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Mid-Life Mafia On Menopause, Motherhood, Divorce, Hot Pudding, and Not Giving a Damn · Cats & Pudding with Jennifer Dilandro

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  Speaker 1: Get ready Staaten Island.
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  Speaker 1: Visit Fairyhawks dot com now to log in your seats.
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  Speaker 1: This is the Cats in Footing Podcasts, a melting pot
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  Speaker 1: of footing. And now here's Jen.
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  Speaker 3: Good afternoon, everybody, and welcome to this week's episode of
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  Speaker 3: Kats and Pudding.
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  Speaker 4: And today, Oh my god, and I'm gonna say it again.
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  Speaker 4: I know, isn't that great? Who said it quite a
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  Speaker 4: bit today?
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  Speaker 3: I'm so happy, though, I'm know I'm even happier than you,
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  Speaker 3: as it's possible that I could be happier than you.
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  Speaker 4: You will. This was so much fun.
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  Speaker 5: You yes, but next time I have to bring multiple.
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  Speaker 3: Shirts because you don't want people think you're a dirt
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  Speaker 3: bag and you're wearing clothes.
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  Speaker 4: Five days everybody.
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  Speaker 3: I I do do record more than one podcast to day.
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  Speaker 3: So don't think we're dirt bags. If you see us
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  Speaker 3: in the same clothes.
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  Speaker 5: I look like the dirt bag.
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  Speaker 6: It's not.
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  Speaker 4: You really don't, Canvas.
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  Speaker 5: It's such a good time.
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  Speaker 3: My girl Canvas is with me for my podcast today
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  Speaker 3: is my co host. And could you please do the
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  Speaker 3: honor of introducing these three lovely ladies that.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so happy that I'm getting everything up. I'm going
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  Speaker 4: to clempty.
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  Speaker 6: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 7: I pushed everything upating a little bit, but I put
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  Speaker 7: a sweater on.
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  Speaker 5: I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 8: We are so excited because we have and they never
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  Speaker 8: come out for me.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just gonna say this right now, you know, mafia ladies.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, marry it out there. We got there. They all
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  Speaker 4: look at that.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, we're so happy to be and you're right, we
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  Speaker 9: don't go out. We should go out more.
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  Speaker 5: No, I mean, you don't come out for anyone.
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  Speaker 4: To be interviewed.
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  Speaker 6: No, like the first, this is the first.
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  Speaker 4: She broke Jrmy, what are you gonna do?
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  Speaker 5: I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm so glad to have you girls here. I
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  Speaker 3: mean I had the I had the pleasure of doing
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  Speaker 3: the podcast.
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  Speaker 4: They invited me on and you did too.
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  Speaker 5: I want to know something.
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  Speaker 10: Have you gone on anyone else's podcast and had greeting?
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  Speaker 5: Never you had from these ladies. The greeting, the food, everything.
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  Speaker 3: I just want the gift bags, Holy ship, the gift bag.
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  Speaker 4: I ate all the all the candy.
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  Speaker 5: Did you bring meat?
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  Speaker 9: You gave me a gift So here was the original plan.
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  Speaker 4: That's okay, we don't need it, but like.
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  Speaker 6: By the way you get it there.
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  Speaker 4: The fact you don't have to bring anything.
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  Speaker 9: The fact that we came from Brooklyn without pastry and
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  Speaker 9: we went to Wonder is hilarious.
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  Speaker 3: They brought me the best gifts. I mean they got
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  Speaker 3: me candy, pop rocks.
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  Speaker 11: The other day, I do the smart.
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  Speaker 5: My two year old like Maverick to read and they
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  Speaker 5: were like, we know you have a tweyear old.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, they gave me a general size.
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  Speaker 5: So you two did ship for me, and then you love.
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  Speaker 9: I love like learning about the person and like seeing
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  Speaker 9: like what I know that they would like and what
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  Speaker 9: would fit into their life and what they might really
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  Speaker 9: like in their life that they don't know because you know,
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  Speaker 9: and I like to do that.
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  Speaker 4: I really liked my bag really fit very well in
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  Speaker 4: my life. The way game it was excellent.
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  Speaker 9: I'm glad I don't know Door and FaceTime from the store.
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  Speaker 5: They are these ladies.
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  Speaker 4: I love that they're amazing.
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  Speaker 5: Your podcast is blowing up.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, are we not going to talk about that? Yes? Please? Yes,
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  Speaker 4: we need to know how it's done.
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  Speaker 12: Christy was bored, Christy with all the.
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  Speaker 4: Other ship you're doing life. You were born and have
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  Speaker 4: to do a fucking podcast.
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  Speaker 13: I decided to build a little studio.
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  Speaker 11: And I don't say no, Well, that's why I got
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  Speaker 11: pregnant three times.
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  Speaker 5: Your people, please are.
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  Speaker 4: I think we're all in some way? People? Please? I
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  Speaker 4: just think that I did.
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  Speaker 13: It kind of fell and Ella was on the radio
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  Speaker 13: for a lot of years, so you know her voice.
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  Speaker 4: She's got a great voice, amazing.
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  Speaker 3: I told her when we were doing the show, I said,
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  Speaker 3: I just want to listen to you talk.
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  Speaker 4: I want to put her on recording so I can
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  Speaker 4: hear what they.
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  Speaker 5: The other day. Have some sort of like you know,
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  Speaker 5: meditation or something.
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  Speaker 9: Right, I was thinking or like you know, like reading
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  Speaker 9: reading something for hospice, like donating something for hospice, you
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  Speaker 9: know what I mean?
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  Speaker 10: Like I was thinking of what's even more beautiful as
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  Speaker 10: you took that a step.
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  Speaker 5: For hospice donating and I'm like, creating app.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, you know what.
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  Speaker 9: Voiceover work is so taken by the by film stars
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  Speaker 9: now and everything that there is no really voice over work.
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  Speaker 9: So if you I was thinking, you know, you still
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  Speaker 9: have now you have all these books on tape and
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  Speaker 9: everything like that, and I'm like, just think if you're
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  Speaker 9: in hospice, if you know, after you said that, you
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  Speaker 9: were like, it's like, you know, meditative. I was like,
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  Speaker 9: you know, that would be something that might be really
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  Speaker 9: nice for for that ya. I know she actually didn't.
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  Speaker 4: Now you guys have won the fall, So tell me.
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  Speaker 4: So you were bored, you decide to do a studio and.
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  Speaker 6: I was, now Here's what really happened.
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  Speaker 4: Is just the want the real verse.
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  Speaker 9: Really happened is she was going to open up a
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  Speaker 9: billing studio and at the like a billing room for
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  Speaker 9: her one of her dental or for her a dental
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  Speaker 9: offices in general, because she's very busy.
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  Speaker 6: She's a very busy business woman.
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  Speaker 9: And and around the same.
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  Speaker 3: Time, by the way, I have to come in for
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  Speaker 3: my tooth killing me by the way, go ahead.
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  Speaker 9: Around the same time, I like freaked out and started
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  Speaker 9: crying all the time and like couldn't figure out what
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  Speaker 9: was wrong with me and wanted to kill myself and
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  Speaker 9: all this other stuff.
