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THE REACTION TIME TUESDAY · BLACK HOT FIRE NETWORK SHOW'S

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  Speaker 5: Welcome, Welcome to the reaction time where we get to
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  Speaker 5: react to every interesting video you'll be talking about today
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  Speaker 5: and just keep it.
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  Speaker 2: Are you doing? I'm good and great and very cold
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  Speaker 2: day is it called? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Today I've been on a Tuesday.
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  Speaker 4: Of course we're gonna be discussing about some videos and
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  Speaker 4: start with Califf Cairo.
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  Speaker 2: Of course Calif. Couple of times I think I have
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  Speaker 2: like Califf Cairo. We have this journalist from KBC. There's
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  Speaker 2: something she said.
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  Speaker 4: I kind of paid attention to this video ten times,
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  Speaker 4: Jana trying to listen to what she was saying. And
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  Speaker 4: I think it's gonna be back. But the vid just
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  Speaker 4: something to write here on TikTok. But I'm gonna start
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  Speaker 4: with Califf Cairo. You was talking about how actually he
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  Speaker 4: has learned a lot of lessons and especially young age.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how hold this Califf Cairo, but I
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  Speaker 2: love it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: We said that you need to get some lessons when
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  Speaker 4: you're young, and I'm happy I got lessons because nowadays
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  Speaker 4: my circle is very small. I only have one friend,
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  Speaker 4: Like literally, I don't have friends nowadays as a member.
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  Speaker 4: I'm as a man. Remember you are alone. God is
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  Speaker 4: your best friend, and always keep that in mind. But
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  Speaker 4: before we gan to share the I get to share
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  Speaker 4: the video of which was talking about this card fire
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  Speaker 4: of the way he popped.
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  Speaker 2: Because this guy popped out of number one nowhere.
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  Speaker 4: I love the way most of these people with money
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  Speaker 4: boots pop out of nowhere and then became famous to
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  Speaker 4: the people he was dating. People knew him because he
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  Speaker 4: was a card dealer inle But no, you had put
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  Speaker 4: before that, Oh yeah, yeah, card he was a car
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  Speaker 4: dealer you yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yeah, okay, yeah. He brought us a card
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  Speaker 2: dealer number one and then went viral for dating. I
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  Speaker 2: think money set money something like that.
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  Speaker 4: And then during the man of course because it was
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  Speaker 4: one among the people who are leading the demonstration as well.
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  Speaker 4: And then after that things started going not good for
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  Speaker 4: him because people started accusing him for siding with the government.
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  Speaker 4: And I think because of whatever you it says it
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  Speaker 4: made because it's not that was allegedly, it's not clarssified
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  Speaker 4: what actually happened. But his business literally collapsed, so him
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  Speaker 4: started started getting getting into debt. People so complaint with
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  Speaker 4: their clients that is not delivering cars, how much they
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  Speaker 4: owe him and all that. So maybe, like the video,
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  Speaker 4: and I think more of the story according to me
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  Speaker 4: on this again, you guys you need to learn some
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  Speaker 4: lessons when you're young. And I feel like in life
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  Speaker 4: I was seeing alied today there was a video. There's
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  Speaker 4: a not a video, but I love as I'm a
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  Speaker 4: song of man by Corney because man I can literally
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  Speaker 4: means suffering and in life there is nothing that is straight,
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  Speaker 4: these ups and downs them and Sue, wake up. Life
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  Speaker 4: is gonna be going your way literally the way you expect.
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  Speaker 4: Sometimes things to go on other people's ways, you know,
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  Speaker 4: or you'll go against.
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  Speaker 2: You And it's okay.
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  Speaker 4: Doesn't mean that that's the end of life. As long
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  Speaker 4: as you're a life, you're healthy, you're living. Life moves on,
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  Speaker 4: You're gonna pass. That is gonna pap has too. Literally,
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  Speaker 4: it's just a trial or some temptation, but you have
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  Speaker 4: to person. But at the same time, I.
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  Speaker 2: Feel like what really teaches you, what it teaches you,
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  Speaker 2: is who really fucks with you? Let me just use
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  Speaker 2: that literally, who really can can root for you?
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  Speaker 4: Literally, who can go down with you no matter what,
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  Speaker 4: Like they'll stand with you no matter how many trials
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  Speaker 4: they'll they'll be there no matter how many trials. And
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  Speaker 4: it's very rare, especially in today's world, to find such
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  Speaker 4: genuine people, like really really bray, let me share my scream.
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  Speaker 2: On this other end, I know this help to tell
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  Speaker 2: people as a man, what is yours?
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  Speaker 6: And please take that.
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  Speaker 2: Don't expect.
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  Speaker 4: Why it doesn't look okay, It really looks very bad.
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  Speaker 4: Like they're not like Caliph Caro saw when he came
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  Speaker 4: on the screen. So he looks like life when you're
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  Speaker 4: in a pung.
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  Speaker 5: Real's been going through Yeah, oh yeah, smart his mom died,
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  Speaker 5: doesn't beams? Yeah during the battle, no celebrity there. Wow, everyone,
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  Speaker 5: it's a conversation stick talk, and I think that the
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  Speaker 5: organizing to go and see him. Yeah, for this man,
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  Speaker 5: and this man was thriving. When this man was thriving,
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  Speaker 5: everybody wanted to be associated with him. I read a
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  Speaker 5: comment today and I definitely like to give him grace.
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  Speaker 5: Give sometimes it's really important to do this. I think everybody.
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  Speaker 5: Come sure, I don't know how life is, but while
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  Speaker 5: you're younger, there are things you do and you make mistakes.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah okay, but when you make mistakes, I think the
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  Speaker 5: turning point that the longest, lifeless, of the biggest. It's
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  Speaker 5: always your turning point. If you haven't read that point,
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  Speaker 5: you face the world.
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. I feel like everybody goes
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  Speaker 2: through it. Come the like you don't listen, you do
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  Speaker 2: whatever you know and that and then you have around it.
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  Speaker 7: And then.
