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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha.
- 0:06Speaker 2: I'm welcome to stuff I never told you, protective, I
- 0:08Speaker 2: hurtried you, And today we are going to be talking
- 0:22Speaker 2: about something we teased in our recent episode on women
- 0:27Speaker 2: and jury duty, which is Samantha and I's experiences in
- 0:34Speaker 2: court in my primarily my experience recently serving jury duty,
- 0:38Speaker 2: which we didn't get to go into, which was why
- 0:40Speaker 2: I was gone for five.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Days, abandoned me for so long?
- 0:46Speaker 2: Did it was a panic when I got chosen?
- 0:49Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, no, no, no, no, no.
- 0:51Speaker 1: All panic for different reasons.
- 0:57Speaker 2: Yes, I'm not going to go too much into the
- 1:00Speaker 2: details of the case. I'm just going to kind of
- 1:04Speaker 2: talk about my experience as a juror. But that being said,
- 1:09Speaker 2: it was murder trial, right, I'm not going to get
- 1:13Speaker 2: into that much detail, but I will be talking a
- 1:15Speaker 2: little bit about how that impacted me.
- 1:20Speaker 4: Yes, although I think it is it's good to note
- 1:22Speaker 4: because one of the things that you should let them
- 1:23Speaker 4: know is about the timeline. So I think people get
- 1:27Speaker 4: shocked about the fact that it takes so long for
- 1:30Speaker 4: the process and why people may like never hear anything
- 1:34Speaker 4: for three or four years. And then also with that,
- 1:38Speaker 4: like why witnesses have issues and trying to restate the
- 1:43Speaker 4: same things. Because time makes differences.
- 1:47Speaker 2: It does, it does. So speaking of before I forget, Yes,
- 1:53Speaker 2: this was a trial. This was a case from twenty nineteen.
- 1:58Speaker 2: It had on to trial previously, and it was a mistrial.
- 2:02Speaker 2: It was a hung jury and we could see what
- 2:04Speaker 2: they decided, which was really interesting and I'll talk about
- 2:08Speaker 2: it more, but there was a pretty stark divide of
- 2:12Speaker 2: like there were five charges and there were some people
- 2:14Speaker 2: who were very much guilty on all and there were
- 2:18Speaker 2: some people who were not guilty at all. But anyway, yeah,
- 2:21Speaker 2: it happened in twenty nineteen, it went to trial, there
- 2:25Speaker 2: was hungury, so it was coming back, but the state
- 2:31Speaker 2: brought that up of the like, I'm sorry it took
- 2:35Speaker 2: so long because you know, the families are in there
- 2:38Speaker 2: and there was a lot of emotion running pretty high,
- 2:43Speaker 2: and it was pretty shocking that it was from twenty
- 2:47Speaker 2: nineteen and here we are deciding it now. But also, yeah,
- 2:51Speaker 2: going to your point, because you have experience testifying, there
- 2:56Speaker 2: were witnesses, some of whom I believe you've testified at
- 3:01Speaker 2: the previous time, who were called into question because they
- 3:06Speaker 2: couldn't remember the exact specifics of the case or whatever
- 3:12Speaker 2: they had to do with the involvement, And sometimes it
- 3:15Speaker 2: would be like, do you need to look at your report,
- 3:18Speaker 2: one of the lawyers would say, And it just because
- 3:21Speaker 2: that does you know, the jurors are meant to judge
- 3:24Speaker 2: how credible a witnesses, right, But yeah, I mean, of course,
- 3:29Speaker 2: like I, I wouldn't know if that was if I
- 3:32Speaker 2: didn't have my report in front of me, and it is.
- 3:37Speaker 2: It's scary. I got scared in the process of being
- 3:41Speaker 2: interviewed as a juror, and I flubbed an answer, I
- 3:45Speaker 2: flubbed questions. So I can only imagine if you're getting
- 3:48Speaker 2: called in and you're getting these questions from two lawyers
- 3:54Speaker 2: who are trying to use you in one way or
- 3:56Speaker 2: another to prove either side or whatever they're going through.
- 4:01Speaker 4: Right. Well, and also, just as you were telling me earlier,
- 4:05Speaker 4: he was also released at that point on under house arrest.
- 4:08Speaker 2: Right I think so, yeah.
- 4:12Speaker 4: So he must have been able to make bell, which
- 4:14Speaker 4: is unusual for that type of those types of charges.
- 4:18Speaker 4: So I'm kind of interested in how he was able
- 4:21Speaker 4: to plead that every now and again, circumstantially you can
- 4:25Speaker 4: house arrest is different from different people. So this is yeah,
- 4:29Speaker 4: like the things I know. I've never been on a jewelry.
- 4:32Speaker 4: I've been called in a couple of times. One time
- 4:34Speaker 4: I was able to get out because my home address
- 4:36Speaker 4: was still my parents address because I was too transient
- 4:39Speaker 4: where I would move around too much, and I felt
- 4:41Speaker 4: like that would be better. And then I had to
- 4:43Speaker 4: go to there and be like, I don't actually live here,
- 4:47Speaker 4: that's and they're like, uh, you need to change your address.
- 4:51Speaker 4: It's like fair enough, fair enough.
- 4:53Speaker 5: My bad.
- 4:53Speaker 4: And then another time I just called in and they
- 4:55Speaker 4: didn't need me. And I've always like you and I
- 4:58Speaker 4: talked about last time. I was like, I doubt I'll
- 5:00Speaker 4: ever be on a jury just because I worked with
- 5:02Speaker 4: the state, so I often did court cases and helped
- 5:08Speaker 4: represent the state in whatever conversations we had, whether it
- 5:11Speaker 4: was for the Department of Family and Children's Services or
- 5:13Speaker 4: whether it's for Department of Juneral Justice, and the Department
- 5:16Speaker 4: of Juvenal Justice works with kids youths who are offenders,
- 5:20Speaker 4: so they have broken the law so that they don't
- 5:22Speaker 4: quite go to jail necessarily, but they do go through
- 5:25Speaker 4: similar processes. It's never a jury trial because obviously they
- 5:28Speaker 4: can't have because deciding a factor about a case, but
- 5:34Speaker 4: I would oftentimes be the one coming in. I had
- 5:37Speaker 4: to do paperwork for petitions for all these different things,
- 5:41Speaker 4: whether it's to put them on house arrest or whether
- 5:43Speaker 4: it's to lock them up, or whether it's to release
- 5:45Speaker 4: them or I get the treatment for them. So I
- 5:47Speaker 4: had to do a lot of petitions and go in
- 5:48Speaker 4: front of judges and it is really really nerve wracking.
