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- 0:00Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.
- 0:02Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning everybody is d J N v
- 0:07Speaker 2: Ess hilarious, Charlamage the guy.
- 0:09Speaker 3: We all to Breakfast Club. We got some special guests.
- 0:10Speaker 1: In the building.
- 0:11Speaker 3: Indeed, we have Mandy be and Wheezy from Horrible Decisions.
- 0:15Speaker 3: But they chased a name.
- 0:16Speaker 4: Thank you.
- 0:17Speaker 3: It is Decision podcasts.
- 0:20Speaker 5: That no, yes, it is not.
- 0:24Speaker 6: Any It is absolutely possibles. You grow up, you can
- 0:28Speaker 6: move to a different city where no one knows you,
- 0:30Speaker 6: and then you can.
- 0:31Speaker 5: Change your work.
- 0:33Speaker 7: The grocery store, they said, heycome morning, ladies.
- 0:37Speaker 5: Good morning.
- 0:39Speaker 1: Why why did y'all change.
- 0:40Speaker 4: The name for the coins Charlotte.
- 0:44Speaker 6: Not only that when we started Horrible Decisions, we were
- 0:47Speaker 6: twenty six years old.
- 0:48Speaker 4: Uh, I was still in college. I was in my
- 0:51Speaker 4: last year of college. Weezy, we were both in corporate and.
- 0:54Speaker 6: We was kind of living life doing doing all the things,
- 0:57Speaker 6: and we just kind of we wasn't our whole face.
- 0:59Speaker 4: I think everyone has a whole phase.
- 1:01Speaker 6: And now we're out of it, okay, and we just
- 1:03Speaker 6: you know, are growing with our audience and growing with
- 1:05Speaker 6: the with the dollar.
- 1:06Speaker 7: To be fair doing this book though, you know, I
- 1:09Speaker 7: was telling people like I want to do Drew Barrymore,
- 1:11Speaker 7: I want to do this and that, and I just
- 1:13Speaker 7: can't see them saying.
- 1:14Speaker 4: Horror, especially not Drew Barrymore.
- 1:19Speaker 5: And now she might be like, why did you guys?
- 1:22Speaker 7: It's okay to be a whore, but now, I mean
- 1:26Speaker 7: with growth, and we also wanted to be respected as
- 1:28Speaker 7: an author. I feel like for the people that don't
- 1:30Speaker 7: know us, everybody that like is in the podcast world
- 1:33Speaker 7: understands our evolution, and I think that's when we started
- 1:36Speaker 7: to gain our respect, to know that, sure we talk
- 1:38Speaker 7: about sex, but it lasted so long. We've been able
- 1:41Speaker 7: to catapult into all these different ventures. But a new person,
- 1:44Speaker 7: I feel like they're gonna be like how you feel
- 1:46Speaker 7: about your fan, Like how you think the fans took it?
- 1:48Speaker 7: Like that y'all took the horror wall. I think the
- 1:51Speaker 7: fans love it. I think the core fans are happy.
- 1:53Speaker 7: I think the casual fans just found a way to get.
- 1:56Speaker 4: Angry at you.
- 1:57Speaker 7: Like people get very excited if they think something bad
- 2:00Speaker 7: is going on, you know what I mean? Like literally
- 2:02Speaker 7: the second they saw that Horrible would be going behind
- 2:05Speaker 7: a paywalls.
- 2:06Speaker 4: Like, oh they fighting Sharlotte.
- 2:07Speaker 7: One want day, I heard dealing with them like, you know,
- 2:09Speaker 7: it's they can't wait to feel that. And Mandy and
- 2:11Speaker 7: I being that we've been colleagues for so long, we've
- 2:14Speaker 7: had on air mess and things like that. I feel
- 2:17Speaker 7: like that was the sexiest part of the story when really,
- 2:20Speaker 7: now we're so much older, it's like.
- 2:21Speaker 6: Okay, Mandy's celibate, right, Oh yeah, I started the year off.
- 2:29Speaker 1: Just a couple of.
- 2:33Speaker 4: Like, I'm celipate, I'm starting over a couple of months ago.
- 2:37Speaker 1: That was It was.
- 2:39Speaker 4: A couple of weeks ago.
- 2:39Speaker 5: That was your magic city moment.
- 2:41Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 2:42Speaker 6: I love how you said club. You can let them
- 2:43Speaker 6: know we were city. It was a magic city, you.
- 2:47Speaker 4: Know, that's the first thing she told me.
- 2:48Speaker 3: It wasn't like he has a family, what I'm celipate now?
- 2:52Speaker 1: I was like, what made you break the celibacy?
- 2:54Speaker 4: I saw somebody cute.
- 2:57Speaker 1: It wasn't even relationship. You already win.
- 3:03Speaker 4: Jesus it is. I mean, it was intimate, it was sensual.
- 3:09Speaker 4: We kissed and guddle.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Have you seen him.
- 3:12Speaker 4: Since he doesn't live in my states, so he's flying
- 3:14Speaker 4: to see me?
- 3:15Speaker 5: Yes?
- 3:16Speaker 1: Wow?
- 3:20Speaker 4: No?
- 3:20Speaker 5: No, no, no, work to go.
- 3:21Speaker 4: To the second stand?
- 3:25Speaker 1: The second stand? What's the first thing.
- 3:28Speaker 4: The first stand was great. It was when I saw him.
- 3:32Speaker 1: Didn't date just okay.
- 3:34Speaker 4: Now I'm just not anymore, okay, And this is what the.
- 3:38Speaker 6: Book is about about liberation, growth as women getting what
- 3:41Speaker 6: you want.
- 3:42Speaker 3: Did you meet him majes City.
- 3:43Speaker 8: No.
- 3:44Speaker 6: I met him on an island, so you know what.
- 3:51Speaker 4: Which was?
- 3:52Speaker 3: It was on vacation and you lit one of the
- 3:54Speaker 3: island boys.
- 3:56Speaker 6: Yes, okay, don't do that, but now I do see
- 4:00Speaker 6: our women go to islands, and it was it was great.
- 4:02Speaker 5: You see see that.
- 4:04Speaker 7: Don't tell you they booked us to go to Headonism
- 4:06Speaker 7: if no one's ever heard of.
- 4:09Speaker 4: There.
- 4:13Speaker 5: I didn't.
- 4:13Speaker 7: I wasn't dating at anybody at the time, so I'm like,
- 4:15Speaker 7: let me just bring somebody.
- 4:16Speaker 5: Fine, I know.
- 4:17Speaker 7: So there was a ballplayer that I knew, and I
- 4:19Speaker 7: was like, just come. He was in Europe, he was
- 4:20Speaker 7: off season. He got there. He wasn't even he's not
- 4:23Speaker 7: crazy basketball player at all. But he was six five, dark,
- 4:26Speaker 7: skinning fit. When I tell you every white woman with
- 4:29Speaker 7: her husband.
- 4:31Speaker 4: Yeah, before we in the bushes in a bush.
- 4:36Speaker 1: But that's what if you like, I went to heat
- 4:38Speaker 1: his most when I used to work for Williams at
- 4:41Speaker 1: w B l s.
- 4:42Speaker 9: They used to do radio station trips to Hedonism. So
- 4:44Speaker 9: Hedonism is the newdest resort parts of it. And they
- 4:47Speaker 9: have like hammicks hanging from the trees. You can have
- 4:49Speaker 9: sex and hammicks. You can have sex all over the
- 4:51Speaker 9: whole facility if you want to. There's a lot of
- 4:53Speaker 9: mirrors on the ceiling.
- 4:54Speaker 3: No disrespect, but it's a lot of like overweight white women.
- 4:56Speaker 6: No no, we we went in a black Yeah, there's
- 5:00Speaker 6: different weekends that you could go, like I'm hosting heato
- 5:03Speaker 6: Labor Day weekend with a black travel uh.
- 5:07Speaker 5: So when a group takes over, like we got lucky.
- 5:09Speaker 7: But then there was a few parts of the place
- 5:11Speaker 7: they were like we come every week, and I was like,
- 5:12Speaker 7: oh yeah.
- 5:13Speaker 6: The white couples definitely go to get Jamaican Jamaican Pei
- 5:16Speaker 6: the way.
- 5:16Speaker 7: The funniest part of this I always tell this story
- 5:19Speaker 7: because so first of all, he's already having sex in
- 5:22Speaker 7: the bush.
- 5:22Speaker 5: We just check in.
- 5:23Speaker 7: I'm like, I'm done with him already. So there's a
- 5:26Speaker 7: nude side and a prude side, right, So the side
- 5:32Speaker 7: means you can keep your clothes on, so you know,
- 5:34Speaker 7: when you're at a resort, you know how to be
- 5:35Speaker 7: having the buffets or whatever.
- 5:37Speaker 5: So I'm hungry. I go to get a pizza.
