Latest / Billy The Kidd In The Morning / New Dirty Little Secret: Is It “Toxic or Justified?”
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is dirty, little secret, little mixed one or two
- 0:05Speaker 1: point nine and be able to kid Candic Small Pets
- 0:07Speaker 1: producer boon. If you've got a secret, let us know
- 0:09Speaker 1: eight three three seven, eight seven one or two nine,
- 0:12Speaker 1: or you could dm us on Instagram, whatever's easiest.
- 0:14Speaker 2: You got one, It's time to confess.
- 0:16Speaker 3: Okay, listen. I already know that this sounds bad.
- 0:19Speaker 2: I like when they start that way. Yeah, lately it's good.
- 0:22Speaker 3: I know.
- 0:22Speaker 2: I know this is gonna sound.
- 0:23Speaker 1: Bad, but yeah, go ahead.
- 0:27Speaker 3: I swear I am not a horrible person. Just need
- 0:30Speaker 3: to preface that, Okay, I mean maybe a little bit,
- 0:32Speaker 3: but so sometimes not every time, but sometimes before I
- 0:37Speaker 3: go out, like on a girl's night, I'll pick a
- 0:39Speaker 3: fight with my man on purpose, really and it's not
- 0:43Speaker 3: anything huge. Yeah, it's just like little, like a little spat.
- 0:47Speaker 3: You know. I'll bring something up random, like you never
- 0:49Speaker 3: listen to me, or or you know, why do you
- 0:51Speaker 3: like that girl's picture? Just enough to get them annoyed
- 0:54Speaker 3: for for us to be a little off, you know?
- 0:57Speaker 1: True?
- 0:58Speaker 3: But why oh so the reason I do is it's
- 1:01Speaker 3: to make me feel less guilty when I flirt with
- 1:05Speaker 3: guys when I go out.
- 1:06Speaker 1: Oh, I'm a because the girls like you.
- 1:12Speaker 3: No, no, no, I swear I'm not doing anything crazy.
- 1:14Speaker 3: I'm not cheating, definitely not. I'm not going home with anybody,
- 1:18Speaker 3: but I'll be outside like feeling themselves, you know, talking
- 1:20Speaker 3: to people, getting attention, and in my head I'm like, well,
- 1:24Speaker 3: I'm kind of arguing anyway. You know.
- 1:25Speaker 2: So you feel this does not shock me? But let
- 1:29Speaker 2: you say you don't cheat, and that's cool.
- 1:31Speaker 1: I think, yeah, maybe not necessarily cheating cheating, But is
- 1:35Speaker 1: flirting cheating?
- 1:36Speaker 3: No? I mean, listen, I know it's a toxic trait,
- 1:38Speaker 3: but I don't think it's definitely not cheating. I mean
- 1:40Speaker 3: the worst. I mean, it works, it works on me,
- 1:43Speaker 3: like mentally, I feel justified.
- 1:45Speaker 1: For no reason.
- 1:46Speaker 2: Yeah all right, I mean I have to tell you this.
- 1:48Speaker 2: I think flirting is a little bit cheating, to be honest.
- 1:51Speaker 2: I think there's how flirty they are. Well, what do
- 1:53Speaker 2: you mean? Oh yeah, Candice, what do you mean?
- 1:56Speaker 1: I mean?
- 1:56Speaker 2: Aren't there like levels of flirting? Like I think there's
- 1:58Speaker 2: like a micro flirt.
- 1:59Speaker 1: Like you had someone say that the husband told the
- 2:02Speaker 1: woman she smelled good or something recently.
- 2:04Speaker 2: Micro cheating Like No, I feel like it's a like
- 2:06Speaker 2: micro flirt. Why you gotta smell her, stop sniffing, turn
- 2:10Speaker 2: your nose off. What are you supposed to do hold
- 2:12Speaker 2: your breath when she walk by?
- 2:13Speaker 1: You mean no, you're supposed to not make a comment
- 2:15Speaker 1: about how great she smells, to make that put that
- 2:18Speaker 1: energy towards your wife or your girlfriend anyway. So okay,
- 2:22Speaker 1: so it's maybe it's not cheating cheating. I would call
- 2:25Speaker 1: it micro cheating. I think that's fair. Anyways, go ahead,
- 2:28Speaker 1: I mean.
- 2:28Speaker 3: Maybe, but listen, it's gross. It's gross for me because
- 2:31Speaker 3: back in the day with my ex, I used to
- 2:33Speaker 3: start fight some purpose so I wouldn't even have to
- 2:35Speaker 3: go home that night.
