Latest / age / Ep. 01: Labels, Identity & Finding Your People
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- 0:00Dylan, what was your favorite part in today's episode?
- 0:04My favorite part was that I thought I sounded really smart.
- 0:06Oh, I agree.
- 0:07Reggie.
- 0:08I love Tim's white-up statement.
- 0:09Oh!
- 0:11And I love that Mary said, let's just wing it.
- 0:13Let's just be one yet.
- 0:14I like when Tim quoted the dark night.
- 0:17Awesome.
- 0:18Oh.
- 0:19Can't you feel it?
- 0:29Can't you feel it?
- 0:30Let's not breathe in for both over two and out for more.
- 0:34Okay.
- 0:35Oh, I breathe too early.
- 0:37Okay.
- 0:38I'm really, I'm really, I'm really, I'm really, I'm like, I'm going to open it.
- 0:41It's like too excited.
- 0:43One, two, ready and...
- 0:52Hi.
- 0:53And welcome to age.
- 0:55I'm Mary Green.
- 0:56I'm joined by my colleagues Dylan Garcia, Reggie Tidwell and Tim Scroggs.
- 1:00I feel like I should take that again.
- 1:01Hi.
- 1:02Now I love it.
- 1:03It's so beautiful.
- 1:04It's so formal.
- 1:05It was.
- 1:06Hi.
- 1:07Welcome to age the podcast.
- 1:09We don't really know what that means yet.
- 1:13Age.
- 1:14Where I was pitching for a while, age less, which I thought was kind of more us, but there's
- 1:20a couple of us.
- 1:21We hope it becomes age less.
- 1:22Yeah.
- 1:23Well, we are ageless.
- 1:24Oh, I like that.
- 1:25The young people, I don't think are allowed to say that, yeah.
- 1:27The young people.
- 1:28The young people.
- 1:29Is that where we're divided?
- 1:30Yeah.
- 1:31Like the oldies and the youngies.
- 1:32And the oldies over there.
- 1:35So we basically were having a lot of conversations about each of us was born in a different decade.
- 1:40We have about 10 years of life separating us.
- 1:43And we just started noticing how much of a difference that makes on our worldview and
- 1:48our view of brand and politics and philosophy and technology and all those other things.
- 1:55And we like to wax a little bit poetic and get a little mushy sometimes.
- 1:58So here's an outlet for that.
- 2:02We should also probably tell them that we are a creative studio based out of beautiful
- 2:06Asheville, North Carolina.
- 2:07Ooh.
- 2:08This up.
- 2:09Is there anything else?
- 2:10Oh, we should explain the trash cans.
- 2:11Do you want to tell them?
- 2:12Yes.
- 2:13Does it need an explanation?
- 2:14Where are we?
- 2:15Who are we?
- 2:16Do you want to do names and like where we came from?
- 2:18No, just who are?
- 2:19Could you, you know?
- 2:2040 yards.
- 2:21Yeah, yeah.
- 2:22I know.
- 2:23Like our names.
- 2:24Creators of enduring value?
- 2:25Is that what you mean?
- 2:26We're like us.
- 2:27You're Mary Graeme.
- 2:28She's Dylan Garcia.
- 2:29I figured we were going to keep her.
- 2:31This definitely turns fraud.
- 2:32No, I'm Mary Green.
- 2:34I'm Dylan Garcia.
- 2:35I'm Reggie Tidwell.
- 2:36I'm Tim Scroggs.
- 2:38Scroggs.
- 2:40Scroggs.
- 2:42When we came together to talk about all of the differences in our age, we wrote a bunch
- 2:46of topics.
- 2:47Each one of us wrote all of these topics on these little sticky notes.
- 2:51It's true that consciousness really.
- 2:52Yeah.
- 2:53And so our plan is to pull one out and talk about it today.
- 2:58Do you want to do the honors?
- 3:00Oh, I would love to.
- 3:04I hope it's good.
- 3:05I'm nervous.
- 3:06This is unpret.
- 3:07Labels.
- 3:08Unedited.
- 3:09Labels.
- 3:10Yeah, yeah.
- 3:11Labels.
- 3:12Dylan wrote all of these.
- 3:13Yeah.
- 3:14Labels.
- 3:15Okay.
- 3:16First, away it goes.
- 3:18I think about.
- 3:19Yeah.
- 3:20What do you think?
- 3:21Labels.
- 3:22I hate labels.
- 3:23I hate labels.
- 3:24Yeah.
- 3:25I hate labels.
- 3:27I hate how it like has personally like I hate when people like put this label on or like
- 3:31a stereotype and it's like.
- 3:34It just feels like you're just writing it off mentally and your brain and not like allowing
- 3:39like true personality to come out because you've made the stereotype.
- 3:43So I have a bitter taste about labels in my mouth.
- 3:46I feel like label.
- 3:47I'll go ahead.
- 3:48I was going to say I feel like labels can be very limiting to you because once someone labels
- 3:51you you kind of feel like you're either having to play into that label and it could kind
- 3:57of keep you from whatever your true trajectory is.
- 4:00Right.
- 4:01I see that labels is definitely negative.
- 4:04What were you going to say?
- 4:06But you design labels for living.
- 4:07Labels all the time.
- 4:08I mean that's true.
- 4:09It's kind of our whole.
- 4:11It's like an interest.
- 4:12Yeah.
- 4:13I do feel conflicted.
- 4:15I also like my first reaction, especially if somebody puts it on me.
- 4:20Hate a label.
- 4:21Like I think a lot of people have that reaction to things like astrology.
- 4:24They're like, well, that doesn't determine my life path and who I'm going to be in my
- 4:28right now.
- 4:29It's the same.
- 4:30Exactly right.
- 4:31Alex takes that stuff too.
- 4:32He's like, don't put me in a box.
- 4:33Yeah.
- 4:34Yeah.
- 4:35And I.
- 4:36I'm labeled Taurus.
- 4:37I'm not like any other Taurus.
- 4:38Come on.
- 4:39But the Reggie likes his things.
- 4:43And Reggie.
- 4:44Nice thing.
- 4:45Reggie's a home body and like makes the environment.
- 4:48Taurus stuff.
- 4:49Mm.
- 4:50Oh.
- 4:51But I.
- 4:52You are your label.
- 4:54But I also feel lighter.
- 4:56So those things exist.
- 4:58And like it can be frustrating.
- 4:59But I also am from, I mean, it's not everybody in their 30s.
- 5:03But I think that there are certain things that especially when they first come to like exist
- 5:09in a zeitgeist, like giving it a name helps you figure it out.
- 5:14Like, I'll use queer identities as an example with all these different ways you can identify
- 5:20and you can have a specific word for everything.
- 5:23Like, are you bisexual?
- 5:24Are you pansexual?
- 5:25Yeah.
- 5:26And it's like there are so many people who don't even care to get into the nitty gritty of what that means.
- 5:30And that's not even language that enters their mind.
- 5:34But for some people, it's really helpful to like pinpoint that part of your identity.
- 5:39And that's not to say it can't change.
- 5:41So I don't know mixed emotions about it.
- 5:43I actually agree with you on that point.
- 5:45Like, for instance, a DSMB-5, which is the book that has all the personality disorders and psychological...
- 5:52I thought you were naming like a camera.
- 5:54No, it's a great one, guys.
- 5:57Think about it.
- 5:58So they will label people based on a certain number of traits that they have.
- 6:04And what can be helpful in that is that if they are exhibiting a certain amount of traits
- 6:10based on something they've already identified as a condition,
- 6:14it may help them be able to support that person better.
- 6:18Or like, okay, so this person is a borderline personality disorder.
- 6:22They might benefit from this type of treatment.
- 6:26Well, the huge one, I think, in this era is all kinds of neurodivergence.
- 6:30Absolutely.
- 6:31Yeah.
- 6:32What do you think of labels?
- 6:33I have that kind of embarrassing story about labels.
- 6:35Oh, really?
- 6:36Yes, yes, yes.
- 6:37So I grew up...
- 6:38What's kind of embarrassing stories?
- 6:39Kind of lower middle class or upper...
- 6:42Lower class?
- 6:43You have upper lower class?
- 6:44Yeah.
- 6:45Upper lower class?
- 6:46I didn't have a lot of money.
- 6:47That's all I'm saying.
- 6:48As a kid, and I couldn't afford the labels that the kids at school were wearing.
- 6:51Yes.
- 6:52And so I had a Walmart shirt that was very similar color to North Face Yellow.
- 6:58And I loved North Face.
- 7:00I was a climber as a kid or I'd wanted to be, but I also couldn't afford that gear.
- 7:04So I took a Sharpie and I drew...
- 7:08...somewhat off-center and...
- 7:11I don't know where this is.
- 7:12...diagonal because I looked at it later and I didn't have the shirt organized right.
- 7:15I drew the North Face logo on my shirt.
- 7:18It was actually pretty good.