- 5:39Speaker 7: I'm already irritated with him because all he doing is
- 5:41Speaker 7: sleep with people in the bush and I'm trying to
- 5:43Speaker 7: get some pizza. I'm ordering his pizza and the security
- 5:46Speaker 7: guard comes up and saying, man, you have to be naked.
- 5:48Speaker 5: On the side. I'm like, I gotta get naked just
- 5:50Speaker 5: to eat. He's like, yeah, how long is your food
- 5:53Speaker 5: gonna take?
- 5:53Speaker 7: I had to literally take off my pajama to hold
- 5:55Speaker 7: him in my hand and sit there naked away for food.
- 5:57Speaker 5: And I was like, this is the worst ever. And
- 6:00Speaker 5: I say, I loved it.
- 6:01Speaker 4: So when is it?
- 6:02Speaker 1: I left it? What are you?
- 6:03Speaker 7: What?
- 6:03Speaker 4: Trafficking? I know, trafficking that is I booked.
- 6:10Speaker 7: For it, like you know, like we were out there
- 6:12Speaker 7: and just like we had a great time, but I'm
- 6:14Speaker 7: gone out there with friends.
- 6:15Speaker 5: When you're going out there, you.
- 6:17Speaker 1: Can't and they paying you, like these couples be paying.
- 6:20Speaker 9: Like you might be out there and you might highlight
- 6:22Speaker 9: at a woman and she might be like, hold on,
- 6:23Speaker 9: go get my husband.
- 6:24Speaker 1: They might come up to you and be y'all get fifey.
- 6:26Speaker 9: Hundred dolls if you let if you let my husband
- 6:28Speaker 9: watch us said.
- 6:29Speaker 4: We didn't get offered for those type of things were there.
- 6:32Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so maybe it's the men. The men should
- 6:35Speaker 4: go out there and make some money.
- 6:36Speaker 3: Then, so let you careful to you and wanted to
- 6:38Speaker 3: see your special husband.
- 6:42Speaker 1: This concept.
- 6:43Speaker 9: This was like two thousand and six, two thousand and seven.
- 6:45Speaker 9: I was on the balcony.
- 6:46Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, you know, girl like you.
- 6:48Speaker 9: Yeah, and she's like, hold on, let me go get
- 6:50Speaker 9: my husband, and she was like yes, and we can
- 6:53Speaker 9: do it.
- 6:54Speaker 1: But my husband got to watch.
- 6:56Speaker 3: Oh wow, I have to knock it off.
- 6:58Speaker 1: No, I didn't knocke it off. I did not.
- 7:00Speaker 7: Now that's the thing that really kind of makes that
- 7:02Speaker 7: whole thing beautiful. As much as I'm joking about it,
- 7:04Speaker 7: all of this is normal for these people in the world,
- 7:07Speaker 7: you know what I mean.
- 7:07Speaker 5: Like a lot of the things we talked about even
- 7:09Speaker 5: as normal to us.
- 7:10Speaker 7: If I say my man and I are going on
- 7:12Speaker 7: a date with somebody, people looking at me like I'm crazy,
- 7:14Speaker 7: But this is normal for me. So when I'm in
- 7:17Speaker 7: hedonism and I'm watching cuck holding going on, which is
- 7:19Speaker 7: really what it is, this is normal for them, and
- 7:21Speaker 7: they like to be amongst the people I just did
- 7:23Speaker 7: happen to be one of the people that wanted to
- 7:25Speaker 7: get peaceabul clothes on.
- 7:25Speaker 5: Excuse me, Yeah, it's.
- 7:35Speaker 7: I'm trying to think mine, what besides this blazer, what's
- 7:37Speaker 7: the biggest rebrand thing of me? I will say this,
- 7:41Speaker 7: I think now I'm so over communicative. We're in the
- 7:45Speaker 7: beginning of horrible decisions. I wasn't talking about exactly what
- 7:48Speaker 7: I wanted, my feelings, even the type of sex that
- 7:51Speaker 7: I wanted to have, Like situationships.
- 7:53Speaker 5: I was falling into them all the time.
- 7:55Speaker 7: I think as you evolve and you get more comfortable
- 7:57Speaker 7: with yourself on who you are, that's when it hits.
- 7:59Speaker 5: I actually don't think that could happen before thirty. I'll
- 8:01Speaker 5: be honest.
- 8:02Speaker 7: I think you could try to get close to it.
- 8:04Speaker 7: But there's something that happens at thirty where it just clicks.
- 8:07Speaker 6: You're like, oh no, this is no thirty You you
- 8:10Speaker 6: look better, you feel better, you make more money, you
- 8:12Speaker 6: know a little bit more of what you want. You
- 8:13Speaker 6: didn't dealt with enough men in your teens and twenties
- 8:17Speaker 6: that now you can be like, Okay, I don't want.
- 8:19Speaker 3: That, but this is what I want you want to
- 8:20Speaker 3: give this relationship?
- 8:21Speaker 4: No, you don't marriage?
- 8:23Speaker 5: Anybody want marriage?
- 8:23Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't.
- 8:24Speaker 3: You want to not give this relationship?
- 8:25Speaker 5: Not monogamous, but I mean, of course I want marriage.
- 8:27Speaker 5: I like, what if we're not gonna have sex with
- 8:32Speaker 5: a nanny? What's the boy?
- 8:35Speaker 7: No?
- 8:35Speaker 4: I mean yeah, go ahead.
- 8:36Speaker 1: I mean I don't know why?
- 8:37Speaker 5: Why?
- 8:38Speaker 9: Why?
- 8:38Speaker 5: Why not not monogampy both?
- 8:39Speaker 4: Yah?
- 8:39Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 8:40Speaker 1: Why?
- 8:40Speaker 5: You just doesn't fit in my lifestyle.
- 8:42Speaker 7: Like I I've been known for having a boyfriend and
- 8:45Speaker 7: a girlfriend since I've been twenty years old.
- 8:47Speaker 5: Like, it's it.
- 8:48Speaker 1: It's doesn't matter what you're known for or what you want.
- 8:51Speaker 1: It's a difference.
- 8:52Speaker 5: We had a conversation about this last night.
- 8:53Speaker 7: I did a podcast where I mentioned that I believe
- 8:56Speaker 7: Mandy and I have done this so well because we
- 8:58Speaker 7: really lived this life.
- 9:00Speaker 5: And a lot of times what's kind of.
- 9:01Speaker 7: Hurt me from the public is people say, oh, you're
- 9:03Speaker 7: just doing that to keep them, or you let your
- 9:05Speaker 7: man have sex with someone else because you want to
- 9:07Speaker 7: keep them, And it's like, you think I'd be doing
- 9:08Speaker 7: this for eight years if I really didn't enjoy this.
- 9:11Speaker 5: I honestly have fun with it.
- 9:12Speaker 7: And I feel like when I'm dating someone that's more monogamous.
- 9:16Speaker 7: Mainly when I d religious man, they look at me
- 9:18Speaker 7: like I'm trash, and I know you date religious men,
- 9:21Speaker 7: do that.
- 9:22Speaker 4: You know, never do that again.
- 9:26Speaker 6: Et themnomenogamy, I want to throw that word in there.
- 9:30Speaker 6: So that's where like it's consensual, there's like there are
- 9:33Speaker 6: boundaries you are communicating, and it's under the umbrella where
- 9:37Speaker 6: you could be polly open, like there's you could be swingers.
- 9:39Speaker 6: There's all these different labels underneath ethical nominogamy. For me,
- 9:43Speaker 6: I like men and women, and I don't want to
- 9:46Speaker 6: not be able to experience both.
- 9:49Speaker 2: Off of that bisexual men and the reason I asked
- 9:51Speaker 2: who was up here and they said that it wouldn't
- 9:53Speaker 2: bother them.
- 9:54Speaker 4: Damn I heard it wouldn't bother me.
- 9:59Speaker 3: No, I don't want to see it.
- 10:01Speaker 5: For me, it's a cat.
- 10:02Speaker 7: So the thing that attracts me to women is their femininity.
- 10:05Speaker 7: Like I've never dated stood right and no disrespective studs.
- 10:09Speaker 5: I just because like Monkey got Funky came on Horrorball was.
- 10:13Speaker 6: Like, no, britty grind are the only stud we all
- 10:17Speaker 6: got one. I want Brittany Grinder as far as men.
- 10:20Speaker 6: I love the masculinity in men.
- 10:22Speaker 7: And so if I was dating a bisexual man, maybe
- 10:24Speaker 7: like a homo thug. That's what I'm saying, Like, there's
- 10:27Speaker 7: so masculine, give me one of them at m like.
- 10:30Speaker 3: So you wouldn't mind, but he just got to be
- 10:32Speaker 3: a tell you want to do on the thug.
- 10:33Speaker 7: There's also levels to it, right, So I really truly
- 10:36Speaker 7: believe every man has had some sort of.
- 10:38Speaker 4: I think everybody look gay for real, for real.
