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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, delicious friends, and welcome to Who Did What Now?
- 0:03Speaker 1: The history podcast That's not your history class with me,
- 0:07Speaker 1: your host Katie Charlwood, History harlot and reader of books.
- 0:13Speaker 1: So there's a lot going on at the moment, and
- 0:16Speaker 1: this isn't even like my life. This is just in
- 0:19Speaker 1: the world at time of recording. The madline, which is
- 0:23Speaker 1: the aid flotilla, the humanitarian aid flotilla that is trying
- 0:27Speaker 1: to get humanitarian aid in to Palestine. Right it has
- 0:34Speaker 1: been intercepted, the crew have been kidnapped, and they're putting
- 0:41Speaker 1: out all these like propaganda photos of like, oh, we
- 0:45Speaker 1: gave them sandwiches, and it's like, yeah, they're on an
- 0:48Speaker 1: entire flotilla of aid which is going to include food.
- 0:52Speaker 1: You don't think they brought food really, so they did that.
- 0:57Speaker 1: On top of that, like here's here's the thing. Here's
- 1:02Speaker 1: here's the thing. Israel are reporting that they've stopped the
- 1:08Speaker 1: selfie yacht, which is such a weird way to phrase
- 1:15Speaker 1: humanitarian aid flotilla.
- 1:19Speaker 2: What.
- 1:21Speaker 1: And then on top of this we have Los Angeles.
- 1:24Speaker 1: So basically ice agents, who as federal agents, should have
- 1:29Speaker 1: like a badge number and a name, and you should
- 1:31Speaker 1: be able to hold them accountable for their actions. Yeah,
- 1:33Speaker 1: isn't that how this works? Like, isn't that a thing anyway?
- 1:39Speaker 1: So they're trying to kidnap people in Los Angeles, and
- 1:42Speaker 1: the good citizens of Los Angeles have decided that they
- 1:45Speaker 1: don't want that happening, and so they are just making
- 1:48Speaker 1: like human barriers to stop them, you know, kidnapping and
- 1:53Speaker 1: detaining their friends, family, nables. Right, and so they are
- 1:57Speaker 1: peacefully protesting and there's there's been nothing nothing happening in
- 2:03Speaker 1: Congressmen and congresswomen sorry members of Congress, I suppose as
- 2:07Speaker 1: the best term, have been trying to get into detention
- 2:10Speaker 1: centers to see people because legally, you cannot stop a
- 2:14Speaker 1: member of Congress from seeing their constituents, even if they're
- 2:17Speaker 1: being detained, like that's just the law. And they keep
- 2:21Speaker 1: being turned away, which is like illegal. So that's the
- 2:24Speaker 1: whole situation. But yeah, they're like they sent him the
- 2:28Speaker 1: National Guard, like as if they're wanting an escalation. And
- 2:33Speaker 1: there was an Australian journalist, like you can see the video.
- 2:37Speaker 1: They aim at her, they take aim and they shoot her,
- 2:42Speaker 1: which is like with a rubber bullet. And here's the thing.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Rubber bullets are meant to be deterreds. You're never supposed
- 2:49Speaker 1: to aim at a person with a rubber bullet. The
- 2:52Speaker 1: whole purpose of a rubber bullet is to hit the ground,
- 2:55Speaker 1: and it's supposed to bounce up and hit them on
- 2:57Speaker 1: the leg. It's supposed to be like annoying. It's supposed
- 3:00Speaker 1: to force people to move. It's not supposed to be
- 3:03Speaker 1: used as a bill. It like, you're not supposed to
- 3:08Speaker 1: aim it at a person, Like that's not a thing.
- 3:13Speaker 1: Take it from someone who's you know, troubles adjacent, you know,
- 3:18Speaker 1: like it's just it's just across the road, like I'm
- 3:20Speaker 1: from Donegal, Like this is stuff we know, you know,
- 3:24Speaker 1: and it is it is wild that this is happening
- 3:27Speaker 1: right now. And don't get me started on the the
- 3:30Speaker 1: Elon Musk. It's this Trump so that they showed you
- 3:35Speaker 1: how like how insane this all is because my brain
- 3:37Speaker 1: is not computing it. Like they're having like a breakup
- 3:42Speaker 1: of sorts and they're just like admitting to the crimes
- 3:46Speaker 1: that they like they were in doing and it is
- 3:50Speaker 1: just chaos and there's possibly going to be like a
- 3:53Speaker 1: massive attack on Ukraine from Russia after they did that
- 3:58Speaker 1: amazing just sneaky tack and bombed everything. But yes, yes,
- 4:03Speaker 1: that is that is the world right now, and so
- 4:07Speaker 1: there's a lot happening and who knows what will have
- 4:11Speaker 1: happened by the time this episode is out Like that
- 4:14Speaker 1: is wild. But yes, ah sure, I know what you're thinking, Katie,
- 4:19Speaker 1: quite your jabber jabb or in fact me, in fact
- 4:22Speaker 1: you I will. But first we've got to get our
- 4:25Speaker 1: source on, and our sources are suits me The Double
- 4:33Speaker 1: Life of Billy Tipton by Diane Middlebrook, The Strange Story
- 4:39Speaker 1: of Billy Tipton by Kit Boss, Billy Tipton, Self Made
- 4:46Speaker 1: Man by Sally Lherman, Billy Tipton by Johnnyannis. And of
- 4:52Speaker 1: course we have our old favorites biography dot Com. I
- 4:58Speaker 1: use it in comfortably good. Then let's begin. So it
- 5:04Speaker 1: is Pride month, and obviously I want to focus this
- 5:06Speaker 1: month on LGBTQIA people. So last week we had Luisa
- 5:12Speaker 1: may Alcott, who I am fairly convinced was asexual and
- 5:17Speaker 1: that is my personal belief. And many other historians back
- 5:21Speaker 1: this up, or you know, back me up, well not
- 5:24Speaker 1: me personally, but back this theory up. Maybe some of
- 5:26Speaker 1: them back me up hymns to say. And so this
- 5:29Speaker 1: week I want to talk about Billy Tipton, who was
- 5:34Speaker 1: a jazz person. That's a jazz person, and they were
- 5:41Speaker 1: a trans man. Now, the biographer from the nineteen ninety
- 5:46Speaker 1: eight nineteen ninety nine biography suits me only refers to
- 5:53Speaker 1: Billy as a woman and says that basically Bully pretended
- 5:57Speaker 1: to be a man to get forward in life. But
- 6:02Speaker 1: as far as I'm concerned, that biographer was a dick,
- 6:04Speaker 1: So screw you, Diane liddlebook. Because here's the thing. There's
- 6:10Speaker 1: a difference between like cross dressing just to get ahead
- 6:16Speaker 1: and then living your life as a man like that's
- 6:20Speaker 1: a very different thing, and it's very demeaning and detrimental,
- 6:24Speaker 1: I think to the trans community to try and paint
- 6:30Speaker 1: them in such a light, I think it feels like
- 6:34Speaker 1: it's an attempt to, unintentionally or not but invalidate, you know,
- 6:40Speaker 1: their personhood. And I'm not about that. So yeah, Billy
- 6:46Speaker 1: Lee Tipton was born on the twenty ninth of December
- 6:49Speaker 1: nineteen fourteen in Oklahoma City, in Oklahoma. I know you're shocked.
- 6:55Speaker 1: And they started life as Dorothy, which is the one
- 6:58Speaker 1: and only time I will use the dead name Bill.
- 7:02Speaker 1: His parents divorced when he was four, after which he
- 7:05Speaker 1: was not raised by either parent. Instead, he and his
- 7:09Speaker 1: younger brother were brought up by his aunt in Kansas City, Missouri.
- 7:14Speaker 1: I listen, it is what it is. He attended Southwest
- 7:18Speaker 1: High School, where he was not allowed to join the
- 7:20Speaker 1: band because it was boys only. He was, however, allowed
- 7:25Speaker 1: in the orchestra. And like, he grows up like loving music,
- 7:30Speaker 1: Like both his parents played the piano, and so he
- 7:36Speaker 1: kind of already had sort of musicality in the family.
- 7:41Speaker 1: I was like, the family, like, this is a big
- 7:43Speaker 1: jazzy rat and they loved listening to like cake, what blues,
- 7:47Speaker 1: rag time and such. And he has a radio in
- 7:50Speaker 1: his bedroom so he can listen to jazz at anytime.
- 7:54Speaker 1: And I should probably clarify that the Tiptans are white.
