Latest / Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge / The Twot Seat: ERIN LICHY (RHONY)
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- 0:02Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge.
- 0:13Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of the twat Seat
- 0:16Speaker 2: with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge.
- 0:19Speaker 3: We've been doing a lot of twat seats lately.
- 0:22Speaker 2: I know. Today we have on Aaron Leechee. She is
- 0:25Speaker 2: from Real Housewives of New York. She is a serial entrepreneur.
- 0:30Speaker 2: She's the co founder of Mescal Loom, an all natural,
- 0:33Speaker 2: additive free, one hundred percent artisanal mescal brand. She's also
- 0:37Speaker 2: a seasoned real estate agent, developer, and interior designer. She
- 0:41Speaker 2: also has a book called She's a Host, which is
- 0:44Speaker 2: an unbuttoned cookbook for elegant entertaining. So we're going to
- 0:47Speaker 2: talk about all the things.
- 0:48Speaker 3: I feel like we can learn a lot about this
- 0:50Speaker 3: because Teddy, Yeah, we're not elegant entertainers.
- 0:56Speaker 2: We are definitely not elegant entertainers.
- 0:59Speaker 3: No, now, we hire people to do stuff like that
- 1:02Speaker 3: for us. Actually, we just don't do it at all. Yeah,
- 1:06Speaker 3: we just like, here's your Chick fil A.
- 1:12Speaker 2: I'm not sure we're all agant at anything.
- 1:15Speaker 3: Yeah, we're kind of scruffy, little scruffy, scruffy that's okay.
- 1:21Speaker 3: There she is.
- 1:23Speaker 2: Hi, Hi Eddie, how are you?
- 1:26Speaker 4: Are you okay?
- 1:27Speaker 2: I'm doing okay, thank you. I'm still in immune therapy
- 1:32Speaker 2: and going through that process. But as of now, I
- 1:35Speaker 2: am considered cancer free.
- 1:39Speaker 3: Oh I know, are you considered cancer free or there's
- 1:45Speaker 3: no cancer detected? Because didn't you say it takes a
- 1:49Speaker 3: year for you to be considered cancer free.
- 1:51Speaker 2: No, to be in remission, to be in remission. Yeah,
- 1:55Speaker 2: to be in remission, it takes three years.
- 1:58Speaker 4: Im you know, therapy is unbelievable.
- 2:01Speaker 2: So essentially there's no unbelievable. There's no cured.
- 2:04Speaker 4: My dad the reason he passed away is he picked
- 2:07Speaker 4: it up like smoking again. But it cured him. Like
- 2:10Speaker 4: the doctor said, I don't like to say the word cure,
- 2:13Speaker 4: but it it's it's I mean, knock on wood it really.
- 2:17Speaker 3: So your dad went through immunotherapy.
- 2:19Speaker 4: Yeah, how long.
- 2:20Speaker 3: Did he go through treatment?
- 2:23Speaker 4: Not so long, I want to say, like maybe a
- 2:26Speaker 4: year or six months. But like he handled it really well,
- 2:29Speaker 4: he felt great. Like it was immunotherapy. He was a
- 2:31Speaker 4: candidate for it. So that's the other thing. You're really
- 2:34Speaker 4: lucky that you're a candidate because not everybody is, which
- 2:36Speaker 4: is crazy.
- 2:39Speaker 2: But so he didn't feel sick or tired on it
- 2:43Speaker 2: or anything like that.
- 2:44Speaker 4: A little maybe a little tired, but not really not.
- 2:47Speaker 3: Bad, not like chemotherapy.
- 2:49Speaker 4: Now, my mom did that because she had breast cancer.
- 2:52Speaker 4: This all happened at once, and she, I mean, she's
- 2:55Speaker 4: fine now, completely fine, but she felt like crap, you know.
- 2:59Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, my X went through chemotherapy and it literally
- 3:03Speaker 3: takes you to death before you come back. Yeah, it's brutal.
- 3:09Speaker 3: It's brutal. Our girls back.
- 3:12Speaker 4: She's so happy. I'm so happy to hear that. And
- 3:15Speaker 4: you really look beautiful.
- 3:17Speaker 2: So thank you all the things that you're going through.
- 3:19Speaker 2: I don't know how you look this good. Well so
- 3:22Speaker 2: do you. But we want to talk a little bit
- 3:25Speaker 2: about your cookbook. Yeah, because we're the least elegant people
- 3:30Speaker 2: there is.
- 3:31Speaker 3: We were just joking like, we don't really host elegance
- 3:39Speaker 3: a lot of work, so tell us a little bit
- 3:42Speaker 3: about your cookbook.
- 3:44Speaker 4: It's really just a guide to hosting and keeping hosting
- 3:50Speaker 4: attainable and you know, not something that's so challenging and
- 3:57Speaker 4: so like there seems to be such a barrier to
- 3:59Speaker 4: entry with hosting and everyone's like, oh my god, but
- 4:01Speaker 4: I have to have this, and I have to have that.
- 4:02Speaker 4: They're really easy tips and really easy you know, ways
- 4:06Speaker 4: to make it really elevated and beautiful, but like not
- 4:09Speaker 4: very expensive, not very challenging, doesn't take too long. So
- 4:14Speaker 4: I just little quick tips and tricks.
- 4:17Speaker 2: And it's called she's a host.
- 4:19Speaker 4: Yes, it's called she's a host.
- 4:20Speaker 3: Yes, I had a party this season?
- 4:23Speaker 4: Did you I need to? I want to know?
- 4:28Speaker 3: And I literally ordered everything off at Amazon.
- 4:31Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good tip.
- 4:34Speaker 3: Is that not not a thing?
- 4:36Speaker 4: Like totally? Why not? Like whatever makes it easier for you.
- 4:40Speaker 4: My whole thing is like little spaces and little moments
- 4:45Speaker 4: that make people congregate and feel comfortable. And also I
- 4:48Speaker 4: think you should always have food out. I mean I'm Jewish,
- 4:50Speaker 4: so like we always have food everywhere, and it's there
- 4:53Speaker 4: for the entirety of the party, and there's never I mean,
- 4:56Speaker 4: even though the girls on my show like to complain,
- 4:58Speaker 4: but you know, there's a a surplus of food and
- 5:01Speaker 4: it keeps the party going. So that's the other thing.
- 5:03Speaker 4: And it's just it's just an easy guy. And and
- 5:05Speaker 4: also they're really great recipes for my childhood that are
- 5:08Speaker 4: near and deer, that are not crazy hard to make
- 5:12Speaker 4: but will wow a group because they're different. You know
- 5:17Speaker 4: their Cuban, they're Greek and Turkish like all of our backgrounds.