- 10:41Speaker 5: Even a little watching a.
- 10:43Speaker 6: Little another like there's a there's a there's a spectrum,
- 10:49Speaker 6: the Kinsey scale.
- 10:50Speaker 4: Everyone is not all the way fully straight.
- 10:53Speaker 6: Or fully yes you like a little like you can
- 10:58Speaker 6: you can even and it could be as little as.
- 10:59Speaker 4: You can actually admit that another man is attractive or
- 11:02Speaker 4: a good looking.
- 11:05Speaker 5: Classified as gay?
- 11:06Speaker 4: Why I can't because it's it's the attraction.
- 11:08Speaker 1: Tras is different.
- 11:09Speaker 4: But but no man is handsome but attractive.
- 11:18Speaker 1: Man hand you did you did.
- 11:21Speaker 5: You have men that doesn't even do that?
- 11:23Speaker 7: Then? I think you know, there's so many men that
- 11:24Speaker 7: would say they ran trains in high school. There's another
- 11:27Speaker 7: man that wouldn't get naked and trained, like there is levels.
- 11:31Speaker 5: I don't think that's gay.
- 11:32Speaker 2: By the way, if you don't stick your penis in
- 11:36Speaker 2: a male, that's not gay.
- 11:37Speaker 5: But why you and another man are enjoying got you.
- 11:45Speaker 2: Just say it's not gay if you stick your penis
- 11:47Speaker 2: and the man, I said, it's not you.
- 11:50Speaker 4: You're not sticking your penis in the mail?
- 11:52Speaker 1: What you want to hear something? It's not.
- 11:56Speaker 6: As long as it's oral, then no, it's okay, a
- 12:00Speaker 6: hand job.
- 12:01Speaker 4: No, okay, I just okay.
- 12:03Speaker 1: I'm looking at the Kensey scale.
- 12:05Speaker 4: It's a real thing.
- 12:05Speaker 1: He says.
- 12:06Speaker 9: X no social no socio sexual contacts or reactions. Zero
- 12:10Speaker 9: is exclusively heterosexual. One mostly heterosexual, only slightly homosexual. Two
- 12:17Speaker 9: mostly heterosexual but more than slightly homosexual, three equally heterosexual
- 12:22Speaker 9: and homosexual, four mostly homosexual but more than slightly heterosexual,
- 12:27Speaker 9: five mostly homosexual only slightly heterosexual, and six is all homo.
- 12:34Speaker 4: Straight o gay.
- 12:35Speaker 5: That's a lot, a lot. By the way, I have
- 12:37Speaker 5: a friend of mine.
- 12:39Speaker 7: His dave is Christopher, and on New Year's five, six
- 12:42Speaker 7: years ago, I'll never forget.
- 12:44Speaker 5: I kissed him like he's gay.
- 12:47Speaker 4: Kiss him.
- 12:48Speaker 7: He looked at me and he was like, you, bitch,
- 12:51Speaker 7: I am gay, gay, and now you've ruined it.
- 12:53Speaker 1: He's a six six, he's a six.
- 12:56Speaker 5: When I tell you, he was really upset with me.
- 12:57Speaker 7: I was like, I'm so confused and you're having Funny's like, no, no, no, no, no,
- 13:00Speaker 7: I am not gold star. He's like, I didn't even
- 13:03Speaker 7: have I came from a C section.
- 13:05Speaker 1: I'm platinum.
- 13:07Speaker 5: He was like, are you kissed me?
- 13:08Speaker 4: You were with this? You messed him up?
- 13:09Speaker 1: Now?
- 13:10Speaker 4: A little straight.
- 13:10Speaker 5: That's who I defined as a sixth and.
- 13:12Speaker 9: The one thing Toronto might have to re six that
- 13:14Speaker 9: six thing six is the highest on the Kinsey scale,
- 13:18Speaker 9: exclusively homosexual.
- 13:19Speaker 1: If you're a six, that's what all the way.
- 13:23Speaker 4: Gay, No.
- 13:27Speaker 5: Hot straight girl that got one lesbian Afraid that she'd
- 13:30Speaker 5: be doing this, she was like, no, bitch, yeah that's me.
- 13:32Speaker 4: But I ain't gonna lie back in the day. Yeah.
- 13:34Speaker 7: I had a couple of gay experiences, yeah, like kiss
- 13:39Speaker 7: a little bit more to kiss, but you know, h yeah,
- 13:41Speaker 7: I dated a stud for like a little minute, so
- 13:44Speaker 7: I found out she was ma right, and she ended
- 13:46Speaker 7: up being a clown two and.
- 13:48Speaker 9: Then mostly had a sexual but more than slightly homosexual,
- 13:52Speaker 9: not that.
- 13:55Speaker 7: She dated a stud. So that always tells me like,
- 13:58Speaker 7: you kind of are the straight girl. That's like where
- 13:59Speaker 7: you can dive, because I don't. I don't find like
- 14:03Speaker 7: the Felms to be like, yeah, you're beautiful to me,
- 14:06Speaker 7: but I'm not. I wouldn't be attracted to a feminine girl.
- 14:09Speaker 7: It's like I get it.
- 14:10Speaker 4: No for me like that.
- 14:12Speaker 3: But you'll have the same crush too many you're the same, Brittany.
- 14:18Speaker 4: I think a lot of you have a crush. Yeah.
- 14:21Speaker 7: Until I call Until I heard her call herself Pops,
- 14:24Speaker 7: I'm like, damn, I know there's certain things that you
- 14:28Speaker 7: can say that make me just instant like no, you
- 14:33Speaker 7: see what I mean.
- 14:33Speaker 4: I know what I'm saying, Like, well, she already got
- 14:35Speaker 4: the voice of God.
- 14:36Speaker 7: I mean that, but I mean, I just you know,
- 14:40Speaker 7: she she ain't like when she was doing an interview
- 14:42Speaker 7: in Shane, Like when somebody was like the girl was like, oh,
- 14:45Speaker 7: you're about to be a mom, you know, she was
- 14:47Speaker 7: like no, Pops, like serious. I was like, damn, but
- 14:52Speaker 7: I but I wouldn't just assume that if I never
- 14:56Speaker 7: heard her say that, Like I wouldn't start congratulations you
- 14:59Speaker 7: your mom. I wouldn't just be like your graduations, it's
- 15:01Speaker 7: like you Pops now, because I think that that would
- 15:03Speaker 7: offend her but she was offended at her being called
- 15:07Speaker 7: her mom. Yeah, bring the good I would let me
- 15:12Speaker 7: tell you when I when all that stuff was going on,
- 15:14Speaker 7: I was like, we gotta.
- 15:15Speaker 5: Get her out, we gotta get her out.
- 15:16Speaker 4: But I'm okay, what you still have the crash.
- 15:18Speaker 7: I'm okay with letting her go Mandy Cab because my
- 15:21Speaker 7: boyfriend looked.
- 15:22Speaker 9: Just like.
- 15:24Speaker 3: That is crazy.
- 15:26Speaker 7: As someone that also has a pretty boyfriend, I know
- 15:29Speaker 7: how it feels. I went and took him to a
- 15:31Speaker 7: show and it was a lesbian show, uh like literally
- 15:35Speaker 7: like a queer comedy night.
- 15:36Speaker 5: And she was like, oh, yeah, I saw.
- 15:38Speaker 4: You were there with your girlfriend.
- 15:39Speaker 5: I was like, that's a man.
- 15:40Speaker 4: He just got dressed and he's pretty. It sucks, but
- 15:43Speaker 4: it's crazy.
- 15:44Speaker 9: Man get a slight shooter though, no, he does get shooter,
- 15:47Speaker 9: a slight shooter, right, he gets slight shooter too.
- 15:52Speaker 5: But he's a hotep. It's weird, like he looks like
- 15:54Speaker 5: he's what he's a hotel.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Hotel.
- 15:57Speaker 7: The hotel he makes we're fasting right now. I'm so
- 16:00Speaker 7: I'm about to die on this table.
- 16:01Speaker 4: He's we fast He was a whole tap.
- 16:06Speaker 1: The hotel.
- 16:10Speaker 5: That is not what it is the way this is.
- 16:13Speaker 5: There's no way that this hasn't crossed over to you.
- 16:15Speaker 3: The whole tap what the is the whole tap charm?
- 16:18Speaker 1: Like the hot I know the whole tap is. I
- 16:20Speaker 1: don't know what the whole tap is, but I know
- 16:21Speaker 1: what the hotel.
- 16:22Speaker 4: It's a hotel.
- 16:22Speaker 3: Okay, I'm being I'm being a hotel.
- 16:24Speaker 7: A hotel is like you know, one of them, like meditative,
- 16:28Speaker 7: like all pro black power to the people, like we
- 16:30Speaker 7: can't be doing.
- 16:31Speaker 1: X y Z, but like.
