pet sitting gig
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: so you get rent free. And she signed up the
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: next day and left her apartment and just travel for
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: three years. And then her boob gets itchy. Well she's
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: in the and we've all been there, and she scratches
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: it and Mary Pain's never been there because she is
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: a lady. I've been there. My boobs have been itchy,
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: and I have itched them, but not during an interview
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: on television. But whatever, I.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Mean, if you have an itchy boob. I mean, it happens.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Things on your body will get itchy. But she don't
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: need to be like, yeah.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: She didn't put her hand down her blouse. It was
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: outer blouse.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you also don't need to say it. That's
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: an inside thought.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: She has no filter, which I do appreciate as a
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: no filter yell. So Josh, her fiance is coming soon.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: He's British kind of reserved, but he doesn't judge her
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: for her OCD or her personality quirks, except we learned
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: later that he totally does judge because she's hard to
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: be around. She's hard, she's chaotic. They used the chaotic
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: word fifteen times. So that is like the nice way
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: that they have decided they're going to refer to her personality. Okay,
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: So they asked her to tell the story of how
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: she met Josh, and she has the good taste to
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: seem to be embarrassed for a second and hesitant to
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: tell the story, which I appreciate. So she was pat
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: sitting in England. She was lonely. She swiped on Tinder.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: She met matched a guy named Dave and he said, Hey,
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: I'm hanging out at the bar with my friends tonight,
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: why don't you come? So she hung out with Dave
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: and his friends. They were drinking. She made out with Dave.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: Later on in the night, Dave got kicked out of
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: the bar for some unknown reason, and then she called
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: one of his friends hot, then made out with him,
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: then tried out, tried to make out with Dave's best friend,
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: but he had a girlfriend and turned her down. There
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: was another friend there named Josh. She asked Josh to
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: make out and he said no, because you just made
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: out with at least two of my friends, right, And
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: so she went to the bathroom and filmed herself super
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: drunk in the bathroom, saying, there's this guy there. He's
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: so cute, long hair, I don't remember his name, but
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: I want him so bad. It's so bad. But she
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: liked him that from that first night. Didn't know his
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: doesn't remember his name, but liked him. So then there
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: was a creepy guy outside the bar, probably hoping that
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: she would make out with him too, and so she
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: wanted to get away from that guy, so she asked
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: Josh to walk her home, and then on the way home,
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: they made out passionately on a bench and then he
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: said he had to pee in a bush, and he
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: got up to pee in a bush, and she ran
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: home and abandoned him while he was peeing in said bush.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: And she says, and that's how I met my fiance.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: And then later she was pet sitting in Milan. She
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: was lonely again, and she messaged him, why don't you
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: come visit me in Milan? And he did, and so
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: does he have a job. And they had sex a
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: bunch and she learned that he's allergic to nuts and
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: she shouldn't kiss him if she has nuts in her mouth,
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: And then she says, not nuts in my mouth. So
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: she catches herself with this sexual numendos A lot.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Question when she fled on foot when he was peeing
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: in the bush, Yeah, obviously that had exchanged numbers. Or
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: she went back to the bar the next night to
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: look for him, like.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I think that's at some point exchange or she found
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: him on social media, or she.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: Texted the original guy she had the date with. It
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: was like, hey, sorry, you got kicked out of the bar.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I tried to bang three of your friends. Can you
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: give me that guy with the long hair's name?
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: I don't remember. Thank you, appreciate it, So she loves him.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: He is polite and more reserved than her, and he
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: definitely wouldn't talk about Anal on the subway. And the
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: producer says, would you talk about ana on the subway?
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: And she says, I would talk about Anaal on the subway.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: And she probably has pretty specific but all right, yeah,
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: I feel like she has. So after the run, the
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: running club goes to a bar, because drinking and running
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: goes hand in hand, and she tells them how she
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: was traveling around and she went to Mexico for a
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: friend's wedding and she pardoned too hard, shocker, and she
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: did get a little emotional thinking about her vows at
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: this wedding. And we learned that Josh proposed to her
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: during a sunset in Turkey. So again another trip. How
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: how is he going on.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: All these We don't know anybody's job. They aren't telling
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: us anybody's job.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Well, my couple, my next couple, Blondie, we know hers
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: and his, so okay, that's right, that's right, Okay, go ahead.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: So in Turkey he pretended to do that thing where
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: you set a timer on your phone and say I'm
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: taking a selfie of us, but it's really a video,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: and then he pulls out the ring and she says,
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I wish I would have known, I would have looked cuter,
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: which I thought was relatable. And they're also drinking, of course,
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: of course, of course, so she says he truly gets her.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: But she's worried because her OCD makes her do some
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: pretty bad decision making things, and she's worried she's going
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: to ruin things. She will, and she tells her friend
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: that she's really stressed. She's like at a nine out
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: of ten, and she's been so stressed that she's gotten
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: drunk and kissed people lately, which is her stressed response.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: And it's just so crazy, it's so wild. So she
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: has apologized a lot to Josh. She says it's because
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: of her OCD. She has intrusive thoughts because of her OCD,
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: and when she's really drunk, it comes out if she's
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: feeling really happy because she's drunk, or if she's getting
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: drunk because she's very stressed, or if she's getting drunk
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: because she's very insecure, which are all of her motivation,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: all of the range of emotions are why she drinks
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: any She drinks for any emotion. That's warning signed number one.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: It is then and then she really wants to make
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: out with people when she has any of these negative emotions,
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: And it's been happening frequently lately, and she says it
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: stems from really wanting to feel wanted. I think there
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: might be a self esteem issue and she wants to
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: feel desired or something. I don't know if she's feeling
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: like if I don't kiss someone, something bad will happen,
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: like those kind of OCD thoughts. Bottom line, I've never
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: heard of this before. I'm not saying it's not real.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: I'm sure it's a thing. I think one of the
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: huge things that is in her control is if she
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: stopped drinking. And as much as it could be in
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: control for it being an addiction, she could try or
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: take steps, get support, right, try to stop drinking. OCD
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: you can't change. There's therapy and medications, which I don't
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: know if she's on. We don't know the details.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: But well, here's what I'll say about that. She said
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: she got diagnosed with the OCD as a child. Yeah,
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: the school, you know, they sent her okay, But now
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: she's a full grown adult and she has obviously a
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: whole lot of different things going on. I don't know
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: if she has a misdiagnosis or if she has the
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: right diagnosis, but other things have popped up as she's
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: gotten older.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's for sure some other things of some ADHD.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: I would guess a lot of what she was just
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: a lot of book ADHD as much as women and ADHD.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: There's not a lot of textbook because it's not as
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: it doesn't present as obviously or as textbook like it
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: does in men and boys. But I totally agree with you.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And I will say anxiety yet anxiety all
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: these things. And I will say, guys that James Keisha
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: of Keisha and James Akisha, my other co host. Her
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: husband James has o c D diagnosed OCD. He does therapies,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: he does all the things for it. So I asked
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Keisha and James to please watch this and get back
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: to me with what they think as somebody who lives
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: with it as an adult with OCD, and every it
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: presents differently in every person. I'm not saying James will
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: be able to say that's not it or that's it.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying for them, I think it might be
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: interesting because I asked Keisha if James had ever gotten
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: drunk and decided he needed to make out with strangers
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: as part of and.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: She's sures, fuck, hope not.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: But I did ask her to just give, just give
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: their opinion from their own experience. So obviously you know
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: next week.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: What they think. And yes, it bears your worth. It's
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: fair worth, spare refewing that it doesn't present the same
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: in everyone, so you never know. But there's definitely a
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: tangled web of issues here.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Yes, and we've seen more.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: Fun, yes, and mental health issues being another and certain
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: diagnoses and that combined with the alcohol, and also no
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: structure in her life because she travels full time kind
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: of and uh so, yeah, there's a lot of issues.