- 5:52Speaker 4: Even though you might just be in front of like
- 5:54Speaker 4: ten people, it still feels like a battle. And of
- 5:58Speaker 4: course for me could be at personalities any that. Yeah,
- 6:02Speaker 4: you know, performance anxiety in general. So that's that was
- 6:05Speaker 4: the thing. But also because I feel like it was
- 6:07Speaker 4: a heavy responsibility because these are the people's lives, whether
- 6:11Speaker 4: they're youth or adults, and you need to respect both
- 6:15Speaker 4: the victims the Hindu for perpetrators like you, they are
- 6:17Speaker 4: human beings, and I often had cases where I kind
- 6:20Speaker 4: of went against the state trying to do better for
- 6:22Speaker 4: the people because there would be extenuating circumstances that we
- 6:26Speaker 4: might not know, and.
- 6:27Speaker 1: Also because justice system is.
- 6:30Speaker 4: Not as unbiased as they would like to claim, as
- 6:33Speaker 4: we've seen repeatedly.
- 6:35Speaker 1: There's a lot sub to that.
- 6:36Speaker 4: But yeah, like him being on house arrests for those
- 6:39Speaker 4: extensive charges including murder not necessarily like aggravated or like that,
- 6:45Speaker 4: but still is like, wow, he was able to go home.
- 6:48Speaker 4: Usually they hold them no matter what, even if they do.
- 6:52Speaker 4: Maybe the hung jury was the difference because I don't know,
- 6:56Speaker 4: but if it was an extensive, like harsh enough charge,
- 7:01Speaker 4: typically they will Again murder will't necessarily release you like that.
- 7:07Speaker 4: Now house of rest is different, y'all. I could go
- 7:10Speaker 4: into the whole conversation about monitoring and what that looks
- 7:13Speaker 4: like in the GPS system and the private companies that
- 7:15Speaker 4: the state hires on how much money they make in
- 7:18Speaker 4: these really not great systems.
- 7:21Speaker 1: Yeah, easyed a fool.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Well, okay, Well to clarify, as I mentioned in our
- 7:30Speaker 2: Women and Jury Duty episode, there are the opening arguments
- 7:38Speaker 2: in this specific case, but I think in general, in
- 7:40Speaker 2: cases like this, it starts with the state because the
- 7:44Speaker 2: burden of proof is on the state. In the state
- 7:48Speaker 2: in this case was of course representing the person who
- 7:50Speaker 2: I died, and then they argue, and then the defense
- 7:55Speaker 2: comes out and argues, and then their closing arguments are
- 8:01Speaker 2: The state goes first. The defense has a rebuttal, and
- 8:05Speaker 2: then the state gets to go again and we were
- 8:09Speaker 2: told very clearly whatever they say is not necessarily true.
- 8:13Speaker 2: And then after we rendered our verdict, they were victim
- 8:17Speaker 2: impact statements. And the victim impact statements is when one
- 8:22Speaker 2: of the family members of the person who had been
- 8:24Speaker 2: murdered said, he's been on house arrest this whole time.
- 8:30Speaker 2: So I don't know, that's just.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Okay where I'm that's interesting.
- 8:35Speaker 2: Yeah, so I but I don't know if it's true.
- 8:36Speaker 2: I just know what she said. Right.
- 8:39Speaker 4: To be fair, it may have absolutely everything to be
- 8:42Speaker 4: with the due to the fact that they are overpopulated,
- 8:45Speaker 4: and so certain people will be released based on that
- 8:50Speaker 4: due to the level of violence, the level of violence
- 8:54Speaker 4: within being arrested or being threatened within a secured place.
- 8:59Speaker 4: So you never know if it was a judge's choice,
- 9:02Speaker 4: I mean, they still had to approve it, but like
- 9:04Speaker 4: he could have been released on a monitor house arrest
- 9:09Speaker 4: based on the fact that the jail was overpopulated at
- 9:12Speaker 4: the time and he was less risk than any of
- 9:16Speaker 4: the others detained.
- 9:19Speaker 1: Which I don't know. There's a lot of drug.
- 9:22Speaker 4: Charges that happened in jailed and fined, and they.
- 9:25Speaker 1: Seem like they would be less risk than their murder charge. Whatever. Again,
- 9:29Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 9:31Speaker 2: We had a lot of questions as a jury about
- 9:34Speaker 2: many things, but in terms of like, oh wow, that
- 9:37Speaker 2: that calls for that amount of time served and that
- 9:40Speaker 2: is that okay? Interesting? But also we found out a
- 9:45Speaker 2: lot of things after we gave the verdict and the
- 9:48Speaker 2: lawyers can come talk to you. The defendant in his
- 9:53Speaker 2: family had received a lot, lot a lot of death threats,
- 9:57Speaker 2: so I don't know if that had anything to do
- 10:00Speaker 2: with it either. But anyway, okay, I want I'm just
- 10:07Speaker 2: going to break down the whole thing. I bet, I'm
- 10:10Speaker 2: going to keep it pretty short. So I actually have
- 10:13Speaker 2: a lot of friends who've never been summoned for Jerry
- 10:15Speaker 2: j D kind of blows my mind. You get a
- 10:18Speaker 2: summons in the mail. It gives you time and place
- 10:22Speaker 2: to show up, which, yes, you will get in trouble
- 10:25Speaker 2: if you do not. You can defer it. There's a
- 10:28Speaker 2: couple of like I'm a full time student and a
- 10:30Speaker 2: full time caregiver. There's a couple things like that that
- 10:32Speaker 2: you can just get out of it. But you can
- 10:35Speaker 2: defer it just for like this is not a good time,
- 10:37Speaker 2: which is what I did, because we were going to Seattle.