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  Speaker 2: Took a turn your life, and of course you lived
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  Speaker 2: with the regrets. Sometimes I wish different. I wish I did.
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  Speaker 2: Then I come back and you.
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  Speaker 5: Like releage enough and you change your ways for real,
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  Speaker 5: for really you know, and was saying, this is a
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  Speaker 5: shot forgive yourself for not knowing earlier.
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  Speaker 2: What time could you teach?
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  Speaker 5: And it runs so deeply, and I was just like, man,
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  Speaker 5: I think you never like you think you know everything
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  Speaker 5: because like I'm even shop this, you know, like actual baby,
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  Speaker 5: that's a matured man. He achieved so much and if
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  Speaker 5: you look now, he's and that's what I'm thinking. He
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  Speaker 5: was loud because that's your government. What would maybe was
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  Speaker 5: it is three a three years ago, one year, one
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  Speaker 5: year ago, two years ago. Right, he was thirty sixty
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  Speaker 5: six year old boy. Cannot six year old boy say
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  Speaker 5: make so much sense? And him just learning me you
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  Speaker 5: can't him much work finding out twenty three was twenty
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  Speaker 5: six by then getting every celebrity and staff a point
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  Speaker 5: in your Yeah, I'm sure that for this man, it's
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  Speaker 5: really important to give better. You give yourself some pace.
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  Speaker 5: But again also you should learn. It's I feel like
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  Speaker 5: that thinks you can't be best have to learn with time.
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  Speaker 2: That's true. They will. Their life will just teach you
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  Speaker 2: and either you move on from it. And decision is
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  Speaker 2: what it is.
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  Speaker 5: Because you come up with your point, you're regretting, You'll
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  Speaker 5: you lay low to next country, will come back lead
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  Speaker 5: to depression, suic idle.
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  Speaker 2: People.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like most of the experiences also or some
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  Speaker 4: chraices you make can reflect personally. I love reflecting on
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  Speaker 4: your background, how you've been raised, while you've been raised,
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  Speaker 4: the experiences you've had growing up, and then when you
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  Speaker 4: get at a certain part in life, maybe you're making
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  Speaker 4: your own money, you'll be very careful on the decisions.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe you touch big money, you're gonna be very careful
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  Speaker 2: of you not.
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  Speaker 4: Trying to lose or go back to square zero completely,
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  Speaker 4: because you understand completely where you come from. So I
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  Speaker 4: don't I'm not really sure number one about his background.
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  Speaker 4: There is something we can't.
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  Speaker 2: Even if it was just important, it wasn't that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but they had what I'm saying, yeah, like it's when
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  Speaker 2: he was in progress. Big boys used to talk and
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  Speaker 2: yet you need to pair.
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  Speaker 5: I think like and he landed showby because that time
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  Speaker 5: was really trend show being could get well for your
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  Speaker 5: plan on a date. I don't think he was really
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  Speaker 5: eating them for the show. He learned Pier the same way.
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  Speaker 5: And I think as celebrity can actually fake their lives.
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  Speaker 5: He wasn't bad at he said. He really did well.
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  Speaker 5: I pre said he was a car dealer at time.
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  Speaker 5: He was living maybe not a nice half. Definitely he
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  Speaker 5: was driving a Poshka. He didn't suppose perbole Louis and
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  Speaker 5: was wealthy. No, he wasn't, but he was trying. If
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  Speaker 5: you look at it from because even if you look
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  Speaker 5: at his moms, like during the younger just Sep was
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  Speaker 5: like still her ball back and stuff like that. So
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  Speaker 5: even if that and I definitely feely do agree there
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  Speaker 5: your choices in life or rather somebody mex in life
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  Speaker 5: as a big reflection.
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  Speaker 2: Of their child and the Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 5: The people carry the way everything. I think sometimes you
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  Speaker 5: look at yourself like that's all my mom.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, there's a member from.
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  Speaker 5: But let's give this man. He has gone through. There's
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  Speaker 5: somebody when you mention and it's okay to give him.
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  Speaker 2: Like literally, he has gone through.
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  Speaker 5: Financial battle, he's gone through for people social media, but
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  Speaker 5: he has gone through people accusing him of everything. He
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  Speaker 5: has lost his parents, he has he's been jail. He
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  Speaker 5: was in there for two months.
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  Speaker 2: Two man. Yeah, so I'm I'm a figure rockbotle the
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  Speaker 2: calif and I want to see. Yeah, now you have
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  Speaker 2: the mind, like you know, you can't be working around
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna find out serious exactly exactly. I don't get
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  Speaker 2: your money but mindself is the same mindset. I don't
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  Speaker 2: think who mindset? So is that aid? So we should
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  Speaker 2: define forty I do? I do agree.
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  Speaker 4: So if it is giving him grace, let's say, because
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  Speaker 4: I was listening to a video to I think actually
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  Speaker 4: it was key to send the video to me. It
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  Speaker 4: was talking about how it was our lady talking about
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  Speaker 4: how she if she had even know if she had
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  Speaker 4: a daughter, or should tell her daughter not to have
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  Speaker 4: babies at a very early age. In your twenties is
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  Speaker 4: where you're knowing yourself like you are evolving into knowing
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  Speaker 4: more yourself like could you are to like to dreaming
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  Speaker 4: and in your thirties, that's why make decisions, come home
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  Speaker 4: and settle maybe in a career for for really you know,
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  Speaker 4: this is what I'm going to be doing, you know
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  Speaker 4: the type of maybe if you want to settle the family,
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  Speaker 4: if you want to you know, twenties is there if
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  Speaker 4: even the great say he has actually fumbled very young.
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  Speaker 5: Because you to be like every because men men are
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  Speaker 5: becoming men. Are you honestly sible by you were a
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  Speaker 5: man before thirty five? Mad though when you do a
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  Speaker 5: member you are my parents. But because sometimes you look
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  Speaker 5: at who about that. If you builders at another thing,
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  Speaker 5: your faulty because did the decisions and things work so
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  Speaker 5: fast for them?
