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Are You a Forgiver · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: sound good. Yeah, okay, yeah, a little little fog in
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  Speaker 1: what's up? How's everybody doing? Man? My mic is um
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  Speaker 1: all right, let me get my bearings, just get her
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  Speaker 1: life together now. Shout to my son's high school. They
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  Speaker 1: had a game yesterday. It was about an hour and
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  Speaker 1: forty five minute drive away. I got to the game late, right,
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  Speaker 1: So the first quarter they were up like thirty nothing.
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  Speaker 1: So because they were up so much, my son only
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  Speaker 1: got to play like a couple of drives and they
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  Speaker 1: took him because they don't want to hurt him for
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  Speaker 1: the next game. So I missed the whole game. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't get the same play at all. Well, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: At least you tried to get out there. Yeah, at
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  Speaker 1: least they won. He's like, Dad, you see my touchdown.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, yeah, it was a long run.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, no, it was. It's like it's a five
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  Speaker 1: yeard run. I was like, I didn't see it. I
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  Speaker 1: was at the car parking. Well, I was. I got
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  Speaker 1: stuck in the rain yesterday. I left this restaurant. I
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  Speaker 1: was with my real turn. Shout out to my girl Sarah.
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  Speaker 1: How you Sarah? And I walked out of the restaurant
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  Speaker 1: and it was fine, no problems, and then two seconds
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  Speaker 1: later I just started pouring down. We got so in
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  Speaker 1: the rain. Oh yeah, it's crazy here in New York.
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  Speaker 1: And I know all over the US. But it was
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  Speaker 1: Now today's fifty five degrees. Yeah, that's how people get sick.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Now, let's get the show cracking front page news.
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  Speaker 1: What we're talking about. I mean, we have to talk
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  Speaker 1: about x cop Amber Geiger. She was sentenced and what's
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  Speaker 1: you what that sentence is and what the family's reaction was.
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  Speaker 1: All Right, we'll get into that when we come back.
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  Speaker 1: Keep a lot. This to Breakfast Club the morning. Hey morning,
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  Speaker 1: everybody is DJ mvy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we
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  Speaker 1: all the Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let's start with Amber Geiger, the former Dallas police officer
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  Speaker 1: who killed Botham Jean. She is now sentenced to ten years.
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  Speaker 1: She'll be eligible for parole in five years now, according
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  Speaker 1: to the district attorney. They said the office is very
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  Speaker 1: pleased with the verdict and if they were concerned about
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  Speaker 1: the ten years sentence, this dallastic to the attorney. John
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  Speaker 1: Cruzoe said that though he personally expected the longest sentence,
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  Speaker 1: he respected the jury's decision. He said, we're going to
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  Speaker 1: move on, and Botham's family is moving on as well. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: Botham's brother, Brant Jean, gave his victim's impact statement and
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  Speaker 1: spoke directly to Amber Geiger and said this, I forgive you,
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  Speaker 1: and I know if you go to godham ask him,
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  Speaker 1: he will forget you again. I'm speaking for myself. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not even bad for my family, but I love you
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  Speaker 1: just like anyone else. I'm not gonna say I hope
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  Speaker 1: you rot and die just like my brother did. But
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  Speaker 1: I personally want the best for you, and I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: gonna ever say this in front of anyone, But I
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  Speaker 1: don't even want you to go to jail. I want
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  Speaker 1: the best for you because I know that's what That's
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  Speaker 1: exactly what both them would want you to do. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if it is possible, but can I give
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  Speaker 1: her a hug? Please? Now? Both the family members also
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  Speaker 1: burst into tears, and even the judge, who was black,
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  Speaker 1: Tammy Camp, was moved by his statements and also gave
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  Speaker 1: Amber Geiger a hug as well. Y'all think that's normal,
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  Speaker 1: We're part of it. When have you ever seen a
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  Speaker 1: judge get off a bitch and hug somebody she just
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  Speaker 1: sent it, especially somebody who just committed a murder. When
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  Speaker 1: have you ever seen that? When have you ever seen
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  Speaker 1: a police officer rubbing a murderer's hair in court to
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  Speaker 1: calm them down? I mean, I've never seen that, But
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  Speaker 1: it's a different situation. I mean, I don't different because
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  Speaker 1: I don't think she intentionally tried to kill it. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I think I really think it was an accident, and
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  Speaker 1: I think the fact that her brother forgave makes her
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  Speaker 1: brother bigger than anybody in the situation. I think the
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  Speaker 1: judges reacting to her the brother's statement statement, man, I
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  Speaker 1: think I think that's Christianity's impact on the African descent
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  Speaker 1: as to slaves. Okay, that's what I think. I think
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  Speaker 1: people don't realize religion was was was put here to
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  Speaker 1: control us and keep us from rebelling against our presses. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I think if you look at the scripture like a
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  Speaker 1: Segeon six five, it says, slaves obey your earthly masters
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  Speaker 1: with respect in fear, just as you would obey God.
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  Speaker 1: And this is what happens when you worship for White Jesus.
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  Speaker 1: You'll never rebel against any master that appears in the
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  Speaker 1: physical form of your oppresses. That was crazy. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: tell I would never tell brand Jean how to react
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  Speaker 1: to what happens other But let's listen to what Amber
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  Speaker 1: Gager had to say while she was on the stand.
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  Speaker 1: Why far it was scared whoever was in the say
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  Speaker 1: apartment was good to kill me And I'm sorry I
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  Speaker 1: have to live with that every single thing. Can you
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  Speaker 1: imagine mister John's perspective and intruder barging into his apartments.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody on the other side of after work being you
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  Speaker 1: going in with the partners of finding the threat of
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  Speaker 1: taking care of it. Can't you imagine that being a
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  Speaker 1: little bit scarier than you just being along with them?
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  Speaker 1: One yes, sorry, Kim, all right. So she also said
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  Speaker 1: that she does wish that it was her who was
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  Speaker 1: the person that got and killed. We don't never. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like a piece of crape. I hate to live
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  Speaker 1: with us. Every single I has got her forgiveness, hate myself,
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  Speaker 1: every single thing. I feel. They don't deserve kids to
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  Speaker 1: be with my family and friends who he was the
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  Speaker 1: one that the gun killed me. They also read some
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  Speaker 1: of her text messages from last year that she was
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  Speaker 1: having with the married officer that she was h and
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  Speaker 1: her former police partner with whom she was also having
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  Speaker 1: an affair, and she said, damn, I was at this Oh.
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  Speaker 1: He said, I was at this area with five different
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  Speaker 1: black officers. Not racist, but damn, And she said, not racist,
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  Speaker 1: but just have a different way of working and its shows.
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  Speaker 1: She also was in a group text message and they
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  Speaker 1: were talking about the Martin Luther King Junior Day Parade
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  Speaker 1: back in January of twenty fifteen. One person said, when
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  Speaker 1: does this nl ol And she said when MLK is dead.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wait, so those are some of the old messages
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  Speaker 1: that they read in court. Yeah, I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you're an audio can already? Can you get an audio shoulder? No,
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  Speaker 1: listen to adjust because we were you were talking over
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  Speaker 1: the audio. That's week we brought you down a second.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta fix this. There's a lot going on, but
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  Speaker 1: that's front page news and we'll talk about it more
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  Speaker 1: next hour. All right, get it off your chest eight
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. This is your time to get it
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  Speaker 1: off your chests. Whether you're Man or Blast, so you
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  Speaker 1: better have the same end we want to hear from
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  Speaker 1: you on the breakfast class. Hello. Who's this Bobby? What's up? Bobby?
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  Speaker 1: Getting off your chests? Yeah? Neighbors on Blast, dude. Every
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  Speaker 1: time since they moved in, I go to lead cars
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  Speaker 1: boxed in, I go to come home. My car is
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  Speaker 1: blocked out. They keep having all their boys barking in
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  Speaker 1: my driveway. M to what you're gonna do? Um, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, maybe put some backs down at the front
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  Speaker 1: of the driveway. Were you from some flash nor jur
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  Speaker 1: Why did you get the carte? I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't think of it. Well, you know what you do
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  Speaker 1: do what we do in Brooklyn and Queens, We just
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  Speaker 1: put garbage cans in front of our pocket spots of
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  Speaker 1: driveways and nobody can do that. Yeah, they don't really
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  Speaker 1: barbage cans in front of their drive I'm looking for
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  Speaker 1: all the ways to get back though, right man, I
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  Speaker 1: can't can't help your brother, That's all you gotta do. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? What's going on? Envs? Rick from Brooklyn? What's
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  Speaker 1: good morning? Charlotte mane Yo, good morning? And I'm an
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  Speaker 1: agree with Charlomagne one hundred percent. Bro Like Charlottagne, how
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  Speaker 1: could this stud be hugging the lady that killed his
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  Speaker 1: brother and forgiving her and the trial. I was just
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  Speaker 1: just done, like this is some brainwashing to the next
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  Speaker 1: level that I don't understand. I don't think it's brainwashing.
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  Speaker 1: I just think he's a bigger person forgives the situation
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  Speaker 1: to envy, you know what it is to envy? Like
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  Speaker 1: we were talking, well, we guys be talking earlier in
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  Speaker 1: the week about how sometimes he cases a significant right
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  Speaker 1: and like if we're just gonna be forgiving them every
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  Speaker 1: time they kill her, like you know, I mean that
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  Speaker 1: she came into this dude's apartment and killed him, and
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  Speaker 1: we're just gonna be like, all right, it's okay, what that?
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  Speaker 1: What does this kind of pressure that that's that for
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  Speaker 1: the next person that probably do something like that, we'd
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  Speaker 1: be giving them a chance that they're gonna be giving
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  Speaker 1: us no chance. But what why are we gonna tell
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  Speaker 1: that man's family member, his brother, how he should have reacted. Well,
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  Speaker 1: if he feel that way, he should him. Why can't
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  Speaker 1: he He can do what he wants to do. That's
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  Speaker 1: his family and it was nobody's gonna tell me how
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  Speaker 1: to grieve any of my family members. Actually, your your
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  Speaker 1: crews got crew in the background. I'm pretty sure that
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  Speaker 1: all his family right now is tight with him. Because
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  Speaker 1: he's here. He has told people that he forgives the
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  Speaker 1: lady that killed his brother. That's great. Well, he said
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  Speaker 1: that the public in front of everybody. Now your emotion
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  Speaker 1: is the superseding the rest of your family. Now, they
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  Speaker 1: don't get to grief how they want to. They could
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  Speaker 1: grieve how they want to grieve. That's the way he grieves.
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  Speaker 1: That's his brother. If he feels that way, that's the
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  Speaker 1: way to feel. Listen, when somebody, when somebody very close
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  Speaker 1: to you gets killed, I don't know how it reacts.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do or what I
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  Speaker 1: would say. So in that moment, that just how That's
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  Speaker 1: just how he reacted in that moment. Maybe he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: feel like that now, I don't know. Listen, if you
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  Speaker 1: choose to forgive, that's on you. But let's not act
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  Speaker 1: like Amber guy gets the victim, because she's not at all.