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: So she says it makes her want to make out.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: She said Josh, he knows about all of these issues,
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: but he says he can't see being married to her
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: if she keeps making out with people. That seems reasonable, Yeah.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: That seems reasonable.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So her friend says that her last relationship ended
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: because she made out with someone else, and it sounds
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: like the other the guy was there because she said,
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: I was there when your last relationship broke up because
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: you were making out with someone else, so perhaps at
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: the same party as her boyfriend. Anyway, this is a
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: pattern of behavior. It is, and Katie says, I'd like
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: to stop, but when I'm drunk, my brain has other ideas.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say it.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: You're an alcoholic again. Maybe you should stop drinking.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Stop drinking, or at least try and once you see
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: how difficult it is, you might realize that you have
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: a huge dependence on alcohol.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Now we're going to need to see if Katie's got
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: any family in her life that could Yeah.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: I just feel like she needs some sort of a coach,
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: like an ADHD coach to help her get some tasks
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: done or a family member. Yeah, it shouldn't be Josh's job,
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: because he's going to get burned out really quick.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: By the way, I completely forgot that I had a
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: slide show. Oh god, Okay, keep going. Well, I'll pull
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: it up because we had to do like a Michigan
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: trying to log onto you. I know, I forgot about it.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, continue continue. So she goes to a storage unit
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: where she has all of her stuff because she's been
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: traveling full time. Her twin size mattress is what they
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: are going to be sleeping on. She says it has
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: stains on it, but they're her stains, so it doesn't
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: really bother her.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: Girl in my father, Josh, get out of here, Get
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: out of here. Let's see. I'll show you the first slide. Well,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: it's processing, it's processing. Streamyard was not happy with me today.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Who was the first couple we just talked about.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: Mallorie, Mallorie and Rush.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: This is mal that's Mallory and Rash.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Guys.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: I do have a slideshow. He looks dorky in this picture,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: but he's very cute.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, cheap picture.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: So the s with the little squirrely on the bottom
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: makes it like a sound and it's not that hard.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: It's really not that hard. And then this couple is
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Katie and Josh. Yeah, wow, she looks super pale there.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: She's gonna say.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: She that is she's pale, Galley, she's a ginger.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a gorgeous girl. And she does in a
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: lot of ways remind me a little bit of Kara
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: of karying Guermo. Hmm, okay, continue continue with the.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: Sarah also had a drinking issue when during her ninety
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: days with Guermo.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: She would get drunk and singing, but Shada.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: She would get drunken party and he hated it and
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: kept he was threatened to call off the wedding.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: And then they got married and they still hated it. Yeah, so.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: Her friend, okay, let's see, she's she goes to the
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: storage unit. She has a stained, sticky mattress and it's
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: also a twin size, and she's like, we're just gonna cuddle.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: It's fine. So she's had her stuff in storage, but
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: she doesn't have a lot of stuff anyway. She had
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: like four boxes and like a very small rack of clothes.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: So she said, what her some boxes are very organized
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: and some are not. One that she goes through has
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: a jar of beans in it and a keyboard and
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: an olive oil packet, and she says, Josh just isn't
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: ready to live with all my chaos, and he's coming
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: the very next day. She promised him that she would
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: get an apartment for them, but she is not surprised. Yeah,
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: she says, for me, it's not a big deal. I
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: could sleep in my car. But the night, one night
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: of discomfort is too much for Josh.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: And too much to ask that this man flies over
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: from England and you have a place for him to live,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: as you know, as you told him you would.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: No, I don't think it's too much to ask, So
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: she says, I don't always do the things that I
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: say that I will do, and or I don't do
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: them the way he likes them done. And sometimes it's
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: me being lazy or procrastinating, but sometimes it's my OCD.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: She gets fixated on details and big things like apartment,
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: follows through the cracks, and she was diagnosed as a kid.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: She is often too busy checking the stove or the
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: door lock, or her teeth because she has this fear
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: of them being chipped. So those kind of thoughts make
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: her run out of time to do the important tasks
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: like finding an apartment, and she helps Josh won't be bad.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: She says, I tried. I really did so at all.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you tried. I think you need help.
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: I think you just need assistant, someone to sit with you.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: And she needs some body doubling therapy, which is like
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: where you have somebody like you can even have go
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: to a website and people do tasks together like on
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: their computers. No one's talking to each other, but it
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: helps to like have someone there that's also working. And
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: have you ever heard of this? You've heard of them
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: were helpful, It's very helpful. There's like a bunch of
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: websites that do it. Or you could just put on
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: a video of someone like doing like admin tasks on
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: their computer and it's like, Okay, I'm doing admin, they're
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: doing admin. I don't know.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: They've never heard of this in my life.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's called body doubling, and it is very helpful
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: if you have ADHD or executive dysfunction, things like that.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: So tell my daughter about this, is she knows.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: Maybe she knows about it. She might know if she
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: needs a website. I know one. Okay, So she says,
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: at first Josh was understanding, but lately that's sort of
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: faded and he's been more disappointed in her. And I
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: think he maybe thought it was like fun at first,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: that she's so chaotic and wants to have sex all
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: the time and doesn't do follow through. But that's not
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: going to be fun when they're living together. And so
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: she says that he is very understanding as a person,
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: but anyone would lose their patients dealing with her chaos
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: yet the chaos word. So she then we see her
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: in a hotel room. She got a hotel room for them, good,
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: and she's decorating with red and white, red, white and
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: blue things and she is making cake pops.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: And why was that flag backwards?
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: I think she brought a cheap ass thing temu dollar
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: tree and it was clearly backwards, and.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Just making sure because I was looking at it, I
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: was like, that is in fact backwards.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but I don't think he would have noticed.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I would have noticed. So then
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: she reveals that she did actually sign a lease for
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: an apartment. She found it online, but she hasn't seen
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: it in person, so she doesn't know. She hopes the
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: pictures were accurate. She's worried that he'll be jet lagged,
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: and she wants to have a good night wink wink.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: She says their sex life has been a little bit dull.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: She says dull, that's not they don't have sex enough.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: She asked him to bring condoms so that he'd know
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: that she wants to.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: It's like a hint. I would hope that he would
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: know that.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but apparently maybe he wouldn't. He's just not
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: He seems a bit like Matthew of Greta and Matthew Yes,
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: And she says she can. She's loud and yeah right
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: wild in Ben and he was I think more vanilla
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: like this life in bear can this is life n
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: So she says he's very reserved and he doesn't like
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: to talk about sex, where she is very open. Remember
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: anal on the subway exactly. And then she drives to
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: the airport. She drops a cake pop on the ground
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: and she's like, I won't have him eat that one.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: That's nice. That's nice, I hope not. So she drives
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: to the airport. Listen, I was proud she got there
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: on time because I know people like this and just
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: being on time would be a huge achievement. So good
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: for her. And she wants to make out with him
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: at the airport, but he hates PDA. Again, they're just
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: full lot of opposites in so many ways. So she
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: gets to the airport, she's waiting for him, she's nervous,
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: she's excited. He comes out. She's right there, hugging. She says,
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: can we make out for like four minutes please? And
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: they time it. They put a timer on the screen.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: Ten seconds he pulls away. Yeah, she's very into the
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: four minutes. Have you noticed that she said that more
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: than once? Yeah, to make out in minutes? Yeah yeah,
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Well first she said ten minutes in the car ride there,
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: and then she lowered it to a more appropriate for
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: him four minutes. But that was way too long. Ten seconds.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: He was falling away.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: I think two seconds in the airport is enough.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: In the airport, yeah, you're in there, so there's all
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: those germs around. So he says he's never been super
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: into PDA. He feels self conscious, and so they're in
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: there talking head together, and she says, will you make
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: out me for four minutes now? And she tries to
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: kiss him and he pulls away. He's like, so she
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: puts her the American Uncle Sam hat on him, and
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: she tries to explain to him who Uncle Sam is,
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: but she doesn't really know.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: And I was like, no one does, no, Yeah, nobody does.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: Don't worry girl.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So she tells him she got a hotel and
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: the apartment got approved, but they might have to wait
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: a few days is to move in, and he seems
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: fine with that. He's like, at least I have a
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: roof over my head. They both have just red lipstick
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: all over their faces like they're the it, they're penny Wise,
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: the clown. They're just because she loves a bright red lip.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: And then that ten seconds of lipping was too much.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: So then she shows him her red lingerie at the airport,
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: which is just a bunch of string pieces, and he
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: giggles like, Gino, no.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: We're getting rid of g We're getting ridgi.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she says, and he goes, it looks lovely. Can't wait.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: And they say they don't know what to expect living
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: together because they're such opposites. But and he goes, she's
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: chaotic and.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Lovely again, that's fun when you're young.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And then he goes, but we're in love, so
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: here you go. Good luck. And then as they're leaving
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: the airport, she says, will you make out with me
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: for four minutes now?
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: And he goes, She's like, once we get in the car,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: will you make out with me for when you make
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: out for four minutes in the drive leg?