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  Speaker 6: And so then when we finally.
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  Speaker 9: Figured out, first she told me she told me to
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  Speaker 9: go to see my mother, my mother.
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  Speaker 5: I miss mommy.
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  Speaker 4: You thought that would have been a good idea to
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  Speaker 4: see my mother? What I feel like shit?
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  Speaker 13: So I said, I don't know what to do. So
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  Speaker 13: I said I gave a ticket to figuring make her
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  Speaker 13: feel better?
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  Speaker 4: Did it?
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  Speaker 6: She doesn't know my mother?
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  Speaker 4: She was.
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  Speaker 9: She's no, Yeah, but that's what happened. I I skated
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  Speaker 9: through the average age of menopause. It was just fifty one,
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  Speaker 9: and I was like, Okay, thumbs up, I'm cool. I'm
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  Speaker 9: still in the mosh pit at fifty two. I'm cruising
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  Speaker 9: through all this stuff. And then all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 9: it was like I hit a brick wall and I
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  Speaker 9: didn't I didn't know what to do. And then when
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  Speaker 9: I found out what to do, I was really angry
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  Speaker 9: that nobody told me this in advance, because I could
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  Speaker 9: have avoided a lot of bullshit.
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  Speaker 10: I wait, tell us, what is the thing that they
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  Speaker 10: tell you to do. I'm very curious, is it like
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  Speaker 10: they tell you to take hormones do they know?
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  Speaker 6: They actually don't.
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  Speaker 9: They actually tell you to take it, and they tell
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  Speaker 9: you to take these supplements. They tell you to take
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  Speaker 9: natural subman to the point where I went to my
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  Speaker 9: obgu I n and she gave me a prescription which
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  Speaker 9: I brought to Walgreens and the guy said, I think
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  Speaker 9: you could get this cheaper on eBay, and the guy
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  Speaker 9: actually went the pharmacy technician went.
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  Speaker 4: On eBay Ultimate. Yeah. So I'm like, okay, this is ridiculous.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah it doesn't work. I'm like, have you tried this?
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  Speaker 4: Have you tried this? So?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, it wasn't until you know, so I had to
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  Speaker 9: figure it out for myself, like how to I finally
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  Speaker 9: found So I was at six o'clock in the morning
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  Speaker 9: and I'm looking for people and I'm thinking it's gonna
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  Speaker 9: cost a fortune and was my insurance going to cover it?
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  Speaker 6: And all this other stuff.
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  Speaker 9: And this woman actually texted me back at six o'clock
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  Speaker 9: in the morning from a hormone replacement therapists office because
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  Speaker 9: I guess she like recruits people that are like I'm
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  Speaker 9: lyine and can't sleep.
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  Speaker 4: I haven't, haven't.
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  Speaker 6: I went there that day.
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  Speaker 9: The second they gave me a shot, I was fine, Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: The second.
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  Speaker 3: Isn't it funny how one little thing will help and
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  Speaker 3: change it?
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  Speaker 4: Right? Any of you want any horr replacement?
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  Speaker 9: It was I felt like my daughter. When my daughter
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  Speaker 9: was little, she had was diagnosed with ADHD, you know,
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  Speaker 9: and I didn't want to give her any medication. So
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  Speaker 9: I did the same shit to her. I took her
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  Speaker 9: to therapist that I put her in this cap which
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  Speaker 9: measured her brain wave length, and they showed this movie
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  Speaker 9: and as soon as she started wandering, they like zapped,
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  Speaker 9: they know, they slowed down the movie.
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  Speaker 6: And I did all this stuff.
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  Speaker 3: I could do that, but because I didn't want to
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  Speaker 3: put her on drugs.
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  Speaker 9: And when I finally put her on medication like actual
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  Speaker 9: you know, r X, she said thank.
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  Speaker 5: You, oh gosh, like.
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  Speaker 6: I'm the worst. But I did that myself. So I
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  Speaker 6: did the same thing to myself.
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  Speaker 9: I tried to not take drugs and then when I
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  Speaker 9: realized that I'm not, I'm actually just replacing what I'm losing.
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  Speaker 13: Cancer. Yeah, don't you know, but they.
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  Speaker 9: They did flawed studies and they basically tell me what
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  Speaker 9: the shot is.
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  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I just want to make sure.
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  Speaker 9: It's just what they do is they give you back
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  Speaker 9: your testosterone, your progesteron bound, because.
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  Speaker 6: What happens is you lose it.
• 9:44
  Speaker 9: You lose it, you stop making it, and there are
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  Speaker 9: estrogen receptors all over your body, all over your body,
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  Speaker 9: all over your brain. And they're really not studied until
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  Speaker 9: now that much of what they do. It's crazy, but
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  Speaker 9: it's they find out that when.
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  Speaker 4: They that's all. But that's that's what happens. Right, Well,
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  Speaker 4: we're Italian. It's just I was gonna say, we're get here.
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  Speaker 5: Really, she thinks.
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  Speaker 9: She even she doesn't have a ten times mirror though,
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  Speaker 9: so that I'm not lying.
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  Speaker 5: We're plucking since we're thirteen Italian.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you've got nothing.
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  Speaker 5: You have like baby once a year, She goes.
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  Speaker 12: I took out my razor. I said, I don't even
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  Speaker 12: know what that is.
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  Speaker 4: You're lucky. Who are you?
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  Speaker 6: Really?
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  Speaker 4: Wow?
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  Speaker 6: I think, what's my excuse? Then?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, let this go on.
• 10:42
  Speaker 4: Let's let's keep going and loving and listen, I'm just
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  Speaker 4: loving to watch the whole.
• 10:45
  Speaker 9: Some reason they think I'm Italian. They're trying to turn
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  Speaker 9: me into Italian.
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  Speaker 12: Your Italian Italian.
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  Speaker 11: My mother okay, but asked me. My father married a
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  Speaker 11: since church. My father we forgot he was Jewish. We
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  Speaker 11: didn't have him anora. I had a grandmother, Girtu, but
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  Speaker 11: even he had a hide in the church and get
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  Speaker 11: married to my mother.
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  Speaker 12: And I tell my grandmother, you know, there was somebody.
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  Speaker 11: My father was like, I don't care. Whatever you want,
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  Speaker 11: married what my mother wanted.
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  Speaker 12: He didn't care.
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  Speaker 13: Don't you like all food better?
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  Speaker 9: I think, come on, I think they gave you a
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  Speaker 9: little too much leeway your parents.
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  Speaker 4: I was, I can't.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like we're all kind of like the black
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  Speaker 3: sheep of our faily.
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  Speaker 6: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 9: I asked Candas because Candas has a sister, you know,
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  Speaker 9: And I was like, how is your sister? Because she
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  Speaker 9: talks in her inner special about her sister. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 9: does she really talk that way, like how is your sister?
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  Speaker 9: And she was like, yes, she literally.
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  Speaker 10: Still does, like she's my sister's thirty five years old,
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  Speaker 10: and she's literally like, Cannes's why are you going today?