- 5:21Speaker 3: Okay, what are your thoughts on the grazing tables with
- 5:25Speaker 3: the cheese and all that. Are we tired of.
- 5:27Speaker 4: Seeing that personally?
- 5:29Speaker 2: Yes?
- 5:30Speaker 4: And also like that's.
- 5:31Speaker 3: What I had.
- 5:31Speaker 4: That's a lot of that's a lot of work. I
- 5:36Speaker 4: don't think.
- 5:37Speaker 3: Well, I've done my own a few years ago for
- 5:39Speaker 3: like a family reunion, for a holiday or something. It
- 5:45Speaker 3: was a lot of work and you know what expensive beautiful?
- 5:50Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and they're expensive and like it's just like,
- 5:52Speaker 4: I mean, they're beautiful. I don't mind. I like one.
- 5:55Speaker 4: I like to go and enjoy one, but I'm not.
- 5:58Speaker 3: But half of it's wasted.
- 6:01Speaker 4: No, I agree. Yeah, it's like now okay, then the
- 6:05Speaker 4: time everything but Fay style, I love the face style.
- 6:09Speaker 3: Do you make the food?
- 6:11Speaker 4: I do?
- 6:12Speaker 3: Wow?
- 6:13Speaker 4: That's I enjoy it, Like it's really therapeutic for me.
- 6:17Speaker 4: I don't have much, but there's not like many quiet
- 6:20Speaker 4: moments in my life. So when I'm in the kitchen
- 6:22Speaker 4: and I have a glass of wine playing music, like,
- 6:24Speaker 4: I enjoy it.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Yeah, it's because you're a mom. Of four. Now, how's
- 6:31Speaker 2: that going?
- 6:32Speaker 4: I mean, the baby's like, not a problem. It's the
- 6:35Speaker 4: other kids that I have fun and like no fat
- 6:41Speaker 4: and chunky and I love them. How is he now
- 6:44Speaker 4: six months?
- 6:45Speaker 2: Six months?
- 6:46Speaker 3: It's only six months.
- 6:47Speaker 2: And they done?
- 6:49Speaker 4: Yes, we are. I am done. I am done. The
- 6:53Speaker 4: other one, my oldest son is turning eleven soon, Leila
- 6:58Speaker 4: is eight, Elijah's five, and then the baby six months.
- 7:03Speaker 3: You're in the heat of it. Oh yes, do you
- 7:06Speaker 3: have help? Yes, that makes a difference. Yeah, oh, fully,
- 7:13Speaker 3: Because we're assuming you're going to start filming New York soon.
- 7:18Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 7:20Speaker 2: Well, if you were to guess, would you. We've heard
- 7:26Speaker 2: a lot of rumors kind of about other people being
- 7:29Speaker 2: on or not coming back. We've seen you be with
- 7:33Speaker 2: around Jessel, Jenna and Cie, but no Uber. Well yeah, yeah,
- 7:41Speaker 2: she's like, yeah, I'm not giving you anything an at.
- 7:46Speaker 3: But we also see you around Lindsay Hubbard a lot.
- 7:50Speaker 2: Oh.
- 7:50Speaker 4: I love her, she's my girl.
- 7:52Speaker 3: So this is like a friendship that has developed because
- 7:55Speaker 3: there's so much talk and rumor about she's joining the cast.
- 7:59Speaker 3: But didn't I recently hear that she's doing another show? Yeah, okay,
- 8:05Speaker 3: the cast and your children are around the same age.
- 8:08Speaker 4: Well babies, babies, like almost the exact same time. She
- 8:12Speaker 4: stayed with me out East a couple of times. Like
- 8:14Speaker 4: we're actually friends. She's a great girl, Like, yeah, I
- 8:20Speaker 4: really really like her genuinely.
- 8:22Speaker 2: But you don't think you'd be filming together anytime soon? Now,
- 8:28Speaker 2: what are your thoughts on all the rumors about the
- 8:30Speaker 2: ogs coming back?
- 8:32Speaker 4: Are there still rumors of that?
- 8:34Speaker 2: Yes? What?
- 8:35Speaker 4: Like? When are people gonna let up? I love them,
- 8:38Speaker 4: I really do. I invite them to like all the
- 8:40Speaker 4: parties I have because I think they're genuinely so much fun.
- 8:43Speaker 4: But like, I just don't see that, you know.
- 8:47Speaker 3: Meschine friends. Yeah, are you friends with any of them?
- 8:52Speaker 4: Yeah? I really? I mean Luanne Derenda.
- 8:56Speaker 3: Ramona is not even in New York anymore. I know
- 9:00Speaker 3: she likes I think she's in. She doesn't like you,
- 9:02Speaker 3: I don't think so.
- 9:03Speaker 1: Well.
- 9:03Speaker 3: I'm sure she doesn't remember your name.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Right right, but she definitely doesn't remember my name.
- 9:09Speaker 4: I just told this story because it's very funny. She
- 9:12Speaker 4: lives in my mom's building in Palm Beach and they
- 9:16Speaker 4: ran into each other. My mom was like, oh, by
- 9:18Speaker 4: the way, you know, like my daughter's on the new
- 9:20Speaker 4: one and she was like, oh, I don't watch that.
- 9:22Speaker 4: I heard it's doing terribly.
- 9:25Speaker 3: That's so Ramona, That is so Ramona. Like, oh, were
- 9:31Speaker 3: you also recently moved into a new town home?
- 9:34Speaker 4: Yes, that's why?
- 9:35Speaker 3: Is that where you're at right now?
- 9:37Speaker 4: Yep? And furniture is being delivered and it's so noisy.
- 9:40Speaker 4: Chaout of care?
- 9:41Speaker 2: But do you see yourself in New York forever?
- 9:45Speaker 4: I don't know anything else. I'm like one of those
- 9:47Speaker 4: tainted New Yorkers. It's been here my whole life, and
- 9:50Speaker 4: so like, chaos and garbage is my norm.
- 9:53Speaker 3: Which born and raised?
- 9:55Speaker 4: Yeah, born and raised?
- 9:56Speaker 2: Who else is coming to Bravo Khan from New York?
- 10:00Speaker 4: Jess sol and.
- 10:01Speaker 3: Sie jessel In sigh makes sense?
- 10:04Speaker 2: Okay, no, Jenna, she's not coming now, she's not coming now?
