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Dirty Rush: Housewives Jennifer Fessler is Going One on One with her Friend Annie Sharp for a Deep Dive Revealing the Truth about Sorority Life. · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about SERRITI Life with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.
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  Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush.
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  Speaker 3: So today I have a very special guest. Well, she's
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  Speaker 3: very special, and she's also very special to me. You
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  Speaker 3: guys may actually know her, But I have some guy
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  Speaker 3: named Annie Sharp, and you may recognize the name and
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  Speaker 3: or the face from a very popular radio show to
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  Speaker 3: say the least, called Jeff Lewis Live. By the way,
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  Speaker 3: you guys were broadcasting this from Vail, Colorado, where I
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  Speaker 3: am spending a week with my family, And yeah it is.
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  Speaker 3: It's really beautiful here, really fun. I don't ski, so
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  Speaker 3: probably wasn't the vacation for me necessarily. But anyway, we
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  Speaker 3: are taking a break from the break because I am
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  Speaker 3: so obsessed with my little miss Annie.
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  Speaker 1: No, I literally am obsessed. Every time you come on
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  Speaker 1: the show and they mention you on like I love
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  Speaker 1: that bitch. They always make fun of me. Do we're
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  Speaker 1: like kindred spirits?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I feel like Andy, like you're kind of me
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  Speaker 3: at that, like at your age, I feel like I
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  Speaker 3: was a lot like you. And it's so funny because
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  Speaker 3: having you on dirty Rush, because I also I was
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  Speaker 3: a sorority girl at a southern school, University of Texas.
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  Speaker 3: You were at full Miss, right, and I was a
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  Speaker 3: Texas I was an Aphi. But I think I was
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  Speaker 3: the least sorority girls sorority girl ever at least that's
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  Speaker 3: kind of how I felt and how I feel now,
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  Speaker 3: even though I'm obsessed with everything you know sorority but
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  Speaker 3: like you do not. I don't think you give sorority girl.
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  Speaker 3: I don't exactly what I mean by that.
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  Speaker 1: I was very defiant of the like sorority things, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm like a girly girl. I like to party. I
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  Speaker 1: want to put on.
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  Speaker 2: Cost early girl right, but like.
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  Speaker 1: The sorority girl aspect of it, like where we had
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  Speaker 1: to like show up to things and like be sober
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  Speaker 1: and like be a community. I just was like not
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  Speaker 1: down in college. Like the blue lipstick, I couldn't. So, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what does it mean the blue lipstick?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what that is.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. I was at Kappa Kapagamma, so everything was our
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  Speaker 1: colors were blue on blue, okay, and so everything was blue,
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  Speaker 1: so everyone would like spray their hair blue. Do the
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  Speaker 1: blue lips blue eyeshadow, and every time I did it
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  Speaker 1: like it was so ugly.
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  Speaker 2: Well, well, you could never be ugly.
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  Speaker 3: But I also feel like maybe also conformity is not
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  Speaker 3: necessarily your thing. No, right, at least start, I'm getting
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  Speaker 3: way ahead of myself. First of all, tell the people
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  Speaker 3: where you went to school and what sorority were in,
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  Speaker 3: even though we just mentioned it, because Okay, I.
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  Speaker 1: Went to the University of Mississippi also known as ole
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  Speaker 1: Miss and I was a Kappa, Kapa Gamma, and it's
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  Speaker 1: it's a good house there, but there's very like a deep,
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  Speaker 1: deep rooted like sororities that are like KD and tried out.
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  Speaker 1: They're like all Mississippi girls. And then there's so those
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  Speaker 1: are the tip top houses, and then there's like other
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  Speaker 1: top houses, but they're not full of Mississippi girls, which
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  Speaker 1: I would say are find you, DG and Kappa. And
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  Speaker 1: so we're all on one street. Did you have sorority houses? Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: so we're only on one section of campus, and then
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  Speaker 1: there's all the other ones that are on like another
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  Speaker 1: section that it is like Kyo eighty pi whatever, it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't matter. So I was a Kappa and I only got.