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: Will you make out with me?
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: You know, on a bus, on a train, on an airplane?
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Now what I'm actually you know, like OCD and other
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: mental health things have a lot of sensory components to them,
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: and like sometimes certain sensory things like just drive me insane.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: Like I'm sure you have the same we all have
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: the same things. But like I'm thinking, is making out
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: for her like a really big sensory thing, Like she
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: feels safe her tongue is in someone's mouth, and so
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: she just it's like a self soothing behavior, like a
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: dog licking its paw.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: Perhaps, but it's gonna be rough to have a job
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: and go through life if you're sing is making out? Yeah,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: like my sistery thing is fucking I'm sorry.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: I was like, can I just talk to you for
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: a second. You've been late a couple times? Do you
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: want to make out? Because I'm getting herpis right now? Yeah?
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Are you okay with them making out? Just give me
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: one minute?
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: One minute, one minute and fourteen seconds? Okay, Well, let's
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: it makes me sad.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: But bottom line, they make me sad because I just
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: think that it's not gonna work, and I feel bad
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: for both of them, and I just don't think they're
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: right for each other. I do not believe in their love.
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's move on to Shae and Annabelle. Here they are.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I feel like maybe they didn't take this picture together
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: because they're not touching and all the other couples are touching.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, this is I'm never gonna remember that his
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: name is Shae because I've only known one several. All
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: the shades that I've known have been female. Oh, okay,
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: and he is a a a larger white man, middle
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: aged man out a county fair.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Yep, yep, yep, yep. He's husky. He's husky.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: Now husky. He always says barbecue sauce on him on
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: his person.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just in case. Yeah, Shaye is His name is
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: Shane McGuire. And we know this because his gate in
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: front of his house is Oh.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: It's an irishy name. Okay, Shay McGuire.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: From Paduka, Kentucky. And this is Annabelle. They are both
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: fifty four. Annabelle is from the Philippines.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: Now, can I say how thrilled I was that she
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: was his same age? Yes?
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Like I was, mm hmm.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: It's nice to see. I stood up and clapped.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: It's nice to see. Well, this is the couple that
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: reminds me of somebody that I know. O God, Okay,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: so let's just go with that. Okay. So did you
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: notice when Shay walks into the county fair or wherever
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: they are, they're playing a song that sounds like Maclamore.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: It's like gret store. Yes, it sounds like thrift store.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like, there's no other Macamore.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's the only one. So I was like,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: what a stud. Okay. So he walks in, he walks in,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: he is.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: The ladies are fighting over this man.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: This is Ladies love cool Shay. Okay, Ladies love cool Shay.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: They love him. I'm not never never, never gonna get it,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: never gonna get it, never gonna get it, never gonna
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: get it. So he's a realtor. He's also an auctioneer.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Give me five, give me five, give me four, or
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: give me four, give me four, give me six, give
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: me six. He does that.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: I think he did a very good job. Actually, I
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: thought it was fairy mid Like, Okay, we could have
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: gone faster. I'm just gonna say it.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: I agree, I agree. I thought it was mid. So
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: he says, if you live in Patucah, you know who
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I am. Oh, it's always five o'clock somewhere, so you
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: always catch me having some fun. He's at this you know,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: county fair or whatever, outside eating some barbecue. A girl
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: named Angie says, I don't know what it is about Shaye.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: Women are just drawn to him. He's flirty if I were,
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: if if he were single, if he were single, I
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: might consider it. Angie. We are looking at you and
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: we are looking at this man, and we say, there
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: is no way on God's green earth you would ever
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: be attracted to him.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: She looks like a real housewife of Kentucky.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: She's beautiful and young and young, yes, but.
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: Women, you know what, Women don't place as much value
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: on looks as men do. And if personality goes a long.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Way, I agree. But I think in this situation it's like,
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: if he was single, I might consider it. But she
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: can say that because she knows he's not single, right
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: She say that to be nice. Yeah, it prove it.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: So his buddy Greg is standing there and he says,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: I met Annabelle Ate never had no barbecue like this before,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: And Shaye tells us he met Annabel through Greg. We
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: later find out Age is Greg's daughter. Okay, Shae met
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: Annabel through Greg. Greg spends six months in the Philippines
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: and his wife and Annabel were best friends. So one
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: time when Greg was over there, he's facetiming, hands the
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: phone off to Annabel, who pretends she doesn't speak English,
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: and he thought that was hilarious.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: So I do like the friends that met through the
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: people that met through friends, because it's less. I am
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: specifically looking to be a sex tourist, and yes, find
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: someone in the younger in another country that's younger than me.
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: Agree with you, Rick, this is the opposite of how
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: Rick meets his ladies.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: Right, or one of four thousand other people on the.
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: Show, because I could have mentioned so many.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And he says, you know, I have felt that
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Annabel is a godsend to me. She is a sweet,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: caring person, and after a few months of our daily talks,
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: I went to meet her in the Philippines. And he says,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: I first met her and I said, let's go get
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: something to eat, and he said, but I said, I
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: gotta take a shower first. Good Shay, after you've flung
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: for thirty hours, take a shower.
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that's enough to make me get it.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: Why the ladies like him, but at least he is
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: clean and welcroomed.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: And he says, you know, So I went to get
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: in the shower and she jumped in behind me, and
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: I said, can I help you? Took her clothes off,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: and she said, I'm here to scrub you. And he scrubbed.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: She scrubbed every inch of my body. She went into
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: crevices I didn't even know I had. Then she tripped
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: her toenails, and that sealed the deal I proposed a
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: few days later. It sure is easy to get comfortable
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: as somebody scrubbed your butt cheeks. Well wow, Now I
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: will tell you in the story of the person that
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: I know, the trimming of the toenails is a thing.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: The person that I know that was the Shay and
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: the Annabelle. The annabel would just say, time to trim
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: the toenails. That's going on the front lawn, so all
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: the neighbors can see.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: You trim your toenails on the front LAWNE. My mom
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: took care of my dad's feet. Yeah, but they were very.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Back and for fifty years, right right, So he is
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: telling the friends there at the barbecue that Annabelle's coming
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: in a few days and Greg goes, maybe when she
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: gets here, you're gonna calm down, and he goes, oh, hell, Annabelle.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: She usually tells me to drink moderately, and I tell
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: her about a third of what I drink, Like if
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: I drink twelve, I tell her I drank four, Like, sir,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: what are you doing?
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: And they keep cutting to the the friend's daughter king
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: so judgy, like, how dare she try to rein in
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: my man and tell him that he's drinking too much and.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: He's trying to have fun.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: We're just trying to have fun out here. Yes, God forbid.
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: She wants him to keep his liver, like not what
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: a bitch.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: Also, she can see the writing on the wall. She
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be with us for long, and she's gonna
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: be so so she says. He says, she told me
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: the partying is over when she gets here. That's what
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: she said. The talking to Eddy goes, well, sometimes when
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: I'm partying at the lake, it gets wild.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: But you know, like.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: Vegas, what happens at the lake stays at the lake.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: Why has everybody got to know everything?
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: And uh no, she doesn't know everything that happens at
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: the parties. But people in Patuca they talk, you know,
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: the facebookers. They're gonna tell her, and I don't want
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: her to hear all of this, and it's just gonna
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: be a big mess.
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: You mean, you're cheap. The fact that you cheat on
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: her regularly, Its just like it.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: That's what it is.
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: That is God forbid she should hear that you were cheating.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: The face of the woman who is leaving her entire
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: life to come to live in Kentucky with you.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: Oh so, another girl who's blond named Stephanie goes, so,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: you're gonna give up the partying and the lake for Annabelle?
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: And he goes, you think I would? You think I would?
