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Trusting Yourself and Others With Financial Wellbeing · The Hypnotist

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  Welcome to The Hypnotist, the show that gives you inside
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  access to cutting edge hypnosis with real clients facing genuine
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  issues. Brought to you by the
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  hypnotherapist, demanded by celebrities, CEOs and even
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  royalty. Adam Cox.
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  These recordings took place live from Adam's clinic in London's
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  world famous Harley Street. This podcast features powerful
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  hypnosis, so do not listen while driving or operating machinery.
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  This recording is not suitable for those with epilepsy or
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  severe mental health issues, so get yourself comfortable and
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  enjoy today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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  Hi, it's Adam here. And in this episode of The
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  Hypnotist, you're going to be listening to a hypnosis session
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  that is designed to tap into very useful resources when it
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  comes to two key things. One is the confidence, the
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  tenacity, the persistence to apply for jobs, particularly
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  after a period of being out of work.
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  And that can really not people's confidence if they haven't had
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  recent experiences, if people have never had a period of
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  unemployment, then there is this feeling of invincibility.
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  But if there has been a period, whether it's down to physical
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  issues or just economic issues, that could really damage
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  people's. Belief and.
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  Their ability to find a job. The second key element is that
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  this particular client grew up in a house where it was
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  difficult to ask for financial help.
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  That actually it was linked to a lot of shame and arguments and
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  frustrations or strings attached, and that was affecting
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  their ability in their romantic relationship to seek help while
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  they needed it, while they were finding something new.
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  So at its core, this is about trust.
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  It's about. Self trust or?
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  Value, capability and tenacity, but also this ability to
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  gratefully accept help when it's offered while using that as a
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  runway to become financially independent.
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  And I think financial independence given the choice is
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  much better than financial dependency.
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  Because if you're dependent on other people, then it means that
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  there is an element of vulnerability.
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  Because if that person or government or institutions stops
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  helping out, then you know, they they could be an issue with
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  that. So it is a vulnerable position.
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  So that's why it's good to be grateful.
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  If there is. Assistance.
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  Financial assistance. But.
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  Not becoming entitled or dependent on that.
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  So there's a bit going on. It links to the idea of what it
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  takes to be in a financially strong position.
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  It's about financial well-being and also links to some of the
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  things I talked about in my Hypnotic Wealth course, that the
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  core to it all is security. If you're not financially
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  secure, then you can't do investments, you can't take on
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  risks. But once you have that security,
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  once your income covers your basic needs and you've got a bit
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  more coming in, then you can improve the quality of your life
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  through comfort. And then actually you can get to
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  a point where, and I call it financial freedom, is when
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  either your net worth and your assets are appreciating in value
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  more than the cost and overhead of having your lifestyle.
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  Or even better, is a cash flow element of that, which is that
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  your passive income exceeds your lifestyle costs and then
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  effectively doesn't really matter what happens.
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  Because. You've got this flywheel of
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  financial resources to keep. You in a good place, but.
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  That's. For more.
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  Let's say future things if the core right now is finding a
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  source of income or accepting help when it's.
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  Needed. Then this would be the right
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  session for you. So find a quiet.
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  Comfortable place where? You won't be disturbed.
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  Relax and. Enjoy the session.
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  Take a deep breath in, and as you breathe in, just imagine
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  you're breathing in a feeling of calm relaxation.
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  Imagine breathing in that calm relaxation, and as you exhale,
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  get a sense that you're releasing something in your
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  outward breath. Maybe stress, maybe tension,
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  maybe anxiety, but just feel the sense of release.
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  And on the next inward breath, breathe in just a tiny bit
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  deeper than before, feeling like you're breathing in more of that
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  relaxation. And as you exhale, get a sense
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  of releasing any tension in your eyelids, your forehead, and your
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  jaw, like your whole face is just letting go, releasing.
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  And as you feel that release, notice the tension leaving in
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  that exhale. I wonder if you can notice that
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  as you breathe deeper, it requires less and less effort.
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  Just imagine that your body is doing the breathing for you.
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  Breathing and relaxation and exhaling tension.
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  So scan your body for any clues of that tension.
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  It could be there in the neck or the shoulders, the jaw or the
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  forehead. Perhaps even a sensation of
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  anxiety in the gut. But just get a sense, as you
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  breathe out for longer than you normally would, those sensations
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  are leaving your body, enabling you to feel deeper and deeper,
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  relaxed. As your body relaxes, your
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  imagination awakens. And I'd like you to imagine the
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  most relaxing park that you could imagine.
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  Imagine a park on a sunny day, blue skies, maybe there's a park
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  with green grass and maybe water, like a stream or a river
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  or a pond nearby. And I want you to imagine that
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  somewhere in this park is a big comfortable chair.