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  Speaker 1: I did not want to rush. I didn't even want
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  Speaker 1: to go to college. And then my sister was a
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  Speaker 1: year ahead of me, and she went. And she's like
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  Speaker 1: type A to a T, like she was getting into
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  Speaker 1: a good sorority, like her life dependent on it.
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  Speaker 2: But she went. She went to Ole Miss.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a year before me.
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  Speaker 2: Just a quick a fie.
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  Speaker 3: Why did you guys wild miss them? You were living
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  Speaker 3: in Texas at the time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So she found it and she loved it, and
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  Speaker 1: we're eighteen months apart. And then I didn't want to
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  Speaker 1: go to college. I was like, I'm gonna move to
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  Speaker 1: la and be a star.
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  Speaker 2: And my parents were like, no, you did do that then,
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  Speaker 2: But okay, well.
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  Speaker 1: They were like college first. They always believed in. But
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  Speaker 1: they were like, chill, like let's do college. Let's be
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  Speaker 1: a little bit traditional. So then I didn't apply anywhere
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  Speaker 1: for school because I didn't want to go. And then
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  Speaker 1: it came out like exceptan sunder started coming out and
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  Speaker 1: I think my sister had applied me to ole Miss
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  Speaker 1: herself in ways like the only place, so I was accepted.
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  Speaker 1: So then was my parents were like, you're going I.
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  Speaker 2: Got to meet your sister. She sounds like the best.
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  Speaker 1: No, she's the best. She's a hardcore bitch, but like
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  Speaker 1: in the best way. One of us, no, literally one
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  Speaker 1: of us.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So you go to the quintessential Southern like Greek
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  Speaker 3: life school, right, and were you going with the intent
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  Speaker 3: to rush, like you went in because your sister knowing
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  Speaker 3: that that was going to be part of this experience
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  Speaker 3: for you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was. If I was going to ole Miss,
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  Speaker 1: which I was, I was going to rush, Like there
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  Speaker 1: was no way I wasn't going to rush, right, But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'd like and I was very intern the rush process,
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  Speaker 1: like I'd always say, like I've an open mind. I
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  Speaker 1: really wanted to be a fine U because I'm obsessed
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  Speaker 1: with pink. I want to be a fine mean so bad.
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  Speaker 1: And I met like three five mews and I got
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  Speaker 1: cut like the first round I think, and then after that.
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  Speaker 3: But your sister was president of Kapa and you still
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  Speaker 3: don't be in Kappa.
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  Speaker 1: Well, because I wanted to be different. I was like
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  Speaker 1: I'm already going to her school, I know, but then
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  Speaker 1: I got there and like during rush. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how your rush experience was, but like you go to
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  Speaker 1: each house and they pull the girl and talk to you.
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  Speaker 1: I would go into Kappa and everyone would be like
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  Speaker 1: catering to me, so excited to see me because I
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  Speaker 1: was a sister of an active so I was like,
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  Speaker 1: got a legacy, right, and so the attention I got there,
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  Speaker 1: I mean like I'm flattered, right, Kapa.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was always how it was. I mean I
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  Speaker 3: remember the swordy I ended up in as well. Well,
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  Speaker 3: there were two Jewish sorties and I wanted to be
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  Speaker 3: in one, but it was Yeah, it was a different feeling,
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  Speaker 3: certainly than going into the other stories where they didn't
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  Speaker 3: know who I was and didn't really care. But anyway, okay,
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  Speaker 3: so do it any like crazy wild rush stories from from
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  Speaker 3: the week.
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember my rush wasn't was very obvious from
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  Speaker 1: the start, like my sister was an act of Kapa.
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  Speaker 1: There was no way any other house was going to
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  Speaker 1: take me. So I kind of got screwed so and
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  Speaker 1: I thought I was like, oh, I have an open mind,
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  Speaker 1: and then like I just started getting caught by everyone cool,
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  Speaker 1: and then I had like the two loser houses left
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  Speaker 1: in Kapa, and I was like, okay, like.
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  Speaker 2: I can't with you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't mean to, but we all know
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  Speaker 1: there's Luther houses.
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  Speaker 2: This show is called Dirty Rush. We're all on the
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  Speaker 2: same page.