- 10:41Speaker 2: But I deferred it foolishly. I didn't choose a date,
- 10:45Speaker 2: which you could choose a date. I was just like whenever,
- 10:48Speaker 2: and I immediately when I.
- 10:50Speaker 1: Got back, well I guess whenever.
- 10:53Speaker 2: They were like, you're coming in now. So you go in,
- 10:57Speaker 2: and at least in the one in Fulllton County where
- 11:01Speaker 2: I am, which Fulton County is huge. They kind of
- 11:05Speaker 2: they they put you in this huge waiting room. They
- 11:08Speaker 2: show you videos about how your jury duty service works,
- 11:12Speaker 2: which is really funny to me because some of them
- 11:14Speaker 2: are like how to answer the summons, and I'm like,
- 11:16Speaker 2: we're already here, so okay. But then you're assigned a
- 11:21Speaker 2: number and they call your number. Well not always because
- 11:25Speaker 2: the night before, like you said, you call and sometimes
- 11:27Speaker 2: they don't even need you. But if you've gotten to
- 11:29Speaker 2: the court, if they call your name, they assign you
- 11:33Speaker 2: a number. And this is because if you do get chosen,
- 11:37Speaker 2: it's for your protection essentially, so they don't know your name.
- 11:41Speaker 2: And I'm very glad I wrote down my number because
- 11:44Speaker 2: I was extremely extremely confident I would not get chosen.
- 11:48Speaker 3: So but then you.
- 12:03Speaker 2: Get a number, you go to the court, and that's
- 12:06Speaker 2: when you do varder, which is the case I was in,
- 12:11Speaker 2: was pretty large. The previous time I made it to
- 12:13Speaker 2: that section it was much smaller, but this is pretty large.
- 12:15Speaker 2: So they broke us into three groups and they bring
- 12:19Speaker 2: you in and then they interview you. Then they have
- 12:22Speaker 2: basic questions like have you ever been the victim of
- 12:25Speaker 2: violent crime? Things like that, and then they have specifics.
- 12:30Speaker 2: So for me, I did get asked about the podcasting,
- 12:33Speaker 2: and this is when I got really nervous and like
- 12:35Speaker 2: flubbed my answers because I was just like, so, oh,
- 12:38Speaker 2: my gosh, I don't know. But I did say it's
- 12:41Speaker 2: a feminist podcast and I was proud of that, So
- 12:44Speaker 2: you do that. And then I was in the middle group,
- 12:48Speaker 2: which was like the worst timing because I had to
- 12:52Speaker 2: wait for all the other groups to happen. Then they
- 12:55Speaker 2: bring you back in and they announced who the jurors are.
- 12:59Speaker 2: Mine was twelve plus two alternates that you don't know
- 13:01Speaker 2: who the two alternates are, and my god, gold, I
- 13:06Speaker 2: was shocked. I was in complete shock. And then they
- 13:11Speaker 2: dismiss everyone else and then they give you the overview
- 13:16Speaker 2: of what the next in this case, few days are
- 13:20Speaker 2: going to look like what it requires, and you have
- 13:24Speaker 2: to remember your number because that's how you're gonna like
- 13:28Speaker 2: do your notes, which, as I said, you have to
- 13:31Speaker 2: take notes, or you really should because they don't give
- 13:33Speaker 2: you transcripts with anything. And yeah, I was in a
- 13:38Speaker 2: little bit of shock, went home panicked. We were trying
- 13:42Speaker 2: to figure out what we're gonna do. Right on sav
- 13:45Speaker 2: we were trying to figure out what we're gonna do. Yeah,
- 13:48Speaker 2: but so it's nine to five. It was nine to
- 13:51Speaker 2: five for about five days, and which is the worst
- 13:56Speaker 2: traffic time, as you can imagine. You have to go,
- 14:00Speaker 2: you go through security, all of that, and I sat
- 14:08Speaker 2: in and the first day was primarily like a lot
- 14:11Speaker 2: of evidence being presented, and then the second day was
- 14:15Speaker 2: more witnesses and then we deliberated for about seven hours
- 14:18Speaker 2: and we did arrive at a verdict. And deliberation is
- 14:23Speaker 2: the part I was most worried about, because I was
- 14:28Speaker 2: just really concerned. I did feel a responsibility, and I
- 14:31Speaker 2: was worried that I'd have to be like the squeaky wheel.
- 14:35Speaker 2: It's like, no, I don't agree, or I don't I
- 14:38Speaker 2: don't think that's what's up. So we rendered a verdict.
- 14:43Speaker 2: It did take us all. We went back and forth,
- 14:46Speaker 2: and then there was the option for people to leave.
- 14:50Speaker 2: At this point I did not leave because I just
- 14:53Speaker 2: wanted to see it through. This is when the victim
- 14:56Speaker 2: impacts happened, which should kind of to I guess sway
- 15:02Speaker 2: the judge perhaps and how much, and the sentencing and
- 15:06Speaker 2: then the sentencing happens, and then it was mostly over.
- 15:11Speaker 2: But it was clear the defense planning on appealing it.
- 15:16Speaker 2: I think, although the state lawyer told us that some
- 15:20Speaker 2: of the charges they went with because we proposed different charges,
- 15:24Speaker 2: and she said she knew they would have been appealed
- 15:28Speaker 2: if they had gone with those charges, and so they
- 15:30Speaker 2: chose ones they thought wouldn't be likely.
