Latest / Reformed Thinking / A Grave in the Garden of Promise (Genesis 23:1-16)
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- 0:00Welcome back to Reformed Thinking.
- 0:02Today, we're going to do something that might feel a
- 0:06little strange at first. We're going to stop the clock on
- 0:10all the big flashy miracles. We're not looking at the Red Sea
- 0:14parting or, you know, fire coming down from the sky.
- 0:18We're going to zoom in, I mean microscopically close on a real
- 0:23estate transaction. It sounds a little dry when you
- 0:26put it that way. It does.
- 0:27It really does. It sounds like we're about to
- 0:29read a deed at the county clerk's office.
- 0:32But that's the trick. We are opening up Genesis
- 0:34chapter 23, and on the surface, yes, it is a negotiation over a
- 0:39plot of dirt and a dark cave. But underneath that?
- 0:42Underneath that, this is one of the most high stakes,
- 0:44emotionally charged moments in the entire Old Testament.
- 0:47It's a chapter that really sits in the shadow of death.
- 0:49It's dusty, it's heavy, and it is incredibly human.
- 0:53So to set the stage for everyone listening, we need to visualize
- 0:57the man at the center of this. We aren't seeing the young,
- 1:00fiery Abraham who just March out of Ur of the Chaldeans.
- 1:04We aren't even seeing the warrior Abraham, who chased down
- 1:07kings to rescue lots. We are looking at a man who is
- 1:12137 years old. He's a giant of the faith, but
- 1:16right now he is crushed. Just broken.
- 1:19He's covered in the dust of the road and he is standing at the
- 1:22feet of his wife, Sarah, who has just died.
- 1:25That's the scene Genesis 23 opens with the death of Sarah,
- 1:29and immediately there's a massive tension hanging over the
- 1:32text. Attention.
- 1:34How so? The sources we pulled together
- 1:36for this deep dive call it the Crisis of the Empty Hand.
- 1:39The crisis, the empty hand. I like that phrase, but let's
- 1:43unpack it because on one hand, we have the promise with a
- 1:46capital P God told Abraham 60 years ago, I am going to give
- 1:50you all this land, you and your offspring.
- 1:52He's been walking around Canaan for decades with that promise
- 1:54just ringing in his ears, right? Decades of walking, setting up
- 1:57altars, digging wells, calling on the name of the Lord.
- 2:00He has the divine title deed in a spiritual sense.
- 2:03But here's the crisis. Sarah is dead at the age of 127.
- 2:09She dies in Kiriakpa, which we know is Hebron.
- 2:12So she is physically in the promised land.
- 2:15She's in the right geography. But the problem is legal
- 2:18ownership. You hit the nail on the head.
- 2:19Abraham owns absolutely nothing. Not a single square inch.
- 2:23Nothing. God said.
- 2:24This is all yours. But if you went to the local
- 2:27Hittite courthouse in Hebron, at that moment, Abraham is
- 2:31homeless. He's a squatter.
- 2:32Yeah, a nomad. And now he has a body to bury,
- 2:36the body of his beloved wife, and he has literally nowhere to
- 2:39put her. That is a collision.
- 2:41You have the promise of God crashing right into the hard
- 2:44reality of death and displacement.
- 2:46And that's really our mission for this deep dive.
- 2:48We want to see how Abraham handles that collision, how he.
- 2:51Lives in that gap. How does a believer act when
- 2:53they have the title deed in heaven, so to speak, but they do
- 2:56not have the possession on earth?
- 2:58And we are looking at this through the lens of Reformed
- 3:01theology, specifically this concept of the already in the
- 3:04not yet. How do we live in that gap?
- 3:06Because Abraham is living right in the middle of the not yet.
- 3:10So let's start with the text itself.
- 3:11Genesis 23 verses one and two. It opens with this very specific
- 3:15biographical note. Sarah lived 127 years.
- 3:19These were the years of the life of Sarah.
- 3:22Now, in our modern world, that reads like the opening line of
- 3:25an obituary. Standard procedure.
- 3:27It sounds standard, but in the context of the ancient world in
- 3:31the biblical Canon, it's radical.
- 3:33Radical. How so?
- 3:34Sarah is the only woman in the entire biblical Canon, the whole
- 3:37Bible, Old and New Testament, whose age of death is explicitly
- 3:41recorded like this. Wait, really?