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  Speaker 1: Go, okay, good, good, But then what was so sick
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  Speaker 1: is my junior year, they were redoing the Kappa House
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  Speaker 1: and the worst sorority on our campus got kicked off
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  Speaker 1: campus because they were so bad and no one wanted
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  Speaker 1: to pledge them, and so that we had to live
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  Speaker 1: in that in the loser house for a year.
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  Speaker 2: What is that? What do you mean? Wait, no one
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  Speaker 2: wanted to They had an empty house.
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  Speaker 1: You hadn't have an empty house. The chapter got kicked
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  Speaker 1: off our campus because they had such a bad repeta
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  Speaker 1: okay from my understanding, Okay, I thought that house was vacant.
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  Speaker 1: So then they're like, oh, we can stay in that house.
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  Speaker 2: But then we like, did you like living in there?
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  Speaker 2: Living there?
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  Speaker 1: In the end, I didn't end up living in the
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  Speaker 1: house because they made us live in the other house.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't want to, Okay, Okay, Well, all right, so
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  Speaker 3: I'm abread to so tell me a little bit about
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  Speaker 3: how all miss the greek life and specifically the sorority
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  Speaker 3: system is different than other schools.
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  Speaker 1: It's very okay. So there's this thing during rush on
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  Speaker 1: what I wasn't like on the side where I was
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  Speaker 1: like getting sordid whatever it's called, when I was on
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  Speaker 1: the side of like deciding it's so crazy, Like we
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  Speaker 1: go through every single girl. We have like slide shows.
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  Speaker 1: We all like vote and like say what we know
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  Speaker 1: about them, and it's like a chapter of over four
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  Speaker 1: hundred women and we're like looking at the slideshow. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I know her. I went to high school with her.
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  Speaker 1: She's does this, this, and this. I dated her brother
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  Speaker 1: one time. She yelled at her mom like the craziest,
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  Speaker 1: Like the craziest.
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  Speaker 3: Do you think, like, obviously you're conscious in the fact
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  Speaker 3: that that this is so like Ole Miss is just
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  Speaker 3: so known for this right, for being so intense in
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  Speaker 3: terms of Greek life, but so a picture not I
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  Speaker 3: don't know, obviously not everyone at Old Miss is involved
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  Speaker 3: in Greek life, but I just picture it as, you know,
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  Speaker 3: so intense, specifically the rush process, but also like we
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  Speaker 3: see the videos on TikTok and you know it is
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  Speaker 3: it's like these choreographed dances that look like it's you know, profet,
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  Speaker 3: Like was it.
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  Speaker 2: Always like that? Was it that intense when you were there?
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  Speaker 1: You wouldn't believe the drama like we go to the
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  Speaker 1: house for work week the week before Rush starts, our
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  Speaker 1: school starts. I think Russian also, And there's one girl
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  Speaker 1: that's like Rush chairman, the themes, the way she yells
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  Speaker 1: at us, like the friendships that are falling apart, the tears,
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  Speaker 1: it's insane. I'll never forget it. Like we had a
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  Speaker 1: rehearsal yes, and we're like jumping and clapping and we're
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  Speaker 1: getting screamed up by our peers. It was insane. But
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  Speaker 1: one time we went home and they were so mad
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  Speaker 1: at us because we whatever. I don't remember why they
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  Speaker 1: were so mad at us. I think we didn't like
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  Speaker 1: dress up enough for the themes and we weren't taking
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  Speaker 1: it seriously enough, so they sent us home. And then
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  Speaker 1: they had an optional practice that night, but they threatened us,
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  Speaker 1: you have to come, but it was an optional practice,
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  Speaker 1: and I'll never forget. I was like sitting at my
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  Speaker 1: apartment and my friend two of my friends came over
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, are you coming, And I was like, no,
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  Speaker 1: like it's option, I'm not going. And they literally looked
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  Speaker 1: at me tears in their eyes. You're not going to
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  Speaker 1: support me?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, come on, are you kidding me now? I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: The girl literally was like if you didn't dress up.
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  Speaker 3: And you're like laughing at her, You're like like dudella.