- 16:35Speaker 3: You're still on the whole part of it.
- 16:39Speaker 5: To be Do you know who nineteen keys is?
- 16:43Speaker 8: Whole tep I joke, Yes, she It's an Egyptian word
- 16:50Speaker 8: that means to be at peace, does mean at peace,
- 16:52Speaker 8: which was but y'all said, whole taps.
- 16:54Speaker 3: I'm just thinking something.
- 16:55Speaker 5: Of course you are, of course, So with decisions decisions,
- 17:02Speaker 5: is it less sex talk? Like, is it less?
- 17:05Speaker 9: Yeah?
- 17:05Speaker 6: Yeah, we're leaning more into the conversations around relationships, so
- 17:09Speaker 6: non traditional relationships, non monogamy, all the ways that you
- 17:13Speaker 6: don't have to go about the traditional way of dating
- 17:16Speaker 6: and pursuing love essentially because us growing up, what is it,
- 17:20Speaker 6: get married, have kids, live happily ever after, that's not
- 17:23Speaker 6: everyone's reality.
- 17:24Speaker 7: But it's cool because we're diving into history, which we
- 17:27Speaker 7: always kind of did during Horrible but now it's fun,
- 17:29Speaker 7: Like we're talking. We talk about the history of romance,
- 17:31Speaker 7: the first date, even the history of romance is dope.
- 17:34Speaker 7: I was when we were first date, Like how the
- 17:36Speaker 7: first date was different. There had to be a male
- 17:38Speaker 7: caller at your home knocking on the door, asking your parents.
- 17:41Speaker 5: They were supervising you.
- 17:44Speaker 1: I'm an idiot. I thought you meant like y'all documented
- 17:46Speaker 1: the first date.
- 17:52Speaker 7: How it evolves over time. Even the history of romance,
- 17:55Speaker 7: how you know you married.
- 17:56Speaker 1: For I'm not a whole retired a long time ago.
- 18:04Speaker 7: Now, a history of the romance shit was crazy because
- 18:07Speaker 7: it basically romance was a sickness and they believed when
- 18:10Speaker 7: people were in battle or in war, they would start
- 18:12Speaker 7: a war over love. And they were like, oh, yeah,
- 18:14Speaker 7: you can't fall in love, so that's why you would
- 18:15Speaker 7: marry for agriculture, socioeconomic stuff.
- 18:18Speaker 5: And it's just fun to dive into this because we.
- 18:22Speaker 7: Already have been talking about sex and dating so long,
- 18:24Speaker 7: so now we just get to go back and people
- 18:26Speaker 7: enjoy learning about stuff with.
- 18:27Speaker 2: Us, and we're not scholars, so that's what makes it
- 18:29Speaker 2: fun to be not now also, so then you've got
- 18:33Speaker 2: a book coming out as well.
- 18:34Speaker 1: We do.
- 18:34Speaker 6: We do under Charlamagne's imprint, No Holes Barred. It's a duo,
- 18:40Speaker 6: no hose Bard, listen all of them. It's a dual
- 18:42Speaker 6: manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And so we each
- 18:47Speaker 6: dive into our journeys as women.
- 18:50Speaker 4: I did a lot of.
- 18:51Speaker 6: Diving in therapy, like going all the way back to
- 18:54Speaker 6: like my childhood as to maybe why I date the
- 18:57Speaker 6: type of men I date, my views, I mean everything
- 19:00Speaker 6: that's not my daddy, so non short Jamaicans. But I
- 19:08Speaker 6: go into that and even as as early as me
- 19:11Speaker 6: like talking about my journey of having anal sex and
- 19:14Speaker 6: how I used to think any man that wanted it
- 19:17Speaker 6: was was gay because I was like, well, why would
- 19:20Speaker 6: you want that back hole when there's another hole?
- 19:22Speaker 5: And so I five, Oh that was funny because.
- 19:27Speaker 6: Just me, No, it like it like goes through my
- 19:32Speaker 6: journey of even like having to relearn and unlearn the
- 19:36Speaker 6: things that aren't true. And then we even get deep
- 19:38Speaker 6: and we talk about like our sexual assaults. I talk
- 19:41Speaker 6: about my abortion.
- 19:42Speaker 7: Six. The book is broken down. It's cool because like
- 19:45Speaker 7: when we get into that stuff. So it's pleasure, pain, progression,
- 19:49Speaker 7: and power. So like in the pain section, that's when
- 19:52Speaker 7: abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a
- 19:55Speaker 7: story of a dude bdsm bdsm like ying me up,
- 19:59Speaker 7: spanking me, choking me, like Mandy getting electrocuted.
- 20:03Speaker 5: That's my favorite.
- 20:03Speaker 4: I love yea.
- 20:07Speaker 6: I went to a dungeon with my ex and we
- 20:10Speaker 6: agreed to both do two things that we had never
- 20:12Speaker 6: done before. So he agreed to put allow me to
- 20:16Speaker 6: put him in a chastity voute, which took some time
- 20:18Speaker 6: because he kept growing and he couldn't grow in order
- 20:21Speaker 6: to lock him in. And then I allowed him to
- 20:24Speaker 6: uh do electro shock inside of me with a tool happens, yeah,
- 20:34Speaker 6: and so like it like spawned all of these electro
- 20:37Speaker 6: currents inside of me, and it was the best feeling.
- 20:40Speaker 6: It felt like almost like an alien. I was like,
- 20:42Speaker 6: I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight
- 20:44Speaker 6: tongues inside of me giving me oral at once.
- 20:47Speaker 4: It was it was the best feeling. I was like,
- 20:49Speaker 4: I just say't a normal feeling you gotta get.
- 20:51Speaker 6: It was great though one person, one person can't just
- 20:55Speaker 6: to be honest, I don't ride I don't ride. So
- 20:57Speaker 6: I would love for my partner to be able to
- 20:59Speaker 6: experience everything he wants to experience that.
- 21:00Speaker 4: I'm not down. I don't get on top. Let me
- 21:04Speaker 4: go get you somebody acrobatic. You mean you can be
- 21:10Speaker 4: on time, but I ain't getting on top. Nope.
- 21:14Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
- 21:14Speaker 6: I just came back from Carnival and the way them
- 21:16Speaker 6: girls were winding their hips and doing all the splits.
- 21:19Speaker 6: I said, my man deserves to experience a woman that flexible.
- 21:22Speaker 5: It ain't me though.
- 21:23Speaker 1: Isn't that a position of powerful woman?
- 21:25Speaker 5: When again, and it's the strongest.
- 21:29Speaker 4: That's great that you receive it that way. No, no, no,
- 21:33Speaker 4: I'm half white.
- 21:34Speaker 5: No I know, so it goes, it goes, It goes,
- 21:38Speaker 5: it goes.
- 21:39Speaker 4: You know, I do a little bit of okay, all right, well,
- 21:41Speaker 4: what what makes you have an orgasm? Oh, penetration, which
- 21:47Speaker 4: is why.
- 21:47Speaker 6: I can't be fully gay like and I want I
- 21:49Speaker 6: want a member with a with a pose that is
- 21:52Speaker 6: literally gay.
- 21:53Speaker 4: No no, no, no no, I want I want right here,
- 21:58Speaker 4: not like that I want, but I like a man body.
- 22:01Speaker 3: There's just so many things A girl couldn't knock you
- 22:03Speaker 3: up with a strap on. All right, you know it
- 22:05Speaker 3: needs to have a pulse.
- 22:05Speaker 4: I like the finishing.
- 22:07Speaker 1: What comes girls, It's just like the finish, And I like.
- 22:12Speaker 5: The I like I like that either.
- 22:15Speaker 7: Like when I had a girlfriend we maybe want in
- 22:17Speaker 7: the blue, used them for fun, and after a while
- 22:18Speaker 7: we were saying, it's just something about it, maybe because
- 22:22Speaker 7: her and I both.
- 22:23Speaker 5: Slept with men before. It's just like, no, that's.
- 22:25Speaker 4: Not what we'd oh, you know. And I like the finish.
- 22:27Speaker 4: I feel I've.
- 22:28Speaker 5: Always felt that toys.
- 22:30Speaker 7: So something I talk about in the book even is
- 22:32Speaker 7: like I realized after having a girlfriend that gay sex,
- 22:36Speaker 7: as far as lesbian sex is that we see, it's
- 22:39Speaker 7: really for the may od gates. It's not that sexy,
- 22:41Speaker 7: it's not that pretty.
- 22:43Speaker 5: Sometimes you be rubbing, you be on the neck, arm,
- 22:45Speaker 5: it's like you start rubbing stuff everywhere. It's not exactly
- 22:49Speaker 5: what we think.
- 22:50Speaker 1: It is nothing crazy.
- 22:51Speaker 9: And then watching two lesbians with a scrap on and
- 22:53Speaker 9: one of them sucking the scrap on, and the person
- 22:54Speaker 9: that got the scrap on is money.
