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Fastest Way To Our Hearts · Podcast - Big 98.7

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If somebody were to want to apologize to you, if somebody messed up big
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time but they wanted to get back in your good graces, what's the easiest
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way to do So I want you to think about that. Seven oh one
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two eight zero one, night seven because my guy here is set in the
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bar pretty high. Him and his wife got into a fight. It happens
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they live in an apartment building, right, So he went out and got
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drunk, which is a natural response to fighting. And so when he was
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coming home it was two am. He thought, I can't just show up
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drunk. I'm trying to get back in good grace with my wife. So
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he decided he was going to show up as Prince Charming. So he went
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to a horse farm that he used to work at, like a literal Prince
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Charming, Like he had like an outfit and everything. Well, he stopped
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short of the outfit. Oh but the horse Amanda was key, so he
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knew where he could get a horse hould up what and mind you, they
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live on the third floor of an apartment building. So my dude shows up
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to a horse farm they used to work at, so he knows the ins
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and outs, steals a horse rides it to his apartment building where he entered
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the building get out of here. First of all, how are you going
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to get a horse into this building? Now there's video, and it's like
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a tight like some of the newer apartments, you know, they got these
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nice big always, not this one. This is a cramped little entryway.
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So the video shows the guy walking the horse in the front door. Okay,
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he wasn't riding the horse in, not quite yet. He walks it
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in, where the horse promptly leaves a giant pile of feces. Oh,
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it's I mean always, it's just what they do. They just NonStop,
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it doesn't matter. It's like and it's just falling out of it. It's
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like they don't even know it's happening. It's just falling out, just a
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big pie. Okay. So now the video shows this dude actually climbing on
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top of the horse, struggles a bit, you know, it's three am.
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He's drunk. Finally gets on there where he gets up to the third
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floor of the apartment. Ow, I'm so confused by this. Well,
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it is very confusing. Now the police weren't quite as thrilled about it.
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He's been arrested multiple things, of course, you know, the stealing of
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the horse, the trustpassing. It doesn't say whether or not the fight was
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reconciled because of the horse. I can't imagine not. I think this would
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add a little fuel to the fire, to be honest with it really doesn't
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say if like she was a horse girl, like the bow was the idea,
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Like, oh, I know my wife loves horses. I'll bring a
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horse. So let's say pretend it to you. You and Nick, your
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husband. You get to a fight, he goes out, gets drunk,
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and he's gonna come home and win you over. What's the best way for
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him to do? So? I would have to say, I'm kind of
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a foodie. Yeah, just a nice meal is gonna do you. Guy.
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I don't think it's just you. I think ladies in general. I
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feel like that's probably your best man. I mean, you could get me
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with a lobster tail or some steak, Oscar, nice bottle of wine,
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bring some Oscar over, Just bring on Oscar. When Oscar comes around,
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We're gone like a spa day, my wife. It's the same thing.
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Food or just you know, like a good bag of Cheetos. Food is
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just an instant satisfaction. What about you, though, And if it were
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me, if my wife were to try to win, which is just funny
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when the rolls are reversed. I can't imagine this happening. Your wife just
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doing doing your dirty night. Yeah yeah, but so she were in some
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sort of fantasy world trying to make up for something, and I think I
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think it would be probably a Laga cookie dough, a log of uncooked raw
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cookie dough. I want the real cookie dough. Don't get me any of
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this like stuff that's meant to be eaten. No, give me the raw
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eggs. I will risk a little salmonila if it means I can just go
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to town on a Laga cookie. Absolutely not. You cannot eat that.
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Why the raw eggs. I've been doing it since I was a kid.
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And look, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, my children
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are listening right now. You do not eat that. You do not.
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If you're listening. It's a myth. You can eat raw eggs. It's
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a one in a million chance. You might get a little tummy ache,
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but you're fine, okay, Like an in the morning, big natty eight
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point seven, You like a good manly mandy strike me as a lady,
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who uh is the one contributing to these unfortunate realities men face on a daily
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basis, Amanda gosh, am I am I the problem I think you are.
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A survey of then revealed that they feel pressure on a daily basis to
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act manly. Well, what does that mean? It so I kind of
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feel like we've changed a little bit. For instance, Hot Off the Press,
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Jason Kelsey who retired the other day, and Travis Kelce grown men bawling
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their eyes out and women just swooning because we want a man and we talk
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about this bike. You're a crier. I mean, for the most part,
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that's attractive. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I saw that.
