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- 1:27Sonia Singh MD: You are listening to the Antisocial Doctors Podcast, hosted by me, Sonia Singh, a board certified internal medicine physician with a Master's in nutrition and a special interest in health anxiety
- 1:38Rebecca Berens MD: and me, Rebecca Barons, a board certified family medicine physician with a special interest in disordered eating.
- 1:43Sonia Singh MD: We're also a millennial women anxious moms and curious humans navigating social media.
- 1:48Sonia Singh MD: We've seen firsthand how these platforms can be powerful tools for education and connection, but can also make us unwell.
- 1:56Rebecca Berens MD: This podcast is meant to be the antidote to your doom.
- 1:58Rebecca Berens MD: Scrolling, a solve for the anxiety, stress, guilt, shame, and confusion that comes from social media's messaging around health.
- 2:05Rebecca Berens MD: In each episode, we discuss a health related topic, trending on social media with curiosity, nuance evidence, humility, and compassion.
- 2:12Sonia Singh MD: This is not your average debunking podcast.
- 2:14Sonia Singh MD: We wanna explore not just what is trending on social media, but why?
- 2:18Sonia Singh MD: Why are so many people drawn to this?
- 2:20Sonia Singh MD: What is the nugget of truth here?
- 2:21Sonia Singh MD: What are the facts?
- 2:23Sonia Singh MD: What can we learn from this as patients and doctors?
- 2:25Sonia Singh MD: No shame.
- 2:26Sonia Singh MD: No blame, no snark.
- 2:27Rebecca Berens MD: We're so glad you're here.
- 2:41Sonia Singh MD: All right, first episode.
- 2:42Sonia Singh MD: Hi, Rebecca.
- 2:43Rebecca Berens MD: I saw.
- 2:43Rebecca Berens MD: Me,
- 2:43Sonia Singh MD: I am so excited to be doing this with you.
- 2:45Rebecca Berens MD: I'm also so excited.
- 2:47Sonia Singh MD: We've been talking about this for a few months and I am glad that we finally decided to commit and do it.
- 2:51Sonia Singh MD: For the first episode, it's gonna be a little bit different.
- 2:53Sonia Singh MD: We're just gonna introduce ourselves so you can know who we are and why we're antisocial.
- 2:58Sonia Singh MD: Maybe you can start by sharing a little bit about your background and kind of how you got here.
- 3:02Rebecca Berens MD: Yeah.
- 3:03Rebecca Berens MD: So, I'm a family medicine physician and I am in private practice and a direct care practice here in the Houston area.
- 3:09Rebecca Berens MD: And.
- 3:10Rebecca Berens MD: I would say my story probably started all the way back when I was in college.
- 3:13Rebecca Berens MD: I actually struggled with an eating disorder in college and that experience really drew me to, as, as I moved through medical school and residency training really approach my patients from a different perspective, particularly the health at every size perspective.
- 3:27Rebecca Berens MD: That is a perspective I learned about during my recovery that I found very useful for myself, and I think really shaped the way that I approach things with patients.
- 3:36Sonia Singh MD: Well, I love that.
- 3:37Sonia Singh MD: I also love how open and vulnerable you're willing to be about your own history.
- 3:41Sonia Singh MD: I think sometimes as doctors, we're taught to have this mask on where we don't share anything about our personal lives and we never disclose any of that information.
- 3:50Sonia Singh MD: And I think the fact that you're so open about it and willing to be open about it and have used that to inform your practice is just so wonderful.
- 3:56Rebecca Berens MD: Thank
- 3:56Sonia Singh MD: you.
- 3:57Sonia Singh MD: So a little bit about myself.
- 3:58Sonia Singh MD: I am a board certified internal medicine physician.
- 4:00Sonia Singh MD: I am also a primary care, a direct primary care doctor like Rebecca is.
- 4:03Sonia Singh MD: We both practice in Houston, Texas.
- 4:05Sonia Singh MD: I grew up with a dad who was a physician and a mom who had health, anxiety, chronic pain, and a lot of unexplained symptoms.
- 4:13Sonia Singh MD: She also, despite being married to a doctor, didn't believe in western medicine.
- 4:16Sonia Singh MD: So, I joke often.
- 4:18Sonia Singh MD: I grew up in the Bay Area.
- 4:19Sonia Singh MD: I joke that she was crunchy before crunchy was even a thing.
- 4:22Sonia Singh MD: And I found that once I left training and went out into practice, I was attracting a lot of patients like her.
- 4:28Sonia Singh MD: Um, it was not really intentional or something that I was, trying to do, but I noticed it happening and over time I think I realized that I had maybe a different level of empathy and understanding for that patient population.
- 4:41Sonia Singh MD: And once I went into direct care and had more time with patients, I found myself embracing that demographic and people who are struggling with those issues and being more and more interested in how we can best serve those patients.
