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EP- 26 - How to Navigate Hotel Takeovers (W/ Chris Minx. Dimitri and Tina from Splash Mocha) · The Bull Brotherhood

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Guys will see me a dick pic as if that's the
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entry in here. And that's the old fuck no. That's
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the old fuck no. Instant block. I get them too.
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Yes. So think about it. I get them from single
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females as well. Yes. What? Yeah. Trying to sell
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somebody or what? No. Asking me, sends me a picture
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of their crotch going, so do you think I'm a
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good fit for the event? Yeah. My answer to that
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is no, I'm sorry. Let me tell a story really
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quick about what my single friend does with dick
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pics. She says, thank you for that. I will be
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sending it to the next guy that sends me a dick
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Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood podcast, where
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Let's go. Welcome to another episode of the Bull
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Brotherhood podcast. I'm one third of your hosting
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team, Siren from the Siren of Freedom podcast.
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We are recording live from Splash Mocha, Houston.
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And Brian Morgan cannot be with us, so I get
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the honor of introducing our guest today. We
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have, of course, my hubby Socrates. Hey, everybody.
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And today on our panel, we're going to be discussing
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how to navigate hotel takeovers. And we have
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Chris Minx. Hello, everybody. And the lovely
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Tina, who runs this shit. Hey, guys. And Dimitri,
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head honcho of security, hugs, and telling it
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like it is. Good afternoon, everybody. All right.
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So I'm going to turn it back over to Socrates
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and we'll get this thing going. How's everybody
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doing today? So we have we do have an audience
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here. So we just want to welcome everybody that
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came in to see us. And we have a really, really
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great panel here. And so our topic today is how
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to navigate just any hotel takeover in the lifestyle.
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Right. So there's a lot of. Things you want to
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consider, you know, interacting with the promotions
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company for, in this example, Splash Mocha, right?
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What their rules are, what their expectations
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of you are, what you can expect from them and
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how to do that. We could talk about that. And
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then there's people in the community. If you're
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a couple, if you're a bull, or if you're a single
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guy or a single girl, whatever it is, how do
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you navigate from that perspective, right? From
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a husband's perspective, who might be a stag,
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how do you navigate? Or a cuck, or you're just
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a swinger couple. And then there's obviously
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the people you interact with. So we don't have
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to keep it in those categories, but that's how
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I kind of look at it. So I just want to start
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in general and say to everybody, what do you
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think the things that you need to first start
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thinking of when you've picked? From this point,
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you've picked somewhere like Splash Mocha to
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go to. It's a hotel takeover. You're going to
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spend a couple of days locked in the hotel doing
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your thing. What do you think, Dimitri, like
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what's the first thing you should really start
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thinking of if you want to have a good time?
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Well, what I do is I let everybody know in detail
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this is a hot wife convention. Hot wife convention.
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What separates us from everybody is that it's
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more centered around the single man. Our courses
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say Splash Mocha, so preferably, you know, men
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of color, but we don't discriminate against anyone.
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But the main thing I try to tell couples are
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to have those hard conversations. You know, ask
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the questions that you think about or what you
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may feel, because I don't want you to come through
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those doors and you don't have a good time or
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have any good experiences. And then you go home
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angry and bitter with each other. And also, I
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don't want to give out too much. No. I'll stop
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right there and I'll come back. Tina, I'd love
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to hear from you. What do you think? Well, in
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regards to Splash Mocha, what I like to tell
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people is on our website, we have a membership
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program where people can sign up, kind of like
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SDC, Cassidy, get a premium membership. And what
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that will do, that will put you in our chat groups
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right on our website. And then you can start
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chatting with guests who are already Splash Mocha
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minded, especially in the hot wife lifestyle.
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And then once you make a reservation at whatever
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hotel, then when that reservation is made, you're
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put into that specific party chat group. So you
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can start chatting with these people, start making
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your connections. And then if you're brand new,
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especially to the Splash Mocha game, you're brand
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new, I tell guests, step outside of your box
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just a little bit and introduce yourself. Let
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them know you're brand new to this event. Splash
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Mocha guests, I can't speak for other events,
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but Splash Mocha guests love meeting brand new
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folks. And the reason being, they get to see
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the party all over again, brand new through your
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eyes. Because they're sharing your experiences
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and they will introduce you to a whole host of
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different people. Next thing you know, you've
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got a whole bunch of brand new friends that you're
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probably going to remain friends with once you
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leave this event. Yeah, I like that. And I was
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thinking that myself, like if I was to give that
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advice, I would say get on there and. Get to
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know the people, interact if you can. Because
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you're going to make those connections before
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you arrive. You're going to share photos. It
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doesn't have to be X -rated. It can just be face
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photos. And then those people you've made connections
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with online and in the chat groups, you're going
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to meet them face -to -face here. And you'll
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already have something in common to talk about.
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What do you think, Mo? So we always liken the
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Splash Mocha Party as one of the elite parties.
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And it's usually not a... first timer to the
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lifestyle event, right? The couples that come
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to Splash Mocha usually have had that walk through
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their journey into the lifestyle. They've done
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the swapping. They've done, now they're moving
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into the hot wifing thing. It becomes that you've
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had those early conversations, you know, your
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dynamic and your relationship. So then when it's
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like, we're going to go to Splash Mocha, the
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chat room, and you don't have to chat. That's
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very intimidating. A lot of people, I don't know
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what to say. My wife, hot wife, Angel Minx, she
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is horrible at text chatting she doesn't think
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and text it out very well what she's making but
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sitting and watching the dynamic and just reading
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the interaction of people starts to give you
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that idea the other piece to it is as any subculture
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there is a different terminology within that
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subculture that you can start to learn by watching
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these conversations and understanding the different
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dynamics what your dynamic you might even not
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even have defined your dynamic yet so Getting
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that piece of education, doing the research,
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if you will, before you come to the event kind
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of eases that comfort level coming in. Now, I
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say all that to advanced couples. There was an
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Atlanta mocha. To be honest, this is Angel and
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I's 15th Splash Mocha since 2022. My wife's addicted
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to this product, right, to this staff because
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it is a true family. And that's what even first
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-timers come in, they get that. But we were at
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this Atlanta mocha. And a couple came in in their
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early 60s. They had never done anything lifestyle
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in their life. They had never done a swap. The
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only people they'd had sex with was each other
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in 30 plus years of marriage. And their first
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party was a splash mocha party. They had been
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listening to podcasts. They had been doing the
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research. They were just both mentally on that
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point that this was where they wanted to jump
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in. And I'm like, we're looking at one. You jumped
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into the deepest end of the pool you possibly
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could have. Not to interrupt, there were two
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couples at that party on that same page. Really?