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  Speaker 1: No, when I would dress like like one time, our
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  Speaker 1: theme I think was like rock and roll and I
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  Speaker 1: dressed up was Kesha, but not even just like it's
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  Speaker 1: like really ugly. Just I did not plan ahead. Neither
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  Speaker 1: did my whole friend group. None of us planned ahead.
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  Speaker 1: We just all looked like we put on a pile
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  Speaker 1: of like we looked terribly. I love that.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I feel like that's I would want to
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  Speaker 3: be in that sorority like that. Roorty would actually call
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  Speaker 3: me and Kapa were like that.
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  Speaker 1: No, most of the girls like were picture perfect, cute,
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  Speaker 1: like put together right. No, my like one of my
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  Speaker 1: my last week of school, this girl that was like
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  Speaker 1: the perfect twint essential Kappa I'm still friends with there.
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  Speaker 1: She was in San Diego Now. She came up to
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  Speaker 1: me and she was like, are you guys are alcoholics?
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  Speaker 1: Like you guys have problems? Like, well, love my reputation.
• 11:16
  Speaker 3: Let me ask you this. It's just another like quick aside.
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  Speaker 3: But does if you guys who's over listening, don't listen
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  Speaker 3: to the Jeff Lewis Show. I just did they all
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  Speaker 3: know there that you may not get this? But did
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  Speaker 3: they all know there that you were at Old miss
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  Speaker 3: and authority?
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  Speaker 1: They know, but they don't get it. Like it's the
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  Speaker 1: kind of thing that like if you know, like southern schools,
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  Speaker 1: you get it, or I don't think they get it,
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  Speaker 1: Like I just say, oh, I went to a party school.
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  Speaker 3: I just love that your career path is so fabulous
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  Speaker 3: and it just is so doesn't follow.
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  Speaker 2: You know, the beaten trail. What's that? Expecially in my
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  Speaker 2: mind your aide off the beaten path?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you?
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  Speaker 3: And but being a sorority feels it's so structured, right,
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  Speaker 3: and I feel like you're such not a structured woman,
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  Speaker 3: and so it's like I kind of.
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  Speaker 2: Enjoy picturing you.
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  Speaker 3: And so having said that, you told me that your
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  Speaker 3: sister was constantly having to get you out of shit, right, Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she trouble, which doesn't surprise me.
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  Speaker 1: So like I told her I was doing this podcast
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  Speaker 1: and she was literally like any please want and blair
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  Speaker 1: us our chapter. I'm like, you're twenty eight years old,
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  Speaker 1: why do you like? But I didn't care when I
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  Speaker 1: was in it, But like we had functions all the time.
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  Speaker 1: So one night we had like a date party. I
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  Speaker 1: cannot remember the Oh it was my tie. Have you
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  Speaker 1: heard of my tie?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: So my tie. We always had themes. So my tie
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  Speaker 1: was you pick a date for your friends, and the
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  Speaker 1: way you do it is you get your the dates
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  Speaker 1: tie and the girls are wearing it at the pregame,
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: and then the guys show up and they find the
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: girl wearing their tie, then that's your day. And so
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  Speaker 1: it was that day party and I kind of miss
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  Speaker 1: those kind of things, like those were so fun. But
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  Speaker 1: we go to the bar and I'm pretty sure I
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  Speaker 1: used the fake to get into the bar. I think
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: I was underage, and me and my friend were like
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  Speaker 1: walking around, we're already absolutely wasted. I drank out of
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  Speaker 1: a baby bottle in college, a straight fireball, like a psychopath,
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  Speaker 1: and I brought it to the bar with me. We
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  Speaker 1: get there, we go into this like closet that we
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  Speaker 1: thought was the bathroom, and it turns out it was
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  Speaker 1: the liquor closet, and we're like hell yeah. So we're
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  Speaker 1: doing like full photo shoot, like climbing up the ladder
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  Speaker 1: like in these tiny little dresses, like acting insane, and
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  Speaker 1: then we walk out and we're both wearing our dates jackets.
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  Speaker 1: So we both put bottles in the pockets of the
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  Speaker 1: jackets and we're absolutely belated, and we get the hats
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  Speaker 1: and we put them on backwards because there were like
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: some employees left their hats in there. And we walk out.