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I thought, what a nancy I'm teasing. Well, forty one percent
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a man admit that they feel a pressure to be handy around the house because
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of society. I do appreciate it when Nick can be handy. He's not
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so handy. He's not really. I mean it depends on the situation,
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but for the most part, he gets very frustrated really quick. He doesn't
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have quite the patience to get things done. And if he doesn't know how,
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then it's just like cool. Let me compare him to myself if I
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could, like, does he know how could he mount to TV if he
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had to with help with helpee? I'll do it myself now out help.
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For years now, I do it on my own, and we move every
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six months or so, so I have to do it a lot, yep.
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But usually I'll end up putting like several holes in the wall before I
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get it correct. See, and that's gonna drive me crazy because I'm also
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super anal about certain lias. Really, my wife loves it. She loves
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watching me silently struggle. Also, men feel societal pressure to act a certain
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way, behave in a particular manly manner in public. What please do share?
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What is a manly behavior? I don't know what. Talking about hunting
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and football, I don't know if I buy that. A certain amount of
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men forty one percent in fact, feel they need to maintain a certain body
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type to be a man, Which is interesting because, and I'm just speaking
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from my own experience, most men I know, I would guess there's not
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many of them really are caring too much about their their body type. And
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I don't think women are hard on men like that. I really don't think
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we put that kind of pressure. Yeah whatsoever? Yeah? How many men
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you know that are like in great shape, like post thirty years old,
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you know that don't have more of like the dadish going on. I have
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one friend, his name's Trent. He's probably listening right now, rock solid
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shape, grit, works out daily. But other than that, that's the
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only guy I know that I like that average looking guy, you know,
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just like I've never felt a pressure at all to be a manly man,
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you know what I mean? I got it. Like, for example,
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I'll be a little spoon. I don't care. I'll spoot if you want
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a spoon and you want to be in the backs, do you want to
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take a back seat? Go right ahead, I don't care. Comfortable Did
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you just a little spoon? Yeah? I mean I admitted it. Then,
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you know, got their hair in your face. It's really the it's
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position a if you ask me, I take back everything. Guys that taking
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a Manda in the morning. Seven. You've ever been in a situation where
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you're dating somebody in their family doesn't approve of you. This woman, her
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name is Alexandra, was not approved by her boyfriend's family. Okay, now
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they are a wealthy family. They own a successful chain of funeral homes.
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What a business to be in. That is so true, business of burying
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dead bodies. Well anyway, so this family's very well off and she Alexandra
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not so much. Okay, So they suspected right out of the gate that
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she was only dating their son for the money. Okay, well gold digger
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actually going on. Yeah, immediately they were trying to do things to stop
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her son from seeing this woman. First off, they offered her a blank
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check to end the relationship. She could have filled it in for anything,
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that's yeah, any amount, any amount, I said, give her,
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like a quota, like hey, up to twenty grand. Other than that,
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I mean, if you want to take less, nobody deal. Let's
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say she did take it. What number would you write because I guess if
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you over, if you go too big, then you probably don't get a
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second chance. And this is a new relationship. Yeah, I mean something
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modest like ten thousand. No, would you write a million hours? At
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least a milk Yeah? Well that didn't work out. She got away bye,
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I mean, well not hers. She was so in love Amanda that
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she stuck it out. Well, so they continue to do things like spread
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rumors about Alexandra online. They even fired the sun the groom soon to be
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groomed from the family business. That didn't work either, when even at one
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point the mother of the groom tried faking a heart attack, had herself committed
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to the hospital, and blamed her son for putting her there. None of
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this works. Still, this couple was so in love extremes. Uh.
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Well, fast forward to the wedding day. They're going through with it.
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They're getting married, Okay, Alexandra's in her beautiful white wedding dress. When
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suddenly, as they're outside taking photos, a car pulls up and three thugs
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get out of it with a bucket of red paint. It is on video.
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It's gone viral because one of them filmed while the other two threw the
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red paint all over her beautiful white wedding dress. Who do you think was
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behind it? Well, aman, it's been random people like, oh hey,
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we're gonna get this girl in the white dress today. No, these
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weren't just any thugs. They were thugs for higher in the one right in
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the check the mother in law, you got it, mother of the son.
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Okay, at what point are you thinking the next step, She's gonna
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hire somebody to kill me. It does seem like the logical next step.