- 15:33Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 15:33Speaker 2: Yeah, Because after we gave the verdict, the judge came
- 15:38Speaker 2: and talked to us and was just like talking it
- 15:40Speaker 2: out with us and like what he thought. He wanted
- 15:43Speaker 2: to know what we thought. And then the lawyer came
- 15:45Speaker 2: in and we did the same thing, and that's when
- 15:47Speaker 2: we learned some of the other details of the case
- 15:49Speaker 2: that we didn't know because it couldn't be entered into evidence. Also,
- 15:53Speaker 2: during this whole time, you can't talk about it, which
- 15:57Speaker 2: you know you want to desperately because you're like, I
- 16:00Speaker 2: say something like this where it was very ah, I
- 16:03Speaker 2: had like a lot of upset happening, But also it
- 16:07Speaker 2: was just it wasn't clear cut, and I know most
- 16:10Speaker 2: cases probably aren't, but it wasn't clear cut, and it's
- 16:12Speaker 2: like you want to talk to your friends about it
- 16:14Speaker 2: and like what do you think? But you can't talk
- 16:16Speaker 2: about it until after. So that was that I wanted
- 16:21Speaker 2: to just run through some brief thoughts I had during this.
- 16:27Speaker 2: I was incredibly anxious. I was really anxious the whole time.
- 16:32Speaker 2: There was really intense evidence, and the families are there,
- 16:36Speaker 2: and so it was it was like not a good
- 16:41Speaker 2: time for like my body. But when yeah, I mean
- 16:49Speaker 2: you're in the courtroom for like five hours at a time.
- 16:52Speaker 2: You have like a nine to twelve, then a little
- 16:54Speaker 2: twelve to one break, and then four hours, and so
- 16:58Speaker 2: I had like worries about coffeeing and stomach rumblings and
- 17:02Speaker 2: all of those things. But oh gosh, Yeah. And I
- 17:08Speaker 2: would say there was somebody on in my interview group
- 17:13Speaker 2: who said he had been a victim of a gun
- 17:17Speaker 2: crime and was like, I have sometimes I'd dissociate. I
- 17:21Speaker 2: have these moments all of this and he got chosen
- 17:25Speaker 2: and I ended up like talking to him a lot
- 17:27Speaker 2: because I also felt kind of felt silly because I
- 17:33Speaker 2: felt like no one else was being affected like I was,
- 17:35Speaker 2: and I was like, am I just a big baby?
- 17:37Speaker 2: But he know. We had some good talks yeah about it,
- 17:43Speaker 2: and a lot. This was a big kind of part
- 17:47Speaker 2: of the centerpiece of this was questions around self defense
- 17:51Speaker 2: and gun violence in general. And I have to say,
- 17:54Speaker 2: after the first day, I was just like, no one
- 17:56Speaker 2: should have guns. That was like my take. But they
- 18:02Speaker 2: asked a lot of questions about gun ownership and viewing
- 18:05Speaker 2: your views on guns. And I have to tell you,
- 18:08Speaker 2: so many men took this time during the interview process
- 18:13Speaker 2: to tell us about how many guns they had. Now
- 18:17Speaker 2: great it was and all of this, and I was
- 18:20Speaker 2: just like wow, wow, you op Okay. There was a
- 18:26Speaker 2: lot of like really played out stereotypes that happened. The table,
- 18:32Speaker 2: like our juror table split like women were on one
- 18:36Speaker 2: side and men were on the other, and we just
- 18:38Speaker 2: did that naturally, like it wasn't And the men, I
- 18:41Speaker 2: Am not kidding, We're talking about football and grilling and guns,
- 18:46Speaker 2: and the women were trying to work and like take
- 18:50Speaker 2: care of childcare stuff like, it was just a really
- 18:55Speaker 2: stark difference. I spoke about some comments I heard from
- 19:00Speaker 2: men about judging the women's the witnesses or experts that
- 19:05Speaker 2: were brought in and their appearances, so that was very
- 19:09Speaker 2: much there. They did try to argue at one point
- 19:12Speaker 2: like men will be men and that's why he did it,
- 19:16Speaker 2: and all of the women were like, no, not an offense,
- 19:20Speaker 2: not an efense. No. And I was worried about voicing
- 19:30Speaker 2: my opinion and all of that, but I will tell you,
- 19:35Speaker 2: in this case, I saw the benefits very clearly of
- 19:40Speaker 2: having women and women of all different backgrounds, because they
- 19:45Speaker 2: were the ones that were really voicing what they thought
- 19:52Speaker 2: and were very passionate, and they were on opposite sides,
- 20:00Speaker 2: and I thought that was really good actually because it
- 20:04Speaker 2: helped me kind of work through this. But there they
- 20:08Speaker 2: were really caring about what this would do, and I
- 20:16Speaker 2: was happy to see it. It did get heated, there
- 20:20Speaker 2: was some yelling, but I was glad. Oh my gosh,
- 20:24Speaker 2: people were mad. The main piece of evidence was a
- 20:27Speaker 2: surveillance video. We had like eleven angles of the surveillance video,
- 20:32Speaker 2: but we were watching it frame by frame, and people
- 20:36Speaker 2: were like arguing about what's happening here and what's happened here.
- 20:41Speaker 2: It just happened so fast. It was a very quick
- 20:43Speaker 2: quick thing. Another thing that happened. You get the jurors
- 20:52Speaker 2: choose a foreman, and that's somebody who kind of just
- 20:55Speaker 2: keeps track of what people are thinking, and they are
- 20:58Speaker 2: the person that reads the like we the jury find whatever.
- 21:02Speaker 2: And he was really good. At first. I didn't think
- 21:04Speaker 2: i'd like him. If you're listening, sorry, but at first
- 21:09Speaker 2: I didn't think i'd like him. But he was really
- 21:11Speaker 2: good at like checking in on are you feeling overwhelmed?
- 21:15Speaker 2: There was somebody else in the jury who had like
- 21:17Speaker 2: an auditory overwhelm kind of thing that would happen, and
- 21:21Speaker 2: if we were all yelling like we would take a break.