- 7:20So it's like an expression of my art and my skills as a designer.
- 7:24And we're taking sponsorship bits.
- 7:26If anybody wants to get in.
- 7:27The North Face.
- 7:28And North Face is still a strong label.
- 7:31And Patagonia and all these labels that you see walking around.
- 7:35But as a kid, I guess I saw that label as a group I was connected to.
- 7:41Like a thing I like to do or a value or a quality I wanted to be.
- 7:46So I wanted to relate to it and be inside of it.
- 7:48And so I just made my own label.
- 7:50Did you get a laugh?
- 7:52No, but everyone was probably not saying anything.
- 7:55I thought you walked into school.
- 7:57It's embarrassing.
- 7:58It's embarrassing now.
- 7:59And I also had blonde tips on my hair.
- 8:02No, that's more embarrassing.
- 8:03So you...
- 8:04I feel like it's like white and white.
- 8:06And I have a big shirt of this.
- 8:08So if anyone wants to see it, I'll post it.
- 8:10I definitely want to see it.
- 8:11I need public.
- 8:12We need to flush this matter out of my mind.
- 8:14We need episode, like, you know.
- 8:16No, I need will to put that in.
- 8:18The gallery.
- 8:19Right here.
- 8:20It's just the same type of stuff.
- 8:22The references from the...
- 8:24So like the rest of us, I am conflicted about labels because I love them.
- 8:28And I hate that they do what you're saying.
- 8:31My generation right now is like on this trend of like we're not going to wear people's brands.
- 8:36There's like 50-50 of us.
- 8:37It's like 50 of us are like really invested into like wearing the brand and like wearing the label.
- 8:42Like whether it's like the iconic gap logo, like the Nike, everything like that.
- 8:47And the other 50% is like, why am I walking around as free branding for someone?
- 8:51I know.
- 8:52Free advertising.
- 8:53I don't think about it.
- 8:54Remember the like back in the day, the Tommy Hill figure and Nautica were all about big branded labels on everything.
- 9:02And I never got into that because I was like, you know, I didn't feel very unique to me for one.
- 9:08And then two, like why it's same, I have that same feeling.
- 9:12Like why am I going to walk around as a big advertising statement for some brand that I don't even really care about?
- 9:17But on the flip side, and this starts to get into like the business world that we live in.
- 9:22And this is hilarious that we're saying all these things about labels as people who like design logos.
- 9:27They're saying the conflict.
- 9:29I think, you know, there's also a side of it that is if a brand stands for something.
- 9:35And I might say North Face is an example of that.
- 9:37Patagonia.
- 9:38Patagonia.
- 9:39Patagonia is a really good one.
- 9:40Like you were tapping into something about the thing that people who like North Face share these values or this world.
- 9:48And either you wanted to participate in that or you wanted to be seen as participating in that.
- 9:54Some way.
- 9:55Right.
- 9:56So I think in some ways when it comes to something like a logo where it's like a banner that you're waving for everyone to see.
- 10:03It's a little bit about like finding your people.
- 10:06It definitely is.
- 10:07And I think everything comes back to brand.
- 10:09I think it is like a grouping mechanism.
- 10:11Imagine the impact brands have today.
- 10:14The brand Elon Musk moved the election.
- 10:19His brand, SpaceX Tesla, Elon, moved an election.
- 10:23His money.
- 10:24But brands make money.
- 10:25Like there are these, there are power.
- 10:27I think governments will actually become sidelined because of brands and corporations that have, right.
- 10:32Attention.
- 10:33And move and power in that attention.
- 10:37And what's weird is that I grew up feeling more like us now.
- 10:41And I don't know if you feel this way too, Mary.
- 10:43But I don't like wearing big branded things.
- 10:45I don't like my shoes to be branded.
- 10:46I don't like my clothes to be branded.
- 10:48Which is the direct opposite of what I was then.
- 10:50So I think that there was like an identification issue I had.
- 10:53Like I didn't know how to identify who I was to someone that didn't know me.
- 10:57So I thought just putting a label on myself would give me that.
- 11:00I'm like, I'm like, these people.
- 11:02Right.
- 11:03But you know what I'm noticing now and maybe this comes with age.
- 11:06I don't know.
- 11:07Why didn't you name this pie?
- 11:10But like I, you know, I'm less attuned to, in fact, I'm very put off by the label with the words and the graphics.
- 11:19Unless it's like cool, like street style, which has its own like lore and background.
- 11:23But I'm more attuned to like, oh, who's the maker of that cool thing?
- 11:28And you start to notice the design qualities of the item.
- 11:32Yeah.
- 11:33And it's less about whose name is on the item.
- 11:35And it's more about craftsmanship and style of the things.
- 11:38And the type of company that they are too.
- 11:40I think that like you were saying about North Face and Patagonia.
- 11:43If there are company with sensibilities, like it makes you more attracted to them.
- 11:48But don't you think it hides or at least manipulates when something could change value even under the same brand?
- 11:57Like when it's sold into a bigger VC, where it's sold into a bigger brand.
- 12:01And they start taking ingredients out or lessening them.
- 12:04Like in the back in the early early early times.
- 12:08You used to know someone in a community and they made this type of bread.
- 12:12And they everyone loved it.
- 12:13And there was a quality.
- 12:14And your Tim's bread.
- 12:15Right. There was an understated branding there because it was word of mouth and it was a name.
- 12:20And everyone trusted that person as a part of the community.
- 12:23And now brands have come in and kind of run off a lot of the smaller shops.
- 12:27And you have to trust that that brand is giving you that same level of interconnected community based quality.
- 12:35That someone holds them to it.
- 12:36Have you ever tried to call a customer service at a big brand?
- 12:39Oh, these days.
- 12:40That's like a lot.
- 12:41Yeah. No matter if it's like US Postal Service or UPS, there's no one that wants to talk to you.
- 12:47It used to be that they outsourced it to somebody who would work for cheaper overseas.
- 12:50Yeah, yeah.
- 12:51They may or may not.
- 12:52Now they just give you the run.
- 12:53Yeah.
- 12:54Now we'll just like.
- 12:55Press for if you want to stay in the same system forever.
- 12:58I tried to call capital one the other day, be from some scan chart.
- 13:01Over before you started.
- 13:02And I got moved.
- 13:03I was on the phone for like two hours, moved between six different agents.
- 13:06Oh my gosh.
- 13:07And I outright threatened them.
- 13:09I was like, this is the worst experience I've ever had ever come into your house.
- 13:14I know.
- 13:15And one guy just blatant, like almost like an AI.
- 13:18Oh.
- 13:19He kept seeing the same thing over and over.
- 13:20Oh, that's good words.
- 13:21I said, I need you to prove to me that you're human.
- 13:23That's because you sound like AI right now.
- 13:25Yeah, that's so infuriating when they do that.
- 13:27Right.
- 13:28So brands, I think, have changed labels, brands, the power.
- 13:33It's a conflicted type.
- 13:35You were talking about brands that maybe stood at some level of desirability at some point,
- 13:41but then had fallen because they either started outsourcing their stuff to be made in China or whatever.
- 13:48But Mogue was one of those companies that had this in the.
- 13:51And based in Nashville, the world based in Nashville.
- 13:53Right.
- 13:54Really powerful company.
- 13:55The president's a friend of mine.
- 13:57He actually did the whole employee own thing, which I was like, man, you really got to support this.
- 14:02But then he sold it.
- 14:03And then the company that bought it ended up basically.
- 14:08I don't know how much of it is actually handmade in Nashville anymore.
- 14:12A lot of it is made in like China.
- 14:15And then sometimes they elevate the hand done to a higher level than it was.
- 14:20Yeah.
- 14:21And they lower the quality of the stuff you're used to buying.
- 14:23But before everything was made like, I knew the engineers here that were making their friends of mine.
- 14:28So I knew you see Mogue on a stage.
- 14:30You know that that is a high quality synthesizer that has been tested and built and handcrafted.
- 14:37Right here in the mountains of Nashville, North Carolina.
- 14:39And now when you see it on a stage, it doesn't have the same value.
- 14:43And that literally hurts me at the heart because this is what we do.
- 14:47Yeah.
- 14:48And I have an existential crisis like every six months or so because this is what we do.
- 14:52And it's not what we're talking about isn't what we do.
- 14:55But we do branding.
- 14:56Yeah.
- 14:57Which can be made to cause these type of issues.
- 15:00Absolutely.
- 15:02This is the thing that really will get into like chicken and egg conversations.
- 15:06We're trying to figure out our agency strategy in these uncertain times.
- 15:10And I think part of our issue is that if you state that you're a branding agency, you're a label agency.
- 15:17Yeah, right.
- 15:18It's like, oh, let me make a logo.
- 15:19Let me make the mask that covers up all the values.
- 15:21But I do think, I mean, we've all talked about this before.
- 15:24The shift is going toward values.