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This feels as though this is dateline material about to happen. Well, they
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ended up going through at the wedding. She just changed into a different dress,
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gold colored dress, had the wedding and moved on. But oh man,
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how do you move on from that? Though? Could you go through
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a relationship where you knew that the entire family just hated you? She kept
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that blank check. I'd maybe pull that back out and actually had no kidding
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right again? And Amanda in the morning on Big seven. Now, I
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don't want to surprise anybody. We're gonna try something new here as we're about
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to spill the tea. Amanda. Normally, if there's a sponsor, you'll
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say it, But this time I'm gonna say it. Let's see how it
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goes you ready, Ready, let's see it piping hot today we go.
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I don't know, Amanda stills, Let's see. We's see Rodzie by Park
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Company reel tours. What do we think? What do we think? All
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right? Britney spears. This is according to those very close to her,
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say that she has been triggered once again by Justin Timberlake's latest dig. Of
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course, if somehow you missed all of this, what ended up happening?
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Britney Spears released a book, We found out a lot of just icky thinks
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about their relationship when they were teenagers. What ended up happening is at one
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point Britney Spears got an abortion she didn't want to, Justin Timberlake did and
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the world went wild. Well Justin Timberlake, he not happy about this,
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ended up when he released his new music, was at a concert in February
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and said that he wanted to take this opportunity to apologize to absolutely bleeping nobody,
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basically calling out Britney Spears, saying I don't have time for this,
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and then he started singing crimea River, which was written about their breakup.
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Well, this was just days after Britney Spears made a social media apology because
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her song, which was Wild that Nobody had heard About, which was the
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same title as Justin Timberlakes, was number one on the Billboard charts. So
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she's said, hey, I just want to take a second to let everybody
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know that some of the things I wrote in my book I apologize for.
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So she knew she had maybe done something wrong, or was at least saying
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like, hey, let's like I understand up all of it, right.
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I wanted to be honest in the book, but at the same time,
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I know that might have affected somebody or hurt somebody, so whoopsie. Well,
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now those goes who were say this was a turning point for her mental
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health issues when Justin broke up with her back in the day. But then
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now they thought, hey, I thought he'd be more of a stand up
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guy and wouldn't just you know, open this, I guess wound back up,
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and they're saying, like, this is hindering her recovery. She's the
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one that keeps bringing it up, he said, and he didn't even say
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her name. Like, of course we know what he's alluding to when he
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says that. But at the same time, it's like, just stop talking
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about it. If I never hear anything about these two ever again, my
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life would be better for And speaking of boy bands, I mean, this
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is the oh yeah, you know, maybe it's just me. I didn't
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like him. I don't like this. This to me sounds like a Nintendo
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song. This is cheesy and terrible. To be fair, the new Kids
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on the Block was not in your generation. Really, I just Battery Voice
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was like my introduction to music in general. Really, I had a new
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Kids on the Block Sleeping Bag, Are you kidding Me? And now they're
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coming out with a new album, Ladies Get Ready. It's been eleven years
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since we've got some new material from the boys. Do you remember that last
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album? I you know, slip my mind? It was a time in
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my life I don't really remember. Oh. But this new album is called
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Still Kids. Yeap Donnie Wahlberg's fifty four but hey, age is just an
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exactly fourteen new tracks. Their new single is going to be Kids, and
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they do say this is their most this is the best line. This is
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their most mature yet. I can imagine you mature they are. They touching
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on some hard hitting topics and the new new material they do promise a full
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pop anthem, dance tracks, love songs and this got me too grooves.
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I could go for a new groove that'll become fast favorites for the block heads.
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I are there blockheads running around right now. Big ninety eight point seven
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Today's Variety, here's the latest from the Blockheads. I just can't wait for
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it. You're the block the we're blockheads. Yeah. The band is the
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band, that's the new kids on the block. You don't call it dam
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block. Yeah that's true. Halior Swift isn't a swifty Yeah I did.
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I did make that up. Sorry, messed it up through. That's why
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I'm reading the sponsorships from now. I'm okay, I'm getting demoted right before
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your guys's eyes. All right, Hailey Bieber has slam rumors swirling about her
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marriage. Of course, last week we found out about Stephen Baldwin really just
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telling America to pray for Justin and Haley is how we took it. We
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since did find out that Hailey Bieber's sister got into a whole lot of disgusting
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trouble last week, so we're guessing that's probably what he meant. He just
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was trying to be discreet about it, which if I'm Hailey Bieber, I'm
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upset about and she is, she said, just an FYI, the stories
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and constant plying items I see on TikTok are one hundred percent wrong, made
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out of the air, come from the land of delusion, So I know
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it may be fun feeding into these stories, but just know they're always false.
