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Amber Mozo of Let’s Marry Harry Speaks Her Truth · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Almost Famous Podcast. And it's Ben today,
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  Speaker 2: joined by someone I love, we love, here in the
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  Speaker 2: Almost Famous crew. Deanna Pappas is with us.
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  Speaker 3: Hello.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, Benjamin.
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  Speaker 2: You've been breaking down the entire season of the Netflix
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  Speaker 2: dating show, Let's Marry Harry. The explosive finale was last night,
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  Speaker 2: and today we're going to catch up with the woman
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  Speaker 2: Harry chose and her connection to Bachelor Nation.
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  Speaker 4: It's Amber.
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  Speaker 2: Amber, before we dive into the show and all the
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  Speaker 2: details of the show, Deanna has been breaking down every
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  Speaker 2: episode of the show for the Almost Famous podcast since
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  Speaker 2: the beginning. So she's your expert on everything in your life.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm the expert on some Bachelor Nation connections that
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  Speaker 2: you have. I recently found out that you are Latia Garr,
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  Speaker 2: who we know from Grant's season of The Bachelor. You
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  Speaker 2: guys are cousins.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, we are.
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  Speaker 6: Ben, Heather and I saw her go to bat for
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  Speaker 6: Amber on social media.
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  Speaker 5: Well, good.
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  Speaker 2: That's what cousins are supposed to do.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: Did you tell Latia that you were going on the
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  Speaker 2: show before the season started?
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  Speaker 5: No. Well, I didn't apply for the show. So when
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  Speaker 5: I was reached out to, I did tell her, like,
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  Speaker 5: I've gotten DM'd before about, like, a couple TV shows
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  Speaker 5: and things like that.
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  Speaker 3: And then this one specifically, I was actually living in Bali.
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  Speaker 3: And I got this, yeah, this casting.
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  Speaker 5: I don't even know what it's called.
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  Speaker 3: Just like reached out. And I told her, I was like, Hey, these.
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  Speaker 5: People who are making a TV show mentioned to me
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  Speaker 5: that they've experienced making TV shows. Like they've made the bachelor.
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  Speaker 5: And then she was like, Oh my gosh. And asked
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  Speaker 5: who was like a part of it. And she was like,
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  Speaker 5: you should do it. Like that was the only conversation
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  Speaker 5: we had. And then I was gone the next week.
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  Speaker 3: So we never really like prepped for it or went location.
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  Speaker 5: Or the mind process of like, you should go on TV.
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  Speaker 5: And I know she didn't ever plan in her life
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  Speaker 5: to going on TV either. So I think what people
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  Speaker 5: don't actually know, which is so crazy, is we both,
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  Speaker 5: she didn't even tell me she went on Bachelor. My
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  Speaker 5: mom told me she was on TV. And I was like,
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  Speaker 5: there's no way. There's no way, Letia. You know, because like,
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  Speaker 5: we actually are like, I don't think we'd ever like
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  Speaker 5: put ourselves willingly in that. So- She was a huge
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  Speaker 5: reason why I actually did say yes, because the people
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  Speaker 5: who made Bachelor are amazing. I love them and they
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  Speaker 5: were on the show. So that's kind of how it
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  Speaker 5: like fell into place. Like that was the only process
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  Speaker 5: of me and her like discussing me going on TV.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was literally gone the next like, yeah, week.
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  Speaker 6: I have to admit, while I'm fangirling over here, Amber,
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  Speaker 6: our producer Heather and I, we did follow the whole season.
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  Speaker 6: So I am very careful to switch from podcast or
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  Speaker 6: to just like fan.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I mean? We really enjoyed the season.
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  Speaker 6: But I was telling Heather on a podcast that we
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  Speaker 6: just recorded on the last set of pictures that you
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  Speaker 6: posted from the reunion. I recognize the audio girl who's
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  Speaker 6: doing your mic. She worked on my season of The Bachelorette.
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  Speaker 6: She's been on the show for years.
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  Speaker 2: Was it Christine? Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I love her.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: There are so many amazing people like that put these
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  Speaker 5: shows together and the environment is so important. And the
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  Speaker 5: people that you like, you even remember the mic girl,
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  Speaker 5: like getting.
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  Speaker 3: Mic'd every morning is hard.
