Fondness (φιλος) and Love (ἀγάπη)

The Christian Life Podcast · Jan 31, 2026 · 6m

Philōs (φιλος) expresses fondness in the sense of affection or attachment, which relates to the soul. It is one of four Greek words used to describe the feelings and connections towards others. Three of these words are used in Scripture. Agapē (ἀγάπη), which emphasizes a self-sacrificing type of love (1 John 4:8); although, from a human perspective, it is a willingness to sacrifice to fulfill a desire. φιλέω (John 11:3), denoting fondness or friendliness. στοργή relates to a family relationship (Romans 12:10). ἔρως signifies a sensual or erotic attraction and is not used in Scripture.

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