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Sorry to spoil it. You can't say they're always false. They're always
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false until they're not. You know, she's just saying, basically, don't
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don't let you know. She doesn't want people please everything to hear, and
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we know that this is interesting. So Steven posts pray for my family or
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whatever if it was in fact about his daughter throwing a tampon at a bar,
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Like, really, can you like, what if you're sibling got into
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a bar altercation and threw a tampon? Would you go on social media and
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say, oh, my pray for my family? Which I would, I
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would. I would not go on social media, but I would want some
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prayers because this is a disgusting behavior. And who even things to do that.
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I can't wrap my head around it. It is the most disgusting thing.
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I think that's what she was going for. He looked around. She's
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in the bathroom, s what's the grossest thing within an arms reach right now?
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Who even things like that? I'm sick of Amanda in the Morning,
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Big Nutty eight point seven last night. I know you watched it as well,
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but on Hulu. I don't know if you've seen or heard about this
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new show. It's called Me Hereafter, and it's a true crime show,
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so of course we were like, oh yeah, let's check this out.
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Well. Episode one of the first season happens to be showcasing the murder of
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Savannah Graywind, which, if you remember twenty seventeen, it was the most
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horrific thing you know that I can remember happening in this community. So it's
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kind of cool how they do a voiceover from the perspective of Savannah. They
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have somebody, Well, it is kind of weird having a person talking from
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her point of view, pretending to be her, sharing like, oh,
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this is how I felt or this is what I saw. It's like,
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well, how do you know that? You know? So it's kind of
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weird in that it didn't bother me at all. In fact, I found
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it like very impactful because I mean talking about for instance, it was here
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I was and this is horrifying, but you know, the detective had gone
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in the house and she said, real times, this entire time, I
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was in a garbage bag in the closet and those are those moments and she's
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talking about it, and for me, it really brought me along on the
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story. Just the most horrible case of this. Savannah Graywyn, who is
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only what twenty two living in an apartment in North Fargo with your parents,
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eight months pregnant, the whole family living there. The neighbor up the stairs
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comes down and asks her to come try a dress on so she can sell
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it or whatever, kills her and cuts out her baby. And the most
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incredible part is the baby lives and is born healthy. Yeah, it's unbelievable,
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I will tell you, and I don't want to spoil too much,
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but the ending of it did really just kind of bring it all home.
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I'm like, oh my gosh, this is awesome. So again, I
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don't want to give too much away because it is new on Hulu, but
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I don't know if it's a spoiler. I thought it well, we can
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say the end of it. So they're interviewing the dad, Joe Graywind,
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who you know, very strong to be able to sit there in front of
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a camera and relive this whole story, right, But then at the end,
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the baby, who's now six years old, Hazley, comes out on
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camera and she is just the cutest little girl. Roy Aller, No,
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I know, it really did. It kind of bring brought me to tears
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because she looks just like Savannah. Was one of those moments you're like,
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gosh, really a horrible situation, but wow. The one question though through
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all of it, and the detective had alluded to it, just how they
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were able to clean up and do just such a horrifying act, How there
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was no evidence of it whatsoever, Like they had talked about, how it
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had to have been so planned out that there was like a targe of plastic
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put down, because yeah, for the detective to come in there within hours
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of it actually happening and to not find a single trace of anything that would
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suggest for anything, right, So yeah, there was definitely planned out.
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I'm never gonna understand how people do horrible things like murder, but just truly
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astonishing how these two people thought they were going to get away with this.
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They were just going to continue to raise a baby, pretending it was theirs.
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I mean, and I also forgot Brook, the girl, who of
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course was convicted of the murder. She's serving life in prison, but the
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guy only got twenty years because they just couldn't really prove that, you know,
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he actually actually did the murder was a part of the act of it.
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Yeah, I mean you would think that never is going to feel like
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enough just in general. But the show itself again, it's called Me Hereafter.