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  The kind of chair that really should be indoors.
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  Except it isn't. In your imagination, just
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  imagine a picturesque park with a comfortable chair, and just
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  imagine how it would feel to place yourself in that chair.
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  As you acknowledge that this is a chair of calmness and
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  relaxation. And by imagining yourself in
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  that chair, feel that any remaining tension is just
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  melting away. Any inner dialogue is quieting,
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  any tension is releasing as you feel a feeling of fluidity,
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  particularly around your neck and your shoulders.
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  I want you to imagine your head being like a helium balloon on a
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  string, Light, effortless, not requiring any tension in your
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  neck at all. So imagine a womb, a feeling of
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  warm sensation almost trickling down from the top of your head,
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  down your cheeks to your neck and your shoulders, all the way
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  down your body. Allow this warm sensation to
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  feel like it's taking you even deeper.
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  Relaxed. Each breath deepens your
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  relaxation, and with every exhale, feel yourself slipping
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  into a state of deep calm. I want you to imagine what it
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  would feel like to keep your physical body in that chair, in
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  that part, but for your imagination to float.
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  Imagine floating upwards like you're levitating.
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  It's just your imagination, just the essence of you.
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  As you look down, you can see your physical body there in that
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  chair, but the essence of you is floating.
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  Feel yourself floating up into the clouds, finding a particular
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  fluffy white cloud, and just imagine laying on that fluffy
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  white cloud like the softest pillows and softest mattress
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  you've ever experienced. And imagine how good it would
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  feel to imagine having a nap on a fluffy white cloud hovering
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  over a picturesque park. Feel cozy and relaxed and tired,
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  but also imaginative. I want you to feel calm and
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  empowered on this fluffy white cloud and allow yourself to feel
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  a sense of deep inner strength, almost like there is a reservoir
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  of confidence within you. Consider this a reservoir of
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  resourcefulness that you can utilize all of these resources
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  whenever you need it. And then just imagine a glowing
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  warm light surrounding you, almost like a protective aura
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  that shield you from any negativity or doubts, any
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  rejection, any judgement. You are protected like a force
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  field because this light is powerful and supportive, and it
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  represents your true worth, all of your capabilities, and all of
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  your potential. And as you feel protected and
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  warm in this glowing light around you, like it's a
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  protective blanket while you relax in the clouds, you
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  acknowledge that you are deserving of all of the
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  opportunities that are coming your way.
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  As you relax even deeper, perhaps you can remember a time
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  in the past where you felt truly safe and comfortable.
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  Feel that. That feeling of self trust but
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  also the ability to trust other people is growing stronger and
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  stronger. Be ordered.
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  You don't care what people say. You judge and assess people on
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  what they do, and I want you to think of the face of someone
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  that has demonstrated time and time again that they are worthy
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  of trust because you have seen their actions.
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  And if you can create an image of that face feeling that they
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  are worthy of trust, let me know by nodding your head.
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  That's it. And then imagine staring into a
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  mirror, seeing you at your most capable, most enthusiastic, most
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  tenacious, the version of you that you can count on to find
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  any solution to any problem. And when you see that version of
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  you looking back, let me know by nodding your head.
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  This may be even a version of you in your future, but you are
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  seeing a version of you that you can count on.
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  Someone tenacious, confident, and capable.
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  And when you see that version of you, let me know about nodding
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  your head. That's it.
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  As you come to an irrefutable conclusion that you with those
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  resources are also completely worthy of trust to do whatever
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  is necessary. I want you to get a Sands then
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  this feeling of self trust and trusting others is unleashing
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  new feelings of excitement and enthusiasm.
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  I want you to get a sense then sometimes looking for a job or a
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  new source of income is like looking for treasure.
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  I want you to imagine that you have the treasure map, and the
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  treasure map is not a specific job in a specific place.
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  It's when you unlock the resources that are there deep
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  within your reservoir and you harness them because you and
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  your most resourceful would be given job offers in many
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  different areas. You and your most resourceful
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  are capable of high incomes from running your own business.
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  And since looking for a new source of income is like a quest
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  to find buried treasure, I want you to feel a sense of adventure
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  and possibility that it comes with every application you send,
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  every job you research, and every opportunity that you
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  explore. Because they all create the
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  possibility of you finding something valuable for you, but
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  also valuable for them. If you were to approach each
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  step of the job search process like a quest, each application
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  you fill out is a quest. Each interview you attend is a
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  quest. I want you to get a sense that
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  they all bring you closer to a new opportunity as you feel
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  empowered and confident knowing that each step is part of an
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  exciting adventure that will bring you new learning
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  experiences, new skills, new opportunities for growth, and
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  feel that trust that every effort is leading you closer to
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  your own buried treasure, The right path for you.
