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Is It Weird...? · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  What ever, it's the little number we do. It's called is it weird?
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  Okay, so we're weird, we admit that for sure, but how
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  weird we'll find out when we talk about the little things we do and we
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  decide are they weird? Are they not? That's why we call it,
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  well is it weird? We were just talking about the weather, and I
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  am a psycho when it comes to web, I would agree. So yesterday,
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  I'm looking ahead. My husband had brought the kids to the lake.
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  They had a great weekend while I did girls weekend and he's like, yeah,
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  we're going back next weekend and I'm just like, I'm looking at the
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  forecast. I'm like, God, it's going to be like rainy, only
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  forty going through. He goes, Amanda, it is Sunday, Like a
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  lot can change. But I check the weather and make all of these plans,
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  cancel plans, do everything. And my husband thinks that's bizarre. He
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  loves when it goes, like when they mess up and then we'll go and
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  do something and it's just gorgeous. He's like, you could have ruined like
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  the whole weekend if we would have went with like the when you decided three
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  days ago. We weren't going to do that. You know what I mean?
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  What is it weird that you check the weather like all of the time
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  and like base everything I do around it. You know what I'm saying.
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  Yeah, No, I mean it's the You know, you can get to
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  a point where it's like becoming obsessed. And I'm the same way my wife
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  hates. Like, for example, when we were living in Florida and people
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  would come visit us, you like really want it to be very nice because
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  people are coming from up north and they're going to Florida, it's got to
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  be beautiful, and you don't believe it or not. There's like cold fronts.
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  Of course, I would get so stressed out about when somebody was visiting.
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  I'd be like a week out looking at the weather, like, oh
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  my god, it's only gonna be sixty four. So this is where my
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  mind is, and I let it bother me so much. Like I look
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  at the monthly outlook and I know, I know it's crazy, but I'm
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  looking I'm like, Okay, well then maybe next week we'll look. Okay,
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  if there's gonna be enough water, are we doing this? Is it
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  ready for the pond? Tooon. I mean, my mind just goes wild
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  over the weather. No, hey, people love the weather. It's one
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  thing we all have in common, I know. But as the weather,
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  maybe it's to relax a little bit. It's such classic small talk because of
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  that reason. That's true. All right, Amana. Is it weird?
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  And this is weird? This is going to make your weather thing look pretty
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  silly? Oh gus? Because is it weird that when I'm driving, specifically
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  at night or when it's dark out or early in the morning, I have
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  sort of this fear of people in the other I assume everybody in the other
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  vehicles are planning on shooting me. Okay, now bear with me. Like
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  when you pull up to a stoplight and somebody pulls up right next to you,
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  I just in my hand. I'm like, well, they're probably pulling
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  up next to me to do a little go out. Yeah, yeah,
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  that's like your first thought. I sort of I get this anxiety sitting next
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  to them. Yet, and I've never been a part of a drive by
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  shooting, so it's not like I'm suffering from this trauma. So I get
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  a little weird at night, like rest stops or semis like just in general,
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  like I would, I'll just go to a big gas station. I
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  would never stop at a rest stop at night. I don't know why,
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  Like I just like in my mind, just like there must have been a
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  movie or something, but those are just creepy by design. Yeah, but
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  in general, like somebody just rolling up to me though, that is weird.
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  And then I'll look for a little things. So what if you see
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  like ninety year old grandma Milly rolling up to you, Well, I gonna
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  see the smile once I see them. And if I see that, then
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  I'll go okay. I'll look for little things like that. Or for example,
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  if the vehicle like uses a signal, I always tell myself it's like,
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  well, okay, if that was a crazy killer person, what are
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  the odds that they're following traffic law? Oh you know what I mean?