- 2:36Speaker 2: Oh my god, Wow.
- 2:40Speaker 3: You're so disrespectful and slam the door. So the whole
- 2:43Speaker 3: time I'm ready, like with friends, to just stay out,
- 2:46Speaker 3: like stay over.
- 2:47Speaker 2: So you're trying to see you've come a long way, A.
- 2:50Speaker 3: Long way now.
- 2:51Speaker 2: I feel like that home now I'm loyal.
- 2:53Speaker 1: I feel like that's something Producer Pooh used to do. Well,
- 2:57Speaker 1: I feel like you used to do that. You know,
- 3:00Speaker 1: he would blame stuff on me, and I'm still mad
- 3:03Speaker 1: about it.
- 3:03Speaker 2: I did that one time, he would I found out
- 3:06Speaker 2: from an X door.
- 3:06Speaker 1: Well, he'd always be like, well, Billy wanted me to
- 3:09Speaker 1: drive him home, and I no, I wasn't. I didn't
- 3:12Speaker 1: want him to drive me home, and then he blamed
- 3:14Speaker 1: it on me and he'd be doing whatever he was.
- 3:15Speaker 2: Doing that one time. But I used to start fights
- 3:19Speaker 2: with Carrie.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Why just so I can stay out?
- 3:24Speaker 2: This is a thing, Like this is a thing. I'd
- 3:27Speaker 2: be like, yeah whatever. She's like, are you gonna do?
- 3:30Speaker 2: Why don't you get back with your ex? Carrie?
- 3:32Speaker 1: No?
- 3:32Speaker 2: She she moved out of state. You don't you were
- 3:35Speaker 2: that bad? Oh she is? Yes, Oh I didn't know.
- 3:41Speaker 2: Well that should have been your first thing. Yeah, yeah,
- 3:43Speaker 2: I forgot.
- 3:43Speaker 1: Okay, well you've come a long way, ma'am, as long
- 3:47Speaker 1: as you're not cheating, cheating.
- 3:48Speaker 3: No cheating. Just just want a guy to buy me
- 3:50Speaker 3: a drink.
- 3:51Speaker 2: Oh god, I'm never getting in the relationships where it
- 3:56Speaker 2: does give me.
- 3:57Speaker 1: It does give me trust issues when I hear women
- 3:59Speaker 1: call up and say they're flirting. Now you start, but
- 4:02Speaker 1: you're poor guys at home going.
- 4:03Speaker 2: I don't even know what I did wrong. Yeah he's
- 4:05Speaker 2: on the game playing playing Fortnite.
- 4:07Speaker 1: Yeah, he's doing something call of duty, and like, you're
- 4:10Speaker 1: out here getting dudes numbers and flirting or hopefully no numbers.
- 4:15Speaker 2: All right, all right, yeah that's a good question.
- 4:17Speaker 1: Maybe we should ask each other in the room, what
- 4:18Speaker 1: do you think our toxic trade is?
- 4:20Speaker 2: We each have a talk. Your toxic trait is this?
- 4:22Speaker 2: What's our toxic trait? Thank you so much. We appreciate
- 4:25Speaker 2: you getting that off your chest. You guys love me more.
- 4:29Speaker 1: But we're not gonna talk about that because can it
- 4:30Speaker 1: already got me mad upset earlier about it? Oh, we
- 4:34Speaker 1: were talking about our toxic traits and you said it
- 4:35Speaker 1: that I am immediately named fifteen that I had and said, pooh,
- 4:39Speaker 1: didn't have one.
- 4:41Speaker 2: You still don't your phone all the time? Yeah, but
- 4:45Speaker 2: well you do. He's not toxic, are you kidding me?
- 4:48Speaker 2: He's super communicative? And are you very clear about it?
- 4:51Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 4:52Speaker 1: Over there, quick to respond, Yeah, he doesn't have one
- 4:58Speaker 1: toxic trade? What what toxic trick do? I?
- 5:01Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 5:01Speaker 1: Maybe sleeping on the job that's not toxic. Maybe forgetting
- 5:05Speaker 1: what you're supposed to do every day.
- 5:07Speaker 2: But we're talking about like in relationships. Yeah, we're talking
- 5:10Speaker 2: like outside of work. Yeah, no, we're not. We're talking
- 5:14Speaker 2: about my good you