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  Speaker 1: We're both wearing hats that say Swag and these jacket
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  Speaker 1: coats or whatever, and then we're walking around. Then they
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  Speaker 1: grab us in immediately and they like take the stuff
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, what the heck you guys whatever, and
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: we're just like who whatever, like move on party. And
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  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, I hear that they called
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  Speaker 1: the cops, and so I called my fate.
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  Speaker 2: So arety sisters called the cops? Or that bar?
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  Speaker 1: The bar okay because we rated a liquor closet even
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: though we gave everything back, and we're just like being dumb,
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: like whatever, probably shouldn't have done that, but whatever. So
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  Speaker 1: I called my friend and he comes and drives to
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  Speaker 1: the front and he picks us up literally as the
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  Speaker 1: police are pulling up. We're like jumping in the getaway
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  Speaker 1: car and like getting away.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, you cam from the cops. I cannot
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  Speaker 2: I cannot with you.
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  Speaker 1: They brought the footage to my now brother in law,
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  Speaker 1: who was my sister's boyfriend, and they were like, because
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  Speaker 1: they knew he was the boyfriend of the president, and
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  Speaker 1: they were like, do you know who these girls are?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? And the king why was he a cop? No?
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  Speaker 1: No, no, he just was like my sister's boyfriend. So
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  Speaker 1: they knew, like the president would know everyone.
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  Speaker 2: The boyfriend probably okay, okay, And.
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  Speaker 1: They couldn't find Ellie. I think Ellie was my sister
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  Speaker 1: was dealing with whatever, a drunk girl throwing up somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: And so they asked Ethan and He's like, I have
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  Speaker 1: no idea who they are.
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  Speaker 2: How many times has he said that about you?
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  Speaker 1: My love? He was a king, like the amount of
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: times I called him like can you come pick me up?
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: Can you come pick me up?
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  Speaker 2: Well, tell me that. But then, so, did you get
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: in trouble, you just have to get you out of it.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, So we got called to standards, me and my
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  Speaker 1: friend Anna and I worked for the school newspaper and so,
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  Speaker 1: and I am terrified of confrontation, like really yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like if I'm gonna be in trouble and I know
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: I did something wrong, I cannot stand there and hear
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  Speaker 1: my punishment like I just get so it's bad. I
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: need to learn to work through that. But anyway, so
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  Speaker 1: I had a job, so I was like, I have work,
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  Speaker 1: I can't come to standards. And so my friend had
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: to go to standards by herself and she got yelled
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  Speaker 1: at and then by like a girl in our sorority
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  Speaker 1: like I'm just like it's so dune, yeah, and yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we just got in trouble. And then I don't I
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  Speaker 1: don't think anything really happened. It's like a slap on
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: the wrist and then nothing.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: Was your sister.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: There was your sister like always saved you or other
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: the other girls like oh yes.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: And my sister was the reason I didn't get in
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: trouble because she's like it's Annie, Like you guys know Annie,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: and they're like, yeah, she's crazy.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: They is to get pissed at you for it.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah. My mom's phone would just be like
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: blowing up both of us, like Ellie did this and
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: and Annie did this. Annie's so embarrassing. She gets so
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: drunk and blah blah blah. And then my sister like
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: didn't drink till she was didn't have a sip aboutcol
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: till she was twenty one, and even once she turned
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: twenty one, she's.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: Like, come on, are you serious. Yes, she's by the books.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: That's why she probably made president ever of Kapa.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. And people in the sorority so like whenever
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: there was like a functions you had to go to,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: you had to like check in for attendance, and so
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Ellie would have to like mark everyone so and me
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: and her look so similar and there's four hundred girls
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: until people would come up to me and be like, Ellie,
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I'm here, and I'd be like, gotcha, literally no clue
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: that they are not writing them.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Any I wish i'd ask Ellie to come on too.