- 10:09Speaker 2: Did she come the last time there was a Bravo Con?
- 10:12Speaker 4: She didn't? Actually?
- 10:14Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, are you talking about Jenna Lions? Yes?
- 10:18Speaker 4: Allions.
- 10:19Speaker 3: She didn't go when you guys all went. Yeah, I
- 10:24Speaker 3: think the very first Bravocon where they announced you guys,
- 10:27Speaker 3: she was there, Yes, she was there, But after that
- 10:30Speaker 3: she's like, I'm too busy.
- 10:33Speaker 4: But what it's like hard. It's not that easy, you know,
- 10:36Speaker 4: It's like it's a hard thing.
- 10:39Speaker 3: Oh bravo con Yeah, yeah, me and Teddy are talking
- 10:43Speaker 3: about because we're obviously both going. And it's like the
- 10:48Speaker 3: amount of touching and sweaty armpits that are on you,
- 10:53Speaker 3: like you kind of really think about your outfits. I'm like,
- 10:56Speaker 3: I want my arms covered, I want everything.
- 10:59Speaker 4: It's like, Hi, you know you're going to go back
- 11:03Speaker 4: with COVID or some sort.
- 11:04Speaker 3: Of I know. That's why I'm telling Teddy, I think
- 11:08Speaker 3: you should wear a mask.
- 11:09Speaker 2: And it's like I'm not wearing a mask.
- 11:11Speaker 3: It's like I'm not wearing.
- 11:15Speaker 4: Like, don't act are you to a buyer?
- 11:19Speaker 3: But you look cute, Teddy with your little pixie cut.
- 11:21Speaker 3: And by the way, the pixie cuts in style right.
- 11:25Speaker 2: Now, well we'll see it's not really a pixie cut.
- 11:29Speaker 2: Right now, I'm giving Guy Fieri, No, you're not. Guys.
- 11:39Speaker 4: Oh my god, it got along.
- 11:41Speaker 2: I know.
- 11:43Speaker 3: I am so Guy Fieri. I say, you put like
- 11:45Speaker 3: a few little individual's extensions and have a little side
- 11:49Speaker 3: sweat bangs.
- 11:51Speaker 2: Going to put extensions on my two inch chair.
- 11:54Speaker 3: You can't do that, though, did you see back Kim
- 11:58Speaker 3: Kardashian just did that. She just came out with a
- 12:00Speaker 3: little I'm sure it was a wig, like a little
- 12:03Speaker 3: pixie cut.
- 12:04Speaker 2: I know hers looks cute. I'll probably cut it before
- 12:07Speaker 2: we go to Bravocon and try to style it in
- 12:09Speaker 2: a cute way. Don't worry, I'm not going to try
- 12:12Speaker 2: the guy fieriot there. But I went from when I had,
- 12:16Speaker 2: oh the slick back. Mine doesn't slick back, It'll only
- 12:19Speaker 2: slick to the side.
- 12:21Speaker 4: Still, like, I just think it's chic.
- 12:23Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. That's what I'll try to do. Okay.
- 12:28Speaker 2: So have you talked to Brenn at all? No?
- 12:32Speaker 3: No, not any has any money.
- 12:36Speaker 4: No. I actually just I love how I have no
- 12:38Speaker 4: filter and I can't contain myself. But whatever, I just
- 12:43Speaker 4: realized that she blocked me.
- 12:45Speaker 2: What.
- 12:46Speaker 4: I haven't spoken to her. I don't know what could
- 12:48Speaker 4: have happened.
- 12:49Speaker 3: What did you do to her?
- 12:50Speaker 4: Nothing?
- 12:51Speaker 3: Nothing?
- 12:52Speaker 4: Maybe that's the problem.
- 12:53Speaker 3: But did she block the whole cast?
- 12:55Speaker 4: I don't know. I honestly didn't even ask them. I
- 12:58Speaker 4: think she inside is already blocked and she blocks out
- 13:01Speaker 4: like that has happened, I think for a while, but no,
- 13:05Speaker 4: she just like she unfollowed my sister. My sister's the
- 13:08Speaker 4: one who noticed my husband and then blocked me like
- 13:11Speaker 4: I'm the you know, the worst of the bunch. I
- 13:13Speaker 4: guess I don't know, so weird.
- 13:15Speaker 2: How is ab the babe?
- 13:17Speaker 4: He's really good.
- 13:19Speaker 3: How's he justine with another child?
- 13:23Speaker 4: He's like, he's fine, busy. I mean, it's it's really,
- 13:26Speaker 4: it's just logistics that's the problem.
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- 14:37Speaker 3: So, Rebecca Minkoff claims that she left the show.
- 14:45Speaker 4: It just wasn't the right But.
- 14:47Speaker 3: Yeah, do you guys still talk? Who do you talk
- 14:50Speaker 3: to on the cast.
- 14:53Speaker 4: Side? Jessel, Uva, Jena, that's it. Yeah, but we we
- 14:59Speaker 4: genuinely our friends and like we really go out together
- 15:02Speaker 4: and have fun and yeah, like we're all good.
- 15:07Speaker 2: Yeah. And then if you were to get how many
- 15:09Speaker 2: newbies do you think they should bring on?
- 15:12Speaker 4: How many newbies between three and four?
- 15:17Speaker 2: Between three and four? Yeah, do you have any ideas
- 15:21Speaker 2: on who you if you could have your dream person
- 15:23Speaker 2: come on, who would it be?
- 15:31Speaker 4: Say it Share? Share Martha Stewart like one of those
- 15:40Speaker 4: I would should be bad. I think, I mean, you
- 15:44Speaker 4: wouldn't know the people that I think should be on
- 15:47Speaker 4: it because they're just like I think, I think we
- 15:50Speaker 4: need regular New York people. Jenny from the blog don't
- 15:54Speaker 4: you agree?
- 15:55Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you need some just regular New York people.
- 15:58Speaker 4: That's what we need, Like regular your people who don't
- 16:00Speaker 4: give a fuck.
- 16:01Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on with Raquel?
- 16:05Speaker 4: I don't know. I honestly don't know what they're doing
- 16:07Speaker 4: with the show, Like they don't tell me anything, probably
- 16:09Speaker 4: because I have a big mouth.
- 16:13Speaker 3: What housewife doesn't have a big mouth.
- 16:16Speaker 4: Some people are good better at keeping things together than
- 16:19Speaker 4: I for sure.
- 16:21Speaker 3: Yeah, until they have a few drinks, and then it's
- 16:24Speaker 3: like talking, talking talking.