- 3:43I never realized that. We know how old Methuselah was.
- 3:46We know how old Abraham was Moses, but no other women.
- 3:50She stands alone in that regard. Not Eve, not Rachel, not Mary,
- 3:53just Sarah. Wow.
- 3:55It is the Holy Spirit's way of altering her specific status.
- 3:58She isn't just Abraham's wife or a side character in his story.
- 4:01No, she's more than that. She is the matriarch of the
- 4:04Covenant. She is a Co participant in the
- 4:05Promise. Precisely.
- 4:07She is the woman whose body was the miraculous vessel for the
- 4:10seed of promise. Isaac, right?
- 4:13The impossible child. Her physical body was the
- 4:15instrument God used to launch the redemption of the world.
- 4:19So recording her years, bookending her life with this
- 4:21dignity is a way of saying her life mattered immensely to the
- 4:25plan of redemption. And then it says she died in
- 4:27Curiatharba, in the land of Canaan.
- 4:29We touched on this, but I want to drill down on the geography.
- 4:32Why is that specific location, Hebron, essentially so pivotal
- 4:37to the crisis? Because geography is theology in
- 4:40Genesis. It just is.
- 4:42If Sarah had died back in UR or in Haran or even in Egypt, it
- 4:46would just be a tragedy, a personal loss.
- 4:49But dying in Canaan? But dying in Canaan without
- 4:52owning land highlights the strangeness of their faith.
- 4:55Think about the options Abraham has well.
- 4:57The cultural norm would be to take her home right back to the
- 5:00ancestral tomb. Correct.
- 5:01In the ancient Near East you are gathered to your father's.
- 5:04It's the standard practice. So if Abraham takes her body
- 5:07back to earth to bury her in his father terrorist tomb, what's he
- 5:11saying he's. Effectively declaring the
- 5:13promise of Canaan void. He is saying we gave up, we
- 5:17tried this promised land thing, it didn't work out, so we're
- 5:19going back to where we came from.
- 5:20Going back is an admission of defeat.
- 5:22It is on faith. Yes, but look at option 2.
- 5:26If he simply buries her in a local Canaanite grave, just
- 5:29finds a nice spot in the woods, or borrows a tomb from a
- 5:32neighbor, he risks something else.
- 5:35What's the risk there? He risks blending in
- 5:38assimilation. If you bury your dead in the
- 5:41communal graves of the Hittites, you're signaling that you're
- 5:44becoming a Hittite. You're disappearing.
- 5:46You are. Disappearing into the Pagan
- 5:48culture, your identity is being absorbed.
- 5:51So he's stuck. He can't go back because that
- 5:53denies the promise. He can't just blend in because
- 5:56that dilutes the holy seed. He is in the right place, but he
- 5:59has no legal right to be there. And that pressure cooker is
- 6:02where we find him in verse 2. Abraham went in to mourn for
- 6:06Sarah and to weep for her. I want to pause on that emotion
- 6:10because if the text doesn't just say he was sad, it says he went
- 6:13in to mourn and weep. The Hebrew word there is live
- 6:16caught and the sources point out this is not a polite single tear
- 6:20rolling down the cheek. No, this is a wailing.
- 6:24It is a visceral, loud public outpouring of agony.
- 6:28This is gut wrenching grief. It's interesting you highlight
- 6:31that because I feel like there is a misconception that often
- 6:35creeps into the church. No, for sure.
- 6:36You hear it in funeral parlors. Sometimes people think that if
- 6:39you have enough faith, you shouldn't cry or you shouldn't
- 6:42cry too much. Right, she's in a better place
- 6:44to celebrate. Yeah, the stiff upper lip
- 6:47Christianity, or this sort of Stoic idea that emotions are a
- 6:51weakness. Or even the prosperity gospel
- 6:53triumphalism that refuses to acknowledge pain because it
- 6:56looks like a negative confession.
- 6:58Abraham just destroys those errors.
- 7:01Look at him. He's the father of the faithful.
- 7:03He trusted God more than any of us do.
- 7:05He was willing to sacrifice Isaac.
- 7:07He's the model of faith. And yet here he is, absolutely
- 7:10wrecked. So the tears are not a lack of
- 7:12faith. Not at all.
- 7:13The tears are actually a form of biblical realism.
