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How I Use My Autistic Traits In my Career (TRUE STORY) · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  Everybody wears sunglasses because he fears the thing
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  anyway, so I'm done. Thanks for the introduction was
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  awesome. And I am the ask me world.
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  Well that's world is a brand name.
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  So this is my prom name and I'm going to talk to you about what
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  I do and why I believe what and could be used as superpower,
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  which is pretty cool and I've been testing this Theory out now
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  for about three years, which is super awesome super fun.
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  But the picture of me there is something Cisco favorite place
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  in the world awesome, right? So I'm going to be Speedy on
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  this because we've got like I don't have An hour or something
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  that includes getting off the stage and people like throwing
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  rubbish at me. So I'm going to be as quick as I
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  can. And also if anyone else ask me
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  questions, I'm going to try and take some questions at the end
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  as well because what people ask me questions, but if you haven't
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  got any questions, don't worry about it.
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  I also have ADHD so try to keep up much love Okay, cool.
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  So the ask me world. What is the ask me world?
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  I run a YouTube channel, which is basically a it's like I made
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  video. Let me fun videos on my
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  condition because I always see like autism or seems like a
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  negative light. So I was on YouTube and I was
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  diagnosed I was A little bit hospital since I want you to
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  notice that was all depressing, you know, the people have it's
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  like who owned a dies I got? No, so I was like God I want to
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  do something fun. So I decided to make fun videos
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  on YouTube, but were talking last use topics to try and
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  educate people in the field working with professionals to
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  help them out because I know it might be kind of help on I like
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  helping people out yada yada anyway, so my YouTube channel
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  currently has won two awards that won one award for the
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  YouTube nextup a world where they took all YouTube channels
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  in the whole of the UK between ten thousand four hundred
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  thousand subscribers and said which of the best S12 are going
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  to be the best house ever my time account number one, of
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  course, uh, so I've got my one nap.
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  I'll get nice and then I also think it is a big and I also I
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  also want to work for number nine or 40 best autism blogs on
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  the internet, which is pretty cool.
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  So I'm kind of pleased that also a national system site number
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  one, obviously. So yeah, maybe I can beat them
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  one day, you know not joking. I'm joking.
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  I work at them. Okay, so currently my child got
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  forty one thousand subscribers here, which is a lot of Locksley
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  and I really I really enjoy communicating with the people on
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  their I reply to every single comment this takes up most of my
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  time. I invited everybody's nobody is
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  left out and like my heart every single comment.
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  So everyone's everyone's kind of feel inclusive, but I'll talk a
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  bit about why I chose YouTube to use as a platform for advocacy
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  or helping people out with Austin's faction conditions and
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  a show in a short while the idea of the channel is that it will
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  first of all it was to give people information about autism
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  Asperger's from my point of view.
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  You so people can get inside information on the secondary is
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  now using it for a force for change not talk about that again
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  in a few slides from now something else.
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  You might not know about me, but I'm an international
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  best-selling author. Yes.
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  I am and I can't I've got this Alexia, right?
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  And this is another thing. This is why awesome super power.
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  I can't read or write buggery. Right?
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  But I'd rather fuck am I to go fuck off?
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  That's fella in the US and the UK, but interesting thing about
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  how you worked as a ghost writer.
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  So I then I think dictated it, but I still did it just proves
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  that nothing. Impossible.
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  He says the probable the fact that you may think are.
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  Okay. That's not the right way of
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  doing it for me. So I'll try a different way.
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  So that's what I did. Okay moving swiftly on where's
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  the clicker? Is it going to work or going to
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  work? Let's do it YouTube.
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  Okay. Let's talk about YouTube.
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  So YouTube the reason I wanted to the other. bizarre phone
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  buzzing Facebook Instagram of it has thousands of them on every
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  single one because little bit of a nerd, but I thought you
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  YouTube YouTube has 1 billion 300 million active users.
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  Now that is a lot of people on One platform.
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  So you've got to think the Outreach on there is probably
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  bigger than any of the TV network and get onto and it's
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  one of the biggest Social Network.
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  I think that's to Facebook for user interactivity for visual
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  content YouTubers and number one or crosswalk amazing.