- 16:27Speaker 4: That's the other thing. I like to have more drinks
- 16:30Speaker 4: of our cast. Hopefully. I know that sounds well.
- 16:33Speaker 3: Carol Radswell has kind of been in the process again,
- 16:37Speaker 3: which got people thinking, yeah, yeah, and she had she
- 16:41Speaker 3: had a big feud with Andy and then they made up,
- 16:45Speaker 3: and then she's doing this press tour and then people
- 16:48Speaker 3: are and I think she's going to Bravo kon if
- 16:51Speaker 3: I'm not mistaken, And people are like, yeah.
- 16:55Speaker 4: Wait and find out.
- 16:57Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she. I think she definitely is going
- 16:59Speaker 2: to Bravo con and.
- 17:03Speaker 3: So now so now you know, instantly people think that
- 17:07Speaker 3: she's coming back.
- 17:09Speaker 4: I mean that could be kind of fun.
- 17:12Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
- 17:14Speaker 4: I haven't heard anything about that.
- 17:16Speaker 2: Yeah, text her and say, are you going to Bravo kan.
- 17:18Speaker 4: Or the ogs are going to Provo?
- 17:20Speaker 2: Right?
- 17:21Speaker 3: Not all of them? Oh nope, not all of them.
- 17:26Speaker 4: Who's going?
- 17:27Speaker 3: You guys know, Derenda? Who else?
- 17:35Speaker 2: Drenda Luanne?
- 17:36Speaker 3: Yeah, Dorenda Luanne. I think that's it, right, I think so.
- 17:42Speaker 3: But I also I also feel like when Bravo Con
- 17:45Speaker 3: tickets come out, people want to see some of these ogs. Like,
- 17:50Speaker 3: I know Vicky's coming. She hasn't been on our show
- 17:53Speaker 3: for for years. Right, good, We're We're getting there. We're
- 17:59Speaker 3: getting there. You know, I've known her for twenty years.
- 18:01Speaker 3: She's like a sister.
- 18:02Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.
- 18:03Speaker 3: She says things and then you know, I say things back,
- 18:07Speaker 3: and then we meet in the middle. Like it's one
- 18:10Speaker 3: of those things where we can have conflict and resolution
- 18:12Speaker 3: and we.
- 18:12Speaker 4: Can move forward ideal honestly, you know.
- 18:15Speaker 3: And I think one of the biggest factors of us
- 18:19Speaker 3: reconnecting was she reached out to Teddy when she was
- 18:23Speaker 3: sick and center or present, I mean the present was
- 18:28Speaker 3: a picture of her face a coloring book with her
- 18:33Speaker 3: face on.
- 18:34Speaker 4: Yes, but.
- 18:37Speaker 2: In the coloring book, Yeah, does the name Chanelle Jones
- 18:42Speaker 2: mean anything to you.
- 18:44Speaker 4: No, who's that.
- 18:46Speaker 2: There's a rumor she's a newbie.
- 18:50Speaker 4: I'm so much huh.
- 18:53Speaker 2: I know you're good at a playing koy. Also, I've learned.
- 19:00Speaker 4: She's like, I don't want to get in trouble. Yeah,
- 19:04Speaker 4: isn't that for sure? I don't know that person. Chanelle Jones.
- 19:08Speaker 3: Did the show inspire you for your new cookbook?
- 19:14Speaker 4: Yeah? I think, like I, people responded to a lot
- 19:17Speaker 4: of the you know, like Shabbat I hosted and the
- 19:20Speaker 4: shuk Shuka day and just like I'm always having dinner
- 19:23Speaker 4: and family and friends over, and I realized that it's
- 19:26Speaker 4: something that I just do normally and it's not a
- 19:28Speaker 4: normal thing that people do. And I really enjoyed sharing it,
- 19:32Speaker 4: you know, with everybody really did well.
- 19:34Speaker 2: There'd be a recipe for that, a recipe for shuk huka. Yeah,
- 19:40Speaker 2: oh yes, oh good for sure.
- 19:44Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:45Speaker 3: I think that that that is, you know, with so
- 19:47Speaker 3: much toxic environment in this industry, the one of the
- 19:51Speaker 3: really good positive of being on this platform is you
- 19:56Speaker 3: do get to write cookbooks. You do like Angie k
- 19:59Speaker 3: Is make a sunglass line because she wears sunglasses. My
- 20:03Speaker 3: daughter's a musician and mentioned a musician on her show.
- 20:07Speaker 3: The musician reached out to her and sent her merch
- 20:10Speaker 3: and tickets to go to the concert in a meet
- 20:13Speaker 3: and greet and all that stuff. So you know that
- 20:16Speaker 3: is the positive, right, that's kind of the best part
- 20:19Speaker 3: of it.
- 20:20Speaker 2: Well, I was going to say, what's your least and
- 20:23Speaker 2: favorite part about being on the show when it was filming?
- 20:29Speaker 4: Well, two things were my least favorite. One was logistics
- 20:34Speaker 4: were really hard for me to like figure out, at
- 20:37Speaker 4: least in the beginning. And then like I started to
- 20:39Speaker 4: get the hang of it, but it's like, you know,
- 20:41Speaker 4: it's a lot, it's a lot of your time just
- 20:43Speaker 4: don't realize, so like you kind of have to rethink
- 20:46Speaker 4: the way that you run a business or work because
- 20:48Speaker 4: it's like when you're filming, it's like blackout time. And
- 20:52Speaker 4: then also just like the level of nastiness that some
- 20:56Speaker 4: people are capable of behave, like it's shocking.
- 21:02Speaker 3: The way it lies is what gets me.
- 21:06Speaker 4: Well, that's I feel like I'm so used to that
- 21:08Speaker 4: from what we went through last season. You mean, like
- 21:11Speaker 4: the people asked.
- 21:12Speaker 3: Yeah, they cast lying about you and making up stories
- 21:15Speaker 3: about you, and you know, this season, I've had an
- 21:19Speaker 3: affair and I drug somebody, and it gets to a
- 21:22Speaker 3: point where you're like, is that really worth it right
- 21:26Speaker 3: to have those things talked about about you that are
- 21:29Speaker 3: absolutely lies.
- 21:31Speaker 4: That's that's how Uba felt. Well.
- 21:34Speaker 2: I was gonna say, do you blame Bran and Uba
- 21:36Speaker 2: for the long pause?
- 21:39Speaker 4: I mean, I certainly don't blame Uba. I don't think
- 21:41Speaker 4: she really know anything wrong there, but.
- 21:43Speaker 3: I don't either.