- 7:17See, death is an intrusion. It's an enemy.
- 7:19First Corinthians 15 calls it the Last enemy.
- 7:22It's not natural. It's not the way things were
- 7:24supposed to be in the garden. So when Abraham weeps, he is
- 7:28validating the reality that the world is broken.
- 7:31He's protesting it in a way. That's a really helpful
- 7:34distinction. Faith doesn't mean emotional
- 7:37numbness. It means you grieve with hope,
- 7:39but you still grieve. You have to feel the cut.
- 7:41If you don't feel the cut, you don't understand the curse.
- 7:43And if you don't understand the curse, you cannot appreciate the
- 7:46cure. That's a relief, honestly.
- 7:48It's OK to be shattered by loss. It's biblical.
- 7:51But then there is this shift, verse three.
- 7:54I love how the text puts it and Abraham rose up from before his
- 7:58dead. That's the pivot point of the
- 8:00chapter. There is a time to weep and
- 8:01there is a time to act. The grief doesn't paralyze him
- 8:04forever. He moves from the paralysis of
- 8:06grief to the duty of the living. He realizes I have a problem to
- 8:11solve. I have a body and I need a
- 8:13grave. So he goes to the city gate, and
- 8:16this is where the drama really starts.
- 8:19He's talking to the sons of Hath the Hittites who run the town,
- 8:23and he makes his confession in verse four.
- 8:25He says I am a sojourner and stranger among you.
- 8:28We have to feel the weight of that statement.
- 8:30In Hebrew, it's de Rufishov. It is a legal classification.
- 8:34OK, what do those words mean, Juror?
- 8:36A juror is a resident alien. It's someone who lives there but
- 8:40has no legal rights, no ancestral standing.
- 8:43Think of a refugee or someone on a temporary visa.
- 8:47You're there, but you don't belong.
- 8:49And a touchev. A Touchev is a settler, someone
- 8:51just passing through a squatter. He's basically saying I'm a
- 8:55legally unprotected person just camping out here.
- 8:58It's almost a paradox, isn't it? How so?
- 9:00Because God told him you are the Father of nations.
- 9:02You own this land from the river to the sea.
- 9:05But here he is introducing himself as a nobody.
- 9:07Hi, I'm Abraham. I'm a stranger here.
- 9:09That is the identity paradox of the believer.
- 9:12By divine decree, he's the landlord.
- 9:14He owns the whole thing. But by human reckoning.
- 9:16But by human reckoning, by the city records of Hebron, he's
- 9:20homeless. This reminds me of that passage
- 9:22in Hebrews 11. Yes, the New Testament
- 9:24commentary on this exact moment. It says the patriarchs
- 9:28acknowledge that they were strangers and exiles on the
- 9:30earth. So this isn't just a negotiating
- 9:32tactic, this is his actual identity.
- 9:34Abraham publicly identifying himself as an outsider.
- 9:38He's not trying to fake it. He's not walking in saying, do
- 9:41you not know who I am? I am God's chosen 1.
- 9:43He is humble. He's saying I don't belong to
- 9:46your city, my citizenship is elsewhere.
- 9:49But because he is an outsider, he has to ask for permission.
- 9:52He can't just take land. Right.
- 9:54He can't just go out and dig a grave.
- 9:56No. So he asked for a possession of
- 9:58a burying place, and the sources highlight that word possession a
- 10:04choosa. A choosa that sounds heavy.
- 10:07It is. He doesn't just want a loan.
- 10:08He doesn't want to rent a tomb. He wants an A choosa, a
- 10:12permanent legal holding. A title deed.
- 10:15He wants a title deed. He is looking for a foothold in
- 10:17the land that God promised him. And this leads us into the
- 10:20negotiation, which I found absolutely fascinating.
- 10:23It's brilliant because on the surface the Hittites seem
- 10:25incredibly nice. They say, hear us, my Lord, you
- 10:29are a Prince of God among us. Bury your dead in the trace of
- 10:32our sepulchers. It sounds lovely, doesn't it?
- 10:34You're a Prince of God and see Elohim.
- 10:37They respect him, they do. Remember, Abraham is wealthy.
- 10:40He has a private army. He defeated the four kings back
- 10:42in Genesis 14. They want to be on his good
- 10:45side. But this offer Bury your dead in
- 10:48our choice tombs is actually a massive trap.
