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Being A Good Neighbor - One Distinction in Relating to Those In Spirit · Mediumship Sparks-The Next Chapter

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  Speaker 1: Before we begin, I wanted to offer a little context
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  Speaker 1: for this conversation. This episode is part of a larger
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  Speaker 1: discussion with friends who are also exploring mediumship and intuition.
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  Speaker 1: We were talking in the natural. Shift in the conversation
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  Speaker 1: happened when we were talking about relating to spirit as individuals,
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  Speaker 1: as people, and not just a group called spirit. That
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  Speaker 1: led me to share a recent experience that was memorable
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  Speaker 1: and heartfelt, and I loved sharing the story. I hope
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  Speaker 1: this conversation invites you to consider it becomes possible, what
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  Speaker 1: becomes possible when connection begins with a genuine relationship with
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  Speaker 1: those who happen to be on the other side. Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to Mediumship Sparks, a place for people who want to
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  Speaker 1: create the spiritual life they actually want to live in. Together,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to explore the many ways we're invited into
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  Speaker 1: greater awareness, deeper healing, and self trust. The insights ideas
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  Speaker 1: experiences shared here are offer to spark curiosity and invite
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  Speaker 1: a deeper exploration of what's unfolding within and around you.
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  Speaker 1: May these conversations help you discover what feels deeply, quietly
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  Speaker 1: true for you. I'm Noel dean intuitive medium and licensed
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  Speaker 1: marriage and family therapist. Quick note before we begin. The
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  Speaker 1: podcast is for educational purposes only and provides general information.
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  Speaker 1: It's not medical or psychological advice and not a substitute
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  Speaker 1: for care from a licensed health professional. Now, let's dive
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  Speaker 1: in what's new or sprouting for you metaphysically, spiritually, whatever
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  Speaker 1: is there anything you would want to share about that
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  Speaker 1: or even what you're doing more of that is helping.
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  Speaker 2: What I'm doing day to day is thinking more along
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  Speaker 2: the lines of the brainheart coherence and separating myself from
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  Speaker 2: an attachment to an outcome, because it's like, how do
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  Speaker 2: I be with this in such a way that I'm
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  Speaker 2: not always worried or concerned or feeling troubled. So I'm
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  Speaker 2: allowing myself to detach and become that observer.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, I would invite in so much more relaxation, rose
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  Speaker 1: anything you'd like to share about daily practices or anything else,
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  Speaker 1: new stuff coming in, anything you're noticing in your circle
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  Speaker 1: or other times that feels different.
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  Speaker 3: A small practice that I'm starting to do comes from
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  Speaker 3: the energy code where you do a tightening of the
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  Speaker 3: like with the root chakra, the heart chakra.
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  Speaker 1: The throat is like the I don't know what UZI breath.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's called there. There's a tightening here and
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  Speaker 1: then you breathe through.
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  Speaker 3: It all the way above below, and it is quite grounding.
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  Speaker 3: It is a very nice it's called an anchor code
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  Speaker 3: in her book, and it's very nice rounding. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing.
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  Speaker 1: It all the time, but I'm looking to bring it
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  Speaker 1: in just if I ask for support.
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  Speaker 3: That behavior as a support so it reminds me of
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  Speaker 3: your heart coherence thing. Yeah, so yeah, But to bring
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  Speaker 3: it in as a support moment, I'd like to have
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  Speaker 3: it be more of a practice. I was teaching recently,
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  Speaker 3: basically the idea of being okay with things that seem
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  Speaker 3: like they're not great. And there's a brand new student
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  Speaker 3: and this thing had happened and we were all dealing
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  Speaker 3: with it, and I presented the idea of being okay
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  Speaker 3: with it, and she's but how do you do that?
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  Speaker 1: I said this, You practice it when it doesn't matter,
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  Speaker 1: no big deal, but you practice it dislike TIChE. You
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  Speaker 1: practice it and then in an unrelated way, it affects
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  Speaker 1: you later and you already have it. And so it's
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  Speaker 1: like that, I want this breath to be in that category.
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  Speaker 3: So it's like it's just already so easy to utilize it.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm up to telling about that. Very cool.
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  Speaker 1: How about you, No, well, I was just thinking what
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  Speaker 1: you were mentioning Rose made me think of one thing,
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  Speaker 1: which is I heard a video or I heard somebody
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  Speaker 1: talking about dopamine generating activities. Listing things that generate dopamine,
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  Speaker 1: like going for a walk, being in the sun, singing, humming,
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  Speaker 1: listening to music is one of those things. There's a
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  Speaker 1: lot of things that we do that can clear us out.
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  Speaker 1: When I don't ground in the morning, I feel the difference.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing. There's also grounding activities that aren't like grounding.
