Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Happy Hour #129: The Big Time (SATC, S3 Ep.8)
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Welcome to stuff I never told you production by Heart Radio.
- 0:18Speaker 1: And welcome to another edition of Happy Hour. But in
- 0:22Speaker 1: this Happy Hour, as per usual, we are viewing Sex
- 0:25Speaker 1: and the City my empteenth time and Any's first time
- 0:30Speaker 1: for most of these episodes now and then you run
- 0:33Speaker 1: into one or two of these episodes right in your
- 0:36Speaker 1: lifetime where you're like, I remember, I've seen this.
- 0:39Speaker 2: I feel like I've seen a total of three. But
- 0:43Speaker 2: there's a chance I've seen clips, yes, outside of that,
- 0:47Speaker 2: but I feel like I've seen a total of three incompletion.
- 0:51Speaker 1: Completion, very appropriate for this show. So, yes, we are
- 0:55Speaker 1: in a season three of Sex and the City and
- 0:58Speaker 1: on episode eight. But before we get into that, just
- 1:01Speaker 1: an fyi. Yes, this is tv m A. The ratings
- 1:05Speaker 1: mature for nudity, adult language and content. So you may
- 1:10Speaker 1: not want to listen to this with you know, young
- 1:14Speaker 1: guns around necessarily because you never know what we're going
- 1:18Speaker 1: to talk about. Some of the random things that come
- 1:19Speaker 1: out of our mouth in relation to Sex and the City.
- 1:22Speaker 1: You know, it can be a surprise. It definitely care
- 1:25Speaker 1: sometimes serious, sometimes silly, sometimes just what h That's how
- 1:29Speaker 1: I like to advertise our show as what, but also
- 1:34Speaker 1: it is happy hour. So Annie, are you consuming any beverages.
- 1:38Speaker 2: I'm still trying to clear out my fridge and I'm
- 1:40Speaker 2: still drinking my beach my beach beer, That's what I'll
- 1:44Speaker 2: call it, because I just came back from the beach
- 1:46Speaker 2: once again. Yes, and I have some left ever beer
- 1:49Speaker 2: from that trip. So living just beach life. It was
- 1:54Speaker 2: a nice beach life. It was I saw a turtle.
- 1:57Speaker 2: It was cool. Was it big?
- 1:59Speaker 1: No?
- 1:59Speaker 2: It was a little little turtle. But it was a
- 2:01Speaker 2: swimming turtle.
- 2:02Speaker 1: Oh did try to eat you? No?
- 2:05Speaker 2: It fled from my enthusiastic, rightfully.
- 2:12Speaker 1: Description of Annie's life. I am not drinking, necessarily any
- 2:18Speaker 1: adult beverages. I'm drinking some sparkly water a grapefruit flavor. Haha.
- 2:23Speaker 1: They were on seal and I've gotten a lot of them.
- 2:25Speaker 1: I've really gotten into the bubbly waters for the past
- 2:28Speaker 1: three years. And yeah, that's what I'm sipping on. As
- 2:32Speaker 1: we talk about sex and the city, if you are
- 2:35Speaker 1: also partaking of something, do so responsibly. Be responsible. Be responsible. Also,
- 2:43Speaker 1: none of these things are a current sponsor, not that
- 2:45Speaker 1: we've named anything. And if we do name something, they
- 2:48Speaker 1: are not currently a sponsor. As now you know, things change.
- 2:52Speaker 1: We love sponsors. Thank you for paying us, pay us
- 2:54Speaker 1: more please anyway, So as we start, we are again
- 2:59Speaker 1: on Sex and the City Season three, Episode eight, Annie,
- 3:02Speaker 1: can you do us the honor of recapping of what
- 3:05Speaker 1: has been happening in season three?
- 3:07Speaker 2: I can? I can? I think? Okay, So this one
- 3:14Speaker 2: has been a big season. You told me it was
- 3:17Speaker 2: going to be and it really has come through. Which,
- 3:22Speaker 2: by the way, listeners were still looking for our person
- 3:25Speaker 2: to come on and join us and talk about this.