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  Speaker 2: Like it's traveled all this to blow because that is
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  Speaker 2: when it.
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  Speaker 5: Was becoming a man. I feel like men start touring
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  Speaker 5: at that dip to the different, but I don't feel so.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like that's that if I start seeing now
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  Speaker 5: a manly figure, okay, making common busier, you belive when
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  Speaker 5: you're going to move, starting to make money, you starting
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  Speaker 5: to be like really powerful those who died a in
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  Speaker 5: their life.
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  Speaker 2: Good for that. True, But if you open and it's.
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  Speaker 5: That dad, you don't know what we can't expect, we're
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  Speaker 5: not really for what is going to we can when
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  Speaker 5: even certified.
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  Speaker 2: That is so cher.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm gonna share a couple of like you said,
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  Speaker 4: TikTok aple, I wonder I'm but before I share that,
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  Speaker 4: I may read some few comments I saw. The person says, yea,
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  Speaker 4: when you realize being alone is powerful, you start feeling
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  Speaker 4: you start to feel peaceful, not because you can't make friends,
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  Speaker 4: but because you start choosing the people you want in
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  Speaker 4: your life. Wisely, remember a small circle is better than
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  Speaker 4: a big circle. And if I think this comment actually
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  Speaker 4: hit me earlier today because when I was taking.
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  Speaker 2: Shouted telling myself because me, I don't, I don't believe
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  Speaker 2: I'm really that friendly of a person. I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't care how people view me, they see me
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  Speaker 4: friendly or what I believe personally, I'm not really that friendly.
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  Speaker 2: And it has to again take why it.
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  Speaker 4: Has to take the decisions like process of knowledge or
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  Speaker 4: information for me to accept you in my life. And
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  Speaker 4: I think I've gotten to the point where even't gotten
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  Speaker 4: I've been there, like what I know how to pick
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  Speaker 4: friends very careful. I know who isn't supposed to be
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  Speaker 4: my name, I know is supposed to be in my
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  Speaker 4: lame I always a fuck up.
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  Speaker 2: I know is someone who can move forward.
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  Speaker 4: And I think from actually from the age of twenty man,
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  Speaker 4: even before I join black Fire, because I really again,
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  Speaker 4: you'd circles of friends like huge again celebrities, the same
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  Speaker 4: boating celebrities.
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  Speaker 2: People can put you on. People are supposed to help
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  Speaker 2: you in life.
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  Speaker 4: Night comes to real ship, people completely change, like real
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  Speaker 4: like goddamn, how many years of friendship and you're really
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  Speaker 4: doing you're doing this to me like she'd really hate
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  Speaker 4: hard You're like, godamn, this will not really even my
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  Speaker 4: friends I chose to be their friends. They didn't choose
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  Speaker 4: me to be their friend. They are different, like these
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  Speaker 4: people choosing you to be their friend. And this is
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  Speaker 4: choosing to be part of that circle. But you have
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  Speaker 4: to be in a circle. You have to be in
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  Speaker 4: a space where you're you're both accepted and loved. Not
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  Speaker 4: you trying to fit in, because there is a reason
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  Speaker 4: fitting door. What really happens. I feel like he tried
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  Speaker 4: to fit in in this celebrity caliber, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Trying to be a kid.
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  Speaker 4: I can now web. But the people who may do
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  Speaker 4: work car dealers were ahead to live like toxic. You
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  Speaker 4: need the game relaxed. Literally, you can't come will call
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  Speaker 4: a compelling.
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  Speaker 2: So let's start there to let's just must be led again.
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  Speaker 2: That is just life. It is life.
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  Speaker 5: What do you understand? It's what you keep from because mistakes,
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  Speaker 5: Oh you know it's a mistake if you never that's true.
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  Speaker 5: You know, to make a mistake, you know this is wrong.
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  Speaker 5: If you can't imagineymore missus unless so at the mistakes
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  Speaker 5: are would make us words literally, what makes you the
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  Speaker 5: person that you were?
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  Speaker 2: Because you get them mill Land and you don't read
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  Speaker 2: that one thing in life. Never regrets.
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  Speaker 4: That's one thing I'll just tell I'll tell people. Never
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  Speaker 4: wake up and say I regret, I wish I did,
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  Speaker 4: I wish I didn't.
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  Speaker 2: You already did that. Time has already passed. Now what
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  Speaker 2: are you going to do about this time you have? Like?
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  Speaker 4: Are you gonna make the same choice, the same mistake?
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  Speaker 4: Because I'm also heavy one. Choices have consequences, and until
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  Speaker 4: people realize that, you won't be making some choices understanding
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  Speaker 4: like this karamic effect or whatever, these consequences later.
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  Speaker 2: So be careful of the choices you make.
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  Speaker 4: Someone also says, this man is really broken, Let's not
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  Speaker 4: kick him down literally because he's talking with actually.
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  Speaker 2: Completely complete. There's nothing as painful as I definitely know
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  Speaker 2: the true and the last one.
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  Speaker 4: Someone says, when you lose you're both parents, you come
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  Speaker 4: to realize that you're all alone in the world.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody always consider like I'm alone.
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  Speaker 4: I don't even consider like my dad is to lose
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  Speaker 4: a life, being honest, because the fact that he's not
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  Speaker 4: being present when I'm alive, So what difference would be
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  Speaker 4: makeing me is dead? So I should not consider myself
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  Speaker 4: an offer now, like I've already feel like personally the
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  Speaker 4: mind I've probably accepted like, hey, I'm alone, nobody is
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  Speaker 4: coming to save me. I gotta save my ass. I
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  Speaker 4: gotta wake up every day, do what I have to do.
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  Speaker 4: I have to be there for myself. But it's gonna
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  Speaker 4: come be there for me, and that's it.
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  Speaker 2: You just have to accept. That's it off again, like
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  Speaker 2: I keep on saying, and move on with life. Not
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  Speaker 2: too cool. And then we have the TikTokers. Let's say
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  Speaker 2: the TikTokers what they're saying.
