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Is It Too Late Now To Say Sorry? · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: It's Almost Fair podcast. I'm here today with Bob Guiney.
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  Speaker 2: We're in Carmel, California, hanging out at the Pebble Beach
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  Speaker 2: Pro Am.
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  Speaker 3: It's a wonderful place.
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  Speaker 2: It's great, buddy, a beautiful place, and I'm here with
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  Speaker 2: a wonderful fella.
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  Speaker 3: Five years, right, how many how many years have we
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  Speaker 3: been doing this? I bet it's been Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I bet if we look back at six, five or
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  Speaker 2: six years, I've missed one.
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  Speaker 3: And you covered that was a dark day. I did
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  Speaker 3: not like that week.
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  Speaker 2: It was it wasn't as fun, right, not at all.
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  Speaker 2: What is your favorite thing about coming up here?
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  Speaker 4: I you know, I will say there are a lot
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  Speaker 4: of a lot of things I love about this trip.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I love going to the Preserve, which we
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  Speaker 4: got a chance to play, which I didn't even realize
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  Speaker 4: was one of the top one hundred and fifteen courses
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  Speaker 4: in the in the world.
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  Speaker 3: I think it will hit top one hundred even next year.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, it is it is something else. Granted it was
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  Speaker 4: you know, down horror of rain, a deluge of rain.
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  Speaker 4: But I love going there. I love when the whole
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  Speaker 4: iHeart team comes up and meets us for dinner and
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  Speaker 4: we just get to kind of have a big kumbayah
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  Speaker 4: you know experience, And that, to me is probably one
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  Speaker 4: of the main highlights. That and just the hang factory
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  Speaker 4: that we get to have where we get to be
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  Speaker 4: in the same place for a couple of days and
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  Speaker 4: not really have a bunch of stuff pulling us all
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  Speaker 4: over the place.
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  Speaker 2: I would also add, and I think I've added this
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  Speaker 2: this week a couple of times. Everybody's curious about Carmel
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  Speaker 2: by the Sea, like if they haven't heard of it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I would highly recommend you making the trip here. Oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, yes, like golf, not golf, just the views.
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  Speaker 2: I walk the beach two days ago and saw like
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  Speaker 2: twenty dolphins and otter. I know there's whales out there
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  Speaker 2: somewhere close somewhere out there.
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  Speaker 3: It's that good old ocean. Yeah, can't.
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  Speaker 4: My wife loves it so much that when she was
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  Speaker 4: when she was sick and couldn't come the like literal
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  Speaker 4: depression that she felt by missing this weekend. Yeah I
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  Speaker 4: say weekend, but missing these couple days. She looks forward
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  Speaker 4: to it every year.
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  Speaker 2: It although this is so much fun because everybody's together.
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  Speaker 2: I think a couple strip up here with like a
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  Speaker 2: wine by the fire, yeah, kind of hang out, a
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  Speaker 2: nice walk in the beach, like that would be the
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  Speaker 2: way to do this trip. If it wasn't all of
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  Speaker 2: us together, that would be like, that's this vibe is
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  Speaker 2: like read a book, hang out in a sweater.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, have a glass, always a sweater. It's sweater weather,
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  Speaker 4: which I'm a big fan of sweather. I will tell
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  Speaker 4: you years and years ago, I came to Carmel and
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  Speaker 4: I stayed in a little cabin downtown. Yeah, and my
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  Speaker 4: my funny part of my memory is I lit a
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  Speaker 4: fire in my little fireplace and I apparently thought I
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  Speaker 4: was opening the flute, yeah, of the chimney, and I
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  Speaker 4: closed it, so I filled my room with smoke.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that was That wasn't great.
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  Speaker 4: But I just remember that whole time I was here,
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  Speaker 4: just thinking, God, this has to be one of the
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  Speaker 4: most beautiful places in the world.
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  Speaker 3: It's so romantic.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of romance, listeners, tune your ears in. We can
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  Speaker 2: officially announce the biggest announcement to come through The Bachelor
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  Speaker 2: in at least the last twelve hours. Yes, Bob Guinea
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  Speaker 2: is confirmed for the twenty twenty six November sixteenth through
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  Speaker 2: the twentieth Yes Bachelor Nation Vacation Sea Cruise.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so excited. I will tell you I was
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  Speaker 4: a hard sell on this one at first because it
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  Speaker 4: is my ten year wedding anniversary week.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and so how did we make this decision? I
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  Speaker 3: don't know if that's opening here. I decided I told
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  Speaker 3: my wife.