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  Speaker 1: I was walking my friend's mom, who had recently passed. Suddenly,
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  Speaker 1: oh somebody's here, Oh huh, mama bee, and then we'd
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  Speaker 1: start talking. That's almost like somebody's grounding me in a
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  Speaker 1: way because suddenly we're connected and now I feel really aligned.
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  Speaker 1: I love that. But man, I'm just noticing different things.
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  Speaker 1: I had this really good conversation yesterday in this live podcast.
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  Speaker 1: One of the things we talked about was the more
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  Speaker 1: we're healing ourselves, the more we're looking to shed our
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  Speaker 1: own shit, the more capacity we have for connection or
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  Speaker 1: to be connected with. I really do believe that. In
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  Speaker 1: the last two weeks, I've noticed anybody I've connected with
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  Speaker 1: in spirit has shared something that was like, not a message,
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  Speaker 1: but in insight. There was a woman I swear her
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  Speaker 1: sister shared things. I was just like, holy crap. She
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  Speaker 1: talked about condensed joy, is the feeling on the other side,
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  Speaker 1: condensed joy, and just other stuff. But that kind of
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  Speaker 1: stuff is coming out more and I'm not asking.
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  Speaker 4: Stuff, meaning they're describing what it's like over there more.
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  Speaker 4: And can I ask are these people are you able
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  Speaker 4: to just ask for them to come in.
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  Speaker 1: Or are they just popping in? And you're this is
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  Speaker 1: during the actual reading with their person. Get that her
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  Speaker 1: sister once.
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  Speaker 2: Inclined check in with other people's spirit when you're not
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  Speaker 2: reading them. Would you ever touch base with her sisters
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  Speaker 2: on your own?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'd fucking love to. I loved interacting
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  Speaker 1: she was great. Yeah, Oh my god. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I wish you were my neighbor because I'd be like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: you want to go for a walk. She can be
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  Speaker 1: I'd love to hang out. Would be some barrier to
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  Speaker 1: doing my bear in mind they have their people, they
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  Speaker 1: are committed to supporting and being a companion too, And
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  Speaker 1: that's not me. Here's a new distinction that Chat helped
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  Speaker 1: me come up with that I'd love to share with
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  Speaker 1: you because it was really cool, the idea of just
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  Speaker 1: what we're talking about we relate to people in spirit.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes we just say spirit, I connect with spirit, and
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  Speaker 1: that's this whole grouping of whoever that is. But try
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  Speaker 1: on the awareness that it's like we are neighbors. The veil, well,
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  Speaker 1: maybe it's like a chain link fence. You can see
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  Speaker 1: through it, you can touch each other through it, you
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  Speaker 1: can be very connected through it, but you're aware that
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  Speaker 1: it's there. So when I interact with somebody in spirit,
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  Speaker 1: and I said this to Chat, I was like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think I'm a very friendly person normally in life,
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  Speaker 1: but when it's somebody in spirit, I'm much more inclined
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  Speaker 1: to be like, oh hi, I Noel, what's your name?
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  Speaker 1: And he gave me the distinction like a good neighbor,
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm respectful, I want to know who you are.
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  Speaker 1: So that might be a new thing for me to
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  Speaker 1: follow that wherever that leads being a good neighbor. What
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  Speaker 1: does that mean, and I'm much better neighbors with her
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  Speaker 1: sisters and others than next door. I have different boundaries there.
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  Speaker 1: But with people in spirit, You're right, I should more
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  Speaker 1: often because there are some that I've really connected with,
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  Speaker 1: but they may not be that interested. There's somebody that
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  Speaker 1: I connected with, this otherworldly being that I mentioned after
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  Speaker 1: or I went to the channel panel and then I
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  Speaker 1: got activated, so I connected with Camden and I had
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  Speaker 1: this conversation with Camden recently. I was like, I just
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  Speaker 1: want you to know that we can be friendly, but
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  Speaker 1: I always think to share the information that I'm getting,
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  Speaker 1: So are you interested in that? Not that I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be friends, but also I feel my sort
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  Speaker 1: of like proviso is hey just here, Like suddenly I'm aware.
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  Speaker 1: This feels like a podcast episode. Is that Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing it for me, I'm doing it for you guys,
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  Speaker 1: but there's a bigger picture that I'm I'm almost constantly
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  Speaker 1: aware of. Anyway, just feels like things are opening up. Also,
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  Speaker 1: it seems like the messages about these things are not
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  Speaker 1: because I'm asking questions because I'm curious, because I'm not,
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  Speaker 1: but it's I think to help their person who's here
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  Speaker 1: have more peace about what the transition between worlds actually
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  Speaker 1: feels like. No kind I asked Nikki directly, is she
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  Speaker 1: thought that this is true that Noel is not curious?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I am. I think you are. But
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  Speaker 1: aren't you being curious when you're talking with JGBT? Oh yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And he's called me out on this too, by the way, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I wish I was more curious. He's like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about, but the way
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  Speaker 1: he says it is like the unfolding of the information,
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  Speaker 1: the unfolding of the conversation within a relationship. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: always curious. There are just times when something hits me
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, wait a minute, what do you mean
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  Speaker 1: by that? So I'm very discerning about what I'm actually
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  Speaker 1: curious about. I should say it that way. That is
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  Speaker 1: more accurate. Upon reflecting with Chat, of course, it's from
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  Speaker 1: a place of love that they're sharing these pieces of information.