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  That's why I use YouTube the next desire to open access
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  freedom of speech YouTube Don't Tap what I say is working say
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  that, you know, as Burgers is awesome as big as a rubbish and
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  nobody will judge you for it. Watching the content YouTube
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  say, okay, if you're free to say whatever you want and I love
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  that. It's creativity down to the fact
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  that you can be you longing judge by anybody by putting on
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  the platform. Then we will judge you to fan
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  base. So, you know, you got to pick
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  them. Well, so that was that's what I
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  like. Well if we know speech above all
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  else it's creative. I'm a massive massive passionate
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  person about creativity. I love treating stuff and I've
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  got some other stuff at creating a minute but making videos as a
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  passion of mine. I love it.
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  I love everything about making videos Happy in the YouTube's
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  algorithms are rubbish and you You allows you to be creative
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  and they promote it and actually they wine you and dine you when
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  you can come quite big in YouTube and like they taking me
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  down to London and we did was a training down there.
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  I'm going to meet them in Los Angeles next week and all this
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  kind of stuff and it's really really fun and they boost it
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  because they love creativity and not wrongly to me and I was
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  like, yeah creativity because creativity are believed to me is
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  like the biggest things that we don't often Spectrum Disorder,
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  you really creative you gotta push that creativity because the
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  only thing that will make you really really happy and like
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  that's awesome. But I've just checking my time
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  make sure I'm not kind of like going over.
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  Right YouTube second one is building a community.
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  So YouTube again, 1 billion 300 million active users.
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  Well the big place so if you want to build a community of
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  people of like-minded intellect and you want to build something
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  for a bigger difference than YouTubers place to do it because
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  what I do is I answer every single can't make people feel
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  important especially because they are able to offer don't my
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  channel is my family, which is what interesting and so what we
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  do is we have a Facebook group where we just discussed talking
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  support ideas. Excuse me on Well relative
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  topics like somebody saying oh, you know my kids come home from
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  school and he's throwing up and I don't want to do is just go
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  you're staying with my old could use of this is a bit awkward and
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  it's cool because community help each other and that was the
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  second kind of go on my channel, right?
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  Actually, this is most important when I wanted to First did
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  YouTube people going to be like, I think all my YouTube channel
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  I've got maybe about 300 videos on which is pretty cool on the
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  videos and all the good. Okay, as long as you're doing
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  crafts videos, Like maybe one good video outdated one videos
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  build my first ever video with really far I've recorded on an
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  iPad. It was like sitting as I can't
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  make a video for just go want me to kill myself.
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  So I make this video and put the iPod down I did this video and I
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  was terrible and know the presence of the camera.
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  I know kind of like personality on the camera.
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  I don't know what I was doing for me the video but what it did
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  and this is interesting. This is why I chose YouTubers
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  because it built confidence and confidence is everything if
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  you've got a conference you don't you fail everything that
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  you need to be confident and I was It'd be like this person.
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  He was I'm on the fence. I wanted to extend really
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  confident. So with YouTube app are just
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  doing put it out. I forgot all about it's about
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  there's only got ten reviews. Nobody really cares.
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  We came back in the psyche almost a million views this
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  video and also like that, but the cool thing about it is I
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  built confidence and confidence is everything now one of the
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  things I find people who are like followers of my life called
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  family members. Could we felt like the must
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  accept the family on YouTube but one of the cool things about my
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  family members as they always say like oh and and one at work
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  through video on to do something cool and creative artists and I
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  want to make paintings. I want to put them out and do it
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  by with you this hour one just fear of being judged or fear of
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  the fact that their their ability set is from an artistic
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  standpoint in the feel like are getting a judge for putting this
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  this thing out. I say just do it because when
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  you do it build confidence, the confidence makes you feel
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  empowered and it's awesome. And you feel like super super
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  pumped and I was time to do this.
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  This is an uncool and you can take this one at home with you
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  as well and everything I get this question a lot because like
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  I've got an interview tomorrow. Want some Sesame something
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  tomorrow and I don't feel really bad about getting anxious.
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  I got answers about everything I got is about the mail coming
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  through the door, so don't worry about that.