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  Speaker 4: I said, well, we get to go on a cruise,
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  Speaker 4: and you know how much I love to be on
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  Speaker 4: a cruise ship, which I do.
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  Speaker 3: Not, But I, you know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know how I saw it, but I was
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  Speaker 4: basically like, let's do it. It'll be a fun thing
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  Speaker 4: to do. It's our ten year wedding anniversary. We'll go
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  Speaker 4: do something fun on a boat and we'll go to
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  Speaker 4: Dominican Republic with a bunch of people we've never met.
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  Speaker 3: And she's like, that sounds amazing. She's such a.
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  Speaker 4: Social butterfly that this is just right up her alley.
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  Speaker 4: But I will say this, I also have a big announcement,
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  Speaker 4: and this is easily the biggest piece of news in
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  Speaker 4: Bachelor Nation that we have heard in the last twenty seconds.
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  Speaker 4: Ben Higgins the one and only Benjamin Higgins will be
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  Speaker 4: hosting co hosting a scream along Wow screening with comedian
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  Speaker 4: Jared Freed.
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  Speaker 3: You know what that is?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you guys, ladies and gentlemen. Get
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  Speaker 4: your tickets now, don't miss out.
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  Speaker 3: You know, no purchase. You know what that is? A
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  Speaker 3: scream along?
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  Speaker 4: I believe it's when Jared watches an episode of the
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  Speaker 4: show and screams at his television.
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  Speaker 3: That's that. I guess what if.
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  Speaker 2: The actual would I agreed to was I sit like
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  Speaker 2: up on stage in a chair and Jared just screaming
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  Speaker 2: to me.
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  Speaker 4: I think that'd be helpful because you're not You're not
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  Speaker 4: a super big screamer.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not a very angry here.
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  Speaker 4: No, So I couldn't see you really like taking the
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  Speaker 4: acoustic approach to the show.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe it would be nice for Jared just to yell
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  Speaker 3: at you.
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  Speaker 2: I do feel like if somebody let me loose, though,
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  Speaker 2: and they're like, hey, we just need you to like
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  Speaker 2: make fun of the show and scream at it, I
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  Speaker 2: think I could take it too far.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I think you because you know how the how
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  Speaker 4: the sausage is made, you know, you might be like
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  Speaker 4: that is totally a producer tampering with this poor lady.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah scream along with Jared Freed, Bob Giddy is going
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  Speaker 2: to be on the cruise.
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  Speaker 3: Ship.
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  Speaker 2: Tickets are on sale now at Bachelornation Vacation at seed
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  Speaker 2: dot com. Again, that's Bachelornation Vacation at seed dot com.
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  Speaker 2: Fans can book a cabin now for just one hundred
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  Speaker 2: dollars down per person until March twelfth. The cruise is
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  Speaker 2: again November sixteenth through the twentieth of twenty twenty six.
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  Speaker 3: I don't see a deal in here.
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  Speaker 2: I'm assuming at some point though, if a fans want
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  Speaker 2: to book a cabin with you, they can.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh yeah, without a question.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I was gonna say, I'm looking down
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  Speaker 4: here at some of the cast members and some epic
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  Speaker 4: theme parties activities including pizza making with Kaylin, workouts with
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  Speaker 4: Tyler Cameron. I mean, I might even sign up for that. Actually, though,
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  Speaker 4: this next one is why I really want to do
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  Speaker 4: paint and SIPs with Justin Glaze. I am a huge
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  Speaker 4: painter and sipper. Yeah, and then it says Ben and Bob,
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  Speaker 4: fans get a chance to hang out with both of you,
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  Speaker 4: So that'll be my.
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  Speaker 3: At That literally is what it says.
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  Speaker 4: Albeit, the all you can eat buffet just pound and carbs.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you get those crab legs coming in. Yeah, greasy
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  Speaker 2: fingers and greasy mouth and bob food and.
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  Speaker 3: Basic beverages are included in the cabin fair. What a
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  Speaker 3: deal say?
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  Speaker 2: A sail away party hosted by the Master of Ceremonies,
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  Speaker 2: Jesse Palmer, will be held. This is going to be
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  Speaker 2: when the entire ship, guest and talent come together to
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  Speaker 2: celebrate the start of the most dramatic cruise ever.
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  Speaker 3: I hope not.