- 15:27And I think that I'm interested to run some tests and be like, what have you just led values first?
- 15:33And then let the name be the backup.
- 15:35Like, oh, and when I want to remember who has these values and sells this thing, I'll call them this.
- 15:40I don't know.
- 15:41But I feel like the hierarchy is shifting.
- 15:43But imagine if the youngins are not wanting to wear brands.
- 15:47So young, imagine if you pulled your label back and you let it with a value set.
- 15:52Well, there's a, um, I can see Dylan designing her own labels to wear.
- 15:55Oh, my God.
- 15:56That's what I'm asking this morning.
- 15:58Did you sell those?
- 15:59This is my grandmother shirt.
- 16:01Really?
- 16:02Yeah.
- 16:03We had to talk more about your grandmother in the future.
- 16:04Yeah.
- 16:05She sowed these on.
- 16:07Is this the Vogue grandmother?
- 16:09Yeah.
- 16:10Oh, yeah.
- 16:11So I can call her Vogue Grandma.
- 16:12Yeah.
- 16:13She called Grandma Grandma.
- 16:14Grandma used to work for Vogue.
- 16:15She's such a badass.
- 16:16This is why Dylan always looks better than we.
- 16:18Yeah.
- 16:19She's better than all of us.
- 16:21And so, um, this is like a, what is it?
- 16:23Talbot's shirt?
- 16:24Talbot.
- 16:25Oh, it's a Talbot shirt.
- 16:26It's a Talbot shirt.
- 16:27Yeah.
- 16:28And she sowed all those little rings.
- 16:30That's great.
- 16:31That's the stuff on there.
- 16:32I love it.
- 16:33I'm seeing more people doing it than like changing buttons and broaches.
- 16:35They're huge right now.
- 16:36But, uh, I'm curious.
- 16:38Do you relate to the idea of quiet luxury?
- 16:41Does that mean anything to you?
- 16:42I think it really does.
- 16:43Because I, I think as me as like being in like at a young age,
- 16:48I was immersed in like the luxury kind of brand.
- 16:52That's the old one.
- 16:53I know.
- 16:54You're like, what are they talking about?
- 16:57To me, it's like, then you maybe have a different explanation.
- 17:03But it's just like subtle luxury.
- 17:05Like if I brought in like, let's say a coach bag,
- 17:09but it has like the quiet labeling.
- 17:11Well, you know what screaming is on there.
- 17:13It's very unshotted.
- 17:14It is a quiet luxury then.
- 17:18I like my luxury because especially-
- 17:20It's just into the term.
- 17:22Especially with just my grandmother and working for like these brands,
- 17:26like very luxurious brands.
- 17:29I got like immersed in like some really high quality things really soon on as a child.
- 17:34And so my taste as a young adult kind of was very fluctuated.
- 17:39And if there's anything experimental, it's high fashion.
- 17:42Oh, yeah.
- 17:43Like they go crazy.
- 17:44And then we get filtered down some like deluded drawbacks,
- 17:49like a version of what's being experimented with.
- 17:51So I love that edge of fashion,
- 17:53where you can just take a shirt from a random department store and stuff on it.
- 17:57And all the sudden it lives.
- 17:58Yeah.
- 17:59Yeah.
- 18:00To me.
- 18:01Thanks for going to walk out and walk into a big room and see four people wearing the same shirts.
- 18:05Yeah.
- 18:06Well, don't you think though, again, this might be growing up.
- 18:09I feel like I am more attuned to like, oh, what's this fabric?
- 18:13What fibers is this made of?
- 18:15This is what it seems like cotton to me.
- 18:17It's all that's fabric.
- 18:18Yeah.
- 18:19And this has been laundered and it's crisp and it's taken care of it, you know.
- 18:24It's a story.
- 18:25Yeah, there's more to it that says something about who,
- 18:29not only like the brand that you bought this from,
- 18:31sorry to me, this whole thing about this amazing shirt.
- 18:33Hey, I'm really glad that we did.
- 18:35But like, yeah, the qualities of it and then what you've done with it.
- 18:39Did you laundered it?
- 18:40Did you so exciting?
- 18:42I was going to say broaches.
- 18:44There's all little stuff.
- 18:45There's a dragonfly.
- 18:47Is the word laundered like quiet luxury?
- 18:50No, it's actually like more really laundered money, you know, that's more.
- 18:55Oh, no, like in the dark where they throw it in the dark.
- 18:58That was like money.
- 18:59Have you laundered the clothes yet?
- 19:01It does sound very luxurious.
- 19:03It does.
- 19:04It's doing the laundry is like, yeah, throw it in there.
- 19:06No, throw it in there.
- 19:07Exactly.
- 19:08It's a tone thing.
- 19:09The laundered is like, I starch this and I iron it.
- 19:12Or I like, it's a whole process.
- 19:13It's a whole process.
- 19:14Yeah.
- 19:15I'm having this laundered.
- 19:16It's like a spa day.
- 19:18It's a luxury.
- 19:19I know.
- 19:20Maybe I can.
- 19:21My clothes are having a spa day because they're being laundered.
- 19:24Well, here's something I find interesting about when you were saying about the materials is
- 19:28that there is a need in our economy to scale things.
- 19:34You can't do.
- 19:35Or is there.
- 19:36Well, the thing is that you can't make.
- 19:38Well, there's a desire.
- 19:39You can't make the product and enough money to live unless you scale.
- 19:45There's frustration of this friction.
- 19:48So, even of a local company here in Asheville, which we love, Eastwark, we knew them when
- 19:53they were designing and making with their hands their dishes, their pottery.
- 20:00They have scaled up and people around the nation maybe even the world know them now.
- 20:05Oh, yeah.
- 20:06They're very well known.
- 20:07So, you change certain processes, which they get some heat about because they're not all
- 20:12handmade anymore.
- 20:13They do certain handmade specials.
- 20:15But a lot of them are built in a different way.
- 20:18And all of us old lovers of the brand.
- 20:21We can complain about it.
- 20:23But it's like in an effort to support more staff to make the company more of an impact.
- 20:30They pay all their employees a living wage and they keep increasing that as living wage goes up.
- 20:36This is not supposed to be a commercial for Eastwark.
- 20:38Even though we would do Eastwark commercials.
- 20:41I need a mug.
- 20:42But the thing I was saying is that you get stuck in this.
- 20:45It's like maybe it's like this relationship with the environment you're in that you can become the thing you hate.
- 20:53Because you want it to be good.
- 20:54Like Patagonia started off with this really intense and it still is intense.
- 20:58Yeah, yeah.
- 20:59Compared to other organizations of their size.
- 21:01But I know someone personally who worked inside of Patagonia for 11 years.
- 21:05And they say it's nothing like you think it is.
- 21:07It's not a great environment to work in.
- 21:10Ivan Shanard does not come in with the glorious halo on his head like we all think he does.
- 21:15He's intense.
- 21:16He comes in and he just yells at people.
- 21:18I'm not going to spread rumors.
- 21:20We don't know.
- 21:21He's intense.
- 21:22And probably it's his right.
- 21:25You have that size company.
- 21:26You just got to get intense.
- 21:27I'm just saying that.
- 21:28And then some thousand intensity is.
- 21:30It's like the quote in the Batman movie.
- 21:33You live long.
- 21:34You die the hero or you live long enough to become the villain.
- 21:38Oh, yeah.
- 21:39Only the good guy young.
- 21:41I don't know.
- 21:42What are you feeling now?
- 21:43I feel like we're looking for Will for real.
- 21:47I feel like we'll get started.
- 21:50They said so brands like they start off East Fort Patagonia as this hero.
- 21:55Yeah.
- 21:56We make all our own fabrics with.
- 21:58Yeah.
- 21:59And then the 80s and some country where they're supporting their home life.
- 22:03And then all of a sudden like 10 years later, they're like just kids are producing everything.
- 22:07Yeah.
- 22:08So it's, what is that?
- 22:09Well, let's scale.
- 22:11Not to question the premise, but let me question the premise and say like, do we need to scale?
- 22:18Do you explore it?
- 22:19Or is that just the norm?
- 22:21And everybody wants to become a billionaire.
- 22:23And the only way you become a billionaire is to scale and get involved in higher financial markets and things.
- 22:28I mean, the East Fort example I think is cool because to Tim's point, like part of their desire to scale was so that they could support more people.
- 22:38And be able to play, pay their employees a living wage.
- 22:42Their employees are pretty awesome.
- 22:44And the people that I know that work for East Fort are really like completely elated to be a part of that company.
- 22:52And so there are stories like that that feel really good.
- 22:55But then I'm sure there are a lot of them where the company has scaled because the leadership wants to be wealthier and wealthier.
- 23:02And that doesn't trickle down to this staff.
- 23:05But here's the thing, there are two types of businesses.
- 23:07Well, they're multiple types.
