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When do girls stop being slobs? 2 · Scott & Ally on Demand

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  SPEAKER_00: In my head, the female is the cleaner sex, if you will, okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: And uh but it it's not working out like that in my house.
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  SPEAKER_00: So Gavin is the one that really he likes things the way that it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: If last night he was cleaning the toothpaste lids with q-tips.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, this is amazing! I already hates when that thing gets going.
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  SPEAKER_01: I told you, Gavin's my golden child.
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  SPEAKER_00: He really hates when that thing gets unwacked.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do, I do.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm putting the cap on backwards, Dad.
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  SPEAKER_01: I do love it.
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  SPEAKER_01: I do love Lydia.
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  SPEAKER_01: It was just that Gavin was always in the studio when he was very young.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I just got so attached to Gavin.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I always joke that like he's like my little golden child.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, he likes things the way he likes them.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why I like him.
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  SPEAKER_00: Lydia's the more free-spirited, you know, kind of like, it's like a water pad when she's in the bathroom, you know?
• 0:48
  SPEAKER_00: Um and the reason this really hit me yesterday.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, keep in mind, I don't want one person to throw in my face, well, isn't it a different story, Scott, when you go clean the house compared to when Tiffany does.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have helped with cleaning the house.
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  SPEAKER_00: Normally I disappear for two hours and come back and mop the floors, but that's here nor there.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you're Murphy oiling the cabinets, I think you're doing pretty well.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was one of these days where I'm like, I really want to dig deep into this, but she wasn't feeling good.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not about to get her involved in it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, well, you know what?
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  SPEAKER_00: It needs to get done.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll handle it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So back to Lydia.
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  SPEAKER_00: I get to the bathroom, and now this is post the cleaning, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So I've had both kids in there separately, and I'm like, Gavin, you you gotta keep it looking good because And he gets off the Q-tips.
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  SPEAKER_00: And he's yeah, cleaning the top of the crest with q-tips.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, you're not.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then he does the baseboards.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then uh, and Lydia, I'm like, no, listen.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the teeth are together, listen.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't you spit up the mirror, at least give me two days.
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  SPEAKER_00: So even Tiffany texted me, and this is my fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: So Jules and Kayleigh, there's the three sisters.
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  SPEAKER_00: Jules and Kaylee, they were the clean ones.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um Did you say those are the three sisters, but you only named two?
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  SPEAKER_00: Brie was the dirty one, and at 22 still is.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's what I'm like, I don't know if you're sorry, Bree, if you're listening.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't know if you're going to ever see a change, but we have some really, really good text messages on this.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna start from the bottom.
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  SPEAKER_00: I thought it was like 15.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like when girls start to go, hmm, um, my surroundings.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because Lydia doesn't know her surroundings to save her ass.
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  SPEAKER_00: God love her.
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  SPEAKER_01: Well, wait till you hear these text messages.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's great.
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  SPEAKER_01: Hey guys, happy Monday.
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  SPEAKER_01: So, mom of a 13-year-old girl, 14-year-old girl, and 18-year-old girl.
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  SPEAKER_01: And nope, it does not get better.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: I have to also grit my teeth and point things out to them and what to do.
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  SPEAKER_01: I do assign them chores, and if they don't get them done, they're just gonna pile up because we should not be doing uh we should not be doing them.
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  SPEAKER_01: Anyway, what they should be doing for themselves, we have to teach them by example.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: I think Scott, it sounds like you do a very good job of teaching by example.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, no, no, no.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you ask Tiffany, I do way too much for them.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: So, yes, you're teaching by example by doing a good job cleaning, but you don't need to always do it for them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, so I need to drag her in and be like, this is with the teeth together.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is Windex.
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  SPEAKER_00: And Windex gets sprayed here to clean off your crud.
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  SPEAKER_00: Have her start doing Windexing of the the um windows.
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  SPEAKER_00: With which maybe that'll work.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, here's one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Windows! Now we're doing the windows to the house?
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  SPEAKER_00: I was just thinking the mirror and the bathroom.
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  SPEAKER_00: Both.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why not?
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  SPEAKER_00: They do need to get done too.
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  SPEAKER_01: 7844.
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  SPEAKER_01: My 15-year-old cleaned her room last night before bed.
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  SPEAKER_01: I checked on it after she left for school.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's already like a tornado went through.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ah, the girl.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh-huh.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh, I'd say teenage years definitely made me start picking up more.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is Kaylee.
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  SPEAKER_01: I realized it made my day easier if I picked up after each task.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so you were in your teen years and it hit you.
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  SPEAKER_00: It just hit you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Mm-hmm.
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  SPEAKER_01: As a teenager, you want to impress your friends when they come over too.
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  SPEAKER_01: But as an adult, I feel we sometimes get in a mental slump too.
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  SPEAKER_01: So good luck.
• 3:51
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, well, they're I love how they end with good luck.
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  SPEAKER_01: Good luck.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh, then wait, wait, this one.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is interesting.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're not registered.
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  SPEAKER_01: I see a username, but you missed a bunch of information.
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  SPEAKER_01: So go back and and make sure you have all your info.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh, I was a tomboy growing up and a complete slob.
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  SPEAKER_01: I think it took me until mid-20s to be neater.
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  SPEAKER_01: And wait, this one.
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  SPEAKER_01: My daughter is turning 20.
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  SPEAKER_01: In her case, her cleaning skills have not increased.
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  SPEAKER_01: I thought it would.
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  SPEAKER_01: So all over the road.
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  SPEAKER_01: I thought I feel like there's a theme though.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not a lot of increase.
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  SPEAKER_01: Anyway, I thought it would when she moved out on her own, but the answer is nope.
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  SPEAKER_01: It absolutely did not get better.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, I can honestly say I feel the exact same way I did going into this.
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  unknown: Yep.