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  Speaker 4: I was gonna say, yeah that is if that's the
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  Speaker 4: way to sell this, that'd be awful. A dramatic cruise
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  Speaker 4: would not be up my alley. Yeah, I'd rather just
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  Speaker 4: just be a good time, all right. On other headlines,
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  Speaker 4: congratulations again, bob On.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you buddy to make the cruse during your tenyre
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  Speaker 2: wedding anniversary.
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  Speaker 3: It seems like a bag.
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  Speaker 4: Well, you know, you're you're you're very giving of your time.
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  Speaker 4: I mean today's a very special day in your life
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  Speaker 4: as well.
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  Speaker 2: It's when he's first birthday. Yes, I am going to
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  Speaker 2: fly home for it, as you should.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely should.
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  Speaker 2: And one too, But you know, being here in Carmel
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  Speaker 2: and and recording all these shows and talking is a
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  Speaker 2: valuable and important thing. But it's time for me to
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  Speaker 2: get home, yes, sir, to celebrate one year of life
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  Speaker 2: with my sweet seek girl.
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  Speaker 3: That's awesome. Congratulations and happy birthday.
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  Speaker 2: Winning This is a big headline, Bob. I know you've
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  Speaker 2: been falling along with this story pretty closely. But during
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  Speaker 2: Paradise this year, one of the couples to come out
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  Speaker 2: of Paradise cat is Oh.
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  Speaker 3: And Dale Moss.
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  Speaker 2: They met in Paradise. We got to interview them at
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  Speaker 2: the Bachelor and Paradise reunion, and I think it's pretty
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  Speaker 2: clear anyboy listens. Ashley and myself were very hesitant to
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  Speaker 2: think that this was a relationship that could work, based
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  Speaker 2: on the fact that they had a lot of turmoil
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  Speaker 2: during Paradise. Yeah, and we met them in person, or
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  Speaker 2: I met them in person, and I came back and
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  Speaker 2: I called Ashley and I said, Hey, I actually think
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  Speaker 2: they might work.
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  Speaker 3: Like I can see it.
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  Speaker 2: They're both humans who are passionate, They're both humans who
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  Speaker 2: communicate very openly. Yes, but there is always going to
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  Speaker 2: be that tension. But if tension works for them, like,
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  Speaker 2: if it's a very passionate tension, maybe it could work right.
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  Speaker 3: Not shipping in as saying this is going to be
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  Speaker 3: the thing, but it could work well. To everybody's surprise.
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  Speaker 2: Just a few months ago, the cat pretty much announced
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  Speaker 2: that hey, har and Dale had none and it did
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  Speaker 2: not end well.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I saw some headlines that she uh, she was spilling
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  Speaker 4: the tea I believe the kids say today and and
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  Speaker 4: that was kind of I also learned another term last
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  Speaker 4: night that I really liked.
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  Speaker 3: Riz.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know that I liked that one, but
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  Speaker 4: they both had they both have some riz.
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  Speaker 2: They both have rizz. They're both being attractive. But they
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  Speaker 2: did break up and she did spill the tea on
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  Speaker 2: the Bachelor Happy Hour podcast. You can also listen to
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  Speaker 2: Almost Famous podcast where Kat stepped on with Ashley and
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  Speaker 2: kind of broke down the relationship. It did not end well.
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  Speaker 2: But here's some big announcement. Here's some big news. Kat
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  Speaker 2: Izzo has officially launched a new relationship with her doctor boyfriend.
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  Speaker 2: It might be Bob why she has been so open
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  Speaker 2: about the past with Dale. I think it's easier to
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  Speaker 2: be open about that probably if you know that you
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  Speaker 2: are already in a committed relationship everybody else.
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  Speaker 4: Probably helps that the dude is not affiliated with bachel Nation. Yes, right,
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  Speaker 4: I mean that allows her to kind of speak freely
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  Speaker 4: and not worry about, you know, alienating maybe some of
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  Speaker 4: her and Dale's couple friends if they had a bunch
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  Speaker 4: it says.
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  Speaker 3: Her quote is this.
