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The Payton Shannon Showdown: Is this friendship OVER? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Peyton's like on her phone trying to talk to her.
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  Speaker 1: We're trying to plant stuff out, and you're like you're
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  Speaker 1: on your phone, not stop more than usual. Quiet.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like a little stressed out over here because I
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  Speaker 4: got a text message from one of my friends who's
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  Speaker 4: like kind of upset about me, about like the wedding stuff.
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  Speaker 4: And yeah, she's like upset that she wasn't there and
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  Speaker 4: that I didn't tell her.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't know. I like I get it. But
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  Speaker 3: then again, like time and place, right.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, I feel like we need the backstory.
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  Speaker 4: Well, so I guess the backstory is, well, you guys
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  Speaker 4: all know, I like basically found out that I was
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  Speaker 4: getting married, like not even a week before we ended
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  Speaker 4: up doing it.
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  Speaker 3: And we didn't even.
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  Speaker 4: Decide until like two days before we actually did it
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  Speaker 4: that we.
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  Speaker 3: Were going to go through and invite our friends and
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  Speaker 3: our family. It originally October, right, it was like a
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  Speaker 3: whole thing.
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  Speaker 1: You were asking people to be your brother.
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  Speaker 4: I had a big bridal party. She was in a
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  Speaker 4: part of my bridal party, but half of my bridal
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  Speaker 4: party wasn't there. And a big reason of that is
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  Speaker 4: because the people that were. There were the people that
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  Speaker 4: were originally gonna go anyways without our family, you get
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  Speaker 4: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: So they had a plan for Vegas.
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  Speaker 4: Anyway, right, They had already booked their flights in their
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  Speaker 4: hotels before we even told our mom and dads that
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  Speaker 4: we were going to get married.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm not going to tell them they can't come.
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  Speaker 4: And there's about four or five girls that are in
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  Speaker 4: my bridal party that I wanted to surprise with the pictures.
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  Speaker 4: But she had texted me literally like as I was
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  Speaker 4: walking down the aisle. And we've gone back and forth
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  Speaker 4: a couple over the last couple of days, So I
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  Speaker 4: don't know.
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  Speaker 5: So mad because she was part of your original ceremony
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  Speaker 5: that was supposed to happen in October, and she wasn't
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  Speaker 5: part of the spur of the moment Vegas ceremony, right, And.
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  Speaker 4: I told her, I was like, it was super last second,
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  Speaker 4: and she was like, well, I understand it's last second,
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  Speaker 4: but why why wouldn't you just text me and tell me?
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  Speaker 4: And I'm like, well, I wanted it to be a surprise,
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  Speaker 4: And I said, but I didn't even get the opportunity
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  Speaker 4: to tell you that it was a surprise because you
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  Speaker 4: texted me as I'm taking pictures with Indea, like now
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  Speaker 4: itwhere because she saw it on Instagram. I think she
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  Speaker 4: thinks I got married on Friday and I did.
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  Speaker 1: It, okay, So you just try to re spit this
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  Speaker 1: out to you as a guy. You asked a girl
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  Speaker 1: to be in your wedding party in October. She said, yes,
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  Speaker 1: you had an emergency wedding. We all know the story
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  Speaker 1: behind it. And you did not ask her to be
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  Speaker 1: in this wedding party.
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  Speaker 3: Correct, Well, I just didn't tell her.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't tell her, but you had. There's other people
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  Speaker 1: that are in the wedding party that were that, so
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  Speaker 1: I can kind of see.
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  Speaker 5: You can kind of see, except for like and Peyton
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  Speaker 5: was super stressed out because they had given her a
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  Speaker 5: twenty person max for the van.
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  Speaker 1: I totally get it. I told I told you. But
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  Speaker 1: I think when you were in the wedding party, you're
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  Speaker 1: in partner enough. I would think there's people that didn't
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  Speaker 1: get invited because they were just going to be at
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  Speaker 1: the wedding, like wedding.
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  Speaker 3: Party family members that weren't even invited.
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  Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, but when you have your wedding party,
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  Speaker 1: those are obviously the people are most close to you.
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  Speaker 1: So at some point she felt close to you and
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  Speaker 1: then and then now she's not. So I can kind
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  Speaker 1: of see.
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  Speaker 3: What she wouldn't be.
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  Speaker 1: I would not be texting. I mean, I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: get I'm trying to get it to her point of view.
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  Speaker 1: What is her name?
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  Speaker 3: Her name is Shannon?
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Can we call her and
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  Speaker 1: hear her point of view?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, it might be good to get clarity.