- 21:25Speaker 2: And so he was really good at checking in on
- 21:28Speaker 2: all of that stuff. I would also say it was
- 21:33Speaker 2: almost all women on either side of the families that
- 21:37Speaker 2: showed up for the case. It was almost all women,
- 21:42Speaker 2: and they were the ones giving the personal impact statements
- 21:47Speaker 2: at the end. Something else that I'm really still grappling
- 21:54Speaker 2: with is that I didn't answer yes to the have
- 21:58Speaker 2: you been the victim of a violent crime? And I
- 22:03Speaker 2: should have. And the fact is, because I knew it
- 22:06Speaker 2: was a gun violence case at this point, I was
- 22:08Speaker 2: thinking of it like that and I wasn't thinking about
- 22:12Speaker 2: sexual assault, but I should have. And in fact, afterwards
- 22:15Speaker 2: I looked up with that count and it's a shame
- 22:19Speaker 2: and terrible to me that I had to look up
- 22:21Speaker 2: what that of counted. But that's something I'm going to
- 22:25Speaker 2: have to really work on. And then, of course, as
- 22:29Speaker 2: we talked about in our Women in Jury Duty episode,
- 22:33Speaker 2: just the systemic issues of taking time off from your job,
- 22:37Speaker 2: like pay and travel and childcare and all of that,
- 22:41Speaker 2: and hearing the women on the Jury Duty mostly talking
- 22:45Speaker 2: about like, I don't know how I'm gonna I gotta
- 22:47Speaker 2: get kids, I gotta do this, I gotta do this
- 22:48Speaker 2: because it is sudden, like you don't expect you're going
- 22:51Speaker 2: to get your right.
- 22:54Speaker 4: Well, also, you only had like a week right to
- 22:56Speaker 4: really try to figure out, Oh, okay, next week, I
- 22:58Speaker 4: have to do this. It's not like that quick. Well,
- 23:02Speaker 4: I mean I always thought that long. You don't have
- 23:04Speaker 4: like a three month planet ahead.
- 23:06Speaker 2: No, I went in that day thinking I'd be home
- 23:09Speaker 2: that day, right, that was I don't know.
- 23:12Speaker 4: You were pretty like ominous the way you were acting
- 23:18Speaker 4: seemed like you already thought you may be picked. The
- 23:20Speaker 4: way you were like, so may have Joey duty, cross
- 23:23Speaker 4: your fingers, and then we're both like hmm. And then
- 23:27Speaker 4: as you were like I'm here, I'm like, oh, do
- 23:30Speaker 4: you think you're like, no, I think I might be picked.
- 23:32Speaker 1: No, I think I might be picked. As you were
- 23:34Speaker 1: like going throughout, like you kind.
- 23:35Speaker 4: Of hinted that you kind of weren't thinking that you
- 23:37Speaker 4: probably would, it seemed.
- 23:40Speaker 2: I know I was because the first round of interviews
- 23:46Speaker 2: where they just kind of are like raised yes or no,
- 23:48Speaker 2: eraise your your number, I didn't raise it once, and
- 23:53Speaker 2: I was like, oh, oh oh, And then I was
- 23:56Speaker 2: like maybe not because they had so many questions about
- 23:58Speaker 2: the true crime.
- 24:00Speaker 5: Yeah, but then nope, you got got it.
- 24:14Speaker 2: But you know, overall I did have.
- 24:19Speaker 3: It.
- 24:20Speaker 1: Would you classify as this is a ten to ten
- 24:21Speaker 1: experience or.
- 24:24Speaker 2: I am still recovering? It was a lot. I it
- 24:30Speaker 2: was a lot, But I did have like a good
- 24:33Speaker 2: experience with the jury. The fore men was really good.
- 24:36Speaker 2: I liked that the at the end, like the judge
- 24:39Speaker 2: came and talked to us, and the lawyer came to
- 24:41Speaker 2: talk to us, I thought that was cool. I liked
- 24:44Speaker 2: seeing these women be so outspoken and passionate about it.
- 24:51Speaker 2: I don't know if that's normally the case on juries.
- 24:53Speaker 2: I just know that this my experience, this was I
- 24:57Speaker 2: liked that people seem to really care about it, because
- 25:00Speaker 2: I also thought, you know, you're not allowed to talk
- 25:02Speaker 2: about it, even with your fellow jurors. So I had
- 25:05Speaker 2: no idea like if I was going to get in
- 25:08Speaker 2: and be the only one that was like, well, I
- 25:10Speaker 2: don't know about that, right, But people were really passionate
- 25:15Speaker 2: about it. The women were lawyers, the lawyers in this case, uh.
- 25:22Speaker 2: And I did learn a lot. I know, it's kind
- 25:24Speaker 2: of Lauren made fun of me when I said that.
- 25:26Speaker 2: She's like, that is the most house stuff works answer
- 25:28Speaker 2: I have ever heard.
- 25:30Speaker 4: But when we found out you were chosen to be
- 25:34Speaker 4: enjoy you were like, well, like, that's an episode.
- 25:39Speaker 1: I mean, that's the way we think it is.
- 25:42Speaker 2: It is. But I learned about like medical examiners and
- 25:45Speaker 2: forensic and cell phone data, which, by the way, he
- 25:48Speaker 2: was so excited someone was asking him about cell phone data.
- 25:51Speaker 2: I learned about all kinds of things, and yes, it
- 25:56Speaker 2: was inconvenient and traumatic, but I am glad that we
- 26:03Speaker 2: took it seriously and we did come to an agreement.
- 26:10Speaker 2: And you know, at the beginning, it didn't seem like
- 26:13Speaker 2: we would because people were so all over the place
- 26:16Speaker 2: and you have to read They give you the laws
- 26:18Speaker 2: to read of what applies to these charges, and you're
- 26:23Speaker 2: trying to sit there and make sense of these like
- 26:25Speaker 2: legalese terms.