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It's on Hulu, definitely worth checking out. It's episode one of this
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new show. But you know, you get to see the interrogation room,
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actual videos of that interview process and just you know, always interesting to see
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a lot of b roll of Fargo, a lot of aerial shots, you
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know, showing buildings and apartments that you drive by every day in North Fargo.
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That and it's kind of one of those shows I'm you know, I'm
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all about dateline and all of that. I went right into episode two and
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that was about a story in Minneapolis about a girl who had been murdered,
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and I watched that entire episode. So if you're looking for something to binge,
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definitely interesting. Absolutely like get Amna in the morning, Come on,
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get up on Big seven. This is the most horrific example of somebody trying
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to steal somebody's girlfriend. This happened in a band. And you know me,
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I'm in a band, big band guy. And while every band I
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believe has some sort of drama, just like every workplace, every group of
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friends, nothing like this. They're out of Nashville, so real up and
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coming band. Well, they posted on their Instagram quite the accusation that the
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lead singer was attempting to steal the basis girlfriend. Wait a minute, they
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posted this on Instagram. Correct. Now it's unclear who was behind the post,
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and it's been deleted because of what I'm about to tell you is quite
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the accusation. Now they claim the singer an attempt to steal the basis girlfriend
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was lacing his drinks with estrogen. Oh my gosh, to make him sound
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because I know if women take testosterone or too much of it, their voice
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can change. Does it have an effect? Does estrogen have that kind of
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like if you were intentionally trying to transition, you would take estrogen. Also,
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for five months, he's putting estrogen in the bass players supplements and drinks
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in an attempt to unknowingly transition him into a more feminine person. So then
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the girlfriend will be like, hey, are you kidding? Boyfriend I used
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to really like seems to be a little feminine. Well wait a minute,
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who's not so feminist? That's what I'm wondering. Do you even have any
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idea? You crazy person? If this person would be even into you,
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that's like a whole other like layer to this, like, yes, you
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can do whatever you want to him, even if you're the last person on
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earth, sir? Does this chick even want you? It's such a long
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Yeah, are we missing a part of this story? You almost have to
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respect it if it wasn't probably a criminal offense. Talk about the confidence of
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this man, Well, if you have confidence, you think there'd be a
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little shorter route to stealing the girlfriend, Like maybe like, hey, listen,
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I know you're in the relationship with this bass player, but let's be
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honest, this guy kind of sucks and look at me, right, that
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would be a little too adult for this guy, I think. Yeah,
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so it appears it has not worked unfaceasuit going on. Well, at the
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very least, I think the band would probably be breaking up. So if
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you had plans to go to Nashville to see Lorona Lorona, I wonder if
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they are doing this. Do you think this is just I mean, because
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these bands they do anything they can to get attention, ump they're smart.
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Do you think that this is just a pr stunt? Oh? Come on,
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man, be ridiculous. I believe it was actually, now here's what
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you need to know. Well, hot off of Super Tuesday, we are
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fighting out this morning, Nikki Haley said to pull out of the presidential Rayce.
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Haley has won only two primaries, the district of Columbia and Vermont during
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her campaign. People familiar with her plans say she won't announce an endorsement today,
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but she will encourage Donald Trump, who is close to having the delegates
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needed to uh win the GOP nomination, to earn the support of Republican and
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independent voters who backed her. So, barring anything unforeseen, that's that's pretty
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much it. That's what we got our We got our two guys. Yep,
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same ones from the last time. Uh huh, yep, that'll be
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funny. Keep track of we're set to spring forward this weekend. I can't
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believe it's already this weekend. I don't know why. It did really sneak
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up on me personally. Yes, I mean we've been waiting. Maybe it's
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because the winter hasn't been so bad, it hasn't really mattered. Been looking
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forward to that extra sunline. I hear you, and uh it also springing
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forward. Of course you're gonna be losing hour of sleep. The time change
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can be rough on you and also your kids, so starting now could help.
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Experts say is starting and early to bed like routine, even if it's
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fifteen twenty minutes each day for at least four days. So if you start
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now may kind of ease a little bit of the stress come Monday morning,
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and you know, it's like it's always on a Sunday too, and then
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I just always feel bad and I'm like, oh, man, just get
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them out of routine for the kids. Yeah, yeah, I feel bad
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by myself. You just don't sleep anymore anyway. If anything, it just
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shaves an hour off of meat laying in bed thinking about things. So that's
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good. And yesterday Facebook went down, Instagram went down, WhatsApp was down,
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and people were kind of freaking out. I do love the people.