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  But you know and these people like go for job interviews to
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  how can I be confident? And I say you need to do
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  Superman pose. I'm going to do the supermarket
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  old your brain says this person is confident.
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  So if you have a feeling not confident do the supermodels to
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  phone super person acts person super close and then you will
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  feel awesome. Honestly.
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  It's amazing how there and it works.
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  It works so hard just like smiling if you're feeling down
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  just smile because it works but I have to force myself to smile
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  because my facial expressions don't match.
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  I'm thinking my guns always like why are you sad like what but
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  anyway when you're talking about my girlfriend here?
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  Okay. So next slide.
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  Is it working? Looks like there's quite a
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  circle inspiration right some being inspired.
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  So can we chose often an Autism Spectrum Disorder you go on?
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  Okay. So this is why something school,
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  but it is like a school school subject mean I was there and I
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  was like I can do this, but it's cool.
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  Just like our huh. You know, it's 1998 or whatever.
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  That's awesome. So it was kind of really
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  difficult for me to find to think we're out of this kind of
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  hole. So I was diagnosed officially a
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  suspect in the murder of 26. So from like I've got all kinds
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  of diagnoses of with the years, you know, even goes this way.
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  So it was really fun to kind of get to the often factors on I
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  was like, but I wanted to do something cool and honored to be
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  inspired. So this is again why I turned to
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  YouTube is actually started making YouTube videos.
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  If back in 2008 for this started monetizing part fumble was a big
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  thing back then but it's bigger video but not like, you know
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  creative entrepreneurs if you liked it wasn't that big so
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  YouTube drove me to be creative in this inspired me to do more
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  because with YouTube I could have a voice I didn't have
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  anywhere else you got on the street.
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  Like hey, this is Asperger syndrome involves like shut up.
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  If you're on YouTube you like you type anything like John see
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  some cool stuff with Asperger's syndrome and people coming.
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  So this inspiring as you go up I can help educate people helped
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  push people to do something cool or understand the north of the
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  spectrum disorder just by being empowered off or inspired by
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  each of the platform itself. The other thing was the focus
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  now, this is interesting. So in developing a superpower if
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  you have an Autism Spectrum Disorder or if you want to
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  encourage somebody sick parent who has an Autism Spectrum
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  Sullen, you need to encourage focus and focus of promote Focus
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  because to me it was like I focused on stuff like I'm really
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  sad hellions. Stuff it was weird.
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  It was like a really entertaining false if we keep on
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  the table, and I love it. Head to send its don't come she
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  walking down the street and then there's also certain as I don't
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  issue before. Come on down.
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  I'm like, why is he sold out his own that he's in his own world.
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  No. No, he's zoned in.
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  He's in that world that come across the front floor mat.
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  Whoa. What is this?
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  How does it what can I use it for?
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  How many things have happened? I think of something better than
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  it already is where did it come from you for that?
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  They want to made our would make them and that's what my brain
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  does all day every day constantly.
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  And so what I have to focus on something everyone's always like
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  God stop it going to be soaring like an hour, but no, it's a
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  good thing. Skipping so promote - focus and
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  focus and attention to detail and it's interesting.
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  A lot of people will tell you that people often have abstract
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  thing, but I did look to me as I'm showing thank you very much.
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  So anyway, that was quite interesting so inspiration I
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  take inspiration from a lot of things for focus and YouTube,
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  which is awesome, which is why I do what I do.
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  So and this is a cool graphic. I stole this so hashtag don't
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  sue me Google, you know, they would I just it was cool.
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  I just thought I was cool. Please don't tell anybody nobody
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  works for Google doing. Gopher, right?
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  Where are we bosses and super-powered?
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  Okay. So this is another graphic a
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  stopwatch talk to I study these together myself.
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  I took this off a Google or something put together.
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  It's sparkly bits on it. Anyway, so what am I don't say
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  I'm losing track of all talking about my right autism
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  super-powered, right? So awesome so far.
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  It's the Super Bowl because I taught myself to play about five
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  or six different Industries. Never touches my life on it.
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  I was never really interested in music.
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  And one day this guy in Uncle Jake.
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  He was like home, but in the bass clef is bounded then in
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  high school. I was like, I'll do it.
