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BREAK UP WITH YOUR FRIEND · Blind But Now I See

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  Speaker 1: Back at it for another episode of the Blonde but
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, we gotta we got a good episode this time. Man, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we got a good episode.
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  Speaker 3: So great episode. Yeah, So what we're.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna get into are usually before me and you know,
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  Speaker 2: get into these episodes.
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  Speaker 1: Of debriefed the outline real quick, prepid prep. It should
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, try to see how you feel about it, you know,
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  Speaker 2: trying to just get a feel like, how do you
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  Speaker 2: feel about this?
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  Speaker 1: We experienced it, we done faced.
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  Speaker 4: It, we overcame it. So we want to know how
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  Speaker 1: us your experience and how you felt about it. Tell
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  Speaker 1: us ship share it to a friend like you remember
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  Speaker 1: when this bit no did that, you know, And we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna move on from there. But I'm back, Yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna get into this. But so hopefully you know
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  Speaker 1: y'all y'all get rid of some dad weight and everything else.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, so the episode is about We're probably gonna
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  Speaker 2: change the title. You know, one thing about podcasting, you know,
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  Speaker 2: titling is everything. So this people. Yeah, so this might
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  Speaker 2: not be the title, you know what I mean. If
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  Speaker 2: you see the title might look different, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean, don't worry about it. But for now, this
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  Speaker 2: is what the topic is. And the topic is when
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  Speaker 2: should you break up with your friend?
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  Speaker 4: What about your friend?
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  Speaker 1: That's that TLZ should I would just listen to Wilson,
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  Speaker 1: listen to DC. But when should you break up with
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  Speaker 1: your friend? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: When should you break up with your friend? And I
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  Speaker 2: got some questions that I want to ask you. I
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  Speaker 2: want to get your opinion, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 2: because obviously you're somebody who got a lot of wisdom,
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  Speaker 2: you got a lot of insight, and I think a
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  Speaker 2: lot of people can.
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  Speaker 3: Learn from I've lived a lot of shit.
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  Speaker 1: I've ran through a lot of friends until I got
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  Speaker 1: the friends I got today. So yeah, we all have
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  Speaker 1: lived this and be moving and grooving. But man, what's
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  Speaker 1: the question? All right?
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  Speaker 3: So I got to them. I'm gonna just go ahead,
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  Speaker 3: get started real quick.
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  Speaker 2: So my first question for you is have you ever
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  Speaker 2: felt like you were outgrowing someone but didn't know how
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  Speaker 2: to let them know?
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  Speaker 1: All the time, I felt all right, growing up? When
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  Speaker 1: you are growing up? You teenage, when you have these friends,
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  Speaker 1: you feel like they forever. You feel like we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: die together. We ride together like bad boys for life,
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  Speaker 1: martn fucking well and all that. But then when you
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  Speaker 1: see that you walking in the straight arrow and your
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  Speaker 1: friend is doing zigzags and all that, as much as
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  Speaker 1: you want to hold onto that shit, we really have
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  Speaker 1: to let go. Sometimes it's like, I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: say the weed thing because it's like you have a
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  Speaker 1: mind of your own. You see your friend with smoking
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  Speaker 1: weed over here, but you don't. It's different things. I
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  Speaker 1: just feel one the friend word is being pushed and
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  Speaker 1: we really don't know. To me and of a friend,
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  Speaker 1: A friend ain't gonna leave you out there. A friend
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna bring you into no bullshit. A friend they're
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  Speaker 1: gonna drag you behind the jail walls or even put
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  Speaker 1: your life in danger. I feel like, once you feel
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  Speaker 1: like your friend is doing that, you gotta let go.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta let go, and it might be hard because
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  Speaker 1: you feel like, damn, I knew this nigga for eight years.
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  Speaker 1: I knew this nigga since well, since we was eight
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  Speaker 1: years old. But you came in this word by yourself.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna leave by yourself that friend. Sometimes friends just
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  Speaker 1: be full of shit. It'd be envy like like jealousy
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  Speaker 1: and ship like that you have more than your friend.
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  Speaker 4: Your friend will do anything just to bring you down.
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  Speaker 1: But we gotta let go a lot of friends, Like
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  Speaker 1: I had to let go a lot of friends I
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  Speaker 1: love like me too, all right scenario And I talked
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  Speaker 1: about it before. My best friend my right hand, like
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  Speaker 1: he's still he's still my best friend, you feel me?
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  Speaker 1: Best friend is alcoholic. I don't line it. I don't
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  Speaker 1: line with that. So it's like I can't sit around
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  Speaker 1: you all day and watch you just drink. I can't
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  Speaker 1: because I'm not doing it. And so it's like I
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  Speaker 1: gotta let go as hard as it, like, I want
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  Speaker 1: to take you with me because I'm doing good things.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a podcast studio, I'm doing parties, like I'm
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  Speaker 1: really trying to elevate to get to the top of
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  Speaker 1: this mountain.
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  Speaker 3: I will want to take you with me.
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  Speaker 1: But then again, it's like me worrying about you and
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  Speaker 1: having to watch you with the alcohol and all that shit.
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  Speaker 1: I'm slowing my process down. Everybody can't go. So even
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  Speaker 1: though it be hard that you don't want to let
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  Speaker 1: this person go. That person gotta want to help itself.
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  Speaker 1: So if that person can't help itself, then who is
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  Speaker 1: my to try to help you and slow my process down?
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  Speaker 1: That we both back at square one, And I'm mad
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  Speaker 1: at myself because I wasted my time and my energy
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  Speaker 1: waiting on you. Now, you gotta that's a friend you
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  Speaker 1: gotta let go. You gotta love that friend from you.
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  Speaker 1: Don't gotta let him go completely, like stop fucking with them,
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  Speaker 1: but you gotta love.
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  Speaker 4: Them from a distance. And it's nothing, it's really not
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  Speaker 4: wrong with that. Like what experience you through situations like that?
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  Speaker 1: Me?
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  Speaker 2: Oh man, I mean I feel like my whole life
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  Speaker 2: story is about outgrowing my friends for real. It's like
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  Speaker 2: for me, it was more so like getting to today.
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  Speaker 2: So I dropped out of college. And when I dropped
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  Speaker 2: out of college, I was like, I mean shit, shit
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  Speaker 2: about to get real because one thing I can't be.
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  Speaker 2: I can't be another one of these people just walking
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  Speaker 2: around my city with nothing to do, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean? Like that just couldn't be me because I
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  Speaker 2: would see that, I would see niggas just walking around
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  Speaker 2: all the time. I was just like, I don't want
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  Speaker 2: that to be so I you know, I just I
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  Speaker 2: want success. I don't got to get it through college,
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  Speaker 2: but I do want success. So I was, you know,
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  Speaker 2: getting serious, bro, about trying to just be around the
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  Speaker 2: right people, learn the right things, just change my habits,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, change shit.