- 7:59Speaker 1: This is a white family, and I know that you
- 8:02Speaker 1: might think, well, it sounds like they could be people
- 8:06Speaker 1: of color. They do sound like that, but no, no,
- 8:09Speaker 1: these jazz loving honkys just they just love jazz. And
- 8:14Speaker 1: so his aunt played piano as well, so you know
- 8:18Speaker 1: this would come in handy over the yells. So like
- 8:24Speaker 1: he gets called Tippy throughout school and he ends up
- 8:28Speaker 1: returning to Oklahoma to complete his final year. So he's
- 8:32Speaker 1: at Connor's State College High School, which confused me because
- 8:38Speaker 1: I'm like high school, state college what, because I clearly
- 8:43Speaker 1: do not understand the American education system. So yeah, he's
- 8:49Speaker 1: there at Connors State College High School where he did
- 8:53Speaker 1: join the band. And when Billy is about like nineteen
- 8:58Speaker 1: or so, he starts like binding his breasts and starts
- 9:03Speaker 1: acting a bit more masculine, shall we say. Like he's
- 9:07Speaker 1: living with his mum. They're back home in Oklahoma, and
- 9:10Speaker 1: she's not doing great financially, you know, because the Great
- 9:15Speaker 1: Depression is happening, which is typically not a great time,
- 9:19Speaker 1: you know, economically for a lot of people. And so
- 9:24Speaker 1: he's there, he's there living with her in Oklahoma, and
- 9:28Speaker 1: he has brought his saxophone because like Tippy Yale, he
- 9:33Speaker 1: would play the saxophone, the piano and the violin. One
- 9:39Speaker 1: is the difference between a violin and a fiddle? Is there?
- 9:42Speaker 1: Like is it a string thing? It feels like it's
- 9:45Speaker 1: a string thing. So he's looking for work in a
- 9:48Speaker 1: band because he wants to like start raking in some money,
- 9:52Speaker 1: and so he's doing odd bits and like orchestra radio spots,
- 9:57Speaker 1: or even like playing music to the interval at a
- 10:01Speaker 1: movie theater, which honestly, I think they should bring back
- 10:05Speaker 1: intervals because oh, if the snacks weren't so expensive, right,
- 10:10Speaker 1: you'd get more so you'd go back and buy more
- 10:13Speaker 1: snacks because there'd be an interval. It'd be a good
- 10:16Speaker 1: time for everybody, wouldn't it. Yeah, especially during those damn
- 10:20Speaker 1: long movies like break Up the Day. So Billy is
- 10:24Speaker 1: actively trying to get work as a musician. However, Billy
- 10:29Speaker 1: at this point is still a bit female presenting, so
- 10:32Speaker 1: work was a little tougher because some of the places
- 10:35Speaker 1: that were hiring didn't want to hire women. And so
- 10:40Speaker 1: Billy gets some work at a honky tonk bar Greenland.
- 10:45Speaker 1: But this didn't last long. And you might be saying
- 10:48Speaker 1: to yourself, a bar, what about prohibition, because like Great Depression, Prohibition,
- 10:56Speaker 1: they're all interlinked, right, And everyone has heard me rant
- 11:00Speaker 1: and rave about how much I love wine bricks. They
- 11:05Speaker 1: are my favorite thing that has ever existed in the
- 11:08Speaker 1: history of history, like I love it. So Prohibition is
- 11:14Speaker 1: a period of time where you could not sell or
- 11:16Speaker 1: purchase alcohol for like most of the country, like the us. However,
- 11:24Speaker 1: you could get BIA in Oklahoma City as long as
- 11:28Speaker 1: it was three point three percent or below. So it
- 11:32Speaker 1: had to have a three point three percent alcohol content
- 11:35Speaker 1: or less in order for you to be able to
- 11:39Speaker 1: like purchase and consume. And by nineteen thirty five, Billy
- 11:46Speaker 1: is male presenting, you know, wearing men's clothes. The chest
- 11:51Speaker 1: is bound and their hair is cut. Now, this wasn't
- 11:55Speaker 1: a misdoubt fire moment. He wasn't just pulling clothes out
- 11:59Speaker 1: of a closet, you know, because by now Billy was
- 12:03Speaker 1: living with two female cousins and his aunt. He wasn't
- 12:07Speaker 1: living with his brother. So he would have had to
- 12:10Speaker 1: go and either get male clothing or have male clothing made.
- 12:16Speaker 1: It had to be tailored, it had to fit.
- 12:19Speaker 3: Like.
- 12:20Speaker 1: This is pre like departments. So I mean some department
- 12:23Speaker 1: stores existed, but this was pre you know, clothes off
- 12:26Speaker 1: the rack. The majority of your clothing was made. That
- 12:30Speaker 1: being said, all clothing is handmade. Like, all clothing is
- 12:36Speaker 1: handmade because machines, like not not doing a French scene,
- 12:41Speaker 1: you know, like that is a person who has made
- 12:44Speaker 1: your clothes. They are just skilled and have made them. Well.
- 12:49Speaker 1: Unfortunately a lot of those people who are making your
- 12:52Speaker 1: clothes are not paid appropriately. And I shouldn't have to
- 12:56Speaker 1: tell you this sidebar, but you should know be paying
- 13:01Speaker 1: like three bucks for a T shirt because the material
- 13:04Speaker 1: alone is worth more of that. Like the only way
- 13:09Speaker 1: you can get a T shirt for three bucks is
- 13:11Speaker 1: one if it's secondhand or like more likely that it's
- 13:16Speaker 1: the result of slave labor. AnyWho. Billy had to have
- 13:25Speaker 1: clothes made to fit him, Like that's the be all
- 13:28Speaker 1: and end all the situation. And so he goes out
- 13:32Speaker 1: and tries to get work as a jazz musician, but
- 13:36Speaker 1: as a male one, and his family not too happy
- 13:40Speaker 1: about this. One aunt travels to see him to try
- 13:43Speaker 1: and get him to stop. His father straight up disowns him.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Are we surprised, No, absolutely not, of course we're not.
- 13:54Speaker 1: And his mum she's like kind of okay with it,
- 13:58Speaker 1: and so like she's basically fine because he's on the
- 14:02Speaker 1: money and they're lip it's fine. So Billy ends up
- 14:06Speaker 1: moving out of home and into a bolding house. And
- 14:11Speaker 1: eventually as Mummery marries and Billy visits her like every
- 14:14Speaker 1: now and again, Like there's a lot of univisitation and communication,
- 14:19Speaker 1: like they seem fairly chilled with this scenario. So Billy
- 14:26Speaker 1: gets some good saxophone work, playing in house bands and
- 14:31Speaker 1: clubs and all that jazz hang on. Anyway, Now, Billy,
- 14:38Speaker 1: he wasn't just a great musician. He wasn't just talented
- 14:42Speaker 1: with you know, the ivory keys, like playing the fiddle,
- 14:46Speaker 1: sort violin, the I was gonna say trumpet, Like as
- 14:50Speaker 1: far as I know, he doesn't play the trumpet, but
- 14:53Speaker 1: like the saxophone, the piano, and you know, the violin.
- 14:56Speaker 1: Not only is he just like a gifted musician, but
- 15:00Speaker 1: he's also like a really good performer, Like he's funny,
- 15:05Speaker 1: he's ad libbing, he can crack jokes, like he's really
- 15:08Speaker 1: good at entertaining a crowd. Like he's just a really
- 15:12Speaker 1: good entertainer. And so he's in Oklahoma City for what
- 15:16Speaker 1: six years, making his living, you know, performing like as
- 15:24Speaker 1: a man, like as a jazz man, which sounds like
- 15:29Speaker 1: amazing until you remember that Billy Tipton grew up in
- 15:34Speaker 1: this city, and so there was a whole plethora of
- 15:38Speaker 1: people who knew Billy before they were male presenting, which
- 15:43Speaker 1: caused him issues. The best way I can describe it,
- 15:48Speaker 1: like in the jazz scene, like he was doing well,
- 15:52Speaker 1: but he was never going to do as well as
- 15:54Speaker 1: he could staying there. And so in nineteen forty one,
- 15:59Speaker 1: Billy up sticks and moves to Joplin, Misery, and so
- 16:03Speaker 1: he moves there without anyone knowing his history, knowing his past,
- 16:08Speaker 1: and so they only know Billy as he is from
- 16:12Speaker 1: that moment on. And from that moment on, Billy lives
- 16:17Speaker 1: his life as a man, which, as I said before,
- 16:22Speaker 1: would be an incredibly peculiar thing to do if this
- 16:25Speaker 1: was just, you know, to get work, and wasn't your
- 16:29Speaker 1: life who you were, who you are, and like Billy
- 16:33Speaker 1: would exclusively have relationships with women like Billy lived their
- 16:40Speaker 1: entire life as a man, and to think of this
- 16:45Speaker 1: as just like some sort of you know, trick to
- 16:48Speaker 1: get work like is very extreme when you've been disowned
- 16:54Speaker 1: by members of your family, when it's incredibly dangerous for you.