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: And he goes, no, I won't. She'll either like it
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: or she won't. She's either in her she's out. I
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: think that guy big talking from this guy, that's what
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I think.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, No, he's gonna beg for her forgiveness. I'll never
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: drink again, I swear so.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: The talking head he tells us he's been married two
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: times and divorced two times, and he has great kids.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: He tells us about his kids. He's got Hunter, two
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: daughters in the middle, Abigail and Alison, and then the
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: youngest child and he says child more than once. He
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: never says boy or girl. He's my youngest child is Madison.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: So shye uh we meet his daughters, so they're there,
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: so we see that Shaye's got this property with the
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: gate that says Maguire. And then there seems to be
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: like a trailer home there on the property that his daughters.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: Come out of.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: And he's showing the daughters a closet full of clothes
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: that he has bought for Annabel, and he says, well,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: you know, Alison, my daughter, she's got real good taste.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: Fuck Abigail, she's got terrible tastes. Look do you see
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: those tattoos. No, Alison is the classy one. So he says,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: Alison has good taste. So he wants Annibal to Annabel
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: to kind of dress like her and look like all
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: the other women and fit in because she doesn't have
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: a lot of clothes, and when she gets there, she's
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: gonna need to fit in and have new clothes. Now,
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it that he bought clothes, but.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: She's they're never gonna treat her like she fits in.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: But she's a fifty four year old woman doesn't need
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: to be dressed in like your daughter. Maybe she doesn't
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: want to. Yeah, you know, so I'm talking head. Alison
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: tells us I love my dad like he bought me
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: the house next door. It's free rent, it's free childcare.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: And also I can keep up with whatever he's doing.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: We do everything together. I want to go to the lake,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: I go with my dad. I want to go out
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: drink and go with my dad. I want to go
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: to a movie. Ask my dad got a football game?
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: I want to go with my dad. So we do
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: everything together. So I am nervous to meet Annabelle, and
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: I hope she knows I come first, not her. What
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: can go wrong.
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: Anyone else? Getting Mina and Jordan and what's his face?
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: Flashbacks mm hmmm, rich guy, Yeah, pilot Mark Mark Pilot.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: This got the brother child.
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: And Jordan was like, I come first. I'm the daughter.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: She just got married to that that and the pictures
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: were really cute.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: They no, what's his face? He's still not here.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: I think the son's name is because I wrote underneath.
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: It, where is Yeah? I saw your comment?
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because where is he? The sons call him Jacques,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: but it's not Joque. Why is it he there yet?
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. There's something going on. And people
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: were really critical that why did they have to get married?
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: Why couldn't they wait for Philip? Philip?
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: No, get there. It's not Philip, damn. His name is
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: something like Maxwell or Jackson or it's coming to me.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: It's coming to me. I can hear her saying it
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: right now. His name, it's like it's like two words together,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: like Maxwell or Clayton Clayton, Clayton Clayton.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: But not Clayton. And Annlie no kept his mom the
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: jerbills in the closet.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he recently followed me. That was weird. Okay, So
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: and I was like.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: Who is this?
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: Oh he's a comedian now okay, yeah, okay. So she
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: says she wants Annabel to know she's first. That's not great.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: So Abigail, the bitchy sister who I love, says, so
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: do you think it's gonna bug Annabel that you and
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: dad spend so much time together and he bought you
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: a house. That's not weird? Or I wish I had
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: a house? Yes, And he says, no, whatever, whatever Allison
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: and I do, Annabel will just come with us, and
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: Alison goes, yeah, that's gonna be different. I don't I
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: don't think I want that, and Shade goes, you're gonna
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: have to cut her some slack. I love Annabelle, I
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: don't want her to get here, and you already got
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: an attitude, and so we go somewhere she's going with us. Alison,
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, I'm thinking that's not gonna work for me. Yeah,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: So Annabel's gonna get there and be like, why are
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: you paying this girl's rent? And pay what? And no,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not a free babysitter.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: No.
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: So the dogs start barking and Alison goes, who's here?
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: Who's that? And he goes, oh god coal. So Alison goes,
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: why is she here? You're gonna stop that. She can't
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: just drop by. We find out Nicole is ex wife
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: number two, mom of child Madison, and whenever she's around
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: is bad. So in the talking head, Alison goes, as
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: long as my dad is happy, Nicle will always be
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: around the corner trying to ruin it. That bitch. So
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: and the talking head she says, I do think Nicole
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: is trouble, but I haven't been completely honest with Annabelle
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: about Nicole, and uh, Nicole has dirt on me and
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: she's ready to spill it. God, my relationship with Nicole
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: was volatile, and our marriage lasted four weeks. We were
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: not a good match. She is jealous and vindictive. So
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: long enough for them to have a kid?
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: Serious four weeks or maybe they got pregnant before that.
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean maybe they already had the baby.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: But he says she jealous and vindictive. And again we say, she's.
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: One of fifty ladies who find him and his yellow
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: teeth super desirable.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: It's hot, so sexy. So Nicole arrives, she's adorable again.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: In the words of Kimberly from a Date with Dateline
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: him him, him, Okay.
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: He looks like he doesn't he looks like he has scurvy,
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: and his teeth are very yellow, and he always has
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: barbecue sauce on him, and he is just I don't
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: get it, don't get it.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: So Nicole says, and he's like, what are you doing here, Nicole?
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: And she goes, Canna speak to you privately? Can you
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: get these two bitch daughters away? So they're like, my dad,
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: they leave and she goes, so, I've heard of people
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: with the facebookers they're talking, and Nicole says, I've heard,
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: and I guess it is true that Annabelle is actually coming.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: And he goes, Yep, yep, she'sd come and just a
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: couple days. And she goes, well, when annabel comes, I'd
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: like to sit down and talk to her. So you
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: know it's gonna happen. I'm gonna sit down talk to her.
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: And he goes tell her things like what and she goes,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: what I think about Angie and also all the things
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: you have said to me, and she says to her,
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: it seems he is in some kind of relationship with Angie.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: His friend Greg's a daughter, wow, who we all saw
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: and is adorable, who looks like a real housewife of Kentucky. Yeah, beautiful,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: And so he goes, I haven't been her pretty. Yeah,
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: we haven't seen an ugo yet. And he says, I
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: haven't cheated with anyone, and especially not Angie. At the
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: talking Head, he goes, Angie is Greg's daughter, she's recently divorced.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: We are just friends, we have a friendship. And this
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: is probably Nicole's last, last ditch effort to break me
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: and Annabelle up talking ahead to Cole tells us he
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: led me on for years. Finally we got married, got
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: divorced right away, and come to find out, he was
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: talking to Annabel the whole time. So he is crazy
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: if he thinks I'm not going to tell Annabel what
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: I know and with him and Angie, I have seen
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: it with my own eyes, and something is not right
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: with that situation. I don't want this girl who's coming
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: all the way over here to make that commitment to
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: him and walk down the aisle without knowing all this information.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: I mean, that sounds reasonable. It does, and they make
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: her sound like she's crazy, but it sounds like he
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: was a cheater in the gas.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Later and I feel like she needs to tell this
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: girl in person, Like if she just just send her
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: a message, the girl would have been like, he would
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: have been like, that's my jealous X. Of course that's
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: what she's gonna say. But does Annabel know that he
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: fully married and divorced the goal while.
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: She was talking tomn.
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: So she says, look, we've been out before and gone
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: drinking and she has called, and you pan the camera
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: away so she can't see me. And he goes look anything.
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: We have done.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: If it's like I had too many beers, I might
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: pat on you and she goes or say something vulgar
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: and he goes, Okay, but I'm not gonna rip the
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: clothes off or nothing like. No way, I'm not. I'm
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: never gonna stray, not even if I drink too much.
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a flirt, but that is the extent
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: of it. I'm not gonna be like, let's sneak around
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: the corner and give me a kiss. That that that
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: that's not gonna happen when she gets here. So he
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: does it. He may pat on you a little bit
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: and say something vulgar, but he's not gonna say sneak
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: around the corner and give me a kiss once she
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: gets here.
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he may pat but he's not gonna try breed you.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: No, no reaching quote stick.
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: I'm just picturing the smells of him trying to make
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: with you at like the lake, and it just smells
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: like lake and beer and chewing tobacco and barbecue.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: I would also like somebody to tell me there was
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: a shot of them partying at the lake and he
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: appears to be drinking something. People were like chug chug chug.
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: It's a clear cup.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: It appears to have like a socket attached to it,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: like it was plugged into something. I was like, that
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: can't be safe or was it like a rope like hello,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: I'm calling my friend, Like two cups with a rope somebody,
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: if you saw that and know what that is, let
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: me know.
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: Like a funnel situation like stand, I don't have a
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: cup here.
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: It was just like a regular clear plastic cup that
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: appeared to have like a socket attached to the bottom
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: of it and being plugged in somewhere, and he was
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: drinking out of it.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: No, these people should not even be allowed near electricity now,
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: and they're wasted at the dangerous dangerous.