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  Speaker 3: I was spending money on just trying to get right.
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  Speaker 2: And then once I realized that some of the people around
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  Speaker 2: me wasn't didn't want what I wanted as bad as
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  Speaker 2: I wanted it, then I realized like I had to separate.
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  Speaker 3: And and then you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, and we ain't even really get into this, but
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  Speaker 2: then that creates a whole other discussion and that we
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  Speaker 2: could talk about in another episode. Because at first, what
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  Speaker 2: I did was I cut them off, like I just
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  Speaker 2: burned the bridge completely, and then like for a couple
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  Speaker 2: of years, and then I double back after a couple
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  Speaker 2: of years, and I realized, like, you know what, bro,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't have to cut them off completely like I
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  Speaker 2: then killed them, you know what I mean, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: have to kill them completely. I could just limit my
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  Speaker 2: access because it's still things about them that I liked
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  Speaker 2: and those things didn't go away.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's cool, and it's cool. Love them from
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  Speaker 3: a distance. Yeah, love them from a distance. It's cool,
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  Speaker 3: like you're still my boy.
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  Speaker 1: But it's like I'm running to be this lawyer. I'm
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  Speaker 1: running to to be a judge. You over here, you
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  Speaker 1: you want to be a bet, you want to be
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  Speaker 1: big meat. We just don't on line with each other. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I love you because, like we've been through a lot
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  Speaker 1: of shit. Friends go through a lot of shit. Friends
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  Speaker 1: go through more ship than their own family, right than family.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like you're my dog, but I gotta love
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  Speaker 1: you on reach because I can fuck up my career
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  Speaker 1: just being over here chilling with you. You gotta let go, bro,
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  Speaker 1: And as my friend, you should say, nah, Bro, you nigga,
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  Speaker 1: you're doing good.
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  Speaker 4: Stay away from me, ye, nigga, see me when you
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  Speaker 4: see me, Nigga, I love you.
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  Speaker 3: I love you.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people have problems with that. Oh you're
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  Speaker 1: going crazy, bro, Like I feel like a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people feel like when you distance themself or that nigga
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  Speaker 1: think he better than us. Now, it's just you're not
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  Speaker 1: chasing this dream that I'm chasing. Bro. It's like we
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  Speaker 1: don't align with the same dream, we don't align with
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  Speaker 1: the same goals. I want to get out of property.
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  Speaker 1: You want to stay in this ship?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Nah, I feel like I deserve better, I deserve more.
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  Speaker 1: You comfortable now you're still my friend. Doesn't mean you're
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  Speaker 1: still my friend. Just mean I just gotta distance you
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  Speaker 1: full like hit you with the full home like because
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  Speaker 1: you can't bring me. I don't want you to bring
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  Speaker 1: me down with you. Bro.
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  Speaker 3: There's actually so much I want to say to what
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  Speaker 3: you just said, but.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta move on because we'll stay on that part forever.
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  Speaker 1: But that's I couldn't agree to speak to the people.
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  Speaker 1: And I know it's home. I know it's somebody home.
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  Speaker 1: That's like, damn, like he might he hit it on
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  Speaker 1: the nose. Damn. Maybe I gotta distance myself because people
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  Speaker 1: got this this word loyalty, loving loyalty fucked up. You
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  Speaker 1: could be loyal to a nigga, but you don't got
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  Speaker 1: anther that nigga bring you down and be loyal either.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, if I see your path going down to
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  Speaker 1: dream I'm gonna be loyal to you and go down
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  Speaker 1: to dram with you. Not when I got dreams and goals. No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm loyal and I love you and got loyalty to you,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna go down that path you're going,
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  Speaker 1: so like, straighten up, young Kings. Could those be the
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  Speaker 1: main ones that you want to be a rider? You're
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  Speaker 1: throwing your whole life away to a nigga that probably
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  Speaker 1: would have showed no loyalty to you if they had
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  Speaker 1: a chance to turn you in. We got to straighten up,
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  Speaker 1: real shit.
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  Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, how do you know when
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  Speaker 2: the relationship with your friend is becoming dead way?
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  Speaker 1: How do I know from my relationship becoming dead weight? See?
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  Speaker 1: Like this shit is crazy. Like when you feel like
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  Speaker 1: you're carrying that person, You feel like that person have
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  Speaker 1: no goals, no motivation, no dreams, no nothing. It's like
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  Speaker 1: a right be everywhere I go. It's like I gotta,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta I'm carrying you. I gotta put you on
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  Speaker 1: my back, Gotta let sometimes you gotta gotta let that
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  Speaker 1: shit go, like I said, like I said in my
• 10:27
  Speaker 1: last episode, shout out to my boy Chris, but he
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  Speaker 1: moved around with people and it's just like y'all not
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  Speaker 1: head to booth, like y'all not here to push me
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  Speaker 1: to be better, y'all dragging me down by having y'all
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: handout as he DJ like you DJ, you get pai
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  Speaker 1: three hundred dollars, and then when you get off, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta split that shit three ways with two other niggas
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  Speaker 1: that didn't help you set their equipment up, that didn't
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  Speaker 1: help you spin a record, that didn't help you. Break
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  Speaker 1: this shit down, take it to your car. That's dead weight.
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  Speaker 1: But now it's like they got their hands out. It's
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: more on some what could you do for me instead
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  Speaker 1: of what could we do to help to push the
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  Speaker 1: dream to be better? Like one thing I learned, everybody
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  Speaker 1: don't have to be the star. So it's like if
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  Speaker 1: you the star wolf, and if I can bring value
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  Speaker 1: by being a manager or being a secretary, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: do it. Why because the light is on you ain't.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not ego tripping, but a lot of niggas be
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  Speaker 1: feeling like if he the start of the night. Fuck,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna break this shit down and all I'm
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  Speaker 1: just wait till you get paid. I'm a benefit off
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  Speaker 1: this shit.
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  Speaker 3: That's good.
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  Speaker 1: That's that weight. Let me let that go, Let me
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  Speaker 1: let that shit go. It's good when when you home
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  Speaker 1: and you don't miss talking to your friend, that's when
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  Speaker 1: you know you're outgrowing up all right, cool because you
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  Speaker 1: don't gotta talk to your friend every day to know
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  Speaker 1: that's your friend. But when you sit there and they
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  Speaker 1: bring up a name and it's like it ain't that,
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  Speaker 1: Like that's my brother, that's my heart. If you don't
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  Speaker 1: got that feeling on more, like y'all growing apart that
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  Speaker 1: Like I got a lot of dead weight friends. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: when I come to the corner and I come to
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  Speaker 1: the block, y're still on that same corner that I left.