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  Or if I see that they have their seatbelt, really stereotyping what a serial
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  killer is. Right, if you're leaving your house to go on a killing
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  spreet, are you buckling up? You know what I mean? Stuff like
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  that, I would think so, because then you'd be I guess if I
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  were a serial killer, I'd be following the rules extra just to blend in
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  with everybody. So that's not going to help your your situation because now you're
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  not. But if you're like if you're in the middle of traffic on a
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  busy road planning to kill somebody, I don't think you're planning on getting away
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  with it. What if they have like really tinted windows then you can't see
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  them? Does that throw you into a level of anxiety that you can't even
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  take it? Why was you have tinted windows if you weren't in your vehicle
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  like with a full shotgun scoped out pointing at me. I have really,
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  really, really tinted windows, and I always wonder that. I hate that.
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  I don't know. That's just the way I bought it. I didn't
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  like add oh you didn't get them all tinted? Yeah, because I know
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  those people too. Don't. Definitely didn't not a red flag with my cheetah
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  princes. I'm kidding. I don't have a steering wheel cover. That would
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  be a wild though. You don't even my steering wheels falling apart. I
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  guess I have like a like a leather when my husband put on because he
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  said my makeup will ruin it. So do you or do you not have
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  like that? Because you just said you didn't. No, I don't have
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  like a fuzzy one from back in the day, didn't you? Did you
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  ever go to fat will you? Did you have one? Like grad?
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  We're going off here, but you got to hear me out. I used
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  to go to Fashion Bug. You remember Fashion Bug? I remember her sister
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  is probably going wild right now. But we would go and you'd get like
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  a steering wheel cup, why is she going wild? What do you know
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  that I don't? And then like fuzzy dice to like match them, and
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  then you'd get yes. And those were available exclusively at the Fashion Bug.
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  No, I'm sure they had a mother places they did, but yes,
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  Oh gosh, I hope your sister's going turn out like a minute in the
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  morning, big ninety eight point seven. When you think about your kids and
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  how long it takes for them to officially proclaim that they are bored, Oh
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  my gosh, every two seconds. I just read a study. They did
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  this whole study on average, your kid will get bored within thirty four minutes,
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  And to me that was like impressive, Like I get bored before thirty
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  four minute. Yeah, I was gonna say that seems really high, and
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  it totally depends on the task at hands or what they're doing. But uh,
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  attention span real quick. I mean the best task I can do with
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  my kids right now is playing cards. Briggs does not have quite the attention
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  span of Sydney. But we could sit there for an hour and play cards
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  and she would be totally good with it. Briggs the opposite. Unless he's
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  like locked in to some show like think of and I'm going like old school
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  Married with Children, you think of al Bundy. He can just zone out
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  like that, like he's just what you were saying. Your three year old
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  Briggs is watching Married with Children like that's what he's hooked on. He's on
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  season four. That would be hilarious, would funny? Yeah? Kids,
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  they don't like to sit still, that's for sure. I know this,
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  especially after Friday Night. I tell you, I DJ the Oak Grove Elementary
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  Aloha Dance. So I knew you had a gig, but I didn't know
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  I actually got a girlfriend I had. Man, you miss a couple of
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  words and things come out real wild. I had a girlfriend whose family was
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  there, and she said, oh my gosh, I just met Pike he's
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  he's Djane and I told him we were friends and to play Alan Jackson.
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  Did you get that on? Well, she did request Alan Jackson. I
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  remember that specifically, and you know it just wasn't gonna work for the kids.
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  She's your request and you didn't give it to her. You can't just
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  play these kids. There was requests after request. And here's what I learned
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  after dejaing in elementary school dance. There's no such thing as too much Taylor
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  Swift. It was crazy. Every kid who came up wanted to hear a
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  different and there were the old Taylor Swift songs, they were new ones and
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  I would play I was on a rotation of every other song. I would
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  just play a Tailor Swift. We should have just yeah, should have just
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  been the theme. That's fair. You would think I was Calvin Harris in
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  Las Vegas. I was bringing the house down. These kids were going nuts,
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  But you didn't want to entertain the moms and dads. Isn't that all?
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  Wasn't enough family dance. This is the thing with requests, like would
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  she have been happy when it made her night? Yeah? But how do
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  you think I feel when the dance floor vacuates. Oh, she would have
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  given you. She would have given you some people on the dance floor.