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And they've been ever since. And it was at the
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end of the weekend, because they came, they listened
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to the podcast at the end of the weekend. They
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came up, were hugging us, hugging all of the
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staff, said this was a transformative weekend
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for us. They didn't play with anybody. But she
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got flogged in the S &M room. She was just emotionally
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overcome. And then they came to everybody afterwards.
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And it's like, we did something really good,
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right? These guys put on something really good
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that changed this couple's dynamic forever. So
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the research, that's my biggest thing. Coming
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to these, getting ready for it, doing the research
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ahead of time. No ditty, but it turns me on when
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a man says research. I'm sorry. I'm that much
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of a nerd. I was going to say, you really are
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a nerd, aren't you? Ask her. I have apps just
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for research. I have AI just, and I'll talk to
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it for hours. I want you to know, what can you
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tell me about the universe and how it connects
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to Adlerian psychology? And she's just like,
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oh my goodness, just go talk to your girlfriend.
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Siren, I want to, I really want, I got a few
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questions, but I want to hear from you. I think.
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you know, if you're a couple coming together,
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it's important to talk about, even if you don't
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know what to expect, like, but hopefully you
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should have some expectations because, you know,
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of doing the research first, you know, I mean,
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what to expect expectations, but listing out
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together, like what your do's and don'ts might
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be. And then just having those communication
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breaks throughout the day, like. I've learned
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that I need like more communication breaks. Like
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I need some structure to my splash mocha. I can't
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just be running all over the place. So you learn
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through going like what specifically works for
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you and doesn't work for you. But just making
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sure with your partner, if you're coming with
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your husband or your wife, like what your guidelines
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are for each other. And then after action report,
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make sure after the event that you get together
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and you spend time like dissecting how it went
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for you and what you liked, what you didn't like,
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what you want to do different next time. I like
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that. And I want you to talk about your first
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experience here. So I'm going to share a little
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bit. So when I first came, I when I was like,
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OK, I'm going to take you here. I'm going to,
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you know. Have you experienced this? I thought
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it was 100%. You have to be a single man, and
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that's it. And it's just going to be a bunch
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of black vultures. I might sound terrible. I
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don't mean to disrespect nobody. But that's what
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I thought. So I was like, okay, I'm ready to
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fight. And I wanted to have a good time. So I
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can go. So when we went, and it wasn't until
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we had the men's meeting. I was like, oh, my
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goodness. This is phenomenal. Because they're.
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holding people accountable before it really even
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gets going. You know what I mean? And so with
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you, that was it for me. And then later on, I
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found out, oh, I can have some fun here too.
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But for you, I want you to talk about your nerves
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all the way up to it and kind of like how we
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first got, you know, how I had to kind of like.
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sit you down. Like, I love that stuff. Are you
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going to tell it or am I? Well, the first mistake
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we made was coming in on Thursday instead of
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Wednesday, because that's not giving me any time
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to like acclimate to the environment. And especially
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from where we live, where there isn't much diversity.
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I felt a lot like that time in Vegas when I walked
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into club rehab and there was just like all these
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black guys and I was like, I have died and gone
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to heaven. And I was with my friend and I grabbed
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her arm and I was like, how does this work? Do
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I choose them? Do they choose me? And I felt
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a lot like that same feeling, but knowing that
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I was going to get to choose more than one. So
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I had talked to probably like 30 guys ahead of
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time. I didn't play with a single one of them.
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And that's often how it can work. But it still
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is good to chat because it still gives you some
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comfortability with people in general. But when
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I walked in Thursday afternoon and like kind
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of there was already you guys know there's like
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already so many people here on Wednesday. Then
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to walk in on Thursday, my jaw was just on the
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floor. And then I was just frozen. And he's like,
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go talk to people like you've been talking to
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these guys. I said, I can't. And I went and sat,
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it was Houston, and I went and sat in the corner,
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you know, up there in that kind of that little
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library area. And I just sat in the corner. And
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he's like, go talk to people. This is why we're
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here. I just can't. I can't. And he went and
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got me a drink. And then I, so I had a drink.
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And then I still was like, he's like, what do
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you need? Because we paid a lot of money to be
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here. And I said, I think I need you to just
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take me upstairs. I need you to fuck me real
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good and get me, like, all evened out. And then
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I can come down and be like, oh, okay, hi. You
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know, and I didn't have the name Siren yet at
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that time. So, and then that first one is where
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I got my name. So, yeah. But it was very overwhelming.
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And now we just come in early. And that helps
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a lot. But when you're new and you aren't used
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to that much, you know. beautiful black men in
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one place at one time it's like the same feeling
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of overwhelm what she didn't say is the draw
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the jaw was completely dropped at all times well
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i'm saying through the whole thing well you have
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to to get that those big black they say after
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that you just have to have your dropping for
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other reasons chris like we're both couples right
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we come here as a couple so i love the way you
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like your perspectives on things so like talk
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tell people like what do you think the husband
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and the couple, and it'd be general, it'd be
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a couple, stack vixen, whatever. What's their
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perspective? What should they go into as a mindset?
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Well, first of all, my wife and I are a stack
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vixen couple primarily. And coming into this,
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it was like, look, this is your vacation. This
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is about you, right? I'm going to be invisible.
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Nobody's going to give me the time of day. I
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don't, you know, I just, I'm there to support
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husband. I'm carrying the bags. I'm making sure
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you look good. I do all that kind of stuff, right?
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Not the case. That is absolutely 100 % not the
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case. The husbands have as much a role in this
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party as any of them. And understanding that
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from our first one to where we are now is a big
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piece of it. Any couple, no matter what your
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dynamic is, you have that set, but it's always
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fluid. And like, maybe I want to push this a
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little bit. Maybe I want to try this a little
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bit. These are the types of environments they
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set that up to have that opportunity to explore
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if you want. Then it's that just be that not
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afraid. to converse. Jaw -dropping, how do I
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even speak to one of these? How do I get it going?