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  Speaker 1: They were hugging her and comfort in her like she
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  Speaker 1: was the victim, like she was a member of the
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  Speaker 1: victim's family. Yeah, she didn't kill that man. She's definitely
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  Speaker 1: not the victim, but she didn't like it. Let mask
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  Speaker 1: your question. When you've ever seen a judge walk off
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  Speaker 1: a bench and hug a hugger person they just sent this,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't really watch some many
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  Speaker 1: judge sentences people. I'll be honest with you, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, it was odd, it was weird.
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  Speaker 1: But when you ever seen a police officer rubber victim's
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  Speaker 1: hair in the courtroom to calm them down, it's that
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  Speaker 1: is That is some that is some slave loving masks
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  Speaker 1: and stuff right there if I've ever seen it. We'll
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 1: to get it off your chest. Whether your man or blast,
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  Speaker 1: we want to hear from you on a breakfast club. Kurt,
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Get off your chest? Curtin yo yo? What's up? Everybody?
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  Speaker 1: Uh yo? Um. I just want to say thanks. Angeli
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  Speaker 1: ye or hosting that the club, the Durunning Club. We
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  Speaker 1: run three one three this Sunday. I'm gonna be there.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yes, So in Detroit we are doing the Running Club.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go and run with these guys, the three
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  Speaker 1: one three run with ye and the three one three,
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  Speaker 1: So that's gonna be fun. It's a two out run,
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  Speaker 1: so anybody that wants to come can come out and
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  Speaker 1: join us. Too straight out, So anyone that wants to come,
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  Speaker 1: we enjoy it. Well, I ain't even gonna lie. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna front like I actually been there, like I
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  Speaker 1: run by my house and because the circumstances, I haven't
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  Speaker 1: been run the club yet. But I do support the
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  Speaker 1: club once percent what they're doing for our people and
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  Speaker 1: everything like that. So like I said, thanks angel lea yee,
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  Speaker 1: and you gotta y'all take it easy, all righty Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this man? This is Johnny. Before you want to go,
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  Speaker 1: can I give a shout out? And I do want
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  Speaker 1: to talk about the story three yesterday or to give
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  Speaker 1: a shout out to miss my little homie a B
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  Speaker 1: for taking care of me while we were out there.
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  Speaker 1: But I do want to talk about the situation yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: You said they gave that issue the stories to the
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  Speaker 1: black community. I felt like if that guy would have
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  Speaker 1: been aggressive to the situation, they would add some leverage.
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  Speaker 1: But man, I just can't see how you can shoot
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  Speaker 1: someone these an ice cream. I mean, it's just I
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  Speaker 1: just find it so wrong and it's and it's just sad.
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  Speaker 1: Definitely a tragic story, man. But I feel like if
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  Speaker 1: that guy want to retaliator or been aggressive about it.
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  Speaker 1: They tried to. They want to try to use something
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  Speaker 1: against them and try to turn the whole story around.
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  Speaker 1: And if you own property, but that's that's the way
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  Speaker 1: I feel about it. If if he'd just shot back
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  Speaker 1: at that lady when she did that, he'd be in jail.
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  Speaker 1: He'd be he'd be the one on traveler. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think he'd be in jail if somebody wouldn't ran up
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  Speaker 1: in his house. I don't think he'd be in a
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  Speaker 1: jail at all. I gettee you. I don't think so
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  Speaker 1: at all. Hello, who's this all right? This is Jamie
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  Speaker 1: from Jacksonville. Hey Jamie, good morning. Um Um, when I
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  Speaker 1: need to get off my chest? Is I agree with
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  Speaker 1: la Duvall when he said on um on Instagram that
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  Speaker 1: he would not forgive his family members if they hugged
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  Speaker 1: the person, and that he would hunt them the rest
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  Speaker 1: of their life. With me, I would do the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think you can tell people how to forgive
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  Speaker 1: somebody or how to run their life, for how to
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  Speaker 1: move in there. Yeah, you just have to worry about
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  Speaker 1: what you're gonna do and how you fail. But how
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  Speaker 1: someone else feels and reacts. That's not really our business.
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  Speaker 1: I'm standing that, But I'm saying, as the brother of
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  Speaker 1: someone that sat there and intentionally shot somebody in their home,
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  Speaker 1: that I just couldn't see myself saying that it's okay
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  Speaker 1: for you to do that. Yeah, I will forgiven the
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  Speaker 1: sense of I would let it go. But I'm not
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  Speaker 1: saying that it's okay for you just not to get
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  Speaker 1: any time for that, or that I forgive you and
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  Speaker 1: I hope you do better because I probably wouldn't. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's your personal reaction. I mean, he may a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times. Forget this is for yourself. It's not for
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  Speaker 1: the other person. It's for you. But but do you
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  Speaker 1: really forgive somebody because it's going to come back and
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna you're gonna still have those feelings later on,
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  Speaker 1: and again you can. It doesn't mean that you can't
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  Speaker 1: have feelings about it, because when when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: her getting on getting parole, they're going to use this
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  Speaker 1: in order to get her out early in five years. Right.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, he probably forgets it because he doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: that burden on himself of h of anger, and he
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  Speaker 1: just had to forgive it and let it go. For himself,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what really forgiveness is about. It ain't like, uh,
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  Speaker 1: for the other person that is supposed to be for you.
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  Speaker 1: All right, get it off your chest and ask your question.
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  Speaker 1: Though you don't think this has anything to do it
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  Speaker 1: with the long term effective slavery, Like how we love
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  Speaker 1: our press is regardless of what they do to us.
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  Speaker 1: And it only seems like we forgive white people. We
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  Speaker 1: cancel each other. But we're so quick to forgive them
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  Speaker 1: no matter what they do to us, Like nobody thinks
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  Speaker 1: it was remotely strange. All the actions that happened in
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  Speaker 1: this court room, whether the brother wants to forgive him
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  Speaker 1: or not cool, but the judge getting off to stand
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: and hugging her police officer rubbing her hair in the
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: court room, like, none of that looks strangely. I mean,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: I think black people forgive very very fast, regardless of
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: what the situation at each other. No, we don't, we
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: cancel each other, and I think it's and I think
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: in this situation that's so sad. I don't I don't
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: necessarily think she intentionally went in that apartment said I'm
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: gonna kill me another day. I don't think she did
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: that I think it was more of an accident. I
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: think it was an accident. Yes, there's so many different things. Well,
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: she should have known an apartment was, she should have
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: turned on her life, the department weren't the same. Regardless,
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: she killed that man, and I don't believe it was
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: on purpose, So that means she shouldn't get no time.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't say she shouldn't get no time. Oh, homicide.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: In a lot of cases of accident to it, they
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: still put you under the jail for that, right, absolutely,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: But I don't think she necessarily did it on purpose.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: And I think if the family wants to forgive, the
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: family wants to forgive, and I know we can't say
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: the family brother don't understand. The brother said' understand verbat
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: him that his family's gonna be mad at him for saying.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: The brother and I think, like he said, that forgiveness
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: is for him, That forgiveness is for him. That's that's
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: what he needs to put out there in the world
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: and the energy that he wants to put out. And
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: you can't tell anybody how to forgive. I'm not a forgival.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: That's just me. That's my person. But the fact that
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: he can forgive. That shows that man is a big
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: person because I couldn't do it, but he did it,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: and I respect it. Yeah, I just don't like people
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: acting like Amber guy gets a victim, because she's not
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: a Victim's not a victim at all, not even a
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: little bit. She made a mistake. They made her seem
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: like she was a member of the family grieving yesterday,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: as if somebody in her family got accidentally killed. Yeah,
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: that's how they were active. I am glad that she
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: was convicted and that she was sentenced, and I do
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: wish she would have gotten the longest sentence than she
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: did because she is eligible for parole after five years.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: But I also feel like if that's how both of them,
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: John's brother reacted, that's his reaction. And I think she
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: got a good sentence. My personally, I think she got
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: a good sentence. Like I said, if she would intentionally
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: want to kill somebody, then yes, But the fact that
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: it was an accident, I don't. I don't necessarily think
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: you put somebody in balls for all their life for
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: having an accident. That's me personally, that's not all their life.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, they people wanted to get ninety nine years
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: people want her to get a life sentence. I don't
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: feel like you put somebody in jail for an accident.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: That's just me personally. That's why that's my thus. But anyway,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: get it off your chest. Eight five eight five, one
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: oh five one. If you need to vent, you can
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: hit us up. We got rumors on the way. Yes,
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: we told you yesterday and about Matthew Knows going on
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Good Morning America and we'll tell you what he had
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: to say about breast cancer and what he's been dealing
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: with and spreading some knowledge. And Michael Strahan revealed some
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: things about himself as well. All right, hit us up.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: The rooms on the way. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Hey morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: to the rumors. Let's talk Matthew Knows. This is the
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: rum of report with Angela year Breakfast Club. Well, Matthew
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Knows sat down with Michael Strahan on Good Morning America
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: and talked about his own story about finding out that
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: he has breast cancer. He also wanted to talk about
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: the stigmas attached to male breast cancer and he wants
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: to inspire more men to speak out about that. Now
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: here's what he had to say about his diagnosis. WHOA
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: that shook And I told my wife and she says,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: you know what, I saw a dot of blood on
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: the sheets. So I immediately went to my doctor. I
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: got him Mama Graham, and then it was very clear
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: that I had breast cancer. So I have that brocker too,
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: that's mutated, which means I have four things to be
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: concerned about. Prostate cancer, pancreatic cancer, melanoma, and breast cancer. Yeah,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: initially he had some blood on his T shirt and
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: then his wife said she saw a dot of blood
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: on the sheet, and so that's why he felt he
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: had to go to the doctor. Now he goes on
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: to talk about just being a man and having breast
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: cancer and making sure that his family knows and all
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: of that. This is genetics. It also means that my
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: kids have a higher chance, a higher risk. Even my
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: grandkids have a higher risk. And they handle it like
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: they should. They went and got the test. Now, fortunately
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Matthew knows is doing well, and he gave everybody an
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: update on his current health situation. I'm doing really good, Michael.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: I had my surgery the last week of July and
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: now doing all the steps for recovery. I stopped drinking.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: I wanted to just have a clean bill of health.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: Both do things, exercise, meditate now. He also was on
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: TMC Live and he said that he plans to remove
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: his second breast in January. And interestingly enough, Michael Strahan
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: had his own situation with a family member who had
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: breast cancer as well. Who's a man. I had no
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: idea about this until my brother went and went through it,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: and I thought, well, male breast cancer something I never
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: thought and my family, my brother or anything like that,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: and I never really paid attention to it. I think,
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: like most men out there, you just deal with something
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: happening yourself. I'll be fine. Well, I'm not the highest
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: grade of weed in the dispensary. But this is the
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: first time I've ever heard of male breastcancer, because I
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: didn't think males could get breast cancer simply because males
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: don't have breast Yeah, it's a lot more rare. He said.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Less than one percent of all breast cancer cases involved men.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: And the fact that he has to remove I'd never
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: heard of that either ye get to rule the cancer. Oh,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: just another thing to put on my list to give
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: me anxiety. I was thinking the same thing. I'm looking
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: at my T shirts like I opened too, touching my
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: chests right now, like what the hell's going on? I'm
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: just I gotta feel for lumps. No, no lumps, it's
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: not lumps signs of male breast. Eddie. Our producers said,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: you gotta feel a nipple and nariola, right, and you
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: gotta feel that and look for bumps. Now you're gonna
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: just see me randomly rubbing them on nippole and see
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: this guy really is a freak. That's smalls. Ain't no joke.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: All right, now, let's talk our Kellia Judge has denied
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: his request to get out of jail. They feel like
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: he is a flight risk, they said. Earlier this year
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: when he was released on bill, he tried to travel
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: to Dubai with his two girlfriends and they had went
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: and got their own passports and did all of that.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: So they also feel like with all this intimidating witnesses
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: and everything, they just didn't feel like it was the
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: safest thing to do, so they did deny letting him
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: out of jail. On Bill right now. And even though
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: they're saying that he's broke, according to prosecutors, they are
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: accusing him of putting away money in one of his
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: friend's bank accounts. So they said, according to the prosecutors,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: that he continues to receive hundreds of thousands of dollars
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: in connection with royalties that he's old for his music.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: And I guess he's trying to hide that money. What
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: if they let him out on Bill, but they told
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: him they had to chemically castrate him until until while
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: he was out. I mean, you can't do that because
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: then if he's fine, found not guilty, you can't put
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: it back. You're right, So then then you can do
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: the temporary like you know, no cast Rader, they're not
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: letting him out. That's what they can do. Don't They
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: have the thing, the chain where they could put the
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: chain on the whole crowch area. You talk about chastity belt,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: that's what's called. I think I feel like he can
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: break out of that. Is it call the chastity belt? Yeah? Yeah,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: A white camera guy said, yes, all right, Chris Rock Envy.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: Now this might be why Chris Rock had some issues
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: with you. Did you know that he was a DJ
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: before he was a comedian. Nope. Yeah. So he wrote
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: the foreword for a new book of photos of the
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: BC Boys and Run DMC. It's called Together Forever, And
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: he said, I was a DJ way before I told jokes.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Run DMC Stucker MC's taught me a lot about controlling
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: the audience. I learned things about control and timing from
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: playing the record of block parties that I used to
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: this day. Hold Chris Rock, don't come out of retime
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: and envy. It makes sense because he I mean, he
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: loves the DJs. He always talks about DJ and some
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: of his favorite DJs. Christ is cool. Now you better
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: hope you don't come out of everytimement. Okay, and start
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: with Chris Rock. I don't know fake beat for Chris Rock.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: We just had words be good in the album. Have second,
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: Chris Rock. Can't take all your jobs out of spite.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: What's the DJ name? Gonna be joy? DJ? Chris Rock?