- 22:57Speaker 4: Because sex is a psychological okay, so no one moans
- 23:05Speaker 4: when they suck you. But but I'm feeling anything by
- 23:09Speaker 4: giving it to you, and I made I got.
- 23:12Speaker 1: To scrap on, tell you.
- 23:17Speaker 3: Nothing, you tell you right now.
- 23:19Speaker 1: But I'm just saying it just seems.
- 23:21Speaker 7: Because right after you finished second, I could take it
- 23:25Speaker 7: off and throw it in the car.
- 23:26Speaker 1: So I think that's what he's saying.
- 23:28Speaker 7: Like, how okay, it's like you giving phone sex and
- 23:31Speaker 7: you moan, and like she said, it's you. There's something
- 23:34Speaker 7: about the action and also keeping.
- 23:36Speaker 5: In mind.
- 23:38Speaker 4: Because it's sexy watching you.
- 23:40Speaker 7: Do this is all B D S M right, So
- 23:43Speaker 7: you're being in the dominant position. That's how people wearing
- 23:47Speaker 7: it get off. It's like they know that you're on
- 23:50Speaker 7: your knees, you're being submissive, humiliate or whatever the word is.
- 23:53Speaker 5: So that's where they're getting to turn off from.
- 23:55Speaker 3: It was your crazy sexual experience. If that was was
- 23:57Speaker 3: getting electrocuted. What's yours?
- 23:59Speaker 4: Hers nasty?
- 24:03Speaker 7: No, it actually can't go on radio, but I'll just
- 24:05Speaker 7: say we'll put it behind the Patreon ahead.
- 24:17Speaker 4: She got something about blood.
- 24:19Speaker 5: Yes, okay, here's what happened.
- 24:23Speaker 1: Boy.
- 24:24Speaker 7: My man was just like, uh, I think I was
- 24:28Speaker 7: having a bad day and I was like, oh my god,
- 24:30Speaker 7: you don't love me. I feel bad, you know, but
- 24:32Speaker 7: just be complaining. I dated them, so I know, and uh,
- 24:35Speaker 7: He was like, why are you feeling like that?
- 24:37Speaker 5: What do you feel like this?
- 24:37Speaker 7: Because you in your period. I don't love you, I'm
- 24:39Speaker 7: not attracted to you. And I was like, I just
- 24:40Speaker 7: feel that way. And we were in the car and
- 24:43Speaker 7: he put the car in park and he said, put
- 24:46Speaker 7: your fingers inside of yourself.
- 24:47Speaker 5: I'm like no, and then he did it. He ate
- 24:51Speaker 5: it and he said, you think I love you now?
- 24:52Speaker 5: And it was like, it was like saltur.
- 24:57Speaker 4: Broke.
- 24:59Speaker 5: What you mean, my man?
- 25:00Speaker 1: Know that?
- 25:08Speaker 10: But god, I will say from Brooklyn rightmire, from the Bronx,
- 25:18Speaker 10: then God, but you know what it.
- 25:19Speaker 5: Is that's really dope about it.
- 25:21Speaker 7: Yes, you're listening to this right now, watching this, you're
- 25:23Speaker 7: like this is disgusting. But I think it's just that
- 25:26Speaker 7: when you have no boundaries with someone, it's sexy.
- 25:29Speaker 1: You got to get married.
- 25:30Speaker 9: Oh of course you told everybody in the radio pod
- 25:34Speaker 9: we gotta get married. Blood was like a little bit.
- 25:43Speaker 7: I didn't put that in the book because I was like, yo,
- 25:45Speaker 7: every time we really you think you've reached a level
- 25:48Speaker 7: sexually something that so so many things on our list,
- 25:51Speaker 7: But listen, I'm not judging. We definitely live a wholesome life.
- 25:54Speaker 7: Like we.
- 25:58Speaker 5: Had this woman went on a.
- 25:59Speaker 4: Date with her.
- 26:00Speaker 5: Was a wild night, so wholesome.
- 26:01Speaker 7: And my father he's in a nursing home right now
- 26:04Speaker 7: and we had to make sure we were there in
- 26:06Speaker 7: the morning to go see him. We got up with
- 26:08Speaker 7: sitting there, he played checkers and stuff.
- 26:10Speaker 5: We looking at each other like we really just having
- 26:14Speaker 5: his family moment. It's like our sex life is our
- 26:16Speaker 5: sex life.
- 26:18Speaker 1: That's what he.
- 26:24Speaker 5: Okay, that's what's funny about it.
- 26:26Speaker 1: And your mama thank you, and she.
- 26:29Speaker 5: Would love to hear that. You know she loves you.
- 26:31Speaker 5: She went to go to Charlottage's book to her. She
- 26:33Speaker 5: was like, he was looking at me, and I was
- 26:35Speaker 5: like it because he knows who I am, or he's
- 26:36Speaker 5: looking at me girl. Okay, Happy birthday worth thirteenth, Sorry Sport, Okay,
- 26:46Speaker 5: whatever day is. I don't know, we're hose, we don't know.
- 26:49Speaker 4: Have y'all ever been sexually never? Okay never?
- 26:53Speaker 3: He said, that's so fast, Like I don't even look
- 26:55Speaker 3: at her like that.
- 26:56Speaker 4: Have y'all had sex and we've never?
- 26:59Speaker 1: Never?
- 27:00Speaker 5: Would you? Was you really about to ask me?
- 27:02Speaker 4: Why do people think that?
- 27:05Speaker 1: Are you? Are you serious?
- 27:07Speaker 5: I don't feel like Mandy and I give the energy
- 27:09Speaker 5: like we've.
- 27:10Speaker 1: Never be for a long time. It was a point
- 27:12Speaker 1: where they got to be some sexual definitely. I did
- 27:16Speaker 1: feel like that.
- 27:17Speaker 4: Now, Oh my god, it's just yeah.
- 27:20Speaker 7: I mean no, no, y'all don't seem like lovers at
- 27:23Speaker 7: all and nothing like that. But I mean with all this,
- 27:26Speaker 7: y'all got it in Calmon and how y'all just.
- 27:29Speaker 5: So watch have sex. And she reminded me.
- 27:32Speaker 4: So we're sitting with I didn't really watch. I was
- 27:34Speaker 4: just on the bed.
- 27:36Speaker 5: Okay.
- 27:37Speaker 4: Now she was scared because she met him at the club.
- 27:42Speaker 6: We was like sixteen, using fake Id's down in Miami
- 27:45Speaker 6: Memorial that weekend she found got she liked the club.
- 27:48Speaker 5: Yes, crazy about twenty years.
- 27:53Speaker 7: I forgot this story, right, So she forgot about our
- 27:55Speaker 7: co Arthur, and she's trying to dig stories out of us.
- 27:59Speaker 5: So I said, you know, crazy, I've never had a
- 28:00Speaker 5: one nice stand man. He's like, that's a lie. I'm like, no,
- 28:02Speaker 5: it's not. She I was right there on the bed, yeah, like,
- 28:06Speaker 5: oh not anything pre titties. I feel like, don't count.
- 28:09Speaker 6: See this is why, see the wholeness could be deleted.
- 28:11Speaker 6: She's talking about plantings.
- 28:12Speaker 4: Slice you can take miles off a car.
- 28:15Speaker 6: No, it was like yeah, literally, I mean that was
- 28:19Speaker 6: back in the day, you know, like selfon I think
- 28:21Speaker 6: we had pye kicks back then, Like it wasn't to
- 28:23Speaker 6: where you know, you had so much access.
- 28:26Speaker 4: So she wanted to him. I was like, okay, I'm.
- 28:28Speaker 3: Gonna sit at sixteen.
- 28:32Speaker 1: Yeah, in Miami.
- 28:34Speaker 4: We drove to Miami, we live.
- 28:36Speaker 5: We had no teen pregnancies we know were an abortion.
- 28:41Speaker 5: I said, we have a team pregnancy.
- 28:43Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 28:43Speaker 4: I got rid of it clearly.
- 28:46Speaker 5: I think they were eighteen.
- 28:47Speaker 4: It was like, I'm not trying to be in Miami
- 28:49Speaker 4: at least bro to be in a club in Miami.
- 28:54Speaker 6: It's twenty one, and forgot we have fake You think
- 28:57Speaker 6: they didn't got fakes many?
- 28:59Speaker 5: No, they some They were staying together because you didn't
- 29:01Speaker 5: even remember him.
- 29:02Speaker 2: Don't try to sit here and can Back then, everybody
- 29:04Speaker 2: was staying with each other's back then.
- 29:05Speaker 3: Nobody had no money.
- 29:06Speaker 4: It was like nine.
- 29:07Speaker 5: It was no shame, no shame.
- 29:09Speaker 4: He had money, so he wasn't nineteen because he had
- 29:11Speaker 4: his own room. He wasn't shared with nobody.