- 23:08But the two types that are kind of grouped with what we're talking about.
- 23:10The two label types are a growth.
- 23:12A growth based business.
- 23:13You're a label, though.
- 23:14Which scales and grows.
- 23:15I know.
- 23:16And let's label.
- 23:17Since it's called label and let's label them.
- 23:18And then there is a lifestyle business.
- 23:20Lifestyle businesses are ones that don't have that much investible value.
- 23:26What someone has done and they love the life it brings them.
- 23:29They like equality.
- 23:30They like the daily tasks.
- 23:32And retired people will actually get into lifestyle businesses because they just want to work.
- 23:36But you can actually accidentally create a lifestyle business does not know it because you're not growing.
- 23:41That's what makes a company valuable is to have cash flow and growth.
- 23:45So scale is a growth company.
- 23:48So if you want to build a growth company and like we don't have retirement coming to us most likely.
- 23:53I mean, I might because I'm older.
- 23:55But you might not.
- 23:56So we so now we have to think of different ways to.
- 23:59We're hearing it here first.
- 24:00What is that made you?
- 24:01I'm older than you.
- 24:02You're definitely going to have retirement.
- 24:04Am I retired already?
- 24:05You guys are doing well.
- 24:06Oh my gosh.
- 24:07Maybe something.
- 24:09But the thing is that you're we are trying to figure out different ways to be able to retire.
- 24:14And a scaling growth based business is one way to retire.
- 24:17Absolutely.
- 24:18You sell the company.
- 24:19A lifestyle business you can't sell it.
- 24:20If you build it to a certain level you could just keep working until you die.
- 24:23Which maybe.
- 24:24I don't know.
- 24:25That's not bad.
- 24:26I feel like a lifestyle business will be attractive to a potential buyer.
- 24:30It just doesn't have.
- 24:31I mean, it could.
- 24:32But that person.
- 24:33It's more of an apprenticeship model.
- 24:34I feel like at that point somebody's got to be in the flow with you and then just naturally.
- 24:38And if you want money to retire on you need it to be valuable.
- 24:42It can just give it away.
- 24:43I also feel this way about like corporate and self-employed.
- 24:46Yeah.
- 24:47So like you guys, especially starting this.
- 24:49Thank you.
- 24:50Because this is supported me for a year.
- 24:51We're having a good time.
- 24:52Thank you.
- 24:53I have a good time on this ride.
- 24:55So I met a really good friend of mine now.
- 24:59He is like a franchisee of like Jersey Mikes.
- 25:02And.
- 25:03I know who you are.
- 25:04Yeah.
- 25:05We will accept payment in subs or pottery.
- 25:07And.
- 25:09He is self-employed.
- 25:11And we were talking about this conversation with him of like, yes, he's setting up a rough
- 25:16R.A.
- 25:17Everything like that.
- 25:18But if like something happens with the Jersey Mikes brand.
- 25:21He's gone.
- 25:22He's gone.
- 25:23Right.
- 25:24And his whole family.
- 25:25Everything like that.
- 25:26So I kind of feel that same way about like self-employed.
- 25:29It's like is really hard.
- 25:30Yeah.
- 25:31To be in self-employed to like produce this like art business lifestyle business.
- 25:36Whatever you call it.
- 25:37Mm-hmm.
- 25:38And.
- 25:39Be able to have the same as the corporate.
- 25:41So it's like I praise corporate in some ways because it's able to like.
- 25:45Do the financials look like retirement.
- 25:47Consistency and you've got the benefits.
- 25:49Yeah.
- 25:50But I feel like there's like a really good joy in like being self-employed as well.
- 25:54But.
- 25:55The American dream, right?
- 25:56Yeah.
- 25:57It is the American dream.
- 25:58I'll say this.
- 25:59And we talk a lot about my baggage from my, you know, one decade of agency experience.
- 26:05That's a long decade though.
- 26:06Yeah.
- 26:07Oh.
- 26:08It was a decade that took me 30 years.
- 26:09I've only been in a bagage.
- 26:10Is it.
- 26:11Is it.
- 26:12Is it.
- 26:13That way.
- 26:14Is it.
- 26:15Is it poetry?
- 26:16Is it culturepindy?
- 26:17What kind of baggage are we talking about?
- 26:18Quite luxury baggage.
- 26:19You know, I was definitely social climbing at the time.
- 26:22So it's some sort of somebody.
- 26:24Yeah.
- 26:25I'm fashioning baggage.
- 26:26I don't know if it's high fashion.
- 26:27It's probably like one of those millennial like all birds.
- 26:30Certainly.
- 26:31Oh.
- 26:33Oh, so it's not for tour anything like that.
- 26:35Like new ways.
- 26:36Like what was I going to do?
- 26:38But I think that I will say this.
- 26:41And I'm.
- 26:42You two have been entrepreneurs for a really long time.
- 26:45I've been running your own entrepreneurial endeavors, like individually and with a team.
- 26:50But I will say when I stepped out of agency life, the narrative that you hear when you quit your full-time job is like, oh well, that you've lost security.
- 26:58Like there's no.
- 26:59Yeah.
- 27:00You're out there on your own.
- 27:01In the wild.
- 27:02Yeah.
- 27:03And you know, there's some people get excited about that.
- 27:05And maybe there's a little part of me that was.
- 27:07But I think I felt so subject to the decisions of my business owner at the time.
- 27:14The person who was in that company that I was working full-time for, the people who founded that company, which was a small business.
- 27:20I think we were in LLC until the last year that I was there and then we became an escort.
- 27:24And we had fewer than 30 employees.
- 27:26We were constantly the freelancer dance that so many agencies do.
- 27:30We'll do another episode on how the agency model is dying and we're reacting to that.
- 27:35But.
- 27:36Oh, if it's any trash can.
- 27:37Yeah, throw it in.
- 27:39Let's trash that one.
- 27:40Trash that idea.
- 27:41But I felt an immense sense of relief.
- 27:44Not only because I was like had an opportunity to become less burned out by that system, but also just the security that I was supposed to feel in that full-time role.
- 27:53I was not getting.
- 27:54It felt very much like they could make a bad decision or play support bet.
- 27:59And now my whole job is whatever.
- 28:01It's going to leave me open any moment.
- 28:02Yeah.
- 28:03Like there was no loyalty or sense of like because you've been here.
- 28:08Oh, trust me.
- 28:09Yeah, I had no trust because I'd seen it go poorly for other people.
- 28:12Right.
- 28:13And because I knew that I was at the end of the day like a tool.
- 28:15Like I was being leveraged to get from my native point being.
- 28:18Which is that's difficult.
- 28:20That's difficult.
- 28:21We have to war with that here.
- 28:24You got that in your experience.
- 28:26Like you felt that while you were living through it.
- 28:28So when I was growing up, that was the goal to get into that safety.
- 28:32Yeah.
- 28:33Because I don't know how advanced entrepreneurship was when I was a kid and a teenager.
- 28:39My first job was at Gap and there was.
- 28:43It's where I established this fashion sense.
- 28:45I learned to fold.
- 28:46That's why I luxury.
- 28:48I learned.
- 28:49You should see me fold now.
- 28:50I still got it.
- 28:51My kids say, I'm dead.
- 28:52They do that.
- 28:53You're laundering.
- 28:54I'm laundering.
- 28:55But when I was raised, I guess the structure was built in a way that you needed one of those jobs to fit into the society.
- 29:07Well, if you wanted to have kids, if you wanted to have insurance, you had any of this stuff.
- 29:12And I grew up in a church playing music.
- 29:15So that's what gave me my rebel spirit to do whatever I wanted because I was a musician.
- 29:20But here's the thing.
- 29:21Right.
- 29:22I mean, that was part of it.
- 29:23But here's the thing with music.
- 29:24You're also trying to get in with the record labels in my day.
- 29:27Like sign a deal.
- 29:28But the thing is, record label.
- 29:31The thing is that when you want or need a label deal, they don't want you.
- 29:37When you don't need or want a label.
- 29:39They can't.
- 29:40Right.
- 29:41They want you so bad.
- 29:42So there's this.
- 29:43There's this.
- 29:44Again, the friction.
- 29:45This is this controversy happening between what it means to be in a label or in a company.
- 29:50In safety.
- 29:51Excuse me.
- 29:52Excuse me.
- 29:53That's you.
- 29:54Excuse me.
- 29:55Sorry.
- 29:56Sometimes that was unscripted.
- 29:58That was.
- 29:59Sometimes you're just sneezing in his office.
- 30:02And Dylan and I will lock eyes.
- 30:04We're like.
- 30:05He died.
- 30:06I just explode.
- 30:07What's they saying?
- 30:08It's me.
- 30:09You're right at it.
- 30:10It's okay.
- 30:11We won the film.
- 30:12Oh.
- 30:13What do you call it?
- 30:14So I was going to say now I feel like entrepreneurship is a label.