- 10:52A trap? How is generosity a trap?
- 10:54Think about what it implies. If Abraham put Sarah in a
- 10:57communal hidite grave, he's accepting a spot as a guest, OK?
- 11:01He has no legal right to it. It is permission, not ownership,
- 11:05and permission can be revoked. Right, the next generation of
- 11:07Hittites could say we don't like you anymore, take your bones and
- 11:10leave. Correct, but even more dangerous
- 11:13is the assimilation aspect we talked about.
- 11:15If your ancestors are buried in our grave, then you are
- 11:18essentially part of our clan. Your distinctiveness as the
- 11:21covenant people begins to dissolve.
- 11:23You just blend into the Hittite population.
- 11:26Ah, I see, it is the melting pot strategy.
- 11:28If he accepts their grave, he accepts their identity.
- 11:32Abraham realizes that accepting a free grave is the first step
- 11:36to lose his distinctiveness. He refuses to blend the holy
- 11:39seed with the Pagan world. So he counters them.
- 11:42He counters them. He identifies a specific spot.
- 11:45He says no, I want The Cave of Machpella.
- 11:48And he says he wants to pay full price.
- 11:50Kisef mail full silver. He is very specific.
- 11:54He wants to pay full market value.
- 11:56No discounts, no favors. He wants an incontrovertible
- 11:59receipt. He doesn't want a favor.
- 12:00He wants a contract. And then we meet the antagonist
- 12:04of the story, or at least the shrewd businessmen, Efron the
- 12:08Hittite. Yeah, Efron steps up.
- 12:10And this is where it gets really interesting, because Efron steps
- 12:13up and says, No, my Lord, hear me, I give you the field and I
- 12:16give you The Cave that is in it, he says.
- 12:17I give it three times. It sounds like he's being even
- 12:20more generous than the others. Abraham asked for The Cave and
- 12:24Efron says take the whole field. It's a gift.
- 12:26But this is where we have to understand the ancient Near
- 12:29East. This is not generosity.
- 12:31This is a classic negotiation tactic and potentially something
- 12:35much stickier legally. The sources mentioned the Hidai
- 12:38Law Code here section 46. Yes, this is a brilliant piece
- 12:42of historical context that sheds light on what Efron is actually
- 12:46doing. Under Hedite law, there were
- 12:49feudal obligations attached to land ownership.
- 12:52They called it Ilku. Ilku, what does that involve?
- 12:54It's a service requirement to the king.
- 12:57It could be military service, providing labor for building
- 12:59projects or paying heavy taxes. It was a burden attached to the
- 13:03land itself. OK, so land comes with strings
- 13:05attached. Big strings.
- 13:06Right now, the law stated that if you buy only a part of a
- 13:10property, like just The Cave at the end of the field, the
- 13:13original owner still holds the Ilku obligation.
- 13:16So Efron would still have to pay the tax taxes.
- 13:18The seller still has to pay the taxes and do the service because
- 13:21they still own the main field. But you buy the whole field.
- 13:24The feudal service duty transfers to the buyer.
- 13:27Wow, so Efron is trying to dump his tax burden on Abraham?
- 13:31It is very likely Abraham asked for just The Cave.
- 13:35Efron says no, no, take the field too.
- 13:37By forcing Abraham to take the whole field, he is maneuvering
- 13:41Abraham into the Hittite feudal system.
- 13:43He's making him a citizen in a way.
- 13:45He is effectively trying to make Abraham a vassal of the city
- 13:48here. Take the field and the taxes and
- 13:51the military duty that comes with it.
- 13:53That is sneaky, so I'll give it to you.
- 13:55Really means I'm going to leverage social pressure to make
- 13:59you take this liability off my hands.
- 14:00Yes, and notice a gift in that culture creates a massive social
- 14:05debt. If I give you a field, you owe
- 14:07me forever. You are in my pocket.
- 14:09And Abraham sees right through it.
- 14:11He's wise. He ignores the gift rhetoric
- 14:13completely. He ignores the futile
- 14:14implication. He just focuses on the money.
- 14:16He wants to keep it strictly business.
- 14:18He cuts through the noise. He does, and then Efron drops
- 14:21the mask. In verse 15, he casually says a
- 14:24piece of land worth 400 shekels of silver.
- 14:28What is that between you and me? What is that between friends?
