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Yoreh De’ah 249:6-250:4. Tzedakah: Hierarchy of How To Give and Who To Give; What and How Much To Give · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning. We're continuing.
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  Sidaka Rishman tet sif valve. All right, so here Shimona
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  Maalot yeh meets Dhaka Zola malamizo.
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  So there's a hierarchy. This is a hierarchy of how to
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  give. It's not who to give, how to
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  give. OK, mala godola.
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  What's the greatest Shay mala MI mana.
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  There's nothing greater. Hamashik Biyad Israel Hamak.
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  When a person helps, raises, supports a Jew who?
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  A fellow Jew who's falling on hard times, Venutelo Matana.
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  So you have a friend, you know he's not doing well financially,
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  and you give him a gift. You don't tell him it's Sedaka.
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  You tell him, I'm giving you a gift.
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  You buy him dinner, you take him out, you send him some food to
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  the house. But in a way that he feels like,
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  oh, he's getting a present all right, Because the whole idea is
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  to make him feel good and not to be embarrassed.
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  Oh, Alva. Or you give him a loan and he
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  says here, I'm just giving you a loan.
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  It's not a problem. You pay me when you when you can
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  or you make up a time, but you're not mockpin on it.
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  You know that you might never see the money again.
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  I mean, that's a lesson in life. When you lend money, you have to
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  know you might never see it again.
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  Oh, oh, say e-mail Shutafut or you, you start a business with
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  him and you make him a partner. Really you're the driving force
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  of the business. I had my father-in-law help.
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  I remember help someone in LA start a a water business.
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  He took out lots of his time from his own time and found him
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  at least a place and set him up and followed him up.
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  Benzion Benetryan oh mansilo malacha or you find him a job
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  and you actually you, you help him figure out how is he going
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  to get a job, a new business, whatever it is today.
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  Le chazek yado in order to strengthen his hand Shiloh
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  itzharek la brio so that he shouldn't need other people's
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  sedaka money. That's not the way to live the
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  well ye shall. Most normal people don't want to
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  live that way. It doesn't feel good and so you
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  shouldn't this person shouldn't have to ask and or beg for
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  money, whether it's from an organization or people the AL
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  Zen Amar. And this is the posit that we
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  just read this past parsha, right the end of Bahar the
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  Zakhtabo. And that's what I was talking
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  about when you see your your friend falling on hard times,
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  the pastor says before he falls all the way before he gets
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  desperate, before payments start going crazy month after month of
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  mortgage and or rent, whatever it is you help him before that
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  happens. That's really the best time when
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  you catch it. Great famous saying is to teach
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  a man to fish is really the best Sedaka you can do.
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  OK, Zine pahote mizel. What's the next level?
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  Hanoten Sidaka la ani viluyedala me 10 viluyeda ani me, me me
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  Kabel. So the greatest level after that
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  is no one. You're giving regular sidaka,
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  but nobody knows who is who's giving, who's receiving.
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  It's completely anonymous. So there's no, there's no Busha
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  whatsoever, or very, very little.
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  The Caro Vozan noting the Koopa Scholzidaka similar to this is
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  when you give to the to the city or some kind of organization or
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  the show that can collect for anime or whatever the the issue
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  is. But the idea is not to give it
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  directly to the face of the anime.
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  The Lohiten, Adama, Koopa, Scholtzbach, Alinkin, Yoda,
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  Shamma Muna, Aliya Neteman, Viodea, Leenhogba, Keshura.
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  You shouldn't just squander your your Sedaka money to any random
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  organization. You should, maybe you should
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  give some. It's hard to know, but you
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  should give them your. You should give all or most of
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  your Sedaka money to somebody that you trust is not wasting.
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  It's very hard to know exactly, but so often organizations, you
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  know, they tell you you know that what their overhead cost is
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  if they're collecting 50% for their pockets or it's actually
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  proper overhead with the whole functioning anyway, you wanted
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  to give it to someone who knows who to give to and doesn't
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  doesn't waste it. It goes towards the cost.