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  Speaker 6: Let's come.
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  Speaker 8: People by this smither man.
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  Speaker 4: Or it's crazy because we're doing this from TikTok and
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: know TikTok. For me, it's always the number one people
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: of Changi people.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: You know I've seen TikTok man.
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: Because if this space where I've seen people can get
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: massive support and love from the Kenyans.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: And so now the government comes in like it's sick.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: These people can organize and makes it happen, but they
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: choose not to. That is basically what I can say.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: President one TikTok whoever it is the dream and organized
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: by the wasting and in the chairman and in the.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Presidents mostly.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: Do learn to put people the people you know that people.
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: I feel like it's always easier when you know where
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: that's true. It is you, how many a cap I
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: want to be shocked of whatever happened. A coversition entered
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: you part of your situation like nowhere, know your position
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: in people's life, and you will never have a conversition
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: of spoke to Niphany. I was definitely okay, you check.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: This one is a Friendlily, the son is an up.
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: This one is a friend to me, this one a partner,
• 21:36
  Speaker 5: This is my true friend, this is my best friend,
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: this is family.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: We you know where you were anymore because as they
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: come to you can choose people when people don't choose you.
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: If you want to have it, nowhere to put you
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: and nowhere, but it's all you want to feel bad
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: didn't show up. I wasn't expecting you to show stuff
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: like that. People are put in the life and put
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: them in the same produ and it's never had people.
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: There isn't that you can only read and even if
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: everyone can read, you'll be what energy you'll be Sometimes
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: it might not be strong. But I'm looking at even
• 22:24
  Speaker 5: given intuition.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: When I do, I think everyone muses the intusion correctly
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: that's the problem.
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: Because that's the problem, jolly, because you assumed now in
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: a honestly likes to in the next ten minutes, only
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: about five can tell this in my life, this will
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: be my life.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: I come an anim even if somebody there perfect, you
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: never put in for life.
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: You have this on two or three times, you already
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: know what they're so like, I feel like we assume
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: a lot of red flags that to ramp.
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: Nah, I don't like as trust me, I'll put you
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: where you're supposed to be from the word go.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: I'm not the time to assume.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: I think also that's something why I I'm not good
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: at keeping maybe some friendship, because I don't like pretendient
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: chart in that term, I don't like pretending.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: I can tell a pretendion.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: I can just tell a lot and with that, I'll
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: just put you where you're supposed to be, and that
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: will never I think it's something cold make just realize,
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: once I see you in a certain way, I'll never
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: unsee you. Like I've come to understand the way I
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: lose disrespect on people or friendship is what I see
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: you in a certain way. I can't see you, and
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: that's how you forever remain like Knocker Wongo Knocker, you're
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: just a liar, You're a cheeta, you're whatever you are, like,
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: I'll never unsee you.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: You're just dirty. Like but if you from exactly.
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: Like you don't assume because like us, I think you
• 24:00
  Speaker 5: are lose commission exactly zero zero.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Like you're you're doing by getting.
• 24:09
  Speaker 5: Space, so we are actually one people like the problem
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: is so grace but open people.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: World and you're going to it's going to be your
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: new least stop ansuming you can listen. Gone is gone?
• 24:36
  Speaker 5: Yea?
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Rather continue we have last to come on journalist. I
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: always love a conversation.
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: The last time I had a talker talk, I think conversation,
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: I can be quiet how a relationship with that dad
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: and I kind of.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Relating to it.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: But I don't know if we've had this discussion. I
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: feel like we've had it, but this maybe deep. Do
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: you think we men are ready for the men they
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: pray for. I think we've talked about that, but in
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: terms of we've talked about it in terms of women
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: need to if you're praying for a hard work in
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: monetary to be advancing saying that I value my don't
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: need to be high valuable mind.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: But do you think actually give men? Both genders are
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: ready for what they ask for. I actually have the mede.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: Okay, don't about it in the morning, and I feel
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: like relationship when you love about it. I have two
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: perspectives about it. Okay, I am not the one who
• 25:38
  Speaker 5: he pushes the first step of men.
• 25:40
  Speaker 6: Yes, you know, like.
• 25:47
  Speaker 5: Paper in that position where and our owner ship and
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: a killer You're like, oh yeah, the point if you're
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: that maybe you're in love. You don't even realize this
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: person's manipulating and controling, you know, and the stuff like that.
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: Probably can imagine because you are don't like, I start
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: sniffing that type of man. You don't tell me? Can
• 26:12
  Speaker 5: you imagine the type woman want? You want to turn
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: me into the woman as if when.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: You met me. You didn't meet me when I was
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: doing this your mother literally you know you're supposed to.
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: Pat them when youngster more people who work into.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: A soft if you want to, but you can't.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: You can't.
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: You maintain and then you want I do it from
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: that perspect and then on the positive side, which I
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: definitely agree, if you find a man in his masculine
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: fully masculine.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Naturally.
• 26:58
  Speaker 5: Sure, you meet naturally a fully masculine man. It's somebody
• 27:03
  Speaker 5: that pleased. That is a man who leads to the character,
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: not a man who leaves who is masculinely knows what
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: he's supposed to do them. I'm not smuggling a soft
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: when you're right enough and you like enough like that
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: and they're not stressed because the relationship has everything super easy.
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: I was having a conversation with my friend and was
• 27:35
  Speaker 5: killing He was telling me a story about some some
• 27:37
  Speaker 5: of his close first time this person held help this person,
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: the man helped this woman heal from the darkest point
• 27:48
  Speaker 5: of her life. Just let's say maybe you had a
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: very bad childhood. You meet a man who like olds
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: you regardless of whatever he comes from, me still like
• 28:02
  Speaker 5: you were actually in that place, so not to and
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: then you'll be like man like this is the man
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: again He'll and then enough who told you? I believe
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: when that happens, to find a woman just like a
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: natural state to fix your teeth, you are you and
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: even how you behave it's going to show your ad
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: character and naturally a woman. I'm not saying changing the
• 28:36
  Speaker 5: word changes what I do and he us promise. Relationship
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: and love is compromising are.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: A music?