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  Where would she produce these people? Well, that's usually like goes. If
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  one mom is on the dance floor, nobody's gonna let just one mom hang
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  out on the dance floor. I mean that's the thing. And people request
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  these songs and then funny, where are they on the dance floor? I
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  don't you know what I mean. It's just that's gotta be a feeling friy
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  situations. But the kids lose steam at all. How long was his day?
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  It was an hour and a half. It was just like a sprint.
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  It was like, go hard for an hour and a half. Yeah,
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  that's a great time. Had my wife work in the photo booth?
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  They love that. Yeah, because you also, and that's another thing with
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  kids. You have to have a lot of different things going on. It
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  can't just be a dance. I'm glad you had the photos because then you
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  at least have to wait in line a little bit. That puts a But
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  they just run. Kids just just run. At what age did we stop
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  just running? Run when you're born? Imagine if I was sitting like waiting
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  at the DMV for my ticket to be called, and I was just running
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  around the room. It's a non stop. The other day I told Dick,
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  I said, should we put one of our fitbits on the kids just
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  for curiosity? Yeah, Like they are always running. It's a tiny little
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  steps. They're gonna be in the thirty thousands. Got get a manda In
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  the morning. Seven yesterday, I was a golfing, so I went played
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  eighteen holes. My wife, of course, had the day to herself.
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  She loves that. But she went out to lunch with my sister and so
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  our nephews went with their five and they're well three. Yeah I know that
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  for a fact that THEO is three years old. But it was interesting because
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  they went to a restaurant that was in all you could eat bffet, not
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  buffet, but all you can eat, you order it and if you're under
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  three years old, you eat for free. Yeah, and so my wife
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  said that my sister told the server, well, he THEO a known three
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  year old. He's actually two. Just for the day, you know.
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  And so it was hilarious because the older one, Liam, who's five,
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  he's also very aware of how old his younger brother is. He so totally
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  called him out. That's right. He said, I want mom, Theo's
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  not three, or Theo's not two, he's three. He's three. And
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  my sister apparently was just like, ugh, no, he's two, okay,
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  And how can you explain that in front of the server. It's just
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  so obvious, you know. So I want to know, like, where's
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  the line about lying about your kid's age in order to get free kid discounts.
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  I would never do such a thing like that. I did happen to
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  see somebody do the exact same thing. They were in Colorado, of all
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  places, at this aquarium and this oh wow lady who had a daughter named
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  Sydney and a son named Briggs, and it was like under three, was
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  that the same you guys have gone to? Yeah, you were that.
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  I've never been there before, but yeah, same thing. Sydney, who's
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  Williams? He just did that how and so I'm like, Briggs, how
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  old are you? And he just kind of looked at me. So we
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  just like you just distract him, like you just don't well, right,
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  but then, but who's the server going to believe the five year old or
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  you a grown adult. You don't help, but you don't you don't discuss
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  it well. And and then the best part is they can't prove it.
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  They don't have IDs, you know, I mean Ida two year old.
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  No, just you're gonna have to take my word for it. I'm the
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  parents supposed to be just a better citizen and a better parent? Is it?
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  Morally? Where is that at? Because I fell for examp about it,
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  and I didn't feel bad then after we went because also when you were
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  coming out of the aquarium, you can't get away from buying a bajillion things
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  because to exit, it's just like walking into a zoo of stuffed animals and
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  all of these things. So it's like they're getting ya. Oh yeah,
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  they're getting you everywhere. Whatever you gotta tell yourself. And Amanda in the
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  morning on signet seven and now Amanda spills the sea looks seed Brozzi by Valley
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  Service Mechanical. Well, this could get interesting. I doubt she's gonna spill
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  the tea, but we would all love to know what Siri Cruz has to
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  say about her dad, Tom Cruise. And you're probably thinking, oh,
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  that sweet little girl, Well, she's going to be eighteen this week already,
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  isn't that wild. That's crazy. So Katie Holmes Tom Cruise they divorced
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  a long time ago. The reason she filed for divorce was protect Surrey from
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  Scientology, so she signed an NDA. Surrey, of course, was too
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  little. She did not sign anything. Therefore, she could speak if she
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  wanted to. I kind of don't feel like she will, just because why
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  would you like there, I'd be very random. But for some money,
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  I would love to know what's been going on with Tom Cursons. She'll be
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  fine financially. I mean, even her mom has that Dawson's Creek money,
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  which I'm sure is pouring in the residuals. Right. Did you like Dawson
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  Creek? Did you watch the show? It wasn't. I watched it.
