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Three's A Crowd · Second Date Update

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Are you guys ready to make a love connection today?
• 0:02
  Speaker 1: We're going to Hebron. Rob is on the line. Got
• 0:04
  Speaker 1: ghosted after a first date. Good morning, Rob.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: So welcome to the show. Hopefully we can get some
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: answers and find out why you're getting ghosted. Tell us
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: about this great first date.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a really great first date. You know,
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  Speaker 2: we went out to dinner and we even went back
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  Speaker 2: to my place and had some drinks and.
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  Speaker 3: There we go.
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  Speaker 1: There we go.
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  Speaker 3: There we go.
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  Speaker 1: Way to go, Robbie. There we go.
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  Speaker 3: My man.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Like.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about this stuff on the radio, but, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we even got a little frisky, you know, nothing too
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  Speaker 2: hot and heavy, but, you know. Okay. All right, so
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: you're telling me, Rob.
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  Speaker 1: Dinner and drinks were great, and you got along so
• 0:41
  Speaker 1: well that you went back to your place. Yeah. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Was your place dirty?
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  Speaker 3: No. No.
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  Speaker 2: He says with a question. I'm a single guy, but it's... Okay.
• 0:51
  Speaker 1: So you're getting a little frisky. She leaves, and now
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  Speaker 1: you're getting ghosted. You've reached out to her, and there's, like,
• 0:58
  Speaker 1: no response?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, after the great first date, and, like,
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  Speaker 2: I even messaged her a little after she left, you know,
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  Speaker 2: just to make sure she got home okay.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Totally ghosted. So, honestly, part of me is like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I hope she got home okay. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that is a total ghosting. You know,
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  Speaker 1: if somebody messages you and you had just left, like,
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  Speaker 1: did you make it home safe? Yeah. You at least respond, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I made it safe. Yeah, that means they want nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with you. Yeah, so something has had to happen.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have any roommates?
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  Speaker 3: No roommates.
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  Speaker 1: No roommates. Are you sure the place was clean? Because
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: boys' houses are scary. Do you have snakes or any
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  Speaker 1: type of reptiles? Oh, yeah, good question. Do you have rats?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, rats. No rats, no snakes.
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  Speaker 1: All right, what we're going to do, Rob, is we're
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  Speaker 1: going to call Natalie. I'm going to ask her to
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  Speaker 1: be honest. You're going to be listening in at any
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  Speaker 1: point if you want to jump in and talk to her,
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  Speaker 1: you can, okay? Sure.
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  Speaker 2: Hmm.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm wondering. Maybe he's a bad kisser. Like a
• 1:55
  Speaker 1: lizard kisser. Tongue in the mouth thing. I still think
• 1:59
  Speaker 1: his house is dirty. Tickling your whatever that, uvula. Ew, Courtney.
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  Speaker 3: Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Hi, is Natalie there?
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  Speaker 3: This is she.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, Natalie. It is Courtney. Natalie, what's going on? It's
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  Speaker 1: Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Natalie.
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  Speaker 1: It's Savannah. You're on the radio. You're on Kiss 95.7. Okay. Okay. Well,
• 2:17
  Speaker 1: take a deep breath. Don't be scared. You're on something
• 2:19
  Speaker 1: called Second Date Update. I'm sure you're familiar with it.
• 2:22
  Speaker 1: If somebody is getting ghosted after a first date, we
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  Speaker 1: try to get answers.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Okay.
• 2:28
  Speaker 1: So that's why you're on. Rob called us. He said
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  Speaker 1: you guys had a great first date. Dinner, cocktails, total connection.
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  Speaker 1: So much so you went back to his place with him.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I did.
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  Speaker 1: Got a little frisky back at his place from what
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  Speaker 1: we heard.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, okay. Wow. He really shared everything. Okay.
• 2:48
  Speaker 1: So, yes, I would love to know from you about
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  Speaker 1: the date and why you're ghosting him, if you feel
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  Speaker 1: comfortable telling us.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, it's all out there anyway, I guess. So
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  Speaker 3: I guess I'll tell you about it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: No, we did. We had a good date. We talked
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  Speaker 3: about a lot of stuff at dinner and had great
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  Speaker 3: conversation and um and yeah it was going really well
• 3:12
  Speaker 3: we had some cocktails and I agreed to go back
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  Speaker 3: to his place um things did get a little hot
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  Speaker 3: and heavy on the couch we were making out and
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  Speaker 3: um yeah is he a good kisser is he a
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  Speaker 3: good kisser there was a knock at.