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  Pahote Mizee underneath this right.
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  This is the third level she right.
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  The first one was you, you help them without it being in a way
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  of feeling like sadaqa. The second one is he doesn't
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  know who's he getting it from and he doesn't.
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  The giver doesn't know who he gives to.
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  OK #3 pahoot mizeshiya deya no tin le me no tin.
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  So the giver knows who he's giving, but the Ani's clueless
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  who he's receiving from. So there's less embarrassment
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  with this one than the next case, Kegon gudole hakamim
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  shayohim that sat there. And now it used to be that.
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  I don't know exactly how it was, but it was known that they used
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  to find a way to secretly give sedaka to the aniim.
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  So they knew that they were giving to the aniim, but the
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  aniim didn't know who was giving them.
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  But it's a great Milo. It's a great level in a Namamuni
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  mala Sedaka no Hagim Keshura. Hey, if you don't know who is
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  reliable to give to the anime, so this is a way to do it.
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  You can give it directly, just don't let them know.
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  Ted pahoot maze shadea anime me not tell veloya DEA ad no Taylor
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  me not team. So when the receiver, he knows
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  who's he's getting it from, but he knows that the giver doesn't
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  know who he's giving to. So when he sees him and show the
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  next day, he has not nothing to be embarrassed about.
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  You can look at him straight, OK, one second.
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  So this way the hakami would would throw up behind them.
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  So the hakami wouldn't see who takes it, but the anem would
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  take it and they know who they get it from.
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  Lower than this is Shi Taylor Anibiada Kodem Shinishao.
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  It's goes from hand to hand but it.
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  But before the ani asks for it, you should run over and give it
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  to him. You're Aleph Pahote Mizer 6th
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  level Shi Taylor Karoli Akashishao.
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  OK, you didn't do it before he asked.
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  After the Ani asks directly to to you, you give it to him even
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  after he asks, right? But you do it with a smile.
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  OK, that's important. You'll bet Pahot miza below
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  this. If you don't do it with a proper
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  smile, she Taylor Pahotomo he was ever putting me a foot.
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  You're giving less than you should, but you are doing it
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  with a smile. But you're giving less than you
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  should give to him. Pahot Miza, she Taylor, the ETC.
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  The last level is you give it to him, but not with a big smile,
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  1/2 a smile. You look sad, you don't look,
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  you're all into it. You're not all into it and it
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  shows on your face, but you give it to him anyway.
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  A shock points out there's no #9 deal with an angry face 'cause
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  if you do it with an angry face, you if you throw it at him or
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  you just give him like you're really upset that you have to
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  give him Sedaka. So then you lost your reward,
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  right 'cause you're, you violated the law of the lawyer.
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  And that doesn't quite rink. Technically, I believe you gave
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  Sedaka, it does count for a level of Sedaka.
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  But as far as the 8 levels of giving Sedaka, it doesn't rink,
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  am I right? OK, let's go on.
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  We are called panning. Nevertheless, when you give
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  right? We touched upon this yesterday.
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  Lo yitz pere Adam mitzaka. A person should not glorify
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  himself and feel so proud. Should note that he gives we
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  meet Paer and if he does glorify himself, lo da Yoshi ain't on
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  the Kagoskar you didn't you get punished for that?
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  For glorifying yourself and being arrogant to miko Mako
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  Misha makti stavalez daka mutar Allah Allah shahila Lizzy Quran.
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  However, when you do get when a person does set aside to give
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  Sidaka, you give something. He's allowed to put his name on
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  it so you know who it's from and that's good.
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  It's good to know who it's from. You don't have to give a gift to
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  anonymous either. Just OK.
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  Anyways, we let's go on to your Dalit tovitein Prusala Anikodem
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  called fila. It's proper before every fila.