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  Speaker 1: Like I haven't been in the hood, damn there four
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  Speaker 1: or five years, but when I come back, that's still
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  Speaker 1: on that corner, y'all dead way. I can't take y'all
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  Speaker 1: with me assets of a liability. A lot of niggas
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  Speaker 1: out here his liabilities. I can't. I just can't do
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  Speaker 1: it no more. And as you get older, you'll you'll
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  Speaker 1: understand better. Like even though this ship man and all
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  Speaker 1: that shit, you gotta really see what is he doing
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  Speaker 1: to help me out? How's he benefiting me? Like I'm
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: thirty four that I can honestly, I got real friends.
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: Every time I drop a podcast, shout out till I
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  Speaker 1: real love. He'll call me, yo, bro, I love that podcast, Yo, bro,
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  Speaker 1: do this say like talk louder, Yo bro. People want
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: to see your personality just that he teaks every episode
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  Speaker 1: I drop. But it's not in a way of you
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  Speaker 1: hating saying that I'm not doing it perfect. It's a
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  Speaker 1: way you just telling me like yo, the viewers will
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  Speaker 1: want to see this. The viewers want to see that
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  Speaker 1: you're giving me your your opinion on the other side
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  Speaker 1: of that screen, like what could make me better? I
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  Speaker 1: love you for that. Like I drop a clip you
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  Speaker 1: sharing it, I love you for that. Like there's no
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  Speaker 1: ego tripping because he's and the first thing I'm like, yo, bro,
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate the love he said, Nah, bro, because when
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  Speaker 1: you go, I know you, I know I'm going with you.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like I'm gonna do whatever to take to
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  Speaker 1: get this message out and not just sitting back then
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  Speaker 1: saying I'm just waiting for my man to get it
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  Speaker 1: so he can take me with. Are you helping me
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  Speaker 1: push the push the mission? Nah? That's that's real. Friends.
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  Speaker 1: Now you got them friends that be sitting up there,
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  Speaker 1: you had a podcast this and the third you be
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  Speaker 1: next to this person. That person, yo bro, Can I
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  Speaker 1: come to the studio do to get out of it.
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  Speaker 1: But no, Lie, like wheezy enough when the next time
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna be in the studio with them, Bro, I
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  Speaker 1: want to come whit. No, sir, what value you bringing? Nah?
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  Speaker 1: It ain't that type of part. Damn. Bro. You be
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  Speaker 1: with Gilliga yo, Nah? What value you bringing? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: And that's the word value. I don't think too many.
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  Speaker 2: It's like sometimes especially as black people, Bro, we think
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  Speaker 2: about money, but we don't think about value, and we
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  Speaker 2: don't we don't really understand the difference. But it's important
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  Speaker 2: that we do because maybe once we do, we can
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  Speaker 2: start to understand how this world, how this life ship
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  Speaker 2: really work.
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  Speaker 1: No, lot, we live in a crab in a barrel
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  Speaker 1: the world. Yeah, Like they see you coming up, they're
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: gonna grab you. Like somebody said that, like grabbing a barrel.
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  Speaker 1: Do you see the crab at the top, anybody grabbing on?
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  Speaker 1: But you never see on the crab like climbing on
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: top of each other. So we all can get the
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: funk about it. Like that's how I said, No, lie,
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  Speaker 1: not like the value. For instance, I'm the star. It
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  Speaker 1: should be somebody. I should have a friend over here.
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  Speaker 1: Answering my emails I said, have a friend over here,
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  Speaker 1: senter ten emails out of day. I said, be have
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  Speaker 1: a front over here, answering phone calls. I should have
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  Speaker 1: a friend out. You're hitting the pay with like a
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: street team, passing out flights and all that shit. And
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: we go on our ego treatment. Why because we got
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  Speaker 1: to protect the money. We got to push the money
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  Speaker 1: because if I know he make it, we all gonna
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  Speaker 1: make it.
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  Speaker 4: Some people want you to answer the email, answer the numbers,
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: send it out.
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: And all that. And then at the end when you
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: when you cross the finish line, they jumping up and
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: down like they did it too. Nah, we got we
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: gotta stop that ship. Like what about you? When do
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: you feel like it's dead weight on your shoulder, like
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: when you carry in too many people.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: It's the same thing, bro, It's exactly how you explained it,
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: like whenever you're making strides and you and you doing
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: what you gotta do to progress and make sure you
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: get more than what you had. And people they here
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: for the success, you know what I mean, They here
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: for everything that you're gonna gain through your victory. But
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: you wasn't hearing from my process when Rick Ross said
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: you wasn't with me shooting in the gym. But you're
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: here for the for the for the championship and the trophy.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: You want to take pictures and ship.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: Everybody want to celebrate, but nobody want to be there
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: when it's practice.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you said it perfectly, like before I
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: ask you my next question, like you said it perfectly.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Like it's about value, Like if you see that I
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: got something going on, add value to add value, and
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: adding value means like what can I do to help?
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: It's that simple, And you know what.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Everybody at different stages and levels of their life, right
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: Like if you don't understand audio equipment and camera equipment
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: and ship like that, you don't got to feel like
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: you don't got no value to offer. You can still
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: offer offer value in what you can.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: Do YouTube universary. If you really want to help the
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: person push they calls they let me, let me go
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: on YouTube. Let me see how I can add value
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: to the working these cameras, working with mikes. Let me
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: it's it's the littlest things that people just don't want
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: to do.
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: Answer to the emails, Like you said, listen.
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: The emails, bro, this guest right here, let me send
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: an email.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: Let me see that.
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: No, lie, my son bring value to my podcast when.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: He checking and when he checking the dms, when he reposting,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: when he's on TikTok, and he responded back to the
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: people when they leave comments. My niece add value to me.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Now these kids add value to me, Uncle Chris. She
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: wrote you in the inbox. She did this, She did that, Yo,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: go on YouTube, they responded back to the on YouTube,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: they seeing how many views, how many subscribers. These kids
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: add valuable And then we have grown ass people that
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: don't want They want to celebrate, but they never want
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: to put the work in with you.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: Bro, I say all the time, bro, kids get it, Bro, Yo,
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: pay attention to the kids.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Bro.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: The adults they getting small sni the order they get.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: The kids get it. The kids is way more hustlers
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: than the adults. Let me ask you this. Have you
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: ever had a friend that you thought was secretly hating
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: on you?
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Believe it or not. Every day we wake up in
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: somebody that's hating on us. Well, a friend that's hating
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: on um.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, But if you ever had a friend that you
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: felt like was superly hating.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: On you, friend, Like growing up, my family was friends
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: before I really got into the world, so it was
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: like their friends. So when I see family hating on me,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: I put that in past nobody in these streets because
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: the family could do it, a friend could do it.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: I feel like like, like people be secretly hating on you.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: You just gotta read between the lines. When you said
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: when a nigga come in, like, damn bro, you're getting
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: You're getting all this money out here? Can I get something?
