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DLHS Hour 2 | Getting divorce because transgender-in-law cannot watch our children · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is the deal. You can show your twenty twenty
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  Speaker 1: six and this.
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  Speaker 2: Remember if you're in Cincinnati at the Liberty City, I
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  Speaker 2: will be there tomorrow, tomorrow and tomorrow I'll be there,
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  Speaker 2: excuse me Friday and Saturday to Friday, two saturdays to
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  Speaker 2: come taking notion.
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  Speaker 1: Take a listen to this.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, people, So apparently I'm sleeping in a guest room
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  Speaker 3: and I'm getting a divorced because I won't allow my
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  Speaker 3: wife's brother who's a trance, to watch our kids. So
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  Speaker 3: let me give you a little backstory. He hasn't been
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  Speaker 3: seen in this family for about ten years. Right, he
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  Speaker 3: finally comes back around as Brianna. His name was Brandon.
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  Speaker 3: Now he's Brianna. No big deal, okay, do you but
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  Speaker 3: the first thing you do when you get back is
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  Speaker 3: not to offer to watch our kids overnight. Look, Brianna, Brianna,
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  Speaker 3: I'm just now meeting this new person. When I met you,
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  Speaker 3: it was Brandon too. My religious purposes, it's not going
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  Speaker 3: to allow me to let try and sexual man woman
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  Speaker 3: to be out of town with our kids. Who's not
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  Speaker 3: taking them out of town, he's not spending the night
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  Speaker 3: with them. About one of us being there and I
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  Speaker 3: don't agree with his lifestyle, so I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: he's going to do with talking about in front of
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  Speaker 3: the kids.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe we need to.
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  Speaker 3: Discuss on how this came about before we let him
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  Speaker 3: take our kids.
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  Speaker 2: So he won't let his transgender brother in law a
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  Speaker 2: babysitter his kids, like these days, like you can get
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  Speaker 2: anybody to baby anybody's kids. I bet if he wanted
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  Speaker 2: to go somewhere bad enough, he takes chances. So what
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  Speaker 2: do you think You think.
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  Speaker 5: That, well, he knows his brother better than anybody, But
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  Speaker 5: he ain't been around for ten years. And when he left,
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  Speaker 5: he was a dude and.
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  Speaker 1: They came back with us.
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  Speaker 5: You know, man, love is love. I mean as long
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  Speaker 5: as the dude is. I mean the woman is a
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  Speaker 5: loving and he has trust. It should be no what
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  Speaker 5: he said he doesn't have true because he does not
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  Speaker 5: know this iteration of this person. That's that's his that's
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  Speaker 5: his main He does have a problem with the other part,
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  Speaker 5: but his main thing is Yeah. But I mean, that's
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  Speaker 5: like having a straight pedophile brother.
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  Speaker 4: You know, would you want to.
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  Speaker 5: Leave her kids with him just because he's straight? Come on, man,
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  Speaker 5: I wouldn't leave my kids around anybody I hadn't seen
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  Speaker 5: for ten years now. My favorite aunt was was gay
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  Speaker 5: and as subsequently, all her friends were gay, and as
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  Speaker 5: kids we always hung out with him. She was our
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  Speaker 5: cool aunt, you know. She would always take us out,
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  Speaker 5: so we would be with them, be around him all
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  Speaker 5: the time. And they do the coolest people on planting
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  Speaker 5: Meryl and her special friends, right and Tina, Yes, Marie
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  Speaker 5: and all of her friends. And I mean, but they
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  Speaker 5: were cool people. They look out for you. It's no
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  Speaker 5: big thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, Yeah, I do think. I think men probably
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  Speaker 2: have a harder time with it. Yes, this in general,
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  Speaker 2: not to stereotype, but I think, but I think that.
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  Speaker 1: The sad things.
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  Speaker 2: There's a complex place between somebody being gay or a
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  Speaker 2: transgender and pedophied to and they're not the same at all.
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  Speaker 4: Not at all.
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  Speaker 5: And then, as Skip explained the whole scenario, then I
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  Speaker 5: guess I would understand if it was a total stranger.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, I ain't seen in ten years. It
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  Speaker 5: just cut them loose with my kids, I guess I would.
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  Speaker 1: Have unless you really don't like your kids.
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  Speaker 5: But you know, he left back in the day with
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  Speaker 5: some Jamo jeans on and came back with a bowl
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  Speaker 5: with a sundress.