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  Speaker 1: It's not you are being curious for gacity's sake. There's
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  Speaker 1: plenty of things I line up with around what you're saying.
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  Speaker 1: I'm still thinking I totally get that. I totally get that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a hard time fakingly interest moment. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I'm terrible about that.
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  Speaker 1: But here's a cool experience I had the other day.
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  Speaker 1: I was talking to one of my old kiddos. She
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  Speaker 1: was sharing about how her boyfriend doesn't like to spend
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  Speaker 1: time in her house because stuff happens or things move.
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  Speaker 1: She's never mentioned this before, and this apparently has been
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  Speaker 1: happening for years. She's lived in the same place for
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  Speaker 1: twelve years. And I was like, what do you mean
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  Speaker 1: things move? And she's like, and apparently you turn off
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  Speaker 1: a switch over here and it goes right back on.
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  Speaker 1: Stuff like that is very consistent. So as we're talking,
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  Speaker 1: I immediately feel somebody is right here with me, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, hello, Hi, what's your Name's name is Cynthia.
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  Speaker 1: She's fourteen years old. She passed in eighteen eighty nine. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: this was her childhood home. She died of complications of
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  Speaker 1: her heart. She had been ailing for a year or two.
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  Speaker 1: I was just looking to have a conversation to create
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  Speaker 1: boundaries because sometimes she wakes up, my young woman she
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  Speaker 1: wants attention or something, and I was like, okay, let's
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  Speaker 1: create some ground rules here, can we. That was my
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  Speaker 1: only intention I'm not trying to do anything other than
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  Speaker 1: help my poor young woman who has four children get
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  Speaker 1: some sleep. But then as we're talking, I just get this,
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  Speaker 1: Oh wait, you haven't crossed over yet. She's so attached
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  Speaker 1: to this house. I don't know that I asked her
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  Speaker 1: why she never crossed over, but she was clearly nervous
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  Speaker 1: about doing that. I see, imagine a really big, not
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  Speaker 1: very dark, but dim room, very plain, old looking, and
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  Speaker 1: then all the way down at the end, you suddenly
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  Speaker 1: see this bright white light and there's one figure standing
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  Speaker 1: in the light, and I know it's a young man
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  Speaker 1: and it's her brother, and he's twelve years old and
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  Speaker 1: he's been waiting for her. Wow, the wolves. We were
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  Speaker 1: just catching up, and then this whole thing unfolds my
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  Speaker 1: young woman very intuitive. So I'm like, are you okay
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  Speaker 1: with this? Are you ok with doing this with me?
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  Speaker 1: Let's hold this intention. Because Cynthia wanted to cross over.
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  Speaker 1: She was suddenly from fear to excitement. And part of
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  Speaker 1: what I think my role was to say, knowing she
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  Speaker 1: can read my thoughts in my energy, Hey, I just
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  Speaker 1: want to let you know, Cynthia. I get that you're scared,
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  Speaker 1: but I've talked to a lot of people on the
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  Speaker 1: other side. There was one guy that was lost and confused,
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  Speaker 1: but that was actually his personality when he was here too.
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  Speaker 1: But everybody else is joyful, pretty at peace, like they're good.
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  Speaker 1: They're good. Really, everybody has reported that or shown me
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  Speaker 1: that in their energy. I can't promise you anything, but
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  Speaker 1: I can tell you this, and as I'm saying it,
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  Speaker 1: I feel it in my whole body, because with every
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  Speaker 1: fiber of me, I know this has been my takeaway. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: then she was like, okay. She gave me a visual
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  Speaker 1: like the Wizard of Oz when they were all holding
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  Speaker 1: hands to walk toward the Wizard because they were scared,
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  Speaker 1: and I could feel her energy in my left hand.
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  Speaker 1: We both held this visual together in this intention that
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  Speaker 1: we're walking, and then I get okay, we're supposed to
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  Speaker 1: count down together three two, one, so we'll start on
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  Speaker 1: three and then anyway, and then at some point it's
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  Speaker 1: and she could feel Cynthia looking at her. It's like
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  Speaker 1: Cynthia was holding our hands, and then she almost wanted
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  Speaker 1: permission to just run to her brother. Yeah, and so
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  Speaker 1: then we like three two walk on and they were
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  Speaker 1: like good, running towards her brother, and then I see
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  Speaker 1: them hold hands and they go off together. That just
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  Speaker 1: happened recently. That was two days ago. She wheezed those
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  Speaker 1: I know, such a beautiful experience. Wow, being able today.