- 16:59Speaker 1: And certain was it illegal. I feel like it was illegal.
- 17:02Speaker 1: Depending on the state, it may have been illegal. But yes,
- 17:06Speaker 1: Billy Lee Tipton was Billy Lee Tipton. Billy Tipton. He
- 17:16Speaker 1: has moved to Joplin, Missouri, and he has joined a band,
- 17:20Speaker 1: not just any band, but a band with what are
- 17:24Speaker 1: the names. These names are wild George Mayer and his
- 17:28Speaker 1: music so rare. It's an eight piece band fronted by
- 17:32Speaker 1: this is going to surprise you, George Mayer. Oh yeah,
- 17:36Speaker 1: and Billy he's playing the saxophone. He's playing the piano,
- 17:39Speaker 1: not the violin. I'm not sure it's jazz violin even
- 17:42Speaker 1: a thing. I don't really know that much about jazz.
- 17:46Speaker 1: But anyway, he's playing for these like professional bands. He's
- 17:50Speaker 1: playing in clubs and whatnot. And so obviously the music
- 17:53Speaker 1: that he's playing is like the popular music of the day,
- 17:58Speaker 1: and so it's quite sophisticated and it's it's all good.
- 18:02Speaker 1: But Billy is feeling uninspired because he really wants to
- 18:06Speaker 1: challenge himself is a jazz musician, and he's not getting
- 18:09Speaker 1: that chance because he's playing just like the common music
- 18:13Speaker 1: of the era. But like he's he's known for being
- 18:17Speaker 1: a saxophone player, which is really interesting because he's fine,
- 18:21Speaker 1: Like he's a good saxophone player, right, he's good. But
- 18:25Speaker 1: the piano, he's really good at piano. The violin is
- 18:29Speaker 1: he kind of men, but like he is so good
- 18:33Speaker 1: at the piano and he would do stuff like play
- 18:37Speaker 1: the piano with his left hand and then also accompany
- 18:42Speaker 1: himself on the saxophone, which a saxophone is an instrument. Like, again,
- 18:49Speaker 1: I'm not a big music person. I don't really get it.
- 18:52Speaker 1: I don't get it. I don't I don't know how
- 18:54Speaker 1: to play an instrument, like it's a whole thing. But
- 18:59Speaker 1: as far as I'm aware, the saxophone is an instrument
- 19:02Speaker 1: that one needs two hands to play. So he's like
- 19:06Speaker 1: one handed saxophone, one handed piano, which is like it's
- 19:11Speaker 1: a bit of a gag, but also that's quite depressive,
- 19:15Speaker 1: though I'm not gonna deny. So he knows how to
- 19:20Speaker 1: perform and put on an act, and so him and
- 19:23Speaker 1: George Mayer they develop an act together which is gonna
- 19:28Speaker 1: be kind of typical of what Bully's acts will be
- 19:31Speaker 1: like from that point on. So it's a lot of
- 19:34Speaker 1: like music and stuff to like dance to. I'm doing
- 19:39Speaker 1: like chicken wings right now, like I'm doing the chicken
- 19:41Speaker 1: wing movement because apparently that's what I think the dancing
- 19:45Speaker 1: movement is. So I was like, I was gonna be
- 19:47Speaker 1: like the Ragtime the Charleston, like they're doing all these
- 19:50Speaker 1: bits as if the Charleston isn't like ten years before,
- 19:52Speaker 1: twenty years before. That's shut up. So there's a lot
- 19:59Speaker 1: of music and like in between their sort of comedy skits,
- 20:03Speaker 1: like Billy called it monkey business. There's lots of monkey
- 20:06Speaker 1: business like comedy and impressions and stuff like It's like,
- 20:11Speaker 1: if you've ever listened to an old rat Pack like CD,
- 20:15Speaker 1: it's the best thing I can I can compare it
- 20:18Speaker 1: to is like I say CD, as if the rat
- 20:20Speaker 1: Pack was recording onto CDs and not LP's like, but
- 20:25Speaker 1: I actually had a rat Pack LP, not an LP
- 20:27Speaker 1: a CD for a long time. It was my Mum's
- 20:30Speaker 1: a stolen and it was it was a show.
- 20:35Speaker 4: And so like there is a bit and like they're Ryland,
- 20:39Speaker 4: like Sammy Davis Junior and Dan Martin and they're all
- 20:42Speaker 4: kind of like just being like skitty and silly and
- 20:48Speaker 4: like in some of their jokes made me laugh so hard,
- 20:52Speaker 4: because sometimes comedy can transcend, like something can Sometimes.
- 20:58Speaker 1: Something can be funny in the nine teen forties, nineteen fifties,
- 21:03Speaker 1: nineteen sixties and still be funny in the next millennium. Right,
- 21:08Speaker 1: sometimes it can. Okay, listen, we humans are simple creatures
- 21:14Speaker 1: at the end of the day. Sometimes we just want
- 21:16Speaker 1: a good laugh, and sometimes your comedy is clever enough
- 21:20Speaker 1: to do so. So yeah, that would be part of
- 21:23Speaker 1: this act that Billy and George would do. So. Also
- 21:27Speaker 1: in nineteen forty one, I don't know if you know this,
- 21:30Speaker 1: but the USA entered the Second World War and you
- 21:35Speaker 1: had the draft, so people would be drafted to see people,
- 21:39Speaker 1: men would be drafted into the army, and effectively every
- 21:44Speaker 1: able bodied man was supposed to be like taken in
- 21:49Speaker 1: like drafted. Now you were supposed to have your draft
- 21:53Speaker 1: card on you at all times, just in case, because
- 21:55Speaker 1: it was a whole thing, Like the concept of shame
- 22:00Speaker 1: is something a lot of people just don't get nowadays.
- 22:04Speaker 1: But like your reputation would make or break you in life,
- 22:08Speaker 1: like your word was your bond. If you had a
- 22:11Speaker 1: shitty reputation, you would be screwed. Like you may as well,
- 22:15Speaker 1: you know, take a long walk off a short per,
- 22:18Speaker 1: Like there's a whole thing about it, Like shame was
- 22:22Speaker 1: such a massive cultural issue and now we don't have
- 22:25Speaker 1: shame at all. Nobody knows shame, not even the Catholics.
- 22:28Speaker 1: So we like breathe it, you know, I say, as
- 22:32Speaker 1: if I'm not a recovering Catholic, but yeah, you had
- 22:36Speaker 1: your draft card on you and if you didn't, if
- 22:40Speaker 1: you were like dodging the draft, like it was a
- 22:42Speaker 1: huge issue, like you would be seen as less than.
