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23. Close the Gap Between You and Your Dream Life · HEY, AMBITIOUS

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome back to Frequency Len.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just came home from another incredible retreat that I had the honor of co-hosting with my dear friend and brilliant coach Shelby Hansen.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is something so beautiful about watching women remember who they are, not becoming someone new, remembering.
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  SPEAKER_00: Watching their posture change, watching their voice become stronger, watching them make decisions from certainty instead of fear, watching them stop negotiating with themselves and begin leading their vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every retreat reminds me that transformation does not happen because someone learns another strategy.
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  SPEAKER_00: It happens because something shifts inside.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's exactly what I want to talk about today.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's one of my favorite topics.
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  SPEAKER_00: Expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I think we've misunderstood what expansion actually is.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you've been following my work, you know I offer long-term mentorship for women who are ready to expand their lives, business, businesses, and identity.
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  SPEAKER_00: I also recently opened my level 10 identity experience on Telegram.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not a course.
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  SPEAKER_00: There are no modules to complete in order.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we started today, which is July 1st.
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  SPEAKER_00: You simply press play, you receive, you integrate, you embody.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because identity does not come from collecting more information.
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  SPEAKER_00: It comes from becoming available for a different version of yourself on repeat.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the link is below and register if that calls to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, let's talk about expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: I noticed something almost every ambitious woman does.
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  SPEAKER_00: I used to do it too.
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  SPEAKER_00: Imagine you're standing here, and over there is the woman who already has the life you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: The successful business, the peaceful nervous system, the fulfilling relationship, the financial abundance, the freedom.
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  SPEAKER_00: She's over there.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you hear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Can you feel what your mind immediately does?
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  SPEAKER_00: It creates distance.
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  SPEAKER_00: It creates a gap.
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  SPEAKER_00: I will become her.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am becoming her.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am getting there.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm almost ready.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not there yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just need to heal one more thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need to remove one more block.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need to I need another certification.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need to rewrite more of my limited beliefs.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need another breakthrough.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need more confidence.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need divine timing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sounds familiar.
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  SPEAKER_00: So your entire life becomes one long journey of trying to become someone who seems to exist somewhere in the future.
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  SPEAKER_00: Future me, future success, future abundance, future happiness, always future.
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  SPEAKER_00: And because she is always somewhere else, you stay here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Trying, working, healing, chasing, fixing, waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's the interesting part.
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  SPEAKER_00: Most ambitious women are incredibly good at this.
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  SPEAKER_00: We know how to work, we know how to achieve, we know how to push.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are proudly saying we are patient while we're working hard.
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  SPEAKER_00: So naturally we assume expansion requires more doing, more effort, more inner work, more healing, another obstacle, another mountain, another certification, another breakthrough.
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  SPEAKER_00: The healing industry accidentally reinforces this.
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  SPEAKER_00: It tells us we are always one breakthrough away, one nervous system regulation technique away, one limiting belief away, one childhood wound away.
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  SPEAKER_00: Until finally we'll deserve the life we want, until finally we feel worthy to receive that what we deeply desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what if that's the very illusion keeping you separated from it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because all of that creates one thing distance, a gap, a timeline.
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  SPEAKER_00: And once there is a timeline, there is waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: And waiting costs energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Trying cost energy, proving costs energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Constantly evaluating whether you are there yet cost energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And energy is your most valuable creative resource.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now I'm not saying hard work never produces results.
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  SPEAKER_00: Of course it can.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you hear, and here we like to time collapse and quantum shift.
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  SPEAKER_00: Many women eventually create exactly what they wanted.
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  SPEAKER_00: But here's what I notice.
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  SPEAKER_00: They arrive exhausted.
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  SPEAKER_00: They don't know how to receive what they built, they don't know how to rest, they don't know how to enjoy it, because the identity that created it still believes I have to work harder, I'm still not enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have to keep proving.
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  SPEAKER_00: So before they celebrate one mountain, one accomplishment, one success, they're already climbing another one that is more to accomplish.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not because they desire more, but because lack became familiar.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's what I'd love to offer you today.
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  SPEAKER_00: What if there never was a gap?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if the gap is not real?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if the gap is just your perception, the illusion of the mind that has used to filling in the gap by working hard?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if it's simply created by the thoughts of your current identity?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because from the perspective of consciousness, there is no separation.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are consciousness.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are the universal frequency experiencing itself through you.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is no separation.
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  SPEAKER_00: Only awareness, only choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why everything changed for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's what shifted so many women during a retreat.
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  SPEAKER_00: They realized I understand why I think this way.
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  SPEAKER_00: I understand my childhood, I understand my nervous system, I understand my patterns, I'm aware.
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  SPEAKER_00: But awareness alone was not changing their lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because awareness without identity, without the identity who decides is just observation.
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  SPEAKER_00: Identity is creation.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not your conditioning, your consciousness, infinite consciousness.
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  SPEAKER_00: And consciousness is not fixed, which means your identity is not fixed either.
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  SPEAKER_00: The woman who leads your vision is not outside of you.
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  SPEAKER_00: She is not waiting in five years.
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  SPEAKER_00: She's not waiting until you heal enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: She already exists within your consciousness.
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  SPEAKER_00: Neville Goddard said, Creation is finished.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've always loved that quote.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if creation is finished, then your vision already exists.
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  SPEAKER_00: It isn't being created, it's being remembered.
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  SPEAKER_00: Physics tells us that energy cannot be created or destroyed.
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  SPEAKER_00: It only changes form.
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  SPEAKER_00: So energetically, the identity that matches your vision already exists.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not someday now, which means expansion is not becoming someone else.
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  SPEAKER_00: Expansion is deciding.
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  SPEAKER_00: The first decision is this my vision already exists.
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  SPEAKER_00: And allow your current consciousness to comprehend that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Speak that into existence daily.
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  SPEAKER_00: The second decision is this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I choose myself for my vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am chosen.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the third, the most powerful one, I am that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am that identity for my vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you claim her.
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  SPEAKER_00: The moment you truly decide, the gap disappears.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because there never was one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Only the illusion that there was.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are the vision, and the vision is you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your vision gets manifested through you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your vision is the byproduct of your identity that is available to you right now through your consciousness.
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  SPEAKER_00: Commit to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that is why this level 10 Telegram experience exists, because we create the energetic field where I guide you through audio transmissions where your old identity will have no place to exist.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the new identity, or really the expanded identity, who's always been there.
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  SPEAKER_00: She has the field, the energetic field to blossom.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the field is based on the roots of foundational expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: So join our level 10 Telegram Experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll see you on the other side.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stop the chase, close the gap.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are the one.