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, you know, you're gets in the back. Oh
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  Speaker 5: my god, I hate this life.
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  Speaker 12: Well, I gotta tell you I said that.
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  Speaker 13: For more than once more?
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  Speaker 12: Who do I live?
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  Speaker 3: All right, that's not funny. We were talking about that yesterday.
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  Speaker 3: Like all these dumb terms are alive.
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  Speaker 5: You can't say that the new term wait, it's an
• 12:19
  Speaker 5: old term or new term forever.
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  Speaker 12: You're not allowed to say it on TikTok. I think
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  Speaker 12: you're not.
• 12:23
  Speaker 3: Let us say yell out on TikTok and you can't say,
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  Speaker 3: and you go, that's it.
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  Speaker 4: You can't go. But you can't go like ping ping
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  Speaker 4: ping something.
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  Speaker 6: But there's no.
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  Speaker 9: Actual book that tells you any of this, So you
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  Speaker 9: have to figure out by getting knocked on every social.
• 12:43
  Speaker 4: Media annoying term.
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  Speaker 3: It's these ridiculous terms that they just came up with.
• 12:51
  Speaker 3: How about like the parents, it's like they're the caregivers. No,
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  Speaker 3: I'm no, I'm mother. No, they're not taking that ship
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  Speaker 3: away from me.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry. Are they ready to put a bill pass
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  Speaker 4: to take that away? That's ridiculous.
• 13:04
  Speaker 3: Yes, they want to put a bill pass in New
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  Speaker 3: York there now it's going to be caregiver.
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  Speaker 5: It makes me think of like you're caring for an
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  Speaker 5: elderly Yes, yes, yes.
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  Speaker 12: I'll take the whole motherhood away from me. My kids
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  Speaker 12: are very boogie and expensive.
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  Speaker 9: Off.
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  Speaker 12: Last night, went home and my son turns around to
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  Speaker 12: me and goes, did I mention we're going to wait
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  Speaker 12: till tomorrow? I went wait, I'm sorry? No? So now
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  Speaker 12: what do I do as as the mother that I am? Superstar?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 12: I can get up right now?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 11: I get bathing suits by bathing suits pack beach Town pack.
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  Speaker 12: Oh, I don't like that you're wearing it? When you
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  Speaker 12: wearing it?
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  Speaker 5: How old is this kid you're packing for?
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  Speaker 9: How old is tawenty.
• 14:00
  Speaker 13: Teaching me how to use instacot because he must have Nike?
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  Speaker 13: So I said, they'll get them to you.
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  Speaker 9: He's not seven, he's not eight, he's not nine ten,
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  Speaker 9: he's not even thirteen.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know the.
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  Speaker 11: Socks come you think you fat foot into them?
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  Speaker 13: I know, and I'm walking room.
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  Speaker 4: If they fit on his feet, that's how you're not.
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  Speaker 4: I don't what do they wear socks with slides?
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  Speaker 5: I don't like what. I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: What is that?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: It's setting the male it's so obnoxious.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I give the girls do it.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, I wear with socks, but I don't wear them
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  Speaker 13: out really right runtil you get the mail.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's that's getting the male look.
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  Speaker 13: Oh my son. Yeah, ext it's a boys thing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: No, I think it's a girl thing too, because my
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  Speaker 3: twenty one year old does the same thing.
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  Speaker 9: It's a lazy it's a lazy.
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  Speaker 5: I envy the Give zero Fox Energy date.
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  Speaker 4: No, I was in a bar. I was in a
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  Speaker 4: bar this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: I called a nutty irishmen shout out to Tony. He's like,
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: he's like he pots the Seas when he walks into
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: that place.
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: He's a celebrin there. And I'm looking.
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  Speaker 3: At the girls and I'm like, I mean, I don't
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  Speaker 3: want to like talk bad about but they were did
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  Speaker 3: not like present, well, they did it. I would never
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: walk out of the house like that when I went
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: out to a club or something. I'd always have my
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: hand pristine, my clothes. These girls all like look like
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: they just rolled out of bed.
• 15:41
  Speaker 9: But I think, but then and I say stuff like that,
• 15:45
  Speaker 9: and then Christie will say something like those sweatpants are
• 15:48
  Speaker 9: two thousand dollars.
• 15:49
  Speaker 6: I'm like, but they're.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: Still sweat, but they still look like but they're still sweat,
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  Speaker 3: they still there.
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  Speaker 6: Still swetts.
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  Speaker 13: But I wouldn't weren't in a club.
• 15:57
  Speaker 6: No, no, But I'm just like that.
• 15:58
  Speaker 9: Maybe they think that because they spent a fortune on
• 16:01
  Speaker 9: their outfit that they can wear it.
• 16:04
  Speaker 12: Believe me, go to a club two thousand dollars, How.
• 16:07
  Speaker 9: Did you feel at the club, Because last time I
• 16:08
  Speaker 9: went to a club, I felt kind of.
• 16:10
  Speaker 4: I felt old. I'm not gonna lie, but especially because
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: he was telling everything we can go to now, I
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: was it was a bar.
• 16:19
  Speaker 13: It's a bar, and.
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: Nine We're in bed by nine thirty.
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: I'm going, guys, I'm I'm like on my third dream
• 16:25
  Speaker 4: by now.
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: And I was like, I see, I'm just seeing like
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: the insides of my eyelids at this time. But it
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: was it was cool, but it was you know, it
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: was killed. Just I FaceTime from there. They they called me.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: I was so excited. I'm like, oh my god, I.
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: Go look where I am. Oh, I said.
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: But if I was a kid and I had all
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: those people, I would be we would be in a
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: mosh pit.
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: Though, I think about how crazy we were when we
• 16:46
  Speaker 4: were younger. I'd be like surf and the mosh pit
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: at that age. But the kids were like I did, Oh.
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: I went to Silo and Limelight. That's where I was at.
• 16:56
  Speaker 12: I was I went to Nels.
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I was.
• 16:58
  Speaker 12: I was a girl. I would go back there tomorrow.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: The open.
• 17:06
  Speaker 12: Let's shake. I love music.
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: I love yeah, me too.
• 17:13
  Speaker 12: Club right now, let's go.
• 17:15
  Speaker 5: I feel like I should be a midlife mafia club. Yes,
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: stance club.
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: Yes, I would invested it, I was, she goes. I
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: would do.
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: It's true though, No, it's perfect.
• 17:29
  Speaker 9: Happy hour would be from like three to five.
• 17:32
  Speaker 6: The club would close at night.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: Right, everybody, Yeah, it would be okay, right, it would
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: be fine.
• 17:41
  Speaker 6: We could go there every night.
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we could do a happy hour club.
• 17:45
  Speaker 11: I found myself in a laundromat because my knee. This
• 17:49
  Speaker 11: laundromat in Staten Island. I was like, I was walking
• 17:51
  Speaker 11: by the get my hair done, and.
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: It was good music playing and I walked by, was
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: good music.
• 17:58
  Speaker 5: Lord, you don't want you didn't even have laundry, I know, And.
