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Chris Okafor Apologises To Doris Ogala After She Threatened To Expose His Love Child · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bantu Lorencia.
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  How are you all doing? You're doing great.
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about this saga between
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  Pastor Crystal Carfo and Nollywood actress Doris or Gala.
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  As we all know, Pastor Crystal Carfo thought he could
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  manipulate everybody. He thought he has the power, he
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  has the influence, he has the money, he has people around him
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  and obviously he has the anointing.
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  Allegedly, Doris Ogalla has been pressing Pastor Chris Okafor's
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  neck. The latest before now was that
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  Pastor Chris Okafor was threatening to soothe very dark
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  man and Doris Ogalla for defamation.
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  And this was after his daughters came out and accused him of
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  sexually assaulting them, allegedly.
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  Now a lot of pastors started coming out to kind of criticise
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  Pastor Crystal Gala, Pastor Crystal Car for because Inido
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  released the movie A Very Dirty Christmas and Cannes Christian
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  Association of Nigeria came out and asked Inido to pull down the
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  movie because that goes against the body of Christ.
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  People said what a movie that is not even about pastors.
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  It's just a family movie that is based on Christian Christmas,
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  family coming together during Christmas.
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  Obviously we know that when families gather, there's always
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  going to be, you know, words thrown around.
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  People started criticising Cannes and other pastors for not
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  coming out to say anything. Then pastors started coming out
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  one after the other to say something.
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  Even the man that introduced Pastor Chris Okafor to the man,
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  Matthew Ashimolow that married him and his wife Pearl, came out
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  and said that when this whole thing came out and was, you
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  know, going on online, he actually called Pastor Chris
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  Okafor to say, are these things true?
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  He said Pastor Chris Okafor said, oh, he's going to explain
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  to him everything that is going on at, you know, the right time.
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  He said he said, OK, no problem because he was even outside the
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  country. Then all he said that morning,
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  that was Pastor Chris Okafor's wedding day, that Chris Okafor
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  did not even mention that he was getting married to Pearl.
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  And it was the pastor, his own pastor, that he introduced
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  Crystal Kafo to that married them.
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  So he said he felt betrayed that even if they were not like that
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  close, you know, you didn't even invite me to the wedding.
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  So I think that with the whole drama between VDM and Doris
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  Ogalla and his children was beginning to, you know, closing
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  on Pastor Crystal Carrefour. He then reached out to Doris
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  Ogalla. They met.
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  He gave her $10,000 promising to give more if she comes out and
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  say that Pastor Chris, that he Pastor Chris Oca for everything
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  she said about him were lies and she should pin it on another
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  pastor to say OK, this pastor paid me this amount of money to
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  tarnish your image. I think if he had paid Doris
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  Ogala $50,000, Doris would have been singing a different tune.
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  But he paid $10,000. And Doris felt insulted.
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  What she did next after she learned that he was suing her
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  and Pastor Chris and a video she released a video of a child
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  because before now it was alleged that Pastor Chris Okafor
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  had so many people that he promised marriage to, he did not
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  marry them. There's a particular girl that
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  allegedly has a child for him. Doris Ocala shared the child and
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  according to her, she had gotten her four pregnant four different
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  times. She has done 4 different
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  abortions that that child is the fifth one.
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  Let me just play that video for you to to hear what she has to
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  say. Now you're picking videos so you
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  know, get another one. Now you're sonal videos so crazy
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  see your son No, hey, boom won't come putting me sign.
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  I won't release now Now you're picking videos so you don't get
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  another one. Now you're picking videos.
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  So hey, yeah, it's another victim that came to me.
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  She's she's the owner of that 2 year old boy.
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  If I bring out the face. Of that boy, if you would tell
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  me who he looks like. This one had had four abortions.
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  For this fifth one, here's another victim.
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  She's with me now. You'll be hearing her stories
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  soon. You'll be hearing her story.
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  Her story is even worse than my story.
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  Very pathetic. Allegedly, the woman came out
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  with her full chest. Her face is there.
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  We could see the child. That child is about, let's say,
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  you know, maximum five years old.
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  She's had four abortions for pasta.