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  It wasn't like my go to you know what I mean, it wasn't.
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  I missed episodes. I only I love the show, but I only watched
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  the first minute and a half morning because this is my God, that just
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  the best TV. Oh, this takes me back. Just wait till this
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  part. I could cry, could you. I mean, it really does
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  bring you right back to the place. It really does the mid to late
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  nineties anyway belong Taylor Swift is sharing her thoughts on Ryan Goslin and Emily Blunt.
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  They covered All too well on SNL over the weekend, doing like a
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  ken version of it listen three, So it was just drunken. It's a
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  good I mean, they had a cute little version of it. But we
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  were watching the Taylor Swift movie, you know, yes, and she does
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  the whole ten minute version of that song too well, which wasn't a single.
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  Like I had never even heard of that song unless you're Swifty and you
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  know every song off of every album. But it's a good tune. Yeah.
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  I was doing like a little like yoga stretch workout thing the other day
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  after I did the peloton and it was ten It was a ten minute workout
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  and it was just that whole song. I'm like, that's a long speaking
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  speaking of stretching, that was a stretch just to tell us that you worked
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  out. It was the only time last week, so don't worry about it
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  was the one and done by the way. Taylor did right back. Did
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  you see this? She said, watch me accidentally catch myself singing this version
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  ontour. The monologue is everything, And I gotta tell you, if you
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  have not seen the pictures of Taylor and Travis at Coachella over the weekend.
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  So cute. She's rocking a new Heights hat. He's wearing a Happy Gilmore
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  hat. There. He's just snuggled kind of around her, like protecting her
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  because she's in a crowd of people that she's living a normal life. But
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  I don't feel like she's ever really lived this normal level life, if that
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  makes sense. Yeah, he was picking her up even he was. Yeah,
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  I just saw a headline that he picked her up, like like so,
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  yeah, I know she's like six eleven, so I feel like he
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  doesn't need to, but he's just trying to prove himself. Well, I
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  wish'd I wish I had him at concerts throw me up on his shoulders.
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  Yeah. I saw meme a tall friend of mine. The thing he was
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  an article and it was from a tall guy said, sorry, God wanted
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  me to be able to enjoy concerts better than you. Not wrong, all
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  right. Jimmy Fallon wants to ask Johnny Carson and as the longest running late
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  night host, he said, let's do thirty years. He just celebrated ten.
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  I'd put him at sixty nine years old. I mean, look that's
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  a long time to be doing anything. Is there anybody else out there who's
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  like just at their job thinking I could do this for twenty more years?
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  Absolutely? Yeah, other than us, But I'm talking about like other people.
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  I'm sure everybody's feeling that way. They're locked in on a Monday,
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  They're like, yes, I hope bring on more work, baby, come
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  off Amanda in the morning. On sage seven, I would say, and
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  I'm sure you shared this opinion that when it comes to fighting and arguing in
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  marriages and relationships, men give me a bit of dumb dumbs. You know,
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  they just don't know how to fight or argue properly. And I found
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  this article a relationship expert sharing things that men should say in an argument versus
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  things like you know, what's your problem? Relax? Calm down. Is
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  it a man as the expert or a lady telling a man how this need
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  is getting? It's a lady. And I like how they start the article
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  because they do sort of bail us out the men. They say, you
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  know, so many men struggle with how to engage with their wife's emotions because
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  well they just weren't taught how in their family. They just kind of shut
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  it down a little bit. All right, Yes it's a good excuse,
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  so it's not our fault. But you know, here's the things men can
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  say when fighting. Such is number five, what can I do to make
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  this better? Ooh, that's just a solid response in anything like if somebody
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  is going after or if there's ever a conversation like how can I make this
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  better? Because you're you're not saying sorry, you're addressing that there's a problem,
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  but you're also asking for tools, and chances are there be like nothing,
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  and then just to be annoyed by it because your question, no,
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  that's not what of I thought that none of this is really going to matter.