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: I know her version of this. You have to like
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: we have to bring her on. So all right, so
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: poor little Ellie, no or Ellie, because I say I
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: was going to say to you before that like usually
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: be saved to people, to the guests that come on.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: If you don't want to say the name of your
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: sorority or even where you went to school, or you
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: want a fake name. And I didn't even say that
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: to you, shame on me. But like exactly, that's the
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: thing I knew you would be, like, the.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Best thing they ever did was give me a bit
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: they regret it probably, Well, no.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: They don't regret it. There's no way they do.
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: But do you, because I think like your sister's also
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: must be so proud of you. Do you keep in
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: touch with a lot of them? Yeah?
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I actually do. It's interesting because when I was in college,
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: I had a friend group and I still am friends
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: with them, but and we're close. But now since I've
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: left college, I've expanded. There's like five girls from Ole
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: Miss Kappa's that live in LA and San Diego, and
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: I just I text them all the time, we hang out.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: One girl's gonna be my stylist for like the upcoming year,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: which is so fun. I know, it was just like
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: fun and interesting how I've connected with these girls like
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: postgrad that I literally never spoke to in the sorority
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: when we were there together, but like they just feel
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: like home because I mean really yes, oh yeah, any
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: girl in my sorority if I called them, absolutely they're
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: like crying, like or if I needed something and I
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: was in towent, like they would absolutely drop anything to
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: have dinner or really well.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Oh for sure, I didn't feel like that.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: I definitely and and because I moved out of Texas
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: so quickly after I graduated, I didn't keep in touch
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: with as many. I mean, I'd to keep in touch
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: with with some of them close friends, but like I
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: didn't have that feeling of camaraderie and like sisterhood as
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: much as it sounds like that, you did, like somebody
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: that would even if they were a Kapa period, they
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: would drop everything. Would you drop anything for any Kappa
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: or just Kappas that went to ole miss.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Oh oh miss Kappas not. It's just I feel I mean,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: whenever people are like, oh, I'm a Kapa, I feel
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: like it's cool. Like some of my friend's moms are Kappas,
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my gosh, like it just makes
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: me like them more. I don't know why, because Kappas
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: are different. Every sorority is different at every school, right,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: there's just something about it where I'm like, Okay.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Like what do you feel like Kapas are known for?
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Like you know, if you had to sort of characterize
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: them as something.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: At my school, we were really fun and like we
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: didn't really take things that seriously.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Were they party girls?
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: We were absolutely party girls. Oh yeah, but we weren't.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: There was like party girls sluts, and then there was
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: party girls and we were just party girls.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: There had to be some sluts in it. I could
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: be great.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: Oh for sure. HER's slut's everywhere.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. I was one of them.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: Yes, okay, yeah, so that's really I love that you
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: could just you guys would just even if you weren't
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: great friends.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Just no, I'm telling you. So, I just you know,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm like,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: oh my god, like I want to reach out to
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: girls and whatever and make more friends and form deeper friendships.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: And there's this girl name's Kelly. She was an active
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: KAPA with me, and she's a year older than me,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: and I just damned her on Instagram. I said, let's
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: hang send her my number and she was like, oh
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: my god, yes, I can't wait. So we're making plans since,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: like we haven't spoken since maybe rush in college.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. Yeah, I love that. So I'm going to
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: ask you this, but I know the answer. I mean,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: would you do it again?
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: A million percent? Yeah? Yeah, I mean how are you were saying? Like,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I'm not like I don't really like to be conformed to.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: They had this I don't know, you didn't have social
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: media whenever you were in your surporty, but they were
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: crazy about what you posted and you weren't allowed to
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: be on elevated surfaces, right, I know that nows like
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: bad words, and so they had this account and they
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: would comment. It was like an anonymous account and they
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: would comment like blue hearts, and you would have to
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: take it down.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: No, I've heard about this a lot of We've talked
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: to a lot of girls that talk about this, Like
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: they would leave a little whatever emoji and that means
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: you're in trouble.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: Take it down.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: So one time they called me and they're like, can
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: you be in charge of this anonymous account monitoring your
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: pledge class on Snapchat? If you ever see anything, just
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: respond blue hearts. I was like okay, and I just like, I.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Don't have to be on a narc They know you
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: at all. Why did they never ask you to do that?
