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Nigerians Mad At Onyeka Ehie For Giving A Man Money - The Danish Deception · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Vance Lorencia.
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  How are you all doing up? You're doing great.
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about the Danish deception
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  by Onieka Ahi. Now, before I even say anything,
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  nobody should victim shame anybody.
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  She's a victim whether we like it or not, whether we like the
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  decisions that she made or the choices that she chose to make
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  or the red flags that she ignored, she is still a victim.
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  This man swindled her of over $300,000.
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  So let us give grace. That's Onika.
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  Now Onika is not happy. For some of you who have not
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  watched the Danish Deception, it's on my channel, just type
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  the Danish Deception. I'm going to see the full
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  series. It's about four hours long.
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  So I don't even know how to I'm going to compress that.
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  But I just I'm just going to give you like a reaction from
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  people online. And why Onyika, according to
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  her, she feel attacked by black women.
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  But I don't think Onyika has been attacked by black women.
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  I think she's been attacked by Nigerian women, Ibu women in
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  particular. Now, let me just give you a bit
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  of a context. Oneka is a Nigerian woman.
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  She is, yeah. She was born in America.
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  She grew up in America. Her name is Oneka.
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  I think that's the annoying part of the whole thing.
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  For those people who are angry, they said that somebody named
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  Oneka allowed a Danish man named Martin to defraud her.
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  This is because she also mentioned that one of the man
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  that her husband deferred of I think $50,000, that he said that
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  she asked why he did not come to her.
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  And the man literally told her, you're Nigerian, you are the,
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  you know, 419 capital of the world.
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  I don't know if you're in on the whole thing.
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  So This is why people are angry. This is why Nigerian women are
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  not happy. They said that Onika because in
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  our culture, or yes, let me use Eboo culture, of course I'm
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  evil. The men are supposed to take
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  care of the women regardless. That is their pride.
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  We are oriaku. Oriaku meaning you're just going
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  to sit down and eat your husband's walls If you marry
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  right that is. I mean, I am not saying that
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  people don't marry people who like you, marry husband who you
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  feed or you. Most women are the breadwinners,
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  that is not. But if you're going to go by
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  tradition, the woman is supposed to regardless of what she's
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  earning, the husband is supposed to take care of all her needs.
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  So This is why Nigerian women are not happy with Tunica.
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  They said that you not only got with a white man, a blue blonde
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  eye thought she's old man. You gave him your money, you
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  gave him British American green card.
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  He not only swindled you, your parents, your siblings, your
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  friends, your coworkers. I mean, this man ran, even some
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  Nigerians. Nigerian 499 sat down and we're
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  taking notes like, oh, the Danish Prince, Is he
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  overthrowing Nigerian Prince or what?
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  But it is a sad situation. But one of the things that
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  people actually took away from the whole thing is because Onika
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  was travelling, I think she was in the face of her life where
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  she wanted to travel because she said she had worked very hard.
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  She wanted a break. Like she just needed something
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  to to, you know, get her off the stress of working.
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  So she travelled. But I think what she was not
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  saying was that I think her cousin or her sister got married
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  to a white man or the person she actually went to see is married
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  to a white man. So she wanted that life.
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  Ladies, be careful what you wish for.
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  Don't, don't envy anybody. If you see somebody marry to
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  somebody or marry to a different race and they're telling you all
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  those sweet things about their marriage, about their union,
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  don't think that you're just going to find anybody and
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  they're going to fit into that mould.
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  Find your own person. Don't have a type.
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  What did I've realised is, you know, I've learned to to not
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  have a type. Listen, there are certain things
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  that the person must have, like money.
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  Yes, you must have money. I mean, duh, if we're going to
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  get together, we're going to have children.
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  Who's going to pay? Yeah, I can help here and there,
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  but you should be. You should be the primary
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  breadwinner. Monika was trying to be the
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  modern wife or the modern woman who the guy told her he was a
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  Prince. Ding, Ding, Ding.
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  Meghan Markle. She was thinking she is that,
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  you know me. Even there, I think there's a
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  picture that they took that was really similar to Meghan
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  Markle's wedding photo where they sat down on a staircase.
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  People kind of juxtaposed that together and said this is what
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  she was looking for. Is that true?
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  Maybe or maybe not. She was one of the contestants
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  in Bachelorette, I think in Paradise or something like that.
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  So the guy, I think Cole, who is he?
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  Cole can't remember his name, but he's blonde hair and blue
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  eyes. So I think she fell in love with
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  that and then she wanted exactly that kind of man.
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  Unfortunately, she met somebody who not only took advantage of
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  her naivety of her age because that man is in his 40s, late
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  40s, if not early 50s. So he's not young and he kind of
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  love bombed her from the beginning.
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  He was telling her everything that she needed to know.
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  You know, don't tell men, regardless of the race, what you
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  want in a man because they are just going to become that and
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  scam you and leave you high and dry.
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  They would take you to the desert and leave you there
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  without water like Oneka. This is why Nigerian women are
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  angry, because Nigerian women believe that the man should take
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  responsibility. If a man wants to buy me a Rolls
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  Royce, why would I start saying no, Kia is fine?
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  No, I'll be like, how about private jets, You know, How
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  about that? So sometimes they call evil
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  women or evil girls or Nigerian women gold diggers.
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  This is why, because if she had allowed that man to spend money,
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  which I think he was even prepared to do, just to get her,
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  hmm, she just fell into the wrong hands.
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  And nobody's immune. Nobody's immune.
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  You can get married today. You know, he spends everything.
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  Maybe he's probably scamming other people to take care of
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  you. And then you get into that
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  marriage thinking you're married to somebody who is wealthy, and
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  then he starts scamming you, start giving you, oh, we're now
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  married. There's this business idea I
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  need to. He was lagging.
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  He said he bought apartments. He said he was royal, he said he
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  had 300,000 in his account. She was still planning a
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  wedding. So you could understand the
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  anger that some people are feeling towards her and I think
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  it triggered a whole lot of people.
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  They are not just angry with her but mad at the situation because
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  some people have been in their shoes and most of them don't
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  want to admit it, so they'd rather take out their anger on
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  Oneka. When you can.
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  I hope you heal. I hope you find peace.
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  I hope this has taught three lessons.
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  She did, you know, talked about, she talked about some lessons
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  that she's learnt. And I am very, very sure that
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  she would not try this. Next time.
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  When you can, don't try it. Next time you don't, don't try
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  it. Get your money, get Netflix
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  deal, get Prime deal stream to a documentary.
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  I don't know, because I, I believe, I strongly believe that
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  this man has done this to a lot of people and we want it to look
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  like or we want, we want something like this.
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  The the, the Tinder swindler on your car.
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  Get that, get the ball rolling. Get your money, get millions.
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  He took 300,000. We want you to make millions
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  minimum half, $1,000,000 from this whole situation.
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  That is what we want and we're going to push it.
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  Anything you want us to do, we're behind you.
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  We're going to push it. We're going to, we're going to
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  make sure that you're made whole.
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  I wish you healing and don't blame yourself.
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  Yes, people are blaming you but just take it all in, take the
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  lessons and make that money. OK?
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  Now let me know what you think. Do you think that Nigerians are
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  mad at Anika because she she broke the golden rule by giving
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  the man money? Or do you think that Reneka was
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  just in love? That was her first love.
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  She was naive. He was a a sweet talker and he
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  she swindled her Or do you think that she was just she just
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  wanted her life and didn't go as you know she wanted it?
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye bye.