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: You think we will hire him over you any day?
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Chris Rock rocks the part? What if his name was
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: and nobody will come to your show? But if his
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: name is DJ m V m v's me that's long name.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: That's too long. I can't get an Instagram page for that.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Ask ay, what I'm supposed to be looking for on
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: my nipples when I'm rubbing them? He look, what is
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: he looking for all his nipples? Discharge? It's charge? Yeah,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: do you have any discharge in your show? And Matthew
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: knows that he had a dot of blood on his
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: shirt and that's oh, and then a lot of blood
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: on the sheets. What about hair? He said, he has
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: hair on his nipples. That fun. I don't just have
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: hand on my chest. I'm not a harry guy. That
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: would definitely take me to the doctor if I was
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: a man and I was believeing out my nipples. Yes, yeah,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: oh yes, all right, well that is your rumor report.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I mean until a year, okay, thank you? Ye, just
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: to give you a discharge from your nipple, a painless
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: lump or thickening in your breast tissue, changes to the
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: skin covering your breast, such as dimpling, puckering, redness or scaling, scaling, scaling, scaling,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Changes to your nipples, such as redness or a nipple
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: that begin to turn inward. So question if you're nipple
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: bleeds and that's that could be a symptom of breast cancer.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: If your butt bleeds, is that a symptom of protect cans? Right,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: should bleed? You should go get that check. Bro, I'm
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: just asking you should go in your stool. You should
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: go get that check. All right. Well, we just found
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: out something new today, but we got front pages will
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: be come back. If I had blood in my stool,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I'll be asking, y'all, I'd have been, a matter of fact,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I went to the doctor already and been telling y'all,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: hey man, I got blood in must first question would
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: be what did you do last night? Well, all right,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: now let's talk about Donald Trump and front page news.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: He got very upset as he was being questioned, and
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: you'll find this interesting. All right, we'll get into that next.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Keeping lock this to Breakfast Cloak. Good morning morning. Everybody
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: is DJ mvy Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy we are
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Let's in some front page news now tonight.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: There is an NFL game who's playing Rams Seahawks. I
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: don't know, um, what were their records? Do we know
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: their records? Snow, Charloman, you know what the records the
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Rams of the Seahawks, Rams and Seahawks. I think the
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Rams are three in one. I think the Seahawks might
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: be three and one two let me see. Okay, So
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: it should be a good game tonight, Nave. What else
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: we're talking about. We are going to be talking about
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Donald Trump. Yes, he did two appearances yesterday and you
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: can tell he's extremely bothered. He was in an east
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: room press conference and as he was facing questions about
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: what's going on with Ukraine and his predicament, he was
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: being questioned by Jeff Mason from Routers one reporter, and
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: here's what happened. The question, sir was what did you
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: want President to Lensky to do about President Vice President
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Biden and his son Hunter? Are you talking to me? Yeah,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: it was just a follow up with one I just asked,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: you're ready, we have the president of Finland. Ask him
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: a question. I have one for him. I just wanted
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: to follow up on the one that I asked, did
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: you hear me? You want did you hear me? It's
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: a whole hoax. And you know who's playing into the hoax,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: People like you and the fake news media that we
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: have in this country. And I say, in many cases
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: the corrupt media. You hear me. I am your fastest boss,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: and I suppressed the media. Okay, that's what I do.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: He's a great question, see right, So he still never
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: answered the question did you hear me? Just want to
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: continual He's the president of the United States of America,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: the fastest president of the United States of America. You
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: don't answer questions that the press asked, how dare you
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: all right? Bernie Sanders? He has been hospitalized for a
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: blocked artery and he has canceled campaign events. He also
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: posted thanks for all the well wishes. I'm feeling good.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I'm fortunate to have good healthcare and great doctors and
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: nurses helping me to recover. None of us knows when
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: an medical emergency might affect us, and no one should
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: fare going bank direct if it does Medicare for all.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: So that was his statement that he posted yesterday. I
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: rock with Bernie Sanders. I like Bernie Sanders a lot, man,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: But for anybody who is practicing agism and they think
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders too old, this this didn't just didn't help
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: dispute their films. I mean it might make you feel
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: lowerbute a little. It's like, like, you know what Granddad.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I think you might need to sit down, man, because
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: the pressures of being president are a lot alrighty, it
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: might be too much on your hearts, absolutely all right.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: An ex Dallas cop Amber Geiger. She has been sentenced
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: and she was sentenced to ten years. That was for
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: killing both of them. Jean she walked into his apartment
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: allegedly by accidents and shot and killed him. So as
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: she was sentenced, she's she's, by the way, the third
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: officer in Dallas County to be found guilty of murder
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: since twenty sixteen. A lot of things happened in court.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Jerry's was shown three pinchest posts that she saved on
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: her account and commented it was a picture of a
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: military sniper with a Texas said stay low, goo fast,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: killed first die last one shot one killed, no luck,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: all skill. And then there's another picture that she commented
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: on under a picture of a menu and from despicable Me,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: she said, people are so ungrateful. No one ever thinks
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: me for having the patience not to kill them. These
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: things were all read in court, as well as some
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: comments that she made about Martin Luther King Junior and
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: not wanting to have to work, the parade and so
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: on and so forth. Now, after the ten year murder
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: sentence was read, that's when both them. John's brother actually
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: spoke and gave his statement, I forgive you, and I
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: know if you go to God and ask him, he
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: will forgive you again. I'm speaking for myself. I'm not
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: even bad for my family. But I love you just
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: like anyone else. I'm not gonna say I hope you
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: wrought and die just like my brother did. But I
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: personally want the best for you, and I wasn't gonna
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: ever say this in front of anyone, but I don't
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: even want you to go to jail. I want the
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: best for you because I know that's what That's exactly
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: what both them would want you to do. I don't
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: know if it is possible, but he did give her
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: a hug, and all of his family members burst into
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: tears after that, and even the judge, Timmy Camp, who's
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: also black, was moved and went in to embrace Amber
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Geiger as well. And y'all think that's normal? What part
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: of it normal? Him forgiven just the whole thing. You
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: think it's normal for us, you know, for him to
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: do that for the judge to get off the bench
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: and come hug the woman for the other police officer
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: to being there rubbing the woman's hair, comforting her. Y'all
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: think that's normal. None of that's normal at all. I
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: think that brother can forgive all he wants, to do
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: whatever it takes to make yourself feel better. But let's
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: be clear, what comes out your mouth and what you
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: really feel on the inside in the situation like that
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: rarely line up. And I don't know how his brother felt.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: All I'm saying is when I see the judge get
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: off the bench and hug her and hand her a Bible,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: and I see another black woman officer rubbing her hair
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: and caught to comfort her, I can't help but see
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: situations like this and think to myself, this is the
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: effects of Christian slaveholders using the Bible to justify slavery,
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: like they would whip our ass abuse us, rape us,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: persecute us, and then tell us to forgive them because
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: not forgiving them would make God point of shuts. What
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: type of backwards as logic is that. Well, we always
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: talk empathy, right, we always talk about forgiving, We always
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: talk about feeling somebody right, And in this situation, I
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: don't think this lady went in that apartment trying to
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: kill that brother. I honestly don't. I think it was
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: an accident. I think it was a mistake. So the
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: fact that his brother said, look, I forgive you, you know,
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I forgive you, you know, And forgiveness it's not for
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: the person, it's for how he feels, it's for yourself.
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  Speaker 1: So I think for as far as empathy, I think.