• 18:02
  Speaker 12: The lady's looking at it, and.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: Can I just hang out here? Because I like your music?
• 18:05
  Speaker 13: Lords?
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: You in.
• 18:08
  Speaker 12: Machine, you have a microphone. I'm freaking love.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: Did you have fun? And Fox? How was it?
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: Tell me about fox Wood?
• 18:21
  Speaker 9: Let me tell you it was delicious. The food was
• 18:23
  Speaker 9: like out amazing.
• 18:25
  Speaker 6: They well it was it was.
• 18:29
  Speaker 13: It was a chef.
• 18:30
  Speaker 9: It was for a chef, like you had me a kitchen. Yeah,
• 18:34
  Speaker 9: So she did like a presentation and she made all
• 18:37
  Speaker 9: the food and she taught the staff how to make
• 18:39
  Speaker 9: the food so that everybody who was there got to have,
• 18:42
  Speaker 9: you know, her recipe, her food. Yes, because she's trying
• 18:45
  Speaker 9: to bring like a Sunday dinner, like the traditional Sunday
• 18:49
  Speaker 9: dinner to somewhere like to this restaurant which is called
• 18:53
  Speaker 9: View twenty seven or yeah, and they're trying to do
• 18:56
  Speaker 9: something like that. So it was family style and it
• 18:59
  Speaker 9: was it was just out of this world.
• 19:01
  Speaker 6: It was fantastic. It was so good that Yeah.
• 19:03
  Speaker 13: And then there was an after party, but we skipped
• 19:05
  Speaker 13: it until later later because we want.
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: You wanted to gamble.
• 19:08
  Speaker 6: They were all gambling.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: Crack and we were right.
• 19:13
  Speaker 12: I changed time they did.
• 19:16
  Speaker 9: I go.
• 19:16
  Speaker 13: I jumped in the shower.
• 19:18
  Speaker 6: I said, I'm going to the after party.
• 19:19
  Speaker 9: She goes, called me if there's anyone else there wearing
• 19:21
  Speaker 9: sweatpants and I'll come.
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: Drunk.
• 19:28
  Speaker 6: Know what was going on? So you could have been
• 19:30
  Speaker 6: in this one.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: It was back so you will find you were good
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: round you like, can we go back and gamble? And
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: we did the best It was so funny.
• 19:42
  Speaker 11: She wasn't answering us right because they were partying and
• 19:44
  Speaker 11: there they couldn't hear us.
• 19:45
  Speaker 6: They couldn't they put some rain on.
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: What change? Can you give us a little?
• 19:57
  Speaker 6: A little.
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: Come on right and don't let us butcher your song
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: right now? Everybody Raina is in the audience. She just
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: did on my podcast.
• 20:08
  Speaker 6: She is not giving it away.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: Sing you can sing, Mama, I say, I think I
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: could sing, but I really can't. No, I think I
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: can when I have when I have the karaoke machine on,
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: I used to.
• 20:21
  Speaker 13: Yeah.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: No, my daughter got one when she was like ten
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: years old and for her Christmas. Well, I bought it
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: for her and guess who used it the whole time?
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: Did?
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: I would be calling my friends when they were at work,
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: and on their answer me she I'd be like, no,
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: I love blues.
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: I'd sing tom. I'd be singing like like what's his name?
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: Dunk sh dolland dunk and shan And I would be
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: and the cleaning ladies would come in my house and
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: came in and would listen to me.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: I just sing, and I would I thought I could.
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: I think I tried.
• 20:53
  Speaker 6: I did, But now we're singing is good too.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: I have no I took I took the karaoke machine
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: and it was out every day. It was pathetic.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: My friend said, Jen, you have to stop leaving messages
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: on because nobody's getting messages. Who's just singing on my
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: Anybody will listen.
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: That's I know. I will.
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: I'll give you one hundred. It's easy.
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: I have a feeling my voice will never sound good
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: ever heeds all this. That's the way we sound, right.
• 21:24
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I can rap at you can wrap, you got
• 21:30
  Speaker 10: rhythm are you can probably sing?
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: It's in there. Yeah, it's in there somewhere.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm taking in proper class.
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: I was like, she's something, something's caught in her eyes.
• 21:43
  Speaker 6: She's winking at.
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: The class.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: The night before I went to tell went to do
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: their podcast. So now I'm in a ten week court now,
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: which is so much fun.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: I like it. I have fun, Yeah, I do.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I do.
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: I like it a lot. It's fun, Yes, it is.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: It's probably the best.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: It is.
• 21:59
  Speaker 9: It's one of those things that you translates into the
• 22:01
  Speaker 9: rest of your life because you're always in some situation
• 22:03
  Speaker 9: that you didn't prepare for and you learn how to
• 22:06
  Speaker 9: deal with it.
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, However, I feel like I still can't deal with
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: every situation though with.
• 22:13
  Speaker 9: Then you you learn how to pass the book to
• 22:15
  Speaker 9: the next person.
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: You brought the energy to someone else.
• 22:18
  Speaker 7: You stand your ground and you don't speak, and you
• 22:21
  Speaker 7: make eye contact with someone else and you're like, come on.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: Come on, come on, come on, take it over, take
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: it over it so much.
• 22:29
  Speaker 6: That's a really good thing to do. Taking it proclass though, No,
• 22:31
  Speaker 6: it's fun.
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: I like you ladies do your dynamic. Like when you
• 22:34
  Speaker 5: guys are having your podcast you scripted, because.
• 22:38
  Speaker 13: I remember when I when I can't even write the intro.
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: Because when I was on your podcast, I'm like, these
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: ladies got no script and they're going.
• 22:45
  Speaker 12: No, I can't remember subscribing.
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: Yes, I know I had to help you, actually, but
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: you just did it.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: You just didn't you.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Now, I think when you don't tell her to do it,
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: she remembers it. It's it's when you put you on
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: the spot, because I'm like, did I say that, No,
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, I'm not gonna lie.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: She did that when I was there too, right, And
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: by the time.
• 23:09
  Speaker 9: She and yeah, by the time she gets it right,
• 23:13
  Speaker 9: she's so angry because it's been twenty minutes that her face.
• 23:18
  Speaker 9: She's like yeah, She's like like subscribing, and Blissa's like,
• 23:23
  Speaker 9: can we do that again?
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: Because that.
• 23:27
  Speaker 13: And because we're waiting for it to be finished, she's
• 23:29
  Speaker 13: the last person really, so I love it. Yes, person right,
• 23:34
  Speaker 13: which I can't wait too.
• 23:36
  Speaker 9: Someone told me when we were at I Think Foxwood.
• 23:38
  Speaker 9: Someone goes, yeah, you know, the thing I like about
• 23:40
  Speaker 9: your podcast is you really are three different personalities. And
• 23:46
  Speaker 9: I said, and we really are fighting.
• 23:49
  Speaker 6: I'm really.
• 23:53
  Speaker 13: Conversation.
• 23:54
  Speaker 12: We should irritated.
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: That would be a great just listening to the three ways.