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: Why you compromise? If your man tells you, by the way,
• 28:51
  Speaker 5: I don't like this behavior now and you're api and
• 28:56
  Speaker 5: it's mumba sefently he they try to conceal, then why not.
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: It's like, okay, we hadn't like me coming home at three,
• 29:14
  Speaker 5: now a prodomining on another.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: Then to home meet too, naturally because it is recipro.
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: So there's also that perspective. I forget masculine. I'm very
• 29:31
  Speaker 5: stubborn in a relationship. And I even know I'm very stubborn.
• 29:35
  Speaker 5: Rarely listen if I see you listening, If you see
• 29:39
  Speaker 5: me listening, I'll be like, hey, I love it. That's
• 29:42
  Speaker 5: how I know if I start listening and don't do
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: it and the man, that's how I definitely started liking.
• 29:53
  Speaker 5: So you'll definitely find that a certain point. You just
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: compromise natural.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: What are some of the things there.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: Are a red flag for you if a man tells
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: you change for me, like for me at the start
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: dressing code, don't tell me how to dress were We're
• 30:09
  Speaker 4: gonna have a very very big problem. Don't tell me
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: not to do makeup.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: Who are you. What the hell go back to the village.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: Browne not natural to me? Natural everything is pure. Don't
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: do nails.
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: I've always had a problem with that since because my
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: start doing nails since high school.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: School illow you not to do nails, so I used
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: to do. Actually sometimes like your size of nails.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: You're not get a shoe leg but in that color
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: or the dark version chocolate just ca yeah, that was allowed.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: Then I could put that size then my step I'm
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: gonna tell me or nails like I just got marry
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: with those.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: You're already married. But the fact is your problem with
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: me and who's gonna marry me. They're gonna have to.
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: Like me with the nails I have. That's why you're
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: not the husband you have. Your husband she likes you,
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: He lets you, he lets you the way you are natural.
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: Whatever I'm not you, you can't try. Don't try make
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: me become the woman you are as my step mom. Secondly,
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: a tattoo going out to I don't think I like that.
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: Remember talking, Yeah, but I can come back home early,
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: but don't tell me.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: Don't go here. Don't go here. I want to go here.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: Are you okay with that? I'm gonna tell you. I'm
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: gonna tell you though respectfully, I'm going out. I'm going
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: to so and so, and I'm gonna come back at
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: this time.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Is that okay? Mind? You say you know that's a
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: problem too, because why what are you telling me? No?
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: Because what's the problem? Those are some of my big
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: friend flags. Literally I know.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Here you let me put on skim pick cloths. You
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: met me walking? Do I want to do it?
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: You're telling me you're showing us. I've been showing my
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: as my smaller thing, you know what it's always been.
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: I'm gon start telling I the qualifan meet meet you
• 32:25
  Speaker 5: like my they say, I'm asking as if, like why not?
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: You know, why? What do you mean anything like that?
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: Before I met you? So I don't like that.
• 32:42
  Speaker 5: I don't like somebody coming for my work. I hate
• 32:47
  Speaker 5: it like you're trying to look down my job or
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: whatever I'm puting.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: N end up.
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: This big then you're trying to make it look like small.
• 33:04
  Speaker 5: Allow that you know exactly. I like you to like
• 33:08
  Speaker 5: it to people if you're in your if I have
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: a dream and you're drying to make my dream look
• 33:19
  Speaker 5: and think, I hate like I know what I'm supposed
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: to do, and then you're trying to make me feel like.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know what I've supposed your mind not believing
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: I would never allow that, and.
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: That's it is, like you you want to give me
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: something and then now you're trying to go throll me
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: too manywhere I.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: Would not actually, yeah, I would not allow that. Those
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: are the biggest red blacks. Another reflad for me, it
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: might not be up for me. Be like.
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: Me too, me too, because that starts like, okay, so
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: after chated, Actually I'm gonna cheat. I remember to do
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: that because the moment someone is Germany, they know they
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: can lose amount of.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: Exactly you can go to yeah, exactly not I'm gonna
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna damp you and do not even damp you.
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna do it and can tell you and damp you.
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: I've done that a couple of times them.
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: I see weaknessing of.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: You, doubting bro.
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: You know for me because like all by you your girl,
• 34:36
  Speaker 5: like I have all those about that man you already
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: say that your girl, why do you want me to grove?
• 34:41
  Speaker 5: I know for me like that like that, but the
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: always questioning the relationship. It is true, are you really
• 34:50
  Speaker 5: my girlfriend? Is this like maybe school and another who
• 34:56
  Speaker 5: could believe themselves.
• 34:59
  Speaker 9: Maybe tifically, like like I hate a man who will
• 35:03
  Speaker 9: relate himself because me, I believe in your dream Jobby,
• 35:07
  Speaker 9: like you tell me this is a jack.
• 35:13
  Speaker 5: Leaving you because I don't like people who inference I'm doing.
• 35:17
  Speaker 5: I'm a confirmation programs. It's he probably a dim it's
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: a liven from the smallest thing.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: Here. Please confidence for me, Like, you can't.
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: Be bringing your insecurities in a relationship in friendship and me,
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: I'm like myself and men kill your property relately.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: I don't like that.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: Personally, So I think the yeah, narcissists to give me
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: something me. I hate an.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: Overgiver for really yeah, of gifts? Yeah, like for you
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: love me? Yeah?
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: Because again I always think about and I'm particular about
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: what is that you want?
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Over doing?
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: They is doing and overdoing like do it, but overdo
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: for me, I feel like, nah, overdoing doesn't work for me.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: I would feel like, nah, I was it too. I've
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: really of my relationship.
• 36:23
  Speaker 4: Actually, I think that if I said this, ever, I
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: think last week that someone was overgiving me.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Money and then I came found out really cheating like
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: I did. I really did.