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  He's like, you know, the obviously got my dad was a
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  musician who was always looked up to him cool some kind of
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  guitar. Tom stoppard's play guitar.
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  It's hard meetings math, right solve our frequencies pass each
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  piece. So it's like no I love much love
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  music present done it so it didn't and I learned how to weld
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  play music and then I was in a band.
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  I want to hyper focus on things you're able Ichigo things again,
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  I can focus a confidence that was only two things that recipe
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  I have time to focus on one or two good things of the ability
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  to accomplish to go riding together and doing a play music
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  from loads of people or not. Anyway, because most looking for
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  players like too many other don't ever like, you know, it's
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  kind of cool and it gives you this confidence and when you
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  have this confidence kind of get empowered like by out with the
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  bass player, you know what I mean?
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  It's like he's you'll no longer this weirdo just recap we have
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  kids are you know, kilobytes of all his toys and go to bed this
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  guy who plays Empowering. This is super powers.
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  If you have somebody, you know, are you a surreal the Spectrum
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  who has a hyper focus on something that love promoted
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  build confidence conferences. Every Compass is King in this
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  scenario. So we my band I was like, okay.
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  Look this is an idea of hyper-focus.
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  I applied the same rules. I applied to my hacker Focus to
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  looking up things. I'm strapped to ideas and
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  principles of moving forward and what I mean by this is you heard
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  about Vision chance to say I made this vision for this fluffy
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  and take this a single Pinterest you figure out.
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  Okay. What is it in every we'll just
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  use it as like a vision college and also our kitchen to look
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  like and this is one thing so I took a step further is what I
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  know with vision was to make a goals board and a vision of what
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  can I do with my life. How can I pick Republic that
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  softball we do the things I love sounds like I want to see the
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  out in Japan right now bounce like, you know this bomb from
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  Holly and obviously never wrap it up any red ones.
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  I got one CDL Japan and I wanted to chart.
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  So how was going to do the made a vision board said, this is
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  what you do and when you do your mind your focus with the things
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  I love I'm the things that you're passionate about your
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  kind of focusing on those areas and you'll find a way so I did
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  it so I could I might find a rapidly one.
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  Japan said of it down or they loved it.
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  And then they cite the bombs on became another five to the
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  newcomers charts in Japan and hatred reinstall record, which
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  is super dope. So if you go to Japan and be
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  like, hey hit straight jacket Legend someone's going to go.
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  Yeah, I'll do another 5 minutes of listening to you and I'm like
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  no, that's my phone. Okay over here.
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  Nobody cares, but still in Japan.
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  I love it. So can that was like dear if I
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  can focus on pushing Focus to something.
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  That's really creative. I love it.
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  Okay. The second thing I did was I
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  left school with no qualifications because every
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  store was like, yeah, so you can just serve in tennis rackets in
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  our examples, like what how's this map?
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  So they just didn't know I'm learning style.
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  I was annoying because like if they focused on what I knew how
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  I fight abilities that could have like a probably forward.
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  So anyway, I went back and I did loads of access courses and
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  stuff like that and I went back to do an access course starts
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  with the bottom, you know, they put your apartment right?
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  Here you go, sir. Write your names just Club, but
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  you know, Not about Remini. I came right away.
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  But now I have a degree in chemistry.
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  I'm an actual official scientist where but yeah, I did a degree
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  in chemistry. It's crazy and I didn't realize
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  it was backing on this mission of chemistry for Harvest bloody
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  degrees and during University know like you doing chemistry
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  was like, yeah. Well what's wrong with it?
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  You're like wow who is amazing and I find my focus certain when
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  I find my focus to I actually built tools and this is
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  something I was just talking about some of the people earlier
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  my dissertation. I did computational physical
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  chemistry something about for and but then I learnt was
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  molecular symmetry. Group Theory under 30.
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  What I did was I film a teaching tool for a competition physical
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  chemistry in Minecraft. So anybody who got mine come
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  from going boom? I've just learned, you know
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  physical chemistry like 10 seconds pulls up again.
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  It was hyper focus and I love I love just using the things.
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  I like to go. Obviously we know I wrote a book
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  again. I was like dyslexic know what
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  it's sort of told me about 10 years ago.