- 30:21And that's something we're being in Asheville especially.
- 30:25Well, then we can talk about that.
- 30:27Right.
- 30:28And so.
- 30:29And I brought this up.
- 30:30You Dylan.
- 30:31I was like the first question I would want to would have want to have been asked.
- 30:34When I was starting out on this journey was do you want to be an entrepreneur?
- 30:37Oh, yeah.
- 30:38Not that I would have understood with that men.
- 30:40You didn't ask yourself.
- 30:41I didn't even know what this meant.
- 30:43I didn't know.
- 30:44I didn't know I'd be doing my own taxes, my own business management,
- 30:48my own everything that wasn't creative.
- 30:50You're not doing it.
- 30:51And I don't know that a lot of creatives.
- 30:53No.
- 30:54No.
- 30:55At my first agency when I was freelancing, I was just going to be this free creative.
- 30:58Oh, yeah.
- 30:59That's not how it works.
- 31:00And I know a lot of creatives out there young creatives feel that sense of like they want to be free.
- 31:06But there is some protection in numbers.
- 31:09Yeah.
- 31:10You know, there is safety in a community of numbers.
- 31:13Yeah.
- 31:14Because when you're solo, the hatch you wear is.
- 31:16It's just.
- 31:17You're going to leave.
- 31:18Three jobs.
- 31:19Four or five jobs.
- 31:20Right.
- 31:21And I was like me.
- 31:22You're like, this is not me.
- 31:23You're like.
- 31:24No.
- 31:25So we throw Dylan around.
- 31:26We're like Dylan.
- 31:27Go there.
- 31:28Yeah.
- 31:29We do this and she has done it so far.
- 31:31Right.
- 31:32But I want it.
- 31:33I wish it was back.
- 31:34I wish it was back.
- 31:35I wanted to do music to do music and that career kind of ended because of the world.
- 31:38And then I went into, I went back to school at a late age, had two kids in college.
- 31:44That was fun.
- 31:45A whole experience.
- 31:46But I came out of college wanting to get into the agency world, which is where you were.
- 31:50Yeah.
- 31:51Because I thought I could learn the ropes in that world.
- 31:54And I wanted to go to Brand Center in Richmond, Virginia.
- 31:57So I had to go back to school to do that.
- 31:59So that's how I got back into school.
- 32:00But when I got out, my wife and I were like, let's just start our own creative company.
- 32:03So we didn't even know we were getting into entrepreneurship.
- 32:06Right.
- 32:07We just thought we could do it and we did it.
- 32:09And it was intense.
- 32:11And I would say out there, anyone that's getting into this, know if that's what you want to do.
- 32:16If entrepreneurship is how you want to roll because it's a battle.
- 32:21It's a brutal act.
- 32:22It's a brutal act.
- 32:23I can tell you that.
- 32:24Right.
- 32:25It's not that it doesn't come without its rewards.
- 32:27Oh, yeah.
- 32:28And it's benefits.
- 32:29But I think here we want to create a place where creatives can learn in a different community,
- 32:34then just go out there and like die on the battlefield.
- 32:36Right.
- 32:37I'm worried.
- 32:38This is one of the like changing dynamics that I'm like, is this the cutting edge that we ought to be like riding?
- 32:44Is there some in between?
- 32:46Like historically, I viewed it as either you are the business owner and you're an entrepreneur
- 32:51and you're out there on your own.
- 32:52And maybe you've got people that you're trying to support at your company like you sport.
- 32:56But like it's up to you to like navigate the business world.
- 33:00Do the taxes.
- 33:01Keep compliant.
- 33:02All that stuff.
- 33:03Or you're this full-time employee.
- 33:05You do what you're told.
- 33:06There's a ladder for you to climb.
- 33:08Right.
- 33:09They supply you with your tech and your benefits and your whatever in the workplace.
- 33:14And they build a culture, whatever.
- 33:17But I feel like we're coming to somewhere in between.
- 33:21Yeah.
- 33:22Because the full-time thing doesn't appear to be working for agencies.
- 33:25And the freelance thing doesn't fully appear to be working for creatives.
- 33:30Yeah.
- 33:31And especially for someone, sorry, I just like.
- 33:34I like this.
- 33:35You were the shirt.
- 33:36The shirt is drawing us in.
- 33:37Yeah.
- 33:38I mean Dylan draws us in every day.
- 33:40She's bringing inspiration into our lives.
- 33:42But I think like somebody coming out of school,
- 33:45the idea that you graduated and then immediately began like,
- 33:49well, you interned and began freelancing.
- 33:52It's sort of a wild concept to me.
- 33:54Like that was not ever in the cards from where I was standing.
- 33:58Like you had to go work in an agency and cut your seed.
- 34:01Yeah.
- 34:02That was part of why I left North Carolina.
- 34:04I was like, well, I'm going to do it.
- 34:05I'll do it now.
- 34:06Right.
- 34:07I have the exact same path as Dylan.
- 34:09Really?
- 34:10I did an internship.
- 34:12And then I actually started freelancing before I graduated.
- 34:16And then I started my own business right out of school.
- 34:19Did you have your degree was business, right?
- 34:22No.
- 34:23Well, I had my under my associates was in business administration.
- 34:27You had transfer studies.
- 34:28But then I got a BFA and graphic design.
- 34:30But actually, what's interesting is that I actually did that for a year.
- 34:36So low.
- 34:37Yeah.
- 34:38And I decided to go to the corporate world.
- 34:41I ended up having the reverse experience where I was like,
- 34:45I'm lonely.
- 34:46I'm in this basement designing by myself.
- 34:48And I'm a social creature.
- 34:49And I'm like, this isn't very fun.
- 34:50Very fun.
- 34:51To the Instagram.
- 34:52He's a social creature.
- 34:54Working at a Fortune 500 company as their resident graphic designer.
- 34:59And they would happen to be a macro media authorized training facility,
- 35:02which is where I learned flash and became this nationally recognized flash developer.
- 35:07I'm sorry.
- 35:08I know.
- 35:09I'm on tech now.
- 35:10But it gave me a lot of inroads to I was the web partner for all the big agencies in St. Louis.
- 35:17So basically, it definitely helped poster my career.
- 35:20But to the point of being an entrepreneur, especially if you're so low, like a freelancer versus being a part of something bigger,
- 35:30it really also depends on who you are as a person.
- 35:33Like what your tendencies are.
- 35:35I want to be around people.
- 35:36Yeah.
- 35:37Right.
- 35:38I love that because I think who you are, because the youngest and the oldest have this similar path.
- 35:43And we have a similar path.
- 35:45But it's interesting how life gives us hints that relate to us in our story.
- 35:50You know, like yours, you get this hint to freelance wire in school.
- 35:54Like life somehow pushed you into that.
- 35:56And there was an element of that in mind when certain things failed and I had this opportunity.
- 36:01But that is for all of us.
- 36:02There's a unique path that we're all walking on.
- 36:05So maybe the wrong question asked myself about entrepreneurship.
- 36:08That's how we are.
- 36:09Right.
- 36:10Right.
- 36:11We're like, what are you talking about?
- 36:12Yeah, exactly.
- 36:13Who the hell are you?
- 36:14But I do think that those to bring it back to labels, there's an understanding about what all these decisions mean.
- 36:23That's built in the label of what our world has made, the meaning of that label.
- 36:28And to the point about like, let's not put it in a box, even the label itself is always shifting.
- 36:35It is expanding, contracting, and repositioning.
- 36:38And so like, it's really, it's not evergreen.
- 36:42You know, it's like a brand, it's constantly changing.
- 36:45And the anti label becomes the new label.
- 36:48The mean culture becomes the new label or the anti meme as my son likes to talk about.
- 36:52It's just not funny on purpose and I'm looking at like postmodern meaning.
- 36:56Right.
- 36:57And then postmodern's a label.
- 36:58Yeah.
- 36:59You know, modernism is a label.
- 37:00There's just, it's, you can't get away from it.
- 37:03So what is, what is the meaning?
- 37:04Why do we have labels?
- 37:05Well, I have a linguistics degree, which I clearly bring in Mary.
- 37:10But everything is just a label, guys.
- 37:13Everything is just a label.
- 37:14Something that does something is a, that's a packing blanket.
- 37:16We're using them for soundproofing.
- 37:17And like, that's what we described it as.
- 37:20And so now we, and the reason we did that was probably one for the joy of hearing ourselves say something like we enjoyed communicating.
- 37:27But it's so that you and I could connect and be like, oh, we share reality for a moment.
- 37:32You and I both agree that that's a packing blanket.
- 37:34And so I think there's a beauty in that in the language of it.
- 37:38I mean, if you can allow yourself, if you can refuse to be constrained by it, I guess.
- 37:44And like, love the ambiguity of it.
- 37:46It's not about what the word means.
- 37:48It's about what meaning do we share with it?
- 37:51I wish I hadn't known that in my early 40s.