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  Certainly the result points out chakras and minnika.
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  There's an Indian of dinium at night.
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  It's the silhouettes for the give, but it's less less.
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  So it's better to give during the day.
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  According to OP sod anyway. So every time you dive in it,
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  you should give a pruta al sidaka shinimar anibit sedek
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  Ehazepaneka is when you come to a cottage Barthel, right?
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  You wanna what's it called? Put your best foot forward or
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  show you're asking for something.
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  So as chef says, well, did you do anything for my kids?
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  So OK, it's a lot more beneficial or effective to to be
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  a giver in daven then to be stingy in daven.
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  Tadwa gabai sidaka sheshbiyadam OT Sidaka, Gabai Sidaka.
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  He has money, right, to get to give to Sidaka.
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  So one of the greatest Sidakas you can do is yes, see you
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  Abraham, but you should to use that money to marry off.
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  This refers to in particular really yet to mote not only but
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  that's the higher level young girls or girls who are single,
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  who are poor and do not have parents.
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  That's the that's of the among the highest level of giving that
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  Sedaka Shayne Sedaka Gedola Mizzou.
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  There's no greater Sedaka than that.
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  So on this level, that's this is referring to ya tomot.
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  Obviously, if they're not a ya Tom, it's and they need help.
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  It's also also the Araka Shoukhan also lists similar to
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  here, a Abbas Talmud Hakam who's very poor.
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  So he's he's successful in his learning.
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  He's learning all day. He's teaching and and he has
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  he's not making a living. So there it applies as well.
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  The other levels were how to give Sedaka 8 miles on how to
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  give. This is then there's there's
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  hierarchy of what's who to give to, who should get more than
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  others complicated Sugya and it depends a lot on the Mitzios and
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  what's what the need is. I don't think we're going to
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  we're going to get get to 100% Muskana on that one.
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  Clearly a great Hassid even without money to give to help
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  Mushidukhim. You know someone who's looking
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  also it's among Shaheen. It's more of a Hassid godola
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  muzzle. But here our topic is it's
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  sadaqa money. So obviously, just obviously all
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  these things apply. You can often and someone
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  doesn't have money. You can help without money.
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  There's a lot of ways to to help with your time.
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  The Hulay Ted Zine yeh Shamisha Omer.
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  OK, so this is an interesting word at Halakha from from a
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  reshone sort of base and you show me which is the post game
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  the Graa Raqa Shokhan say it's really not true or clear that
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  this is from the Gemara. The proof is strange, but
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  anyways, let's read it inside. Yeshua Misha Omer shmitvas beta
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  Knesset adifa mimisvas sedaka. So the giving money towards a
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  beta Knesset is greater than giving to random anime.
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  OK, so that's that's one hierarchy al mitzvah.
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  But the ground Naraka Sholkhan say really, if it's it's an
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  onion who's hungry and needs money, that comes first.
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  But let's let's keep reading Mitzvah Sedaka al and
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  Narimilmatara al Aholim anim adiv.
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  I mean mitzvahs beta Knesset and even more higher level than
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  hierarchy giving money to a beta Knesset is giving to what's it
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  called to those who are learning Tara and who are holim anime or
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  to poor people who are sorry, poor I'll sick people.
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  If an Ani is is Bari healthy? So that's the first case of
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  mitzvah Sedaka here he's sick and poor.
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  So that's takes first precedence hierarchy.
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  So according to this, the the order basically first is for
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  those who are learning, learning Tara and poor the and for those
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  who are sick and poor, that's the first level.
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  Then comes the bait Knesset. Bait Knesset.
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  The the post can point out that it's referring to, I mean, are
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  Koshoka and Chevy Levy others that this is referring to the
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  basics just so that the bait Knesset can exist.