- 21:44Speaker 4: That was a pretty crazy like and I and it
- 21:48Speaker 4: was hard because she didn't like it, as though Brenn
- 21:50Speaker 4: didn't really even understand what she did wrong. After It's like, dude,
- 21:54Speaker 4: you you made a claim that she was sex shaming
- 21:59Speaker 4: you after knowing this crazy story that she clearly did
- 22:03Speaker 4: not know. And also everyone that even watches the show
- 22:07Speaker 4: knows how Uba is.
- 22:08Speaker 2: Like.
- 22:08Speaker 4: She's someone that if she heard something like that, like
- 22:11Speaker 4: she would run it down, you know, a hill, she
- 22:13Speaker 4: would chase it. She'd be like, is that okay? Is everything?
- 22:16Speaker 2: Like?
- 22:16Speaker 4: So it was just it was just a crazy claim
- 22:18Speaker 4: and it was pretty awful. It was pretty awful. It
- 22:22Speaker 4: was pretty dark to be.
- 22:23Speaker 2: I mean, that reunion was really hard to watch.
- 22:26Speaker 4: It was really hard to watch. It was hard for
- 22:27Speaker 4: me to watch, and I was there living.
- 22:29Speaker 2: It living it, Yeah, for sure.
- 22:32Speaker 4: But I say the best part is going through real
- 22:36Speaker 4: things that are happening, sharing them and having like such
- 22:40Speaker 4: an outpouring of community of people who are like wow,
- 22:44Speaker 4: like this you know helped me so much because I'm
- 22:48Speaker 4: going through it too. And like when I told that
- 22:50Speaker 4: story on Glamour, so many people came out of the
- 22:53Speaker 4: woodwork being like, well, I just told my parents now
- 22:56Speaker 4: that I had, you know, an abortion when I was younger,
- 22:58Speaker 4: and I and.
- 22:58Speaker 3: You actually had your dad on the show and you
- 23:01Speaker 3: told him in real time.
- 23:03Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, just like I guess the sense of community
- 23:06Speaker 4: that you get from that, like people with sick parents
- 23:09Speaker 4: or like just whatever it is. It's it's like I
- 23:13Speaker 4: would have felt so much better my younger self if
- 23:15Speaker 4: I could have seen, like watched the show and had
- 23:18Speaker 4: that sense of connection, if someone was going through something
- 23:21Speaker 4: like that that I identified with. So that's like I
- 23:23Speaker 4: think the nicest part of the show.
- 23:27Speaker 3: Yeah, me going through therapy. I exposed something that I
- 23:32Speaker 3: had never told my mom or my dad, something that
- 23:36Speaker 3: happened to me when I was twelve or thirteen years
- 23:38Speaker 3: old in our own backyard at a party, and I
- 23:42Speaker 3: was so like, I'm like I need to know if
- 23:45Speaker 3: it's even going to be on the show to tell
- 23:47Speaker 3: my mom because I don't even know if I have
- 23:48Speaker 3: the courage to tell her. And they cut it out completely.
- 23:51Speaker 4: Wow.
- 23:52Speaker 2: Wow, I didn't even know that.
- 23:54Speaker 4: No, I know, I'm kind of a crazy feeling where
- 23:58Speaker 4: it's like you really do forget get that the like
- 24:01Speaker 4: people don't realize it, but it's like you're just being
- 24:03Speaker 4: authentic and forget that you're like filming a show. It's wild.
- 24:10Speaker 3: If you're good, you do. If they're calculated and you're
- 24:14Speaker 3: you know, producing yourself, that's a different story.
- 24:18Speaker 2: So why exactly do you think there was a break.
- 24:23Speaker 4: Well, I think like a multitude of reasons. I think
- 24:26Speaker 4: they needed to figure out like what was going to
- 24:28Speaker 4: happen to us as a group after that kind of fallout.
- 24:33Speaker 4: I think they wanted I don't know, I guess they
- 24:37Speaker 4: wanted to like shake things up a little and see
- 24:40Speaker 4: how it could progress in like a healthier way. And
- 24:45Speaker 4: I mean we need to be having I think also
- 24:47Speaker 4: more fun. Yeah, like we do have fun, you know,
- 24:51Speaker 4: like we're fun girls. We go out, we have fun, drink,
- 24:54Speaker 4: we laugh like.
- 24:56Speaker 3: That that part, I think it's a casting to situation
- 25:01Speaker 3: I think that the part of the cast didn't work,
- 25:04Speaker 3: and now they're trying to figure it out. And it's
- 25:07Speaker 3: very hard to recast an original show totally because don't
- 25:12Speaker 3: you feel like you're always compared to the ogs.
- 25:15Speaker 4: Yes. But the other thing is, and I feel strongly
- 25:18Speaker 4: about this, is I feel like people forget that it
- 25:21Speaker 4: always takes a few seasons for a show to gel. Absolutely,
- 25:25Speaker 4: even Salt Lake, I wasn't into I mean, now it's
- 25:28Speaker 4: like on the cover of US Weekly, but like I
- 25:30Speaker 4: wasn't into it for a couple of seasons, you know,
- 25:33Speaker 4: and then it was like really started gelling and getting
- 25:36Speaker 4: really really good. And I think it just takes a
- 25:38Speaker 4: minute for like everything to.
- 25:41Speaker 3: Like, well, it takes a minute for the audience to
- 25:44Speaker 3: get to know the person right right, And people aren't
- 25:47Speaker 3: invested in new people like they are with familiar faces
- 25:52Speaker 3: right exactly. And I think that that like I don't
- 25:55Speaker 3: know it, they're going to figure it out and you'll go.
- 25:58Speaker 2: Back, is there any buddy that's going to be at
- 26:01Speaker 2: Bravo Con that you're like, oh, no, I've had this
- 26:04Speaker 2: awkward exchange with Or is there anyone you're really excited
- 26:08Speaker 2: to see.
- 26:08Speaker 4: That's such a good question. I had awkward experiences of
- 26:14Speaker 4: any not really, to be honest, that's not really.
- 26:22Speaker 3: Are there other housewives from other franchises that you're close with?
- 26:27Speaker 4: Definitely, definitely a couple of Beverly Hills girls, a couple
- 26:35Speaker 4: housewives particularly definitely some of the Salt Lake City howther.
- 26:39Speaker 3: Ja Brow has always spoke very kindly of you.