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  I feel like the results the same no matter what. But at least
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  it shows that you maybe want to fix or help with the situation. Here's
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  what I don't like about it. I already this is the first of five,
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  and I don't like it because basically it's conceding that I, you know,
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  everything I think is in vowed, like you're the one, you're in
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  the right, I'm in the wrong. What can I do to fix this?
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  Because that's not always a case like no, definitely not. You know,
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  you know how it goes. Sometimes you get into these arguments for it.
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  You are so positive that you're in the right and you will not let
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  go because you know, like, it just makes no sense to you how
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  the other person is not seeing it from your perspective. But don't you.
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  I don't know. I just get to a point where I'm like, I
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  don't have the energy, I don't care, Like, well, let's just
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  move on from it. Well, really, should we call your husband and
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  see how much I just ignore? Yeah? Number four, thing you just
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  say when you're fighting with your wife, I'm sorry, I love a good
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  I'm sorry, like I'm I'm sorry that you don't see it from my perspective.
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  No, typically it's a text like I'm sorry you shouldn't have done that,
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  or sorry frown face. That's the way you get them. What.
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  I don't think I've it. I don't know if I've ever done the frown
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  face emoji. Oh. It just adds a lot to the layers. Number
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  three is I don't don't want to fight with you. Yeah, I mean
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  I'm doing it, but I really don't want this, Okay. Also number
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  two, if you want to drop this into a fight with your with your
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  wife, I love you. M yep, that's a good very weird though,
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  Like I can't imagine. It's sort of like killing them with kindness,
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  Like you can't be mad at me when I'm showering you with I love you,
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  I love you, honey, I love you. But I feel like
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  then there's going to be a but what you're doing right now is irrational.
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  I love you, but unless it's just a solid I love you, maybe
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  And the number one thing you should say your wife when she's mad. Our
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  relationship is more important to me than this fight. Oh Mike, I would
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  love to hear you do this, but they're also phony, you know.
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  I guess it depends on your delivery. It depends on your delivery and how
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  hot of a situation it is. Like if I were to scream our relationship
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  is more important than this fight, would that be effective? I don't think
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  that's gonna be a factor in much like our marriage. I kind of feel
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  like yours is the same way. Do you guys ever really get into it?
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  You know what? I just feel like we have the same kind of
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  demeanor where yeah, you might be upset about something, but it's just kind
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  of step away and it's fine. Like it's never like an aggressive situation.
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  You just like walk away and just kind of like giggle, and there might
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  be stubborn, I angry, clean like I'll just like go upstairs and start
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  doing something and then come down like Okay, that decompressed me in the weirdest
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  way possible, and I'm fine, like, well, yeah, I will
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  say I mean, and everybody gets into it, right, Well, Doe,
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  you throw a couple of cocktails in the mix, but yeah, overall,
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  I know it's pretty uh like yesterday for example, and she'll hate that.
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  I we'd even share this, but I came home from golf and I
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  apparently had missed a text right when I got to the golf course and just
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  said like I love you, have fun whatever. Didn't see it and didn't
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  respond until I got home, and you know, she was upset that I
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  was ignoring her and I would never do that on purpose, but I didn't
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  see it. You know, you didn't see it for four hours. You
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  not once looked at your phone. You didn't take out your camera to take
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  a picture of you and the boys golfing. I was on my phone the
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  whole time, but that's because I used the app on my phone, to
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  get my yardages. So I was just preocy. Oh you were real locked
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  on the course. Absolutely, yeah, gotta get got to get that yardage
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  down to the yard. You don't believe have fun and she's she's just cheerleading
• 20:23
  you onto the course and you just couldn't fire back a text. Wow,
• 20:29
  she didn't even ask how the round was because she was devastated that you didn't
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  love her for four hours. No, she did. She got the whole,
• 20:33
  She got the full break down on how the round was. Don't worrying.