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That's the beauty of this one with all the coaching
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that they do. Maybe you can't, but they've already
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taught the guys all these techniques for just
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making an open approach and non -threatening
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approach, all those things. All of a sudden,
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here's my cute little hot wife and I'm thinking,
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go catch you whatever you want, right? every
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guy's coming up to me hey how you doing what's
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your name what's your deal how's your you know
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making me a part of this thing and i'm like look
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i know you're not here for me but i should respect
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this fact that you're talking to me that you're
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involving me and then it's like hey she's giving
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me the thumbs up or her wink wink our little
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signals right got the baseball game going on
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you know and we're like okay and then He's like,
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come on, dude, you're coming too, right? So you're
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involved in it. Or if your dynamic is not, let
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them go play solo. We've done every variation
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we can kind of think of on this one. Pre -game
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free planning. What do you want? How are you
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going to do it? Who do you want? That kind of
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stuff. So it's just, it's like everything in
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life. You get out of it what you prepare for
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it and then adapt to the variables when they
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come. That's the best part is here's my plan.
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And at the end of the weekend, we ended up all
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the way over here. And no idea how we got there,
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but loved every minute of it. And then I'm calling
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Tina. I'm like, book me for the next one. We're
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late on a permanent payment. After the first
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three, I looked at Wayne. I said, I am not giving
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you every bit of my vacation dollars and my annual
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leave every year. I've got to do something else.
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And yet here you are. Didn't work out. We had
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a wait list for this Houston one because I delayed
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and it sold out while we were in Europe. And
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I come back and, like, get on the meals. It's
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gone. It's sold out. I'm like, oh, my God. Tina?
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Yeah. Put me on the guest list. Literally, he
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called me seconds after the last room was sold
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out. Because somebody made a comment in one of
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his groups, man, gone. And everybody sold it
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out. That's the, I can't think about, Hey, I
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want to go to next year's party. I need to prepay
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and plan for it now. I don't know what I'm doing
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six months, but I need to book my 12 month ahead,
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you know, new year's Eve party or the April,
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you know, Atlanta hotel party, which new hotel
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be told phenomenal. Try Atlanta. Did you book
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it? Oh yeah. Oh yeah. I booked before I came
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here because I know that if I don't book the
18:52
next one before we go to the current one, then
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this will have it sold out. And I don't want
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Socrates to be crying. And suck you. That's unlike
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most of the lifestyle parties that you will see,
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other takeover hotel stuff. Nothing sells out
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and books as fast as this event. So it's one
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of those you have to really pre -plan. And most
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of us aren't thinking that far ahead in our relationship.
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As a husband, I'm like, oh, I really want to
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see her do this with two of these really hunky
19:17
mess. I don't think that far out. So then it's
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like, oh, all right, I got to go. What am I going
19:21
to do next July? OK, I'm going to go to Florida
19:24
now. Why don't you just plan your year around
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it? Well, we're there. I'm there now. You're
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making it too complicated. Another thing I wanted
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to touch on, too, is like you kind of discover
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through going to the different mochas, like what
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you need and. And I'm more of an extroverted
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introvert where I need that time in between to
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recharge from people. This one more than others
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because we went on another trip right before
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this. So if my energy is low, it's because I'm
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just worn out from like 10 straight days of traveling.
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But the last mocha, I decided that I wanted to
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make sure I was going to be who I wanted to be
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with, where I wanted to be, doing what I wanted
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to do at all times, and just make sure that I
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was like, taking care of myself in the experience.
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So it's like, he's off doing his thing. I can
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be off doing my thing. I don't have to be down
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at the party all the time. I can be, I just came
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from a nap. So did Chris. So it's like, you can
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be up taking a nap. You can let your, you know,
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spouse, you know, run wild if that's your dynamic,
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but just being okay with changing what you do
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each time. Like we always have a check -in before
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and after and like, okay, how are we going to
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try to move through this one? And then, you know,
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just making sure that you're being true to yourself
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and like what you need for all of your physical,
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mental and, you know, emotional health during
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the event too. And part of that is understanding
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your dynamic of how you guys like to play. Is
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it individual? Do you like to be there? Do you
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have to be there? Do you play in the room? Do
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you play in the playrooms downstairs or in public?
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Do you like to expose yourself and be watched?
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Or do you like to be private? So then if you
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understand that part of you, then you're prepped
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for it. We like to do fun lights and decorate
21:09
our inside of our room. So it doesn't just look
21:11
like a standard hotel room. We stay in a lot
21:13
of hotel rooms on our travel all year long. So
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for Mocha events, I have an entire suitcase full
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of lights, laser lights, music, speakers, and
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we set a real ambiance. My wife likes to go back
21:24
and play in our room, not so much down in front
21:27
of everybody. So understanding that dynamic,
21:30
we come prepared to have that be our intimate
21:33
space and that be our play space. Like you said,
21:36
what is your needs? And then what are the check
21:39
-ins, check -outs, and how do you play it? We're
21:41
advanced. I like the minks to go run amok. Go
21:44
find what you want. Surprise me. I like to walk
21:47
back into the room after. I'm a side quester,
21:49
if you're familiar with that, right? I always
21:50
got to go. I can't sit still. So it's like, where's
21:52
Chris? Literally have a shirt that says, I'm
21:54
Chris, because they lose me all the time. I side
21:57
quest. But I like side questing, and I come back
21:59
to the room, pop it open, and all of a sudden,
22:01
there she is, bent over the bed, getting roiled.
22:02
And I'm like, ah. Super Bowl hit right there,
22:05
right? Touchdown. So that's where we are in our
22:08
dynamic. And you guys provide that. We love it.
22:10
I mean, we're addicted. It's a problem, but we
22:13
love it. Then let me have a problem for your
22:16
bank account. So just make more money. Yeah,
22:19
I know. I make more money. It's not a problem.
22:21
So this place is about black men that, you know,
22:26
love this lifestyle. So, D, like, you talk to
22:30
every single one that comes here, right? Yes.
22:33
Yeah. So talk to us about what it takes to be
22:38
here and navigate this as a single man that you've
22:41
seen that really works. What it takes? Yeah.
22:45
Just like basic things that they need to, that
22:48
stand out to you because you're in the best position
22:51
to talk about it. That's a good one. I feel like
22:53
I'm beating you all over again. That's a good
22:56
question. He needs to renew his membership. You
22:59
should. I'd be like, you know. Well, what I will
23:02
tell you is that. I don't do the questions, the
23:05
standard BS. I have a genuine conversation, and
23:08
I want the guy or that potential to be completely
23:11
honest and comfortable with me. So as I carry
23:15
the conversation going, I kind of put questions
23:18
in there to make sure I would catch them in the
23:20
light because I always tell them the word is
23:23
everything to me, no matter whatever you have.
23:25
But I will take the biggest flag for me. And
23:28
to test this, guys will see me a dick pic as
23:33
if that's the entry in here. And that's the old
23:36
fuck no. That's the old fuck no. Instant block.
23:40
I get them too. Yes. So think about it. I get
23:45
them from single females as well. Yes. What?