- 29:13Speaker 5: That was no courtyard.
- 29:15Speaker 6: And don't remember, yo, let me tell you when I
- 29:21Speaker 6: was really reflected. I thought this was gonna be way
- 29:24Speaker 6: more different. You came in with a blazer.
- 29:26Speaker 4: I have on plaid. I don't understand how we're taking
- 29:29Speaker 4: it here.
- 29:29Speaker 5: Y'all wanted us to spice up y'all morning, to see, let's.
- 29:32Speaker 4: Go back to being okay.
- 29:34Speaker 5: So what is trap house?
- 29:35Speaker 1: Oh girl?
- 29:37Speaker 7: So I've been going to workouts in New York for
- 29:40Speaker 7: almost a decade and I love Pilates inspired movement and
- 29:44Speaker 7: I love lifting, and so literally.
- 29:46Speaker 5: I went to a plate class.
- 29:47Speaker 7: I'm not even joking. It was February this year, and
- 29:49Speaker 7: I was saying to the instructor, like, oh my god, girl,
- 29:51Speaker 7: that was such an amazing workout, Thank you, Like I
- 29:53Speaker 7: needed some like some trap or something.
- 29:56Speaker 5: She's like, I'd never played that here.
- 29:58Speaker 7: And made me feel so small like and I was like,
- 30:03Speaker 7: I'll make that ship and so I And it's funny
- 30:06Speaker 7: because someone said to me when I made it, do
- 30:08Speaker 7: you know Envy wants to do hip hop plates?
- 30:10Speaker 1: Who told you that? It was?
- 30:11Speaker 5: Maybe it was just.
- 30:12Speaker 2: Someone I mentioned it about it because I don't tell
- 30:15Speaker 2: nobody es not him. But I go to Pilate's right,
- 30:18Speaker 2: Why do I care if you go to because I don't.
- 30:20Speaker 3: Want you to pull up on me. Look at my
- 30:21Speaker 3: ass when I'm out.
- 30:21Speaker 4: There, but anyway, I'm looking at his ass, and I said, looking.
- 30:30Speaker 1: What's on your mind? So you listen three or four years,
- 30:33Speaker 1: but when.
- 30:33Speaker 3: You go to pilates, there's never no music that you
- 30:35Speaker 3: There's no hip hop.
- 30:36Speaker 5: It hard, you're shaking, you know what I'm saying.
- 30:38Speaker 7: So literally my favorite genres of music of all time,
- 30:41Speaker 7: and I listened to everything. It's trapping house music. So
- 30:44Speaker 7: I was gonna buy an apartment in New York right
- 30:46Speaker 7: I had money. I was like one hundred fifty gamma
- 30:48Speaker 7: buy a million dollar house and I was like no,
- 30:50Speaker 7: it's either that to start a business. So because I'm
- 30:53Speaker 7: not a fitness and trainer, I had to you know,
- 30:55Speaker 7: partner with someone. And so I found my favorite instructor
- 30:58Speaker 7: in New York black dudes name Jeff Blue, and I
- 31:00Speaker 7: was like, yo, I want you to make this and
- 31:03Speaker 7: he literally was like trapped and pilates. I'm like, I'm
- 31:07Speaker 7: telling you, dog, and he did everything. We flew him
- 31:10Speaker 7: to La to learn lagree. That's the really hard kinds
- 31:13Speaker 7: and like training these instructors to do things that people
- 31:16Speaker 7: have never done.
- 31:17Speaker 5: So and it's funny because you'll see buff ass dudes
- 31:19Speaker 5: come in doing it.
- 31:20Speaker 7: They come in and they shake him like crazy, and
- 31:22Speaker 7: then they go on the other one and they're shaking.
- 31:24Speaker 7: And then the little girls that are super tiny can't
- 31:26Speaker 7: do the lifting. So everybody's doing something different. But even
- 31:30Speaker 7: as I've evolved, my partner Brionda, she's like, all right,
- 31:32Speaker 7: who's making the music. I'm like, me, I got good
- 31:35Speaker 7: music sation. She's like, that's not anough.
- 31:37Speaker 5: So I had to get a music director.
- 31:40Speaker 7: And every step of the way I've tried to make
- 31:42Speaker 7: this elevated, just so a bitch came. Now you know
- 31:44Speaker 7: it's a black owned business, they'd be like, you ain't
- 31:46Speaker 7: got this. Even the candles, I want to find all
- 31:48Speaker 7: the candles.
- 31:49Speaker 5: I'm like, gotta be a little livo. Every single thing
- 31:51Speaker 5: I made.
- 31:52Speaker 7: That I wanted to be luxury, especially because you're walking
- 31:55Speaker 7: in there and you hear Jesus talking about how Chitto
- 31:57Speaker 7: like it get real ghetto.
- 31:58Speaker 1: It looked like business woman though from what I see
- 32:00Speaker 1: on Instagram, I.
- 32:01Speaker 7: Haven't been able to take a class because it's been
- 32:04Speaker 7: so busy.
- 32:04Speaker 5: I wait, because that's what's said.
- 32:08Speaker 3: I want to do a group trip there, right, and
- 32:11Speaker 3: and you got to come to sho Well, he.
- 32:15Speaker 5: Want I want to.
- 32:17Speaker 1: I don't want to be sexually harassed, but.
- 32:19Speaker 2: I want to take a group trip there and put
- 32:21Speaker 2: everybody in pilates for fifty minutes.
- 32:23Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's hard, especially for the people that
- 32:25Speaker 4: haven't done it's it's not.
- 32:28Speaker 3: I used to go four times a week, five times
- 32:30Speaker 3: a week. My wife and my dough we go together.
- 32:32Speaker 5: Oh so you're gonna be good, it's megrant former.
- 32:35Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's that's fine.
- 32:36Speaker 1: We do it all.
- 32:37Speaker 3: But I enjoy it. People don't know how difficult it is,
- 32:42Speaker 3: but how it helps you as well as far as strength.
- 32:44Speaker 5: Why they don't either. The look of pilates is skinny
- 32:48Speaker 5: lawn white.
- 32:49Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, I'm sitting here like I never had a
- 32:51Speaker 4: desire to do it.
- 32:52Speaker 7: I was making jokes like, Oh, we're gonna open how
- 32:54Speaker 7: these white girls they're gonna be like, oh, what is
- 32:56Speaker 7: Gucci man break? Like I really thought that was gonna
- 32:58Speaker 7: happen when I tell you all black women, and it's
- 33:02Speaker 7: mind blowing to me. I actually wasn't ready for that,
- 33:04Speaker 7: but just TikTok. We were literally working out when I
- 33:06Speaker 7: was in the other day and it was, but none
- 33:09Speaker 7: of my coochie.
- 33:10Speaker 4: I was like, this is crazy, none of my coochie.
- 33:13Speaker 1: Oh okay, how did you promote it? How did you
- 33:18Speaker 1: get the worried out so fast?
- 33:19Speaker 4: Okay?
- 33:19Speaker 7: So I truthfully was really worried about strategy because I
- 33:23Speaker 7: didn't know. So I posted myself making something cool. You know,
- 33:26Speaker 7: when you can have a taste maker vibe, like people
- 33:28Speaker 7: know I like the party, they know I like music.
- 33:30Speaker 5: I thought that would work.
- 33:31Speaker 7: It literally was just people tiktoking. We've never made one TikTok.
- 33:36Speaker 7: It's just genuine a girls like listen.
- 33:38Speaker 6: That's why I listen that that ain't going away on
- 33:40Speaker 6: the night. A whole lot of it's gonna fake the econdomy.
- 33:44Speaker 6: It's like there's a lot of people that make money off.
- 33:46Speaker 1: Of their Frank McCord project Liberty.
- 33:50Speaker 3: There's nothing like that.
- 33:51Speaker 2: And I always say that the biggest business is what
- 33:53Speaker 2: makes people riches is to have something that nobody else has, right,
- 33:56Speaker 2: And there's so many minorities that love Plata. I'm the
- 33:59Speaker 2: only black guy when I go. I'm usually the only
- 34:01Speaker 2: guy when I do I'm black. But when I do go,
- 34:04Speaker 2: I hate the music. So the fact that I was there.
- 34:06Speaker 2: The first thing I said, where is it?
- 34:07Speaker 1: I want to go?
- 34:07Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
- 34:07Speaker 2: Because I want to try it out, because I would
- 34:09Speaker 2: love to do it. Because it's already painful, right, you
- 34:11Speaker 2: already trying to focus. But if I had the music
- 34:14Speaker 2: that I enjoy, it makes it fun now when I
- 34:16Speaker 2: can really go through it.
- 34:16Speaker 3: So I'm I'm we're gonna do a family trip there.
- 34:19Speaker 7: I made a code for everybody breakfast. There's ten bucks off.
- 34:22Speaker 7: Even if you've already been you can still use it.
- 34:24Speaker 7: But with the house music.