• 20:38
  Now here's what you need to know. Well, today is tax day.
• 20:42
  Several local and national food chain restaurants are offering deals and some specials to
• 20:47
  help erase the pain away. It's not working. It's not going to erase
• 20:51
  the pain. Okay. A free roast beef sandwich from Marvi's really can make
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  up for a lot. I did see a free sandwich with it here and
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  there. A lot of them are if you had the app. But thank
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  you, thank you for thinking to people today on this wonderful day of writing
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  checks. You know, it's only the tax headline. If you didn't file
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  an extension like I had to do, just got away from you just buy
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  yourself a little time. It's like when you email the teacher like, hey,
• 21:15
  listen, you know I had something come up your dog, get your
• 21:17
  helm Mark Family Emergency. Oh got god, I'm gonna need a couple more
• 21:19
  weeks. O. Good. Hey. The FCS title game for next season
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  will now be played on Monday. Historically it's been on a Saturday. There
• 21:27
  was one time that they did it on a Sunday. But one factor for
• 21:32
  moving the game is now regular season games for the NFL are on Saturday,
• 21:36
  so they're moving it over to Monday night. January sixth and Frisco, Texas.
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  We love the NFL. Just bullying everybody else day you'll do whatever days
• 21:45
  we aren't you. This is gonna work. Yeah. A lawyer who represented
• 21:49
  OJ until he died last week is now saying he is not only going to
• 21:53
  be cremated, but they are going to be testing his brain for CTE.
• 21:56
  Which lawyer wasn't cock, No, not cock right now, didn't recognize the
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  name. He died years ago? Oh he did, yeah, right after
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  like not long after the trial? Really? Yeah? Or within I mean
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  within a decade, We'll say. Interesting, I guess I never really followed
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  along with that. After. Yeah, he win Kardashian obviously died, yeah,
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  not long after as well. Who the show on FX? That was
• 22:21
  a really good show with Cuba Gooding Junior, Right, yeah, yeah as
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  oj and uh h, what's your name Sarah Pols? Really? Yes?
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  Well. The lawyer also said that there are tentative plans for a celebration of
• 22:32
  life with just some close friends and family. I do like that they're going
• 22:34
  to be testing his brain for CT, just for let's use it for something
• 22:38
  to help. Well, they know by now if you played football, especially
• 22:41
  back then, that pretty good. Now what the you know side effects are?
• 22:47
  You know a lot of people haven't are currently living with it, but
• 22:48
  they're not killing their ex wives. Yeah. I don't think that's going to
• 22:52
  be like, oh that's the reason. No, the whole thing is so
• 22:56
  ichy, All right, cloudy today. Chances to marine high of about sixty.