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  Speaker 5: Like you wake up and get a coffee and then
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  Speaker 5: you get to know people. Like it's such a cool experience.
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  Speaker 5: So yeah, it's cool that she was like, you're in
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  Speaker 5: good hands. These people are amazing, you know?
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  Speaker 2: Well, and now you have two Reality stars within the
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  Speaker 2: same family. You are now one of the royal families
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  Speaker 2: in reality television. Last night was the big finale of
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  Speaker 2: the reunion, I guess. I'm shocked and in awe of
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  Speaker 2: this whole show in general. Since the very beginning, really
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  Speaker 2: my biggest question for you, before I pass it off
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  Speaker 2: to the expert on the details, is when they called you,
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  Speaker 2: you had a week to decide. Was there ever a
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  Speaker 2: point that you were like, I could see myself marrying
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  Speaker 2: this Harry guy? Did you know who he was? Or
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  Speaker 2: was it just, hey, let's give it a shot because
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  Speaker 2: the Bachelor crew is so great?
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  Speaker 5: It was honestly a big mix of a lot of things.
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  Speaker 5: And I had a lot of like personal signs for
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  Speaker 5: me to say yes to this opportunity. I am really
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  Speaker 5: cautious of my energy, which is why everyone's like, throwing
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  Speaker 5: it in my face.
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  Speaker 3: Like you signed up for TV, you did this.
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  Speaker 5: Um, so it's hard to kind of really explain how
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  Speaker 5: this all happened when, yeah, when I was reached out to,
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  Speaker 5: I think the prep of who I was becoming before
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  Speaker 5: this show came to me was so personal. Like I
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  Speaker 5: had gone through a breakup and I had moved to
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  Speaker 5: a third world country and I was learning so much
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  Speaker 5: about myself. I was in like a very heavy, like
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  Speaker 5: self expansion era. So, um, I got this call and
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  Speaker 5: I got the opportunity and I kind of just like
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  Speaker 5: wanted a sign for myself, to be honest. And I
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  Speaker 5: got some really cool personal signs. I feel like it's
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  Speaker 5: hard to kind of talk about these types of like
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  Speaker 5: spiritual things in this environment because not a lot of
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  Speaker 5: people like I think can digest that, which I've learned
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  Speaker 5: going on reality TV. But I'm just going to keep
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  Speaker 5: it short and say I had a lot of really
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  Speaker 5: amazing signs to go. Like my life told me like
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  Speaker 5: this is a new timeline for you. Take a chance
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  Speaker 5: on it. And everything that's transpired since saying yes to
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  Speaker 5: the show to now the reunion.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's, it was a big lesson for me. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 8: It's really hard to talk about like this as you
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  Speaker 8: saw the reunion yesterday. But I know there's a reason
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  Speaker 8: this all happened, you know, and there's only so much
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  Speaker 8: I can say because I have to, be quiet about
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  Speaker 8: certain things but what I'm trying to say in my
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  Speaker 8: personal life is yeah I know that this was meant
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  Speaker 8: to happen to me for a reason even though it
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  Speaker 8: looks really yucky now online but.
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  Speaker 7: There's only so much I can say um and that's
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  Speaker 7: the hard thing about tv and that's the hard thing
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  Speaker 7: about other people involved and that's why I got on
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  Speaker 7: that stage and I was yeah it's Sometimes you have
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  Speaker 7: good times with things and sometimes things are really toxic
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  Speaker 7: and out of your control.
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  Speaker 9: But personally, I learned so much about myself. So saying
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  Speaker 9: yes to the show, to ending it that way, I
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  Speaker 9: really don't regret anything.
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  Speaker 5: And if there was more I could say, I think
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  Speaker 5: a lot of people would understand more about how this
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  Speaker 5: all went down.
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  Speaker 3: But it's just, yeah, it's been a lot.
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  Speaker 6: You know, Amber, you're talking to two people who have
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  Speaker 6: been on reality TV. And so I want you to
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  Speaker 6: know that you are in very good company of two
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  Speaker 6: people who have ridden these waves that you are riding
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  Speaker 6: right now. And one thing that I will say to
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  Speaker 6: you is that from the get of this show, our
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  Speaker 6: producer Heather and I, we recognized your emotional maturity. And
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  Speaker 6: just to hear you say that, the spiritual journey that
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  Speaker 6: you're on, whatever comes out of this show, I thought
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  Speaker 6: you did a really great job with that and whatever
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  Speaker 6: you learn about yourself and your intuition from this, there
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  Speaker 6: are always lessons to be learned.