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  It might mean it might include also expansion, but it's so that
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  it can exist, not on extraneous, you know, overly beautifying or
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  beautifying on what level. Again, you know, how do you how
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  do you weigh it? But at least that's according to
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  the Schwalkanarach. And and then comes the healthy
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  anime, Shulkhan writes. Well, if you have a hungry Ani,
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  any hungry Ani, that for poor, that's for sure going to be #1
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  then comes the Beet Knesset. And first comes the necessities
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  of the Beet Knesset. And then if it's just
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  beautification, so then beautifying a show will come
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  first before luxuries to an onion.
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  Anyway, life's a little complicated.
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  What's you know, what's really needed And you know, do you give
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  100% at each level or do you 75 percent, 25%, Not 100% clear,
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  but but it does seem and where do we see that?
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  Also, basically Chuva's going to talk about it a bit.
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  I think that's going to come later on.
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  But basically probably you should.
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  You would give all the money you have if there's starving a name
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  1st and then and then you have to break it up afterwards.
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  OK, let's go on. Haga masha noagen livsk sedaka
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  avoor one second. Yeah.
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  It's called Meytim Bishat as Karatna Shamat Menagwatikin Who
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  and he says people give Sidaka for I guess yurt site or
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  whenever maybe Iskar whenever there's appropriate times,
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  people give Sidaka for those who passed away.
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  So he says it's a good manhug or it's an old manhug.
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  Umahani le nishmu tehem, right? It is good and it helps their
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  neshama because even after a person dies, even after 12
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  months, they still can get an alea, they still can use a
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  kapara, and it's always helpful. Just one other thing to throw
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  into the mix. Saki Machuva secotes from the
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  Hafitzheim basesrel that if you have a city that doesn't have a
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  mikva. So the first mikva at least, at
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  least the first mikva again, how do you define it and how far do
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  they drive? But at least the first mikva for
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  for women to go to, that's going to take precedence over a bait
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  Knesset. Once you have a mikva.
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  So then you know how many shells and all these other things.
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  OK, let's do. Simon.
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  Ray Shannon, how much do you give to each one?
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  Olive comma. Not in the honey de Masaro.
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  A share. Yes, Sarlo, you give whatever he
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  is missing, whatever he needs. Keitzad, if he was starving,
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  hungry, you give him food. He doesn't have clothing.
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  Give him clothes he doesn't have, utensils for his house and
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  a chair, a table. So then clay bite, konalo clay
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  bite you give him utensils, what he needs for the house.
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  Filo E Maya darko lyrico alsus the avid la roots lafana keshaya
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  ashir. What if you have this man who
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  used to be rich? He used to have used to.
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  I don't know if we take it as far as driving a Rolls Royce or
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  Mercedes. You have to buy him that too.
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  I don't know. But the example over here is he
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  used to ride a horse and he used to have an avid run in front of
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  them, one that's expensive to upkeep.
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  And now when he was rich, but then the the and then he became
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  poor. He lost it all Konimos SUS the
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  avid. Now you should go buy him a
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  horse and A and a slave. OK, the crane, the whole.
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  And so too for anyone according to what they need, Right?
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  Very subjective. OK.
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  Nowadays we all deserve Rolls Royce's Harao E la tete lo Pat
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  notes in low. Pat ISA.
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  Notes in low. Whoever is, I don't know, Pat
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  ISA notes in low ISA once. What happened over here?
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  Sorry. Harao E la tete lo Pat notes in
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  low Pat ISA. No.
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  What happened over here? OK, whatever.
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  If he gets part, if he's normally getting a pot, you give
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  him pot, Normally getting isa, you give him isa meta, not a
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  meta. If he needs a meta, give him a
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  meta. Whatever, he's whatever he
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  needs. Haroi Litano, Pat Khamma.
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  So then Khamma, you give it to him.
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  Soning soning lakhilo T.O.K peeve makhilin.
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  You have to feed her through his mouth.
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  Go for it. Eilo isha ubalisa Massimo.
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  He doesn't have a wife. He wants to get married.