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  Speaker 1: I don't who are you?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: It's been helpkay.
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  Speaker 2: So the question we're asking a man I refuse to
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  Speaker 2: let his transgender brother in law baby sit his kids.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think, Jasmine? What do you think? I
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  Speaker 1: think it's silly. I'm not going to say it's silly.
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  Speaker 6: I understand that you might be concerned about the questions,
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  Speaker 6: you know, but your kids are going to always have questions,
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  Speaker 6: be it your transgender brother or whatever or somebody else.
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  Speaker 6: So I think, you know, although you can change your
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  Speaker 6: body part to think if he was always a loving
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  Speaker 6: person or she, whatever their pronouns are, was always a
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  Speaker 6: loving person, they probably still are. And if they want
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  Speaker 6: to spend time or babysit the kid, you know, like
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  Speaker 6: you said, it's it's very difficult time to get someone
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  Speaker 6: to watch your kids. So my thing is love is love.
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  Speaker 6: And you know, as long as I don't think that
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  Speaker 6: they're going to do anything to harm them, then I
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  Speaker 6: don't see why I would stand in the way of
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  Speaker 6: a relationship.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean about that yesterday, standing.
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  Speaker 4: In the way of relationships, I wouldn't do it.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if your child is funny looking or bad
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  Speaker 1: take with you take your dad.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah you can't.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what you don't get to do is
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  Speaker 2: decide just take come whoever, come get them, Just take them,
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  Speaker 2: come get them.
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  Speaker 1: You can't be judicious.
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  Speaker 2: Question we're asking a father refuse to let his brother
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  Speaker 2: in law, his transgender brother in law, babysit his kids.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think we're going to write to the
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  Speaker 2: little of the audio?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, people, So apparently I'm sleeping in the guest room
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  Speaker 3: and I'm getting them divorced because I won't allow my
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  Speaker 3: wife brother who was a trans to watch our kids.
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  Speaker 3: So let me give you a little backstory. He hasn't
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  Speaker 3: been seen in this family for about ten years, right,
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  Speaker 3: he finally comes back around as Brianna.
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  Speaker 4: His name was Brandon. Now Brianna, no big deal, okay,
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  Speaker 4: do you but.
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  Speaker 3: The first thing you do when you get back is
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  Speaker 3: not to offer to watch our kids overnight. Look, Brianna, Brianna, I'm.
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  Speaker 4: Just now meeting this new person.
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  Speaker 3: When I met you, he was Brandon two my religious purposes,
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  Speaker 3: it's not gonna allow me to let a transsexual man
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  Speaker 3: woman to be out of town with our kids and Disneyland.
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  Speaker 3: It just doesn't look good. I don't want to confuse
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  Speaker 3: my two boys. We have two boys and the little girl.
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  Speaker 3: Why would you one thing around though one is ten,
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  Speaker 3: one is eight, the little girls are eleven. They asked
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  Speaker 3: him most craziest question. You don't think they're gonna ask me?
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  Speaker 3: Who is this person?
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  Speaker 7: Why?
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  Speaker 3: His uncle winning a dress turned to a big uproar,
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  Speaker 3: got into a big argument.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, I went into the guest room.
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  Speaker 3: And not to mention she's talking about she can't be
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  Speaker 3: with somebody who doesn't allow her family members to be
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  Speaker 3: active in our kids' lives. I have no problem with them,
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  Speaker 3: with your whatever, being active, just not alone with them.
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  Speaker 3: He's not taking them out of town, he's not spending
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  Speaker 3: the night with them without when it us being there.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't agree with his lifestyle. So I don't
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  Speaker 3: know what he's gonna do with talking about in front
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  Speaker 3: of the kids. We haven't seen him her in ten years.
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  Speaker 3: The man I met had a clean shaved head, had
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  Speaker 3: a fiance. This new person now has addressed awake and fingernails.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe we need to discuss on how this came about
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  Speaker 3: before we let him take our kids. What you gotta
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  Speaker 3: thought on that? Am I being an asshole? And I
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  Speaker 3: being pigheaded, you know, stubborn.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't get this new world today,
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  Speaker 4: but it does not happening here.
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  Speaker 1: Going to the falls. What do you think I agree
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  Speaker 1: with him?
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  Speaker 8: I don't.
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  Speaker 9: I don't.