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: I really did like them, but they were giving me money,
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: so there was to blind me to see what they're doing.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: Like the only one. No, no, only if I'm trying
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: that my hair shaved, then I'm finding my hair clip?
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: What the hell is there? Or it's mine brown? My
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: hair shaved? Where am I getting my hair clip from?
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: I can't nothing to pin on this.
• 36:55
  Speaker 4: Head, Like, so you're cheating, You've been cheating, so you
• 36:58
  Speaker 4: give me so much money for me to oversee this literally,
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: And I said, like ever since, I think I've always
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: been quious about people who forgive, and there's always just
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: something about them personally gipsy.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Give but not over give like I am. I don't
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: like you. If I don't like you, if I don't
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: like you, yeah, I know today don't have respect. I
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: will ask you maneay to see because I don't like you.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: For if I like, I don't.
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: Ask my li has gotten because it's the first day.
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: I'm asking what do you want? If you have nothing
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: from us? Talking just limit for that man? The next day,
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: can you become friends your money?
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: That's the question? Yeah, can you become friends?
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: Most of the people find that textingn like you can
• 38:00
  Speaker 4: become Frank're so cool. Now do you have money? I
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: like friendship money like that's the circle I'm trying to build.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: But if you don't have money, please just forget. But
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: that's your conversation. I share up. I've been exposing them.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: That's the good thing. I expose you like you are
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: the semmer.
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: And there's a twenty one y I would be texted me,
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: it's okay, I'm twenty one and I So you said
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: your people with money, I said, I said, I didn't
• 38:24
  Speaker 4: say I wanted minus.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: I said, I want me in the money, not minors please.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: But it's crazy. I think it makes I did a
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: video off. I didn't I thought of videos. I was close.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: So my plan was like long dresses. So it's like,
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: you know, the the good. I think Instagram brings you,
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: hum brings me real.
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: So I didn't want food. I like what going on TikTok.
• 39:01
  Speaker 5: I think it was fifty k crazy. It's like I
• 39:04
  Speaker 5: woke up calling that trend that trends your hard because
• 39:09
  Speaker 5: I'm cold ND I would man, I've not posted.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: Something some crazy thing. So's like you don't get them
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: to do viral collec.
• 39:21
  Speaker 5: It's just some crazy you want to go viral for
• 39:26
  Speaker 5: for like mane are just still honestly you know, and
• 39:30
  Speaker 5: stuff like that in that video got fifty K.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: I was shocked. I woke up, like, what is happening
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: my in box? Three hundred married? Everybody is just your.
• 39:45
  Speaker 5: He'll be all the white. It's crazy enough and they
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: all starting the same thing. Can I'm like it's because
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: of this World's video.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: I'm not yelling you, man, just can I have your money?
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: Can I have your money? That's the link Nowadays, personally
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: it's a quick time talking the door. They're basing there
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: like I'm based.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: People are being people like various as Jaquila who darking
• 40:14
  Speaker 4: like the kicking to chat with them.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to time and do it. But I'm
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: not so sure.
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: Yeay, I'm not talking to you for free for this
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: conversation to continue. Are you subscribing to this amount of not?
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: If not, I don't need but.
• 40:34
  Speaker 6: Listen to that you ready for the men you're pre
• 40:37
  Speaker 6: you're dreaming for her working disciplinationally, stable, feats, healthy man?
• 40:45
  Speaker 6: And who are you sure you're ready for this man
• 40:52
  Speaker 6: going to fix myighties?
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: What I feel like, as a woman, you have to
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: be in a certinmental of maturity to meet this kind
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: of a man. And for you to be submissive the
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: way she's talking, like, you have to be in that
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: mature medal space because I think a three year old,
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: let's say a twenty years old I'm not could do
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: that killer weekend under coat my best alcohosties. Honest, look,
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: I always say you meet your husband like the man
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: you're going to settle it just you can tell yeah,
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: it's just going to be smooth from they were like
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: literally and I feel like it needs like a very
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: This is a really mature It gets you at the
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: right time, Like I feel like you gets you at
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: the right time because like she don't look here, maybe
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: that is you know and stuff like that.
• 41:49
  Speaker 5: That part only and then also there's a shock. I
• 41:53
  Speaker 5: felt a shock in her. Maybe she's let people or
• 41:56
  Speaker 5: not like that. I'm to call this type of men
• 42:00
  Speaker 5: exists because.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: Like you get someone who pampers you.
• 42:09
  Speaker 5: Become because because you've netted boles all your life, Yeah,
• 42:16
  Speaker 5: you find that man the intentional they tell you everything. Yeah,
• 42:23
  Speaker 5: they provide their good the intentional and then be like
• 42:27
  Speaker 5: hm hm. This type of man exists just because you're
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: used to bozels, you men who can ship and clean,
• 42:35
  Speaker 5: and then you meet a man who is everything imagine
• 42:37
  Speaker 5: and you're like, but again, if you imagine it, your
• 42:40
  Speaker 5: brain would never take you where So if you imagine
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: the type of man you wan't, that's the type of
• 42:47
  Speaker 5: man you get.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: That's that's sure. Your brain can not take you. Your
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: life cannot take you. Your brain.
• 42:54
  Speaker 6: If my weight, my drinking, everything like it's changing everything
• 43:00
  Speaker 6: every single day.
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: And I want to try, you want to try, and
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: you can tell because I've been flying follow page on
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: TikTok and I so it's a very station again intentional
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: man too, because there are men who can do all that,
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: but their intention is just to because we also have
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: many tactics agree as ladies women would have spoiling were
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: but the only thing he wants is just your body.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: And then the men were willing to do that, spoil
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: you as what do you want?
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: Okay, you'll get it and let me take them mans
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: literally same man's naughty as of course, mans of just
• 43:41
  Speaker 4: pursuing you, giving you.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: Everything you want.
• 43:44
  Speaker 4: But the moment they get that what they want from
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: your between your legs, that's it. The men just were that,
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: and the men were intentional. The men were not just
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: doing that to sleep with you. The men were doing
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: that to love to know.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: You for marriage.