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: So he said, it's not gonna happen when she's here,
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: and she goes, okay, So why is it okay that
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: it happened when she's not here? He goes, I don't know,
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: she's eight thousand miles.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: Away, okay. We had a dateline called Secrets at Silver
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: Lakes and they were a yeah, they were. They did
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: some swinging and they just that was their lake culture
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: and that's what lake people do, according to them.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: My sister lives on a lake, the same lake that
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: my parents lived on, and people literally get in their
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: pontoon boat, make a circle around the lake and go
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: back home.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: No swinging that you know of.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: Nobody jumps off the boat into another boat and swings.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: They're just like, hey, waving to people on their porches.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: Anybody be like so, so seawall looks great.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: A laking kind of lake. I could do.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: It's amazing.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: So these people are like in a flotilla down the
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: river and it's like just poop and pee and I
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: don't know what they're vommet and beer and.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: It's just like on Real Housewives of OC when they
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: talked about going to think about that, like I don't
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: know what to.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: Pass, Like I was totally thinking about that, so she says.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: Nicole says, Shay, I have been in bed with you
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: when she called and answered the phone. When she called
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: and I answered the phone, and he goes, I don't
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: know what that was, like we went to a concert
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: or something. I don't know, Like he acts like he
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: doesn't know, and he goes. After that incident, we didn't
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: even talk for a while. So thanks a lot.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: He didn't know she was going to bring this up
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: on camera.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: He acted like, oh, we've been on a concert like unclearly.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: Oh so I was given a drink that I did
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: not have in my sights the whole time, and.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know what happened.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: I don't know what happened. It's not my fault. Alcohol
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: been talking head, he says.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: Listen. After Nicole and I got divorced, a bunch of
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: us went out of town.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: I drank too much.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: She took me to her hotel room and I just
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: got in bed and passed out in my clothes. And
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: the next thing I know, I got a phone shoved
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: in my face. Nicole answered the phone when Annabelle called,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: and you know, Nicole, she just wants to break us up.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, you are a cheater. You're a cheater, and you're gross.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: These also, these I was just drunk excuses did not
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: work for the twenty one year old cast on Jersey Shore,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: and they don't work if you are fifty four. It's
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: oh god, this poor girl, I was just drunk. He
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: needs to be castrated. I'm just gonna say it, like
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: there is.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: Just I'm on board. On board. So Nicole says, I
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: will talk to her when she gets here, and he goes, well,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: you won't be talking to her here, and I got
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: no trespassing signs, so you can just go on now,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: and she says she will know who you are by
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: the time I get done with her, and there are
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: He goes, well, there are plenty of people that can
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: contradict what you're saying, and she goes, well, there are
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: plenty of people who were going to also say that
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: they've seen you with me and how you act with
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: me and Angie. And he's like, okay, now get on now,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: go on trespass and sign going don't make me sit
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: the dogs on you going now? And then talking, Eddie says,
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let Nicole ruin this for me. So
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: now we're like, is this going to turn into a dateline?
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: Right, yeah, Okay, that's it with them that got me
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: real worked up.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: I am upset. He is seemed so at the I
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 2: was like, eh, but he seemed like kind of like
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 2: a nice, big teddy bear type guy, you know, and
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: then he's a man horror and it's groats.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: And people are letting him get away with it.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah because they think it's charming. But meanwhile everyone's judging
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: Katie for wanting to make out with people at a bar,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: which is also not okay, not okay, but we're going
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: to call out both people equally.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: Yes, okay, let's move on to Marissa and Edward. And
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: Marissa forty five Bluebell, Pennsylvania and Edward thirty two the
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: d R. I have a question about them, and it
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: is she lives in Bluebell, Pennsylvania, which is a two
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: and a half hour train ride to New York City.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: She also lives in New York.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: She also has a place in New York.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: Correct. Okay, all right, thank you, Okay, continue, Yeah, so
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: we are at kleinfeld Yes, that Kleinfeld and I always
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: say Kleinfelds, but that's not right. They all were saying
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: it singular, and it's singular, okay, but I always said Kleinfeldts.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know why. It's from the show Say Yes
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: to the Dress, and it is. So that's exciting. And
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: I would kept looking for people because I used to
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: watch that show like many many years ago. It's been forever,
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: so I was just like, I think I remember that person.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: Are they they still there?
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: So you know Cleinfeld in Atlanta is where Monty worked
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: and Monty lives here literally right down the street, and
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: has a salon in Old Town called Monty's Hand for him.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: He's one of our famous Alexandrians.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: I love that. So Marissa is the COO and Executive
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: VP at Kleinfeld and she so this is a TLC
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: crossover and it this lady is she's bleach blonde. Her
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: teeth are so white that they are they are almost blue.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: They glow in the dark. And she's she's New York Skinny,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: which is even skinnier than La Skinny.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: So how's that possible?
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: I know. So, and she's strutting down the street New
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: York's Manhattan in a black outfit because all the people
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: that work at Cleiinfel were black, so that it's really
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: dramatic against the white dresses. Oh, she never gets have
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: you never seen the show.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: It's been a really really long time. I mean it's
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: been years and years and years, so I would never
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: remember that they all were black, so the white papa
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: can't remember.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: I always felt bad for them because I felt like
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: I would be very hot and sweaty all the time
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: because they're carrying around those very heavy dresses. Yeah, like
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: you need good arm muscles. So she says she never
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: gets tired of brides having their yes moment. When they
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: say yes. She finds herself clapping when she hears it,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: even if she's not near the bride. But her love
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: life isn't a fairy tale. She was divorced after six years.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: She has two boys, and she's was very busy in
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: a high stress job until she took a girl's trip
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 2: to the dr and met Edward. She was attracted to
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 2: his looks, his lips, his butt. She's just listing all
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: the parts that she liked about him. And he was
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: working in entertainment at the resort, always the classic ninety
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 2: day job. That and bartender. There's a lot of crossover.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: So she didn't see a future because she's an executive
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 2: from New York and he's a hotel entertainment worker. Which
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: is not the first time she says something where you
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 2: might think was that sEH a little bit of derision
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: and superiority in the way she speaks about him. So
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: I could just be projecting.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: But forty five and thirty two, so they're thirteen years apart.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: I mean that's not completely crazy.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah, But there's a whole lot of other
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: empower power imbalances.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah yeah.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: So she walks up to her coworkers, who whilse up
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 2: talking when she walks up and pretend that they love her.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 2: And it's not just because she's the boss. Totally, totally,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: it's like Marissa is here. Oh my god, she's so
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: funny everything. She says, I'm gonna laugh at right, that's fabulous.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: Do you look amazing?