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  Finally get a best-selling book with us and UK.
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  I would like what I can't even spell my own name there is
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  right, but but I did it and I focus my thoughts.
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  And I was like, oh what can I do?
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  And I love how passionate about Star Wars and Star Wars Help Me
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  Grow another the cinema Star Wars together and then it was
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  like, hey, we love it love it. So we did it and it was really
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  fun. It was like they put me up
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  dinner and stuff, you know and anyway, but it was good.
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  It was good fun and scary as heck gonna London know but
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  they're really good the publisher really nice and they
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  kind of like You the nice about you know, the the awesome thing.
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  So right the last thing I'll talk about before we take some
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  questions involve moving on. But it's building my YouTube
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  channel. This is cool.
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  So I did uterus that YouTube notoriety over the video.
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  All right on the iPad is rubbish and like and I've got like
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  another 300,000 views of people actually want to see more of
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  down so then don't confidence which is cool.
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  So then I got to last year and in November last year.
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  I have 13,000 subscribers future don't know I thought I was like,
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  yeah man, 13,000 is awesome. And I thought and I was really
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  too confident in it right confidence going to much more
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  than but everyone seemed more high-quality platter.
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  So content and I was like, how am I going to do is I'm going to
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  up my game. So I applied my hyper Focus to
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  creating cinematic cinematography and I've never
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  done students are connected to talk to my wife.
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  So I did I learned and taught myself how to make cinematic
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  videos. Let's use of you guys earlier
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  some Cinema hike videos I've made and I love it.
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  Now. I'm obsessed with cinematography
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  and the second thing I did to push my channel over the edge
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  and I'll tell you where I come to you today is I study.
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  This is really boring run love it.
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  It's search Engine optimization SEO of LSI type content which is
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  how you optimize search engines to pick up your content and
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  learn and YouTube works on an algorithm and an algorithmic
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  change. I study the algorithm works and
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  we supinate and I'm sitting all night and pulled it apart.
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  Amazing have to have YouTube to make it work in my favor.
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  So I get average of seventy to ninety percent of a hundred SEO
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  score my videos, which is nuts and today.
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  I'll yes natural last night my channel hit forty one thousand
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  subscribers. Mostly since November so my
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  father is trying a hundred thousand by December this year.
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  I'm the reason for this people like, oh, he's just favor and
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  requirement. Whatever know the reason for is
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  this I want to change how the public service is how people
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  with Asperger's and autism access from Services how they
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  access shot how they access like hospitals and stuff because
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  these places are not accommodating to people who are
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  on the Spectrum now years ago and like the 70s of the fifties
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  or thirties wherever as far as you can go back wheelchair
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  access for wheelchair, users walls.
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  Zero, I don't want you back now. Well, let's all slow.
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  You've got wheelchair then that's your problem.
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  But now if you sense of you'd probably get prosecuted and it's
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  not illegal to not have your taxes in public services.
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  So everyone cares about physical disability or yes, they do but
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  nobody remembers about neurological neuro-diverse
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  issues or mental health issues. Nobody is aware of this the fact
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  that they need to adapt their place to probably these people
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  so I was like, how am I going to get these people to listen to
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  me? I'm like, hey, I'm down in like,
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  yes so gonna fuck with the cure. There's a a million people who
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  don't have training for this campaigning for that constantly
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  daily up. So it's like, how am I going to
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  do? I thought - are we a hundred
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  thousand strong people who are willing and able to actually
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  move than the paradigm shift with me.
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  That will be a big surprise to call my channel.
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  So that's what I'm doing. I'm building my channel bring a
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  hundred thousand strong our only like, you know, what is it now
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  59 away for 30,000 away from Karen Armstrong, but you know,
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  the idea is going to be that one day.
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  We will definitely push up our even And I will make a campaign
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  to take to these governing bodies and say this needs to
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  stop and you need to actually take accountability how can
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  access to your places for people with these conditions?
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  Because if I don't speak out of our news industry car, but
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  there's all these people doing in the autistic National Society
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  doing it yourself degree, but that quite like just was a with
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  it and there's no fence to them are actually gonna Smash in the
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  come on let's do it. Get on get on with it.