- 22:48Speaker 1: And however, Billy here manages to get his doctor to
- 22:54Speaker 1: give him a four F card, which basically means you
- 22:58Speaker 1: are like two like wrong to go to war, like
- 23:03Speaker 1: you're too sick. You've got I don't know, foot spalls
- 23:08Speaker 1: and osteoporosis and like all the other stuff. Now it's
- 23:14Speaker 1: the reason and I can't believe in bringing this up
- 23:17Speaker 1: that in Captain America First Avenger, it's the reason that
- 23:24Speaker 1: Steve Rogers wasn't allowed to join so like, which is
- 23:30Speaker 1: funny because like Steve Rogers is always like trying to
- 23:33Speaker 1: join the war and to be a hero. And Bucky
- 23:37Speaker 1: Barnes got drafted, which is wild when you think about it,
- 23:40Speaker 1: because Bucky Barnes just got forced into every fight he's
- 23:44Speaker 1: ever been any sort of like being pulled into it,
- 23:47Speaker 1: where it's like Steve just like jumped into it. Anyway,
- 23:52Speaker 1: that's another story for another day. Sorry, ex comic store
- 23:56Speaker 1: owner Habit, But yes, Billy has the for F card,
- 24:01Speaker 1: So it's like you're too sick and frail to go
- 24:04Speaker 1: to war. We don't want you. That being said, some
- 24:11Speaker 1: doctors would just be like, hey, I will just sign
- 24:15Speaker 1: you as being sick if you pay me, Like so
- 24:18Speaker 1: I mean, and so like here's the thing about this,
- 24:23Speaker 1: Billy is going to get questioned about, like why they
- 24:26Speaker 1: haven't been drafted, like he has we card and whatnot,
- 24:29Speaker 1: which is fine, but he also needs to like talk
- 24:32Speaker 1: about it, like he needs to explain it because he's
- 24:35Speaker 1: going to get questioned, and so he uses this like
- 24:39Speaker 1: very opportune, right. He uses this to explain a few
- 24:43Speaker 1: other things about himself, Like he says he was in
- 24:47Speaker 1: a car accident and that his ribs were injurled, and
- 24:51Speaker 1: like this is the past. So of course people are like, okay,
- 24:56Speaker 1: that makes sense. And so he says, due to the
- 24:58Speaker 1: specific injuries on his ribs, he is required to wear
- 25:02Speaker 1: like these special bandages for support, thus sort of covering
- 25:07Speaker 1: up the binding of the breasts, so the bibs are bound,
- 25:12Speaker 1: they're the bandages on the chest, and so any sort
- 25:15Speaker 1: of peculiar if there was any shape issue there, it's like, oh,
- 25:18Speaker 1: well that's just because of the injuries to my ribs
- 25:22Speaker 1: and the chest binding is not the only thing that
- 25:24Speaker 1: he's covering up here, like, it's not the only concept
- 25:29Speaker 1: that he's come up with. He also uses this as
- 25:33Speaker 1: the reason why he can't have biological children. He's like,
- 25:36Speaker 1: my genitalia was also damaged in the car accident. Anyway,
- 25:42Speaker 1: now that we've covered that. Billy would travel like with
- 25:47Speaker 1: the band, and they would travel around and do gigs
- 25:49Speaker 1: in places, so they'd stay in hotels and motels and
- 25:52Speaker 1: boarding houses and whatnot. Now, Billy being are really cool,
- 25:58Speaker 1: dude had to dogs, and he would sometimes refer to
- 26:03Speaker 1: them as his kids in order to like sneak them
- 26:06Speaker 1: into the hotel room or the motel or whatever. He'd
- 26:09Speaker 1: be like, I'm looking in on, I got two kids
- 26:11Speaker 1: in the car, and they're like, we don't care. Take
- 26:13Speaker 1: your kene and go, and so he'd be like, come on, boys.
- 26:19Speaker 1: And sometimes when they were traveling, like they would go
- 26:21Speaker 1: with other acts and they would perform together, and sometimes
- 26:25Speaker 1: they would work with a female magician, d Ladell, and
- 26:32Speaker 1: she was known as the fe Magician, which is a
- 26:37Speaker 1: name that was a choice, and they're like, look, she's
- 26:42Speaker 1: a magician and a woman who knew and so she
- 26:46Speaker 1: would travel with like a bunch of animals like Shaerone menagerie.
- 26:51Speaker 1: So she would have like skunks and monkeys and rabbits
- 26:57Speaker 1: and chickens and they would feel like running around. She
- 27:03Speaker 1: would like just let them loose in her hotel room,
- 27:06Speaker 1: Like I just have this skunk and the chickens run
- 27:09Speaker 1: around wild. That's fine. I mean, here's the thing. I
- 27:13Speaker 1: feel like, sure the rabbits and the chickens or the monkey,
- 27:19Speaker 1: like that does make sense, like on their own. This
- 27:24Speaker 1: skunk though, this skunk, Why are we letting the skunk
- 27:29Speaker 1: run around? Although that being said, I feel like I
- 27:32Speaker 1: might be being mean to skunks, like do they automatically spray?
- 27:37Speaker 1: I need to talk to like a zoologist or vet
- 27:40Speaker 1: or something, because like do they automatically spray? You should
- 27:45Speaker 1: be like automatically be worried about being skunked, Like is
- 27:49Speaker 1: that is that a reasonable fear? Or is it like finite?
- 27:54Speaker 1: Is it that hard to get off? I've never been skunked,
- 27:57Speaker 1: so I don't know, you know what a bit that's
- 27:59Speaker 1: a really weird old like kink thing as a weird
- 28:03Speaker 1: terminology called being skunked, and it's probably vile, it's probably
- 28:09Speaker 1: horrific and I'm like, I've never been skunked, and someone's
- 28:12Speaker 1: gonna use that as a SoundBite for something in like
- 28:14Speaker 1: ten years time. And I'm like, remember when you said this, Okay,
- 28:20Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm gonna get I'm gonna get in
- 28:22Speaker 1: such trouble. I can sense it in my bones, my
- 28:26Speaker 1: old old lady bones. So she's causing chaos with this
- 28:30Speaker 1: whole fucking menagerie, right, And so Billy's dogs like goddamn
- 28:34Speaker 1: angels by comparison. It's so he would travel with her
- 28:40Speaker 1: and be like, look at this bitch here, but look
- 28:42Speaker 1: at how good my dog's are. Lose a good boopy,
- 28:45Speaker 1: you'll be a good boopy. And so like, yeah, go
- 28:49Speaker 1: have fun, You're fine. And so like she's traveling, he's
- 28:54Speaker 1: getting about, and he's making a name for himself, and
- 28:57Speaker 1: like it get to the point that like he's like
- 29:02Speaker 1: the dude in the band, and so you've got bands
- 29:05Speaker 1: named after him. So it's like the Billy Tipton Trio,
- 29:09Speaker 1: the Billy Tipton Gourtet, Billy Tipton and friends, you know,
- 29:15Speaker 1: And he's out there jazzing along, having a swell time.
- 29:19Speaker 1: When a talent scout, here's the Billy Tipton Trio and
- 29:25Speaker 1: they get an audition with the Dorset Records Corporation in
- 29:28Speaker 1: Los Angeles in nineteen fifty six, and they record their
- 29:32Speaker 1: first album called Sweet Georgia Brown. That is a name
- 29:41Speaker 1: for a thing. I don't know the relevance of that
- 29:44Speaker 1: specific name, but it feels a little load it, That's
- 29:47Speaker 1: all I'm saying. So they record a follow up, like
- 29:52Speaker 1: a follow up album which is called Billy Tipton plies
- 29:57Speaker 1: Hi Fi on Piano, which is an accurate description of
- 30:04Speaker 1: what is happening. And so they get like some success
- 30:10Speaker 1: and Billy makes what I give you grand out of it.
- 30:14Speaker 1: And as a musician, it's always good to be paid,
- 30:17Speaker 1: like as a general rule, so they're gonna be a
- 30:20Speaker 1: bit of money, but it's not the main thing because
- 30:23Speaker 1: what they do get more of is publicity, and so
- 30:27Speaker 1: they get better chops, they're able to like sell out
- 30:31Speaker 1: more venues. They get paid better, and so they get
- 30:37Speaker 1: offered like a house band position for a hotel in Nevada,
- 30:42Speaker 1: and that's like where the big dogs place. And you're
- 30:46Speaker 1: talking like people like what LIBERACEI, for example, like the
- 30:50Speaker 1: big famous people they would play in these hotels, like
- 30:54Speaker 1: not often like occasionally, but like it was one of
- 30:58Speaker 1: the better places to be and so this is the
- 31:03Speaker 1: break that they're looking for. This is like a golden opportunity.
- 31:07Speaker 1: But Billy looks the gift horse in the mouth and
- 31:11Speaker 1: says nope. And his bandmates are pissed because they're like,
- 31:19Speaker 1: this is this is a golden ticket, this is money,
- 31:22Speaker 1: this is fame, this is you know, us being set
- 31:27Speaker 1: for a decent amount of time. But Billy, Billy had
- 31:31Speaker 1: been offered work as a booking manager.
- 31:34Speaker 2: In Spokane in Washington with playing clubs on the side,
- 31:41Speaker 2: which meant he wouldn't be touring as much because it
- 31:44Speaker 2: seemed like that was getting a bit tiring for him.
- 31:48Speaker 1: And also when you're traveling and you're going from place
- 31:51Speaker 1: to place, when you have that much movement and you
- 31:55Speaker 1: are that well known, it put him in a more
- 32:00Speaker 1: precarious possession because it meant, you know, there were so
- 32:04Speaker 1: many more opportunities for being discovered. Like even a wife
- 32:09Speaker 1: of like one of the musicians who traveled with them
- 32:12Speaker 1: said that, like, I'm from California, and like we noticed
- 32:17Speaker 1: these things in California. So basically they were saying that
- 32:21Speaker 1: they would have known that that Billy was assigned female
- 32:28Speaker 1: at buff like in California, everyone would have figured it
- 32:31Speaker 1: out like straight away, and so things like this or
- 32:35Speaker 1: like really played on Billy's mind. And they were so
- 32:37Speaker 1: worried about being discovered, and like even as he was
- 32:41Speaker 1: traveling and touring, like sometimes he would meet people who
- 32:44Speaker 1: knew him before before like he was male presenting, and
- 32:48Speaker 1: so this would cause like more issues and it all
- 32:52Speaker 1: just I think just started playing on him. And so yes,
- 32:56Speaker 1: he takes his job as a booking manager. He's playing
- 32:59Speaker 1: clubs in the set and the music he's playing it's
- 33:02Speaker 1: not like is challenging. It's like a step down to
- 33:05Speaker 1: what he wants to be playing. And he's essentially just
- 33:08Speaker 1: doing background music in these clubs and he's just kind
- 33:11Speaker 1: of existing there. And so basically this puts his career
- 33:16Speaker 1: on hold, or say on hold, it freezes it effectively.