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Just friends, We're totally friends.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: So her coworkers ask her about Edward and she says
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: he's coming on Sunday. She says it was three years
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 2: after they met that they reconnected. They didn't talk for
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 2: a long time. She was then taking another trip to
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: the dr with girlfriends and because she got laid the
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: first time, so.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: Must be good. Yeah, So she.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: Texted him I'm coming back to the dr and they
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: started long distance dating. She was visiting him every six
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: to eight weeks.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, well she's got the money.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: She has the money, but it was too hard to
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: do that long distance. So they got engaged and he says,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: do you want He said, do you want me to
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: get down on one knee? And she said, I don't
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: really want to have to tell you to get down
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: on one knee. So it's fine, right, but it's not
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 2: going to find.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: This is her whole business, you know, Yes, yes.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 2: He did do in rose petals on the bed. I
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: love you, Marissa, and she you hear her going ah
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: aw things like she's not that into it.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't bet.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't be into it either. It's two on the nose.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: I don't know, but I do feel like she is.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: She you didn't have to mention that he didn't get
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 2: down on one knee, and that no, didn't want to
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: have to tell him to do that, so that you said,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: and so you said it was okay, and then you
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: said in a tone as if it wasn't okay. Yeah,
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: it's not okay. Yeah. So she was very jaded to
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: the whole bride experience and wasn't going to do the
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: whole thing, but then her coworkers insisted she go big,
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 2: try on dresses, do the whole experience, and which has
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: nothing to do with her being the boss. I'm sure
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: they really love her. And we see her trying on
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: dresses and then all of her co workers scream, Marissa,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: are you saying yes to the dress? And she picked
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 2: this dress that was not my favorite. It was kind
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: of like Grecian with like that sheer paneling.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the neck.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, anyway, she can wear whatever. She's like a stick,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 2: has that coat hanger figure. I did wonder what that
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: dress cost. Nothing for her thousand nothing. Yeah. So she
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 2: goes to Dorothy and Caitlin, I did think I recognized Dorothy.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 2: I do think she's been on the show for a
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 2: long time. Okay, she says, And there was another lady
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: in the cluster of women that stopped talking, and she
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: looked very familiar.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: Was the blonde one with the with the big teeth.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, but it's silver hair. Okay, he's gone gray. Yes,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: So she says, you know, it's weird. He doesn't know anything.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: He's coming here. He doesn't know. He doesn't know how
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 2: to be an adult. Basically, like he he doesn't know
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: how to This is first time on a plane, and
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to teach him how to like live
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: life here and do everything. And so that's gonna be
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: interesting because she already has two kids, she's not gonna
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: want a third kid. And he got his body ready,
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: and then she says, he's gonna kill me. For telling you,
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: so I'm gonna tell you on television. He decided that
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: before he came here, he wanted to get an adult circumcision.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: So if you've got us talking about Shay getting his
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 2: butt cheeks loofed in the shower, we're now talking adult circumcision.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: She says. It wasn't my idea because the ladies are like,
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: did you make comments? Right? We know you? Did you
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: say things? No? I swear it was all his idea.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 2: I didn't say uh when I saw him or anything
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 2: like that. Oh. Yes. So he just thought it's more
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: common and acceptable in America. And if he was at
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: the locker room with some guys, he didn't want like
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 2: them to be judging it's penis. I guess I don't
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: think they would be.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: I don't you guys stand around neked in locker rooms
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: after high school they looking at each other, but maybe
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: they do.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 2: But she's happy that he did it. She's not going
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 2: to say she's not happy that he did it. And
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: he was fine after just a little pain, but a
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: couple days later he woke up with perhaps an erection.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 2: She says it got bigger in the morning and morning
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: Wood stop mourning Wood and he popped his stitches and
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: he had to go back to the doctor and get
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: re sutured.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: How do you avoid that, Like, how if you're not
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: allowed to have an erection because you have pop stitches
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: and you're just a guy that's like a sleep like
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, right, a natural body function. You can't help it.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe whitches, we're too tight, I don't know. So
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: they're joking and they're like, we're gonna text you on
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: Monday and ask how it was, Like did you prefer before?
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: Do you like it now? And we're totally friends with
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 2: our boss. We have her phone number, we can text her.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: That's totally fine for us to talk about our bosses.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: Penis none of this your sexual harassment or anything. Yeah, okay, Yeah,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: And she's like, I can't wait to try it out.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: He's cleared for takeoff, so I can't wait. So Dorothy
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: says she was Leary.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: She's like, I've been in New York my entire life,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: born and bred, Brooklyn. I know what I'm talking about.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: I know scammers, and I know what a scammer when
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 2: I see one. So I was Leary, And Caitlyn says, yeah,
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: Marissa is like the Golden ticket. I mean, she's rich,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: she has two cute kids. She has homes in Pennsylvania
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: and an apartment in New York. So she I'm there.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: We go okay, So Marissa says, you know, I feel
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 2: like I have real life problems. I have job problems,
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 2: I have kid problems. And he'll tell me his problems.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 2: Like a guest was complaining and I was like, that's
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 2: not a real problem. And I don't want to seem
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: like I think my life is more important than his.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 2: And they're like, no, no, you don't sound like that
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: at all, Marissa, because you're a boss. We would never
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: say that. But she is kind of saying that her
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: life is more important than his. Ironically, some might think
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: that being a young man and struggling to keep a
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 2: job and so he can support his family perhaps might
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: be a real problem compared to a rich white lady
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: in Manhattan, right who, what do I know? She is
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: a woman in a man's world as an executive. But
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: it is the bridal industry, which I think is fairly
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: has a more statistically women, I would think, but maybe
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 2: it doesn't. So what do I know? So anyway, once
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 2: once he's an immigrant here he's gonna have a whole
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: new set of problems though. Yeah, And so she's and
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: she's already like putting down his experiences.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: So this guy never stated at a hotel, he's never
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: been on an airplane, and he's led a completely different life.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a completely different life. She's gonna get real sick
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: of that, I think. And so she says, I think
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: I just have more at stake here. I mean, financially,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: you have more at stake, but and you have kids.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 2: The kids have a lot at stake for sure. Yeah,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: And she's like, I don't need a man, and if
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: this relationship brings me too much stress or unhappiness, I
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 2: will break it off. Okay, it means that also means
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: that he needs you more than you need him, if
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 2: he is going to be relying on you to support
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 2: him in America when he won't be able to work, like.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and didn't see that he had an engagement ring,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: and if so, I'm sure it wasn't bigger and she
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: had to get a new one exactly.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he did have an engagement ring, I think because
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 2: she was holding up her finger, but I'm sure it
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: wasn't big enough yet. Yeah, So she just like she
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 2: has all the upper hand in all of it situation,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: and that's classic ninety day fiance. So she walks on
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 2: from work, she video calls him. She shows him what
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: New York it looks like, and he says, I've been
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: googling things like flying on a plane, like what do
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 2: you do? And she says, I think it's cute that
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: he has to like google how do you go through
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 2: an airport and things like that, But I am concerned
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: because he just doesn't have any life experiences. Like when
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: I visited him in the dr, I realized that he
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: works in a hotel, but he's never been a guest.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: Can you even imagine he's never stayed in a hotel?
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 2: And again she thinks it's cute. Now she's not going
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 2: to find it cute in a little bit.
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: No, he was like Ethan and Olivia when they first
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: got together. Yes, and he's he's like insino man. He's like,
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: I've never seen a Coca cola before.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: And she thought him was cute. It more off really fast, Yeah,
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: where's off? Yeah? Yeah. So she asked him how his
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 2: penises and he says, it was so funny. I ran
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 2: into my doctor on the street today and he's like,
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 2: how's your penis? And he's like, he's my doctor. But
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: there were people around like listening, like were they thinking
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: are we gay or something? And like he like you,
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 2: what are they? He broke my penis and he was
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: asking how I was feeling. He's like it was funny,
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: and he says it's I'm a nervous about Michael, her
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 2: ex husband that she divorced six years ago, and I
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: think they were married for six years, so they are
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 2: good at co parenting. But she says a dad with
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 2: boys will always be worried about a new man coming in.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: I was like, when any dad worry when a dad
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 2: with girls? Girls also were also have some worries. So
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: Edward says, I know that Michael's really protective of them,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 2: and I'm worried he's gonna think I'm gonna try to
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: steal their love from him. And she says there are
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: still some bad feelings between myself and Michael, and I've
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 2: warned Edward if Michael comes in angry and gets heated,
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 2: don't respond to it. That'll just make it worse. And
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: I think we just need to set some good boundaries.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 2: And Edward's like, yeah, I'm not that worried. I'm a
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: good person and I love your kids, so I just
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: have to show him that. And she's like, uh huh,
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: but she tells us I'm very worried, and she makes
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: it seem like Michael has a temper. It does sound
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 2: like that. So that's gonna be interesting. Sounds like a
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: real asshole.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 2: So they're not blurring his face and we are going
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 2: to see him.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so well we'll see this next couple. They do
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: blur the face, and that's interesting. So we've got Asha
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: Ash i A, it's Asha, right, it is okay, thank
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: you because they you're looking at it, and I was like,
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: I was like second guessing myself. She's beautiful and her
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: guy is Maxwell. He's also beautiful. Yes, very attractive people. Yes, okay,
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: So Asha ten.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 2: Year age Okay, I was wondering about that.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's ten years older. They look the same age,
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: yeah they do.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: Ye. Yeah.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: So we start off in a Pentecostal church and oh Lord,
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: and this is interesting. So here we are in a
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: Pentecostal church and a woman is yelling, thank you Lord,
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: thank you Lord. And then this woman starts speaking in
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: tongues and no, no, no no, And they push another
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: woman to the ground and they lay hands on her.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: By this woman in her Sunday best is on the
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: dirty floor and they put their hands on her.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 2: She's barefoot too, those shoes come off. Oh, church, I
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 2: was thinking at Pentecos still, church would be a very
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 2: unsafe place for someone with epilepsy, because it'd be like,
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 2: is that a seizure or the Holy.
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: They felt the Holy Spirit? So the talking and tongue slot.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: Then she gets up and testifies that God has blessed
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: her and has sent her I'm like, are you a
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: church leader? Are you just somebody from the audience who
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: got up, because at some point she's in the audience,
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: and another point she gets up and she has a
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: Mary Cosby kind of a role in her church.