- 26:41Speaker 4: Love Heather, Love Heather. We had we have a lot
- 26:44Speaker 4: of fun, like with our husbands together because they like
- 26:48Speaker 4: each other. So they're just a really funny couple. I
- 26:50Speaker 4: think I really like them together. I just think they're hilarious. Also,
- 26:54Speaker 4: I am very impressed with how they can drink.
- 26:56Speaker 2: I have to say that impressed, like speaking of we
- 27:02Speaker 2: need more of yours.
- 27:04Speaker 4: Oh yes, I know, I know. I'll have it a
- 27:06Speaker 4: Bravocon I have a booth.
- 27:07Speaker 2: Oh you do.
- 27:08Speaker 3: Oh that's awesome. How's it going cool?
- 27:11Speaker 4: It's going so well? Knock on one. It's like, really
- 27:13Speaker 4: really going well. Our sales have doubled, you know, each year.
- 27:18Speaker 4: I mean we've only been around for a year and
- 27:20Speaker 4: a half, but we're on track to fully double our
- 27:22Speaker 4: sales from last year.
- 27:23Speaker 2: So how do people get it?
- 27:26Speaker 4: Well, we're in a lot of we're in tons of
- 27:29Speaker 4: stores and restaurants. We are actually not moving out of
- 27:31Speaker 4: the Northeast for now because of like that's just our
- 27:34Speaker 4: strategy and I guess that's like how you're supposed to
- 27:36Speaker 4: do it and liquor sales. Like I was like, come on,
- 27:38Speaker 4: let's get into South Florida and we should be in
- 27:40Speaker 4: LA but they're like, no, that's not how we do it.
- 27:42Speaker 4: We need, you know, for if we were to get
- 27:45Speaker 4: a strategic investor, they would want to expand us. So
- 27:49Speaker 4: we're just crushing it in the Northeast for now. We're
- 27:52Speaker 4: actually we just got a big order from Costco, which is.
- 27:55Speaker 3: Like huge, that's huge.
- 27:58Speaker 4: I was so excited when I saw that. I was like,
- 28:00Speaker 4: I go do a video there. So yeah, no, it's good,
- 28:03Speaker 4: it's good. Congratulationally, thank you, thank you.
- 28:07Speaker 3: So why did you decide to move? Was it because
- 28:10Speaker 3: you need another bedroom because you have any kid or
- 28:13Speaker 3: need it?
- 28:13Speaker 4: We needed more space, and when we moved from Tribecca,
- 28:16Speaker 4: we really were just like moving uptown to like figure
- 28:19Speaker 4: out where we wanted to be. It wasn't our forever spot,
- 28:22Speaker 4: but now we're very happy and settled. We're also house people.
- 28:26Speaker 2: Yeah, if you could go to another franchise. Which would
- 28:30Speaker 2: it be If.
- 28:31Speaker 4: People always ask me this and I always say Miami,
- 28:34Speaker 4: Miam really yeah, because I'm New York. Miami connection is like, like,
- 28:39Speaker 4: I have so much family in Miami, and I would
- 28:41Speaker 4: if I were to live somewhere else, probably would be Florida.
- 28:44Speaker 2: Yeah, I love Florida.
- 28:46Speaker 3: You told us about your miss Galbron, but you didn't
- 28:48Speaker 3: tell us the name of it, so our listeners want
- 28:51Speaker 3: to hear the name.
- 28:52Speaker 4: It's called mescaloom We If you're going to be at
- 28:56Speaker 4: Bravo Khan, stop by er booth. Abe the Babe is
- 28:58Speaker 4: coming in for one day. There at the booth. I
- 29:00Speaker 4: have my Mescaline marketing girls. They'll be there and you
- 29:04Speaker 4: can you can order it online.
- 29:06Speaker 3: What is the difference between tequila and mescal. I don't
- 29:11Speaker 3: know the difference.
- 29:13Speaker 4: So this is very controversial right now because a lot
- 29:16Speaker 4: of a lot of tequila brands are getting sued. Tequila
- 29:19Speaker 4: only has to be by Mexican law fifty one percent
- 29:22Speaker 4: pure gave, so the minute of brand gets sold or
- 29:25Speaker 4: you know, they feel like changing the ratio of pure
- 29:29Speaker 4: gave to additives, it becomes very additive heavy. So there
- 29:32Speaker 4: are a bunch of tequila brands, big ones that you
- 29:34Speaker 4: know that are getting sued because they're claiming to be
- 29:37Speaker 4: additive free and they're not. My law, mescal has to
- 29:41Speaker 4: be one hundred percent pure gave. What I noticed was
- 29:44Speaker 4: missing in the marketplace was there wasn't like a non smoky.
- 29:48Speaker 2: That's what I was going to ask you, That's what
- 29:50Speaker 2: I'm going to sell.
- 29:50Speaker 4: Send you a package like you, I'll get your address.
- 29:53Speaker 2: Because that's my only issue is that I don't love
- 29:55Speaker 2: the smoky.
- 29:56Speaker 4: Yep, mine is not smoky. It's very We places a
- 30:00Speaker 4: tequila and it's so much better for you. And liquor
- 30:03Speaker 4: is typically a blind spot for people. You know, it's like, oh,
- 30:06Speaker 4: I'll have a vodka soda, but it's like what's in
- 30:08Speaker 4: the vodka? And we all eat healthy. We think about
- 30:11Speaker 4: what we're eating, but we don't think about liquor. And
- 30:14Speaker 4: I mean it's becoming more prevalent. People are starting to
- 30:17Speaker 4: think about it more. But mescal has to be one
- 30:19Speaker 4: hundred percent pure agave by design, by law, so you're
- 30:23Speaker 4: getting a way better product. Like doctors will say, obviously
- 30:26Speaker 4: don't recommend you drink, but if you were to drink anything,
- 30:29Speaker 4: you drink mescal because it's like a it's a probiotic
- 30:32Speaker 4: like it has all it's crazy.
- 30:33Speaker 3: Is it upper like tequila?
- 30:35Speaker 4: Totally? It's all a dave. It's all agave. And the
- 30:37Speaker 4: thing is about the flavor profile, which is how I
- 30:40Speaker 4: was able to make it non smoky, is tequila can
- 30:43Speaker 4: only be made by blue Weber agave, which is one
- 30:46Speaker 4: agave species. So like as soon as that starts getting
- 30:49Speaker 4: over harvested, they start, you know, using younger and younger agaves.
- 30:53Speaker 4: The flavor kind of sucks and it's like not as good.
- 30:56Speaker 4: But mescal can be made from eighty different type of
- 30:59Speaker 4: agave species. So I used a cliche which is a
- 31:01Speaker 4: while to gavi, which really like cut the smoke.