- 14:31Just a small matter of 400 shekels.
- 14:33Now, to a modern ear, 400 shekels doesn't mean much.
- 14:36Is that a lot? Is that a little?
- 14:38It is an astronomical sum. Put it in perspective for us.
- 14:41OK, let's look at some comparisons.
- 14:43Later in the Bible, the prophet Jeremiah buys a field.
- 14:46Do you know how much he pays? I remember it being low. 17
- 14:51shekels. 17 versus 400. Right.
- 14:53Or look at King David. When David buys the threshing
- 14:56floor of Arana, which becomes the site of the Temple prime
- 15:00real estate in Jerusalem, he pays 50 shekels.
- 15:03So Efron is asking for eight times what David paid for the
- 15:06Temple Mount. Even allowing for inflation or
- 15:09different land sizes, this is price gouging.
- 15:11It's an extortionate price. He's taking advantage of him.
- 15:14He is exploiting A grieving widower who is desperate to bury
- 15:19his wife. He knows Abraham has nowhere
- 15:21else to go. It is predatory, it's kicking a
- 15:23man when he's down. So the natural question is, does
- 15:26Abraham haggle? Does he say that's outrageous?
- 15:29I'll give you 200. No, and this is the integrity of
- 15:32the man. Verse 16 says Abraham wait out
- 15:35for Efron the silver current money with the merchant.
- 15:38He pays it immediately. He pays it immediately.
- 15:39He doesn't fight, he doesn't argue.
- 15:41Why not? If he's being ripped off, why
- 15:43not push back? He's a smart guy.
- 15:45Because Abraham values the validity of the claim more than
- 15:50the value of the coin. Think about it, if he haggles,
- 15:54Efron could come back later and say I did you a favor, I gave
- 15:57you a discount that leaves a string attached.
- 16:00It leaves a social debt. He'd owe him one.
- 16:02Exactly. By paying the full, inflated,
- 16:05ridiculous price, Abraham shuts the mouth of every future
- 16:09accuser. No one can ever say he stole
- 16:12that land or that he owes the Hittites anything.
- 16:15At the clean break. He bought it fair and square.
- 16:17At their price, the deal is unimpeachable.
- 16:20He secures the land with total integrity.
- 16:23The sources call this the third use of the law, using the moral
- 16:26law to guide the believers conduct.
- 16:28Yes, he's acting in a way that the world has no leverage over
- 16:30him. He is paying current money so
- 16:33that his witness is spotless. He's not trying to cheat the
- 16:35system even when the system is trying to cheat him.
- 16:38And then we get this very legal sounding section in verses 17
- 16:41and 18. It lists the trees, the borders,
- 16:43the field. It reads like a modern contract.
- 16:45It does the field of Ephron in Machpelah, which was to the east
- 16:50of Mamre. The field with The Cave that was
- 16:53in it and all the trees that were in the field.
- 16:55Why the detail about the trees? It's a contract in the ancient
- 16:59world. You listed the trees to prevent
- 17:01the seller from coming back and shopping them down for lumber
- 17:03after the sale. It's ensuring the asset is not
- 17:06stripped. It's like checking the mineral
- 17:08rights today. A very similar idea, but there's
- 17:11a beautiful phrase in the Hebrew there that you might miss in
- 17:14English. It says the land stood up
- 17:17Viacom. The land stood up.
- 17:19Most translations say was made over or deeded, but the literal
- 17:24Hebrew is stood up. It's a personification.
- 17:26Like the land is coming alive. Yes, until this moment, that
- 17:30land was lying dormant under Pagan rule.
- 17:32It was just dirt. Now it rises up to take its
- 17:34stand with the covenant people. It moves from being just
- 17:37geography to being a part of God's redemptive history.
- 17:40That is powerful. It's like the land itself knows
- 17:43its new master. So Abraham has paid a fortune.
- 17:45He has his deed. He has The Cave.
- 17:47He's done it. But we have to ask the big
- 17:49theological question here. Why a cave?
- 17:52Right. Why spend a fortune on a hole in
- 17:54the ground? He could have done a burial at
- 17:56sea or cremation. Why was burial so non
- 17:59negotiable? This brings us to the core of
- 18:02biblical anthropology. Abraham rejects the Pagan view.