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: Right not? I was confused too.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: So she gets up and she's testifying that God has
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: sent her a marriage and she knows that God is
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: going to bring her husband to the USA and everybody
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: they sing about it, and she stomps her feet and
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: talks in tongues and then talking head she says, I'm
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: a show. I'm thirty eight, I'm from Alabaster, Alabama. Pentecostal.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: We got that girl, and she says, in my church.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: You know some churches they just sing or have a scripture,
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: no charge. We get down. She says. We believe the
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: entire Bible, and we believe in miracles, and that God
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: gives everyone a gift, and I've been blessed with many gifts.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: At age twelve, God told me what song would come
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: on next, and I was sitting there, and I was
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: sitting there, and that in sync song came on next,
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: and I said, God is blessed me.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: No, she was in a store, Mary Payne, in a store.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 2: If anyone ever has worked retail, they play the same
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: songs on repeat.
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: They said.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 2: They play the same like album or playlist, playlist, over
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 2: and over again. So they tell what song it was. Well,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 2: we don't know exactly what song it was. She said
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 2: it was in sync. It was in sync, so a
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: song they probably played every twenty minutes in that store.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 2: So if you were shopping, you might be on a
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 2: long enough shopping trip that you would hear it come
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: back again.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: Well, I'm not.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: Trying to discount the whole.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: I think I feel that you are trying to discount
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: the Holy Spirit because because God told her.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: But the only instance if this was a series of
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 2: events where she knew things or heard from.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: God from age twelve is when it started. That's when
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: it started.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: This story is not concrete evidence enough for me.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: We would need some follow up stories postage twelve. But
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: could just I want it that way could have been
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: her favorite song as she could have just been like God,
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: I hope they play it. Oh my God, that's Bactree boys. Okay,
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: So she says, her speaking in tongues is a heavenly
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: language that God understands, but the devil does not.
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 2: He's too dumb. The devil does bilingual.
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: No, he doesn't speak through a portal like Barry Plath
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: is gonna tell us something Rott. Nobody understands it, nor
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: does she. So, she says, in December of twenty twenty three,
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: she got a notification on her phone that said, here
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: comes the Bride.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: What does that mean?
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: Is God texting her?
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: Was it like Spotify was playing the next song and
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 2: they that was I literally.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: Think it was probably like a page six article and
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: the notification popped up, Here comes the Bride, and you
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: click it and like, oh, Megan Fox got married.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: That's right, and it was anyone who had the notification
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: set for yeah.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: But she felt felt that God was texting her. Yea
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: then because then in February of twenty twenty four, God
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: told her in another text message, get ready, which was
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: probably like if I had to guess, like Sephora saying,
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 1: get ready, our sales, our biggest sale beer.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So what did God do before text? Like how
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 2: did he communicate?
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: He just talked to you so excited about lines? God
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: is texting her, I don't know. So that was December
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: and then February, and then in March. She said, in March,
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: I started asking God, baby, where the hell is my husband?
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 2: I was thinking.
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: That's what she was asking in March March, and I
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: thank you.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: In a his story with that video again, that performance,
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: it just lives rent free in my head. I can't
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: get out.
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: You should also see it on It was really good
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: at SNL too, she was really good. Ooh. And God
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: told her he is not close. He is not close.
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: So she said, hmm, God, but you said he's get ready,
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: get ready and here comes the bride, Here comes the bride.
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: Get ready, But you're walking it back now God, God said,
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: your husband is coming, but he's not close. So she said, Gosh,
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: all right, So now I'm gonna why did my search
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: on my apps internationally and within two weeks she found Maxwell.
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 2: Ain't that something?
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: Ain't that?
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: So God didn't really send him. She actively installed an
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 2: app on her phone and went looking for a husband,
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 2: which is not quite the same as God sending you
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 2: a husband.
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: God said he's not close, and she said, let me
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: wide in my app, eight thousand miles out, not the
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: next town over. I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go to Chine.
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 2: Worldwide, Africa wherever.
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So she says, if someone I knew met a
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: guy from Nigeria, I would think it was a scammer.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: So I knew I wasn't going to be able to
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: just take God's word for it here. I was going
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: to have to go to Nigeria to meet him face
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: to face. Good. So she stalked talking to her girlfriend
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: and her girlfriend said, I'd like to meet a hot
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: Nigerian man, and she said, well, Maxwell has a best
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: friend named Silas. She and her friend, who was blurred
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: out in every picture. Why she she didn't? She said, said,
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: what have I done? Silas? Something happened between them, and
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 1: they are not. They were definitely definitely supposed to be
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: on this season, definitely, and Sea was so curious, and
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: Silas said, I will take that fifty dollars Amazon gift card.
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: You blow her out, I don't care. Yes, they put
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: my face all over it. So the friend is blurred out,
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 1: and I just what, lol would happened here?
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 2: So because there's four people, two couples, they were going
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 2: to have like a joint wedding. Yes, like these people
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 2: best friends everything, you know, and then there's one of
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: the four it's blurred out. Something happened with her yea.
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: So they had the time of their lives when they
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: were in Lagos. And on the third night they were there,
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: third night, third night, Silas proposed to her best friend.
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 1: And she said, and I thought it was crazy. The
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 1: Maxwell proposed the next night.
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because he didn't want to be one upped year.
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: They had a bet going that a pact who can
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: get to America?
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: And both of these girls are cute, and both of
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: these guys are cute.
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's not a Daniel situation.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: No, Michael, nothing, I poop the bed Daniel.
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 2: No, these ladies are gorgeous. She says, well, I can
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 2: assume I can't see one of their faces.
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: Well, we assume she's cute less she could be. Yeah,
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: she could be our first ugo of the episode. But
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: she looks cute. Her body looks cute.
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 2: Sona say, Shay is our first ago of the Sorry dude,
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: Crest White strips my.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: Friend in inside and out. So she says that was fun.
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 1: She says, I know there is a stereotype of Nigerian's
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 1: me and scammers, but every prophecy has lined up. Everything
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: God has told me has come true. And not love
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: my life.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 2: All God said he was coming and here comes the bride,
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 2: and then he didn't come. And then he said, well,
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: it's gonna be a while. And then God said nothing
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: about Nigeria. God said he went on that app God
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 2: said he's not close. So she said, so.
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: Let me just expand to the world.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, you gotta believe so the I'm not
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying not to. I'm not disparaging Pentecostal I'm not
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: disparaging religion. But you do have to question things and
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: sharpen up your critical thinking skills here because people will
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: use religion and bend twists and turns in their minds.
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 2: But people on ninety day do that anyway, just because
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 2: when they're in love, what twists and turns they play
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 2: in their minds.
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: I do make things. I do have to wonder. I'm
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: really trying to go and find this post. I do
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: have to wonder if he is religious? And did they
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: meet on an app that was for Pentecostal Nigerians. I mean, like,
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 1: you have to wonder.
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 2: I want to religion in his village like had with
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 2: his king and the priest there were several right, I
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 2: know what his religion is.
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 1: You got voodooed okay.
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 2: So I would assume he is religious of some sort.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: I think. So, okay. So Maxwell and Silas have their
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: interviews on the same day, and yes, people in my
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 1: circle things is camera, but I've got God on my side.
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 1: What could go wrong?
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 2: That's a little yeah. Bad things never happened to people
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 2: that are religious people, all right.
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 1: So now we're in her living room and she is
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: wearing I've said here, she's wearing a preacher shawl and
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 1: praying and speaking in tongues. But a listener posted it
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 1: and said it is a Jewish talent talite t A
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 1: l I t talite. It's a Jewish talite that she's wearing. Yeah,
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: this says a Pentecostal woman. I didn't see a Jewish
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: talite while speaking in tongues, No, I said, and her
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 1: and her shirt says we gont sleigh.
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 2: I did wonder what the I saw the we gone?
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 2: I wanted to know what the third word was.
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: Like, let me see, let me save the image and
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 1: then see if I can bring it up. You know,
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 1: I can never bring up anything I save on this computer,
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 1: but let's see if I can do it.
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 2: Judaism is brought into a lot of religions and some
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 2: might say appropriated by people and other religions. That does
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 2: look like a talit. Absolutely, it says this.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: This was a Pentecostal woman wearing a Jewish talete. And
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 1: I said, yeah, is there a Hebrew on it?