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I should be hate for sure. That should be
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: hate because it don't sound like, look yo, it's like,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: damn my mom be like, darn this nigga pocket watching.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Damn bro, you getting all this money. Bro, you can't
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: do that. You can't buy me try from the from
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: the stuff. And I'll just be looking at niggas like
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: what the fuck, Like like what the fuck a friend
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: that like secretly hating? They won't share your ship. They
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: won't tell you that you're doing good like it's a
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: it's a they have allergic reactions. They telling you're doing good?
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Oh for sure, Like they just like like just work.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I I see you drop episode, I tune in. Niggas
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: won't tune in, Yeah, drop you drop a clip? I
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: hit the air planet. Like I tell niggas, sharing on
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Facebook Instagram is free. It's free. Niggas won't do it quick,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: just a quick little because you share some other ship.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: Put this in in the lineup with the ship. You're saying.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: Well, I sit there and look at it, like if
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I got twenty friends, I should have twenty ships. When
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I assume as I dropped that ship for sure, wow,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: because like my friends want to help me for too much. Nah,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: but know what it is? Anybody feel like, oh, see
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: doing the podcast. I could do a podcast, okay, Like
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: I be fun like that ship is low key hate
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: because I you could draw, I can't draw. I'm not
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: gonna try to say hi, dude, like I said there,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: say I got a DJ. I fuck with the DJ.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: He could dj. I can't DJ. I can't do what
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: he do. But I'm gonna get my input. Yo, bro,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: just try to play this song. I think the female
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: is gonna like this ship this time and the third
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: because the end of the day, I'm not trying to
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: hurt you. I'm trying to help you. So he did it.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: It worked, and he said on the mind, yo, shout
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: out to see No. He told me that ship was
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: gonna work. Now I want to I want to see
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: you winning. Why I'm I hate on you if I
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: know if I see something that can help you. Now
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: niggas won't do that.
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: They'll see you. They're sitting let you. There's a lot
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: of people.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Enjoy when you hit the floor. Then they see you
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: walking up and that ship is real fucked up, like
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: they're stabbing on your back and he walking away. They
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: just do like wear ship like I ain't gonna lie.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: I learned how to stop taking shit personal because I
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: used to look at my views and I'd be like, damn,
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: it's twenty motherfuckers I chill with yeah, whoy at least
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: got twenty viewers while my ship is not on twenty pages.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: Even family, that's the time reality of this.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I sit there and say I put up something positive,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I get four or five likes, and the four or
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: five likes is not one not that's not family.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: Let me go off the deep end.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Then it's like all the family liking it and all
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: that shit, and like friends is liking it all.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: Like damn, I gotta I gotta do this for y'all
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: to fuck with me. No, I got I gotta let go. Yeah,
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: that's the tough reality of this ship.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Like even, like I was saying earlier, when I look
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: at the analytics of the pot, they're not even Master
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: city that I'm from is not even in like the
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: top five cities that support me, which is crazy because
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: you think about living somewhere your entire life, bro, where
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: you just spent all the time getting to know motherfuckers,
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: and then it's like, damn y'all, like I've been, I
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: was in Dallas for like twenty six years, broa been
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: in New York for like six years, and it's way
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: more love.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: Crazy, not even that, right.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I know it's about twenty niggas that's on your page
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: that you fuck with that you probably don't smoke with,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: play basketball with, chill with, listen to music with. Right,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: But when you drop a podcast out of that twenty,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: how many people just hit their heir plane to go
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: on these stories.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And honestly, if I'm just being completely honest, the
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: people that I really really knew like that, I don't
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: know if they actually listen to my part at all,
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: just being honest, like they don't.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Cret it's not even about podcasts. Is not for everybody
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: so it's like, not even about you listening to it.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: But oh he dropped the clip, let me share it
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: because it's somebody on my one of my friends into podcasts.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Let me put them onto my mans. I mean people
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: like my saying, hey, he kept it ready with me. Yo, bro,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: haven't listened to not one of your podcasts. But guess what,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: he hit that ship. But when I drop a clip,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: he said, Yo, we gotta push your voice to be
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: in different rooms because your story got to get out there.
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: I respect that. Yeah, you kept it rid with me.
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: You ain't listening to my ship. By the end of
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: the day, you sharing that, you put.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: It out there that you add value to bring your
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: value something bringing me a different audience that I didn't have,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: I didn't reach, I didn't touch. I think about everybody
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: that's on your page that you fucked with, you was
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: cool with that, don't talk to girls with ya ran
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: down on girls with And what if they hit the
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: airplane button they come fuck with you? How big your
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: podcast would be? Right now?
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah? For sure? Why do I gotta get love from
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: strangers and not my friends?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Bro?
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: Listen, let me ask you this next question.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: How do you deal with a friend that doesn't do
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: anything to change what that complain is to you about.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Ignore them.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Because, like I said on my last podcast, we all
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: got twenty four hours a day, So why do I
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: gotta spend my twenty four hours trying to fix your
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: twenty four hours. Now, you gotta let it go, especially
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: if you see they not doing nothing, Like, don't fucking complain,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: just do the work. Like because I'm visually in paid,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I don't let nothing stop me though. I'm gonna make
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: a way, whether it's me getting to the club, whether
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: it me doing a flyer. And my grandfather one thing
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: my grandfather always tell me, like when you complain, nobody
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: don't care, he said, And if somebody you asked somebody
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: to do something and they beefing about it, they suck
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: their teeth, they complain they this day, he said, just
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: be quiet. And I'm like, huh, he said, because as
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: long as they get as long as you get it done,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: that's all that matters. So I had to pace myself
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: to learn, Like, because I asked a person to do something,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: they say something off the d one.
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: I'm going off. I'm on a thousand.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: But now I just start breathing, I said, that long
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: as this shit get done, like that's all that matter.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: A lot of niggas. You could sit there and give
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: them the right, you could give them the blueprint to
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: how to fix their problem, and they still don't want
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: you to do it. They still don't want to do it.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: They want you to do it, and then put them
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: in position. Yeah, of course, n those type of people
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: you gotta let go because I'm not as a friend,
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be motivating you to push you forward,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: but you gotta do the work. I can't take it
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: leg and say step left, step right, like a kid
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: holding your hands, step left, step right, like you know,
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: you try to teach a baby how to walk and
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: you holding they hand. I can't do that, not to
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: no grown as man, I'm sorry, not to no grown
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: as women. I'm sorry. I just can't do that. So
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I feel like the best thing to do is that
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: shit is like that way, you gotta let it go.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah you got That's the only thing I could say
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: is dead weight, let it go. Because they complained one
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: time you told them how to do it, they didn't.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Then you see, they the never took the initiative to
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: move forward, to even try to see if it's gonna work.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Then you turn around they complaining again. They complaining. That's
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: the whole They gonna do his complaints or leave them alone? Yeah,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: like leaving na. I ain't here for the complaints. I'm here.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: How can we solve this solution?