- 31:04Speaker 2: Well, the cool thing is it's hearing you talk about it.
- 31:07Speaker 2: You actually really know about your business. Yeah, where you
- 31:10Speaker 2: talk to some housewives and you're like, so tell us
- 31:13Speaker 2: about your new business.
- 31:14Speaker 3: And then I was just thinking that, pulling up.
- 31:16Speaker 2: A piece of paper, looking around at the reps, like, uh,
- 31:23Speaker 2: that was good.
- 31:25Speaker 4: It's a real business, I swear, Yeah, that's good.
- 31:31Speaker 3: What recipe from your cook? Cook? Should we tackle first?
- 31:37Speaker 4: Ooh? What do you guys? Like? I have so many
- 31:40Speaker 4: different types of.
- 31:41Speaker 2: Recipes, things that are easy that my kids will also eat.
- 31:46Speaker 4: Okay, I have actually a lot of recipes for kids.
- 31:49Speaker 4: I have like a homemade mac and cheese with broccoli
- 31:51Speaker 4: that is like always a crowd pleaser. I have like
- 31:55Speaker 4: really easy chicken dishes. I have a really great actually
- 31:59Speaker 4: Thanksgiving turkey recipe.
- 32:01Speaker 3: Oh, I'm going to need that.
- 32:03Speaker 4: You put rice in the turkey. It's like a stuffing
- 32:05Speaker 4: and you cook it with the juices and it's the
- 32:08Speaker 4: most flavorful like soft.
- 32:11Speaker 3: Wait, so you put you don't have to cook the
- 32:13Speaker 3: rice first. You cook it as it's in, like you
- 32:16Speaker 3: stuff it in the turkey.
- 32:18Speaker 4: It's like a crazy it's never heard of that it
- 32:21Speaker 4: is crack, Like I'm telling you never had crack.
- 32:25Speaker 3: But I'm willing to try anything once.
- 32:30Speaker 4: Maybe a bravo con no, I'll bring some goodies to okondor.
- 32:36Speaker 3: I'm going to need I'm going to need a copy
- 32:38Speaker 3: of this cookbook because Thanksgiving is coming up before we
- 32:41Speaker 3: know it.
- 32:42Speaker 4: Yeah, got some good Thanksgiving recipes.
- 32:44Speaker 3: And that that yes, do you mix it with like
- 32:49Speaker 3: liquids or does the liquids from the turkey actually cook
- 32:54Speaker 3: the rice?
- 32:54Speaker 4: You mix it with liquids? Okay, and it you cook
- 32:58Speaker 4: it also for ten hours. It's the most Like turkey
- 33:03Speaker 4: is not good, it's dry, it's like gross. But this
- 33:06Speaker 4: turkey is it's insane, like it's I'm telling you, it's
- 33:09Speaker 4: my grandma's recipe. We make it every Thanksgiving. It is unbelievable.
- 33:13Speaker 3: Do you cook your turkey in a bag or just in.
- 33:15Speaker 4: A No, one of those really big? I actually use
- 33:18Speaker 4: this all clad like massive.
- 33:21Speaker 3: Yes, I have one of those. Yeah, I love that,
- 33:23Speaker 3: But the bag is fool proof for people like me
- 33:26Speaker 3: and Teddy.
- 33:28Speaker 4: I feel like I would know how to do a
- 33:29Speaker 4: bag because like, wouldn't it fall and like slip and
- 33:32Speaker 4: isn't that tough?
- 33:33Speaker 3: No, because you put it in the big pot, it
- 33:36Speaker 3: just keeps it moist.
- 33:38Speaker 2: Okay, God, I love that you think that I can
- 33:40Speaker 2: cook a turkey, camera that I've cooked one in a bag.
- 33:45Speaker 3: I mean one time my mom put marijuana in our
- 33:48Speaker 3: mashed potatoes. What yes, I'm like, She's like, I had
- 33:53Speaker 3: I had this weed and I just thought maybe I'll
- 33:56Speaker 3: mix it in the mash. I'm like, Mom, really to
- 34:00Speaker 3: taste you couldn't really taste it, sagerous, that's how well
- 34:05Speaker 3: our cooking skills over here are in this family.
- 34:09Speaker 4: That's very funny. That's a first.
- 34:11Speaker 3: Yeah, that is definitely a first. Are you going to
- 34:15Speaker 3: bring some of your dishes to Bravocan That might be
- 34:19Speaker 3: a little.
- 34:19Speaker 4: Tough, right, It's going to be tough, But I'm gonna
- 34:21Speaker 4: bring some books.
- 34:23Speaker 3: So you'll be selling your cookbooks and your alcohol.
- 34:27Speaker 4: So we're not selling the alcohol, We're just tastaving it.
- 34:30Speaker 4: We were there last time. It was just so fun
- 34:32Speaker 4: to like meet everybody and throw merch out and give
- 34:34Speaker 4: shots and it was just fun.
- 34:49Speaker 3: So let's say you don't get asked I know you are.
- 34:52Speaker 3: You're not going to get as back. Are you going
- 34:54Speaker 3: to be bummed?
- 34:54Speaker 2: Are you going to be like?
- 34:55Speaker 3: Ah, it was a great experience.
- 34:58Speaker 4: I think if I was not asked back, I would,
- 35:02Speaker 4: being honest to find a way to do something else
- 35:05Speaker 4: in media because I do like it. Yeah, I do
- 35:08Speaker 4: have fun with it. You know. I think that there
- 35:10Speaker 4: are certain people that like to be behind the scenes
- 35:12Speaker 4: and certain people that like to be front facing, and
- 35:14Speaker 4: I think I like to be front facing.
- 35:15Speaker 2: So is there anything you change about some of your
- 35:18Speaker 2: past decision making?
- 35:22Speaker 4: Really? I mean, yeah, I could be like I wouldn't
- 35:24Speaker 4: do I mean.
- 35:25Speaker 2: But now I don't really you seem pretty chill.
- 35:30Speaker 4: I mean it's just like like you can't be I
- 35:33Speaker 4: feel like if you're going to do a reality show,
- 35:35Speaker 4: you just can't try to be perfect because it's just
- 35:37Speaker 4: doesn't work.
- 35:37Speaker 3: It doesn't work. Yeah, and it shows like the camera
- 35:41Speaker 3: never lies. So if you're going to go up there
- 35:43Speaker 3: and you're going to self produce yourself, it never works.