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  I want you to get a sense then if you apply for a role and
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  don't get it, it is not a personal reflection on you.
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  What if there were 1000 people that applied for that and your
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  application was never read? What if the company had already
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  intended to hire someone they already knew, but had to
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  advertise the position just because of an internal process?
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  I want you to get a sense that there are so many reasons why
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  something might not turn into a job offer that have absolutely
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  nothing to do with you. So you can treat this quest like
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  an adventure. Just because you're looking for
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  buried treasure doesn't mean you'll find it every time you
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  look. But if you don't find it on one
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  quest, feel that you're going to increase the odds of finding it
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  on a different quest as you think back on your past,
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  particularly your childhood. Get a sense that so many of your
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  fears about money and dependency were natural coming from things
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  you just observed. But you are not that child
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  anymore. I want you to get a sense that
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  what if what happened there gave you wisdom rather than fears,
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  Reconnaissance of what to do better rather than patterns that
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  would be repeated To take that wisdom, take that learning, and
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  feel that right now is the perfect time to feel the weight
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  of any past doubts, guilt, or fears around money simply
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  melting away. Feel the melt.
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  Feel them being replaced with a feeling of trust and excitement
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  around your ability to earn money and create abundance.
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  Just imagine thinking about your future over the next few weeks
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  and months. Imagine seeing yourself making
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  empowered financial decisions. See yourself feeling worthy of
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  receiving financial support and any assistance or help.
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  But also see yourself achieving successes, breakthroughs and
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  victories. This version of you acknowledges
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  that if financial assistance is offered, it makes sense to feel
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  that gratitude and appreciation but treating it like a runway or
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  a stepping stone towards your own financial independence.
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  If you're given support and don't do anything with it, that
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  can lead to a path of dependency.
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  If you give an assistance and that gives you time, energy and
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  emotion to pursue something new and exciting, that is a gift
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  that can lead to your own financial independence.
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  So you could be grateful for the help with an intention to repay
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  that help back in your own way. Feel that you no longer carry
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  the burden of shame or guilt. Instead, you are filled with
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  inspiration and excitement about the possibilities that money can
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  bring. Money is not shame or control.
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  Money is an ally in your journey and you are deserving of it.
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  From this point forwards, you see money as a tool to empower
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  you to open doors to opportunities and to enhance
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  your life. Release feelings of echoes of
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  entitlement or dependency and replace them with inspiration.
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  And each day you feel more confident, inspired and ready to
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  pursue your career goals because you are now determined and
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  enthusiastic. You trust in your abilities and
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  know that you are always learning, always growing and
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  always moving forward. Feel that whatever effort you
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  put into an application, an interview, or any form of quest
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  will always be rewarded, sometimes through experience,
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  sometimes through momentum, and sometimes by leading to the very
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  outcome that you desired. I want you to feel that you
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  either win or you learn and learn.
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  Running can feel like a win. I
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  want you to get a sands. Then, as you think about your
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  path forward, it's becoming clearer.
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  Every opportunity is an invitation to learn, to grow and
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  to expand, to become more resilient, more tenacious, more
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  unstoppable in your pursuit of the work that you desire.
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  That your confidence and worthiness are undeniable and
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  you trust that the right opportunities are doors that are
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  willing to open if only you knock in the right way.
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  And every time you take action towards finding work, you'd be
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  surprised if your confidence grows.
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  And every time you apply for a job, and every time you pursue a
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  new opportunity, feel a sense of empowerment, expanding,
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  believing that it's just a matter of time, that if you do
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  the right things, you'll get the right result.
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  You are worthy of success and feel that you can truly trust in
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  your ability to create and manifest the life that you
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  desire as you are now. These new thoughts to sink into
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  your mind. Allow yourself to float down
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  from the cloud, but keeping that lightness and keeping that warm
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  glowing aura of positivity around you.
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  Sink all the way down into a comfortable chair in a
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  picturesque park so all parts are now connected as one.
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  And then imagine leaving the park and finding yourself back
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  into the very place where you are now.
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  Step into that version of you as you get closer to returning to
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  the here and the now. So take a deep breath in through
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  your nose and out through your nose.
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  Just wiggle your fingers and wiggle your toes.
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  Connect fully with the here and now as very soon I count from
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  1:00 to 10:00 to awaken you. You will awaken feeling
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  confident, resourceful and calm. Feeling a sense of trust for
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  yourself and the key people that have demonstrated themself
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  worthy of that trust. Starting to count to awaken you.
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  123 Waking up 456 More alert 7-8.
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  Open your eyes. Open your eyes. 910 Wide awake,
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  wide awake, wide awake. Thank you for listening to The
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