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  Speaker 4: I have so many mixed feelings about it because it's like,
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  Speaker 4: for one, like I said, I understand, but for two,
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  Speaker 4: like why would you try to take me out of
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  Speaker 4: my moment on cloud nine? Like you could have just
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  Speaker 4: left it out. Hey, I'm really happy for you. Congratulations.
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  Speaker 4: Let's go for drinks when you get home and then
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  Speaker 4: tell me how.
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  Speaker 2: You feel you.
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  Speaker 1: Can we call her, Let's call her in your point
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  Speaker 1: of view, paint Sometimes it's important to hear another Parson.
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  Speaker 1: There's three sides to every story. There's peytonside, Shannon's side,
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  Speaker 1: and the truth that's profound. I think we listened to
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  Speaker 1: her story. Listen to your story. We already heard your
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  Speaker 1: story and you, guys, let you guys talk it out
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  Speaker 1: and then maybe we could take a poll.
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  Speaker 6: Who was.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, no matter what, to me, you're the winner.
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  Speaker 1: It's your your right, it's your wedding. You're right tough.
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  Speaker 1: But I like the ball because I remember when Richie
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  Speaker 1: got married. You said people are pissed to you. That
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  Speaker 1: blows up. So they will call those people after we call.
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  Speaker 2: Like a week ago, somebody came up to a we
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  Speaker 2: were at dinner and said, I was so hurt that
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  Speaker 2: I was an idea your wedding.
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  Speaker 1: I just kid, that blows my mind. All right, So
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna call Shannon, the girl that is hurt that
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  Speaker 1: did she didn't get vite of the Peyton's wedding, and
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  Speaker 1: that is next. We got Jay Rich Good one four
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  Speaker 1: seven Kiss FM.
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  Speaker 6: John J.
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  Speaker 1: Rich. Here's what's going on. Peyton got married a few
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  Speaker 1: days ago, surprise wedding, so she had to make some
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  Speaker 1: decisions really fast. She didn't have to pay for the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: It was in Las Vegas. It was really cool. It's
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  Speaker 1: all over the news and day it was there. It
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  Speaker 1: was a very very cool moment. And all of us
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  Speaker 1: are happy for Peyton. We weren't there. We get it
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  Speaker 1: is a very cool moment. But here's what happened. Peyton.
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  Speaker 1: If I'm you're walking down the aisle, you get a
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  Speaker 1: text from a girl that was supposed to be at
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  Speaker 1: your wedding in October. She found out because you had
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  Speaker 1: other friends that were posting about it. She felt left off.
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  Speaker 1: She was pissed off. You would hear been going back
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  Speaker 1: and forth. And I asked you, can we call Shannon?
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  Speaker 1: You said yes, yeah, you could call her.
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  Speaker 4: I'm nervous, hopefully, I don't know she knows that she
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  Speaker 4: I'm sure she'll see the caller ID and maybe not
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  Speaker 4: even want to answer.
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  Speaker 1: Let's call.
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  Speaker 6: Show.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, Shannon, it's John Jay and Rich. Can we
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  Speaker 1: put you on the radio.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, let's do this.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. I'm glad you're Oh, let's do this. Okay, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I just want to tell you. We're trying to
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  Speaker 1: do some stuff on the show. And I can see
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  Speaker 1: Peyton distracted and she's on her phone frantically texting with
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  Speaker 1: her very expensive nails, and I say, what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: And she told us what's going on? And if you
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  Speaker 1: don't mind, we'd like to get your point. We already
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  Speaker 1: heard her point of view. We'd like to hear your
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  Speaker 1: point of view and then kind of like go from
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  Speaker 1: there if that's okay.
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  Speaker 6: I know it was Peyton's big day. I know that.
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  Speaker 6: I just I'm just being honest about how I feel,
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  Speaker 6: which is a little hurt, I mean, actually very hurt.
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  Speaker 6: I'm confused, So I don't know what else to say
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  Speaker 6: about that, and confused, hurt and confused that you know,
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  Speaker 6: she wouldn't want her friends there and around her and
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  Speaker 6: wouldn't even bother to tell me, you know, and that
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  Speaker 6: she seems to like really be digging in about this
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  Speaker 6: and her perspective, which is that I've done something wrong
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  Speaker 6: by just like honestly voicing my opinions. I mean, I'm
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  Speaker 6: not trying to be dramatic. It was just a really
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  Speaker 6: I don't know, it was a really shocking way to
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  Speaker 6: find out this friend that you were so close, I mean,
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  Speaker 6: we are close. We're so close. She asked you to
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  Speaker 6: be in her wedding party. And to find out that way,
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  Speaker 6: I mean it's like, I don't know, if you watch
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  Speaker 6: cop dramas or you know, in real life police like
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  Speaker 6: they don't release the name to press if there's like
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  Speaker 6: a death or a murder because they don't want people
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  Speaker 6: to find out that way, like before the family is notified.