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  Speaker 1: And the judge did hugged the Jean family first, and
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  Speaker 1: Amber Geiger actually got up and went to hug the judge,
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  Speaker 1: and the judge kind of paused first, like didn't know
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: what to do. And that's when she did hug her.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't like she ran over and just hugged her.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: She hugged the family, the Jean family first, and then
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: Amber Geiger got up, Well, let's let's let's talk about this.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Let's open up the phone lines. All right, Yes, I
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: got some more thoughts I want to I would do.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: Let's have let's have a discussion. Let's have a discussion,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: all right. Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: What are your thoughts? All right now? Um? I thought
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: about this last ning and I brought my my wife
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: and my daughter, my oldest daughter, we talked about it.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: My daughter is one of those people. She's kind of
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  Speaker 1: like me where she doesn't forgive anybody. And when I
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: broke it down with till I explained an old thing
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  Speaker 1: at first, she was like, my dather was like, I
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  Speaker 1: would never forgive it. I supposed. I was like, look
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  Speaker 1: and this is gonna be crazy. That people will be mad.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Take out the fact that she was a police officer, right,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: because her being a police officer had really has nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with it. When when she killed this man,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: she was off duty, she walked into an apartment that
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: she thought was her. She made a mistake and she
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: killed this brother. Was she wrong? Absolutely? Horrible, horribly, But
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: she made a mistake. So what people forgive because she
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: made a mistake, that that's on you, you know, But
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: she didn't necessarily intentionally try to kill this man. In
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: my opinion, yeah, some people felt like it's iffy. Some
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: people felt like, how could you have made such a mistake?
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: How did this even happen? Did she planned to kill him?
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: Did they know each other? Was this a premeditated situation?
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know about that. Before I'm talking about this
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: after okay, because when I look at that courtroom, I
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: say to myself, damn with our whole life. The images
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: they show us of a already figures a white when
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: we grew up worshiping a white Jesus, you will never
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: rebel against any Master that appears in the physical form
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: of your oppressors. No will you ever see anything they
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: do is wrong. And on the flip side, it's also
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: impossible for the oppressors to not view themselves as God.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: And when they view themselves God, they will always think
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: they are all right because in their mind that's just
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: a natural order of life. That's why they can persecute
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: us and ask us to forgive them. And I just
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: feel like, man, we got to break the spiritual and
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: mental change because when I saw that, it looked nuts
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: to me. And I don't know if that's forgiveness. It
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: just looked to me like Master, we sick, Master, Master,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: we sick, master, Master, we go into jail. So we
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: just got ten years, Master, we just got ten years.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: I don't want to critique somebody while they're grieving or
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: tell them how they should grieve or shouldn't, And I
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: will say they've been going to judge grieving and yeah,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: but like I said, I said, the way that happened,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: But the judge wasn't like she ran over and gave
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: her a hug. It was Amber Geiger who jumped up
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: to her and she hesitated, not sure what to do
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: at that moment. Up the eight hundred five five five one,
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  Speaker 1: and I ain't taking like that. Charlomagne now a young
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: man in South Carolina that killed the shot up the
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: church and everybody in the church they forgave. That's a
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: little different to me. That's a little different. Not all
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: of them, because if you saw the Manual and Me movie,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: one of them brothers was like, hell, no, I don't
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: forgive him. He killed my mom, right, but like they forgave,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: that's a little different. He has all intentions to kill people,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: this one not so much. But let's open up the
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  Speaker 1: phone line. Let's have a conversation. Eight hundred five A
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  Speaker 1: five one on five. It's the breakfast club in morning.
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  Speaker 1: Phone call in right now, call me at your opinion
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: to the breakfast club, top breaking down. Eight hundred five
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  Speaker 1: eighty five one oh five one, the Breakfast Club. It's
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: topic time. The phone called eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 1: one oh five want to join it to the discussion
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  Speaker 1: with the breakfast club. Talk about it morning, everybody's DJ
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the breakfast club.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Now if he just joined us, we're talking about the
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: incident that happened yesterday. You want to explaining you. Yes,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Amber Geiger, the ex cop from Dallas who killed both
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: of them. John was sentenced to ten years in prison.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: And that's when Brant John, who is both of John's
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: younger brother, jumped up and gave Well, he didn't just
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: jump up. He gave a statement where he forgave Amber
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Geiger and hopes that she does well and gave her
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: a hug. Right, And some people are upset about that.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: They upset the brother forgave. They upset that the judge
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: gave the woman a hug and was rubbing the ladies hair.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: So we're going to the phone and asking your thoughts.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: But before we do, what are your thoughts you m
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: My thought is that I can't imagine how I react
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: in a situation like that, if that happened too. I
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: have an older brother to my own older brother. I
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: can only imagine that in my head, I try to
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: make sense of it, and they've been going through this
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: whole process for a year. It's been over a year
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: since this occurred, and maybe he's gone through a lot
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: of different emotions during that time, and for the sake
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: of releasing his own burden, maybe that's how he fails
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: at that time, just because he doesn't want to weigh
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: himself down with hatred and anger. That's how I looked
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: at it. Listen, I'm not questioning anyone when they choose
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: to forgive. I haven't reached that level of healing yet.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not whole enough yet to be so forgiving of people.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Maybe if I continue to do the work in therapy,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: I'll get there, but I'm not there now. But I
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: do realize Black people seem to me to only be
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: that forgiving the white people, We damn sure not that
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: forgiving of each other. And I just feel like this
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: is what happens when you worship white Jesus all your life. Okay,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: white Jesus is not your ally of black people. You
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: will never rebel against any master that appears in the
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: physical form of your impressive It's impossible, and it's also
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: impossible for the oppressors to not view themselves as God,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: and they will always feel like they are right right,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: virtue in natural order, even when they have done us wrong,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: like in this situation. I like to look at life
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: a little differently. I like to put myself in different situations,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: and I put myself in that woman's situation. Me walking
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: into an apartment that's not mine. I see somebody, I
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: get nervous, and I pull out my gun and I'll
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: shoot somebody. Does that mean I deserve to go to
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: jail for years. No, I shouldn't get a penalty. I
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: should get a penalty. I should be charged for killing somebody.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: But it was an accident, you know what I mean.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: I am I would I would be. It would be
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: horrific for me to even think about me killing somebody,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: especially by accident. I don't think that that person deserves
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: to go to jail for the rest of their life. Yes,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: there should be a punishment, and they believe that punishment
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: is ten years. We've seen cases where we've seen black
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: women defending themselves, you know, against abusive partners, home, intruders, whatever,
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: and they've gotten twenty thirty years life. What's the difference
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: between them and Ambergager? Yeah, I would have definitely given
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: her a longer sentence. You know, when the persecution was
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: asking for twenty eight years, the fact that they were
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: even considering the castle doctrine. The castle doctrine is supposed
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: to protect homeowners from intruders. How could they even consider
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: giving her the castle doctrine when she was the intruder
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: in somebody else's house. Well, let's go out of your privilege.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. Well, let's go to
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: the phone lines. Hello, who's this here? What's up? Turning
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: your radio down? Bro? What's going on? Brother? If you
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: gotta forget it, people feel type of way about stuff
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: like this, Okay, all right. His family wanted to apologize
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: for how but she did him with him, But he
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: did made the case by be good, your boy, stop
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: the slave. Everything's not about slavery. She made a mistake.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: Keep wanting the road. How he killed somebody? You got time?
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Let us do her time. Be gonna breath about her
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: time and what she did at family, family breathing about
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: him being come they did. They peaked the men, little
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: boy us do a time. You get out there. Everything
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: about slavery, Bro, that's a goddamn lie. You know what
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. If you don't think that PTSD post traumatic
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: slaves so it is real, you're a goddamn fool. Eight
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one on five one. We're asking
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: your thoughts phone line to wide open. Call us up now,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, call me and you
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: opini into the Breakfast Club topic. Come on eight hundred
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: five five one O five one morning. Everybody is DJ
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Envy Angela yee. Charlemagne the guy we are the Breakfast
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: Club naphe just joined us. Yeah, you want to give
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: us an update of what we were talking about. Yes,
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: we're talking about X Dallas cop Amber Geiger who shot
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: and killed both of them John when she went into
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: his apartment mistaking it for her own is what she
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: claims happened and shot and killed him. Now, the family
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: was in court and both of John's younger brother Brent
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Jehan actually gave a statement directly to Geiger and then
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: gave her a hug. All right, Well, let's we're taking
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: your calls. Eight dred five A five one on five one. Hello,
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: who's this? Yeah, yo, yo yo yo? What's up? Bro?
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Went in going all right, man, I'll agree with Charlemagne
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: and against y'all because everybody got their own opinion. What
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: love to you, DJ, one love to ye and one
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: love to Charlemagne. Man, So one clus bomb a piece
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: for y'all. Man, all right, you're not going to expand
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: with what you believe or that's it. That's what you got.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Oh well, as far as what I believe, I just believe, man,
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: that took us all the way back to the first slave,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: and I just wanted to say, man, to me, it
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: feels like slavery is here because there was no justice
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: in that whatsoever as far as uh like me saying
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna kill your mother and didn't come hug you
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: right after that. So it was more sympathy for her
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: mother that looked like she about to die in the
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: second And I think maybe they cut a little deal
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: or something like that. I don't know what the heck
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: going on, man, That thing is crazy to me. So
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: it just felt like maybe they cut a little deal
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: on the table that nobody know about. Thank you, brother.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: And one thing I've both said, Amber Geiger has taken
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: complete responsibility for everything that she did, you know, and
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: in this murder that was very tragic. She did take responsibility. Hello,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: who's she's in the wrong? Hello, who's this Alex? Hey Alex,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. Now what are your thoughts, Alex? Well,
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: my opinion about the situation is that she should he
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: should have forgiven her. He definitely should have forgiven her,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: and this is God's love that he displayed. But the
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: thing is that institutionally, black people can't display that we
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: love somebody in this because of how it affects the
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: rest of us. It's really messed up the situation that
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: we're in because we can't even display God's love because
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: it's cruds. Everybody else up that's going through the same situation. Now,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: all these black people are online extremely upset with him
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: and upset with the situation, and I am as well.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: I don't believe she's even remorseful like that. You know,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: to me, the judge hugging her was way over the top,
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: but the fact that he had inside of him the
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: capacity to love her still was huge and just it
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: made me feel like the same way the way Nisty
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: mother handles the situation when she says she had perfect
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: piece and she forgave his killer as well. I mean,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: this is how we're supposed to live and Black people
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: as parents of this earth. This is how we're supposed
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: to conduct ourselves, but we can't because it puts it
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: puts us in the light of Oh well, y'all can
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: keep excuse me messing over us, ya messing over us constantly?
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: You know. So we got to do this stuff in private,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: or we gotta do it h you know, private discussion
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: about it or whatever. You know, We've been talking about
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: this on Facebook all last night. But this is how
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to conduct yourself. We are supposed to love
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: one another like God loves eeasing every one of us.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: We are. Yeah, but you know, I understand what she's saying,
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: But I can't help the see situations like this and
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: think to myself, this is the effects of Christian slaveholder
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: is using the Bible to justify things like slavery, like
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: they would whip our ass abuse us, rape plus persecute us,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: and then tell us to forgive them because not forgiving
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: them would make God punish us. I mean people people
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: forgiving them their own way. Would I be able to forgive?