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: And I feel like maybe, man, the best advice that
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: I could probably give is maybe just limit your access
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: to them people too, because if you already know that
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: they got uh a history of like, they're gonna talk
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: about some shit that they're not about to change.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: They're not about to take the first step.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: They're not gonna try to get help, they're not gonna
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: try to make a sacrifice, they're not gonna try to
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: make an investment.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: And you know that.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: But at the same time, you do love those people
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: and you don't necessarily want to cut them off, and
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: you just got to limit your access. You either got
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: to limit your access to get real good at ignoring there.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: But I feel like those are the people that you
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: try to watch out too, because it goes back to
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: the question that we just answered.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: That's the friend that secretly hates.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: They gonna complain, complain, complain, and they see you moving
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: you you can cut off.
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: Like access to you. Are you gonna limit your access?
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Used to chill with this person eight nine hours a day,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: now you cut that shit down to three and four.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Then that's they gonna secretly hate because they gonn like, Oh,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: this nigga think he better than me. The older niggas
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: you gotta watch out for, Like, I don't think I'm
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: better than you. I just want better, bro, and you
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: should want the same thing I want. I shouldn't just
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: be here by myself, Like if I'm gonna be a millionaire,
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: niggas should just say now I'm right on the side
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, for sure, you ain't leaving me what
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: work we putting in. Let's let's help each other. But nah,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: people want you to do the blueprint. People want you
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: to turn your blueprint to a green print. And if
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: you like, read between the lines, the green print is
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: the money. So I'm gonna make this blueprint of how
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do this just so we can get the
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: green print. But you never even did the work for
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: the blueprint. So how you skipping the blueprint to go
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: to the green print. You gotta leave people like that alone,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Gotta leave people where they act. That's what I learned
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: lead people where they act. Once again, everybody cannot go.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: That's the stage. Everybody. You cannot save everybody. It could
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: be your closest friend, this, that, and the third. Everybody
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: can go. I gotta love you from a distance. Bro,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Everybody can't go.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's the best advice. Let me ask you
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: this best thing you gotta do. How do you know
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: when it's time to make new friends?
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: I guess I.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Feel like not for that. You You don't go out
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: there looking for friends. They always gonna come to you.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: That's how I look at it. Don't go out there
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: looking for friends. They're gonna come to you in the
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: craziest ways, like a right shout out till I re love.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: Me and him we didn't so much, didn't like each other,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: but we didn't fuck with each other. We've seen each
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: other in high school. We walked down the whole way.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: He looking at me, I'm looking at him. They didn't
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: say nothing because it was like, I feel like I'm
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: a bad boy. He felt like he's a bad boy.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: We walked, we look at each other, doesn't say nothing,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: like grilling each other be in high school cool.
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: I'm like all I see people fuck with you.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: We walking still didn't say nothing, didn't say nothing to
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: my son lust He like, oh this is my boy
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: s no yo, see know this my boy smooth. But
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: it was good, give each other a pound. But we're
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: still in the whole way. He's still walking past each other.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: God got killed in my school and me and him
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: walked into the school. And the first thing they said
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: that me and him has them to do with it.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: I said what I said. I know I wanted to
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: beat him up yesterday, but I had to do this shit.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Now we both in there. He just cracking jokes like
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know, did you do this? Ship? And were
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: just looking at each other like laughing. It's like, oh,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: son as a right. Then we walked down the whole way.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: He like, what's up, reached out to give me a hug,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, all right, this thing is trying to
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: be funny. Now that's in my mind, like he's trying
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: to be funny, like trying to play me type shit.
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: But then every day we.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: Started hugging each other and this, that and the thir
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: and it's like be closer than Evan, closer than some
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: of my family members. I got shot. He stayed by
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: the best side with me. He held my hand when
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: it was operating on me. They were trying to kick
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: him out that I'm not leaving him. I'm here warm
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: like he fought that fight with me when I felt
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: like I was alone and they was operating on me
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: and ship what's his name love like with me. I
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: got hit on that floor, came back, five ran lights.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: They took me out the back of the ambulance. He
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: will He held my hand, talked to me, Nah, bro,
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: you're not gonna die on me. Bro, you're good. Bro,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: you're talking and I'm sitting up. They're operating on me.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: I'm looking over. He right there fighting. He fighting him
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: because they trying to get him out the room, and
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: they had me on the respirator. He sent me a
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: video him holding my hand talking to me while I
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: went on a respirator. I got off the respirator. He's right.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: He came back from me like, Bro, nah, nigga visiting.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: I was over. I'm in there. I just used the
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: bat he had to p and a cup and at
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: the end of the bed my arm Dad, I can't
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: even get in the bad He came in there like, yo, boy,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: what's going on? Come on, boy? I know you ain't
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: in here crying and I look like, damn boy, would
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: you how you back up here? He's snuck in the
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: hospital just to sit up there with me. The doctor
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: came in like, yo, you know you're not even supposed
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: to be here, Like no, I just want to I
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: just want to stay in until you go to sleep. Yeah,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: took the perk. I was out.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: It's like a real friend then, or for him just
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: being a friend.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I got my son Kay, I got my son Hug,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: I got rested Soul, I got my saint Jay six.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: So it's like, let friends just come to you. Like
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I come into the podcast studio. I dealt with a
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: lot of producers, a lot of engineers who sticks with
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: seeing no Wolf off of you just running out in
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: that whole way that day, our friendship got locked in
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: from there your wealf. I need you to be my
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: my producerf I need you to be my producer. I
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: get nah, I ain't stopping because, like I say, you
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: took the initiative already. This is the type of person
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I need around me that we be locked in. I
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Wolf cannot never called me and said you know, can
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: you do this? Bro? I got it. I'm here. Real
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: friends friends it is hard to come by. So when
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: you get them, you got a hold onto them. Got
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: a hold on to them. Stopped throwing that friend word
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: around loosely, because everybody is not your friend. Everybody not
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: your friend because a person is out there and say
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: you want to slice the piece, say you, oh nah,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: this is my friend.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: To me, a friend and family are no different to me.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: Like if I consider you my friend, because it's also
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: a word that I'm just not using.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: I'm just not throwing it around.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: Like I could respect you, and you know you don't
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: got to be my friend. I could respect you. It's
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: like yo, I would treat you with common decency. But
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: like to call you my friend is to say that
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: there's nothing from that I wouldn't do for you that
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't do for my sister.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: We came out the same woman. You know what I mean.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: But that's to me friend, it's a term of endearment.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: It's like family. But me I felt like I say otherwise,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: cause I feel like family. I'm born into this ship.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: I can't pick my family.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: You can't, but I could. I can pick my friends.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: But that's why the friends is so crucial, because a
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: lot of time motherfuckers be born into a family of
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: people they don't even fuck me.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I don't. My friends is my family. Your friends is
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: your it's your chosen family. My friends is my chosen family.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: I take my friends off with my family. And I
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: ain't a lie family. I grew up with. I felt.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: I mean, if y'all tired, y'all tired. If it's love
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: is love.