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah there is?
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 2: So okay, girl, you know, like the Plaths like people
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 2: certain there are people like religious people like that are
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 2: very Christian who will like we celebrate Shabbat and we
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 2: do you know this and that it's I don't really
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 2: get it.
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 1: Pick a lane okikolayne. So she's wearing this Sish sleet
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 1: and she's praying and talking in tongues on the phone
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: and saying the blood, the blood, the blood, the blood,
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: the blood, the blood, the blood. Okay, and then blah blah,
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: And she tells us he went into the embassy, he
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 1: got approved, he came out, showed her the picture, and
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 1: then his buddy went in, and the embassy saw that
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 1: all four of them were together and decided not only
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 1: to deny both of their visas, but also banned them
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 1: from ever going to the United States at all. I
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know about this, Okay, Now, he says,
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 1: he was bawling crying. Now, I did have this photo
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 1: that I'm meant to bring it to this slancho.
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: That, of course I forgot, but people crying.
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: No, it's not a picture of that. It is a
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 1: picture of the documents, Okay. So the first document is
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: a little piece of paper that says your visa has
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 1: been approved. We will contact you. We know it is
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 1: ready for pickup. Do not make any travel plans or
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 1: buy a ticket until you get the visa. So it's ready,
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 1: you just have to pick it up. So that's that
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 1: first thing that we saw.
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 2: Okay. That doesn't look very official.
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: It really doesn't.
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 2: So that looks like a word document that.
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: They print out like twenty on one and then just
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 1: cut it with scissors.
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 1: So this next one that we see is a more
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 1: official document, and this says September sixteenth, twenty twenty five
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: at the top. But what's interesting it says, dear applicant,
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 1: you're being denied because da da da And it says
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 1: that it is in the Republic of Binin at the top.
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: It doesn't say Lagos, Cineria. It says Republic of Binin
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 1: b E n I N at the top of that document.
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: And they didn't in.
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 2: No where where is.
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 1: So I looked it up and Bunkie Chris and I
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 1: were dming about it last night. So the visa says
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: Republica Benin at the top. Now that is a country
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: that is next to Nigeria. Fun fact, Republica Benin is
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: the Voodoo capital.
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 2: Of the world. Wow, that's the good brandan.
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 1: I wondered if he's originally from Benin and as an
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 1: adult he lives in Nigeria, but it's easier to go
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: over to Benin to get a visa than Nigeria. Bunkie
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 1: Chris looked it up and said, there's a backlog in Nigeria,
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: and Benin is one of the countries that you're allowed
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 1: to go and also to try to get and I
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: really really really feel like one time Michael also went.
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 1: They had they went to a couple of different.
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 2: Instead, and Atilla flipped out because she thought he was lying, yes,
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 2: because he had gone somewhere else. But it also happened
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 2: with David and Annie when they were trying to bring
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 2: over her cousin and her brother and they went to
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 2: a different embassy, but that was still in Thailand, the Philippines.
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 2: She well, she lives, she's from Thailand. Was it Thailand?
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 2: Yea Thailand? I trust you, but so yeah, I remember,
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 2: but she Angela flipped out at Michael.
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: You're a scammer.
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 2: You got Sam.
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: So anyway, it says the embassy in Bennin is a
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 1: legal alternative for Nigerian's but you have to have a
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: residency card for Bennen. So I am just ascertaining maybe
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 1: that's where he's from originally, because it's next door country,
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 1: next door. So she says, I told him you do
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 1: not leave the embassy. You go full Karen, You go
• 1:34:36
  Speaker 1: in there and say I would like to speak to
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 1: the manager.
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 2: You stay there and you talk to whoever you have
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 2: to talk to, and so you were of God on
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 2: your side.
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 1: Explain that God has told me. Yeah, I heard the
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 1: insinct song and then I heard this Yeah. And she
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: said there was a security guard going back and forth.
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 1: So the people in the embassy got tired of them
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 1: and let them go back in.
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 2: And sometimes Karen work, sometimes it works, all right, I
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 2: hate that expression.
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: Uh, squeaky wheel, she says. So now they're waiting to
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: talk to the embassy again. She's waiting to get his call.
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: She says, it's terrifying that one person can say one
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: thing and all of this would blow up and I
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: would lose the love of my life. So she prays again.
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 1: She goes back to speaking in tongues, and then she's
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: just like Lord Jesus, like please bless us, Please bless
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 1: the people with the embassy, blah blah blah. Maxwell calls
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 1: and he says, okay, they removed the band, So she goes,
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: you're no longer band. Praise Jesus. He says, they said,
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: we can continue our relationship and not apply for the
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 1: K one. We need to apply for the spousal visa
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: and she says, no, I'm not accepting that. Then we
• 1:35:46
  Speaker 1: would have to start over. This is not fair. We're
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 1: going to appeal this decision. I'm going to talk to
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 1: the attorney. This is not fair.
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go and talk to the manager of the world.
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 2: Who God, God, God right.
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 1: So the talking head she says, they have messed with
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 1: the wrong woman. God has never denied me anything, and
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 1: Maxwell and I are destined to be together by God.
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 1: And then that's the end of it. But they did
• 1:36:14
  Speaker 1: it this season on but it was too much. But
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: all I will say is that the Egyptian man who
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: is Medo, Debbie puts him out of the car, and
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 1: I was like, there's now another Egyptian man wandering our streets,
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 1: just like whatever his name, mood Makamude, who's still wandering
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 1: the streets of Los Angeles.
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 2: With the one suitcase with a rickety wheel.
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 1: Yep. Now, do we have time for Kimberly's corner?
• 1:36:45
  Speaker 2: No, we don't.
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 1: But do you have things for Kimberly's corner?
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 2: I do, but I could wait till next time. It
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 2: was the first episode of Diaries.
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 1: Why don't we do next time? And we will do
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 1: Double Diaries. It was good. I did watch it. It
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 1: was just like twenty more minutes of Jasmine crying than
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 1: I needed. Yeah, but so guys, what we do over
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 1: on if you're not a subscriber over on Pink Shade Prime,
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 1: we do ninety Day a Single Life, and then we
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 1: do Kimberly's Corner, where Kimberly tells us what happened on
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 1: between the sheets, which sometimes we call it between two ferns.
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 1: Sometimes we call it between the pillows. It's just whatever
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 1: comes out because between the sheets does not roll off
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 1: the tongue. So we created kimberly'ze corner.
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 2: Yes, that's what they call it sometimes.
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: And that also just means behind the scenes. So I
• 1:37:33
  Speaker 1: stop right, and so don't confuse me. So we will
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 1: do Kimberly's Corner next week because we'll have a better
• 1:37:40
  Speaker 1: flow of this TV show next week. And uh, we
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 1: were already almost a two hour so yeah, it's a lot,
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 1: and uh, you know, it's past nine o'clock here, Mom's hungry,
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: or it is almost nine o'clock here. Everybody, thank you
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 1: so much. Please make sure you're following Kimberly and Katie
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 1: on Date Dateline on Instagram, TikTok, and on YouTube. Make
• 1:38:02
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• 1:38:04
  Speaker 2: A date with K and K.
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 1: Their YouTube videos are really really good, really good. I
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 1: did watch Dateline this week so that I could watch
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 1: your episode as I do so I can listen to
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: your episode now that I know the production value so good,
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 1: maybe I'll just start watching it, thank you. Maybe I'll be
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 1: that millennial that watches everything on YouTube.
• 1:38:22
  Speaker 2: Yes, do it.
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it. Your children think you're so hip,
• 1:38:26
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. They would be like, get out of here, mom,
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 1: Why is your show so loud? Put on your headphones. Everybody.
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 1: Make sure you're following me please at Pink Shade Pod
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: and I am also on YouTube.
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 2: Every episode here is over there.
• 1:38:38
  Speaker 1: With very little exceptions, and that is peak Shade bunkies
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 1: over on YouTube.
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 2: And we got some new followers this week, so that
• 1:38:45
  Speaker 2: was exciting.
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 1: Yay, yay. Great lots going on here. If you want
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 1: to know what's going on on the show, make sure
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 1: you're following on Instagram. That's where I post everything that's
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 1: happening this week. And I totally forgot one thing that
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 1: was happening this week. And I will be a surprise
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: for everybody you know.
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 2: I look at that. I love that.
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 1: Thanks Kimberly, I will talk to you this weekend. Bye
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 1: bye ACTU