- 3:29Speaker 2: So if you're interested, all you really need you don't
- 3:32Speaker 2: have to have seen the show. You could have seen
- 3:34Speaker 2: it a million times. You just really need an internet
- 3:37Speaker 2: connection and we'll our super producer, Christina will figure it out.
- 3:42Speaker 2: So if you want to enter, that'll be soon. Just
- 3:45Speaker 2: contact us listen for more. At the end we'll tell
- 3:48Speaker 2: you how. But yes, I okay. So this has been
- 3:52Speaker 2: a big season. We've got, as I always say, Samantha
- 3:57Speaker 2: doing her Samantha thing. She's gotten into a lot of
- 4:00Speaker 2: shenanigans as per usual. We've got Miranda who is with
- 4:07Speaker 2: Steve and has recently kind of really enjoyed the settling
- 4:13Speaker 2: down aspect with him. It seems she was talking about
- 4:16Speaker 2: how much she loved like doing his laundry. There was
- 4:18Speaker 2: kind of a scandalous detail about it in the last
- 4:23Speaker 2: last episode. But how she's really enjoying these more quiet moments.
- 4:30Speaker 2: I guess with him, We've got Carrie who has now
- 4:34Speaker 2: met Aiden, and if you know anything about Sex and
- 4:37Speaker 2: the City, you know he's a big name when it
- 4:40Speaker 2: comes to kind of Carrie's relationships and Carrie having to
- 4:46Speaker 2: question her how she reacted to what's what right now
- 4:53Speaker 2: seems like a very healthy relationship and her looking for
- 4:57Speaker 2: drama within it. She did see big recently, her ex
- 5:03Speaker 2: with his new wife. And then as of the last episode,
- 5:07Speaker 2: Charlotte has met someone that I am given to believe
- 5:10Speaker 2: is going to be big in her life. Kyle. It's
- 5:13Speaker 2: Kyle McLaughlin. I can never remember his name as the
- 5:17Speaker 2: actor's status, not the character's name anyway, but she met
- 5:21Speaker 2: him and I so she's been trying to find a husband,
- 5:24Speaker 2: and I'm given to believe that their relationship is going
- 5:28Speaker 2: to be more than what she usually has, which is
- 5:31Speaker 2: her trying really hard to make something work. And then
- 5:33Speaker 2: by the end of the episode it's over.
- 5:36Speaker 1: So that's where disappear half the time, they don't have
- 5:39Speaker 1: to break up, which you know, that's fine. Ghosting happiness.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Nicely done, nicely done. And today's title, Okay, I can't
- 5:49Speaker 1: wait to hear your theory is the big Time? So Annie,
- 5:56Speaker 1: can you give us what you think will be happening
- 5:59Speaker 1: in this episode? Give us some predictions?
- 6:03Speaker 2: Oh no, okay, I have got two main theories. Here
- 6:09Speaker 2: we go, all right. One is big is back in
- 6:12Speaker 2: the picture. Uh, it's the big time, see because ye yes?
- 6:24Speaker 2: Or it's like because the big time is like when
- 6:27Speaker 2: you make it big, you know, like makes a big time.
- 6:30Speaker 2: Maybe it's sort of because everybody but Samanth at this
- 6:34Speaker 2: point has these relationships that I believe are going to
- 6:41Speaker 2: be big. So maybe it's like the auditioning of like,
- 6:44Speaker 2: is this the big time? Is this the one? Is
- 6:47Speaker 2: this that? And then I'll go to brunch.
- 6:52Speaker 1: We're sticking with brunch this time because it's not it's
- 6:55Speaker 1: not working out for you. No shipped a brunch.
- 7:01Speaker 2: I like it.
- 7:01Speaker 1: I like it. Okay, Well, let's see how wrong or
- 7:05Speaker 1: right you are.
- 7:06Speaker 2: How you said wrong with a strong inflection, So here
- 7:11Speaker 2: we go.
- 7:24Speaker 3: Manhattan is a place you can get anything anytime, calves
- 7:29Speaker 3: at two am Chinese food at three. But somehow you
- 7:41Speaker 3: can never get your.
- 7:42Speaker 1: Dry cleaning, you know. I feel like dry cleaning always
- 7:47Speaker 1: is either like you're a city person or you're a
- 7:50Speaker 1: rich person who gets dry cleaning. Which is funny because
- 7:53Speaker 1: my mom did have like dry cleaning, but it was
- 7:56Speaker 1: like once a month and it was very important things.