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: It was like I was tight with a lot of
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: my family members, like we was took rubber ducky bash
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: together a couple and all that shit.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: But as you got older, a lot of people fucked
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: me over when I got shot, and it's like it's
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: no coming back to it. It's like we chill with
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: each other, we talk to each other, and but for
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: that moment in my head, I just be thinking, like, damn,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: you you did bad by me, bro, you you really
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: did bad, but it and I didn't expect the shit
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: from you. Yeah, so it's like, yeah, we're gonna give
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: each other a hug, We're gonna give each other pounds,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: but it would never be the same. Yeah, because now
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: when I hug you, I know I can't trust you.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: When I give you a pound, I'm like, this is
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: the hand that had killed me. That's how I think. Well,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: my family, I come in. Your wolf was good. I
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: know it's love. It's an embracement. I see Liarry, I
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: give him a hug. Yo, Broth nigga, it's love, Kate,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: it's love. My son hugged in jail. You're like, Yo,
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: you're doing your thing. Bro. Yeah, broo nigga, I mean
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: jail ship. Ivey said. He said, we are talking. We
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna blow that ship up. But Yo, Bro, I
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: seen your clips. Bro, I'm proud of you.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: Bro.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: This is a jailing nigga doing nineteen year is telling
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: me you proud of me. And you got niggas out
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: here that that's.
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: Free walking around being liabilities.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Can and share rate comment, Tell a friend, tell a friend,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: none of that ship. No, we gotta reevaluate our friends.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: We don't got to go looking for them. Let them
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: come to you because the ones that's coming to you
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: really gonna show that they really for you. And men females,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: that's your friend. You don't got to try to fuck
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: on me either. You don't got to.
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: Try to fuck on your female friends, like because niggas.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: Be like, they may give us look bad like damn
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: some people some females is cool. And now I feel
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: like it's good for men to have female friends and
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: female friends that have men friends because it's a balance
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: male friends. Or tell a female friend when she's doing
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: something bad.
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: Well, hold on, hold on.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: Before before before you even get into that, we're going
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: we're gonna get there in a minute.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: Don't get there in a minute. Let me ask you
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: this real quick.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: If you found out that your friend was talking about
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: you behind your back, would you bring it.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Up to them or let it go.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna bring it up to him. I feel
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: like as a friend, I should be I supposed to
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: be able to address you by anything.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: You gonna do it?
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like yo. First, I'm like, yo, bro, what's up?
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: First of all, a real friend is not gonna talk
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: about your bag.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: If they got an issue and the problem with you,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: theyre gonna bring it to you.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Any problems I have with my friends, I brought it
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: to the attention. Whether they didn't like it or not,
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: they mad for that moment. But guess what, I'm still
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: gonna hear from at the end of the night. I'm
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: gonna see you the next day, and it's like we're
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: gonna go back to normal. I was spoken, So I
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: don't care how you feel. I'm telling you how to love.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: I'm not telling you to hurt you. I'm telling you
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: to benefit you. So if a friend there's some slom
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: bolls ship behind my back, I'm a person, Yo, Bro,
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Can I holler at you? I'm not. I'm not gonna
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: do it front everybody. I'm gonna pull you to the
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: side like a man. Yo, Bro, what's up? Why are you?
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: What's up this ship? You said? Who? Like? What's that about?
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: And if you had a problem with you should have
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: addressed you should have hit me. You got my number.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: If you're my friend, you got my number. You could
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: not until you know my address and you always see me.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: So if it was something that was bothering you, you
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: should have approach it. If I'm wrong, I apologize about it.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: How can we fix it? How can we move on
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: about it? But then I'm gonna look at you funny too,
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: because I'm like, you had to talk behind my back
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: to get your point across that. Don't I won't respect
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: sometimes I won't respect you as a man. Now, I
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: got a question how my friendship is with you, because
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: my real friend is not gonna do that.
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: My friend, like real friends called me.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: They see you know you want some bullshit? Bro. I
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: don't argue with them. I eat it. I listened to them.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: What they said that they got to say, Yep, my bag, bro,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: I gotta do better. When I first got shot, I
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: was on bullshit time and I was on a whole
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: bunch of bullshit Larry like, I ain't scared of you, bro,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you how I feel. All right, cool.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't talk to them for two days, but they
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: here text me. I love you, bro, all right now,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: let me get out of my feelings. I put sign up.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Kay yo, bro, what's up? He'll call me? Oh, Bro,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: what's up? What kind of bullshit you want? Bro? I
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: don't like that. Take that down. I respect it. Yeah,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: you ain't telling. You ain't telling John John and Ray
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: Ray and Boo boo over there. And then they're coming
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: back to me and I'm like, damn, you supposed to
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: be my man. Why you just didn't tell you? Why
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: you didn't call me and tell me?
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: I was feel away.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely feel a way.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: What about you. What if somebody was talking behind your
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: back and you're like, damn is this my friend? Yeah?
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know, man. It really just depends, you know
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: what I mean.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: That's part of me where I could see me just
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: like letting it rock because I'm like a Bill let
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: a case bill type of person, you know what I mean.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, I guess one, that's one dropping the bucket,
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Let's see if that if
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: there's more where that came from, you know what I mean.
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: So I might not say nothing. At the same time,
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: I might also be like, like, bro, I was talking
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: to to so and so the other day and he
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: was telling me, y'all was talking and you were saying this.
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: I'm like, how come you ain't tell me you felt
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: like that, you know what I mean? Or it's like like,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: what is that true?
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Like I try to introduce it in some type of way,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: just inquire on it. You know.
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: I can see it both ways for real.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: And I definitely get what you're saying. Like me, I
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: don't know. I just can't Like you said, that's one
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: dropping the bucket. Now I'm addressed front of me.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: That one drop that's all I need.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: That's all I need, because I'm not gonna give you
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: the opportunity to do it again.
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah for sure, Nah, I would not.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: I'm address it right then and there like yo, bro,
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna say I'm gonna pull you to
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: the YO. Bro. What kind of bullshit you want? Boy?
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: You got a problem with men? Like what's up?