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  Speaker 3: It felt like that.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I know that's dramatic, but it felt like that.
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  Speaker 4: Like I said when I was texting you, like I
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  Speaker 4: understand why your feelings would be hurt, my feelings would
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  Speaker 4: be hurt too.
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  Speaker 3: But what I need you to understand is.
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  Speaker 4: Like I feel like I always have to constantly explain
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  Speaker 4: myself to you and why I moved the way that
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  Speaker 4: I do, And at the end of the day, I
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  Speaker 4: feel like you should just be happy for me and
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  Speaker 4: happy for Kadem. And when you texted me, I was
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  Speaker 4: literally walking down the aisle. I got married at ten
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  Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning, and at ten thirty seven that
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  Speaker 4: text message from you came through, and that.
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  Speaker 3: Was the first thing that I saw.
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  Speaker 4: And you're saying that I've been married and that I
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  Speaker 4: didn't tell it, and you found out online when I
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  Speaker 4: didn't even get the opportunity to tell you that I
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  Speaker 4: was married, because when I went to open up my
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  Speaker 4: phone and text you and send you the pictures, that
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  Speaker 4: was the message that I saw.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, and I'm really sorry about that timing. I get
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  Speaker 6: that now, I realized that, But who gets married at
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  Speaker 6: ten am. Of course I thought it was the day before.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I didn't.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't know you just like got married and posted
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  Speaker 6: it right, I mean it was the morning.
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  Speaker 4: It went viral, Babe. That wasn't even my choice. Like literally,
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  Speaker 4: the first person that I called was John Jay, and
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  Speaker 4: I said, Hey.
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  Speaker 3: How are we gonna How are we gonna go about this.
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  Speaker 1: Person that I caught?
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  Speaker 4: But it was like, it was like, what do I
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  Speaker 4: do here? Because it's like do we wait to tell
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  Speaker 4: everyone on the show on Monday? Or I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: Zendaya's here. There's a ton of paparazzi, Like how do
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  Speaker 4: we how do we manage this? And I feel like
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  Speaker 4: our entire friendship, I feel like it's always me who
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  Speaker 4: I'm hanging out with. You if you don't like them,
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  Speaker 4: I can't hang out with them. When at the end
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  Speaker 4: of the day, it's like it's never really that deep.
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  Speaker 4: And I get it and I understand, but like time
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  Speaker 4: and place, and that's the message that you sent me
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  Speaker 4: all of the other four people who are also in
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  Speaker 4: my wedding, just like you. I went to go text
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  Speaker 4: the group chat but didn't because you sent me that number,
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  Speaker 4: so I or that message. So I texted them all
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  Speaker 4: separately and their first comment was, Oh my gosh, I'm
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  Speaker 4: so excited and so happy for you.
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  Speaker 3: So it kind of sucks.
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  Speaker 4: Out of all of the people in my life, you
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  Speaker 4: were the only one that had a problem with it.
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  Speaker 6: Well, No, I'm sure they had a problem with it too.
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  Speaker 6: I'm sure they were hurt and they just sucked it up.
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  Speaker 4: And I feel like you should have sucked it up too,
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  Speaker 4: because at the end of the day, like that was
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  Speaker 4: my moment and that was my day.
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  Speaker 2: I kind of.
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  Speaker 6: Celebrated that was a publicity sun. That was a publicity
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  Speaker 6: sun instead of your day that was a capitalist commercial gain.
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  Speaker 6: Sure I would not like, No, that's like, that's star behavior.
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  Speaker 6: I'm saying to hear more about Zendia being there. That's
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  Speaker 6: just I'm just telling you how I feel because I'm angry.
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  Speaker 4: Were you angry because you weren't there to get a
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  Speaker 4: picture with Zendeia, because that's the energy that it's giving.
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  Speaker 6: No, I'm angry because I have been imagining being at
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  Speaker 6: your wedding for months, and because we've been friends for
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  Speaker 6: a long time and we talked about our weddings and
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  Speaker 6: when I get married, when you get married, and we're
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  Speaker 6: going to be there for each other, and so just
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  Speaker 6: like to just find out, like I'm telling you, it
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  Speaker 6: felt like a death. It was so shocking and so sad.
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  Speaker 6: I guess maybe it's the death of our friendship.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, Hey, if you truly feel that way,
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  Speaker 4: like I said, I understand. But the fact of the matter, Shannon,
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  Speaker 4: I didn't even get the opportunity to tell you myself
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  Speaker 4: because you jumped to conclusions and you are very loud
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  Speaker 4: about your wrong opinion.