- 26:27Speaker 4: Right, they're trying to teach you law like your lawyer
- 26:29Speaker 4: within love, because like that's part of the problem in
- 26:32Speaker 4: any kind of jury case, you know. And I know
- 26:35Speaker 4: y'all remember from high school and we all had our
- 26:38Speaker 4: you know, jury type of thing where we all had
- 26:41Speaker 4: to protendre or whatever whatnot. And I was for me,
- 26:45Speaker 4: I was one of the lawyers, and it was about
- 26:47Speaker 4: like brutus and the murder of Caesar and all of that.
- 26:51Speaker 4: But like I remember, my whole defense with the case
- 26:55Speaker 4: was that yes, he we are not denying that he
- 26:58Speaker 4: murdered this person, but what we're saying is he did
- 27:00Speaker 4: it for the good of the country, and it wasn't
- 27:02Speaker 4: malicious murder, but it was for in defense. So like
- 27:07Speaker 4: this is not all these things, and none of the
- 27:10Speaker 4: kids understood it, and they would not hear because like, no,
- 27:13Speaker 4: you admitted it. He killed some merriers, But that's not
- 27:15Speaker 4: the point. The point is what type is this? This
- 27:17Speaker 4: is justified? Is this in self defense? Is this a
- 27:20Speaker 4: justified murder? Blah blah blah. What do we need to
- 27:23Speaker 4: look like? Like all these things, And my teacher was
- 27:25Speaker 4: actually really really impressed because.
- 27:27Speaker 1: She was like that actually would have could have worked.
- 27:29Speaker 4: And you, you know, in the the lawyer because you're
- 27:32Speaker 4: thinking analytically instead of just like black and white. But
- 27:35Speaker 4: because laws are like that, people don't know, especially when
- 27:39Speaker 4: they have different charges and what they're trying to get
- 27:42Speaker 4: you to know and versus what is being charged, Like yeah,
- 27:45Speaker 4: sure we know he killed them, but you need to
- 27:48Speaker 4: figure out.
- 27:48Speaker 1: Is this self defense? Who shot first? Like who?
- 27:50Speaker 4: What was the intent or no intent? Like all of
- 27:53Speaker 4: these things timing and then telling you it doesn't matter
- 27:56Speaker 4: if he had like thought about it or didn't think
- 27:59Speaker 4: about it, and it was whatever it could be intent
- 28:01Speaker 4: because he thought about it right before he shot him.
- 28:03Speaker 4: Like all of those things that you were telling me,
- 28:05Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, those are things that we wouldn't know
- 28:07Speaker 4: as a layperson. So they have to teach you law
- 28:10Speaker 4: in order to try to teach you how to vote
- 28:12Speaker 4: about this person's wye, which is crazy.
- 28:15Speaker 2: It was because there was the one that we ended
- 28:19Speaker 2: up charging finding him guilty on. It was two, but
- 28:23Speaker 2: the main one. I'd never in a million years would
- 28:27Speaker 2: have said that. But then when we were reading the law,
- 28:29Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, yeah, and it's very it's hard
- 28:35Speaker 2: to like go of the thought that, like, because they
- 28:38Speaker 2: kept telling us premeditation doesn't count, intent doesn't count. Oh, no,
- 28:43Speaker 2: intent counts, but didn't count for like one second, like
- 28:46Speaker 2: one second, one second, So it's not like the premeditation,
- 28:50Speaker 2: I guess is the thing because you always think like, oh,
- 28:52Speaker 2: they were thinking about it, but uh right, yeah, I
- 28:56Speaker 2: learned a lot.
- 28:57Speaker 4: But he also like he denied a plea, which took
- 28:59Speaker 4: things off the table. Yeah, so you couldn't give him
- 29:02Speaker 4: a lesser time for some things because he said, no,
- 29:05Speaker 4: I'm not guilty of any of this, so instead of
- 29:07Speaker 4: which kind of is a trickery that is done by
- 29:11Speaker 4: the prosecution sometimes not all the time, but sometimes where
- 29:14Speaker 4: it becomes a whole thing where they're like, you sign
- 29:16Speaker 4: this agreement without knowing what you signed, but you signed
- 29:18Speaker 4: it and we're going to use this against you, So
- 29:20Speaker 4: why don't you just take this plea and go with
- 29:22Speaker 4: this type of thing, and then they get harassed and
- 29:26Speaker 4: pushed into doing taking a plea deal even though they're like,
- 29:30Speaker 4: but I didn't do this, like nolo contendo contender, that's
- 29:34Speaker 4: all that. It's like, yeah, I must say I did it,
- 29:36Speaker 4: but I didn't do it, but I I'd rather not
- 29:39Speaker 4: go to the process and go possibly get prosecuted for
- 29:43Speaker 4: the worst thing.
- 29:45Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 29:46Speaker 2: So another thing that happens is if you have questions
- 29:49Speaker 2: while you're deliberating, they bring you out, you submit them
- 29:54Speaker 2: via paper to the judge. They bring you out to
- 29:57Speaker 2: the whole everybody's waiting out there. You sit back in
- 30:00Speaker 2: your jury box and they answer the questions there. So
- 30:03Speaker 2: they knew we were thinking about, like can we give
- 30:06Speaker 2: a lesser charge? Can we do this? Can we do this?
- 30:09Speaker 2: So everyone knew like what we were thinking and it
- 30:13Speaker 2: was apparently turned down. And as I mentioned in the
- 30:17Speaker 2: Women in Jury Duty, we got polled, which is just
- 30:22Speaker 2: when one of the lawyers in this case, it was
- 30:25Speaker 2: the defense goes through goes to every jar and asks
- 30:28Speaker 2: like did you arrive at this? You stand by it,
- 30:32Speaker 2: like all of that stuff to see if somebody up
- 30:34Speaker 2: a jur felt pressured and actually didn't agree, and we
- 30:41Speaker 2: had somebody who was like, nobody better pull some kind
- 30:43Speaker 2: of surprises. I didn't even know that that was that
- 30:47Speaker 2: was the thing, But afterwards I think I think they
- 30:53Speaker 2: were joking back. I'm she said something because I didn't know. Well,
- 30:59Speaker 2: I think we would have kept talking.