23:48
Yeah. Trying to sell somebody or what? No. Asking
23:52
me, sends me a picture of their crotch going,
23:55
so do you think I'm a good fit for the event?
23:58
Yeah. My answer to that is no, I'm sorry. Let
24:01
me tell a story really quick about what my single
24:03
friend does with dick pics. She says, thank you
24:05
for that. I will be sending it to the next guy
24:07
that sends me a dick pic. So she keeps them on
24:09
rotation, and she just sends back the dick pic
24:12
of the last guy that sent her one. So there's
24:16
an idea for your portfolio. As the guy who gets
24:19
all the dick pics for my wife? I love that. Doing
24:22
that one. Well, I don't want them. That's the
24:26
whole point about it. I don't want. But, no,
24:28
I try to have just a genuine conversation and
24:31
be a confident, be a character, or to try to
24:33
build some type of friendship with that person.
24:36
Because truly, really deep down, I try to give
24:39
everybody an opportunity. But I want them to
24:42
be as honest as possible, and I just start asking
24:45
them. Your experience, your dynamic, where are
24:48
you trying to go with this? How have you ever
24:50
heard from us? You know, again, like I said,
24:53
the flags is like the top thing I get. The dick
24:57
pics, or I get a guy go, oh, I'm 25. Well, how
25:00
long have you been in the lifestyle? 10 years.
25:02
So you start with, it's you? You know, I get
25:06
this type of shit we get. Or I would get people
25:09
say, oh, Dimitri, my boy, just talking to him.
25:13
You know, I get all that. We get all of that,
25:17
you know. Or the miscues that they don't think
25:20
we communicate. We talk and share everything.
25:22
We even put the texts in group together. So there
25:26
is no way you can pretty much bullshit us. So
25:28
I try to put those baits and traps out there.
25:31
They see where they fall from. But when they
25:33
come in humble, and first and foremost, if they're
25:36
very humble and honest, not to my team, I go,
25:39
okay, he could be groomed. He's potential. And
25:42
I would give him an invite. But before he gets
25:45
that invite, or after he gets it, I keep a genuine
25:48
conversation going with him because I want to
25:50
check in with him, let him know what to expect,
25:54
let him know our standards on hygiene, education,
25:58
experience, the etiquette, and our rules and
26:00
regulations that we have posted all over the
26:02
hotel. I don't want to give out too much because
26:04
I don't want to put my venom process out there.
26:07
But overall, I just have a genuine conversation
26:09
with these guys and try to set traps for them.
26:12
If they answer for you, but I don't want to put
26:14
too much out. No, no, I get that. I guess I'm
26:18
more asking, like, if you were to look at, you
26:21
know, Mr. Mocha's word is a cross section of
26:24
black individuals, bulls and whatever, even if
26:29
they're married. And you see the guys that come
26:32
often that have, you know, great success. They
26:35
have a good time. People like them. Their name
26:38
is good. What are some of the basic things? fundamental
26:41
characteristics of these cats that you see? Well,
26:44
they have confidence, you know, and they're comfortable
26:48
in their own lane. They understand they don't
26:50
have to be 6 '3 with a 10 -inch dick, you know,
26:53
and we talk to them about it to ensure them when
26:58
you think you're the biggest dick in the pond,
27:00
there's a bigger dick in the lake, like, or a
27:02
bigger dick in the ocean. Keep it, you know,
27:04
just genuine. You'll be okay. Understand you're
27:07
not going to be everybody's preference, you know.
27:10
I tell them all the time, this is a convention,
27:12
not a party. So just because you don't get your
27:16
money, you don't pay, don't mean you're guaranteed
27:18
to play. You got to have those conversations.
27:21
There's a term I use all the time. Please listen
27:24
to the couple. When your dick get hard, you go
27:28
dumb. And then you have those problems. So I
27:35
don't want folks to... Hold on, D. Say that back
27:38
for the people out in the back. Can you say that
27:40
one more time? When their dicks get hard, sometimes
27:43
they go dumb. Sometimes. Sometimes. All of us.
27:47
That includes me. You got to have a conversation.
27:51
It's all about the conversation. But I don't
27:54
ever focus on the physical because that's what
27:56
hurt most men. You know, the ego, the pride.
28:01
It kills them, especially as a single man. You
28:04
know, I don't want to try to add racing to it,
28:07
but. Being single and black is like having two
28:09
strikes against you. But I try to know that those
28:12
are plus when you come to Splash Mocha. So let
28:15
me piggyback off that. Yes. At Splash Mocha,
28:19
we do not judge a person by what's in their pants,
28:22
the color of their skin, or what they look like.
28:25
We judge folks at Splash Mocha by their character.
28:29
And solely that character. And I love that because
28:32
at the end of the day, like you said, that's
28:34
all that matters. You know? Oh, yeah. Oh, yes.
28:37
That's all you got at the end of the day. Your
28:39
word and character. And the best thing about
28:42
this community is that these people that they
28:45
vet and find those basic characters, when they
28:48
come to the event, they might be brand new, first
28:51
time ever. They learn. There's mentorship from
28:54
the older gentlemen. They give back so that it's
28:58
a constant feeding and growth of new coming in.
29:02
And then Angel and I have been lifestyle for
29:04
20 years. We met, she was a single female on
29:06
a swinger side, right? So I caught the unicorn
29:08
and we have walked this journey through every
29:11
aspect of the situation as it's developed for
29:15
us, this road. People come here, same thing.
29:18
They are doing that same adventure and going
29:21
along. Now, as the older gentlemen, and I look
29:24
across the crowd and I meet these guys, I want
29:27
to teach these young guys and give them that
29:28
feedback. Hey. Good job. Here's what you did
29:31
well that got my wife in your pants, right? So
29:35
that they can take that and understand. And I
29:36
see those guys that are on the wall and they're
29:39
like nervous and everything. And I go over and
29:41
I go, how's your mocha, right? Get them to talk,
29:44
explain. And they're like, oh man, your wife,
29:47
whatever. It's like, yeah, go talk to her. Well,
29:50
I don't know how to, or I don't know what to
29:51
say. Give them a little prompt. Now that little
29:55
Colonel sits in his head and grows. He gets a
29:57
little more confidence, a little more. But it
30:00
all starts with the base of vetting that this
30:02
event does. And then the community feeds itself.
30:06
We only grow stronger as we give back to our
30:09
community. If we're only around just like eyes
30:11
in, just about me, just me, get mine. It dies.
30:15
This has flourished in a way that is unlike anything
30:17
else. And it's because of that mentorship that
30:20
the men give the men, the women give the women.