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  I remember hanging heads quite a lot back in high school. So I'm
• 23:02
  wondering if I don't have CT on the bench. I'm I mean, you
• 23:06
  you've been very open. I'm not being rude that you were just you were
• 23:08
  on the bench a lot of yeah, for offensive defense, but I was
• 23:11
  out there for special teams, and that is those are some of the most
• 23:15
  violent plays, so hard. That's why they throw guys like me out there
• 23:21
  to take the blows. Bike. Get in there, go get your head
• 23:26
  ripped off. At least you're on the field. Get a Manda in the
• 23:29
  morning, Come on, get up ong Really just a good moment here to
• 23:34
  get a little perspective on your life. You might think things aren't great,
• 23:37
  there's things that bother you, but you're not this guy at least. So
• 23:41
  he's a Canadian man, Amanda, who he's gone through his entire life despising
• 23:47
  two of his five fingers on his left hand. Why right, He says,
• 23:51
  they have a burning sensation and he's always just felt like they didn't belong
• 23:56
  on his body. What do you mean, like they're just like always like
• 24:00
  just hurt. Correct, Yeah, so he suffers me. He's been diagnosed
• 24:03
  with what they call body integrity identity disorder. So his fourth and his fifth
• 24:08
  fingers on his left hand he doesn't like him, doesn't feel like they belong
• 24:14
  there. And so finally, man, he's gone to the p And he's
• 24:15
  never told anybody about this. Family doesn't know, but he literally has nightmares
• 24:19
  about these fingers being on his body. I know that's hard to comprehend,
• 24:23
  it really is. But if it hurts so bad, I could just see
• 24:26
  like being angry with the fingies, you know, but that would be a
• 24:30
  very weird sensation. He had. He had nightmares that the two fingers were
• 24:33
  rotting or burning. Oh gosh, since child. And so finally he goes
• 24:38
  to a doctor and he asks that they remove his two fingers. He just
• 24:44
  wants them gone, which the doctor was like, Uh, you know,
• 24:47
  you got a couple of fine working fingers here. From what I can tell,
• 24:48
  you know, I'm odding your body. I'm not there for the nightmares,
• 24:52
  but can we try some other stuff? So they went through all sorts
• 24:55
  of like behavioral therapy, and I depressed since you know, they tried that
• 24:59
  route didn't work. So finally they agreed, okay, we'll cut your fingers
• 25:04
  off. Just take him off. So they surgically removed his fingers, and
• 25:10
  guess what, the nightmare stopped immediately along with the emotional distress. Wow,
• 25:15
  that is interesting. Reduced anger. He has constructive life plans. It sounds
• 25:21
  like everything's going well. He just needed to get rid of the sting out
• 25:23
  to get him isn't that odd? I mean, like, just think about
• 25:27
  just right now, is there anything physically bothering you? Not at the hole?
• 25:33
  Right? It's not so bad? Yeah, if there was something just
• 25:37
  continued, Like if you ever have like a really bad back or you know,
• 25:41
  you go through those moments and you're like, gosh, I don't know
• 25:44
  how I can go on. But a lot of people live with aches and
• 25:45
  pains like that exactly. Yeah, the back pain. Once that starts,
• 25:49
  it's like, yeah, it's it's over. You know, you've got to
• 25:52
  deal with that forever. So now I can only imagine how this guy would
• 25:55
  be feeling. Have you ever just had like a little cut, and for
• 25:59
  some reason, after you get that little cut on your finger, you always
• 26:03
  find a lemon or a line, Like, it doesn't matter how often you
• 26:07
  like, I don't think I use a lemon and a lime too often.
• 26:08
  Yeah, but every time you got that little cut. Now, imagine that
• 26:11
  how that guy had to have been feeling that times ten for his whole life.
• 26:15
  I don't know. Might make me chop it. I don't know.
• 26:17
  It's pretty devastating, but I'm just thankful for my fingies. I'll tell you
• 26:21
  that all ten of them good boys, these guys. I love them.
• 26:23
  I love having in the morning Big nainety eight point seven. I saw this
• 26:27
  tweet and it said, Amanda, see if you can relate to this rich
• 26:30
  people love to venmo request you four seventy two for like half a bagel?
• 26:36
  Oh stop, you know, because venmo is super convenient. It's obviously where
• 26:40
  you can send money or request money. Sign up now to people see.
• 26:42
  And it's funny because it does seem like the people who are the most well
• 26:47
  off are the ones who are asking for the money, Like if you if
• 26:49
  they bought you, in this instance, a bagel or a beer, and
• 26:55
  then they're Venmo requesting like, oh hey, by the way, that's probably
• 26:57
  why they're rich, because I honestly would I'm just like, I might think
• 27:00
  it, but I'm never going to vendmo request anybody for that. I just
• 27:04
  simply am not right. And is it because they're greedy or what is the
• 27:10
  reason? And so a money expert weighed in on this is she said,
• 27:14
  people with more money than their peers struggle with generosity because they don't want to
• 27:18
  be taken advantage of. Ooh, that would make sense, but it's like
• 27:22
  nobody's taken advantage of you if you bought me a beer. It's not like
• 27:25
  I was begging you to buy me a beer because I know you're well off.