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: See that you don't feel like you don't feel like
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: that's mad like confrontational.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: No, because you're my man. It's not supposed to be.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: If you my man, like you know, I got love
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: for you. Man. We could sit, we could fight, put
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: the gloves on, we could fight, but we're gonna get up.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Were gonna shake cans, we gonna hug each other. You're
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: my friend. When I said you're my friend, you my brother.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: I don't just call everybody bro. I don't call everybody
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: my friend. Everybody don't everybody can't get next to me.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: So for me to like put you to the side
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: of me, and I really care about you, and if
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: it's a somebody like associated such a fuck that nigga
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: like hurt me, like you think I care? What he
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: said behind my back. Bro, he's somebody that not on
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: reach to touch me. So why I'm tripping over that?
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: But if you my friend, yo, bro, what's up? Yo?
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: What you seuch and such and such? Bro? Damn night,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: because it's gonna get back to me. Why would you
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: even say you should have oppressed me first? You should
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: approached me first? Like I always tell people, never let
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: somebody tell your truth. You come to tell me before
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: somebody else. Do I respect it? If you come and
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: tell me then somebody else, whether I'm whether I did
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: bad or what you as a friend, you come tell me.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear from the girl up the block.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: Such up the block. We'll talk about you see no this,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: that and the third. Then I'm looking like, damn, bro,
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: do you got animosity or something against me? Because a
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: real friend will say, you'll see not aven like how
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: you did me, bro, or you're seeing I gotta I
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: gotta highlight you later when we nah, bro, won't be
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: together and it's just me and you. Then I'm like,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: come on, come to that. What happened? What did I do? Yo?
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: You did x y Z?
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: Damn Bro, I ain't look at it like that, my bad.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Broad you, my man. I'm not trying to hurt you. Man,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to play you.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: But then I'm like, nah, nah, bro, you was on
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: some bullshit. We could agree to disagree. That's what friends do.
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, it shouldn't be.
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: No confrontation because if it is, that mean really.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Not my friend. Yeah, that's exactly what that man really
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: not my friend.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: So let me ask you this, and this is my
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: last one, very interested to seeing. This is why I
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: was telling you hold off on that on that one
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: where he was going like, because we're saving it for
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: this one right here.
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: Let me ask you this.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: If your homegirl walks in the room and talks to
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: you but doesn't speak to your girlfriend, does that make
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: her a bad friend?
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: Absolutely? Because I ain't gonna lie. I'm in a room
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: with my hair and a nigga come in in and
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: he disregards me of being in the room and he's
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: straight talking to my girl. The first thing I'm thinking, like,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: what the fuck do y'all got going on?
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: First, that's the first thing. I'm like, what do y'all
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: got going on? Whatever the case may be, I feel
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: like as a man, as a human being, a woman,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. When you walk in the room,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I acknowledge the room. Yeah, hey, how y'all doing? Like
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: it's just it's just proper. It's bandness when you walk
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: into an area, Hey, how you doing, bro. I'm not
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: going walk in the room and I see you, Dave editing.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: I'm just going straight to your wolf's good. I'm gonna
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: say what's good, fellas, how you doing? I might I'm
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: even gonna introduce myself and then I proceed the conversation
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: that and then when I leave, that's to her to say, oh,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: now that's just my friend, or for her to even
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: introduce or now this is my friend as such, like
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: get that out the way so they could know it
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: ain't no no funny shit going on like this just
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: a friend, you feel me, And it's nothing wrong. Men,
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with your lady having a male friend,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: because sometimes it CAUs balance when you can't get through
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: her to her like a point across the mouth. Best
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: friend can break it down to her, probably better than you.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: That's why it's always a good balance. Like even me,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: I could go to my female best friends and be like, yo,
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: this is the scenario. This is what happened, and they'll
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: break the ship down. I'm like, nah, you did bad,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: you did wrong, or she tripping. I understand what you're saying.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: It's like you need that balance. But the right thing
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: to do is just come in the room, introduce yourself,
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: just to show that you ain't on no flirt because
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: the first time, I'm like, Yo, you fucking that niggah?
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: What you and that nigga got going on? Because like
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: nothing that like, I'm saved. Now let me say that
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: I'm saved. I'm delivered. What you mean, I didn't give
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: a funk back then, I ain't even gonna hold you.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I dealt with.
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: Girls the sneaky ship.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I wasn't sneaky ship. That's the whole thing.
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: You were just with it.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: I was just I didn't give a fuck. So so
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: so hold on, hold on, hold on, skirter.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: Okay, So you essentially saying that if a dude got
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: a girl, a homegirl, and she walks in the room
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: and he don't address your girlfriend, then that's essentially what
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: that means, is that he cheating or it's some funny
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: business going on.
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: Because you was once that guy.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I was one that guy. I was one of those guys.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: I see a girl walking on nigga like, hey, what's up.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: We have a whole conversation with the whole time, knowing
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: that I'm smashing her, nigga next to her one time. Shit,
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: he used to call me like they like, y'all I
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: get I give that over, like I'm beaning single, Like
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: I'm just a bully. No, I'm like nah, like I
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: just I just didn't care. No shit.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: I walked in places and I seen a girl and
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: I just.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I was an asshole. I really was. I mean, what's up?
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: I give her a hug. You know that that I
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: hugged you Like I this nigga is dragging. I give
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: it a hug, and I'm like, Yo, your nigga ain't
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: saying nothing like no whispering, Like damn, nigga's saying that
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: nigga you're dealing with woke. I was.
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: I was a different I was a different animal.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I'm glad I'm I think different.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: That's when I was young. Yeah, I think different. I
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: moved different. It's it's not cool. It's disrespectful by doing
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: all of that, Like the best thing you do acknowledge
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: the whole room, introduce yourself. That that'll make everybody feel
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: much easier. That'll make the men feel much easier, that
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: make the women feel much easier. Because now it's like
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I don't that I don't feel disrespected. Yeah, I don't
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: feel dispected. I feel like that's the best thing to do. Well, man,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: hold on, what do you feel we ain't going this
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: shit out? What do you feel? You in there, you
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: and your honey and the girls coming and straight talk
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: to you.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: I mean it, it's wrong, bro, it's wrong. Like one
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: thing you gotta understand about women. Women are very ego driven,
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean too. Women are very much
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: like men in the sense of like women are really territorial.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: But women.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: One thing about a woman, Shit don't like old body
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: trying to come for her, and she don't like nobody trying.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: To treat it like she's stupid.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: And the thing is like when you got a woman
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: coming into it, and then like you know, women kind
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: of already have this base understanding about men that.
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: They dogs, you know what I mean, even the good
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: guys like yeah, but.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: It's like there's always he a mind. And then it's
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: just like even for a good guy I think a
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: woman could know she could be with a good guy,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: but she don't put nothing past a man having some
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: pussy to tempt him. And women moving very like intentionally
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: covert type ways, you know what I mean. Like girls
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: will be like, I'm never gonna come out and just
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: plainly let you know that I want to fuck you,
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna just keep putting myself in positions.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: The women move in positioning, you know what I mean.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: Every man is not a dog, no, absolutely, because you say,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: do y'all got something going on this and other? They
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: don't got to be dipping the putting.