- 31:02Speaker 1: Oh yeah, But anyway.
- 31:06Speaker 2: I didn't know. There's a thing in Georgia called the
- 31:08Speaker 2: enlightened the enlightened conscience of the jury, which is almost
- 31:13Speaker 2: kind of the opposite of what you were talking about,
- 31:15Speaker 2: which is when a jury it's like, none of these
- 31:18Speaker 2: charges fit, but they should do time. So if we're
- 31:23Speaker 2: not going to get those other things, which apparently is
- 31:26Speaker 2: a real thing I hadn't heard about on it, we
- 31:29Speaker 2: did agree, if again, if anyone's listening, we did agree
- 31:33Speaker 2: with what we arrived at. But I looked that up
- 31:36Speaker 2: afterwards too, because I was like, what is that.
- 31:41Speaker 1: There's a lot of things.
- 31:44Speaker 2: It was a really high it was the sentence was severe,
- 31:49Speaker 2: it was and it was like and it sucked because
- 31:52Speaker 2: it was a murder trial. It was a murder trial.
- 31:55Speaker 2: So we like we knew, no one's going to be
- 31:58Speaker 2: happy about this. No one's happy business.
- 32:02Speaker 4: It's interesting when you look at the different types of
- 32:04Speaker 4: charges that people go and this is why those charges
- 32:06Speaker 4: are really really important in what's petitioned because it does
- 32:10Speaker 4: make a huge difference. And we're talking about aggravated versus
- 32:13Speaker 4: felony like just single manslaughter like all of that.
- 32:18Speaker 1: Those are very important charges.
- 32:21Speaker 4: I was talking about for juveniles their felony levels, and
- 32:24Speaker 4: it's like the Seven Deadly Sins type of thing where
- 32:27Speaker 4: they can be called a designated felon. So they do
- 32:31Speaker 4: an adult type of charge, but they're not charged as
- 32:34Speaker 4: an adult yet, but they know they need a longer
- 32:37Speaker 4: time than just being on probation for two years, like
- 32:40Speaker 4: there's like, oh no, they have to start up at
- 32:42Speaker 4: least I want to say, seven years, or until their
- 32:45Speaker 4: eighteenth birthday or until their seventeen eighteenth birthday. So according
- 32:48Speaker 4: to what kind, if it is severe enough and they
- 32:51Speaker 4: are charged as an adult, they most likely if they're
- 32:54Speaker 4: younger than fourteen fifteen and their stature council a lot
- 32:59Speaker 4: so they're small, they will be placed in the juvenile
- 33:01Speaker 4: facility for a certain amount of times and then they
- 33:04Speaker 4: will get transferred to adults to serve the rest of
- 33:07Speaker 4: the time out but a lot of the times, like
- 33:09Speaker 4: the designate felon, and this is a Georgia thing. Every
- 33:12Speaker 4: state is very very very very very different. This designated felling,
- 33:17Speaker 4: which doesn't completely make sense to me, is specific to
- 33:19Speaker 4: the state of Georgia. But it's all those big laws again,
- 33:22Speaker 4: less rape, aggravated rape, murder, aggravated robbery that means there's
- 33:27Speaker 4: a gun involved. All of those things are very big,
- 33:30Speaker 4: big deals. Four years is four years that they have
- 33:32Speaker 4: to serve, and they are, but they're still technically a
- 33:35Speaker 4: juvenile and they unless again they are. They think it's
- 33:39Speaker 4: at age of fourteen? Is at twelve or fourteen in
- 33:42Speaker 4: the state of Georgia, I can't remember. They can be
- 33:43Speaker 4: charged as an adult. That's a whole different conversation. I've
- 33:46Speaker 4: had kids who are seventeen that they don't realize they're
- 33:49Speaker 4: in that weird era that they're technically an adult. So
- 33:53Speaker 4: anything that's a felony, you're gone. You're out of the
- 33:56Speaker 4: juvenile system and you're now completely into the adult system.
- 33:59Speaker 4: And i've kids not realizing that being told that there
- 34:02Speaker 4: were kids taking a gun with them when someone else
- 34:05Speaker 4: was being robbed. They were just there with a gun.
- 34:07Speaker 4: Bad y'all bad. So don't get me wrong, I'm not.
- 34:09Speaker 4: I'm not excusing any kids.
- 34:10Speaker 1: I'm not.
- 34:11Speaker 4: But they don't understand the gravity because they really think
- 34:14Speaker 4: that they're still a part of the general system. And
- 34:16Speaker 4: then they get that charge at a very robbery and
- 34:18Speaker 4: it takes twenty it can be twenty years to twenty
- 34:20Speaker 4: five years of their life and they don't realize that,
- 34:23Speaker 4: and you're like, oh, you done that. One mistake was
- 34:26Speaker 4: a big mistake.
- 34:27Speaker 2: It's huge, it is it is, and that was you know,
- 34:34Speaker 2: it was difficult because the victim impact samans they were
- 34:38Speaker 2: looking at us a lot of times and you're like, wow,
- 34:42Speaker 2: it should have been more than The other side, of course,
- 34:44Speaker 2: is like it should have been less.
- 34:47Speaker 4: So the conversation of justice, no one feels like there's
- 34:51Speaker 4: been justice. I think, especially when there's a life loss.
- 34:54Speaker 4: There's no such thing. There's no such thing as justice,
- 34:57Speaker 4: and people have different understands in variation. And then again,
- 35:00Speaker 4: if if somehow they were influenced by their family to
- 35:05Speaker 4: live that life, it's hard to see that as well.
- 35:09Speaker 2: It is and you have to to be clear, like
- 35:13Speaker 2: you have to make these decisions based on the evidence.