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: I can feel that I feel that the one.
• 24:03
  Speaker 13: That's why I much shocked she's even saying this, because
• 24:06
  Speaker 13: you know, we actually sit down a three way call
• 24:08
  Speaker 13: and nobody talking says that.
• 24:10
  Speaker 12: I'm sitting there going okay.
• 24:11
  Speaker 13: Because we're usually listening to your talk to Sean, Michael
• 24:15
  Speaker 13: and Moscow.
• 24:17
  Speaker 12: I don't rescue my doggy Rasco.
• 24:19
  Speaker 11: Rascal the dog misses his mama and Sean and Michael
• 24:23
  Speaker 11: they are my children.
• 24:24
  Speaker 12: I feel like they're very long lost children because I
• 24:26
  Speaker 12: don't see them anymore.
• 24:27
  Speaker 6: They're nineteen and twenty, really out eighteen and twenty.
• 24:30
  Speaker 12: Let's cry again, cry me a ribbon when your son,
• 24:33
  Speaker 12: you know what, it was weird?
• 24:36
  Speaker 5: Have you cried like every.
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: Day I did?
• 24:39
  Speaker 9: Do you have a child?
• 24:42
  Speaker 10: I know?
• 24:43
  Speaker 9: But listen, I don't know if you've realized this, but
• 24:46
  Speaker 9: since I went to the high school graduation and I
• 24:48
  Speaker 9: watched him graduate from high.
• 24:50
  Speaker 6: School, a sense of calm came over me and I
• 24:53
  Speaker 6: and I was like, she was.
• 24:55
  Speaker 13: Just texting him out in the hallway, well because.
• 24:57
  Speaker 6: I want to know what classes he's taking, you know.
• 25:00
  Speaker 9: But I really felt like like, Okay, there's a part
• 25:04
  Speaker 9: of me that's I don't have any more you know,
• 25:07
  Speaker 9: public school children like that. Yeah, I'm done with mandatory school.
• 25:11
  Speaker 9: Fa Yeah, you're afraid.
• 25:13
  Speaker 12: Rights.
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: I feel like I just got let out of jail.
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: My youngest is twenty one, it's right, whoa? Right?
• 25:20
  Speaker 12: I mean, kid, whoa?
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: I have all adult children, right, which is amazing.
• 25:25
  Speaker 6: And isn't it weird that they was amazing?
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: Is it is amazing?
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: But my grandmother always said, the bigger the kids, the
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: bigger the problem.
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: She said that is true. Big kids, big problems. And
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: that's true. I mean, you know we have you know,
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: weddings called off, we have you know, Yeah, thank god, you.
• 25:44
  Speaker 12: Probably don't save enough money yet.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, I already paid. I paid for
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: it and got called on oh I lost money.
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: But I'll tell you this.
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: I told my daughter, I said before and I didn't
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: step in. I said, you know, you're going to live
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: a very, very sad life with this man. And I
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: can if I say it, well, I said it. But
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: then I'm back to why I.
• 26:05
  Speaker 5: Instantly you know what you did, you did.
• 26:07
  Speaker 7: I wasn't hover you deal with my father and you
• 26:10
  Speaker 7: do with my follow those which he gives you advice
• 26:12
  Speaker 7: and then he goes. But you know, it's just my opinions, saying,
• 26:16
  Speaker 7: but just saying. And then it's like if I don't
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: take the opinion and it goes the wrong way, he's told.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: You because she knows that. I would have said I
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: told you so, but you know she made the decision
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: on her own. But this is what happens as they
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: get older.
• 26:28
  Speaker 12: God gave me because I think the mother of the right.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: Yes, rough the mother, and followed we could pay for
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: the rehearsal.
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: The rehearsalsn't really go to a nice restaurant.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: I don't think that that happens that much anymore. I
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: think I think that the kids stopped paying for it.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: I think I think it's times.
• 26:50
  Speaker 13: Yeah, oh my, I apologize now.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: My grandmother said, you want a house or you want
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: to wed it. I said, I said I want a
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: house that I took the house.
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: I said, okay, but.
• 27:01
  Speaker 12: You know so no, you're like great weddings, but they
• 27:04
  Speaker 12: ended in divorce.
• 27:06
  Speaker 5: Wait, I'm not divorced, but they I'm not.
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: And now the place I was.
• 27:11
  Speaker 13: Just finalized.
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: How long? How long were you married? Nineteen years?
• 27:17
  Speaker 12: You twenty.
• 27:22
  Speaker 9: Twenty years.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: I was married twenty year twenty.
• 27:25
  Speaker 6: I had a couple of Okay, she's still married.
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: By the way.
• 27:29
  Speaker 11: Oh yeah, I needed health and drug my dental in
• 27:35
  Speaker 11: my eyes, I can't see see. I don't know what
• 27:39
  Speaker 11: color you wearing.
• 27:40
  Speaker 5: It's like a light pink atobe.
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: You better't have I.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Don't have a color on like I'm like, and I
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: don't like a cupcake beautiful, you know cupcakes.
• 27:52
  Speaker 13: And I and I just checked my email and realized
• 27:56
  Speaker 13: I was divorced.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:58
  Speaker 13: Wait, So before we went to Foxwood, I was like,
• 28:02
  Speaker 13: I've been waiting for that paper.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: I don't know why, because it's official.
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: I want it done. Yeah.
• 28:07
  Speaker 13: So she told me ninety days it takes. It was
• 28:09
  Speaker 13: sixty days, so I and I was like, what the sixteenth?
• 28:12
  Speaker 13: And I found it on Saturday.
• 28:14
  Speaker 9: She got the fastest divorce that's ever happened in the
• 28:17
  Speaker 9: history of man, because when she wants something, she will
• 28:21
  Speaker 9: stop at no. By no means to not get to
• 28:24
  Speaker 9: get it, she will She's she was not going to
• 28:27
  Speaker 9: rest until cool.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a lot easier when they're cool
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: about it.
• 28:32
  Speaker 13: Because my kids are still young, they still want him.
• 28:37
  Speaker 13: You know, my son called us when we were went
• 28:39
  Speaker 13: away this weekend and said, are you coming back? Crying hysterical,
• 28:42
  Speaker 13: like you know, are you coming back? Where do you
• 28:44
  Speaker 13: think you're going to go?
• 28:45
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: Well, Mom's always home base in some way, right, yeah moms.
• 28:50
  Speaker 13: Yeah, And so I said Angelo, I went out, like night,
• 28:54
  Speaker 13: what do you think I'm going?
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: Was just.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: All right, you know you do have a twenty year old, right,
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
• 29:05
  Speaker 6: It's sort of like I got.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: I'm not even calling you, right, But I have to
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: say though, my kids track me more than I tracked
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: them my twenty my thirty four years, like.
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: Why are you in for me?
• 29:17
  Speaker 13: Dale?
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: I thought what it was just that it's Robert's three
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning. I said, I said hello, because
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: I said, did you come out of my vagina? I'm
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: just curious, did you come out of my vagina? Then
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: leave me the funck along?
• 29:33
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: What the hell is your problem?