• 44:04
  Speaker 5: Nature people going for there's a word to like kids. No,
• 44:09
  Speaker 5: you want thirty for marriage. And he believes that it's
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: good with yourself clean. Let's see if it doesn't even
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: want to sex clean and say you need to be
• 44:21
  Speaker 5: a virgin for marriage.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: So you don't need to be a virgine.
• 44:26
  Speaker 5: You don't like, you don't need to have sex to
• 44:28
  Speaker 5: prove to him. Oh and it's like really intention is
• 44:32
  Speaker 5: like many.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: Means reguarded.
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: Let's dat for my that's nice, and but I was saying,
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: just to march my shore. I'm so scared of such men. Yeah,
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: personally updated men almost the men I see, the men
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: will be introduced me not even want, but they will
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: introduced me to their thoughts like weny most of my excess,
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: I'm going to make me towards that.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: And then again it's that intentional dating of marriage.
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: It's tucky.
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: Because you're not in that space.
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want and I still don't want. Please
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: don't take me to your fox thinking to marry me.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: Me just canceled.
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: It's not my plan, it's not in my head, it's
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: not clicking, it's not thought him I don't want.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but Oca a woman love things in that space.
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and a DBT for marriage because like if you
• 45:29
  Speaker 5: have been in likes you, I don't hear up whatever
• 45:37
  Speaker 5: and for you when you did them, they're like me
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: at that marriage and Mary a woman and what do
• 45:43
  Speaker 5: you want? You can't married, you're.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: Not no man.
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: I'm so I'm so scared of that, like to seek
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: ready to like I'd rather not waste your time to
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: like I think that that was people when the last
• 45:55
  Speaker 4: relationship that I had, I really met someone was so
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: serious twenty three. He was a chef and used to spoilt,
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: like send the gifts up like a bunch of gifts
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: the most of the time children with a kin mark.
• 46:07
  Speaker 4: So you got to the mad because every time we
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: could pull up is like just still because like you
• 46:13
  Speaker 4: never alone, just you never alone to pay care Cole
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: go to my bus days like work on media and
• 46:24
  Speaker 4: apart from that, you see your age and mind what
• 46:27
  Speaker 4: you want what I want, it's not it's not commat
• 46:32
  Speaker 4: So please let me know.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: Waste your time, let me know your time. Let's break up.
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: You go find someone who is at your own in
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: the same level thinking space as you. But for me,
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: don't waste time here. But on the last conversation of
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: the day, we have a new Marashia killing. Remember talking
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: about the ladies being toushed and then they lose their
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: knowledge and then they get their bag stolen and all that,
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: like the lady and I corner and then they lose
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: conscious they end up being raped. They don't know how
• 47:05
  Speaker 4: they were raped and all that. So in our Kuru,
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: apparently that's the new again has come and the actually
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: it has left so many people devastated, like whereas Chawengi
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: or Mamaba they have given money from the bank accounts
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: others Onimia and Ile. So now it is personally I'm heavy,
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: I don't give a ship.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: But I know you, I don't know you. I'm not
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: doing this with you. Don't shake hands with me, go
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: I'll do it.
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: Brian trowery quality, Brian pre for those who understand the
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: Brian greeting God pro Safi. I don't care whether you're
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: a woman or I don't like especially where you copet
• 47:45
  Speaker 4: for men. Mister happy yappy hygieniaco. Maybe may not happen.
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: Don't touch me. And again this also be another reason
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: because you never know just people's intentions.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: I just thought that this is a very sad ye
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: should do better. I like that he doesn't shake hands completely.
• 48:10
  Speaker 5: Shake like yeah, she doesn't shake hands, and I couldn't
• 48:16
  Speaker 5: understand it's because of another one.
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: But again, look, yeah you're escaping you yeah about it.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: This was meant to think they can spread. That's you know,
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: I know, so you know in his hands.
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: And none stay advice to wear gloves. But at the
• 48:40
  Speaker 4: same time, I feel.
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: Like jobey, so we are not like literally, I feel
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: like the security to again actually I do.
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: I was like a friend of mine, I splaining the
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: side hugs because maybe side hags I don't do.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't do this hugs.
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: Now I'm doing side hags my friend who have a
• 49:06
  Speaker 4: friends side hags my name to hug maybe like respectfully.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: Tacky theories. I again, maybe that to please keep off.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: But let me share this video of what this guy
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: is saying from a room.
• 49:32
  Speaker 9: Moved to.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: My neighbors.
• 49:45
  Speaker 6: Problem.
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: That's the saddest.
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: But because the momentific, like I don't know if we
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: need to normalize now talking to our neighbors. Should we
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: go back to that because we actually there were the
• 49:57
  Speaker 4: generation which doesn't even talk to neighbors, like for real,
• 50:00
  Speaker 4: our parents grew up like socializing with neighbors and Georgi
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: rani who junker pi kill junger quacking. So it's easy
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: to notice actually something if it's off at your door
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: or if someone who is trying to unlock your door,
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: it would be very very easy. I remember there's a
• 50:19
  Speaker 4: time where we were staying with my parents like high
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: school Jui like b what saved that someone was timing
• 50:28
  Speaker 4: the stairs a corner to lang. So what they did
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: due to look injured apartments not just of building the
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: injury apartment then maybe calling there like just you as
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: you say the way it is as your apartment, but
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: it's gets and indeed so this guy's claimed to drive
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: and you only break the gate because it was a
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: get to miss kire. I don't know why the manage
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: I must looking from work because from walk here ballypanderstairs
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: wakpol is the dour point number us are you lose
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: consciousness And it was enough to go to the rooms
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: for them not to wake up. So those guys when
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: they're looking back to break in and I'm lang and requite,
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: like what happened? But our gush managed to our gust
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: the TV then thank god saw them then screamed that
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: kil too, and that's how that this stuff were actually saved,
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: like from Withzy. So I feel like, either we need
• 51:35
  Speaker 4: to go back to normalizing talking to our neighbors, or
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: what to do it because the fact that this is
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: not something the government console at this particular point would exactly,
• 51:50
  Speaker 4: you don't know and you can't tell. You can also
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: just go judging people. I didn't want to conduct arrest
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: of who could be No people.