- 37:54Oh, but that's called a packing blanket.
- 37:56No, no, no.
- 37:57It would have saved me so much time.
- 38:00And epiphany.
- 38:01It was when my wife and I were still friends.
- 38:03We weren't even dating yet.
- 38:05And we're hanging out one day.
- 38:07And she referred to me as middle aged.
- 38:10And my whole world, like, love.
- 38:12It's like in middle aged.
- 38:14I'm like, 41.
- 38:15I'm like, I'm not middle aged.
- 38:17And then I had the harsh reality and like awake.
- 38:23And they're like, oh, I guess I am middle aged.
- 38:25And I became old, like overnight, just like that.
- 38:28And you're thinking?
- 38:29Oh, yeah, I just became old.
- 38:31Oh, so your body just likes.
- 38:32No, I'm just kidding.
- 38:34But you touched on a good point, though, when you start to subscribe to the label.
- 38:38Yeah.
- 38:39How does it change your actions?
- 38:40Yeah.
- 38:41I definitely found it very jarring.
- 38:44And I'd like pushed back.
- 38:46And then I was like, well, wait, maybe she's right.
- 38:48And then there is this whole like process that went through.
- 38:51It was like a grieving process.
- 38:53Yeah.
- 38:54Actually, it might have been 38, which didn't feel like middle age.
- 38:57My children think 38 is very old.
- 38:59Oh, yeah.
- 39:00We're only eight.
- 39:01I'm compared to like the people who describe that label.
- 39:05Yeah.
- 39:06We're middle aged.
- 39:07I've been 35 since I was, I don't know, 12.
- 39:1012.
- 39:11So I looked at two.
- 39:13I'm curious.
- 39:14You gave me an idea.
- 39:15We've got a little list of things that we're trying to hit.
- 39:17So that's what I'm looking at.
- 39:19We're the next like segment.
- 39:21Excuse me.
- 39:22Sorry.
- 39:23That's a label.
- 39:24I don't like that label.
- 39:25That's his least favorite label.
- 39:26Yeah.
- 39:27The dance segment.
- 39:29The dance segment.
- 39:30I think that to your point, Reggie,
- 39:35like if you inhabit and body,
- 39:38good trigger right now, if you embody the label,
- 39:41it does change you from the inside out.
- 39:43Yeah.
- 39:44And so I think knowing that and being aware of it,
- 39:47you can hijack the system.
- 39:48Could change the whole.
- 39:49Yeah.
- 39:50You're like in a label that levels you up instead of draws you down.
- 39:53Oh, I love that.
- 39:54What inspires you?
- 39:55What can you step into and become?
- 39:57It's like the process of becoming.
- 39:59Like you're constantly growing into something.
- 40:01What are you growing into?
- 40:02I'm not middle age.
- 40:03I'm half-glass full-aged.
- 40:05Oh.
- 40:06Well.
- 40:07Yes, absolutely.
- 40:08Okay, but I'm going to push back a little bit only because sometimes when you
- 40:11are in a scary position, like if you don't have enough money or
- 40:15we don't have friends, you want the label to help save you.
- 40:20Yeah.
- 40:21What you gaze upon creates who you are.
- 40:24So if you watch in the videos back to back,
- 40:26you can actually change yourself to become something.
- 40:29Yeah.
- 40:30So if you know like fake it to you make it is a thing that is real.
- 40:33It's true.
- 40:34It's something about walking into the unknown is about faking it to you make it.
- 40:37But there's also a point at which you can fake yourself out
- 40:40and end up somewhere you don't want to be.
- 40:42Yeah.
- 40:43And so I call this just a few days ago I recorded a video that I was talking about
- 40:47ruthless authenticity and I know authenticity is a buzzword
- 40:50and every company has it on their values, which is kind of lame.
- 40:54But in this case, it fits.
- 40:56Routhless authenticity.
- 40:57Like be ruthless about who you are.
- 41:00Yes.
- 41:01And if you don't know who you are, be aware that what you're watching
- 41:06can save you or who you are.
- 41:09And so in a time, in a difficult time.
- 41:13You are what you consume.
- 41:14We sometimes think we have to contort ourselves to fit and to be successful.
- 41:20But that's not the way branding works.
- 41:23The differentiator is the most important part of branding and labels
- 41:26sticking standing out.
- 41:29So what sets you aside from your competitors?
- 41:31Right.
- 41:32So it's like I like how you were bringing an optimistic or like what inspires you.
- 41:36Live into that label of yourself and maybe only maybe name your label for yourself.
- 41:42But then we want community.
- 41:44So if we're aware that the label we're diving into can change us,
- 41:50then maybe we become more aware about how we're choosing that or how we're walking into it.
- 41:55I love the food metaphor.
- 41:57Like you are what we eat.
- 41:58Yeah.
- 41:59The same goes for like your eye.
- 42:00Yeah.
- 42:01Whatever you consume is who you become.
- 42:03Yeah.
- 42:04Right.
- 42:05And there are whole digital farms that put content out to make something look like the trend.
- 42:11Yeah.
- 42:12And so sometimes we will think all the lot of people are into this.
- 42:15I can be a part of it and it's not even it's a scam.
- 42:17That's the digital world we live in.
- 42:19It's a part of the side of the scam.
- 42:21Yeah.
- 42:22You have to be with people.
- 42:23You have to be in spaces to feel what's real.
- 42:26You also have to like what.
- 42:29What you're saying to me also resonates on the level of like self-knowledge or knowing that you don't know yourself.
- 42:35But like a sense of identity and like what is in here, agnostic of what's out there.
- 42:40Yeah.
- 42:41And I think.
- 42:42I mean we're we're ones to talk like pot kettle kind of situation, but you can't let what is popular dictate what's in here.
- 42:50You can inform the way you navigate.
- 42:52Like I think you should be aware as you're moving through it, but it doesn't mean that you have to become it.
- 42:56Right.
- 42:57And even in the agent AI where we're like running all our emails along text through this AI engine that's like you should sound like this.
- 43:03Everyone wants you to sound professional.
- 43:05We're losing a sense of each other.
- 43:07Like how does this person respond to their emails?
- 43:09Oh, they're kind of dry humor.
- 43:11Yeah.
- 43:12This person's just kind of curt and straightforward.
- 43:14This person's really friendly and bubbly.
- 43:16Why do you point at me?
- 43:17I know you started your emails that way.
- 43:20But I think that there was a part of that that helped us connect to each other.
- 43:25And now AI is kind of where the thought of AI and how it's influencing people is that you need to sound clear.
- 43:33You need to sound professional.
- 43:35I sanitized almost.
- 43:37It's like what's the land everybody out?
- 43:40And I think our capacity to even take in those different kinds of personalities or quirks are like to recognize humor when we see it is probably being decreased because we're getting so much of the white bread.
- 43:52Sorry, white bread people.
- 43:54White bread.
- 43:55It was trained on the internet, which is largely.
- 43:59The land.
- 44:00It was just the lowest common denominator.
- 44:02The denominator.
- 44:03The denominator.
- 44:05The denominator.
- 44:07Do you think so?
- 44:08No, no, no.
- 44:09I have this like crazy envision and like maybe it's just the world we're living in and like the young adult media.
- 44:15The young adult media all that I consumed was that like you know you had the Hunger Games like the Maze Runner.
- 44:22And it was like there was all these like very bland people who got very manipulated into the system.
- 44:28Yeah.
- 44:29And they were the cut and narrow like the squares basically.
- 44:32And then there was always like I'd call them the circles.
- 44:35But like the people who would always like revol and like have that personality.
- 44:39I feel like brands and like we were talking about earlier how like government like swayed with these brands.
- 44:45I feel like it's all part of the plot.
- 44:48Like I feel it's like if someone can have you buy into this label or brand.
- 44:52They've manipulated you in some way.
- 44:54Yeah.
- 44:55Like whether it's good or bad.
- 44:56Like you wear the jeans until like that's going to make your life better.
- 44:59Get in on the bed.
- 45:00Get in on the bed.
- 45:01Get in on the bed.
- 45:02Literally.
- 45:03And I think once it's the buy-in it's like oh we could release this trend like the gap jeans.
- 45:08I have a pair of gap jeans.
- 45:10They're iconic.
- 45:11Yeah, iconic.
- 45:12No these are not gap.
- 45:13Oh I was going to say I have a pair.
- 45:15But I bought into it and then everybody has these striped jeans.
- 45:19And I was like I am part of like what is it the Truman show.
- 45:23Oh yeah.
- 45:24I was like I am Truman.
- 45:25I was like I am that's where I get a little like conspiracy theory about labels and everything like that.
- 45:32Because I'm like this is all a system.
- 45:34This is all a plot.
- 45:35And however like when it's trendy and it gets duped and it does all this stuff it's like you're buying into this manipulation.
- 45:42And I tell you here I'm not going to tell you which elementary school but it's one that I attended.