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  Speaker 2: It's really scary, she said, because I actually like him
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  Speaker 2: and he actually likes me too, which is crazy. Usually
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  Speaker 2: my type is a man that doesn't like me. Come on,
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  Speaker 2: come on. Kat continued to reveal that her new man
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  Speaker 2: is a doctor. He came into my life and it
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  Speaker 2: just happened so authentically, very emotionally available, perfect age. He's
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  Speaker 2: a doctor. Again, just just just double quote that he's
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  Speaker 2: a doctor. We nerd out a lot. We share so
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  Speaker 2: much in our worlds where I've never been able to
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  Speaker 2: date someone that actually understands my world and I get
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  Speaker 2: theirs and we've grown together from that. But I feel
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  Speaker 2: like with how I've been treated, I feel like I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to be healed through him in a way. He's
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  Speaker 2: teaching me I love myself. It keeps going. If it
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  Speaker 2: keeps going the way it is, that's heavy. That is
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  Speaker 2: I've never been able to date someone that actually understands
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  Speaker 2: my world. She's in the health professions, medical field, but
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  Speaker 2: she has officially soft launched her boyfriend and a new
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  Speaker 2: post on social media.
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  Speaker 3: Good for her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always nice to see somebody smiling in a picture.
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  Speaker 3: I think so too.
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  Speaker 4: You know what, There's somebody out there for everybody, and
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  Speaker 4: you know, I think, I think sometimes people get caught
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  Speaker 4: up in the drama of the shows and that can
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  Speaker 4: become a vicious circle for them. And good to see
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  Speaker 4: her hopping off of that hopping off of that train,
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  Speaker 4: hopping off that cruise ship.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, we'll have to find out.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe he is is her doctor boyfriend coming, I hope,
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  Speaker 4: so we would need a doctor in the house because
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  Speaker 4: I might get seasick.
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  Speaker 2: Sally Carson says Southern Charms Austin Kroll deserves public apology
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  Speaker 2: after Vile Files drama.
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  Speaker 3: Bob, are you following?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 3: I am? I mean Sally?
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  Speaker 4: I remember her from Clayton season and now she's on
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  Speaker 4: Bravo's Southern Charm is coming to Austin's defense, calling from
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  Speaker 4: More Accountability from the Vile Files podcast after an awkward
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  Speaker 4: interview involving her co star and his family. Sally said
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  Speaker 4: it honestly kind of broke my heart for him.
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  Speaker 3: I did not.
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  Speaker 4: Catch this podcast, but she said she called them to
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  Speaker 4: make sure he was okay.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not entirely sure what it was that occurred.
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  Speaker 2: We covered this story Bob on the Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 2: a few weeks ago. They did sit down an interview
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  Speaker 2: with Austin Kroll, and if I remember it correctly, Austin
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  Speaker 2: had a traumatic event in his childhood where he lost
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  Speaker 2: a sibling. Oh gosh, Austin's sibling fell off a cliff
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  Speaker 2: in front of Austin, and the interview, from what we
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  Speaker 2: broke down just they kind of push Austin to speak
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  Speaker 2: about it, and you can tell he's very uncomfortable during
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  Speaker 2: the interview. And the backlash has been fairly substantial from it.
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  Speaker 2: And so I think what Sally's saying, and I didn't
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  Speaker 2: know it hadn't happened, I guess would be that the
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  Speaker 2: file files needs to publicly apologize because it got out
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  Speaker 2: of hand. I think it's one of those moments where
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  Speaker 2: you don't realize. I feel like maybe they should have. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: But and if they did realize it, then that's a
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  Speaker 2: different story. But they just didn't realize how far out
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  Speaker 2: of hand it was getting and how uncomfortable Austin was.
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  Speaker 2: And I think as a result Sally saying, Hey, you
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  Speaker 2: should apologize this guy. That's a tough, a tough thing
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  Speaker 2: to talk about, especially in a public setting without.
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  Speaker 4: Like, at least without even asking like, hey, are you
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  Speaker 4: okay if we bring this up? Or it looks like
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  Speaker 4: they did reach out and privately apologize, but Sally's Sally's
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  Speaker 4: saying that they should do it.
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  Speaker 2: And Sally was on the show. Yeah, Clayton season of
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  Speaker 2: The Bachelor. If you remember Bob, she self eliminated. That
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  Speaker 2: was Sally, Yeah, during the first episode.
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  Speaker 4: I've often thought about that move, the the self elimination move,
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  Speaker 4: like when people pull it.
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  Speaker 3: Thankfully no one did it on my.
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  Speaker 4: Season because I would have been I had three people
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  Speaker 4: do it, did you really?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: They bounced like crazy and they met me and they said,
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  Speaker 2: I'm out.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I feel like that's a it's a little
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  Speaker 4: bit of attention grab maybe like you know, I'm I'm
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  Speaker 4: out of here and you and you might do it.