30:23
Ladies, if you want a dick comment, like not
30:25
dick comment. If you're interested in a certain
30:28
thing. Go see Angel. She'll tell you, oh, you
30:31
like hard, fast, big. Go check those guys over
30:34
there. Right. If you like a little more sensual,
30:36
smaller, you know, those guys over there are
30:38
good. Right. She can give you all of that type
30:40
of information and then it shares amongst the
30:42
girls and they help each other out. So it's it's
30:44
give and take all the way through. So the beauty
30:47
part about this event is, like Dimitri said,
30:50
we take these new guys, we give them a chance.
30:53
And with what we consider the Splash Mocha culture.
30:57
They are going to carry what they learn here
30:59
outside of Splash Mocha. They're going to take
31:02
it to other events. And I can't tell you how
31:04
many couples have called me and said they've
31:06
gone to a mansion party or a small house party
31:09
or another partial hotel takeover party, and
31:12
they can choose and pick out all the Splash Mocha
31:16
guys who are in attendance because they don't
31:18
act like frat boys running around like they're
31:22
a kid in a candy store. And because of what they've
31:25
learned here, They're applying it outside of
31:29
this event, and it's making them the standout
31:32
people. And they're getting the attention, and
31:34
the little frat boys that are running around
31:36
are being left out in the cold. Well, it's good
31:40
to see that because it also lets the couples
31:42
know they can let their guard down, especially
31:44
the husband. You know, they'll come in, they
31:47
have to be overly protective or assume to be.
31:51
But when you come in and you see the character,
31:53
you see how comfortable everybody are, he pretty
31:55
much is, like, level out. So, like, even to Chris,
31:58
he's, like, a one percenter of the couples here
32:01
because he actually push guys. Hey, yes, yes,
32:05
ancient means go. But, you know, most couples,
32:08
when they come in, they don't do that. And it's
32:11
not a bad thing. You know, that's his wife. That's
32:13
his queen. He's willing to make sure she's okay.
32:16
So, but meeting the guys here. It kind of gives
32:20
them a sense of comfort, like, OK, that's stable.
32:23
We can curve it and just go from there. I love
32:26
that. I love that. And so you mentioned it's
32:28
a convention, right? So, Tina, can you talk about
32:31
like one of the things I think is great is all
32:34
the courses we have here that you can take advantage
32:37
of. And like I said, when I first went to the
32:39
men's group, it was the fact that at the end,
32:43
what sealed me is about three or four guys got
32:46
up and got on people. Right. And I'll get in
32:49
that later, but that was that course, and I would
32:51
go to other courses. So talk about some of the
32:54
courses you have and why you guys decided to
32:57
do that. Because a lot of them don't do that.
32:59
Right. Well, I mean, it's a three -day event,
33:02
and all the Florida events have pool parties.
33:06
So not everybody wants to go to the pool party.
33:09
Not everybody wants to sit outside and be at
33:12
the pool. So you've got people captured in a
33:15
hotel. Yeah, they're here to play and have some
33:18
private fun, but they're not always doing that
33:22
either. So we started figuring out, let's do
33:25
some seminars. Now, Wayne and Missy, who are
33:27
the owners of Splash Mocha, they own Splash Takeovers
33:30
first, and Splash Mocha was the spinoff of that.
33:34
Splash Takeovers is the couple's only event,
33:37
which is now owned by somebody else, and Splash
33:40
Mocha is its own standalone entity. They had
33:44
seminars for the couples. So that's another reason
33:47
why they carried that footprint from Splash Takeovers,
33:50
footprint, blueprint, whatever you want to call
33:52
it, and carried that into Splash Mocha. So we
33:56
offer seminars. And there's no extra charge for
34:00
them. It's all included in your room package.
34:02
The only thing that's not is food and drink.
34:04
And so they brought that with them from Splash
34:08
Takeovers when they owned it. We have seminars,
34:11
and all the people that do the seminars are volunteers.
34:15
Dimitri does one. Michael C. with the Keys and
34:18
Inklings podcast. I'm sorry. I should have asked
34:20
before mentioning. No, no. Yeah, please do that.
34:23
That's my boy. You know, and Michael C. also
34:27
does a seminar for us. We have a lady who will
34:30
do a blowjob seminar when she's in attendance,
34:33
and she has, before her husband passed away,
34:37
she consulted his urologist. on her seminars
34:41
and he helped her create her seminar. So it's
34:46
a medical, actually a scientific. She's got it.
34:50
It's a two harder. One day is about the science
34:53
of it all. And then the second day is a hands
34:55
-on demonstration. But not everybody wants to
34:58
be at the pool parties. Not everybody wants to
35:00
be playing all the time. And when you've got
35:02
everybody, we want people to stay here. We don't
35:05
want them to go outside of the hotel looking
35:08
for. Something to do during the day. So that's
35:11
why we have the seminars is to help keep them
35:14
in house and have things to do during the day.
35:17
And especially if we do have a pool party and
35:20
it starts raining and storming. I mean, in Florida,
35:23
wait 20 minutes. The weather is going to change.
35:26
And, you know, they have that to fall back on
35:29
and go hang out and go learn something for an
35:32
hour. In one of my first MOCA's, they had a seminar
35:35
on lifestyle swinging. and the Bible. And it
35:40
was taught by a former minister. She was a retired
35:42
minister. It was the most incredible class I've
35:45
ever been to. She's the same one that does the
35:47
blowjob seminar. She does the blowjob seminar
35:49
as well, too, which Angel said was the most incredible
35:52
seminar she'd ever attended because she learned
35:54
so much, and then she got to put it into effect.
35:57
But this seminar on the Bible and how a lot of
36:00
us have that conflict with our religious beliefs
36:02
and all that kind of stuff. She broke this down.
36:04
It was great. We started out with a prayer. We
36:06
all gathered together for the seminar. She's
36:08
like, join hands. Let's pray. I'm like, I'm at
36:11
a swinger event and we're kicking it off like
36:14
this. And then her explanation and passages that
36:18
she showed, this has been going on since the
36:20
dawn of time. We are not weird. And that's probably.
36:24
The second thing about this, understanding husbands,
36:27
as you come in there with your hot wife, you
36:29
have already crossed that threshold to promoting
36:32
her into a lifestyle that she's been raised not
36:36
to be a part of, right? This is unacceptable
36:38
as a lady from the day you're born. You've crossed
36:42
over that threshold and you have the supportive
36:44
husband who's doing this together with you. Now
36:46
having that next level piece of unity and adjustment,
36:50
I completely lost where I was going with that
36:51
point. Anyway, the seminars are phenomenal because
36:54
I get bored easily. I'm moving around my side
36:57
quest. So the seminars was a unique thing and
36:59
I love them and they have been very, very valuable.