• 29:35
  Speaker 9: Like?
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: Seriously, I had to hang up on a like come
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: on like and they think I tracked them. They tracked me.
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: They want to know where I am. Yeah, it's so funny.
• 29:42
  Speaker 6: The roles get reversed pretty soon.
• 29:44
  Speaker 9: You're not there, You're not going to know where you are,
• 29:46
  Speaker 9: so they have then they have to know me, so
• 29:49
  Speaker 9: they don't know when that time is going to be.
• 29:50
  Speaker 12: You know, I'm in a grandma night gown.
• 29:54
  Speaker 6: Three am.
• 29:55
  Speaker 12: I'm going Why are you still up? Second mother?
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 30:03
  Speaker 12: Who is your mother?
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 30:05
  Speaker 12: Exactly how I'm ready to take my phone. If I
• 30:07
  Speaker 12: had an old school phone with a brown just go
• 30:09
  Speaker 12: to wat wrapped it around his neck, just strangle ship. Question.
• 30:15
  Speaker 12: I'm sitting at the table in a grandma nightgown.
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: You should have you should have said to Grandma, I'm
• 30:21
  Speaker 5: going out here.
• 30:22
  Speaker 13: You're proud of that.
• 30:23
  Speaker 5: You should have said I'm going out Its comfortable, it is.
• 30:26
  Speaker 12: Oh, yeah, I talk, I'm gonna go to the granny Club.
• 30:28
  Speaker 12: I'm calling my girls.
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: I think we should start the Granny clow.
• 30:31
  Speaker 7: Honestly, I'd be down I was so downright, really young man?
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: Sure why not?
• 30:36
  Speaker 13: You know what?
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: Let me ask you guys about that ass.
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: Okay, good one, good one?
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: What is what is the youngest that you would date?
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: Then you feel comfortable today? I can't.
• 30:47
  Speaker 13: I don't want twenties, not experienced, It'll be boring.
• 30:50
  Speaker 5: I agree, you don't want to have to be teaching
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: too much.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: What about you?
• 30:53
  Speaker 12: And it has to be older than my oldest son.
• 30:55
  Speaker 12: So I'm going to say thirty.
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: Okay, what about you?
• 30:58
  Speaker 6: I'm still married, You're still but I would date.
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: If you was divorce out. No, I.
• 31:08
  Speaker 9: I think it depends on the person. Because like one
• 31:10
  Speaker 9: of my friends got divorced and she's a few years
• 31:12
  Speaker 9: older than me, and so she was on whatever, Tinder
• 31:16
  Speaker 9: or whatever, and she matched with this guy and he
• 31:18
  Speaker 9: was like twenty seven. She's like, no way, I'm not
• 31:20
  Speaker 9: going out with a twenty seven year old. Then she
• 31:21
  Speaker 9: was like he was really nice. They were talking and
• 31:24
  Speaker 9: they went out and he was he was an old soul.
• 31:27
  Speaker 9: Like they actually met some meet somewhere in the middle
• 31:30
  Speaker 9: and they've been together for like six or seven years. Wow,
• 31:33
  Speaker 9: and she never thought she's sixty.
• 31:36
  Speaker 12: I would break my son's meat.
• 31:37
  Speaker 9: Yeah, he's but he didn't have a girl. He's never
• 31:41
  Speaker 9: been happier, this kid. And she's still the girl that
• 31:43
  Speaker 9: goes on the mash bit. She never had any kids.
• 31:45
  Speaker 9: You know, she's still the girl she worked in radio
• 31:47
  Speaker 9: for like twenty something years. Yeah, I mean she's got
• 31:50
  Speaker 9: He would by looking at her, you would think in
• 31:52
  Speaker 9: her converse and her whatever, that she's They're not that
• 31:55
  Speaker 9: much of a age difference, you know.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: I think when I think, I feel my oldest is
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: thirty for I think that I could not date somebody
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: my kid's age, just because I would feel like a pet.
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: I really and listen, let me tell you. I got
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: picked up on my daughter's ex fiance, one of his friends.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: I was in a club. I was not in a club.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: I was in Bungalow Barn, Rockaway and this kid comes
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: up to me. He's like, oh, my friend wants to
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: meet you. And he's like he wrote his number down
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: on a piece of paper.
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: Old school.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: I said, well, first of all, I have a problem
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: with that that you're calling me old and you handed
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: me his number.
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: He called you old school?
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: He said, he did an old school he said? He said,
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: I wrote it down on a piece of paper. And
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: I go, where's your friend from? He goes, he's from
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: how A Beach. I go, no, he's not, because I'm
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: from how Beach. I go where is he from originally?
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: And he goes, he's from Middle Village. I said, oh,
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: really does Really he's from Middle Village. That's from my
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: son in law was from.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: I said, really, does he Knowosepea? He goes, yeah, I said,
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: I'm his mother in law.
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: And then the kid didn't. He was he was petrified
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: because you know, they're not the family sweat. Let's let's
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: just say.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: And then the kid, the other kid came up, was like,
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: I don't care because I don't care because I have
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: my own house.
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: I have this, Like, oh, honey, can you avoid for twenty.
• 33:10
  Speaker 5: Thousand dollars a month exactly?
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: He said no. I said, yeah, well you can't afford me.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: Then I said, because that's what it costs to keep
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: me in the way that I want to be kept,
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: you know. So it's like when that and that makes
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: a difference, I'm sorry if you think, yeah, if you
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: think even more of that. But if you, if you,
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: that would be minimal. But I'm saying like that would
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: be that would be maybe acceptable.
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: But like you, I was like, I don't want to
• 33:35
  Speaker 4: date you. Want want to put you to college.
• 33:37
  Speaker 13: Man, I don't want to date you.
• 33:39
  Speaker 5: I want to though you do that.
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: I want to go fund me. It's in you to college,
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: like show a.
• 33:47
  Speaker 13: Year, get to college.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: Wants to be your life. But I said, don't, don't
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: put it down. They make six It gives great.
• 34:01
  Speaker 6: To school, right, And do we have to go to
• 34:05
  Speaker 6: private school? Like can't we go to CuNi or so?
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, well.
• 34:13
  Speaker 12: He loves school, he's going.
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: You know what, if he's happy, then he's willing to
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: go that. That's fine.
• 34:18
  Speaker 12: A second, he loves be the president.
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, god bless Yes, that's true. Make good money because yeah,
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: he doesn't have to just pick up the garbage. He
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: could work. He could become a delegate.
• 34:32
  Speaker 11: Learn how the garbage is set up, take it from
• 34:34
  Speaker 11: the house to the how about you learn?
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: How about you learn by taking the garbage out of
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: the house and throwing it away, And that's how you.
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: Could have st learned how to do I did the
• 34:45
  Speaker 6: same thing.
• 34:45
  Speaker 9: I went to my son works at I Hop and
• 34:47
  Speaker 9: I went into I Hop to see what time he's
• 34:49
  Speaker 9: getting out, and he's he's sweeping. I'm like, is that
• 34:54
  Speaker 9: my son sweeping? I'm like, I'm like, you know, you
• 34:58
  Speaker 9: could practice this at how many times?