- 8:00Speaker 1: Not often, but like I think I've used a dry
- 8:03Speaker 1: cleaner once a year.
- 8:06Speaker 2: I've never used a dry cleaner person really in my
- 8:09Speaker 2: life really, but my mom has for some of my clothes.
- 8:13Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, once a year, I take my comforter
- 8:17Speaker 1: to get a clean because the one that we had
- 8:19Speaker 1: as a past sponsor actually could not be put into
- 8:22Speaker 1: the washer. So I took that. But now because I've
- 8:26Speaker 1: got a king bed, yes I can't fit that in
- 8:29Speaker 1: my washer. Yeah, so I said take that at once
- 8:32Speaker 1: a year, and you should take your comforter in once
- 8:35Speaker 1: a year. I'm do you know who? I read that
- 8:43Speaker 1: if you don't have sex for a year, you can
- 8:45Speaker 1: actually become reviginized. Revirginalization, which I feel like was a
- 8:49Speaker 1: huge topic at one point in time because a lot
- 8:52Speaker 1: of like when the like true love waist thing happened
- 8:54Speaker 1: around this time. People were like, I made a mistake,
- 8:57Speaker 1: but I'm going to be reversionized type of conversation and
- 9:00Speaker 1: just like spiritually, although there also came the surgery, which
- 9:04Speaker 1: people were like they started sewing up, yeah, and you're like, no, no,
- 9:08Speaker 1: don't do that.
- 9:15Speaker 3: Downtown, another New Yorker was enjoying her very full life.
- 9:19Speaker 3: Samantha had a new apartment in the ultra chic meat
- 9:22Speaker 3: packing district and a new admirer.
- 9:24Speaker 2: Well, there goes the neighborhood.
- 9:28Speaker 1: It's like, immediately creepy.
- 9:30Speaker 2: I know, he just like popped up.
- 9:34Speaker 1: Like the tiny ponytail that's a mullet, which I mean
- 9:39Speaker 1: he does like exude midlife crisis, the airing, the hairdoo,
- 9:44Speaker 1: the linen outfit.
- 9:46Speaker 2: Yea, the linen outfit. But he can't Oh yeah, I mean.
- 9:52Speaker 1: Sure, I'm not going through a midlife crisis.
- 9:55Speaker 2: I know, it's not like you haven't done a couple
- 9:57Speaker 2: episodes about that at all.
- 9:59Speaker 1: Don't talk about it. One of our guests said, I
- 10:01Speaker 1: was twenty. I love her. I'm trying. Oh my god,
- 10:10Speaker 1: vagina waits, honey, my vagina waits for no, ma'am, look
- 10:14Speaker 1: at this. The kegle Master Cage. Yes, this has been
- 10:20Speaker 1: the beginning of that as well, like not the beginning,
- 10:23Speaker 1: but like that, like uh be mainstream. All you have
- 10:27Speaker 1: to do to stay tight is to tighten and release
- 10:29Speaker 1: it for ten minutes. I don't know why, but ever
- 10:31Speaker 1: tend to tell about I'm gonna try it. I'm like,
- 10:32Speaker 1: is that? Is it working? What's happening?
- 10:37Speaker 2: This is some of the first episodes I edited for Smincy,
- 10:40Speaker 2: back when it was Kristen and Caroline I think about
- 10:44Speaker 2: earlier than that, but it was about Cakeles and I
- 10:47Speaker 2: was like, I've never heard of this in my life.
- 10:53Speaker 1: I am.
- 10:55Speaker 2: It's a party on a boat. Correction, fancy boat and
- 10:59Speaker 2: uh p s.
- 11:01Speaker 3: The fabulous girl is rumored to be easy.
- 11:04Speaker 1: Have you been on a yacht magazine or a boat party?
- 11:07Speaker 3: Yes?
- 11:08Speaker 1: I think I would get sick.
- 11:10Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I had an okay time, but it's
- 11:14Speaker 2: there's always the vibe of like I can't get away
- 11:17Speaker 2: if I wanted to. I like to have an exit,
- 11:20Speaker 2: you know, I need to.