- 45:48They made teachers.
- 45:50I only attended one.
- 45:52Sorry.
- 45:53Don't you be doing some research.
- 45:55I know.
- 45:56We're going to look it up.
- 45:57You have to sign a parent has to sign a permission slip to let children read the Hunger Games.
- 46:02Oh really?
- 46:03I learned that last year.
- 46:05Wow.
- 46:06Interesting.
- 46:07Hey at least they didn't ban it.
- 46:09I mean it might as well be.
- 46:11I don't know if they specify why.
- 46:14Is it that that made that require their permission slip or is it because it was it's kind of a it's intense.
- 46:23It's intense killing kids killing kids.
- 46:26I would hope it would be because of that.
- 46:28But don't you think that her brand helped the revolution?
- 46:31Yeah no.
- 46:32So it was almost like the same thing that's not almost like exactly like the same thing can be.
- 46:37That's right.
- 46:38That's right.
- 46:39That's right.
- 46:40That's right.
- 46:41That's right.
- 46:42That's right.
- 46:43That's right.
- 46:44That's right.
- 46:45That's right.
- 46:46That's right.
- 46:47But they try to use your brand for evil but she rises up inside of it to.
- 46:51Yeah.
- 46:52Become good.
- 46:53And to.
- 46:54So we were talking about protesting.
- 46:59Oh yeah.
- 47:00And we were talking about how protesting can get so easily manipulated.
- 47:03And they send rogue agents in and just ruin the movement of a protest.
- 47:08It's in provocateurs.
- 47:09Right.
- 47:10And it's like this it's almost like they've ruined what protesting used to be in the 60s and 70s.
- 47:16And I was asking Reggie what is the new protest?
- 47:20I don't know that the way we protest now is the most effective way to change the things that we want changed.
- 47:27Well it's not buying things.
- 47:28It could be not buying but what if it's turning the label against the one who.
- 47:33Like re re giving it new meaning.
- 47:36Right.
- 47:37What if labels and brands are the new protests?
- 47:39Cancel culture.
- 47:40It could be canceled but it could be adopting a brand that is.
- 47:44No, I like yours.
- 47:45I like cancel culture.
- 47:46I like this happens all the time.
- 47:48But do we cancel or do we do I'm torn again like a contradiction like if we adopt a brand that has the values.
- 47:56Yeah.
- 47:57That do protest against what's wrong.
- 47:59Yeah.
- 48:00That much movement together in a community could change it.
- 48:03That's like a protest of what you're buying.
- 48:05Yeah.
- 48:06Of what you're supporting.
- 48:07And it's great.
- 48:08The problem is when you do have agent provocateurs and you have this movement and it's positive and everything is happening.
- 48:15And then these people get sent in to like I was just watching this person.
- 48:19My wife and I were watching the new show with what was the name of it.
- 48:25It's with Claire Danes and there's this one scene where they're trying to have this like peaceful protest about this development coming in and taking over this like community.
- 48:36And they, the sort of the protagonist, the protagonist in the whole thing or the antagonist was sending in these real agents to like, you know, blast off and create a big scene.
- 48:52And so that everybody goes, oh, yeah, see, they're not peacefully protesting.
- 48:57And so then all of a sudden the label gets shifted to like we're no longer peaceful protesters.
- 49:03But we lost control of it.
- 49:05So that could happen in the in the branding world too.
- 49:08Oh, it absolutely could.
- 49:09But don't you, there's an element of that that's just like, you've got to lock eyes and stand together and hold ground.
- 49:17Rootless.
- 49:18Yeah.
- 49:19And it's about positioning.
- 49:20Yeah.
- 49:21All right, I'm not moving.
- 49:22Right.
- 49:23And holding your position.
- 49:24And the cool thing is people are seeing they know this is a thing now.
- 49:28I see one recently where they were having this protest and this guy obviously a provocatory came in.
- 49:35He's like, didn't look like everybody else, but he was like, he burned a flag in the middle of the thing.
- 49:40And these protesters followed him and filmed him and said, hey, who sent you here?
- 49:45You're not a part of this.
- 49:46Look, you're getting in.
- 49:47You're waiting.
- 49:48You're not talking to us.
- 49:49And so this isn't our movement.
- 49:50Right.
- 49:51And they were exposing it.
- 49:52Yeah.
- 49:53Like, I don't know why I'm going back to the Hunger Games.
- 49:55I don't want to make this about Katniss.
- 49:56Psychonic.
- 49:57They are attempting her to join their wealthy high end.
- 50:03Don't suffer anymore life.
- 50:05Yeah.
- 50:06And she refused to.
- 50:07Don't suffer anymore like that.
- 50:08So she hasn't, I think she has.
- 50:09You are a tourist.
- 50:10I'm so sorry.
- 50:11I want to don't suffer anymore.
- 50:14But she chooses against it.
- 50:17Like she is ruthlessly who she is.
- 50:19Yeah.
- 50:20And her story is such that.
- 50:22And I don't know.
- 50:23Maybe this is a fairy tale.
- 50:24Maybe there's no one this ruthless.
- 50:25But there's got to be people that stick to their guns when they have something.
- 50:29I think it's that.
- 50:30She was able to stand on her true values.
- 50:33But also there are so many people that were pouring into her.
- 50:36Right.
- 50:37I don't think you get ruthless.
- 50:39Authenticity without knowing inner being.
- 50:42I feel like that's where a lot of entrepreneurs like when we get in this scale is like all billionaire.
- 50:47It's all like internal.
- 50:48You're going to justify anything like.
- 50:50That's so true.
- 50:51If you say something to someone and you're like,
- 50:53Oh, I'm never going to see him again.
- 50:54You're justifying your poor action against them.
- 50:56Yeah.
- 50:57So that's how the climb happens.
- 50:58That's how like the trickle down happens.
- 51:00It's not really a personal business.
- 51:02It's business.
- 51:03Yeah.
- 51:04I think the ruthless authenticity that we want and that we're craving.
- 51:08We have to like pour that into other people.
- 51:10If we want these businesses to thrive with this like culture we're doing.
- 51:14So it has to be like your internal values.
- 51:16We have to find people who or they will come to us that want to have these values that they stand on.
- 51:22But then also we have to like you got to pour into people what you want as well.
- 51:26Right.
- 51:27So it's like such a true.
- 51:28If you're being ruthless, like ruthlessly authentic,
- 51:31chances are you didn't get there by yourself.
- 51:34Yeah.
- 51:35And so I think it's like taking that image of self out of it.
- 51:38That's how I think growth really happens is when you have the poor end.
- 51:42And you get to bring up a wisdom.
- 51:44That was beautiful.
- 51:45I mean honestly all the time.
- 51:48We get pretty heavy and Dylan's like guys,
- 51:51but what if we were just maybe like nice to each other and connected with people.
- 51:55Sometimes it says stupid symbol.
- 51:58Like he just brings it down, brings it.
- 52:00Yeah, I think Reggie can kind of do that too.
- 52:01He's like, but what if we just watch the movie?
- 52:03And we're like, actually, that would be nice.
- 52:05Maybe ten in a row.
- 52:06So keeping it simple, I like that.
- 52:10So, so what's the what if here?
- 52:14What if we kept it simple?
- 52:15What if we did?
- 52:16And just love each other.
- 52:18I think that that sounds so ridiculous, but I hate that that sounds so ridiculous.
- 52:22What if we?
- 52:23I don't know.
- 52:24It feels like not allowed to love each other in a professional context.
- 52:28You absolutely can.
- 52:29I think you should be able to too.
- 52:30What if I love you?
- 52:31I love my best friend.
- 52:32Absolutely, buddy.
- 52:33You are mine.
- 52:34And I love you, Dylan.
- 52:35You've been with us for a while.
- 52:38And Mary, I, you're not like that.
- 52:41You guys already know I love you because I tell you guys all the time.
- 52:44But I do come in and hugs everyone every day.
- 52:47That is true.
- 52:48I'm waiting for HR to turn.
- 52:51He touches people too much.
- 52:54Isn't that interesting?
- 52:55I was like, oh, there's this broker.
- 52:56Like there's this professional distance that you're supposed to keep.
- 52:59Yeah.
- 53:00I mean, I can understand moments where those boundaries are important,
- 53:03but I trust you to hold that boundary for yourself.
- 53:05Yeah.
- 53:06I think that's our relationship that you can come to me and say,
- 53:08actually, Mary, it made me uncomfortable when you grabbed my ass.
- 53:11Oh, I'll be like, you know, I was trying something new and I got it.
- 53:16Thanks for saying it for me.
- 53:18I'm just kidding.
- 53:20I don't think that's a joking matter.
- 53:22That does happen.
- 53:23But the reality of their each true love in places.
- 53:29There are people that care about people.
- 53:31So my what if is what if we embrace the labels that serve us
- 53:36and reject the labels that hold us back?