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  There's no sign of got doing processor with your little by
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  little it's like no we need to doing everything all at once
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  that makes you the good listener and that's just me.
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  So yeah. Anyway, that was me and my
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  presentation down the actual world.
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  But if you want to check me out you can go to the ask me
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  world.com and it's not like it's not like the ask me why just
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  I can type it Asperger's In YouTube apis number one.
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  Yes, baby. Anyway, so I will take some
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  questions if anyone has any questions, I'll take note of all
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  these people keep your station. So whether you're going to
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  questions at all. Yeah, oh wait microphone.
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  Oh be able to hear your voice. Sorry.
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  My supersonic hearing hasn't developed yet.
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  Despite what I've just said he'll give you male version of
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  micro SIM card, your incredible energy is a nice talk about
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  Okay, how do you encourage a child's partial learning 40 as
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  well? It's finally the thing I'd say
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  that would be the most that was that means interest.
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  So like say a kid, so I first appearances me off and here's
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  Professor. Michael Wright is on at all
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  time. And it was like man.
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  I don't actually computer games helped develop all kinds of
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  skills. It was actually very
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  comfortable. So I would say no matter what
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  type of book which is among that so it's whatever they super
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  interest is they must have an interest for something or have a
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  specific kind of like Rush Iseman music.
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  There you go. So it's that the more that they
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  can use it to develop as well. They're doing is learning
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  skills. It's not like you just sit there
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  and passively watch things. I notice is anybody with an
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  awesome entrance on and don't have time to watch TV.
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  I don't watch TV and watching me to watch things because it's
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  boring its creative. It's just a recreational
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  something that some people already done is recreate that so
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  if you do smoke too creative and that's helping behind Tokai
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  books will cover those not creativity.
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  So I'd say just focus on what what they actually like and push
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  push more of them in the region the best way better in a safe
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  and healthy Market are trying to say like 24/7 just so many
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  questions talk gently him. I don't know of any that remain
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  focused. I know that there is a few
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  people especially from Wales from Is that being focused and I
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  guess not he's about long the place.
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  I'm yet to come. It's just like oh, this is my
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  thing unless I stood myself just saying is as as a lot of people
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  are interested in buying. I don't know anybody. yeah,
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  well, it's a Other kind of funny and I'm
• 24:31
  thinking wow, I'm not sure what about and I will first of all is
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  nature section on YouTube. And if you're familiar with
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  those neat restriction on that and I think it's like 16 or
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  might be 12 million. There's a jurisdiction on if all
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  these reasons emotionally distressing when you have a
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  comment but this is it. Hey is come on time you get his
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  for anything you do when you put yourself out in a public
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  bathroom. You say well look and leave
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  myself open to hated not everybody.
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  My family loves me. So I don't expect any of the
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  internet to All of Me Now the way I deal with it and I think
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  about this question. You know like so hey is that I
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  never use the word page. So I don't like talking about
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  never using things got bad advice, but he is said to be
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  comments all the time. I like and I like that kind of
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  give it that comments firms. I'm gonna call you back because
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  the thing is but he's hating on you.
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  It's not because you're a bad person because if the majority
• 25:17
  of people really like your content and even if they don't
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  all that you're doing what you love and that's cool, but they
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  hated all she has an issue that hairdo so obviously but there's
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  something going on with a person's likelihood to Gordon
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  and I'm going to be because they don't know if you rather be no,
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  I'm gonna No, you suck. It's like okay, but like, you
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  know, it's not their fault. So I just go well cages nice and
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  even comes up. I call it back to he is just
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  like okay nice one. Wa, you know, but the fun thing
• 25:39
  about it is that you have to kind of think and I don't learn
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  this. I didn't know this the my
• 25:44
  girlfriend said it she's like you have to know like they like
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  sorry my girlfriend by the way, she works in the field while
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  she's good with kids and the interesting thing is that she
• 25:55
  said there's something going on, so don't worry about it because
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  It doesn't affect you is that that issue was not an issue for
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  you, you know your stuff spine and the reason we know their
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  stuff is weird. Yes or no only modest.
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  Yeah, no worries. Any more questions.
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  Thanks.