• 34:59
  Speaker 6: You'd be much better at work.
• 35:01
  Speaker 13: He's like, they do a lot.
• 35:05
  Speaker 12: They help out a lot too, They're very good.
• 35:09
  Speaker 6: Have you seen her angry? Yeah, she's scary when she's angry.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: Though.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: Christie is like me, She's she could come off a
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: little abrasive, but she's she's a swifty.
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah. I'm a I'm abrasive, but I'm so swifty. Yeah.
• 35:27
  Speaker 14: At the end of the day, like her nine year
• 35:29
  Speaker 14: old comes in the studio, you don't like me. I
• 35:36
  Speaker 14: look like after this conversation, not.
• 35:39
  Speaker 12: Gonna like you, Like, I want to dance with me.
• 35:44
  Speaker 12: I want to dance with him.
• 35:46
  Speaker 8: Oh my god, you just want to dance with somebody
• 35:48
  Speaker 8: on Saturday when we left, but you know what, since
• 35:53
  Speaker 8: they're born really yeah, but then you guys came back together.
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: I need real estates.
• 36:00
  Speaker 13: I reached out to her. Yeah, and then but and then.
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: We will you know, but you went to school together, right,
• 36:09
  Speaker 5: She wasn't there much.
• 36:12
  Speaker 12: Well, I'm sorry, I was nursing a child.
• 36:17
  Speaker 6: I thought that was eighth grade.
• 36:23
  Speaker 5: It's all very stand like graduating highs from top of
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: my club for you.
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: That's because she's Jewish.
• 36:31
  Speaker 6: That's your Jewish.
• 36:33
  Speaker 4: That's a Jewish.
• 36:34
  Speaker 11: I got to tell you when I when I did
• 36:36
  Speaker 11: get birth, my mother was dying overavarian cancer.
• 36:39
  Speaker 12: But she did go up to school and my principal,
• 36:42
  Speaker 12: you bothered my do I will? Yeah, she's like me,
• 36:47
  Speaker 12: but on the very nice principal, Well, I wish. I
• 36:51
  Speaker 12: guess being brightnant tenth grade is kind of frowned upon.
• 36:56
  Speaker 6: Yeah, not only there by the way it's frowned upon.
• 36:59
  Speaker 6: It a socials.
• 37:03
  Speaker 9: So you were gonna tell us the story when you
• 37:05
  Speaker 9: were on our podcast, you said there was a good
• 37:07
  Speaker 9: story about cats and pudding that you never told us.
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: It's a good story about cats.
• 37:12
  Speaker 6: How you got the name?
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: That's why I just told you the name.
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: How oh I didn't tell you I told the last one. Okay,
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: So okay, so this is how I got my name.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: So I'm sitting there. I love hot pudding right off
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: the stalls, okay, with the spoon, like I like literally
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: like I eat it like hot from the pot. The
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: towels down on me and I'm eating it out of
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: the pot like it's just come hot right off the stove.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: So my ex fiance at the time makes me the
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: hot pudding and I'm sitting there with my two cats
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: next to me on the sofa with the fucking.
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: Towel, get out of the pot with the spoon. It's
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: all over like an animal. I mean, I got talking
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: everywhere and I'm looking. I'm going, this is what my
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: life's become.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: It used to be heels and clubs, and now it's
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: cats and fucking pudding.
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: And then that's where the name came from. That's awesome,
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: that's where it came from.
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: And they were like, that's a good name for a
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: pot casts because my show is about anything from cats
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: to pudding.
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: Basically, I love you, I love my cats. Yes, mighty fine.
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: You don't know that. No, the real putting is on
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: the stove hot, like, but how do you make it?
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: Put it on the how do you make it milk?
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: A there's a packet. It's a pa It's called mighty Fine.
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: It's a packet and and you have to watch it because.
• 38:34
  Speaker 6: It will be so you have to like really like
• 38:37
  Speaker 6: it's one of those.
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and then it takes tastes funny if it's but
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: it's so good hot, like I can't even wait for
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: it to cool to eat it. I have to eat
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: it right out of the stove burning. It's like heaven.
• 38:54
  Speaker 12: And you don't give a crap. You don't.
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: It all right, but it's a hot pot and don't
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: want to burn myself. Do I have to sit and
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: eat it like this? Yeah? No, do what you gotta do?
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: I babe, I was, I was eating. It was on
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: a kick. I was eating every night. Every night.
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: I would have ten boxes of pudding in my cabin.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: I'm like, let's do a box. And I wouldn't share
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: it with nobody else, just me.
• 39:18
  Speaker 6: Did anyone well?
• 39:19
  Speaker 9: I mean, if somebody walked by and saw you going
• 39:21
  Speaker 9: like this, they would actually ask.
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: I guess would look at me like.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: Really, I'm like, oh, go fuck yourself, say I did
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: get But you know what, now I know why we
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: why we click so much, because we like hot pudding.
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: We love hot pudding.
• 39:48
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna go home tonight.
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna go home.
• 39:49
  Speaker 12: And she was getting hooked up.
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: I haven't even seen this I know, take a picture
• 39:55
  Speaker 5: and now.
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna do you know what, We're gonna do it
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: tonight together. That's it, and we're gonna I We're gonna.
• 40:01
  Speaker 9: Both make it and eat it.
• 40:03
  Speaker 5: No, you got to go by Mighty I'm like Chris.
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: There's no jello cop it's made. It comes in a box.
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: It's a powder, my.
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: Children, that's because you never find the Mighty Fine, my
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: tea Fine, and it's oh my god, it's so gone.
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we're gonna, we're gonna do it tonight.
• 40:26
  Speaker 12: I'm not we're gonna do it like that. I'm not
• 40:27
  Speaker 12: gonna put my grandma.
• 40:30
  Speaker 5: I feel like you need to do the whole brand,
• 40:32
  Speaker 5: the whole thing.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: I think we could get like endorsements from Mighty Fine.
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: After that, we can't look. I swear to god, I
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: think we get endorsements.
• 40:47
  Speaker 9: Mighty Fine is probably like three people in a department
• 40:50
  Speaker 9: of Nabisco that they don't know are there. There's nobody
• 40:54
  Speaker 9: told them they're not making They're still making it people.
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: My tea Fine.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: Yes, it's in a blue and white box.
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: Now it's a brown and white box. I know, I
• 41:09
  Speaker 4: know we're gonna we're in phone jail, right now jail. Well,
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: we're gonna do this.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: We're definitely gonna do this and have them like like,
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: you know, get the whole full spectrum of the mighty
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: fine existence.
• 41:23
  Speaker 12: So do I I was waiting for my friends.
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: Well, now we're going to be putting friends. That's it.
• 41:29
  Speaker 4: We're putting friends. You should I need to have a pudding.
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: She should have a putting sponsor. I'd be fine if
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: you're out there.
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: Might be fine. If you're out there. That's how I
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: got my name. Come in here putting with a towel.
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: I know. I want to make it with just one cat.