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  Speaker 8: I don't think that's a smart thing to do. I mean,
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  Speaker 8: I understand that her brothers, but I mean ten years
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  Speaker 8: you've haven't heard from him. He's done a complete three
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  Speaker 8: six six. You don't know what this man has been
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  Speaker 8: exposed to. You know, it's I think it's it's smart
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  Speaker 8: to be cautious with your children, with anyone.
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  Speaker 10: I think people already throw religious beliefs and the things,
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  Speaker 10: but religious. To be religious, you gotta love one another.
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  Speaker 10: For you to divorce your wife.
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  Speaker 8: Because of her brother's.
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  Speaker 10: Situation, that means you you're causing more hating division in
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  Speaker 10: the world that are loved. The Bible says, love each other,
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  Speaker 10: not judge each other.
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  Speaker 8: For me, stories like this help to reinforce the good
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  Speaker 8: parents and.
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  Speaker 11: The good coming things that I was raised with. Now,
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  Speaker 11: my thing is, I can totally understand both sides for
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  Speaker 11: the simple solution with me. If you look so healthy
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  Speaker 11: on your brother spending some time with your kids, they
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  Speaker 11: did the last, how about just making a family trip
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  Speaker 11: and all of y'all go, so that way, the kids
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  Speaker 11: on the loans and he still gets hissies with his.
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  Speaker 12: Nieces and nephew.
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  Speaker 11: But do I think the husband is wrong for feeling
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  Speaker 11: the way he still is?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 8: Absolutely, like, and my thing is with the wife.
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  Speaker 11: This is your brother, we're talking about your family.
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  Speaker 8: So you mean to tell me.
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  Speaker 11: That you're willing to walk away from your kids and
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  Speaker 11: your family just because you don't agree with something that
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  Speaker 11: your husband is saying as far as with his religious
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  Speaker 11: beliefs like that, that's the deal breaking dead. It may
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  Speaker 11: be more problems in their marriage than what they think
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  Speaker 11: they have.
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  Speaker 12: I don't think the man is wrong. I think he
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  Speaker 12: has a right as a parent to be concerned about
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  Speaker 12: and take a responsible stand on what himsing to his
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  Speaker 12: children are subjected to. And if he were to ask
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  Speaker 12: his wife, if that were.
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  Speaker 13: My blood brother and he was your brother in law,
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  Speaker 13: he wouldn't be at the point of trying to divorce
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  Speaker 13: me because.
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  Speaker 12: She's invested in it.
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  Speaker 13: From a different standpoint, but whether it's something sociably acceptable
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  Speaker 13: or something that everybody is into is a trend now,
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  Speaker 13: that doesn't make it right for your child. You have
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  Speaker 13: a responsibility to make a choice based on what you
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  Speaker 13: want to influence your child. And you know, child abuse
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  Speaker 13: and child manimpulation and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 12: It's been prevalent for years. People become adults and then
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  Speaker 12: they talk about what happened and then when they were left.
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  Speaker 13: Unsupervised with other children. So you have to protect your children.
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  Speaker 12: And that's just his point of view. And it's unfortunate
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  Speaker 12: that it leads to the point where it breaks down
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  Speaker 12: your marriage. But they should be able to talk about
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  Speaker 12: that responsibly, even the transcender guy and the husband and
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  Speaker 12: way and to let no, I don't want that influence.
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  Speaker 12: You know, if a parent later on makes a transition
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  Speaker 12: like that, that's an influence you still don't want around
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  Speaker 12: your children. So that'll affect their visitations. But I think
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  Speaker 12: he's right for just holding his ground saying how he
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  Speaker 12: feels about it.
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  Speaker 2: So the question we're asking their father refused to let
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  Speaker 2: his transgender brother in law babysit as kids.
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  Speaker 1: You think he is right. We are legit a load
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  Speaker 1: to the audio.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, people, So apparently I'm sleeping in a guest room
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  Speaker 3: and I'm getting a divorced because I won't allow my
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  Speaker 3: wife's brother who's a trans to watch our kids. So
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  Speaker 3: let me give you a little backstory. He hasn't been
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  Speaker 3: seen in this family for about ten years. Right, he
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  Speaker 3: finally comes back around as Brianna. His name was Brandon.
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  Speaker 3: Now is Brianna?
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  Speaker 4: No big deal? Okay?