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  Speaker 3: Or I shouldn't say wrong. I shouldn't say wrong opinion
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  Speaker 3: because your opinion.
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  Speaker 4: Is your own, but you are very loud about something
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  Speaker 4: that you didn't know the right facts on.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I'm sorry. I didn't know what time you
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  Speaker 6: got married. All I know is that I opened my
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  Speaker 6: phone and I watched one of my best friends get
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  Speaker 6: married without me there when she told me I was
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  Speaker 6: going to be in her wedding.
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  Speaker 4: And like I said, oh, I'm sorry, I understand, and
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  Speaker 4: I get you, and I hear you, and your feelings
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  Speaker 4: are absolutely valid. But at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 4: you've got to understand where I'm coming from and how
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  Speaker 4: much of a whirlwind this has been for me. But
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  Speaker 4: the reality of it is, dude, is that I constantly
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  Speaker 4: have to explain myself to you over and over and
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  Speaker 4: over again. And I don't think that that's fair.
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  Speaker 3: You're not my man.
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  Speaker 4: You feel me like, I don't need to explain things
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  Speaker 4: to you over and over and over again.
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  Speaker 6: Talk to each other and need to help someone when
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  Speaker 6: you're getting married. So I'm just not okay.
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  Speaker 1: I think we're going around in circles here. I just
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  Speaker 1: wanted I wanted to hear your painton shedding your point
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  Speaker 1: of view.
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  Speaker 3: I hope this isn't the end of the faship.
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  Speaker 2: You should be bigger, your friendship should be bigger than
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  Speaker 2: this moment of miscommunications.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you something I agree with Peyton
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  Speaker 1: one hundred percent, which I'd never agree with Peyton, so real.
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  Speaker 4: Position, my aunts couldn't even be there, my grandpa wasn't there.
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  Speaker 5: You're so stressed about that. And and honestly, like Shanna,
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  Speaker 5: you don't know this. This was behind the scenes, and
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  Speaker 5: like Peyton did not have time, like there were people
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  Speaker 5: in her own family that weren't able to come because
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  Speaker 5: of the constraints that this was given to her with.
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  Speaker 5: And so it's like she was put in a really
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  Speaker 5: stressful position and it was like insanely fast paced, so
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  Speaker 5: she couldn't go through her entire like wedding invite list,
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  Speaker 5: and like, I don't know if that gives you any understanding.
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  Speaker 5: I know it doesn't really change or make the situation
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  Speaker 5: better for you, but it was like it I don't
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  Speaker 5: I would try not to take it personally because it
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  Speaker 5: wasn't like she was like specifically, I'm definitely not calling shit.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling, not telling like I wanted to tell you.
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  Speaker 1: Also, how phone walking down the aisle Peyton.
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  Speaker 4: Put your phone on, Well, I just know the time
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  Speaker 4: stamps from all the videos or in that message. I
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  Speaker 4: didn't get to my phone until about eleven fifteen.
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  Speaker 2: Well would be cool is once Peyton explains her side,
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  Speaker 2: if you're her friend, you're like, oh, now I get it.
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  Speaker 2: Then you drop the be in her cart because really
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  Speaker 2: you don't want to make her feel bad because you
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  Speaker 2: feel bad she's the.
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  Speaker 4: Bride, right because I feel at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 4: then that's making it about you and it's kind of not.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I get that.
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  Speaker 1: Every throne line is ringing right now eight seven seven
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  Speaker 1: ninety three, seven one oh four seven, lots of people
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  Speaker 1: different opinions, So we might call you back, or you
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  Speaker 1: just might turn on the radio and listen to what
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  Speaker 1: everyone's saying if they're on your side or not to
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  Speaker 1: get your side.
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  Speaker 4: And I love you and I hope that this doesn't
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  Speaker 4: come in between us because this is insane.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, I just it makes me sad. It just makes
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  Speaker 6: me really sad that you know, you weren't surrounded by
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  Speaker 6: all your friends and family.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I also when Peyton, I was the first
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  Speaker 1: person Payton called and just to let you know. When
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  Speaker 1: I picked up the phone call, I was like, who
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  Speaker 1: is this hap she since Pago, how did you get
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  Speaker 1: my numbers? I just got married and she got married?
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  Speaker 1: It was I was like, who is this?
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  Speaker 3: That is information you don't want John Jay to add.
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  Speaker 3: That doesn't tell you where my mind is always at.
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  Speaker 1: Shannon, thank you for listening.