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: I want to make one with one. Black dogs and Diltos.
• 41:53
  Speaker 6: Well, she's seen at least one of them in the
• 41:55
  Speaker 6: last twenty four hours.
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: No, she just walked ahead the microphone. I love them
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: so much. Dogs.
• 42:11
  Speaker 6: I like at least I've got one out of the two.
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: I love them so much. I had so much fun on.
• 42:15
  Speaker 9: I actually want to do a sex podcast, like I
• 42:18
  Speaker 9: want to do one because there's a lot of different
• 42:20
  Speaker 9: things that happen when your hormones change, and there's a
• 42:23
  Speaker 9: lot of there's sometimes obstacles to overcome, you know, because
• 42:27
  Speaker 9: hormones are a big part of sex and so I
• 42:29
  Speaker 9: want to, you know, like help people.
• 42:32
  Speaker 6: That's what we were doing on the street interviews.
• 42:33
  Speaker 9: And one of the first questions that people, the strangers
• 42:35
  Speaker 9: that we'd come up to, which Christy said, asked them
• 42:37
  Speaker 9: they look the middle age and she's like, I'm twenty six.
• 42:41
  Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, I guess you're not.
• 42:42
  Speaker 9: But some of the the middle aged women, they were like, sex,
• 42:45
  Speaker 9: That's what I want to know about because I'm having trouble.
• 42:47
  Speaker 9: Was so I wanted to do an episode like that.
• 42:50
  Speaker 5: You need to have a sex doctor on or something.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 42:52
  Speaker 9: And there's so many things that they make you know, wait,
• 42:57
  Speaker 9: that's amazing to do that, but there's a lot boys.
• 43:02
  Speaker 12: I'm not.
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: What if you just were there and support and you
• 43:06
  Speaker 5: didn't say anything.
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but.
• 43:11
  Speaker 6: I don't think she can't not say anything.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: I have a feeling you're not going to be able
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: to hold your tongue. You'd have to say something. H
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: m hmmm. I think that that would be a great
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: topics topic, like yeah, yeah, I'm you.
• 43:29
  Speaker 7: Yes, you might have to be there, Yeah, you might
• 43:35
  Speaker 7: have to have a guest co host, yes, if he comes.
• 43:39
  Speaker 6: On, right, That's one of the things I wanted.
• 43:45
  Speaker 9: I want for us is to be able to like
• 43:47
  Speaker 9: destigmatize midlife because it's not like all of a sudden
• 43:51
  Speaker 9: you reach a certain age and you're done, you know,
• 43:54
  Speaker 9: you reach a certain agent, you're done with giving a fuck,
• 43:56
  Speaker 9: you know, like, and so you have so much many
• 43:58
  Speaker 9: more options that you know, and so that I want
• 44:01
  Speaker 9: to do the same thing.
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: I want to do.
• 44:02
  Speaker 9: Stigmatize sex, age, everything, because everyone has all these opinions
• 44:06
  Speaker 9: about it and it changes through the generations. I mean,
• 44:10
  Speaker 9: right now, think about it. You know, we have access
• 44:13
  Speaker 9: to stuff that are you know that we never had
• 44:18
  Speaker 9: as a child, you know.
• 44:19
  Speaker 6: We a cell phone? Are you kidding me?
• 44:21
  Speaker 9: If somebody would have told you in seventh grade that
• 44:24
  Speaker 9: you were going to have a computer in the palm
• 44:26
  Speaker 9: of your hand, you would have laughed hysterically, you know.
• 44:29
  Speaker 6: Yeah, And now it's like it's totally.
• 44:33
  Speaker 4: What a great idea. No, high school, I didn't get
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: a cell phones?
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: Yes, out of high school.
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: Now our cell.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: Phones the first one in a suitcase like this, yeah,
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: and you have to carry around or in the car.
• 44:49
  Speaker 4: That was the only phone that was there was a
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: car phone.
• 44:51
  Speaker 9: It was like it like this and it was shaped
• 44:54
  Speaker 9: like it was like this big and then they were
• 44:56
  Speaker 9: this big.
• 44:57
  Speaker 5: Don't you remember the beepers.
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: The next cell and nobody had.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: Next okay, but nobody had next cell.
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: Etiquette I was like sharp trap and they wouldn't they
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: wouldn't know how to like annoy so annoying. Most people
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: did not to use them and then were and they
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: would just start charping and scharping. It's like chip trip.
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: So that was my Yeah, yep, that was a sidekick.
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: That was that. That was a big one that it was.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: The razors were before the sidekick.
• 45:28
  Speaker 13: The first one I think was like very common, was
• 45:30
  Speaker 13: like a Nokia the sneaking. Yeah, it was like one
• 45:33
  Speaker 13: of the that's when I think m C I.
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: Was like, that was a flip phone. It was a
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: flip phone. My god, remember that, Like it was yesterday.
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: That crazy.
• 45:41
  Speaker 13: But now, I mean, I can't live without my phone.
• 45:42
  Speaker 5: We were talking about this before. If you left your
• 45:44
  Speaker 5: house without your phone, are you like I gotta go back.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's so said that that was so connected
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: to our phone and like it's just at nighttime.
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: Now lately I've been trying to put it down and
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: try to do another room.
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: I put in another room or I usually lose it
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: in my bed when I'm watching TV, so it's like
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: I can't find it. It's always on silent anyway, so
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: people like I'm trying.
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: To cool it. I'm like, yeah, it's on silent.
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: Charge another rooms, yeah, because I need that time to
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: deer pressed press.
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: You know, at the end of the day, your kids,
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: Mike is a home.
• 46:19
  Speaker 12: My kids, Michael is like a vegabond. Like my nineteen
• 46:23
  Speaker 12: year old is just I'm out.
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: He's out. Yeah, I'm out.
• 46:26
  Speaker 12: I went to eat, going out. Thank you. How much
• 46:31
  Speaker 12: money do you need because you're not doing it on
• 46:33
  Speaker 12: your good luck? So I need my money.
• 46:36
  Speaker 11: So you want to tell me today it's seven hundred
• 46:38
  Speaker 11: dollars for a house on the lake? Where are you
• 46:43
  Speaker 11: in the Pocono.
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: Stop it.
• 46:46
  Speaker 5: I hope he's having a good time, Michael.
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: Michael, you're having a good time.
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: Ah, that's nice. They're partying on the Poconos. Yeah, yeah,
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: the good kids. The youth is wasted on the young, right,
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: It totally is.
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: We should you do it? That's Randy.
• 47:14
  Speaker 5: Could you be the end to take its?
• 47:17
  Speaker 13: Well?
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: Set us?
• 47:18
  Speaker 5: It's actually really fun.
• 47:21
  Speaker 12: You can't do it no more. I'm just getting there.
• 47:24
  Speaker 4: We'll be the backup. I'll be the bat.
• 47:26
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  Speaker 9: Of nervous sometimes when we have guests, but we don't
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  Speaker 13: Was the football team?
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  Speaker 4: I think that we should all do a panel together.
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  Speaker 4: that people could just ask us stuff like life, Oh
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