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I honestly don't know. But what I
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: do know is I don't think that lady intentionally tried
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: to kill that man. And I think that his brother
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: by forgiving, I think that shows a lot. Man. I
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: think that that's what we're supposed to do, right. But
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: it's not just giving. It's not just the brother forgiving.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: It's the judge hugging her and handing her a Bible.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: It's it's the police officer shroking her head to comfort her.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: Like I really feel like when when when you when
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: you go through your whole life seeing images of authority
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: figures that are white, and when you grow up worship
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: in a white Jesus, you'll never rebel against any mass
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: that appears in the physical form of your oppressor. When
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: you see these white folks, you see Jesus because that's
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: what you grew up worship in your whole life. I
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: don't know if I see Jesus when I see white folks.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: But eight five eight five, one oh five one. Let's
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: take some more calls. Phone lines are craziest to breakfast clog,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ envy Angela yee. Charlemagne
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club, now if he
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: just joined us. We're talking about Amber Geiger a little
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: bit in the whole case. I want to explain to
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: people what's going on with this whole case. Yes, Amber
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: Geiger is the x Dallas cop who just got ten
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: years in prison. That's from murdering her neighbor, both of
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: them John. She's white, he's black. She walked into his
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: apartment by accident and shot and killed him. And in
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: court as she was sentenced, both of John's younger brother,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: brand John gave his victims impact statements, spoke directly to
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Geiger forgave her and also ask God for her forgiveness,
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: ask God for forgets, told her she should ask God
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: for forgiveness, and then gave her a hug. But isn't
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: isn't that what we're supposed to do. Are always supposed
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: to forgive people, especially if they make mistakes. I'm not
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: saying that I can, But isn't that what we're taught
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: to do. Isn't that what the Bible tells us to do? Man?
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: That damn Bible, all right, at the same Bible that
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: slave masters used to control the goddamn slaves. So listen,
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: I have no problem with forgiveness, but I swear it
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: seems like, you know, we're so forgiving a white folks
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: when they do us wrong, but we loved to cancel
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: each other. That's what I see when I see situations
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: like listening. I'm not questioning anyone when they choose to forgive,
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like I said earlier, I
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: haven't reached that level of healing yet, but I do
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: realize that black people seem to me to only be
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: that forgiving the white people, because we damn sure not
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: that forgiving of each other. Nala, good morning, Oh my god,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: I got through to you. Guys. Good morning. I'm reading
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: your story and it says that your niece was killed
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: by gun violence. Yeah, my niece Alexandra gone. She was
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: killed by gun violence and she was just at the
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: wrong place at the wrong time and got shot. She
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: was nineteen years old and the guy got caught. I
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: would never be able to forgive him, like no, I
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: wish he had gotten life, and he felt guilty and
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: got sixteen years. He'll be getting out soon. This was
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: in two thousand and eight, so absolutely not like I
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to. Okay, I'm sorry for your lost
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: murmur and you're doing just fine. Agree with Charlomaie, Like
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: somebody needs to speak to this. I understand you grieve,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: and everybody greeves differently, but there's no way it was
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: too soon Like I couldn't. I wouldn't be able to
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: when people act like religion wasn't put here to control
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: us and keep us from rebelling. I mean, you can
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: go to a scripture like a Phijian six five was
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: says slaves, obey your earthly masters would respect and fit
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: just as you would obey Christ. Oh, I have mercy. Hello,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: who's this Kanya from Florida? Ayton? You turn your radio down?
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Got it? Thank you? Now? What are your thought? Tanya?
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: I agree with Charlomage one hundred percent. That entire team
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: was ridiculous. I do not have that much empathy. That
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: person inflicted all that pain on me, and I'm supposed
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: to hug them and say, you know I understand No,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: absolutely not. Okay, Well thank you Tania and the judge,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: the police officer rubbing their head like I'm telling man,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: this was one of those. This was one of those massive,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: we sick massive we were going to jail for teen
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: years man, So old master we getting locked up, Old
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: Master we is sorry, that's what that looked like to me,
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: I just accept whatever brand Jon needs to do to
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: heal himself for losing his brother. And so if that's
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: what he wanted to do for him specifically, that's what
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: it is. I know there's a lot of people who
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: would never be able to do that. I don't know
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: what I would do. I can't imagine myself hugging somebody
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: and making that statement, but that's just myself. I don't
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: know what I would do in that position. And if
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: that's what he needed to do for himself to get
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: rid of that burden on himself, then more power to him.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: I agree. Man, whatever he has to do to allow
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: his life to continue on and until he could have
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: peace with that, I don't want us to condemn him
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: whose brother passed away last year and was murdered last
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: year and that's what he had to do. I want
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: to let that brother just feel like, Okay, that's what
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: you needed to do. You do your thing. I haven't
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: reached that level of healing yet, but it's wild to
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: see a courtroom of black people acting like the woman
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: and a guy was the victim. That was wild to me.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: And I don't know, and like, you know, if if
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: you're saying that they hugged other people in the courtroom too.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: That's not what they're showing us in the media. Yeah, no,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: it's it's in the media. You see, there's pictures and video.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: She's huggetting the whole family first. The judge hugs the
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: whole johan family first, and then Amber Geiger actually gets
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: up to give a hug, and the judge kind of hesitates,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: and then she did. I still have never seen a
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: judge hug somebody that they sent us, especially the murder
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: or some more of the story, guys, the moral of
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: the story, and this is just y'all mean, the God,
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: the more of the story. I can't speak for nobody
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: else in this room, but to me, this is just
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: what happens when you worship white Jesus all your life. Okay,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: white Jesus is not your allied Black people. You will
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: never rebel against any master that appears in the physical
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: form of your oppresses. It is impossible. And it's also
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: impossible for your presses and not view themselves as God.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: And they will always feel like they are right by
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: virtue and natural order, even when they have done us wrong,
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: like Amber Geiger did that brother Bostam John wrong, Rest
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: in peace to him. All right, Now we got rumors
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: all the way. Yes, now this is an odd story.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: Let's talk a bad tip and he had ish and
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: one of her hookups that she talks about on Ellen
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: de generous and that person is denying it. All right,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: we'll get into that next. Keeping locked as to Breakfast Club,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: the rumors to talk. Wendy Williams, it's about Angela Yee
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. Well, Wendy Williams, what's talking about
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: Jeremy Meeks, the hot felon who left his U, left
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: his women and got with the top shop billionaire and
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: then they dumped her also anyway, just you know, just
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: discussing that. Then Wendy william started talking about her own
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: life and she talked about how you can tell she's
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: talking about her ex husband Kevin here and his mistress.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Here's what happened Kelvin. And I've only said this as
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: a jump brought topic, you know, poke a hole in
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: the condom and get pregnant. But that backfired. On me,
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: didn't it. She regrets that the mess though life is
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: not what you think it is behind the scenes. Trust me,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: what home girl is miserable ball in the meantime, I'm
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: over here. You know what you get? Whoa? Okay, salute
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: to Sharina Hudson aka Big Baby. You know what I'm saying.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: That's Kelvin Hunter's baby's mother. I know she probably is miserable.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: Miserable he's going on a big baby. Is that a nickname?
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: That was her nickname? You know? Baby probably can't never
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: sleep because Kelvin Hunter always yelling. You know what I'm saying.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: Kelvin maddened his own situation, so he taking it out
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: on Sharina. Sharina probably wants to leave. And Kevin telling
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: her how LOLd to everything because of you, Joe hold
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: to everything because of you. Accountability for nothing? Oh yeah, man,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: money definitely tight. I'm sure money right, you know, and
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: you know he's not taking accountability for nothing, so she
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: I would be miserable to understand. Sharina. All right, Well, okay,
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: Wendy is out there living her best life and she
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: actually was hanging out with your girl, Tiffany. Hats to
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: a your homies hitting a town. So Tiffany Hattris and
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Wendy Williams uh they posted pictures together. Now Tiffany Haddis
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: is in the news also because she is saying that
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: she had a little hook up with Chinny back in
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: the day. Listened to her on Ellen DeGeneres, Have you
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: every dated the celebrity that the world doesn't know about?
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: But what's the really dating on? What did we just took? Chingy?
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: It was Look if that was the early two thousands, y'all.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: I don't even know if that counts anymore. Oh, of
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: course it does. Kind of you and Cheney, I like, look,
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: why you do that right right there? But tiny you
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: took to social media and said, now at Tiffany had
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: his nose damn. Oh that's a lie. And since she lied,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell the truth. She used to hook up
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: at my brother, not me, but she liked me. Hey,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: if we're gonna be honest, let's be honest. So her
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: brother look like his brother looks like I don't know
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: what his brother looks like. I mean, Tiffany wouldn't have
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: no reason to lie on her vagina, right, I don't know.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's just a misunderstanding. Maybe you can't misunderstand, you
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: can't miss misunderstanding. Hapation do his brother was him? Maybe
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: they do look alike. Jesus Christ listen. Very honorable of
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: Cheney um not to claim it if it's not true,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: because he could easily use that to get hot, you
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? Right, at least for them home.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know why would you want to deny Tiffany Haddish? Right,
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: So maybe it didn't really happen. I don't know what
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: went down, but Tiffany hasn't responded back yet. I don't
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: I don't see. I've never I've never seen a woman
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: lying or vagina in a case like that. Guys usually
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: the one to lie. Yeah, she did not say they
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: had sex. It might have just been a little hook up.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Maybe they kissed or something like that. And you say
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: hook up, don't you usually think sex when you say
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: hook Now, it could be something a lot less than that.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: It could be y'all just made out. You know. Hook
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: up is not necessarily sex. He gave with some head?