- 18:06He rejects what we would later call Gnosticism, the idea that
- 18:10the body is just a prison or a shell that you discard.
- 18:14The meat suit idea that the real you is just a spirit and the
- 18:18body is trash. Abraham says no.
- 18:20The Westminster Confession talks about this in chapter 32.
- 18:23It says the bodies of men return to dust but are destined for
- 18:26redemption. The body matters.
- 18:28Abraham believes that Sarah's body matters.
- 18:31It's not waste, it's holy. The source used the image of
- 18:34sowing. Yes, burial is an act of
- 18:37agriculture. You plant a seed.
- 18:39Abraham is planting Sarah's body in the soil of the Promised
- 18:42Land. And he expects a harvest.
- 18:43He expects a harvest. It's a radical act of faith in
- 18:46the physical resurrection. He is saying she is not gone
- 18:49forever. She is waiting.
- 18:50So by burying her in Canaan, he is making a statement about the
- 18:53future. He is establishing a beachhead.
- 18:57Think about it. The only piece of the promised
- 18:59land that Adraham ever actually owned was a cemetery.
- 19:03That is the irony. All that promise I will give you
- 19:07this land. And all he got was a grave.
- 19:09But to the eye of faith, that grave is a down payment.
- 19:13It is earnest money. The deposit.
- 19:15It's a deposit on the whole inheritance.
- 19:18He is planting a flag in enemy territory and saying we are not
- 19:21leaving. Even in death, we are staying
- 19:23here. It is a claim on the future.
- 19:25We will be back. Yes, and this sets a pattern for
- 19:28the whole rest of the Bible. We call it the canonical
- 19:30trajectory. Right, because it's not just
- 19:32Sarah who else ends up in that cave.
- 19:34Everyone. Abraham dies, he goes into
- 19:36Machapella. Isaac dies, he goes in.
- 19:38Rebecca, Jacob, Leah, they all end up in that one cave.
- 19:43It becomes the family crypt, the one piece of home they have.
- 19:45And think about the Israelites. Hundreds of years later.
- 19:48They are slaves in Egypt. They are making bricks without
- 19:51straw. But they know something.
- 19:52What do they do? They know that back in Canaan,
- 19:55in a cave in Hebron, their fathers and mothers are waiting.
- 19:58It's a silent witness. It's a homing beacon.
- 20:01It's telling them Egypt is not your home.
- 20:04Your bones belong in the promise.
- 20:06And Joseph, remember Joseph at the end of Genesis, He makes
- 20:10them swear an oath. Do not leave my bones in Egypt.
- 20:13Carry my bones up from here. Yeah.
- 20:15Why? Because he knew the resurrection
- 20:18wasn't happening in Egypt. It was happening in the land.
- 20:20He refused to be separated from the promise.
- 20:22He wanted to be where the action was going to be when God acted.
- 20:25So this cave is the anchor. It holds the whole story
- 20:27together into the Exodus. But there's a contrast we need
- 20:31to make. We're Christians, so we look at
- 20:33this through the lens of Christ. Yes.
- 20:35How does Machpelah compare to the tomb of Jesus?
- 20:39This is the great contrast. Abraham paid a high price, 400
- 20:43shekels, to secure a place to keep his dead in the grave.
- 20:47His goal was containment. He wanted to make sure they
- 20:49stayed there undisturbed, safe, safe keeping for the bodies.
- 20:52Oh Christ. Christ paid the infinite price.
- 20:55He didn't pay with silver or gold.
- 20:58He paid with his own blood. And his goal was different.
- 21:01And he didn't pay to keep his dead in the grave.
- 21:04He paid to bring his dead out of the grave.
- 21:07Eggs mean chills. Sarah's still there.
- 21:09If you go to Hebron today, to The Cave of the Patriarchs, her
- 21:12dust is still in Machpelah. She is awaiting the trumpet.
- 21:16But Jesus tomb. It is empty.
- 21:18He is not there. And because his tomb is empty,
- 21:21Machpelah is not a monument to defeat.
- 21:24It is a sleeping chamber. It is a bedroom.
- 21:26They are just resting until the king wakes them up.
- 21:29So the empty tomb of Jesus validates the faith of Abraham
- 21:33in the occupied tomb of Sarah. That's it.
- 21:35That is the whole story. That changes everything about
- 21:37how we view death. It's not the end, it's a pause.