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  You get married, the soak in low bite and you rent in the house.
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  Who might that doesn't say buy in the house, but you rent in
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  the house, who might see in Lomita and you buy him a bed or
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  whatever sheets he needs, who create a Shamisha, whatever he
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  needs to use the Akharkov masi Ino isha and then you marry him
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  off, OK. Hagar Venerer, the Kozeh, the
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  Gabite Sidaka or Rabin Biyakhad, this level of funding.
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  So this has to be by the Gabite Sidaka who has big pockets and
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  knows how to spread the spread as well the wealth of the
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  community, right or many people together of all Ena Yakin Mahuya
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  retained. But one individual is an is
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  isn't hired to give that much money.
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  Well, I mean de Masaro ella Modi Otzaro, that was a limit how
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  much one person can afford to to share.
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  So you but then you tell them at least Modi Otzaro the Robin and
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  you, you tell others the inane Robin medsla yitimo yahid IM
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  yado masagid. So at the end of the day though,
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  but if the if there is no one else to chip in and you're the
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  only one there and you can you could afford to help him all the
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  way. So then go for it.
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  You should bet isha shabbatly not say la yif khatulah MI
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  hamishim Zeus. So a woman who comes to get
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  married you should a girl whatever she's single, you
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  should not give her less than Hamishim Zeus.
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  Now metallium zoos was generally the amount considered at the
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  time 1 can live off of. So you think how much you need
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  to live off for the year. I don't know if you include
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  tuition if you have 9 kids or two kids, but how much you need
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  for the year, whatever that is Metallium zoos in those days.
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  And so at least you give this young girl 5050 zoos, not 200.
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  That's the quarter of that three months worth.
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  But the shock points out all these shiurim in this that we're
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  going to read in this Simon doesn't apply nowadays.
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  And it's really based on the times.
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  The EMA should be keys my pharnos in motela fiqvoda.
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  And if you really have ample funds, you should give her even
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  more whatever she needs. Gimel Anya mcazarella patachim a
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  not Ino Mia koopa matana maruba ella matana MU.
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  Edit If it's an Anya who's just going from door to door
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  collective. So then from the koopa the the
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  dabe doesn't give him a, a huge amount.
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  You give him a little bit, you give him something.
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  OK, Dalid, let's go a bit more in pocha tea in the onion.
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  You have an onion travelling from city to city.
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  So he's in your city for the day.
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  How much do you give him? You don't give him less than
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  Mikikar Bepundion. Kikar's basically a loaf of
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  bread. That's enough for two meals for
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  for the whole day. He's here for the day.
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  You give him enough food for the day.
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  Harama Parish and Mishkalpunya nushwana garini si aura.
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  That's how much it weighs. And right in in Kassov, that's
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  so much it's worth, but it that's the that's the value that
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  it has. You're able to buy a loaf of
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  bread for two days and right and to deal with inflation and
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  deflation, whatever. So therefore it's me, arba sein
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  bissella. What are we talking about that
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  you need a key car worth of pundion because it could be
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  where it gives a pundion could be worth a crumb and or it could
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  be worth 10 loaves of bread. It's when for sein of wheat that
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  amount of flour you can buy with a sela that's to keep the the
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  balance the Imlan and if he sleeps over in the town, not
• 23:31
  Dino matzo Alishan Allah, you give him the beds to sleep on
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  the Cassidy tamburstad and a pillow, the shaman, the kidney,
• 23:39
  a little oil, a little kidneys or whatever.
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  I don't know if he it's just so he has what to have for the
• 23:44
  night, the IM Shabbat he was there for the week, not on
• 23:48
  Shabbos. You give him well here it means
• 23:52
  with Shabbos you give him three meals, not just two, the shaman,
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  the kidney, the dog, and you give him a little bit of fish,
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  the yarrick and some vegetables or the IME makiri noto, not the
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  other fi khodo. And if you know him so then you
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  should give him according to his khodo.