37:01
Everyone that I've ever attended. They're really
37:03
good. I love them. We, because I was at a seminar,
37:06
we got the name siren. I just wanted to, I wanted
37:10
to talk about. Like our evolution, I had to put
37:13
that word in there for Mr. Brian Morgan. Like
37:15
I said, when I came, I was nervous as fuck. And
37:20
sitting down, being able to talk to Mr. Mocha,
37:23
talk to Dee, talk to Tina. I've even listened
37:27
to Chris and Angel Means before I even met these
37:31
people. And listening to how they navigated,
37:33
this stuff really helps. Because, you know, as
37:36
a married man, my first concern was my wife's
37:39
safety and her being treated with respect and
37:43
men approaching properly. And then what really
37:47
happened is I was sitting down and she's like,
37:49
OK, I scheduled you at one o 'clock and at three
37:51
o 'clock. I said, wait, what? I thought I was
37:54
just going to sit around and watch you get fucked.
37:55
So, OK. And after that, I started getting into
37:59
how do I navigate myself? Because one, for the
38:03
ladies. I have ADHD as fuck. So when I'm talking
38:08
to you, it might look or feel like I'm not interested
38:11
or I'm looking for another opportunity or another
38:14
hot girl. That's just me with everything. So
38:17
like my wife runs my calendar. I don't know what
38:20
I'm doing tomorrow. I just know whatever's on
38:21
the calendar because I might tell her I'm doing
38:24
this, I'm doing that. I had a lot of people like
38:27
Mr. Mocha, like D, tell me certain things to
38:30
be like, hey, man, calm down. Here's what you
38:32
need to focus on. Or don't worry about this.
38:34
Worry about that. You know, and that helps. So
38:38
when you coming in, if you're a couple or a single
38:40
guy or for us, I do think there's no such thing
38:44
as better or worse. But being a stag vixen and
38:48
I are in a racial relationship and we're both,
38:51
you know. Trying to get it in, that introduces
38:55
a lot of challenges for us. And if it wasn't
38:58
for the people that I call on a daily basis sometimes,
39:02
I check on D at least once a week, if not, we
39:05
talk two or three times. Yeah. And he knows I'm
39:09
the guy, everybody knows Socrates is the guy
39:11
with some questions. So I'm in his ear. I mean,
39:14
what are you thinking about? You know, and they'll
39:16
get on me. Like, yeah, that was, I understand
39:18
the question, but you sound like a bitch. Well,
39:20
though, honestly. When I see his phone, the number
39:23
pop up, I go, I better get some coffee. This
39:25
is going to be a conversation. Really? That's
39:29
what I do to you when I see you? I call our IDs.
39:32
Coffee. I better get some coffee. Because he
39:34
likes to call me at 6 .30 and 7 o 'clock in the
39:37
morning. I'm retired, so what's the best way
39:40
to fuck with your friends, right? Wake up. But
39:43
yes, no. Our conversations are pretty much different.
39:47
Like, though, with Chris, Socrates. We don't
39:52
hold back. You know, it's very, very vulgar.
39:55
It's very, very, you would think, disrespectful.
39:58
But it's just that crystal clear to where there's,
40:01
we leave no room for miscommunication. Of course,
40:04
with delays, we kind of keep it PG, keep the
40:06
volume and everything down. But we still try
40:09
to get our point across or truth across. And
40:12
then you take from what you want to take from
40:14
it. And these guys do it to me. So it's not like
40:17
I am a guru, though. We do it to each other.
40:20
And I think that's the best way how to keep each
40:22
other humble. Yeah. You hold each other accountable.
40:25
And if you come here and you're nervous or you're
40:29
afraid, don't sit in the corner. As a guy, these
40:32
women are here for you. Well, come up to some
40:35
of these gentlemen that have a Splash Mocha staff
40:38
jacket on or a T -shirt and say, hey, man, what
40:42
do you think about this? They're the best ones
40:44
to give you, like, the advice that you need to
40:48
navigate well. You know, in my opinion, because
40:51
it's like they're seeing the like explosion of
40:55
a failure and they're seeing the explosion of
40:58
all these dudes up in, you know, in the room
41:00
where he wanted to be. He didn't think he was
41:02
going to be or you know what I mean? So it's
41:04
like for me, it's like, I'm sorry. I know everybody
41:07
can't be like me because I'm going to ask you
41:09
questions until I get on your nerves. Like. I'm
41:12
going to ask you, when I first got into lifestyle,
41:14
I wanted to give him some pussy, but he asked
41:16
the questions way out of it. Talking out of it,
41:20
talk your way out of it. Talk your way out of
41:22
it. And I'll ask my way out of it. So what do
41:24
you think about this? What do you think? And
41:27
then if I do this, what do you think about it?
41:29
Yeah, sometimes it's just a touch and feel experience
41:32
and not a question and answer experience. And
41:35
I had what really, really helped me and kind
41:38
of turned it around is Mr. Mocha said, Socrates.
41:43
You know how he talked. Socrates. He was like,
41:45
it's an art, not a science. And I said, damn,
41:49
you're right. Exactly. Yeah. So sometimes you
41:52
just have to pretend like you're a blind man
41:53
and read the book by Braille. Exactly. I like
41:56
that. That's a really good. That's a. Yeah. I
41:59
love that. If you're starting out and you have
42:02
that nervousness, a lot of what draws the people
42:04
into the lifestyle is people watching, right?
42:06
We travel around. We like to look at the dynamics.
42:09
You sit in the airport, you watch people go by.
42:10
Come to this party. And if you're nervous, start
42:13
out, sit, observe, watch the couples and see.
42:17
Who works what and how they work it. Find somebody
42:20
that you like and then emulate what they're doing.
42:23
See how they move. See who they go talk to. How
42:26
do they do it? How do they dress? Costume ideas.
42:28
All that kind of stuff. You can learn through
42:30
observation and gain your own self -confidence
42:33
through that observation. And then you just go
42:36
try. Like every little step everybody takes in
42:39
this journey. It's like, ooh, that was fun. I'm
42:42
chasing the next high. Let's... Let's do this
42:44
next time and see if it works. If you like it,
42:46
you do. If you don't, we did it and we're going
42:48
to move on. But observation, a big one here.
42:51
I love that. I love that. So we do here, we are
42:53
here, Smoka, and we do have an audience. So we'd
42:56
love to get people's opinion, questions, statements.