- 11:21Speaker 1: Get out of here. And the cab stops up short right,
- 11:32Speaker 1: I almost get my head on that plastic partition. I
- 11:35Speaker 1: got out. I told him to stop the meter and
- 11:40Speaker 1: lying in the middle of the streets, even coordinated with
- 11:43Speaker 1: our outfit.
- 11:45Speaker 2: I have to admit, like in the early stages of
- 11:47Speaker 2: a when a friend gets a new relationship and they're
- 11:49Speaker 2: like this, You're like, I don't know, I can't tell
- 11:54Speaker 2: this is I'm gonna go anywhere?
- 11:59Speaker 1: Is this love bombing states? Or is this legit?
- 12:07Speaker 3: I am.
- 12:11Speaker 1: Yeah? Why is he harassing her? Now?
- 12:15Speaker 2: Was that back then? Big?
- 12:16Speaker 1: Stay away?
- 12:19Speaker 2: I don't know. Wow. I feel like anytime I've run
- 12:23Speaker 2: into my excep a situation, I've said, like a polite hello,
- 12:26Speaker 2: if we have to, But then we go our separate
- 12:28Speaker 2: ways and that's it. It's like running away.
- 12:32Speaker 1: Yeah, as it should be. Or sometimes you just can't
- 12:36Speaker 1: mm hmmm. Sometimes nable, sometimes you work together.
- 12:46Speaker 3: The next morning, I recovered from my sea big sickness.
- 12:50Speaker 3: While downtown Samantha realized maybe her ship had sailed. She
- 12:55Speaker 3: was five days late.
- 12:58Speaker 1: We didn't Never did you keep up with your period
- 13:01Speaker 1: like this, Well you put it on a calendar or
- 13:04Speaker 1: you like.
- 13:05Speaker 2: No, I have like I used to have like a
- 13:07Speaker 2: general idea, this is the last time it happens, but
- 13:11Speaker 2: I didn't. Yeah, I know, I don't.
- 13:13Speaker 1: Know anybody who actually does this unless they are like
- 13:15Speaker 1: trying to track for like pregnancy reasons or any of
- 13:19Speaker 1: like like actual like doctor reasons to actually just do this.
- 13:27Speaker 3: If I wasn't perpetually ten minutes late, would my life
- 13:30Speaker 3: be totally different? Would I never run into big and
- 13:34Speaker 3: would there ever be a good time to see him?
- 13:37Speaker 3: Was Miranda Wright is timing everything?
- 13:40Speaker 1: I feel like the way she like writes her columns,
- 13:43Speaker 1: if they're like this, it's pretty big clue about what
- 13:47Speaker 1: she's doing. So if her boyfriends would just read to our.
- 13:52Speaker 2: Goals, right. I had somebody who like wanted to date
- 13:59Speaker 2: me and he's listening to the podcast because he said
- 14:02Speaker 2: it it felt like cheating. It's like, oh, I guess
- 14:05Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
- 14:11Speaker 1: I am. He's using a baby as a fan aid
- 14:15Speaker 1: for everything that's wrong with us, Well, what is wrong
- 14:18Speaker 1: with you?
- 14:18Speaker 2: Guys?
- 14:19Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like, oh, he's as like an
- 14:23Speaker 1: old till like trying to save a marriage by having
- 14:25Speaker 1: a baby.
- 14:26Speaker 2: Right, and then unfortunately those problems do not go away
- 14:32Speaker 2: once the baby comes and now you're tired and you're
- 14:34Speaker 2: raising a baby.
- 14:35Speaker 1: It's getting worse and you have a tie to them forever.
- 14:38Speaker 1: Which children are beautiful if you want them. That's wonderful.
- 14:41Speaker 1: That's a whole different conversation. But the litigation that happens
- 14:44Speaker 1: with the child in like a divorce.
- 14:50Speaker 2: I am baby, either.
- 14:55Speaker 3: A flow just came to town.
- 14:57Speaker 1: Or flow just came to town, which they said he
- 14:59Speaker 1: was something Grandma would say.
- 15:05Speaker 2: So sheet to Granda set.
- 15:11Speaker 1: I'm sorry, really very very sorry.