- 21:40So let's pivot to application. We've unpacked the history, the
- 21:44Hedite law, the theology. What does this mean for the
- 21:48listener, the learner driving to work right now?
- 21:50I think there are three or four massive takeaways.
- 21:52The first takes us back to that negotiation business ethics.
- 21:56Yeah, the current money with the merchant.
- 21:58We live in a world of pragmatism.
- 22:00Get the best deal, cut corners if you have to.
- 22:03It's just business. Abraham challenges us to conduct
- 22:07business with total transparency.
- 22:09It's interesting, I have seen people try to use their faith to
- 22:12get a discount. All the time.
- 22:14Hey brother, can you knock a little off the price for a
- 22:16fellow believer or expecting a deal because they go to the same
- 22:20church and. Abraham would say absolutely
- 22:21not. Do not use your religious status
- 22:23to seek leverage. Pay the full price so that the
- 22:26world has nothing to say against you.
- 22:28It's about your witness. If you claim to belong to the
- 22:30Kingdom of God, but you cheat your neighbor or delay payment
- 22:34your witnesses. That is conviction right there.
- 22:37Yeah, our financial dealings are part of our testimony.
- 22:40What about this idea of the forever home?
- 22:42We live in a culture obsessed with real estate.
- 22:45Oh absolutely. This is the idol of security.
- 22:47We want the perfect house, the forever home, the white picket
- 22:50fence. We drive our stakes so deep into
- 22:52this world. But Abraham.
- 22:54Abraham was a Prince. He was richer than most of us
- 22:57will ever be, but he lived in a tent.
- 22:59He refused to build a house in Canaan.
- 23:01The only permanent real estate he wanted was for the
- 23:04resurrection. He held earthly possessions
- 23:06loosely. He understood he was a stranger.
- 23:09We need to ask ourselves, are we living for our property value or
- 23:13are we investing in the Kingdom? Are we too comfortable here?
- 23:16It's the difference between a tourist and a resident.
- 23:18You're supposed to be tourists here.
- 23:20Yes, ambassadors, we're here, We work here, we care for the city,
- 23:24but we do not belong to it. We should not be surprised when
- 23:27we feel out of place, We are out of place.
- 23:29Another practical point the sources raised was prudence
- 23:32preparing for death. Yes, this is a sensitive one.
- 23:36Sometimes super spiritual people think, oh, God will provide.
- 23:40I don't need a will. I don't need a burial plot.
- 23:42I'll just trust Jesus and. They leave a mess for their
- 23:44kids. They leave a financial and
- 23:46emotional disaster. Abraham did not wait until the
- 23:49last second to scramble. He acted decisively.
- 23:51He secured the plot. He made sure everything was
- 23:54legal and binding. So making a will is actually an
- 23:57act of faith. It is an act of love for your
- 23:59family. Leaving your affairs and chaos
- 24:02is a burden on those you leave behind.
- 24:04Abraham treated death with dignity and order.
- 24:07That's a sign of maturity. It's stewardship.
- 24:10And finally, hope and grief. We started with weeping and we
- 24:13end with hope. We grieve, but not as those
- 24:16without hope. That is the key distinction.
- 24:19Paul says that in Thessalonians we don't pretend it doesn't
- 24:23hurt. Abraham wept loudly.
- 24:25But we view the grave differently.
- 24:27We view it differently. It is not a prison with no exit.
- 24:30It is a bed of hope. We rest in God's promise.
- 24:32It really is a complete reorientation of how we see the
- 24:35end of life. Yeah, Abraham buying that cave
- 24:38was the first legal foothold of the Kingdom of God on earth.
- 24:41Yeah, it started with a grave. It started with a grave and it
- 24:44ends with an empty tomb. That's the arc of redemption.
- 24:47So here's the final thought for you to chew on to the
- 24:50unbeliever. The grave is a prison.
- 24:53It is the final period at the end of the sentence.
- 24:55There's no way out. But to the believer, because of
- 24:58what Christ has done and what Abraham foresaw, the deed is
- 25:01signed in blood and the Savior holds the keys.
- 25:04The question is, are you investing in castles in this
- 25:07world that you have to leave behind, or are you staking your
- 25:11claim in the resurrection? Thanks for listening to Reformed
- 25:14Thinking. We'll see you in the next deep
- 25:16dive.