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  Speaker 4: Some might do it because they think they're not going
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  Speaker 4: to get a rose, and so they'll be like, I'm
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  Speaker 4: out of here, and then others might do it because
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  Speaker 4: they genuinely just aren't feeling a connection.
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  Speaker 3: But it happened very like it was in the first episode,
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  Speaker 3: how you feel in anything.
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  Speaker 2: Yet, Well, they felt nothing, and they said, I'm gone.
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  Speaker 2: They're like, I don't even care enough to spend the
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  Speaker 2: night in this bachelor mansion.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Yeah it happened. I think I set
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  Speaker 3: a record.
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  Speaker 2: Hannah Aunt opens up about post part of mental health
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  Speaker 2: and navigating motherhood without childcare. This, Bob, I mean, you
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  Speaker 2: have your boys, obviously, we just spoke about. Uh, Winona.
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  Speaker 2: You prepped so much. I remember so many of the
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  Speaker 2: words of love and advice and care that you gave
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  Speaker 2: me as we're prepping for Wenona to enter this world.
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  Speaker 2: The one thing that nobody ever spoke to me about,
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  Speaker 2: and I wish they would have, is this postpartum serial.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Uh.
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  Speaker 3: And I read this headline.
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  Speaker 2: I'll let you break down kind of the bullet points here,
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  Speaker 2: but I read the headline and all I want to
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  Speaker 2: tell Hannah Anna is like, to speak to my wife
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  Speaker 2: because you're not alone.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, speak to my wife too. Yeah. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: mean I think I think it's pretty common.
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  Speaker 4: And I think, you know, and I and I actually,
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  Speaker 4: you know, I get it, like when people go through
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  Speaker 4: child birth. Me, you got the gout, the dad's got
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  Speaker 4: you know, we're hanging out for the nine months that
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  Speaker 4: our wives are are you know, creating this life, you know,
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  Speaker 4: and it's and it's taking such a toll on their
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  Speaker 4: bodies and on their self image and on and their's
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  Speaker 4: and on everything, on their hormones, on their hormones, and
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  Speaker 4: then and then they deliver the child. And then especially
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  Speaker 4: you know, I noticed for for for my wife, it
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  Speaker 4: probably happened a little bit more after the second child actually,
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: where she just felt, you know, she didn't have a
• 16:23
  Speaker 4: good self image anymore, like she thought she was, you know,
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: all she was like in her mind, she was like
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: she lost herself in the process. And and and it's
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: a tough thing to deal with.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: And then, you know, I'm.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: Such a glasses half full person that I think sometimes
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: I might not be as sensitive to what's happening in
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: those moments as as I need to be. And so
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: you kind of go back and you're like, oh, my gosh,
• 16:46
  Speaker 4: I could have handled this better, you know, So I
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: get it. And then the childcare thing, you know, let's
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: let's just be honest. I mean, that's that's been a
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: huge challenge for for my family in that, you know,
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: we we interviewed and moved in three different O pairs
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: when I was traveling so much for like dealer and
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: no deal and stuff, and that was a disaster. And
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: then you know, couldn't really you know, my parents were older,
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: and my dad had passed away when our second son
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: was born, and my mom wasn't always in the greatest health,
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: and my family's very busy with their businesses and things
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: of that nature, so we had to find help. And then,
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: sure enough, that's never reliable, right because no one cares
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: them much about your family as you do. Yeah, so
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: you know, something better came up, they'd cancel on the
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: eleventh hour, and your left hold in the bag.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: You know. So a lot of that stuff really does
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: take its toll. It does.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: And I do think again, because it hasn't been something
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: that people talk about. I do think it's always helpful
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: when somebody with Hannah Ann's status opens up, Yeah, kind
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: of opens up the door for others to say, yeah,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: me too, and hey, let's talk about this, because I
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: do know it can be it can feel like a
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: very lonely time where you don't understand yourself and you
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: feel like nobody else understands you. And then, as she mentions,
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: here without childcare, so you're taking care of a baby.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: You're on your hands knees all day. You know, you're
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: trying to figure out oh, adult interaction. Yeah, it's tough,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: it is, but hand hand if you listen, you know,
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: And I hope that helps absolutely. Ali Fittotowski Manno gets
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: candid about cosmetic surgery, botox and more.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, this looks like Ali has been keeping her fans
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: updated with her life online. Relocated to Santiago.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't know that.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: I think we heard that, but I think we knew
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: it was like something was happening. I didn't know that
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: was actually a thing that they chose a city.