- 34:26Speaker 5: By the way, my mom is a studio fifty four girl.
- 34:29Speaker 7: She's a black woman. I've been listening to the house
- 34:30Speaker 7: music my whole life. I've always thought it was black.
- 34:32Speaker 7: I feel like all we know is showed me love.
- 34:34Speaker 5: But house music is black. Yeah, I mean, I'm not
- 34:38Speaker 5: playing out rant.
- 34:39Speaker 7: I'm playing that shit followed me hus because I'm bougie.
- 34:43Speaker 1: OK, because I mean it can still read as traps,
- 34:46Speaker 1: oh sothing, Like why why did you spell.
- 34:51Speaker 5: It like that?
- 34:51Speaker 7: To be honest, it was because I feel like when
- 34:53Speaker 7: we see the year or like a different version of house,
- 34:55Speaker 7: we always say, oh, this is like kind of you know,
- 34:57Speaker 7: and then I go like a house.
- 34:59Speaker 5: If someone gooted it, it buy like a weed stores.
- 35:01Speaker 7: Yeah, trap house, by the way, I wanted to call
- 35:04Speaker 7: it Trapilates, but shout out. I don't know who they are,
- 35:06Speaker 7: but you know, the trademark was taken in Atlanta. So
- 35:08Speaker 7: but we already know Atlanta got trapp Lotto. But I
- 35:12Speaker 7: mean my goal, Like people be asking me the franchise.
- 35:13Speaker 7: We've been opened six days, People like, oh, can you
- 35:15Speaker 7: franchise it.
- 35:16Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, yeah, like.
- 35:17Speaker 3: I got to learn from every wed, so congratulations.
- 35:20Speaker 1: But yeah, money, we don't talk about your entrepreneur ventures enough.
- 35:24Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You got WTF media man,
- 35:26Speaker 1: You had the studio.
- 35:27Speaker 4: I still have it open. Yeah, it's just now need
- 35:29Speaker 4: to know studios.
- 35:30Speaker 6: Yeah, but I I relocated to Atlanta. I have other
- 35:34Speaker 6: opportunities professionally down there. But yeah, and right now I'm
- 35:38Speaker 6: working on scripts and pitching those. I just wrote another
- 35:42Speaker 6: proposal for a book after writing the book with you.
- 35:44Speaker 6: I definitely just love the process. I want to continue
- 35:47Speaker 6: doing that. And yeah, I think over the last eight years,
- 35:50Speaker 6: I think that's why we've been able to keep this going,
- 35:52Speaker 6: because we've both been able to just branch out individually
- 35:55Speaker 6: and do the things that we really.
- 35:56Speaker 5: Turning over your money that you make.
- 35:58Speaker 7: Like when we got our first Black Effect check, it
- 36:01Speaker 7: was so dope because to be on salary for a podcast,
- 36:04Speaker 7: it's just like unheard.
- 36:06Speaker 5: Of, and we were making We quit our jobs before,
- 36:08Speaker 5: you know, so like we were in this doing this.
- 36:10Speaker 7: But it's just mind blowing that we've been able to
- 36:14Speaker 7: take that business acumen and flip it because a lot
- 36:16Speaker 7: of people think when you're a podcaster, people really don't
- 36:19Speaker 7: know how I make money, Like I think so many
- 36:21Speaker 7: people think I have only fans when they meet me, which.
- 36:23Speaker 3: I get it.
- 36:24Speaker 7: I feel like I could have the look, but t
- 36:26Speaker 7: is already out like okay, but content creation is one
- 36:29Speaker 7: thing and then it's like businesses.
- 36:32Speaker 6: No, no, not only that, it's just diversifying as well
- 36:34Speaker 6: how you bring in money. So between Black Effect now
- 36:37Speaker 6: the book which Charlemagne as well, then we have Patreon,
- 36:40Speaker 6: then we tour, shout out to Justin and merchandise. We
- 36:44Speaker 6: have five different means of income just for the podcast.
- 36:46Speaker 6: So even though we're not in the write ups like
- 36:49Speaker 6: the other white podcasts talking about one hundred million dollar deals,
- 36:52Speaker 6: are our business and what horrible decisions does make.
- 36:55Speaker 4: Seven figures a year. We are a seven figure podcast.
- 36:58Speaker 3: We're not one hundred we.
- 37:00Speaker 4: Are, but we we have seven figures, like and we
- 37:03Speaker 4: make that yearly.
- 37:04Speaker 5: So I love it.
- 37:05Speaker 4: And then again, that's just one form of income. Again.
- 37:08Speaker 4: She has her studio, I have my studio. We have
- 37:10Speaker 4: other things that we do as well outside.
- 37:12Speaker 9: So the Decision is a business that generates money, and
- 37:14Speaker 9: I love how y'all use that money to build other
- 37:16Speaker 9: other businesses.
- 37:17Speaker 7: I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business.
- 37:21Speaker 5: Don't have to be brick and mortar, but like, literally, oh.
- 37:24Speaker 4: Yeah, shout out to you.
- 37:24Speaker 6: What is when you got into brick and mortar even
- 37:27Speaker 6: having the studio, like dealing with an actual location and
- 37:30Speaker 6: staff And I'm like, oh, yeah, that ain't me.
- 37:33Speaker 5: Do you know the owner of the building that you have?
- 37:35Speaker 5: A SOHO?
- 37:36Speaker 7: So we got three buildings, four different studios, right. The
- 37:39Speaker 7: SOHO dude hits me up about how someone filed an
- 37:43Speaker 7: insurance claim and I'm like what they were like, yeah,
- 37:44Speaker 7: they fold my the bathroom.
- 37:46Speaker 5: I was like, I'm so sorry to hear that. He
- 37:48Speaker 5: was like it's good, Like he has huge buildings. He's like,
- 37:50Speaker 5: I've already got this covered, but like that's what's building business.
- 37:55Speaker 5: I was trying to make sure it's spit in the studio.
- 37:57Speaker 3: Gott yeah house.
- 38:01Speaker 6: It's crazy to me all the businesses though, all the projects,
- 38:04Speaker 6: everything that we do creatively, those are my babies as
- 38:07Speaker 6: a woman that doesn't want kids. And when people talk
- 38:10Speaker 6: about what legacy looks like and things, the things that
- 38:12Speaker 6: I'm creating are going to outlive me and my kids
- 38:17Speaker 6: if I had any their kids. So to me, my
- 38:19Speaker 6: legacy and what I'm leaving are the things and businesses
- 38:22Speaker 6: that I'm creating. And I think Weezy and I talk
- 38:23Speaker 6: about it as well. I think it's wonderful that we're
- 38:25Speaker 6: able to like provide salaries and pay people, like even
- 38:29Speaker 6: our Horrible Decisions team is like ten people. And then
- 38:32Speaker 6: she has her studio team. I have my studio, and
- 38:34Speaker 6: it's just like it's great.
- 38:35Speaker 3: How do y'all take with you in Atlanta? And you
- 38:37Speaker 3: hear New York. How do y'all take the podcast?
- 38:38Speaker 6: We both record and she was just in Atlanta. I
- 38:41Speaker 6: go to la whenever we're in the same city, we
- 38:43Speaker 6: find a studio on record, gotcha.
- 38:45Speaker 5: It's honestly too like I mean, you wasn't even do
- 38:48Speaker 5: you live here? Now I do?
- 38:50Speaker 4: Now you do?
- 38:50Speaker 5: But yeah, like you make it word, you know what
- 38:52Speaker 5: I'm saying.
- 38:53Speaker 7: I remember when I first heard that, like just didn't
- 38:55Speaker 7: live here when she was first working. I was like, wow,
- 38:58Speaker 7: but like you got your home is at home? Like
- 39:00Speaker 7: what are you gonna do your job? I think she'd
- 39:02Speaker 7: be secondary.
- 39:03Speaker 4: So Mandy.
- 39:03Speaker 5: I felt that Atlanta coming and I was like, oh
- 39:06Speaker 5: my god, she's gonna do it. She's gonna do it.
- 39:08Speaker 6: I wanted to move to Atlanta years ago, but I
- 39:10Speaker 6: had another show that kept me here that thankfully I ended,
- 39:13Speaker 6: and it was amazing ending it, and so now that
- 39:18Speaker 6: I don't have to be here weekly to do a
- 39:20Speaker 6: current event pod. Yeah, as soon as I ended that,
- 39:23Speaker 6: I was like, yeah.
- 39:24Speaker 5: Which, by the way, many and I have left it
- 39:26Speaker 5: so long. When that show ended, we already.
- 39:29Speaker 4: Got to say. See the thing is it was another
- 39:32Speaker 4: show that I had.
- 39:33Speaker 7: People We've been together so long, so if someone is
- 39:35Speaker 7: a casual listener, they're thinking it's Mandy and I.
- 39:37Speaker 5: I woke up to all these texts. It was my birthday.