- 33:21Speaker 1: And by what nineteen sixty five, the band is only
- 33:23Speaker 1: really playing Link sporadically and he's not really being a
- 33:30Speaker 1: musician much anymore, and he's working as a booking manager.
- 33:34Speaker 1: And so that's like the career side of things. And
- 33:38Speaker 1: now we've got that out of the way, it's time
- 33:40Speaker 1: to talk about the missus Tipton's. Let me take you
- 33:50Speaker 1: back in time to a boarding house in Oklahoma City
- 33:54Speaker 1: where Billy Tipton is first starting to live as a man.
- 33:58Speaker 1: They've left their mother's home and they're living in this
- 34:00Speaker 1: boarding house where they meet non Errol Harrol. That is
- 34:05Speaker 1: her name, non Errol, so non Earl Harrel. She is
- 34:10Speaker 1: a marathon dancer, which is like marathon dancers is when
- 34:14Speaker 1: couples would start like dancing, they would do like I
- 34:18Speaker 1: don't know, the Chiba of the give the Charleston whatever.
- 34:20Speaker 1: They would dance until the last couple standing. And so
- 34:24Speaker 1: these marathon dances they would last for days, sometimes even weeks.
- 34:28Speaker 1: And this is what she was. And so the two
- 34:31Speaker 1: of them, they were roommates, so they were roomen together
- 34:35Speaker 1: in the boarding house, and you know, they acted like
- 34:40Speaker 1: a couple. So they would refer to themselves as like
- 34:43Speaker 1: mister and missus Tipton. And when Billy moves to drop
- 34:48Speaker 1: on Missouri, none Earl comes with him, and to everyone there,
- 34:53Speaker 1: they are mister and missus Tipton. Not obviously they're not
- 34:57Speaker 1: legally married because Billy lead up and doesn't have any
- 35:00Speaker 1: legal documentation with that name on it. So yeah, they
- 35:05Speaker 1: just start representing themselves as husband and wife. Now in
- 35:09Speaker 1: nineteen forty three, you know, their romance fizzles out and
- 35:12Speaker 1: none of Hell moves back to Oklahoma City. And it's
- 35:17Speaker 1: during this same year that Billy meets June. Now we
- 35:21Speaker 1: don't really know much about June other than her and
- 35:27Speaker 1: Billy get a Pekinese together called Troubles. So they have
- 35:35Speaker 1: a dog called Troubles and a monkey, which I could
- 35:39Speaker 1: not find the name of, but there was a monkey.
- 35:43Speaker 1: And sometimes when Billy would be doing a show, like
- 35:47Speaker 1: June would come and watch the gig, she'd sit in
- 35:49Speaker 1: the club, the dog would be at home. She'd be
- 35:52Speaker 1: in the club watching him playing, and the monkey would
- 35:56Speaker 1: be alone in the car. The monkey didn't like being
- 36:01Speaker 1: alone in the car, and so often when they would
- 36:04Speaker 1: come out after a gig, the monkey would have torn
- 36:08Speaker 1: the crap out of some of the seats. Now, there
- 36:11Speaker 1: was one time they came out and the monkey had
- 36:15Speaker 1: completely like, yeah, I think the direct quote was it
- 36:19Speaker 1: looked like there was a snowstorm in the car because
- 36:22Speaker 1: the monkey had completely destroyed the seats, like ruined all
- 36:27Speaker 1: the upholstery. And so June and Billy they were together
- 36:31Speaker 1: for three years they represent themselves as mister and Missus Tipton,
- 36:35Speaker 1: and then nineteen forty six June they break up, right
- 36:40Speaker 1: and Billy keeps the Pekanese troubles and June, I mean,
- 36:46Speaker 1: June came to the relationship with the monkey, and so
- 36:49Speaker 1: June leaves the relationship with the monkey. Now we don't
- 36:55Speaker 1: know exactly what June knew about Billy's life like everything,
- 37:02Speaker 1: but like after they broke up, like June would often
- 37:04Speaker 1: go around saying that Billy was a hermaphrodite. So I
- 37:08Speaker 1: don't know if this was like just an explanation of
- 37:11Speaker 1: what her understanding was, or whether it was like if
- 37:16Speaker 1: she believed that Billy was into sex, or if this
- 37:21Speaker 1: was just a way to like attack Billy post breakup.
- 37:26Speaker 1: Hymn's to say. Now, Billy never took June back to
- 37:30Speaker 1: meet his family, but he did meet hers, and like
- 37:35Speaker 1: up until the nineteen sixties, like he was still sending
- 37:37Speaker 1: like gifts and cards to her mother, which is just
- 37:41Speaker 1: really really sweet. So when June exits stage left, who
- 37:46Speaker 1: enters but Betty coos Missus Tipton number three, So June's gone,
- 37:53Speaker 1: and Billy just starts inviting Betty over come visit me
- 37:57Speaker 1: and my dog real sad, and so Betty's like, yeah,
- 38:01Speaker 1: this is fine. And so he gets on really well
- 38:06Speaker 1: with Betty's mom, like they have a really good relationship.
- 38:10Speaker 1: And Betty she says herself that she wasn't worldly enough
- 38:15Speaker 1: to understand like everything that was going on at that point,
- 38:20Speaker 1: and she was unaware that Billy was a fab right
- 38:27Speaker 1: assigned female at buff and after June definitely, Billy never
- 38:34Speaker 1: never told any of his female partners this, like that
- 38:38Speaker 1: was just something that he kept to himself and that
- 38:42Speaker 1: he would just consistently portray himself as a man in
- 38:46Speaker 1: every capacity. And when they break up, like he stays
- 38:50Speaker 1: close with her mom, like up until the sixties, he's
- 38:53Speaker 1: sending her mom like gifts and cards just consistently. But
- 39:00Speaker 1: when him and Betty are together, like he gets her
- 39:03Speaker 1: this dog, this puppy called boots Loo, and boots Loo
- 39:08Speaker 1: in Troubles they didn't get on. I said, they didn't
- 39:11Speaker 1: get on Troubles did not like this puppy, and it's
- 39:16Speaker 1: like they just have this spatin June. Of course, June
- 39:20Speaker 1: shows up saying I have visitation rights to the dog,
- 39:24Speaker 1: and so she stays for four days like just in
- 39:31Speaker 1: Billy's like abode just to be like, this is my dog.
- 39:35Speaker 1: I'm visiting the dog. Nothing to do with you and
- 39:38Speaker 1: then your girlfriend or anything. I'm here for the dog.
- 39:42Speaker 1: But yeah, Billy and Betty they are together for like
- 39:45Speaker 1: seven years and they only break up in nineteen fifty four.
- 39:49Speaker 1: And Beery she traveled around with the band for a bit,
- 39:54Speaker 1: and she found this just really exhausting. She just wasn't
- 39:58Speaker 1: for her. All of the tr traveling and touring was
- 40:00Speaker 1: really tiring. But if she wasn't traveling with them, then
- 40:05Speaker 1: she was just spending a lot of time at home
- 40:07Speaker 1: alone and so there wasn't like much for her to do.
- 40:12Speaker 1: Either way. She was either going to be exhausted or
- 40:17Speaker 1: be without her husband for months on end. And then
- 40:21Speaker 1: in fifty four she's like it's too much, I'm done,
- 40:26Speaker 1: and so they break up and pretty sharpish, Billy is
- 40:30Speaker 1: in another relationship, like the man cannot be single, Like, dude,
- 40:39Speaker 1: you can exist with that relationship, like you don't need
- 40:42Speaker 1: someone to make you happy AnyWho. Billy gets into a
- 40:46Speaker 1: relationship with mary Anne, and mary Anne lives into like
- 40:52Speaker 1: a town that Billy just passes through on the regular,
- 40:57Speaker 1: and so him and Mary Anne. They get three Pomeranians.