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so she she was answering some fan questions on
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: her Instagram page.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: Always a slippery slope. I've never done it because I
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: don't want to be held accountable.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: You know, you wouldn't be honest about that, No, god, no,
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: oh no, I just want to hide behind uh the
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: you know, the high I honestly don't know how I
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: would even receive the questions.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: I don't either.
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: I'm so bad at all social media that if someone
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: were to send me a question, I'd be like, the
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: hell they.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: It's one of a fear. It's one of the fears
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: I have.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Like if I'm at like a brand thing, or I'm
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: sitting somewhere there like hey.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: Will you jump on and just answer some fan questions
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: on your Instagram?
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: I would have to say yes, I will will do
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: that if you can do it for me, if you
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: can show me how to make it happen.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: I do that a lot.
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: Actually, So it looks like Ali was asked some questions
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: about botox or facial plastic surgery. She said, yes, I
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: get botox. I get it in my forehead and around
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: my eyes and above my upper lip. Well, that's pretty specific.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: Ali continued to explain more about her botox procedures and
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: why she gets it. It's called a lip flip, where
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: it makes your lip look more full by flipping it out. God,
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: that sounds painful. It makes your smile look less gummy.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: Don't you think like a lip flip you would like
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: probably leak a little bit when you're drinking water.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: I Oh, I definitely would whenever I go to the
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: dentist and I've had the numbing stuff.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: I'm a hot mess. Yeah, I mean I've fallen out.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: I missed my mouth with like a drink very often. Anyways,
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: you flip this lip up and you give me less
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: surface here to.
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: A Yeah, it's gonna be a hot mess. She has
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: not had any plastic surgery on her face. She has
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: thought about it. I was gonna say, she doesn't look
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: like she's had anywhere now. I think she's always been
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: a really, really pretty person. And not not that that matters,
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: but I've always thought she was pretty.
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: And didn't need to have anything done. But you know,
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: I get it.
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: I mean everything that I'm reading about here scares me,
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: like flipping my lip, bluffing my eye. But I know
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: that it makes people look good and feel good, so
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: God bless them.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: Go for it. It just does. It sounds painful, it does.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, everything sounds painful to me, though, I'm not gonna lie.
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: And whenever I think about, you know, anything, from going
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: to the dentist to getting blood drawn, I get a
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: little stressed out.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: I'm with you, Bob. It was a pleasure, always a blast.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: We'll see you in November on The Bachelor Nation Vacationist
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: cruise tickets are on sale now a Bachelor Nation Vacation
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: at seed dot com. Fans can book a cabin now
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: for just one hundred dollars down per person until March twelfth.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Again. The cruise is November sixteenth through the twentieth of
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: twenty twenty six.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's gonna be something special, and I'm excited to
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: have you there.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: I'm excited that you'll be there as well, and I'm
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: excited that I'll be there with you. And I think
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: most of our crew that has been here will be there.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, So you know, I was gonna say I
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: I had such a Dean as funny dude.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Oh. I walked back to my room last night.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: I was thinking, I was like, you know, I've hung
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: out with Dean at these events, but man, he is
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: really funny. And and that segment we did last night
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: with him was I thought he was hysterical.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: Dean is funny, and he gets on tangents and they're
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: if you dig in, you're like, they're brilliant, because Dean
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: is brilliant.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: They also sometimes like you don't know where it's.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: Gonna spit out.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but you're like, Okay, what he was saying
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: is real and true and it's a good point.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's got to kind.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Of yeah, you just got to weigh the waters down
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: to the to the very end and you're like, okay, yeah,
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: I mean he's he's a blast. Yeah, he's a joy
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: to be around and always has been, always will be.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: I love this crew.
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: I've had a wonderful time and I loved I loved
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: that We've been back here so many times and hopefully
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: we get to do it again next year.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Have fun at the Pebble Beach pro Am today a
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: teens Pebble Beach pro Am, enjoy walking the majestic links
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: that are the property that is Pebble Beach is iconic
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: in golf and it's just a wonderful walk. We'll be
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: back soon with more Almost Famous content. Until next time,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: I've been Ben, I've been Bob. Oh, that was good,
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: thanks man, I went a little more high endry.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's good.
• 22:46
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