- 4:54Sonia Singh MD: And I think we don't do a great job of that in traditional healthcare.
- 4:57Sonia Singh MD: And I feel like it's something that deserves more time and attention.
- 5:00Sonia Singh MD: And so I've kind of, Been drawn to that, for the past year, past few years.
- 5:04Sonia Singh MD: And, you know, honestly, I think it, it's funny, I think for both of us, when you look back at your career oftentimes like you're trying to answer a question that came from somewhere earlier in your life.
- 5:13Sonia Singh MD: And I think that's kind of true for both of us.
- 5:15Sonia Singh MD: So, the question I'm trying to answer is how do we serve patients better who are dealing with unexplained or chronic symptoms that.
- 5:22Sonia Singh MD: The traditional healthcare system is not addressing.
- 5:25Sonia Singh MD: So I guess the next question would be why are we antisocial and why are we doing this podcast?
- 5:29Rebecca Berens MD: Yeah.
- 5:29Rebecca Berens MD: So I feel like this conversation came up after you and I, you know, we're both in similar mom Facebook groups and we've seen lots of questions and trends, throughout our own time on social media.
- 5:41Rebecca Berens MD: And I think coming from the education background and the career background that we have one perspective on it, but we also have the.
- 5:49Rebecca Berens MD: Patient and mom perspective on it.
- 5:51Rebecca Berens MD: And sometimes it can feel really confusing and difficult to navigate.
- 5:56Rebecca Berens MD: What's true even with the training that we have.
- 5:58Rebecca Berens MD: What's true?
- 5:58Rebecca Berens MD: What, what are we missing?
- 5:59Rebecca Berens MD: Is there something that we didn't know?
- 6:02Rebecca Berens MD: Mm-hmm.
- 6:02Rebecca Berens MD: Because it's something that's coming up for so many different people.
- 6:05Rebecca Berens MD: And so, I think we've seen on social media.
- 6:08Rebecca Berens MD: A lot of professionals now are trying to get onto social media and provide more information, but sometimes it's done in a way that's a little bit shammy or a little bit victim blamey, mm-hmm.
- 6:17Rebecca Berens MD: And just not very nuanced, not really taking into account where people are coming from with these questions and not really getting to the root of why is this an issue in the first place?
- 6:27Rebecca Berens MD: And I think we really wanted to be able to approach those questions from a little bit more nuanced and compassionate way.
- 6:34Sonia Singh MD: Yeah, I think that there's a lot of great people, trying to provide good, accurate information and trying to do the debunking on social media, but the reality is that social media as a platform or as multiple platforms is really not designed for nuance and context and that deeper dive.
- 6:51Sonia Singh MD: And so I think, you and I are both on social media.
- 6:55Sonia Singh MD: We make content, but it's really hard to fully.
- 6:59Sonia Singh MD: Address a lot of the issues that come up there in that platform.
- 7:01Sonia Singh MD: The other, just the other day I tried to write a comment on a post that I thought was misleading and Instagram kept not letting me post it'cause there were too many characters and I just kept trying to make it smaller and smaller.
- 7:12Sonia Singh MD: And eventually I was like, no, this thing cannot be explained in less than that many characters.
- 7:16Sonia Singh MD: That's how many I need to accurately, respond to this comment.
- 7:19Sonia Singh MD: I, I think that's why podcasts felt like a little bit more of a natural place and I think.
- 7:23Sonia Singh MD: Both you and I as physicians really craved a resource that we could provide for patients on a lot of these topics.
- 7:30Sonia Singh MD: And when we've looked, when I've looked around, I can't find one that does not have that kind of undertone of snark and blame and shame for people seeking information in this format.
- 7:40Sonia Singh MD: So.
- 7:41Sonia Singh MD: That's, that is why we're antisocial and why we're here.
- 7:44Sonia Singh MD: And it's a little bit of a tongue in cheek phrase'cause we're not totally antisocial.
- 7:47Sonia Singh MD: We are both on social media.
- 7:48Sonia Singh MD: Yeah.
- 7:49Rebecca Berens MD: But we're both pretty introverted and a little bit antisocial media.
- 7:51Sonia Singh MD: It's true.
- 7:52Sonia Singh MD: It's true.
- 7:52Sonia Singh MD: And in, in terms of why we got so into social media, I guess that's some context to explain is both of us have direct primary care practices and as part of that, we have presence as.
- 8:01Sonia Singh MD: Online, that's kind of part of the way you find patients and market yourself.
- 8:05Sonia Singh MD: And so prior to that, I, I think you said you were only following like sewing videos on social media and I was really basically never posting anything.
- 8:14Sonia Singh MD: And I had a rule for myself that I only followed people that I actually knew in real life.
- 8:17Sonia Singh MD: So my feed was very limited and very boring.