- 41:03Speaker 1: At this point, Troubles the dog had passed away Bets
- 41:07Speaker 1: Lou I'm fairy or Boots Lou I'm fairly certain was
- 41:10Speaker 1: with Betty. And so you have Timmy, Tinker, and Tippy,
- 41:15Speaker 1: the three dogs. That's the Pekinese and then the Pomeranians.
- 41:18Speaker 1: These guys really like the lee tiny dogs. And so
- 41:23Speaker 1: he moves to Spokane with Mary Anne and it's like,
- 41:28Speaker 1: is this the reason why he gave up his big break?
- 41:31Speaker 1: And that was wife number four? So this is the
- 41:35Speaker 1: one that he sort of settled down with. So they're
- 41:38Speaker 1: living together, they've got three dogs, and then he ends
- 41:41Speaker 1: up leaving her for Kitty. Thank you baby for being
- 41:46Speaker 1: involved in this week's podcast. She wanted to be involved,
- 41:49Speaker 1: so she's like, can I say something? I'm like, yeah,
- 41:52Speaker 1: you can. You can say this. So Kitty is a
- 41:58Speaker 1: burlesque answer in one of the clubs that Billy is
- 42:01Speaker 1: playing at. So basically what would happen is you've got
- 42:04Speaker 1: like burlesque acts and strippers and they would perform and
- 42:08Speaker 1: because the majority of the custom malls at these establishments
- 42:11Speaker 1: will not exactly gentlemen, when they would finish their act
- 42:15Speaker 1: at the end of the night when they were walking
- 42:17Speaker 1: back to their cars. A lot of the time, like
- 42:20Speaker 1: musicians would accompany them for safety. So the male musicians
- 42:24Speaker 1: would accompany the female like strip balls, burlesque acts, dancers, whatnot.
- 42:29Speaker 1: They would be accompanied back to their cars. And so
- 42:33Speaker 1: Billy would do this for Kitty, and the two of
- 42:35Speaker 1: them started like flirting at work, like they're sending each
- 42:40Speaker 1: other like letters. And so Billy's writing these six litters,
- 42:44Speaker 1: the sixty litters, they'll six it. You've got one, It's like,
- 42:48Speaker 1: this is my favorite. He's got one that goes my
- 42:51Speaker 1: Typotter has a contract on it. And I'm doing this
- 42:54Speaker 1: by hand. I've been doing it by hand for some
- 42:56Speaker 1: time now. Like in sixty one, he commissions an oil
- 43:05Speaker 1: painting of Kitty completely starkles so in the nude lying
- 43:10Speaker 1: on a beach with a volcano erupting in the background. Now,
- 43:16Speaker 1: subtlety is clearly not a strong point here. That being said,
- 43:22Speaker 1: if someone were to commission a painting of main nude
- 43:24Speaker 1: lying on a beach with a volcano erupting in the background,
- 43:28Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I wouldn't say no. Actually depends on
- 43:31Speaker 1: who it was, Like it would depend on who it was.
- 43:35Speaker 1: If it was somebody I didn't know, I think it
- 43:37Speaker 1: might be weird. There's like a random Pearson commission in
- 43:42Speaker 1: a naked picture. It would be a bit odd anyway.
- 43:46Speaker 1: So Billy and Kitty they have like an actual wedding
- 43:51Speaker 1: in nineteen sixty two on the seventeenth of March nineteen
- 43:55Speaker 1: sixty two, Saint Patrick's Day, and so it's it's like,
- 44:01Speaker 1: I feel it's not registered. It's not a registeral wedding,
- 44:03Speaker 1: but they have like you know, the walking down the
- 44:06Speaker 1: aisle and all this stuff, the bouquet and so yeah,
- 44:11Speaker 1: the Justice of the Piece's signature was forged, and Kitties
- 44:16Speaker 1: like Bill sorted it out. And Bill's just like yeah,
- 44:23Speaker 1: like she didn't know it wasn't a legal marriage and
- 44:27Speaker 1: she wasn't known that, like it was just faked by
- 44:33Speaker 1: Billy because of course no legal id for Billy there
- 44:38Speaker 1: and so couldn't register their marriage. Now here's the thing,
- 44:45Speaker 1: like he could have done a whole thing about being
- 44:47Speaker 1: like a common law man and wife, like I never
- 44:50Speaker 1: got divorced from like my previous wife or whatever. He
- 44:54Speaker 1: could have just like danced around it. But yeah, there
- 44:57Speaker 1: was a bunch of stuff he did to kind of
- 44:59Speaker 1: cover up up well being a fab right, So a
- 45:05Speaker 1: lot of the time, like the previous wives reported that
- 45:10Speaker 1: he would never get like completely nude in front of them,
- 45:13Speaker 1: like he would use the car accident, is you know
- 45:15Speaker 1: a reason for all the bindings and for you know,
- 45:19Speaker 1: the lack of a penis best way I can describe it,
- 45:22Speaker 1: Like there had been an issue, and like he would
- 45:26Speaker 1: shave in the morning or make it appear like he
- 45:30Speaker 1: was shaving in the morning. So his wife would be like, well,
- 45:33Speaker 1: they got up and shaved his beard every day. And
- 45:36Speaker 1: you might be thinking to yourselves, well, what about doing
- 45:40Speaker 1: the do like, how did that go about? Well, it
- 45:44Speaker 1: seems to be as far as I can tell. So
- 45:49Speaker 1: several of the wives who have come forward, like Maryanne
- 45:52Speaker 1: and Betty, like they would talk about how he would
- 45:56Speaker 1: always use a condom. He would always have a you
- 45:59Speaker 1: can always have a rough him. I always have a rabbi,
- 46:02Speaker 1: And so it would appear that they had like Billy
- 46:04Speaker 1: had a strap on or a dildo of some sort,
- 46:08Speaker 1: and so they would also have a condom onic just
- 46:10Speaker 1: for posterity, I suppose more than anything else. And so yeah,
- 46:16Speaker 1: and Mari Anne, like at one point goes, well, clearly
- 46:19Speaker 1: he had a prosthetic because you know of his injury,
- 46:23Speaker 1: and that's that was about. And I didn't want to
- 46:25Speaker 1: like hurt him or offend him by that, like, which
- 46:29Speaker 1: is very good of Mary Anne and very fair. Now,
- 46:33Speaker 1: Kitty Kitty, the burlesque dancer, she claims that they were
- 46:39Speaker 1: never like intimate at all. They never had sex. Now,
- 46:43Speaker 1: Kitty Kitty is adamant that her and Billy were never
- 46:48Speaker 1: like sexually intimate, like that wasn't something that ever happened
- 46:51Speaker 1: in that there was no way that any of the
- 46:54Speaker 1: other wives wouldn't have known. It was like a whole thing.
- 46:59Speaker 1: And so Kerry like she she'd actually injured her back,
- 47:05Speaker 1: like not long after they got married, and they were
- 47:07Speaker 1: sleeping in separate beds, which you know, fair enough, and
- 47:10Speaker 1: also she may not want it to be like that
- 47:16Speaker 1: kind of intimate with them, but the two of them
- 47:19Speaker 1: are writing each other like very filthy, very hot messages,
- 47:26Speaker 1: and like they have names with little genitals, like so
- 47:31Speaker 1: Billy says is penis is called Percy, which is fair,
- 47:36Speaker 1: and then she's like the vagina is called hortense, and
- 47:39Speaker 1: it's like m Percy missus hortense Percy missus hortense Percy
- 47:46Speaker 1: wants to get all up in hortense and like with
- 47:49Speaker 1: all of these like really naughty dotty messages, it's it's
- 47:54Speaker 1: sort of strange to assume that they were not intimate,
- 47:58Speaker 1: although that being set, like, there's always the argument that
- 48:05Speaker 1: that was the type of like intimacy that worked for
- 48:08Speaker 1: both of them, like in written form and not physical,
- 48:12Speaker 1: because Kitty had been assaulted before and there's every possibility
- 48:18Speaker 1: that that kind of thing, that being sexually active with
- 48:22Speaker 1: another person wasn't something she wanted anymore. But whom's to say, Like,
- 48:27Speaker 1: we weren't in that relationship, so we don't know. Now,
- 48:33Speaker 1: this could have been a way for Kitty to like
- 48:38Speaker 1: cover her tracks or you know what, just like protect
- 48:41Speaker 1: herself by going, oh no, we definitely didn't do u
- 48:45Speaker 1: uh uh. Yeah. So anyway, Billy wants kids, and so
- 48:52Speaker 1: they privately adopt three children. So baby number one was
- 48:59Speaker 1: born on the nineteenth of October nineteen sixty three, and
- 49:03Speaker 1: so Billy just comes home one day from work and
- 49:05Speaker 1: Kitty is there holding a baby, and Billy is just
- 49:09Speaker 1: like so overwhelmed by this, like he doesn't even take
- 49:11Speaker 1: off his raincoat. He's just like they're on the ground
- 49:16Speaker 1: and just like rocking this baby, baby John Thomas. And
- 49:21Speaker 1: this is the point where he's still like gigging quite often.