- 53:40And Ron had long toward the good ones.
- 53:42Yes, absolutely.
- 53:43And don't be talking.
- 53:44Even if that label hasn't occurred to you yet, you know, just work toward it.
- 53:49Just to find it.
- 53:50Yeah.
- 53:51Yeah, to Mary's point, just Ron had long.
- 53:53We love defining labels.
- 53:54Yes, we do.
- 53:55I don't mean just like here at 40 Hearts, but we as humans,
- 53:58I think Carl Young said this.
- 54:00We are meaning makers.
- 54:01Yes.
- 54:02We are storytellers.
- 54:03Yes, we do.
- 54:04Take events.
- 54:05And we share reality and we say, this is what I think it all adds up to.
- 54:08And I think if we do that, we're literally like creating the reality that we want to live in.
- 54:13And we kind of, I mean, will can tell us because he gets to like step away a couple days a week.
- 54:20But like we kind of get into our own little reality bubble here, I think.
- 54:24And it can have its downsides if we're not careful.
- 54:26I think we try to stay vigilant and like tapped in.
- 54:29But there is some level on what you can be like, yeah, we're going to just make the dream happen.
- 54:34We're just going to do the dreams.
- 54:35Exactly.
- 54:36And not be talked off of it.
- 54:38We're just following Dylan, basically, whatever she goes, we're going to.
- 54:43I think there's a missed opportunity for the label company Avery to like do some kind of play on like labels of life, you know?
- 54:52Yeah.
- 54:54Choose your own label.
- 54:55I've chosen that label at first, but name tags.
- 54:58They do name tags.
- 54:59Printable.
- 55:00All the labels.
- 55:01I like that you bring this up.
- 55:02All the labels you put in the like printer to print on.
- 55:04All those are Avery labels.
- 55:05Yeah.
- 55:06They could totally do a campaign like choose your own label, right?
- 55:09Maybe we should like pitch it up a little bit.
- 55:13But I love when someone wears a name tag.
- 55:15Yeah.
- 55:16That makes me feel like I can talk to them in a different way because it's like you're giving like a doorway into someone's life.
- 55:22And Wassel, that works here?
- 55:24No, I will forget it.
- 55:25Wassel, you're wearing the name tag.
- 55:27If he's going to wear a name, we're going to require people to wear a name tag.
- 55:32No, Wassel wears one.
- 55:33He does.
- 55:34Yeah.
- 55:35The first one is his friend of ours in the place we work, the building we work.
- 55:38Where's a piece?
- 55:39He bought a Taco Bell one.
- 55:40Yeah.
- 55:41It was hilarious.
- 55:42A Taco Bell name tag that said Wassel.
- 55:43I know.
- 55:44There's a value.
- 55:45I'm a Taco Bell Stan.
- 55:46I'm not really proud of it, but I also kind of am.
- 55:49I love Taco Bell back in the day.
- 55:52Like, wearing a name tag is like saying, hey, I get that I'm an unknown entity, but I want to connect with you.
- 55:57Right.
- 55:58And it's your name.
- 55:59What a label.
- 56:00Yeah.
- 56:01We didn't even get into that one.
- 56:02That's the best label.
- 56:03Because we can't.
- 56:04I was labeled Reggie and I'm okay with it.
- 56:06Some people change their names.
- 56:08That's the most...
- 56:10That's your fundamental label.
- 56:11Don't talk to Mary about names.
- 56:13Mary.
- 56:14Mary is a really hard time with names.
- 56:16We're not going to be an episode into this, but there's the baggage with the name Mary.
- 56:22Okay, so what mine is what if labels didn't define us, but empowered us.
- 56:31Oh, I like that.
- 56:33That's mine too.
- 56:35I'm just going to take that.
- 56:37Label Shower.
- 56:38I feel like that's a really good one.
- 56:40What should we, what are we going to change or do because of this?
- 56:43Like, how does this need it?
- 56:45You're not in more labels.
- 56:47We're going to approach Avery and say, we've got a great idea for you.
- 56:52I do.
- 56:53I think I do feel that I want to explore and experiment with what it means to pull a brand back.
- 57:01I call it quiet or more precise branding.
- 57:04We're not just out there like yelling and creating a lot of noise and trying to get attention,
- 57:09but you're attracting it in and more values forward.
- 57:12What?
- 57:13Move.
- 57:14I like that.
- 57:15It's movements were created like this.
- 57:16Where someone real was at the center of it and that value went through the movement.
- 57:23They were the attractor that brought, like, my people into the movement.
- 57:27Right.
- 57:28And people just keep it.
- 57:29And it's like old-school word of mouth when you have that level of interconnectedness.
- 57:33And I think that brands that come out, and this is, I guess, a case in point.
- 57:37This is why this doesn't have much branding or labeling to it because we just couldn't figure it out.
- 57:43I feel like this is something so weird and different in the world that, and it's not a new idea.
- 57:48It's not a new idea.
- 57:49A podcasty is probably the most worn out idea there is.
- 57:52Like, we're not fresh on that, but the reality that we came into it, not knowing what we're doing,
- 57:57and trying to define it over and over and spending so much money to try to define it.
- 58:01I don't know who's been harping on the money, but it's like we knew what it was until we didn't know what it was.
- 58:06And then we knew what it was until we didn't know what it was.
- 58:08I think we're finding it to the place of, I don't know what this is.
- 58:12We had it labeled it like three or four times and we kept taking it apart.
- 58:16And now it's just age, and it works for me because it allows the movement and the flex of what we evolve into in the process.
- 58:24Well, and it'll start.
- 58:25I hope you all can tell us it will start to make more sense because regardless of what we call it,
- 58:31there's something here, and I think it will manifest.
- 58:35Totally.
- 58:36I think that we're doing something in my life, I don't know about how the rest of the world is living,
- 58:42but like this is an experiment in presence, and I'm going to say embodiment again,
- 58:47that it's like, what if you stopped saying it and just started doing it?
- 58:50Yeah, we live into the label.
- 58:52The label will define itself as we keep living our truth through these conversations.
- 59:00And for all those that are being inundated with like personal branding narrative,
- 59:08it's good.
- 59:09I think that personal branding is good in the world of AI, where you need a stance and a value set.
- 59:14And it makes you think about yourself too, which is there's some space to do.
- 59:18I think branding is all internal and it just emanates out, but I would say when you're looking for a personal brand,
- 59:24do it quietly.
- 59:26You know, find it in you.
- 59:28Don't try and push it on yourself.
- 59:31Let yourself develop and evolve into it.
- 59:35Process your ideas, process your thoughts, and your values and things you like to do and things you don't like to do.
- 59:41It can be simple.
- 59:42Live your truth.
- 59:43But don't just do it just to be successful to have a brand, because that is the most distracted trail you can take.
- 59:50It's a very entrepreneurial take on brand, but I have felt I went to the NC idea conference in 2023.
- 59:58Wonderful organization.
- 59:59You should look them up.
- 1:00:00And I walked away from that conference thinking, ah, I mean, there's a number of levers that we're going to pull to like,
- 1:00:07write the ship that is the United States or maybe the globe, I don't know.
- 1:00:11But I was like, entrepreneurship could be the thing that changes the world.
- 1:00:16Like people going into business to make stuff that they believe in for the community that they're in
- 1:00:22could be the thing that fixes all of it in a way.
- 1:00:26And I think that that's a very different approach being an entrepreneur and saying,
- 1:00:30well, let me take what's inside of me and figure out how to make it real.
- 1:00:33It's very different then.
- 1:00:35Let me study the market and identify where the gap is and let me
- 1:00:39take that claim and become what they need.
- 1:00:41It's like be who you are and find the people who need that.
- 1:00:44Right.
- 1:00:45Obviously be who you are.
- 1:00:47Love that.
- 1:00:48Are we done here?
- 1:00:49Yeah.
- 1:00:50I love it.
- 1:00:51That's great.
- 1:00:52So thanks for watching.
- 1:00:53This has been Age.
- 1:00:54Can't wait for you to tell us what it is.
- 1:00:57And hope we'll see you next week.
- 1:01:00Or are we going to get back together and do another one of these?
- 1:01:02Absolutely.
- 1:01:03I think so.
- 1:01:04I'm excited.
- 1:01:05Look after week after week.
- 1:01:06All right.
- 1:01:07Bye.
- 1:01:08Thanks for watching.
- 1:01:09And listening.
- 1:01:10Yeah.
- 1:01:11Oh, yeah.
- 1:01:12I'll break down.
- 1:01:13Sorry.
- 1:01:14So me smiling there just like we want to do a poll right?
- 1:01:17Do we even have that film?
- 1:01:18I can actually find the camera.
- 1:01:20Thanks for listening.
- 1:01:21This podcast was created and developed by our hosts.
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- 1:01:30Produced by me, Mary Green, live production and editing by Will Kennedy.
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