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: You like, you love social media?
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: Really would give ah someone was doing you can go,
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: You like go girl.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Queen Sligh, Literally you're eating You're eating exactly wait, so
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: I asked you before. But also like how do you
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: explain it? I'm not gonna say like Jeff Lewis, but like,
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm sure it doesn't come up that
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: often on the radio, but in general, like when people
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: meet you, is it you try to explain that that
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: experience because it does. See it feels so far kind
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: of from who you are.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: It does, and I feel like it almost it dumbs
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: me down a little bit. People that don't get it, like, oh,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: you went to a southern party school and you're a sorority.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I mean honestly, John, Like really yeah, they are like,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: oh your degree.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Doesn't anyone that meets you knows You're not dumb?
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: But okay, you'd be surprised though, like people just immediately
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: like serrat, Like if I say I went to n
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: y U and I was in a sorority, I feel
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: like it's a completely different picture someone would paint of
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: me and all myths has that attached to it, that's
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: so interesting, Well because it's also Ssissippi, and I don't know,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: it's interesting. Yeah, So I don't really love the like
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: stereotype of it, but I'm not. I mean, I don't
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: really care. Like that's why I love Paris Hilton so
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: much because I think she has such like a stereotype
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: of being a dumb bitch.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: And she's not all right, just brilliant and so like I.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Really respect that and I love that type of lifestyle
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: because like then no one takes you too seriously and
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: you're always impressing people.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, said that about you.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Like he was talking one morning about your parents, meeting
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: your parents, and like he was just saying to them
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: like I'm so impressed with her, or like even to me,
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: He's like, like I admire Annie.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: That's so sweet.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I means I didn't say it. He did.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like thanks Jen, true.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I mean anything else you want to add
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: here about your would you say, would you go to
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: Old Michigan.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I've thought about that a lot, and I think I would.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: I loved it, like I really and I don't feel
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: like it held me back from anything, but it was
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: a cool experience, like it's a small town and we
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: would I'd be wasted on the side of the street,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: like it's a party school. I cannot like emphasize that enough,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Like I would just be underage wasted on the side
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: of the street, like getting myself into trouble and the
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: cop would be like, give me your phone, I'm calling
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: you an uber, like you're okay, and they would like
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: it was like a no fails, Like they would kind
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: of give you a billion chances before you got in trouble.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Like one time I was at a bar and I
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: was so upset something happened with some random guy and
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I was so drunk and I just fell all the
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: way down the stairs and I'd get to the bottom,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: so humiliating, and a cop called me an uber and
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: I get home.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: I cannot.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: I would go there again because it was just a
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: safe place to like grow grow like as a person.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: And also I could be wrong, but I feel like
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: with you, if you guys ever have the pleasure of
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: meeting Annie, it's like it's I don't feel like you
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: could anyone could ever really get mad at you, like
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: you just pish all. If anyone gets mad, I picture
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: you just crying.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: I do not what I'm saying. I can't kill a confrontation.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: Right, so then you just like which reminds me of
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: my daughter Rachel, who I mean, she got a driver's license.