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  Speaker 4: And I heard you say that you have no regrets.
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  Speaker 6: And I watched the reunion last night and it was heated.
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  Speaker 6: There were some heated moments. I also know that you
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  Speaker 6: and Danelle went on Nick's podcast together.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we did.
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  Speaker 4: I'd love to know what the status is with the
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  Speaker 4: two of you. Do you think that you'll ever be friends?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I was uncomfortable having to do that
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  Speaker 5: podcast with her.
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  Speaker 3: Like, it wasn't my choice. I would have preferred to
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  Speaker 3: not do it.
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  Speaker 5: You know, we're very, very, very different girls.
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  Speaker 3: I think she's a really nice, sweet girl.
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  Speaker 5: And a lot of the audience is like, she doesn't
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  Speaker 5: owe you anything.
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  Speaker 3: She's not your friend.
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  Speaker 5: She was actually like my roommate on the show.
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  Speaker 3: We did the whole show all the way to the end.
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  Speaker 5: We held a lot of space and sympathy for each other,
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  Speaker 5: understanding that we would both, one of us would.
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  Speaker 3: Get hurt, one would happen.
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  Speaker 5: That's something that isn't really told in a show. Of course,
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  Speaker 5: they have to edit it up to be interesting and
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  Speaker 5: keep you on your toes.
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  Speaker 3: They're gonna keep us.
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  Speaker 5: As far apart looking wise to look like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: we offer very, very different things, but we are very different.
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  Speaker 3: I will say that.
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  Speaker 5: And learning about some of the things I learned after
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  Speaker 5: the show, I just wish her the best.
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  Speaker 3: And I told her that at the podcast, but.
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  Speaker 5: As you see, my energy is like, I don't play, like,
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  Speaker 5: I don't like lies and I'm like sneaky. If something's weird,
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to ask you, I'm going to ask your friend.
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to ask everyone. That's just how I am.
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  Speaker 5: And I don't really agree with the way she moved
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  Speaker 5: outside of the show.
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  Speaker 4: I got that last night on the reunion.
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  Speaker 6: I saw where you were at and your expectations of her.
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  Speaker 6: I saw that and I felt that with everything that
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  Speaker 6: you said.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, here's what I say. Sorry, it's hard to find
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  Speaker 5: my words. I obviously watched it last night. I barely slept.
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  Speaker 5: But she was very, very highly aware that Harry... that
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  Speaker 5: day got married to me and she asked are you
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  Speaker 5: marrying Amber I don't know if he was honest but
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  Speaker 5: the next day she would have figured it out because
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  Speaker 5: there's a group chat of the girls everyone knows everything
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  Speaker 5: she was aware of us being together she was aware
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  Speaker 5: about me being in Australia with him And I know
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  Speaker 5: this because I'm friends with the girls on the show.
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  Speaker 3: I know about the insides of a group chat, even
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  Speaker 3: if I'm not in it. So she knew, you know
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  Speaker 3: what I mean?
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  Speaker 7: I do.
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  Speaker 4: I totally know what you mean. And I have a
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  Speaker 4: huge question for you.
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  Speaker 6: And this is something that's been weighing on me since
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  Speaker 6: seeing the finale last night. There's a lot of talk
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  Speaker 6: of marriage, right? We saw the wedding play out on
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  Speaker 6: the finale. We saw you and Harry and the rest
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  Speaker 6: of the girls on the reunion last night in the
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  Speaker 6: talk about marriage and wedding and honeymoon. But the big
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  Speaker 6: question on social media was that it was never legal.
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  Speaker 6: I'd love to know, I'd love to know your thoughts
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  Speaker 6: on that because you spoke very much in a fact,
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  Speaker 6: matter of fact, that we were married, we got married,
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  Speaker 6: we went on a honeymoon. But as a viewer, I
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  Speaker 6: don't think that it was truly a legally binding contract.