- 35:47Speaker 4: And it's also it's like tacky. You know, it's like
- 35:50Speaker 4: you want to be if you're going to do if
- 35:52Speaker 4: you're going to decide to be on a reality show,
- 35:55Speaker 4: you need to show your life like you just doo.
- 35:57Speaker 3: Yeah for sure.
- 36:00Speaker 2: If there's anyone on your cast that doesn't actually do that,
- 36:02Speaker 2: that is a little phony bologney.
- 36:07Speaker 3: I mean that's a yes.
- 36:11Speaker 2: I mean you have to tell when you smile like that.
- 36:14Speaker 3: No, That'm the worst.
- 36:20Speaker 4: I mean yeah a little bit. Yeah.
- 36:22Speaker 3: Are you still in real estate?
- 36:25Speaker 4: I mean I have my license actually just renewed it
- 36:27Speaker 4: because you have to do it every two years, but
- 36:29Speaker 4: you have to.
- 36:30Speaker 3: Do it every two so I have mine too, but
- 36:32Speaker 3: I have to renew it every four lucky everything.
- 36:37Speaker 4: Yeah, ann twenty two and a half hours.
- 36:39Speaker 3: But I'm like one of those people. I'm like, I'm
- 36:41Speaker 3: never letting it go.
- 36:42Speaker 4: No, you and you shouldn't because it's like even if
- 36:45Speaker 4: you buy something yourself, you can represent yourself in safe.
- 36:48Speaker 3: Right or you just never know where you're going to
- 36:50Speaker 3: be one.
- 36:50Speaker 4: Day exactly, And it's a great it really is a
- 36:53Speaker 4: great business to just like have and do on the side.
- 36:55Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 36:56Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm like into I've always been, but like
- 37:00Speaker 4: now I'm starting to get back into flipping and that's
- 37:03Speaker 4: really where I want to be. Yeah, Like if I'm
- 37:05Speaker 4: doing it, that's what I'm going to be doing.
- 37:06Speaker 3: How's the market in New York.
- 37:09Speaker 4: Weird?
- 37:11Speaker 3: There's like it's weird here, is it? Yeah?
- 37:14Speaker 4: You know, it's really strange. You know how like markets
- 37:17Speaker 4: used to have seasons and need to be like, oh,
- 37:19Speaker 4: the fall season is great time to move, and then
- 37:21Speaker 4: the spring season is when everybody ramps up. Looking It's
- 37:24Speaker 4: like that doesn't exist anymore. It's just like we don't
- 37:27Speaker 4: know when it's going to perk up. Very strange.
- 37:30Speaker 2: Yeah, that is strange. Yeah, but I feel like the
- 37:34Speaker 2: whole world is weird right now.
- 37:36Speaker 4: Yeah. Why what's is it still post COVID? Like what's happening?
- 37:40Speaker 2: I don't know, I know, are we.
- 37:43Speaker 3: The world's ending happening?
- 37:46Speaker 2: We're like, are we doing gloom over here today on
- 37:48Speaker 2: the toad seat? But it's true.
- 37:52Speaker 3: The world is weird.
- 37:54Speaker 4: It's weird.
- 37:54Speaker 3: It's so divided and so much hate, and you know,
- 37:59Speaker 3: everyone is a little bit and it has been since.
- 38:03Speaker 2: Yeah, did you have any postpartum or anything like that
- 38:06Speaker 2: after your baby or everything? Was?
- 38:10Speaker 1: No?
- 38:11Speaker 4: I feel like I didn't deal with my grief.
- 38:13Speaker 2: So I was gonna say, how's everything with?
- 38:16Speaker 4: Not great? Like it's hard, and I think I I
- 38:20Speaker 4: really avoided thinking about it while I was pregnant, probably
- 38:23Speaker 4: to like protect my pregnancy, but after the fact it
- 38:27Speaker 4: started to really set in. It was it's been hard,
- 38:30Speaker 4: to be honest, very hard.
- 38:32Speaker 2: Yeah, and how are you? How are you coping now?
- 38:37Speaker 4: It's not easy? Like I I think I'm allowing myself
- 38:41Speaker 4: to feel a little bit more, which has helped because
- 38:44Speaker 4: it's like I'm not repressing, but I mean there are
- 38:49Speaker 4: days where I'm like, how is this my reality? Like
- 38:52Speaker 4: it almost feels like not real. Yeah, So I'm trying
- 38:57Speaker 4: to journal, do things that I would never normally do,
- 39:00Speaker 4: like meditate and just calm myself down a little because
- 39:04Speaker 4: when I start thinking about you know, like when you
- 39:05Speaker 4: start thinking about something that makes you nervous and you
- 39:07Speaker 4: start panicking. Yeah, it kind of happens. When I realized that,
- 39:10Speaker 4: He's like not there.
- 39:12Speaker 3: Yeah, very true.
- 39:15Speaker 2: Yeah, we're thinking about you and we appreciate you taking
- 39:18Speaker 2: the time to come on.
- 39:19Speaker 3: Yeah, and let everybody know where you can they can
- 39:23Speaker 3: order your book.
- 39:24Speaker 4: You can get it on Amazon, you can get it
- 39:26Speaker 4: into Bournes and Noble, wherever you know you buy your books.
- 39:30Speaker 4: And I'm actually your listeners might like this. I'm going
- 39:34Speaker 4: to give away one of my bravocn tickets. So what Yeah,
- 39:39Speaker 4: if you buy a book, send a screenshot or email
- 39:42Speaker 4: like your receipt to Julia at Erindanelichi dot com and
- 39:47Speaker 4: you could win a chance to go to Bravocon.
- 39:50Speaker 2: That's really cool. That's so smart idea.
- 39:53Speaker 4: You know, last last year, last time we all went
- 39:57Speaker 4: to Bravocon, I had like an extra ticket and I
- 39:59Speaker 4: gave it away to one of the fan accounts and
- 40:02Speaker 4: this scroll was like you changed my life, Like I
- 40:04Speaker 4: started a business because of this and it was the
- 40:07Speaker 4: best experience ever. So I'm like, I'll do it if
- 40:09Speaker 4: I can, you know, why not?
- 40:12Speaker 2: Why not?
- 40:12Speaker 3: That's so sweet.
- 40:14Speaker 2: Well, thank you again and we appreciate you taking the
- 40:17Speaker 2: time and we can't wait to see you.
- 40:19Speaker 4: Can't wait to see you, guys, it's.
- 40:21Speaker 3: Gonna be fun. Tell abe. We said hi, okay, bye
- 40:26Speaker 3: bye