- 49:24Speaker 1: And so by the time he's finished up, he's coming
- 49:27Speaker 1: home at like two half two in the morning, and
- 49:30Speaker 1: so he'll come in and he'll give the baby like
- 49:33Speaker 1: it's nighttime fade and so yeah, it means that she
- 49:37Speaker 1: gets a good sleep. It means that he's feeding the baby,
- 49:40Speaker 1: and the two of them are just going well together.
- 49:45Speaker 1: So then in nineteen sixty five there's this child all
- 49:51Speaker 1: an acquaintance of Billies. Billy hears about it and that
- 49:54Speaker 1: the child doesn't foster care and it wasn't being treated
- 49:59Speaker 1: very well. And this kid is six weeks older than
- 50:01Speaker 1: their own son than John Thomas, and so they adopt
- 50:05Speaker 1: him and they name him Scottly Scotte Scott Lee. And
- 50:14Speaker 1: so he shows up and this kid is mock It
- 50:18Speaker 1: is absolutely dirty. And so it takes the months for
- 50:23Speaker 1: this kid to become comfortable in their home. And so
- 50:27Speaker 1: like they make sure he is well fed, they make
- 50:29Speaker 1: sure he is washed, they make sure he is happy.
- 50:34Speaker 1: And then in sixty nine they adopt their last child,
- 50:39Speaker 1: and so the mom of this kid, they had heard that,
- 50:44Speaker 1: you know, they had adopted these other two, and so
- 50:47Speaker 1: she's like, please, can you take my boy? And so
- 50:51Speaker 1: they adopt William Allen nicknaming him Little Billy. So three
- 51:02Speaker 1: years after this, Billy's mom passes away. Now his aunt Cora,
- 51:08Speaker 1: this is the one that was like, don't go traveling
- 51:10Speaker 1: as a man. So she never really accepted Billy as
- 51:15Speaker 1: the person that they are. And so when Billy's mom
- 51:19Speaker 1: passes away, her sister she phones and she asks for Billy,
- 51:29Speaker 1: but they ask for Billy by their dead name. Here's
- 51:32Speaker 1: the thing. The person who answered the phone was Eileen,
- 51:36Speaker 1: Billy's cousin, and Aileen doesn't really give anything away, doesn't
- 51:41Speaker 1: really conform or deny, like who is that you know
- 51:44Speaker 1: they're looking for? And they're like, oh, they're resting. Oh
- 51:48Speaker 1: this is like this. And then it's like great, I
- 51:53Speaker 1: guess we'll have to go get them. And here's the thing.
- 51:59Speaker 1: Kitty's picks up the phone and goes, this is Billy's mother,
- 52:05Speaker 1: and so Aunt Cora is just like, go get him,
- 52:09Speaker 1: go get them up.
- 52:10Speaker 5: Yeahda YadA YadA, And it's like, you can't tell me
- 52:13Speaker 5: you can't speak to this and so this like Kitty's
- 52:17Speaker 5: Mom's like, I'm Billy's mother, so yeah, suck it up, right,
- 52:24Speaker 5: deal with me.
- 52:25Speaker 3: Now.
- 52:26Speaker 1: Kitty claims to have no knowledge of this phone call,
- 52:29Speaker 1: but I love that, Like her mom was like, you
- 52:31Speaker 1: know what, you know what, I know what's going on,
- 52:34Speaker 1: but see you you can go shove it. That is
- 52:38Speaker 1: an ally right there, friends, But yes, Billy goes to
- 52:43Speaker 1: his mother's funeral, right, and his family they're still not
- 52:48Speaker 1: very comfortable with Billy's existence of a life as a man, right,
- 52:54Speaker 1: and it's not they're not great. However, his cousin's Aileen
- 52:59Speaker 1: and Madline, they're a bit less bad than the rest.
- 53:07Speaker 1: They're like slightly more accepting. They have a perception about it,
- 53:11Speaker 1: but they're like kind of chill. And so Billy's chatting
- 53:17Speaker 1: to his cousins and they're talking about like family and stuff,
- 53:20Speaker 1: and he shares with them that he's worried that he
- 53:22Speaker 1: has emphasymak because he's got like shortness of breath and
- 53:25Speaker 1: all this stuff. But he doesn't go to a doctor
- 53:28Speaker 1: for obvious reasons, and so he's worried about being seen
- 53:33Speaker 1: and having like his secret come out. Now eventually the
- 53:38Speaker 1: relationship with Kitty falls apart. Now, Kitty says it's because
- 53:42Speaker 1: Billy was gutless because as the boys grew into teenagers,
- 53:46Speaker 1: they became like rebellious, hormonal teenage boys, and Billy wasn't
- 53:52Speaker 1: disciplining them, and so she was forced to be the
- 53:56Speaker 1: disciplinarian and that wasn't a role that she wanted, and
- 54:00Speaker 1: so it got to the point where she was overwhelmed
- 54:03Speaker 1: and she would end up like screaming at the boys,
- 54:06Speaker 1: to the point that there was a kid who lived
- 54:08Speaker 1: next door who was terrified of the sound of her voice.
- 54:12Speaker 1: And so there was an incident where one of the
- 54:14Speaker 1: boys they went to hit her and she like pushes
- 54:18Speaker 1: one over and knocks another one down, and Billy doesn't
- 54:22Speaker 1: get involved. What he does do is take two of
- 54:25Speaker 1: the boys to the older boys out of the house
- 54:28Speaker 1: for the night and they sleep in a motel, and
- 54:31Speaker 1: the next day he pues a mobile home and soon
- 54:34Speaker 1: after that him and the boys just like who live
- 54:40Speaker 1: together in this mobile home. And Kitty and Billy they
- 54:46Speaker 1: eventually divorce, like in eighty one. And it's not an
- 54:50Speaker 1: a visual divorce because you know, it's not an official marriage.
- 54:55Speaker 1: She said, that she'd been given papers and she'd let
- 54:59Speaker 1: him take care of it, and so like the theory
- 55:03Speaker 1: is that he just like forged some paperwork. Now at
- 55:08Speaker 1: this point, Billy Tipton is struggling, like for work. He's
- 55:13Speaker 1: not really playing music anymore. He's just working at the
- 55:15Speaker 1: booking agency and it's slowly going at a business. And
- 55:19Speaker 1: by eighty four he's in debt, a lot of debt,
- 55:25Speaker 1: and a lot of the money that he's meant to
- 55:27Speaker 1: be making comes from booking musicians and then taking a
- 55:29Speaker 1: commission when they get paid. But like he was really
- 55:33Speaker 1: bad at chasing up the commissions because like he felt
- 55:37Speaker 1: bad about it. So people just didn't pay him. And
- 55:44Speaker 1: so his sons, like they're teenagers at this point and
- 55:46Speaker 1: they're taking money off them. And he's entitled to social
- 55:51Speaker 1: Security at this point, but he doesn't want to rest
- 55:52Speaker 1: claiming it, and so he's just living below the breadline.
- 55:58Speaker 1: And the following year, two of the boys move out
- 56:03Speaker 1: and they're twenty two, So Scott and John they move out,
- 56:07Speaker 1: and the youngest son, little Billy, like, they live together
- 56:12Speaker 1: for a year or so, and so with the two
- 56:14Speaker 1: of them, like Billy and Little Billy like they're playing piano,
- 56:18Speaker 1: like he's teaching them how to play the piano, and
- 56:20Speaker 1: they're having jam sessions together. And at this point Billy
- 56:25Speaker 1: Tipton's got like quite bad arthritis, so he's only really
- 56:28Speaker 1: doing these like we jam sessions with his son. And
- 56:32Speaker 1: he's still really talented, but it's it's not as it
- 56:39Speaker 1: was because he's in so much pain when he's playing.
- 56:43Speaker 1: And so Christmas comes along and they get a dog,
- 56:47Speaker 1: a Labrador, which is nice because it's a big dog
- 56:50Speaker 1: as opposed.
- 56:51Speaker 2: To these tiny things.