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  Speaker 1: The door oh okay oh I thought you were gonna
• 3:31
  Speaker 1: say he was a bad kisser so you are kissing
• 3:33
  Speaker 1: on the couch there's a knock at the door what happens.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yes. So there's a knock at the door, and
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  Speaker 3: he goes to answer, and it was apparently his girlfriend.
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  Speaker 1: What? Wait.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So he has a girlfriend, and he went on a
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  Speaker 1: date with you.
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  Speaker 3: Right, right. So, yeah, so it was his girlfriend, and
• 4:01
  Speaker 3: he tells her he's busy right now and she can
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  Speaker 3: come back later. And I'm like, what? is going on.
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  Speaker 3: And so I, I'm questioning him. I'm like, what, what
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  Speaker 3: was that all about? You have a girlfriend and, and
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  Speaker 3: he's like, Oh, it's not like that. Like we're, we're
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  Speaker 3: open and she can date whoever I can date, whoever
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  Speaker 3: it's totally fine. So, yeah. So I was like, I,
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  Speaker 3: that's just not my cup of tea. I'm not going
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  Speaker 3: to be involved in that. And so then I go
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  Speaker 3: to leave And she's standing out in the hallway just waiting.
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  Speaker 2: Wait.
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  Speaker 3: Waiting her turn to go in.
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  Speaker 1: So she didn't even leave? She was waiting in the
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  Speaker 1: hallway waiting for her turn to go in? How did she?
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  Speaker 1: Was she mad at you?
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 1: Was she just like, this isn't normal a thing?
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  Speaker 3: No, she wasn't mad. She was just standing there waiting like, oh, hey,
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  Speaker 3: and like, have a good night. And like, her turn
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  Speaker 3: to go in now and be with.
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  Speaker 1: Stop.
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  Speaker 2: Natalie, I'm so sorry you had to do that. I'm
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  Speaker 2: sorry you had to do that.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know.
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  Speaker 2: She was out there.
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  Speaker 3: Rob, go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to explain to Natalie? Yeah, Rob is
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  Speaker 1: on the line. Go ahead, Rob.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I had, you know, such a great time
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  Speaker 2: with you and such a great date. Like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'd really like to see you again.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that's great and all, but no. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: going to be involved in a thruffle or whatever it
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  Speaker 3: is that you do in your lifestyle. Like, that's not
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  Speaker 3: for me.
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  Speaker 2: It's not anything like that at all.
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  Speaker 1: What is it then?
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  Speaker 2: Like, if, you know, I were to get serious with someone, like,
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't do anything like that. But, like, yeah, like... Okay, so...
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  Speaker 2: I see other people, like... She told me that....
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  Speaker 3: She told me you guys had been together for about
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  Speaker 3: two years.
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  Speaker 1: That's serious, Rob. That would be serious. This is making
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  Speaker 1: my stomach hurt.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's part of the whole thing. It's like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: we're so young and, you know, we're not ready to
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  Speaker 2: settle down. But, you know, we also... enjoy each other's company.
• 6:00
  Speaker 2: So sometimes we see each other, but like sometimes, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I see other people too. And like, I don't see
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  Speaker 2: why that has to do with like, been in two
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  Speaker 2: years doing that.
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  Speaker 3: To each other then y'all go right ahead but that
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  Speaker 3: is not not for me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay we need to wrap this up Rob you know
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  Speaker 1: now why you're getting ghosted Natalie is there any world
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  Speaker 1: in which you live in where you would go on
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  Speaker 1: another date with Rob or you just that you're not
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  Speaker 1: you're done.
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  Speaker 3: No yeah absolutely not I am done.
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  Speaker 1: Okay all right I understand both sides I appreciate you
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  Speaker 1: both for being brutally honest and I wish you both
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  Speaker 1: well out there dating thank you thank you