- 35:16Speaker 2: So even if you have your like personal Oh, I
- 35:18Speaker 2: think this is what happened, or I think you have
- 35:21Speaker 2: to do it based on the evidence what you're supposed
- 35:24Speaker 2: to you're supposed to, and so that that's my point
- 35:26Speaker 2: is I feel I don't feel good about what happened,
- 35:31Speaker 2: but I see I feel I feel good about like
- 35:33Speaker 2: we did talk through this and came it. But the previous.
- 35:39Speaker 4: Made the best decision you could on the things that
- 35:41Speaker 4: that was presented to you, what you were told.
- 35:44Speaker 2: Yes, but the previous jury. I don't think this is
- 35:48Speaker 2: a surprise to anyone, but juries are notoriously fallible. But
- 35:53Speaker 2: the previous jury, the one person that made it a
- 35:58Speaker 2: hung jury said I just want to know why, And
- 36:02Speaker 2: so the state lawyer and are started her opening argument
- 36:07Speaker 2: with I can't tell you why for us, but wanting that,
- 36:11Speaker 2: like we said, you're not supposed to think about like
- 36:14Speaker 2: the motive and all that unless it's like you're trying
- 36:17Speaker 2: to prove some kind of like.
- 36:19Speaker 4: This was a murder based on like a spousehal killing.
- 36:23Speaker 4: That is absolutely absolutely important.
- 36:28Speaker 2: It was just kind of comical. I mean, it was
- 36:31Speaker 2: interesting to see how different that jury went.
- 36:35Speaker 4: It sounds like that one person had too much empathy,
- 36:38Speaker 4: like he really needed to understand how human life could
- 36:43Speaker 4: be so easily lost. And it's not funny. I'm not
- 36:46Speaker 4: again like seeing the things that I've seen, the systems
- 36:49Speaker 4: that I've been a part of, the things that we've
- 36:51Speaker 4: had to talk about in order to like really make
- 36:54Speaker 4: it out alive, like as little trauma as possible, and
- 36:57Speaker 4: we got a lot of trauma off. But like what
- 37:00Speaker 4: comes down to is they are not going beyond that
- 37:04Speaker 4: moment and they didn't if they don't know if they
- 37:08Speaker 4: had known the results, would they would it react that?
- 37:11Speaker 1: Would they have reacted the same? We don't know.
- 37:13Speaker 4: But they don't come in oftentimes with this ideal that
- 37:16Speaker 4: I'm going to do this or this is going to happen.
- 37:18Speaker 4: Like there's no real depth of future repercussions. They don't
- 37:24Speaker 4: understand future repercussions. And especially when we talk about teenagers
- 37:28Speaker 4: and kids, that's one of the big conversations we continually
- 37:31Speaker 4: have to have and why when we have conversations about
- 37:33Speaker 4: like heay, your brain's not really fully developed until twenty
- 37:36Speaker 4: five and even until then, if you're impulsive, if you
- 37:40Speaker 4: have ADHD, if you have a nature of pleasure like
- 37:43Speaker 4: trying to get what you want, immediately. It's really hard
- 37:47Speaker 4: for them to find a way to detach again their
- 37:53Speaker 4: response accountability versus their actions.
- 37:57Speaker 1: Yeah, and that was not excusing crime. You can't. You can't.
- 38:01Speaker 4: There's no way that you can that that woman wanting
- 38:05Speaker 4: to know the why.
- 38:05Speaker 1: That's really especially in a crime like that.
- 38:09Speaker 2: Two seconds.
- 38:10Speaker 4: Yeah, then this, like in this kind of situation, everything
- 38:13Speaker 4: was stacked against both of them in that they allowed
- 38:17Speaker 4: some build up, like society is apart, Like there's such
- 38:20Speaker 4: a it's such a big conversation and I'm going this
- 38:23Speaker 4: far because I'm like, no, I know what this woman
- 38:25Speaker 4: is thinking, Like I know what she really wants. She
- 38:27Speaker 4: wants to stay in her bubble and trying to figure
- 38:29Speaker 4: out how human life could just be so easily expendable
- 38:33Speaker 4: and it shouldn't be, it shouldn't be, but like try to.
- 38:36Speaker 1: Figure that out.
- 38:37Speaker 4: Like she needed to know that motive, just to know
- 38:39Speaker 4: if this person was evil, Like she wanted to base
- 38:41Speaker 4: it on whether or not this person was evil.
- 38:43Speaker 1: Yeah, She's not always clear cut.
- 38:45Speaker 2: No, not at all, not at all. And I will admit,
- 38:51Speaker 2: like when we were doing our women in Jury duty
- 38:54Speaker 2: and we had all those quotes about like why they
- 38:56Speaker 2: were trying to keep women off Jerry's. One of them
- 38:58Speaker 2: was they're too empathetic, and I was really empathy. I
- 39:00Speaker 2: was like, oh no, but it was so it sucked
- 39:05Speaker 2: for everybody, right yeah. Yeah. Also closing, sorry, this is
- 39:15Speaker 2: so long ago. I'm not to say this Monday Miniu famous.
- 39:20Speaker 2: One day, maybe I'll come talk about kind of famous
- 39:23Speaker 2: people involved.
- 39:25Speaker 1: Right, Yes, if.
- 39:28Speaker 4: You're part of the hip hop world, you'll know what
- 39:30Speaker 4: we're talking about. If you've been following any of the
- 39:32Speaker 4: Trump stuff in Atlanta, you'll know what we're talking about.
- 39:34Speaker 4: There's some big, big players here.
- 39:36Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 39:37Speaker 2: I was like, oh myle myle my. Okay, Well, if
- 39:43Speaker 2: you get Jerry Duty, I feel for you. But I
- 39:46Speaker 2: do think like there's value in having people who are
- 39:51Speaker 2: empathetic in care and having a diverse jury. So I
- 39:55Speaker 2: will say that that was my experience. I'm still kind
- 39:58Speaker 2: of recovering from it, but that was it.
- 40:01Speaker 1: Good job, Thank you, good way to serve your people.
- 40:07Speaker 2: Thank you again to you and Christina and Caroline for
- 40:11Speaker 2: making it work. But yes, listeners, if you have any
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