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: She like the first week she hit someone not a tree.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, person okay, Like, no, she hit a person, okay,
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: and she it was some man. He was pissed. He
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: got out of his car because it was a crosswalk.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: And she became so hysterical and the cops came that.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: They were all comforting Rachel, like I'm like talking to her.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: She can't breathe.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: She puts me on the phone with the cops. The
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: cops are like, she's gonna be okay. I'm like, well, yeah,
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: but it's the man that she hitit go to me, okay,
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: but you remind me of that, Like you're like, there's
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: just it'd be hard to ever really be mad at you.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: No, my parents when I was a kid, they'd be like,
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: we're not going to punish you because you punish yourself enough,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: because I would just be like crying. I feel so bad.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: I just well listen.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: I mean, just last question, But do you feel like
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: ole Miss is though the stereotype that people think that
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: it is and the soorty life there, Like I mean
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: I picture it in such a I went to a
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: southern school and I was in a storty but like
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: ole Miss is like the ultimate do you think it
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: lives up to that?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I do I mean it's it's so sick and like
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: the people you meet and like the Mississippi legacy, I
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: mean a Katie and a Tradale, and like the fraternities
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: and like parties, like it really is crazy and like
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: thinking back on it, I'm so like thankful I got
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: to experience it. It was just like being in it, you
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: don't realize like what you're in because rush TikTok didn't
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: blow up until I think I was like a senior
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: in college, and so I didn't realize like what I
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: was a part of. And it's just so cool, Like
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I love it. I love all the people I met,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: what I learned, Like all the parties were so fun,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: the fraternity parties, like the bars, and I was sick.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I would go again in two seconds. The game day
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: of it all good good And what's cool about the
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: South is like everyone is like sees you as family
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: like and so it was very welcoming and like home.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: Immediately you recommend it, like there are to our listeners.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: There are I'm sure there are girls listening that are
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: still in high school and you know, thinking about which
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: school go to and about Greek life. Would you recommend
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: it to let's say girls here on the East Coast.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: I would recommend it to anyone that ask me why
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: this should go to college, Like it is so fun, okay,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: and I learned so much And I'm very much mentality
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: because I was a broadcast journalism major, and you get
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: out what you put in, so like you don't necessarily
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: need to get a's, but you need to know, like
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: what your in goal at the end of colleges and
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: you're going to be successful. So my goal was networking
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: and like social media and reality TV and pretty and whatever,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: and so I did internships that could get me there.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: So then I didn't necessarily need to take my classes
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: as serious. So I did like the school news station,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: and then my sororities. I was able to have fun
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: and like not worry about getting all aas. I didn't
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: need all aays. Do you think Jeff Lewis knows my GPA?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter, don't I don't.
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: But to those high school girls listening, get all a's
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: if you go.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: You don't have to spend on what you want to do.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: If you want to be an accounting you want to
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: be a doctor, yeah you do, yes, well, like I
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: think that's we're also a thing like with people that
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: because I'm like, oh, I partied a lot in college, Like, well,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: what did you learn? I'm like, I worked my ass off.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: You do learn a lot being a story also.
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's so much of not all,
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: not every career choice, but so many careers are about being.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Able to connect with people, right.
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: And I feel like every job I ever had, and
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: I had a lot of them when I was your age,
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: I was always switching jobs, but I was very easy
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: for me to get jobs because I'm I like that
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: process of interviewing, Like it was like rush, Like I
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: like having my personality on and like connecting with people.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: And then you know, being in the jobs I was,
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: I always had friends whatever job it was, and I
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: always was like kind of I don't mean this in
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: an obnoxious way, but but but kind of loved and
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: I was really never good at my job.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: But you're a personality higher.
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: It was a personality higher, and I feel like that's
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: something maybe that when you're in a sorority, that's a
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: great you know, to be able to learn how to
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: get along specifically with you know, other women, And I
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: feel like those are those are lessons that you take
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: with you.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Now. I think networking is the secret to success, like.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: Just yeah yeah, but also.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Nurturing those relationships, like, oh, you're in college and your
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: dad knows someone that does what you want to do.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: You email them once and you move on. No, like
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: you have to call them, get to know them, let
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: them in on your life, and like become their friend,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: have them see you as their own kid. Like, you
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: need to really invest in relationships and then people want
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: to help you and see you. And it's not just
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: using people like you're growing. That's how you enhance your life.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: You learn about people that are successful and they teach
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: you things and you teach them and whatever.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: You are very wise, my girl, it's fun. Yeah, I
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: love you. I love you for coming on. We're gonna
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: have you one again. Please maybe with your sister?
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, actually she would, she so should.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, can I shout out my new YouTube channel?
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: I dropped my first vlog today because I broke up
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: with my boyfriend like a week ago and I had
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: my first like single girl weekend and so I went
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: shopping and parties and just trying to get my bring
• 30:41
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• 30:44
  Speaker 1: So it's been pretty dark, but it was so fun.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: I yeah, I'm trying to stay sober, but then I
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: ended up getting drunk because Jeff and Shane were like,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: you should numb it, and I'm like, it didn't numb it.
• 31:00
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• 31:03
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• 31:15
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• 31:19
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