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  Speaker 2: And Harry also said in an interview recently that papers
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  Speaker 2: were never filed, right? And so I think that's where
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  Speaker 2: I'm a little bit confused.
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  Speaker 5: I think it does look confusing to an audience, to
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  Speaker 5: be honest. I was in an experience with Harry for
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  Speaker 5: six weeks, almost seven weeks. And the premise of the
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  Speaker 5: whole show was for him to.
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  Speaker 3: Find a wife and get married.
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  Speaker 5: And he explained his life story that that's what he
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  Speaker 5: was looking for. So, and his grief, and that's what
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  Speaker 5: brought him and transpired him to this ultimate decision of
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  Speaker 5: finding a wife.
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  Speaker 3: In my book, that's pretty real.
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  Speaker 5: When you do a show, you have to protect the
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  Speaker 5: show as everyone knows. So if you put, we sign
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  Speaker 5: certificates upstairs and, But if you put them into a
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  Speaker 5: legal system, they're public. So what we were told by
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  Speaker 5: Netflix when we were signing was once the show is out,
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  Speaker 5: you guys can put the paperwork and submit it in
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  Speaker 5: if you're still together.
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  Speaker 3: By the reunion. So for us, we were signing papers.
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  Speaker 3: We had found each other. Our friends and family were there.
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  Speaker 5: I was in a wedding dress. He said vows to me.
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  Speaker 5: He made promises to me. He treated me like his
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  Speaker 5: wife out. when we were together outside of the show,
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  Speaker 5: I would call that real, but a lot of the
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  Speaker 5: internet likes to attack that your paperwork wasn't real. Sure.
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  Speaker 4: I think you very much had a real relationship.
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  Speaker 5: You know, if the piece of paper wants to determine
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  Speaker 5: and kind of like overlook my whole process, that's also
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  Speaker 5: a hard part because when the finale came out to
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  Speaker 5: the reunion, I wasn't allowed to have a voice or
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  Speaker 5: speak up about that either. I'm the one girl in
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  Speaker 5: the show that can't talk about anything till the reunion.
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  Speaker 5: The rest of the girls can. Their episodes are out.
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  Speaker 5: You know, there's no hype over reunion. I can't. I
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  Speaker 5: was the only person that wasn't allowed to say anything,
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  Speaker 5: wasn't allowed to defend his choice as who he picked.
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  Speaker 5: I couldn't share what I found out about him and Danelle.
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  Speaker 5: It's been a wild ride. And I think Harry's really
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  Speaker 5: responsible for a lot of this. And I hate how
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  Speaker 5: the reunion really just showed me, you know, like, really
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  Speaker 5: angry at him. They actually edited around him quite a
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  Speaker 5: bit because he actually did have no talking points. Whenever
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  Speaker 5: I would say something, he would either just lie or
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  Speaker 5: dismiss me or laugh or go around it.
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  Speaker 3: They gave him a good edit is what I'm trying
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  Speaker 3: to say. That's why it looks very confusing.
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  Speaker 5: Like I'm talking to myself and I look so stressed out.
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  Speaker 5: I would say something and he would dismiss it or
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  Speaker 5: laugh or be like, this is good TV.
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  Speaker 3: Like he was so incredibly rude. And I think any
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  Speaker 3: of the girls.
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  Speaker 5: who were there who could honestly pipe in on this,
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  Speaker 5: which I hope they will, is he was being like,
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  Speaker 5: I don't even know you.
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  Speaker 3: You're on TV.
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  Speaker 5: You're going to edit it out of this anyways. Like
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  Speaker 5: he was laughing at Sam.
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  Speaker 6: There was only one moment where we hear him out loud,
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  Speaker 6: say it to another female. And we touched on that
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  Speaker 6: in another podcast where he says, I don't know, you
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  Speaker 6: were barely even here.
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  Speaker 4: Don't say anything.
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  Speaker 5: That was the energy of him at the reunion. That's
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  Speaker 5: how he speaks to me. He's dismissive. That's how he
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  Speaker 5: speaks to, Most of the girls, he's been clapping at
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  Speaker 5: them on videos, on TikToks.
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  Speaker 3: And then he gets there and acts like poor me.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: It's the most insane.
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  Speaker 5: Thing I've ever witnessed in real life. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 5: knew that I had to just say my piece was
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  Speaker 5: the only time.