• 27:27
  But maybe it's one of those Hey, I want to make sure that
• 27:30
  you know that you're just not inviting me. Or maybe it's kind of a
• 27:33
  complex, like I'm not just hanging out with you or friends of yours just
• 27:37
  because you have money. Yeah, it's like I can fend for myself and
• 27:41
  I want to be your friend in love. Yeah. Yeah, I'm sort
• 27:42
  of the opposite in that I wouldn't know. I always jumped the gun before
• 27:45
  they can even request it. If somebody like yesterday at the golf course,
• 27:48
  I get there and my wallet was in the carts or whatever, and so
• 27:52
  I need a tease and I didn't have my card on me, and so
• 27:55
  my buddy I'm like, oh, hey, dude, can you just get
• 27:56
  these I'll ven you. Well. Then he just said no, don't worry
• 27:59
  about it on me. Oh really, yeah, sweet man. By the
• 28:02
  way, nine dollars for a box of te's get out of town? How
• 28:06
  many air in a box? Oh, I don't know. Thirty? Oh
• 28:07
  that is interesting. You had a good point, though, because rich people
• 28:11
  like they just have a different perspective on money. And it's not like that
• 28:14
  they're cheap or that there don't want to be taken advantage of. I think
• 28:17
  they just appreciate the value of a dollar a little more that and some maybe
• 28:21
  are like it's got like I the ones who have earned it and gone through,
• 28:25
  you'd be surprised. You hear stories like this with celebrities all the time,
• 28:27
  where they'll go somewhere and people are just flabberg acid that there was like
• 28:33
  a ten percent tip or not. You know, it's wild. That's how
• 28:36
  you accumulate money though, just not giving it away. But obviously you can
• 28:40
  be generous. You can buy your friend a beer and not vent more request
• 28:42
  um for three dollars, that's pretty good. I want to try this now
• 28:47
  next time i'm mouth with a friend, Billy, why don't you try it
• 28:48
  with me? Next time we're out. You can buy me a beer and
• 28:51
  then we'll just see what happens. Are Na beer is cheaper because you've been
• 28:53
  by the way. I feel like we have not given this enough. I
• 28:56
  am proud of you you went through. Now are you weekends without drinking?
• 29:00
  I'm trying to make this not like this big celebration that Pike made it three
• 29:04
  weeks without drinking, Like holy yeah, but I'm you've been in situations where
• 29:08
  it's you're you're a very social person. We both are. It's not easy
• 29:12
  when you're used to that lifestyle. Listen, love to have a beer or
• 29:17
  two, especially like this weekend. We're on the patio. At one point
• 29:19
  I was golfing, my friends were drinking. This is what I'm saying.
• 29:22
  I'm proud of you. I need to give you this opportunity. Thank you
• 29:26
  share with the world. Yeah, I suppose I could do an update.
• 29:29
  You know, I'm so March twenty fourth was the last beer. Well okay,
• 29:33
  actually more like March twenty fifth at three am. Got it. It
• 29:37
  was the last beer I had. And yeah, so we're quite a ways
• 29:38
  into it. You know. People say, oh, you sleep so much
• 29:41
  better. No you don't. Oh really no, but you feel better.
• 29:45
  You've got to feel better for sure. Feel like I have more energy,
• 29:48
  especially today, like a Monday. How many Mondays? Are you still dragon
• 29:51
  because of the weekend? But I slept great this weekend. Well, but
• 29:53
  I've been here to tell you I am a dragon. I left my Booty
• 29:57
  in the Cities off with the weekend's right long girls, but it was fun.
• 30:02
  Well, thankfully, I'm here to kind of pick up the slack. Appreciate you