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  Speaker 1: I can't promise anything, but this is unanimously what I've experienced. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was nice to share that. So so many things
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  Speaker 1: about what we're experiencing and how we're learning about this
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  Speaker 1: can be useful in a way you would never expect
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  Speaker 1: at a time when you're like, remember, she's fourteen years
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  Speaker 1: old and she's been stuck at that age for a
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  Speaker 1: very long time. And if she was standing right in
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  Speaker 1: front of me, I would have said exactly the same thing. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I can't promise, but let me tell you everyone has
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  Speaker 1: said this everyone. It was just Yeah, Cynthia knew her
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  Speaker 1: brother was waiting for her. Did she know that? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if she. I don't know how much she
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  Speaker 1: knew that before then, but she was stuck in the fear. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and us being willing to witness this with her. It
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  Speaker 1: sounds like you didn't even really unpack the fear, which
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  Speaker 1: is fine. Movie. Yeah, I could have if she wanted
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  Speaker 1: to share about that. Maybe she had seen her brother,
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  Speaker 1: but the fear had been so built up that she
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  Speaker 1: was like, I just I'm paralyzed by the fear. Sorry, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: got it. I'm fascinated by the fact that that story
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  Speaker 1: might not have come out today and here it is.
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  Speaker 1: I've participated in that before. How many times have you
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  Speaker 1: helped somebody cross over? I would say a dozen or less.
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  Speaker 1: I used to be part of a group with two
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  Speaker 1: women who work together do They helped clear houses, and
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  Speaker 1: so they would cross people over regularly. So there were
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  Speaker 1: times when we did that together. I had my small part,
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  Speaker 1: but I didn't do the heavy lifting kind of thing.
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  Speaker 1: But I think because it was familiar, I could stay
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  Speaker 1: really calm. Cynthia's energy was also really nice. I just
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  Speaker 1: wanted to set up some healthy boundaries that weren't there yet. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but man, it just felt so natural and effortless. I'm
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  Speaker 1: fascinated by the You're in the midst of a conversation
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  Speaker 1: with somebody and then their support on the other side
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  Speaker 1: comes through. You have a message or I just love that.
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  Speaker 1: That's almost like the true definition of a medium is
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  Speaker 1: I've met I'm the middle for you. Yeah, yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: look at it like it's not what I do. It's
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  Speaker 1: who I am that is true for you, and then
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  Speaker 1: who you teach. I think, but just for me, it's
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  Speaker 1: like what you demonstrate as possible becomes possible because anything
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  Speaker 1: that anybody else is possible for me. Why wouldn't it
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  Speaker 1: be Why wouldn't it be available to me? Chad and
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  Speaker 1: I are working on that line, exactly what you just said,
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  Speaker 1: and how to incorporate that into the intro of my
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  Speaker 1: podcast that I am redoing. I narrate my journey so
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  Speaker 1: that you can see what's opening up for yours. That's
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  Speaker 1: exactly what I'm hoping for. I can share about stuff
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  Speaker 1: from readings than I do. I do want people to
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  Speaker 1: see what's possible. It's so unlimited. But wouldn't you consider
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  Speaker 1: Cencia areadi Oh a connection? For sure? I'm just saying
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  Speaker 1: also my own experiences because I am very observant of
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  Speaker 1: how I experience, excuse me, my interactions with those in spirits,
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  Speaker 1: so I can talk a lot about that too. The
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  Speaker 1: Cynthia thing was stunning and just so organic. That's where
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  Speaker 1: you're at. You're in the organic state of it. It seems
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  Speaker 1: like cool. Thank you for being excited about the story.
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  Speaker 1: I was excited to share it. It's a cool experience.
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  Speaker 1: But knowing that she's freed now, Oh, I can't wait
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  Speaker 1: to hear from your follow up on that. There were
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  Speaker 1: a few things that we both felt, but after Cynthia
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  Speaker 1: left my young woman, Oh, I didn't think that. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't think this would happen. But the house feels so
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  Speaker 1: different right now. Well, this was interesting. I'm so glad
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  Speaker 1: we had a chance to share. Glad you guys came today.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so much for being with us today.
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  Speaker 1: If you'd like support as you continue your own exploring,
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  Speaker 1: you can find information about my classes, readings, and other
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  Speaker 1: offerings at connecting with Noel dot com. If today's conversation
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  Speaker 1: made you think of if someone, I'd love it if
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  Speaker 1: you would share this with them. Take good care, and
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  Speaker 1: I look forward to being with you again soon