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: Can I say that? No? Well, all right, we jumped back, Okay,
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not Kylie Jenner in the meantime has been hanging
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: out with Tiger after hearing Vis Scott just broke up.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: They're taking a break and people are saying that it
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: wasn't anything that was planned. I guess they had some
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: mutual friends. They have been in touch off and on
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: since they broke up in twenty seventeen, but they don't
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: talk often. You just break up with me today and
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: tomorrow you would out with the X. That might be
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: have been done on purpose. I feel like you never
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: how much money you got, stay over there. You want
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: to go back to your ex with you know, with
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: those Rajashian Jenners, you know how they are. She might
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: have been like, Okay, Travis, you want to do you
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: watch watch what I do. And let's be clear, Travis
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: got his own money too. He may not have a
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: billions doing great. Yeah, he's very great. And that's very disrespectful,
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. We break up for a
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: splitch second, and we got a child together, and you
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: just go see your ex all of a sudden. I mean,
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: you've been thinking about your ex the whole time. But now,
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: according to sources, though it wasn't a hookup of just
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: the two of them, it was a mutual friends thing.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: So nope. Then they said they all in the studio
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: after what should you leave? Yes? Yes. Soon as she
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: see him in there, she was like, you know what,
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: let me get out of here because I know this
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: can be miss you know it's gonna be a photo op. Nope,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: get out of dodge. Or she might be like, okay,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: you want to play me? What's what I do? You
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: stay over there. But according to sources, their breakup was
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: amicable Kylie and Travis Scott. It wasn't a cheating scandal.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: There was no big fight. They just have been doing
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: so much so quickly. They had a very long honeymoon phase,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: love torring, going on vacations, raising their daughter. I want
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Travis to get half, and I think Travis support. They're
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: not married. They're not married. No, you gotta be some
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: common law marriage in California or something. I think Travis
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: deserves half for all his painting something okay, and they
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: got a child together. That's NAE spouse support and child
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: support for Travis Scott. It's crazy how just a couple
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: of weeks ago it was like, oh they're getting married
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: and now, huh what you are right? All right? Imagine
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: you're right over there. Nope, all right, but who are
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: you giving your don't get you? Then you know the
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: uncle Shall always says, the craziest people in America come
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: from the Bronx and all the Florida. And I need
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: a young lady named Maya Autrey to come to the
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: front of the congregation. We like to have a world
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: for her, if you know Maya Autry. I really want
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: Maya Autrey to get get some help more than anything.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: But I gotta tell you the story for after the hour.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: We'll get into that next. Keeping lock this to breakfast club.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Good morning, donkey at you get dunk day. You are
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: a drecty. I'm gonna fatten all that an They want
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: this man to Dolden Blowers man. They waited for Charlomae
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: the Blows. She had to make a judgment who was
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: going to be on the donkey of the day. They
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: chose you because the breakfast club bitch you who's donkey
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: of the day to day? Well at Sharon, donkey of
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: the day for Thursday, October third, goes to a young
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: thirty two year old woman named Maya Autry, and I
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: went to your uncle Charla always tell you at least
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: two to three times on this radio every week. The
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: of Florida, and Maya Autry is no exception. She's from
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: the Bronx. I don't even know where to start with
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: this story. I don't even know how to approach this
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: level of crazy. So let me just begin by telling
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: you the story. It was a warm and sunny side
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: today and the Bronx. Maya, whose friends say she has
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: gone off the rails in the past couple of years,
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: decided she wanted to go to the Bronx Zoo. As
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: Maya is walking through the Bronx Zoo, she starts posting
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: clips on her I g story she posted and I'm
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: going to read it just how she typed it. She says,
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I really have not fear of nothing breathing. Animals can
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: feel loved just like humans in all capital letters. Now,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: when a person is posting things like that, what is
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: prompting her to say these things? Why is she telling
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: the world that animals can feel love just like humans. Well,
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: let's go to ABC seven New York for the report
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: to hear what she did. Lebron Field, where a woman
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: rather unsmartly climbed into the lions exhibit, came face to
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: face with the animal, and then appeared to tease it
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: with her dance moves. Well, the woman wasn't her, but
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: talk about lucky and now cops are investigating. This is
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: where the video was taken. You can see there's no
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: glass here, but there is a giant mode. That mode
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: is about fourteen feet deep. It's one of the safety
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: barriers intended they keep the animals separated from the people.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: The woman seemed to be standing right here and the
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: lion on his side of the mode. The woman wasn't injured.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: Someone reported the incident to zoo officials, who released this
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: statement the reds in part, this action was a serious
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: violation and unlawful trespass that could have resulted in serious
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: injury or death. We have a zero tolerance policy on
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: trespass and violation of barriers. Now I don't know what
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: kind of weed they're selling in the Bronx, because in
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: this video, she was definitely smoking weed before she did
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: what she did. But this is why y'all have to
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: stop smoking weed named after wild animals. Okay, why would
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: you smoke something called silver back gorilla? Why would you
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: smoke something called walrus cush? Why would you smoke something
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: called black mambo? Why would you smoke something called white rhino?
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: Why would you smoke something called pit bull? Now? I
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: know pitbulls aren't in the zoo, but they might need
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: to be. All right, You smoke weed that's named after
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: wild animals and go to the zoo, you start thinking
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: you a wild animal. Your damn self, all right, smoke
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: some weed named after a wild animal. Watch the live
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: action version of the Lion King. Now you just can't
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: wait to be king? All right? Do you know? In
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: one of the videos, she went into the giraffe enclosure
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: and wrote, literally, I have the same diet as a giraffe.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: First of all, I don't know if you have the
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: same diet as a giraffe, Maya, but you definitely were
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: as high as giraffe vagina. Now, a lot of her
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: friends are saying that she has snapped over the past
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: couple of years. There's some concerns that there may be
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: some mental health issues. Clearly something is wrong, because to me,
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: this is suicidal behavior. All right, this young woman needs help.
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: I don't think she should be arrested for trespassing because
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: that's what the police and the Bronx are looking for
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: her for right now. I believe she needs to be
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: picked up and given a psychological evaluation, because any person
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: that jumps in the line enclosure and says, I really
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: have not fear of nothing breathing. Animals can feel loved
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: just like humans. That lion does not love you more
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: than it loves to eat. That's what I need her
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: to know, all right, You lucky that lion was not hungry,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: or maybe that lion really was move foster and had
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: some compassion and empathy. You're another ass because I need
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: to tell the rest of us something. She said, Animals
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: can feel love like humans, as if her showing love
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: would have kept her from being lunch if that lion
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: was hungry. Understand this, If you expect the world to
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: be fair with you because you are fair, you're fooling yourself.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: That's like expecting the lion not to eat you because
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: you didn't eat the lion. Let me tell you something, Maya,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: if you place your head in the lion's mouth, then
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: you cannot complain one day if it happens to bite
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: it off. You're lucky. You're not dead right now? And
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: now that you have lived to see you another day,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: we need you to get some help. Okay, if you know,
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: Maya encourage her to get some help. I really wish
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: the police weren't looking for her for trustpassing, because she's
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: not a criminal a right. The only person she seemed
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: to be a threat to was herself. So let's approach
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: this situation a little different. Okay, this is this is
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: a crime, you know, technically because of the trust passing,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: but she clearly needs some help. Now before I give
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: her the biggest he hall, let's play a game of yes,
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: what race it as? I hate no envias for this one.
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: I'm ready for this one. Okay, I'm gonna give you
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: the few clues. Okay, all right, Maya archery the props,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: the PX baby smoking a little weed, jumps in the
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: line enclosure uh starts sending out quotes like I am
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: one with the animals. Okay, guess what race it is?
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: So with me? And ye you're excited? All right? All right,
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: all right now I'm been breaking this down. I've been
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: writing everything down, writing the clothes down. I am at
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: one with the peat with the animals. Right, that's a
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: white person phrase. Don't go white yet though, jumps in
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: the cage with a lion. That's a white person thing, right, Okay, okay,
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: eats like a giraffe. That's a white person thing. Definitely.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: This is what threw me off listening to Big Pun.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: She was listening the Big Punt. Not think white people
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: don't listen to Big Pun. But then I didn't play
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: that part yet anto I heard that part, okay, all right,
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: but I heard a listening to the Big Punting album.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: I don't mean nothing. No hip hop is pop coaching,
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: all right. It depends what song was. It was it
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: an album, it was still not a player. I was
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: gonna play a remix, right. So with all that being said,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: other than the post where the post where she posted
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: seems a little like an urban post, I would have
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: to say, why why put you in your face? You
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: say the word? Did you just say? It? Sound like
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: an urban post and black post? Yeah, black like with
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: black slate. Really you know what I mean? Sounds like
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: somebody would have posted anyway. But white people, all right,
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: your people, No, No, you ain't Dominican. The more you white, ye, yes,
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: whya Autrey the bronze smoking weed jumps in the line
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: enclosure and a giraffe enclosure. Yes, what race it is?
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: I'm a guest that she was white, because we're not
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: jumping in tho cage. That's what I said. Eat like
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: a giraffe and one with the with the animals. That's white. Okay,
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: well we have we do have a clip of Maya
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: Autrey talking. Uh. This is a big clue. I should
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: have played it earlier. I think it may have helped
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: y'all with your decisions. Can we hear Maya Autrey? I'm
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: in a box like you already knows. This weekend, this
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: light birthday game, I was four nine thirty shot outs
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: to nine thirty up when the building all the leivers
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: is lit. When a builder shot outs to the Bronx
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: win up builder shot up like Paul ween Up. Building
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: is lit, Gang Gang, bronxwing and bolting. The birthday is committed,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: and I'm about to go around with Mother Nature and
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: all a good part of our life. Welcome to heaven. Gang, Yeah,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: and envy. Before y'all turn, y'all test in, y'all can
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: change y'all answer my answer? She said, Gang Gang, it
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: is gonna be lit. I'm gonna with the animals. Come on, bro,
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: she's black. Now I'm gonna say she's next mixed. She
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: said gang Gang is about to be lit. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: go out on a limb and say this is pure
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  Speaker 1: Nigga at work. Please let Remy Mak give my autry
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  Speaker 1: the biggest heat. Hall he ha, he ha. Who's stupid? Dumb?
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  Speaker 1: I got that wrong? Oh I love us even when
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: we just saw goddamn stupid. Oh my goodness. Wow, can
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: I see her picture of Volte please? I bet you'd
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: be looking at her picture saying, yeah, she looks really Irvan.
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  Speaker 1: How does she hop the game? She's pretty tall? Wow?
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  Speaker 1: All right? I was wrong, I mean I was wrong.
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  Speaker 1: All right? Are you ripping up your test? Yes? Man,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: I got that one wrong. Up his test? Come on,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: now a person jump into a lion? Lions? Then? Who
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: does that? You don't recognize urban like you used. I
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: think what threw me off was, um, what the one
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: with the animal thing? Because he didn't say it like
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: how he should have said it. But what you mean
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: you know, I didn't know it was like her birthday.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: I didn't know she screamed out gang gang. She said
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: gang gag. But she screamed out gang gang guys like
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: that's it right there, all right? Anyway, asking his next
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  Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five, one oh five. What we're
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: doing is ask you differently what we're doing you. So
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: yesterday we had a call of calling and it was
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: alarming to me and she was talking about a situation
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: that has to do with domestic violence. All right, And
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: we do have a clinical psychologist, doctor Jasper, who helps
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: me out a lot. Sometimes there's things that's above me
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: that I know people need help immediately. That's professional. And
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: so I'm gonna have him give his take because I
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: actually referred her to him yesterday. All right, So it's
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: about to be late. We'll get into that when we
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep a real what you here's some real
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: advice with Angela Ye's ask Ye morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club's
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: time for ask Ye. And today it's a little bit
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: different today because we have all some updates of some
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: people that called previously, right ye, Yes, we had a
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: caller yesterday and she's in an abuse relationship with her
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: child's father. They have a young child together, and hair
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: is an update of what happened on that call yesterday.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: So I have this X and we've been kind of
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: I guess stating for like about a year and a
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: half now, and we actually have like a four month
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: old son. Okay, but I really need to break up
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: with him because at this point, like your relationship is
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: getting abusive. Oh so he's physically putting his hands on you,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: not frequently. At first, it was just a whole lot
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: of verbal things, like seeing some of the deepest shot
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: I've ever heard everybody say to me. And then like, um,
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: once when I was pregnantized you know, I had I
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: had just had surgery, and me and him got into
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: it and he like pulled me by my hair and
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: smacked me. Wow. So that was like the first time
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: that like he's like actually like but hitting. And then
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: we just got into it about a week ago and
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: he punched me, Like, oh my god. All right, Well,
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: now we have doctor Jasper on the line. Now. I
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: did refer her to doctor Jasper, who has spoken with her,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: and you know, just not to give away too much
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: of what their conversation was about, Doctor Jasper there's a
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: lot of women who are going through similar things where
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: they're in a situation where they feel like they're stuck
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: with somebody who maybe they have a child together, or
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: maybe they feel like they're in love, and that person
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: is physically abusive to them. And we've seen that happen
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: sometimes to family members of people close to us, and
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: sometimes we feel like, what can we do when we're
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: in that situation or we know someone in that situation?