- 8:20Sonia Singh MD: And, it was only after I.
- 8:22Sonia Singh MD: Started my practice and created a professional account and really started engaging with people in the health and wellness space on social media that my eyes were open to, what was happening there.
- 8:32Sonia Singh MD: And then it was when I was in this model of practice and got to spend more time with my patients and actually hear from them what they're seeing and hearing and believing that I realized gosh, this is a really big deal and we're not doing enough to.
- 8:47Sonia Singh MD: Address it basically.
- 8:48Rebecca Berens MD: Yeah.
- 8:49Rebecca Berens MD: And that's really how people get sucked into this sort of misleading information is like mm-hmm.
- 8:54Rebecca Berens MD: The, a lot of the information is, oh, your doctor doesn't know about this, or This is what they're not telling you.
- 8:59Rebecca Berens MD: And then they bring it up to their doctor and they're totally dismissed or Yeah.
- 9:04Rebecca Berens MD: You know, laughed at, and it's.
- 9:05Rebecca Berens MD: How can we possibly counteract that information if we're not willing to engage with it and explain and have that nuanced conversation?
- 9:12Sonia Singh MD: Yeah, and the sad part is that all of that takes time.
- 9:14Sonia Singh MD: And in traditional healthcare, it's really hard for doctors and patients to find that time together, or even for doctors to find the time for.
- 9:22Sonia Singh MD: Outside of clinic to get caught up on what's going on on social media and what are actually the facts and really looking into it deeply.
- 9:28Sonia Singh MD: So we're in a unique position where we have the time with patients to do those things.
- 9:32Sonia Singh MD: And we also have the bandwidth as physicians to, embark on a project like this.
- 9:36Sonia Singh MD: So basically.
- 9:37Sonia Singh MD: Each week, we're gonna cover a different topic or in each episode we're gonna cover a different topic, that we see trending on social media.
- 9:42Sonia Singh MD: Each show is gonna be structured the same, where we'll talk about, well, what is the topic and what is the claim?
- 9:47Sonia Singh MD: Why is it viral?
- 9:49Sonia Singh MD: This is the thing that I think a lot of other sites that kind of provide accurate information and debunk things don't necessarily delve into like, why did patients get, why did people get drawn to that?
- 9:59Sonia Singh MD: Why are there so many eyeballs on this in the first place?
- 10:01Sonia Singh MD: And I think.
- 10:02Sonia Singh MD: Looking for that answer.
- 10:03Sonia Singh MD: You can learn a lot about, what we should be doing better in medicine, honestly.
- 10:09Sonia Singh MD: We'll look at what is the nugget of truth.
- 10:10Sonia Singh MD: 'cause a lot of these things do start, not all of them, but a lot of them do start with some truth.
- 10:15Sonia Singh MD: What are the facts?
- 10:16Sonia Singh MD: And when we talk about facts, we wanna make sure that we're.
- 10:19Sonia Singh MD: Explaining them in a nuanced, accurate way with references and with context, which I think is often missing on social media.
- 10:26Sonia Singh MD: What can we learn from this as doctors and humans?
- 10:29Sonia Singh MD: Humility is something I wanna make sure that we have throughout this podcast and acknowledging where our healthcare system falls short, where we can do better and where we're failing patients but also just what we can learn as human beings about how to navigate social media safely.
- 10:43Sonia Singh MD: And then in our show notes, we're gonna include resources for where people can go for more information on some of these topics.
- 10:50Sonia Singh MD: Maybe people to follow that, provide accurate information.
- 10:53Sonia Singh MD: And we're very open to suggestions about topics that you wanna have covered, or things that you're seeing that you have questions about.
- 11:00Rebecca Berens MD: Absolutely.
- 11:01Rebecca Berens MD: And really our goal here is we wanna make this a resource for a patient that wants to have a deeper dive into a trend that they've seen on social media, around a health topic.
- 11:10Rebecca Berens MD: We want it to feel validating.
- 11:11Rebecca Berens MD: We want it to be evidence-based.
- 11:12Rebecca Berens MD: We don't wanna be snarky, we don't wanna blame, we don't wanna have any judgment.
- 11:16Rebecca Berens MD: This is a judgment free zone.
- 11:18Rebecca Berens MD: And we really wanna provide also a resource for doctors to better understand and respond to patient's questions because I think part of the way that we're going to be able to heal that doctor patient relationship is by providing information to doctors as well, who don't have the time that we have to go and do this deep dive.
- 11:34Sonia Singh MD: Absolutely.
- 11:35Sonia Singh MD: So we hope you'll stick along for this journey, and, we'd love to hear from you.
- 11:39Sonia Singh MD: So if you're, listening and enjoying or not enjoying, please feel free to send us your feedback and, hope you enjoy the show.
- 11:47Sonia Singh MD: Hey guys.
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