- 15:16Speaker 2: Sorry.
- 15:17Speaker 3: What she really meant was there are plenty more young
- 15:20Speaker 3: studs in this hot, pre pre menopausal woman's future.
- 15:24Speaker 2: This is embarrassing. I should go.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Thanks.
- 15:29Speaker 1: What a way to run away after running two thousand.
- 15:34Speaker 1: It's not our fault, though.
- 15:35Speaker 3: Now the flow happens, Miranda was getting nothing but aggravated.
- 15:45Speaker 2: Please.
- 15:46Speaker 1: Puppies are hard. I would never That is why I
- 15:48Speaker 1: always go for at least a year old. Peaches was
- 15:50Speaker 1: the youngest I've ever gotten out of my third second dog,
- 15:54Speaker 1: because actually like trained during those times where they're just
- 15:57Speaker 1: whiny and sad.
- 15:59Speaker 2: Yeah, my friend Katie recently got a very very tiny puppy, and.
- 16:05Speaker 1: Yeah, you have carry.
- 16:17Speaker 3: I knew who it was. I couldn't stop Big from
- 16:19Speaker 3: coming back into my life, but at least I could
- 16:22Speaker 3: stop him from coming out of my machine.
- 16:24Speaker 2: You never play a voicemail loud when there's someone around
- 16:28Speaker 2: you don't know what it is.
- 16:48Speaker 1: All right, you got an a. I was trying to
- 16:51Speaker 1: mislead you. But you did pretty good the big timing
- 16:55Speaker 1: conversations because some big timing stuff happened. We got a
- 16:58Speaker 1: break up, we got possible well did I Love you?
- 17:02Speaker 1: From a McDougall, Perryman and pause all up in this
- 17:09Speaker 1: episode and then Biggs return. However, detecting points there's no brunch.
- 17:15Speaker 1: I'm so sorry to tell you this. There was no brunch.
- 17:18Speaker 2: Yeah, this is much more club. It was a club,
- 17:22Speaker 2: it was it was just.
- 17:23Speaker 1: Like a happy hour drinking times. You can't say restaurant though,
- 17:27Speaker 1: that's not a lot. That's too vague.
- 17:29Speaker 2: It's only those two. Yes, I agree. I agree.
- 17:33Speaker 1: You can say out for drinks. I'll give you that
- 17:37Speaker 1: we're out at a bar. I might give you that
- 17:40Speaker 1: evening bar times be specific evening midnight.
- 17:45Speaker 3: You know.
- 17:46Speaker 2: Oh okay, but you did.
- 17:48Speaker 1: You did really good on this one. I feel like
- 17:50Speaker 1: going on the literal really helped you out in the figurative,
- 17:55Speaker 1: because there's a lot of figurative big things are happening
- 17:57Speaker 1: in this episode. Yeah, my thing is like with the X. Yeah,
- 18:01Speaker 1: we don't talk. We don't know each other exists. If
- 18:03Speaker 1: we have to then obviously co co col Hey how
- 18:06Speaker 1: are you? But outside of that, like you're out the door.
- 18:08Speaker 1: I don't know you exist, blocked on social media. Maybe
- 18:13Speaker 1: a little bit of looking every now and again, but
- 18:14Speaker 1: you are not there to me.
- 18:17Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, and I will talk. I will
- 18:22Speaker 2: talk to an X, but I don't seek them out.
- 18:24Speaker 2: I did they seek me out? And I'll be like, okay, yes,
- 18:27Speaker 2: but a lot of times right after a breakup, if
- 18:30Speaker 2: I see them, I will go the other way. I
- 18:34Speaker 2: will like literally flee physically.
- 18:40Speaker 1: You do done that and many people go with me. Yes,
- 18:44Speaker 1: it's fantastic. Oh, I know they're on my team. They're ready,
- 18:49Speaker 1: like we yeah, we'll go on, let's go, let's go
- 18:51Speaker 1: where where? Where Let's go?
- 18:53Speaker 2: Or I try to look like I'm having the most fun, Josh,
- 18:58Speaker 2: don't disturb my fun.
- 18:59Speaker 1: Okay, yeah escape.
- 19:04Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah.