- 56:53Speaker 1: I do not know this dog's name. If you know
- 56:55Speaker 1: this dog's name, feel free to let me know. So
- 56:59Speaker 1: the fall up year, little Billy he starts doing drugs
- 57:03Speaker 1: and this this doesn't sit well and so he ends
- 57:10Speaker 1: up moving out and Billy tipped in. He's unwell, he's
- 57:17Speaker 1: short of breath all the time and his health is
- 57:19Speaker 1: just getting worse. Like his friends, his coworkers, they're all
- 57:24Speaker 1: trying to get him to see a doctor and he refuses.
- 57:28Speaker 1: So somewhere along this point he gets rid of his
- 57:34Speaker 1: chest bindings. Like all of them, any of like the dildos,
- 57:38Speaker 1: the prothetics, the strap ons, all them, they just disappear.
- 57:42Speaker 1: None of that is in his possession. I think that
- 57:46Speaker 1: he was close to the end of life and he
- 57:50Speaker 1: was aware of it, and so he didn't want to
- 57:52Speaker 1: risk like this being found. Like Billy's aware that people
- 57:58Speaker 1: are going to go through with stuff like to find things.
- 58:01Speaker 1: And so he ends up talking to his cousins and
- 58:03Speaker 1: he tells them to like he needs to be cremated.
- 58:06Speaker 1: He wants to just disappear. He wants to die a man,
- 58:11Speaker 1: like he wants to end his life as a man,
- 58:14Speaker 1: because you know, that's who he is, and he doesn't
- 58:16Speaker 1: want to risk anything coming out. And here's the thing.
- 58:21Speaker 1: His cousins are like, just live with us, Like you're
- 58:24Speaker 1: not doing music anymore. You don't need to pretend to
- 58:27Speaker 1: be a man, like, which is what like there assumptionist, Like,
- 58:33Speaker 1: come live with us, live as a woman. You know,
- 58:36Speaker 1: we can get you to a doctor, we can get
- 58:37Speaker 1: you sordid. And instead of that, Billy chooses to live
- 58:45Speaker 1: through the rest of his life as a man. Now.
- 58:49Speaker 1: In January of nineteen eighty nine, Little Billy he's visiting
- 58:53Speaker 1: his dad and he is sick of his dad, like
- 58:57Speaker 1: arguing about not seeing a doctor, and he's like, no,
- 59:00Speaker 1: I'm getting you to a doctor, and so he calls
- 59:04Speaker 1: the paramedics, but by the time the paramedics get there,
- 59:08Speaker 1: Billy has passed away. So basically the paramedics show up
- 59:12Speaker 1: and the first thing they do is they unbutton his
- 59:14Speaker 1: shirt because obviously they want to do CPR and stuff
- 59:17Speaker 1: and all that, and so they unbuttoned the shirt and
- 59:20Speaker 1: the first thing they said a little Billy is did
- 59:23Speaker 1: your father have a sex change? And Billy has seen
- 59:26Speaker 1: his father's naked chest for the first time and has
- 59:29Speaker 1: to go step outside, and yeah, he's in shock because
- 59:34Speaker 1: like his dad has died, and then this happens and
- 59:37Speaker 1: it's a lot for him to take in. And the
- 59:42Speaker 1: autopsy report stated that this was the body of a
- 59:46Speaker 1: normal biological female. The coroner signed it, then called a
- 59:51Speaker 1: local journalist and said, I have a story for you.
- 59:56Speaker 1: Get ahold of this dead certificate. Meanwhile, Kitty had contacted
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: a funeral director and basically swore him to secrecy and
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: arranged for a commation like trying to like sweep this
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: under the rug as quickly as possible. She also managed
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: to find out that the coroner had contacted the paper,
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: and so she calls the editor that was planning to
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: run the story and demands that they respect the family's privacy. However,
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: John Thomas had already agreed to be interviewed, and they
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: saw this as family permission, and so the story was published.
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: And so Kitty, she says she'd never known they you know,
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: they were never physically intimate, and her older sons are
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: like just basically dragging her in the press. And whether
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: it's some kind of self preservation or because of her
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: love for Billy when it was there, she's working hard
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: to protect his reputation and his life. Meanwhile, the older
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: sons sell the rights to a film company, a film
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: which was never made. And here's the thing, from the
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: perspective of these boys, it's probably not the worst idea
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: that this film hasn't been made, because I don't think
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: it should if it's not going to give Billy Tipton
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: respect and consideration and empathy. So he was cremated and
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: his ashes were divided between the older sons and the
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: other half between little Billy and Kitty, and the majority
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: of his assets, like his will, everything is like the
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: majority of stuff is left to little Billy. He gets, like,
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: you know, stuff from his career. Saxophones, John and Scott
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: get a dollar each, like they get a taller each,
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: because if they get something, it means they haven't been
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: left out of the will, and it's sort of a
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: way to stop them contesting it. And so the biographer
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: of Like Suits me Dan Middlebrook, Like, she has this
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: whole opinion that Billy Tipton was just like an actor
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: who was a lying liar who lied to everyone and
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: basically had this whole facade. And so when she was
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: interviewing people, she was asking them if they felt deceived,
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: if they felt lied to, and near enough every person,
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: like Loretta, who's Betty's sister, she talks about how Billy
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: was a loving, caring man, considerate. And you find this
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: throughout the majority of the people who came into contact
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: with Billy, that he was a genuinely kind person. And
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: a load of the musicians who were contacted, like a
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: bunch of them were just like, not our business. They're like,
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: Billy Tipton is Billy Tipton. That's the man playing the piano.
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: Nothing to do with us, that's just Billy. Like the
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: whole idea is that even if they knew, they weren't
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: saying shit because to them it didn't matter because Billy
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: to them was Billy Tipton. He was their friend, he
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: was their collaborator, he was they're dude. And so Billy
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: Tipton was loved, respected, revered and lived his life as
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: a man and wanted to live their life as a man.
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: And even though the terminology and whatnot, we you know,
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: didn't have then, but for him, he saw himself as
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: a man and to represent him as anything else is
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: disingenuous and disrespectful, but so ends the story of Billy
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: Lee Tipton. If you liked my telling of this story,
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: which is different to my usual stuff because normally I
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: do everything gumblee chronological, but I splitted this too like
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: professional and personal this time. But yeah, that is a
- 1:04:16Speaker 1: story of Billy Lee Tipton. Feel free to re interview
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: five stars if you don't want to, you know, give
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: me five stars. You don't have to see anything sh
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: nobody wants to hear it. I hope you liked this
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: telling for Pride Month, which means we have at least
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: two more to cover, and one I've wanted to talk
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: about for a long time and I keep meaning to
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: cover but it just hasn't worked out for me one
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: way or the other. But I'm really excited because it
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: actually covers two of the important themes of this month. Actually.
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: But yes, you can follow me on all the socials.
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: You can if you want to give me episode recommend
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: to I know I've been getting a few of those
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: recently and I am working towards getting them. Thank you
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: to everyone who's been joining the Patreon. The Boston show
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: is up there. Listen to it with headphones on. That's
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: the best way to do it. Otherwise you can't hear anything.
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: Don't ask me why. Something to do with the way
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: the recording transferred. So, yeah, there's a few more stuff
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: coming out this month.
- 1:05:23Speaker 3: I have news coming out next couple weeks and yeah,
- 1:05:30Speaker 3: it's going to be a good time. But it is
- 1:05:32Speaker 3: recommendation time, so for reading you know what, I've recommended
- 1:05:39Speaker 3: it before, I'm gonna recommend it again. It's Pride month,
- 1:05:43Speaker 3: so support your LGBTQI authors. Let me tell you about
- 1:05:48Speaker 3: Gareth Russell and his book Queen James. So it's about
- 1:05:53Speaker 3: King James the sixth of Scotland and Foster of England.
- 1:05:56Speaker 3: It is a damn fine book by a damn fine
- 1:06:00Speaker 3: so read it.
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: It's great for watching. Go watch other performances from the
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: Tony Awards. Go do that, They're great. I watched the
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: Hamilton One several times over and over. It was a
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: good time for me. Although with everything going on at
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: the minute, my automatic thought is because costumes are incredibly important.
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: Is I'm looking at David Diggs beret and I'm like,
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: that was a choice. And I don't know whether it's
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: to represent Lafayette as a general, or whether it's to
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: represent stuff happening in the country right now. AnyWho, Lessening,
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: ooh for Lestening. You know what, I'm gonna recommend the
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: Stay Hydrated podcast. I think it's just it's just a
- 1:06:50Speaker 1: real breath of fresh air for me. I really enjoy it.
- 1:06:53Speaker 6: So enjoy, and with that I shall bid you good evening.
- 1:07:00Speaker 6: Adios au revoir of Weidas and my friends.
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: Bye bye,