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  Speaker 3: Do you but the first thing you do when you
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  Speaker 3: get back is not to offer to watch our kids overnight. Look, Brianna, Brianna,
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  Speaker 3: I'm just now me in this new person. When I
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  Speaker 3: met you he was Brandon too. My religious purposes, it's
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  Speaker 3: not going to allow me to let a transsexual man
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  Speaker 3: woman to be out of town with our kids and
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  Speaker 3: laying it just doesn't look good.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to.
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  Speaker 3: Confuse my two boys. We have two boys a little girl.
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  Speaker 3: Why would you want thing around them? One is ten,
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  Speaker 3: one is eight. The little girls are living. They ask
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  Speaker 3: the most craziest questions. You don't think they're gonna ask
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  Speaker 3: me who is this person?
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  Speaker 7: Why?
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  Speaker 3: His uncle winning the dress turned to a big uproar,
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  Speaker 3: got into a big argument. So yeah, I went into
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  Speaker 3: the guest room, and not to mention she's talking about
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  Speaker 3: she can't be with somebody who doesn't allow her family
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  Speaker 3: members to be active in our kids' lives. I have
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  Speaker 3: no problem with them, with your whatever, being active, just
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  Speaker 3: not along with them. He's not taking them out of town,
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  Speaker 3: he's not spending the night with them about when it
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  Speaker 3: us being there, And I don't agree with his lifestyle.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know what he's gonna do with talking
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  Speaker 3: about in front of the kids. We haven't seen him
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  Speaker 3: her in ten years. The man I met had a
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  Speaker 3: clean shaved head, had a fiance.
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  Speaker 4: This new person now has a dressed a wig and
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  Speaker 4: think the house.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe we need to discuss on how this came about
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  Speaker 3: before we let him take our kids.
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  Speaker 4: What you got start the matter? Am I being pay
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  Speaker 4: had it?
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  Speaker 7: You know?
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  Speaker 4: Stubborn? I don't know. I don't get it. This new
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  Speaker 4: world today, but it does not happening.
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  Speaker 1: Here, never going to the phones? What do you think?
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  Speaker 7: I understand how the father feels, but not necessarily for
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  Speaker 7: the reasons that he says. I don't think any family
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  Speaker 7: member that's gone for ten years and comes back should
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  Speaker 7: be able to spend the night with your children. You
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  Speaker 7: have to vet people who spend that kind of time
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  Speaker 7: with your kids, whether they're family members or home ever.
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  Speaker 7: I know he has his reasons, but I think that
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  Speaker 7: it's good to see a father that's protective because a
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  Speaker 7: lot of times parents father's mother too. They'll just say, oh,
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  Speaker 7: this is time for me to get a break and
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  Speaker 7: not vet individuals. So I see his point. I think
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  Speaker 7: his reasoning is a little off. But because your children
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  Speaker 7: can be valiated by somebody that you know perfectly straight
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  Speaker 7: or whatever, you just need to be careful. I think
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  Speaker 7: all parents should be careful like this man and his
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  Speaker 7: wife should understand that he's being protected.
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  Speaker 10: I agree with the father. There's no way in the
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  Speaker 10: h L would I allow my wife brother who's a
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  Speaker 10: transgender I hadn't seen in ten year, to keep my kids.
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  Speaker 10: There's no way in the heir I allow it to happen. Now,
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  Speaker 10: I'll sleep on the couch, I'd be in the doghouse,
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  Speaker 10: I'll do whatever. But at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 10: you're not gonna watch my kids, period. And I hadn't
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  Speaker 10: seen you in ten years. Listen, me and my wife
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  Speaker 10: being allowed anybody to keep our kids, and that's our
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  Speaker 10: own person family. But you expect your brother that I
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  Speaker 10: hadn't seen in ten years was a man when I
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  Speaker 10: was last seen him. Now he wanted to be a woman.
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  Speaker 10: His lifestyle has nothing to do with me, but my
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  Speaker 10: kids has everything to do with me, because there's no
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  Speaker 10: way that I would trust him around my kids by himself.
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  Speaker 10: So his wife, hey, we may end up getting divorce
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  Speaker 10: about this, but I'm gonna pip take my kids at
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  Speaker 10: the end of the day. So your brother would niver
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  Speaker 10: babysit my kids. So I agree with him.
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  Speaker 1: I don't blame him.
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  Speaker 12: What did his wife boy him to do? That's what's
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  Speaker 12: wrong with the world today. Nobody fail to the children
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  Speaker 12: and knows the ones who be in my lesson than abused.
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  Speaker 12: And I feel like he's right. Don't leave his children
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  Speaker 12: with no one like that.
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