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: So today I want to talk about some actionable steps
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: that people can do when they feel stuck. But what's
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: going on? So now you spoke to this, you spoke
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: to this lady that what's going on? Man? Well, I
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: spoke to and without going in great detail, I think
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: probably better to speak to what Angela was talking about
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: a little bit about, you know, what are some of
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: the things that people can do. First thing I want
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: to say is that everybody's situation is different. And what
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: I mean by that is, you know, physical abuse is
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: physical abuse, and I'm not here to talk about, you know,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: sort of the levels, whether it's a smack, a kick,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: or punch something like that. But what I mean is
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: there are a lot of different reasons that people stay
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: in these relationships. So the first thing we need to
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: do is, you know, we're quick to judge somebody. I
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: can't believe that person is in this type of situation.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: You know, I can't believe you're gonna stay. You're stupid
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: for staying your dummy. It's not making sense. So it's
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: very quick to shame, judge, or critique somebody in that circumstance,
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: and as hard as that may be, that's something that
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: we definitely shouldn't do. You know, the first thing we
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: need to do is offer some level of support. Some
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: of it is about listening and trying to get a
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: better understanding of what's going on, and maybe through that
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: they will tell you or show you why they're staying.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: And a lot of people are too ashamed. You don't
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: want to tell somebody that this happened to you because
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: you feel ashamed that you allowed it to happen, or
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: you feel like you deserved it. Listen, some women walk
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: around feeling like they deserved it. That's the way that
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: and not just women. Let me say men and women
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: walk around feeling like they deserved it. They go as
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: far as to think that they can save the person
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: because it's my fault. I can help this person. Sometimes
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: they may break down crying like I have a problem,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: don't leave me, work with me. I'm a work in progress, slutely, absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: and you know. So there are a lot of things
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: that go on there, and everybody's circumstances different. The caller
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: yesterday has a small child, so there's some pressures they're
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: associated with Spain because we have a child together, very
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: small child together, you know, and we want to be
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: a family. So there are a lot of things that
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: happen in those circumstances. You know, that doesn't mean you
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: can't be honest with the person. You can be honest
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: with someone without judging them or shaving them right, and
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: then you can also talk to them about things like safety.
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  Speaker 1: What's a safety plan, you know, if you are intending
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: to leave, here's some of the steps. Here's where you
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: can go for some support. Maybe you can offer up
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: a level of support, because some of these folks aren't
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: leaving because it's a simple as I don't have anywhere
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: else to go, I don't have the finances. He's working,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: he supports us. What if he cuts off our financial
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: support and I need to be here because if not
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: my child is going to be out on the street
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: all day. He or she is controlling the bread. Like
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: I don't have any paper, I can't afford to leave.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: I've been isolated from my family right. I have family
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: members who don't want to deal with me because I've
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: allowed my partners to isolate me from from you, from them. So,
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: so what are some action about things that we can do?
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: So let's just say I'm in a relationship with somebody financially,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: I feel like I need to be there because we
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: have a kid together, we live together, he handles most
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: of the bills. And sometimes people feel like physical abuse
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: is how somebody shows that they love you. Actionable meaning
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: the person who's showing support or the person who's experiencing
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: the person and is experiencing it. What can I do? Like,
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: what are some things I can do when I feel
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: like I don't have the finances I don't want to
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: tell my family members. I feel like I love this
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: person and that he loves me, but he just has
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: a problem. What are some things that some steps that
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: I can start to take or things that I can
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: tell myself. Part of what you can do is start
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: immediately getting help. Right if nothing else. There are a
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: lot of support hotlines that are out there. The Domestic
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: Abuse hotline exists. That telephone number is eight hundred seven
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  Speaker 1: nine nine Safe. So that's the first step and they
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: give a lot of great advice on what to do next.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: So that's part of it. The second thing you give
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: you do is develop a safety plan. And this is
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: going to sound crazy. It has to be very detailed
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: and specific. And some of this you have to do
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: without the partner knowing about it, because of course that
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: may create some cause for concern or some retaliation. So
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: you almost have to move. You know, this is not
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: being funny, but you almost have to move like you're
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: the Witness Protection program. Be Able to set aside some
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: finances on your own to be able to make that move.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: Be Able to set aside a housing plan if that's
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: something that you want to do. Be able to talk
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: to some individuals who provide you a level of support.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: So if there is a time that you need to leave,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: you can call upon those individuals say hey, the time
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: is now, I'm gonna need you to help me move
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: my stuff, move me to a safe, undisclosed location, you know,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: maybe pick my children up from school. If that's the
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: case in terms of actual items that can be done. Now,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: of course, you can always encourage that individual or you
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: all as a couple to get help, to participate in treatment.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: All right, well hold on, we'll talk more with the
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: back when we come back. All right, don't move. It's
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Go morning, it's ask Ye the relationship
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: A right, need personal advice, just need real advice. Call
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: up now for ask Ye Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the Breakfast Club.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: We're talking to doctor Jasper now if he just joined us.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: A young lady called a couple of weeks ago and
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: had a problem in her relationship. Let's play a clip
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: of that call. So I have this X and we've
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: been kind of I guess stating for like about a
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: year and a half now, and we actually have like
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: a four month old son. Okay, but I really need
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: to break up with him because at this point, like
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: their relationship is getting abusive. So he's physically putting his
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: hands on you, not frequently. At first, it was just
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: a whole lot of verbal things, like seeing some of
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: the deepest shot I've ever heard everybody say to me
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: and then like, I'm once when I was pregnantized you know,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: I had I had just had surgery, and me and
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: him got into it and he like pulled me by
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: my hair and smacked me. Wow. So that was like
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: the first time that like he's like actually like bad hitting.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: And then we just got into it about a week
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: ago and he thankful, like, oh my god. Yeah. But
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: in the middle of ask ye, all right, we have
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: doctor Jasper on the line. Now you got a question, Yes,
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: doctor Jasper, is there every time you would advise somebody
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: to stay with someone that's put their hands in them
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: or do you think that's always a deal breaker you
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: gotta break up. I'm gonna be honest with you. Ye,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: I can't answer that question. You know me personally and
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: not professionally, I would instantly say no. I would instantly
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: personally say I don't think there's ever a time that
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: you stay with someone who consistently put their hands on you, right,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: And people may say, yeah, they're one off circumstances. You know,
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: we all have been in relationships and things get out
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: of control and there's some one offs that occurred where
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: things may get physical. You know, your lady your man. Well,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm going to talk as a man. Your
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: lady trying to put her hands on you maybe and
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: you want to stop because she's angry at you, and
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: we talk about it, and that's not a consistent circumstance.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: That may be a little different as long it's not perpetual.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: But I don't you know, professionally, I would say that
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: if it's something that has happened on a consistent basis,
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: then there's never a relationship that you should stay in. Well,
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: I just want to thank you, doctor Kendall Jasper for
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: always being there. I know you've helped out a lot
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: of our listeners who I've referred to you, And how
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: can people find you? Just in case they can't get
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: through on the line here and they want to know
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: where they can go for some help, because I know
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: you've been really instrumental you and your team. Shout out
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: to Canaan as well for making sure that people get
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: the help that they need or even just helping people
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: talk through certain situations. And you've been great to us
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: and to our listeners. I want to thank you for that.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: But how can people reach you? They can reach me
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: at DOC and to do at DC in da dud
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: and that's my social media handles or they can email
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: me at doc and to do one at gmail dot com.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: All right, so Doc and the due doc and da dude.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you so much. So we appreciate you
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: for continuing to be at you guys. Say and let
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: me just in with this real quick, right, one out
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: of three women deal with some form of I wanted
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: physical sexual type of advantage. Right, twenty five percent of
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: our population female population are in situation we're they're dealing
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: with physical abuse. And it's about thirteen percent for men.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: That's a lot of people, right, that is it's a lot.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of folks. So this is something that
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: we need to consistently talk about and create safe spaces
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: for people who are experiencing these things. No, I agree
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: with you. I've had to deal with, you know, my
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: own situations with people around me and their situations, and
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: so it's important for us to have patience with each other,
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: to not judge each other and not shame each other,
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: like you said, all day. All right, thank you, doctor Jasper,
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: Thank you, y'all. Have a go on YouTube, never bro
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: all right, ask ye eight hundred five A five one
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: on five one. Usually we do relationship advice, but today
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: you just wanted to do it update. Now we got
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: rooms on the way. Yes, let's talk about the Kardashians
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: and the Jenners. I guess you know the two of
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: them are equally famous. Now Kyi back with Tigers, Connie
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: back with Tiger. Well, no, we're gonna talk about a
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: new venture that they are launching. All right, we'll get
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: into that next. Keeping locks the Breakfast Club in the morning.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club. I want to everybody in DJ Envy, Angela, Guee, Charlomagne,
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: the guy. We all to Breakfast Club. Let's get to
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: the rumors. Let's talk Tiffany Hattish, She's filling the team.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: This is the rumor report with Angela Gyee on the
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Now we talked to earlier about Tiffany Hattish.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: She was on Ellen de Generous Show and she talked
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: about hooking up with a celebrity that no one knew
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: about it, and and she said that celebrity was Cheney. Well,
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: Cheney went on social media and said, now Tiffany Hattish knows,
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: damn Well, that's a lie. And since she lied, I'm
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: gonna tell the truth. She used to hook up at
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: my brother, not me, but she liked me. Hey, if
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: we're gonna lie, let's be honest. Well, just this morning,
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: about twenty minutes ago, Tiffany has responded and she said, no, honey,
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: I hooked up with them with him then his brother. Dang.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: I wish I still had my two way pager. So Tiffany,
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: she said, I'm gonna tell you how to treat. Don't
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: give a damn. I dig that because many men have
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: been doing that the women forever. You know what I'm saying.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: I smashed her and her friend. Well, she did say smashed.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: By the way. I just wanted to clarify the hookup
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: does not mean he smashed. She said she hooked up.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: That it could just mean kissed, It could just mean
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: made out, it could mean it doesn't have to mean
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: y'all have sex. I think it's a bunch of grown
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: people sitting around talking about who they kissed when they
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: was young. I mean Ellen Dejenners said that. Ellen Dejenners
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: asked the question, was there anybody that you ever did it?