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  Speaker 3: I was going to get.
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  Speaker 6: I want to pivot to one thing that I would
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  Speaker 6: love clarity on that the show really didn't do a
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  Speaker 6: service on touching on it. You let us know as
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  Speaker 6: viewers that you had receipts. You had receipts. You have
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  Speaker 6: proof on your phone. I'd love to see that proof, Amber.
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  Speaker 6: I would love to see that. There was discrepancy in,
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  Speaker 6: you said that you did not break up in Australia,
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  Speaker 6: but Harry is saying that you did break up in Australia.
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  Speaker 6: And on the reunion, you said, I wish I could
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  Speaker 6: show my phone.
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  Speaker 4: I have the proof. Will you show us that?
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  Speaker 5: You know, there's so many mixed feelings about that because
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  Speaker 5: I am dealing with a professional.
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  Speaker 3: Harry knows how to twist and narrate.
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  Speaker 5: The hard thing about all of this is he has,
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  Speaker 5: you know... I mean, there's actually nothing I'm scared of
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  Speaker 5: him showing of me. I don't know why I would
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  Speaker 5: even be scared. I think it's just been so messy.
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  Speaker 5: And I've really just been trying to process this the
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  Speaker 5: last week since watching the finale to waiting for the
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  Speaker 5: reunion that like causing more drama. I don't think I
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  Speaker 5: was like ever like, yes, I can't wait to leak this.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think I ever thought that. I was always like,
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  Speaker 5: when I get out the reunion, it's my only time
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  Speaker 5: I will be able to look at him in the
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  Speaker 5: eyes and say those things because we can go back
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  Speaker 5: and forth on like videos on TikTok all day.
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  Speaker 3: But the reason I went in there is because he
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  Speaker 3: didn't make any time to talk to me.
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  Speaker 5: He hadn't spoken to me since February 1st when we're
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  Speaker 5: supposed to move in. Like he completely ghosted me, you know,
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  Speaker 5: and started a new life with a new girl while
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  Speaker 5: sliding Danelle in on a weekend.
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  Speaker 3: Like the man... is crazy.
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  Speaker 6: They showed us too on the reunion how he skirted
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  Speaker 6: over that. You talked about this house and moving in together,
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  Speaker 6: but it was all skirted over on the reunion. Can
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  Speaker 6: you tell me a little more about that?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we came back.
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  Speaker 5: From Australia and I didn't like the way I was
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  Speaker 5: treated there.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm really big on voicing that.
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  Speaker 5: But the thing is, is like what people don't know
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  Speaker 5: what they see about me on the reunion looking so
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  Speaker 5: aggressive to what I was in real life was In
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  Speaker 5: the car, I was like, well, if you have all
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  Speaker 5: these problems with me, then you're not forced to be
• 17:01
  Speaker 5: with me. That was a conversation. So that did take place.
• 17:04
  Speaker 5: But he didn't break.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: Up with me.
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: He still, like, those were like things that I was very,
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: very open about. I was like, if you're not happy
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: and you feel this way, then you're not forced to
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: do anything, you know? But he said, no, I want
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: to make this work. Like when he touched down in LA,
• 17:24
  Speaker 5: he was like, I want to make this work. He's like,
• 17:26
  Speaker 5: I'm overwhelmed. I had a big journey. I was like, yeah,
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: this is a lot for both of us. You can
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: take a day and breathe if you need. That was
• 17:33
  Speaker 5: genuinely kind of the conversation. Of course, he's going to
• 17:38
  Speaker 5: turn something little into big because he did something he
• 17:42
  Speaker 5: wasn't meant to do, which is hook up with Danelle.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: But no, there's all her text messages.
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: I wasn't under the understanding that he was, we were
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: broken up. He was look, he was touring houses for us,
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: sending me videos. Like there's videos all over my, my
• 18:00
  Speaker 5: texts of him being like, what about this house?
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: What about this? Do you like this for the dogs?
• 18:04
  Speaker 5: Like we were completely together and planning a life together.
• 18:09
  Speaker 5: I was blindsided when I found out a couple of
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: days ago on Snapchat that he had got Danelle and
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: that Danelle actually went there with him to be honest too.
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: I didn't I didn't think she would.