43:01
If you've been on before a thousand times, you
43:03
never have. I'd love to hear anybody want to
43:06
say anything or comment. No? Okay. I'm going
43:10
to give you the mic. So you just hold it. So
43:14
this is Jasmine here. Let me just say, first
43:17
and foremost, thank you for putting on this event.
43:20
When he first brought it to me, I was like, we're
43:23
going where? We're going to do what? Are you
43:25
crazy? But once I got in, I did exactly what
43:29
you guys said. Just sit back, watch, check it
43:32
out. And my first time, I was super, super scared.
43:36
I didn't know what to expect. And when I got
43:39
here, I felt like I walked into... A family reunion.
43:44
And I didn't know anybody. Most incestuous family
43:47
reunion. Yeah, it's funny. It's right. Very.
43:52
But I just, I felt so comfortable. And then being
43:55
able to speak with the guys and how everybody,
43:58
that's my biggest thing. Protection. Am I going
44:01
to be safe? And I know when I walk in through
44:04
these doors for this event, I'm fine. And now
44:08
to the point, this is our fifth, right? Fifth
44:11
one. Been to Atlanta. All the others, Houston.
44:15
I feel so comfortable and just can let go. And
44:21
I couldn't do that at first. So I can say this
44:24
is one of my best ones yet. So we did sign up
44:29
for Atlanta. I know. Before we came here. But
44:35
before we came here for this one, I was thinking,
44:40
okay, what am I going to do? What haven't I done?
44:44
Who haven't I done? That list never runs out.
44:47
Yeah, exactly. Exactly. But I had already grown
44:51
in my own mindset of exploring and doing more
44:54
and saying, hey, I like this guy. Let's see if
44:57
we can schedule something or, you know, go and
45:00
talk or what have you. But this is an amazing
45:03
event for those in the lifestyle, even if you're
45:06
brand spanking new. Just try it out and talk
45:09
to people who, like you said, talk to people
45:11
who have already been here. We'll tell you. We'll
45:14
tell you and be brutally honest. But I have to
45:17
say this is amazing. So thank you. Thank you
45:20
for that. Thank you. When you get to that hot
45:23
wifing point in your relationship and you want
45:25
to see the single stuff happen, right? The husbands,
45:28
it's like an 80 -20. Most of the time the husbands
45:30
are out there doing the screening, making all
45:31
the communications. sussing out that person and
45:35
stuff but there's so much effort work that goes
45:37
into that to have it maybe fail you you finally
45:40
meet you get it and it just doesn't fire off
45:43
it's like oh my god i put all that time and waste
45:45
into this and it's frustrated she wasn't happy
45:47
it was a bad experience all that kind of stuff
45:49
mocha parties it's like fishing in a stock pond
45:52
Right. So it's easier for the husbands when you
45:55
bring your wife to this. It's like they've done
45:57
all that upfront work for you. So now you can
46:00
focus on the two of you and what you're going
46:02
to get out of the experience, what she's going
46:03
to get out of the experience as your hot wife.
46:05
You can feed that to her. And then you're like,
46:07
oh, I like watching this or I like seeing this
46:09
and doing all that. It's all here without all
46:13
the effort. Right. So that's some of the investment
46:15
that you get the bang for your buck when you
46:17
come with these guys, too. So. Yeah, I'm Billy
46:20
with Billy's Naughty Girl. She's right over there,
46:22
night girl. So, yeah, I'd just like to say that,
46:24
man, there's been so much brought up here that's
46:26
like, oh, yeah, I got that. I got that. I got
46:29
that. But as husbands, you really have to not
46:33
be concerned about what's going on. Definitely
46:36
the communication before and after. Most definitely.
46:39
I had so many words. Now they're gone. What do
46:41
you mean by not be concerned? Can you tell us
46:43
a little bit more about what you mean by not
46:44
be concerned? You know, like, just understand
46:45
that, you know, these guys right here, they've
46:47
done the vetting. They've done the talking. Yeah,
46:49
and all the guys that are here are really good.
46:52
Really good. Man, there's so many guys that are
46:54
so good. We've actually made some really good
46:55
friends here. Even so well that we went to our
46:58
10th anniversary last August. It's the only reason
47:00
we didn't go to Lauderdale. We went to Vegas,
47:03
and one of the guys we met here flew up from
47:06
Miami to spend... A weekend in Vegas with us.
47:11
And it was a real good time. A real good time.
47:13
So you're going to meet real good people here.
47:15
Real people, for sure. Yes. And, yeah, we just
47:18
really appreciate that. And it makes your playtime
47:20
so much better. Like, just, I have a little joke
47:22
with the guys. Like, I have to fuck you three
47:24
times to figure out if I'm going to be your friend
47:26
or not. Yeah. Because I don't want to talk to
47:29
you for a month and then meet you and be like,
47:31
so I usually am a few words until after we've
47:34
played at least once. And then by the time if
47:36
I've played with you three times, like we're
47:38
pretty good friends. And then we talk about all
47:40
kinds of crazy stuff, you know, like, oh, yeah,
47:42
like what about this is going on? And, you know,
47:44
like it's not very romantic sounding or sensual
47:47
sounding, but we're just talking about real life
47:49
and we have a little inside jokes. And so you'll
47:51
become friends with people and definitely will.
47:53
It just makes the play a lot more fun and there's
47:56
a lot more laughter and less nerves and less
47:58
like seriousness. Yep. So that's the kind of
48:01
play I like. It's sport fucking at the end of
48:03
the day, right? It's all about fun. It is. But
48:06
when you come here, the friendships you make
48:09
while you're here is going to translate outside
48:12
of Sposh Mocha. You will meet people that you
48:15
will continue to talk with outside of the event.
48:18
And so many times I talk to. all of our guests,
48:22
and by the way, Splash Mocha considers the guys
48:24
and the couples guests. Everybody's a guest.
48:27
They will have long -term friendships for years
48:31
to come outside of the lifestyle. And, you know,
48:34
I tell a story that my husband and I were getting
48:37
ready to sell our house, and we had to strip
48:41
the roof off, put a new roof on to be able to
48:45
sell it. And smartass, I put on Facebook, hey,
48:48
we got... We're tearing off our roof. Anybody
48:50
want to volunteer to come help? Looking for a
48:52
good workout. And I was just joking. Do you know
48:56
who showed up? Lifestyle friends. Do you know
49:00
who didn't show up? Vanilla friends. They were
49:02
like, oh, we didn't know you were tearing off
49:04
the roof. I'm like, bitch, you drove by my house
49:06
three times that day to get to your own damn
49:09
house. You knew what we were doing. Where were
49:11
you? At least drop off a pizza for those boys.