- 39:39Speaker 5: I think. When it happened, I was like, what am
- 39:41Speaker 5: I talking about? And then my mother called me because
- 39:44Speaker 5: Mandy made a video.
- 39:46Speaker 4: That's who made our rollout so good.
- 39:47Speaker 6: When everyone thought we broke up, they was like, oh,
- 39:50Speaker 6: of course I became I'm the villain whatever, and they
- 39:54Speaker 6: made it seem like, oh, she can't keep a partner,
- 39:55Speaker 6: she can't keep a podcast up. She can't And it
- 39:58Speaker 6: was like we played until that, especially with me ending
- 40:01Speaker 6: the pot last year.
- 40:02Speaker 5: My mom called me, like, Mandy is on the internet
- 40:05Speaker 5: comment off on you, and.
- 40:06Speaker 4: When did you do this?
- 40:07Speaker 1: I'm like, when did you do this?
- 40:08Speaker 5: It wasn't me.
- 40:09Speaker 7: I'm like, if another lights to get walk back, but yeah,
- 40:15Speaker 7: real celebrity drama.
- 40:17Speaker 1: It's you're running naked in the halls.
- 40:19Speaker 5: It's all the news like it is something.
- 40:22Speaker 4: You know, it is.
- 40:24Speaker 1: Serious. Well, I'm proud of y'all.
- 40:26Speaker 4: Man, thank you.
- 40:27Speaker 1: Thanks.
- 40:28Speaker 9: The book No Hols Bar, The Dual Manifesto of Sexual
- 40:31Speaker 9: Exploration and Power will be in stores June twenty fourth.
- 40:34Speaker 4: June twenty tonight. That's right, you got them nails them
- 40:38Speaker 4: two shop. Yeah, take a play with It's for men
- 40:41Speaker 4: and women. No, it's for I'm thoughtful about other people.
- 40:45Speaker 5: Okay, all right, because I was just one handed purposely okay.
- 40:52Speaker 3: Yeah, when you go to the nails law, and you'll
- 40:55Speaker 3: be like, no, no, no, no, not these two open.
- 40:58Speaker 3: They have to ask why, and you tell.
- 40:59Speaker 5: Me, don't you know? It's either I braid here or
- 41:02Speaker 5: type a lot.
- 41:03Speaker 4: And I'm sure they do.
- 41:07Speaker 7: They do.
- 41:07Speaker 4: They asked.
- 41:08Speaker 5: By the way, Jess, I cannot wait till your auntie
- 41:10Speaker 5: age you said, now, no you're not.
- 41:14Speaker 1: I'm not forty.
- 41:15Speaker 7: You have an undertone of auntie when you just said
- 41:18Speaker 7: to them, now, oh that's what you do, all right, age,
- 41:22Speaker 7: forty's not for.
- 41:25Speaker 5: Fun. Don't let you have a lesbian you and that girl.
- 41:29Speaker 7: Your sister, Yeah, my little sister, she just she too
- 41:33Speaker 7: new though she ain't get out the trial period.
- 41:35Speaker 5: My little sister she gay. She believe that it's a.
- 41:38Speaker 4: It's twenty one though, so you know, she she she
- 41:42Speaker 4: still could be, you know, trying.
- 41:43Speaker 7: I'm not saying that she won't be gay forever, but
- 41:47Speaker 7: she's still when she said a little she got a
- 41:49Speaker 7: little twickle on eye for these little guys out here,
- 41:51Speaker 7: so she can't be fully gay.
- 41:53Speaker 1: She has three saying.
- 41:59Speaker 7: A pretty nigga and gonna be straight right right, because
- 42:01Speaker 7: she don't like to sexually engage with men, but she's
- 42:05Speaker 7: still like to look at them, Missip.
- 42:06Speaker 4: But she like having sex with girls, so that's I
- 42:10Speaker 4: don't know, is that a seven?
- 42:11Speaker 7: Like?
- 42:13Speaker 4: Okay, that's gay.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Okay, she put you on new music, she put me on.
- 42:17Speaker 4: Yeah, it's this new song. You have ever heard this song?
- 42:20Speaker 7: I forgot his name, but it'd be like niggas can
- 42:23Speaker 7: be gay to listen, niggas can be.
- 42:37Speaker 4: Like you ain't never heard?
- 42:40Speaker 5: You know, they're talking about black men like, yeah, we didn't.
- 42:46Speaker 4: Already already?
- 42:50Speaker 6: Oh he didn't. I like his new song, y'all gotta
- 42:53Speaker 6: have little Na up here to talk about.
- 42:55Speaker 9: You know.
- 42:56Speaker 4: I'm sure he's still his sexuality, but his music is
- 42:59Speaker 4: different now.
- 43:00Speaker 5: And it's really good.
- 43:01Speaker 4: I really like him, you know that.
- 43:02Speaker 5: Steve Lacy, I love.
- 43:07Speaker 4: Tyler, my little sister playing right.
- 43:17Speaker 5: Listen to.
- 43:23Speaker 4: Trump. Trump would be like if your train.
- 43:29Speaker 3: We appreciate you joining us Decision Podcast.
- 43:32Speaker 6: Go pre order the book and make sure you listen
- 43:35Speaker 6: to us wherever you listen to your favorite podcast, but
- 43:38Speaker 6: also on the iHeart podcast app because we are there
- 43:41Speaker 6: under the Black Effect Network.
- 43:42Speaker 4: It's Decisions Decision and then if you do want.
- 43:45Speaker 6: The X rated things where we do talk more about
- 43:48Speaker 6: horrible decisions. Did not leave we're just behind the pay well,
- 43:51Speaker 6: so join us on Patreon this patreon dot comeback slash
- 43:53Speaker 6: horrible decisions.
- 43:54Speaker 5: That story you got that was five dollars.
- 43:56Speaker 1: Maybe, And the whole hive is so active that when
- 44:02Speaker 1: the book first was announced it was.
- 44:05Speaker 5: Hit number one.
- 44:06Speaker 6: They when it had and immediately work or pre ordering
- 44:09Speaker 6: their books. So we're really excited. And of course we
- 44:11Speaker 6: will be touring. We'll announce that later, but you guys
- 44:13Speaker 6: will be able to see us do this live.
- 44:16Speaker 7: I know you got to go, but just to tell
- 44:17Speaker 7: you about there was a girl that's a really big
- 44:20Speaker 7: fan of yours at the live show we just had
- 44:23Speaker 7: and she was taken.
- 44:24Speaker 4: I know, she's taking a picture of me.
- 44:25Speaker 5: And I'm like, oh, I know you will go to
- 44:27Speaker 5: all his books? Did you see him? She's like, who hive?
- 44:29Speaker 5: He always here?
- 44:32Speaker 4: That almost made me hear.
- 44:34Speaker 1: But I know y'all said no king shaman? Yes, what
- 44:37Speaker 1: if the king is animals?
- 44:39Speaker 7: No?
- 44:39Speaker 4: So we have rules uh no kids, no animals, no
- 44:42Speaker 4: dead bodies.
- 44:44Speaker 5: Those are the three and consensual and of course.
- 44:46Speaker 4: Consensual like everything consensual.
- 44:48Speaker 6: But we absolutely zero tolerance for PDFs, for bestiality and
- 44:54Speaker 6: for uh necrophilia.
- 44:55Speaker 9: Got because there was a guy in Florida who I
- 44:57Speaker 9: gave donkey the day two this morning, he put his
- 44:59Speaker 9: penis in the is that is that.
- 45:01Speaker 4: Is that's also animal abuse. But that's crazy, that's crazy.
- 45:06Speaker 5: And what color with tea.
- 45:09Speaker 1: And white?
- 45:10Speaker 4: I mean, but Florida, Florida and Florida. I don't even
- 45:14Speaker 4: go based on color.
- 45:15Speaker 5: It's just watching Florida.
- 45:17Speaker 4: I do on Florida is good.
- 45:20Speaker 1: Eating them, it's good. It ain't as good as the
- 45:22Speaker 1: regular Florida stories we read in the news, though, but it's.
- 45:25Speaker 7: Good now that black man and a white dude with
- 45:27Speaker 7: no teeth and he burned the house over it was
- 45:29Speaker 7: still together.
- 45:31Speaker 5: It's good, but it's it's re enactment of Florida man stories.
- 45:35Speaker 5: But I think what's so crazy about Florida were from there?
- 45:38Speaker 4: So from Florida and we be it's embarrassed.
- 45:40Speaker 5: Do you think I was we were doing bampire hello,
- 45:44Speaker 5: because you're.
- 45:45Speaker 4: Not not we, not we, not we. Sometimes you have
- 45:47Speaker 4: to speak for yourself first.
- 45:48Speaker 11: Anyway, all right, it's the Breakfast good Morning wake that
- 46:00Speaker 11: airs
- 46:01Speaker 1: Up early in the morning at Breakfast club