• 18:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: They failed to tell me. They both failed to tell
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: me it.
• 18:25
  Speaker 5: I found out on a Snapchat and it said like
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: plot twist and it was them kissing.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: And that hurt because she had reached out to me.
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: Since the finale and asked me like what I'm wearing
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: on a podcast. And we actually comforted each other.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: I said, I'm sorry.
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: I'm sure the finale was really hard for you. And
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: she didn't think that Snapchat would get leaked. She was
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: blindsided by Harry too. So she was going to put
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: it under the rug. And still speak to me as
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: if nothing had happened and show up to the reunion
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: and get her like composed edit all while going behind
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: my back and knowing all these things. And then to
• 18:59
  Speaker 5: sit there and act like you don't know, that's what
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: I went insane. I had been holding so much in
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: for a year and then finding out so much more.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: You know, I'm always going to side with a girl.
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: So I was like sad that me and Danelle both
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: got hurt by Harry when the finale came out. We're like,
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: I can't believe the show's out. We're both not with them.
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: But the difference is, is like she did something that
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: she didn't.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: Want to ever address.
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: So I addressed her hard at that reunion because I
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: knew if I didn't, it would all get swept under
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: the rug.
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: I so appreciate your honesty right now because that bit
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: on the reunion was a little confusing. But now that
• 19:38
  Speaker 6: you've laid out the timeline and why you were shocked
• 19:41
  Speaker 6: and blindsided, I just appreciate your honesty and your willingness
• 19:45
  Speaker 6: to clarify things for us and our listeners and um,
• 19:49
  Speaker 6: really just being here today, Amber, I know it's a lot.
• 19:52
  Speaker 6: I know it is a, a flood of emotions and
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: stuff and you've got to ride all the waves of grief,
• 19:57
  Speaker 6: but I do have one final question for you.
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: I know that you've got to go.
• 20:00
  Speaker 6: And I just have one more thing that, that I'm wondering, um,
• 20:04
  Speaker 6: There were some pictures floating around on the internet last
• 20:07
  Speaker 6: week about you and a guy on a private jet.
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: Your cousin, right?
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: She said that you weren't dating him. But what I'm
• 20:14
  Speaker 6: dying to know and what I'm sure our listeners want
• 20:18
  Speaker 6: to know is if you're dating anyone right now.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: No, I would never date someone or pull them into
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: this sort of energy field while I'm experiencing it. I
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: don't think it's fair to someone, which is why I'm
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: shocked Harry's girl. I mean, God bless Harry's current girlfriend.
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: I would never date someone during this time. You know,
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: I think I'm processing things a lot on my own.
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: That photo is my best friend that I've known since
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: I was 12.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: It was his birthday.
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: He's, you know, and I was in heels and we're
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: walking to the jet and he was like, I'm going
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: to carry you. And it was like something like that,
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: something super cute. But no, that's my best friend. Like
• 20:55
  Speaker 5: if we wanted to date, we would have dated a
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: hundred times over the last like 20 years.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: If we wanted, we've never, it's never been that way.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: And now it's kind of like a really funny joke
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: with our friend group.
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: But yeah, that's how the internet is. But no, I'm
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: not dating right now. I don't want this experience to
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: harden me. I would like it to like soften me
• 21:17
  Speaker 5: to find the right person. So I think as this
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: all like blows over and I kind of can understand
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: myself and be proud of myself for standing up for
• 21:26
  Speaker 5: myself in all of this.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: I mean, I need to process this on my own.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: So I'm not dating right now.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: I a thousand percent respect that.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. It's been a lot. And a lot
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: of things get twisted.
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: And even doing these, I'm like, I get scared even
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: talking about things because people like everything just gets taken
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: so out of context.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: And then they want more details.
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: And it's just like, I don't know if anyone's ever
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: going to like understand.
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: Well, you're in good company. Ben and I get you.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I've been trying my best. And I guess just
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: one day at a time, huh? Yeah.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: You're doing a great job.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Amber, I appreciate you jumping on. I know it's not easy.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: I know there's a lot happening. Hopefully we weren't too scary.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: No, no, you're not.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: You guys are great.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: And we'll continue to follow your journey through life.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: And it will be up from here.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: I can guarantee it.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: I hope so. I really hope so. Thank you so much.
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