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: He might just be dumb, yeah, like the nigga might.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: He might just be dumb. Like he might be like, oh,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: that's just my homegirl, but she like, nah, it ain't
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: no just your homegirl or maybe the only woman he
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: see on the surface. You he's not paying aive to
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: no other woman.
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: No, that ain't gonna rock. She ain't going for that,
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: going for that, going for that ship, going for that.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: Yep. But then I and then you gotta take the
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: The other person would have to take blame too, because
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: if a woman come in there, the first thing I'm
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: gonna say, hey, such and such. This is my girlfriend
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: so and such girlfriend. Baby, this is such and such.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta introduce, start the conversation.
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: Well, who's the other who's the other person that gotta
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: take blame.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: The person that don't introduce the introducer, because if I'm
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: staying up there and I'm with my girl, the girl
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: come in there like you see whatever, Oh that's true,
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: my baby such and such baby, this is that's and
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: then they say hey, hi, hi, and then we can
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: finish the conversation. If I was to come in, I
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: would want a girl to be like, hey, baby, this
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: is my friend. See no, see no, this is my
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: man Alex time.
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, she was gonna get on your ass regardless
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: one because she gonna be like this, she a disrespectful bitch.
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: And then two she gonna be like because it was
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: your job, because that's your friend, to make the connection.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: And you know what, the reason why, if nothing else,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: the reason why she gonna think that there's some goofy
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: shit going on because you didn't make the she gonna
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, so you hiding something from me. And
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: then sometimes that connection could start them. The connection you
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: made from the beginning that conversation you have in can
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: bring your lady friend or your male friend into the
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: conversation to a point or three of y'all talking that
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: they don't feel insecure about it now, they like they
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: feel warm and and comfortable that they have in this
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: conversation off the way you presented them.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: They made them feel good.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, even though niggas are still doug, I can
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: still introduce you and still be smashing you.
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: Listen, you ain't talking about that.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Different stories, Listen, man, these are these are the These
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: are just some some This is some wisdom, and this
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: is some advice about things that you can maybe look
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: out for or maybe things you should consider when you're
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: outgrowing your friends. And of course thank you to see
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: No for just giving your wisdom and giving your insight
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: on it. Bro, I knew you was gonna kill it.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: You smoked it. Bro. Put put yourself in a person's
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: shoes when you're doing a lot of things. Yeah, that's
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: how you look That's how you gotta look at it.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: As with all these different questions that we presented to
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: you today. Put yourself in the shoes, like if you
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: were dead weight, would somebody carry you? If you were
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: in the room, would you feel away. If the girden
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: introduce you to her male best friend. Got, put yourself
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: in these shoes and ask yourself if I was in
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: this shoes, what would I do different? How would I
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: do it? If I'm complaining with somebody helped me? Like, Got,
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: that's what we gotta start doing, playing ourselves in a
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: person's shoes. And if it don't make sense, then you
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: gotta leave that thing. You gotta leave the situation alone.
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: Like, I'm tired of holding on to that weight. I'm
• 48:58
  Speaker 4: tired of helping people that don't want to help.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: They sell. I'm trying to acting like I don't know
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: this person really, don't fuck with me and I got
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: them around me. Let them shits go. If a person
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: don't bring value to you, let them go. If a person, yeah,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: if a person just don't bring value to you, just
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: let it go.
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: You might just have to let them go.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with meeting new people. There is nothing
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: wrong with m I ain't go friends that you had
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: when you was kids. Everybody don't along with your dream.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: Anybody don't along with your goals. Everybody don't along with you,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: just like being a better person. Let him go, your
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: friend want to be big meat selling doms and knicks,
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: then hey, let them be big meats telling doms and knicks.
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: You want to be that lawyer, that doctor and everything else.
• 49:52
  Speaker 4: Focused on your dreams.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: You can't worry about that friend that you had when
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: he was eight years old going to public school, laughing,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: joking and everything else. Don't be worth it. Came to
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: this word by yourself. You gonna leave by yourself. But
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: while you're here, just put the people that's around you
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: that want you to win. Yeah, and that's another episode.
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, man, that was great. You did amazing. Another episode
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: you'll go to see more of me.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: I'm backed up, I'm motivated. I'm pumped up. See Wolf
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: acting like a manager where you don't know he really
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: acted like a manager.
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: The managers say, yo, photo shoot this day, Okay, yeah
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: the problem, lock it in.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's a manager. I'm breaking him down, Yeah, breaking
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: him down. I'm breaking him down, y'all. Now, But yo,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: what I appreciate you?
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: No, I'll tell you that every chance I get.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, y' don't know. Like good people, it's
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: hard to come by. Good friends, it's hard to come by.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: And me and Wolf is two opposites I'm in the club.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: Wolf is not Wolf is more meditating, for sure.
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: I'm in the house on a on a bean bag,
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: drinking tea yo.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong with two different people, for sure.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: But look where we're at today, making magic at W
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: t F Media Studio. You gotta sponsor me now. I
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: bought the wheel chairs in hair Siblings. I gotta bring
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: the president and right right now. But I love you too.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: I love you easy though.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: But another episode, get her on soon?
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we gotta come back.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: Talk about that.
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: Last I talked to her about it, gets confirmed, she
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: said she would do it.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: Episode killed me. But we're gonna go up. We're definitely
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: gonna go up. And from this episode, as you see
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: is Decisions Decisions said you keep the dead weight? Should
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: you let it go? Is he your friend? He is
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: your enemy? Decisions Decisions. But another episode of blind and
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I see podcasts. Don't step if you want, don't step
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: unless you're gonna step, big blonde stepper. Wait, I ended
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: that ship too fast. Where can they find you at? Man?
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: You can find me at the Halfway Up podcast. Man,
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: I'm on Apple, I'm on Spotify. I call it halfway
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: up because you never finished rising. It's a self development podcast.
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: I'll be talking about not understanding gods, stop being the
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: people pleaser, extend your family, grace, make women feel safe again, that.
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: Type of ship. So if that's podcast A one, So if.
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: That's something you feel like you might be interested in, man.
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: You're definitely gonna be tapping because I ain't gonna see
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: the clips. I'm like, God damn, the thing called me
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: on this topic. God damn, why ain't on this topic?
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Oh nah, what the fuck did she? What the fuck not?
• 52:33
  Speaker 4: I'm telling you that was one of them podcasts, And
• 52:35
  Speaker 4: this is all right.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: This is my mantra. I will not lose. We out
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: of here, blind stuffer peace