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: And this is also like almost twenty years ago, so
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: that could have been what happened. I just don't want
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: to say they had sexes. That's not what explicitly what
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: he said. Both of them just ate me. I can't
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: say that she said that. Well she did it, but
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: you know, we don't know what it is, but them
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: just put their face in it. There you go, all right?
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: I liked it way you eat it right there. We
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  Speaker 1: know you're a big Chinney fan, Charlottagne. Now let's talk
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  Speaker 1: about Erica Campbell. And she was on the Tayman Hall
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  Speaker 1: Show and she talked about forgiving. We've been talking about
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  Speaker 1: forgiveness so much this morning, forgiving her husband's infidelity. Here's
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  Speaker 1: what she said. He told me that he had been unfaithful,
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  Speaker 1: and he told me that it had been years back,
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  Speaker 1: and he thought that if he just stopped and just
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  Speaker 1: kept moving forward, it would be fine. And he said
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  Speaker 1: he didn't have peace and he couldn't rest, and so
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  Speaker 1: we talked about it and it got dark. Of course, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm out. I can do this by myself.
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  Speaker 1: But then I begin to think about my permit me
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  Speaker 1: and what I said to God and how I said
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  Speaker 1: for better for us, And I asked myself, is he
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  Speaker 1: a mistake or did he make a mistake, and I
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  Speaker 1: believe he was a good man that made a mistake,
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  Speaker 1: all right, she said, she thinks he's a good man
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  Speaker 1: who made a mistake. And on that topic of forgiveness,
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  Speaker 1: Tyler Perry talks about forgiving his abusive father, and Tyler
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  Speaker 1: Perry also talks about the power of faith. He's on
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  Speaker 1: the cover of People magazine and he discusses the love
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  Speaker 1: from his mother and he also discusses how they both
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  Speaker 1: endured abuts from his father, Emmett Perry, him being a
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  Speaker 1: functional alcoholic. The thing is he would he would. He
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  Speaker 1: had an incredible work ethic and I promise I believe
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  Speaker 1: I get my work ethic from him. He worked day
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  Speaker 1: and night, rain, sleep snow, didn't matter as a as
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  Speaker 1: a contractor or a a subcontractor framing houses, but in the evening,
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  Speaker 1: come home and get drunk. Most of the times during
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  Speaker 1: the week because he was working, it was pretty quiet,
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  Speaker 1: but the weekends were when the hell would start. Friday,
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  Speaker 1: Center and Sunday, he would just be a whole other person. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: salute to Tyler Perry. That is a black man that
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  Speaker 1: I definitely had wrong and I did not appreciate him.
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  Speaker 1: In his contributions, to the culture when I was younger.
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  Speaker 1: But man, he's he the one to study now that
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  Speaker 1: I'm old and got some damn since right. But with
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  Speaker 1: Erica Campbell, isn't that all of us as men? Aren't
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  Speaker 1: all of us good men who make mistakes for the
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  Speaker 1: most part, not always. And some of y'all, and some
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  Speaker 1: of y'all have a pattern of behavior, And it's not
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  Speaker 1: just a mistake. You forgive somebody and then they keep
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  Speaker 1: on doing it over and over and over again, and
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  Speaker 1: that happens also. You know, it's just a risk you
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  Speaker 1: have to take if you take somebody back. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know if it's a one time mistake or if it's
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  Speaker 1: a continuing pattern of behavior. I need you to forgive
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  Speaker 1: me the where you forgive Amber Geiger, all right, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I made a mistake, Alright, Some cases deserve forgiveness and
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  Speaker 1: some don't know. I'm just playing. I'm playing along with you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going about your logic. If I made a mistake,
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  Speaker 1: and even if it was a big mistake, I deserve
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  Speaker 1: to be forgiven. Right. Forgiveness also doesn't mean that you
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  Speaker 1: have to stay with the person. It just means I
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  Speaker 1: forgive you for what you did to me. All I'm
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  Speaker 1: simply saying is I feel like I have. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: good man who has made some mistakes in my life.
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  Speaker 1: I forget as a husband. I forgive every guy who
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  Speaker 1: ever cheated on me. I just don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: said I forgive you. What are you talking about? No,
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  Speaker 1: I think you need to raise your hand with me.
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  Speaker 1: I look, why are we talking about? Why are we
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  Speaker 1: talking about this old stuff? I don't want to talk
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  Speaker 1: about old stuff. Yes, I was talking about Tyler Perry. Okay. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Tyler Perry also says that this whole situation, he actually
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  Speaker 1: feels like the abuse and everything is what led to
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  Speaker 1: him getting involved with writing and getting lost in his imagination.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't realize that at the time, but that's where
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  Speaker 1: my gift to right came from. It was in the
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  Speaker 1: heartache and the hell, in the pain, being sexual, whatever
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  Speaker 1: was happening at the time. In my mind, I could
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  Speaker 1: go and be somewhere else. Now looking at where I am, now,
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: that's where I go to right people. Oprah calls me
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: a sabant affectionately because I was sitting out right the
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  Speaker 1: twenty five episodes of the shows in two weeks. She's like,
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  Speaker 1: how do you do that? How do you sit and
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  Speaker 1: do that? And it's because of that happening to me
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: as a child, using my imagination, I could create these
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: worlds and stay there for hours. Now, Tyler Perry says
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  Speaker 1: that he has forgiven his father, and he also has
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  Speaker 1: learned that it wasn't even his biological father. He learned
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  Speaker 1: that when he was forty one years old. I think
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  Speaker 1: it's easy to forgive parents because you realize that parents
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  Speaker 1: be dealing with their own issues as well. Like you know,
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  Speaker 1: I think about my father, he dealt with self disabuses
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  Speaker 1: issues and mental health issues. So you know, when you
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  Speaker 1: realize that, you realize he was just doing the best
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  Speaker 1: he could. Yeah, there's no manual for and kids, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean, just trying to figure it out,
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  Speaker 1: all right, right? And we TV is prepping another reality
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: show and this one is about Hollywood parents. Since you're
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: talking about parents. So according to the Jasmine Brand, they
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  Speaker 1: exclusively have reported the Ray J and Princess Love will
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  Speaker 1: be on the show along with their daughter. Melody. Massica
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  Speaker 1: will also be on the show. She has a daughter
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  Speaker 1: with Fetti Wapp and Too Short and his daughter. You know,
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: we just told you he had a daughter for the
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  Speaker 1: first time, his first kid at the age of fifty three.
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  Speaker 1: They'll be on the show as well. All right, I'm
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  Speaker 1: Angela Yee and that is your rumor report. All right,
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  Speaker 1: I want to say happy born day to the rever
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  Speaker 1: now Shopton too man, dropping the clues bombs for rever
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  Speaker 1: Now Today is Borne day time. Don't forget to drop
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  Speaker 1: the bomb Drom. I'm sure he's in the gym right now.
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  Speaker 1: Rubber now now in the gym two three hours ago. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I was looking at his IRG and listen sleut to
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  Speaker 1: Variety magazine too, man. They put me on the twenty
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  Speaker 1: nineteen New Power of New York lists. All right, dropping
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  Speaker 1: the clues bomb for Variety Magazine. A chance. We'll check
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  Speaker 1: out that list on Variety dot com. All right, we're
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  Speaker 1: vote and congrats on that list. Revote. Will see tomorrow
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  Speaker 1: everybody else to People's Choice mixes up next, Let's go morning.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club now very a great conversation earlier
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: about Amber guy Ger in a situation again, Rest in
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: please to the Gene family again. Rest in peace of
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: the John family. Very sad, very very sad. I could
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: never imagine losing a brother, a sister, a family member
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: or anything like that. Very very sad. Yes, and I
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: still believe that this is Christianity's impact on the African
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: descendence of slaves. You know what I mean. I mean,
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: the impact that Christianity did on slaves back in the
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: day will never cease to amaze me. And that PTSD,
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: that post traumatic slaves, all that has been passed on
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  Speaker 1: to us because we love our press is regardless of
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: what they do to us. It seems to me like
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: we only forgive white folks, but we cancel each other
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  Speaker 1: all day, every day. And in that courtroom, I saw
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  Speaker 1: a yes, master, we sick man. We're going to jail
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  Speaker 1: for ten years master type situation. That's what I saw
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  Speaker 1: that house. Me though, all right, well when we come back,
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  Speaker 1: we got your positive note. Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Morning morning. Everybody is DJ M v Angela. Yee, Charlomagne
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  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. You guys, have
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: a great day. We'll see you to morrow. Charalleomagne, you
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  Speaker 1: got a positive note. Oh and we gotta shout out
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  Speaker 1: to Charlomagne. He made this new Power of New York
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  Speaker 1: list of twenty nineteen according to Variety, So congratulations to that.
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  Speaker 1: Janet Mox on the list, Jennifer Lopez, Jesus and Marrow,
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  Speaker 1: Craig Melvin, Edward Norton, Scarlett Johansson, Tamman Hall, Kekey Palmer,
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  Speaker 1: and Charlemagne. Okay, dope, Congratulations to my guys, Jess Luta,
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  Speaker 1: Craig Melviourne. To you know, Craig Melviourne is a is
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  Speaker 1: a product of South Carolina. When I was doing radio
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: on Hot one or three nine in Columbia, South Carolina,
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: where we're syndicated on now, Craig was doing the news
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: on WIS TV in Columbia, South Carolina. And back then
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: in two thousand and four, the state newspaper but in
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  Speaker 1: Colombia listed me and Craig as two of the top
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  Speaker 1: people under the age of thirty in the arts in
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  Speaker 1: South Carolina. And now we're on this twenty nineteen Power
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  Speaker 1: in New York lists together. So it's very interesting how
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  Speaker 1: how how God works, how things come full circle. So
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  Speaker 1: sleut to my guy, Craig Melbourne. I will never release
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: the pictures of you in the club with me on
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: my birthday parties from back in the day. Craig, I'm
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: gonna keep that tucked. Greg, alright, alright, Well you got
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  Speaker 1: a positive note, Yes, The positive note is Timing is everything.
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  Speaker 1: If it's meant to happen, it will at the right
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  Speaker 1: time for the right reasons. Always trust God because God's
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  Speaker 1: timing is perfect. Breakfast club finish for y'all. Dune