- 19:07Speaker 1: Unless like you can't now, like I definitely have friends
- 19:09Speaker 1: who are like who've dated like in the industry, so
- 19:12Speaker 1: like servers or bartenders and such, and we just don't
- 19:15Speaker 1: go that place has become like xed on our list. Well,
- 19:19Speaker 1: we can't go there. Anymore, right, and then we have
- 19:21Speaker 1: to yell at our friend and be like, stop doing this.
- 19:24Speaker 1: Why I need to just stop dating them because I
- 19:28Speaker 1: need to go back to this drink or for this food,
- 19:31Speaker 1: And usually it's always bartenders.
- 19:33Speaker 2: I have a friend who's and I say this truly
- 19:36Speaker 2: without any judgment, but she she's able to hang out
- 19:39Speaker 2: with her exes sometimes it's not like I am, but
- 19:42Speaker 2: she does it often. I don't do it often, right,
- 19:45Speaker 2: because of that kind of thing, Like that's just the
- 19:48Speaker 2: circles she runs in. Yeah, but I like know the
- 19:51Speaker 2: like details of their breakup and stuff, and I'm like, wow,
- 19:54Speaker 2: this is rough. So it's sort of awkward for me
- 19:58Speaker 2: because we're all hanging out and I'm like I know
- 20:01Speaker 2: how this went down, and we're all right.
- 20:03Speaker 1: Oh see, I can't be cool if something bad happens.
- 20:06Speaker 1: If it's just like mutual like Google, and you're okay,
- 20:08Speaker 1: then great. But if he has done something or if
- 20:11Speaker 1: they have done something to someone, I'm like, yeah, you're
- 20:12Speaker 1: dead to me too. And not only that, but I
- 20:15Speaker 1: will take you out because I love my friend. At
- 20:19Speaker 1: least be really mean to you, make you uncomfortable, because
- 20:21Speaker 1: that is a hobby.
- 20:26Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, it's it's awkward. It's it's very
- 20:31Speaker 2: very awkward. But yeah, they're able to just do it.
- 20:36Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, yeah, And there's a few who are
- 20:40Speaker 1: like actual friends and I'm like, are you?
- 20:42Speaker 2: But are you?
- 20:43Speaker 1: But a lot of them are like, I don't know
- 20:45Speaker 1: about your friend, but like I know a lot of
- 20:47Speaker 1: the people they knew each other before, which I can't
- 20:50Speaker 1: do at all. I'm like, no, I would never date
- 20:53Speaker 1: inside a friend group. If you become a friend, that's
- 20:55Speaker 1: typically the end of relationship because the idea that I'm
- 21:00Speaker 1: mixing the two and then things go and go get
- 21:02Speaker 1: way too dramatic. Nah. Yeah, but that's a whole different
- 21:06Speaker 1: that's a whole different episode. But yeah, there you go.
- 21:10Speaker 1: So we are reintroduced to Big with the amazing Aiden.
- 21:16Speaker 1: So we'll we'll see what the path we go along.
- 21:19Speaker 1: We have now gotten into a big character. Trey McDougall,
- 21:23Speaker 1: this is important. You need to understand that it's an
- 21:26Speaker 1: important name for them, for them and then and then
- 21:32Speaker 1: it looks like the end of Steve two point zero.
- 21:36Speaker 1: But really cute dog.
- 21:38Speaker 2: Yeah, Miranda's made partner. Yes, it feels like a very
- 21:43Speaker 2: like work versus relationship.
- 21:45Speaker 3: Right.
- 21:46Speaker 1: Kind of the back and forth about this is that
- 21:49Speaker 1: you know, why is it so bad that she wants
- 21:52Speaker 1: to be in her career And I think like they
- 21:56Speaker 1: paid her to be so like angry and like bitter
- 21:59Speaker 1: about some things and just wants to argue. But in actuality, yeah, sure,
- 22:03Speaker 1: he's the fun dude, but that fun dude wasn't doing
- 22:06Speaker 1: like she really was like I need to work, I
- 22:08Speaker 1: need to turn the TV down and he's like, what
- 22:10Speaker 1: does Scooby doo? And then talking about I'll play with
- 22:13Speaker 1: the bibbit, like relax. All those conversations like irritating and
- 22:17Speaker 1: making her the bad guy, like we've had this conversation
- 22:19Speaker 1: with when we talked about Missus doubtfire and this level
- 22:22Speaker 1: of like painting women as the bad guy because they
- 22:27Speaker 1: are responsible and realistic.