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  Crystal Carrefour. Now when Pastor Crystal Kafo saw
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  this, and according to Doris Ogalla, there are other people
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  who are willing to testify, Pastor Crystal Kafo decided to
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  release. He went to church today and
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  decided to be the bigger person because what his daughters were
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  saying I don't think shaked him. But the fact that there is an
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  evidence now, a child involved and people coming out to speak,
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  he decided to go to the altar and ask for forgiveness.
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  The lady called Doris Ogalla. Listen, we're not joining
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  issues. Mistakes have been made in the
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  past and I tender apology to everybody, but everything that
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  was said is not true. Everything take note, everything
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  that was said never true. There are so many lies in most
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  of the things that were said. But now be it.
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  I say I am sorry to everyone I've offended, to the Doris
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  Ogala I also say sorry and I apologise to everyone that I've
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  offended. I'm ready to make a restitution
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  to anyone and anybody, any lady anywhere or man I've offended.
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  I am sorry. Forgive me, I am not perfect,
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  I've never been perfect. But I tell you, I've had a new
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  beginning since the coming of these fathers of faith into my
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  life. I'm kneeling down before
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  everyone. I'm before the church.
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  I must see you. Forgive me.
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  You can judge me. Pray for me.
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  Now, Doris Ogala actually shared this video on her social media
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  pages. She says she's accepted her
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  apology, but the fact that he said everything is a lie, that
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  she has a problem with that one. Because at the end of the day,
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  he's still trying to save face. He's still trying to to make it
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  look like, you know, the devil is attacking him.
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  The devil is against him. Pastor Crystal Car for are you
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  scared of the new things that Doris is coming out to release?
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  Because Doris said she wants, he said he's going to, he said it
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  at the altar publicly that he's he's willing to pay restitution.
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  Now these are Doris's demands. She said she wants $50,000 and
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  she wants shares in his company, in his because church is a
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  business. She wants shares and she wants
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  monthly payments like for the rest of her life, she wants to
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  be paid monthly from Pastor Crystal Carver's church or his
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  businesses, wherever his companies.
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  And Pastor Crystal Carver is coming out to say publicly that
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  he is ready to pay now. What he did not say that really
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  made me think he's, he's just like he said that everything is
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  a lie, which I think he's not completely saying the truth
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  because if he was completely repentant and if he was
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  completely asking for forgiveness, he would also
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  apologise to his children, regardless whether they're lying
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  or whether they're saying the truth.
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  The fact that your kids are hurt, regardless of whether you
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  know you did something or not, for your children to come out
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  publicly and accuse you of something, they are hurt.
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  There was no acknowledgement on his part regarding his kids.
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  And I think he knew that the video or the lady that just came
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  out to accuse him of having made her to have four different
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  abortions and having his son for him because he promised her
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  marriage if that had come out. He's not going to ask for DNA.
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  OK, you want DNA, let's do DNA. He knew that that would be more
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  like, how would you get out of Pearl, his new wife?
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  Pearl, I really feel sorry for her because she is she she's she
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  looks young. She looks like somebody in her
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  20s. You married somebody in his 50s,
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  at least you're thinking, OK, as a 20 year old somebody or 20
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  something year old somebody in your 20s marrying somebody in
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  their 50s, you're thinking they have lived life and at some
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  point they must have outgrown certain things.
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  This man has a problem. He has a problem with his third
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  leg. He cannot control it.
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  Some people are saying that he's called by God that before he was
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  a man of God, he was a man then. He does not have any right to
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  sit, to stand on that altar and preach the fact that the
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  congregations are clapping now. Let me know what you think.
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  Do you think that Chris Okafor is truly sorry for everything he
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  has done to women, to his congregation, to the women in
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  his church, to Doris Ogalla, to his children, to the lady that
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  accused him of allegedly making her terminate for pregnancies
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  and then Burton one one of them and then leaving her to go and
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  marry Pearl? Do you think that Pastor Chris
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  Okafor is truly sorry or do you think that he's just trying to
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  do damage control? He doesn't want his dirty linen
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  to be washed in public any further.
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye bye.