49:14
But it was lifestyle friends that came out. My
49:17
husband and I have been in a lifestyle just over
49:20
20 years now. And we've made such long -term
49:24
friends that I've got friends we met in a lifestyle
49:26
that would drive to Hawaii on four flat tires
49:28
to help us out if it came down to it. And that
49:32
is irreplaceable. These weekends have become
49:34
more about the relationships with the people
49:36
that come here than it is about the physicality.
49:39
Right. That's the pure enjoyment of this is walking
49:42
in. We've been to one this year. This is our
49:44
second one at the end of the year. And we walk
49:46
in like we haven't missed a mocha yet. People
49:48
hugging us, kissing us. How you been? What's
49:51
going on? Saw on the Facebook that Angel was
49:53
in the hospital. What happened? I mean, just
49:55
it was it was I don't have these conversations
49:58
with my brothers, literal blood brothers. My
50:01
family has no clue. I talked to these guys about
50:04
everything. You know, it's funny that. About
50:09
three years ago, we was doing a podcast with
50:11
Michael C and the guys, and we was talking about
50:14
friendship. And I was in thought. I said, you
50:17
know, my dick comes with friendship. And now
50:20
you can find that T -shirt on keysnaker .com.
50:24
He turned my fucking pole to a fucking T -shirt.
50:28
I'm going to have him make me the shirt that
50:29
says, I got to fuck you three times to be your
50:31
friend. Yep. I was like, oh my God. We had another
50:34
little joke. We went to a cabin with a couple
50:37
that we, a cuckold couple that we met here and
50:40
we were having a really good time. And I came
50:42
down one morning and she's like, I hope you don't
50:45
mind. Your hair tie was laying on the table and
50:48
I just borrowed it. And she was like, had this
50:50
concerned look on her face. And I said, oh bitch,
50:52
you can fuck my husband, but you cannot use my
50:55
hair tie. So that's become a little joke too
50:59
of like, you know, it's pretty funny. OK, well,
51:02
we got to be cognizant of the time, guys. So
51:04
does anybody want to say anything to kind of
51:07
close it out or add something that hasn't been
51:10
discussed? This has just been it's been so dope.
51:12
Yeah. Come on. I would like to say the one thing
51:15
about this again and coming into this lifestyle,
51:18
you find your own confidence or you don't see
51:21
it in your outside world. I think that's an important
51:23
factor that. brings everybody here, because you
51:27
discover more about yourself, and it's so awesome.
51:30
And I want to say thank you. You're welcome.
51:32
We're glad you're here. Did you want to introduce
51:36
yourself? Oh, I'm so sorry. I am Billy's naughty
51:38
girl. Naughty, mainly. Is she a possum? Okay.
51:43
Yeah, I'll speak, all right? No. Okay. And it
51:48
is emotional. I remember my first podcast session
51:50
that I walked in and they were talking about
51:52
body positivity and I was in the back of the
51:54
room just sobbing because it was the first place
51:56
where I was like, there's literally something
51:58
for everyone here, every single body type, especially
52:02
for us as women that, you know, struggle with
52:05
that, because I just never felt like my body
52:08
type was accepted before I came into the, you
52:12
know, interracial community. I was just like,
52:14
I just thought I was fat. And then to have it,
52:17
like, worshipped here is, like, very amazing
52:21
and incredible. And, like, every fat roll, every
52:23
stretch mark, they're like, oh. And now girls
52:27
that are bigger than me or whatever, I say, girl,
52:29
your whole body feel like a titty. It's amazing.
52:31
Like, don't look down on yourself at all. Like,
52:34
it will be worshipped here. Hello, everyone.
52:36
My name's Alex. Coming to Slash has been an amazing
52:41
and eye -opening experience. I was in a lifestyle
52:43
off and on for about six years before I started
52:46
coming to Splash. And even then I've learned
52:48
so much. From a single male's perspective, one
52:51
of the things that really helped me get comfortable
52:53
at this environment and still working through
52:55
it is when Dimitri had said, like, it's a brotherhood
52:59
and truly embrace the brotherhood. And that not
53:02
only did it have an effect here, it also took
53:05
that outside. And going to different parties,
53:09
different events, it adds another layer of connection.
53:13
That's just so amazing. And the level of self
53:15
-awareness that you learn here, you learn what
53:17
play dynamics you're comfortable with. Do you
53:19
like to go play in the playrooms? Do you like
53:21
to just go to the room parties? Do you like to
53:25
do one -on -one? And I think my advice to single
53:28
guys is keep an open ear, listen to the mentors.
53:32
They're here to help you in this connection.
53:35
And also with that, just slow down, take time
53:39
to connect. I always love the connection. Yeah,
53:42
we do come here for play, but I honestly, my
53:44
best experiences have really been the ones where
53:47
I've been able to truly connect with people and
53:48
get to know them. I love it. I love it. Well,
53:51
we can go on all night, but I just want to thank
53:53
everybody. Unless you guys have anything else
53:55
to say, we really appreciate you guys. I do have
53:59
one thing I would like to thank everybody who
54:03
has been supporting Splash Mocha from day one.
54:05
You guys are what? It keeps us going and it keeps
54:08
those wheels turning and makes my job so pleasurable.
54:12
It's seeing everybody's happy faces. Thank you.
54:15
You can follow me at ChrisMinks23 on Twitter
54:17
and ChrisMinks23 on Instagram. If you have other
54:20
questions, DM me. I love to talk about the lifestyle.
54:23
You guys can also hit us up, thebullbrotherhood
54:26
at gmail .com. Send us an email. If you want
54:28
to ask anybody about who you've heard today,
54:31
communicate and go through us. We'll talk to
54:34
them. Thank you guys for showing up and we'll
54:37
talk to you later. And then for ladies, I do
54:40
have a ladies chat on Telegram, but you can reach
54:42
out to me, Siren1982 on Telegram or the Siren
54:46
of Freedom at gmail .com. And then, you know,
54:49
just get more in depth for the ladies. Have a
54:51
good night, everyone. And I don't have any Brian
54:54
Morgan things. I'll wake up to you tomorrow.
54:56
He says all these sweet nothings, but. Anyways,
54:59
Missy Bryant. Thank you, everybody, for listening
55:02
to the podcast. This is who we are. Bold, confident,
55:23
and seductive. Dominant and classy. We stand
55:27
tall, never fall. Bull brotherhood. Luxury untold.