- 22:29Speaker 2: Right, And I mean she was totally spot on. He
- 22:33Speaker 2: wanted to adopt the dog, and she's the one that
- 22:35Speaker 2: staying awake and like can't sleep and has to take
- 22:39Speaker 2: care of it, and he's like, oh, it'll be fine,
- 22:41Speaker 2: But he wasn't doing anything about about it.
- 22:45Speaker 1: He was just making funny voices. Ha, he's just getting
- 22:50Speaker 1: used to us. Like that's cute and all, but you
- 22:52Speaker 1: need to go take this puppy child of yours to
- 22:55Speaker 1: the living room and usually with it crying in the
- 22:58Speaker 1: living room, if you want to take responsibility and help,
- 23:02Speaker 1: then just because you can sleep through it, it is
- 23:04Speaker 1: not necessarily a good thing, and she can't, which is
- 23:06Speaker 1: a big conversation. Like I know that the show has
- 23:08Speaker 1: then episodes about partners sleeping in different rooms or different
- 23:13Speaker 1: beds and it helps them, and it's actually helped their
- 23:15Speaker 1: relationship because one person snores and can be like really
- 23:18Speaker 1: loud in their sleep while the other person's are very
- 23:20Speaker 1: sensitive and it wakes up to everything and can't go
- 23:22Speaker 1: back to sleep, and it's a big conversation. And this
- 23:25Speaker 1: kind of like even though they don't bring that up,
- 23:28Speaker 1: but it does affect who is doing what and what
- 23:32Speaker 1: environment they are in.
- 23:34Speaker 2: Right right, And I do think it was interesting in
- 23:39Speaker 2: this episode. Something else we've talked about multiple times is
- 23:45Speaker 2: this idea of the timing of like the biological clock,
- 23:49Speaker 2: like it's too late, like oh, have Perryman pause, it's
- 23:53Speaker 2: too late, or just this I've got to find this
- 23:56Speaker 2: person or it's too late, or I just felt like
- 24:00Speaker 2: that was a theme throughout of I Gotta find this
- 24:05Speaker 2: person the time is running out. Yeah, just very very present,
- 24:12Speaker 2: and I feel like I can sense I don't think
- 24:16Speaker 2: BIG's going away. I mean, I know he's not going away,
- 24:18Speaker 2: but I don't think he's going away in the near future.
- 24:23Speaker 2: And just the timing of yeah, she's found this guy
- 24:26Speaker 2: that seems to be like really treats her really well,
- 24:28Speaker 2: and now this other guy doesn't treat her very well.
- 24:30Speaker 2: But just saying the things she wished he said all
- 24:33Speaker 2: the time ago. Hmmm, doesn't bode well. I don't think.
- 24:41Speaker 1: So that's your prediction. Doom, Doom is coming?
- 24:45Speaker 2: Is Big? It's not Robert Downey Junior's.
- 24:52Speaker 1: Bird Oh my god, which I'm very confused by. Whatever. Anyways,
- 24:57Speaker 1: a different episode. But again for those of you, as
- 25:02Speaker 1: you have heard, we would like to bring on another
- 25:05Speaker 1: listener to be a part of this episode segment and
- 25:08Speaker 1: watch an episode with us and have this discussion about
- 25:12Speaker 1: relationships and things that we see that was represented in
- 25:16Speaker 1: the early two thousands to how well does that translate
- 25:19Speaker 1: to twenty twenty four. So if you would like to participate,
- 25:22Speaker 1: no need to have seen the show before or if
- 25:24Speaker 1: you have, wonderful we would love more expertise in these segments.
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- 25:35Speaker 1: name because I think we want to do one of
- 25:37Speaker 1: the fun episodes, but like later episodes coming up soon.
- 25:41Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and as as mentioned, our super producer Christina
- 25:46Speaker 2: will walk you through it. It's easy. You just really
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- 26:01Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 26:01Speaker 2: So we're still collecting those names, so if you would
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