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We put a pull up last night just to see how people reacted. I
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that I had been hacked. I was like a lunatic. I'm like,
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oh my gosh, what do I do? Some people huh, what are
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you guys even talking about? I had so many people questioning it because if
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they weren't on social media during that point, had not a clue what.
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Yeah, I envy those people who didn't even notice, and also realizing I
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need to get better about backing up pictures doing stuff because if my social media
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were to go down, like, that's a document of my kid's life,
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that's their baby book. You know, you know where I store all my
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photos and everything. Where right here in your heart? You don't see me,
23:18
but I'm pointing directly to my chest, kind of doing the four fingers
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stab in your sternum kind of thing, right there in your heart. Right
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here, baby, got it right here? Notedke An in the morning,
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Big Natty eight point seven. You know how when you go on vacation.
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I'm on vacation, and when you come back, you know, there's this
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myth out there. I feel like where people are like, oh, you're
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so refreshed. Oh right now, it's just feeling great, ready to get
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back to work. It's clearly not traveling with kids. What Yeah, that
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alone, It's like, I need a vacation from my vacation. But I
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guess it depends on what you're doing. Well. Forty one percent of Americans
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say they experience what they call a vacation burnout, the aftermath of taking time
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off. They say most people dread returning to work after having to time off.
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And it's true any sort of extended time off, the thought coming back
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is horrific. Well, it really again totally depends on what industry you're in.
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Sometimes it's not worth going on extended vacation because of all the work that
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now you're gonna have to come back to. Or if you have to work
24:15
in advance, you're like stressed before you go and there's there's all of those
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things. Yeah, or if you like can sales, it's like, wow,
24:21
you can take time off, but you know you're you're losing money every
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day you're not there. So it's like you gotta pay for the vacation and
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you gotta pay for the money you're not making. But it is still nice.
24:30
I mean, is there like a hot spot for a vacation time period
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for you like me? Yeah? Well I think living here, Like for
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me, it's always been like March and then like you know the wind the
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October, oh boy, and like how many days like three days, five
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days? I mean, I think we can all agree bike we're gonna well,
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you don't want me to talk about what the good months are. Maybe
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somebody's listening to geniality. Somebody's just got to earth today. But I don't
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know what the months to take time off are. I just help them.
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So you're welcome, Thank you so much. Here's what you don't want to
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do. Go in the middle of the summer. Those are times you don't
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want to be going see and I'm the opposite, like for me, ideal
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vacation day. This is gonna shock Youpike. I know you're not used to
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it, but in the summer, taking a Monday off, well yeah,
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you know late girl. Of course, you know, like a Monday Tuesday
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kind of situation. So you get that long weekend, but you still it's
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not a full week. You're able to like get your work done kind of
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touch base do. But you can enjoy a couple of days. Yeah,
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you know, I like just a long weekend. Oh but then again,
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it's like this post vacation burnout we're talking about, Like if you go to
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Vegas for a long weekend, like coming back you refreshed. Is the furthest
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thing from what you are. Yeah, I mean, if you're going to
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Vegas Nashville doing a crazy weekend, you have to take an extra day.
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Yeah, but people got days off falling out their rear. But I feel
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like you just have to find that balance. For example, we're taking an
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eleven day trip this summer and that's the longest one I've ever done, And
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that to me is like, I don't you know, what do you do
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with yourself? That's a long time because this is an out of country trip.
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So the time change, all of that. Have you looked into,
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like when you're coming back, do you think you're gonna need some time?
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I did take the day after coming back because yeah, we're going to Italy
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and so we're talking about the time change yesterday. How do you what is
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the time change different? It's like six hours ahead there. So like if
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let's say it's eight am here, it's probably two pm there. You know
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you're gonna be much given me up all hours of the night there. It's
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gonna be weird. We're going to what Thenver next week? Denver? Oh,
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good old mountain time. But with the time change and then another time,
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you know what I'm saying, it's going to be interesting how our kids
26:30
adapt to all of that. Does it even it out? How does that
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work? Like if you're going back to the mountain time, it's an hour.
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Maybe you're springing forward. I think that cancels out. I think you're
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doing a little plus one minus one. This might work in our favor.
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Just stay there for a while, wait till the kids. You want me,
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you want me to are you? Should? I be picking up what
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you're putting on a bunch of pack