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: Sing that kind of a new your cousin, Literally there's
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: someone that's sting. They are very good conment, yeah, very
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: very very good, but I end with you on a
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: higher conduct. Some people like because Signia and yeah, you
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: told me you put work and he was asleep doing
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: the day everything went and I'm kind he told.
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: Me because that day was supposed to be meeting for
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: the podcast or whatever. Then ditager Franshafica, like the hell,
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: like what the hell? They didn't communicate, they.
• 52:47
  Speaker 5: Sprayed, they spray because even as issue the next day
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: was supposed to shoot. So I didn't have anything to
• 52:53
  Speaker 5: communicate the communities insist because you didn't even have like
• 52:57
  Speaker 5: Y reported on instant like maybe yet to take this
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: lener that could postpone.
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: I should.
• 53:05
  Speaker 5: Spray with two laptops. And it's for their school. For
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: they give the camera the camera of the world. And
• 53:11
  Speaker 5: it's crazy because we were to because they not in
• 53:15
  Speaker 5: art the confidence of So wow, that's crazy imaginal till
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: year after Yes you same, maybe at olyphone.
• 53:38
  Speaker 4: I don't know how this but on my nime to
• 53:40
  Speaker 4: my drewer him to maybe d is my master to
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: because could not come.
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: There is out the unlucky to put it like, it's
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: really crazy. So some large.
• 54:13
  Speaker 6: Checks one doesn't look at.
• 54:17
  Speaker 8: Our victims for you like you up one of the
• 54:20
  Speaker 8: Basia kid. So even as my kid would work anything
• 54:24
  Speaker 8: in his worth crazily phaps or at ditantry, So don't
• 54:28
  Speaker 8: your house. I wanted to go a pash in comn.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: I felt, now you must be fly.
• 54:35
  Speaker 8: So he's a song from the mill people mover gonna
• 54:41
  Speaker 8: just sat corner.
• 54:43
  Speaker 6: People want you. It's just a biggy. I don't not
• 54:47
  Speaker 6: an ever prepare rid.
• 54:49
  Speaker 8: So's theagine that your mom a w Baynna called to
• 54:55
  Speaker 8: so Selem David and as your king a group.
• 54:59
  Speaker 4: Pass say saying Uncle Rubeca, just be just be careful
• 55:04
  Speaker 4: because the world has become a very dangerous place. Everyone
• 55:07
  Speaker 4: is trying to hurtle in different ways, so be careful
• 55:11
  Speaker 4: not to fall victim of these circumstances like trust no
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: one one thing. I always say I hate going to town.
• 55:20
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm all like going to town. People
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: are so annoying, like so once today I was working
• 55:27
  Speaker 4: mom about what my nails name my nails? God, but
• 55:31
  Speaker 4: please make the way they're not touching touching people. Just
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: know gard reason let's stop touching me.
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: Stop touching me. Do you know how that is?
• 55:40
  Speaker 4: So I'm not just touching a woman without a consent.
• 55:43
  Speaker 4: I don't to handle a trouser or a T shirt
• 55:46
  Speaker 4: or a sweater.
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: Stop touching me. We need to work with paper sprays.
• 55:51
  Speaker 5: Like I hate chatting. And they don't understand before before
• 55:58
  Speaker 5: was in a chicken made me too from that.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: Needn't because you know where you're going. You know this
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: guy a little boot corner. Anything is killed to Nick.
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: I'm finding I you Ma, Ma Maya and the truth
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: the guys on and come and the fire and not mam.
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: I walking in towns.
• 56:33
  Speaker 4: Those guys still, I really hate is so chaotic, just
• 56:38
  Speaker 4: you mustag knowing in some way it's just so chaotic.
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: Just so dramatic. That's this guy. Yeah, there's this guy trolley.
• 56:45
  Speaker 4: And Australian mama Ma tacle imagine I don't got that
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: mar She was very confident enough to stand up.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, what's going on?
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: Okay, And she had a child, so you can imagine
• 57:05
  Speaker 4: any mama, any mama.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: They could deter.
• 57:12
  Speaker 4: Like, literally, it's really bad, so be careful walk out there.
• 57:18
  Speaker 4: I can pigure my bad become. But she stood at first,
• 57:22
  Speaker 4: so she was really loud enough for people to understand
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: what's happening. The guy walk a little betwe shame like
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: pock up, shame like exposi.
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: But much love for me.
• 57:31
  Speaker 4: That's when we come to the end of today's conversation.
• 57:34
  Speaker 4: Be careful out there. Don't change for man if you
• 57:37
  Speaker 4: don't want to, and please don't change for man. Get
• 57:40
  Speaker 4: the man loves the.
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: Where you are. That's just how simple it is for you. Yeah,
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: I don't have in security about my Okay, change man,
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: you cannot change for you. You will because he wants
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: to you really cares will start changing, but it does
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: amazing people. I'll just leave you guys with it said.
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: Sometimes forgive yourself for the things that's only time. Period.
• 58:21
  Speaker 4: Yep, yourself a beautiful, beautiful day, and I hope you've
• 58:24
  Speaker 4: learned something on those three conversations you've had. Be safe
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: out there, if you're a man in going through ships,
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: or even a lady. It's life Monday, and nobody has
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: probably started. I don't know there's lights towards the end
• 58:39
  Speaker 4: of the tunnel, but before you get there, I understand
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: that there's ups and downs literally, and be careful.
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: Peace and.
• 58:50
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  Speaker 2: Charge drums. Thank you for tuning in.
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: I saw your commentary saying, Sney, what have you told
• 59:12
  Speaker 4: What have we told you about calling men bozos?
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah? We call you both. That's the subter you man hate.
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: Come on like please, I don't. I just don't like humans. Humans,
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: not all of them, but too many of you have
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: just annoying and period that
• 59:41
  Speaker 6: Stick